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All Posts Military Scams July 28 2010
 — By CJ
[UPDATE] The “Face” of Military Dating Scams – The Wall of Shame

UPDATE (29 Jul 2010): Hooboy! That CNN piece has brought in a LOT of information. It did exactly what I think Emily, Abbie and I wanted to do which was bring attention to this. So, I’ve got a LOT of new photos and names and I ask you to be patient as I find time to upload all these images.

This is going to be the most updated version of my exposure of these Nigerian scams that target military personnel on dating sites. If you have a photo that is being used to scam women by using photos of military personnel, send to cj[at]soldiersperspective[dot]us and I will update this post. Eventually, women will be able to come here and SEE that the photos are being used on multiple women. It may also tip off people to who the REAL Soldiers are so they can understand that their names and/or images are being used illegally. If you are a Soldier in one of these photos, please contact me from your military email address so I know you’re legit.

Let’s get started…This post will be updated as photos are submitted to me. If you are being scammed by someone using these photos, please put your stories in the comments section. And keep in mind that the people in these photos are not the problem. They are victims just as much as those that they scam.

Claims to be Perry Terry Knox. Tells the standard retirement story, with a 11 year old son. Said he was a Sargeant. Asked for an iPhone, but when told it was too expensive asked his victim for a Blackberry. Uses the Datehoodup.com website.


This person is claiming to be Major Mark Collins Ehresman. Now, for anyone that knows anything about the Army uniform, knows that this is NOT an officer’s uniform.


These are supposedly of someone going by the name Tom Curtis. He uses the email tomhcurtis69@yahoo.com. Because of the size of each photo, they were obviously taken from either a MySpace or Facebook page. I’ve seen that last photo used in other scams as well.



These photos are supposedly of a Captain Steven Massingale Barrett. Yet, one just need look at the rank on the second picture to see how dumb this Nigerian scammer is.






Here’s the storyline on this guy, who uses the name Robert Bill Haggard.

My name is Robert Haggard.I was born on the 2nd of August, 1961 at Baptist Hospital of California. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.
I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.
My son lives with a friend in Miami. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time. Will like you to also send me some pictures of you too.Take care.
I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words
Have a good day.
Hugs,
Haggards

I highlighted the glaring holes in this guys story, especially the rank. As I’ve said before, Soldiers ARE able to call back home and have contact with “outsiders”. What a weird term they use. Again, judging by the size of each of these photos, they were most likely snagged from a MySpace or Facebook page. Anyway, on to the next.


Meet “Captain James Miniard of the US army”. What a promotion for this guy, huh? I highly encourage you ladies being scammed by these guys to actually do a Google search on military ranks. You’ll knock out 90% of your problems right there.





The first one goes by the name MikeJones@Yahoo.com. The other 3 are supposedly the same person and goes by the name SGT.Oliver@yahoo.com ( full name Oliver Adamson). I’ve heard this name both ways. Both of these men were on HOT or NOT.




These are supposedly of a” Lieutenant Colonel Benjamin Lanois” from Cleveland North Carolina…and is presently stationed in Afghanistan in a “very dangerous are” in Kabul and that he is with the Second Falcon Bridge Combat Team 82 SF Base. Again, notice the rank of this LTC!! What a coincidence! I’m in the First Blue Falcan Blog Brigade!


Here is a pic of “MAJ Joseph Morris” aka jose.muriz@yahoo.com. No explanation about why the name and email address are different. Probably tired of creating new Yahoo accounts and keeping up with them. Same story wants ts2 money and transit money. Says he was in 24 years, wants to retire and marry his victims and has money aplenty. Again, if someone says they need you to pay for communications, it’s a scam. Soldiers can pay for it themselves. It can also be taken out of their paychecks automatically if they “don’t have cash on them”.




