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All Posts Military Scams July 28 2010
 — By CJ
[UPDATE] The “Face” of Military Dating Scams – The Wall of Shame

UPDATE (29 Jul 2010): Hooboy! That CNN piece has brought in a LOT of information. It did exactly what I think Emily, Abbie and I wanted to do which was bring attention to this. So, I’ve got a LOT of new photos and names and I ask you to be patient as I find time to upload all these images.

This is going to be the most updated version of my exposure of these Nigerian scams that target military personnel on dating sites. If you have a photo that is being used to scam women by using photos of military personnel, send to cj[at]soldiersperspective[dot]us and I will update this post. Eventually, women will be able to come here and SEE that the photos are being used on multiple women. It may also tip off people to who the REAL Soldiers are so they can understand that their names and/or images are being used illegally. If you are a Soldier in one of these photos, please contact me from your military email address so I know you’re legit.

Let’s get started…This post will be updated as photos are submitted to me. If you are being scammed by someone using these photos, please put your stories in the comments section. And keep in mind that the people in these photos are not the problem. They are victims just as much as those that they scam.

Claims to be Perry Terry Knox. Tells the standard retirement story, with a 11 year old son. Said he was a Sargeant. Asked for an iPhone, but when told it was too expensive asked his victim for a Blackberry. Uses the Datehoodup.com website.


This person is claiming to be Major Mark Collins Ehresman. Now, for anyone that knows anything about the Army uniform, knows that this is NOT an officer’s uniform.


These are supposedly of someone going by the name Tom Curtis. He uses the email tomhcurtis69@yahoo.com. Because of the size of each photo, they were obviously taken from either a MySpace or Facebook page. I’ve seen that last photo used in other scams as well.



These photos are supposedly of a Captain Steven Massingale Barrett. Yet, one just need look at the rank on the second picture to see how dumb this Nigerian scammer is.






Here’s the storyline on this guy, who uses the name Robert Bill Haggard.

My name is Robert Haggard.I was born on the 2nd of August, 1961 at Baptist Hospital of California. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.
I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.
My son lives with a friend in Miami. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time. Will like you to also send me some pictures of you too.Take care.
I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words
Have a good day.
Hugs,
Haggards

I highlighted the glaring holes in this guys story, especially the rank. As I’ve said before, Soldiers ARE able to call back home and have contact with “outsiders”. What a weird term they use. Again, judging by the size of each of these photos, they were most likely snagged from a MySpace or Facebook page. Anyway, on to the next.


Meet “Captain James Miniard of the US army”. What a promotion for this guy, huh? I highly encourage you ladies being scammed by these guys to actually do a Google search on military ranks. You’ll knock out 90% of your problems right there.





The first one goes by the name MikeJones@Yahoo.com. The other 3 are supposedly the same person and goes by the name SGT.Oliver@yahoo.com ( full name Oliver Adamson). I’ve heard this name both ways. Both of these men were on HOT or NOT.




These are supposedly of a” Lieutenant Colonel Benjamin Lanois” from Cleveland North Carolina…and is presently stationed in Afghanistan in a “very dangerous are” in Kabul and that he is with the Second Falcon Bridge Combat Team 82 SF Base. Again, notice the rank of this LTC!! What a coincidence! I’m in the First Blue Falcan Blog Brigade!


Here is a pic of “MAJ Joseph Morris” aka jose.muriz@yahoo.com. No explanation about why the name and email address are different. Probably tired of creating new Yahoo accounts and keeping up with them. Same story wants ts2 money and transit money. Says he was in 24 years, wants to retire and marry his victims and has money aplenty. Again, if someone says they need you to pay for communications, it’s a scam. Soldiers can pay for it themselves. It can also be taken out of their paychecks automatically if they “don’t have cash on them”.




Here is “John Palmas”. He said he was from CA studied at West Point, been in the Army for 15 years. Now in Afghanistan and will come back in 11 June. They always say they’re coming home soon so that when something goes terribly awry, they can bilk you for sympathy money for hospital clearances and all that crap. The interesting thing about these photos is that the scammer actually took the time to remove the name tags from the photo. Could be anyone here!






The first 4 photos are of a young James Ruddock and his family. He says he is from New York and a widower with 2 daughters and that he also had a house in England that he was going to retire to ‘any day now’. He targets women in the UK mostly, it seems and proposes marriage, using his dead wife and two kids as emotional bait.

He also says to some women that he was supposed to be in Afganistan with a house also in the UK that he was going to retire to a different location. He sends out emails from “a diplomat” whose English and grammer are very poor but his emails requesting money for a package to be delivered to the UK. He also uses the name of Steve Ruddock and Mark Ruddock as well.

This one is funny, but the person using the above photos claims to be a Captain Brown Mark (Mark Brown?). The moron can’t even use photos of people with the right name in his scams!! He uses the email address brown_mark50@yahoo.com. This guy is such a tool, he tries to use General Odierno in his scam. He sent one of my readers he was trying to scam the following email explaining that “CPT Brown Mark” had been wounded and she needs to send him money to leave:

This is to inform you that that tallibiance man as attack the solider mans that they realse for the leave and will are very sorry to let you know that the travel will be in this week………And will are by let you know that you can still make the payment for your solider man capt Brown Mark in two day

GENERAL RAYMOND T. ODIERNO
Multi-National Corps – Iraq
Public Affairs Office, Camp taji
APO AE 09342

Now, I don’t know if ya’ll have ever had a chance to listen to General Odierno speak, but he sounds NOTHING like that letter. See for yourself:



This is supposedly Lt. Christopher M Morris with Military Number (USArmy/MlL 456378) based with the 32nd Infantry Division camp phoenix kabul in Afghanistan. There is no such person in the Army as Lt. Christopher Morris and we sure as heck don’t have “military numbers”. Oh, did I mention that the Army doesn’t have a 32nd Infantry Division?





Here are the pics that the scammers used on another reader using the name Sgt Patrick Mcdonald. This moron also sent pics using using the name Gen. David Petraeus. Ha! EVERYONE knows who General Petraeus is, but these guys aren’t smart enough to realize that.






The next scammer uses the name Capt. Harry Swain of the US Army, 2nd Battalion, 1st Infantry Regiment, MOS 11B Infantry and these photos. When anyone asks him questions, he is vague on the answers – probably because he doesn’t know anything! He only communicates through yahoo and of course is retiring in June. This is so that he can set up the classic Nigerian Retirement pass payments, as if a Soldier needs to pay to retire from the Army! I tried looking into this one, but there are so many Swains in the Army, but none of them with a first name Harry.











The guy using these photos seems to have hit the motherload of images. He calls himself Arena Adams. He even has pictures of his “kids”. It’s beyond twisted when they start to use servicemembers’ kids. The have all come out of Saudi Arabia, but could easily be routed through there from Nigeria and other African nations.. He has a “diploma” (diplomat) contact the victims, Mr. Randolf was his name, and uses the phone number 233543756622. He also had the story that he wanted to open a jewelery store when he got “home” and was going to send a package containing all his worth, $950,000 in gold and $600,000 in money, to hold till he got here. I wonder how much shipping would cost on nearly $1 million in gold? It conveniently gets stuck in customs and after spending $11,000 for the weighing fee (oh, that’s how much it costs!), he still needed another 5,500. Said his birthday was April 30, 1969, and he sponsors children in Iraq, that he has 15 children that he set up a foundation for and provides for them.

Interestingly, the reader who sent this to me said, “When I told him I wanted to send him something for his birthday, he gave me the address 60 mango tree blvd, Accra Ghana, with the name Alexander Ofori Hammond as the person who will be receiving it.” I’m surprised since usually they just claim they can’t receive packages due to “security”.






I’m not even going to create some witty banter for the guy using these photos. I’m just going to copy and paste his intro email. It’s too funny to miss, especially that he calls himself “Mac Donald” as if it’s two names:

I have decide to take my time to write out this message to you and I will expect same back from you.hmm i lived in U.S right at this moment,in the beautiful city of Farmington Hills, Michigan where i had been for so long since the divorced between my Mother and my Daddy. Really before my Dad passed away, we were living peacefully together, but on a official peace keeping mission in Dafur War Region, let me quickly phrase out this that my Dad and my mother are American. My father was from the Marine Military,My mother is a teacher.They both met on a trip down to Paris, they met each other and were friends till they were finally able to find true love which had led them together to have given birth to me. hmm they both were Christians, just like my Mother would say to me, that if my Daddy wasn’t a Christian, she wouldn’t have agree to marry him when he proposed to her. We all were living peaceful before my Daddy had to divorce my Mom due to some sort of things i don’t know if i should tell you here because i don’t know you yet, so please don’t worry about it, i am only trying to be cautious of who i am dealing with, maybe when i know you enough alright? anyway to make it short, my Daddy and i lived alone in Farmington Hills, Michigan after the divorced between him and my Mother. So Mom couldn’t stand it living in the city anymore, she packed her stuffs and then went back to United kingdom to live on her life right there.unfortunately,I lost my father on the line of duty, he was on the sea as a marine Major when he fell to the bullet of Jamaican Militant.His death made me to join U.S Army because he was given a state of heart burial and all his benefits was converted to me as a beneficiary, which will make me to get more benefits after I retire from my present job. It was so painful to recall this memory at last i had no other choice than to go live with my Mother in Scotland United Kingdom as i felt needed someone around to help me through life difficulties before i can carry on myself you know what i mean. My Mom and i live together in an apartment here before i travel down to US when i got deployment to Sudan Dafur war region for peace keeping in the country. I am the second child of my parents because we are two in number of our parent. Honestly she is very nice, kind, caring and loving Mother anyone would pray to have. She treats me sister like every good Mother would treat their beloved children.
I have spent 19 good years in the Military,got rapid promotion due to my dedication to my work. I have been to some countries, mostly to lead the troop on peace keeping mission and aid relief mission. I am planing ahead for my future as I am looking forward to meet through right woman, so I can make my final decision to tender my resignation letter, in order to enjoy my new relationship and build a strong family.Now i must tell you i am looking for in a soul mate, someone i could call my own, a woman in whom i could invest my time, good deeds, seriousness. I know out there lies someone who has the nature of God inside of her, someone who would be ready to give 100% of herself. Of course i am not getting any younger as my age increases by year.I am 6’1 in height .. I do not smoke but drink socially. just looking for the rightful one now.Also this is the quality i seek in a woman,one who will be dedicated to being my wife, loyal, faithful and honest. One who knows what it means to being in love, one who is very affectionate, simple, easy going, fun to be with, caring, very sincere, very romantic, giving nature, tolerant home loving, hard working, reliable, sensual, with a sense of humor. One who will be a good Wife and who can take care of me and my one kids!
I am tired, need some rest. I led the early morning parade for the troop in my Base.
Have a great day and waiting for your message.

Warm Regards,
Sergeant Mac Donald

These photos look familiar. The individual has already appeared on this list, but now under a different name:



Notice how the scammer has removed the name from the uniform? That enables him to use any name he wants while sending out the same photos to other women. Here’s his story (with yet ANOTHER) rank faux paux:

Hello how are you going today ? well thanks a lot for your replyed …
well i have been devorced for 4 years now ..i have been in iraq 2 years 4 month now ..I;m in iraq baghdad now …i have been in the army 21 years …I’m army side …I am an E-7 Staff Sergeant (SSG) and now working with the un. I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a noncommission officer and I work in the junior management of the military…well i have only one sister living in germany .. i have no kids …My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field of the army and later worked with the .Gold mining company in ghana but as i m talking to you now i lost both of them..i will get back 25th june for retirement , that why i m serious here looking for woman who is can be with me for the rest my life …,I’m pride of myself in being honest and most trustworthy, I seek that in a mate, someone who is compassionate yet understanding who has a calm behaviour and a great personality…I b’lieve there is no ideal relationships, Be honest a relationship is hard work and compromise, It is as good as you make it, What makes a relationship ideal to someone is how much time and effort one puts into it and how committed two people are to it..

I love the grammar from this “senior NCO”. It’s also interesting that a SFC is in a “squad leader” position. BWHAAHAH!



The scammer posing as “SGT David Monfils” is one of the earliest names used for these scams. I hadn’t seen the name in a LONG time, but now it’s cropping up with photos. It used to be part of those “I have a million dollars buried in Iraq and I need your help getting it back” scams. Now, “Monfils” is trolling internet dating sites.


Now, this guy cracks me up. He even sent his victim a “scan” of his “passport”, an obviously photoshopped monstrosity of an attempt. I love the lines through the face. This is supposedly SGT Steven McCabe, but after searching for the person in the passport in the Army database, I came up empty!


These photos are of “Sergeant Heicken Kenneth” of the “US ARMY on mission to Iraq.” However, I’m trying to figure out who in the Army wears German uniforms and drives around in a vehicle with the German flag on it. The scammer using these photos lifted them from a Reuters photographer because he didn’t even remove the embedded code describing the photos. Since they are pretty cool pics of our German brothers in arms, you at least deserve what they are:

Top Picture: German Bundeswehr army soldiers with the 3rd company of the Quick Reaction Force (QRF) patrol during a mission in Chahar Dara district in the outskirts of Kunduz, northern Afghanistan, May 11, 2010. It’s actually a Reuters photo by Fabrizio Bensch.

Bottom Picture: German Bundeswehr army soldiers with the 3rd company of the Quick Reaction Force (QRF) take cover after detecting a suspicious site during their search for improvised explosive devices (IEDs) in Chahar Dara district on the outskirts of Kunduz, northern Afghanistan, May 12, 2010. Also from REUTERS/Fabrizio Bensch

He uses the email address sgt_heicken@yahoo.com.


I’ll just let the dufus (Andrew Sanchez) using these photos tell you about himself, since I can’t seem to make any more fun of him than he makes for himself without realizing it.

I am presently in Afghanistan at the moment and would be back by next month, I have been serving for 11months here now and would be done by next month. I work in the Military and I am a Lieutenant, My work schedule is like a 24hour thing I dont have any schedule as we work round the clock here trying to keep peace here, I just have little time for myself here so you need to see how glad and excited to know that I would be back home next month.

between the 6months I would be off work. I have only lived in Lawrenceville GA and I have really enjoyed my stay here and would always love to stay here. That was where I was given an apartment and I could decline the offer as I also do like my apartment. I am not at all bothered about the distance. Andrew

I keep forgetting when he says he’ll be home!

By the way, a lot of scammers are starting to ask for things like iPods, undershirts, digital cameras, and other items. They are asking people to FEDEX the items to this address:

Wisdom Dome
60Mango Tree
Accra-Ghana
Zip Code…00233
Tel.Num.00233205622258 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting              00233205622258      end_of_the_skype_highlighting



Again, a moron who can’t read English using the photos of someone with a completely different name on his uniform. Meet “Joe Harold”. He says he is in Iraq on his third tour of duty. He is retiring in July 2010 and is looking for a life partner. He says he is is from Bedford, TX and also owns a home there. How dare he claim to be a Texan!! He, like almost ALL of these scammers, uses Yahoo: joe.harold45@yahoo.com. He is a smooth talker. He claims his mother was a head teacher and died. His father worked in Gold business in Ghana and also also died. He tells women his birthday has recently passed and how he would like to receive a gift. The posting text of Arena Adams is so similar and also includes similar text from Sargent MacDonald. Probably joe harold is also Sargent MacDonald. He asked to send an iPhone, digital camera, 5 packs of Calvin Klein white, round necked tshirts for him and his troops, chocolate, toffees and cologne. He also uses the Ghana shipping address.






I am Ivan Nobile and am with the US Army as an Intelligence Officer (MST SGT)currently serving in Iraq-Baghdad(Camp Taji),although I just got back from Afghan a week ago.I have no kids,I am widowed,lost my wife and parents in an accident 5yrs back.
My late parents were originally from Russia,and since their families never agreed for them to marry they moved to Virginia(USA) to start a new living as no family member back home in Russia knew their whereabouts.I have never been to Russia before and never met any family member of mine as my parents never allowed me,But for sure,I will visit them this year as my dad gave me all info about them before he departed.So I was born and raised in Virginia and I was educated in Arizona(AZ).
I attended my High School Education in Pittsburgh (Oliver High School) and furthered on to Central Texas College in Texas to major in Criminal Justice(Associate Degree) and then to the Cochise College in Arizona(AZ) to major in Intelligence Operations(Associate’s Degree).
I am seeking a woman that I can leave my life and love with.Someone that I can make my partner forever and be with for the rest of my life.A woman with a sense of humor.A caring,loving,faithful and loyal partner who I can trust for the rest of my life,and I hope you have all this as I seek.
I have attached some pics of me too in this email and I will love it if you could attach yours too.hoping to hear from you soon.Take care.
Ivan xxxxx

Sounds like a great guy. Too bad he doesn’t exist!






This is supposedly Kenneth Steven England, who originated from Chicago and was supposedly living in London. As you can see, the photos are small and no nametapes are discernible. Depending on how old these photos are, I may be able to find him since he wears a local patch.




This one is funny. These are supposedly photos of SSG Scott Adams from Fort Irwin, CA. Anyone that knows anything about the military will laugh when I say that the person behind these photos claims to be an ARMY SSG. When the potential victim forced the issue about pictures he changed his tune and stated he is a CSM in Baghdad. These are obviously photos of a Marine Corps Colonel. The fake Scott Adams stalks Facebook and myyearbook.com for his scams.

Okay, this next one cracks me up. Check out these photos:


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I love the part on the back in the red little blotch that says “money back guarantee”! If we don’t kill the enemy, we’ll refund the cost of the war!! Here’s the photo that “Captain Cris Kepley” used to make his ID:

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Good thing he brought his dress uniform to Iraq so they could create this wonderful Camp Victory ID badge!!





The douche using the photos above are of a guy who says he is in the US Army in Afghanistan. Don’t they all? He uses Badoo and his name is “Steve Lopez” but the same photos are used on other profiles calling himself Johnson. Same story:

“This Steve contacted me last week and he is a very nice person in his mess. He is an Officer in Afghanistan (though he’s wearing the uniform of a Sergeant) and have been there for 22 years and he will now retire in October. Then he will come to Sweden and marry me. And we will love each other forever. He had pray to God he should meet a girl like me and when he saw me at Badoo he thought God had made his wishes come true. He has a son in Tampa or Miami Florida, Been divorced 5 years ago. He had send me message every each morning and night but hadn’t asking for any money yet. He was telling me he was not allowed to give me his service number or his home address or his military email address cos of security (this is a lie and a classic tactic of scammers).”

He uses the email address stevelopez_27@live.com and will try to guilt you into believing him if you call his bluff by saying he will “kill himself”. Don’t fall for this tactic. Even if it were true, maybe it’s best if he just did it!





This guy calls himself Staff Sergeant Christian Richardson from Miami, FL. Again, ladies, you need to Google military ranks and you’ll see that this guy is not who he says he is.






The scammer using these photos goes by the name Marcus Movic and claims – like all these scammers – to be “a widower with a lovely Son” who’s wife was killed in an ac

cident while he was toiling in Iraq. The problem is that there is no Marcus Movic in the Army.


(1,916) Readers Comments

  1. Cj
    HAHAHA I am in contact with the idiot faker mark ehresman right now. He is coming home as soon as I pay 4000 for his transfer !!! He has a long wait because it will be a cold day in hell before he gets any money out of me. Good job CJ

    • do you know of anyone going by the name sgt henry williams can you please check him out

      thanks

      • Nigirl,
        What does he look like? I was in contact with someone too but went by the name David Williams…..wondering if it’s the same….please reply…thank you
        Lisa

        • i was in contact with a sargent Tommy williams Barrera he also need money,didnt send any for his leave.or anything else i wonder if we are talking about the same one?

        • I’m Ashamed to say I have been scammed by Tommy Willaims Barrera. his picture is on Fb but he sent me another picture of him in his ‘dress uniform with the name Barrera on one side and US Marines on the other, which I recently found out those particular style of uniform was issued to the marines in 2002. He’s looks spanish decent, claims his grandparents were spanish. His wife died 2 years from Breast cancer he has two son’s Tom and Dan ages 18 & 15. All this information is on FB. Oh he sent me poems and told me how much he love me and all that other B.S. Even threatened to kill himself and General Odierno. Once I told him I would not send anymore money he quickly stopped talking to me.

      • henry williams is big nigerian scammer i have is video on u tube he tricked me and my friend sherry pretended to be two different men watch my video on u tube go to http://www.youtube.com type in shygirl4u2008 u will see black guy click that video

        • UPDATE ON TOMMY WILLAIM BARRERA, as soon as I refused to send anymore money he terminated his email address which was willaim_Tommy@yahoo.com.

      • I have been speaking with a Sgt. Henry Williams, but he told me that his real last name is Marshall….stated he took mother’s maiden name after she was killed in a car accident. I would be very interested if this is the same person….i have pictures that he sent me….i just don’t know if he is on the up and up with me.

        • well ladies i am currently chatting with this man named greg massingale and he asked me to send him 3thousand dollars so we could communicate through special radio communication.He also said that would cover the cost of his papers to leave the army and come and stay with me for 12 weeks. Well this was just after christmas and i told him no and now i never hear back from him. OH well thats life to bad for him he is the loser on this end.

        • I to have been talking to Tommy Willaims Barrera,he tells me he never asked no ladies for money,but i ended it cause i figured if a man wants to be with any woman the woman should not have to pay him nothing

    • Hi,
      I am trying to post again.
      I was scamed by a bill Pendleton guy from Iraq. I can recognized the pictures here.
      The same story, single father that wants to pleasure his son with a laptop throught a “diplomat” from UK…
      Didin’t buy it. after he gets shot and after he wants to send me expensive jewlery and lots of money to take care till his out of his service.
      I want to send you the picutre. I also found him on facekook with the same email bill_pendleton@yahoo.com
      CJ please let me send you all I have.
      contact me.

      • I have a friend that served in the military and she told me about a website that offers special discounts for military families. What I found surprising was that it not only offers discounts through national companies, they had local restaurants and merchants that offered great deals, some were owned by vets. They also had news, some hilarious jokes, information for people interested in joining the military and so much more! Has anyone else seen this sight and have you gone to some of the businesses listed. Please let me know. The website is: mymilitarypages.com

    • Does anyone know the solider in the above pics with the big green gloves on his hands??? The tagged account had his pic on the profile calling himself sgt.james harrison from rosebud tx. His wife and child was killed in a car accident about 4 yrs ago i was told… will be home from Afghanistan 6/2011 In the last week or so the profile has been deleted… but he uses james_b1950@yahoo.com for his email..His said he has a good friend in Ny goes by the name sgt. Mike Todd… does this story sound familiar to anyone… I didnt stick around long enough for him to ask me for money….. I will always wonder who is the U.S. Solider in the pic and it weighs heavy on my mind if that solider made it back home safely….I think of the family also..

      • Hi did someone know how to get CJ email I would like to send some pictures i was scam with $5000 just last week ,i have pictures and I still talk to this guy ,he does not know that I have found out ,he may want to ask for more money.
        my email silvesy@hotmail.com please help with this information

      • I was contacted by a guy claiming that he was Jeff Haggard telling me how much he loved me and all the other bull crap. I am on match.com and I’m not an idiot. I don’t believe anything anyone has to say unless I meet them and learn for myself what type of personality they have. I’ve been stringing this guy along for about a week now. I’ve been tryiing to find a way to educate women out there just incase someone can be duped by this supposed born and raised New Yorker stationed in Bagdad who doesn’t have a grasp on the english language. Hahahahaha I asked him who the custodial parent of his non existant 15 year old son was and he didn’t know what the heck I was talking about. He also ended up contacting a friend of mine telling her simular stories but with a different twist.

        Jeff Haggard sent me a picture of a man in uniform with the name of Lopez he then changed his story and said it was Jeff Haggard Lopez hmmmm…. I asked him his nationality and a week later repeated the question. He said Hispanic/Dutch the first time then told me Spanish the second time, I sent hin a hearty hahahahaha and told him the he needed to memorize his lies. I got him to send me several photos that he is using, told him it was a shame that he was ot the guy in the picture because the guy in the picture was hot hahahahahaha.

        I want to know how to post pictures here. I would like to share this most handsome guys pic that this scammer is using.

        • Hey I ve been Scamed..

          I too was on a datting site

          But lucky i realised before any money was given
          Gosh this man is good in his writting… But i know somw women may not know this or unfortunalty be a lil desparte….

          I want to warn Women…Come on we must be able to do something to stop this or at least warn others

      • His name is Mark Pendleton, has an email of mark76110@gmail.com. I too have now been scammed and am embarrassment to my family. For that I am deeply sorry.

    • I think that someone is trying to scam me. Sgt Noell Burton. He said he loved me the second day we talked, i was ready to tell him off then and there but decided instead to investigate. Tonight I asked him what his MOS was and he said it was on his uniform and i could see it there. I also asked him where the planes landed in the desert. For fear of scammers on the site I will not post the real answer as it IS a way to see if a solider, whose overseas,is real or a scam. If you need to know he answer Facebook me.
      I agree with some of the people on here, learn you’re military insignia,MOS,and learn just what questions to ask. NEVER send money. If you want to send a care package, get an APO, if they don’t have one, it’s a scam.

      • Hello
        I was reading your comments and I think that I may – well know that I am currently neing scammed .. Afghistan and all that and rescue missions and payment from a diplomat who had his daughter kidnapped.. got the girl back and then for being so grateful he was given jewels for a thank you . So it then goes that he cannot them back to the camp as it against secirty …ect ect… this guy is Bryan Anderson … so convincing . What do you ask to see if they know where they land ?? I have been asked for money as this diplomat is supposed to deliver the package in return for $8000-USD…,,,hahahah I dont think so . I said fine – you take care of it and then contact me …so far as expected .. lots of back peddling …

    • I think that someone is trying to scam me. Sgt Noell Burton. He said he loved me the second day we talked, i was ready to tell him off then and there but decided instead to investigate. Tonight I asked him what his MOS was and he said it was on his uniform and i could see it there. I also asked him where the planes landed in the desert. For fear of scammers on the site I will not post the real answer as it IS a way to see if a solider, whose overseas,is real or a scam. If you need to know he answer Facebook me.
      I agree with some of the people on here, learn you’re military insignia,MOS,and learn just what questions to ask. NEVER send money. If you want to send a care package, get an APO, if they don’t have one, it’s a scam.

    • I was just contacted on match.com by one of the guys pictured above, at least he used one of those pictures and calls himself Steve Robies. He sounded very real. His story had too many similarities to others these guys have told. Fortunately I did a google on him immediately and found this.
      Thanks so much for putting this up. I wouldn’t have sent him money, but I sure could have gotten my heart broken.
      I did the google because I KNOW there are scammers out there looking for victims.

      • when I met him he called himself Dave Robies. We started talking on June 8th He still contacts me. And he is just getting ready to ask for money. I have a surprise for him.

        • Hey Teresa i got shoked when i saw ur comment. I am talking to this guy also, since oct 6th
          He already asked me for gifts and I had sent to him…like T-shirt, underwear and cookies.
          But he didn’t ask me for money yet. but he asked me to receive a package for him with a
          valueble things…but of course i said no bcz i didn’t buy it… that was 2 days ago and we haven’t talked
          since. after that i started looking up online and i found this website, and i saw ur comment.
          what storie have him told you? plz if you want to talk more about it, email me to klaudinha_usa@yahoo.com.
          thank you

    • Scam in progress with Army Lt. Nathan Deren, stationed at Camp Victory, Iraq. he is the guy in the big green boxing gloves…this is terrible that they are using our soldiers for this scam. he asked for money for leave and the red flag came up!!! He will be surprised when he emails me again!!!! Please post this so other people will not be taken in. thank God for you and this site!

    • This mess makes me want to vomit!
      Sgt Fred Marculy is another scammer. Too much broken English and the way he spoke of deployment…LOL; was a military wife and from a family of all branches to know better. He will tell you his wife died in 911 but he is ‘over it now’…really? Over it?? WOW and has a son who is staying with his mother in law in the UK. Said we could get to know each other better talking through email….i sent him mine to see what other BS he could bring up…then reported him to yahoo and other sights as a scammer/span ass! Email he is now using is : fmarculy@live.com He is also on ‘Tagged”. Looks like Tagged already removed him than God. These are sick people. If you ask the idiots to give you an address to mail them a care package, they generally avoid answering that.

      • Fred Marculy just sent me a “meet” request on Plenty of Fish. Luckily he is dumb enough to put a name so I was able to google him and find this site.

      • Indeed Sgt Fred did the same to me…has never asked for money but wont answer questions and uses the my wife died in 9/11 story….says he is in Afghanastan. has a son who lives with mother in law in UK…I had a feeling he was not legit…as he would never add me as a friend….he found me on WAYN.com….I finally gave him my email….His letters are always brief, and overly romantic..pushing for a “real relationship” all was well till I asked a few questions, like when did you join the army? What did you do before that for work? What was his sons name? I have not heard back from him since the 21st of November I believe…I asked to add him on another email site I have…that is where the letters go from him…asked to add him on the messenger…no response..The picture is different from the one of WAYN..(I have that one also)….He deleted that WAYN account…..NOW ladies…BE ADVISED….HE is back at it on WAYN.com under walker Benson…doesnt say anything about being a soldier, etc…HOWEVER….His picture is the same picture used on Sgt Freds messenger..I have both….Also another one isPederson Watson (army of course)….so so so sad…I love our soldiers and pray and support them 100%…however…this stuff is GARBAGE!!!!!! BE CAREFUL….!:D

      • I too heard the same story from SGT Fred Marculy!! He is wanting me to help him get transit leave right now!!!

        • @ Regina this is a scam and he is a scammer NO ONE can apply for military leave but the military member and it does not have to be paid for tell this scammer to drop dead and leave you alone he is a fraud a BEGGAR a CON a Thief get the picture YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED Anonn

          for support go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com for support

    • Hi,
      It appears I have been scammed by someone who claims to be “Tim Lingo” and says he is a Seargant in the Marine Corps. He says he lives in Houston and has a 14 yo daughter. He said all the sweet things women like to hear. He promised marriage and happy ever after. He then proceded to ask 0me for money to help get this retirement papers processed. Stupid me, I gave in–I sent him $550.He told me he would be home by or beofre December 17th. Then all the sudden he disappeared from my friends list on Facebook and his profile disappeared too. A friend of mine suggested I look at this site–I did, and he is on here, but as “Steven Lingo”. So I looked him up on Facebook and there he was. The pictures were exactly the same. He listed his hometown to be somewhere in Mississippi and he is a widow. He says he is in the Army. When I confronted him about this he got upset and said he was hurt that I didn’t believe him. He said someone stole his pictures and that is why he took that profile down. The one his daughter had is gone too. I feel so stupid and ashamed. I had a feeling he was too good to be true, but I didn’t want to believe it. I believed he was who he said he was. It broke my heart knowing he was sweet talking other women and promising them the same things he promised me. Look out for him–he may use “Steven Lingo” and “Lingo Franky”…one of his email addressed is tim.lingo@yahoo.com

  2. Thats wonderful,
    GOOD JOB CJ,
    one of the first ones said something about him studying at A and A children’s academy, WELL IT WAS THE SAME place James Rellinger went to MY, MY what a SMALL, SMALL WORLD!!!!!!

    • please say me is james rellinger swindler? help me and please give me a answer thanks deniz

  3. I have pictures of a Capt Brown Mark of US army (FT Rucker Military Base Alabama) currently stationed in Iraq.
    I will send them to you asap. The scammer seems to every detail of Capt Brown Mark if he is real. Please tell me if ever he exists.

    • I wrote to him and many others from the products by the mails, but received no response, most mail vote and the names are not faking, because they can not be found in FB

  4. Thanks again CJ, for giving us a visual for these scammers. Hopefully more women will check out this site before loosing their money as well as their hearts…

  5. My best friend is a war widow and found out a couple days ago that someone was using her husband’s photo to scam women. It has been a heart wrenching experience for her as you can imagine.

  6. CJ you are wonderful! Being from the UK I had no idea that Stephen Barret’s uniform didn’t match up with his supposed rank. Eerily, he has just come on line on Yahoo Messenger! Keep up the good work.

  7. ya me too!! I also have a picture, not sure who it could be. If it is needed for anything I will save it for a while.

  8. Hi CJ

    I have been scammed and would like you to post his picture for me to warn others. I also have emails/chats of how he asked for money for his business.Sadly I did fall for this scam but now want revenge! I have checked IP address and guess what he is not in Afghanistan as he told me but in Sunnyvale CA. I feel so ashamed and stupid.

    Katy

    • Hi Katy.

      I have just found out that I have been scammed and I also want revenge, I tried the IP address and mine also said Sunnyvale CA. Can you let me have the name of the guy because if he is the same one then I am in contact with the Fraud squad.

      Thanks

      • Carol and Katy, I too have been scammed and he went by the name of SSgt George England. I have already filed all kinds of reports and sent emails as high as the Congressman and Senator from FL…I will get answers!!! His IP address was also Sunnyvale, CA. Sent them a very nasty email about going to the FBI, then a couple of days later (when I knew they had gotten the email) got 2 phone calls, one Thur and one Fri. trying to tell me that I had to come to London with my passport as proof of identity because I was listed as “next of kin” to George England! Told them I did not have the $ for a passport or plane ticket and told them to find England and have him pay for it along with sending me my $ back!!! I guess they thought I was really stupid and gonna fall for them claiming that he was all of a sudden “deceased” NOT!!!

        • please tell me how to cheeck up on his ip adress as i,m being scamed by a guy named james massingale he says he is sf specialist in the us army he asked me for 8,999usd so he could get leave for 12 weeks to spend with me in australia. please help me i have already lost 1900 $$$$$

        • I am also in contact with a man who claims to be Staff Sergeand George England in the US Army. I have pictures of him that he has sent. Email me at luzozzy.dawn@aol.com and I will send you my pictures. See if we have the same person? I just learned of this site today by chance. I have been emailing and yahoo messaging this guy since June. It would really suck to find out it is all a big joke on me! Much of what he told me is so similar to these other stories. He has been in the army all his life. He is a staff seargent. His MOS is engineering. He has been married once. She cheated on him while he was on his first tour. They have an 11 year old son named Charles which lives with his ex in Miami. He can’t video chat with me for security reasons. He can’t voice chat with me for security reasons. He is to retire next month. It goes on an on.

      • Katy please tell me how you checked up on the IP addres.

        K

        • YES PLEASE TELL ME TOO. IM NOT SURE IF IM BEING SCAMMED BUT I THINK I MIGHT BE.

    • hi how do u check ip addressess ive just found out a sgt emmy teddy cole is a scammer

  9. I’m a little unclear on this. Are the guys pictured doing the scamming or are the perpetrators using these photos without the knowledge and consent of those pictured? If it’s the latter then the guys in the photos are victims too.

    • Steve, the guys in the photos are victims. The scammers are using their images – images of real Soldiers – pretending to be someone they’re not. THe purpose is to get them out there because the same photos are used by multiple scammers but also to hopefully show the victims that their names are being used. I haven’t been able to find them all.

      • Shouldn’t you digitally watermark or put a censor bar over the eyes? I understand the photos are already out there but aren’t you further victimizing these unwitting soldiers?

      • können sie mir sagen ob james rellinger zu den betrügern gehört.habe viel mails und er braucht immer geld von mir. soll ich keines schicken möchte wissen ob da stimmt.habe seinen pass gescannt bei mir im net danke

      • Hi CJ,
        can you please find out if Robert Bill Haggard the real name in the picture?
        I deeply appreciate your assistance, because I think somebody is using his picture as scam
        Thank you very much,
        Myn

        • I have been sent the picture of Robert Haggard by someone that says he is Frank Robles…….he did not use his picture saying it was him he was showing me this picture because he was in a meeting with him. This Frank Robles has ask me for money ….wanting $5000…..and then if I could not send that could I send $2000 and then it went down to $1000 he needs to get a box out of the country and needs the money to stamp the box….it is ashamed that these people use innocent peoples pictures to get money…….so if any one has heard of Frank Robles let me know

        • the name robert haggard is on match.com as frank haggard email f_haggard2000@yahoo.com and i have found out the real name behind all of the scamming it is richard osei bonsu 30 yr old south african living in ghana,email beltblinks@yahoo.com also use the email name of milky mcgregor us.carrier78@hotmail.com. also use the name of allard haggard

    • The guys in the photos are innocent victims too. Their photos are being used by the scammers without their knowledge.

    • that’s what I’ve thought of that, but I introduced himself as Edward Webb, on his uniform and stood under the photo Jonny Haggard, Haggard, James Williams, his son is hot, so many things fit together and I can not also your article Webb name not found.

  10. cj the pictures of james miniard are the same person who scammed me, but with family and his children, i am really shocked to see his picture again. i even have one of his mum, this is all so hurtful as i fell deeply in love with his photo, stupid i now. i will send all the pictures i have of him to you soon, is that his real name and is he involved or is he the victim like me.

    • Messege for Jane B… take heart my dear, and dont beat yourself up over the scammer that tried it out on you, a lot have been affected this way and I know how you feel and I have Real friends also that have been trying for months on end to find closure, ( incl myself ) for some its harder to let go, and accept that you were conned and even if it wasnt money the scammer had, he took a piece of you, Dont worry what others think some of us understand that it is possible to get ” hooked” by a smooth talker saying the right things at the right time, just use this as an experience in life situation, and it will teach you to be more aware and to be “switched on” to the usual “patter”! they use, and there are, lots and lots out there waiting to spring a trap for you try not to fall in again, be astute use this site as a guide line ask the appropriate questions and watch see how quick they disappear as soon as ??? are fired at them. But also beware that not all of them are ” Brain dead ” i have found of late ( right up to the last week in fact ) that some have a very good command of the ENGLISH language. both in spelling and writing, so can fool the most educated persons… because as a nation we all write text too much, and put down poor grammar as an abbreviated form of english(texT)and of course will have typing errors also to exactly that ” a typo error”
      Anyway just wanted to say JANE, that you can write to me if you so wish and i will tell you my FEW stories so you see it was more than once for me !!! so, you see, YOu havent been that silly… and I speak from experience…. Good luck Trish ( UK )

      • I think that I have been scammed also. The name he used was Col. Randy Barrera. How can I find out if he really exsits? And how can I find out his IP address? I am hoping it is not true. He sent some really nice letters. I feel like such a fool. Please if you could help me I would be appreciative. Thanking you in advance and I will be waiting for an answer from you

        • Hi Gail
          I have been emailed by Col.Randy Barrera
          Since the last week of Oct. to date.Jan 02/11
          I have known this is a scam for the past 2 weeks and I have been playing him.Yes I lost some $$$$ and Yes I was so careful not to put my guard down, Very charismatic poetry and letters,all the right things to say,
          His IP address is northeast of Wichita Kansas
          and also Redmond Washington,I checked it out.
          while he was emailing you around Christmas
          he did not email saying he was shot in the hospital,and had lost 3 friends, now a transit group is telling me I have been signed as a beneficiary/benefit funds he transferred to me at this time,
          I have been playing him.I had to put my head/heart in balance ,I still feel sick over this.To good to be true guess what its not. Please email me .I thought I was in love,and all things were answered with exact answers , I was a fool also. Deb (Can.)

    • what is CJ’s email address so I can send the ones of Tommy Barrera just incase any of you get the same picture.

      • hello! Was scammed by this Tommy Barrera but he was going by the name Mark James when I was scammed by him….looked him up on Facebook and found out what he was really all about!

        • Just a few months ago, an USAA Fraud Investigator informed me that I, along with 14 other women were scammed in a group ring out of Ghana, I believe. The scammers had many, many pictures of the SAME MAN in military khakis and civilian clothing and at various ages. His last name is definitely JAMES as this can be seen on his uniform shirt. If, this Army Master Sargent is not aware his pictures were stolen; then he needs to be told. The Fraud Investigator said many of we scammed women (and scattered all over the US) gave her similar stories regarding the same active duty Army Master Sargent. He contacted me in May, 2011. I have lost about $60,000.00; well that is not true because I did not have that money to lose in the first place! I am being forced into filing for bankruptcy. I would really like to talk to any of the other women that might have been scammed by this group. Their English was excellent; grammar and punctuation; Had very good knowledge of various issues; this was not a simple easy-to-figure-out scam; it was very involved and complex.. He was supposed to have been in Iraq and would be retiring after 27 years upon return to Ft. Benning, GA; he was also supposed to have been a widower. The complete set of pictures if have of the SAME MAN continue to haunt me and i would hope someone/somewhere would have been able to let this person know about is stolen pictures…thank you…I can be reached at ellen.papp@yahoo.com

      • Hi i just found your web site I have been writing to this guy who claims to be a seargent in the usa army I am in Ireland and i know nothing about the usa army but going down through your site the first email I got was the same as one you printed he says he is bagdad and he is an sg something first class his name is Raymond Ramos I think he is part of this scam

        • Hi Suasn, I was just scammed by someone going by Michael C Ramos, if he sent you pictures in uniform with Ramos on it , it’s probably the same scammer. Send me his picture, or I can send you mine to compare. kandrar@msn.com

        • I am talking to a guy who says his name is anthony ramos, sent me pics of him. Had ramos on military clothes out of baghdad said he was retiring where can I send you a pic of him

  11. Hello CJ. well had a quick look at the site again and thought this was great putting up these photos of the Real guys ( who are also being scammed of their identities) you had one up there( a set of 4 actually ) of RUDDOCK I have some others of him still on file do you want that i send them to you.And is there any chance you could put up the ones of the Guy I was looking for ( they are up on another archive site here ,but not under this latest heading, so have probably been lost in the system somewhere I Refer to the person Jakson Adams impersonated for approx 6months with me. soldier DAGNER do you wish for me to send those as well to you. I also have a few pics of the infamous PHILIP/JEFF/JAMES MILLER are but a few of the alias he uses for this poor soul but he can be found on U Tube under the name of Philip Miller thanks hope to hear from you Trish( this is worth one last shot, I do but try !!!)

    • Patricia, I am corresponding with a Jude Ruddock at the moment and I am suspecting that he is a scammer. Can you mail me the photos you have of Ruddock, please.

      • Hi Suzette, i have recently been scammed luckily for only £250 before i realised what was happening and managed to play the scammer at his own game. Typical story widow.. even spoke to him in Afghan lol and his supposed nanny for his son in London. The name used was Capt Patrick Osborne. Has anyone heard of this name? Have several photos of the men used. What does IP address mean. Would just love to know if the man/men used in photo are still alive. Thanks

      • Hi Suzette..this man you are in contact with also goes by the name Maurice Ruddock…I am sorry I delete his pics now.. The pic I had of him is the one of him standing with the army men behind him…He gave me a email.account…commander -maurice @hotmail.com..he wanted me to send him 3500 dollars for a package to Canada where i live..but I did not do that so he took me of his contact on Oct 16 …told me he loved me and going to marry me when he got here…he also said his wife left him for another man and he is raising his daughter by himself

  12. Has anyone come across a William L. Spalding?

    • I have and he scammed me out of a lot of money.

    • Hi tammy
      I have been dealing with person I really would like to talk to you if you could please get hold of me. this man is a lier and he is a scam he has taken alot of money from me. please get hold of me as soon you can thank you

    • Hi Tammy, I would like to tell you that this man is a scam artiest he told me he was from the air forces and worked with Marines and it was all lies and he was in London take care of some investments that he had with this Robert stocks broker I found out that the money that was send to this man Robert was never a business address in London it was house were they were doing all of the scam from. And he asked me for money to be send to this person for him and that he would pay me ones he got home from being over sea. and still waiting to see any of it back. He also told me that had a son who just passed away and he didn’t have no family. His email address that he uses is willyspalding@yahoo.com and this email after the investigation that was done it was from Nigeria the hold time. So if anyone comes cross this man do not believe. He is working as well with people here in United States there all in this Scam. This is a big group of people working together. He uses the email of willyspalding@yahoo.com and willyspalding @aol.com So if anyone comes cross these email addresses or this name WILLIAM L. SPALDING OR JOHNSON O. SPALDING DO NOT SEND THEM ANY MONEY. THIS MAN PUTS ALLOT OF TIME IN DEALING WITH WOMEN UNTIL HE HAS GOT ALL OF YOUR INFORMATION AND HE REALLY MAKE YOU BELIEVE THAT HE IS REALLY COMING HOME AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT THERE WILL BE GIFTS COMING TO YOUR HOUSE AND HE WILL TELL YOU THERE FROM BUSINESS MAN HE HAS BEEN DEALING WITH AND THEN HE WILL TELL YOU TO HOLD ON TO THEM UNTIL HE GET HOME. HE WILL WAIT FOR ABOUT 2WEEKS AND HE WILL TELL YOU THAT HE REALLY DON’T CARE FOR THESE GIFT THAT WERE SEND SOME OF THESE GIFT ARE WATCHES AND OTHER VALUABLE THINGS, BUT MOST OF THE THINGS INSIDE ARE GOLD COINS THAT ARE BEING PAID FOR BY CREDIT CARDS WITH FRAUD ACCT’S. AND THEN HE WILL TELL YOU THAT HE DON’T WANT THESE GIFTS AND HE WANTS THE CASH THAT NEEDS TO BE PAID TO HIM SO IF YOU CAN PLEAS SEND THESE THINGS TO SOMEONE HE WILL GIVE YOU ADDRESS ON AND ITS BECAUSE THIS PERSON YOUR SENDING THIS BOXES IS PART OF THAT SCAM ONE HE GET IT HE THEN WILL SEND THIS BOX TO LONDON AND OTHER PART OF WORLD. AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT YOU WILL BE GETTING DIFFERENT PEOPLE NAMES AND THERE CREDIT CARD BILLS AT YOUR HOUSE AND ADDRESS CHANGES OF NOTES AS WELL. BEFORE YOU KNOW IT HE HAS SET YOU UP TO HAVE YOUR ADDRESS TO BE USED IN SENDING PACKAGES AND YOUR IN MIDDLE OF THIS GREAT BIG MESS. AND THAT HOW THEY ARE MOVING THERE MONEY FROM UNITED STATES TO LONDON TO OTHER COUNTRY’S. AND YOU IN MIDDLE OF BIG SCAM. AND IF YOU HAVE SEND MONEY AT ANY GIVEN TIME BY USING WESTERN UNION YOU NEED TO GET HOLD OF WESTERN UNION YOU NEED TO GET HOLD OF WESTERN UNION AND LET THEM KNOW RIGHT AWAY THAT THIS PERSON IS A SCAM AND THEY HAVE SCAM YOU. GO TO YOUR POLICE DEPT AND FILE A REPORT RIGHT AWAY AND GET HOLD ALL FBI FRAUD HOTLINE AND LET THEM KNOW RIGHT AWAY. I HOPE THAT MY INFORMATION HAS BEEN HELPFUL SOMEONE OUT THERE AND STOP THESE PEOPLE FROM STEALING FROM PLAYING WITH WOMEN EMOTION.

      • Hi Marina,
        I am sorry to hear these things but I have been dealing with this man as well and I also send him money. And he told me he was sick and he needed money to help him for medication for him and a family member. I have send so far a total of $2500.00. And yes I send it by western union as you did. And I am still waiting for him to come home and nothing. And he also told me his name was William L.Spalding and now I feel like a fool in believing in him. So yes I also had to file a report with my police dept out here in my state. And I also found out that he don’t live in CA. And I found this out because of people who I paid to do a investigation on him and they showed me the real William L. Spalding how he really looks like. I called Washington to the main offices of the Military and they told me that they have a William L.Spalding but it didn’t match with the picture I had of this man. So you see I have been played as you were. So anyone who reads this don’t be fool by this man.

      • Hi Marina,
        I’m sorry to hear what has happen to you with this man named William Spalding I have been dealing with this man as well and I also send him money. I send him $2500.00 and also did it by western union. He told me he need money for medical services. And he also didn’t have money to get back home. And he would pay me ones he got home here to U.S.A. I found out that the picture I have of him don’t match with the picture they have on file, and the only reason I know this because I had to pay for investigation to be done. So I feel like a fool. So all who read this I can tell anyone who comes cross this person don’t believe what he has to say.

        • This man who is called William L. Spalding who you been dealing with is a scammer and he also works in group of other man who doing this for a very long time and there very well know in London for scamming women out here in the U.S. I really sorry for being played the way they did with you the also used the email or yahoo.com and there under the email of willyspalding yahoo. com or willyspalding.aol and he also asked me for money, and telling me that he was now in London and his son had passed away and he need money to come home and its been now for over 2 years and he still has not come home. He had told me that he was in military and he was sick and he need money for his son at that time they were in Holland but he wanted the money to be send under other people names. and they would send it to him and then he would go to London and now he is in London and he still stay in touch with me and keeps

      • hello marina
        i have been scammed. he send me the same pictures i saw on this site and the picture of the same child
        can you please help me i mean direct me for what to do , i have been sending money by western union in Ghana for the son.plz help me Thanks
        Blanca

        • Blanca there is NO sick son the scammer lives in Ghana the money you sent was for him so now you cut off all communication and block and delete this lying beggar and check your security settings on your computer go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com for support sorry you lost money but he is a Liar if he were military he would have no need for your money and please NEVER send money to people you dont know or never seen before for any reason.Anonn

        • Blanca the first thing you need to do is to call your police department and make a report then notify the fraud department at your post office, also make a report to the place where you sent the money from they will have a fraud department. You also need to notify the site that you meet this person on and make a report.

          I’m a victim of someone claiming to be John Haggard.

  13. Thanks patrica for you kind words you sound like you really understand how i feel,its nice to now i am not alone. How do i ever trust people again,i now the dating sites are full of scammers i have meet many since my experience, and can tell them straight away. so i am a lot more streetwise now and will not be fooled again. i would love to write to you ,i think it would help me a lot, am not sure if i should leave my email or not on here.

    • Hi JaneB… write to me trishwills60@hotmail.co.uk dont worry about leaving your email I am not sure but check by all means that ” outsiders” cant see the email addresses but I might be wrong. ( do please check before you leave yours ) Me i dont give a damn who has mine! I have written it in bloggs here many times, you can check with cj to see if i am legit. he knows I am OK. and you can check the email adress as well he has 2 of mine, Bye for now Trish. (and yes we can compare stories!)

  14. Good news everyone, I have just talked to the real soldier that pictures where stolen. I knew him as Tom Curtis. His last name is not Curtis.

    • can you tell me how you managed to contact the real soldier as i would love to bring to the attention of the real Mark Ehresman (if that is him in the photo) that his photo is being used in this scam.

      • I searched facebook and myspace until I came across the real soldiers site. I am trying to find out who this Mark Ehresman is for you. So far all I have found is the facebook site the scammer setup.

        • Hi JJ, Could you try and find the real Ivan Nobile as well or tell me how to find him. I also have extra photos that is not on this website, maybe I should send that in for the website as well.

        • WOW, JJ can you do that for me too? I have been looking for “my soldier” for about a month now, and still no luck…I am sending pictures of him this evening to CJ for them to be posted out here. My scammer went by the name of SSgt George England. I have already checked with the military and “George England” is a retired Army officer, so his first name is not “George”. His email addresses that he used are georicklove1@yahoo.com and georicklove1@live.com. If you could find him I would be very grateful!!!

        • Forgot to tell you, his name “England” is on his uniform, also on his right shoulder is a patch of the “screaming eagles”, they are based out of Ft Campbell, KY

        • you know, if I could remember everything I want to put here in the comments,I would not have had to do this 3 times…lol. He contacted me through SingleParentMeet.com.

        • Hi JJ I am in Australia and have been truely scammed. His name is “Sgt Jeff Preston” but has call name of Jeff Hewitt. The lead email was exactly the same as Robert Haggard except a slight change in DOB to 9/11/60, all other email info the same. rank etc. Supposidly in Iraq and discharged 22nd June Had a package with large amount of money to be delivered to me via a diplomatic envoy by the name of NEWTON AMMED
          It would appear from the photos and DVD sent that this Jeff Preston does exist but it is not the man I have been chatting to for the past 10 weeks. I have been badly scammed and lost a lot of money
          I would like the real Jeff Preston to be aware of this somehow

      • Hi Jane
        I,too, have been talking to the notorious mark ehresman. I just kicked his butt to the curb tonight. I don’t know if the name is made up or not. If you want to compare notes you can get my email address from CJ. They are reading this site also. Good Luck

        • Hi Donna

          Have you had any luck tracing the real Steven Barrett yet? Email me.

        • Hi Donna, when the so called Mark realised you had sussed him out did he turn nasty towards you? I too confronted him when i found out and since then have had nasty and threatening messages from him. I have tried to delete him but every now and then i get these messages.

    • I would like to talk to that soldier by the name Tom Curtis,I’m in conversation with someone who is using that name. He started using the email tomcurtis69@yahoo.com,then he changed it to captomhiltoncurtis@yahoo.com now.He is in Kabul Afghanistan and about to come visit me here in USA but I need to fill the leave request and pay all the expenses for him,because in the military,soldiers don’t have access to their account until their deployment.I thought that was strange and I saw the video at CNN.I would like to talk to him.I also have the pictures with the snakes and everything.Thanks again

      • Wow, this is crazy! I have been married to a soldier who had deployed 4 times and he has NEVER needed money to come home, call home, or send anything home ever. I guarantee that if a soldier needs money for somethig like thate he is not a soldier. Most of the guys over there want care packages with chips, and candy. I hate that any woman is betrayed like this.

        • HI i read you mail and i have a queStion,i been talking to a sargente name T.W.B. i dont want to make his name public becuse i dont know if his one of then,he sin very sincier,but here we go he wants me to asked for him and i send a letter to his commander,and ater few minutes got a responde back telling me :that i need to pay a fee of 3,500,o00 dolares for his vacacional leave.i have not send no money cours i dont have it.what do you think and what shoot i look for.thank you and excuse my spelling.

      • hey leonie… ive got the same pics as u have but i knew him by james harrison from rosebud tx….. james_b1950@yahoo.com he had an account on tagged that was recently deleted…. ws in afghanistand and be coming home 06/2011 i would love to know who the true us solider is in the pics..

    • Hello there could you tell me how you found out the real soldier in the pictures that were stolen. I have been sent a picture so someone and an trying to figure out who it could be. I would appreciate any help you could give me, he went by the namd Gary Jonh, I would like this persion aware that his picture is also being used on msn messenger.

    • Hi JJ
      How did you go about finding him? Did he know his pics had been stolen?

    • I have also written to him, but got no response.

  15. I bet he ( general odierno) can spell a whole lot better also. Very funny CJ.

  16. i have just had contact from ooowa wait for it JEFF MILLER!!, funny tho bcuz i have VERY GOOD INTUITION :-) and have caught him out in a matter of 2days! not that i would give ANY MAN MONEY! so to all you women out there, WE WERE ALL BORN WITH INTUITION so USE IT, if something doesnt FEEL RIGHT it usually ISANT!

    • well he uses harston miller now so be aware of that

  17. This is getting more insane as time goes on, using soldiers identities that have passed away and tormenting the families, i am saddened to the point of having tears. and soooo angry.
    CJ and all the rest, you guys are AMAZING, PERIOD.

  18. I am an Aussie I was on oasis active when they contacted. thats a dating site. I was chatting to a man who called himself Thomas edwards, supposedly from a sgt in iraq with the E-6.. he said from New Jersey he had two boys, his wife died 5 years ago in a car accident with her drunken friends also. He said he now lived in Florida and the kids were minded by a care taker/sitter. 15 adn 12 years old. when I questioned him about scamming he reared up and got a bit angry. calmed him down. I have just ended up deleting and blocking him from any messages. he was on yahoo and messenger , sent photos too. he used the email. thomas_franknelly@hotmail.com or yahoo.com I hate these guys. I was not looking for true love, just a chat and a friend. they drive me insane. I have another one too. Hi name is meant to be john wilinton a major in iraq. but once I saw the photos I enlarged them and the cloth name tag on this guys shirt was shankovich or shakkovich. I queried him and he said he had swapped in the bar the shirt with his mate as a joke and then went out and posed for the photo. He did not know what an AKO was said ..do you mean my gun… (obviously aka he was talking about) I said no unless your gun can send emails. he then got angry. he told me only immediate family can have the ako. He was indignant with the questions I asked. his chat and spelling getting irregular by the moment. When he first contacted typing had no errors and he was really eloquent in speech. 2-3 days after it was basic. I asked why he had put his son in an NGO as he called it in god forsaken Ghana. did not go down to well. This Aussie girl can be a bit grrr when needs too. The photos of the man supplied are with his son and pals etc,his 4wd and so forth quite real like. I jut hope it not the real major… but I have serious doubt. because the insignia for a major is not only two stripes. his email is johnwilinton@yahoo.com or hotmail dot com. he is on oasis as john 8766 I think.

    just thought someone should know, even if its to help others.

    Regards Shona.

    • Shona I am from Australia too. If you would like a chat about all this feel free to email me : machook7@optusnet.com.au

    • Hi Shona, from aussie myself have just been in contact with john wilinton he has now added shandovich to his last name. thanks heaps for the heads up

      what a work of art.

      gail

    • l am aussie girl to contacted on oasis site by general commander no such thing had a son in ghana at school 11 years old wanted money son had run out he had none where he was , like yeh right we maybe from down under but we are dumb he was richard len sir_richard20@hotmail.com. harrassed with many emails declaring love and be together until the end of time ? now l sent no money spelling and grammar poor and doesnt have time to talk has field training , l am be dateless but not that desperate lol
      cheers glenys

      • is there anyway of reporting these scammers to the us miltitary they are using photos of real soldiers

    • he has scammed me for a lot of money and i think he is going to try to scam me again i am glad i read this he told me his son was in a boarding school in Ghana but what i dont understand i wanted to talk to his son and i did his son sounds like a real American did you ever speak to john on the phone i did

    • I to have been scammed by this same person but it was May this year
      I am in Australia and was caught big time. How does one deal with tihs

  19. hi cj that should of read johnwilinton45@yahoo.com and hotmail.com

    Have now deleted all trace of them from p.c. etc. I do have photos of the soldiers if you want me to submit them. dont know how to send them to you.

    regards shona

  20. Have found the email to send them to you CJ and have sent them today. I hope they get there.

    regards
    Shona

  21. Hi CJ,
    I am so happy that I came across with this website and I found through Google. Now to the point, I have been communicating with an individual that claims to be an Army soldier deployed in Afghanistan. I have all of his emails, chats and pictures please tell me how to send them to you so that I can find out if he is been a scamer or not. The reason I want to find out the thruth is becase he informed me that in order for him to call me I have to pay $500.00 USD which to me it sounds odd plus today in our chat he asked me for $100.00 USD for the reason that he have some bills to pay, which to me it does not make any sense at all. Please find out about him, his name is Sfc James Thompson Ramos. I will greatly appreciate it so thank you in advance for any help that you can give me.

    • Hi Laura i have also been asked to send 500usd to speak with a so called major on deployment in Afghanistan to speak with him using vsat telecommunications,of course i said no,so now he has tried to get 500usd from me for his leave to come and meet me here in Australia,again i said no as i have done some checking.Has anyone heard of a Ash Donavon in there travels,i cant find anything on him.

      • Hi Kaye, I am happy that you got wise on him is just a shame of the extrem these scammers go through just to reach into our pockets.

  22. PS: My offer to Shona also applies to anyone else who has been caught up in this scam.

  23. I have been a complete plonker, talking to Mark Ehresman or at least i thought i was, can’t believe i very nearly fell for this scam but must admit always had my suspicions as he did come on a bit strong, and especially when he asked me to order him a satalite phone for him from a military sight, thankfully i didn’t.
    Can you please tell me is the photo of a genuine soldier that isn’t aware what it is being used for as not quite sure.
    I was contacted by this so called person on the mate 1 dating site and not sure if he was on their as a genuine person and then the details used by others in this scam.
    thanks. Jane

    • Jane b
      The pic is not the major mark ehresman who has been trying to scam us. I am still in contact with him and I know of four other woman who he is in contact with at this moment. he is a liar a thief and a dumb ass. His daughter Rose ia also a fake. His ip tracks back to Nigeria. I also met him on mate1
      tell him to take a hike. he is only trying to scam you.

      • thanks Donna,
        I’m pretty sure this so called major ehresman wont be contacting me again after our last conversation!!!!
        How do i find out who the guy is in the photo , i think he should know his picture is being used in this scam.

        Do these scammers set the details up on the dating sits.

        • I am also wondering how to contact these soldiers in the pictures to inform them that someone is using their identities. Most of the pictures of the man I was chatting with do not have a name on his uniform that is visible, but his friend’s uniforms have visible names. Can they be found and told? to inform the soldier that is being used? I feel terrible, that this is happening to our brave men in uniform. I would be sick and outraged to find this out.

  24. Jane, The photos are of REAL soldiers but the scammers are using the photos and pretending to be them.

    • hi i cant believe all these stories i am hearing!!! Im a aussie girl and im talking to a soldier in kabul…so far he has not asked for money etc but i am suspicous…how can i find out if this guy is real??????

      • hi sharon, u know what ive meet sgt kennedy macmahon milliard from kabul afghanistan in facebook,and i dont know too if his a scammer,he always send mesge in my acnt.he told me to regster to the usmarine so that we can talk in telephone but i did not do it,i hope this man is what you mean,il show you the pic of him

        • That name sounds familiar. “Kennedy McMahon Milliard” asked my daughter many times for money. Once was when he wanted to come visit her at Christmas. He had been granted leave, he claimed. All she had to do was send him money to “pay my superior for the leave so I can come to meet you, my love”. Pure @#$%!!! Careful, ladies. Don’t let loneliness, heartbreak and frustration lead you to making foolish choices. Clearly there are alot of scammers out there ready and willing to take advantage and take your money at the same time.

      • hi sharron, i lost my real wondrful hubby over a year now, i meet a guy who said he was from affganistaine but he has scamed me out of money .he said he loved me & wanted to come & meet me in aussie but he wanted more money sent for his leave papers so he satd. he wanted 8,999 usd sent to him what a big scam he was that i had fallen for … GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN B4 U GET THE BIG LIES & SCAM DONE TO U OK GOOD LUCK

      • Hi Wow I’m glad I found this site I have had contact from Jeff Hewitt can’t see the photo here. Someone else has too. Something was a bit off so I researched. Apparently articulate man in the long letters sent the next day with some English anomolies not right for a soldier. At first I put it down to mis spelling, then details I had said were forgotton, then the name Beauty which is generic and then ‘Dear’ got me. Then firing questions from a list at me to build up what I was looking for, it is analysed by the next day and another letter sent. This has only gone on for three days thank God. Watch for spellos and serious grammatical errors, also tried to get me to talk dirty which really offended me. Simple formula ask questions and give the right answer to mirror what you say. I began to think this guy was a stalker psycho and so searched. Even had shots of his ‘kids’ Funny thing is the photo matched another profile on RSVP. How inconvenienced that they cannot contact us..that stirred up my ire straight away and why choose me when I am in a country town. The pat response bothered me too ‘because you caught my eyes.’ About three or four people do the responding. Go Girls.

        • Hi Edwina
          I too have been approached by this guy Jeff Hewitt on RSVP. I couldnt get over how he had his children posted up as well unbelievable what these guys will do.I also picked up on the language as being inconsistent with the Sargeant title he gave himself.I hope no one falls for his suave but very bad english grammar.Thanks for the post Edwina.

  25. My, my it seems like all of them ask for the same thing, mine had asked for $500.00 for him to be able to get a sattelite phone in order to be able to call me of course I said no. Then he got the nerve to ask me for $100.00 for him to be able to pay some bills once again I said no and besides what kind of bill is there to pay in the middle of the desert is not like there’s a Walmart close to them. I am so livid for it is not fair for the soldiers or for them to prey on women. Ladies we do need to be cautious and not allow for this jerks fill our beautiful heads with trash, I know that been alone or lonely is hard for I am single so I know what is like not to have some one to talk to but at the same time I much rather continue been alone before one of those jerks tries to take me for a free ride. Yes I am angry at this whole situation and please forgive me if I offended any one.

    • laura what was the name of the soldier who asked for money for a satellite phone?

  26. I have been victim of JOHN PALMAS Scam, after signing at http://www.Jdate.com a couple of months ago, JOHN contact me and after a couple of days, he started sending me Poems, lovely emails, in may 2nd, he asked me to mail to his friend MARK RIDINGS in California a NOKIA 6700 Cell phone in order to be able to contact me directly. I mailed it on the 5/12 by Fedex, the package has never been delivered to the address provided, but yesterday at 8:30 PM the package has been picked up at the Fedex store. I am completely in shock seeing his photos today, and I just want to say to those low life creatures that I AM REALLY PROUD OF MYSELF FOR BEING MYSELF AND NOT LIVING IN THE HELL LIKE THEY ARE, THEIR SOUL ARE SO DARK AND WHAT IT HAS TO COME TO THEM WILL COME SOON OR LATER. I just want to ask those stupid people to stop using the GOD’S WORDS IN VAIN AND GET A LIFE. I will submit other photos I got, the address provided and the emails are jp_00@inorbit.com and mridings1965@yahoo.com

    • Hi Monica
      Yes he also contacted me.
      In one of our last chats when I was just going to send a email telling him that I could not go on with “that relationship” that I had to trust my six sense and that if we were meant to be when he was home we’ll meet and see in our eyes if everything was real (it was to fast and it was like very suspicious that he was like saying “I love you” just in one month)…I went again to the internet to check his name and finally found something about him, when Jana posted his name on this site and saw all this scams.
      He never asked me for nothing not even when I told him I wanted to hear his voice, He just told me he was going to buy it on the net and tell a college that was going were he was to take it to him.
      When I found out about this I send the pics to CJ. The day after he contacted me after two days of chat silence telling me he had hard time because one of the servers went down but was ok now I gave him my letter and just told me that please don’t tell him that not a good time he was thru a lot of problems, etc, etc. but then never contacted me again.
      I saw in his skype account that he has put a kids photo …. Hope no one else gets scammed by him.
      The problem is that the photos this scammer is using does not have a name tag so the real guy can be contacted so he can see that his photos are being used.
      Don’t worry Monica, they have to pay one way or another…all falls apart sooner or later.
      Ann

      • has anyone heard of mike gales? a us army seargent in iraq. i have been ask to buy books from amazon for him, and have them sent to an apo address, with someone elses name.he will send me the money with western un ion. but he says he will want 10-12 books. all about asn.1 complete, and some about how to make millions in the stock market.he is willing to send the money first. sounds like a scam, just not sure the angle.can anyone help me withthis??

        • well, if it is an APO adress then it most likely goes overseas to a military station, BUT, he has internet access… so why wont he buy them himself. Sounds too suspicious

        • That may actually be legit. Amazon.com won’t ship certain things to APOs (my husband would have me ship it to our house then to him). If you’re sending it to an APO, it probably is getting to a military member. However, I would take the money first, and if it’s western union, that should be fine. I wouldn’t accept a check.

        • I just met Mike Gales (US Sgt.Major in Kabul)and we’ve been emailing a few times. He favored me on match.com Before going any further, I wanted to check him out. Couldn’t find him anywhere on internet except here. So I am VERY suspicious that he may not be legit.Claimed to have been hit in the leg this week by grenade.

        • I do know of him , he is a friend of mine we met on dating site long ago.. his a nice army man .. he never had asked money from me , and told me most things about his life .. And told me his engaged .. And told me about his leg , he was hit ..

        • Well, “Janet Quensie”, it’s interesting that you don’t have the best capacity to write in English, etiher, just like “Mike Gales”. I couldn’t find you on Google either. I think everyone needs to be super cautious because the scammers could be here scamming to save their reputations. In any case, if he says “his” engaged, then why is he still actively looking for women on dating sites? That’s a loser in my books.

        • Well am not trying to in a way saving his reputation. cause when we met on dating site.. he was only looking for friends, that’s what he said to me .. just that about him..
          he is a good friend of mine .
          and i believe in him ..
          as he ever asked money from you in any way .
          be honest Mary G..?
          If not why you passing judgment to someone like that.
          you should have your research done before passing false judgment ok.

        • Check the first message about “Mike Gales”. He says to one he is i Iraq, to me he’s in Kabul. He’s asked someone already to buy and send things. I didn’t wait that long before looking into it. He did not ask to be just “friends” with me. Maybe you talked to the “real” Mike Gales, but I will find out if he exists and who is really is and not just from the internet. People who are predators are the lowest of the low. How come you suddenly on this sight supporting only one person? How did you find out his name was associated with this particular site?

        • Sgt Major, Mike Gales in Kabul Afganastan is a con artist ~ I have six pictures for this website and letters.

        • From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
          Date: Mon, 30 Aug 2010 10:32:40 -0400

          Good Day love,
          I am very sorry i am just having to write you .. i was so into trying to get my self out of here and also work on the document that was all around, so i did not have time to come online to talk to you course of this.. I am glad to say i have been able to get most of the documents filed out .. I also was able to talk to my superior about my leave and there seems to be a way which i can get to have my leave. I would like us to talk online via the messenger so i can explain things to you and we can work on seeing how i can be out of here and we can both be together.. as i really miss you and want you so much in my world..


          USA ARMY

          Sgt Major. Mike Gales

          From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
          Date: Thu, 26 Aug 2010 20:06:21 -0400

          Hello sweetie.
          I am sorry i am just getting the chance to mail you.The thing is based on resent happenings we’ve been a little short on hands out here and so many of us whom are due retiring are being told that we would have to spend the rest of our service out here. This i sure am going crazy about cos God knows i don’t intend on spending more than a month more out here. I am right now trying to check out alternatives on how i can get my ass out of here. cos things are getting much worse out here as it goes..
          General David Petraeus the new commander sent in by Obama is sure making this though and tight out here for us alittle.I really wish these crazy politicians would have a feel of what its like out here then they would not go around making silly statements about US military withdrawing from Afghanistan,Iraq by mid-next year.

          You are my world and i hope you know that i am so ready to spend the rest of my world with you .. You bring joy in my world every time i read a mail from you .. the thought of having you in my arms so binds me in joy that i am short of words in how i wish to express my feelings for you right now.
          I might not be able to come online for a day more but after that i promise to get online more often as i can.. and i sure want you to always keep me up to date on how things are going with you .cos your mail carries me through.. i print out your mails to me so i can carry them around with me some times just so i can read them again over and over again.. You one thing sustaining me out here and i don’t think i could have asked for a better love than you .. you my soul mate and my heart beat so please don’t you break my heart cos i would never in anyway think of hurting you..
          I LOVE YOU
          I LOVE YOU
          I LOVE YOU
          If I could have just one wish right now,I would wish to wake up everyday to the sound of your breath on my neck,the warmth of your lips on my cheek,the touch of your fingers on my skin,and the feel of your heart beating with mine…Knowing that I could never find that feeling with anyone other than you.The words in your mails comes to me in sweet honesty and truth.I think of you each morning,And dream of you each night,I think of you being rapped in my arms and gently kissed with whisper of sweet loving words from me to you.

          I can not but wait and pray that GOD grants us that day for us to meet so i can express this feeling i got inside me for and you can do same.

          I await hearing from you my dearest heart beat.


          USA ARMY

          Sgt Major. Mike Gales

        • ivy dont send anything to him he is scamming you just like my guy did to me please stop now

  27. please can any one help me and answer my question. i have been scammed already so am very wary and need help. i have met a doctor from the states in afghanistan on a dating site, he has never asked for anything of me. i wanted to send him a card for his birthday but he said i am not allowed to is this true, he mails me every day and phoned me a couple of times , have been talking for 5 months. i just need to know the answer to this question. thanks.

    • No, this is not true and is a classic tactic of scammers. Your best bet is
      to tell him if you can’t send him a card or letter, then you are ending the
      “relationship”. If he gives you an address, make sure it’s an APO or FPO
      address.

      • CJ

        I emailed u sum pics which was sent to be by this guy who claimed he is lt timothy bills based in afghan. have u by any chance receive it n if u do cud u put it up here pls so all d ladies will be aware of it as well as the real soldiers. another guy contacted me via imesh under d name of staff sergeant james pendleton, based in pakistan but d weird thing now dat he is in nigeria. dis guy use d same pic of dat soldier on d top dis articles. Also is there a real major dunn? he is ft, blue eyes, originally from roxburgh but refusing to give more details n it was thru imesh.
        I lost sum money cos i beleieve in dis lt timothy bill n never realise den dat he is one of d many scammer from nigeria.

        so pls CJ if u receive the pics, please put dem all ere.

        Thanx

        Jazz

        • Hi, I think I am being scammed by the same man puporting to be a Michael Cindrich. Do you have any photos I could compare?
          Best regards,
          Gill

      • CJ ~ can you please write to my email address so I can update you with the six photographs…. Thank you. DJ

        From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
        Date: Wed, 18 Aug 2010 03:33:38 -0400

        I try to put this feeling into words, but fail miserably. This feeling of being both scared and at peace, of having both butterflies and a sense of calm, is a feeling that I have only dreamed about. As the days continue to pass, my love for you continues to grow. I never thought I had the capacity to love anybody as much as I love you right now. Yet, my love for you continues to mature, growing beyond the realm of my heart. It seems that you have become the fiber of my soul, the very reason for my existence.
        Each day that passes makes our love for each other grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be apart, I know there is nothing that can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing will stop me from meeting you.
        You have the greatest soul, the noblest nature, the sweetest, most loving heart I have ever known, and my love and admiration for you have increased so much since we’ve known each other that it still amazes me.


        USA ARMY

        Sgt Major. Mike Gales

        From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
        Date: Tue, 17 Aug 2010 04:31:46 -0400

        After a blissful night spent dreaming
        I write this love poem for you
        You have given my life meaning
        And I swear undying devotion to you.
        You are the air I am breathing
        Every thought in my mind
        The reason my heart is beating
        The sweetest rose on the vine.
        My passion for you has no measure
        How can I value what is beyond worth
        I only know you are my heart’s treasure
        And I’m the luckiest guy on this earth.
        My life now is so full of beauty
        You have made my living worthwhile
        And I consider it my duty
        To wake you every day with a smile..
        We are destined to be together
        And what must be must be
        Make this the first day of our forever
        And share life’s happiness with me.


        USA ARMY

        Sgt Major. Mike Gales

        • I received the exact e-mail from a scammer named KennySchultz43@yahoo.com His picture is on here several time. I don’t know if it’s the same person using several names or the scammers use the same messages.

        • Hi Dorothy J

          I remember this email address…. this email address was used by Lt.James Daniel and I still have all his email copies of everything he wrote to me ….

          cheers w.rose

        • I wish to inform that one cold for “jonathan brown” ,
          and a Diplomat named “Steven Jackson” , these are scammers

      • From: lovingsoul009@aol.com

        From: galesca86@hotmail.com

        Date: Tue, 24 Aug 2010 01:13:22 -0400

        Good morning Love,
        I write you this mail with a bitter heart as i am so hurt right now.
        Just got words from my superior saying i can not leave as we are very short of hands out here in Kabul,and so due to this i would have to stay till maybe sometime in december .Which means the leave of mine has been canceled.
        I have been trying all through since i heard this to work on it but there sure has been nothing i can do.. all i but get is we would need time to find a way to work this out.
        Baby i know in some way you sure would be disappointed about this , But i do hope you willing to hang on with me and pray i work things out here so i can be with you and you with me.
        As i know i have entrusted you with my heart for safe keeping
        Even through the night whilst sleeping

        Thoughts of you constant in my head
        Which gives solace and chases away the dread

        At every possible moment I check my mail
        To see if you’ve sent a message so my emotions can once again set sail

        On this journey of completeness that I would have with you
        All I ask is please, please be true

        If at any time you are in doubt
        Promise me this, that you will speak out

        Don’t break this heart that was once so weak but now beats so strong
        Theses emotions I have feel so right that they can’t possibly be wrong

        For you this special person I barely know
        To let my soul conjoin with yours and grow

        So like minded we are as one
        The day we met online was the moment my life had begun

        You are the morning sun on a Spring day drying the dew that was once my tears
        I in return am the colour green that makes you happy and dispels your fears.

        I but only hope you stand by me sweetie


        USA ARMY

        Sgt Major. Mike Gales

        This man was very angry on messenger when I would NOT agree to fill out forms so he could be granted leave . . . to marry.

        • cj, I have received exact emails as Dorothy J. has. I also have many photos of him. I have printed every email, he has sent me since 7/21. I met him on matchmaker.com. He also had me to go on yahoo mesenger. His scam is for me to send $4,580.00 to purchase his leave via western union. The letter of leave paper came from a Col. Susan Croakley. Thank God for western union, the person I was to send the money to, Deborah Cook, Baycity, Tx. was on their fraud list. I did not of course, send the money. His email is lovingsoul009@aol.com. His name on matchmaker was armysoul009.(Mike Gales). His name on yahoo messenger is Mike Gales009. I can send all pictures and email if you want. I want to know the real identity of this man in my photos. Thank You

        • Dear Judith ~ Sgt Major. Mike Gales is a very convincing scam artist ~ what age did he give you? He gave me his age as 59 ~ he also said his was leg was hit in combat and that his leave was cancelled.

          Did you report him to the matchmaker site? He was using date.com when writing to me.

          Do you by any chance live in South Africa?

          You may ask CJ for my email or phone number if you need to talk this through ~ and please place his letters on this site which will help other ladies Mike Gales is trying to scam ~ but he is probably going under different names by now. Dorothy J

        • Sgt Major, Mike Gales lovingsoul009@aol.com

          Loving you and having you in my world is the best thing that ever happened to me. If I could runaway I’ll run with you far away,To a place where there’ll be angels,Who’ll describe to you the way I feel,Feel for you, feel about you,My heart and my soul’s desire.

          If I could pick a day to run away I’d surely pick a Sunday,Cos the angels would be totally there at the disposal of you and me.

          The reason I need the angels to talk to you for me is that you’re my angel,So maybe you will understand the angels when they tell you how I feel.

          Baby we often find love in places we least expect,If i was told i would find my true love from the net i would find it hard to believe ,but here i am saying it to you and not ashamed or shy or scared to say it ,I do love and care about you and i want my world around you.

          Even though we have not meet yet.I know You are the right woman for me.It may sound crazy to us both at times but the truth
          remains thus we do care about each other and that we can not deny that.


          USA ARMY

          Sgt Major. Mike Gales

          A fraud and con-artist ~ he may have many differnt names by now….

      • CJ,

        I desprately need your help, I’ve got emails and pictures of a man stating he is Staff Sargent Tommy Willaim Barrera. Could you please send me your email address so you can post this on this site so no one else can be scammed by this person.

        Many thanks,
        K

    • Jane B…I have been scammed and after doing alot of research and calls and emails, yes all of the soldiers can get mail!!! As a matter of fact “they love” getting actual mail from people…I have not come across anything yet that they cannot receive anything.

      • The ONLY time a guy cannot get mail is when they first get there and whne they are about to leave and that is because they either are not set up for mail yet or they are not set up anymore. You could send it, but they may not get it during these two times

  28. hi cj,
    thanks very much i have done what you have advised me to do, i will keep you posted when i get his reply. this site is fantastic and i log in everyday to keep my self up to date on these scum. i cant thank you enough. big kiss from me.

  29. It is not easy to find them. I found the one whose pictures were used to try to scam me and have been trying to find the other ones, no luck so far, but I will keep searching. Just keep submitting your photos to the site so I have something to go on and if there is a name on the uniform let me know.

  30. I was scammed by a guy who called himself Capt Rellinger brayn clin
    capt.relinclin@yahoo.com also used following addresses ,gen.hush_bryan@ymail.com,gen.leon_ballack@rocketmail.com, found me on myyearbook.com, there are also some on shtyle.fm

    • Sylvia, Donna and CJ,
      OOPS sounds like James Rellinger’s name is being brought up again i smell a rotting fish.

      • Susan
        These guys are like vampires. When they are outed by someone they lay low for awhile only to rise again. The only difference is these are money sucking vampires instead of blood sucking ones.

        • DOnna,
          they are truly sick, and STUPID to say the least.

        • bitte sagen sie mir ob james rellinger zu den betrüger gehört meine email ist leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com

      • Yes the famous James Rellinger is at it again……he has tried to scam me as well although he doesnt know that i know who he is…

        • bitte können sie mir sagen was er von ihnen wollte.das sind alles arschlöcher.schreibe mit ihn schon so lange.er will seinen koffer senden an mich mit 3,800 us dollar.haha das ich nicht lache.bitte um antwort lg helga deniz aus wien

        • auch capt.relinclin@yahoo.com ist rellinger
          nach den fotos der gleiche wie in sgt.rellinger43@live.com why militär nichts unternehmen oder polizei.kann das nicht verstehen.
          mail: leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com

      • yes you have right. have you send money to him. i have the passport from him in copie please say me this was her to you write thanks

      • der hat aber seinen namen an der uniform.ist er ein betrüger bitte helfen sie mir

      • das ist rellinger ich habe schion geschrieben mit ihm.ein arschloch

      • I have been taken for $6700.00 and I want to know if you can confirm his mailing address, does he live in Oakland, CA or in Florida.

        I am not working and will be forced to go bankrupt as i am unable to pay all this money back. I would appreciate hearing from you. Thank you.

        Can you please email any information that you might have?

        I am inquiring about JAMES RELLINGER who was recently stationed in Bagdad. any information you have would b e greatly appreciated. Thank you.

        • I WISH TO RETRACT MY PREVIOUS STATEMENT PERTAINING TO JAMES RELLINGER. I WAS UPSET WHEN I READ THE PREVIOUS COMMENTS MADE ON THIS FORUM BY OTHER WOMEN AND JUMPED TO CONCLUSIONS.

          I WISH TO FORMALLY APOLOGIZE TO JAMES RELLINGER WHO DID NOT ASK FOR ME TO TARNISH HIS GOOD NAME, AND I SINCERELY REGRET ALL THE PAIN AND EMBARRASSMENT THAT I HAVE CAUSED HIM BECAUSE OF MY COMMENTS MADE ON SEPTEMBER 13, 2010.

          I THOUGHT THIS FORUM WAS A PLACE WHERE ONE COULD CONFIDENTIAL ASK AROUND FOR INFORMATION IF YOU WERE UNSURE OF SOMEONE, I DID NOT REALISE THAT MY COMMENTS WERE BEEN REPORTED.
          AGAIN I APOLOGIZE TO JAMES RELLINGER AND HOPE THAT HE CAN FIND IN HIS HEART TO FORGIVE ME, AS I AM SO SORRY THAT I POSTED THESE INACCURATE STATEMENTS.

        • Dear Victims,

          We are the (IC3) organisation, we are Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) and we are in partnership between the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), the National White Collar Crime Center (NW3C), and the Bureau of Justice Assistance (BJA), you can get to know more about us on our website: http://www.ic3.gov.
          We got a report about some scam that happened to you akk online, am pleased to tell you that the scammers will be arrested. Please, do get back to our Agent Arold Mike James on msn: usagovernment_military@live.com skype : ic3_agent for more investigation, as HE WILL HELP YOU GET ALL YOU HAVE LOST, and help you get you life back, by arresting this criminals..

          website: http://www.ic3.gov
          IC3 Washington Headquarters :+1-206-317-3407
          skype : ic3_agent

        • I’m approving this comment for Google search purposes and to ensure you don’t fall for this scam. The US Government, no matter what section of the government, does NOT use generic sites like Gmail, Yahoo, and Live.com for email. All OFFICIAL government emails will have the appropriate .gov suffix to their email. This “FBI” comment is a fraud and the IP links back to Ghana.

    • i would like to know if any of u have heared the name Harston miller or leslie miller

  31. Cj,JJ and all the rest,
    this is my question,
    why hasn’t any one from the Military looked into this especially if they know whats going on? you would think it would protect those serving as well as the bases they are deployed in. and maybe have done something to help, or at least try,
    Is this one of those I’ll just sweep it under the rug scenarios?
    thanks,
    Susan.

    • Hi Susan I read your post and have to say that I totally agree with you and ask also the same question as you, and probably many others have asked on this site, WHY the heck dont the government do something about protecting their guys…. looking out for their interests, making sure they arent getting scammed by lo life in these African countries…. that just sit and use a bit of technology to give them a standard of living which they cant have as they have no skills of anything… surely by now the governements of these countries should get together and try and wipe out these SCAM internet places.. and prevent them being used ASAP….. I think the time has gone on long enough with no action…. would love to hear comments from any one… thanks Susan for yours. at least someone had the Nerve to stand up and say it,,,, I am from uk but the same happens with out lads I am sure but i am not aware of any site such as this to go to. But yes its more paramount with USA soldiers…..who ever does the scams. thinks that usa guys have more to offer any lady….well Most, do seem to have a lot going for them I have to admit that myself, that it is easy to fall for one of these brave handsome guys in uniform…. so why not protect the job they do and the role they play in protecting these countries i am sure they would rather be home than in some desolate hot arid country…. best wishes to all Trisha

      • If you feel you are being scammed, go to http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx and file a complaint and let the FBI figure it out, if it is a scam. That is their job and you have to think of the safety of your family as well as yourself. In my efforts to locate the soldier in my pictures, I have been firmly told to let the FBI handle it. They probably have more information and connections to find and prosecute these scum bags better than we can. I just hope that these soldiers are made aware of the use of their photos.

        • Hi Angel, thank you for the information. Nice to know this homepage..www,ic3.gov.

      • I signed onto the WOOME site and got bombarded with USA Military men and being an educated woman I made many inquiries re: Major Mills Cole (Im assuming Cole Mills) and SFC Darryl Lopez who both sent pictures, lovely stories (or scripts) and I also spoke to Darryl Lopez just last night lovely American Man (well at least he sounded like it) then I phoned the American Embassy in Australia and was advised this is a scam and then I reported the website to ACCC in Australia – I feel awful that these soldiers are being misrepresented and believe the American Government should be doing something about it. Good Luck and hope all works will for everyone out there – take care and don’t get sucked in – Fiona

        • Hi Fiona,this is so sad. But can you please tell me is this SFC Darryl Lopez who is currently stationed in Bagdad? He said his son’s name is Jimm Darryl is born 17 Aug 1960.

          He yet didn’t give me reason to believe he is a scammer, though I do have my doubt – he is to good to be true

          Please revert back to me

        • I would like to retract my statement made about Darryl Lopez in the above comment – it appears that this is a very real solider who was upset and offended when his name was listed in this publication identifying him as a scammer

          There was never any intent to harm Darryl Lopez and I would like to again apologise for any problems this may have caused Darryl and his family or his position as a solider with the USA Military in Afghanistan.

          Thanks
          Fiona

        • Hanlie and Fiona,

          I, too have been contacted by SFC Darryl Lopez, who is currently stationed in Iraq and whose son’s name is Jimmy. In his emails and chats he also sounds too good to be true and I’ve had my doubts. Now I see that he’s been contacting quite a few of us. If he’s not a scammer, he’s certainly a serial online dater.

        • Hanlie and Fiona,

          I checked the IP address of Darryl Lopez, and it originates in Ghana!! If Darryll Lopez is a real soldier, I suspect he’s not the one writing to any of us. Fiona, can you tell us how you found he’s a real soldier?

  32. I was also scammed out of money from Charles Ramsy, I met him on the very first dating site that i ever went on, did not know a ting about the military, he and I talked for about 3 months we had even talked about getting married, he said that his wife had died from breat cancer, and he had a 8 year old son who was in military school in south carolina, but he told me that he was from dallas texas and that he also owned his deceased parents home in London, but he never wanted to go back there, he scammed me for transit money, he wanted to come here to meet me, he even sent me emails with general odiernos name signed to them, it took me meeting a real soldier to learn the truth about their procedures, and if you will go to charles ramsys profile page on windows live you will see several others that he tried to scam as well. lieutenantcharlesswansonramsy@live.com.

  33. THAT PICTURE THAT WAS BEING USED BY TOM CUTRIS IS MY FIANCEE, HE IS A MASTER STAFF SARGENT STATIONED IN IRAQ, I TOLD HIM ABOUT THIS AND HE IS VERY UPSET THAT HIS REPUTATION IS BEING RUINED BY SOME FREAKING IDIOT THAT IS TOO SORRY TO GO OUT AND DO A DECENT DAYS WORK TO EARN MONEY THE HONEST WAY, THESE SCAMMERS ARE BORN LOSERS, YOU WOULD NEVER SEE THEM OVER THERE IN THOSE GOD FORSAKEN PLACES PUTTING THEIR LIVES ON THE LINE FOR THEIR COUNTRY, THEY NEED TO BE PERSECUTED TO THE FULLEST EXTENT OF THE LAW… I ALSO FEEL VICTIMIZED AS MY FIANCEE IS A VERY IMPORTANT PART OF MY LIFE AND WHEN HE SUFFERS I SUFFER RIGHT ALONG WITH HIM…

    • Sandy,
      I am sorry to tell you, but your fiancee is a scammer. The real soldier in those pictures is a very happily married man. I have personally talked to him on the phone and he is state side right now.
      Do not fall for any more of that scammers lies. I wish you the best. JJ

      • J.J, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHOWING ME THE TRUTH, CAN YOU GIVE ME THE REAL SOLDIERS NAME IF AT ALL POSSIBLE, JUST CURIOS I GUESS,I AM SO GLAD THAT YOU CARE ENOUGH TO HAVE A SITE LIKE THIS, AGAIN THANK YOU, FOR BRINGING ME TO REALITY.

        • Sandy, I am not going to give out his real name. I am going torespect his right to privacy. I only contacted him one time and it was to let him know what was going on. Once we find the real soldier and let them know I think it is only right that we leave them alone unless they want farther contact. I would be honored if any of them that has been the victims of these terrible scams would like to be friends.
          Sandy if you would like someone to talk to I can be reached on yahoo. cajanet43@yahoo.com

        • jj, i know that you have to to respect their privacy, and that is a great thing, all i wanted was a first name, i would never think of bothering him and his family, they have suffered enough already from this stipidity, i guess just for the sake of closure for myself i just wanted a first name, but i understand where you are coming from, thanks anyway

        • Sandy his first name is Tom. I hope that helps you.

    • just wanted to add that there is no such thing as a “Master Staff Sergeant”…

    • I am in the United States Air Force and there is no such thing as a Master Staff Sergeant. It is either a Master or a Staff

  34. I wish I would have found this site sooner. It would have saved me a lot of money and heartache. I’m from Canada and am the victim of the scammer going by the name of Robert Haggard. I met him on the online dating website Match.com. This is the first time I used a online dating service and was a little wary about it but decided to give it a shot(Should have stuck with my first instinct). I would talk to “Robert” everyday for hours and things seemed to going along pretty good. While we were chatting he would send such sweet little messages and he would also send me such beautiful emails. He was a real sweet talker and I thought to myself “this guy is too good to be real” and I was right. I received an email supposedly from his son, Micheal, wishing me a Happy Mother’s Day( “Robert” had told me that he and his son have not seen or heard from Micheal’s mother in 5 years). After talking with “Robert” on MSN for quite some time, he wants to send me a package that contains documents, a female army uniform with my name on it(which he said he had made especially for me, he said in the military one can make a special uniform for his love or kids. I don’t know if that is true or not but find highly unlikely), a chain, a ring for me and funds that he had received from a King in Iraq after rescuing his daughter. Right away I did not feel right about the whole thing and told him I could not do what he asked of me. He got angry and did not talk to me for a couple of days. When he did start talking to me again, he made me feel guilty for not trusting him like he trusted me in sending me this package. So being the kind hearted person that I am(too kind for my own good) I decided to help him out even though I did not feel right about it. I had a many sleepless nights worrying about this damn package. It was to be delivered by a diplomat from Iraq, who would go through 2-3 countries with low security before he reaches me. So when the diplomat reaches Ghana, he has not enough funds to pay customs, he needs $2400.00. Again I tell “Robert” sorry I cannot help him and do not have that kind of money. Again he plays the guilt trip on me and sweet talks me till I agree again to help him. The next day I receive an email from the diplomat saying the customs office is closed and that he will have to wait till the next day to pick up the package. So that evening I did some searching on the internet and came across this website and was shocked when I came across the pictures of “Robert” Haggard and the same storyline(with a few minor changes) that he had emailed me when we first met on Match. I had googled Robert Haggard before but came up with nothing really helpful(it was before May 13 when this website was last updated). But this time I put in Staff Sergeant Robert Haggard and it lead me to this website. So I knew I had been scammed and was quite upset because I had really fallen for this guy. The next morning I received another email from the diplomat saying that it is an African Union Day and that they will not be working at customs but that he did talk to the manager and he said he would help him out the next day but he would need to pay him $700.00. The diplomat also told me that he would also need $226.00 to pay for his accommodations and food services. Well knowing that this is nothing but a total scam, you can guess what I told him and where to go. I can’t believe how stupid, gullible, naive, you name it, I was.
    So for everybody out there, go with your first instinct, if it doesn’t feel right than it probably isn’t.
    What upsets me the most is how these people are playing with other peoples lives and also getting away with it. These soldiers are out there putting their lives on the line everyday for these scum sucking scammers and this is the respect they receive. It just isn’t right and something needs to be done!

    • I had exactly the same scam pulled on me, the name was just different… Mst Sgt Ivan Nobile.

      • Gees this Ivan Nobile really got aroud. Its time Match.com was removed from the Internet. The only contacts I ever made were with scammers. Never from normal honest people. Its was easy to recognise them. All the stories the same!!

        • Aileen,

          I met my husband on match.com. don’t give up

      • Sgt Ivan Nobile is also using the name Sgt Kelvin Nobile. I posted it at Stop the US Army Dating Scam on Facebook. I believe his user name is there as well along with his email address.

        • Sgt. Ivan Nobile is also using Lieut. Corp. Kelvin Adam. he claims to have been in the army for 15 years, a widow for three years,and has a 9 year old son and he is 43 years old. He claims to have grown up in Italy and lives now in San Antonio, Texas, but currently stationed in Africa. He even sent me pictures of himself and a little boy that he says is his son.He is on Cupid.com as kelvdam. And his email is kelvdam@yahoo.com.When asked for his APO address he told me it was banned and not allowed and that it was not like that every where.Wanted to talk on the phone and it would cost me $200 that was refundable. I checked out the site for Ts2 because that is what was on the paper to set up the call profile and it says on there under fraud alert that it is a scam. So glad I listened to the voice that kept telling me something was not right. I also had a friend of mine contact a friend who is retired from the army and he found him on this site and sent it to her so she could give it to me. Glad this site is available thanks guys for starting it.

    • with a few minor changes here and there, I have gone through the same thing with someone by the name of _JAMES RELLINGER, and I have been scammed out of $6700.00, and i am not working. I may have to go bankrupt.

      Can you please email me as I need to get additional information? I don’t even have his complete mailing address. He said he lives in Oakland, CA yet when i googled him it shows him living in Florida.

      I intend to not let him get away with this, I intend to prosecute and any additional information, etc. would greatly be appreciated. Thank you.

    • I would like to join your club…I just got the same scam from TSg Mac Anthony Wood (Air Force) Have been talking for a couple of months. He went on a mission, came back and sent me copies of some “official” documents commending him for his work saving the son of a sheik. The next thing I know he wants to send me a package the he received as a reward for a job well done. Fortunately, I have not sent anything to him. Just waiting for him to come “home” in six weeks–not waiting anymore!

      I thought I was being careful, used a reputable site, talked with friends who have military backgrounds, asked questions, etc. Confirmed everything as much as I could. Everything checked out until I found out how to check the IP address….Ghana. That was the give away. I confronted him about it and he says he doesn’t know what I am talking about. I don’t expect to hear from him again.

      The thing that makes me so mad is that some poor soldier is having his identity used and may not even be aware of it. If they can use this stuff, what else do they have access to? And why doesn’t our government do something to protect our military from these creeps????

      • I believe I’m being scammed by someone who calls himself Sgt.Marco Anthony. Mac for short. He hasn’t asked me for money but he wants to send packages to my home and he gave my email address to a shipping company. The shipping company wants my mailing address and phone number! I’m not giving them anything. I’m very upset with this.

    • I just found out that Haggard was pulling the same thing on me. He asked if I would accept some jewels given to him by an old woman so that he would take her grandchildren and raise them. When I said no he stopped talking to me for a few days the appologized. Luckly for me I have a friend that told me about this site so I didn’t get too caught up in him.

    • when i met him on-line at benaughty.com he called himself Emmanaual Haggard and used the same military academy story. we talked for hours and days on end. father died and left him his business in precious gems. yea right! the guy supposedly went to Ghana to finalize everything and his briefcase with all the important documents were left in the cab and he needed $3,000.00 for expenses, etc. Needless to say, this guy almost had me hook, line and sinker. Good thing momma didn’t raise no dummy. The pain in the heart sure hurt like hell and the humiliation of it all was pretty bad but at least he didn’t get any money out of me.

    • I recently met this soldier on Cupid thru Facebook , he goes by the name Dawson Haggard Olmstead. He is in Afghansitan and has a son named Chrstiian. He is the man in the pictures in this article i have every picture and a few others. He has not asked for anything yet but like all the others he will. He is full of BS and really does a good job at getting you to trust him. I have not heard from him today , so i dont know what to say to him.
      How come Cupid and all the other sites dont have this article???? If the wall of shame was on each site it would stop these scammers…

    • I have been dating Sgt Chris Haggard AKA Sgt Robert Haggard for the past month. Your story is so funny because that is the same story line that he fed me about the diplomat sending me a package and he was stranded in Ghana until i send him $2300.00. There were a few diviations in his story. He has a 13 year old daughter that lives in London with her uncle. Her name is Mavis and she is bi racial. Mavis emailed me and needed 300 lbs to help with her schooling. Of course I did not send it. I know better. Chris was so sweet always professing his love for me and wanted to marry me when he arrives here in Nov or Dec. He even had me looking for a home for all of us to live in, but after I found the home, he could not get the money because his money was tied up in the US and he didn’t have access to it. He claimed to be in Kabul Afghanistan and after 32 years is retiring. Oh, he never called the real estate agent. That made me look like a fool, but at least he didn’t get any money. His last ploy was that he found gold and diamonds while on a mission and wanted to send it to me so that it would be safe. I played along waiting for him to ask me for money and finally this week the diplomat that was delivering the package to me emailed me and said that he was stranded in Ghana and needed the 2300.00 to pay custom and duty fees and then he would be on to me. Chris became very angry with me and tried to make me feel guilty about not sending the money, but he don’t know me well. You see I lived with a con artist and married him, so I know con when I see it. I allowed him to think that I was really trying to get the money all the while looking for information on him. I even had him checked out by one of my friends in the military and there was no such person. Finally i gave the diplomat my number and told him to call me. Unbelivebly he did call me several times so I traced the number to find out that it was from Ghana. Today I told him that i was going to sell my truck to get him the money, but I was only stalling for time. I knew that if i kept searching I would find out something on this person and low and behold, I googeled his name in and it led me to a cnn website, which led me to this website and there I say his picture with the same story line except for a few deviations like i said earlier. Tonight when I talked to him on Yahoo messegner I had already sent him an email letting him know that I knew that he was a scam artist and he read it and became very upset and asked me what the fuck. I told him I know that you are not who you say that you are and that you are a scam artist. He told me well i just need to let him go and I let him go, so i say bye and disconnected from him. My ex husband was the greatest con artist that I know and he is in prison now. He educated me very well on scams and cons because he scammed me into marrying him. Now that I know i really want to educate other lonely women not to be taken by these predators. Don’t ever give money to people that you meet on a website especially to someone that you have never met. It is just a scam.

    • Im sickend, and worried that the pictures that I have sent of myself to one of these evil Nigerians,or Africans that scammed me emotionally used THOMAS HAGGARD as Sgt E6 from Baghdad IRAQ.. Thankfully no money was exchanged, however I had confided in him about my personal details, ie, single-mum, on benefits, family life in general, and a few other things, but nothing giving my address other than London!.. Can they use this and hurt me, Im afraid as they are so evil and cunning, even dangerous!..I met this Cheat on Tagged as Honesty T, then he quickly removed himself and then we shared both my Yahoo, and MSN windows live account, Iv deleted him, but can he do any harm to financially through this?.. The email add he used thomaslove72@yahoo.com and thomas-4u@live.com… He says he is 54, D.O.B Nov 8th 1956,1 son named Peter 12yrs who is presently been cared for by caretaker friend in West Africa. His home town New York City?… I despise them all that do these things, and Im very angry and hurt,because I deserve only the best,but never recieve it, even when I try!..

      • Joanne, don’t be afraid. I am still alive and nothing happened to me. I was threatned by a supposely associate of Haggard, who threatned to kill me and my family, but I told him that I had turned him over to the FBI, and then he wrote emailed me back to say that he was working for the FBI which I knew was a bluff. When I told him that I knew that he was not with the FBI because they would not threaten my life and that of my family, and advised him that if he knew what was good for him then he would not contact me again and he stopped. So don’t be afraid.

  35. Debbie,
    Do not be so hard on yourself, I too was fooled for a little while until I started putting pieces together, I finally got the whole picture when I had googled and came across with this website. Thanks to CJ we are made aware of what is going on. Yes you are right they do know how to use very sweet words and right away they say “I LOVE YOU.” I have all of the emails from the pond scum that used to write to me I will not delete them just in case they can be used in the near future, it is very easy to fall for it. Take care and try not to beat yourself senseless, I know that it will not be easy to let go for I too was falling for the rat.

    • Thanks so much Laura
      I have also saved all the emails that I received, hoping someday that they will be helpful. I had couple of hard days but I realized that the person who had hurt me doesn’t even come close to being like the soldier in the pictures. He is nothing but a worthless piece of @#$% and isn’t worth a single teardrop. Someday he will get what he deserves.

      • Debbie you are very welcome :) just hang in there things will get easier just don’t pound yourself over it is not worth it, just be strong like a soldier and keep going forward. The %#@!& had the nerve to sent me an email today still demanding for me to send $100.00 USD. Of course I stood on my ground and I said “HECK NO you have your own account so deal with your own money”. It felt great, of course he kept harping about but I did not listen to a word he said for I just simply clicked him off from my yahoo messenger (LOL) he noticed that I was online at the time I was reading my emails. So keep smiling and keep strong.

  36. CJ,
    I received new pictures from Sfc James Thompson Ramos I will send them to you. Thank you for all that you are doing God bless you and take care.

  37. I was just curious but how do you find out what someone’s IP address is???

    • Hi Carolyn

      At the top of the email in the header bar there should be something that says open full header or some such. If you clikc on that it will give you a complete list of computer speak with loads of numbers in square brackets. Go to the end of all the blurb to the last “Received” entry and copy the numbers in the square brackets. You can then copy these into an IP tracker site (I found a great one called aruljohn.com) and it will show you where the email originated from. This site also gives you tips on how to track an IP address, it’s brilliant. You have to make sure you use the last set of figures marked “received” otherwise it will show somewhere like Sunnyvale, CA. Good luck!

      • Thanks I tried to figure that out before with the IP address & have just found out now from the snippit above and OMG the scammer is from Ghana – loving this website

        • Fiona, which scammer are you referring to? What’s his name?

        • Fiona,

          In a post above, you retracted your claim that a soldier named Darryl Lopez is a scammer. However, as he had been emailing me, I checked his IP address, and it shows as coming from Ghana!

          What made you retract Darryl Lopez’s name as a scammer? Can you give me more information? He has been writing me for a few weeks now, and I’ve had my suspicions, so I really need to know how you discovered that there was a real Darryl Lopez, and if he’s the one writing me.

          CJ, any way of finding it if this is the real soldier? I have several pictures.

        • Hi to all these wonderful women who have placed a comment on my section – I retracted this statement about Darryl Lopez under pressure from this person and after further investigation and insight into the matter this person who names himself as Darryl Lopez under sfc_darryl6060@yahoo.com and darryl1683@yahoo.com via the WOOME Site is certainly a scammer, if you confront him he will back down and the one thing you need to ask him is for his military email address which I assure you he will not have nor give (thank you CJ for the direction on that one). So I apologise for any confusion that I may have caused but guard your hearts my women friends as this person is not who he says he is

          Once again thank you so much to CJ & Janet for their help on this person.

          Take care and remember if it is to good to be TRUE then it IS…

      • Hi Caroline,

        I don’t see any such thing on the email I want to check. Which section are you referring to as the “Header bar”?

        • Never mind. Found it.

    • Use a e-mail tracking program there are many out there offering free trials
      http://www.didtheyreadit.com
      http://www.readnotify.com
      http://www.nesox.com/en/service.asp

      just type in free trial e-mail tracking so many ways to find out the truth

  38. Hi everyone. Just thought I would let you know, and especially anyone on here who lives in the UK, that these b******s are now using ordinary civilians in their evil schemes. In the last three days, I have been chatting to 3 guys who contacted me through DatingDirect.co.uk who all turned out to be scammers. One guy went by the name of Karl and said he lived in Bristol. He sent me a message with some photos saying exactly word for word a message I had had from an earlier conversation with someone called Perry who was pretending to be from Wembley, but currently working in New York and ran his own farm machinery company! How dumb can you get?? Perry claimed he was the CEO of his own company, and had been running it for three years. When I asked if the company had a website, he told me it was under construction (very convenient). Needless to say I kicked the other guy Karl right into touch, and reported him to the website, and told Perry in no uncertain terms where to get off! Currently, I am chatting to someone called Rico Murillo who unfortunately has removed his profile from the website as he says too many women think he is a model and only want one night stands with him. I must admit he is gorgeous (at least the photos I was sent show a real hunk, I know it’s not the real guy!). He looks to be Spanish or something but he has avoided answering simple questions like where does he originate from. He said on his profile he was a writer – what sort of writer? He also told me he has a 4 year old daughter who lives with her junkie mother (who is Scottish in origin) in Romania, who he gets to see once or twice a month. I have seen photos of him and his daughter and I have asked him how he can manage to see her that often but have not had a reply as yet. He now says he thinks it would be good if we could talk over the phone but is leaving it up to me as to when I feel ready for that – WHEN HELL FREEZES OVER!!!! I will enjoy stringing him along for a while longer yet. By the way, the other two guys were called Perry Larry (!) (email address careyunderwoodlove@hotmail.com) and Karl Khodes (email address khodes_525@hotmail.com).

    I know these guys aren’t using military personnel for their tricks CJ, but I don’t know of anywhere in the UK to post these things. Hope you don’t mind me trying to get the message to any other UK girls out there who read this blog. Keep up the good work. Some day these creeps will get their come uppance!

    • Hi Kay
      I too am chatting to Rico – got a little further than you on his past – says he lives in Gloucester and has done for last 8yrs, before that Wrotham Park, Herts. Says his mother is Nigerian (alarm bells started ringing…lol)and his dad was a Spaniard. Says he was born in Cadiz, went to college in South Africa and Uni at the Uni of Toulouse while living with his aunt in Paris. Apparently he writes on politics and have some indepth emails on this – i would fill this page……lol what started me getting suspious is that he is a writer and his command of the english langage is not quite right. I too couldnt find anywhere else apart from this site so sorry its not military related but was relevant for kay and vice versa for me

  39. Hi, and thank you for this website. I at least know I have sisters-in-pain. I just posted the following on the blog site (why are there two?), and wanted to post it here, too, since part of it refers to that gorgeous Robert/William/Bill/Mike HAGGARD. I have a little more information I could add, but I would be monopolizing space. Here goes:
    Greetings from a Comrade in Arms. I have been reading your posts and decided I should entertain you with some of my “war” stories. I am a 68 year old woman and won’t go into my reasons for being on dating sites. My first encounter was with a SSG Mike HAGGARD, who was in Afghanistan near Kabul. Had been in the army “all his life”. Somehow I knew from the beginning it was a scam, but got caught up in the sweet talk and his gorgeous smile. I fell for him. I have been married to a man who spent 26 yrs in military so I saw “Mike’s” errors right away, but denied it to myself. Cut to the chase… Finally decided to play. Told him I had a relative at the Pentagon who could help him…Uncle Joe…a Colonel with lots of pull. Everytime I mentioned Uncle Joe, SGT HAGGARD went ballistic. I did waste $200 just because I was curious. Even when I knew he wasn’t real, I felt a deep sense of loss and cried for days. Oh, he had a son, Cecil, who lived with relatives here and there. I did get the satisfaction of telling him he was a TERRIBLE father. The last straw was his asking me to send money so the son could have medicine. Someone forgot to do his homework and didn’t know military dependants get free medical. duh.
    Well, after that, there was MARK COLE, an electrical engineer, who went to Nigeria on business and was mugged and beaten…needed $1000 for surgery. Then (4-star) General George W Casey…yep, US Army Chief of Staff (such audacity), then Gen. Randy Brooks…funny thing, Generals Casey and Brooks had exactly the same dream about seeing me on a pier…blah, blah. They are all Christians (choke, choke) so I witness to them. At the end, when I turned the tables, Brooks was penitent and claimed he had just been “born again”. The latest, a Jack Jordan, who inspected orphanages in Ghana (uh huh) didn’t get to the “I love you” stage. I ran out of time to waste. After I told him, among other things, that he was lower than whale crap and that was at the bottom of the ocean, and that I hoped he had a lot of time when he stood in judgement because God was going to read the list of innocent people he had scammed, he responded, “I am a Scammer.”
    Now I’m on the hunt. I can spot them fairly quickly…now I AM THE ONE who can make up a really delightful life history, friends in high places, lots of money, totally IN LOVE, til I get bored and send them on a trip through shame and stupidity. I’m so busy being vindictive that I don’t have time to want a man. If we all gang up on them, maybe they will quit.
    I am just amazed at how widespread this is. I thought it was just a few, but…wow. They’re everywhere. So come on friends, let’s go get ‘em….it can be fun.

    • Carol,
      Too Funny, I laughed my head off – you made my day I could just hear my scammer going balistic.

      Your right who has time for a relationship when you have a scammer.

    • Hell yea, I’m game. What do we do, lets get this show on the road.

    • OMG I am lovin it…Can’t wait to try it out!!! Look out scum bags, us women are gonna take back our lives!!!!

      • funny, I was thinking of doing the same thing…then I read Carols story and have decided that, hell ya I’m going to do payback. My story is at the bottom, dated aug 7th. I am sitting online right now waiting for Joe so I can play along…..this will be much more fun that dating! hehehe

        • your joe wouldnt be joe gregory would it .. ta kimmy ..

    • hello Carol,
      could you please send me pictures if you do have some of Robert as now maybe changing is name by now as now chatting with SGT Haggard could send me at: valpolicella@ymail.com
      thank you for your reply
      julie

      • He is now going by Haggard William Moore. I just caught on today.

      • now going by chris haggard

        • I have met haggard he was peter on badoo and he was on badoo and he sent me lots of poems and told me he loved me and wanted to marry me there was a lot more happening but eventually we went on yahoo as baabana lilino and he was still serious but I said it was very risky as I did not know him enough he said I must hate him and he said I was the one he had chosen and he retired in two weeks and he wanted to send a package with his money ahead then come over to join me with his son of ten years I said what was his real name he said haggard peter logan but he said I was wasting his time but he said he wanted to see me on video cam but I could not see him as they weremt allowed to but then for the first time he came out with a rude sexual remark that he wanted me to do so I said I am disapointed in him and went a friend told me about this sight I was rather shocked I am worried because he had my telephone number and my yahoo email also someone has been trying to get onto my facebook so they asked me to change my password

        • Now going by Robert Haggard says he isin Miami Florida

        • now Emmanuel Haggard

        • Ya he has been going by Chris Haggard for a long time. I had talked to him probley over a year ago. He said he was a doctor.

    • can you send a photo of this guy mike haggard please,

      • He is now going by Haggard Miller. He says he has a son that left the bay area and went to South Africa in the last few days. He even had his son email me, which I now know was the same person acting as both he and his son. He said he needed $3000 for medical attention, his son had been hit by a car. My gut instinct told me to second guess this for more than 1 reason. He immediately asked me to sign off Match and only speak with him. His grammar and spelling lacked a real Sargent’s abilities. He was talking constantly of having to sign of to go to the “Battle Field” then telling me bombs had gone off and there were multiple casualties. The big thing was he wanted me to use my web cam and he said they could not have any pictures, or cameras etc. he had no access to funds for an emergency you name it, it smelled.

    • Carol your comment is hilarious. I was dating Sgt. Haggard and it ended tonight when i let him know that i was on to him and emailed him with this website and the picture that he sent to me. I have turned him over to the proper authorities and I hope that he is caught soon. He is now going by the name of Chris Haggard, but now he has a daughter named Mavis who is 13. She tried to get me to send her 300 lbs to the United Kingdom, but I didn’t do it. Here is his new email address: haggardchris26@yahoo.com
      mavishaggard@yahoo.com and the diplomate that he pretend to be is Williams Debrah at wwdmmdiplomat88@gmail.com. By the way I did get to talk to the diplomat a few times. He has a sexy nice voice, but this scammer will be caught and arrested. Good ridance!!!!!

  40. I am so happy to reoport that my scammer finaly gave up (HOORAYYY) it feels great to be able to go online and not seeing him trying to contact me, I just gained my freedom to be able to be in contact with the rest of the world without been harazed for money and the fake “I LOVE YOU”. Let’s continue exposing the scum sucking b%$#@@! ladies we got the power to either fight them or been victimized the choice is yours. So let’s pull together and beat them to the ground.

  41. i was contacted by a so called american army capt we spoke for months by email and messenger i had a few doubts as sometimes his english was not too good he said he was in kabul then after 5 months he asked if i could except some cheques for him i said no and then checked everything out my concern is he seemed to know far to much about the army serving in afghan and what their doing he even went “away” at appropriate times for things to appear on the news how much hacking are they doing ? not just to try and get money from people and scam them but what else are they up to i think the forces may need to take a look into it all it seems that if they can obtain serving forces id and personel detailit,s all a bit dangerous from a security point of view . and when i told the scammer i knew what he was up to he was very abusive !

    • I agree with you Julie. The “Major” I was talking too told me that their base had been attacked and some of his buddies were killed. This was right after a base really was attacked. At the very least these people are keeping up with the news. From what I have seen of these scammers they only do what will pay them. They don’t do anything that doesn’t bring in money. I feel the government should look closer at these scammers.I doubt if scamming women on dating sites is the only thing they are doing.

      • there must be some way of finding out if they are useing the id,s of the real soldiers and what they are up to lets face it if they can get all this info and care so little about how they use it whats to stop them selling it to anybody and that could be dangerous for the families and the serving forces who would be able to id the names and photos we have???

    • hi im talking to a capt in afghanistan in kubul .. just wondering if you heard anyone by the name of joe gregory ………. thanks kimmy pls help me xx

  42. jj thank you for giving me that soldiers first name, it heped alot, because the guy that i am in touch with that is using his photos calls himself, Steve Endelton, have you heard that name before? his email address is steve_endleton1@yahoo.com. will you see if you can find out anything at all with that name, thank you so much, you have been a help and a blessing, if you would like to contact me, my email address is sandys81@hotmail.com please do not publish my email address….

  43. Well ladies I have finally put to rest my negative experience with the scammer that I was tlaking to, I am finally able to move on for there is no reason for me to keep beating myself senseless. At least all I lost was my heart and nothing else, one thing for certain this was a hard but great lesson to learn for I am walking away wiser.
    From time to time I will stop by to say hello and to see how’s every one doing, please take very good care of yourselfs fo I know that Mr. Right is out there waiting so do not give up hope and do not allow for any one to try to trick you.
    CJ thank you for all of your help on our last email you helped me to bring closure and to be able to walk away wiser, CJ keep up the great work for it is fantastic.
    I say good bye for now, once in a while I will stop by to say hi. God bless you all.

  44. I had joined Match.com. Only to get a person stating that his name is Steve Endleton. email address steve_endleton1@yahoo.com.
    He is also on facebook. He is not whom he claims to be: When I spoke to him by web cam, his photo would not show and his english sounds like a foreigner. Here is a sample of his email:HELLO PEGGY,you sound sooo sweet but all the same i can tell you more bout my self as you do the same.I am master Sergeant steve Endleton, age 55. i am now station in Iraq, since March 28, 2007.
    I was assigned to the 782nd Brigade Support Battalion, 4th Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne Division. I played several sport in including tennis,i loved to cook, and acted in plays. Prior to joining the military i held several jobs to include,natural minerals(gold and diamond)in which i have share in my with my associates .I joined the Army in September 1990, completed my basic and advanced training at Fort Jackson, South Carolina, and the Basic Airborne Course at Fort Benning, Georgia.i was assigned to the 82nd Airborne Division in April 1993.I have been in the military for twenty years and had two tours of Iraq and Afghanistan.
    my awards and decorations include the Meritorious Service Medal, the Army Commendation Medal with two oak leaf clusters, the Army Good Conduct Medal, the National Defense Service Medal, the Afghanistan Campaign Medal, the Iraqi Campaign Medal, the Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, the Army Service Ribbon, the Overseas Ribbon, the NATO Medal, the Combat Action Badge, the Parachutist’s Badge, and the Driver’s/Mechanic Badge.
    peggy we can be great friends if only you want cos my heart is open for you as a perfect match,i will send you my pics if you like it very much.i wish you do the same ok but with the messenger you have to know how it works ok please so we can have a sweet lovely chat always ok. see you soon with love .

    • Peggy,

      Did you see the pictures above? I think you will recognize some of them.

  45. Does anyone know about Hannett

    • I have been scammed by Dicson Leonado Hannett. Let’s chat

      • Just got one from Robert_hannett1960 thru match.com. Funny thing he is no longer on site.

  46. i have been talking to someone who claims to be a sfc james thomas rammo in iraq and has been there 10 mths want me to send him 100 dollars i knew it wasnt right and he was from ney york is there such a person is he real and could this be him he said his wife died and he has a 10 year old son could you plz let me know

  47. Hi Dawn, yes I know Hannett. He goes by Dicson Leonado Hannett. His email is dicson_hannett@yahoo.com. He is a scammer, please be very very careful. He has been talking to me on messenger. Stating he loves me and wants to come to Canada and marry me. He states he lives in UK and his mom is from UK and dad is from USA. He hasn’t asked for money yet. Please be careful as I was scammed by a man stating to be in the military by the name of Perez Young. Both these men are lurking on match.com.

    • I have also been in touch with Dicson Leonado Hannett. I was scammed before I found this site. I will forward pics if needed.

  48. Dawn, if you have any photos please forward them to me if you don’t mind at paulinepmo@hotmail.com so i can compare and i will let you know. Thanks.

    • I have pics of him…and he can be found on Facebook as Robert Hannett, Michael Hannett and Captainn Hannett – not a typo on my part. He found me on Match.com.

      • Hello, im curious to know if this Captain Hannett first name is Henry Thierry. Can u please send me the pics of him as well so I can compare. Thanks

  49. Has anyone heard of a man saying he is CPO Graves stationed in Iraq?

    • Oh, ya what con artist…reported the piece of crap to everyone I can think of lol…..

  50. has anyone been contacted by s Lt Kirk Zeccini his email is kirkarmyheart@yahoo.com please need to know if he is a scammer no I have not sent any money nor do I intend to but after reading all these stories how do you know if this guy is legit, h say’s he is in Afghanistan
    and is wanting transit leave I know all the rules no money is required to be paid and an outside person cannot obtain or ask for leave for a duty officer do I have all the details correct please let me know thank you does anyone have a copy of papers that may be sent requesting leave etc

    • Laura
      One sure way to know for sure is to check his ip address. If you do not know how to do this ask CJ for my email address and I will take you through how to do it step by step. Be careful and good luck.

    • Hi Laura,
      Check out this on facebook:
      http://www.facebook.com/kirk.zecchini
      Is this the REAL guy?
      Carol

      • Carol, it probably is the real man, maybe you could get CJ to contact him to check.I feel sorry for the real soldiers and their families and friends who have become caught up in all this. Take care, Marlene.

      • Thank you Carol, to answer your question no that is not the same man. Thank you again for helping me. Take care.

        • Regarding a reply that was posted by a Laura regarding an officer in afghanistan requesting transit leave Kirk Zecchini I did not ask this question as I have no need to I have just found this site as someone pointed out that I had posted a requested also my photo was used As my msn hotmail account has been violated somehow I am now looking to change my msn password as this has happned before. Please CJ I would like that post of my photo deleted as soon as possible. Also I have had to change my security on facebook as my email address had been able to be viewed by all Thank you Laura P B

    • Nice try.

    • Hi Laura,

      I too have been contacted by Lt. Col Kirk Zecchini on the dating site match.com. He was very sweet and genuine until I started doing some research based on my gut feelings. Found his fb page and questioned him on what i found, family and kids. After his original statement was that he was never married and had no kids. He sent me flowers twice….(not my real address). However what got me really cautious was when he was just so anxious to come see and after what he said was 27 years in the army and never applied for leave was a total crap to me. He was very persistent in me sending a request to an email address he sent me. I am so happpy I found this site before i did. Thank you guys…all i have now is a broken heart and two bouquet of dried flowers. O I do have a few pics he sent me and yes it is the same person on the fb page Carol forwarded

  51. If he is hinting about needing money for leave, he is a scammer.If you get photos then send them in here to CJ. Be careful Laura.

    • Thank you Marlene, I do not chat any more online with the scammer, I sent all of the pictures to CJ Iwill be careful.

  52. Hi all

    Just to let u all know the pics rite near d top under name tom curtis, well, he is called james pendellton, he said he is serving in Pakistan and from texas, a widower with a son called harry. He asked me to send him money so he could apply for vacation but i didnt send him any not after what happened with this guy who called himself lt timothy bills n i e mail the pics to cj so hopefully the real guys knbows that they been used to scammed women.

    • He is now going by the name steve endlton, just to let others know, in case of contact.

      • Add Steve Marconi to the list of names being used with this set of photos.

      • He probably goes by many names. He sent me those pictures yesterday under the name Tom H. Curtis. Contacted me via Chemistry.com. I picked him out as a fake right away because his grammar was so poor. I tried to report him to Chemistry, but he’s already withdrawn his profile. On another site, it said his IP address was out of Nigeria.

    • Hey,
      Just wanted you all to know James Pendleton-Tom curtis is now going by Davis Pendleton his email is davispendleton@yahoo.com. I have pictures of him, some are the same as on the wall of shame. thanks CJ for having them up there before I got scammed.

  53. I have been scammed by a Sgt Mark Donnelly supposed to be serving in afghanistan, i sent nearly £2,000 for ts2 phone connection and a vacational visit, i have photo’s where do i send them too

    • Helen
      I also have been talking to sgt, mark donnelly He is a scammer. He told me he was in Iraq. Has he sent you a pic where he is in uniform staring into space with his hand under his chin. He loved to send me poetry and has a daughter named Laura. He ask me for the same things as you. Send your pix to Cj. I tracked his ip address to Nigeria. If would like to compare notes ask CJ for my email address. WE talked for 6 months. He is quite the charmer.

  54. OMG! Just today on lavalife another scammer. He goes by the name Jeff Lingo. Started off by telling me that he lost his wife and his son Sebastian is only 10. I just got rid of a scammer by the name of Michael England. His email is heath.11@live.com. His story was very similar so I could basically pick out this scammer from miles away!!!! I told him to get lost…be careful ladies!! Alot of these guys claiming to be military are actually Nigerians!!!

  55. what about a Craig Henry

  56. Hi,

    I think ive, been luck and stopped SGT John Mateo, frpm the US Army, based in Basra. Meet him through eharmony, chatted for 2 mths, when said he wanted to relocate to the UK, then he told me his daughter who lives with his ex mother in law, because hes a wife died, was in hospital. and he didnt have nayway to pay the hospital bill. When i informed him i didnt have and spare cash, he went quiet for a few days, then he told me the only way he could get leave was for me to send cash to his mother in law so she could pay the Army… he told me this would cost £1400. I told him i didnt have that kind of money, he got pushy. so i checked his ip address and it came back as Lagos. When i asked him, he told me to find another man.. i have photos which he is using..i hope this helps others…

  57. anyone heard of a captain robert wilson???from indiana

  58. donna
    yes same pics sent and has daughter Laura in Colorado, apparently he has been injured in afghanistan in the past week and needs me to send more money so he can come home to me

  59. CJ
    could you please e-mail me donna’s e-mail address we have lots to discuss about Sgt Mark Donnelly

  60. donna
    He got me good and proper 18months we have been chatting

  61. Lady’s the scammers have moved to using US marines pictures. Be careful and stay safe.

    • yes, regarding the scammers using marines pictures…i have been chatting with a sgt. John dooley usmc for about 3 months now. hes in kabul. has anyone heard of him as being a scammer? i pray hes is not , but like all the others, there are days his english is excellent, then there are days its not. like its more than one person depending on the time of day. when he comes online in the wee hours in us time like 2-3am est, he has good english, uses the hearts background on messanger, like it really might be him, then when he comes online around 4-6pm est, wee hours of the am in kabul, his english is way different, so is the font, no background. sometimes dosent remember something from on of my early hour messages on yahoo messanger.
      has anyone heard of him? if so please please let me know its so confusing having what seems to be a marine at one time of day and not the other time of day. am desperate to know the truth.

  62. Donna
    you can e-mail me at helen1367@live.co.uk

  63. Hi ladies, from time to time I still hear from the scammer that goes by name of Sfc James Thompson Ramos, his emails do not have the effect of all the lovely words like it used to, the charming and sweetness is gone for good. Any more I just delete his emails there is no sense to save them since I do not have any use for them. Keep strong every one and keep safe.

  64. Well everyone,

    Wow, I guess I have been living in a box if I haven’t heard about any of this. If any of you are wondering about things you can do to “check” on whether these might be scams or not.

    1. Look at the Rank in the picture. Google it see if it matches with what they are saying.
    2. If they talk about being in a certain unit, google that, find out if it even exists.
    3. There is NO reason that any soldier needs to ask for money.
    4. ALL soldiers are allowed to send and recieve mail. In some instances it may be hard to make a phone call or use the internet, but those are VERY rare.
    5. again there is NO reason that any soldier needs to ask you for money.
    6. Last but not least, if you are unsure after doing all of these, ask someone.

    I was a soldier for 9 years, I think it is disgraceful that these people are doing this. If any of you have any questions you can email me as well, I might be able to give you more info. johnschreck77@yahoo.com

    And so you know, I am not trying to scam anyone, I am happily married, with an awesome family…

    • hi john,
      nice to read from you.
      can you find out the real name of robert haggard?
      i would like to compare what i have. he said to me, he do not know any person named robert haggard.
      He is already in the usa, ge was in Afghan.

      Thank you for your assistance,
      myn

  65. just to let you all know Sgt Mark Donelly now on facebook and myspace looking for love

    • Helen Sorry I was gone for a hile but I have some news for you on mark donnelly. here is my email. donnasensen1@yahoo.com. I have lots of tales to tell you. Hop to hear from you soom.
      Donna

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    I am God fear young man, i looking for happiness in my life. I like outdoor and i hate lie, i am alway honest with everything am doing. i am faithful and will treat my woman right
    Who I’d like to meet:
    i will like to meet a loving, caring and decent woman. That will promise to be with me forever. Someone that will be romnatic and trustworthy, someone that is God fearing.

  67. Mark Donnelly is usually 41 but on myspace he has 2 profiles 1 says he 41 the other says 44, lmao he hates liars and wants an honest and trustworthy woman. good luck to him, he will need it

    • Since you have two of these sites with the same name and pictures one is probably fake and the other one real. If you look closely you should be able to spot the fake.

  68. Helen, Maybe the one on myspace is the real person, scammers don’t usually have a myspace or facebook account. However they do steal photos from there. That is where they steal the identities from in some cases.As for the age differences that is just because maybe the account has been updated.If you have photos and have not yet sent them to CJ please do so and then maybe they are able to be traced, the real person I mean. Marlene

    • What I dont understand is that there is a facebook page for Ivan Nobile and he sends me e-mails from that page often. That means he has either figured out what the original Ivan’s password is, or he opened this page just to try and look legit.

  69. Be sure to remember the sacrifices of the REAL heroes this Memorial Day. I was married to a career military man for years, so here are some clues to look for: check the rank on the uniform with what they tell you; military people do not have to pay for travel home at the end of their deployment; the usual word is deployment…not mission; military family members get FREE medical treatment; military members usually have a stateside bank where their money is direct deposited…if they don’t, they’re too stupid to waste your time on. Can’t think of anything else offhand, but double check every excuse they give for needing money. If you’re not sure it’s legit, it probably isn’t. I’ll be glad to answer your questions if I can. Bear in mind, if they really do need YOU to send THEM money, they’re probably losers anyway.

    • The guy that scammed me,”Sgt Ivan Nobile”, said that they dont have access to their accounts from Bagdad.

  70. went back on myspace and looked at the 2 Mark Donnellys they are both the scammer and he had 1 friend, I then searched the name he asked me to send money to in Nigeria. omg i have found the scammer with the same friend as Mark Donnelly. God I dont know what to do with this information, Help

  71. Sgt Mark Donnelly also using the names

    Col Troy Gilson

    Col Colin Millar

  72. Honestly there should be a site to post all the scammers pics on so that the military can decide who the pics really belong too…Also the military should inform there soldiers that this does happen & these soldiers should check & see if any of those photos belong to them & this should be done on a continuous basis so that the chain of scamming can cease & identity theft becomes less comin… Especially since these scammers are using other peoples photos without them even knowing it mostly they are all soldiers so the military should be involved…The sad thing about this is that the scammers either do or don’t get away with their scamming from certain people but there are those people that they actually scam & they continue to do it…Every email address from a scammer should be reported to yahoo or wherever the email address is through…And/Or have a facebook page & a myspace page with this info put up there so people can put a stop to this…Somewhere this has to stop & unless people are willing to go that extra mile to prevent things like this from happening it never will stop….Yeah scammers are going to continue to scam people one way or the other but we have the upper hand & can start by making it harder for them to do so…This is identity theft since they steal their names & their photos so this should be a military matter…These scammers not only take their names & photos but they also know where these soldiers live, who their children are, what they do for a living…Just my opinion anyways…

    • I completely agree Carolyn, but the problem is that no one knows what they look like! I would DEFINITELY post their photos if I could.

      On another note, I spoke today with Mark Ehresman on the phone and will be posting a story about who is REALLY is and his Army career. Stay tuned to the main page or subscribe to my email list by emailing: cj@soldiersperspective.us and putting “Subscribe” in the Subject line.

      • I am very glad to hear that you have found the real Mark Ehresman. Keep up the good work CJ and that you for giving us a place to send and receive information about these scammers.

        • I met someone on Mingle2.com by the name of Joseph Collins Erisman in early July. He claims to be a U.S. Marine on a 3yr tour in Iraq. He says he’s been in Iraq for 10mos already and needs money to get his honorable discharge papers so he can come “home” to me. WHATEVER!

          He uses the email sgtjoeerisman@yahoo.com

      • Hello Cj.

        You will be surprised what I have sent you.

        I have emailed you to: cj@soldiersperspective.us about a soldier called himself Ruddock, I really hope you have the will and time to check it out and to reply to me. Please.

        Sincerly Cilvia

    • Carolyn,

      I was scammed by someone pretending to be a SSgt in the Army and I have filed a police report, Attorney General report, IC3 report, Federal Trade Commission report, Western Union Fraud complaint report, sent emails to the Govenor, Congressman and Senator from FL and also spoke with the US Secret Service and guess what…NO ONE wants to do anything even though Western Union has video cameras in there locations and the authorities can have them!!! I also have filed reports to the Metropolitan police and Heathrow police in London…now hold on to your seat, you are not going to believe this…before I knew what was going on, I was sent an email from the scammers friend that he was ill and was admitted into “a hospital”. Well after not hearing anything I called the area hospital’s around Heathrow with no luck so I called one of the police stations in London and filed a missing persons report. Well they actually spoke to him on June 30, 2010 claiming that someone said he was a missing person and was calling around to the local hospitals…when the scammer and I chatted THAT SAME NIGHT, he told me about the police questioning him…I told him that was me because I had not heard from him and was worried. The very next day is when I discovered that it was a romance scam and called Metropolitan police in London and told them this. But because the scammer gave the police a different birthdate than I had given them, he was not the same person and they were not going to go any further with it. I said you have got to be kidding me!!! I told them about the chat that we had had that night and he still would not do anything!!! All they will do here is keep alerting people and what to be aware of…well I asked the agent from the Secret Service, what about the people that were scammed, what are you doing for us? He had no answer. So I guess my next step is the television stations…Sorry this is so long, but wanted to put as much info in here as I could! Also i have sent CJ the pictures of the soldier that was used in this scam. I have not seen them out here yet, I don’t know how long it takes but…just wanted you do know that no one is willing to help anyone and these scammers are gonna get bigger and bigger because they know no one will look for them!

      • Hello Debbie

        hmmm. about scammers. its too sad to read your letter, that no one is willing to help us, after I just sent some information about a soldier colled himself Major Ruddock to CJ. I will be very sad if I don´t get help. And then this web.site means nothing to us.
        Since I don´t know what else to do.

        Sincerely Cilvia

      • You can contact me on usagovernment_military@live.com and i will help you take care of this problems, we are the IC3 community,and we want to help you get what you have lost ..ok?

        • I’m only approving this comment so that it is Google searchable. This is another fake email address and NOT from IC3 in any way, shape or form.

  73. Hey everyone. I want you to meet one of the Soldiers being used in these scams, MSG Mark Ehresman. Click here to read his story.

  74. Great job CJ. Thanks

  75. my mum has been talking to a man called demiel agner who is climing to be an american soldier serving in iraq. i have only just found out that my mum has sent money to this man after he told her that he needed the money to request leave from the army so that he could come and see her in the uk. had i found out sooner i would of told her not to send any money but she has now lost all her savings – is there anything she can do as there doesnt seem to be any support in the uk or is her money lost forever?

    • Hi Becky, haha Demiel Agner has been resurrected. I am presently talking with SGT DEMIEL AGNER who is stationed at BASE 3 KABUL, AFGHANISTAN. Thanks for putting up this post as I was wary of him. I googled his name and because of your post, it was confirmed that he is definitely a scammer. They just thrive on lonely women and forget about the consequences. I am sorry for your mum and pray that she will be comforted one day by knowing that this person is caught.

      • Hi.

        LOL I have also been contacted by Demiel Agner today. Because of things he wrote I understood something was wrong and google his name. And see what i found. He wanted me to come back and talk later today. On facebook I found 3 profiles of Demiel Agner. The one that called him self Demiel says he comes from Baltimore, his wife died in cancer and he has a daughter 21 years old study medicine. Becky sorry about your mum.

        • Cici, I just had to write to you as I had been in contact with a man claiming to be Demiel Agner! He never got any money from me but did say if I wanted to talk to him by phone, I would have to buy one from his base for $300. Well I just stopped communicating with him. He was getting weird with his calling me “hunnie” & praying for me! He told me his father was from Germany & he (Demeil) came here when he was 10, but still had an accent! Well thankfully I found some friends on another websight about another scammer named Kennedy Bowden. He was not claiming to be in the service, but he was just as sleazy! Any way they told me about this sight. Thank you to all, I’m learning a lot! Mary

  76. hi becky,
    i am sorry to say she has lost her money forever, i lost a lot of money on one of this scams and kick myself every day over it, but like your mum i fell for it all. i am in the uk and found the police did not want to know, all i was offered was counselling from victim surport which i found really helpful, so give them a ring if you need to talk about it they were brilliant.i reported my crime because it is a crime to who ever would listen but it got me no where.i live with this every day and i am still having to pay a credit card bill for a sat phone i paid for, a loan for his leave, and phone bill for when i phone him. so you see no one wants to help. i have to work really hard for the rest of my life to pay for this. emotionally i dont trust any one , i am 45 now and i just dont believe any a man tells me any more, which has caused me big problems in relationships so what chance have i got, but i survive i have to, whats the alternative. just tell your mum shes not alone in this i now how she feels.

    • Jane, I know it’s easier said than done but don’t beat yourself up over this. That way they will have won all over again. I live in the UK too, and was very nearly taken in by one of these guys, but luckily for me the lady at Western Union refused to take my money and told me to check it out. That’s where I found this site and it has helped me enormously to think I am not alone in this. If you want to email me to chat feel free – kaywilson9@fsmail.net. I am currently stringing another one along who says he will phone me. That’s when I will pounce! Take care and chin up girl!

  77. thanks for replying jane b, my mum was very grateful for your response. this has only happened over the last few weeks is she is still very raw and would love to talk to someone as there is very little support for her and we have not told other members of our family my mums email address is gstorrie@hotmail.co.uk

    • Becky, what I said to Jane B goes for your mum too. If she wants to contact me, my details are as above. Take care. Kay

  78. I am another victim. I joined Fish Dating after it was recommended by a couple of ladies I met on a recent holiday. Within a week, I was contacted by a Stephen Massingale. Stated he was widowed, from Colorado and had a child now living in Canada. After, nearly one month and lots of beautiful emails and poetry. Marriage offer after 10days. A few days ago requested £750 for phone connection. I knew then that something was wrong. I stated that I had no money and if he was a gentleman, he would pay. I contacted Fish Dating yesterday to investigate because when I met him on the site, the next day he was not a member and he had requested that we make contact via his email address at yahoo. Fish Dating got back to me to confirm that they had cancelled his membership because they thought that he was not geniune. Obviously, they know that this scamming is going on. I started to fall for this man. I told him that I had been through breast cancer and had reconstruction, but it didn’t put him off. What evil people they are to prey on single, vunerable sick people.

    I am so glad I came across your site as I have been trying to track this man down. I have learnt my lesson the hard way and feel quite hurt by all the deceit. I thought at last I have someone to love. Silly me. Oh well life goes on. Won’t be joining a dating site again. As they say once bitten…. Would you like his photo?

    • Hi Susanne

      Is his photo not above? This was the Steven Massingale Barratt I was in contact with. He told me he was originally born in Somerset, UK, but moved to the US at the age of 2. He only told me he had a son in his early emails, then slipped up and said he had a daughter as well. His son was with his late wife’s parents in Canada, his daughter was with a nanny, but not where, and when I asked him he became very vague.

      I was contacted by him through DatingDirect.co.uk, and he removed his profile after a couple of days, so I didn’t get the chance to report him to the website. I did find his details on another one (Uniform Dating) and he has been blocked from there. It would be interesting to know if it is the same guy, as Donna from this site is trying to track him down for me. My email address is above if you want to contact me.

      Kay

    • please help me is james rellinger a swindler? i have sent 900 euro this is much for me please say me this sorry my english no good greet helga deniz from austria

      • he already knows his identity has been stolen, sorry but it’s true.

    • Ladies, thank you, I have finally found the evidence I need. I have just discovered I have been scammed by Captain Stephen Massingale. Same story as you Susanne. Lots of poetry, undying love, marry me all that and more. I began to fall for him, but bells started to ring when a friend of a friend was scammed by a soldier. I decided to do some googling and found out so much info. I am amazed how much of this goes on. I have beem scammed before, and thought it could’nt happen again. I have sent a photo to cj , so hopefully the soldier in the photo will be told his picture is being used. Thanks for this website, its been a great help. Be careful out there ladies!

    • Hi Suzanne. I think I have been scammed royaly by the same man. The photo I have of him is not the one above though. Definately Captain Stephen Massingale, daughter living in Canada, gushing poetry and many requests for money. I paid some but began to realise how ridiculous it was. I feel so idiotic and stupid.

    • Hi Suzanne

      Could you forward me a picture please as i belive i have lso been a victim of this scam

      Kind Regards

      Gaye XX

    • i was recently scammed by greg massingale same info but daughter in Italian school.
      he has the following e mail addresses hunblesmiles@hotmail.com &lovescent01@yahoo.com
      I was subjected week before on same site from bradcoyle55@yahoo.co.uk I have photos from both these people.
      I did tell greg i was scammed before but didnt give details. They did not recieve any money. if you want further info i will be glad to give it.
      Diane

  79. hi becky,
    i will send your mum my email address so she can get in touch and talk because it does help to now other people are in the same position and she is not alone in this.
    i have just reported another scammer from dating site called ken in us army, living in london , very strange. i asked him what he is planning to do when he leaves the army in june, he said he was going to set up a ophnage, what crap. as soon as i told him it would be hard with all the security around kids and i should now i work in a school he went off line on me and hasnt contacted me since. i sent him not a very nice message about how careless he had been, it made me feel damn good. they are so stupid sometimes.so watch out girls for ken, london,48, retiring, in afghanistan nice looking, wearing a checked cap ,with a goatee beard.

  80. RE: Lt. Col. George Patterson
    Ladies,
    Beware, Lt Col George Patterson is back on facebook, with a picture, he’s a Nigerian Scammer. Look him up at georgepa01@live.com

  81. I’ve been contacted through the match.com site by a man passing as GEN Stephen Ruddock whose pictures correspond to the ones you published here. His story line is similar to what you have said here. His email address is
    GEN Stephen W Ruddock (survival53@live.com.
    Sounded too good to be true.

    • reply for Sadie. Re Ruddock…. I have a long letter and several pics of the said RUDDOCK ( but going from the ones already on the site ( in his younger days) the pics are real that i have also but using the name BILLY Ruddock…. If you wish contact me on my email adress and we can exchange if you like, This one didnt get any of the cash out of me, I sussed him quite quickly! so he didnt get chance, but Gosh they never give up I have had so many, it just drives me ” up the wall” but I have got a few still on file, in case they were needed havent got all the mails. had to get rid at some point in time.. anyway if you want a chat you can find me easily I am in the UK . best wishes TRISH

      • Hi Sadie and Patricia,
        I have been in contact with a Staff Sergeant George Ruddock for a month now, i have some of the pictures on this side and some new ones too!!!! the e-mail addy he was using with me was lifechance2010@hotmail.co.uk. He is a widower, he has two girls, named Brigitte and Elizabeth! I got a little sus at one point and asked him to take a picture of himself holding a board with my name on it, what a laugh he sent a photo with a super imposed poster in the background, which was obviously typed it was hilarious, i still have him on line as we speak, i just love wasting his time and letting him think i am falling for his lies! He has gone by many names it appears! General! he must have been demoted since his uniform shows only Sergeant now! If anyone want to compare photos and string him a long a little i dont mind! I just feel for the poor soldier whose face he is using and that of his poor children! Some photos have a date of 28.06.10. Some people! Sad sacks! Get in touch if you wish i dont mind. Terri

        • My, my how shocked was i when i came across this site a little by accident but obviously meant to be! I have had Staff sergeant George Ruddock emailing me and chatting to me on msn for 2 weeks now. He has sent photos of himself, his girls, his wife (who was killed in a plane crash in June 2009) and of his home in New York. I have had a marriage promise and invite to relocate to NY. He asked me for money to hire a private jet to come visit me!!!!That he couldn’t access his own millions from Afghanistan.I told him to take army transport home to the States, access his own millions from there then come visit me in Britain. He became upset and said i no longer needed him as i was unprepared to help him…..haha too right!! I feel sorry for the real man and his family in these pictures. Joss

        • Hi
          My god I think I have been scammed,
          by a man called himself Major Robbert Ruddock, Whose pictures he sent me are the same to the ones you published here, and have some more new pictures too. And his story line is similar to al what you have said here. I have been contacted through net log .com website. His email address is: robbert_ruddock77@yahoo.com

          I feel sorry for the real soldier. Please tell me what to do next.

        • I have been in contact with a Staff sargeant Andrew Stephen Ruddock much the same story as is stated on this site. Like you I feel sorry that someone s pain has been exploited and wonder about the real man and his family are they well is he still alive?? it would be awful to think he was killed we must all remember the photos are real soldiers. Luckily for me I wasn’t scammed and never asked for anything but emotionally blackmailed with threats of taking his own life

        • Dear Terri,
          Loved reading your notes above. I am also in touch with him calling himself General Jimmy William Hayward.
          I have not yet been asked for money as we have only been talking for 10 days.
          Like you I think I may waste his time for a little longer. Keep him away from other women.
          Will keep you informed
          Kay

    • HI Sadie,
      General Jimmy William Hayward is using the same e-mail address survival53@live.com
      He has sent a picture of himself (or whoever) with two little girls.
      Can no-one find this real soldier and warn him not to put picture on sites where it may be stolen as it is a shame for the girls to be used like this.
      Have not sent any money and given him only a few details about myself. Talking to him now.
      He is out on night patrol – what a joke

      • this is a scam. stay away.