Here is “John Palmas”. He said he was from CA studied at West Point, been in the Army for 15 years. Now in Afghanistan and will come back in 11 June. They always say they’re coming home soon so that when something goes terribly awry, they can bilk you for sympathy money for hospital clearances and all that crap. The interesting thing about these photos is that the scammer actually took the time to remove the name tags from the photo. Could be anyone here!






The first 4 photos are of a young James Ruddock and his family. He says he is from New York and a widower with 2 daughters and that he also had a house in England that he was going to retire to ‘any day now’. He targets women in the UK mostly, it seems and proposes marriage, using his dead wife and two kids as emotional bait.

He also says to some women that he was supposed to be in Afganistan with a house also in the UK that he was going to retire to a different location. He sends out emails from “a diplomat” whose English and grammer are very poor but his emails requesting money for a package to be delivered to the UK. He also uses the name of Steve Ruddock and Mark Ruddock as well.

This one is funny, but the person using the above photos claims to be a Captain Brown Mark (Mark Brown?). The moron can’t even use photos of people with the right name in his scams!! He uses the email address brown_mark50@yahoo.com. This guy is such a tool, he tries to use General Odierno in his scam. He sent one of my readers he was trying to scam the following email explaining that “CPT Brown Mark” had been wounded and she needs to send him money to leave:

This is to inform you that that tallibiance man as attack the solider mans that they realse for the leave and will are very sorry to let you know that the travel will be in this week………And will are by let you know that you can still make the payment for your solider man capt Brown Mark in two day

GENERAL RAYMOND T. ODIERNO
Multi-National Corps – Iraq
Public Affairs Office, Camp taji
APO AE 09342

Now, I don’t know if ya’ll have ever had a chance to listen to General Odierno speak, but he sounds NOTHING like that letter. See for yourself:



This is supposedly Lt. Christopher M Morris with Military Number (USArmy/MlL 456378) based with the 32nd Infantry Division camp phoenix kabul in Afghanistan. There is no such person in the Army as Lt. Christopher Morris and we sure as heck don’t have “military numbers”. Oh, did I mention that the Army doesn’t have a 32nd Infantry Division?





Here are the pics that the scammers used on another reader using the name Sgt Patrick Mcdonald. This moron also sent pics using using the name Gen. David Petraeus. Ha! EVERYONE knows who General Petraeus is, but these guys aren’t smart enough to realize that.






The next scammer uses the name Capt. Harry Swain of the US Army, 2nd Battalion, 1st Infantry Regiment, MOS 11B Infantry and these photos. When anyone asks him questions, he is vague on the answers – probably because he doesn’t know anything! He only communicates through yahoo and of course is retiring in June. This is so that he can set up the classic Nigerian Retirement pass payments, as if a Soldier needs to pay to retire from the Army! I tried looking into this one, but there are so many Swains in the Army, but none of them with a first name Harry.











The guy using these photos seems to have hit the motherload of images. He calls himself Arena Adams. He even has pictures of his “kids”. It’s beyond twisted when they start to use servicemembers’ kids. The have all come out of Saudi Arabia, but could easily be routed through there from Nigeria and other African nations.. He has a “diploma” (diplomat) contact the victims, Mr. Randolf was his name, and uses the phone number 233543756622. He also had the story that he wanted to open a jewelery store when he got “home” and was going to send a package containing all his worth, $950,000 in gold and $600,000 in money, to hold till he got here. I wonder how much shipping would cost on nearly $1 million in gold? It conveniently gets stuck in customs and after spending $11,000 for the weighing fee (oh, that’s how much it costs!), he still needed another 5,500. Said his birthday was April 30, 1969, and he sponsors children in Iraq, that he has 15 children that he set up a foundation for and provides for them.

Interestingly, the reader who sent this to me said, “When I told him I wanted to send him something for his birthday, he gave me the address 60 mango tree blvd, Accra Ghana, with the name Alexander Ofori Hammond as the person who will be receiving it.” I’m surprised since usually they just claim they can’t receive packages due to “security”.