        • Hi Kimmy,
          I know for sure this is a scam. He has yet to ask me for money and I have blocked him from my hotmail account. I did not trust him from the offset and opened a new hotmail account with him being the only “friend” on it.
          There must be a way of catching these guys.
          Glad I found this site. It is brilliant and should have more publicity.
          Kay

  82. I was contacted by a man on Be2.com who claimed to be Sergeant Wesley Traceur 30 yrs old from Colorado Springs and in Kabul, Afghanistan. After chatting for 7 weeks and he sent me 5 military pics of himself, he said he needed me to send him $1,200 usd to get Leave to come see me in Canada. I told him that I don’t have that kind of money to be sending and that he should borrow it from his family or friends. I asked him to talk on phone with me but he said they weren’t Allowed to get calls on the Base and I said I have never heard of that as many of the men have wife and kids that they want to talk to I’m sure and he also said they weren’t allowed to have web cams there either. I found this site after that and told him that I thought he was a scam. He said this was upsetting to him and he went offline as we used to chat on yahoo. His i.d. there is sgt.wesleytrace@yahoo.com Of course he hasn’t come back online in 2 days and ignored my email. I have blocked him and just wanted to put my message on here so other women can watch out for him….It’s very sick how these guys are claiming to be military men and try to lure women for money!!

    • Tammy, Would you please email the pictures he sent you to CJ at cj@soldiersperspective.us

      That way we will have the pictures to see if we can try to find the real soldier and let him know. Thank you

  83. Hi ladies

    I have been in contact almost a month now with a military man by the name James Miller first sergeant airforce, he is serving in afghanistan a red flag went up a few days ago supposable shot and will be discharged from clinic next week, doesnt want to go back to work afraid i will lose him the next time and could i file an application for transist, for me to think about it and i will hear from him again when the nurse can help with computer, anyway i contacted cj it was a scam and i sent a email calling his bluff 2 days now no email, i meet him on mate1 mate1 has since removed him and there is an investigation, i just wish i could find the real person, another from mate 1 today calls him self sgt patterson, usarmy serving in iraq comes from elgin IL, requesting me to contact him beware he cant spell

    • Hello Re JAMES MILLER.. is the the same guy usuing the name of JEFF, Richard, and Philip. I have the pics as shown on U tube( I can send them to you if you wish ) but you can see ALl as shown by someone I know of who had been scammed before, of a HUGE amount of money and LOST HER HOME… made up the port folio of this guy ( well Guy is being shown as a US ARMY Officer ) but obviously behind the facade is a Low life ” GOD FEARING ” Thief and CHEAT. Just google his name under ” PHILIP MILLER” and he should come up for viewing
      Even the guys Kids are seen on this one and the dog! time the military did something….

      • Re James Miller…this scammer is still at it and still getting away with it. Now he is going by ANDREWS MILLER and he found my profile on Plentyoffish.com and has managed to trick me of 1400 and waited until after I had neck surgery and on medication to pull his scam….Ok, now it has become personal with me and I want this guy caught…I have been doing a lot of research of this scammer and it appears he has gone by Jeff/Jeffery Miller, David Miller, Richard Miller, Philip Miller and now Andrews Miller. The photo’s of the military man with the unique birth mark on the left side of his face that the scammer is using now has the military man’s pictures on Youtube, 4 profiles on facebook (Jeff/Jeffery Miller) and who know where else. This scammer needs to be stopped and enough is enough.

        • I still have contact with aka: Andrews Miller and I am trying to keep him hanging on by a string to keep him from scamming other ladies if at all possible. He filled my head with all his “I love you with all my heart, soul and body” crap and now I am trying to get into his head and trick him into giving me some useful information that will help to get him caught once and for all. Wish me luck as it is sucking up many hours of my time.

  84. Just wondering if anyone has been contacted by a Captain Ronald Allyn thru yahoo…his addy thru there is allynronald@yahoo.com….just need to know if he is legit or not…has asked me to set up for ts2 communications….i need info can anyone help me out…please

    • Jenny the TS2 communications thing he is asking for is one of the first scams they pull. Once they get money for this fake item they ask you for more money for medical expenses or so they can take leave to come see you. It would be in your best interest to stop farther communications with this person he is a scammer.

      • thank you so much cj i did stop talking to him what a scammer…it is sad to see that this is what the world has come too…how can you even find a descent guy…you cannot..i am a single mom of three kids who could not believe that someone could have talked soo sweet to me and here i was taking all the bullshit from him….wow…..just to warn other woman out there the guy i was talking to was on hot or not and he does have a pic on there …whose it actually is well i will never know…just very sad that there is people out there like that…thank god i never sent him money …not that stupid just too stupid to realize that he truly was a scammer…..understood it more when i got saw the ts2 communication email and the address where to wire the money thru western union…bingo…was an ass this guy is so just be warned ladies his name is Captain Ronald Allyn he is apparently 45 and it does have his name on his uniform as that too…Allyn….hope this helps anyone else out for getting victimized like i did….will keep u posted…they seem to always strike again if they do not receive an answer back….

        • Jenny,

          got contacted from him as well the last few days – we have been talking for online for only a week and yesterday he send me an email that he loves me – that sounded so curious to me so i checked on his name – and came along to this webpage. Thanks for address this here – it just keep making me so mad that there are people out there and think that all females are naive and stupid.
          I also note hot or not on him. He is also in Lonely Soul – (found him while i was searching his name)

  85. ladies received another email on mate1 as a sgt ryan lane states he is a us soldier in iraq lives in austin texas, cant spell and picture is not military, i did report as a possible fraud to mate1 I also went under the military site and sent an email to the air force public affairs office, for a James Miller if that is his real name told them i Have photos, I guess there is identity problems with soldiers credit card numbers etc, as public affairs states so i am making them aware of there identity on dating sites, waiting to see if i get an email response back.

    • WHY DO YOU ASK FOR MONEY THAN? THERE SHOULD BE NO MONEY INVOLVED AT ALL!!

  86. I HATE WHAT IS GOING ON HERE SO U BETTER TAKE IT OFF…THIS IS A MILITARY SITE AND NOT A PLACE FOR WOMEN TO GOSSIP…
    THERE ARE NO SUCH THINGS GOING ON…SO STOP THE LIES…

    • Hey, Gen. Roberts General Jackass, bite me. You’re a two-bit, loser, fraud who couldn’t make a buck selling pubic hair to a whorehouse. If you’re a general, do something about my “disrespect to a commissioned officer”. But, since you’re a fake trying to pretend authority on my site, how about you just fuck off and do something honorable with your life – like removing it from the earth! And please explain why you are writing from Mauritania where we don’t keep generals.

      • Way to go CJ!!

      • You tell em CJ!!!!

      • OMG…Way to go CJ!!!

      • cj please contact me my name is cindy email address is twighlight_unicorn@yahoo.com I to have been scammed by a Col. Peter Pentronzio Stenn,he is trolling in mate1..He had me hook line and sinker.I gave him 600 for bhis leave request.All the documents sent looked official.here is the first letter
        Well let me tell you a little about me.I am Single 5′ 9″ am looking for a friend to love and spend some time with. I would like to learn to.I am a quick learner and enjoy all types of music. I love to work hard but rather play harder.I lost my love and my 2 daughters 2years back.I have a lovely son who stays with his Granny,his 15yrs. I’m looking for a WOMAN that is honest, truthful and loyal who will not hurt me for any reason and will never be hurt by me too and she will be ready to take care of my son. I’m looking to date and see where things may go.graduated from Beverly High School and Norwich University and joined the Military force in 1984.I live at Texas corpus Christi but presently on a to Afghanistan.I was sent there by UN to lead an expeditionary force in Afghanistan, fighting the Taliban,And am ready to relocate after my mission in Afghan,But only if my love wants that,Am in the us military.
        I’m not looking for a one night stand or anyone with drama. I just want to spend a few hours with someone from time to time for some relaxing stress free times like dinner, movies, a walk around the park, sporting events, or maybe a weekend getaway.
        Even a nice relationship that includes a good morning email or text to show someone is thinking of you would be nice. If you want someone fun to chat with, maybe more in time.I love swimming,play golf,going to cinemas,camping.I also love Chinese food,pizza,roasted beef,I don’t smoke…don’t drug… a while back i had a zero tolerance for it… however I’ve been getting better about it. At least with smoking… just i prefer if you don’t do it around me.. i don’t like to watch people i care about slowly kill themselves..if you respond, respond with a picture please….. maybe we can start a friendship that grows into more…or perhaps it’ll be love at first sight.. and we fall hard… who knows…what have you got to lose? at worst you still get a good friend and at best you get the love of your life… sounds like Win/Win to me..OH! in the subject line write out Lovely..I feel like I have a pretty good personality, I can be goofy and serious, wild and conservative. I’m very calm, laid-back and drama free. My friends would tell you that I’m extremely dependable, loyal and keep them laughing. I would say I’m pretty fun too I tend to be a bit quiet around people I don’t know well, but I open up pretty quickly.I hope to read back from you too,

        Yours
        Col. Peter
        hope to read back from you.
        Take good care of yourself..
        Bye for now
        you can pls send me more of your resent pics

        He also has help because i also received some other emails with official looking documents I will attach them.Any input or help from you would be appreciated greatly…please send me a response.sincerley a broken heart cindy

      • you go girl, woohoo its a good job us women are an intelligent species, what a thick fucking prick,do us all a favour soldier boy and put a gun to your own head, LOSER

    • Hey General GOOFBALL, We love to GOSSIP,
      its what we do best

    • das gibt es schon habe schon 900 euro gesendet an einen militär man james rellinger aus irak.an einen mr.ken john der diplomat vom militär.das ich nicht lache was sie da für einen schwachsinn erzählen

    • SO WHY DO YOU ASK FOR MONEY THAN? THERE SHOULD BE NO MONEY INVOLVED AT ALL!!

    • I just wanted to let you know this is going on, I have been through 3 military soldier so far asking for money and getting ready to take the 4th out, They are curel and need to be stopped, there should be a law against this, then to send have access to a military ID with the name marked out, you need to address this issue. People using a military or government employee information should be stopped and put in jail and made to work for their up keep.
      I have email address, pictures to prove it.

  87. You tell them CJ. Good for you .Losers they are.

  88. Surprise, heres a new one

    Sgt. Jonathan Laureles. The real one knows about it but says there isn’t anything he could do.

    I talked with this person alot and used instruction from a previous post to check IP addresses and sure shit it was from nigeria.

    While like many others i feel like a dumbass, at least i know now. Hope 1 less person will fall for this from my post.

    thanks
    DiAnne

  89. OMG!!! CJ,
    I’m laughing myself SILLY
    Thank you for all your hard work,
    Susan :-)

  90. bitte senden sie an leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com wenn sie mehr wissen über james rellinger.er hat auch mich betrogen.er ist aus panama city florida.danke deniz helga.ich möchte wissen ob er zu den betrügern gehört

  91. Hi CJ,
    Greetings from Australia. What a great site…. No doubt I have given you all the info regarding the alledged Cpt Alexander Swain. I feel so sorry for your US Soldiers who’s identities are being used in such a way, is there anyway of letting the real ones know what’s happening ??
    Also, another idea… maybe you can do something with yahoo that the email address that these scumbags of scoiety use can be deleted via yoruself, and/or maybe we can do a deal with Western Union and Money gram that when these scammers ask for a NTC numebr or something, that we give them a number and it delivers a nasty virus that wi[pes everything off their computer/s ???? Just a thought.
    I’ve managed to find many ladies via facebook using the aliases that this scumbag has used to warn them and I have already managed to find 8 of them.
    Best of luck and keep this website going… it should be advertised on all dating sites.
    Love your work CJ
    Regards
    Trish

    • Hi Trish,
      My name is Tricia (Trish for short as well). I’m from South Africa and new on this site. Have been corresponding with a Captain Alexander Swain (says he’s from Pennsylvania USA) and in the military in Iraq)age given as 46 years and divorced and says he has a daughter aged 10years her name is Jodie. We have been corresponding since begining May 2010 up until now. On 25 May he emailed me saying he had been detained in Ghana. And also asking me to help him out financially to get out there. Well he has been there ever since. Dont know if this is a genuine senario or a scam. I dont know what to believe anymore. I need clarity on whether this person is the genuine one in the pics or not. Please refer to my messages further down this site page. One to Eileenn Flanagan her message dated 20 July 2010 and the second one to Jacqui (also of SA) her message dated 20 July 2010 as well.
      Thankyou. I will be grateful for some feedback from anyone of you. Rgds Tricia

      • Have also talked to a guy, Alex Swain, told me he was in Iraq, as a sergant in the E-6 forces.Was divorced with a daughter in 10 with name Christabell. He was from Boston US and his age should be 50. He is the same man as all the Mark pics above and Harry Swain. Met him at frist date and he also hve profiles at facebook as Harry Swain, Alexander Swain and Alex Swain. He used a hotmail. swain508@hotmail.com
        When I connected that adress on facebook with my msn a black guy from Ghana Accra shown with this e-mail. His Name was Nan Kofi kofi. Sent him a note during the time I chatted with “Alex”, cause I still have contact with this guy…and I told Alex about Nana…said I thought it was srange. I got a short answer from Nana that he didnt know me and suddenly the profile was gone. I am now playing with this Alex and tells him he will be found….he dont get it the stupid one.There are more names in this story. Patrick Otchere, Diplomate Luke Jarrel Dary, Gerrald, wich I now know are the same person as obowe, Darryl Lopez. I do have pics on everybody acxept for Mr Otchere. Have spoken to them all over the phone. It is atleast two guys. One african and one american.
        It really would have been nice to know who this Alex/Alexander/Harry Swain is.For real i mean.
        Cecilia from Sweden

  92. Hi there,

    I have also been a victim of online dating scam of someone impersonating a military guy.This disgusting lowlife goes by the name of joe harold. joe.harold45@yahoo.com, IM is joe.harold45. I don’t see his photos on this site yet. He says he is on third tour in Iraq, helicopter pilot, from Bedford Texas. Claims his late mother was head teacher. His late father retired army doctor and owned own gold jewelry business post retirmement. If you want to see the entire story go to the link online dating scams on this site and look for my post. If you would like to compare notes or photos please let me know.

    • Nieve please send CJ your photos so he can post them. cj@soldiersperspective.us

    • I too was scammed by the same person this time going by Joe Marvin (how generic) from Bedford, TX. Same thing happened to me, after meeting on match.com he wanted me to download and chat on yahoo messenger. I saw one of his photos on here and I have more to post if anybody is interested.
      How can get back at these people who are making fools of us??? Luckily I saw this website right before I was ready to mail “him” a package, whew, I dodged a bullet.

      • Hi Linda,
        Yes, I would like to chat with you about “Joe Marvin”…..

    • Hi. I would like to compare notes. Your “Joe Harold” maybe be my “Joe Marvin”. He hasn’t asked me for anything yet,… however, he did send me 2-dozen of red roses to my home to prove he was not scamming me. He’s supposively stationed in Camp Fallujui (?) in Iraq. He supposed to have a meeting today to find out his exact date he will be coming home. I’m anxious to see what he tells me.
      However, the other day he did ask me for my full name, full address, cellphone number, and closest airport near me because he was sending me a package. He told me since he was so close to coming home, he wanted to send me some of his stuff so he won’t have to carry it to the airport when he comes home. He said FEDEX wouldn’t get it to me in-time so he’s using the courier they use all the time to bring it to me. I was contacted by Isaac Anderson asking me to confirm my info because he was on his way. He said he will email me his flight information shortly…. and keep me updated of his location throughout his trip.
      Now I’m worried!~ Your “Joe Harold” (via pics on his site) is my “Sgt. Joe Marvin”.

      Why in the world would he go to such great lengths and send me roses to prove he is not a scam? So really?….. who got scammed? hahah I’m going to play this little game out to the end. Perhaps before its all said and done…. I will be the one receiving $$. LOL I will ask him today if he could send me $300 for Christmas. LMAO!! Jacka$$!!!!

      • @ Sugar lol great job but this you typed………However, the other day he did ask me for my full name, full address, cellphone number, and closest airport near me because he was sending me a package. He told me since he was so close to coming home, he wanted to send me some of his stuff so he won’t have to carry it to the airport when he comes home. He said FEDEX wouldn’t get it to me in-time so he’s using the courier they use all the time to bring it to me. I was contacted by Isaac Anderson asking me to confirm my info because he was on his way. He said he will email me his flight information shortly…. and keep me updated of his location throughout his trip.

        That is the scam next this so called courier will ask you for money when they return home they DO NOT have to pay to get their belongings home my Husbands has been delivered to our home by an Airline not some fake Courier.Keep us posted glad you know this is a scammer

  93. Hi JJ,

    Yeah, i emailed photos to cj yesterday. I keep checking back to see if they have been posted. I’m curious if anybody will recognize the photos.

    • Ok CJ well take care of it.

  94. Hello everyone, well I meet this scammer on online dating service called ZOOSK as june 2009, he used the profile dearestinlove his name Msgt Steven McCabe and in the “Air Force, serving in Baghdad Iraq” now, I have been scammed by him, big time I am a fool and ashamed, I should have known better cos I am a disabled army veteran, but I thought I fell in love with him, how do they do that make someone fall for them, I am ashamed for what I have done to hurt my fellow military families allowing myself to do this to myself. I AM TRULY SORRY!!!!!!!!!!
    Well anyway he told me that his in the Air Force and that he will be coming soon when I send him more money “like that is ever going to happen again” his emails are stevenmccabe1@hotmail.com stevenmccabe01@yahoo.com and stevenmccabe36@yahoo.com as I know them that way, if he had asked anyone to send money to nigeria he goes by the names ADESINA AJIBOLA, AKINLABI ANTHONY, TERRY WILLIAMS, and some other name I dont remember now, but I got all his faked love letters and need to send them to the military press,FBI,CIA and Afica news,

    I have already spoken to the real Msgt McCabe and he is in Texas

  95. He also is in facebook, I will try to get the others pictures he have sent me as soon as I rescanned them into my computer again

    they all should be ashamed of taking advantage of hard working soldiers in the military that helps keeps the world stay safe

  96. Marni, these morons feel nothing. Maybe they should round them all up and make them do military time then they may not be so anxious to pretend to be soldiers.At least they would have their own money as well then.
    The more I hear of their lies etc the more angry I become.Thank heavens for CJ and his help. Take care…Marlene

  97. CJ,
    hi, just noticed mr rellinger has surfaced 2 more times.

  98. Hi CJ,
    I just wanted to know if you got to find out about SFC. James Thompson Ramos, I had emailed you the pictures that I have if you need for me to resend them to you please let me know.

    • James Ramos is a scam. I had been talking to him for the past two weeks. I originally did a Google search and didn’t come up with anything, then I searched again and found out that he’s a scam. One of his pictures is with a cute black and white puppy, correct? I’m sorry to tell you this, but that’s a scam as well.

      • I too had been contacted by James Ramos about three or four months ago, for except the scammer was going by the name of James Thompson Ramos the picture that you are talking about I too have it. I still have all of his emails and pictures; one thing for certain the scammer knows how to use beautiful words. I am happy to say that he is not longer bothering me the sad part of this is that he just continues to prey on new territories. Good luck and keep safe.

    • Hey Laura, how are you? I think you and I are or were talking to the same guy. RAMOS…. Would like to chat with you about it. I am talking to him now and playing him. I know he is a scam. Thank god I never sent anything, but he also has never asked me for anything YET. But I’m playing. Would love to know if we have the same guy.

  99. hello cj
    please say me james rellinger a swindler?i have her passport in copie.please give me answer sorry my english no good i am frim austria
    greet helga

  100. Hi everybody out there after being scammed by a CHARLES LECAIN also know as CHARLES LEACAIN also SIMON ROBERTS or ROBERT SIMONS and LT HANK COLINS i have today taken the steps of setting up a FACEBOOK page where we can chat and post pictures its u under US ARMY DATING SCAM please feel free to join and leave a photo of ur scammer or name any new scammer
    we will all woru together to STOP this and protect the real soldiers out there
    Tracy

  101. I received a SKYPE message from General Raymond Odierno….AS IF! The SKYPE address he used to contact me is raymond.odierno64 & he has downloaded an actual photo of the General from the internet. General Odierno is the commander for the US forces in Iraq and he would be far to busy to be wanting to contact anyone on SKYPE! I told this guy he was not the person in the photograph and to get lost. I didn’t give him the opportunity to scam me for anything. So girls watch out if you are on SKYPE.

  102. Well ladies I just arrived home from work and decided to check on my emails, I felt bad for the scammer that goes by the name of Sfc. James Thompson Ramos have moved in to a new target, I hope that the person that is been targeted response to a message that I sent her. Hopefully she will and I’ll be able to warn her about this pond scum before she loses her head and turn lose of her money, right now I am praying to God for this woman to answer my message I do hope taht I get to her on time.

    • haben sie schon von james rellinger auch gehört? was sagen sie zu dieser sache danke

    • Yay! I was happy to see that you were able to nip it in the bud quickly!!

  103. Hello all, I caught it bacause of you… I have some more great information for you…it’s another name and photo and paperwork TOO.
    I do not know how to send this to you but, i am scanning it all in my computer if you will email me I will send it to you
    Thanks for all of your help it saved me $1850.00 plus the $130.00 for sending it

  104. bitte bitte brauche hilfe wer kann mir sagen ob james rellinger ein betrüger ist danke von wien deniz helga
    leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com

  105. Hi quick note to CJ and All….. the girls? I was wondering if any one was getting mail sent to their email adresses ( as Cj knows I have a couple ) well I am getting letters sent to me telling me they found me on ” Soldiers per….. us ” and they wanted to get to know me! I was wondering if others were getting this scum coming on to them from using the site… and are the email addresses clearly visable to all and sundry even the scammers…. Its Okay for me, just wondered thats all… if any others were getting mail wanting frienships etc etc… Thanks Trish from UK

  106. I was recently informed that pictures of my husband (from myspace) are being used in a scam just like these. The man claims to be a soldier in Iraq and tries to get money from women. One of his victims contacted me…

    My husband was killed in Iraq in April 2006 and I cannot begin to explain how much pain I felt when I looked up the name she gave me and there was my husband’s picture. I requested that facebook remove the page but not only is the page still there, but no one has ever contacted me. I have contacted the FBI, but again no one seems to care enough to even contact me, despite the fact that this man has gone so far as to use fake military documents and a fake military ID. I don’t know what to do to make this stop and feel as if I have failed to protect my husband’s memory.

    The name this man uses is Harlem Wilson and I am told he is from Africa, I believe Nigeria. If there is any step I can take to make this man stop, PLEASE let me know.

    LaNita Herlem
    Proud Widow of SFC Bryant A. Herlem

    • I am so sorry about this…I often wonder how many of these soldiers are deceased..my heart bleeds in pain…how can people be so cruel…so sorry…

    • La Nitta, I am so sorry that this low life scammer has put you throught this and please accept my sympathies. We all wish we could stop these nasty people who have no empathy for anyone. Once again I am so sorry this has happend to you and your family. All the best…….Marlene

    • Dear LaNita,

      This is really, truly awful, I am sooo sorry that you are going through even more pain because of these **** scammers.

  107. Hi all
    Has anyone had any contact from a guy name Major Tyron Mattews apparently in IRAQ about to retire?

  108. Ladies please be aware of Sgt. Scott Ludvik..I also sent photos here…so you all can be aware…honestly my heart is broken..the photos seem so authentic..i can’t believe i fell victim..to this

    • I would tell you not to feel bad but if I did you would say “yeah right” I felt bad about it too. I went so far as to pull off all the articles I could about the one I was speaking with and show them to my friends. But after checking out an email address that didn’t seem right, further steps led me to this site.

      Your heart will heal, you were in love with pretty words not a real person…I hope your feeling better soon.
      DiAnne

  109. yes LaNitta I am so sorry about your lost my sympathies to you and his famlies. may the all scumbags that are doing rot,
    Has anyone been scam by Msgt Steven McCabe suppose to be in the air force, well I have spoken to the real Msgt Steven McCabe in texas and he tells me that is not his picture

    • das sagen sie alle bei james rellinger nicht anders zeigt in jeden forum sein foto nur die adresse wo er wohnt ist veschieden.kann nicht verstehen warum man das menschen antut,die ehrlich sind, arbeiten gehen,und spass haben möchten,dass man die betrügt.naja man lernt aus fehler.bin enttäuscht aber froh das ich diese seite gefunden habe.danke

  110. Sgt Charles Lecain and Sgt Roberts both active on girls date for free 5 profiles between them all the same photo lol have reported them

  111. Hi, I am so shocked today, I just read the article and realised that Sgt Ivan Nobile who has been chatting to me for a month now and would supposedly have come to South Africa to be with me..is not really the guy on the picture.
    All the warning signs were there…how could I not have picked it up? Love is Blind now makes more sense.
    I even had a phone call from a guy named Suley who was supposed to bring a package with his valuables and docs to me. And an e-mail from a Thomas Brown who said that he is the Custom Officer in Accra Ghana and he scanned the package and that there is over a Million dollars in there, so he was supposedly bribing Ivan to give him 85000$ money. Ivan asked if I could help with at least half of this and I luckily did not have that much money.
    I have the details of the guy that I was supposed to pay the money to… a Jilbrid Mohammed and even the address.
    I am going to our media with this, to stop it from happening to other women in SA.

    • Hi Ester, am glad that I forwarded the info to CJ in time. Yes, you story is the same as mine and I also have the name and bank details.I would really like to help the real Ivan Nobile. These people using his photos are in Acca-Ghana.I sincerely feel sorry for the real soldiers who are having there identities stolen. Am glad that I found this site. Am determined not to give up till I find the real Ivan Noble. I know that CJ will trace him with the photo’s we have. I also forwarded more photos to him and waiting patiently. He e-mail address has been reported to many site by myself and also to face book.
      Regards,
      Magda

      • CJ has already found and let the real soldier know that he pictures have been stolen and are being used by these scammers.

        • Ask CJ to tell him that the scammer had him as a 51 year old man, and all my friends said : This guy can never be 51!! He looks like he is 38 about. So that is quite a compliment…I think for him. LOL!!! Gotta laugh. Plus the scammers use photos of the most gorgeous soldiers…man!!!!
          Ester

    • Hi Ester,

      Just read the article in the YOU. (I am also from Durbanville). So sorry to hear what you went through…..sick sick!

      Sterkte
      x

      • Hi Ester & Tracy,
        Glad that I’m not the only South African with this problem. CJ did post my pic’s and hopefully that bas@%rd will be off line for a while with that soldiers photo’s. I must say, I would like to meet the real 1 if he is single!! Hahahaha
        Enjoy the day!!

  112. die betrüger gehören alle in die wurst

  113. Well ladies are you ready to laugh. The scammer that had stopped emailing me resurfed no other than on my birthday wich it was 21 June. Ladies there’s a new Army rank which it’s Junior Sgt LOL. You see the scammer told me that because of me his Junior Sgt. beat him up for scaming and that his superior put him in jail, the best part of this is that the scammers rank is Sfc. now who goes and figure about this new rank of Junior Sgt LOL. I was rolling on the floor with laughter but the best part is that he went through this because he loves me now he completed the cake not just with the icing but also including the candles.

    • I don’t suppose the cake was a fairy castle with cone turrets Was it?

      • No it wasn’t lol.

        • Thanks for letting me know its just a photograph of one I sent to one of them

        • Wanted to make sure they hadn’t used it

    • LMAO that is just beautiful I am about to seal the coffin on my scammer and I am having such a wonderful time knowing that he will not get one cent from my bank account.

      But I do feel sorry for the poor soldiers who are being used in this awful game and hope that they can also get their just deserts by way of being told that this is happening to them via the wonderful work that CJ is doing

      Cheers Fiona

  114. Since there is another Laura from now on I will sign myself Laura V.

  115. Hi Cj,

    I emailed you last night some pictures of a Sargeant Peter Williams who claims he is widowed with a son living with his dad in Atlanta, whilst he had not asked me for any money or anything he has declared his undying love for me and sent me some flowers which I checked out and were from a texas military base – my concern is that altho he deleted his profile when we started chatting when my friend looked on site there was another pic which looked like his with the profile name of quayreeves, I questioned him about this as he seemed shock and said his identity must have been stolen, I never heard from his for a few days then last night he popped up on my chat and said hi, I asked him if he had sorted anything about his id being stolen and he said his commander was looking into it but he seemed very distant not how he was before, I asked him if I had upset him and if he still felt the same about me and he replied that I had not upset him but he did not feel the same as he was sick of dating sites and was no longer having anything to do with them and that altho we could still chat we would not talk about a relationship but will decide when he gets home what he wants. I would be grateful if you could look into this for me and im hoping he is a genuine guy but unfortunately these days dont trust anyone. especially when you hear so much about these scammers.
    Thanks for your help.

    • Sorry my friend, Sgt Peter Williams is quite the charmer, but he’s also a scammer. Met him on Plenty of Fish dating site July 8. Insisted we close out our sites right away, because we were a perfect match, no need to look any more. Told me he was in Iraq and would be home soon. The first couple of emails and chats were like living in a fairytale. Then he just had to hear my voice, needed me to send him a $800 satellite phone thru some company. The money could only be sent by Western Union, no credit or debit card. I refused to do it, so he told me it was only a test and I was a dishonest woman, but he forgave me. Then he had me chat with his dad on a video chat,this just keeps getting better. Then he just couldn’t wait to get home to be with me, so I needed to send him $6875.00 so he could come home from Iraq. All of this money would be refunded to me as soon as he got home, it would come out of his bank account. I just got tired of his BS and I emailed him and told him he was a scammer and he should get a job and earn his own money, I said a few other things that I won’t mention. Now he says his dad told him not to talk to me any more, but I just keep agitating him when I see him on line, he told me to stop harrassing him. I have all the emails and chat logs to prove what I just said is true, saved them all! All of this and I didn’t even get flowers, damn!

      • I’m Sgt P Williams currently on Deployment to Ira… (7/30/2010 3:24:33 AM): You are so stupid,nobody get a damn money from you so why do you want to die….You are so urgly and stupid infact nobody can move closer to you to say they can marry a urgly stupid woman like you
        I’m Sgt P Williams currently on Deployment to Ira… (7/30/2010 3:24:53 AM): Get lost and die somewhere i know the government would get your corpse somewhere
        I’m Sgt P Williams currently on Deployment to Ira… (7/30/2010 3:27:34 AM): I never get a danm money from you so why do you want to die….You would stay single forever so look no more hahaha

        This is the response I got from the scammer (Sgt. Peter Williams) when I told him he had been busted by this web site.

  116. CJ and all you other ladies…since I last posted on here I hve made it a daily routine to check these people out.. i have found more names and would like for you to know them as they state themselves online. Here are the ones I have cleared with someone from the Army that are scammers… Alex Noble; Billy Kindt; Christopher Woods; David Roberts; Steven Roberts; Rlph Edwards; Daniel Collins; Engle Martin; and James Scott..all of which use these names on Yahoo Messenger. See I do work for the Anniston Army Depot in Anniston, Alabama… I ran these names on their computer and they do not exist as being single men…some of which have passed during the line of duty. The others are simply impersonating an officer and the information I submitted will be sent to these officers and their commanders. It is against the law for me to tell you which officers are dead and which are alive…rest assured I have spoken to 2 of the above named men.. they are married and very happy with thier spouses.
    Thanks

    • Messg for SUSIE,,, Can you drop me a quick line at trishwills60@hotmail.co.uk I would appreciate it, as you may be able to give me complete closure on my dilema, Thankyou

    • Susie,
      Please add a Sgt. David Edwards, US Army to the list. We have been in contact for 8 months, I’ve lost 17,661.00 and his IP address is Lagos, Nigeria & Madenhead, Nigeria.
      Thank You for All Your Help,
      Kathy C.

    • OMG. Not that I havent already gotten my heart crushed over the last year I just got scammed. Luckily only my heart. The moment he asked for money I knew something was not right. Ladies….Martin Engles is a scammer. he may go by Engles Martin. he uses Yahoo IM to sweet talk you. The scum bag had the nerve to ask me to marry him before asking for money. And now he knows so much about me. Do I feel like an idiot. I have been ill for th elast year and on medical leave and this man…no Dog.. has the nerve to ask me for money. I struggle every day to just pay my bills and feed my kid. Susie, Thank you for your persistance. I needed to see his name here somewhere so I could end this farce. Though a good freind of mine and I are already in the process of screwing with him. Can not wait till he IMs me after coming in from “NIGHT PATROL” i n Afganistan. I know I shouldnt feel like a total idiot but it is what it is and I will have to deal with it.

      • yupp… i have almost been scammed.. check out Major Carl Edwards… carl.edwards2000@yahoo i have almost the exact same email to me that was published of this scammer elsewhere… I was taken in by his warmth and affection 9in the email for a week,, he is good…. knows how to pull on the heartstrings..has sent me photos currently and i sent him photos.. when he started asking for a phone and $ i pulled back… another man calls himself lukwesley@yahoo.com also contacted me through match.com and he and i actually talked on the phone! He admitted that he is going to Nigeria with his 12 yr old daughter.. i commented on his Nigerian accent since i am very good with accents.. he actually wants to keep communicating… It was interesting to note that he called me while i was online with Carl edwards… and carl had asked to take a little break… veryyyy interesting.. i will be talking to a buddy of mine in the FBI who did alot of work over in Iraq.. this is so sad… I was almost hooked.. he is so good a scammer i am almost wondering if it was a female impersonating Carl.. google major carl edwards and military scamming. I am going to call match.com and let them know about this too

  117. CJ, I need some help with one that says he is the real deal. Please email me asap
    thanks
    Susie

  118. I don’t what to believe..Scott Ludvik claims he is a soldier…can someone please check him out…I will also send pics to you CJ…Thanks

    • Angela (and everyone else), I really want to help more but the truth is that I’m a very demanding and stressful military job and I don’t have the time to check on the dozens of guys being emailed to me. I wish I did, but I just don’t. Every now and then I try to add one or two to this post, but I”ve been working until 7pm or later the past few weeks. There is an easy way to tell if the person you are talking to is a real Soldier or not. Ask them to send you an email from the AKO email. If they refuse or ask you what that is, they are fake. If they give some bogus excuse about security or accessing the system, they’re fake. Bottom line: if they refuse to you an email from a .mil email address instead of a .com email address, they are fake! I can’t make it any easier than to verify these guys.

      • Amen Brother in Arms! And if they ask you to send something to someone else…FAKE. They have APO address over there. They get paid the same EVERY 2 WEEKS. They should not need ANYTHING from you, they have access to a store and most places now adays ship to APO no problem. If he wants a Camera or Ipod, the deusch can afford it!

  119. Understand CJ and thanks for all the help you have already given, You have been great and I am sure I speak on behalf of all the women here when I say a huge Thanks. You stay safe there and all the best…Marlene

  120. Thanks for the work done on this website – I was able to spot a scammer almost immediately. Surprise! No further contact once challenged! The only thing I feel sad about is I am sure that there are genuine soldiers who would appreciate friendship and don’t deserve to have their ID misused.

  121. schreiben sie an yawboat20@yahoo.com wenn sie betrogen worden sind.dort sind sie richtig.ich bin diesen weg gegangen wegen james rellinger und mr.ken john.man hilft mir dort die betrüger zu finden.danke für das forum denn da kann man viel einsehen was sich auf der welt alles abspielt.viele betrüger gibt es was für eine schreckliche zeit

  122. CJ..Thanks for all of your help. Everyday i check your site because i have a connection with women who knows how it feel to be lured in or taked by these guys. I can’t discuss this with my family. They would not believe that this even occurs let alone i was so nieve. I have met woman on this site who i am now friends with and is such a support. You have taken on something that has helped so many of us and I do understand about your demanding schedule but really appreciate your efforts…

  123. who is capt eddy james fouillouse

  124. has anybody came across sgt henry williams email address henrycole555@hotmail.com

  125. cj I understand your busy but I really need your help. My mom went on this dating sight and usually I’m OK with her dating but there just seems to be something off with this guy. he says his name is David Edward and hes 48yrs old. he has a 9 year old son and his wife died of cancer 5 years ago. i read the article and i don’t believe he is who he is but my mom wont believe me. So if possible I would really appreciate it if you could look this guy up for me he says hes in the air force and hes a SGT.

    • Kristy, if she doesn’t believe you, she won’t believe me. I can’t look up Air Force people. My only advice is that you tell your mom to be careful and NOT sent money when he asks for it. That will be the tip-off. But, his story matches almost all of them with the whole sob story of a dead wife and a young child.

    • Does he say where he is suppose to be from? But he is using the same mo as the scammers use.

    • Kristy, that story sounds like one that I was told to by one claiming to be a lietenuant in Iraq, does she have pictures of him?

    • Kristy, Pls. tell your Mom to stop. He has been emailing me for 8 mos. as Sgt. David Edwards from the Army DVDWARDS@YAHOO.COM.Total scammer. IP addresses from all over, Lagos, Nigeria & Maidenhead, Nigeria.
      Sorry,
      Kathy C.

  126. ware is the real lt2jefferyseanmiller that ive just sent 2,000 to says he is in afghan

    • Tracy, sorry you lost your 2,000.00 what was it that he wanted it for? And were you engaged to him? Did you talk to him on the phone or just internet?
      Thanks, wondering, if I am in love with the real Miller, or living out a story like yours.

      CIW

    • he is also jeff haggard davind ramos robert haggargand more

  127. there are 4 jefferymillers on face book . so ware is the real miller lt2 jefferyseanmiller

    • messg for Tracy… Sorry but i think your Miller is same guy as on face book ( but I havent actually seen that one but have been told by a friend from SA she put it there ( she made a port folio of the FAKE,, ( same one as on the U.tube on google under Philip Miller and Alias.. ( he is a crafty one this one and will convince any one with WEB cam as well to try and convince that he is the real Miller ( I and many more have been trying to trace the REAL MILLER for MONTHS… and MONTHS I can send you the pics I have if you want to see them or you can send them to me and i will tell you if its the same guy as I and my friends have come to ” KNOW ” Luckily i didnt lose any cash not with this one… But he is a CON MAN of the “HIGHEST CALIBRE” I had him thown off Badoo and afew other sites but what can we do.. nothing works he still manages to CON any lady that does not ” see him coming before hand ” he has the LOOKs too to attract any women….and uses a FACE insert on web cam of the REAL Miller on WEB cam. you can find me at trishwills60@hotmail.co.uk Bye and good luck

      • Aka: Miller….I have been scammed by Andrews Miller using the same photos. He found my profile on Plentyoffish.com on 6/29/2010. He sent me some of the same pictures posted on the youtube video and the facebook pages of Jeffery Miller. It appears this scammer has now gone by the name of Jeff/Jeffery Miller, James Miller, Richard Miller, Philip Miller, David Miller and now Andrews Miller and still using the military pictures of the real Miller. This scammer needs to be stopped asap.

    • hi think im being scamed by pedrito javier the says hes in love with me he has stared 2 ask me for money dont have any sent 40 pound he now asking 2500 for leave he has asked me 2 be his benifisher 4 his propertys his solisoter as asked me 4 bank details passport etc and he is asking for bank details what should i do

      • could you chek out michael templeton please

      • hi tracy, my mom is also being scammed by pedrito javier, he’s told her he loves her, needs money to get out the army, is a widower, has a sick daughter, says he’s from houston texas, but is infact in richmond, washington, (tracked his ip) ive seen forged driving licence he has sent to my mom, army id that is fake, he is using col.328@live.com, to email, cant find his army leaving papers (supposidly got out the army 6-7wks ago) took him 10mins to tell my mom what time it was in houston, plus other stuff, and then i find your post on here, feel free to email me anytime craig.gillam@hotmail.co.uk, hope he hasnt scammed you, get rid of this person asap, he only wants your money, dont fall for his charm, do some home work on him, if your still in contact with him, ask for his apo for when he was “on tour of duty” (apo = american post office (should b apo then numbers) or his mos, he will lie to you, if i can help you in any way dont hesitate to email, DONT SEND HIM ANY MONEY, NOT A PENNY i have pictures of this scammer, if you would like to see them let me know, take care x

  128. CAN SOME ONE TELL ME WARE THE REAL JEFFERY SEAN MILLER IS ITS THAT MILLER THATS ALL OVER FACE BOOK IVE JUST LOST 2,000 TO . AND HE KEEPS COMEING BACK KNOW WAY .lt2jefferymiller@yhaoo.co.uk and lt2jefferymiller@att.net .

    thanks if you can help and dose the real miller now he as 4 profies on face book alone

  129. thy also have a shares web site so look out for that one . rob stockshares ….web site

    • Tracy more then likely the real soldiers first name is not Jeffery. The scammers always change part of the name to so you don’t run across the real soldiers myspace or facebook page.

  130. can somebody please tell me if sgt henry williams is real or not he is in camp phoenix in afghan

    • Hi Nigirl,
      I don’t know about Sgt Henry Williams but I am communicating with a Captain Tawer Fredie from camp Phoenix in Kabul, not sure if he is real either, so sad how they prey and take advantage of us women, guess it’s the price we pay for being lonely. Thankful we have CJ on our side, I have not sent any money but my man sure had me feeling so good about myself, we are getting engaged in Dec…. so he says. Hate to admit it but my heart is breaking just thinking this is all a scam.

  131. Hi, I also was scammed, if you could email me I will send you photo’s of us soldiers I also would like to know the name of the real person in the photo’s as I am a cancer patient but I’m in remission now and I would like to have closure.

    • Fay, send them to me at cajanet43@yahoo.com
      I will do my best to help you. Sometimes it can be very hard to find out who the real soldier is, but I have been able to find a few of them.

      • HAI I HAVE PICS TO FROM A CAPTAIN
        HE WAS IN DAFOUR. PLEASE IF YOU CAN INDIFI FOR ME THANKS YOU CAN CONTACT ME
        brendadeneve@skynet.be

  132. One more to add to the list.
    He is using the name SergentVictor@Yahoo.com Nick name Snake! (I wonder why) I even told him he should learn how to spell Sergeant first clue. He can’t spell worth a %#%^ uses i for I am sentences broken and unfinished thoughts second clue. He started with Hey! when he came on line. Within a day it was Honey! third clue. Call be Baby tell me you love me within the week. fourth clue. With in two weeks it was Ts2 line was needed. BTA (Basic Travel Allowance)was needing to be paid.
    Wife died, son lives with Mother in Indiana. Missing them. Does not want to die in Afghanistan. Needs money to get home. IP address shows Sunnyvale Ca.
    He got very insulted when I told him I knew that he was doing. And you have to answer to your God just like I have to answer to mine. But said he loved me more than the money I would not send him. Again ask for money the next day. Just a text book case. Just what it says in all the web sites. Just read all you can and listen. Believe your head over your heart. These are are fighting men getting a bad wrap from these bums.

  133. JJ…Thank you for helping me find out the truth..

  134. Hi,

    CJ/JJ… Could you please tell me if armymail.com is a legite email address for a soldier serving in iraq.

    Thanks

    • No it is not.

  135. Thank goodness for this site. Was in contact with Mark Brown but nothing added up – his mails did not make sense. He sent me photos and one was of Ruddick sitting inside a lorry holding a gun. I have kept the mails and the photos- one showing his ‘daughters’. please get in touch via my e-mail and I’ll send them on. And thanks again.

    • Think he is the same guy as Alex/Alexander/Harry Swain and also as Mark Brown. Look at pics above.

  136. I was doing some background checking when I came across your web-site. This encouraged me to check further & I discoved the IP address being used was in London.The e-mail addresses used were
    sgtdavidmonfils@live.com
    and
    davidmonfils01@yahoo.co.uk
    Fortunately, no harm done to me or my bank balance!
    This site has been very useful as I have no knowledge of the US military, ranks or insignia & the web sites for these are somewhat lacking. I’m glad I stumbled across your site as I may not have found out the deception as quickly. It goes without saying that I have reported the IP address to an abuse site & the culprit to Friends Reunited as I was contacted via their site. Anyway, thanks again!!

  137. There is this guy who says he is Bill Haggard 2 on yahoo.messenger, I’ve been talking to who ever this is for a couple of weeks, We met on migenti.com, there his id is santaigo. Anyway, I put in that I was looking for friends only, but we started talking and he sounds like one of those ( to good to be true sayings), so anyway he mentions about sending a care package, so he said his commander gave him this e-mail to get intouch with them and they would tell him what needed to be done, I asked him if he needed to cantact them or would it be easier for me to contact them so I could get the information, inorder to send a care package. the e-mail he gave me is, ( morgins100@gmail.com ) so I sent a note to them asking what needed to be done, I haven’t heard from them yet. Anyway,I was curious about where he was located so I looked it up, Afghanistan, Kabul camp Eggers well I put info in and looked it up on google, I love this site, so anyway this guy I put his name in as well, and the sites come up, so I was looking at one checking it out and guess who’s picture shows up. u got it, the very same person I’ve been talking to. so I keep reading all sounds familiar, except the one I been talking to has a 17 year old son who lives with the sons Aunt, anyway mommy died, and Bill said that his mom and dad were killed in an accident. so supposedly he has no family(Bill) anyway he can’t call me, but he will try, I can’t call him because he’s guarding some wall and u know it could give their position away. I feel stupid cause I kinda believed the part about the son living with the aunt, and his wife being dead, and the part about mom and dad, but everyone I know in the military are allowed to speak with family, I don’t know how it works but I do know they communicate. Anyway like I said I started looking for info and this is what I found, so I am letting you know about this person, oh his birthday is supposedly on July 1st and he was born in 1965 or 66 I forget, but he’s 45, I’m assumming 46 six now. oh he’s Irish American and the profile says he is from Tampa,Fla and he said when he got married they moved to Georgia, but he has to sell his house in Georgia, Well this should be enough to do what u do, warn the people who fall for this and the families that r being used. to give these type of people their ID’s. It really is sad. Thank God I have a curious side and thank you for this site. Have a blessed day and again thank u.

    • hello Dorothy,

      Well seems the same guys I’ve been chatting with except his name is Alfred Haggard I don’t know if you do have pictures of him see it’s same person and would like to exchange as well my picture. YOu can reply to me at: valpolicella@ymail.com

      • Julie,

        I think that we have been talking to the same person. I have some photos if you want to exchange any? You can email me at:
        toniesmom@rocketmail.com

        • FYI ladies, the man in the picture (Robert Haggard) above is now going under the name of Haggard Millar, been chatting to him for about a week, a little different story than previous posts, has a daughter not a son. Just be careful ladies.

    • dorothy,
      i wish i had read this before i started talking to chris haggard 47 parents killed in car accident married 14 years wife cheated divorced last 4 years tampa fl his pictures are listed above as robert bill haggard i feel very foolish and my heart is broken i will never use a dating site again funny tho some of his emails have a little bit of the mike gales? emails this is either the same person with all of us or they have a handbook either way im sorry for the hurt i know all of you have had as im going thru it now myself.

  138. Hello to everybody!I am very gratful to have found this site and there are so many women with bad experience with the scammer,I never thought that such thing could happend to me!but I am not alone,this is good to know!but I can’t come to rest before I’ll find out who is the real soldierEdwards,I don’t know his first name and if he have a family or is he single?please look at this page:http://www.romancescam.com/forum/vietopic.php?t=24076!you will see a lot of photos from this soldier Edwards who the scammer has used!I need an answer please,I know it seems to be crazy but I wanna come to rest,to get this experience out of my head!Thank you for your help!!I need an answer!Thanks again!

    • Hi there… i have been scammed by a certain Sgt. Edwards Smith who said that he’s being deployed in Iraq, stationed in Camp Victory North. Contact me for photos if you want so i can share them with you… he even proposed to marry me…. i am still in distraught!

  139. Hey just to let yall know, Bill L Haggard is also Mike Bill Haggard and he has a new name on Migente.com, it is armylover63 also is 46 and his location is now American Somoa he is now white and other and his sign is Cancer. oh also has the same person in picture, first one he has a blue/white stripped shirt, new one hes has a white shirt, both shirts are collard. Just letting u know.

    • He also goes by by the last name of PEREZ. I asked for his full name to which he stated Wayne Hackert PEREZ. Email address he used is ferraributterfly@yahoo.com. I reported him on match.com

      I have submitted his fake pics to this site, hopefully they will be posted in due time. If anyone was talking to this guy and you need pics for proof contact me at islandgirl@hotmail.ca

  140. hey if u could e-mail me I have more info for u. also look out for a capt. coleman 12 and a frnkluamba this one says his name is frank and he has a son, I was frusrated with this shit that I kinda gave him a piece of my mind.

    • this i know that frank guy dorothy tried it with me said he was mexican in nigeria with his kid

  141. IF ANYONE WANTS TO CHECK OUT THE SO CALLED LIEUTENANT CHARLES RAMSY, HE IS NOW ON MY SPACE.COM.

  142. Do we know if anyone of these scammers have been caught yet? I suppose there are too many small fry its the big fry who needs to be caught.

  143. ja das wäre zeit diesen betrügern das handwerk zu legen.wer weiss mehr über james rellinger.bitte an meine email adresse schreiben

  144. Hello!I think it is really difficult to caught the scammer!!but I hope that many women can be warnd not become a victim of the scammer!Is there anybody who know the real Soldier Edwards?I have postet the page who you can see the pics who the scammer has used from this innocent Soldier!please,write to my email adress if anybody can help me to find him!thanks a lot!

    • Hi! I may have been contacted my the same Sgt. Edwards. What were you told his full name is? Where is he supposedly from? What branch of the armed services. Looking forward to hearing from you. Thanks.

  145. bitte helfen sie mir und schreiben sie mir damit ich weiss ob ih es mit einen betrüger zu tun habe.
    leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com

  146. Has anyone found the real soldier WADSWORTH yet?

    • A friend of mine were involved with a William Wadsworth last year. She was scammed out of a huge amount of money. Were you also one of his victims?

      • Dear Mary,

        I wrote a long email this morning 01h30 about Col William Frank Wadsworth. It must have been lost in translation I have been scammed by him USD100000.00 and nearly a Further USD50000.00

        I just hope that the real Col Wadsworth has more savvy than this imposter.

        Darryl Lopez, What a hunk and be interested in me a women of 60 yip have been in contact with me on of for the last month.

        Have a great day all. We are not stupid just very romantic and sentimetal. Shows how far we would go for a man that declares his love. I can only say Thanks for the memories.

        • is the person in ghana , am a police officer and i can help you get the person because this money is too much to loose and also he is tanishing the image of the country

        • asabere,

          they are all in Ghana…and Nigeria

  147. how to send the pictures? thanks

  148. Gees Ivan Nobile really got around!!

  149. In case ya’ll didn’t see the main page, it looks as if I have been used in these scams as well. I recently found my ugly mug on the dating site datanta.com:

    http://www.soldiersperspective.us/2010/07/09/the-hunter-becomes-the-hunted-a-nigerian-scam/

    • Wow CJ I did not know you were available.

    • C.J. I have a new name to add to the list of scammers. Master Sargent Steve Burton. I will send you his picture.I saw him in a Bar 3 miles from my homea month ago(OOP’s). Don’t think he was counting on that. Had the nerve to contact(IM) me the next day and wanted to know how it made me feel. I wanted to hurt him. He’s not in Iraq at all!!!steveburton38@yahoo.com. I was scammed out of a lot of money!!

      • Hello ladies, I have started to talk to this Steve Burton since last night. Funny thing, though it was not a US dating website or european. I am living in Mexico and the website is called Amor en Linea. I fell like an idiot for another scammer (did not lose any money though) who called himself Kelvin Sadat Ahmed Imoro who supposedly owned a construction company and was doing projects in Saudi Arabia. He had/has a secretary called Prisca Newton, an Italian lawyer called Renato Compri in Verona Italy and a half brother called Ibrahim Imoro. I still hurt, but when I started talking to this “Master Sargeant Steven Burton” I knew he was a fake. I am saving all the conversations we have on Messenger as I did with this Kelvin. If you want photos of the Kelvin guy let me know. I have his secretary too. I have his IP address AND phone numbers =)

        CJ THANK YOU FOR YOUR SITE!!! It has helped me a lot.

    • Hi there,
      I was scammed also by a Bill Pendleton from Miami, with the same story.
      Divorced with a son.
      The funny thing is that I contacted him by a romanian site ….sentimente.ro….
      there are pictures here that I received from him.
      Also in irak and no connection.
      I will be back soon with details.
      Pls let me know what to do.
      Adina

  150. I just sent you an email with a new photo and a link to his profile on http://www.okcupid.com. This guy was really good! His english was flawless! Once I realized it was a scam I chatted with him and he confessed that he was in Nigeria! Then he went back to pretending to be Col. Dennis Gray! I chatted with him for hours every day for a week! I didn’t have a clue until I saw “wire transfer” and then the red flags went up!

  151. Hi there I too have been in contact with Darryl Lopez his profile was on woome.com it is just full of scammers anyway has anyone been in contact with a Richard Fischer (fischer23@live.com) claimed that he was serving in Iraq and has a son Paul 18 years old .. would be interest if anyone had contact with him…

  152. Watch out for David Alejandro Walker – same person and pictures as Steven McCabe – thses guys are on British Dating websites

    See for pictures

    http://www.delphifaq.com/faq/male_scammers/f6748.shtml?p=0

  153. Regarding Darryl Lopez Baghdad with a son Jimmy – He is writing to me as well – oh well what can we say – I asked him to mail from his .mil email – no respond!!!

    • Darryl Lopez is one of the scammers. So you will not get a military email address from him.

      • Louet and JJ,
        Darryl Lopez had also been writing and IM’ing me. I was suspicios from the beginning, but played along to see if I could draw him out. My father and uncles were all military men, and I was angry that someone would use a soldier’s ID and pictures. When I finally told him I believed he was a scammer, he sent me a long email saying how frustrated he was with scammers who have stolen his identity and pictures, how his superior officers know about this and are taking care of it, how much he cared for me and hoped I wouldn’t stop writing him, etc….I, of course, wrote him back that I ran his IP address and it’s from Ghana. I also wrote him that if he wants me to believe he’s real, he needs to send me a picture of himself holding a sign with my name on it. Needless to say, I haven’t heard from hm since. LOL

        I have taken the steps to report his scam to both the Dept. of Treasury’s Secret Service division that is investigating internet scams using US soldiers id’s and pictures, and the Army’s own investigative office (address listed above in one of the posts).

        I also sent CJ Darryl Lopez’s pictures, so hopefully at some point they’ll be on this site as well. I just hope someone recognizes the real soldier and notifies him!

        • Think This Lopez is connected to Alex Swain in a way. When I talked to Alex he wnted me to pay for his friend Gerald on match.com. He got me the id and secret word, so I checked and saw the pic which I saved. Found it here and it´s the Lopez guy.

    • that is exactly what I did then called him out on it funny he has not responded since so glad that I could make you more aware – and I only retracted my post after immense pressure from the scammer -but now I say it loud & clear say away from this person he also goes under the WOOME website for Darryl1683 cheers & take care Fiona

  154. Hi there,

    I just finished reading a local magazine (I live in South African) which features an article about a lady who lives in my hometown that has been scammed (Ester I think it’s you) and deided to come and have a look at this site.
    So sad and sick that these “men” would do this…..
    What stands out the most for me is the terrible spelling and sentence construction……was that not a warning bell in itself.
    I am NOT judging….just wondering….

    • hahaha! so much for me asking about their spelling and stuff! I just re read my post! BLUSH!

  155. Hi CJ, thanks to your website, I have evaded a scammer from Ghana posing as Captain Steve Lopez. I have pictures if you would like to post them.

    Thank you very much for bringing attention to this.

  156. Louet or anyone else scammed by Darryl Lopez,
    If you want the name and fax number of the secert service investigator to whom I sent all the info (pictures, emails, chats) of Darryll Lopez, ask CJ for my email address and I will sent them to you so you can add your info to the investigator’s file.

    • Hey tali would love your email address keen to chat with other women about this person – will email CJ / Janet & request that she pass it on… cheers fiona

      • Hi CJ / Janet can u pls email me TALI contact email address cheers Fiona

    • I need CJ’s information, as that son of a bitch got me too. I feel so stupid. but who doesn’t want to hear all those loving things he said. Please help me, I know I won’t get my money back but I just want something done about him!!!

  157. CJ can you mail me the Info of Tali so I can send my pictures of this Darryl Lopez as well

  158. yes I need the numbers and email of an investigators as well because I have been scammed by the one calls himself Steven McCabe claims to be in the air force, we can put a stop on him as well.

    Thank CJ for this website I have been spreading the word around and on facebook, I am a disabled army veteran and I got caught5 in the moment thinking I have found someone but I have learned my mistake not to fall for this mess again
    Thank you again
    and tahnk you the real Msgt Steven McCabe

    • Has the real Steven McCabe been notified?

  159. I just found this website today. “Tom Curtis” is still around. We have been in contact for about a month. He said he was retiring in 5 months, “fell in love” almost immediately, and sent me some lovely flowers (from San Diego) last week. He has not asked for any money though. I now feel like a fool and idiot, but am glad I found this website before anything bad happened.

  160. Hi CJ,

    I, too, was scammed by a man who called himself Staff Sgt Marvin Pendleton, based in Basra, Iraq. Looking at the photos on your site I see he has also gone under the name of Steve Endleton and Tom Curtis. This Marvin Pendleton actually phoned me but I have caller ID on my phone so kept the number. The accent was all wrong and when I questioned him about it he suddenly came up with the fact that he was actually brought up in ST Louis so that accounted for the French accent??!!?? When I realized this was a scam I contacted the US Army at armycomrel@mailwc.custhelp.com and they advised they would respond within 24 hours. I gave them the telephone number (Ghana) and the email and messenger addresses. That was on the 23rd May and I am still waiting. Surely there must be some organisation within the US miliary that is looking into all of this. If so, who do we forward all the information to, as I assume having a telephone number may be helpful. Any response to this question would be aprpeciated – thanks.

    After much searching I located a man by the name of Tom Pendleton on both Facebook and Myspace with the same photos. Dont know if this is his real name or just another scam, but on Facebook he had about 63 friends, many apprearing to be miliary, so who knows. I see you state you have actually spoken to the real man and say he is married. On Facebook and Myspace it states he is single. I did send him an email stating what had happened and the next thing is he states on his page “I think I am a legend’ so am not too sure if I actually did manage to contact the real guy.

    Ester, thanks for having the courage to go to the local press here in South Africa. Your story sounds so similiar to mine that I have already had folks contact me asking if I had written the article.

    Ladies, we are worth so much more than these scumbags and should not judge ourselves too harshly. Many of us have been taken in thinking we are talking to born again solid christians who can quote the Bible backwards. We just have to keep our faith and know that there are really good guys out there – even ones that seem too good to be true.

    • Hi CJ,

      I live in South Africa and I have just been scammed by ‘Robert Hannett’. I have been corresponding with him for 6 weeks and he sent loads of e-mails, telling me how much he loved me. He also said that he was coming to South Africa to meet me. I found about the scam yesterday just in time. I received an e-mail from him yesterday telling me his luggage has been detained at customs in Ghana, where he was going to fetch his son. He asked me to send him
      $1 500 dollars to get his luggage and also said that he has important documents which gives him access to $650 000, which he cannot declare to customs.
      I have now played along and told him that I would transfer the money.
      He has just sent me an text message asking if I have done the transfer, the cell number is +233245091066.
      I have sent you the e-mails which contain the photos.

      • Hi Jacqui and CJ
        Would like to lift a bit of weight off of my shoulders as I have no one else to converse with. Just to let you know this is a similar senario that I have had from the so called Captain Alexander Swain (but no fetching a son). We have been e-mailing each other since begining of May 2010 up until now 24 July 2010. He then apparently got injured toward end of May and asked for special leave and was coming to SA to meet me. I received an e-mail on 25 May saying he had also been detained at customs in Ghana re luggage issue and also had to appear in court there. Also was requesting money to be sent via Western Bank Transfer or by Moneygram to a Mr Patrick Otchere, 228 Airport Avenue, Ghana, Zip Code 00233, City Accra. When transfer done to text him (Alex) on cell +233279938402 . Please also refer to my reply further down this page to Eileenn Flanagan’s message dated 20 July 2010 for further info on this Cpt. Swain.
        Regards Tricia

        • Check all what I wrote about Alex Swain. Have more to tell obout this guys. Alex and Patrick.

  161. CJ – is there something similar we can report to in the UK (other than the police) I know that the scammmers are working out of British dating sites as well – i.e.the notorious Steven McCabe aka David Walker.

    I will also happily send stuff to the Secret Service investigator if it can help.

    I understand that the Real Sgt McCabe and his wife are far from happy about what is happening – but the US military legal people have said that they can do little to stop this.

    • Hey Sam
      how long ago was you scammed by this BASTARD Msgt Steven McCabe, I have also been scammed by him as well I meet online ZOOSK dating line as of june 2009 but did not send him money until sept thru dec and I started to get email from others girl telling that his a scammer, so I have been trying to get info to the FBI so I can have backup when I get this scumbag if you like you can email at mvazquez4@msn.com…..that goes with anyone they also can email as well

  162. kindly email me contact details of where I can send pics of SFC Darryl Lopez who has been writing to me too. He also told me he has a son called Jimmy and that he has no parents and wants to relocate as soon as he is finished his assignment in Baghdad.

    • WOW how can one man relocate to so many places LOL – cheers fiona

      • Fiona, that’s too funny!
        btw, I joined the FB site and posted more pictures of Darryl Lopez on the scammer’s list, in additon to the one you sent.

  163. Has anyone been contacted by one Staff Sgt Robby Williams, currently in Afghanistan? He’s from the cupid site.

  164. Brenda, yep, that’s the same story by Darryl Lopez I’m sure we all got — parents deceased, wanting t0 relocate, and all about Jimmy.

    Since so many are here asking for the information of whom to report Darryl Lopez and others, I’ve decided to list the info for the Army and the Secret Service right away. Since the fax number is to the Secret Service, I doubt scammers will use it.

    Secret Service fax number in L.A., CA is 213-533-4729. The investigator I spoke with, and faxed the pictures and emails/IMs to, is Neal Jetton. Put “In regards to scammer posing as SFC Darryl Lopez” on the cover page. Send ALL you have received from this scammer, including pictures.

    The Army investigative division where you can email pictures and complaints is: I attached the pictures he sent me with my complaint/report email. Be very thorough in your information.

    My concern is that a soldeir is being victimized and that a small child’s pictures are being used by a scammer. I reiterated that in my reports to both investigative agencies.

    Good luck, all.

    • Thanks Tali will also send my info – did anybody have this person stage a picture of them in front of a calender then have a laptop open at the back with yr picture on it – very clever person

      Cheers
      Fiona

      • fiona, no, but he did promise me that picture, too. hahaha. But by then I told him I knew he was a scammer. damn! I should have held out for that pic. ;P I did see yours on the FB page. You can see it’s pasted on, so he’s not all that clever…

  165. Ladies,

    Since it seems that Darryl Lopez making his rounds, and other scammers are popping up with familiar names again, here’s the info I got for reporting them. I contacted both the Army investigative division for online scams and the Secret Service division for online scams. The investigator they directed me to is working on scammers using pictures of US soldiers. Here is the info:

    For the Army, email a report/complaint and attach the pictures you have. Be very specific and give all the information you can. Email to:

    For the Secret Service, I contacted the one in Los Angeles, CA. The fax number is 213-533-4729. The agent’s name is Neal Jetton. Fax EVERYTHING you have from the scammer – pictues, emails, chats, etc.

    Good luck, all.

  166. I wanted to bring the attention of a scammer who uses the identity of a COLONEL PEDERSEN,KELVIN. He currently has a profile on MATE1 under peddy4kelvin. This impersonator would communicate with me on Baghdad time, as he claimed to be there stationed at Camp Victory.Allegedly part of the 3rd infantry and states he is a bomb specialist. Widowed for 2 yrs with a 17 yr old daughter in CO.Before “deployment” he was based out of Fort Carson CO. Immediately proceeded with the sweet talk and sending daily poems- suggestions for a satellite phone then vacation/transit leave were brought into the conversations. Sent LOTS of pics of a handsome soldier with the last name PEDERSEN on his uniform. Went so far as to ask me to email General Odierno for a vacation request-the email I received in return had very poor grammar. The “general” needed an amount of $1750 to process the vacation leave. I was also sent what looked like a very legitimate flight intinerary from Kuwait to CA. UNBELIEVABLE that this insanity occurs online, and with our innocent hardworking soldiers!! I will be sending COL PEDERSEN’S photos to CJ as soon as possible.
    Has anyone been exposed to the jerk impersonating this soldier??
    I am out to redeem this soldier’s true identity- the REAL Pedersen deserves at least that!!!!!

  167. RE: COLONEL PEDERSEN,KELVIN
    I forgot to add that he can be found on facebook under PEDERSEN KELVIN ( I don’t know if this is the real soldier’s page or made up by the scammers)
    ALSO the scammer uses the YAHOO address of colpeddy@yahoo.com
    He did offer his APO address,did call me once with a very legitimate American accent,but refused to give me his military email address or show some proof of military ID. I even challenged him to have a current photo taken while holding up a sign saying “HI KAYLA” so that I knew that it was a photo in real time. Would not do this due to his position as a colonel.RIIIGGHHHT
    Thank God that I have friends that are there for me and are very good at investigating. I did confront and bust him online and his reply was “Original, Kayla” .What an ass!

  168. Has anyone heard of Ian Cypher, US Major in Kabul? I’m in msn conversation with him right now and for the last 6 weeks. I’ve told him of my concerns and he says he has heard about these things but he is genuine. (He would say that).

    Another one, I’m certain is a scammer, is Jake Burgess, who said he was a Colonel, in Iraq. He disappeared when I said you couldn’t trust people on the internet.

    Thanks.

  169. Ladies,

    I am posting a link for those who don’t know how to find an IP address. It gives instructions for all the major providers.

    http://aruljohn.com/info/howtofindipaddress/

    Additionally, please check out this link for offensive IPs. It will tell you if the IP address is clean or if there was a complaint about it and what the offenses are. I located the IP of my scammer and he is using a satellite provider. I also ran an IP check on an email from a third party provider – mltrytransit@usa.com – supposedly for telecommunication service that I’m to pay the registration and service fee for and sure enough it was the same IP address as the scammer’s. Thankfully, I spotted the flags. There was no way in hell I was going to sponsor someone’s communication.

    Good luck Ladies.

    • so if i do this and the location says it can’t be found but shows lagos, nigeria then he is not who he says he is? since he is supposed to be in iraq and was just shot in the back but had to talk to me on messenger. he also wanted me to send money to the orphanage that saved his life, even if it was just a $100.00.

      thanks for the link to find the ip and to track it.

      • Correct. Do not send any money. They are playing on your sympathy and they know it. No guy in his right mind is going to say I love you to a woman he’s never met. Any time someone spouts I love, I miss you, I need to be with you after a couple of communications should be a red flag.

  170. It would help if I provide the url for the offensive IP.

    http://www.bizimbal.com/odb/search.html

  171. If anynone has any doubts that sfc Darryll Lopez is a scammer, after I wrote him an email where I told him that I had discovered that he’s writing to other women and that I think he’s a scammer, he wrote me a loving email swearing that they other women mean nothing to him, that I’m the one he really connected with, not to stop writing him, etc…..
    Now, here’s the email I received from him after I emailed him back that I checked his IP address, which showed Ghana, that if he’s really a sodier, then send me a photo of himself holding a sign with my name on it, and that I had played along with his emails in order to expose him as a scammer. Notice that his English skills in ths last email have VASTLY deteriorated once his false identity had been stripped:

    >Hi There
    > WELL I DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT >WHAT YOU SAYING, SO YOU CAN MOVE ON AND LET >ME BE ALRIGHT. I never scammed you or >anyone so don’t bother writing me because >you’ve been awarded for your great work to >that site, LOL. Please stop writing me. You >call yourself a honest and loyal person, >now you confessing about false info’s you >gave me..LOL. Please go on with your life >alright, keep on checking IP. Go on IP >TRACKER and hey less I forgot, loyal >citizen, investigator / >teacher…LOL..Goodbye Tali or whatever >your name is……NEVER write me and go on >with your GOOD work…Chief Justice

    Notice, too, that he doesn’t bother with falsely signing his “name.”

    Since so many are being contacted by him lately, and others are asking as well, here’s the info about how and were to report him and others to the authorities. Make sure to be as specific as you possibly can and give all the information you can, including sending copies of pictures, emails, chats, etc. to the investigators:

    ARMY
    crimetips@conus.army.mil

    SECRET SERVICE (Treasury Dept.) in Los Angeles, CA
    Fax: 213-533-4729. Attn. Neal Jetton (he’s the one I sent the info about “Darryl Lopez)

    Good luck, all!

  172. I am from Namibia and have an aunt who lives in Wales, UK. We suspect she has fallen for one of these scammers, but she doesn’t believe us when we try to warn her. She is receiving emails from “Mike Kristin or Christin, with a boy named Ransford. He claims to retire from the air force soon, and asked her to look for a house for them to live in. He keeps on saying he is coming soon to see her, and each time something conveniently happens and he has to replace someone in Iraq or Afghanistan. We are very worried. Do you know the name?

  173. Has anyone heard of a sgt. Andrew Miles. He is stationed in Iraq. He was born on July 11,1979. Hometown is Shreveport, LA. Please let me know either way. Thanks

  174. Thanks, LL, for rescuing my post from the SPAM file. :)

  175. Has anyone heard of a Sgt. Andrew Miles. I meet him on Chemistry.com. Said he was from Shreveport, LA and born July 11, 1979. Any info would be helpful. Started talking about a month ago and he says he loves me and can’t imagine his life without me. I have red flags and trying to find out if they are valid. Thanks for the help.

    • Steph, if you have his email address, you can check if his IP address is from the same place he says he is.

      Go to your Inbox. Righ-click on the email address. In the options that will scroll down, you’ll have “See complete email address” or something worded to that effect. You will see a whole bunch of numbers and computer talk. Right after the last: “received” you will see some numbers in brackets,like [41.64.042] that’s the IP address. Copy it, then go to a site called select “IP LookUp”, paste the copied IP address from the guy in the space provided and click on “Look Up IP Adress”. This will show you the origin country and city of his email address.

      Also, you can ask him to email you from his .mil address. If he won’t, he’s a fake.

      Good luck.

      • Thanks for the help. I found the ip and traces it. The location said was Lagos, Nigeria. This confirmed my thoughts and suspicions.

        • Steph, Let Chemistry know. I met Tom Curtis around that same time. I think they came on for that free weekend in June. I got 2 that the same weekend, but one was just way too blatant about trying to scam me, and I got rid of him pretty fast. Tom Curtis was much smoother.

  176. Thank you Tali – I mailed the very first letter plus all the pictures I received from MR DARRYL LOPEZ to crimetips.
    I asked for your mail adress from CJ but did not receive anything yet.
    Thanks -

    • Please e-mail my ladybebe5@yahoo.com the crimetips contact information. This really needs something done about it. Thank you for your help.

  177. Hi everyone, I’m from South Africa, Gauteng, anyone be in contact with Staf Sergeant Christian Richardson from Iraq/Baghdad, lives in Miami Florida?
    CJ, I did send you pictures yesterday, just advise if you had received it as I lost about 200,000-00 ZAR the pass 4 months.

    • CJ, sorry, I just want to say I did send it from a different e-mail address as the 1 I used to reply here. Regards & many thanks for the good work.
      To “Erna van Zyl” thanks for allerting all our fools that there are people like these outsite!!!

      • Hi Elizabeth, just reading your messages here, yes I can also recall having had contact with someone going with the name of Christian Richardson, I think it was probably mid last year sometime. Dont know if the same person. He used the e-mail address christianrichardson37@yahoo.com. We only chatted for about a week and then I just didnt bother anymore.- Trish

        • Yip, it’s him, CJ did post his photo’s. Check them out!! Was it the same photo’s?

  178. Tom Hilton Curtis has a new email: captomhiltoncurtis@yahoo.com. When I confronted him and asked him for an email from his .mil account (the suggestion CJ makes above), this was the exchange:

    Tom Curtis: First i needed to change my email account remember that someone hacked into my files and computer……….
    Tom Curtis: Secondly am not Married!
    Tom Curtis: all those you saw on that site was just to runing the lifes of the Faithful soldiers here in the Middle east
    Tom Curtis: dont know how they do it but i have sent my email to the Head Quaters for proper investigation Kathie
    Tom Curtis: You have to believe me
    Kathie B: Fine. Send me a msg from your .mil account. My military friends say you should be able to do it.
    Kathie B: Which headquarters office is handling the investigation?
    Tom Curtis: Washington DC……….
    Tom Curtis: Well i do have a military email address but i cant cos here in the middle east is just a classified thing
    Kathie B: Mmm, I live in DC. I know the offices. Which one?
    Tom Curtis: 93th Ave,Abraham Lincoln Street,Washington DC,WA ,USA
    Kathie B: Street does not exist. Either one of them.
    Kathie B: I live here. I know my streets. Also for a numbered street, that is written incorrectly.
    Tom Curtis: Well Kathie seems you arent paying attention to me ……….
    Kathie B: Oh yes, I am. 100 percent.
    Tom Curtis: Kathie do you believe what you saw on that site? then if you do, then i am what they say i am!

    There you go… an admission from his own mouth.

    By the way, if there is ANY lingering doubt, he was unfamiliar with the Pentagon and its location (NOT in Washington, DC but across the river). And did you notice the city/state line (which I didn’t even mention) says Washington DC WA USA! What is that?!?!?!?

    Beware ladies. He’s a smooth talker, and very effective, and he is probably learning new lines and perfecting his moves on each one of us.

  179. CJ – I do have pics of a sgt. Andrew miles. I meet him on chemistry.com, however he did let it slip he also is on Cupid.com. I contacted chemistry and they removed his profile. I do not know about Cupid. I traced the ip from his email and the location is Lagos, Nigeria. He asked me to send money on his behalf to an orphanage that saved his life in Iraq. He did try to get me to contact his superior to ask about a leave so we could meet. I did not act on either one. Let me know if you would like the pics he sent me and any other info.

    Please ladies be aware of someone pretending to be Sgt. Andrew Miles from Shreveport la

  180. Can anybody tell me if they have been in contact with a Neil Brown who is supposedly working in Pakistan with the UN. (I think not). I am very interested in learning if anybody has been contacted by hime.

  181. I have been corresponding with Darryl Lopez for six weeks on yahoo IM. He was going to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me. Son Jimmy as well. Then he was going to send me his important documents by a diplomat named Dingane Mallor and wanted me to pay 15K on receiving these documents for him since he could not access his us funds. BIG RED FLAG. Of course I said no way. When confronted with the info on this site, he was still denying everything. SO MANY LIES. BE CAREFUL. I feel sorry for the guy who is really Darryl Lopez and the pictures that are being used. I WISH I COULD FIND OUT HOW TO GET IN TOUCH WITH THE MAN IN THE PICTURES AND THE REAL DARRYL LOPEZ. Anyone with that info, please send it to me. Thankyou

    • Wendy,

      Yes, same scam with all of us. I, also, feel a great need to warn the real man, especially since pictures of his son are also being used. I can’t imagine how the real man would feel about pictures of himself, but mostly his son, being used! But I don’t know how to find this guy. I checked FB and MySpace for all Lopez, without any luck. My hope that by reporting this to the Army and the SS (see post above, July 14, I think) for how) they might locate him and warn him.

      • Tali,

        I sent all the information and pictures I had on Darryl Lopez to the FBI, Secret Service and Crimetips. Hopefully if enough of us send the information, they will do something about it. I feel really bad for the real person. I would like to see one of his pictures posted on this web site, so we would all know if they are using the same pictures all the time for Darryl Lopez. Thanks to everyone putting their information out here, so others may not be scammed.

  182. It seems that these scammers are on every dating site. Darryl Lopez contacted me from 12Meetseniors.com, a site for people 40 or older. A warning: I’ve received about 10 emails from that site, in the 2 weeks I tried it out, and ALL, EVERY SINGLE ONE, of them were scammers. Some the site caught before I even had a chance to respond to their emails (the emails arrived the same day the site removed the profiles) and others, like Lopez, I notified the site about. So I’m thinking that the same scammer group is trolling that site, and when one gets caught, another one tries. Only one, Darry Lopez, as far as I know, was a “soldier” but two other ones were, supposedly, private contractors working in Iraq.

    So be careful out there, people!

    • Hey Tali
      I think we need to get a working group together for Darryl Lopez alone it is getting to the point of being just down right rude, I do not regret posting his name on this sight and so pleased that I had the small opportunity to raise other women’s awareness thank you for your tiring work Tali and providing valuable info re this person and where we can make a complaint – which I will certainly do – if you need me email address then catch up with Janet or CJ and happy for them to provide it – take care thanks again Fiona

      • Fiona, I’m all for it. How do you suggest we do that? I do want to stop this guy.

        Jeanette or Wendy, can I have Fiona’s email address sent to my email address?

        • Hi tali have just face booked my email address to you – catch up very soon cheers Fiona

      • Well ladies Mr. Lopez has been a busy man this month of July. I Have been talking with him since June 26. I was being called his wife and this Mr. Mallor is suppose to meet me to at the airport to deliver the important papers. Well, I did get suckered in and sen 1000. And it was going to be me, him and our Jimmy also. Red flags came up, but damn what a good looking guy who ever it is the pictures, who wouldn’t want to be with someone like that. I to would like to hunt the sucker down, and kick his ass!

      • What can be done to him. Actually, I kind of feel sorry for the guy, if this is the only way he can get women to talk to him

  183. I come from Indonesia.. I had been comunicating with some one who introducing me as Sgt CJ Grisham.. He use an Id For comunication with me in Yahoo messenger CGrisham22@yahoo.com.. He tell me that he work for US army. He aks me to send 220$ to make comunication with me.. than He got that money from me.. BRAVO for Him.. Cos he succes as a lier to get 220$ from me.. Than last time he aks me again for 600$ to leave request from US ARMI.. I just thinking that is to much for me.. than I open google search to colect information.. than i find this page.. He told me that he was already 2 years Devorce n had a kid 7 years old and the name of his kid is Chris.. in the act i show information from CJ Grisham blog n site that he have 3 kids n happy family..
    I m very glad to raed this page n all the comment..so i will never feel desapointed with my self cos i send my money to the LIER ..

    • The REAL CJ is the one writing the articles on this blog, and is not a scammer. If you look in the earlier posts, you can read the real CJ writing about his own pictures being used for scamming.

  184. I too was led on, my jerk said he was Kenny Schultz. His photos are on this site listed with 2 other names. I was not 100% sure about being scammed but had red flags all along. His Mom was a teacher and Dad worked in the medical field of the milirary, then went to the gold minds in Ghana. He had an agent that all mail had to go through, he wanted me to send him a $300.00 phone, clothes, necklace and cologne. I did not want to pay Fed-Ex only charges when I know you can send to APO-FPO via USPS. The final kicker yesterday was when he asked if I could hold 2.7 million dollars in securities that were his dad’s left to him after his death. The agent had to hand deliver and I could not tell anyone. I said ok, went to work and started the search on line. I found this web site and what do I see but his pics already on here 2 other times…..I was so mad that I sent him an accusing e-mail and he tried to make me think I was not trusting him….My one regret is deleating everything….I then went on Match.com to see what else was on there and there were 2 from a local town, not using the military pics, that had the exact same profile. I have learned they do not use a capital “I” all lower case. I reported this to Match.com and I will keep checking them out so no one ever has to go through what we have. I was very lucky and lost no money, but my trust is shot out the wazoo….Ladies/Men be careful….do not let this happen to you…

    • Connie, I also was scammed by Kenny Schultz, my story is almost the same as yours. I seen his photo on here too. I can’t believe I let him sucker me in. Boy I have learned a big lesson. My trust is also shot. Live and learn ladies and also listen to your gut feelings, I wish I had.

  185. For what its worth on this face book group we place all scammers photo’s….if go through it we would be surprise how many USA Army photo’s you will find http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/group.php?gid=123980887398&ref=ts

    • Helen, I wasn’t able to get to your FB group with this link. What’s the name of the group, so I can simply get to it through my FB?

  186. Dear CJ-
    Thank you for bringing these scams to our attention. An atempt of a scam was recently made on me by a Msgt Steve Jordan of the USAF who is serving in Afghanistan. I met him on Chemistry.com. The scam first started with sharing sad stories with me about his life and then he asked me to purchase a satelite phone so that we could speak. I told him I didn’t have the money. Fortunately I know people who are affiliated with the Air Force and they told me that this was not an appropriate request. Steve also asked me to help him get leave. Only military personnel get their own leave. I will be contacting Chemistry.com to let them know about him. I have pictures of this pilot and I truly wish that this individual can somehow be contacted to let him know that his personal photos are out there, being used to scam women. I don’t even know if this pilot is still alive, and would feel truly awful for his family if they were to be notified. I have pictures of him and his children. Would somebody please contact me to let me know where I can send the pictures and emails that I have received from this person. I feel that if this pilot is still alive, he must be made aware of what’s happening to him. Please reply.

    • Karen,

      A few posts above (July 14), I listed the contact information to the Secret Service and Army investigative departments to whom I sent the pictures of a scammer masquerading as an Army soldier. The Air Force should also have an investigative department, just like the Army.

    • Karen,

      Contact the USAF Office of Special Investigations here:

      http://www.osi.andrews.af.mil/main/contactus.asp

      Then select crimebuster tips and make your report. THE OSI is the Air Force’s equivalent to the Army’s CID and is kinda like the FBI for the USAF.

  187. Well ladies the Sargent Steve Lopez that I’m reading about has been promoted to Captain Lopez, stationed in Baghdad. He’s divorced and from New Jersey. Boy is he good at his job and extremely handsome. He didnt ask me for anything as of this morning so I’m lucky. I met him on Match.com. He fell in love fast and asked me to marry him. Got a little upset too when I said no. lol Well take care and thanks CJ for this site.

    • Im wondering if this is the same Lopez that is pursuing most women on different sites – mine was Darryl Lopez SFC stationed @ Baghdad in the 11B Infantry with a son named Jimmy – thank god u did not get sucked in cheers & take care

    • Kim. I am currently talking to a Cpt Steven Lopez that I met on Match.com…He has not asked for any money or anything…I have been trying to check him out to see if he is for real or not…He has been sending me pictures and yes he is a good talker..

      • Hi Angela, please be careful he is a scammer you can red the posts here. I was talking to Steve in June untill the end of July we talked for 2 days he told me he loved me and wanted me to sent 1500 to transit for his release to come visit me. He told me he was from New york had a sister in Flordia and had a 5 yr old son Kelvin.
        He sent me pics tatoos on arms nice looking guy pics of him and his mom and his blonde hair son.His grammar at times was ridiculous always told me he loved me called be baby and my love only after talking to him for 2 days. i did not sent him any money.
        Be careful

    • Hi Kim I was talking to this guy steve as well and we chatted for a month he told me he was from New york and after talking to him 2 days he ask me to sent a request to transit so he can come and visit me. He was telling me he loved me and considered me his wife after talking 5 days, he is a charmer and alot of woman have been scammed by him I never sent anything to him

  188. I chatted with the guy who said is name is Swain. He said he was serving in Iraq as an infantyman his mos number he said was 11b. He said he was in charge of adminstation work.I fell head over heals for him because he lived in my hometown he said. he said he was coming home for good in July. He than told me he got stuck in customs in Kabul and that he needed 6,000 dollars right there and then I knew this was a scam. He went by the name of Alesxander Swain age 46 and divorced. His profile was on match com. his email address his bravo brabo123@yahoo.com thanks Eileen

    • Hi Eileenn, I’m new to this site.I am from South Africa. I have been on 2 dating sites hoping to find a life companion but to no avail, had been let down big time once (the guy was genuine and we did meet and the families, but didnt turn out ok.)But now it seems like I may have been almost sucked in but a scam. A friend of mine at my work was browsing through scam sites and came across this one and told me to look into it as I have been corresponding, so it seems, with someone with the same name you mentioned in your message above named spelt as Alexander Swain same age and divorced and from Iraq, got injured in his shoulder, took leave end on May to come to SA to meet me and wanting to relocate to SA. Apparently took a flight from Dubai via Ghana to SA but didnt arrive here. He sent me message saying that he has been detained at customs in Ghana. Well he is still there, apparently, 2 months now down the line now. Also has requested money to help him out. Also expressed his undying love for me. Must also admit I fell for him, but also have my suspisions.Last short e-mail from him was early sunday morning 24 July 2010. I have since sent him 3 more e-mails but have had no response. The pictures he sent me match those above on this site. Check them out as: Mark1 Mark3 BMark3 and also those fitting the Capt Harry Swain of US Army, 2nd Battalion, 1st Infantry Regiment, MOS11B Infantry. Please compare notes with me as it would be interesting to see if they are the same person. I see Trish from Australia on 14 June 2010 has said she has given CJ some info regarding this alleged Cpt. Alexander Swain. I would be most grateful if anyone of you could give me clarity on this person, and what is his proper name fitting to those picture.
      Thanks -please get back to me asap.-Regards Tricia

      • Tricia,
        I’m also from SA, do as mentioned above and check the IP addresses.
        They all come from Ghana except the diplomat’s, they use USA IP addresses, don’t know how they get hold of it, maybe hacked!!!
        They all come via Dubai with special parcels that must not be open at any customs and then u must keep on paying for the diplomat to get the parcel back from the customs.
        ALL JUST LIES AND AFTER A FEW PAYMENTS, THEY JUST DISSAPEAR.
        Just be careful!!

        • Hi Elizabeth,
          Thanks for your input, please just enlighten me on how to check the IP address as I’ve never done this before. I did think that things somewhere along the line of his /my conversations seemed not right. So I’ve been trying to tag him along to see where I can perhaps try to catch him out, “the rat”. Sent him an e-mail requesting some info out of him. Nothing yet, will just wait and see if he responds.
          And thanks, I’ll be careful.

  189. Hi all,
    Thank you for this site. I was contacted on June 30, 2010 by “David Haggard” on match.com. His english was horrible, but when I saw his pictures my heart melted. We emailed and chatted but never asked me for money. I got suspicious when he said he could never call and when I asked him for his military address he couldn’t produce it. I was stupid enough for sending photos to him early on and hope that they won’t be used….I feel in love with the soldier in the picture, and have been depressed for several days, because you build up this illusion in your mind and now the bubble breaks. I feel bad for the “Haggard” whose pictures are being used. If he is out there I wish you the best. Idid confront the scammer and told him he would be hunted down…..I wish I could’ve done more….but found out too late. My heart is broken,….but I know it was just an illusion. Let me know if I can do more.

    • Dear CJ

      I was contacted by Paul Landis63@yahoo.com. His picture is listed on your website as lanois. I submitted my information to let everyone know that this person who is acting as the real soldier is still scamming people. I was lucky to find out quickly that this scam artist was from Mauritus. I fell in love with this soldier picture. I hope this man is caught. He asked me to purchase a phone for 650.00. I got suspicious and said no way. He hasn’t contacted me since. I have additional pictures.

      • Do you know if this soldier is aware his picture is being used. How can I submit the pictures that were sent to me to you.

      • hello my name is bill from virginia im writing try to find out what the nam,e of the coldier was that ask for the for the phone or maybe you have herd of this email address andre.powell@yahoo.com this guy has been talking with a friend of mine since nov 2010 my friend is a female she has scent this guy money for a phone her scammers name is staff sgt andre powel im not sure what needs to be done he has also told her that he needed her to send him 550 dollars to get for leave rquest she did not send it because i do security work in virginia and have been investigating the net and i found a scma site on google if you type in his name and his email in the search box you will see his email addres pop right out of the page any way pass this name around want to see how many victums he has thank you

    • Hi Beverly, my but our David Haggard has been a busy busy boy! He started contacting me about 6 weeks ago. I knew right away that something was off, but continued to play him for my own amusement. Story was full of holes, and he kept tripping himself up with inconsistencies. Finally got bored of his game and sent an email to him today, telling him what a worthless piece of shit he was and to fuck off and quit bothering.
      Hmm, he has not responded – wonder why? LOL.

    • hi Beverly,
      Dont feel bad at falling in love so quickly.. I also fell for the same thing.. the love u r feeling is really the Joy and love that you have for yourself.. we all have a touch of the divine spirit in us.. sometimes it only takes the “feeling” of being “in love” to access it… do not be too hard on yourself.. you are human and lucky to have that ability to feel joy.. that is what I really beleive.. maybe it wil lhelp u not feel so sad because you are obviuosly an open heart and ready for a “real relationship’ soon trust your instincts! sincerely,
      Jan

  190. I am talking to a Lt Raymond M Klose.
    He apparantly is in Baghdad for the UN.
    No money requests or phone requests have ever been made. He says he is Dutch/American and his accent on the phone confirms this.
    Has anyone else ever heard of him? Where can I go to check him out as I cannot find him on Facebook, My Space or google or anything.
    Could he be genuine????

    • check his ip address. Check at ip locator. Cj has information on how to check a person ip address. It will tell you where the emails are coming from. Yahoo account may say sunny vale california but make sure that you check all the ips.

  191. Hi Joyann,

    I have checked the IP address’s which say they are orignating from Kansas.
    I spoke to him again last night and told him of my uneasiness about everything that is going on concerning these scams so lets see whr he is gonna take it next….
    No money or account details info will ever be shared. His pager number is also strange as it seems to be a UK number as the texts are coming off my UK text allowance and not the International text allowance.

  192. wie kann ich die ip adresse prüfen

    • Hallo ich habe Dir geschrieben:
      Leider kam es zurück:
      Schreibe mir bitte unter Volk.E@web.de dann schicke ich Dir meine Mail nochmal

  193. I have now received leave paperwork to fill out for him which I am not gonna do cos it says I have to pay……..
    Do they really think I am that stupid….NO WAY!!!!
    The paperwork does look very genuine though….United Nations and all that.

  194. Hi Steph

    If you look on the wall of shame you would start running fast fast. This is a scam. It is entirely up to you. This may be originating here in the united states but it smell scam all over. Step stop corresponding with this person. You will hurt for a couple of days but you will get over it. These people are crooks and they are good at it. Try contacting 419eaters.com. You will not be sorry.

  195. I do realise that it is a scam hun but i am just amusing myself and he is so totally wasting his time.
    But what is 419eaters.com???

  196. They are professionals who target the nigerian scammers. If you google 419eaters.com you will get a belly full of laughter. Believe me, you won’t be sorry. Send his information over to the 419eaters.com. You will see what happen to him and his notorious scams.

  197. If you heard my story you would think I had met the man of my dreams. He was going to come home from Afganistan to marry me on the 23rd of November. His wife had died of lung cancer and his son was living in london with his sister ann. He originated from North Carolina. This scammer is so stupid he should rethink his strategy. He has not contact me since. I knew he was up to something bad. I smelt a rat from a far. He asked me for 650.00 to buy a ts communication. I told him I did not have any money. Do you know that desperate fool asked me to borrow it. I got rid of him so fast, I think he was so surprised. I have not heard from him

  198. If you look on the wall of shame, he sent me a picture on this website. He called himself Paul Landis.

  199. The picture he sent me was Colonel Lanois on the wall of shame website picture. I fell in love with his picture

  200. I havnt been returning his texts messages today and he is getting upset about it.
    Apparantly as I have refused to pay a fee to get his leave papers through the correct process he is gonna speak to his boss….and if you believe that you believe anything.

    • Tell him you have contacted the fbi and the army to verified his information. He will disappear fast

      • apparantly he can’t be verified as he is no longer in the 101st Airbourne Division but works for the United Nations as a War Physycologist for the Intelligence Department…..hey these stories get better don’t they…….

        This is better than anything I have ever heard before…..and they really think people fall for this……LOL

        • Hi Steph

          You have it good from this scammer. You are probably rolling up with laughter. Guess what you don’t need the soap operas. You have it with scammers. Isn’t it entertaining.

  201. Hi CJ
    how I can get the ip address on steven mccabe aka david walker, he has im a few days ago and when I have ask msn messanger to follow up on his ip address, they return a few days later that ip address goes under the name Christopher M. I dont know his last name but also told me that they can not give me the last name without a suponea, that I will need contact my law enforcement here in NY.
    I believe that this scammers find way to get someone to send them a laptop from the states and the ip address is regsitrated within the states, but I would like the ip address so I can find out his originate email

    • Read all of the articles being submitted here. You will find one which will tell you how to find his ip address. Right click on his email address and his ip information should come up. google ip locator and it will tell where the ip address is located. Check cj information on this site. It is more explanatory than mine. Good luck

      • thanks Joyann i have tried that but it seem didnt work for me I must doing it work but I ask msn messanger to follow up that and they told that his ip address was under the name Christopher M that is all they gave me, that I should contact my local law enforcement here in NY so that his ip can get supeona, but I check the website emailfinder.com and it showed up in sunnyvale calif and redmond portland orgeon, these are identify theft scammers that are using someone esle ip address

        • I must be doing it wrong

  202. CJ,
    Is this the only site that you post pictures on?

    • no go to delphifag.com and you can posted them there as well among other website

      I have more pic of steven mccabe aka david walker how I post them here on this website

      • thanks Mari! Is this also the site that CJ posts on?

        • mari,

          I have gone out to delphifag.com but do not see anything for the photos…sorry, I am kind of internet illiterate…lol. Thanks!

        • I sure do, Debbie! I just haven’t had a lot of time to do many updates. I’m 535 emails behind as I type this!!

        • Thanks CJ, I know you are real busy and will get to my photo’s as soon as you can. I was just asking what other sites you post the photo’s on so that I can check them and more stories out too.

          But I have noticed in reading all of these storie’s that I have not found one that was anything like mine, except for the money part.

  203. Hi
    I was contacted from a man on singleparentmeet.com
    his user is steeprope and his email is geo_england@live.com and his name is george england he says he is in afganastan. His profile fits the scammers but he has not asked for anything yet. There is an old history case about a soldier name George England that involved with child pornography years ago. Who is this person and how do they get away with this?
    K

    • Kathy, the story about the child porn thing I do not believe is him, the guy in the news is too old. The person that contacted you is the same person! I tried looking for him on that site and the username is not valid. I am almost 100% positive that this is the same person! Did he send you any pics? I have sent some in here to CJ but they are not posted yet. Can you please email me and I will send you pics that I have and I can tell you how much longer you have to wait before he starts “asking” for money. My emaial address is deborahlynn1024@yahoo.com. Thanks Kathy!!!

  204. hi katy,
    i am in touch with someone called george england, afghanistan, can you get in touch and compare , what we know please, janebennett2009@live.co.uk, he has never asked for anything so i am curious where this is going with him, i was contacted by another george england also so it would be interesting to see the photo of him, he phones me and i have been in touch with him for about 4 months now, but just confused about what he wants from me.

    • Hi Jane B, I will give you my email address also if you don’t mind. I have about 8 photos of him and some with his “son”. I was “involved” with George England since 2/11/10. My email address is deborahlynn1024@yahoo.com

  205. Hi All

    Same story here with a Ssgt Robert Jarvis Brown who needs money to be allowed to continue his journey to UK. I keep refusing to pay money but they still contact me begging and asking me to reconsider to help him. His ‘boss’ Colonel Edwin Halton has told me i dont care because i wont pay the money and if i report this to the authorities make sure i keep his name out of it. Looks like more scammers because a recent IP check showed Sunnyvale US. Have googled both names but nothing showed for either. I hope some poor innocent soldier isnt having his name dragged through the mud

    • Hi JB2011
      I also found steven mccabe aka david walker email in sunnyvale calif also in redmond portland oregon he could be the same scammer as the scammed me– do you have pic of him — these names and ip address are idenfity they are using others people ip address and saying are from the states this is my email mvazquez4@msn.com

      • idenfity theft

  206. Hi Joyann,

    I have a further update……………..

    Apparantly Lt Raymond M Klose is now ill and is being sent home to recover……he is planning on being home Aug 16th…….can this happen.
    I asked him who will be paying for his flights etc and he said it was all covered.
    So I have not had any money requests……is this for real?????

    • Hi

      My recommendation would be to ask him if you could meet him at the airport with your family so you can meet him with a friendly face which he should welcome if he is so sick. Tell him this would be a great opportunity to meet him. Do not offer any money at all. Keep me updated on what he says to you. We will find out the true now

      • Hi Joyann and CJ,

        You will laugh at this…..he now is saying his son is going on a summer camp trip to Spain with his aunty (who he lives with) and his bank is not working properly where he is in Baghdad (yeah rite…..lol) so he needs a loan. I said….NO WAY HOSEA. Now he isnt a happy man and that I am taking him for a fool.
        I told him to go away last nite and logged off……so lets see what happens next.
        I have received an email from CJ direct to my hotmail acc but i cannot reply to it as my filters wont allow me to. CJ can use my account on yahoo which is stephaniepearson48@yahoo.com.
        Can you please let him know…..
        You guys are great on here…..keep it up!!!

        • Have you seen the report on CNN. Please listen to it. This is an amazing article. I am glad that somebody is doing something about this. Keep up the good work CJ. I hope that this article reach more viewers and alert the public to what is happening. I do agree with what Mew said about the whole situation. We as women has to take a serious look when someone wants to immediately marry us to quickly, especially over the internet. Please take caution and read between the lines. It is heartbreaking that they are actually using soldiers who are no longer with us to scam women. I hope something can be done about this. I think that the dating sites needs to be police a little more to avoid scammers impersonating soldiers.

  207. Have you heard of a site called tineye.com? It’s a reverse image search site. So you either upload the image or put in the URL of the image and it finds the image in other places. It MIGHT help? Just thought it would be a good suggestion.

    Keep up the good work!

  208. Dear CJ,
    I watched today’s report in CNN. I have been in contact (email and msn) with the nicer man I ever met. However, his story is very close from the one in CNN today or the many above.
    Today, he came up with the idea that we can talk over the phone, but he needs one. I thought it was real wierd he asked me to mail him a cell phone. I asked him for the ATO but he told me there is another way to mail him the cell. He supouse to send me the direcction to follow to mail him stuff.
    Is there any website where I can verify his identity?
    I have his name, and some pictures, he is using a hotmail email address.
    Any help will be appreciated.

  209. A cell phone to use to blow up our Troops. Don’t send him anything! Wouldn’t that be ironic, AQ using American women to kill our own Soldiers. Which leads me to the question, has anyone considered this is a fundraising scam for such? After all AQ is everywhere. Makes sense to me, but then I don’t think like other people.

    Someone please help me….I understand the loneliness, I understand being charmed, someone making you feel special and giddy. I understand the kindness of wanting to help someone that is in need. I understand the addiction to an online relationship, I have been there.

    What I do not understand is how so many women have been duped/fallen for an engagement to be married from someone online, even if they call you to further make it feel real or send gifts.
    Do they speak w/perfect English, or American slang? It’s one thing to have typos, but some of the reading here is just so obvious, it isn’t American/English grammar or writing style, and yet they claim to be in the U.S military. I would think that would be a clue. Even the most elementary of Joe can write better than what I have just read.

    What I really don’t understand is how you could even CONSIDER marrying someone you have never met or spent time w/in person, and then be shocked and hurt it’s a scam. Much less to someone that has children, they could be the child from hell for all you know. Maybe from being burned I proceed w/caution, but I find it heartbreaking that so many good women fall for such crap. What is the average age range here? I wouldn’t be surprised if some of the replies here aren’t fabricated. The 68 year old woman comes to mind, if that is a true story then she has some real issues.

    What about a site for our young Soldiers and Marines that are so lonely that they fall for the man eating women that use them for marriage, some deliberately getting knocked up for the child support, take their cash and benefits, and then divorce them. To me that is every bit as evil. Of course some don’t learn their lesson, they turn right around and get married to the next man eater that comes their way. At least the ladies here seem to have learned their lesson.

    If this isn’t a case for Americans to learn more about our military then I don’t know what is. I am sorry to have but so much empathy.

  210. Thank you so much for the valuable information. C.J. I have sent you the pictures and contact information for my scammer, luckily before it cost me any money. Please post those pictures to let others in on the scam. If you had not told me how to trace the IP address, to Nigeria, I would still be in the dark.
    Thanks again!

  211. I’ll say it once again, if they can’t give you a .mil e-mail addy he’s a fake. His snail mail addy should be APO or FPO. Things NEVER get stuck in customs to where they need money to process it. If it get’s “stuck” it will simply be thrown away. They don’t hold items for ransom. Also, google his rank, call him out! You can google the military pay chart…you can see exactly how much he is being paid.

    They also have access to phones. They are allowed to call anyone they choose. If they are not in direct combat, when they get back to the “base” they have access. And if someone is supposedly hurt, he wouldn’t be sent home before he was sent through Landstuhl in Germany…and if he’s there, he will receive a phone card from the chaplain. Don’t fall for these jerks!

    The aunt in England taking care of a US soldier’s kid…FLAG

    I like the idea of taking a picture with your name on it…that’s really creative, and if he’s true, that would be a wonderful keep sake and conversation starter. :)

  212. Regarding my post about Robert Jarvis Brown and his boss Col Edwin Halton, i looked through the 200+ emails i had and 3 were from Nigeria, the rest from US and a couple from Netherlands and Germany. Since i refused to pay the £2200 to the Col i have not heard another thing, so i presume Robert is still being held in a secret location in Milan after being caught with over $600,000 of gold that he managed to bring from Afghanistan????? I said if these people want money to release him and his gold why dont they keep some of the gold, surprisingly they didnt comment about that. The history of this guy is that he is a pilot in Airbourne Regt serving in Afghan, he is 38 looking to retire in March 2011 when he is back from Afghan, he has a 10 year old son currently in Military Boarding School and he has been widowed for 3 years, wife died of cancer, yet another gorgeous soldier desperate to marry

  213. I am wondering if anyone has had any dealings with a Capt. Mike Handy? He contacted me a while ago on facebookand we have been chatting since. He’s now doing the needs money thing because he can’t access his. He wanted me to email militarydiplomacy@rescueteam.com in order to set up a “secure” network. I did with fake information and got this response…

    CALL SECURE REQUEST NOTIFICATION

    THIS IS TO INFORM MRS JONES,THAT FOR YOU TO HAVE YOUR NTCS MUST PAY THE SOME OF $315.OO USD TO ANY OF OUR AGENT OFFICE
    NEAR YOU.

    NOTE! THE TS2 VALIDITY PERIOD IS ALWAYS A MONTH

    FOR FURTHER INFORMATION,PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO CONTACT US.WE LOOK FORWARD TO WORK ON YOUR RESPONSE.

    THANKS

    MR.L .BRUT

    When I told this Mike I couldn’t afford anything like that, as he is well aware I am a single mom, he let it go. Then today when I asked where I could snail mail him something he said no, just email him. His email is capt.mikehandy@yahoo.com

    I tend to be very suspiscious of anyone, but having grown up with both parents in the Air Force, I am lucky enough to know a lot of basic facts that just haven’t rang true, even if it is because he is in the Army and my parents were AF.

    This Mike is on facebook, where he originally contacted me from.

    If anyone has any information, please let me know.

    Thank you in advance.

    • Michelle,

      Mike Handy goes by the name of Terry Van Flossy on cupid, where he contacted me. Using the email you posted, I checked out his profile on FB and it’s the same picture. Funny thing is his profile on cupid indicates he’s 5’6″ and 110 lbs and his build is petite. What a joke. Smells like a scammer to me.

      • Thank you Sally. I already suspected something, but after finding this site and reading all of the posts here. I’m glad I listened to that little voice saying no.

        CJ: Thank you for creating this portion of your blog!! I hope you can help other women from having this happen to them!

        • Michelle,

          I’m glad you followed your intuition. Spared you a lot of money and heartache. I too was suspicious when the scammer I was was communicating with said I would need to send an email to the command post to request communication. The email address he provided didn’t make sense to me so I googled it, but found no such site and then stumbled upon CJ’s blog.

          CJ,

          I want to send my thanks as well. You are providing a tremendous service to all of us. BTW, my favorite of all the photos here are of the German Bundeswehr Army. This truly has been an education in both spotting a scammer and learning about our military.

        • Here is my favorite part. For a guy who was emailing me and messaging me multiple times a day, since I made my original post here, I haven’t heard from him!!

          HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

        • The perpetrator(s) posing as Mike Handy also uses the alias James Thompson Ramos. I saw his pics on another site.

  214. Mr. Mallor was supposed to meet someone on 7/24/10……. Hhhmmmmm
    he told me he was being held in Customs….. and wouldn’t be released until “My Husband” or myself paid $5,500 to release the pkg being held !!!! LOL

    Desmond sure was delivering a LOT of pkgs wasn’t he ?????? LOL
    Too %%%%%%@@@@ bad he didn’t get any money !!! And Ghana is the most convenient customs for him to get pkgs through…….
    makes you think !!!!!! LOL

    Oh I will be sending CJ pics and Gvmt ID of a 4-star General…… that also was sending a diplomatic couriour (sp) with a pkg to me, that got held up in France………. poor Mohammed……….. He didn’t get any $$$$ either !!!!! and the General is still sending mail…….. and coming home to see me !!!!!! LOL although he was going to have his publicist write about me making him out to be a fool………. sound familiar anyone??????

    • i was contacted by colonel desmond indeed….after a captain lennon carl was hold on custums in berlin too…..i recognise all!!! desmond send photoshopped idcard

      grtz

      nonna

  215. I answered a friend request on Facebook and tought I had foun d my “knight in shinging aurmor” turned out to be a jerk in tin foil. He hadn’t asked for money yet but I think he was starting to work up to it. (email form 19 yr old son that had him “worried”. The name he uses is Juan Rivera. He claims to be a 52 year old staff sgt in Kabul from Odessa, TX. It appears that he has deleted his Facebook account where he first contacted me from. A friend teased me that I had scared him off Facebook. Darn, all I did was tell him every generation of my family has had miitary ties and that my cousin was going to teach how to clean my 9mm. ~~~evil grin~~~

    • opps, his email ip trace came back from Lagos, Nigeria and his email addy is riveraphine@yahoo.com. aND he said he was deployed from ‘forth griffith’!!!

      • How can you do ip trace?

        beth

  216. This is absolutely sickening that someone would take advantage of someone else’s pain and tarnish an image of a soldier who has served their country. There is a website which may be able to help get the word and photos out. We are interested in creating a special area on our website to help get the word out about these fallen heroes being exploited. Anyone who is interested, please feel free to contact me at kim@cheateralert.com . Our site began as a help for men and women who have been violated, manipulated or financially ruined as a result of a cheating or abusive spouse/partner. It was created through the pain of two women who were unwittingly involved with the same man simultaneously and whose lives were changed forever by the abuses and manipulation. We are hoping to help and look forward to your feedback. We have thousands of persons visiting our site and our hope is to save people from unnecessary pain and suffering – the Cheateralert team

  217. cj please contact me at twighlight_unicorn@yahoo.com i have a marine scammer named Peter Petronzio Stenn any help would be appreciated

  218. beware of: James Rellinger AKA James Brisbane Blair AKA Brisbane Blair AKA Blair Brisbane

  219. omg, photos of kenneth england on the wall of shame, he tried to contact me on makefriends.co.uk, living in london, i reported him as a scammer when he told me he was was retiring to run a orphnage, i said that would be hard because i work at a school and now the rules and regulations regarding children are very tough. i did not here from him after that but sent him a message i knew he was a scammer , i had a reply and he was really nasty to me. he has also cropped up on my facebook, same name and photo used, he has never spoken to me on facebook so must reconize me. when will all this scamming end, when will any one do some thing about this crime.

  220. Thank you everyone for helping to spread the word and sharing these scams that you’ve personally witnessed. This is a wicked thing these guys are doing and information is the key to destruction. One of these days I’ll publish all the death threats I get from these guys for exposing them. Everything from hoping I’m killed in an IED to overnight voodoo death!

    • CJ,

      Just keep pluggin it, you are doing a fantastic job with all of your blogs!!!

      Wanted to let you know that I just got off the phone with the British Consulate here in FL and unfortunately they cannot help either!!! Why is it no one wants to help stop these #$%$@$$!!!! I have sent emails to every agency here in FL even up to the President and nothing!!! There’s my tax dollar at work!

      I have so much information and no one cares! Guess we are gonna have to take them all down ourselves!

      Glad you are in our corner!

      Debbie

      • C.J.,

        Most of this information would not be available to us without your help. We are all behind this and speading the news everywhere. I have forwarded the web page to all my facebook and yearbook friends. This information needs to get out there so we can stop this.

        Thanks again,
        Marsha

  221. Well I feel hurt and betrayed.I fell for a marine named Col. Peter Petronzio Stenn
    He had me hook line and sinker.I gave him 600 for bhis leave request.All the documents sent looked official.here is the first letter
    Well let me tell you a little about me.I am Single 5′ 9″ am looking for a friend to love and spend some time with. I would like to learn to.I am a quick learner and enjoy all types of music. I love to work hard but rather play harder.I lost my love and my 2 daughters 2years back.I have a lovely son who stays with his Granny,his 15yrs. I’m looking for a WOMAN that is honest, truthful and loyal who will not hurt me for any reason and will never be hurt by me too and she will be ready to take care of my son. I’m looking to date and see where things may go.graduated from Beverly High School and Norwich University and joined the Military force in 1984.I live at Texas corpus Christi but presently on a to Afghanistan.I was sent there by UN to lead an expeditionary force in Afghanistan, fighting the Taliban,And am ready to relocate after my mission in Afghan,But only if my love wants that,Am in the us military.
    I’m not looking for a one night stand or anyone with drama. I just want to spend a few hours with someone from time to time for some relaxing stress free times like dinner, movies, a walk around the park, sporting events, or maybe a weekend getaway.
    Even a nice relationship that includes a good morning email or text to show someone is thinking of you would be nice. If you want someone fun to chat with, maybe more in time.I love swimming,play golf,going to cinemas,camping.I also love Chinese food,pizza,roasted beef,I don’t smoke…don’t drug… a while back i had a zero tolerance for it… however I’ve been getting better about it. At least with smoking… just i prefer if you don’t do it around me.. i don’t like to watch people i care about slowly kill themselves..if you respond, respond with a picture please….. maybe we can start a friendship that grows into more…or perhaps it’ll be love at first sight.. and we fall hard… who knows…what have you got to lose? at worst you still get a good friend and at best you get the love of your life… sounds like Win/Win to me..OH! in the subject line write out Lovely..I feel like I have a pretty good personality, I can be goofy and serious, wild and conservative. I’m very calm, laid-back and drama free. My friends would tell you that I’m extremely dependable, loyal and keep them laughing. I would say I’m pretty fun too I tend to be a bit quiet around people I don’t know well, but I open up pretty quickly.I hope to read back from you too,

    Yours
    Col. Peter
    hope to read back from you.
    Take good care of yourself..
    Bye for now
    you can pls send me more of your resent pics

    He also has help because i also received some other emails with official looking documents I will attach them.Any input or help from you would be appreciated greatly…please send me a response.sincerley a broken heart cindy
    His email address is simpleguy4rill@yahoo.com
    cj,I try to email you directly and keep getting maler dameon notice unable to deliver.I have photos I would like to send you.

    • I had a similar situation to this but for the life of me cannot remember what name he used. It was not the same as he uses here.

    • Hi Cindy,
      I got hurt by Col. Peter (simpleguy4rill@yahoo.com). I have alot of photos, emails, official looking documents to. Please reply back so we can share information.
      Debbie

    • Well let me tell you a little about me.I am Single 5′ 9″ am looking for a friend to love and spend some time with. I would like to learn to.I am a quick learner and enjoy all types of music. I love to work hard but rather play harder.I lost my love and my 2 daughters 2years back.I have a lovely son who stays with his Granny,his 15yrs. I’m looking for a WOMAN that is honest, truthful and loyal who will not hurt me for any reason and will never be hurt by me too and she will be ready to take care of my son. I’m looking to date and see where things may go.graduated from Beverly High School and Norwich University and joined the Military force in 1984.I live at Texas san Antonio but presently on a to Afghanistan.I was sent there by UN to lead an expeditionary force in Afghanistan, fighting the Taliban,And am ready to relocate after my mission in Afghan,But only if my love wants that,Am in the us military.
      I’m not looking for a one night stand or anyone with drama. I just want to spend a few hours with someone from time to time for some relaxing stress free times like dinner, movies, a walk around the park, sporting events, or maybe a weekend getaway.
      Even a nice relationship that includes a good morning email or text to show someone is thinking of you would be nice. If you want someone fun to chat with, maybe more in time.I love swimming,play golf,going to cinemas,camping.I also love Chinese food,pizza,roasted beef,I don’t smoke…don’t drug… a while back i had a zero tolerance for it… however I’ve been getting better about it. At least with smoking… just i prefer if you don’t do it around me.. i don’t like to watch people i care about slowly kill themselves..if you respond, respond with a picture please….. maybe we can start a friendship that grows into more…or perhaps it’ll be love at first sight.. and we fall hard… who knows…what have you got to lose? at worst you still get a good friend and at best you get the love of your life… sounds like Win/Win to me..OH! in the subject line write out Lovely..I feel like I have a pretty good personality, I can be goofy and serious, wild and conservative. I’m very calm, laid-back and drama free. My friends would tell you that I’m extremely dependable, loyal and keep them laughing. I would say I’m pretty fun too I tend to be a bit quiet around people I don’t know well, but I open up pretty quickly.I hope to read back from you too,

      Yours
      Col. Peter
      hope to read back from you.
      Take good care of yourself..
      Bye for now
      you can pls send me more of your resent pics

      — On Thu, 11/11/10, nrg1951@aol.com wrote:

      From: nrg1951@aol.com
      Subject:
      To: meetdoublep@yahoo.com
      Date: Thursday, November 11, 2010, 10:21 PM

      hi peter…hope this finds u…
      Nancy

      5 Attached Images

      this was the first email he sent to me…need someones help here

  222. Can anyone tell me where I need to go to check someone out? Help, thank you.

  223. I believe I have located another SOB saying he is stationed in Iraq. Did an email reverse look up and surprise…no results!
    I’ve had my suspicions and red flags because he stated both parents were deceased and only had a daughter. His emails are very convincing with no language barriers or poor language in spellings. Has not asked for money at present, but I know what to look for. I just like leading these jerks on, letting them think they found a sucker…ha! Got him pegged. I want to see how long I can drag this out and make him feel like an ass…lol. It is extremely disheartening to know that these people can get away with this and have no conscious about any of their painful acts; especially for the families.

  224. Please, beware of this email address: lt.col_fsmith@yahoo.com. Going by the name of Fernando Smith. Says he’s from Texas originally, but lives in Pittsburg,CA. Sent me three pic that I would love to share and post. I so wish I could say I am so sorry to the family members; I am so disheartened by these acts of inhumane people. If anyone wants to see these pic, please let me know.

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  226. Does soldier by the name of “Gibbs Ricky” ring a bell to anyone? Nothing outright says scam but I’ve got that too good to be true vibe. I’m trying to listen to my intuition a bit more.

  227. I just wanted to tell you all if you don’t know it already. I have finally created my account on twitter to follow CJ :) and when I got all done, went to the page for these scams. I am so pissed at the responses on the first page alone! Did not go to another page. Came right here to this site to vent. I will go back and vent there too. These people, I know everyone has a right to their own opinion, but my GOD, they think we are all idiots and total losers!!1 Who the hell are they to judge us? They don’t walk on water and the only one that we have to answer to is ourselves not anyone else!!! They were talking about the CNN report that CJ did. Claiming that just because she was “overweight and had 3 kids” that no soldier would be interested in her anyway! I cannot tell you what that statement did to me. I am not bad looking and got a “few” extra pounds but that does not mean that a soldier would not find me attractive! And to think that we not only have to deal with being scammed, we have to deal with the insults that our own “fellow Americans” say about us. Talked about being “scammed” AGAIN, but this time in our own backyard!!!

    Sorry, I just had to get it out of my system. I will go back out later and post on twitter my “feelings” about them!

    CJ…keep up the good work that you are doing!!! And we will just keep spreading the word any way we can!

    • Hi

      I have been trying to find the comments on twitter. Could you tell us the link. Maybe I am a novice.

  228. I think i might be talking to a scammer but need help finding the truth.Claims to be TLC Ryan McGrath, 2nd batallion amry in iraq. has pics of himself in uniform and civilian life with his family and friends. This is the part im nervous about. he tells me not everyone has or uses a .mil addy or an apo/fpo. everytime i ask him to call me he says he cant. he has not yet asked for anything, cept hand in marriage. its been a few months now weve been talking. he seems to be able to talk through yahoo im for somtimes hours. i dont understand that. also told me hes retiring next month and getting 2million dollar settlement. he tends to get angry when i start asking too many questions, says im not trusting him. can anyone help me figure out if this is a scam or maybe the truth.

  229. Brenda

    He is a scammer! And I am sorry but all military uses .mil. If he says he does not have one…get rid of him! And they have to use APO/FPO for mail. The can also make phone calls when not on duty. In my opinion, he is a scammer!!! He is only getting upset because you are asking questions that he does not want to answer. He can only keep the scam up as long as you don’t rock the boat. Send CJ the pictures he sent you so that he can post them out here for future scams.

  230. My Twitter is @cjgrisham if that is what you are looking for.

  231. cj I found the real name of the marine my imposter is using, it’s Peter Petronzio.This imposter is currently talking to two of my freinds we want to know is there anyway we can bust him?

    • Cindy,

      Have you told Col Petronzio that his picture is being used for a scam?

      Ashley

      • No I don’t know how I am new to the computer world ,some friends found news articles about the real Peter Petronzio and had sent me the links.That’s why I posted the comment in hopes that Cj can.I tried to email to the address given for this site to post all the pics, but keep getting delivery failure.So if someone can send me an email with an address that will work I would appreciate it a lot. twighlight_unicorn@yahoo.com

  232. Hi

    i was just reading some of these comments and it really sounds like I might be talking to a scam artist as well. How can I find his ip adress or if he exists in the army? I have pictures that he has sent me … but that doesn’t tell me anything. He claims to have a son and that his wife is dead.
    this really is sad he also has a yahoo address is that normal?

    • Tanya if is email address is simpleguy4rill@yahoo.com he is a scammer,his story sounds just like “Peter’s”.

    • If he is Daniel Williamson at dan_sgt@yahoo.com and his son’s name is Romeo, he is scamming.

  233. Is anyone familiar with SGT Edgar of Camp Victory Iraq? Can anyone verify this is a real person?

    • Do you mean Daniel Edgar? i talk to him today and told him that i thought he is a scammer. I do not think he is for real. Has asked for money for satt.phone. He is not who he says he is. Beware

  234. African leaders are pledging thousands of new troops for Somalia to fight al-Qaida-linked militants responsible for the twin World Cup bombings that killed 76 people, and the U.S. says it will help bankroll the military campaign

    Does this bother anyone else?????
    I know we have to stop al-Qaida from having safe havens to hide in…… but we are going to send our guys to Africa the same place thse @%@ scammers are using their pictures and good names ?
    Why not “Impress” all of these scammers in the African Army so they can really see what it is like to put your life on the line 24/7 ?
    Sorry….. enough of my “Venting”………

    • OMG!!! Yes this definitely bothers me!!!
      I would say NO WAY, we are not gonna help them! I mean my GOD, can you just imagine the name calling us and the soldier’s would be called? He$$ no, that would be like a slap in the face to our military.

      CJ, I do have a question that I posted on another site and wondered if you would be able to answer it…

      I am aware of the cost and difficulty it would be to hunt these scammers down, but couldn’t we start by having the countries that they are operating from start closing down the internet cafes that they are operating from? I meand all of the countries that their people are getting scammed from, we could all “assist” them with doing that. They would be scrambling to find other means to get on the internet and cut into their “profits”. I mean the money and items that these “thugs” are getting are one way or another connected to terrorism right? Just a thought…

      Thanks!

  235. I just learned that Col. Peter Petronzio the scammer has a facebook page as well as mate1 acct….how do you do ip look up?Would be greatful for any help.

    • Cindy,

      I found his e-mail and notified CJ. So, the real guy will know soon enough his identity is being stolen.

      • thank you so much that helps a little.

    • he also has a plenty of fish profile also

  236. Scammer alert:
    Charles Relinger Tetteh aka Charles Soldier aka Emmanuel Tetteh, aka Agyapong Nyame. Woos and courts you , then ask for laptop and money for his “son”. (Emails: charlessoldier@hotmail.com charlessoldier@yahoo.com charles@hotmail.com…Cell for his ‘son’ is(011) 233 273 137828.
    Please be aware and careful.
    I will forward his picture for posting.
    Says he is a Staff Sergent. His description of the role is identical to one found on the Internet. I was tipped off by another lady, and I confronted him. Claims his laptop was hacked into by her.I met him on Match.com. I did send them an alert.Last time I checked his profile was no longer there. He woos you with very romantic emails, and is very ‘spiritual’. Very needy and full of himself. The 1st email he ever sent me contained the identical story above, about him coming home from Iraq and his wife had “gone in for another guy”. See details of story above. He also let’s you call and speak to his son “Emmanuel”. He has no remorse and is quite relentless. He is still trying to con me. Joke is now on him.Apparently, tomorrow Aug 2 is his birthday. Happy birthday scum bag!

  237. Is anyone interested to catch those scammers? May be there are some agencies dealing with? Right now i am in contact with a scammer. He (or they) played with my feelings and i was stupid to believe. Now i want a kind of a revenge. If you know a right email to address i would be grateful.

    • Hi Aspen

      Join 419eaters.com Also you can join lavalife.com. I found three on lavalife the couple nites ago. This scammer is so stupid he had General Petraeus picture up. I email him and he told me he was in the army. I said hold on. I google General Petraeus information and his picture came up. I contacted lavalife and they immediately remove him from the site but before this scammer disappeared he told me that I can kiss his …

      I am sure 419eaters would welcome you

      • Hi Joyann,

        I believe the site is 419eater.com, without the “s”. 419eaters.com is something completely different.

      • P.S. I love it!!!

        • Thank you for correcting me. Go take care of these fools.

        • Sally

          I hope you have read the stories on this website. The stories are so funny. I almost fell off my chair with laughter.

        • OMG. This site is so funny.

        • I hope you are laughing your head off. Who is winning. Certainly not the scammers. Believe me after I went on this site I felt a lot better. I knew that this was my theraphy from the scammer I was chatting with.

      • If it can help others from being scammed, then it’s worth it. We have to step up our game as well. If nothing else, to turn the tables on them.

  238. I believe I am a victim of this scam as well. Got an message from Sgt. Christopher Kirk on zoosk.com and he asked me to send the $555 to get the “satellite phone” from Ts2 Technologies so we could talk. They are real; the phone isn’t. Sent pictures too, which I would be happy to send to whomever would like to post this. I just went through a divorce and actually was thinking about stopping seeing a really great guy because of all the things “Chris” said to me to make me feel like he cared about me. I am really a smart person but I feel like such a fool! It is comforting to see that I am not the only smart women who was fooled.

    I feel like such an idiot.

    • OMG…wow I am an idiot….I found this site a little to late. I was a big sucker…my christopher Kirk even had an accident recently…but I cant get ahold of him to check if he is ok…hmmm I should have done this research some money back….lol..

  239. To Joyanne and Sally:
    Thank you ladies!

  240. Does anyone know if we can get access to the military pictures on militaryphotos.com?

    Also wanted to let everyone know…I got a letter from Senator Nelson of FL…stating

    “Dear Ms Lynn,
    Thank you for your recent correspondence to my office. I understand you spoke with my staff assistand, Usha Tewari. I trust your questions were answered to your satisfaction.

    Again, thank you for your correspondence. I want you to know it is a pleaseure to serve as your US Senator. If I can be of further assistance, please do not hesitate to contact my office at the address listed below. ”

    Ok first of all, the only reason why I heard from his staff assistant is because she was also scammed a couple of months ago and said that she only called me “out off courtesy because she too was scammed”. I asked her if I she wasn’t scammed would I have heard from his office and she said “I don’t know”.
    Also asked if Senator Nelson even read my correspondence and she said “NO”!!!!

    No, first of all, the answer that she gave me was “his office could not help me”. So I did not get any satisfaction from her answer.

    Second, he asked if I need further assistance, don’t hesitate to contact his office. Well, I have one question Senator Nelson…Why didn’t YOU read my correspondence?!?!?! I a paying your salary and I got CRAP from you, which shouldn’t surprise me!

    Anyway…talked to a report at the local paper and also a reporter from one of the tv stations here, they both were quite interested in the fact that I am not getting any assistance from anyone in the government concerning any one not doing anything! I will keep you all updated on my progress here in sunny FL!!!

  241. Sorry, also wanted to point out that I still have not heard from the Govenor or Congressman from FL, nor President Obama…hmmmmm. Wonder if I will after it hits the paper and the tv station?!?!? :)

    • Debbie,
      I also am from FL and have gotten scammed by someone saying there in the militiary. Have you heard anything from anyone ?

      Judy

  242. I have been in chatting with a scammer going by the name of Joseph Collins Erisman. His story is the same as all the stories I’ve read on this site. He’s originally from Los Angeles, CA, family moved to Australia when he was 7yrs. At age 17 he moved back to CA and joined the Marines when he was 23yrs old. He’s on a 3yr tour in Baghdad, and claims his unit is the Lake Los Angeles Young Marines. He had me fooled for almost a month, but I have since stopped chatting with him. His email is sgtjoeerisman@yahoo.com

    Let’s stop these losers!

  243. does anyone have info on a “US Captain” Marshall Ferris. My sister as asked me to lend her some mony for this guy working for the US Army in Dafur
    Please email me at: w.herbert@fsmail.net

  244. started talking to sgt kelvin bristol sd that he was at camp victory in iraq after talking to him for 2 days claimed that he loved and wanted to get married i was not born yesterday and found out he was a fraud

  245. Hi!
    Can anyone give me any information on a supposed captain in the US armyfrom Atlantic City using the email address, as I’m suspicious! Please contact me on annbrownlondon@gmail.com

    allynronald@yahoo.com

    Male | Divorced | Age: 45

    “I AM LOOKING FOR MY OTHER PART”

    I’m interested in

    Dating (Women)

    About me

    I am patient,generous, kind, and loving. I am always upbeat, have a positive attitude about most things and I like to have fun. I enjoy music, theater, movies and art. I love to travel, and to go sightseeing. I love museums, romantic dinners, seaside resorts and sunsets.. I’ve a naturally curious mind and love to learn about people’s, cultures, and so many other things. So meeting someone with different interests they can share with me is a bonus! I read everyday from both fiction and non-fiction for both relaxation and my love of learning.
    I believe life is a long process of learning if we only take the opportunities that come our way! I enjoy the outdoors and am so happy that the weather has improved so I can blade or hike and just enjoy the sunshine! I’m out in the garden, rollerblading or hiking on a beautiful day. I also enjoy the water and boating, canoeing and sailing. Been a Captain in the US Army currently serving in Kabul Afghanistan gave me lots of experiences to share with you. I’m a closet artist but decided long ago that art is an avocation for me, so I enjoy a gallery or museum when I can. One day, when I retire I’ll have the chance to hone those skills for pleasure in my own Computer Store. But for now I admire beauty and color in nature and in other peoples art. My work involves compassion, teaching, writing and helping others. When you get to know me you will soon see how empathetic I am and how generous I can be. Still, the woman in my life will have to reciprocate in the same way to earn a place in my heart. People are my passion but family and friends come first, that is after caring for myself! I have a gym membership for when the weather is bad and I love to see the latest movies.
    I’ve followed the Lord of the Rings series faithfully, but really get into thrillers, action, and science fiction too and the occasional chick-flick with a family! I travel alot

    Wishlist

    I am looking for:
    I am seeking for a long term relationship that could lead to marriage, someone that could bring out the best in me, someone that i can trust, a lady or a woman that will listen to me when I need her, a lady i can give my heart to, someone honest, someone that will not lie to me, someone that will there, for me when i need her, someone that we would both appreciate our high moral standards, respect ourselves the way we respect our self’s. Someone that would love me as if each day is our last day together and that would be by my sides as if each day is our last day together

    Personal Information

    Children: 2

    Height: 6’1″ – 6’2″

    Hair Color: Black

    Eye Color: Brown

    Cultural Background: White/Caucasian

    Languages: English

    Personal Information, Continued

    Smoking Habits: Never

    Drinking Habits: Occasionally

    Political Views: Liberal

    My main passions and interests: Dining out-I really like good food, Fishing, Travel/Sightseeing

    My Favorite Sports: Basketball, Golf

    Top 3 Movies: THE LORD OF THE RINGS
    THE GODFATHER
    THE GLADIATOR

    Top 3 Music: U2
    MICHEAL JACKSON
    KENNY ROGERS

    The way to my heart is: OPEN

    What I love about my best friend: HONESTY

    My thoughts about the situation in Tibet: INJUSTICE AND OPPRESSION

    Professional Information

    Professional Area: Military

    Education Level: Graduate Degree

    Areas of Expertise: Military

    Current Status: Employed, full-time

  246. Does anyone have any information on a “Captain” Daniel Williamson? Supposedly a military contractor in Bahgdad. I almost fell for him until seeing this article and a previos post for one Charles Tetteh. I met Capt. Williamson (dan_sgt@yahoo.com) through seniorpeoplemeet.com. He is very smooth and persistent, but his speech and mannerisms are just a little off. He asked for cell phone and camcorder, so I knew something was off. He asked me to contact his aide, Nicholas Tetteh at hholy18@yahoo.com. When I checked this guy out, he was another “contractor” running aid supplies to orphanages in the Ghana region. Even supplied me with FedEX and USPS mailing addresses in Ghana.

    How do we stop these guys?

    • Pls provide more details re your experience with Charles (Relinger Tetteh). I’m in communication with him now. Claims he is not a scammer. His laptop was hacked into and details he had shared with me taken by another woman…right!!. Any details on him pls?

  247. i was contacted by a reporter for the Houston Chronicle and he is running a story on all these scams…slowly but surely the word is getting out!

  248. Ladies, please see my latest post for a call to arms against these scammers: http://www.soldiersperspective.us/2010/08/05/a-call-to-arms-against-nigerian-scammers/

    • CJ,
      NY is not on your list of places that have been scammed. I have just found out, thanks to your site, that I have been scammed by one Dicson Leonado Hannett. I am into this for a few bucks for which I am ashamed. I am so much smarter than this. I have pictures of Hannett, and I also captured a picture of his so called son, Prince Amoako Hannett. I also have an address and a cell phone number in Accra Ghana for this young man. I would like very much to help as much as possible here.

      These men, and I use that term loosely, need to be stopped. There are too many good women out there being duped by these scam artists. I am not a stupid woman, but these people are very intune to women with good hearts. If you would like these pictures, I will be happy to share. I also found this Hannett person on Facebook under the names of Robert, and Michael, and Captainn Hannett.

  249. There is a spc Ethan Mcnigen who is a scammer claims to be spc ops in Iraq and lives in Florida. Caught his girlfriend cheating on him 2 weeks before their wedding.

    spc_ethan_mcnigen@yahoo.com

    phone company is

    http://www.uscmps.com

    setup@uscmps.com

  250. Hi CJ

    This is great, hopefully all your hard work is begining to pay off.Brining it all to the attention of those who really need to do something to stop this and bring them to justice, that will be a good day!!!

  251. Ladies,

    Please see this ASP post for a possible appearance on You Served Radio, hosted by CJ Grisham and Troy Steward!

    http://www.soldiersperspective.us/2010/08/06/been-scammed-appear-on-you-served-radio/

  252. Hi CJ and everyone else out there. I’m in UK and met THOMAS ZENDROSKY on MatchAffinity.com. He is supposed to be Comms expert in Gardez, Afghanistan with US Army. Claims to be born in UK with two kids, wife died in car accident six years ago. I spent four weeks being totally taken in by this man. He played on the fact that I am a widow and I had no reason to doubt anything he said. I don’t know anything about military life, so had no reason to question what he was saying. He bombarded me with poems and song lyrics, calling me “honey” at every opportunity. He asked me to get him a laptop and iphone which had to be delivered to a Texas address (where a US Airman was supposed to collect it and take it to Afghanistan). I became suspicious this week when he kept asking about when I would send the parcel out there. I had turned nothing up on searching his name but one search engine came up with his name and email address (thomaszend@hotmail.co.uk) linked with a nigerian scam. I confronted him about it, on IM, and he was furious. I’m ashamed to say he made me feel bad for doubting him and I spent an entire night and morning in floods of tears thinking I’d lost him. I arranged for the parcel to be collected from me by Fedex and once it had gone, he suddenly became distant. I couldn’t help the little niggling doubts ande someone suggested I post some of his text into google and found an instant hit on scamwarners.com. This is a great website – really should be visited. I found a lady on there who had been scammed by DAVE BRUNER – undoubtedly the same guy. In fact, there are photos on this website in the name of STEVE MCCABE. I don’t know who the genuine soldier is.

    I’ve actually managed to get the parcel turned around and is coming back to me. I will have lost about £500 but at least I didn’t lose the iphone and laptop which I can get a refund back on. I’m a smart intelligent woman but this guy took me for a fool. He is emailing and texting me today going frantic worrying about the parcel. I did track his IP address back to Richmond WA and his email back to Germany ….. but I know he is using these names:

    DAVE BRUNER
    RAY ODIERNO
    JACK MCCARTHY
    STEVE MCCABE
    EDWARD BUTIERREZ

    In fact, having read all of these posts, he’s easily recognisable under another two names !

    I’ve sent CJ the photos I have and also put them on scamwarners.com. I know I should just walk away, but this guy is a scumbag who is not fit to lick the boots of a genuine soldier. I’m very tempted to tell him what I’ve discovered,but this might actually help them to avoid future detection.

    There’s only one thing I’m worried about – I stupidly sent him a scan of my Driving Licence as he wanted something to carry in his wallet. Does anyone think I should perhaps report this to UK Police ? Not sure if it qualifies as a fraud as I spent all the money willingly.

    I have photos and hundreds of emails if anyone wants to compare notes. markandi@live.co.uk.

    Good luck ladies – don’t let the bastards get you down !! :-)

  253. Where do I start…..Robert Haggard aka Wayne Hackert PEREZ. Used the same bio as at the beginning of this page. Wanted me to send money to his daughters school teacher who lives in England. Story is that his daughter is being mistreated and he wants to make her happy by sending her some money. “Perez” cannot get to his bank without putting his life at risk, he will pay me back…blah, blah, blah. Got angy when I said I wouldn’t do it as my spidey senses were going off. Good thing. Never heard from him again once I said no. Reportd him to match.com. Of course, he has closed that profile and am sure he started another.

    Now along comes “Joe HAROLD”. Sent me the exact same pics from above. Asked me to send him an IPOD, Calvin Klein underwear (I guess he has enough t-shirts, a piece of jewellery to remember me by as he flies his helicopter. Asked for it to be sent FedEx to the Mango Tree address. I did ask why there and he states he has been using an old family friend (name is Randolf AMUZU) as a Diplomat for quite some time to deliver his mail to him. Thought it strange but nwhat the heck, I am a trusting person, but still had a voice saying check it out. Thought I would google “military scams in Irag and Afghanistan” just to see what comes up…..lo and behold, this wonderful website that I hope everyone thinks to go to. Here I find “Joe’s” pictures and kind of the same story. He was very interested in getting the tracking number for the parcel. I was able to intercept the package, Can’t wait until he contacts me to ask about it again! LEt the crap hit the fan!!! I am a bright person and would never have thought this would happen to me. Ladies, it happens to all of us. Thank God the interenet is that simple to use that you can search anything. Wish I had done it sooner.

    Now to go back on match,com and report this loser!

  254. p.s. “Joe Harold” is on math.com as 1lv_love 9933 and “Wayne Hackert PEREZ” is on match.com as ferraributterfly@yahoo.com

    Thanks!

    • perez was on match.com as “perezonu”. He has removed his profile but am sure he has resurfaced as a “Donald” as a first name. “Donald” contacted me fishing for info on “Perez” and was pissed when “I would not give him any info.

  255. I have a question for cj if you know the answer….if we women send pics to these morons, are they using them fraudulently to scam men in the same fashion? Interesting question….?

    • Deb, I can’t be certain, but my guess is that they ARE using them to further scams in some other way.

  256. I too have been “talking” to Sgt. James P. Rellinger. I can’t believe that I fell for this. But I did, actually I am still talking to him, he does not know that I know…yet. I just wondered if there is anything that I can do to stop this scam. He thinks that I just cashed my 401K to send him a satellite phone, so he can “hear my voice” lol, oh and $600.00 for his internet. Kind of a red flag when he didn’t know what a 401k is !!!! Is anyone else receiving all of the “poems” that he stayed up all night to compose? I wonder if the real Sgt. Rellinger knows that his name is being used like this?

    • This jerk sounds like the same “Charles Relinger Tetteh” who scammed me. He used the same request. Phone and money for internet set up. They never give up. He is a staff sergeant in Baghdad. Lives in San Francisco, Ca. Right. He’s still trying to talk to me. God help them!

  257. Where do I send the pictures?

  258. Reported 3 more losers on match.com today…man they are relentless, but getting sloppy. One guy says he’s is a woman looking for a man. I can imagine that CJ is right that these pics are being pulled from facebook and the like. At least this time the scammer didn’t state he is in the Military, as the hair was longer in the pic.

    Keep up the good work CJ and thanks for replying to my post.

    Mandi66, glad you were able to intercept the package. I did the same. The money lost in shipping is better than these losers getting the goods. I had a crappy two days because of this but after a row of cookies and a half tub of ice cream and coming out of my rut am feeling better. haha

    Take care and keep fighting!

  259. David Arico 08 August at 19:33 Report
    Is a military man, US Army is my regiment. I have been in the military for long. Am a man of good gesture very loving and caring… am new online it was my friend that introduce me to come over and meet responsible lady online, He met his new wife here and they are living happily together in the United State. I was frustrated by my ex wife and I almost lost my life.

    MY ex wife left me with her son and ran off then the tribulation starts I have been alone for 10years and I decided that am not going
    Here is another punk trying his luck

    http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1346791651#!/profile.php?id=100001049693150

    to marry again but I believe life still need to go on since am still alive and healthy….. I have lots to say when I meet the woman of my own Am man of good faith and I believe that is what has been helping me.

    It will be the best to let me have your email address for further discussion and my email id is captdarico@yahoo.com
    Capt. David Arico

  260. The pictures of Patrick McDonald are mine from my military.com site where I downloaded photos from my 2005-06 deployment. I never have – nor ever will – try to find women – or men, over the internet using such photos. It is a scam and I got pulled into it. No – I don’t need nor want a relationship and if I did – it sure wouldn’t be done over the internet – Patrick McDonald

    • You owe no explanation and you are not at fault. Hope you are well, safe, and happy.

      • These pictures were being used under the name of SFC Henry Patrick McDonald, in Iraq (a mechanical engineer)on OKCupid.com. I have reported this man to OK Cupid, and the FBI. He likes to chat you up, makes you think he’s a very lonely widown – “wife died of cancer 3 years ago, 2 beautiful girls…Mary and Nancy OR Connie (he seems to get confused by his own kids names) — then says he wants to hear your voice, so please send him a satellite phone. SERIOUSLY!!! Do women actually send a man they JUST met online a satellite phone? Crazy. I hope this man rots in hell for impersonating Patrick McDonald – a real US Hero.
        And my thoughts go out to the real McDonald…I’m sorry you have to deal with all this junk these scammers are doing in your name. It’s not fair!

  261. If anyone wants to get in touch with me please do, I would like to know where to send the pictures. Thank you.

    keemakebab@aol.com

  262. Now I am really worried that they will use my pictures for another scam. Is there any way to find out or stop this. These people are evil……

  263. jj&cj and all of u out there who been caught by these f****** scammer, i spend al afternoon til now almost 1am follow up my own came with these scammer, lead me to this page i am so glad.the scammer didnt know he gave me the lead to find the answer to find out who is he. ladies i read all your comments, everyone react in different ways. i am not upset.because at the end of my game he is the only one wil feel as a dum idot asasashohohoho,u know wat i mean.i wil be back 2 daes from here and share with you my ful story. don’t get me wrong, i feel for each everyone of you and what happen to you. i wont say more i think there are some of them among us now.until i’m done i’l wil tel you al about it, promise, promise, promise.cj n jj thanks for tis page, i know its help al of us. see you soon.

  264. sorry i read my writting some of my spelling not rite cant fix it now, and my gramma not tat gud.second language.
    hope you can stil understand.

  265. i am scammed and i read every day the messages.
    now i am getting e-mail from other woman. looking up ip or translating the e-mails by google.
    Since scammers dont use perfect english and my english as belgium is far from perfect.
    New scammers using the profiles from soldiers’perspective. as far as i know i dont have a profile

  266. If anyone here who was scammed is from Southern California, please contact me at rgk_28@yahoo.com A reporter from Fox news in Los Angeles is doing a story about scammers using photos of soldiers and wants to interview someone who lives is So. Cal. who has been scammed by such scammers. He’s legit. He contacted me through CJ.

  267. Hi Ladies, I went to Stop the Army Dating Scam at facebook. There was a photo there of Sgt. Ivan Nobile. He is looking down at the camera he is holding. Anyway this same picture is being used at Mate one with the user as Lampard50 and now he is using the name Sgt Kelvin Nobile. His email is sgt.kelvin_nobile@yahoo.com. I just wanted to let everyone know.

    • Hi i am Tracy founder of the facebook group just to let u all know that we update our wall photos each day and as of tonight we have 250 that the scammers are using , as you realise often the same photo with just a new name ….. please feel free to join the group and name and shame these men
      Tracy

      • Hi Tracy,
        Im Trish from South Africa, please could you checkout the pic of someone called “Alexander Swain” on facebook(if is his real name???). This same pic I found on datingpartners.co.za site begining of May this year. We started corresponding with each other on yahoo chat, well up until about a week ago. I then found out about these “delightful” scams on the go. I mention to him that I suspected something seemed amiss. I have now noticed that his pic/profile no longer exists on the datingsite but still is on facebook. His pics he sent me reflect on this site near top of page as: “Brown Mark” and also, “Harry Swain”. Do u perhaps know who the genuine guy is in the pics?
        Your help will be greatly appreciated, thanks.

        • Hi I have alsohad contact with so called Aex Swain for about two months and today I told him I suspected him as a scammer. He denyed and we talked a lot. Now I wonder if he will come online tonight as he said. I was stupid to send money to his gold business in Ghana and is so angry about this. To late I found out it was scam. I met him in a european dating site, cause I ´m from Sweden. He also tried with the diplomat story as many others heard of here. Now he is using Swain508@hotmail.com And and his name on the site was smile4mile. It is his pic on facebook also and some of the pics above was sent to me also.

      • Tracy,

        What is the name of your FB group and can you supply the link? I would love to join your group! Big thanks!!!

  268. Hello,

    Am chatting with another loser by the name of “Edwards Herman”. Used the same intro in chat with me as what Bill Haggard did (at the start of this page). I will keep him busy so that he is not trying to scam anyone else. He removed his profile from math.com as he feels I am the one for him and thinks we can fall in love (puke, puke). His profile name on match.com is Days111Eds and his yahoo name is “Edwards_Herman2000″. I only have one pic of him so far that I sent to CJ. “Edward” said he would send more as I asked for one of his face (the pic he sent has sunglassess and a pilot helmet).

    Will keep you posted.

  269. oh….can anyone answer this for me…..I got an email from a “Sandra Deby” which she sent to email address of “colpeddy@yahoo.com”. This “colpeddy is not me so unsure how it got to me. This is her message….”Hello.
    My name is sandra i saw your profile today at (www.soldiersperspective.us) and i love it also became intrested in you,i will also like to know you more,and i want you to send an email to my email address so i can give you my picture for you to know whom i am.Here is my email address(sandra.deby@yahoo.co.uk) i believe we can move from here.my love distance or colour does not matter but love matters alot in life.i waiting to recive your lovely reply soon, Yours Love.
    Miss sandra”

    Anyone have any clue? My concern her is that she saw my profile on this site and I have no clue what that is about….can anyone shed some light on this for me. I did not reply to the email, just deleted it.