I’m not even going to create some witty banter for the guy using these photos. I’m just going to copy and paste his intro email. It’s too funny to miss, especially that he calls himself “Mac Donald” as if it’s two names:

I have decide to take my time to write out this message to you and I will expect same back from you.hmm i lived in U.S right at this moment,in the beautiful city of Farmington Hills, Michigan where i had been for so long since the divorced between my Mother and my Daddy. Really before my Dad passed away, we were living peacefully together, but on a official peace keeping mission in Dafur War Region, let me quickly phrase out this that my Dad and my mother are American. My father was from the Marine Military,My mother is a teacher.They both met on a trip down to Paris, they met each other and were friends till they were finally able to find true love which had led them together to have given birth to me. hmm they both were Christians, just like my Mother would say to me, that if my Daddy wasn’t a Christian, she wouldn’t have agree to marry him when he proposed to her. We all were living peaceful before my Daddy had to divorce my Mom due to some sort of things i don’t know if i should tell you here because i don’t know you yet, so please don’t worry about it, i am only trying to be cautious of who i am dealing with, maybe when i know you enough alright? anyway to make it short, my Daddy and i lived alone in Farmington Hills, Michigan after the divorced between him and my Mother. So Mom couldn’t stand it living in the city anymore, she packed her stuffs and then went back to United kingdom to live on her life right there.unfortunately,I lost my father on the line of duty, he was on the sea as a marine Major when he fell to the bullet of Jamaican Militant.His death made me to join U.S Army because he was given a state of heart burial and all his benefits was converted to me as a beneficiary, which will make me to get more benefits after I retire from my present job. It was so painful to recall this memory at last i had no other choice than to go live with my Mother in Scotland United Kingdom as i felt needed someone around to help me through life difficulties before i can carry on myself you know what i mean. My Mom and i live together in an apartment here before i travel down to US when i got deployment to Sudan Dafur war region for peace keeping in the country. I am the second child of my parents because we are two in number of our parent. Honestly she is very nice, kind, caring and loving Mother anyone would pray to have. She treats me sister like every good Mother would treat their beloved children.
I have spent 19 good years in the Military,got rapid promotion due to my dedication to my work. I have been to some countries, mostly to lead the troop on peace keeping mission and aid relief mission. I am planing ahead for my future as I am looking forward to meet through right woman, so I can make my final decision to tender my resignation letter, in order to enjoy my new relationship and build a strong family.Now i must tell you i am looking for in a soul mate, someone i could call my own, a woman in whom i could invest my time, good deeds, seriousness. I know out there lies someone who has the nature of God inside of her, someone who would be ready to give 100% of herself. Of course i am not getting any younger as my age increases by year.I am 6’1 in height .. I do not smoke but drink socially. just looking for the rightful one now.Also this is the quality i seek in a woman,one who will be dedicated to being my wife, loyal, faithful and honest. One who knows what it means to being in love, one who is very affectionate, simple, easy going, fun to be with, caring, very sincere, very romantic, giving nature, tolerant home loving, hard working, reliable, sensual, with a sense of humor. One who will be a good Wife and who can take care of me and my one kids!
I am tired, need some rest. I led the early morning parade for the troop in my Base.
Have a great day and waiting for your message.

Warm Regards,
Sergeant Mac Donald

These photos look familiar. The individual has already appeared on this list, but now under a different name:



Notice how the scammer has removed the name from the uniform? That enables him to use any name he wants while sending out the same photos to other women. Here’s his story (with yet ANOTHER) rank faux paux:

Hello how are you going today ? well thanks a lot for your replyed …
well i have been devorced for 4 years now ..i have been in iraq 2 years 4 month now ..I;m in iraq baghdad now …i have been in the army 21 years …I’m army side …I am an E-7 Staff Sergeant (SSG) and now working with the un. I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a noncommission officer and I work in the junior management of the military…well i have only one sister living in germany .. i have no kids …My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field of the army and later worked with the .Gold mining company in ghana but as i m talking to you now i lost both of them..i will get back 25th june for retirement , that why i m serious here looking for woman who is can be with me for the rest my life …,I’m pride of myself in being honest and most trustworthy, I seek that in a mate, someone who is compassionate yet understanding who has a calm behaviour and a great personality…I b’lieve there is no ideal relationships, Be honest a relationship is hard work and compromise, It is as good as you make it, What makes a relationship ideal to someone is how much time and effort one puts into it and how committed two people are to it..