    Thanks!

    • Deb…I got one too!!1 I sent it to CJ, couldn’t figure out how it came to my email address either! Please let me know if you get and answer. Thanks Debbie

      • Sorry, forgot to say that my email said the same as yours did…word for word!

  270. i to recieved the above email, but was to a capt mike hardy@yahoo.com , i was confused as to why i had been sent it, i replied ,i think you have sent this to the wrong address, then deleted it. when i tried to forward it to mike hardy came back as unknown,it just worried as the sites name was mentioned and wondered why someone had sent it to me, so whats going on.

    • Jane, I was gonna tell you last night I got one but I forgot…the age thing…lol!!! Talk to ya later girl. Debbie

  271. Hey girls I got the exact same email. Mine was to a guy named McCabe. Mine mentioned my profile on this site !! What profile???? I let CJ know what’s going on. I think the scammers are having their fun with us. Don’t worry they can’t get near us. At least not until they build their raft and float here!! HAHAHA

  272. I just wanted to say the scammers do read this site. Keep that in mind. If you want to talk to some other girl on here don’t put your email on here. Go thru CJ and get the email address. MY scammer told me they read this site. We are starting to annoy them. haha And you all know what happens if you don’t do what they want or if you question them. They are probally throwing hissy fits right now !!! They really are dunb asses. BE AWARE.

    • hi donna that figures i wondered how sgt emmy teddy cole knew id written things about him lol xx

  273. Hi JaneB and DONNA trish from UK here, and yes I had the same mail as you have written about .. above messeges in face that will be the 4th mail from different ” women “! with African names apart from the latest one as mentioned above. Now why would I want to ” Fall for and exchange love letters with some AFRICAN woman. who as normal has the same ol story of losing their family etc etc. well big deal. I dont feel sorry for them in the slightest!as we know girls, dont we ,that behind all these names lies a SCAMMER ” a WOLF in sheeps fur”waiting to pounce on the vulnerable. but I think we have EYES open know dont we GIRLS….. YES course we do. and onwards we will go…! fight em and put em down…… let those real guys, those real soldiers be Proud of us ….

    • Amen!

    • AMEN to that too!!! Got another one today and sent it to CJ, from now on if I get anymore I am just deleting them. I “forgot” and put my email address up here awhile ago…we all make that mistake from time to time. Let’s keep up the good work on getting the word out about these scumdiggers…hey new name for them…lol!!!
      Tell everyone you know, whether they have been scammed or not to write your congressmen, senator or whoever it takes for them to start doing something about this instead of sitting on their asses…I did and will continue to do it until I AM HEARD!!! Here’s to a peaceful night sleep and bright future for all of us!

    • Hi Trish good to hear from you again. I am still tormenting the dumb asses and will continue to do so. My hatred for them leaves no room for pity. If they are dumb enough to contact me then as they say ” all is fair in love and war.” Take care of yourself Trish.

      • Hi girls trish here, wondered if any of you have any one on their notes of soldier calling hismself EUGENE in Iraq. dont know a lot about him. except says he is 49 ( ish ) and on badoo and was most put out when i called him as a liar ! ” Oh dear I wont sleep for that tonight will I ” and also another one ( much older accepting presentation with group ( but he is actually the only on in the photo !) anyway name on Uniform MURPHY ( not the name used on Badoo.. keep eyes peeled !!just in case ! Bye for now girls I will be back x Trish Uk )

  274. patricia, thanks for your reply, i couldn,t have put it better myself,i dont feel sorry for any of them, do they feel sorry for the women like me and many other who are nearly ruined finacially and emotionally by the time they have finished with us no, all because we fell in love. i always believe,what comes around goes around and there time will come when they have to pay for there crime, in heaven or earth.

  275. I just have to say Thank you so much for your website. My father didn’t raise a fool and the currant evens sent me searching and boy. I month ago on Myspace I got a very nice message from a Christian man from MO. The name he uses on there is Michael Brent, said he’s a Sargent in the US army. And would like to be my friend and we have talked he asked me to contact his Maj. Gen to see about getting his phone activate. So I did and he told me depending on what plan it could run anywhere from 500USD to like 800USD. I told him I could not afford that and I would contact the USO for help. He won’t tell me his addy for being afghaistan but just tells me he’s at Camp Victory. So now we are becoming more then just friends because hey he’s never personally asked me for money the Maj Gen told me it’s not an .mil email. Now he wants leave he’s been there over a year and has asked me to email the same Maj. Gen to request he might get leave. Now this email comes from the same email but with another Maj Gen responding. I’m told they need a copy of my drivers license I will have to fill out 2 forms and send 1550USD. So hey I’m playing along with this game. I asked do I send it to the pentigons address. Oh no that’s not affiliated with his Division. I would like his pics to be posted on here as well as his email address so he hits no other women.

  276. RE: Colpeddy@yahoo.com

    Hi- I saw prior messages in regards to this colpeddy@yahoo.com email address. On July 14th you can see my prior messages above how this was a scammer’s email address. He used the identity of Colonel Pedersen, Kelvin. (Btw, Kelvin seems to be a popular choice of name for these idiot scammers). Anyhow, I have learned that this soldier Pedersen is actually a Major (at the time the pics were taken) and he was at one time in the 1st infantry division. I have been making some effort to try and locate this man with no luck so far. Sad to say, I thought I would get over this soldier, but have really taken his photos to heart. I hate to admit, I can’t seem to stop thinking about this man in the pictures.He is likely happily married with kids-oh well….SIGH …
    Am I the only one that feels this way?

    • No Kayla, I feel the same way about my “soldier”. I have tried locating him but to no avail…Wish I could though to at least let him know about the scammer that used his identity, then of course if he is married, well at least I will have closure then. I think that is what we all need to really get past most (the love and attraction) everything, some kind of closure where our “soldier’s” are concerned.

      • i have been talk to a sgt kelvin bristol and then yesterday a sgt ward imd me out of no where

  277. C.J.
    Thanks again for all the attention you are giving to this problem. Apparently these aren’t just scammers. My actually turns out to ba a hacker also. I have several web addresses, email accounts and use both Yahoo and Windows Live IM. I only ever gave him the yahoo info, but he has turned up questioning my dissappearance on several of the others even though he has been blocked and reported. My response to all of these contact was “You must be have incorrect information. I do not know anyone from Nigeria.” Haven’t heard from him now in almost a week.

  278. just to let everyone know, these scammers are not always posing as military man. I have been getting many winks for non-military….architects, self-employed. You know they are not due to the same poor use of the english language. As soon as I email them and tell them they are a scammer, they remove their profile off the dating site….of course, only to come back as someone else.

    • deb,

      You are right! They must be “changing” their occupation because we are asking too many of the right questions about the military that they CANNOT ANSWER!! So they figure if they chose a profession that they don’t have to “think” of the answers, than they are a step ahead of us…they must really think that we are idiots! Don’t they realize that if whatever they tell us, if we don’t know it we will ask and find out the answer? I am having alot of fun with them! There are quite a few on cupid.com. Come join the fun!
      Just do not tell them you are going to report them, because all they will do then is change the profile and name and keep doing it…just delete them and report them to the admin on that site, then give CJ and Amit Mendelsohn (I believe that’s how you spell his last name)He has a site on Facebook for the scammers. I know he has posted a comment on here with his link…check it out. It’s great too!

      • Debbie,

        I think Cupid has nothing but scammers. I don’t even bother responding anymore.

  279. another scammer haddardlov123. when I outed him he threatened me with “I have your picture and will teach you a lesson” “I will show you black power”. The pic he used looks quite like Haggard’s picture

  280. I just wanted you all to know that the real James Rellinger is aware that his name is being used. He contacted me today.

    I am just amazed that the other idiot is still emailing me, and wants money for his internet.

    Thank you to the person who helped me with this, you know who you are, thanks, you really are an angel….

  281. Thank u!!!!! I have been talking to chris/joe harold. last 2 weeks thought something was fishy and had done searches but nothing showed up for him from texas. still didn’t sit right until this evening he asked me to send parcels to a diplomat.Lucky for me my father was an army man and there was no diplomat to seend parcels toand my son=inlaw recent discharged after 3 tours of duty. so I googled this evenigna nd found him here on this site. He was also on match.com I will be talking with them also. as a paying customer we have rights to expect a safe web site or my money back. Wish me luck and please girls foolow your gut! I did and it saved me

    • Good luck to you. I let them know how unhappy I was (I, too was talking to Joe Harold), but match.com never did reply to me. I am surprised Joe Harold stuck with that name considering I let him know (with some colorful words) that I knew he was a scammer. Just goes to show that it just doesn’t matter to them.

  282. I wanted to report another soldier imposter. A man going by a name of “Bill Allyn” and posting 3 photos of this soldier in Army fatigues. He said he was in Iraq and would be home next month. I met him on Singlesnet and we wrote emails/chatted for 1 month. He asked for a laptop, I sent him military links where he could apply for one. He dropped the subject. Then he asked for T- shirts, body wash, razors-I thought they were valid needs for a soldier and sent them to an address a “Diplomat” gave me. I found him on Singlesnet using a different location. I reported him to them and his profile has been removed. I also searched Match and found him there using yet a 3rd location. I am concerned about the “real” Bill Allyn who may be a true soldier.
    He did not ask for money(up until I cut off with him) but said he bought gold bars with all his earnings in Iraq. I had already been doing research on him and thought things were not adding up. He seemed educated and did not write in poor English as many do. He was romantic/a smooth talker no doubt. I will report him as often as I can–I found him on facebook the same day I found him out(the 15th). Has anyone else had contact with this name?

    • He contacted me on match.com but I cut contact right away. Sorry, that’s all I have as I was getting so pee’d off with these guys. Now I report them right away and onyl engage them when I am in the mood to waste their time. It is great fun…lol!

  283. Anyone hear of Dennis Draper supposedly in Iraq, children in Ghana with a friend? What a heartbreak to read all of these. I was fool enough to believe as well. Still not sunk in yet. When questioned, he got angry and got off line, made me feel bad that I didn’t trust him. I have a photo of him and his children…has his name on the uniform.

    • Sounds like another Alias for Charles Relinger Tetteh. Says he’s a staff sergeant in Iraq. His son Emmanuel is in Ghana with a friend. He’s from San Francisco…etc etc..I think this guy has quite a large scamming ring going…with multiple players under him.

  284. I was a recent victim of this scam but thank goodness I did not send any money to this person but my heart was broken i truly began liking the person I was talking to beware of Anthony Handy..

  285. I would like to know if sgt alexander logan is a real soilder in Iraq. He was stationed in montana first, then Iraq. I started takin to him, What are somethings to ask about him that are true. Also is mark Gonzales a real soilder he asked me for 38,000.00 for exchange for another solider to come and take his place. I said no and he stopped talkin to me right away. I don’t give money to anubody I don’t know. I met these guys on the singlesnet.com

  286. Disregard my rather unconvention way of getting to you.With my position as
    the Principal Assurance Manager for the ChinaTrust Commercial Bank in China, i
    discreetly inform you we have the sum of $28.272,000 USD
    that is in our Possession and we
    intend to move it out as documented.
    :mr11_jiang11jianmin1@nba2k.com.cn thats the email i got this morning ????

  287. I have been in contact with a Sgt. David Stewart for alittle over a week now. Have a not so good feeling about it. He fell in love with me and wants to marry me within a couple days of talking? Very strange. How can I find out for sure. Actually he contacted me from BikersOrNot web site. If he’s a scammer I would like to warn other people on the site.
    He sent me 2 pics of himself,they look like two different people. But he could’ve changed. Thank you for your help

  288. I was recently approached on myspace with an email from a guy claiming to be sgt_blake thomson. within a few days he was asking me to marry him etc.. I played along to see what this creepo was up to and sure enough he is a scammer. He wanted me to pay money to get him a phone so we could talk. I guess he thought I just fell of the turnip truck. what a loser. These people are scumbags!!

  289. I met Sgt Bill Johnson or Rancourt on Match.com has anyone herd of him three months ago and just found this site today i do have pictures

  290. i found eddy james picture with a new name frank dourglas take care

  291. I’ve been talking to warrant officer Frank Edwards. I dont know what a warrant officer is…manybe someone can help? He sent my a copy of his military ID and would like to send it with pictures to you CJ if possible. I didn’t know there was such a rank… please help.

    • Jodi, a warrant officer is a real rank, but in the English army, I am not sure if they have the same thing in the military.

      • Nikki, if i send you his military ID could you help me check to see if he is real? I dont know what a military ID should even look like. Thanks for the info on the warant officer rank….

        • Of course, send it to my email address. It is above a few conversations, just don’t want to put it on here again. I was married to someone in the English Army, so I certainly know what an ID looks like. Sorry my reply took so long, have been sick. Nikki

  292. How about Jeff Durama rom NJ?? ANybody know?
    He gave me email of mltrytransit@usa.com..does anyone know what that is?/

    • just posted today…e mailed okcupid web site
      Feb. been speaking with him via jeffdurama@yahoo.com asked for money for a phone (he said he was in Dubia) loved me a bunch…said he was from NJ same guy, wife deceased 6 years…hope he did not rip you off.
      I made it out without paying a dime only time wasted……and that tug on my heart strings.

  293. Nikki, how did you find the real James? I have been trying to locate my soldier to inform him but with no luck?????

    • Hi Kim,

      I didn’t find him, well, I had asked the scammer for a military email, after reading this page. So he gave me one. I had written to it, trying to check it out, and had not heard anything, which did not come as a big surprise to me. Then, a few days ago, the real soldier replied, and told me that my hunch was correct, and that I was being scammed , and that HE had never spoken to me before. He also directed to me to this site and wished me well.
      I think that it was so nice of him to write to me. He probably thinks that I am a complete idiot. I suppose I am to fall for all that. I think that I have always wanted to hear the things that were said to me, we probably all feel like that.

      I am just very glad that he found out that someone is using his name and pictures. I hope that this person has not caused him any trouble.

      Kim if you want to talk further you can email me, My address is on here back a few messages. Take Care Nikki

  294. Hi all… My heart goes out to everyone who has become a victim of these scammers. The person I was chatting with was very adept at his craft, but paying attention to the details and asking a lot of questions, saved me from losing out financially. However, the emotional mind messing is the worst,..and it can happen to anyone who has a good heart and not usually going around mistrusting people. Unfortunately, in this day and time the bar has been raised to new heights in “proceede with CAUTION!”

    The person emailing me (from Match.com) called himself Bruce Castaneda and the emails came from b.honest007@ymail.com. Posing as an Army Platoon Sargeant E-7 in Baghdad, who was retiring after 26yrs. My first “red flag” was when he needed the iPad and told me that he was getting his “retirement papers” in Iraq and would fly home as a civilian on a commercail airline. He wanted gifts i.e., clothing, perfume (cologne), phone/iPad etc.. …supposedly he had a recent b-day. Said he was from Florida and divorced with a 13 yr, old daughter living with his sister in NY. He also involved a “diplomat” friend in Ghana, West Africa to whom I was asked to send a package.

    I feel bad that the soldiers in these photos are victims as well and I’m sure many don’t even know. I hope that sites like this will help expose and put an end to this terrible thing. Unlike the brave men and women serving our country, those scammers are nothing, but cowards and liars!!

  295. Hay to all,in search for Ruddock did I get here and I found the above. Me wrote 3 days to about Jappy, but there is, the Billy247 and 53J. Since 39 J.bei the Army, has a daughter, his parents dead, as usual, and as a teacher would be in Iraq. About Yahoo, I got an e-mail and Elbow-4 photos, but other than the above. Questions will be answered as not so good. All e-mail the IP addresses in Ghana, (where else) are always on Ireland, U.S., U.S., and then Ghana. Until now I still have not told him that I know will notice, let's see how far the. His current e-mail Addy is genruddock12@hotmail.com Then I would have a U.S. Army Major General Lawhorn on offer. Age btw 48 and 53 depending on the dating site, now he has a son, sometimes a daughter, now a widower, Separated, Single or divorced, of course, are the parents dead, apparently from Florida. After about three weeks he got his daughter on a school and needed money would be needed, he comes off there, but not after it took over 1 week to make clear to whom the offers from me anything he had not gone more bzw.antwortete. Known names: Law Horn, Lawhorn, Kenneth Lawhorn, Scott Lawhorn Lersin or Smith. E-mail: lawhorn@ymail.com / alicehorn@ymail.com / smile440@live.com / fatado1@hotmail.com Mitlerweile he is already blocked some sites and also landed the part already on scammer

    • I have something new from Ruddock. He now wrote to me about Yahoo, he also has a Yahoo Addy .. : billy.casey99 @ yahoo.com. He has now sent me four pictures where he is still in battle dress .. Can you upload the pictures here of him?

  296. those scams dont stop. THis morning on my cellphone a text came in. I give you the context.
    > good day mrs. Brenda. We are sorry for the delay in allowing capt.James
    > eddy arrive in time its because due process has to be followed…. We will
    > appreciate if you can do anything in order for him to be able to leave the
    > shore of africa then he can arrive in belgium safe and sound we just got
    > the notice that he is still in africa because of the payment problem…
    > you can contact us on usadminmaildep@mail2armu.com for further
    > enquiries.you can contact capt james eddy for confirmation of this
    > messsage. thank. the Us army dept.
    > when i looked for the details in the gsm(cellphone) i got no tell number
    > just us army dep
    > receaved 21.40.42 25/08/2010
    > SMS CENTRALE +42379010578
    > PLEASE CAN YOU LOOK IN BECAUSE NOW I DONT KNOW IF THIS IS REAL OR JUST
    > ANOTHER WAY OF SCAMMING
    >
    > i know +234 IS NIGERIA and the sms centrale where eddy sent his text is
    > normally +23448030000481
    > AND THIS IS A WHOLE OTHER NUMBER

  297. does anybody been connected by him or them
    is there somebody who can help me out
    we dont have helpsgroups in belgium
    even when you use the word scammer or nigeria or ghana
    seems nobody knows anything what is going on
    and i know i am not the only victime
    i have a friend approached by a certain lancelot

  298. http://www.militaryphotos.net/ a dream for scammer so many pictures

  299. Beware of men in military uniform on Hot or Not. com. I had been emailing a Blake Carroll that I met on there. I asked if he was in the National Guard or regular Army. He asked me what Guard was. Then he said he was National Army. Of course, he was a widower with a small son. Who has your son, I asked. He is with me he said. I don’t think they let them take kids to Iraq do they?

  300. I was just IM’d by some jerk claiming to be one of our service men. I spoke with him for awhile and his speech/writing just didn’t sit right with me, but I kept it going to see if I was right. He evaded me on questions I would ask and instead kept pushing the fact that he was a “GOD fearing” man looking for a “GOD fearing” woman to spend his life with. He quoted bible passages and when I asked why he needed to quote verse he tried to claim the words as his own. Much of his story was word for word what has been written by so many others pictured above. They can be fun to lead on and then call them on their scam. He is not the first I have been contacted by and I’m sure not the last who will try. He couldn’t remember the answers to questions he had asked me a few min prior and after telling me he has a 13 year old son when asked about his willingness to relocate because returning to new york was too painful. You see he lost his parents on 9/11, he didn’t care if he wasn’t close to his son once he returned home after being in Iraq for 2 years. Please I want NOTHING to do with a man who doesn’t want to be close to his child especially after being gone for so long. Do they really think women are all this dumb? by the way this guys “name” was Captain Aron, I was to send a birthday pkg to a diploma by the name of Randolf Amuzu.

  301. I’ve got one also. Sgt. Laurence Michael (facebook) aka Sgt. Michael Laurence aka Sgt. Michael Barnett (yahoo) address miky_bar65@yahoo.com. 45, Ohio, widower of five years, two children (girls). Gave me an email address of usarmytelecom@consultant.com to try and set up radio phone call I would have to pay for. I have photos in uniform also… but difficult to make out name, etc. This just makes me sick…

  302. a guy by the last name santos
    told me he love me wanted to marry me
    sent me numerous pictures of him and his
    daughter I even made video and put it on u tube of him I fell in love with this guy but he wanted my address I didnt give it to him last I heard from him he told me he was stab in head I also posted that pic on video u can watch the video at this link just copy and paste to your address bar at top of page click enter http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjLfbNKhGYc also he mention places to me like the seabrook in texas and wichita kansas and JAPAN but his plane number was track down to california

  303. you can click link above to see who im talking about i fell in love with this guy we met on date hook up then went to yahoo messenger talking on mic heres some of the things he said to me i will paste from my yahoo messager archive
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:26:46 AM): i really want you
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:26:51 AM): pls honey
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:26:58 AM): my sweetheart
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:27:21 AM): i love you so much with my entire life
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:27:31 AM): how would i do such to you
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:27:35 AM): pls my baby

  304. I wanted to locate the guy in pics
    talk to him so please watch the video I posted on u tube help me track down the real guy im not sure if its truly him or not after he sent me pic with blood on his head i dont know what to think anymore does anybody reconize the location hes from by his surroundings u can clearly see santos on his uniform but my question to u is where are they getting these pics from??

  305. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjLfbNKhGYc
    I made video of all pics he sent me if u reconize this man or know this man personally or have any idea where hes at please dont hesitate to contact me he never asked me for money but he told me he was in japan and he wanted my address to my house so when he left japan he could come be with me marry me ofcourse i didnt give him my address then next time he sent me pic with blood on his head said he was attack stab all this is in this video i made watch
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjLfbNKhGYc

  306. help me find the real guy please :(
    everybody idenify hes from airforce
    please check caliafornia kansas texas and japan I fell in love with the emails thinking maybe it was truly him I love his smile I would love to know the real guy if this isnt the real guy emailing me.

  307. I have been talking to a guy that says he is in the army in Majha Afghanistan and he is trying to get me to pay TS2 Communications $250 to be able to talk to him. I think it is a scam and would like to know for sure. I looked up Majha and the only one I could find close to Afghan is in Pakistan. Is there any questions I could ask him that he wouldn’t know the answers to?
    He goes by Sergeant Jeffery Wilganoski
    He has told me he has a 10 year old and his wife died. I see a lot of the same stories here.

  308. I was scammed by a man saying he was Sgt.Robert Nobile, met on a dating site. We have been chatting for almost 2 months. i have so many pics. of him. met him on date1.com, sad that someone can do this to another.

    • My friend has been chatting with a Staff Sgt James Nobile for a month now. Now his friend got on his Id asking for money because James supposedly shot a civilian in Iraq and now is held in court. He needs money to be bailed out. It sounds very fishy for me so I told her to hold back and see if we can check him and things out. Would love to see pics of him to see if it’s the same person. He is on Badoo and my Space. That is all we know. Can someone help.

  309. to shelia barker militaryphotos.net/ look overthere maybe you find what you are looking for

  310. I was scammed by a man on the dating site. My name is Rivera janys. I was born on the 2nd of August, 1963 at Baptist Hospital of miami I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience..
    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a noncommission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.
    My son lives with my ex in Miami. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time.I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words.

    I have pictures,phone numbers, and emails as we were immediately communicate thru MSN with Janys1@live.com. At the end, he asked $5000 money transfer to Airport Accra Custom office; so the million dollars worth of package will be safe and delivery to me by his Diplomat. Western Union has rejected the transaction and called to explain the situation as these groups of people are on their black list.

    Hope this help.

    • I received this exact email from a Thomas Draper. His “daughter” lived with his ex-wife. I blocked him when his IP address came from Nigeria.

    • I must tell you. I got exactly these email a months ago word by word from a Scammer call himself Tom Ross he is also wellknown by the name Jack Ingo. I guess they stolen it from another person on Internet and then use it to send their victums. So the mess you got is a real Scam. He even told me he has lost his whole family, mom, dad and his brother in World Trade Center. So watch out!!!

    • Sounds a bit like the guy I just started chatting to. Is he the same as Robert Haggard’s picture above? If so, now going under the name of Haggard Millar

      • do you have a picture of this guy, Sounds the same as a guy I am chatting to called Jeff Preston

  311. All, check out the new forum where you can discuss these guys in a more organized fashion and upload photos: http://www.soldiersperspective.us/2010/08/31/new-asp-forum-launched/

    • CJ, I went out to the site last night and registered, but it never sent me an email with a password…any suggestions? As always, thank you for what you do for us, on this site and in the military!

    • Hi C J tried to access this page and just keeps saying error !!!!!

    • CJ, I went out to the site right now and registered, but I don´t got any email with the password…??????

  312. How do I give you a picture of another scammer? Staff Sgt Jonny Rellinger in Afganistan… These guys doing this are evil!

  313. Too bad this guy has the same scam technique! The real guy in this picture is not bad looking! http://www.singleparentmeet.com/community/member/?Profile=094F772144537D97&back=readMessage&backparam=start=1|Folder=Sent|message=168455814|curmsgpos=6

  314. just to let u know the guy in video on u tube i found out was poseing as two different men to me and my friend sherry and today he got on cam prove he was black nigerian in this video so yeah we caught him finally he confess now he wants our money to tell where he stole the pics from of the real guys I said if anything u owe us liar for scamming us all this time well he really scam sherry somebody mail her over 2,000 to her house she sent it to nigeria cause he said he was doing contracting and construction work down there watch this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wd0AO-E9Mzs u will see scammer that tricked us. ok I just wanted to update u later! – shelia

  315. Hi,

    I have been contacted by a one Captain Luck Scott through Facebook. Of course he already wants to marry me, to live with me, he loves me and so on, however, I have kept all our online conversations as well as e-mails and photos because there are way too many gaps in what he says.
    -Awful spelling
    -The pictures he sent doesn’t look from the same guy from one photo to another
    -I have been telling lies to him as I do not want him to know about me, but the second I told him I was getting money from “selling a house I own in Mexico City” he was sooooo ready to “advise me on bonds and stock” WITH MY MONEY of course
    -Today he said he was going to travel to Qatar, Africa :[, hahahahahahahaha that one was really funny.

    Please tell me at which e-mail account should I send the pictures I got so you can upload them here and more people may know about him-them.

    Thank you very much for your site,

    Erika

  316. Hi

    does anyone have any dealings with a William Spalding calls himself Willy? says he is platoon sgt with Bravo Company 82nd Div STB in Afghanistan at present, but that he is in USAF attached to United Nations Special Forces Command in London.

    • further to my above post I managed to do an IP trace on an email & surprise surprise it is in Nigeria. I have photos he sent me, and the original email, I have tried to register at the new forum with no luck. Luckily I didnt lose anything except a few hours wasted but would like to make others aware.

  317. I forgot to add:
    Profile in Facebook is CaptLuck Scott
    And his e-mail account is luckscott78@yahoo.com

  318. I feel for all u women all these black men from nigeria to is lie make me fall in love with them fake to be somebody they arent just to try to scam us out of money leave us broken hearted so sorry me and my friend sherry fell in love with the two men we thought was real come to findout they was nigerian scammers they had been lieing to us the whole time so I know how u feel.God will punish those men that tricked us and lied to us they have no heart they only thinking of their selves!

  319. txharrymale@yahoo.com dont let him fool u he anit the guy in pics if u go to u tube http://www.youtube.com type in search bar shygirl4u2008 u will see all videos ok? please go check it out

  320. Well cj without your help or the help of the military I have found the real christopher Morris only his name is not chris it’s MG David A Morris, yes a general and a decorated one too and I am allmost sure I have found the culprit using the name and will get him too. And please don’t tell me not to go after him it will do no good. I am out for revenge and will not stop till I get it. If I have to do it on my own I will. I fell in love with this soldier now for allmost a year and I won’t let this SOB get away with ruining a good mans rep. Yes cj I am angry and will be till this is over and he is behind bar where he belongs. Mr Morris is a wonderfull husband and father and this is too much to let go. Please reply I think I want to be a PI what to you think cj.

  321. Oh yes cj I have allready contacted the US military in Washington about this and I am waiting on their reply. I just hope they care enough to help, but if not I guess i’m on my own.

  322. Hi everybody just to let u all know the FACEBOOK GROUP STOP THE US ARMY DATING SCAM had now reached 200 member and has over 350 photos that scammers are using please pop by and add to these …. U will also find new names and emails that scammers are using and the chance to chat and exchange ideas with women who have been or who are going through what u are
    Tracy

  323. I was contacted by a David j Massingale with much the same story I have seen in these messages. He is a Captain in Afghanistan, his wife died 5 years ago in a car crash and he is looking for his soul mate, and so on.. This was on the Plenty of Fish dating site. Upon my response to his initial email he requested we chat off of the site so I contacted him through Messenger. I noticed within hours of this contact his profile and emails had been removed from the Plenty of Fish site, so I don’t have any photos. However the profile photo was not a military one. It looked like a guy eating an ice cream cone in a restaurant with a white ball cap on.
    His email address is david.jmassingale@yahoo.com
    Be save ladies.

  324. has anyone been scammed by sgt emmy teddy cole these men are evil hr didnt get any money or any thing form me but theses men are very clever

  325. I just wanted to let everyone know there is also another facebook site called Get the Scammers. There are over a thousand pictures of various scammers on that one alone. Also on facebook is Stolen Valor and Stop being scammed by cons saying they are “”US Soldiers”. You are able to upload your own photos there as well with any information. The faster we get these on the more women we may protect.

    • thanks for your information – important to identify and preserve integrity

  326. Donald.Draper101@live.com – beware of this guy I met on Oasisactive.com – a staff sergant serving in Iraq, parents dead, 9 yo son needs money back “home” in bronx. I have photos if anyone interested in confirmation for themslef and closure. Emails beautiful eloquent love messages and photos are very handsome 50yo man Staff Sergent in training and ops.Even rang and spoke to me in Sydney AUstralia askign if i can pick him up at airport. Next day, declared his love and life committment and asked for 3000 to help out his son, holding (me) responsible if anuthing happened to his son if I didnt send. He also included pics of his son and fun pics of him in army uniform and on patrol, laptop etc. I was heartbroken for about an hour then over it. Beware ladies of letters declaring love – the message is universal and has widespread appeal to mid age single women/mothers.

  327. Interestingly enough, I was contacted on Facebook a few months ago by a woman saying that she was contacted by my husband asking for money. Supposedly he was a widow, and all that crap. Nigerian scammers used a photo from an Army website to start a new Facebook page and pose as my husband. It took a lot of work to get the page deleted. My husband had to prove again and again that he was himself! UGH! It has happened about three times this year. Unfortunately these dipshits don’t fall under our law, so there is not much we can do but protect our image the best we can.

    • Hi Vic im really sorry to hear abt your husband and what has happened to him u may like to look at the FACEBOOK GROUP STOP THE US ARMY DATING SCAM and there u will see all of the photos there using at the monent and the member are very good at altering me when there contacted by somebody they suspect as a scammer sadly facebook is getting bad for it i am in contact with several real soldiers who have had there ID used and all report how hard it is to get the profile removed then often there back then next day maybe a new christian name but the same surname
      Tracy

      • Hi Tracey: Can you let me know how to contact you to send photos to put on Facebook. I use my sisters account to log in so I don’t want to send them that way. I saw one that I was sent and I have a couple more of this man to add. Not sure what name is was using before but to me he is Kelvin Grant.

        • Well, well, well,,,,I am being teased by the same Kelvin Grant I suspect. Only now he’s working on women in Canada….hahaha,,,oh my goodness,,,how shall i get revenge…hmmmm

  328. My Friend is dating man online, his name is David Arico he said he is a Capt. in the Army and he is now in Darfur, Sudan for 11months now. I would like to know his real identity so that I can give an advise to my friend. Thanks a lot.

    • find out what unit he is with and ill let you know. Last i checked there are no army personel in sudan unless he works for the UN or a special envoy, either way he wouldnt be there for 11 months. Only peacekeeping troops from the African union are there as far as i know. The only US involvement is with logistics last time I checked. Ill let you know if i find out more

      • Thanks a lot J Kels for the information, it helps a lot and please let me know if there’s a certain guy in this Army and he said he’s going to retire soon and promising my friend to bring her to Little Rock, Arkansas. Oh yes, he told my friend that he is on special mission for peace. I am keeping in touch with her so that she’ll have some idea with this guy. He also told her that he had bad experiences about ladies who are just fooling him specially when it comes to money too. I’ll keep in touch with you if I have information from her. Thanks for the reply.

  329. No one that is in the army would ever ask you to send them money for leave. We don’t have to pay for leave it is free. Also, if someone sounds like english is their second language, then it probably is. All of these letters i have looked at seem like the person can barely write properly. That should be a hint. And finally, if someone says they cant call you for security reasons they are lying. I am currently in the middle of no where afghanistan, and almost all my guys have personal cell phones to call whomever they would like.

    • I found the IP address (41.138.175.112) of David Arico (captdarico@yahoo.com). He is from Nigeria. I saw the profile photo of David Arico at Facebook. I hope this can help find his real name and not hiding behind the Military Personnel.

  330. Hi Ladies, one more scammer to add to the list going by the name Mark William Wadsworth. Ips no, 41.218.194.45 – email ad markwilliamwadsworth1@live.com. he is on 4 different uk dating sites plus has 2 facebook pages!! he has also used the names, joe, william, johnson but always Wadsworth, traced back to Ghana. The photo’s he is using are of a retired colonel called Paul Kern. DONT SEND ANY MONEY

  331. You guys are really starting to scare me, I’m also dating a guy on the net. He’s never ask for money or to send him anything. How do I know that he is real. He’s in the canadian army serving in afghanistan, going by the name Michel Thellend. Please will anyone tell me he’s not a fake.

    Thanks

    • The first thing you need to do is get him to send you an email and check his IP address. If it comes back Ghana, Africa, etc. you’re pretty well assured he’s scamming you. The IP address can be checked at: http://aruljohn.com/info/howtofindipaddress/#ipdetect. Good luck!

      • I have been talking to a “soldier” online for about three weeks, sounds too good o be true, but I have read through these posts and don’t see his name. I did do an IP adress search and one came from New York , the rest all Ghana…where would a true military email ip be if he says he is stationed in Bagdhad. He does fit some of he other points discussed, single parent, parents dead, etc. He has not asked for anything but professes his love to me. I have looked through the pictures and none of those are the ones I have. i would to hate to put his name up here or pics in case he is legit…any advice?

  332. Hi ladys
    I think I have been scammed too, by a man called himself Major Robbert Ruddock,
    Whose pictures he sent me are the same to the ones you published here, and have some more new pictures too. And his story line is similar to al what you have said here. I have been contacted through net log .com website. His email address is: robbert_ruddock77@yahoo.com

    would like to exchange pic with you but don´t know how?

    I feel sorry for the real soldier. Please tell me what to do next.

    • RE RUDDOCK and PATRICIA. can you JUST please leaVE YOUR NAME HERE WHEN YOU REPLY TO THIS i WILL KNOW IF YOU ARE ONE AND THE SAME WHO WROTE TO ME ON MY EMAILAND i CAN THEN WRITE YOU….nOT LEAVING MY NEW EMAIL ADRESS ANY MORE ON THIS SITE AS IT SEEMS all THE SCAMMERS READ WHAT WE HAVE WRITTEN…!!!

  333. hi my name is gary , over the past few month i have been in contact wit a sgt michael rios , who surpose to be station in baghdad iraq .a week ago he asked me to get in contact with this communication compamy called ts2 . they wanted me to send$250 usd by western union . i was a little sus about it and found out that that site was a scam . he still emails me every day . yesterday he mailed me that he wanted me to get in conntact with his commander on this web address militarycommander@consultant.com
    i live in australia and this address comes up negative . ithe email of the solider that has been mailing me is sgtmrios@gmail.com
    i think this is a scam , please help me to find out . i have sent no money . i found your company on the net and have read all the messages that you have posted . many thanks gary scanlon .

    • I think I was approached by someone in common. I was friended by a guy on Gay Christians.com and when I googled him, your message popped up. His e-mail is mrios.powel@gmail.com. Did you ever find out if he was a scammer or not

  334. Ok, I work in law enforcement and I got scammed..I got a smile from a guy on a dating site. I looked at it not uniform pictures nothing Same as all the ladies are saying above.. He stated he was a Col. In AFG. Now I know REALLY dahhh. He said he was a widower, son in spain with his granny b/c his parents are deceased. Military school at 16 yrs old. Needs $1500.00 for upkeep for his family. Even got emails from nanny and the Doctor treating his granny who I was suppose to send the money to in Spain. For some reason I did send money, but for some reason I got home after sending it and felt like something was terribly wrong. Well it turned out I was right. I immediatly called western union and contacted the dating site. Western Union put a stop on the money. The dating site to him off right away. This guy was good good good.. So if any one knows what we can do I would love to do something. So all you ladies out there.. Remember we are beautiful, loving, caring and GIVING women.. we have to stick together…

  335. Right , I am now convinced. Got contacted on firstdate.com by Alex Swain. Have now found his pics here accept for two othesr he sent me. Have also lost money in my stupidity in believes that he should by gold in Accra Ghana and his bank wouldn´t send him the money from the States, He told me he is from Boston MA. He has been a lovely guy but I have had my suspicious.He had told me alot about his family and more, sadly I didnt listen to my feelings for that. The next step now last, was the same as others here. Should send a bag with money by a diplomate with name Luke JarrelDary Who is now stuck in Ghana custom. He also sent a pic of him. But now I was to suspicious so I found this site. And thank God for that. But this time I wouldnt have sent the money. I talked to one man in Ghana.Mr Otchere who supposed to be the manager of the gold business. I have saved all letters and chats with them all. I guess my money is gone , my heart is broken but will heal. Why do they do this…money of course, but is that all? Sorry for my spelling, but I am from Sweden,not Africa :-)

  336. I have told my story,I met sgt.major. MIke Gales on matchmaker.com on 7/21. Been emailing back and forth since. Also chatted on yahoo messenger. Getting to know each other- and the he tells me, he loves me. He was to get leave in Aug., but leave cancelled. The alternative was to pay for his leave, $4,580.00. Western union saved me, big time. He was then going to come home and retire. He says he has been in the army for 32 years, “he is due”. Of course, he and I then would grow old together.I have all emails, pictures of him, and govt paperwork? that I signed and sent to admin@ustransitmarine.us. Col. Susan Croakley. If you want me to send paperwork and pictures,I surely will. Thank you.

  337. Hello everyone,
    as I can see after reading you all, I’ve been myself scammed and feel very stupid to got my self in this situation. I’ve been on match.com and chatting with SGT MAJOR Alfred Haggard, for 2 months, he’s born september 10th 1965, good looking man, saw pictures on this site and do have several of them. Live San Fran and have a son, Max 14 years, living with Care Taker and also a teacher. He told me that both parent are passed away, as car exploded when trying to help somebody else in car accident and mom died of cancer. His wife, Maria, first was shot accidently and now was was i mean it was through an car accident when she had been cross with a trailler….he seemed hurting and it wasn’t jokes. It maybe same person as Micheal and Bill, but today I asked him to send me a picture of him with date & hour, he did but can’t say for sure as maybe another person looking a lot like him, as picture was taking on profil. As until today, he didn’t know this situation and was hangry about it and want of course to know what is going on I didn’t tell him where I found this information. I do have several pictures and would like to know if it’s a real soldiers that I’ve been chatting with or scammer you can reply to me at: valpolicella@ymail.com thank you to all of you making this site to the real ones heroes

  338. did someone met a capt.eddy F.james or capt eddy fouillousse? Where can i send my pictures?

  339. I would like to find out about a man who says he is Lt. Colonel Preston Max. Is he a scam artist or what? He has asked me to get in contact with his home base in Michigan to acquire early retirement for him but I have to pay a fee which he says is refundable because if they go on early pension they must pay a fine. I would like to know if the above is true.

  340. to JJ, CJ, Sandy,

    Here is an update on Sgt. Bellick Smith; sgt.bellick@yahoo.com. he is not very nice army officer and definetely not who he says he is. He broke the engagement off becuase I didnt do what he wanted, which was to take pictures of myself. and get the phone system setup.

    also, i found him under facebook but not listed as a sargent. just Bellick Smith.

    He also got upset when i first turned his hame in to this website but i told tough shit. i was protecting myself. He sounds that he and this tom curtis could be one of he same person.

    Sgt. Bellick also has another email address under a baer county terrorist unit gaming site thats what its called. and there is only one Sgt. Bellick that i know.

    Please ladies stay away from this dude. their all dumbass scammers and please definetely dont send pic’s of yourself. you dont know what they do with them

    Sincerely and good luck with all your endeavors.

    Becky B.

  341. I got a hit today from a guy on internationalcupid.com. Right away I noticed this guy is an American Marine(flag and uniform), but his profile says Canada. When do the Canadians have American Marines LOL. Anyway the email address he gave me was hildebrandtj77@yahoo.com.

    There are 3 photos attached to his profile. If anyone is interested let me know and I will send them.

  342. With all the pictures sent in, will any of the men be identified? I think all of us who have sent in photos should be notified of their identity. I was almost scammed! I would like to get in touch with this man and send all the emails and photos to him, to let him see how he was used as well. I know it would help me, give me peace.I believe he has a right to know as well! Thank You

    • Judith Dear ~ I am so sorry that Mike Gales hurt you and the other ladies ~ are you by any chance living in South Africa?

      Sgt Major. Mike Gales told me his age was 59. And that his ex-wife had moved to Australia with all his money & had taken their daughter who was now 18 years old ~ & once out of the Army he was going to hunt them down!

      The real Sgt Major. Mike Gales is not even in the Army ~ he is retired.

      The FBI has been informed ~ along with the CIA ~ Army Intelligence ~ Scotland Yard ~ and many other agencies.

      Place all his letters on this site and please send CJ all your photographs ~ I see that my six are on here twice!

      From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
      Date: Sun, 15 Aug 2010 03:40:21 -0400

      I know we’re far apart — you’re In usa, and I’m in Afghanistan right now– but hey, like I said, distance means so little when you love someone so much. I was just talking to a friend about you and explaining how you are on my mind 24/7,thank you for sharing your love and wanting to make me your man. No matter how slowly or at what distance our courtship develops, I know standing before God and our future family, vowing to be your partner for life, was the easiest decision I could have ever made.You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I miss you more every day. I am here with open arms where you will some day finally be,right where you belong.

      Although we’ve never met, I feel as if I know you well. I knew from the start that there was something special about you; you’ve touched my heart and wouldn’t let go. Our relationship has given me a lot of dreams, and now I feel hope. You entered my thoughts and magically erased all of my fears with your sweet and caring ways. Now I look forward to each day and feel so much at ease with you. I’m so grateful that we’re able to share our problems and aspirations with each other through our mails and chat. It truly seems as if you’re a part of me, as if our time together was a melding of souls. The thought of you fills me with smiles, and I can’t wait to hug you each day.

      I’d tell you you’re in my heart, but I don’t feel like that would be right, because my heart is not mine anymore- it belongs to you. Just by chatting with you and sending mails forth and back you already strike me as a sweet, loving, caring, beautiful, and you make me feel like one of the luckiest guys in the world.

      I promise you that I’ll never let you down, that i’ll never treat you bad, I would gladly share your joy and pain.this i deeply mean from the dept of my heart.I know how I feel towards you, and you know how you feel towards me.


      USA ARMY

      Sgt Major. Mike Gales

      • Hi, Dorothy. I live in the USA. I met “mike gales” on matchmaker.com. Matchmaker did verify,he had an account on their site–armysoul009 was his user name. I have notified the FBI, CIA, Pentagon. I still am having a difficult time, emotionally. Can you give me anymore info about “mike gales”.? Maybe it would help me heal. He was 57, daughter in Australia. I don’ know where the wife is. He told me when he came home(USA) he was going to fly over to me, so “we could start our new life together”. I bet I have every email and maybe more of the same emails you received. I have all the ones so far you have sent this web site.Thank you for the reply. Please send me more info about Mike Gales if you can. Here’s hoping to heal and feel better everyday. But it hurts! Email me if you want,thanks again, Judith

        • Dear Judith ~ the real Mike Gales retired moons ago from the forces ~ the con-man known to so many ladies as Sgt Major. Mike Gales is a Fraud and a Liar.

          Judith, it’s going to be difficult for you to trust anyone for a while because the one you trusted with your heart and future proved to be untrustworthy. Although there is nothing I can do to help your loss, maybe I can do something to help you restore your trust. I promise that I will be here whenever you need to talk or cry or just sit in silence.

          CJ has my email address and yours also if you sent him your photographs – so he can connect us at your request.

          Do not feel awkward about making your pain and emotional needs known ~ then I can call you regularly for the two of us to find out how each other are doing.

          Right now you feel like you’re alone, but your not!

          You can stay trapped in emotional pain by Mike Gales or you can stay angry over the injustice, dishonesty, over his mistreatment ~ or you can focus on the beauty of nature.

          Thanks to CJ ~ we can bear one another’s burdens. And I pray for our Lord, to motivate you and to keep His supportive arms so close that Judith, you have no room to fall!

          I’ll pray also that God will sustain you during these pain-filled days of your fresh grief and shower you with grace upon grace.

          Sincerely and respectfully ~ Dorothy J

  343. where do the photos get sent to for others to view ? I need to see if the photos I have are in the collection … I will list my infomation on my scammer when i’m finished investagating his info ,for all to know & view .

  344. HELLO EVERYBODY .. I JUST SAW THE PHOTOS AND YES , MY GUY WAS IN IT .. I HAVE A FEW QUESTIONS HERE AND IF ANYONE CAN HELP ME – I REALY WOULD APPRECIATE IT …
    MY SCAMMER’S NAME IS ” LINGO ” he so handsome and i fell in Love with his picture photograph … ( my poem )Have Fallen in Love with a Picture Photograph
    THE ANSWER IS YES, I HAVE …

    DOES ANY ONE HAVE MORE PHOTOS INFO.ON HIM …
    HIS REAL NAME …
    WHERE HE FROM ..
    IS HE MARRIED ..
    HAS HE TALKED TO ANY OF YOU ?

    WHEN I FIST CAUGHT WHIM OF THIS BEING A SCAM I STARTED DOING AN INVESTAGATION ON HIM ..LITTLE DID HE KNOW I HAVE BEEN A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR FOR 5 1/2 YRS .. I RIGHT AWAY STARTED SEARCHING ..AND I HAVE SO MUCH INFO. ON THIS POOR MILITARY MANS IDENTITY THAT WAS STOLEN ..FOR ALL TO SEE ,
    WOMEN HE GOES BY SO MANY NAMES THAT I WILL SOON LIST ALONG WITH PHOTOS HE SENT ME , SITES HES ON , NAMES E USES , AGES HE USES , ASTOR SIGNS HE USES , STATES HE USES ..

    I AM SO SICK TO MY STOMACH THAT LET MYSELF FALL IN LOVE WITH A PICTURE PHOTOGRAPH ..
    AND AN UNKNOWN PERSON …
    WHO HAS NO HEART.

    PLEASE IF ANY ONE HAS BEEN CONTACTED BY HIM CAN U LET ME KNOW ..
    IF YOU KNOW WHO HE REALLY IS ..
    WILL YOU LET ME KNOW .. ( SOMETHING )

    I KNOW YOU LADIES DONT KNOW ME ..BUT I’M JUST LIKE YOU A WOMAN USED AND LEAD TO FALSE PROMISES .

    IF SO CAN YOU E-MAIL ME LET ME KNOW HERE :

    WARMNCUDDLIE1@YAHOO.COM

    I HAVE ALOT OF INFORMATION TO UP LOAD ON HIM ..I WILL AS SOONASI CAN WRITE IT CPY N PASTE HERE ..AS I STATED HERE & SOMEHOW IT DELETED .SO I WILL DO IT A DIFFEERENT WAY THIS TIME AND MAKE SURE IT GETS ON HERE SOON .

    THANKS ALL …..

  345. Hello Ladies ,
    Well like I said i would be back with infomation for you on my Scam Artist’s Military Victum named :
    ” Lingo ”

    This information will only be some – not all as I have every IM he ever sent me , and too many to post so I will keep it short – so I can add the Best Parts to keep you aware of .

    I met my Scammer in the month of August 2010
    on a site called ” Migente ” ..I promote my bussiness there for promotions – this is one of my sites out of 98 ..
    Any how I will copy n paste some information that was given to me & add what I have Investagatied myself – And yes , for 5 1/2 yrs I did Priate Investagations – this is where he messed up .. Geee , he must of over looked my profile ..

    Any how : ” Lingo ”

    letter written to me :

    ABOUT MY FEELINGS..
    From: peterson James
    jamespeterson001@yahoo.com To: Warmncuddlie1
    Date: Sun, Aug 8, 2010 2:50 am

    How are you Doing…thanks so much for the wonderfull chat,You are such a nice woman to me…and looking forward to that day i would see you face to face… But, just so you know, I thought I would tell you what I was looking for, and see what you think… All I am looking for is “True Love,” no Games, no Playing arround, just want to find my soul mate in life…the one woman I connect with in every way… I do know very much about you, yet any man that does not treat you with respect, true love, genuine kindness and caring is absolutely a fool. True Love can be given without being shared, but a shared Love still allows for your special loved one to grow.

    To me, there is nothing more special than a shared Love. One that delights in our loved one’s achievements, and growth as a person. One that has no jealousy, anger or mistrust. I believe when I have met the right person, we will believe so completely in each other, and Love each other so completely, that we will trust without hesitation as well….
    I am a lovingly touchy person. I like to hold hands, hug and kiss … when appropriate… I like open affection, but in good taste, not for affection sake. I love to look into my loved one’s eyes, and often get accused of starring…. But I stare at flowers too, they never complain that I could look at them from when the blossom until they fade away… I like being touched too. I like simple things, not complications and overbearing…
    I want my soul mate to be my best friend, so I can always talk with her, and my other friends all accept and love her too, that she can accept and love them back. And I have a hypothetical question for you. Lets say we were married and we stayed up late laughing and enjoying each others company while getting to know each other better. We end up making love most of the night and fall asleep without putting the alarm on to wake us up in time for work. When we do wake up in the morning, we’re not late , but we need to hurry up and get ready. Would you take a shower with me to save time or would that be to embarassing for you ? Or Maybe you would want to shower alone, just thought I would ask as it was something that was on my mind and I was interested in how you feel about something like this. as I am awaiting your answer.Also I would say sweet dreams, As u will be dreaming of me,
    Take care its already late there and u will be on bed by now, would talk to you better tommorow…I can’t wait to meet you so we can share time in other arms together….
    Hope to hear from you soonest

    This is no #2 e-mail sent to Me :

    hello babe ….
    From: peterson James
    jamespeterson001@yahoo.com To: warmncuddlie1@aol.com
    Date: Sun, Aug 8, 2010 5:36 am

    Hello
    How are you doing today…..thanks for the wonderfull email it seems I’ve found the right woman here…..Anyway you are the woman that has been serious with me.
    Well I dont know what to say at the moment….And I dont know what else you will like to know about me. Just ask me and I;ll tell you…..I know the distance between us is very great but I really want to come home I’ve gone through alot of things in life and i don’t want to experience any bad feeling anymore…..Thats why I need the honest and Caring woman which i can stay with and be together in love and who is going to take Care of me and my kid through Think and thin…I really want you to be honest with me….We could talk and talk for many month but until we meet thats when we can know everything about each other….And i believe if we have faith in God we will definitely make it thats if you have Faith in Him, he know’s better than we do….Tomorrow’s hopes and dreams may never die for as long as you believe in yourself and follow your heart. Kindnesses in your heart will guide you to accomplish many things in life and overcome all challenges, all obstacles, and love. Never give up, always have faith in yourself and you will gain the greatest gift of all, the gift of hope and love you righteously deserve. Whatever you may do in future’s way, never let anyone stand in the way of pursuing your dreams and wishes you have always dreamt of in your life…

    Please let me know if you are serious or tell me you are playing games with me…Cos i dont want to be dissappoint. Well i guess you have been Honest and you seem to be the woman. I;m looking for lol.

    Maybe you would like to know anything else from me ….I;ll tell you. Take Good Care of yourself and be safe. out there…Please stay out of trouble…

    and a taste of his sence Munipulation for Love : no#3

    Visions Of You…
    From: peterson James
    jamespeterson001@yahoo.com To: Warmncuddlie1
    Date: Mon, Sep 6, 2010 11:05 pm

    I miss you, my darling, as I always do. I can almost feel you beside me as I write this letter, and I can smell the scent of wildflowers that always reminds me of you.

    Last night, in my dreams, I saw you on the pier. The wind was blowing through your hair, and your eyes held the fading sunlight. I was speechless as I watched you leaning against the rail. You are beautiful, I thought as I saw you, a vision that I could never find in anyone else. I slowly began to walk toward you, and when you finally turned to me, I noticed that others had been watching you as well. “Do you know her?” they asked me in jealous whispers, and as you smiled at me I simply answered with the truth, “Better than I know myself.”

    I stop when I reach you and I take you in my arms. I long for this moment more than any other. It is what I live for, and when you return my embrace, I give myself over to this moment, at peace once again. I raise my hand and gently touch your cheek and you tilt your head and close your eyes. My hands are hard and your skin is soft, and I wonder for a moment if you’ll pull back, but of course, you don’t. I know that this is the moment I have been waiting for, and I pray that the moment never ends.

    ok now We all know what he can write :

    Now some information that I found By researching him ….

    Name : ” Lingo ”

    * Jack
    * Adam
    * Darryl
    * Albert
    * Mark
    * Matthew
    * Peterson
    * James
    * Atama
    * Derek

    Sites he is on :

    * Mignete – Atama
    * Migente – James09
    * Black Planet – Ak_johnny1961

    Astro. signs :

    * Scorpio
    * Leo
    * Gemini

    ages he uses :

    * 44 yrs
    * 48 yrs
    * 47 yrs

    States he uses :

    * New York
    * Commerece City , Co
    * Ketchikan , Ak
    * Flordia – Green Cove Springs

    E-mails :

    * Dereklingo@yahoo.com
    * JamesPeterson@yahoo.com

    States his real name is :

    * James Lingo
    * Peterson Lingo
    * James Peterson

    I have photos to share but dont kow where to sent them .. if any one knows Please let me know …
    Thank you ..this is my partical update on My scammer useing ” Lingo “

    • I HAVE MUCH MORE UP DATES ON ” LINGO ” I SEEM TO KEEP FINDING MORE SITES OF HIS ..KINDA LIKE PLAYING SCRABBLE ..AND I HAVE LISTED INFORMATION ON MY MIGENTE PAGE IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO TAKE A LOOK PAGE .. JUST GO TO GOOGLE TYPE IN ” DIAMOND XPRESSIONS ” MY PAGES WILL PULL UP THERE LOOK FOR MIGENTE AND CLICK ON IT – FULL BLOWN PAGE ON THE SCAMMING , STOLEN PICS / IDENITY ETC .
      AFTER COMING TO THIS SITE I HAVE FOUND I HAVE BEEN CHATTING WITH X4 MORE SCAMMERS ON HERE WHICH I WILL UP LOAD ON MY PAGE LATER ON .
      I HAV HAD WOMEN HIT ME UP ON MY PAGE TELLING ME THE 2 WERE SCAMMED ..
      I KNOW MY SCAMMER KNOWS I FOUND HIM OUT ( HIS PAGES ) I LEFT GUEST COMMENTS FOR THE WOMEN TO BEWARE – SO TODAY I JUST HAPPEN TO GET A VISIT ON MY PAGE – Geeee, FROM A ” LINGO ” BUT DIFFERENT NAME AGAIN
      I HAVE MADE IT SO HARD FOR HIM GOING TO ALL HIS PAGES AND POSTING … AND MY MAIN PAGE FULL BLOWN ..THAT HE HAS NO CHOICE NOT TO PLACE PHOTO ON HIS NEW PAGES ..NOW HES SAYING IF YOU’D LIKE TO VEIW A PIC E-MAIL ME ….. LOL
      I GOT HIS LITTLE SCAMMIN BOOTIE

      LIKE HE SAID TO ME :
      I LOVE YOU TIL THE END OF TIME

      YES , MY SWEET -
      TIL THE END OF TIME

    • I had these same letters from a Sgt. Major Mike Gales ~ ladies. This man seems to be very busy….

    • Hi Laurie, i was reading your postings ie the emails.

      I have the same email on my file, word for word but from Colonel David Ben James Garber.

      ThinkWiser

  346. Can somebody please tell me where to find the rest of the pictures that CJ posts on here? I have looked all over and cannot seem to find them…Guess I am really computer illiterate…lol…thanks for your help!

    • Debbie,
      is your CJ, CJ Perez or Freddie CJ Perez?

      • marilu, CJ is Master Sgt CJ Grisham, he started this site. He is able to post pictures of soldiers that are used in these scams but I cannot seem to find it.

  347. I have been contacted by sgt. james_robert@yahoo.com

    Inconsistencies and bad grammar and just the gut feeling he is Nigerian made me suspicious. He is claiming the same things as above. Just said he can’t wait to hear my voice and has given me an email address to email right away so they can tell ME what do to….I have many ppl in the military that I know, and this is a definite SCAM!!! Shame on these bastards! He sent me 3 pix of this supposed man…I will let you know what he replies. I sent him an email telling him I know he is a scammer….. Thanks for this site!

  348. First of all; how can you women even fall for such things. Giving your money to a complete stranger is ridiculous; even if you have been talking for months or years!! I don’t know who is dumber…the assholes who have stolen my fellow soldiers identity…or the women who are so desperate for love that they lose all sense of common sense!

    Dont be pissed and feel sorry for the “poor innocent men”…everyone knows if you put your picture out there on the internet anyone can use it…to destroy lives!! Let it all go; and count it as LESSON LEARNED!

    By the way…a SGM wouldn’t sign a letter that said SGT Major…..*shaking head*

    • SFC E ~ I believe CJ needs to check you out ~ for the last line you have written sounds so much like the scammer & fraud artist ~ Sgt Major, Mike Gales! Or perhaps you are a person with another allas ~ a bum who believes they are socially superior.

      Emotional suffering is such a personal thing ~ so butt out of the space of those grieving ~ for these ladies feelings of loss over “relational & finacial pain” are legitimate.

      Most are overwhelmed because of these circumstances ~ a kind word can be a simple deed which quietly affirms that being “made a fool of” does not mean your worthless.

      The need for encouragement and hope is universal ~ especially after being discouraged due to an emotional crisis ~ for loving another demands the giving of one’s soul only known to the heart.

      Ladies never bend your head as you go through these exceedingly difficult times. Please ~ hold your heads high. Delete the scammer and go forward by looking the world in the eye.

      May God bless you all with restored emotional health and may He daily fill your hearts with the joy of His peace and presence.

      Blessings ~ DJ

      • WOW DJ…thank you ever so much for your kind words!!! I was scammed and I do hold my head up, as high as I possibly can, because I know that I am not worthless, I’m not dumb and I am not desperate for love. It just happened. I was a victim of the worst kind of heartbreak that there ever was. I am making it through just as the rest of the men and women are doing…one day at a time!!!

        • I wish, dear friends, that I could relieve your suffering, but I know that is impossible. All I can do is walk alongside with those in distress, as our Lord walked with His disciples on the road to Emmaus.

          Surely the most tragic of all finacial ~ or relational bereavements ~ is having to contend afterwards with the feelings of guilt and grief ~ for being unable to see through the scammers intent.

          My heart is filled with sympathy for the shock and tragedy you are suffering. It’s so costly a sacrifice to be laid upon the altar . . . to receive emotional freedom.

          Dear friends, one of the most selfless gifts we can give another person who has hurt us ~ is forgiveness! May God bless your efforts!

          Focus on the Beauty of Nature ~ not on the inner anger ~ for the latter “WILL” rob you of a joy-filled victory and mental freedom.

          Yours very sincerely and respectfully,

          Dorothy J

      • Thanks DJ for all your kind words. It does help. I emailed CJ to give you my email. I would like to communicate with you. I have gained a new friend. Thanks again, Judith

        • Dear Judith ~ change is traumatic for most people. But all changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter into another.

          Judith dear, we can all help newcomers on this site adjust to their pain in these unfamiliar surroundings ~ by quickly and easily ~ giving them a warm welcome ~ and to offer or listen to their tales of frustration and loneliness. To help ease their trauma and their struggles as they too adjust.

          What better way to honour a new friend than by showing all the tender mercies that have been shown to us.

          I believe the best things we can do is to listen, encourage, and be patient. Just look at the opportunity God has given us to get to know one another and Debbie, too . . . we shall be friends for life….

          Lord Jesus, in every lonely face on this site, let us all see the marks of Your humanity.

          Amem. And Amen for CJ also….

        • I’d been looking forward to cin-chatting with you about Mike Gales ~ still no word from you as yet?

          Blessings ~ Dorothy J

        • To Dorothy J, I’m getting better. I still get tears in my eyes for falling like I did. Time heals, time goes on. I thank my Lord for watching over me. I would like to talk about “Mike Gales”, too. I will look back at the site for your comments. Thanks again for all of your thoughtfullness and help. I needed to talk, and you came to my aid. Thank you, God bless, Judith

  349. HI TO EVERYONE,

    HERE ARE SOME HINTS AND TIPS WHEN LOOKING TO SEE IF YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHERIS A SCAMMER OR NOT:

    1. DONT DATE A SOLDIER THAT IS FROM SINLGESNET.COM OUT OF 95% OF THE TIME FROM THAT SITE. THE SOLDIER IS FAKE.

    2. GO TO ARMY MILE.COM AND DO A BROWSE THRU THEM.

    3. DO A GOOGLE SEARCH, WHITE PAGES SEARCH TO FIND YOUR PERSON OF INTEREST.

    4. ALL ARMY PERSONEL HAS AN APO ADDRESS OF WHERE THEY HAVE BEEN STATIONED. NOT A YAHOO ACCOUNT, THIS USUALLY WILL TELL U THEY ARE FAKE,CAUSE THEY DONT WANT TO BE FOUND.

    5.IF THEY STARTI ASKING FOR STUFF, MOST DEFINETLY BREAK IT OFF WITH THEM. ESP WHEN THEY ASK YOU TO PURCHASE A MILITARY PHONE SYSTEM THAT WE ARENT EVEN SUPPOSED TO HAVE AND PROBABLY WOULDNT WORK ANYWAY.

    6. ALSO CHECK OUT OTHER SITES FOR SCAMMERS LIKE EMAIL BUSTERS.COM GIVES GREAT INFO, AND GHANA DATING SITE FOR SCAMMERS THEY GIVE LIST OF NAMES AND OTHER PROBELMS PEOPLE BEEN HAVING.

    7. FOR FOREIGN SEARCHES, CONTACT THE CONSOLATE AND FIND OUT WHAT ARE THE CORRECT RANKS THEY HAVE. NOT EVERYONE HAS THE RANKS THAT WE DO IN OUR MILITARY.

    8. FOR THE ONES THAT HAVE LOST A LOT WHEN DEALING WITH THESE JERKS. I AM VERY SORRY. I GOT HIT HARD, BUT A LESSON WELL LEARNED.
    EDUCATION IS THE POWER AND KEY FOR INTERNET SURVIVAL. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND I HOPE THIS INFORMATION HELPS!!!!!

    MY NEW EMAIL ADDRESS IS

    OBIONE643685@YMAIL.COM

  350. Hello everyone!

    Thank you so much Deb for your reply, and I need to know as well where I could be sending new pictures of Alfred Haggard and some other details. At this moment I don’t have any news from scammer, think he’s got caught in my demand….lol!

    Here are some informations that might be helpul:

    Email:
    alf_hagg@yahoo.com
    hansalf212@homtail.com
    kindhearted.haggard1965@yahoo.com
    IK_davis65@live.com
    thomastin@live.com

    User names:
    John Haggard, Alfred Haggard, Bill Haggard, Micheal Haggard, Robert Haggard, Jack or Jake Brown, Issak Davies Haggard

    Diplomat: Larry Shane
    IP ID: 74.125.82.173 Mountain View CA
    Ghana: 41.190.88.249

    IP ID:
    alf_hagg@yahoo.com: 98.136.183.40 = Sunnyvale CA US
    Ghana: 41.190.90.50 = Zain Communications Ltd
    hansalf212@homtail.com: 65.54.188.94
    Redmond WA US
    Ghana: to come

    Website:
    Facebook: Haggard Millar – Thomas Tin

    Using sites:
    Match.com, Oasis Dating,
    Black planet **7 differents emails**
    Latinopeoplemeet.com

    Countries: UK-USA-CDN-Australia-Germany

    • Add Haggard Millar to your list

    • Haggard William Moore is another name he’s using. Just found out today.

  351. franksmith.01@hotmail.co.uk
    Have found this mans pic on fb get the scammers/assholes out…..

    And finally a letter I got:

    From Martin Mear martin_mear@hotmail.com

    Hello, how are you doing this Afternoon ? Am at home nice to have conversation with you on Meetic. I cant wait to know more better. Is everything OK with you and your relations…………?

    It was really nice talking to you yesterday and I did enjoyed our conversation, even though we didn’t spend much time. How are you doing this morning? I hope all is well and that you have your plans already for today. Just waked up and thought I will make it up to you as I promised yesterday. How do you a great day? It was very nice To Have your Messenger email address thank you very much as we have many things to talk about, Well I want to use this opportunity and telling you much more about me, since we didn’t had the full time to express all that.
    Well this is really what I can say or tell you about me, I was born in Russia, to a Russian-American father and a Danish mother. I was raised mostly by my widowed father, who retired from the United States Navy as a Chief Petty Officer. I live all my educational life in Moscow, but thought it will be a great expectation for me to learn and improve much better on my English, and as you can read from my lines am doing quite good. I got the chance to study in Manchester and now l live in Aberdeen that how I stayed here for so long and never returned to Moscow.

    I am self employed, working with a Car Auction Sale Company as a Dealership and also attends to any business on contract basis. Its takes me around the globe and have been to so many places of the world, USA, Japan, China and some parts of Europe. I am glad to have explore all this countries which indeed has been an educational trip on my life. I love and cherish nature so much, for it is all I have as a family and the reasons for living at this point in life.

    Yes life was never certain as you can imagine, people always describes me as very caring, honest, loving, enthusiastic, hardworking and very supportive being. What you see is what you derive from me…I’m ready to build a relationship with someone special who ever that happens to be with the qualities that talks about genuine woman in relationship, such as faithfulness, loyalty, trustworthy, honesty, respect and love. Having those qualities in a relationship can really help a lot. Because being through in my life, I have learn a lot from my past. I am not looking to fill a void in my life.

    I like order in my life, but not to the point of being obsessive about it. I enjoy exercising to stay healthy. Likes to laugh and have fun – I have a dry wit, but I do have a serious side, and I try to balance the two. Some of my hobbies include cooking, gardening, reading and fishing. Also, swimming and playing golf in the summertime. I enjoy watching football and golf, I enjoy attending sporting events, going to the theater and eating out. I love traveling, new and unknown in nature, life and people.

    I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered. I love to go for long walks during a beautiful summer sunset with my dog Danny along the wonderful walking trails by my home. I love to cook and a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine and great music with my partner. My life long passion is genealogy and have been discovering my family roots for the past 25 years. Love old movies, scrabble and nature.

    My philosophy of life is to always try and find the good in people and be open minded. I am passionate, intelligent, fun loving man with a touch of class and a young point of view. Have learned to take life as it comes, know who I am and where I am going. I love to have adventures, large or small, and am looking for someone to share them with.

    I had wanted to tell you more about me but I think its not going to be only a day that we can get to know more about each other. I prefer we take the steps slowly in getting to know more about each other which will in someday sound right.I know you are also not in a hurry to hear all about me as I am not too. I’m sorry but I will love to leave you now, I hope we can have the time to talk more later this evening after your days work. Take care, hope to hear you soon.

    Martin xx

    Are these guys for real?

    Thanks

  352. Also wonder…can Alex Swain be the same guy as Darryl Lopez and as Nana Kofi kofi

    This guys profile came up when I connected Alex swains e-mail on my msn with facebook. When he knew about it. The profile disappeared.

    facebook
    Nana har skickat ett meddelande till dig.

    Nana Kofi KofiSeptember 25, 2010 at 12:54am
    Svara: Hi there
    nice to see me sorry have we meet before ..i don;t know you .

    Klicka på länken nedan om du vill svara på meddelandet:
    http://www.facebook.com/n/?inbox%2Freadmessage.php&t=10150279215470158&mid=306b8baG215bc579G5cd4828G0&n_m=cecilnor%40hotmail.com

    Wonder also about Williams SAcott McKnney on match.com as hope_baby99_999
    Says he is a general in Baghdad and comes from New York. Age 51
    williams2221@live.com

    Is he for real.have his pic also

    Thanks

  353. hey ladies, they are changing their profession…i have been chatting with a Michael Smith…below is our chat from tonight…he just doesn’t give up…lol

    kind of long, but worth the read…such an asshole!

    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:21:20 PM): Hello My Dearest Debbie
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:21:25 PM): Welcome home
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:22:33 PM): are you there with me ?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:18:39 PM):
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:03 PM): Hello my Dearest Debbie
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:09 PM): Are you there with me ?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:12 PM): I’m here now
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:31 PM): I do really miss you soooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and I have been thinking about you while coming down here
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:31 PM):
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:43 PM): I’m here waiting for you and thinking about you
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:50 PM): Hope to talk with you soon
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:38:48 PM):
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:39:00 PM): We really need to talk
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:24:37 PM): am here
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:24:45 PM): computer problems it seems
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:24:53 PM): where have you been?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:25:36 PM): I try to get online yesterday after I return back from the Bank but unfortunately I could not get online
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:25:38 PM): Sorry
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:25:48 PM): ok, are you all right?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:25:53 PM): How are you doing and how is the weather like today there ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:26:06 PM): not too good, weather is great
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:26:10 PM): I’m all right but not happy here
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:26:17 PM): why
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:27:06 PM): I worked today…as usual
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:31:08 PM): I went to the Bank yesterday afternoon together with the driver so that I could cash out some money from my travelors check but unfortunately they could not help me out to do so because they said the bank that issue my travelors check does not have a coresponding Bank here in Ghana so they cannot do anything about it for me now but after two weeks before they will try their best and work on it for me and I also need some clothes and other logistics stuffs that I need here very urgent to use and I have not come down with any clothes because I was hoping to buy them here but because of what happen yesterday I could not do anything here and I have been thinking all day and night and I don’t know how I’m going to survive till that two weeks before the Bank can work on it for me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:32:11 PM): so what are you going to do?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:34:16 PM): Today I have been indoors here and I just don’t know what to do now because this has never happen to me before ever since I have been traveling and I just don’t know how I’m going to survive to wait for this two weeks before the Bank can help me out and rightnow I have been in the same suit I was in since I arrive here and I need to get myself some few clothes and other logistics stuffs that I need here very urgnet
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:34:23 PM): urgent
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:34:48 PM): I’m soo confused now and I don’t know what else to think anymore to be honest with you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:35:23 PM): i cant believe that you didnt take anything with you…not even 1 change of clothes…Michael!!!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:35:58 PM): And I don’t understand the bank…travelers checks are just like cash, all you have to do is show ID to cash them
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:36:01 PM): That was why the driver could not drive me to Obuasi in the Ashanti Region where I was to meet up with sellers and the kings men there for our meetings today
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:36:08 PM): I think the bank is giving you a load of crap’
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:36:31 PM): Yes I’m totally confused here to be honest with you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:36:43 PM): well i would go to another bank then
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:36:52 PM): they have to cash them…they are $
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:37:22 PM): They are in Euro
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:37:33 PM): it is still cash!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:37:43 PM): there is no excuse for them not to cash them
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:38:11 PM): we have people that come from Europe to vacation here and we cash their travelers checks
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:38:12 PM): Yes I know but what they are asking me now is to wait till two weeks after before they would try their best for me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:38:24 PM): why 2 weeks?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:38:34 PM): Yes I know that very well my love
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:38:39 PM): That is what they said
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:38:58 PM): can you borrow some clothes from your driver?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:39:18 PM): cant your driver help as far as cashing one or two of them?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:39:46 PM): Wish I had a return ticket so that I can fly into London tomorrow and get them cash there
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:39:51 PM): There’s nothing he can do
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:40:00 PM): why don’t you have a return ticket?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:40:14 PM): How can I ask a driver that I meet just only Sunday night here when I arrive to give me his used clothes huh ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:40:34 PM): well he does know the situation you are in doesn’t he?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:41:02 PM): I did not book for a return ticket because I want to get everything work well before leaving back home
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:41:30 PM): Yes he do but how do you think he will classify me as ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:41:34 PM): can you get a message to the sellers concerning what happened?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:41:50 PM): You want me to disgrace myself to a common driver here ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:42:12 PM): that’s not disgracing you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:42:23 PM): the bank supposedly won’t cash the checks
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:42:26 PM): Yes I did get a message over to them today and there’s nothing they can about this
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:42:55 PM): Dearest I want you to do me a favor ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:43:01 PM): what
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:45:42 PM): Just want you to do me a favor by getting me some four polos top,three jeans,box of boxers and cookies over to me here so that as soon as they get the check cash for me after two weeks they assure me of,I will send over back everything you sent me here………I feel so shy asking you this favor but I don’t have any other choice than to ask you because it’s good to disgrace myself here to these black people and I hope you do understand me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:46:17 PM): yes i do understand
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:46:21 PM): now understand me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:46:34 PM): i do not have the money to go buy these things and ship them to you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:46:55 PM): i live paycheck to paycheck and I do not have extra for myself much less anyone else
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:47:52 PM): i am not sending you shirts, pants, money…nothing! I told you that from the very beginning
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:09 PM): and i cannot even believe you are asking me!!!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:16 PM): that hurts me so much Michael
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:29 PM): we have not even met…video chat nothing!
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:48:38 PM): I do understand you but I want you to find a deep place in your heart and do your best for me by getting me these stuffs over here…………….Remember that I’m not asking you to do this for me free but borrow me try to understand me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:53 PM): the answer is no
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:55 PM): final!!!!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:08 PM): been there done that, not doing it again!!!!
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:49:11 PM): Hey you stay calm and listen to yourself very well
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:18 PM): I am listening
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:19 PM): to you!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:35 PM): and you are doing everything that the scammer did to me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:40 PM): promise me the world
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:52 PM): asked to borrow $ and gonna pay me back when he gets home
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:58 PM): only he never comes home
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:50:03 PM): and neither will you!
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:50:04 PM): Hey you stop comparing me to that guy or whatever he is ok
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:50:27 PM): Listen to me and stop shouting
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:50:28 PM): only comparing because it seems to be happening again
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:50:33 PM): fine talk
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:51:28 PM): I know you can do this for me but you are just trying to find this difficults to understand here
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:51:44 PM): Relax and read above again very well
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:51:51 PM): brb
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:51:57 PM): what part do you want me to read again?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:54:48 PM): Back
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:54:53 PM): Dearest I
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:56:17 PM): brb
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:56:18 PM): Dearest I did not come into your life to hurt your feelings for me I want you to know that very well and listen very well to your heart and I want you to find a place in your kind heart and do your best about this and get me these stuffs………….everyone is turning their back on me not even you my love please stay calm and think about it
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:56:23 PM): ok
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:59:50 PM): fine, what sizes do you need and where am I shipping them to?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:00:00 PM): this is the only time I am going to do this
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:00:29 PM): Can you first get them so that I will ask the driver the address that You can ship them through
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:00:37 PM): Go to macys.com
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:01:02 PM): fine what sizes
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:03 PM): So that I will show you the clothes there
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:05 PM): macys.com
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:40 PM): Are you at the site too ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:01:50 PM): no
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:52 PM): Dearest please don’t be upset about me on this ok
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:55 PM): why ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:02:18 PM): cause i am doing 10 different things at oncre
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:02:20 PM): once
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:02:40 PM): what are the things ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:02:57 PM): i do not have the money for macys
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:03:16 PM): i was just gonna go down to the local store and get what you need and ship them
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:03:29 PM): Okay
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:03:37 PM): what sizes..
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:03:54 PM): I need four polos
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:04:21 PM): what size
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:04:29 PM): L
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:04:34 PM): k
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:07 PM): what else
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:21 PM): what kind of candy
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:26 PM): what size boxers
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:05:28 PM): The colors should be green,blue and lakeside blue
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:32 PM): and what size jeans
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:37 PM): ok
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:05:58 PM): The jeans size should be 32
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:06:02 PM): if i cant find those colors would any color do
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:06:13 PM): k
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:06:14 PM): Yes
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:06:33 PM): boxers?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:06:58 PM): Tommy hilfiger boxers
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:07:17 PM): fruit of the loom?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:07:43 PM): Yes that one too would work but try and look for Tommy too please
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:07:50 PM): ok
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:07:53 PM): size????
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:08:18 PM): please hold on
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:09:06 PM): honey i need to go to bed, i do not feel well…leave me an off line of the rest
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:09:11 PM): nite
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:09:19 PM): wait
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:09:25 PM): k
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:09:59 PM): Do you want me to email the list to you so that you will not make any mistakes when buying them for me ok ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:10:16 PM): yes pls]
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:10:30 PM): Okay I will do that now for you
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:10:57 PM): Don’t be upset about me also I will need one timberland boot that I will use at the minning site
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:11:04 PM): o k
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:11:14 PM): just give me the sizes and details and i will get themn’
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:11:44 PM): When are you going to get them for me because I need them urgent here try to understand me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:12:02 PM): tomorrrow i will pick them up
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:12:08 PM): Okay thanks
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:12:25 PM): ok
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:12:28 PM): bye for now
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:12:35 PM): Sorry for asking this favor
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:12:40 PM): Love you Debbie
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:13:00 PM): Good night with sweet dreams about us
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:13:04 PM): bye
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:13:06 PM): Hugs and Kisses
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:13:24 PM): tears flowing through my eyes now
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:13:36 PM): sorry…nite
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:13:41 PM): gotta get to bed
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:14:17 PM): You are always in my heart and thoughts here and I can’t stop thinking about you and loving you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:14:37 PM): nite now

    DAMN what an ass!!!! was gonna tell him that I was going to go down to the Salvation Army for his clothes..hahahaha Macy’s
    PULEASE!! I don’t even shop at Macy’s for me!!
    Now I just need to know what to do with the address when he gives it to me…CRAP any suggestions?

    • Debbie, I used to get letters from a neighbor’s brother who was in prison and they sounded word for word just like yours. It’s as if con men have a school they go to and learn this form letter. If you have any info on him like former city, dob,etc. it is worth it to do a background check on him and cheaper than all the stuff he wants you to buy. I spent less on a background check than the cost of Timberland boots!
      Personally I wouldn’t bother doing anything because I am so cynical now but I know how you feel when you care a lot for someone and something in the back of your mind tells you it is not right. This is woman’s intuition which we should all pay attention to. It takes a while to get over a trauma to our psyche like this but after a while you become calmer and know you did the right thing by running for the hills.
      REAL MEN don’t do things like this to women.
      As you might read below, I actually have two scammers contacting me this week at the same time. I am beginning to be amused but I would like to knock their heads together.

      • MaryLou, I need to let you know something…I was already scammed earlier this year…this bozo actually thinks he has me hooked…NOT!!!! I only said I was gonna tell him about the Salvation Army, when in reality that and the GoodWill are even too good for him!!! Would really get these things out of someone’s trash bin! So no, I did not and have no intentions of purchasing any of these items for him. I chatted with him last night and gave him a ficticious (sp)FedEx number and told him I sent it on the 3 day one, he is supposedly trying to track the numer..hehehe. I am staying off all the other sites until Monday night, when I will get back on and tell the BASTARD just what transpired. He is going to be so pissed off and I am going to love it!!! Will tell him just what I think of him before he even has a chance to comment, then I am going to delete him from everthing…leave him hanging like they did to us. To date that will be the 2nd scammer that I have $%^%$# up their scam…and I have 2 more “waiting in the wings”…I have no desire to “look” for this scumbag…not worth my time, but am having a simply wonderful time SCAMMING THEM!! The only information he has on me is an address and a phone number that belong to other people, and both of those are in 2 different states. So I will have the last laugh on this jerk Monday night!!!! Look out scammers, we are not as dumb as you think we are!!!!! I would do a military shout, but donb’t know how…lol Can you help me out CJ?!?!?!

    • Debbie wow what an jerk. Do they all have some of the same lines? Try your best and always wanting you to understand. Also the tears flowing through my eyes. Also the fact that he is picking out the clothes online and wants Tommy’s. Lakeside blue oh my. He almost sounds like a scammer who I lost money to the first time I had dealings with a scammer. He was then going by the name Richard Winston that was over a year and a half ago. He just recently contacted me again. Said he was sorry and wanted me to get a passport so then he would work on paying for my plane fare to visit him in Ghana. Hahaha yeah right.Made no sense to me if he could come up with plane fare for me then he could fly his butt back to the states. Must have a new scam going trying to steal identities. Do they ever give up?? Once burned I don’t think I will go that way again. Also find it interesting that they always have a driver who is somehow involved. If they have a driver how in the heck do they pay them if they have no money?? If you let it go on longer before blowing him off I’m sure that he will want the package mailed with the drivers name and not their own. Wonder why?? Probably because they have no ID with that name. Also if you send anything by mail it costs a lot of money and then they have to pay money to pick it up. I have a person who I work with that is from Ghana and he explained a lot of things to me. He said it is very expensive to get a package from the states. There is a site called Ghana Pedi that sometimes will try an investigate a scammer from Ghana. All so far are women scammers (that have turned out to be men) but anyways they recommend not to tell the scammer that you have posted them on a site. That way they will change name and phone number and it makes it harder to go after then. Still trying to find a way to go after these scum. Let’s not give them any advantages. If I ever do get connected with anyone that is interested in Ghana going after these people will post it.

      • Hey Patricia…I have been in contact with 2 “scammers” that said they would go after my original scammer and get my money back, but I would have to pay…one of them had a friend in the police dept, female…called me and said that they had found him, but he denied every getting anything from me. I told them that he was the one that I had tried to block and he did not get anything from me. Told them that he was telling the truth…said that I had to pay for them to do the extra work. Told them first of all, no way in hell i was going to pay the police to do their job and second, after being scammed I was not going to let go of any of my money to anyone. They said if that was the case then either I was lying and it did not happen or that I really didn’t want him found and my money back…Sheesh!!! oh well…Assholes all of them!!

        • Debbie I think your right about all being assholes. In Ghana the police officers only make $10 a day. I wouldn’t trust scammers on trying to help out for anything. Who knows if the police that contacted you was a real police officer or another scammer.It is really sad since the police do not make much money and being a third world country that there isn’t the manpower or techniques that we have for getting a scammer. Very few of scammers get arrested. I did read an article that they found a scammer and was going to arrest him but found out that he was gay and dropped the other charges and arrested him for being gay. It is illegal to be gay in Ghana and you can go to jail for that. Go figure that one out. I guess it isn’t a priority for them since the scammers are scamming people from other countries and using stolen credit cards and checks from other countries so it doesn’t really effect them except for getting a bad reputation. The majority of the people there are very kind and friendly people. As for money that I lost it would be nice to get back but what I would really like is for them to be stopped so that another person doesn’t get hurt. Please take good care and please delete the scammers.

  354. I met a guy on plenty of fish the other day that I am sure is a scammer because he is using the REAL Sgt. Carl Zendrosky’s pics and I asked him if he has any tatoos ?s/p and he said no but there is a pic in a NJ newspaper of the real Zendrosky (because he is a National Guard recruiter) and both of his arms are tatooed. Zendrosky’s pics are used a lot by these scammers. I saw several Facebook Profiles with his pic.
    However the guy that I am in contact with also sent me a pic that I haven’t seen on any of these scammer info sites. Where can I send it so you all can compare it with your photos? Also my scammer writes in perfect English and even uses American slang correctly. I hope he’s not a real soldier gone bad and using Sgt. Zendrosky’s pics. BTW his email is “coddystone@yahoo.com” and on plenty of fish he also used the ID “scnproski”.
    I haven’t told him yet that I’m on to him because he hasn’t asked for money yet, it’s only been 2 days and I have plenty of time to give him a lot of rope to hang himself.
    Also, “Robert Cook” on Facebook sent me a friend request and at first I had no idea why but today I accepted and found that in his pic the name on his uniform is “FROST”!!! LIAR,LIAR scammer’s pants on fire.
    Please let me know where I can send scnproski/Zendrosky/coddy stone ‘s pic for comparison. It is not on TinEye yet.

  355. I think I know of one of the scammers using Bill Haggard. For some unknown reason he connected with me as a friend of Bill’s on facebook and lives in Accra Ghana. He was supposely helping Bill when he was in Ghana. On his facebook page is alot of information about him what college he goes to etc. He is studying computer science of all things. Maybe to get better at scamming. Claims to be a christian and has links to Christian pastors. Sometimes posts Bible verses. I have saved alot of things. He (Bill) has tried counterfiet bank orders and checks for legitmet companies. Also sends gifts and has fraudlent credit cards. The bank kept one of the fradulent checks and said their security would take care of it. Didn’t want any other information. The checks were sent from Canada so I think this is a ring of scammers. He is trying to get a visa to the states next year which I would support an invitation so once if he ever made it to the states they could nail his ass. My question is why nobody in the states gives a rip about this?? Please if anybody knows who would be interested in going after this person let me know. Also I have a person who has a boyfried who lives in Ghana and is a friend of this person. I have sent her mail in New York and have talked to her on the phone. None of them know that I am on to them. Bill by the way was suppose to fly here but never made it. The friend from facebook paid his fare and he is supposely missing now for a month but the friend in Ghana still talks to me via facebook. Again please let me know if somebody would truly be interested in nailing this guy. Thanks!!

  356. OMG..this is just plain crazy!! I was on plenty of fish.com and I started the conversation with a guy telling me his name is Sgt. Michael Thompson..Does anyone know this name?? He sounds like the rest of these A-holes!! He has a son James, but lives with the mother in Mississippi. They are divorced, and he tells me he is in Kabul, Afghanistan which I believe is actually in Iraq! We started talking about this phone and it just seemed VERY FISHY to me that I needed to pay for it!! Hello Stg.’s make bank and their money is just making more money while they are over seas!! I called my dad, cause after I told him no..that he needed to get leave and come home to see me he then started in with how he could pay his way back to afghanistan but not sure about how to get back here to the states! I told him I wasn’t giving any money to anyone and then he told me true love doesn’t doubt..I almost fell out of my chair!! SO back to calling my dad..he even said thats BS that if they are granted leave they have the money to pay! Plus this whole stupid phone thing..I talk to my cousin once a month in Afghanistan and he even said to RUN not WALK in the other direction!! I just feel totally stupid for putting up on my FB page that I was in a relationship..so now LOL to save face its staying there for a while and then I’ll have a mysterious break up..UGH what a freaking mess!!

    • No Kabul Afganistan and Iraq are 2 different provices.

  357. I too was contacted by a scammer claiming to be Jeff Wilganoski. Said all of the right things, pictures, the works. I kept feeling like it was too good to be true, but for the most part everything I could “check” on was coming up as real…because it was. The suspects took over the identity of the real Jeff – even copied his pictures from his myspace page. I didn’t send money, nor goods. But was asked to send $49,000 to a diplomat.com along with a lot of personal information on myself and my family – which I did NOT do. The only thing this cost me was a lot of time, and a broken heart.

    • Omg I think Im talking to this man now …does he claim to have a 10yr old son and is widdowed?…(im feeling sick right now)..he told me he was coming to Australia to see me but needed $2500 that i told him i dont have as im a single mother so he said he was going to get the funds from friends..we were talking in MSN and he wanted me to do Yahoo so i changed ..he has pics of me and my family and my full name and address ..im so blonde when it comes to scamers it was just today by chance my friend was telling me about her been scamed and to look up sites and check if i am about to get scamed..im so upset when i saw his name in black and white on here even checked out his band warfare links and twitter…

    • I guess I got lucky with Jeff. Well in the fact that he only wanted me to pay $250 for being able to talk to him through satellite phone. We would chat on yahoo and every thing seemed fine until during one chat I mentioned something important from a previous conversation (we’d had a fight) and he didn’t know what I was talking about. I had called him a scammer since I was already onto his scheme and he didn’t remember that we were fighting. I kept chatting with him to see if he would slip up and he did. I already knew what to look for. A few days later another ‘Jeff Wilganoski’ asked me to yahoo chat with him. I told them BOTH to get lost, but not so nicely.

      As for Jeff’s MySpace page, the original with all of the pictures has been taken down. There is a new one there with only one picture. I was going to communicate with his sister and let her know that his identity has been stolen but none of the original friends are there now.

      I hope for their sake that they have been able to find out who has done this to him.

      Kimberly, I’m truly sorry that this happened to you. Jeff unfortunately for me wasn’t my first scammer so I knew not to get too invested in him emotionally.

  358. Ladies,
    There is a site called Ghana Pedi. It is all about Ghana. They have a space about scammers. They recommend not to tell the scammer that you have posted them on a site. Because they then will change name and phone number and it makes it more difficult if the police officals do try and go after them there. I know for myself that I was so angry and wanted to let the jerk know that he is exposed but also want to have him caught. So I’m not giving any info out to anyone that I think he is a scammer. I just collect info and save it for down the road just in case someone is interested in nailing this person or to help out another person with the info so they won’t get scammed.

  359. Anyone had something to do with a Stanley Wolf – warrant officer 1, about 50 years old in Iraq – Camp Victory? I think I’m getting set up -

    • Hello Elizabeth! I’m Portuguese and i just found this site and i think that the Stanley Wolf from Camp victory that you are talking about is the same that scammed me but he called himself stanley smith. I’m not sure, but if you want to know more about him, you can mail me. thank you

      • FROM WHERE WE CAN SEE MILITARY EMAILS ? THANKS

  360. I have just had a big encounter with your James Rudduck, seen on this site. He was known to me as George Rudduck….(babybear180@live.com) This is his email…unbelievable.. had dealings with the diplomat too… Got all the photos. I went along with it for a while… had a laugh on them… got the whole conversation between us… so funny.

  361. One more name for you ladies, Kelvin Grant. After reading all these posts I checked out all the photos on Facebook and came across a picture I was sent from this guy, I have a couple more photos of him that I will contact Tracey with. He hasn’t asked me for anything yet and seems really nice and sincere (of course) a few things just don’t add up though. I was actually checking out someone else, a very serious and good looking Italian. I will forward those to Tracey as well. Thanks everyone for all your hard work here.

    • Hi Gena, he hasn’t asked me for anything yet either,,,I have photos as well…

  362. Hi Everyone. Does anyone know if the scammers are making fake Facebook pages as I think I may have come across one. The name concerned is Robert Jenkins – supposedly a US Colonel on deployment in Afghanistan. Home town – Dallas, Texas. Same e-mail address being used on MSN and Facebook. Would appreciate some feedback and thanks to all concerned.

    • Yes Kathy, they are on FB also using other people’s profiles…

  363. I have tried to put my comments on here but there not coming through. I talked to James Rellinger. It seems his name pops up alot. First talked 2 weeks on mingle2.com . I came on by accident looking for another site i lost my bf whom i met on a dateline almost 7 yrs ago from cancer he was the best the real deal he came from Kentucky to see me. I miss him alot. So i got on this date line he started to talk to me some stories seem part of these stories parts are missing. i started to research came across this site and others it was from my friend from another state told me about scams about soldiers on women mostly on eof her friends she got scammed for thousands 2 figures. So I confronted him he said someone took his picture and profile and some are using his name he reported it to his superior but havent come up with anything so i gave him some information to forward to help.Its ashame and a disgrace that these soldiers are out there dying and fighting for us and the only outside world to talk is internet and people have to do this and make the good ones look bad to others. So he tried to want to get to know me to send cologne, vitamin c,candies. I was suspicious anyway i met alot of liars on the interenet before i met my bf who is gone. He was moving too fast for me and that made me suspect. So I don’t know if he is the real soldier but I told i did some research he said what research about you ! I said I’m not marrying anyone sending anything to no one if you want to talk thats ok but thats it im done. So i didnt think he wanted to talk anymore but he got on this morning and said he passed all the information to his superior first he was upset when i told him but then said he was proud of me for helping him. I also told him I used to work for the State and I used to alot of things but I’m not saying what I did. The sad thing is I heard their taking names off the deceased soldiers that is low of the low it upsets they will pay one day. GOD BLESS THE TROOPS COME HOME SOON. Watch out Ladies hold on to your belongings. Being lonely and desperate will put you at risk think before you think with your heart think with your head, be careful.

  364. I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET MY COMMENT OUT THIS IS 4 TH TIME. I HAVE TALKED TO JAMES RELLINGER 2 WEEKS AGO ON THIS MINGLE2.COM I GOT ON BY ACCIDENT I LOST MY BF ALMOST 7YRS TO CANCER I MET HIM ON LOVE CHATLINE HE WAS GREAT NICE THE REAL DEAL. I STILL MISS HIM SO I DECIDED TO WRITE ON THIS DATELINE TRY TO GO ON. I MET JAMES RELLINGER ON HERE HE MOVED TOO FAST FOR ME I STOPPED DOING ALOT SINCE HE PASSED AWAY. HE WAS NICE CARING TELLING ABOUT HIS WIFE LEFT HIM AND HAS 2 KIDS. HE WAS REAL NICE TO TALK TO THEN HE STARTED SAYING SWEET THINGS IT WAS NICE TO HEAR. BUT WHEN HE STARTED ASKING ABOUT WANTING VITAMIN C , CANDIES, AND ARMANI COLOGNE I STARTED TO GET SUSPICIOUS. I DECIDED TO SEARCH FOR HIS NAME AND POPPED UP WITH ALOT OF LINKS ONE HAD HIS NAME ON IT PICS HE TOLD ME THAT SOMEONE GOT A HOLD OF HIS PIC ON MY SPACE OR FACEBOOK AND IS USING IT THEY MIGHT BE PASSING IT AROUND AND IF THERE IN AFRICA OR WHEREVER SOMEONE IS TRYING TO GET MONEY OR ITEMS FOR NOTHING AND USING SOLDIERS NAMES AND PICS BUT ON THIS SITE IT HAS SOME SOLDIERS USING THE SCAM ON PEOPLE, I HEARD THEY ARE USING DECEASED SOLDIERS NAMES. HOW LOW CAN YOU GO THIS IS SICKENING. SOMETHING HAS TO BE DONE, AFTER I GOT TO READING ALOT OF COMMENTS FROM DIFFERENT SITES HIS NAME POPPED UP ALOT I TOLD HIM AND GAVE THE LINKS HE WASNT NOT HAPPY WHEN I TOLD IM NOT GETTING MARRIED,NOT GOING TO CALIF, NOT SENDING NO PACKAGES IM DONE. HE WAS UPSET I SAID THAT BUT I NEED TO PROTECT MY SELF TOO. SO HE WAS HAPPY I GAVE SOME INFO TO HELP CATCH THE PEOPLE DOING THIS HE SAID IM PROD OF YOU. HE ASKED ARE WE STILL GOING TO CHAT I SIAD ITS UP TO YOU YOU DECIDE. HE GAVE INFORMATION TO HIS SUPERIOR LETS HOPE IT HELPED I TOLD HIM I USED TO WORK FOR THE STATE EXCEPT I DIDNT SAY WHAT I DID!I HELPED IN ALOT OF DEPTS. SO WISH HIM LUCK AND LADIES WATCH YOUR MONEY AND BELONGS. BE CAREFUL. MY EX HUSBAND USED TO BE POLICE OFFICER NOW MY SON IS. SO OUR FAMILY LIKES TO HELP PEOPLE IN TROUBLE. GOD BLESS ALL THE TROOPS HOPE FOR SPEEDY COMING HOME AND END TO THESE WARS THIS COUNTRY NEEDS TO GET BACK OF ITS FEET AND BE STRONG AGAIN.

  365. ok my mom is talking to some guy in kabul by the name of srgt kennedy macmahon milliard any one have any info on this guy please let me know it says there is a posting about him on here but i cant find it

  366. Has anyone heard of the soldier Capt. Thomas Swain Dockery? If anyone has any info on this guy, please let me know. I met him on facebook and he says he is serving in Iraq at Camp Victory.

    • My friend met a man that says his name is Michael Espinosa, but his uni says Dockery.

  367. I got a message through seniorpeoplemeet.com today. The guy claimed to be using his friend’s account and saw my picture and wanted to correspond. He goes by Randy D Collins out of Iraq planning to retire in November. Has a 7 yr old girl staying in Africa. Now come on! Gees…. Says he was adopted very young into the US from Brazil. Yet his english is very broken. Now what normal American soldier knows ANYONE in Africa to let their child stay there? Good Grief. PFC Randy D Collins died in the US after an attack in Mozul, Iraq in 2005. That’s heinous that they use dead soldiers’ ID’s. The account on SPM was “taxpreparer”. Beware…

  368. Update Ladies, you would not believe it! After waiting at an airport for 5 hours on 10/24/10 for a flight to come in with the soldier that I have been talking to Capt. Thomas Swain Dockery. I get an email from a supposedly friend SSGT James Monroy that Tom was killed on his way to his flight out of Pakistan. I have been scammed out of $4,000 total for a fake flight and a fake soldier that supposedly loved me and could not wait to get home to be with me…….

    • ha tamara i,m now going through the same crap as you did but this guy wants 8,999usd to get here to aussie land & he is not dead yet but if i find him he may well b as i might kill him theses guys should b hung up to a tree by there balls. how do we trust any guy now ok u take care email me if you want at phancock2@hotmail.com i,m a real person who wants revenge on guys like this scammers

      • correction Monroy1271@yahoo.com. Also on flickr, there are pictures of Monroy who was stationed in Guantanamo Bay between 2003-2007. Look up Cesar Monroy ……He told me he was in the Marine Corps But now he is in the Army. He is in Iraq right now. i asked him for an APO address or Fpo he didn’t reply.He changed the subject. He couldn’t even tell me what camp he was in. Little does he know that My son was in the Marine Corps everything is accessible to them.

      • If anyone knows who the solider is on these pictures please let me know. It is a shame that men and women serving our country are being put to shame by these a**holes.I have pics that Ssgt. Roland Monroy has sent to me. If anyone wants to email me please do so gracentx@yahoo.com .

    • Well James Monroy, Tom Monroy , Thomas Monroy, Roland Monroy,Michael Monroy,Scott Monroy ,sgt. Monroy Howard ,Carlos Monroy,Eddy Monroy,Tom David Monroy,Jack Monroy,Jimmy Monroy,Cole Monroy,Zecena Monroy,Cesar Monroy,Alex Monroy ,
      Monroy Michael. Carlomon10 ,Sgt.mooremonroy Cesar Alex Monroy,all these name are being used on Facebook, Netlog and Myspace the same pictures are being used but diffrent first names same last name. What a moron , he tried to scam me Thank god ui didn’t fall for it. I did my research and found all this. Also these email addresses are being used by him.SsgtCarlmon@yahoo.com ,Ssgt.monroy10@yahoo.com Monroy2171@yahoo.com ,Carlmon10@yahoo.com and Ssgt.rolandmonroy@yahoo.com. So ladies be careful.

  369. Hello all. I was given this site by a friend. I was scammed and can’t believe I was, I’m usually the cautious of men type. But this man was ‘good’. I met him on the Interpals website. It never occured to me to be a scam as I have a few really great ‘pals’ on the site. The man I met is Named DRAKE MORGAN. He said he is a Sergeant in the 3rd Infantry, and is in Khanaquin Iraq. There were three picture on the site. One was of ‘Drake’ holding a small child, one was taken by himself sitting in a vehicle (you can see a child behind him and a woman to his left in the back seat) and a third picture is supposed to be him with his right side to the camera and his son standing looking at the camera, and it is supposedly taken in his home.

    This is his intro from Interpals

    About me:
    i’m a medic in the army, which means i’m a soldier first, a medic second. think hard about the contradiction in that for a minute. i like a quiet night at home, and dancing all night at the club. i can make anyone laugh and im a social drinker. i’ll watch football all day on sunday, but sunday night i’ll watch project runway. on the drive to work i’ll listen to T.I. or 2pac, on the drive home i’m listening to Linkin Park or 80′s music. i’m defined by all my lifes events, but i dont use those events as an excuse. i stand up for what i believe in, and have put my life on the line for those beliefs. i’m a loyal friend, i’m the one you call when your car breaks down in seattle at 3AM. but my friendship has a price, 2 strikes and your out. i’m a proud father. i’ve been to the brink of life, and i live every day to the fullest that i can, but still with an eye on the future. i know who i am, and have no problem being me, so what u see is what u get. i know im not perfect, but i try my hardest.im a bit of an idealist, i truly think i can make a difference in the world, thats why i went back to iraq. like the butterfly effect(the theory not the movie) hopefully my actions here will have an effect somewhere down the road. i wanna start a revolution, but only against oil companies and gas stations. i hate MTV, except for ashton kutcher. i like to use the word incredulous, but not sure what it means. i like old school stuff, old school love jams; old school baseball uniforms, old school britney spears. i hate smelly people. i appreciate the simple things in life, family and friends will never be taken granted for again. i’m willing to try anything new, except when it comes to food. i’m a city boy from mn., but i’m happy in fl, as long as i go to mn. often. , being a military or dealing in fire arms doesnt make me agressive, harsh or abussive like most men. am cool, fun to be with and easy goin.i’m gonna live it up, so watch out for me, olympia, san fransisco, hollywood, chicago, L.A…nationwide first, then the world is mine!!

    This is his introduction on interpals. We said hello to me and we started chatting. And stupid me, fell for it. :( He told me that he is able to get online between patrols and when he does the paper work for his commander: commander Winand.

    He told me that he was 37, and his birthday is October 5th, 1972. He said his wife, Christine Morgan was killed approximately 8 months ago now, in a car accident. His son Jason(8yrs) was in the vehicle but not terribly injured. He said his son is staying with his monther Amelia, in Minnesota. That is where he is from. He told me he was born in both…lol Milan Italy and Duluth Minnesota. He said he currently lives in florida, and that is where the accident happened that took his wife. He said that he took alot of psychology in school and that is the field he wants to work in when he ‘gets out’ of the military. He says he wants to ‘retire’ as soon as he gets home. He applied for leave in June but it didnt ‘pan out’. He never asked for money for the leave, but he did ask for money for the phone. 350.00 And yes Im a complete moron, and sent it. It was sent to a DAVID VICTOR, and agent for western union in florida. He later talked about the leave and said that he needed 3500.00 to pay off the leave and all bills etc that he had outstanding in Iraq. He asked if I could help at all and I said no I couldnt. That was the end of it, he didnt ask again. He told me about a week later that his mother had gotten about 2900.00 together and was working on the rest, then suddenly, he was ‘gone’. Suddenly I was online and a friend of his MICHAEL using DRAKEs email was talking to me. He told me that he was sitting by Drakes ‘sick’ bed and that Drake had contracted Malaria. (hhmmmm….) and that Drake ‘loves me so damn much’. ( a favorite quote from them both. So, Drake pulled through…yeah…lol And he was doing great and his mum was still working on the money. Michael asked about my friend that I had mentioned to Drake. I guess ‘they’ had chatted and he started talking to her in emails. ( im so glad we are such good friends, she doesnt hate me…:( but i still feel stupid) and they got along great. I was off work one day and she had called with the most concerned voice ever. I called her back and she said I had to contact Michael right away. So I did, Drake had been in an accident!! He was in hospital right now with brain injuries!! The man with him died at the scene. They were on a ‘bike’ in Nigeria. (sorry I forgot to mention that Drake had gone with a group for security meetings and a tour in Africa.) Well, I decided to see what I could stir up, My friend and I had decided that we are either talking to the same man or two friends. So, i wrote Drake and said something like babe, I know you wont get this for awhile, but i miss you so much. I hope you are recovering well. i called your mother and she is worried sick about you. She said she is going to get the rest of the money and be there soon. She really wants you home. (heeheeheehee I had to, i am so pissed off at this ass**** that I just cant seem to keep it in anymore.) And Ladies, you will NOT believe it!!! Drake wrote back within a few hours of my email. :O He said he had brain surgery that morning and was with his Dr…get this Dr. ELVIS. I sent that letter to my friend and she openly laughed at work…lol I giggled the whole time he talked to me. WOW!! DR. ELVIS is that good?? He should be hired by the top hospital in the world and paid billions if he can have you in and out of major brain surgery in a few hours and chatting on msn…oi vey. Anyway, this man does have facebook. DRAKE MORGAN. I know nothing about ranks, or divisions and really I am someone who just goes through life helping and caring about anyone and everyone. If he needed the money that badly I would of sent if needed, but the fact is I am worried. Is this person Drake Morgan a real man, or is it just a name used. How on earth did the scammer get this info, he had times of patrols, he has commander names, he has elaborate info of family an friends and then the pictures. I worry that, like I did read above, that he has pictures of someone who is deceased. And the families may never know what is going on. If the man is alive, can he be charged with the crimes of this scammer? There are so many questions, and so much pain caused by someones ignorance. I dont think the FBI, the CIA or anyone has the time it is going to take to make these scammers pay. They are still in a war for crying out loud. But, I did what I can do with the info and ignorance of the scammer so I am leaving it here for those who come after me. Please, read all and take care. money is not everything, youcant take it with you, but the heart never forgets. :(

    Interpals: Drake Morgan (no longer under that name on the site)
    Facebook: Drake Morgan (uni says Walker DM)
    Rank: Sergeant 3rd Infantry, currently in Khanaquin, Iraq. Says he is a medic.
    Family: mother Amelia
    wife deceased Christine
    son Jason

    Friend: Michael Espinso, from Dubai, living in cali.
    Commander: Winand
    Before I forget, on his facebook account, he just opened because I asked him to, all his ‘new’ friends are all from Akure in Nigeria. The funniest, I sent out emails when I was told about the accident. no one actually knew him…lol and he went from having over 29 friends, to now only having 8. One of them, her name is Amelia Christine…(obviously not going to post her last name) I thought that was a little ironic.
    I think that is all for now ladies. Im going to go back to bed and pull the covers over my head. Im embarassed, ashamed and feeling like the biggest moron on the earth. Im usually the one that says NO he sounds like a freak, never send money…etc etc…

    Please be careful, and god I hope we can stop this.

    Therasa

  370. Oh Therasa….you are far from the biggest moron on the earth! You have nothing to be embarassed or ashamed about! You are human just like the rest of us. Reading his profile, he almost would have had me!!! You will get through this and so will the rest of us. We have learned their game and the more people we tell, the less they will be able to scam! Hang in there!!!

    • Debbie: I thank you, but I do feel like a total moron. I have been asked before and always said no. It is uncanny how they can read people. My friend and I, we are alike, but also complete opposites. This man was able to read us and know what to tell each of us. He had a completely different personality for each of us. It is amazing!! If they werent thieves, they could be million dollar screen writers.

      Anyway, my little darling Drake. I sent him a message and said that if he really loved me, he would send me a picture now, showing me he is alright. I said that my imagination is running away with me an that I was worried he was far worse off….lol Ironically, he sent a picture of him, a little bruised, and with a medical band on his left arm. However, the title of the picture: soldier. Now, why would a person name their own picture, soldier??? You know, you almost fall back, but now that you analyze everything, you see the errors.

      On my friends side with Michael: she asked him for his commanders name. I had already gotten the name of both commanders fromDrake, so we wanted to compare. Now, Michael and Drake are supposed to be special ops…so the names on their uni’s are different. Drakes uni says walker, and Michaels says Dockery. Are you with me still? Now, Michael messaged my friend and his answer to what his commanders name is: chris Dockery……. Now, that is a one in a million isnt it???? Your alias is your commanders name…

      Ill keep you posted. After I finish laughing that is… And again, thank you Debbie. Oh, how do I go about sending in pics of these men, well the soldiers. I want women to see them like all the other pics here. Thank you
      Therasa :-)

      • Therasa, just send an email to CJ with the photos attached and he will take care of the rest.

  371. I have and still been talking to Staff Sargent Andrew Stephen Ruddock for around 2 months I asked him about the scam because things did not add up his e-mail is atrifvor4@live.com he send me three addresses one for the camp one for the embassy and one in America. He said his wife has been dead for 3 years and then said she died after giving birth to their daughter which is supposed to be eight years ago is this Rudduck still serving in the army? I don’t think anyone should feel bad about being a good person all of these women have been sucked in by people who do this for a living the warning signs are there different answers to the same questions I think I have had at least three people writing to me it becomes almost a game and they ignore questions because they are not clever enough to look at the previous history. Like many I hope the real soldiers are alive and safe anyone want to chat about Ruddock I am only too happy can you tell me if the real Ruddock is still on active service in Bagdad.

    • Hi Alison,
      I posted my first message to cj yesterday. I have been in contact since late October with 54yrold SSG Peter Ruddock email ruddock_blay@hotmail.com. Found out by accident a week ago I’d been scammed after parting with hard earned cash. What an idiot I feel at 63yrs of age! He said he had a 13yrold son in Georgia – email dennis_cools2000@yahoo.com. I had even emailed him a couple of times as they were supposed to be coming to Australia in the new year. Boy do these scumbags tug at the heart strings. I’ve seen many different christian names on this site for Ruddock, but the MO is always the same. Sent him a nasty email when I found out and he had the gall to reply asking – what are you saying, what sites have you found, I still love you please don’t delete me from your life – please! Nothing more since last Thursday 2/12.
      Would love to hear from you or anyone else on this site with any more information. I have photos but not sure how to send them on.

  372. just had another e-mail he is persistent he said he is getting onto the dating site to ask how they have his photos as he posted them to me they are the same ones plus a few new ones he also threatened to kill himself if I didn’t believe him and said he is in danger for giving me the addresses because of security. it is quite frightening can these people find out where we are

    • Hi Alison,
      This guy is also going by the name General Jimmy William Hayward. When I asked him why he had Ruddock on his uniform he told me that was the name of his unit. He uses the e-mail address survival53@live.com
      I have only been in touch for about 10 days after meeting him on match.com
      He is very plausible so do not beat yourself up about a scam that was not of your making.
      We will have to stay alert to these types of scams and make sure that we warn others

  373. hello,
    i have been talking to a wonderful man, i thought then got suspicious… see i have a friend in the military so he checked to see if chris haggard was real and sure enough there is a chris haggard… unfortunately he is not the man i have been talking to. you have pictures posted above of the man i thought was chris haggard you have him as robert bill haggard.. i do not know the real name of the soldier (haggard) in the pictures above but, i think its awful that someone would use our soldiers pictures fortunately i have not lost any money. but he wanted me to accept a package for him he needed to send to the states from iraq. it was of jewelry from his deceased parents as it was all he had left of them they were killed in a car accident and he had no family as his wife of 14 yrs cheated on him at least he was consistant with that part of the story.. anyway he would send me wonderful poetry and tell me how he was going to come live with me and grow old together we would email and talk daily i fell completely in love with the face on the pictures above and would never have known i was being scammed as we have been talking for awhile and he never asked anything of me till this morning when he told me i needed to contact the diplomat_prince30@yahoo.com and that i should tell him i was sergeant chris haggards future wife! the problem with that was when my friend checked to see if chris haggard was real he told me chris haggard was a major and if you look at the pictures above he had captain stripes at the time the picture was taken. so had i not known that i would never have gotten suspicious this man is very good he knew what to say he insisted i was sent to him from above that he wanted to come spend rest of his life with me as he had only me now. i even did a people search when i first started talking to him because he seemed to good to be true but everything i found made him appear to be legitamate and i met him on match.com you have to pay for the site so again never occured to me he was a fake his email chris_haggard80@yahoo.com i do not remember the match.com id address but it was sweetheart ?864@talk.com i have 8 pics of this soldier and i have no idea who the man is behind the smile i fell in love with its very cruel.

    • I corresponded with the same man only he used the name Mike Haggard. There really is a man named Mike Haggard and looks the same as the man in the pictures only it is not the one who I was communicating with in “Iraq” as I was told. The real Mike Haggard is on Facebook. He gave me the same story only he told me he was coming home the end of November and wanted to ship all that he had there to me to hold for him. Then came the scam that the package was being sent by a diplomat named Bill Williamson. He emailed me from Accra Ghana and said that customs had stopped him and insurance and a lot of other fees had to be paid. What a crock! There were a number of wholes in his story. One, he said he was sending rewards that he got for doing a good job in Iraq. Soldiers do not get “rewards” for doing a good job. That is their job. Second, he said he couldn’t use a webcam because it wasn’t permitted. That is a lie. Everything out of his mouth was a lie. I have tried to confront him about all of this but the coward won’t respond. I don’t know if these scams make them feel good about themselves or what. I think that they are just too lazy or too dumb to get a real job so they rely on schemes. I hope any other women who is contacted by these people don’t fall for the romantic, flowery verses that I am sure they copied out of a book. Make sure to check the grammar. It is attrocious! I was stupid and lost some money on this guy but I woke up before it got to be too bad. If you are contacted by a “soldier”, ask for their military email address. If they say that they are not allowed to use it for personal use, they are lying.

      • debbie, i dont think the mike haggard on facebook is the real soldier either the picture on facebook is one of the pictures the scammer sent me i have several pictures of the soldier Haggard it drove me crazy for weeks wishing i could at least find out who he was just for closure obviously it still bothers me.. i do hope the real soldier haggard is aware i kept reporting them to match.com they would use his pictures with 7 different profiles now for the last couple of weeks there are no more pics on there but there are sooo many scammers on these dating sites everyone needs to be so very careful not just for financial reasons but the emotional heartbreak as well

        • Just contacted by a “robert haggard” – email haggard.robert@ymail.com He contacted me through seniorpeoplemeet.com

          Been chatting via Yahoo and I got immediately suspicious.

          How vile to use our American Soldiers pictures to lure us ladies.

        • Kimberly, Good news. I found out what my scammers real name is. I convinced him that I did not care that he tried to scam me and that I really wanted a relationship with him. He finally turned on his webcam so I could see his face. He later sent me his real email address in Accra Ghana. I contacted the government there and gave him his name. I also informed them that I would be getting in touch with several of the charitable organizations who do good samaritan work over there to let them know what kind of place they are helping. I found out that at the end of January he had been arrested. He is out now and has a fb account under the name ” why envy “. I sent him a message through facebook and told him that no one scams me and gets away with it and I was sure that when I told other women about him that his troubles were only starting. HERE IS THE CLINCHER — He accused me of “envying” him and trying to take HIS money and that GOD was on his side. Check out his facebook account.

        • UPDATE: I just wanted to add that my scammers true name is Richmond Johannes, 30 from Accra Ghana. I am sure that he is the same scum bag that is involved in a lot of these scams because the emails, poetry, everything is the same as what I received. I got tired of the bull and just contacted the Ghana government and was thrilled when I went to his facebook account and saw that he had been arrested.

  374. just had a conversation with Ruddock he said get Debbie to find you a man or why don’t you just marry her you have let me down. i am the real Andrew Ruddock

  375. IMPORTANT:

    Well ladies and gentlemen. I have an update from my last posting. When last we spoke, my dear Drake was in hospital in Nigeria. I was given the name of the hospital and the Dr.’s name, Dr’ Elvis. (stop giggling) So, I might be a total dork but these guys arent smart either. I contacted the hospital. One: they obviously wont tell me if a patient named Drake Morgan is there, but the woman was kind enough (Im sure after having to compose herself) to tell me there is no Dr. Elvis there. lol So…I sent a message to Drake asking him how he is and what is going on, when he will be released, etc. Then I said, I want a picture, I need to know you are alright…..Guess what I got? I picture of him in, I think a bar, with a beer in hand. But one detail that shocked me…..a hospital bracelet on his left wrist. :O So now Im confused….is he real???? Stop! Why on earth does he have a beer, and he is supposed to be there for brain surgery…So I asked that. The response from Drake, the nurses here let me have one. I had been begging them…give me a break! So I sent a message saying I didnt know what was going on. There is no way anyone will give him a beer etc. Then this is the response I got:

    11/6/2010 7:38:39 PM Drake Morgan hi baby
    11/6/2010 7:39:03 PM Drake Morgan that pic was taken inside the hospital here not in a bar
    11/6/2010 7:39:15 PM Drake Morgan i requested for a beer and it was given to me
    11/6/2010 8:52:15 PM Therasa you are in a regular shirt, and a ball hat and have a beer….
    11/6/2010 8:52:44 PM Therasa I dont think the hospital hands out beer to people who have had brain surgery. I want you to show me your room.

    So he got booted….lol Then he leaves me a message that he has a confession to make and wants to talk to me. Im wondering, does the pot fairy visit too…

    I am more than embarassed posting this part, but please read:

    11/8/2010 12:21:55 AM Drake Morgan Therasa You there?
    11/8/2010 12:22:27 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I have a strong feeling that you will stop loving me after i make my confessions to you
    11/8/2010 12:23:00 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I have fall in love wt you, thats why i wanna make these confessions…
    11/8/2010 12:23:21 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Will you still love me after i make my confession?
    11/8/2010 12:23:39 AM Therasa Drake Morgan try me
    11/8/2010 12:23:58 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Will u still want me as much as you do earlier? Will u still wanna have my kid? Sobbs….omg
    11/8/2010 12:24:21 AM Therasa Drake Morgan just say what you have to say
    11/8/2010 12:24:45 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Baby am really sorry
    11/8/2010 12:24:57 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am sorry i lied about few things..
    11/8/2010 12:25:33 AM Drake Morgan Therasa how will you feel about me?
    11/8/2010 12:25:36 AM Therasa Drake Morgan keep going
    11/8/2010 12:25:44 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I dnt know what you will feel now..
    11/8/2010 12:25:59 AM Therasa Drake Morgan well dont stop or how will i know
    11/8/2010 12:25:59 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Promise me you wont feel bad.
    11/8/2010 12:26:20 AM Drake Morgan Therasa promise me you wont stop loving me.
    11/8/2010 12:26:48 AM Drake Morgan Therasa What if i tell you am much younger than i claimed to be. How will you feel?
    11/8/2010 12:26:49 AM Therasa Drake Morgan i cant promise something i dont know
    11/8/2010 12:27:15 AM Drake Morgan Therasa If i tell you am black and not white. How will yoi feel?
    11/8/2010 12:27:29 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and bornin 1985
    11/8/2010 12:27:55 AM Drake Morgan Therasa How do you know that?
    11/8/2010 12:28:08 AM Therasa Drake Morgan keep going
    11/8/2010 12:28:25 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am just 25 yrs
    11/8/2010 12:28:51 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and
    11/8/2010 12:29:31 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am sorry baby, but i felt that i wont find a woman for myself. Thats why i lied
    11/8/2010 12:29:45 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and used me\
    11/8/2010 12:29:54 AM Drake Morgan Therasa no
    11/8/2010 12:30:05 AM Therasa Drake Morgan well of course. 600.00
    11/8/2010 12:30:51 AM Drake Morgan Therasa am a christian and my mind kept troubling me and disturbing me..
    11/8/2010 12:31:10 AM Drake Morgan Therasa i woke up this morning and started crying.
    11/8/2010 12:31:11 AM Therasa Drake Morgan it cant of troubled you too much to keep asking and never returning
    11/8/2010 12:31:19 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am still crying now
    11/8/2010 12:32:03 AM Therasa Drake Morgan honesty is all i have ever asked of anyone, friend lover anyone. and you took that, no matter age, color anything.
    11/8/2010 12:32:16 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and you spit in myface and toook from my wallet on a lie
    11/8/2010 12:32:33 AM Therasa Drake Morgan only god can decide what happens now
    11/8/2010 12:33:05 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am begging for your forgiveness….
    11/8/2010 12:33:24 AM Drake Morgan Therasa pls forgive me
    11/8/2010 12:33:33 AM Therasa Drake Morgan why should I forgive someone who used and lied to me, about everything.
    11/8/2010 12:33:43 AM Therasa Drake Morgan How do you know I wouldnt of at least even been your friend.
    11/8/2010 12:34:09 AM Therasa Drake Morgan you decieved me, and took from me.
    11/8/2010 12:34:35 AM Therasa Drake Morgan i did everything in good faith as any person with a heart would
    11/8/2010 12:34:44 AM Therasa Drake Morgan you used a child to make me feel bad.
    11/8/2010 12:34:44 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I posted my picture on interpals, but no woman wanna talk to me. . I tried hard but found no one to date
    11/8/2010 12:34:46 AM Therasa Drake Morgan how is that fare
    11/8/2010 12:35:00 AM Drake Morgan Therasa baby am sorry
    11/8/2010 12:35:05 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and then you stole someone elses picture, and lied
    11/8/2010 12:35:29 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I have asked God for forgiveness, and am begging you now
    11/8/2010 12:35:41 AM Therasa Drake Morgan the terrible thing is, you even had friend lie, or wass that you answering all the emails
    11/8/2010 12:36:22 AM Drake Morgan Therasa God forgives us as many times as we beg him, we human being are much like God
    11/8/2010 12:36:51 AM Therasa Drake Morgan but you cant use it as a get out of jail free card. You cannot do as you wish and then say, its okay, if i ask god he will forgive
    11/8/2010 12:37:04 AM Therasa Drake Morgan that is horrible way of using god as well as other people
    11/8/2010 12:38:06 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Baby, i dnt do much . I only lied about myself.. People do more than that . Your friend ,s ex make her run into debt of 45, 000 $
    11/8/2010 12:38:28 AM Therasa Drake Morgan thats not me, and you cant compare to anyone else.
    11/8/2010 12:38:47 AM Therasa Drake Morgan You lied about yourself, but you lied to me, my children and made me feel and look like an idiot.
    11/8/2010 12:38:52 AM Drake Morgan Therasa But i dnt do half of that…, secondly i know a guy here that got 100,000 dollars from a woman online
    11/8/2010 12:39:03 AM Therasa Drake Morgan that doesnt make it alright
    11/8/2010 12:39:14 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Thats why i deciede to tell you the truth…
    11/8/2010 12:39:30 AM Therasa Drake Morgan why would you lie to people to get money?
    11/8/2010 12:39:35 AM Therasa Drake Morgan I dont understand that.
    11/8/2010 12:39:49 AM Drake Morgan Therasa What if i had told you that drake morgan is dead and has been buried how will you feel?
    11/8/2010 12:39:51 AM Therasa Drake Morgan it hurts people and makes them feel terrible about themselves
    11/8/2010 12:40:02 AM Therasa Drake Morgan i would be terribly upset with you
    11/8/2010 12:40:20 AM Therasa Drake Morgan using a dead mans identification,how can anyone do that
    11/8/2010 12:40:42 AM Drake Morgan Therasa What if i told you drake is dead, that will be the end of it all.
    11/8/2010 12:40:45 AM Therasa Drake Morgan how do you get the pictures, how do you make up the story? i dont uynderstand
    11/8/2010 12:40:56 AM Therasa Drake Morgan how is it the end?
    11/8/2010 12:41:07 AM Therasa Drake Morgan it is the end of that face, that is all, it doesnt end all that has been taken
    11/8/2010 12:41:24 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Most guys use that as an excuse to discharge their victim
    11/8/2010 12:41:49 AM Therasa Drake Morgan I know, i found an online scam site with hundreds of women who have beenused
    11/8/2010 12:41:52 AM Drake Morgan Therasa But i cant do that.. I have a conscience, and it kept troubling me. that why am telling you the truth now
    11/8/2010 12:42:01 AM Drake Morgan Therasa good.
    11/8/2010 12:42:09 AM Therasa Drake Morgan but why do you do it
    11/8/2010 12:42:13 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Not hundreds, thousand of women
    11/8/2010 12:42:17 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am sorry baby.
    11/8/2010 12:42:29 AM Therasa Drake Morgan yes, well there are several sites
    11/8/2010 12:42:29 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I hate myself right now for lieing to you…
    11/8/2010 12:42:49 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and what changed? why confess now
    11/8/2010 12:43:07 AM Drake Morgan Therasa It would have been a different story if you found out yourself.. But i felt like telling you the truth.
    11/8/2010 12:43:41 AM Therasa Drake Morgan I have known for a while. I was waiting to see if you did have a conscience.
    11/8/2010 12:44:18 AM Drake Morgan Therasa What do you now think of me? Yes. I have a conscience.
    11/8/2010 12:44:19 AM Therasa Drake Morgan how do you get their pictures?
    11/8/2010 12:44:43 AM Drake Morgan Therasa i got it from a website.myspace.com

    I still have questions for him, and no Im not holding my breath that he will in fact pay me back. But I figure I can get all the info I need out of him, he at least can give me that. He can at least give us ALL that. Is there anything any of you want me to ask? I dont know what at the moment, but maybe something will come to mind. Please feel free to ask me. Ill check here again this week. Im disgusted that Im still talking to him, but there is alot I want to know. I think the worst part of the conversation is the fact that he feels he can do wrong, and ask gods forgiveness, I was shocked. Its a get out of jail free card. We need to show them that there is no get out free card. And Im sorry, but I dont think any god is just going to say okay youre sorry, your good to go. oh, look, youre sorry again, no prob…etc etc…Someone has to pay.

    Therasa

  376. Hi Therasa,
    You might ask him if there is a school that teaches scammers their trade!! The lessons must include poetry, identity theft, social networking and b……t!!
    Hope that you did not get scammed for too much.
    Is there a open forum on this site so that we could talk and work out the best strategy for avoiding these creeps
    Kay

    • lol…..I actually have to wonder myself. It seems like they must take a course on scamming. I know for my friend and I , like I had said here,we are best friends but we are very different. And this one man, who was pretending to be two. He knew what to say to each of us. And for along time, it worked. Until he made the same comment to us both. ‘kisses and huggs’……that was his down fall. That is when I asked why he( as Michael) was saying things to her that (drake) said to me…lol Confusing or what… And he said that, Drake left his note book back at camp, and he was reading it. and trying to be a good man and learn from it…So I said I wanted a picture of it. :) Foolish child, he actually took a picture of it. Imagine my surprise when Michael, white man from cali, had black hands… :S He didnt edit the photos at all….

      Right now he is supposedly being himself. And I have found out that he is 25, in college and there are thousands that are scamming women every day. So far what I have gotten from this is: Like it says here, somewhere I cant remember.
      -they never say I am going on patrol, its only ‘am going on patrol’. They never use the ‘I’.
      -always ask for proof….I always asked for photos, but he always complained. In the end, if he doesnt take the pic, I dont believe it. And, analyze the hell out of that pic. The ones he sent of this book, one he has black hands, he is supposed to be white. The writing on the book, made me shake my head. It looked like a 5 year old wrote it. And of course if english isnt his first language, youll know. Drake supposedly took psychology classes in college, he should spell better.
      -I have found that almost all I have talked to spell their words Phonetically: fone.
      -he would talk about laying in bed thinking of me…only he said ‘laying on bed’
      -I noticed too that he says mum…I usually only see that from the uk.

      Oh, before I forget, Michael asked me to marry him yesterday. Ladies, what should I say….lmao

      • Hi Therasa,

        I also questioned the scumbag about the way he spelt mum. A long time ago I spent a year in the us and know that there it is spelt mom. I told the scumbag when he asked me to marry him that he should wait until we meet as I wanted to see him on his knees!!
        Hope your man is feeling better and got over his brain surgery. Was it a removal?

  377. Hi,
    Perhaps someone could tell me where this message originated please. As there seems to be an 8 hour difference from the UK where I am. It is obviously not from Afghanistan where General Jimmy William Hayward (photos same as Ruddock) says he is. Do I look suprised:) ?? He thinks there may be something wrong.

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    • says accra ghana…..according to the x-originating IP of 41.218.229.76

  378. so 41.218.253.129 is ghana.
    re-Ruddock
    this guy is trying it on saying perhaps he is the man of my dreams and what would I do if he was, definitely more than one writing one is quite good and the other is not intelligent at all, they must be getting desperate as they are being found out trying to say sorry so we feel sorry for them I just keep seeing that poor soldiers face being used in this way is he still alive I keep asking myself.

  379. i am trying to find out if there is such a person by the name Lt Col Mike Hughes

    Thank you
    cindy

  380. Thank you Leilani and Alison,
    Well not sure what to do now. Some of my friends want me to keep this up and tease him others think I should just block him. I have read that the real Ruddock knows about his picture being used. I have no idea what rank he is nor whether he is still in the army.It must be awful for his family to have photographs of his children being used like this. I will have to give this some thought.
    This Ghanian has asked me to marry him. Told him to ask me when we met as I wanted to see him on his knees. lol They are trying it on. Had not realized that there was more than one writing. I shall have to take a closer look.

    • lol….my friends wanted me to do the same

  381. I cant stop laughing. This guy has cut me off. Must have been something I said.

  382. It feels quite funny now speaking to you guys perhaps it is because we don’t feel such idiots I say lets give them a run for their money.
    Ruddock wants to meet me now and is professing undying love his e-mail sounded like a horoscope reading lol
    Anyone know where this ip originates from
    80.87. 92.48.
    Seems like we are all on a mission thanks for being there everyone

    • 80.87.48 comes back as Ghana!

  383. Hello everyone. I am a new user to this site. It’s sad that it has come down to this. I met a guy online a couple weeks ago. Really nice guy. Claimed he was in the Marines and he got back a week ago. We met up a couple times and he was a perfect gentleman. My friends met him and they got some red flags so now here I am. His name is Michael Alexander. Can someone give me some information on how I can find out if he really was in the marines or atleast some type of information about him?

    • Hi Julia,

      I’m wondering if it is the same Marine that tried to scam me…Though you did meet him..
      Can you send me a pic and I will then forward you a pic of mine..Who knows they might be the same..LOL nyjap65@aol.com

    • where did you meet?

  384. Hi Alison,
    I am glad you are seeing the funny side of this now and want to give them a run for their money. Sounds like you and I have the same pictures. Have you spoken to “Ruddock” on the telphone yet?
    Where does he want to meet you?
    Do not go to Ghana or Nigeria.I have been looking at reports where people have actually gone to meet these people and have found themselves in real danger.
    While you are in the States you will be safe and can continue to lead these guys on if you wish. There are not many websites that are based in the uk and nothing like this
    site at all.I always watch the news and read newspapers every day but I was not aware of anything like this going on. If you want to exchange e-mails I am happy to do this. Good luck and take care.

  385. Alison, Have to ask did you get the same e-mail?

    Good Morning My Love,

    How are you doing today and how was your night ?? I hope you are fine and doing good, I’m very sorry we could not talk much last night, I was having problems with my connection and i got booted out, i’m sorry if i disappointed you in anyway, My connection was very bad and unstable, I missed you throughout the whole night, And was thinking about you, The thought of us meeting face to face someday, is very wonderful and lovely,

    I think of you every day! I love everything about you! Your smile, your eyes, your hair, your body, etc, I can’t get you off my mind, It just feels so lucky to finally be able to love you like I have been wanting to for so long. What have I done to deserve this? And that is another thing I was thinking – It is a little too strange, I think, that we are so right for each other. Some might want to argue about or feeling for each other, but I have a few examples for those poor misguided souls. Your smile is like a world-famous painting, We share a lot in common and our life, is like two lost puzzle pieces finally discovered after a 7 year search to make the puzzle complete. When we are with each other on msn, time seems to stand still. I see the love in your heart reflecting on my own.All of this tells me one thing … our love is real, Time will prove my love to you and cement my place in your heart forever. For time will give me the credibility and the believability that I need to convince you to want to spend the rest of your life with me. That I am worthy of such a commitment from you.

    Love Always
    Gen: Jimmy Xxx

    sorry girls hope it did not make you ill!!!
    Wasn’t Mona Lisa smirking is that waht he means? All this after he stopped talking to me last night.

    • ha! they are good here is the first letter i recieved vid Ramos”
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      I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. This relationship is my future; it’s what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I’m going to get to. I want us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just right for us. I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair down and catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer, if it’s possible, to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion all over your body because you lay out in the sun too long. I want to have a child with you and go through the experiences of parenthood with you.. I want to see you and me chasing our little kid around the house, all three of us laughing our heads off and having fun. I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you. I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your adorable face in the morning, because I always think you look so cute then. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other.
      I want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to be thirty years old and still make out with you like a little schoolboy. I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won’t talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me.. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we’ve never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we’re laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do. I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don’t share a love like we do. I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back in, stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, which ever one we feel like at the time.
      I want it to take your breath away every time I say, “I love you” because you know it’s coming from the heart. I want us to be sitting there and watching our child take their first steps from my arms into yours. I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, and a thing of ice cream; well, I’ll let your imagination finish that one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a little longer. I couldn’t really express in words what I’m feeling right now so I decided to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head.
      I just want you to know that I had never found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with until I met you. I really am crazy about you, everything about you.

      • I got exactly the same email not long ago..from someone named Sgt Michael Sickman, supposedly of the British Army based in Afghanistan. And just this morning he asked me for money to get out of there because his military filght had been cancelled.

        • may26/11

          I was scammed by this man aswell, Sgt Michael Sickman, met him on Match.com in January, I was also drawn in with the same love letters, very caring charming man, or so I thought this bastard took and took from me,I believed his lies about no flights, stranded in Cuba and oh yes that he had no one else to help him, i was the only one in the world he had to depend on. His last lie was I need more money for a flight I am in Arizona signing my final retirement papers I am coming to be with you in Canada I love you so much. What a conning SOB I am so ashamed and I feel so violated as I shared my whole life day after day for several months with who? I honesty could be sick, there are men in this world so sly and deceitful. I received an email from a lady in Florida who received the same sweet talk from him, this man needs to be caught and locked away , to portray onesself as a soldier and do this to woman, I feel so bad for the soldiers identity he has stolen, god help this SOB I pray he is caught and justice is served. Has anyone else been taken by Michael did he always ask for money, where did you send it to a Jonathon C smith In California please Any info would be great .

      • Hi,
        I was sent the exact text in an email in March by someone called Raymond Radenski. I was told that he used to be a pyschologist but now works as an analyst in the UN but also works for the US Army! One of the photos i have are in a uniform of a paratrooper but has the surname ‘RAYMOND’ He said he was a widower witha 9 year old son James. He said he had a house in Sherness Kent. Alarmbells rang when he asked for me to equest his leave and then when i said that was for him to do he managed to get it granted within a couple of days! A week before he was due to arrive he asked me to pay for his mum’s carers fees as he was 2 months behind – £650! I told him i wouldnt and that i was aware of scams. He told me to re think! I have since blocked him and had to change my mobile number. I traced his email address to Redmond Washington US. psych40@live.com There is also a fake facebook page using the same man in my photos but he is wearing a ‘smoothie king’ uniform! If any of this sounds familiar i would love to hear from you. I have tried looking on various internet sites to find the man in the photos i have as i would like to let him know that his personal photos are being used in scams. I think he must have had his computer hacked into.

  386. Hi Kay my e-mail is ali2see6@yahoo.co.uk as you can see I am in UK. Your message sounds very similar to the ones I received from the intelligent one. Even though I confronted him he still insists he is the real Ruddock and will die without me drop me a line we can have a chat about things look forward to hearing from you.

  387. Hi Alison,

    I would just tell him to go crawl up in a corner and die!!! They are good! Sweet, charming and poetic…

    I would tell him to PROVE IT!! Ask him for a phone #,home address,Military ID an email address..Birthdate…A full body shot of him naked…

    Watch what he says and does…He will avoid the questions and tell you he will prove it to you in person when he sees you..It’s bullshit…

    The scammer I was taking to Lt.Col. Jerry Livingstone sent me a Fraudelent Ck..he was suppose to come and meet me..All of a sudden he needed $400 for plane tickets..So when I said who’s going to book the reservations you or me..He handed me some bullshit about his colleague A/C Phillips who would handle it..To send a MONEY GRAM..yeah right..I told him I had no cash i would put it on my credit card..Well he didn’t like that…See If he was REAL…He would of made the reservations him self or let me handle it…

    I know you want to believe he is REAL…HE’S NOT…

    I would love to hear what happens next..Keep me posted..

    • Ellen
      I don’t think he is real I am just posting information so others can see what these scammers write. My concerns for the real soldier and his family is because of disbelief that someone can steal these men’s identities. I initially fell for him but soon sussed him out it isn’t even one man writing so don’t worry we are all in this together I want to waste their time and efforts because there is little else I can do unless you know of something? I will keep you updated.

  388. hi ladies,
    all your posts are so similar to the emails and chats with the person/persons i was talking to some are even word for for word… its hard to let this go mostly cause it drives you crazy trying to figure out who the real man in the pictures are but anyway you are all right there is more than one person writing to you i tried to excuse the differences in the emails and chats as in the morning his typing was much better and he was more talkative and at night when he supposedly was talking to me from iraq it was very very late i assumed it was cause he was tired and mispelled things etc…lol sucker i know.. but i also think there is a woman as well a few times made comments that one would make to a man. but again i passed it off as typo but now i have been contacted on match.com again by a new scammer he does not claim to have been in the military yet but in ohio and a business man with a little girl no relatives parents are gone has nobody (sound familiar) but his chats and emails are very familiar to me…lol so just be careful… there is alot of them out there oh and did i mention he asked me while talking what i was looking for in a woman?…lmao so this is not just guys trying to scam us there are woman doing it too and that is sad makes you realize why they know just what to say :( oh my new scammer steven john berkey funny part my old scammer pictures he stole one of his screen names berky1 my army captain haggard

  389. Hi ladies,
    Well my scammer has stopped playing LOL so I have gone and found a new one YIPEE let the game begin

    • go for it kay

      • Hi Kay,

        Too bad we can’t all play with your new scammer ….He will think he hit the Jackpot! LOL

    • i kind of think it is funny now…..let me know what happens

  390. New scammer name is James Bowen, goes by Sarge James Bowen. Here is his email text.
    Note the problems with context and grammar.

    Thanks for the response. Indeed i could say, you make me feel a spark down my spin.. I will love to get to know more and more about you. you sound great and wonderful.. It will be great to know more about you. And here is a little about me; A very good friend of mine got me started on the site as a way of finding my soul mate.. You’ll need to know that I’m serving t he US Army and currently on deployment here in Iraq.. I am also a former US Marine infantry man, having served 8 active years with different infantry units, from Camp Pendleton, CA. (1st battalion, 9th Marine Regiment, and 2nd battalion, 1st Marine Regiment) and Camp Lejeune, NC (3rd Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment) I have been to a bunch of places in the world, some of them hot spots, and continue to do so today. I am privileged to have served with highly professional individuals in the Marines, and the tradition continues now in the Army..I’m fortunate to command a small, very specialized unit and get to interact with many guys on the tip of the spear: US service members of all branches and ranks, Coalition forces, contractors and locals. I feel I’ve got a perspective not often seen in the media.mdd
    I am not in a hurry to find the love of my life,but i don’t want to wait for months and months.Life is too short to spend it alone and the passion,beauty and the excitement of being with the one you love is so wonderful.what i want is to find someone that is right for me and understand me,what bothers me most in this life and what is inside it and how you feel,i want to meet Someone that is romantic, serious and down to earth at the same time. a woman who likes to laugh and enjoy the outdoors, who truly wants to be an wife and believes in the sanctity of marriage, a woman who is honest, loyal, trustworthy and totally devoted to her man Someone who is spiritual and believes in God Someone who likes to be flirted with and will allow me to kiss, hug and hold her hand in public Someone who is willing to try new things. I will love to know more about and hoping to read from you soon..what do you do for a living?

    Regards.

    Sarge Bowen

    He blew it when I asked him if he could call me and he said he could not. US Army and Marine personnel are not restricted from phone calls. I told him, that’s odd, there are not normally restrictions, and he said I would need to pay for a phone for him to be able to call me. Also, his commander’s email was a gmail account, which is not official Army email.

    dont fall for it!

    • This is exactly the same email that I got from SGT DEMIEL AGNER who says he is at Base 3 Kabul Afghanistan. I am at this very moment chatting with him. I know he is a scam but he doesn’t know that I know. I was getting suspicious of him so I googled his name and came to this website. Thought you all had to know. In Australia, the date is Saturday 20 Nov 2010. He has also asked his MAJOR FRANKLIN MOORE to send me an email requesting that I buy him a satellite phone.
      When someone talks money to me online, my hairs go up in the back of my neck. This one is a definite scammer. He had his pic on website ARE YOU INTERESTED and he sent me photo. If you want this photo, please email me at coolwaters@iprimus.com. Ladies, please be wary of scammers.

    • This man is now operating as Colonel Karl Alejandro Thomson – an “intelligent analyst” on contract with Aussie army but at the moment deployed in Britain, however stating also he is in Iraq
      – soon to be retired – he uses practically the same words , thank you I have just reported this man he hit me up for money last night after four days – gotta be a record hey ladies!!!
      :O)

  391. got anoter one to check out.. complete scam using facbook he contacted me as Daniel william.. asked for a care package addressed to his son at Junior Williams
    Kanda street
    Accua Nima
    ghana 00233-267-203-832

    after telling me they couldn’t use the us post office.. only fedex , that his diplomat would forward it to him, in afghanistan .probly not his pic;s on facebook where he first contacted me.. I let all the women on his friends list and they all replied and said thank you , they had a funny feeling about him,, listen to your instincts ladies thats why god gave them to us..

    • Hi Daneille,

      Can you tell me how do I find trace their email IP address with example “see above”(number and country)from their email address when they are not using their real geniune email address??? please help me ….

      cheers W.Rose

  392. I wanted to know if anyone had any information about George England. I’ve received a bit, but am looking for more. I have photos to swap. This guy is pond scum – very sleazy. Don’t lose your money, gals!

    He uses genglandusa@yahoo.com and I found 11 ISPs for him. All legit, and all located in Sunnyvale, CA. Very interesting.

    He told the story about being from Miami, FL and being on his 3rd tour of Afghan. He was trolling on http://www.ChristianMingle.com. He was using the username “ritemindarm1″. He was smooth, I’ll give him that.

    Yep, I took the bait: hook, line and sinker. But, I still have my money! The only thing I lost was time, and some feelings. At first, I didn’t seem aware of anything fishy. Then, the red flag went up the pole! YES — He was a “Tech Master Sgt.” in the Army, serving 24 years. Okay, I’m not the sharpest crayon in the box, but I’ve been around enough military to know that sounded odd.

    Then, a couple of days later, came his “let’s chat on Yahoo IM instead of emails” email. Yep, fell for that one too. Hey, don’t be harsh! I didn’t see much yet, it was still early. So then, a few days after the chatting started, you guessed it (gag), then came the “I can’t sleep because you are walking on my brain” IM. I started laughing.

    My feelings were hurt, but I pulled on my big girl panties and decided to ride it out. To see how far it would go. So, me being from the South, I used my best coy language and asked what was wrong. You guessed it again (yack)… the undying profession of love.

    Now, Red Flag number #2 and a bell. I am hurt by this, because my feelings were attached. But, I had to ride it through the storm. I knew there was more coming. Next, came the photographs. Several of them. I saved them all. Him, his son Charlie. His ‘company’. His friends on patrol. GET THIS — One of him, Charlie and a woman!!!

    So, I am being faux supportive. I believe I have said the right things, but not given anything away. Nor have I committed myself. I week goes by, more proclamations of love. I feel like punching my computer. Then, comes the ‘proposal’ from hell (as I like to call it).

    Yes — the man proposes over the internet. That’s Red Flag #3, a bell and some whistles. The band is tuning up. I can just feel it. So, now, I have to say something. So, I say, if it is God’s will, it will happen. I tell him that I trust God to steer me in the right direction.

    So, he’s all “yeah yeah, God will guide you, blah blah”. Now, I want to injure his sanctimonious butt! Still, I resist the urge although he really deserves all the God has in store for him. That same week, he tells me all about retiring once he comes back to the States. He’ll be arriving in Ft. Rucker, AL on February 23rd.

    SO — The next days are uneventful. More undying love crap (more yacking on my part). I offer him more prayers in IM chat. This seems to disturb him and I’m pleased.

    Today, 11/16/2010 — the band begins to play. Red Flags are waving to beat the band. Bells, whistles and tubas are sounding. All the while, I have been trying to find out ANYTHING about this guy.

    Today, he has great news. His college friend (although he never mentions college) from Africa (aren’t they all) is selling his business, and has some machines that George needs. They will cost $7000 to ship to the States. He asks me for the money.

    So, in my best Southern coy self, I tell him that I have no job, and no income. He gets really mad, and signs out of chat. I laugh like crazy. About 10 minutes later, he signs back in. He is calm, writes lovely words again. Asks me to take out a loan for him — he promises to pay it back with interest when he gets to the States. I again tell him that I have no job, and no income. He becomes mad again, really mad and curses me.

    I tell him that he has hurt me, and that it was very unChristian of him to do that to someone he cared about. He signs out. This goes on for about 30 minutes or more — sign in, sign out. I’m dying laughing the whole time. Finally, he asks me to sell my car!! I tell him that I can’t sell my car — because there is still a loan on it. He gets furious and signs out.

    Then, about 30 minutes later — signs in. I am blamed for everything since Noah built the ark. So I tell him to pray about it, and that God will provide an answer. So, I’m plotting my revenge IM chat for tomorrow. Wish me luck, girls.

    I am going to ‘come into a large settlement check next month’. I’m going to be very excited about it and see what he says. This will be a hoot! I’ll keep you posted.

    In the meantime, let me know if anyone has had dealings with this whale snot, and has pictures to swap. I have emails if you want to trade those as well.

    If you are currently talking with him, PLEASE do not let my cat out of the bag. I’ve worked hard for this revenge session.

    Peace to you all. I hope some of us start getting revenge. God doesn’t like ugly!! You can reach me at jildaleigh@yahoo.com

    I’m outtie!

    • OMG Jilda, you didn’t tell me all that…he has no idea what’s in store for him!!!You go girl!!!

      • way to go girl! please can you tell me what happened next

    • I am going to have to remember “whale snot”. GOOD ONE. I’m a victim as well. I’m with you sister. You’ve got guts. All I did was close the “special” Yahoo email acct we shared. GAG. That was today. The scumbags have my regular email acct so I’m waiting to see if they continue to try to “work their magic”. Bastards. Chin up, Buttercup!!!

  393. OH — New Info!

    http://www.spokeo.com has him listed under his email address at genglandusa.com. Only now, he lists his location as being in Columbia,SC not Miami, FL.

    Peace!

    • Hi Jilda,

      Love the site..I put in his email address and it shows he’s real…WOW…Curious did you pay to get more in depth info like it says???
      Let me know..With all this scamming going on I’m afraid to do anything..LOL

      • **UPDATE** Hi Jilda, Curiousity got the best of me, so I paid $14.95 to check it out further…His email address was an EXACT MATCH….it’s a site called BLACKPLANET..His name is John O and he’s AFRICAN..He definitely didn’t look like the Hot Marine that tried to scam me..Well looks like I will never find the REAL MARINE in the pic, HOW SAD…All those scumbag scammers should be found and shot…

        • Ellen: I’d love to see what you found. Give me a shout out at jildaleigh@yahoo.com

          Anyone who has any information to share about George England, send me an email to that Yahoo address. I will answer all emails. I will share any information that I have with you.

          Peace to you!

      • I went to Google and goggled his name…lol
        and there is a David Ramos in the military,
        that is how i found this site

  394. rolandcampbell@yahoo.co.uk
    claim, in iraq with british army, wearing u.s uniformbon pic on bearshare. single. scammer based in nigeria.

    michaellbobby@yahoo.com
    u.s army, widower, wife died ‘stomach related illness called asthma lol.daughter jodie looked afyer by eldrrly friend who needs money for cancer treatment

    • About Michael Bobby…. I am so glad that I started catching on to little signs that something was wrong with this guy. At first I fell for his “story” of his wife dying 4 yrs ago and his daughter is being taken care of by his uncle. I met him on myspace with a different picture that he has posted now on yahoo IM. So I did some research and came up with nothing till I typed his email addy on google search. I can’t believe that I must be so desperate for love that I was willing to believe his crap. I have several pieces of information as well as pics that he is using. If you want anymore info please contact me at peachpie1994@yahoo.com with the subject title being Michael Bobby Scam. I will give you all I know. I will also post this on as many sites as I possibly can for scammers. THANK YOU for posting what you did. If it hadn’t been for this site, he might have taken me for so much more than my pride.

  395. To Dorothy J, I would like to talk with you about Mike Gales. I’m doing better. The Lord is wonderful. Thanks again, Judith

  396. I have looked through all the names given through this long list of emails and the only one I see that looks familiar to me is Larry Dan but I think the guy I have been emailing and IMing with may have been responsibe for his correspondence as well. The name of one I have been talking with since September is Charles Schulzes. He is a Captain in the Army, stationed in Iraq with a daughter back in the states. Her name is Panncy and she stays with his cousin George Avin. Looking that name up on Google was almost the end right there because there was some scam information on him. I decided to continue on with the love story long enough to figure the whole thing out. I did lose a little money by sending it to an Aleicia Woods in Norcross, Ga. She was supposed to be the Sunday school teacher of his daughter. He played upon my weakness of military children which he knew about because of a children’s book I have written after working at WPAFB in Ohio. The next piece of info was the test of mailing a birthday card to the same address where the money was wired. The card came back as no such address. I also have an address to a General where I was to request a release for Charles so that he might be home in time for the holidays. It was through that address that I began more research that brought me here to this website. I have two different sets of pictures and many saved pieces of correspondence. If I can be of any help please let me know. I knew from the beginning something was wrong but I never imagained it was this wide spread. What a disgrace to our men and women who serve in the military.

    Sincerely,
    Rhonda H. Bishop

  397. pls give ne the real name of sgt ivan nobile.is he a realus army ….

  398. Hi,
    I have had to change my e-mail address as I have confronted the scammer. He told me that he is a 16 year old boy from Ghana and sent me pictures of himself. This could be another pack of lies, he could be using yet another stolen picture. He told me that he worked alone so I asked him why I had received mail from both Ghana and Germany and he told me he had could change his IP address. According to an IT specialist that I had round this morning to remove a virus from my computer it is very hard to change an IP address and only someone with a great knowledge of computers would be able to do this. This suggests to me that this “boy” is not working alone. That is why I have deleted the old e-mail address as I do not want to be involved in an international scamming ring!
    Although I had confronted him and eventually got him to admit that he was a scammer he then tried to play the sympathy card. He told me of his life there and the hardships he faced on a daily basis. He looks after his mother and father as neither of them have jobs. Meals are hard to come by and life is hard for his family. He sleeps most of the day and gets up to play football in the afternoon and then starts work at around 7 p.m. There were 15 other men in the internet cafe with him yesterday evening, probably all doing the same thing. He asked me if I could help him to get a passport and a visa but I declined. He had every intention of scamming me and I could never believe a word he said. I would have loved to taken up more of his time but now I have had my computer “cleaned” I do not want him infecting my computer again.
    Stay safe ladies and do not fall for ANY of their tricks.

  399. youve got some more names to look out for they are on a U.K SITE BE NAUGHTY they may be genuine but dont think so here are the names Maj.Baleme Lee yes i know alarm bell going off.The other names are Sgt.Ryan West/Col.Robert Jenkins and now a Scott Montoya as been in touch haha they think im that gullable NO .They are using the site now askin g for phones:Ryan West the others have not asked for anything YET HOPE WOMEN IN UK READ THIS BE CAREFULL HELEN

  400. I hope no more women get hurt by this scam im one of the lucky ones its only been two weeks that it started .HELEN

  401. Demiel Agner contacted me. He has 3 profiles on facebook. I have contacted the women he has as friends to tell them to be careful. I was suspicious when he had real bad english and googled his name and find this place. Even if im not english my self I could see that.

  402. I met someone on match.com, he calls himself Kenny Schultz and there are several pictures of the real soldier on this web site. I hate to admit I was scammed. I would like to contact the real soldier that is on this website. Is there anyway to find the real person. I hope he knows that his picture is out there and I would like to e-mail him myself. Any help would be appreciated. I believe he also uses the name John Palmas

    • I know it’s been a while since your post, but this same guy is still going. He recently “married” my friend over the phone! My friend is still believing that he is legit. After this guy contacted me telling me to mind my own business, I tried to track his IP address. Told my friend that I would be doing so. Before I could, he deleted his facebook account. Was going by the name George Newton.

  403. I was contacted by a Sgt Bill Anderson and I see his pictures are posted on this forum. He was pretty good at sucking me in at first, although in retrospect I see many mistakes he made. poor spelling, poor grammar, he messed up on saying when his parents died… one note said when he was 25, but chatting he told me 20. the biggest tell was when he sent me a picture of some gold bars (obviously from a magazine) and said they were worth $3.2 million, which couldn’t be true in itself. He wanted to send them to me for safekeeping until his return to the states. I told him I thought it was a scam, he acted offended and never contacted me again. I have another soldier trying to chat with me: Miller Morison. This guy can’t spell either (not even his own name) and has very poor grammer. His IP address is in Nigeria. I replie to him asking if he was still in Iraq. We’ll see what he says. I may string him along just to keep him occupied so he doesn’t scam someone else, but ugh, so much timed wasted with these psychopaths. I don’t see his picture posted here. If I can figure out to send the pictures I have, I will.

  404. I wonder if you could please tell me how to upload photo’s I have of a soldier I fear may be being used by scammers. He goes by the name of Col. Robert Wood, although his rank appears to be that of a sgm or csm. Story is virtually the same as everyone elses, widowed, one child. The only difference seems to be that this guy went on webcam, although I couldn’t hear him and I now think it was a video tape.

  405. Here are two scammers names to add to your list. Richard Cason and Wiley Jackson. Met both on Match.com. I did not give any money to either of them. Cason wanted to ship me a package with $2million in it that he rec’d from a man in the oil business that he saved the man’s wife and he gave him $2million for doing it. They both claim to be in the army. I will forward pictures of them. It’s a shame that people are such low lifes and try to take women for money. Thanks for having this site!!!

  406. I would like to find out who you report these guys to for being scammers if some one could tell me who you report them to I know of a few more that should be published on here

  407. need to know if a sgtjeff william is real. he is in the army. special force. hometown is hollywood, florida.

  408. I have just found out thanks to this site,I was nearly got.Sent lovely poetry but when it came to grammer=I knew then.Said”she wanted to send money to me from Iraq”but had 2 give details of my address etc.Her name was Dannielle Londrigan had photos of her and emailed me more.She was sending me $450,000.So on,So on-Pity would need it 2 pay off a few bills.The site was connecting singles.Beware!

  409. Leonard Aguiar is another name to add to the list, he is on jdate. i.p. is Ghana, email is bleo94@yahoo.com

  410. coddy stone zendrosky http://www.ccfreedomfighters.com/army%20logo. logo used in some email saying it had come thru the security
    serving in iraq.. 58yrs old married for 10yrs
    father polish mother american
    his best friend in army jason swagger
    coddy is in iraq for 1 yr …has got 8mths left
    wants money to be able to talk on satalite ph anytime to me ..says they can’t access their accounts while on deployment..
    Is he a scammer I can’t find anything written on your site though his name appears at the top when i typed it in ..

  411. I too was scammed by someone who contacted me on friends reunited dating.
    He said he lived in Nottingham.His wife had died a few days after being operated on with lung cancer.
    He said he was a captain in the us army working with the RAF in Nottingham.Was deployed to Afghanistan to take another officers place.
    The name he used was Blair Malone he sent me pictures and when I asked why the name on his uniform was Blair and not Malone he said his surname was Blair??
    The patch on his uniform was 81st heavy combat brigade.
    He asked for money to set up a phone line because it wasnt private on the normal line they used said people were listening in.
    I was sent legal looking documentation so stupidly I paid the money it was picked up by a Maureen Johnson in Spain.via Western union
    Then he asked me for money for xmas leave and I had to contact colbryanwatson@usa.com
    I then began to look at scams and was mad at myself for not looking before .I told him he was a scammer and he stopped contacting me.
    I have pictures and can email them if you give me an email address
    I have now taken myself off the dating site cos you just dont know who you are contacting.

  412. I am talking to three solider who are station in different part of Afghn…..

    Their name is

    Capt. Thomas Collins …. I still haven’t find out lots from this fellow yet….

    Col. Thomas King …. who is marry to sharon from Utah … very nice guys …. spoken to him for hrs on end but …. needed to find out more about him ….

    and

    Lt. Valentino Wilson from Mimai … had already asking for $500.00 because his mum is sick in hospital and is needed treatment for medication …. lucky me …. i didn’t send any money …. he feeling disappointed and he also claiming wanting to come to Australia soon….

    could anyone tell me have you heard any of these fellow or known had spoken to these guys???

    How do I go about finding out information on these guys …. what to look for ….. what kind of ID I need to know if any??? ….. what kind of information do I need to find out what rank, division, ID number???, army address, post office address or anythings that are genuine information so I can ask as many questions to these guys……

    Please help me …. I’m only new to these dating site and had already been scam once, biten twice and smarter the third time around ….. I am now become very caution and very suspicous

    I love this site …. this has become a fantastic site for communication in between us all and watch out for each other and very much my favourite site for anything I need to know and update information …. it is also the most exciting site for all us women from all over the world who wish to be lots smarter than these scum bags scammer …..

    Let us throw them over to crocodiles to feeds these hungry crocodiles …. I’m sure they would love to eat these scum bags scammer …. we got plenty of these animals here in the Far North Queensland (top end of the Australia)

    LET US SHOW THESE SCUM BAGS ….

    cheers Ladies

    from W. Rose

  413. Cpt Brown Mark, also Cpt Harry Swain is also posing as CptMatswain95@yahoo.com.

    Please does anyone know of a Jeremiah Anderson95@yahoo.com, supposed to be in Afghanistan, is trying to get me to contact a Diplomat in Mumbai to track a parcel. I have not done so, but cannot find Jeremiah or Jerry Anderson listed anywhere.

  414. Hi..

    Page on FB to everyone, that want to share your scams.
    http://www.facebook.com/pages/Major-Wilson-Curtis-Kvinno-sida/125299304200005..

    This Major Wilson Curtis is a big Fraud..

    my name is Major Wilson Curtis …..i am army officer….currently in oversea for peace keeping.i am a man of a good heart and a man of prestige.a man searching for a soul mate,a wife to be.never mind i think i have a lot you ne…ed to know okay.i saw your picture and i was like WOW,what a natural beauty you’ve got he…re and i was captivated by your natural beauty,wow, i must tell you that you are looking stunning

    • He’s also Capt. Tom Hilton Curtis, and yes he is a scammer. I got that EXACT same note from him last summer.

  415. He’s going by the name of Ryan Juan Rivera, claims to be from Houston, 48 years old and is currently in a “peacekeeping” mission. He claims to be a Master Seargant, sent me 5 pictures of the real Rivera, a couple of pictures of when he was younger and more recent pictures. He’s a widower, his wife died while pregnant with his child…sad story….He’s good, I told him about his name coming up in the scam list and he got upset but didn’t stop trying to talk to me. My gut feeling told me it was too good to be true and it was…

  416. Same story different name! Instant messaged me on Christian mingle. Claimed to be Hayford England with a son named Kelvin. Most family dead, divorced from wife. Sent pics, fell I love with me at ONCE. Retiring in 3 months, gonna open orphans. Got shot and was at medic upon returning to duty found he was not gonna get out in dec cause he was being sent to frontline. Wanted money because his funds were tied up. I refused. He claimed it was gonna go on supply run in West Africa,hide out and get a flight to states. I called his bluff and reported him to Mingle. There I found out he had been removed by them. I told him I knew he was a liar and the whole thing was a scam. He talked about how much I hurt him and then turned right around and asked about money again. I told him to delte me and forget all of this. Tonight out of the blue I received an email in which he stated as soon as he is back in the staes he will “hit” me. His email is englandhayford@yahoo.com.

  417. Same story different name! Instant messaged me on Christian mingle. Claimed to be Hayford England with a son named Kelvin. Most family dead, divorced from wife. Sent pics, fell I love with me at ONCE. Retiring in 3 months, gonna open orphanage.got shot and was at medic upon returning to duty found he was not gonna get out in dec cause he was being sent to frontline. Wanted money because his funds were tied up. I refused. He claimed it was gonna go on supply run in West Africa,hide out and get a flight to states. I called his bluff and reported him to Mingle. There I found out he had been removed by them. I told him I knew he was a liar and the whole thing was a scam. He talked about how much I hurt him and then turned right around and asked about money again. I told him to delte me and forget all of this. Tonight out of the blue I received an email in which he stated as soon as he is back in the states he will “hit” me. His email is englandhayford@yahoo.com.

  418. this is for all people who come cross the name William L. Spalding BIRTHDATE July 2,1963 he said he has a son name John Spalding and is in London he is a lier and scam he has taken allot of money from me I have been dealing with him since October 5,2009 if anyone has come cross him please let me know my email is chontales5@yahoo.com thank you

  419. Hannettmoore1@gmail.com claims to be in Iraq, retiring soon, Happy to come and live with me in Tasmania, Australia( if he knows where it is) 16 year old son living with ex wife in Miami, Florida. No family, parents died when he was 21. Only child. Wanted to marry me after 1 week of chatting. Relationship (lol) lasted 6 weeks until I found him in this site. He found me through Active Oasis. Beware

  420. I live in Sydney,Australia and was contacted by a guy named Mark T Williams, e-mail markwilly96@yahoo.com,through metrodate.com. He said he is on mission in Sudan, and we had been talking for several times. We had started talking about sending a request for his leave to the usarmypeacekeeping@rescueteam.com
    He said I have to buy an airplane ticket for him, cause they don’t have access to their account, and all his leave benefits and entitlement will be transferred to my account after he leaves the army. I would really like to know if he is for real or a scammer. Could someone please check on this website and see if he is indeed the same person that has been going around scamming others. If he is, I would like to warn others that he is using another new identity. Thanks

  421. Linda, he is indeed a scammer, I don’t have to look at a photo to tell you he is one. Just by what you are saying about him not having access to his money and needing for you to pay for his ticket is a bold face lie. The military takes care of everything for the soldiers including getting them home. You can send the pictures to CJ and he will post them for you. Just give CJ all the information you have on him and he will take care of the rest.

    • Hi Debbie, thanks for reconfirming my suspicion. Btw, how can I contact CJ and where should I send the pic that this scammer is using. Thanks again for your help

  422. Just to let you know that guy haggard is now going by the name of simon haggard boy did i have fun with him new right away he was a scammer so i just had fun with him please be careful out there! same pics on here he sent me!

    • The Haggard is also going by the name of Garry Anaman and his son Alex Anaman is staying w/ a caretaker in Accra Ghana by the name of Prince Andoh. He has sent me the very same pictures. email address that he is using is Anaman_Garry@yahoo. Needed $8000 for a full body bulletproof vest before going into Afganistan. Garry Anaman is also posted on facebook w/ the long story of his life. Son needing a new backpack, laptop, iPod Touch, and a PSP.

  423. Hi everyone,

    I must have sucker written on my farhead, lol. a couple months ago I was contacted by a soldier, Evans Holder and before I sent any money I checked out the paperwork he sent me and found out that it was a scam. So I never sent any money, the only effect it did on me was the emotional pain that I found out the man I loved was a scammer. But the funny thing is today I got an email from another scammer called steve wilson, new he was a scammer right away because they all have the same story. Do I really seam so gullible? But at least I am not an idiot. Just here to warn people about these two scammers.

  424. Hi, I was scammed for over a year by someone claiming to be Sargeant Major Dan Williamson (he changed it to Major Rodney Dan Williamson when told there was no one with that name found in the army database).
    Thank you CJ for this site for everyone who needs to share their story and prevent others from getting scammed by the same person or persons.
    He wanted money for his son studying at university in Ghana and has no way to get money from his bank in New York (which i found out was untrue) and for a package with his passport, medals and money he sent for me to take care of for him till he retired in April.
    He was asked to stay till May and still he has not come home because he needs money to get his package delivered to me. I was such an idiot and kept thinking that i would only send money this one last time, in the hopes of getting something back.
    This person threatened to kill himself many times when I let him know his story didn’t make sense to me. I knew there was a problem with his story, but i was in such denial and wanted to believe him so much.
    I am a smart woman, how could I let this happen? well, these people are very good at this and they know how to get to us, especially when we are vulnerable.
    I finally refused to send him another penny and he wanted me to send digital camera, ipod, iphone, shirts, deodorant and a digital camcorder to his son.

    I will send the photos I have with this to CJ Grisham at the site mentioned above so that he can post some of these when he gets a chance. I’m sure he’s trolling for more women. He had a website that I found and questioned him on, but he was never able to give me enough information to make me think that he was not a scammer.

    He even tried to say he didn’t know what a scammer was and told me that he had a meeting with the other people in his Infantry to talk about how to avoid this happening to other soldiers.

    I am not an idiot, but I sure feel like one. I hope that “what goes around, comes around” and he feels what it is like to be used. Please share his photos to prevent this from happening to another soldier with their private photos.

    Thanks again. I have sworn off soldiers. I think it’s best for all of us.

    • No need to swear off Soldiers. Just do your due diligence before falling for ANYONE!

      • thanks CJ, that is good advice.

  425. HI
    I FEEL SO SICK BY ALL YOU POOR LADIES AS MYSELF FELL FOR THIS B4 CHRISTMAS AND GUESS WHAT I HAVE SAW HIM ON HERE THE 1 AND ONLY IVAN NOBILE
    I KNEW HIM AS NOBILE SIMMONDS MET ON PLENTY MORE FISH

  426. I am currently speaking with a Sgt. Micheal (Mikky) Lunsford which recently gave me a e-mail address about purchasing a satalite phone for him to call me. I also ask him if I could write him a letter and he stated that for security purposes they could not get mail. I would like to know if this is a scam. I currently have photos and could send them to you if necessary.

    Thank You,
    Melissa

    • Melissa,

      Yes he’s a scammer. They can get mail and he shouldn’t need you to send money, phones or anything else. If you want to be absolutely sure ask him for his military e-mail address. If he won’t give it to you or says he can’t because of security reasons he is lying. Please take it from me (I got scammed back in Oct.) don’t send him anything or give him any of your personal info. Janine

      • I didn’t send him any personal info but I did send him my pictures and i confronted him about what he was doing and he said he has my address (which i never gave him, I did tell him my city) and that he is going to kill me and come after me. What am I suposed to do?

        • He is just trying to scare you. He won’t travel to the US. It would be to expensive and their goal is to make money not spend it.

  427. I have been emailing this person capt richard steve of the us army or goes by steve richard. I have just realised he is a Nigerian scammer i didnt lose any money to him thank god but i did give him all my personal details like home address mobile number and name iv been to my local authorities but they cant help. If anybody can give me some advice on what to do next A.S.A.P i would be extremley grateful. Thanx.

    • Jennifer,
      Call equifax and they will put a fraud alert on your social security number for 90 days. (free) Unless you gave him you S.S.# or bank account you should be okay. What you said you gave him is pretty basic stuff that is public knowledge if you search for it. This happened to me too so along with the equifax alert you can buy other products so you can go on line and check your credit yourself. Good Luck

  428. I have been chatting with someone calling themselves Robert Anderson, robert001455 at yahoo dot com claiming to be a military surgeon stationed in Iraq. After two days he was declaring how much he loved me and how god had told him I was the one he was to spend the rest of his life with and become a mother to his orphaned son! There followed many different requests for me to send him large sums of money, varying from paying for him to come visit me, to paying his commanding officer to let him have leave, to buying him out of the army, to finally helping him with his ’secret’ a photo of a box full of 7million pounds worth money he wanted to send me!!! Are they all getting more stupid? or do they think we are?

    I now have emails from his ‘agent’ who wants thousands of pounds from me to deliver this box to my home address.

  429. Another one to watch out. Claim to be a major
    serving in peacekeepping force in Iraq.Had a
    son using jeansspy@aol.com, to call me mother
    but cannot give me his tel/address.

    the name he use is Paul Elvis Woodgate.
    email Paul_elvis@live.com
    can only email in the night mostly. I check
    his details, nothing comes up.
    but has been asking me money twice.

    Penny

    • it turns out he is using the chief of staff
      picture! people like me have not been follow military events, it shows how easily we can be misleaded.

      It taught me, to always put up your guard and find out more before plunging in.

  430. I have been talking to an Anthony Sanches. it was going very well and was falling for him until he asked me for money today for an operation for his mother. I am now confused. I dont know if its a scam or what. I told him no i have no money to send but still :( Makes me very sad if it is a scammer which it feels like..

  431. CJ, I sent a comment out to you on Monday and was wonder if you had any information on Raymond Draper. I’m stilling communicating with him and I just want to make sure this solider is ok and doing well. Thanks for the information.

  432. Hi ladies, here’s another one John Hogan
    hoganjjohn@yahoo.com
    met him on badoo on Thurs night and he proposed Fri night, I asked him if he thought I was desperate. His pic shows a sign with Area 51 in the back ground, when I asked him about Area 51 he told me he was protecting it from the taliban, lucky for us these guys are too stupid to research their lies. Also thanks Donna for tracing the IP address to Nigeria

  433. My friend got scammed by SSG SCOTT D ADAMS. His pics are on here. Also he has a friend helping him snipeshooter001@yahoo.com. Goes by the name of ROY.

    I have mailed CJ with the photo’s they are both using.

    Shame my friend did not find this site befroe she part with 1,000′s of pounds

  434. WELL EVERYONE HELLO , I HAVE BEEN WORKING ON
    FINDING INFORMATION ON OUR SCAMMER WHO GOES

    BY “LINGO’S”

    PICS & MORE , YOU MUST GO TO MY PAGE TO GET THE PIC’S & UPDATES LINK BELOW :

    http://www.migente.com/DIAMONDSnECSTASY/

    ALSO I HAVE MORE INFO. THAT HAS NOT BEEN DISCLOSED SUCH AS :

    PHONE #’S
    BANK ACCOUNT INFO.
    WESTERN UNION PICK UPS
    ACCOMPLISH’S / FRIENDS #’S

    ETC . THEY ARE DISCLOSED ON THAT SITE AND MORE – ONLY WHAT I DON’T CARE FOR THE SCAMMER TO VIEW , HE DOES VIST OFTEN TO SEE MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS .

    • laurie i may have some more info for you on your “lingo” he is going by the name of david james smith his email address is smith4real32@ymail.com i have been scammed for alot of money from him. he promised me the world. told me his wife passed away and he has just lost his mom. he said he has a son which is 25yrs old and he is from oklahoma city, oklahoma. i to feel in love with him he was so sweet with the things he would say and i needed to hear them as well i lost my husband not to long ago and he played on that in fact he is still trying to play me he said he was 51yrs old and wanted to get out of the army after putting in 25yrs. i know what you seen in him he is very good looking and he says all the right things to make one fall in love with him im sorry you went through this and im sorry i went through it as well my life would have been better off if i had of never got on the web site to find him i have learned a lesson a costly lesson at that and i have blocked him from ever having contact with me again.this scammer has hurt me to much. anyway thank you for everything

  435. I would like to know if anyone has had any dealings with Micheal Mahoney. He is suppose to be stationed in Iraq. So many stories after a while you do not know what or who to believe. Which is so sad.

  436. Has anyone had any dealings with a Micheal Mahoney he is suppose to be stationed in Iraq. I would appreciate any information that anyone could give to me. Thank you

  437. My mother in-law is a victim. However, i need proof that this “Captain Louis Morris Ramos” is a fake. I have photos of him and basic details such as email addresses, the f*c*er even took advantage of the fact that she’s a devout christian and posed as a 2nd person who knows Louis and says that he’s a priest and asked for some money – unfortunately, it was through western union…and i know that can’t be tracked. I need help, as she’s fallen into the trap, and i need a way of verifying if he’s fake. Can anyone help me? I’m really desperate for some help…my email address is venieon@yahoo.com.au

  438. ANY WOMEN OUT THERE THAT IS HAVING ANY CONTACT WITH A REAL CHARMER NAMED …. JAMES DAVID MASSINGALE CALLS HIMSELF A SARGENT IN THE US ARMY PLEASE STAY CLEAR FROM HIM HE, IS A SCAMMER, HE WILL SUCK YOU IN WITH HIS WORDS & BEAUTIFUL POMES THEN HE WILL TAKE YOUR MONEY. HE TELLS YOU THAT HE LOST HIS WIFE IN A CAR ACCIDANT, & HE HAS A 14 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WHO LIVES IN THE UK WITH HER NAN & POP. HE SENDS YOU PICS OF HIM IN UNIFORM..& IN A BLUE TSHIRT WITH A BIG SMILE ON HIS FACE. HE ALSO HAS OTHER PIC,S OF HIM EATING A ICE CONE WITH A WHITE CAP ON HIS HEAD PLEASE PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM HIM HE IS JUST A BIG CON & SCAMMER HE PRAYS ON YOUR LONELYNESS. IF U WANT MORE INFO PLEASE EMAIL ME AT PHANCOCK2@HOTMAIL.COM OK STAY SAFE LADYS

  439. HI AGAIN JAMES DAVID MASSINGALE ALSO GOS BY THESES NAMES TRACY VASSEUR CONTROLES OFFICER HA!
    DAVID MASSINGALE HA!
    JIMMY ALEX US ARMY LEAVES DEPARTMENT HA!
    EMAILS ARE 1: JAMESMASSINGALE@YAHOO.COM
    2:JAMESMASSINGALE@YAHOO.CA
    3:J.MASSINGALE@YAHOO.COM OR .CA
    4:DAVIDMASSINGALE@ YAHOO.COM OR CA
    5:LT.COL.JIMMY ALEX USARMYLEAVEAPROVAL@ATT.NET PLEASE DONT TRUST ANY OF THESE EMAILS HE ALSO GO,S ON DATING SIGHTS LIKE SOMEONE TO LOVE DONT TRUST HIM PLEASE

  440. Ive had dealings with Sgt Daniel Armstrong, Sgt McDonald Peterson, Sgt Franklin James and Sgt Micheal Weaver. All had Yahoo accounts and all asked for money at some point. You can see McDonalds pictures near the top under the name Patrick McDonald.

  441. date 28.01.1011…. Gen. Carter Ruddock – Kabul , Afganistan
    from New York
    …ask money for fuel for his private jet…ha ha ha

  442. 28.01.2011
    Gen.Carter Ruddock Smith in Kabul , Afghanistan…
    from New York
    was asking money fot fuel for his private jet….ha ha ha

  443. 28.01.2011
    Gen.Carter Ruddock Smith in Kabul , Afghanistan…
    from New York
    was asking money for fuel for his private jet….ha ha ha

  444. I THINK I ALSO HAVE A SCAMMER.HE GOES BY THE NAME KENNETHWELL25@YAHOO.COM.THERE ALOT OF WARNING BELLS.HE HAS NOT YET ASKED FOR MONEY.HE’S NOT GETTING IT ANYWAY,I PLAN ON PLAYING HIS AZZ LIKE A FINE TUNED FIDDLE.WONDER IF I ASK HIM TO SEND ME MONEY IF I WOULD EVER HEAR FROM HIM AGAIN.LOL KENNETH(REAL NAME IS SCOTT)IS SUPOSE TO BE STATIONED IN AFGHANISTAN.JUST WANTED TO DROP HIS NAME IN HERE TOO.BTW I LOVE THIS SITE.GOT ALOT OF USEFULL INFORMATION.THANKS

  445. i mayself was contacted by a scammer also by the name of david roland or rollingarmyboy@yahoo.com he claims he a first sergent in the army stationed in hawaii where he wrote me poerty and said sweet thing telling me he was going to be shipped where i am then out of nowhere he hits me with a offical letter so he says i have encloseda copy of the letter to warn everyone and this paper has an army logo on it but it wont let me post it…

    First name: David 14 – 12 – 2010 4:09 PM (PST)
    Middle name: Harold
    Last name: Roland
    MMN: Avocado
    DOB: 12 – 04 – 1973
    Y of E: 1998 (05)
    MOS: 21T5OP5OO
    Rank: First Sgt
    Ref: ROL3788212Z-HI-MIL-DEC10
    RE: CHANGES IN REDEPLOYMENT/POST-TRANSFER STATUS & APPEAL PROCEDURE
    In reference to your scheduled redeployment which is meant to take place on December 20th, 2010, I am sorry to inform you that the Army has overturned its decision to ship you within the States and are therefore shipping you overseas.
    As one of our best 21Ts (Technical Engineering Analysts) and owing to the fact you have a 100% disciplinary record and a high percentile work rate & attitude during your continuous twelve years career with the Army, we are enlisting you to join with our currently short-staffed technical members at USAG Camp Humphrey, South Korea. While this might come as a surprise to you, the Army apologizes for the inconveniences this might have caused you but trust in your adaptability and flexible prowess especially as displayed over your long-served career. Your official letter of assignment and deployment will be forwarded to you in the coming days.
    However, under the rules for reserve volunteers, you have the right to file an appeal within the shortest stipulated time as will be further advised by your attached military attorney. Should in case you decide to file for an appeal, listed below is a standard list of requirements to include with your appeal.
    (i) Copy of Drivers License and Army Identification Card
    (ii) 3 Recent passport photographs
    (iii) Recent completion letter of last assignment
    (iv) Attestation letter (reference) from Station Commander & Group Commander
    (v) Attestation letter from your Attorney and Station Legal Administrator
    (vi) Behavioral assessment result (2 year term assessment)
    (vii) 3 Army Guarantors of the rank of a WO1 or above
    (viii) 2 Civilian Guarantors who must post a surety bond of $1500 each (Must not be family members or relatives and bond will be remitted back to them upon completion of your appeal process)
    As stated earlier, you can contact your Army attorney for more details and procedures in filing your appeal. If you have any enquiries or questions, kindly refer to your district/stationed Sergeant Major or contact the Army help desk number at the back of your ID Card.
    On behalf of the United States Army and the 25TH Infantry Division, Hawaii. I hopefully wish you find your military service in South Korea beneficial towards your career goal in the US Army. I also do hope you find this information resourceful and hopefully wish it’s beneficial to you in whatever variety it might appear to you.
    Bernard Champoux 14 -12 – 2010
    Major General, Commanding Officer
    25th Infantry Division, US Army
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    ——————————— CLASSIFIED DOCUMENT (DEPARTMENT OF THE ARMY) ———————————–

  446. Hi,
    Here are the links to two Facebook accounts same scammer. There are 3 of us that I know of. He got me off the “juan rivera” profile and he got the other two ladies off the “alvin rivera” profile.

    “Juan Rivera”
    http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/profile.php?id=100001269833418

    “Alvin Rivera”
    http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/profile.php?id=100001778007974

    Keep up the good work and thank you and your family’s sacrafice and service to this country.

  447. Hi mine is also about alvin and juan rivera. I have spoke to 3 other ladies who he is trying to scam as well as me.He is not an american soilder just feel so sorry for the soilder whos pictures he is using.

  448. Hi mine too is about alvin or juan rivera. He is not an american soldier.he is a scammer. I just feel so sorry for the soldior whos pictures he is using

  449. I feel so sorry for the soldiers whos piture he using

  450. There is a story in my local news paper about a woman sent a soldier 80,000 pound to buy himself out the army.His name was sgt mark ray smith. That was on Friends Reunited . This was in the uk

  451. Hi alvin rivera sent me a friend request about 9 weeks ago. I looked at pictures and added him on facebook.He started talking to me straight away. He told me he had been married for 20 years and his wife run off with his mate. He had a daughter age 17 name angie. he said he lived in new york all his life and was doing good for his self. After 6 weeks he asked me if he could send a package here for me to keep till he come here. To prove how much he trusted me. I said no he didnt like it said it was ok i still wouldnt. He wanted me to email a diplomat and arrange to met someone to delieve it here. i wouldnt so he fell out with me for 2 days. I started digging round and rememder old email address it had name juanrivera. So went down them all till i found him. Char1otte was on it as in a relationship with him so sent her friend request. She told me her story. So on night when he came on line i told him what i found.He said someone is setting him up. I told him the only way i would believe his was to talk to him on phone.He agreed. so next day he phoned me. He couldnt hardly speak english. No not american soldier at all

  452. morgan.james37@yahoo.com
    kevin.morris25@yahoo.com

    Who knows these ” staff sargent”S
    Contacted me as Kelvin Morris, says he´s in iraq until end of jan. 2011.
    2 private pictures and 2 military pictures.

  453. Dec. 10, 2010 – 7:53pm
    I work with the US Army as a E6 STAFF SARGENT and also a SQUADRON LEADER……….I lead 250 Army men and 250 Army women…Is a hard work though but great in doing ..I’ve served for 25 good years…I love this work and love helping the people of my country .All my life ..I’ve wished to help and save people who are been attacked by bad people and by the Grace of Almighty .I can do that i am and doing it now.so i am very proud of my self. and very happy.

    I’m really good at
    I am really good at advising people, Drawing , Painting , Writing poems ,I’m also good at cooking, writing, organizing, and creating.Teaching others to do right …figuring things out..Making people Happy and also Having fun with kids.

    The first things people usually notice about me
    That i am kind , Honest in everything , Making friends and people come close to me Happy any time , any where and every where. I care about every one ,I am always been what i am .( I’m Me) LOL..I am always having smiles on my face where ever i go. That i love talking about what life brings and etc.

    My favorite books, movies, music, and food
    My favorite foods: American, Barbecue, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese/Dim Sum, Continental, Fast Food/Pizza, French, German, Japanese/Sushi, Seafood, Soul Food, Spanish.

    My favorite music:
    Blues, Christian & Gospel, Classic Rock n’ Roll, Classical, Country, Folk, Jazz, Opera, Soul/R&B….

    I like to read: Back to top Relationships

  454. Hello,

    I have been in contact with lord knows how many of these men are scammers. I never give money to someone I do not know. However, I get tipped off really fast by the way they write and talk to you. Sloppy writing like a foreigner who does not know the english language very well. That is a first tip off for me. The next thing that tips me off is when they tell you that you need to fill out a form so that they can come home on leave. I also note that they use that woman’s deepest need……..love and marriage and children, if that is what she wants. Be aware! Thirdly, I am tipped off by huge red flags when these men tell you they have lost a wife in a car accident (no matter how many years ago) and have one son or one daughter, yet they have no family or their son or daughter is living with the nanny! Big mistake! No parent is going to let their only child live with a nanny instead of their parents.

    The many men I have been contacted by go by the following names:

    Edward Smith (capt.edward smith) (facebook)

    Larry Edwards (facebook)

    John Jensen Todd (facebook)

    Graham Mike (facebook)

    Richard Burton (facebook)

    All these men had many things in common……but one thing I could not do and that was not giving money or any facet of my personal information. They also say that they could not call you from where they are stationed…..load of crap in many cases. Many of these men are supposedly stationed in Kandahar, Kabul, Afghanistan, Iraq, and the like. Be careful and watch for many similiar signs!!!

    Take care.

    • I have been contacted by someone claiming to be Jim Edwards wonder if it is the same Larry Edwards. The name on his uniform said Edwards and he said he was a E-6 SSG email name edwardshulk@ymail.com

  455. Thanks Crystal. He never asked for money, but my trust and my heart. And said after a week we are mailing since months, and said I am in Iraq your in the states, but I am in europe.
    And could not call me. And why a staff sargent weares a hat with 4 stars, and is pictured in front of the presidents airplane ( faked picture or faked image?)Found him on tineye ( contact a hero, not so good pic as I´ve got)
    and why cs soldiers perspective don´t replyed my mail?
    Hope for your reply

  456. This is all very enlightening. Have just start chatting to a guy (from a dating site) called Thomas Gough stationed in Kabul, from Texas. Has anyone heard of him?

  457. Cj
    Please could you please send me your email as I have photos forms letters and names to send you thank you

    I await for a email address

    thankyou

    • Hy Pam
      But the e-mail will be seen here from everybody? Can´t you give me your e-mail?

  458. can some body tell me when i can contact real soldier i want one in my life

  459. Hy Pam, 2 e-mails to soldiers perspective were not replied, so I will try this, but if possible delete my e-mail here , okay.
    wildflower5@web.de.
    Waiting for your reply.

  460. hello
    i have also been contacted by someone this excat letter was sent to me Hospital of California. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.
    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.
    My son lives with a friend in Miami. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time. Will like you to also send me some pictures of you too.Take care.
    I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words
    Have a good day.
    Hugs,he is using the name Sgt David Ramos
    lol… i knew the letters were to good to be true,but he found me on lava life

    • I have had that same letter sent to me by 5 different men….It starts to get funny after a while…so run now

    • a captain or E6 Harry James uses the same letter… Anyway to let real guy in the pics know that he is being used in a scam? How do I send the pics to CJ?

      • No, please do NOT send me anything. As I’ve said, I’m currently deployed to AFghanistan and don’t have time to be updating these. Honestly, all I’m doing is deleting or archiving these types of emails while I’m deployed. All the information you need is here, just keep posting the information so it is searchable.

  461. i called him om it after seeing this site i kid of knew it wasn’t true so i went surfing the net and came across this site.
    i said you are a fraud you are not David Ramos,….I caught on 2nd day into it,but i will tell you the letter he sent about “our” life together huh! i am sorry you don’t fall in love 2 hours after first conversation,even after i called him on it he wrote me back..here is a copy of the letter after i called him on it I don’t think that I tell you enough how much you truly mean to me and how much I love you. I am proud of your achievements and impressed by your strong will. Although I don’t constantly say it, I am proud to see you develop into who you are becoming. I love you dearly and you constantly remain in my sweetest thoughts…. Never doubt how much you mean to me and nevertheless how much I love you. I will remain faithfully yours until the end of time.
    don’t think that I tell you enough how much you truly mean to me and how much I love you. I am proud of your achievements and impressed by your strong will. Although I don’t constantly say it, I am proud to see you develop into who you are becoming. I love you dearly and you constantly remain in my sweetest thoughts…. Never doubt how much you mean to me and nevertheless how much I love you. I will remain faithfully yours until the end of time.
    don’t think that I tell you enough how much you truly mean to me and how much I love you. I am proud of your achievements and impressed by your strong will. Although I don’t constantly say it, I am proud to see you develop into who you are becoming. I love you dearly and you constantly remain in my sweetest thoughts…. Never doubt how much you mean to me and nevertheless how much I love you. I will remain faithfully yours until the end of time don’t think that I tell you enough how much you truly mean to me and how much I love you. I am proud of your achievements and impressed by your strong will. Although I don’t constantly say it, I am proud to see you develop into who you are becoming. I love you dearly and you constantly remain in my sweetest thoughts…. Never doubt how much you mean to me and nevertheless how much I love you. I will remain faithfully yours until the end of time.

    Love always,lol i thought the nerve after i told him i know u r a fraud,be careful ladies because they can be charming

  462. oops did not realize i copied and pasred the letter 2 times.

  463. lol…another one brian keith from plainfield ont
    but this guy game me full address,i found the number and called him
    i asked him if he was on yahoo chat
    he was surprised and said no
    so i told him what was going on

  464. Hello Babe.
    How are you doing today?i hope all is well with your condition of health..Well my dear am Major John..I’m a soldier and i have been in the army for about 29 years..And i have been in Iraq for about 4 years so i have plan to resign in the army so that i can meet someone that i love,And i don’t care about the distance or the age because distance is a way and age is also a number.All is about who can make you happy and also trust you and treat you like a queen.Well am the only son of my late parents.I am a widowed with two children called Jeffery and Sylvia .They are very good children and i really do love them a lot.They have been the source of happiness since my ex passed away..And Sylvia is 18years and Jeffery is 15years old.All my dream was to get a sister and also brothers but is not all dreams that come true..

    And survive on my own financially. I love friends and family, I am a lot of fun and make friends easily. I love life, love my family and still have some love to share with a special lady. Life can be lonely without that someone…I am a person who is very real when it comes to life and its’ issues. Am honest,kind caring,affectionate,good sense of humor,easy going,free thinker,trustworthy and respect the lives of other people…..I’m a man that is living life as it comes to me.

    I don’t worry about tomorrow, for it will be here no matter what I do. The best days of my life are yet to come…am looking for someone who will love and care about me for a long time relationship that can lead to marriage. Although I would consider myself a romantic, I don’t believe that life is about the “grand passion.” In reality it is more about comfortable comrade. I am a really fun person who loves people, loves to laugh,…

    I’m excited to see new places, meet new people and do new things.I’m not a fighter and I don’t argue, life’s too short but I do value friendship and intimacy. Respect is one of the most important requisites in a relationship, as are honesty and commitment. I enjoy going out to dinner, movies, walks, and quiet times. I love nature, enjoy learning, and have a deep respect and love for children. I’m fascinated with the world and different cultures and would enjoy learning more about them….

    I love to laugh and like being around people with a good sense of humor. I also appreciate people who are different and even quirky. They’re usually interesting…I want to meet someone who is kind and enjoyable to be with.I know love takes time and am in no hurry. I have the rest of my life, that should be enough time ..She would have to be a woman of integrity, honest, confident, kind and with a sense of humor.

    Needless to say an intelligent woman who is able to converse on several subjects without getting into passionate arguments all the time. very affectionate,easy going,understands,trustworthy,family oriented and supportive. she should be fun-loving and love to laugh…

    Being through worst pain in relationship is not all that easy sharing it with people simply because it hurts. through that I have learn a lot from my past. There is no going to be turning back into old life style.I believe either of us had in mind of meeting someone special online but it has just come to pass with our personality description towards learning few thing about each other.

    I’m ready to falling in love with someone special who ever that happens to be.. there are few qualities which talks about genuine woman in relationship, such as faithfulness,loyalty, trustworthy, Honesty, respectful etc. guess having those qualities in relationship can really help a lot. I am not looking to fill a void in my life, I am looking for my soul mate.

    I am a young looking for my age to which I am very grateful for. I do not play mind games and i cant afford to be played as that will be really hard on me. What you see is what you get with me..I’m not sure exactly what they mean by personal habits, but I will take a shot here. Some personal habits include a fairly strutted, organized lifestyle. I like order in my life, but not to the point of being obsessive about it….I have a dry wit, but I do have a serious side, and I try to balance the two.

    I’m mostly serious at work or when the situation is warranted. Some of my hobbies include cooking, gardening, reading and fishing. Also, swimming and playing golf in the summertime. I enjoy watching football and golf, I enjoy attending sporting events, going to the theater and eating out, to name a few. I’m not sure if this answered the question. I love traveling, new and unknown in nature, life and people…I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered…Hope to hear from you soon then and have a nice day.xoxoxo.Stay Blessed.

    Yours friend,

    Major John Allan Packer.

  465. thank god when money was mentioned i woke up and smelt the bacon!!!you have lost a good friend 2/9/2011 9:07:26 PM John Allan Packer lilian I will never lose you and how i wish i can proof this to you that i am who i said i am.. 2/9/2011 9:07:42 PM John Allan Packer lilian but i will try and do all my best possible to proof to you that i am who i am ok. 2/9/2011 9:10:40 PM lilian John Allan Packer be a man and put your real photo on your profile! if it was really you you would not be talking to me you would be trying to sort out who is using your Identity 2/9/2011 9:11:36 PM John Allan Packer lilian Yes i understand and i know you are feeling at this moment but i need you to put in mind that i will never do anything to hurt you and that am going to be yours forever and ever through good or bad ok. 2/9/2011 2/9/2011 9:13:12 PM John Allan Packer lilian Please listen to the beat of my heart crying for your love and understanding honey,i will never do anything bad against you ok 2/9/2011 9:14:13 PM John Allan Packer lilian Am very honest with you honey and i do mean what ever that i say to you on here honey 2/9/2011 9:14:25 PM lilian John Allan Packer do not think so there is no trust in me 2/9/2011 9:15:06 PM lilian John Allan Packer i should get the police!! 2/9/2011 9:15:42 PM lilian sends C:\Documents and Settings\Administrator\Desktop\[UPDATE] The Face of Military Dating Scams – The Wall of Shame A Soldier’s Perspective.url 2/9/2011 9:15:42 PM John Allan Packer lilian Go ahead and do everything that you want to do that you will find out whether am for real or not ok 2/9/2011 9:16:17 PM lilian John Allan Packer ok i will 2/9/2011 9:16:34 PM John Allan Packer lilian go ahead 2/9/2011 9:18:13 PM lilian John Allan Packer are you staying till they arrive?(dont think so)
    his photo is on this page above

    • Let me proof to you … LOL

  466. You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time.

  467. this is major john allan packer (ken 41505_100001237207829_6881 -n)

  468. A few weeks ago I was contacted on Mate1 by someone going by name of Sgt Michael Sickman, from Glasgow Scotland in the British Army stationed in Afghanistan. Waiting for his retirement papers to come through and wanted to start a new life with me. He asked if I owned my own home, how much i made in my job, neither of which I answered. I started getting very intense “love letters” from him and googled them finding their origins on a Romance Letter site. He has an 8 yr old son back in Scotland living with a Nanny. No mention of the ex wife. The papers came through a few days ago and he asked me to forward him info on flights to Canada. My radar was up already, but i did this. The next day he tells me that three men were killed and all the flights out are cancelled but he wants out so bad. this morning I get an email asking for 1150. to help with this flight. I told him no, dont have that kind of money available and also told him I found his name on a scam site saying he was a US marine from last Fall. Not a word since. The email he was using is mikesickman@yahoo.com and I have numerous pictures from him.

  469. A little while back my friend got scammed… she got contacted by a guy on a site called nightcafe. So I put a profile on there…. there are loads of soldiers on there who’s pics are on here….In time I have added them to my yahoo lol…. Hope fully it slows them down from scamming more innocent women as while they are talking to me and telling me I am the woman of their dreams it stops them conning someone else ! Hear are a few names

    Allen Fellows
    Micheal Cray
    Jeremiah workman ( He is funny cos when you search him he has published a book and on his facebook profile he is married, but he swears he is for real)..
    Mark Patterson
    Lt col James Williams
    Capt Jeff Lawrence
    Lt Gerald Palous
    English George G
    Roy Donaldson

    Quite a list but god I am having fun

  470. Hy Ladies, tell these men how is the weather in afgahnistan, and their special ons are there, perfect date is a woman in a BURKA, because they tarnish themself like these men.

    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

  471. I just found out that a Africa was trying to scam me. He is in Iraq and he has a daughter name Lora. He goes by the name of Sgt Jim Wilgano. As soon as I started to ask question. He tryed to change things up. I made him tell me the truth and they came clean. I will be looking out for more of them.

  472. Well it seems that I have been scammed as well. I started talking to this supposed Captain James Gordon Hannett (reciprocalsoldier@yahoo.com) over in Iraq 4 or 5 wks ago. I was on match.com and on his first night of signing up he imed me and we talked all the time online and thru texts. He says he’s 49 yrs old, his bday is 2/2/62, he has two kids – 16 yr old Larry and 18 yr old Lawrencia who live in the Netherlands with his sister, Michele. He’s not widowed from his wife. They were divorced 3 yrs when she died of kidney failure. He’s been in the military (army) for 21 years and is retiring March 15, 2011. He’s been over in Iraq (Afghanistan) doing the peacekeeping mission. He told me everything I wanted to hear and I actually believed him. After two wks of chatting online, he requested that I send him a care package with an ipod touch 32gb, towel, expensive miyake lotion for men, cookies and crackers. Well, dummy me went shopping on a saturday with a great check that I won’t see that kind of money for a long time and preceded to send these items to him. He uses a supposedly retired major (rtdmajor@gmail.com) to receive his packages. Meaning I sent this retired major the package over in Africa and had to pay over $500 for shipping. Once the package got to Africa, this retired major called me and said that customs needed an additional $150.00 to release the package to him because the contents in the box were worth $500. I went ahead and western unioned the $150. Captain James Hannett did not thank me or let me know that he had rcvd the pkg. I had to continuely ask him. He then stopped contacting me and it did make me wonder if it was a scam and if all he wanted was the materials, nothing more. We made plans for him to come to where I live in Kentucky and we would get married and I would work with him in his jewelry store, etc. I told him he was too good to be true and yep I should have listened to my gut the first time. I so wanted to believe what he said to me was true. Last night I sent him an email stating that if he didn’t improve on his communication with me, he doesn’t need to come here to see me. He sent me a text at 1:43 am EST and I then got online and we started chatting. He again told me how much he loves me and wants me in his life and all that other crap. Everything was going well (I thought at the time) until he said he wanted to send his personal items to me before he left Iraq. I told him that would be okay, but that I would not pay for any of it. He sent me a list of what he needed to send to me – a suitcase full of his pistol, army badge, three car keys, documents of his two houses in NY and GA, his captain uniform, gold watch, and award medals. Plus a trunk full of 45 pieces of 22 carats of gold. Then advised me to contact retired major to get these items shipped to me. He told me that he wanted to open a safe deposit box for these items. As I’m getting ready to get off being online with him to go back to bed, he said he received a msg from his sister in the netherlands and for me to hang on a minute. He then came back to say that his son Larry had messed up a friend’s home theater system and if he didn’t get it fixed within 2 wks, his son was going to jail. “Captain James” said that he would order one from Sears and send it to me so I can send it to Retired Major and it can then go to his sister. I told him that I didn’t have the money to do that again. He said that for me to do it and he would pay me when he got here.
    I told my sister about him on the phone today and she felt and told me that it was a scam and preceded to look him up online, which I also had done in the beginning but didn’t see or want to see maybe, the stories of these men doing this to us lonely women. After hearing some of the stories she read off to me, I decided to send “Captain James Hannett” a text msg telling him that this wasn’t going to work and good luck. He replied with a msg saying that he’d given me his heart and I hurt him so much like this at the point where he can’t do without me (spelled my name wrong). Thanked me so much and God bless me. I told him I wasn’t going to be scammed any longer and he replied by saying that I’m calling him a liar and thanked me and said that he would not contact me anymore.

    I would put his pictures on here, but I don’t know how to.

    Ladies, we have to be more careful. But I’m about to give up. This is the second time I’ve been scammed. These men (scum of the earth) should be prosecuted. Please be careful out there and know in your heart and your gut that if he sounds too good to be true, he is!!!!

    • Michelle – Well said. I’ve just discovered TODAY that “Captain Clark Leno Brown” (who when he first IMd me on match.com was “Leno Brown Harrad” or Haggard) is a fraud. I OFFERED to send him a package of goodies for his supposed birthday, March 6, when he will turn 49. He is retiring after 27 years in the Army in May. Yadda yadda yadda. When his “agent”, William Thomson (mr_diploma200@yahoo.com) sent me the address in Accra Ghana with the phone number, I googled it and found this website.

      CJ – THANK YOU!! Those scammers had me on the line, reeling me in. I can’t believe how good they are at pushing the right buttons. And I can’t believe I fell for it. But I can see from this site that I am not alone. Thank you. I have an additional photo to add to the array. I also saved most of the IMs and, of course, the emails. Do you want them? I’d like to help in finding them. I may even keep the connection to them open for a while (without talking to them) if that will help.

  473. How do I check the IP address? He has NOT asked for any money, I just want to make sure. I just e-mailed him and asked some of the questions that everyone was talking about

  474. I have been taken for 855 dollars by a man call Staff Sargent Jeffery Durama.

  475. Im in contact with one now, who do I report him to? I have pictures also, new ones he is not any of the ones you already have. He calls himself Mateo Ramos. Supposedly on secret mission.

    • Hello Michelle
      My friend has recently been corresponding with a Mateo Ramos in Afghanistan – What was your experience ? Have you any pictures of him ?
      Thanks.

  476. Wow! I just joined match.com today. A very attractive man from Bedford, TX wanted to IM with me. He goes by Steve Lopez, steve_lopez56@yahoo.com He asked me to load yahoo messenger so we could video chat, but who the heck was I going to see? After we got off line I couldn’t access his match.com profile anymore, I thought that was odd. So I googled Steve Lopez, Beford TX to see if I could find a facebook or something else and I ended up here. Scary and shocking to see so many of his EXACT words in these letters. He gave me the A&A school, born at the Baptist Hospital, Calvary school, his mother was a head teacher and father in military medical field blah blah blah. I thought those were weird facts to be blurting out to get to know each other but I just thought he was shy or quirky. He also said ‘Mum’ instead of Mom. I sent him an email and we will see if he send one back with pictures and I will forward them to you. The picture on his profile was not military. His match.com id is MAJORSEARCH7019. He also verbatim said the stuff about E6 Staff Sergeant etc etc. Amazing. Other things that were odd were his over reactions to what I said. “Oh that’s wonderful! How nice!” and overuse of smileys. I am so glad I found your site. I don’t think I would have ever sent anyone any money (hell my good ol’ ex right here at home has scammed me for money) but now I know what to look for so I don’t even waste my time on these people. I have several legitimate friends and have started a relationship start online before so I could have gone for quite a ride. You are doing a great thing here. My heart goes out to everyone who has been conned and worse had their hearts broken by these low lifes.
    T~

  477. I believe that I was being scammed- thank God I realized it quickly! But I feel bad for whoever’s pic was/is being used.
    I got a lot of the same stuff that was mentioned on here… Set to retire soon, wants to build a family, poor grammar & spelling, wife died in a plane crash, has a daughter in boarding school in England, has no other family at all, doesn’t have access to the phone, etc. He never asked me for money- I caught on too quickly before he could. How do I upload pics to this site so that others can watch out for it?
    Thanks!

  478. My friend is a single mother and she contacted me yesterday. She was befriended by a military man from the singleparentmeet.com website. He said he was in the army, needed to get a package out of Afganistan and that a “diplomat” known only as “Mr. Coffie” (HA HA HA) would contact her, as he could not due to “security”.. She is vulnerable and wanted to help these idiots!

    They even sent her a picture. The Army guy’s name was “John Edwards”.. ha ha ha. anyway, I am glad I found this website. They even sent her flowers for Valentine’s Day! She even sent me their “supposed” email addresses: diplomatcoffie@myway.com and devotedheart50@yahoo.com

    Mr. Coffie (still can’t get over that fake name) sent her this message yesterday:

    Attn Miss,
    I finally made it to Ghana safely I got here 5 hours ago but I was very tired and needed some rest so checked in into a hotel,The problem right now is that I am short in cash all I have on me is $1000 but upon going through customs and security check the amount I need right Now to fly out of here is $3000. So now I will need $2000 to make sure that all is taken care of. I am waiting on you now so that I know what to do next.hope to hear from You soon.
    Best Regards
    Dip. Coffie

    Anyway, this site was very helpful!

    • Angela: Got almost same phone call only wanting $6000. The messenger was Mr. Bellman. Could hardly speak english. Also stuck in customs. Beware of a guy name Robert Badley. Very cute pictures of course. Never heard from him again when I said I did not have ANY money.

  479. this devotedheart50@yahoo.com “John Edwards” is chatting with my friend right now. He is angry because she will not send money.. Who do we report these people to?

  480. Here is a copy of the chat she just had with this scum:

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:02:53 PM): Hello slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:03:49 PM): hello John Edward (2/22/2011 4:04:12 PM): how are you ? slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:04:36 PM): ok…you? John Edward (2/22/2011 4:05:29 PM): I am fine slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:06:13 PM): long day? John Edward (2/22/2011 4:06:41 PM): It was Okay not bad John Edward (2/22/2011 4:06:45 PM): and you slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:07:04 PM): had to leave early John Edward (2/22/2011 4:07:24 PM): why ? slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:07:33 PM): avery wasnt feeling well John Edward (2/22/2011 4:08:01 PM): that is very bad slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:08:49 PM): have you talked to Mr Coffie? John Edward (2/22/2011 4:09:02 PM): yes slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:09:08 PM): and…. John Edward (2/22/2011 4:09:20 PM): nothing Good baby John Edward (2/
    Me:

    Awesome! Thank you Joshua!
    susan houp:

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:09:46 PM): I need some money to have him settle down and have the package safe slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:10:13 PM): well I dont know where you are going to get it John Edward (2/22/2011 4:11:04 PM): true slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:11:29 PM): you better think of something because its not coming from me John Edward (2/22/2011 4:12:29 PM): I dont even think about anything coming from you

    not done

    verrry long

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:12:44 PM): cos you are a dissapiontment slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:13:45 PM): you need to work on your english because you are not an American slja970 1 (2/22/2011 4:13:54 PM): and you cant spell John Edward (2/22/2011 4:14:42 PM): Hmmm that is what you think greedy bitch slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:15:22 PM): you are trying to scam me….im not stupid….but yesterday you claimed you loved me!!!! what a joke slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:15:51 PM): is the man who you are impersonating even alive John Edward (2/22/2011 4:16:14 PM): Yes But I reflected on everything and I realised all you want was the Money

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:16:25 PM): lol….omg John Edward (2/22/2011 4:16:38 PM): I think I Know why you are existing without a Husband slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:16:39 PM): you are crazy John Edward (2/22/2011 4:16:55 PM): Your Husband realised you are No Good Bitch slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:17:04 PM): im better off without one!! slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:17:22 PM): you are just mad because you cant scam me

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:17:23 PM): No man wants You trust me slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:17:35 PM): lol..thats what you think John Edward (2/22/2011 4:17:36 PM): You will die Lonely John Edward (2/22/2011 4:17:52 PM): WHAT DO YOU HAVE FOR ME TO SCAM YOU LOL slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:17:56 PM): so will you John Edward (2/22/2011 4:18:43 PM): I HAVE MY MONEY BITCH AND I AM GLAD U DID NOT GET……I WONDER WHAT WILL HAVE HAPPENED IF YOU SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN IT John Edward (2/22/2011 4:18:58 PM): YOU WILL GO AND BUY A 3000$ MATTRESS FOOL

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:19:12 PM): you cant smuggle 1.2 million dollars out of the country slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:19:37 PM): and the fact that you could never call….. John Edward (2/22/2011 4:19:40 PM): naive you will stay broke forever hahahaha slja970 1 (2/22/2011 4:20:15 PM): and the flowers ….you are trying but slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:20:23 PM): come on… John Edward (2/22/2011 4:20:27 PM): infact it was God that made all this Happen so I could truely Know the Kind of woman you are

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:20:59 PM): whatever!!!! God opened my eyes to the truth…..who is your God? ? ? John Edward (2/22/2011 4:21:15 PM): GREEDY WOMAN John Edward (2/22/2011 4:21:22 PM): ALL YOU WANT IS MONEY slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:21:51 PM): greedy man..we could go on forever……thi s is pointless …I know the truth John Edward (2/22/2011 4:22:11 PM): YOU WANT MY MONEY COME GET IT slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:22:22 PM): i knew 1.2 million dollars was never going to show up here slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:22:42 PM): you dont have anything I want you idiot John Edward (2/22/2011 4:23:12 PM): LOL U WANT THE MONEY GO FUCK YOURSELF COS NO MAN WANTS YOU..U WHORE

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:23:23 PM): and John Edwards is a US senator John Edward (2/22/2011 4:23:31 PM): LOL John Edward (2/22/2011 4:23:58 PM): GO TO SWITCH BOARD AND SEARCH HOW MANY AMERICANS GO BY THAT NAME FOOL slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:24:09 PM): you cant find anybody who will…thats your problem….you nigerian or whatever you are moron John Edward (2/22/2011 4:24:32 PM): LOL

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:24:55 PM): but you are the only John Edwards who cant speak or write proper english John Edward (2/22/2011 4:25:25 PM): GREEDY FOOL ,,,,,, I KNOW YOU ARE UPSET COS U DID NOT GET MY MONEY I WILL GIVE IT TO THE ORPHANAGE slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:25:53 PM): what a joke you are…. slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:26:16 PM): you need to stop it…really

    hahahaha

    funny
    Me:

    D A N G!
    susan houp:

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:26:17 PM): NEXT TIME YOU MEET A MAN DONT FALL IN LOVE SO FAST COS IT TELLS YOU ARE A FAKE John Edward (2/22/2011 4:26:34 PM): HAHAHAHAHA slja9 701 (2/22/2011 4:26:43 PM): i never loved you slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:26:57 PM): you are the epitomy of stupid John Edward (2/22/2011 4:27:01 PM): YOU LOVED THE MONEY FOOL

    susan houp:

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:27:17 PM): THAT WAS WHY YOU HUSBAND LEFT YOU FOR A BETTER MAN slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:27:30 PM): what money…you dont have any!!!!! John Edward (2/22/2011 4:27:59 PM): I will send you something for food you hungry fool slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:28:04 PM): you get funnier and funnier slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:28:55 PM): i have better things to do then keep doing this….rot in hell you SOB slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:29:10 PM): do not contact me again!!!!

    yup

    and his name is too generic

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:29:14 PM): bye greedy bitchBookmark

    ha Bookmark

  481. Hi there.. I received also this famous letter

    “I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.
    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.
    My son lives with a friend in Miami. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time. Will like you to also send me some pictures of you too.Take care.
    I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words
    Have a good day”

    the mail adress is thomas_welltel@hotmail.com and the son’s Michael’address is lonely_mike122@hotmail.com living with the “big cousin” in Ghana
    the victim “soldier” that he stole the name is EDWARDS (can read the name on the pic)
    he is suppose to be Thomas Edwards Mensah (Mensah is ghana names, coming from his grandfather) ,ex spouse is a black women fron Ghana but sure the kid is perfectly white boy… so this man has also to learn a bit about genetic!!..the meeting site was
    badoo.com
    I’m keeping him occupied chatting and writting with me and sure I’ve got a lot of fun…and in the meantime he is not scamming another woman..
    if you want pic, ask me at madingwa@hotmail.ch

    Tee only way, I’m a bit disapointed is that the soldier the scam stole the pic has a very charming smile..and I will never know a bit about him..

    Regards from Switzerland
    Eve

    • I have been sent this same exact email by 3 different men….They go by Phillip Miller, David Miller, Joseph Rodney…They are all stationed in Iraq….I agree with you the pictures that they send to you is very charming that is why they choose those men’s pictures….I wish that I could find the soldiers in the pictures because that is the man that you really want to feel sorry for.

      • His new alias is Eric Ramos (wesramic@yahoo.com) but he’s adapted the letter slightly and now claims to be a medic stationed in the Sudan.

  482. I started chatting with a soldier using the name as Peter Genthre..He is a scammer hasn’t asked me for any money YET but I’ve already been thru this and know what to look for on the questions and language. Smartdate.com is a big scam on soldier dating. Please make sure this person is also Petier Barker both using yahoo.com BE AWARE LADIES

  483. Ok I got two who is the same Michael Lopez and Steve Lopez is the same person, but I do have a question if anyone please could help! This guy send me mail that I was suppost to forward to someone else yesterday buy looking into all this comments someone posted a name that sound it familiar so I check it and find out is the same guy! Anyways I still have this mail so now what shout I do with it? I meant I can destroy it but wouldnt be easier to send it to someone just to see if someone can do something about this guy? Please let me know

  484. I feel stupid but at the same time I feel really sorry for this soldier that this awful people are using! He even send me pictures of a little boy who he claim be his son! Anyways if anyone could please help me out to find out what to do with this letter and tell me how to post pictures that I was send because believe even though they’re stupid enough to use the same pictures to all of their victims…. Thank you for this post! I’ve would never open my eyes if it wasn’t because I stared reading all of you’ll comments….

  485. I was contacted by so called Robert Haggard on Match.com just three days ago, as soon as I saw the person was just copy pasting messages, I mean, I can’t even type that fast, I suspected right away, then, I started to ask specific things and of course the English was broken, not spelled or even writen correctly.
    I found three other profiles on Match.com, I reported them all, as of today there is still one profile of this scammer using this very cute’s guy picture and I reported it yet once again.
    When will there be technology so this doesn’t happen, so people can’t snag pictures, or copy music files, technology is great, but it is ruining many lives too… not to mentioning, wasting my time and money.

  486. I to have ran across these scams.match.com is loaded with them: claimimg to be military captain.English is broken up in sentences. Have you ever noticed how they call you Angel,Dear,or Pretty. OMG You have got to be kidding! Hereis who i ran into on match.com
    James Young Lake Land,FL jem y@yahoo.com
    Henry Hannett FL,henryhannett@yahoo.com
    run a search good laugh. Both have lost there wives and parents.Claim to have statred A & A children. What ever the Hell that is. Both are very smooth talkers. Tell you everything you want hear but can never give a straight answer to your Q’s. Also say they are on 2nd tour in Iraq getting out soon.Both say they have homes here in Florida with pools,and cars and SUV’, ta boot! Ran a search on Henry-this is what it said” The “Face” of Military Dating Scams-Claims his Mother was head teacher&died.Smooth talker.
    James-Said Mother is teacher& Father worked with UN on peace mission as a medical field personal. Wife of 11yrs died and had to come bk to states to bury her.Left with 14yr old son.Said he was from Lake Land.FL. on one chat then on another said he had a home on the East coast with pool,with new white Linken Cadiac SUV 2011. Did’nt know you could buy a suv on line when you are in Iraq. LOL LOL LOL. So ladies beware they are out there. They all have the same song and dance. Sincerly, Shawna L. Brown of SW Florida. PS: They all have good looking pics. Drop dead hansome at that!! They all are same age range of 48-52

    Take Care and watch thoses on Match.com

  487. FOOOOOOLS!!!!!

  488. Ladys check this out!!! Is the same i’ve read all over on everyone of you guys emails!!!

    Good morning honey and how was your night?. How are the children. I hope you guys are doing
    great and to say I missed you will leave most of my feelings
    un-expressed. If only I could have come up with the right words to
    describe the depth of this beautiful feeling that I have for you, I
    would have whispered them to you the first time we chart. The best
    thing that I can do is to show you now. I like you so much, It has not
    been long since we met but all has changed in my life. I experience
    more excitement, feel like the happiest man on the earth, and think of
    you all the time. It is not just at bedtime, or upon waking up but at
    my work, during driving, and at all times. sometimes I sit
    and without any reason call your name loudly, until realizing that you
    are far away, and then smiling about the sweet thoughts of you.
    Michael Lopez

  489. Good morning honey and how was your night?. How are the children I hope you guys are doing
    great and to say I missed you will leave most of my feelings
    un-expressed. If only I could have come up with the right words to
    describe the depth of this beautiful feeling that I have for you, I
    would have whispered them to you the first time we chart. The best
    thing that I can do is to show you now. I like you so much, It has not
    been long since we met but all has changed in my life. I experience
    more excitement, feel like the happiest man on the earth, and think of
    you all the time. It is not just at bedtime, or upon waking up but at
    my work, during driving, and at all times. sometimes I sit
    and without any reason call your name loudly, until realizing that you
    are far away, and then smiling about the sweet thoughts of you.
    Michael Lopez 

    Oh!! And because I call him a liar he said his name is Michael Steve Lopez!!! So watch out girls for either or!!! But I have heard different stories I would post them to you all so you guys know how this sick person works

  490. HAHAHAHAHAA, you must be one of the scammers

  491. hello

    I’ve got pictures from a guy who’s saying that he is a ssg based in bagdad at the moment ,but i dont believe a word of what he is saying after asking me some money.If you want me to send you few pistures of him just contact me and im gonna make a pleasure to send back the pictures ,coz what i read yet i’ve seen this from this supposly.He is using email ocansey1woods@hotmail.com,and is son (lol)its ocansey94@live.com.I wish you can trap them coz now im still talking with them but since i said no for the money he comes rarely compare every day !!loll.i will keep talking with him to have more pictures about him.Please answer me coz i really need to know hows the man on pictures that i have .thanks

    • Hi I have pics of guy in baghdad. Says he is Robert Badley. Not the same story but would like to compare photos. No longer corresponding with him after I refused to send money. That was March 2011
      Renee

    • please send me the picture so i can see if it is the same “solider” i have been talking to

      • can you please sedn me the picture as well

  492. I have been contacted by some dude claiming to be in Bahgdad in the Marines. 3 emails, but I am suspicious by nature and found your site. He is using the name Jeffrey Berrera. Contacted me on Facebook and there is a picture there of him with fatigues on. Looks of Spanish descent and if you enlarge the pic there is a woman with big boobs in the background thru a doorway. Looks like she doesn’t have any pants…lmao. He also has a yahoo email. Anyone being contacted by this dude also? His story is close to what I have read here, but hasn’t asked for money.

  493. I believe my soon to be ex-wife is being scammed by a blackwater/cia contractor named William (EUGENE)Gene Greg you probably can alter the spelling of that name in many ways. She is completly taken by his story, says he ownes 2 homes 1 in Chicago the other in St.Louis has 3 sisters. If anyone has heard of this person/scammer please reply.

  494. Secondly they use PALRINGO, SKYPE VOICE, OR HE SAYS A SAT PHONE.

  495. CJ: Just saw this story on my local news . . . likely The Denver Post will have something tomorrow. Figured you might want to follow up with it . .

    http://www.9news.com/news/article/184358/339/Scammers-use-dead-soldiers-IDs-to-lure-women

  496. TONITE I JUST FOUND OUT THAT I WAS SCAM! I MET A GUY HIS PICTURE IS ON HERE SEVERAL TIMES, VERY HANDSOME MAN AND IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SITE! WE MET ON MATCH.COM AND HE CLAIMED HIS NAME TO BE STEVE LAHM IN THE ARMY MET AND WILL RETIRE IN 2 MONTHS AS THESE TWO MONTHS HAS PASTED WE GOT CLOSE WE EMAILED ALL THE TIME SENT PICTURES THE ONES ON HERE ARE THE ONES HE SENT ME WHEN I SAW THEM ON HERE I WAS SHAKING BECAUSE I FELT SO USED HE PHOTO SHOPPED ONE PICTURE AND ADDED A COMPUTER BESIDE HIM AS HE WAS SITTING IN A CHAIR AND ON THE SCREEN WAS A PICTURE OF ME I SENT SO I KNEW HE WAS REAL THEN AT THE BEGINNING HE ASKED RIGHT AWAY FOR A PHONE FROM ME AND ANYTHING ELSE I WOULD SEND HIM SO I GOT THIS HUGE PACKAGE SENT TO HIM I WAS HOOKED HE SAID ALL THE RIGHT STUFF HE SAID HE WAS AN E-7 SERGENT AND WANTED TO MARRY ME BY THE THIRD WEEK HE WAS ALL ALONG TRYING TO KEEP ME INTERESTED IN HIM I FEEL SO USED! SENDING THE PACKAGE WAS COSTLY BUT DID IT FEELING SO HAPPY TO HAVE MET HIM AGAIN HE SAID ALL THE RIGHT STUFF HE SAID NOTHING COULD BE SENT TO HIM TO HIS BASE BECAUSE IT WAS TOP SECRET SO IT HAD TO GO THROUGH A CARRIER THAT LIVED IN GHUNA SO I SENT IT THERE AND THIS PERSON WAS TO TAKE IT THERE I BELIEVE IT AGAIN HE WAS SO CONVINCING HE DID SEND ME A RING BACK BUT SAID I HAD TO PAY SHIPPING SO I DID THAT TOO! AS TIME WENT AND CLOSER FOR HIS RETIREMENT CAME HE TOLD ME A STORY THAT HIS DAD LEFT HIM A RETIREMENT PACKAGE FROM A COMPANY THAT HIS DAD INVESTED MONEY INTO A MINING COMPANY AND STEVE WAS TO GET THE MONEY SINCE HE WAS THE ONLY CHILD LEFT IT WAS 650,000 THAT HE WAS TO RECIEVE AND A LAWYER WAS TO BRING IT TO ME IN THE STATES HE MADE THIS STORY SO BELIEVABLE I COULDNT BELIEVE HOW WONDERFUL THIS WOULD BE AND I MEAN HE KNEW EVERY DETAIL EVERY MOVE THAT WAS GONNA BE MADE THE LAWYER AND THE COMPANY MANAGER CALLED ME FROM GHANA AND WE TALKED ABOUT IT IT JUST SEEMED REAL BUT HE KEPT ASKING FOR MORE AND MORE MONEY FOR FEES FOR IT TO BE PROCESSED AND FEES THRU CUSTOMS AND IT NEVER STOPPED I WAS UP FOR NITES WORRIED AND SICK HE WASNT GONNA GET THIS PACKAGE SO I SENT MONEY I FELL SO HARD FOR HIM AND BELIEVE AND WHEN IT WAS THE DAY FOR RETIREMENT HE SAID IT GOT MOVED TO THE NEXT WEEK THERE IS SO MUCH MORE AT THE BEGINNING THAT WERE RED FLAGS BUT HE WAS SO CONVINCING THAT I JUST DIDNT LISTEN TO MYSELF THESE SCAMMERS ARE GOOD MY DAUGHTER FOUND THIS WEBSITE AND WE SAW STEVES PICTURES ON IT AND KNEW THEN HE WAS SCAMMING THE SAD THING IS THESE PICTURES OF THIS GUY I FEEL SO HARD FOR IS REALLY A ARMY GUY AND INNOCENT IN THE WHOLE THING AND THAT IS SO SAD FOR HIM AND HIS FAMILY THE SCAMMERS THAT IS DOING THIS TO ME LIVE IN GHANA I AM IN THE PROCESS OF GETTING AN FBI AND FINDING OUT MORE ON THIS THIS IS WRONG TO DO THIS ALOT OF HURT FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS AND MONEY GONE IM SO SORRY FOR ANYONE ELSE THAT HAS WENT THRU WHAT I HAVE THIS IS A TERRIBLE THING
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  497. can any say if this address is real usarmytransit_dept01@consultant.com
    this was the sight i was sent to.
    to request leave for the guy am chatting with
    they wrote me back, and send me a form to fill out saying i will have to pay a small cost which i will get back once the person rrival is confirmed at the
    military base in United States.

    is this a scam i need to.

    • email me the form and lets compare to see it is the same as I rec’d. I looked at web site with Army forms and I could not find it on that web site.

      Porshacat@aol.com

  498. Im still searching how to find the pictures that i have coz on pictures this man is real.where do they go in site to find those pictures of military,got some right next to chopper,got some inside office ,got some at is house ?????where do they get those one ,please answer me someone ..thanks he is still talking with me and supposed to retires in march 10 or 15 !!!Must have somewhere we can check and have site of pictures coz they need to take it from sowhere scammer.thaks to evryone …..CJ I WOULD LIKE TO SEND YOU THE PICTURES OF THIS SUPPOSLY GUY BUT I DONT KNOW HOW THANKS FOR ANSWERING

    • I’m sorry this guy has hooked you into believing him. I got scammed by a Girl with a Passport photo and everything, by time I had “her” send me a recent piture with a card saying my name I realised it was a retouched photo which clued me into looking at all the other “Proof Photos of ID. The retouched picture had the head of the Girl I had feelings for with this poorly done “I love you Chance” attached to it. When I confronted the person he confessed and said he was sorry and was a poor African Kid who needed money and the person I sent the money to was his real sister as well as her school ID etc that was all retouched with the Girl’s picture I was attracted to. He tried to turn it around and have me feel sorry for him by calling me daddy, real strange scene. I was out a $150.00 but glad for it because I quit trying to find love on the internet and concentrate on real people who you can get to know and meet. Good Luck and take care. Best regards Chance

      • Hello again
        Like i said earlier in march 28 ,i didnt send any money no where but the thing is the military man pictures that i have ,this guy exist and i was wondering where do scammer take pictures from them .How can i serch for the military man ,the real one ,im still searching and still dont get nothing .I wish i could just reach this guy.THANKS AGAIN
        Regards
        Chantal

  499. I was wondering if anyone knows anything about a guy claiming to be Sgt. Jeff Wilganoski?

    • Hi,
      Im at this moment talking to a Sgt Jeff Wilganoski, well claims to be, lost his with to canccer & has a 10 year old son John. that nasty filthy specimen is nothing more than a BUG, l so feel sorry for the “real” Jeff Wilganoski.
      This F@#ker posing to be Jeff needs a steel cap boot up his arse. He managed to gain $250, which l was prepared to lose, then with his fancy “department of defence” paperwork he says he needs $2750.00 for transit leave & liberty pass. wait til this Mudda Focker rings me or messages me. l 1st had my suspicions when he kept asking me what time it was here (Australia) many times l told him the time difference & when l asked him what time it was there (Afganistan) he wouldnt use the 24 hour clock, which l know to be out or ord, So if you smell something ooky, follow the stench, you’d be glad you did.

  500. Hi,
    I received email today from a guy calling himself ‘Greg Massingale’ and a photo in military uniform. Checked him out on Google and it seems that this scammer has even posted a Facebook profile using the same name. I realised this when I sent a message warning the poor guy & the message was sent from myself to me!
    The language used in the email was so poor and there is no way this guy was an English speaker.
    I checked out this site, but his photo is not posted on here as having been used in a scam.
    The email address used is lovescent01@yahoo.com
    I thought this was also suspicious.
    What really concerns me is how the hell these scammers got my personal email address in the first place.
    I have been on a dating web site recently, but dont remember receiving messages from this guy until today.
    Ladies beware.
    One thing I was always taught is that a real man will look after you and will NEVER ask for money.
    Also, if he was a genuine soldier then the US army would be looking after him and he wouldn’t need your money.
    So far I haven’t been asked for money. I wonder what tomorrow’s mail will bring….!

    • Wow i cant believe ive been sucked in with the same Greg Massingale. Like you i have been on a dating site and he contacted me via the site with the same email address lovescent01@yahoo.com sent me pictures of him in his military suit and pictures of him and his daughter and telling me his wife was killed in an automobile accident a few years back.
      He has emailed me daily with his eternal love
      for me.
      As yet he hasnt asked for any money but think il string him along for a few more days
      Thank goodness for this site and all women beware of the illusive GREG MASSINGALE

    • I have also been scammed by this guy using same e mail address. I told him i was un employed so he didnt persue asking for money.i was subjected to similar week before by some one going ny the name of brad coyle. so beware girls

  501. I’ve been scammed he found me on biker or not.com using The Name Tom Collins he has photo’s of him on a harley. I knew it, but sent the computer anyway. Even gave a little web Cam Action…Hey it was fun for a while, then a real man showed up at my door step….

  502. Sergeant Tom Collins Honolulu infantry team leader with company B 1st Battalion 27 Th infantry regiment Wolf Hounds 2ND Striker Brigade Combat Team Warrior 25Th infantry Division MND Kabul. This is what is going by..I also have photo’s I see here as well.

    • Using two emails with me Sgttomcollins.com sgttomcollins4000@yahoo.com
      Likes to web cam…Have all photo’s and emails…if you are interested in a good read…One hell of a good Scam…Did not fall for the money his dad left him..in the sum of 40,000

  503. anyone heard of Lt Gary Search? from Colorado Springs. He states that he is fire fighter in Iraq. He is good with words I must say. In his intro he stated that he was engaged once, but walked in on the woman he was to marry with another man. His CO is Col Troy Donelly.

    He has sent pics with a current date on them, but then who knows.

    and question.. the phone scam.. the number he call me from 3 times is 234-706-6643796, I know little or nothing about these phones and the nubmbers. any information is welcome

    • the number is Nigera.. that is the code if you look up country codes. Donnelly was the name of the person in the uk my mate was ask to send money too. Colorada Springs seems to be a popular place for where they come from… I am sopeaking to at least 3 of them from there…. Keeps them from scamming someone else or at least slows them down lol

      • thanks, for the information..

  504. Been Scammed by this Guy going by the name Sergeant Tom Collins Honolulu infantry team leader with company B 1st Battalion 27 Th infantry regiment Wolf Hounds 2ND Striker Brigade Combat Team Warrior 25Th infantry Division MND Kabul, he uses sgttomcollins@yahoo.com and sttomcollins4000@yahoo.com ….He has asked for money for a computer, Send to address name:oyelowo babatunde
    19 elmham crescent.,l10 7LH,liverpool
    country;United Kingdom. He has also used armyprotalcall@rocketmail.com..Has asked me to give him my SS# to deposit 40,000. This guy was so good had me believing for a minute. But you can’t break a biker chicks heart we don’t have one to give. Found me on Bikerornot.com

  505. Hi Lucy

    I was scammed by Sgt Mark Donnelly from Colorado but he asked me to request leave for him it was to Col Troy Gilson, his english was very good but its funny how all the names they use are the same just changed around. He called me but the number was always unavailable, he had nigerian accent and when I asked him about it he said his voice was disguised to protect him from the taliban. I think we have been chatting to the same guy.

  506. I recently joined girldateforfree.com and have lost count how many ‘american military’ men have contacted me within the last 24 hours!!! All of them have poor broken English. The one I had to laugh the hardest at was a guy called John who sent me a message…he has obviously copied and pasted the same message to multiple woman…however on this occassion he has really screwed up as within the messgae were TWO messages..the same story but different names..lmao..i have copied and pasted the entire message here just in case he is contacting other woman.

    born dallas texas, on march 23, 1971, i grew up in dallas tx . my parents Steven, a medical equipment technician, and Rosemary, a preschool teacher, live in tx.i have one younger siblings, i attended John F. Kennedy High School in Cedar Rapids

    Someone that is Honest,Caring,Trustworthy,Lovely,Romantic.. a Woman that as Goals, Dreams and also know what she want in life with a great sense of humor

    I am MATLOCK 39. born dallas texas, on march 23, 1971, i grew up in dallas tx . my parents Steven, a medical equipment technician, and Rosemary, a preschool teacher, live in tx.i have one younger siblings, i attended John F. Kennedy High School in Cedar Rapids i completed my basic training at Fort Benning Georgia. I am in the Infantry MOS 11B. I am now in the 2nd Calvary Division stationed at Ft. Hood Texas. My unit is A Co. 2nd plt. 2-8 CAV 1st Brigade, 1st Cav Division. I am currently deployed to Iraq i lost my mom when i was 10 un my dad just of last year march in a motor accident with my wife kids un brother zach who was also in the military before he was shot here in iraq un was send back to state.i dont like remembering the past cos it makes me feel bored un cry over un over again how can i be happy again after losing my family i couldnt hide my tears when i heard the accident.i have to be sent back to state to take alook at what happened i burst into tears.i spent a month before coming back to iraq again since then my life has been a disaster i really have to stand un be happy again lost evrything my kids, my wife and evrything i find it hard to forget this but cant cos i still got the feeling inside me.how can i live without someone in my life i really have to love again i wonna love un be loved in return i need someone to bring light into my heart i dont wonna be lonely im tired of thinking i wonna come back home un meet my half im looking for Someonethat is Honest,Caring,Trustworthy,Lovely,Romantic.. a Woman that as Goals, Dreams and also know what she want in life with a great sense of humor.tell me all i have to know about you okay hope you are not bored reading my life story

    I am jack 45. born dallas texas, on march 23, 1965, i grew up in dallas tx . my parents Steven, a medical equipment technician, and Rosemary, a preschool teacher, live in tx.i have one younger siblings, i attended John F. Kennedy High School in Cedar Rapids i completed my basic training at Fort Benning Georgia. I am in the Infantry MOS 11B. I am now in the 2nd Calvary Division stationed at Ft. Hood Texas. My unit is A Co. 2nd plt. 2-8 CAV 1st Brigade, 1st Cav Division. I am currently deployed to Iraq,am here looking for honest,caring and trustworthy woman,through this searching your profile caught my eyes and am interested in it,for fast and talk and good conversation you can send your email address or you add me on yahoo messenger as j t h o r t o [blocked details]

  507. Hi Helen..we talked about Sgt. Mark Donnelly on IM. Hope you are doing well. Let’s talk. email or IM me.I miss our chats.

  508. Getting scammed by Sgttomcollins@yahoo.com and sgttomcollins4000@ yahoo.com claiming to be in afghanistan in Kubal..at the end of the emails..he has this attached to it Sent from Tunnel Satellite Network Device.Kabul,Afghanistan He also is using the pictures from this site names are hinded by monster can. I have two address in which he has asked money be sent and a computer…Now he wants to deposit money into my bank account.

    • Hi All,

      Having read all these I do not feel as bad as I have been in the last couple of days. I too have been scammed.

      My Scammer went by the name of SGT. Steven Bobby, Combat engineering dept. Weapons Repair, stationed in Kabhul Afghanistan. Lives in Washington DC, Lost his wife 2 years ago to cancer. No Kids, an empty heart yearning to be filled with love.

      Using Yahoo Messenger stevbobby@yahoo.com
      Can also be seen on Facebook under stevbooby02@yahoo.com

      The below link will show you what identity he is using
      http://www.facebook.com/album.php?profile=1&id=100002072850790
      Unfortunately he really sucked me in and I did end up sending some money through Western union. Then he got greedy and asked for a considerably large amount. I became sus. and called the Military Dept of the US Embassy here in Australia. They told me it was a scam. I called Western union and had the payment stopped. Fortunately it was not too late.

      I am absolutely appalled that these scumbags are using actual photos and names of real US soldiers who a out there fighting for their country. These people (and forgive me) should be caught and taken to these war zones and used as human shields, because that’s all they are good for.

      To all you real soldiers out there keep up the great work and please stay safe.

      To everyone who has been a victim of these scammers, I am sure you and all intelligent, rational people who have had their emotions toyed with, stand tall and band together in the battle to bring these lowlifes to there knees.

      Cheers

      Too Trusting

  509. Has anyone been scammed by a man who claims he is stationed in Afghanistan in the Navy working in “Special Operations”? He goes by the name Richard McClaren and his email address is rmilclaren@yahoo.com
    He claims that he was born in Ireland, but came to the United States later on. I have saved all of his emails.

  510. I will be brief. Watch for scammer going by Michael Smith. Was on OK Cupid. When he emailed me there was another soldiers picture in the corner from a facebook page…also going by Michael Smith and trying to scam a very nice lady on facebook. Same jackass…different pictures of real U.S. Soldiers. I believe he stole the real guy profile from somewhere too…because it was written well and appeared real…but then when we started chat…WOW…lots of ignorance…misinformation about the U.S….plain flat lies…and bad English of course. Bummer…wish I could find the real soldier and let him know…I will be forwarding the pictures soon…because I did not see them on here yet…good luck to you all and God Bless our REAL soldiers!!!

  511. If anyone comes across lt Gary Search, firefighter. From Colorado Springs is a scam. His CO Col Troy Donnelly, and Col Jonny Fowler- scam.

    I was sucked in for an amount that may cause me loss my home. I feel really stupid.

    • dear Lucy

      please don’t beat yourself up. we have all in one way or another fell for these scammers. i have been outing scammers for months now and still every once in awhile one of them will still get to me emotionaly. and I am sure that if I could I would probably send him money, they are that good. CHIN UP GIRL…you are not alone.

      Lynda

  512. I read about this guy up here called Mike Jones and I know him as Mike Smith,47 years old from Warwick,Rhode Island.It’s the same photo he use,but I have 2 more photos of him and I have also seen him on web cam 3 times,he was the same person,he is white.I have recorded video of him and also snap photos of him when he shows on cam.We chat every day in almost 2 years now.
    I have given him money,yes,alot of money.After seeing this in here I know I have been scammed by him.Everytime he call me it shows private.
    His ip adress have been from Nigeria,UK and the USA and the ip adr have been change in a few days.I know he is not a fake person cause I have seen him on cam.
    I have found him on other dating sites and now he is on Tagged and he call him self Bently M.
    Hope to hear from others who have been contacted by him.

  513. Hi ladies
    Thanks so much for putting this information on the site. Like others, it has made me feel better. I was ABOUT to be scammed. A little cautious because of the intensity and grammar, I was only about 10 days into chatting. During our chat on YM last night, IRWIN CAMPBELL suggested we should start talking on the phone. To achieve this, I’d need to have something down to my phone “at my end” and pay AU$1690 (australian dollars). When I said I was in New Zealand he very conveniently converted it for me!! Instantly – I went cold. That’s when I found this site – thank you so much. He’s now “investigating” for me how I can get this phone thing sorted …. nice of him!

    I don’t see his face on this page, but he has sent photos – so if someone can tell me how to forward them – we can add him to the scum-bag-scammer list!

    I imagine he’ll contact me again on YM this evening to tell me of his investigations. I have no doubt he’ll need me to send him the money! A secure line in NZ obviously needs cash in Afganistan.

    Any ideas how I should handle? Just delete him – or keep him busy?

    Thanks again. Stay strong everyone

  514. I was scammed by a “Tony Morgan”. The ad was on Match.com and I was soooo excited to see who had contacted me. We emailed back and forth for about 2 1/2 weeks. We also Instant Messaged several times a day. I was trying to think of things that this scammer used that were “different”. There was mention of the Swallow from Capistrano. There was also an excessive use of “Baby”. The story was he was divorced with a 6 year old . The mother was into drugs. The big red flag was that “he” closed my Match.com account. How does that even happen. I got mad and said you NEVER do anything without my permission. I was promised a package, however I found out too quick and they cancelled my package. This I am sure was the “hook”. I let them know I know the S*** they were pulling and gave them a piece of my mind. I would really like to meet the guy in the picture! I also filed a report with my local police dept. and will try to reach the FBI and Attorney General. I really would like to do some advocacy work about this and give talks to women’s groups. As I said to the scammers, “their time is coming and they will be judged”. I will pass the word to EVERYONE I know, so this scam is exposed. Thanks for reading. Val

  515. I got scammed too. Very diappointing! Only into it a few days – the name they used is Kevin Mckenne. Like other stories, got contacted on Match, match profile no longer active – it was mermaid_desire1, claimed to be a widower, orphan, retiring in 2 months, funky grammar like that of a non-english as first language speaking person. Email and yahoo messenger they used was shoot_stars1. Evasive in answering questions and coming on sappy too early. Didn’t ask for money but did ask for my work email. Luckily didn’t give it to him. Said his birthday was soon so I asked if I could send him something – gave me a address for a Mr. Felix in UK that could expedite, said APO for him was closed. Asked for a teddy bear and little things. I didn’t send. Have pics of the soldier, will send to ths site.

    • This sounds almost exactly like the person that has contacted me for about a month. Widow, orphan, retiring in 2 mos. I also have pics can we compare?

  516. hi guys wow so now wondering if the guy im talking to is for real.met him on a dating site and been chatting on u got it yahoo..any one here had contact from a bruce pedersen of popular colorado springs .gonna try and get him to email me something so i can do a ip check,lol think its wishful thinking he is on the level.

  517. I too have just realised I was being set up to be scammed by SSG Max Ridings. I will do my best to send the photos I have, the so-called leave grant(stilted english) and also supposed $1.2million given by the Iraq govt that he needs to get out of the country. I felt right from the start this was a scam and was on guard all the time. The wording was changing and was hard to keep a track of. When I found the exact same letter by someone else I got the proof I knew was there. I need to find out how to check his IP address as I have several emails from him and all sweet as pie…. that he loves me etc. If it sounds too good to be true it usually is. Girls we are vulnerable and easy prey but we have to keep sites like these open and let people know asap. He joined dating site as Lovewithtrust10. Again his name is Max Ridings. FB has same photos and no details about him… That sent alarm bells to me to start with. I kept thinking it was a scam but I had no proof but now I do… awesome thanks everyone.

  518. seems the chap i was on about in the name of bruce pedersen is another scammer using a good soldiers name .searched the net found he also uses the names eddie pedersen,col kelvin pedersen,joe pedersen and Jude Gacia Pedersen…does anyone know some legit sites for writing and emailing soldiers in iraq and those sorts of places maria

  519. I to like all the above stories. The scammers name Gary Witt claims to be a US Army Sgt Commander.Also asked for money, promised gifts ans then when I had no money to give, which I would not of anyway. Just a warning to all potential victims.
    Name – Gary Witt
    Rank – Sgt Commander US Army
    Location _ Ghana Africa
    If anyone else has had contact with this low life, please submit a response.
    Thank You!

    • this scammer called Witt is the one who has made a pathetic comment on another page of cj’s recently…beware of him

  520. Has anyone ever received interest from Captain Philip C. Grishen, claiming to be an UN peacekeep in Africa?

    • Stacy, can you send me photos of Grishen? I have a feeling my photos are being used again.

  521. Drew Moore started emailing me this past weekend. drewmoore_1001@ymail.com
    I have been playing long with his scamming as he isn’t aware that I have friends in the military, friends & a fiance killed there & family member with Interpol. He said that he had been shot & that he is in the hospital & when I brought up contact information, he said they are not allowed to call & asked for photos of his injuries & he said he isn’t allowed to take photos. I know for a fact that this is all crap & I had mentioned about Nigerians scamming people & then he said he will contact me when back in the States, etc. I have now been copying & pasting the poems that they copy & paste in return. I have photos of the supposedly Drew Moore as he name has been removed from his uniform. He is supposedly 40 years old & he looks no older than someone that is 25. He & others are using Myspace. I received mail from another Major Krim the same day & have again received mail from someone new. I said as well that I don’t have any money as that is what they are after & have written in French as well as English. He hasn’t responded to a single question that I have asked. I am giving back what he’s giving me. Bastard. Some of these photos of are troops that have been killed & it is sick. Is there anyway that these indiviuals can be charged & have prison time?

  522. Search emails by this link:

    http://www.everify.com/results/email/?email=&Search=Search

    Search IP addresses by this link:

    http://www.ip2location.com/1.2.3.4

    these are all great links to look at:

    http://bustanut2006.xanga.com/730891603/con-artists-using-pics-of-dead-military-men-to-scam-lonely-women-out-of-money–break-their-hearts/

    http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=77&p=170943

    http://www.delphifaq.com/faq/male_scammers/f6250.shtml?p=68

    http://www.armytimes.com/news/2011/02/army-online-scammers-pretending-to-be-soldiers-021511w/

    News media need to make the public aware of this & maybe posting the photos that are being used on the television or the news websites. I feel sick for the photos that are being used of deceased troops. The poor families that have to live through this again and again.

    • My thoughts are with Brian’s family. We are many who have been ripped off by scam artists who claim to be military man and we have lost both money and our hearts. When I read about Brian and I hear his father speak, so will the tears. I hope the day will come when these impostors may suffer for what they’ve done. It appears more and more and I hope through all the writings that we can save someone from falling into the hands of an impostor. And Stacey Chapman, I would say, I think of you, greetings and hugs from Anki

  523. how do we add a picture and is there a way of the soldiers concerned being informed they are being used by scammers .

  524. I have been scammed & Iam still being scammed as I write this message ….BUT YOU SEE I KNOW HES A SCAM ARTIST ….NOW !
    I want to share this story as stupid as I may sound for falling for this guys line of crap !He contacted me at the first of the year 2011 on yahoo messanger he IM’d me out of nowhere I started responding to him once he told me about being in the military he clamed he was in afghanistan & had been there for 2 years ,he said he was a sergent training afghanistan military police …special forces guy …Email address
    marine_miller007@yahoo .com. The next thing i know hes e-mailing me several messages & telling me about himself ..sending me pitures of himself & his son rayon …Oh ya this guy told me his name is Michael William Miller : born October 12th 1961 & had been in the military his whole life & was ready to retire as soon as his mission in afghanistan was complete …hoping for july 2011 but home for christmas 2011 for sure ! He than after a couple of weeks started talkin about a phone so we could talk to each other & hear each others voices…but befour that I wanted to send him a package with goodies in it …I want him to have it for valentines day 2011 …so I go buy trail mix ,granola ,gum,candy kisses ,a pillow spray it with my purfume & 2 misical valentines card that had a heart blowin kisses & when you open it it played I FEEL GOOD..so good I’ve got you !!! it cost me $ 10.00 just for the card …after spending around $100.00 I sent the package ..but not to Mike miller he said to send it to his troop contact in charge of mail & packages for the troops in that area …He has me send it to the jerk named …ERIC Hornugah P.O BOX KN6240.Kaneshie city:accra country:Ghana. zipcode 00233. It cost me another $110.00 to send the package to him …but I think oh well I really want him to have it …Feel liove for valentines day ya know ….within 2 weeks he contacks me email telling me customes is holding the package and that they are demanding fees for him to recieve it ….what the hell I tell him this is stupid …but like a fool I send him the $ 150.00 for him to recieve it …he tells me after I sent the money that he got it & loved everything in the package. a week later he starts in with money for the phone …again like a fool I want to hear his voice now & put a voice to the man Iam chatting with on yahoo messanger…guess what I send $300.00 for the phone & all is good he starts to call me about 3 times a week …after a month well he needs money now for airtime on this roaming international phone he had to have so he could talk to me ….so the fool sens another$250.00 all is good & hes callin were learning more about each others children & familys …(ya right ) Iam so stupid…anyways one night he starts to tell me he has a seceret he wants to share with me …he starts to tell me of this GOLD he has stashed in a sercurity company in ghanna & needs to move it because of the change in goverement over there …want to guess where iam going with this ? next he sends me a certificate for the gold but he don’t send it his buddy Eric sends it …its a joke Iam including it along with pitures of the real man he saids he is …WISHES HE COULD BE !!!
    I say to him certificate is a joke the security company one the certificate is a scam company it don’t exsist in the real world ! he’s confused & now he is going to get on a chopper go to libya & than get a hum V & drive to ghanna to see eric & what the hells going on with the company that is holding the gold ….I tell him to please wait & think thing over driving over there seemed stupid ! …THIs really gets crazy now …2 days go by I do not hear from him …than at 5 pm at my work but on my cell phone I get a call from him …he is screamming HELP ME BABY …HELP ME !!! I’ve been captured by insergents they are holding me hostage !!! hes cryin & begging them for his life …as he sounded as if he was being torchered ….I still hear his screems that keep me up at night… be said please baby do what they say they will KILL ME !! its me life BABY PLEASE HWLP ME !!! then some mini hitler gets on the phone said lissen to me madum! I want $20.000.00 in 24 hours or we will kill him …we will cut a finger every hour & then we will start on his toes you have 24 hours ….I say PLease !!! I don’t have this kind of money & let me tell you I was sick could throw up …A real mess ..I told a friend at work who new about him from me sharing my stories about him ….she said mary please this sounds like a scam !!! They called me about 10 times that day it was crazy but i said I would see what I could do as I wanted to contact police & yahoo & military & who ever I could to help him ….you see I still believed he was in danger !!! after 10 hours go by it 4am in the morning I get a call from Mike miller again only now he sounds like he is in really bad shape as if he had been beatin badly…. I say why are you calling me …why not military …won’t they be looking for you staff sergent and all ? he said my phone was the only one in the phone & only I could save his life ….WELL BULL
    #*?*#* I said I will contact his friend he was going to see Eric in Ghanna .I still have not heard from Eric ….well hes really concerned about his friend WOW!!!! no responce ! I missed 15 calls yesterday from MIKE MILLER I left my phone at home …I work for a living and can’t believe this crap is happin to me …last phone call’s last night 2 missed I won’t ever pick it up again I can’t handle the fake sounds of someone I thought I cared about being torcherd …its only me getting torchered !!! I hope this story will help other woman !!! I hope no one else will have to lissen to someone being torchered even if its fake !!!! Please somone let me know how to get the pitures of the man who calls himself Mike MIller 007 & Eric Hornugah..email address esix_us@yahoo.com….posted on this site …PLEASE HELP ME TO HELP OTHERS !…
    oh ya last but not least …the help I requested from yahoo to help me because I was being scammed on there site …I asked them to monitor my chats & emails & for a fee of $38.00 they will help do that ….WHAT !!!! $38.00 do they get a piece of the pie from people getting ripped off I told them I will be closing out my account ..but for now I need to keep it open because Iam still being contacted by these ass holes !!! Please someone contact me ASAP. mraniolo61@ yahoo.com…Thank YOU !

  525. I was contacted a few days ago on facebook by a John Russell who is 33yo and his photos are clearly two different people (in my opinion anyway) the first inbox was he cherishes my profile and is looking for a life partner and I thought straight away is this guy having me on or what. I wrote him back and then last night started researching the net and have come across all this information and didn’t realise people do this all the time. I am disgusted and feel sick that woman and men have been scammed it’s terrible. So I wrote him last night and told him I wasn’t interested in a relationship and haven’t heard anything so hopefully he took the hint. If you want pictures let me know and I’ll try and work out how to do it.

  526. Has anyone out there heard of this MIKE MILLER …marine_miller007 @ yahoo.com or his scamming buddy that recieves the money Eric Hornugah…esix_us@yahoo.com …Mike miller just called again I guess they will keep him alive until I answer the phone and tell them when the money is comming …LOl
    NEVER ASS HOLES !!!!!!!!!!

  527. http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/profile.php?id=100002109781876 Oh look i found another rivera on facebook paul this time

  528. Hi Brenda,
    I think the Micheal Smith you mentioned is the same one that is trying to scam me. He is on FB under the name of Micheal Smith Roberts and is supposedly a colonel in Afghanistan. His e-mail is mikesmith1084@yahoo.com. He is coming over to see me end of this month or nxt…..I await with eager antisipacion (not)…lol

  529. HELLO

    HAS ANY ONE EVER HEART OF JAMES SCOTT PEDERSEN. SUPPOSE TO BE A CAPTAIN IN THE ARMY AND STATIONED IN IRAQ.

  530. HELLO AGAIN,
    JAMES SCOTT PEDERSEN, OR CAPTAIN. HAS A YOUNG DAUGHTER LIVING IN FLORIDA WITH A RELATIVE. WAS A MARINE AND THEN JOINED THE ARMY. SOUND FAMILAR TO ANYONE. SAYS HE IS 46 YEARS OLD.

    • Yes, I too have been scammed by James Scott Pedersen. DO NOT talk with this man. His daughter will soon be diagnosed with leukemia and will need to you do send money for a flight and a transplant. I was just asked for money yesterday. Have been receiving multiple phone calls from the “doctor” and also from a phone number in Nigeria. PLEASE LADIES – DO NOT TALK TO THESE MEN!!!! I feel for it too, but thankfully I am only out money for a Blackberry. I was ready to send money for the daughter and thankfully a friend happened to tell me about these scams. I owe her my sanity for catching this before it was too late.

  531. sara if you have a pic look up bruce pedersen or major robert pedersen or major robert carl pedersen on facebook and see if they are same people feeling says they will be maria

    • HI MARIA

      THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE INFO. YES, ITS THE SAME PERSON. THE REASON I WANTED INFO IS BECAUSE OF A DEAR FRIEND OF MINE. HER NAME IS TAMMY. SHE HAS BEEN TALKING WITH THIS PERSON FOR A FEW MONTHS. SHE WAS WONDERING IF I GAVE YOU HER EMAIL ADDRESS WOULD YOU BE WILLING TO EAMIL HER. LET ME KNOW AND I WILL SEND IT TO YOU.

      • hey sara yeah no probs ,hope she has not been taken too much in by him i kinda sussed it after a couple of days

  532. Add Jeff Durama to the list.
    Same scenario. Met on okcupid date site
    jeffdurama@yahoo.com instantly given, in love with me in less than a week
    Accounts frozen in states (he is in Dubai)we can talk via phone if I send $850.00 via Western Union to Karen Turner in Pa. Some lind of service or ? did not do found this site good job ladies….heartbreaking situation, but for some reason I am actually relieved to be rid of him….he/she was good tho, really drew me in.
    Oh well

  533. I guess there is nobody that gives a crap ….not even 1 responce on this site ! I’ve tried to report this & its easier to rob a bank ….I was hoping someone could tell me how to handle this…. but I guess people just like to read & tell there own storys.I have tried local police …JOKE….Yahoo…..another Joke ….
    fraud watchers …no responce….& now this site …no responce….Iam glad to see so much support …..Thanks for nothing !

    • You can report it to the CID (US Army Criminal Investigative Command at http://WWW.cid.army.mil and to the Federal Trade Commission at http://www.ftc.gov. However, because most of these scams are being done by nigerians it is hard for our government to stop it. We just need to educate as many people as possible about the scams

    • I just read your persistance in trying to do something about your situation. l do feel for you & from my experience I dont think much can be done, thats why they continue to scam women. child pornography & making bombs get traced, but scammers taking the identity of innocent men & using there information, which can be provided to prevent this dosnt get followed up on, leads me to believe there is a breakdown in the system. l have been a victim of a scammer who is still trying to convince me of his undying love for me. You have feelings of doubt, then listen to it. women intuition is always right, that lve learnt.
      good luck

  534. could someone inform me how to send pics of my scammer…

    Lt Gary Search
    Col Troy Donnelly

    thanks

    • I would also like to send pictures of my scammer. He goes by the name Captain Kenneth Ralph, Kenneth Foell and Tim Scott

  535. Just met this guy named Robert Haggard who claims to be from Bedford, TX. born on apr. 15, 1962. He send me 4 pictures of himself, all of which are posted at the beginning of this post. You can never trust anyone these days. You have to check them out completely. Nigerian’s are out to rob people blind. I do not trust a single one of them. This is the third one of me. All from Nigeria. Very sad indeed. But I know there are good men in this world so I will not loose faith in that.

    • …. he contacted me as “Duke” Haggard!

      • He has contacted me by Edward Webb, he is in FB as well as John H Haggard or Robert Bill Haggard

  536. I have two scammers I am speaking with, One is Nelson Peter74 he stated he was from Young America MN,,,,, but then he stated he was from the UK.. and then his emails, ISP, are Nigerian.. has not asked for money.. will not get any from me..

    The second scammer.. states he is from, Washington state,, but his email ISP is Nigierian.. once again…

    I have contacted the website with their pics and names..

    The funny thing is.. they are using the same the quotes.. like baby, take care of yourself for me. do you miss, baby.. I miss you so much… All this after talking with them for less than a week..

    be carefull ladies…

  537. I’ve been contacted by two of these guys “Duke Haggard” who is on here as Robert Haggard and “Chris Robies” who is on here as Ken. Luckily, I haven’t sent either of them anything!!

    I have some different pictures of Duke/Robert I can send you.

    Thanx!

    • A guy claiming to be Chris Robies and who is signed up on march.com recently is using the photos above identified as John Palmas and there is another set shown as well he is using. His match screen name is LOVESEC10223

      Unbelievable!!

    • A guy claiming to be Chris Robies and who is signed up on match.com recently is using the photos above identified as John Palmas and there is another set shown as well he is using. His match screen name is LOVESEC10223

      Unbelievable!!

  538. Anybody heard from Greg Howell??? Military contractor in Afganistan, from Denver Colorado, fiancee died being pregnant in a car accident…born 11 april 1968…working for DynCorp…address used greghowell_04.

    • Hi can you please help me with how you know greg howell as i’m ingagege to a captian greg Howell.. if it’s the same guy! the greg howell i know i met on line in Oct 2010 on a date site Oasis.com he said he was from wiscosin but the rest is the same. ex died in car crash same date of birth ect. he’s taken money from me to get out of his dyn corps contract. please email me. don’t let him know i’ve contacted you yet. Debra

      • Hi, I have stumbled upon this forum following suspicions I had and am I glad I did! I have been chatting to ‘Greg Howell’, a Captain no less, for the past couple of weeks and his story is consistant with all that I have read from both Debra and Michaela. He contacted me on Oasis.com going by the username of ‘Swoon’….he told me this was the name his dead girlfriend called him!

        I like poetry and last night I was surfing the net just reading and happened to find myself reading a love letter that seemed very familiar….I checked my emails and sure enough it was word for word. I checked all the other received emails and found many of them to have plagiarised poems and letters. I sent him an email expressing my annoyance at him sending me emails as though they were penned by him…I have heard nothing from him since!!

        He never asked me for money, but perhaps that was later to come. I will contact Oasis.com and report him. This person is such a low life to prey on women and violate their vulnerabilities. I consider myself to be well educated and worldlywise, yet I feel foolish that this conman sneaked his way past my radar….thankfully I clocked him in time.

        This is one of the letters he sent to me…

        Do you know what it is like to look up into the velvet night sky, and yet not see the stars? Do you know what it is like to see the song birds sing their sweet music, and yet not hear their sound? Do you know what it is like to feel your heart inside you, and yet not feel it beat? Do you know what it is like to be in a crowd of people smiling, laughing, sharing their love together, and yet be all alone with no one around? Do you know what it is like when the light of your life has been extinguished, and you are left in absolute and complete darkness, frightened and alone? Do you know what it is like when the one you love so deeply and dearly is so far away? Your heart cries out their name and yet there is no reply.

        All you want to do is hold them in your arms, and you cannot. All you desire to do is to kiss their sweet lips, and you cannot. You long to hear their soft sweet voice as they whisper words of love to you, and you cannot. You just want them near, and they are not.

        Their absence brings with it frustration and sadness. You almost curse that you cannot be with the one you love, and then you thank God completely for bringing that person into your life, all the while knowing that no amount of dreams and hopes and prayers, can, at once, change the situation

        So, what do you do in such times? How do you keep your wits about you? How do you maintain some semblance of normal life, when all you can do is think about is the person that you are so in love with and that you would do or give anything just to be with? You feel lost somewhere between the cruel reality of life, and the dream-like fairytale that you wish to live in, and the only salvation is to be found in the arms of your beloved and that cannot happen…YET !!!

        Friends cannot comfort your soul. Thoughts only make the pain in your heart worse. What do you do? You think about them – oh my God, how you think about them endlessly! You pray to God for the strength to see it through this situation, knowing that someday you will be with that person forever. But is that enough? No. Not always. Until you are in their arms, nothing really helps.

        The mind is a whirlwind as my thoughts are tossed around like matchsticks in the wind. But the one thought that is all constant and eats away at the core of my soul is a simple one: “When will I hear from her again? Will I ever hear from her again?” Such silly thoughts are these. But time can cause such thoughts to occur. It is only human. I am only human.

        And so, I wait. And as I wait it seems as though the hands of the clock move in reverse instead of forward. Each second that passes seems as an eternity away from you. Time takes you further away from me instead of bringing you closer, and time is something that is beyond our control.

        Oh to be an angel, and have wings that I may fly into your arms at this very second. To taste your sweet kiss and feel your warm embrace. To love you, to have the pain of needing you, vanish in your arms, as would snowflakes on a summer day. And to know that we would at last, be together for all our days. Days spent lost in sweet heavenly love, such as we have never known.

        Oh God, my darling, how is it that love can be so wonderful, and yet hurt so badly? Such pleasure in knowing and feeling your love for me, and such mortal pain in being apart from the one that I love so deeply, so dearly, so passionately.

        Darling there is an old saying that applies to being away from something. It goes, “Out of sight…out of mind.” But, my love, every “old saying” has an opposite meaning. In this old saying it is also said, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder,” and just when I think it is not possible to be more in love with you, a second ticks off the clock, and I discover that I am more in love with you then ever before.

        Any idea how to submit a photo of the offending article??

        Pauline

    • i know him with the email greghowell_04 if you put his name on google he’s got another address too…in .com and .co.uk..& in another name tomhcurtis69 Has he asked you for money i paid money into a elisabeth stewart account how he said was a dyncorps UK leasion officer. please contact me ASAP. Debra

      • GREG HOWELL IS A CONMAN/SCAMMER He’s taken a lot of money from me. And he is in the US not Afghanistan.
        He goes by greghowell_04, tomhcurtis69 and possibly kingfisher_04 in yahoo.com yahoo.co.uk hotmail.com hotmail.co.uk
        BE WARNED LADIES HE’S A CHARMER TO THE MAX
        will add photos as soon as i can work out how to put them on here.

    • Yes Ladies..I too have been scammed in a very emotional way by “Greg Howell”. He now goes by
      “Lesley Howell” with an email address of Les_Howell@yahoo.com. We met on okcupid..he was from Green Bay, Wisconsin; had a pregnant fiance who died in a car accident; a greek father who died when he was 5 yo.; mother lives in Greece; step-brother named Nick with the email address of kingfisher_04@yahoo.co.uk.; works for Dyncorp as a trainer/mentor for the Afghan armies.
      This man is VERY suave, writes perfect prose and will figuratively romance the pants off of you. I noticed an error he made signing off as Your Greg, yet had a wonderful excuse for that mistake. HIS mistake was asking for a new phone, an account to transfer money, then directly asked for money to take a flight home to me. He also sent numerous pictures of SOMEONE . When I caught on I gave him..and am still giving him… a piece of my mind.

      • In addition, Mr. “Howell” , on okcupid has a new profile with an ID of Pohaes, formerly Cheshire_Tomcat, and states he is from Camden , Australia. Same exact verbage in the new profile. Beware!!

  539. The “Duke/Robert” Haggard character has a Facebook account as “Martin” Haggard

  540. Hello people, I was contacted by a dirty little scumbag posing as a US Army contractor,called John England,(very nice photo)I would like to know who the man in the photo really is, he claimed to love me after just three days, I told him not to be so stupid, he kept asking if I had any feelings for him, I just said I liked the photo.he then asked for money to send me a box of valuables to look after for him. I lost my job three weeks before christmas and didn’t even have money for food and yet he wanted me to sell my things like my camera and zoom lens, I told three times him not to contact me again but he started again a couple of days later, then the next day was asking for money again, I asked him, what part of, “I don’t have any!”, do you not understand? and still the idiot thought I was just being awkward. He was using the name for his friend as Essien K Joshua,there’s a footballer who plays for Chelsie called that. and this Joshua had a pa called Oroboha Oke, who was going to collect the money for him.after he had told me this I e-mailed him to say I had changed my mind. so I played along with it for a while, serves him right, He deserves to be hung, drawn and quartered, not necessary in that order. I told him he was one and the same and he got nasty, he can’t even swear in style. I hope they catch him soon.

  541. Watch out for David Harold Roland, too. The pix r amazing. But since I’ve been in the military 4 a min, dumb face is the one played not I.
    Contacts females via MySpace, poses as a first sergeant & has the identical drag along about life just like the story described. Son & fiancee dead in car accident. How convenient

    • Yeah watch out for David Roland, he’ll ask you where you live and then he say he’s going to be station there and waiting for his assignment letter and the day that he’s suppose to leave. He will send you a “confidential” letter from the Army saying that he needs 2 Civilian Grantors for $1,500 surety bonds and will give back after the appeal process and can’t have relatives to help out.

  542. Hi there, I Can you tell me who the real John T England from mississippi is, He should be 56 now. I have seen his name and photo used so many times now. The scammer that was trying to scam me has all of a sudden put him on facebook, luring in other women. He is in Ghana I know, I checked his ip address. He must be stopped.

    I would really like to get this solved. Thanks.

  543. Hi does anybody know of a Raymond Radenski whom I think may be a scammer.He works for the United Nations and the US Army and before that he was a psychiatrist.He is widowed with a 9 year old son named James and own a home in Sheerness in Kent although at the moment he is peacekeeping with the UN.

    Please let me know if you have come accross him,thanks.

  544. I have actually recently been scammed by the person posing as Robert Haggard. He told me that his name is Andrew Barrera from Silver Spring, Maryland with a 10 year old son named Chris who is living in Ghana with his friend while he is stationed in Afghanistan on a “secret” mission. I actually sent an iPod to Ghana for his son, but stopped the package before it was sent. The only reason I caught him is because my daughter and son-in-law did a search of the photos he sent me after he asked me to loan him $2000!We also did an ip address search and found it to be originated in Sunnyvale, California. I appreciate that this site is bringing this to our attentions and I hope the authorities catch these people.

  545. By the way,I met my scammer on SeniorPeopleMeet.com

  546. I recently became aware of this problem. I was going about my happy little life, when this guy, Dave Cromwell, http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000582478311 (email charlesdegen60@yahoo.com)contacted me as a private message on Facebook. So, I looked at his picture, thought he was handsome, whatever, no big deal, I’ll friend request him. Unlike my other Facebook friends that I personally do not know, but play FB games with, this guy started IMing me immediately. He told me how beautiful I was, wrote horrible poetry to me. Too bad for him that I am from New Jersey, and have had my share of terrible relationships, so red flags started going up. But being a little bit twisted, I’ve decided I’m going to play this game with him for a while, have him believe that I will be sending whatever he asks for. Of course it will never happen, and I think when I become bored with him, I will drop the truth on him like a sledge hammer.

  547. Hi,
    I wonder whether any of you has ever heard of one of the folloning names. I suspect they are fake US Army pilots. Lt-Col. JaKe Sean Dowell (supposedly of US Army Air Base in Germany) and Major Brian Washington (on duty in Afghanistan.
    Thanks !

    • Hi Miranda,

      I guess I know the person named Col. Sean Dowell. What do you know about him? And why do you think he might be a fake pilot?

  548. you want check for a Thomas Timms or Thomas Kelly Timms

    same story of the A and A baptiste churh, mom head teacher, dad military doctor, both dead, sisters in korea no news

    but this guy unfortunately I got pictures of his kids and that saddens me.

    I have been scammed for a couple hundred dollars, but now I am having the time of my life with him. he just doesn’t know it yet.

    they are not the smartest either at times.

  549. I have three more cooking… I will get back to you on their official names.

    Oh yes,also the sad part about TIMMS, they have the rank and name tag on him right.

    I wish I could tell him myself that he is being used for scamming people. He seems like a decent person.

  550. hi,
    my name is audra and i have recently been scamed by a man claiming to be captain ben butterfield . i now know this is not him . i sent 230.00 for a phone so he could call me . we have been talking for about 5 weeks i really fell for him . he almost cost me my children and grandchildren. the saddest part is i told him i have a child with brain cancer and he played to acctually care . he asked about her daily. he even asked me to go to his house in columbia sc to meet his kids and brother.he said everything i wanted to hear i guess and i fell like an idiot. now im just pissed offfor the pain he put myself and my daughter thru. he started off talking and he said his wife died 2 years ago in a carcrash with his brother and that he was looking for the love of his life he contacted me thru fb after a week he ask me to send money for the phone so he could talk to me and prove hes real. i wish i had of listened to my insticts when they told me not to i didnt and got screwed . after i sent the 230.00 he sent a message saying he needed another 480.oo to get a mast code for it and when i said no he didnt want to talk to me any more but later in the week he texted me again and ask me to go get a loan i said no i wouldnt and he got mad at me . it wasnt until he kept pushing me that i realized this was not the real ben butterfield so i ask him for his ako # and he got really upset and said for me never to talk to him again . now i do it just to piss him off lol. i would really like to know if there is a way to find the real man and tell him whats up with his info . its not rite for someone to take his idenity especially after all he has done for this country. i will get over this in time im sure all i can think of now is taking him down. i have filed a complaint with white collar division of the fbi and they r looking to find out whats up . the ip address’ go back to sunnyvale california . he asked me to unfriend him on fb and talk to him on yahoo which happens to be in sunnyvale also . please help me stop this jerk from ruining more lives and breaking more hearts along with messing up a soldiers reputation. thanx

  551. Ladies becareful if a sgt perry jefferson chats to you. he will tell you his father is from texas his mother from yorkshire and that he lives in London.The scammer started chatting to me then started to ask for a mobile phone, because his was damaged whilst on patrol, then he tried same thing with a watch, then he asked for money to fly home because he was applying for leave. He was full of i love you,s and i,m going to marry you when i get back lol

  552. I have recently been scammed by a guy posing as a soldier in the us army calling himself trevio roland maccain also claims to have a daughter 21 named monica, what a smooth customer he was very convincing look out for this one. I have submitted photo’s to CJ hopefully they will go up so you can view them.

  553. I was recently scammed using the picture of the very handsome US Sgt. John Wells w/ a picture together w/ President Obama. I was really attrcted to his looks. He requested me to be his friend in facebook. so i accepted him coz i’m looking for a boyfriend.and I told 2 myself he is a good catch. He promised me to come here in our country. I was really trapped of many promises. Until he asked me to file for his leave so that he could come and meet me. As we are chatting, I asked him to open his cam so that i can see him. But he refused. When I received the email from that Robert Gonzalez,w/ leave form and policies, i found out that the person requesting will pay a certain amount. i told him too that, Why am i the one to file the leaved? So that time i made a resesrch and what i found out is a SCammmmmm. Is that Sgt. John Wells still on Military???? He is really handsome, no women won’t be attracted to him….

  554. Hey Julie i had the same thing i met my soldier in imesh and he too requested to be on my face book also he said his cam was broken, i fell for all the lovely emails the promises, i recieved papers for his leave also, but he didn’t get money from me for his leave he got money out of me to help his so called daughter who supposedly got robbed while in africa so we helped with hotel bills huh what a scammer he turned out to be it was only when he said she couldn’t leave the country because she didn’t have bta basic travelling allowance that i woke up and did some investigating it is not required when leaving a country for the states boy i was sucked in badly by this guy, i was so hurt but i have moved on and i am more educated on how the military run things, fancy saying he couldn’t help his daughter because he couldn’t access his money in Afghanistan and that the embassy wouldn’t help i found that very hard to believe that the american embassy would leave one of the own in the lurch i know the australian embassy wouldn’t do that so yeah this guy is posing as Trevio Roland Maccain so keep and eye out for that one or similar because they swap names around.

  555. I wonder how many other women have been scammed my sgtchrisskirk@yahoo. I kept thinking that this man was for real. When I kept asking things because they did not add up he would get mad. I am so sorry that I fell for this. I wonder if there is a phone number where victims like us could check on the so called military soldiers without causing any problems to the real soldiers…

    • I sent alot of information to the army cid and i sent photo’s to cj from this site, it upsets me because we don’t even know if these pictures being used are soldiers still serving or deceased its discusting, and they are so very convincing so don’t feel too bad nancy your not the only one.

      • Christopher Kirk had the nerve to contact me again and asked for money. And yes demanded that I do what he said so we can be together. Funny how they have the nerve to be demanding….Ha Ha Ha but when you ask questions and want details they get pissed off….Funny Funny….

  556. Anyone been in contact with Robert Burgess, Sr. Warrant Officer US Army, deployed in Iraq, 60 yrs old, divorced with one son.

    No money sent because I was always waiting for the signs when it came I was ready for it and told him to mortgage his house in Norfolk, Virginia.

    • Ruth, good for you. I like your answer!

      • Wish i had been as quick as you to catch on, anyway i love your answer to him.

  557. CJ! I have sent four photos to your email, so I would ask you to put them up on the page when you have time. Regards Anki

  558. I too have been conned by a scammer, I signed on to match.com and 5 minutes into paying my monthly fee, I got an email from a man stating that he was from (didn’t get name) in Afghanistan. We talked for about an hour and he said he loved what he say picture and what my heart said. He was born in US but his parents were both German. After about 1 1/2 days he stated that he wanted to hear from me but that he didn’t have a phone and if I could get him one, and wanted “a particular kind”. After much praying about this, I decided to, then he wanted candy and specific shampoo and body wash. This all had to be sent to a West Africa address of a friend of his in the military with him. Then after much “sweet talking” stated that one of his men was killed and that he was in much danger. By then he had my heart, he said he was hit and that his helmet and protective gear got burnt and that he needed me since I was his only “family” to send $800 for a replacement. When I questioned why the Army didn’t get him one, he said it would take too long to get it from them. He gave me a name and address to mail the money order to. One minute he was all depressed and scared and the next he was calling me baby, honey, sweatheart and darlin. I called my oldest daughter and she looked into his name, and within a few minutes called and said mom I sent you a website and its not pretty. I opened it up and there the first picture I saw was Mullin Hopper Krow (or is it really). The one was man who said he would handle my heart like a baby. Luckily I am only out a phone not before I cancelled the activation. Then he had the nerve to text me from yahoo.com and state that he is working with the government to find who is doing this…… LOL I maybe a fool once, but not twice!!!!

    • Oops the name I put was Mullin Hopper Krow should be Knox

  559. thank you so much for this site warning us about these scammers, i was lucky? to be contacted by 2 scammers in 2 days, gary search a fireman on deployment in iraq and
    darren shakman who is deployed in nigeria, of all places, lol both wanted phones, said no, so darren dumped me and Gary said well will u pay for my leave and plane ticket..not likely, but thank you for saving me from being scammed and to tell u the truth neither were that good looking

    • Linda,,, Gary Search from Colorado Springs, he scammed me. out of a lot of money… email me, lets compare pictures… porshaca@aol.com…. Gary is slick…

    • Hey now…that Nigerian bastard who stole my photos seems to be getting a lot of play as “Darren” on the singles sites using my photos. I’ve reported him everywhere I find him but it is virtually impossible to get his profiles deleted. Sorry he bothered you.

      • I too continue to report the fake Gary Search.. any where I can.
        I have been in contact with the real Gary Search.

  560. Ladies watch out for….

    col troy donnelly
    col johnny fowler
    lt.genlloyd@usa.com
    Gary Search…. fire fighter from Colorado Springs phone number 2347066643796 he called me twice…

  561. Hi Lucy
    I was scammed by a Sgt Mark Donnelly but once he sent a message and he used the name Troy do you have any photo’s helen1367@live.co.uk

  562. dont think that gave the facebook address right he is now using the name jones alvin r on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002177230343&ref=ts#!/profile.php?id=100002177230343

  563. Can anyone tell me if they have been contacted by the first picture on this page, with the last name of Knox? He gave me the name of Mullin Hopper Knox? Please let me know. Thanks

  564. well I got curious after talking to this guy calling himself Daniel James Pelzer. He didn’t even know my full name yet and was ready to move himself and his two kids in with me and mine. He said I needed to request his leave to join me in canada but that it would cost me money. He never said how much but just kept asking me if i could do it. well my flags went up and i started doing some research and asking him question about his rank and why he joined the army. i got very vague replies every time and he calls me babe all the time. He sent me some pics and I used the email to get his IP adress.. which is located in France.. funny, he told me he was A Master Sergeant with the US army and was stationed in afghanistan.

    • Hi Jade

      the name Pelzer caught my eye, and Iam wondering if it is the same person I have tlaked to using the name Kirwin Pelzer. I would really appreciate it if you could send me any pics you have of him and/or any messages that I could read so I can compare them with the ones I have.
      my address is lyppylynda@yahoo.com

      I would really appreciate any info you are willing to share

      thanks Lynda

  565. Another Name to watch out for on the Dating web and Social Net works Brad Johnon!!! Total Scam Ladies!

  566. Hi I was scamed by a guy called col Peter Anderson was in the army in Iraq his email address petercowboy1961@yahoo.com. I wasnt fortunate enough to pick up on it after I sent money to him through western union to Nigeria. I have letters and yahoo conversations he used myspace and he did have a facebook account as well.

    Not sure how to deal with this its hit me pretty bad and yes I would like to find the owner of the photos but no luck at all

    Just want these guys put in jail where they belong

  567. I have been here since early January and I think i still have some months to spend here. You sound like a wonderful woman and from the sound of your profile and our chat, I think we are looking for the same thing in life. Somebody to make us happy, to love and care for us. Lets get to know more and more about each other, Probably we could be right for each other, who knows.

    Here are something you need to know about me; I’ve been single for a while now, I never wanted to move on. I’m a kind of man that deals with my emotional feeling with everything i have. I love Jenny (My Ex) so much that i never had a clue that she could do what she did. I got her sleeping with another man just 6 months to our wedding, i got myself together , but with the help of the my friends. I was made to understand that in a world filled with darkness, we all need some kind of light, whether its a great flame that show us how to win what we’ve lost or a powerful beacon intended to scare away potential monsters or a few glowing bulbs that reveals to us the hidden truth of our past, We all need something to help us get through the night. Even if its just the thinnest glimmer of hope. Thats why i decided to move on and search for a wonderful woman who will make me happy for the rest of my life . Thats why we need to move on. We need to let the past go and concentrate on the future. I will love to know you and see if there is a chemistry. I will not hesitate to let you know my feelings the moment i have butterfly in my stomach, lol. I’m looking for somebody who wants me as much as i want them. I’m witty and sarcastic but in a loving way and i bake a mean cake lol. I know there is a picture but this is not vanity, it is honesty, I’m nothing special and anybody can look good in one pic, Facial appearances doesn’t say much of a person, its the person inside that matter most. I love going straight to the point because life is too short to joke with, i need to know what you have on your mind and what you really want. I am ready for serious relationship and i really hope that is what you want and i will not love us waste each other time.
    Love to cook and entertain but need somebody to share it with. I don’t do mind games, I treat everyone the way i want to be treated. I’m an outdoors guy who hikes, camps, climbs, walks the dog, caravans etc. I’m looking for a long term partner, I want the fairytale, the wife, maybe kids, who knows? But i believe in the sanctity of marriage and want somebody who’s ready to be the bride. To me money isn’t important. I don’t care if you live in a cardboard box and survive by begging outside McDonald. Relationships shouldn’t be centered around money, status or background. All i seek is love, care and happiness, a woman who will always make me feel like a man. Someone i could always have fun with, walk hand in hand across the beach and street, have a pillow fight together on a Sunday and also a TLC when doing dishes, laundries and house cleaning. I will love to chat with you as soon we can. To me you seems like a nice woman that i will love to get to know more and more..

    Hoping to chat with you soon.

    Have a nice day.

    This is a copy of a letter I rec’d from Gary Search, firefighter….

  568. Has anyone gotten this letter before.. sounds generic to me. and I fell for it..II know better now.. Since then, have been contact by scammers, both military and non-military…

    I have been here since early January and I think i still have some months to spend here. You sound like a wonderful woman and from the sound of your profile and our chat, I think we are looking for the same thing in life. Somebody to make us happy, to love and care for us. Lets get to know more and more about each other, Probably we could be right for each other, who knows.

    Here are something you need to know about me; I’ve been single for a while now, I never wanted to move on. I’m a kind of man that deals with my emotional feeling with everything i have. I love Jenny (My Ex) so much that i never had a clue that she could do what she did. I got her sleeping with another man just 6 months to our wedding, i got myself together , but with the help of the my friends. I was made to understand that in a world filled with darkness, we all need some kind of light, whether its a great flame that show us how to win what we’ve lost or a powerful beacon intended to scare away potential monsters or a few glowing bulbs that reveals to us the hidden truth of our past, We all need something to help us get through the night. Even if its just the thinnest glimmer of hope. Thats why i decided to move on and search for a wonderful woman who will make me happy for the rest of my life . Thats why we need to move on. We need to let the past go and concentrate on the future. I will love to know you and see if there is a chemistry. I will not hesitate to let you know my feelings the moment i have butterfly in my stomach, lol. I’m looking for somebody who wants me as much as i want them. I’m witty and sarcastic but in a loving way and i bake a mean cake lol. I know there is a picture but this is not vanity, it is honesty, I’m nothing special and anybody can look good in one pic, Facial appearances doesn’t say much of a person, its the person inside that matter most. I love going straight to the point because life is too short to joke with, i need to know what you have on your mind and what you really want. I am ready for serious relationship and i really hope that is what you want and i will not love us waste each other time.
    Love to cook and entertain but need somebody to share it with. I don’t do mind games, I treat everyone the way i want to be treated. I’m an outdoors guy who hikes, camps, climbs, walks the dog, caravans etc. I’m looking for a long term partner, I want the fairytale, the wife, maybe kids, who knows? But i believe in the sanctity of marriage and want somebody who’s ready to be the bride. To me money isn’t important. I don’t care if you live in a cardboard box and survive by begging outside McDonald. Relationships shouldn’t be centered around money, status or background. All i seek is love, care and happiness, a woman who will always make me feel like a man. Someone i could always have fun with, walk hand in hand across the beach and street, have a pillow fight together on a Sunday and also a TLC when doing dishes, laundries and house cleaning. I will love to chat with you as soon we can. To me you seems like a nice woman that i will love to get to know more and more..

    Hoping to chat with you soon.

    Have a nice day.

    • The letter sounds similar to mine, always pick the grammer out short cutting words my so called soldier always said am going or am getting never i am his emails were breath taking i think its all poetry they copy and just add the name of the person into the poem i wish there was something that could be done about these scammers, i have sent the information to everyone i can think of but i haven’t heard back from anyone except the american embassy they did reply.

  569. I have been chatting for a month with whom i thought to be Major General Joseph Banks, who signed as Marcus and is serving in Afghanistan. It is more or less the same story as i have read above. A widower, one son of 12, ex wife dead in a car crash 5 years ago. He sent me some pics of himself in military uniform and with his son. Everything was perfect on him. Since the beginning i thought it was strange the grammatical mistakes he made but i did not pay attention to it. And then, he told me an incredible story about the kidnapping of a petrol magnate’s daughter, her rescue and how her father had offered him a suitcase with US$60.000 and jeweleries. His intention was to send someone with that suitcase for me to keep it at home until he could come to collect it. He kept all the time telling me it was impossible for him sending it to the States because he trusted no one. I said no, but, since he insisted, i told him he could send the suitcase to the police station in order to a friend of mine to pick it up. His answer was, obviously, no. He, then, suggested me to buy a lap top and an iPod for his son who was or was going to Ghana on holidays. I expressed my surprise about his son going to such a dangerous country which is in war and asked him if he had not arranged things so, the person legally in charge of his son, had access to money and he said he had blocked his accounts. It was too much. I was astonished. I told him i did understand nothing of was he was telling me, that i had to think about it all and said good bye. Two days later i had already knowledge of this webpage and decided to prove my suspects. I told him that if he wanted to keep on chatting with me he must send me a picture of the daily afghan newspaper, a copy of his ID card and his army email. He answer to me that he accepted no commands and that it had to come to an end and I informed him i had written to the Defense Department to put this issue into their knowledge. His madly love for me ended in 5 seconds.

    • Ummm, Joseph Banks? Like the clothes makes? LOL

      • Hi CJ! I will send you the link to a photo that I have received andwith I found when i did a search on tineye. CJ goes there to find out who it is? I am sure that this is the man that I have six photos of, and purporting to be Jenn Smith. http://article.wn.com/view/2010/11/27/Rio_cops_troops_seem_ready_to_invade_gang_haven_i/ if you look at the photos as is the third photo from the top left. He has some kind of weapon in the hands, sunglasses and looking to the right of the photo

    • Oh yeah it ended as fast as mine, once i caught him out he did not love me anymore. I’m happy to say i have been able to move on, i have kissed my 905 aust dollars goodbye and picked up the pieces an i’m doing just fine, thanks to this site i am ready for them when they try to scam.

  570. This is crazy!! Disrespectful to our American Soldiers. Also to mention gives our men and woman a bad reputation. I have contacted by a Andre Powell. Asking for money as well. He claims to be a Staff Sergeant In the US Army. Ranked E-6 and been in the Army for 12 or 14 years and has a degree in philosophy.

    This is the e-mail he gave me to contact his commandment comd.fwilliams45@yahoo.com

    “Good day,
    Your request for the vocational leave of ssgt.Andre Powell has been received.
    You will apply with the Transit section in Ramadi here by obtaining the TPF. Transit processing form which usually cost the refundable sum of 550 us Dollars.After remiting form charges,a Form will be sent to Ssgt Andre immediately indicating his status and steps to take..
    He re enlisted in april 2009 to be in the army until 2014
    Under the provision of the Army,he could get some time off on the R&R vocational leave only if requested
    Get back to me as soon as possible for further processing.
    Regards
    LTC Williams Fish
    LTC Williams Fish
    3rd infantry division.
    US Army
    Ramadi”

    After research it seemed all legit. But to pay for a Soldier to come home… this made no sense to be. The US Army is taken very well care of their true Soldiers. I feel he is pretending to be the man in these photos from the site http://www.army.mil/-news/2009/08/14/26047-usasmdcarstrat-soldier-takes-unique-path-before-joining-the-officer-corps/

    This is where they wanted the money sent. The transit section will not deal directly with civilians,there are agents closer to whereever you are.
    As it is the available section agents are in Asia,Africa,and some parts of Europe where the Us military troops are deployed.
    Payments are made through the western union.
    As it is,you are to make payment to the following agents address.
    Name:Michelle Pevitt
    Address:victoria, Portland
    Country:Australia
    Zip:3305
    Get back to me immediately with the
    leave for maximum of 60 days excluding traveling time.
    Get back to me immediately.
    And it will take 30days or less after all requirements are met to process leave.
    Regards
    LTC
    LTC Williams Fish
    3rd infantry division.
    US Army
    Ramadi
    Iraq

  571. I also forgot to add his email is andre.powell22@yahoo.com

  572. Almost got scammed but not quite. This guy claiming to be Robert Badley staff sergeant in Baghdad corresponded with me for almost 3 months. About the time to come home found hidden money of Sadam Hussein! Sending money back to me via messenger. Messenger could not get thru customs needs $6000 can I help him out. Fortunately I was smart enough not to buy into it. I have several pictures that do not look like any other of these assholes. Would love to post them just don’t know how. I do have FBI working on this one. Was on match.com as robstrong63199 for only a few weeks then got off of there when we started corresponding. I must say I felt like a fool but I want every female out there to know about it. Good luck ladies and be careful…

  573. actually, the moment they start asking for money or items you know they are scum ooups… scammers.
    basically the moment I see death and children wether it be army or other, flags go up and I am cautious. I have had 9 out of 11 that are scammers… all the same story jsut a little different.. just got to keep ahead of them.

  574. Anybody been scammed by a Ted Rizz- Lt Col 23 yrs in and coming home 5/21/2011- from San Diego- in 7 days telling me he loved me etc….
    didn’t see the asking for cash- to buy equipment coming- but as soon as he did- realized i thought it was in back of my head- asked for 3500K and when i told him i didnt have it-it turned mean real quick- gone the loving man- instead- i am lying and liar-had a 6yr son watched by parents-

    • Yes – Ted Rizz came up on match.com in early June. 6 year old son who lives with the grandmother in Virginia Beach. His wife died of Hodgkins disease when “Jason” was 18 months old. Told me he loved me too, very romantic and wanted to plan for the future. Asked me for 3,850.00 to replenish training supplies that had been stolen. Was going to be in the security business when he got back to Illinois. Accused me of lying and being “tricky”. I did not give him any money. Also, sent me numerous pictures at the beginning, pictures of him with his “Medal of Honor” and then pictures of him at a week long training in the woods. Invited me to Washington D.C. to see him accept an award.
      SOB – he had me hook, line and sinker.
      He did tell me he was a Colonel and had been in the Army 23 years and was retiring. Coming home in early July, then late July, then first weekend in August.
      Don’t know how to figure out how to get him.
      Would love to see him eat his words.

  575. have the name of a scammer.. not military,, but scammer.. Nelson Peter or Peter Nelson,, first he his profile on evow.com stated he was from Young America, Minnesota.. later he informed he was from the UK. but his ISP addresses were from Nigeria.
    Second he wanted to come meet me.. I informed him the he would need to pay for all expenses, including hotel .. He had not problem paying for everything, “I have money” he stated. He then stated why a hotel, I informed him the we do not know each other that well yet.
    Third he kept calling me with “no number” “no name” stated his phone could not be unblocked and that he’d get it looked at.. He called me when I was working,,, when we did talk, he always asked why don’t you answer my calls over and over over over,, never an intellegiant (excuse the spelling) conversation.
    Forth,,recently he stated that he has not been paid for over 4 months from his job and that he needed money for food for him and his family.. didn’t he say he could pay airfare and hotel.. hmmm sounds like scammer..
    The other day,,, he called 15 times in 20 minutes.. I spoke to him twice,, stating I cannot affordt talk to him as I do not have international calling on my plan. but hhe kept calling..I just ended it..

    his yahoo name is Nelson Peter… has a son Noah.. states he lives in the UK as a Marine Engineer. no idea about the wife.

    be warned ladies…

    • There was a guy recently named Peter Anderson contact me. Said he lived in NY but was English. Talked about his “MUM” I asked him why he would want to correspond with me when I lived in Missouri. I also told him my computer was being monitored by FBI. He never wrote back. He was on match,com as useraccount2943. But guess what, he is gone now. You might try saying your computer is being monitored by FBI if you think yu are being scammed. Trust me they will never email yu again. I think we all ought to contact TV shows like Dateline etc or even “the talk” and let these people know what is going on. They always talk about bully’s. well what the hell is this? Face it ladies these pricks have all taken a little piece of our hearts.

  576. Jones alvin r came on chat to talk to me friday night. Within minutes he was asking me if i wanted to go to america for holiday. I asked him what infantry he was in he said 1th i asked him how come he was wearing 4th infantry uniform. Then he said he had daughter age 8 name lucia. I asked him where his wife was he told me she died in child birth 6 years ago with there daughter. So i asked him if he could explain how that worked as his daughter was 8. Then i told him he was what we call a scammer here.

  577. Has anyone been scammed by capt micheal johnson has’nt asked for anything after talking for a month but am suspicious

  578. Anyone get contacted by a Ralph Edwards??

    • look on us soldier dating scam and stop the us soldier scammers edward is on there alot

      • Sorry karla that last one is stop being scammed by cons saying they are us soldiers. Edwards been on there several times

        • I have been contacted by a Jim Edwards, say’s he is in Iraq and will be home in 3 months. Say’s he lives in Orlando Fl and his wife cheated on him so they divorced. He sent picturs of him