I love the grammar from this “senior NCO”. It’s also interesting that a SFC is in a “squad leader” position. BWHAAHAH!



The scammer posing as “SGT David Monfils” is one of the earliest names used for these scams. I hadn’t seen the name in a LONG time, but now it’s cropping up with photos. It used to be part of those “I have a million dollars buried in Iraq and I need your help getting it back” scams. Now, “Monfils” is trolling internet dating sites.


Now, this guy cracks me up. He even sent his victim a “scan” of his “passport”, an obviously photoshopped monstrosity of an attempt. I love the lines through the face. This is supposedly SGT Steven McCabe, but after searching for the person in the passport in the Army database, I came up empty!


These photos are of “Sergeant Heicken Kenneth” of the “US ARMY on mission to Iraq.” However, I’m trying to figure out who in the Army wears German uniforms and drives around in a vehicle with the German flag on it. The scammer using these photos lifted them from a Reuters photographer because he didn’t even remove the embedded code describing the photos. Since they are pretty cool pics of our German brothers in arms, you at least deserve what they are:

Top Picture: German Bundeswehr army soldiers with the 3rd company of the Quick Reaction Force (QRF) patrol during a mission in Chahar Dara district in the outskirts of Kunduz, northern Afghanistan, May 11, 2010. It’s actually a Reuters photo by Fabrizio Bensch.

Bottom Picture: German Bundeswehr army soldiers with the 3rd company of the Quick Reaction Force (QRF) take cover after detecting a suspicious site during their search for improvised explosive devices (IEDs) in Chahar Dara district on the outskirts of Kunduz, northern Afghanistan, May 12, 2010. Also from REUTERS/Fabrizio Bensch

He uses the email address sgt_heicken@yahoo.com.


I’ll just let the dufus (Andrew Sanchez) using these photos tell you about himself, since I can’t seem to make any more fun of him than he makes for himself without realizing it.

I am presently in Afghanistan at the moment and would be back by next month, I have been serving for 11months here now and would be done by next month. I work in the Military and I am a Lieutenant, My work schedule is like a 24hour thing I dont have any schedule as we work round the clock here trying to keep peace here, I just have little time for myself here so you need to see how glad and excited to know that I would be back home next month.

between the 6months I would be off work. I have only lived in Lawrenceville GA and I have really enjoyed my stay here and would always love to stay here. That was where I was given an apartment and I could decline the offer as I also do like my apartment. I am not at all bothered about the distance. Andrew

I keep forgetting when he says he’ll be home!

By the way, a lot of scammers are starting to ask for things like iPods, undershirts, digital cameras, and other items. They are asking people to FEDEX the items to this address:

Wisdom Dome
60Mango Tree
Accra-Ghana
Zip Code…00233
Tel.Num.00233205622258 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting              00233205622258      end_of_the_skype_highlighting



Again, a moron who can’t read English using the photos of someone with a completely different name on his uniform. Meet “Joe Harold”. He says he is in Iraq on his third tour of duty. He is retiring in July 2010 and is looking for a life partner. He says he is is from Bedford, TX and also owns a home there. How dare he claim to be a Texan!! He, like almost ALL of these scammers, uses Yahoo: joe.harold45@yahoo.com. He is a smooth talker. He claims his mother was a head teacher and died. His father worked in Gold business in Ghana and also also died. He tells women his birthday has recently passed and how he would like to receive a gift. The posting text of Arena Adams is so similar and also includes similar text from Sargent MacDonald. Probably joe harold is also Sargent MacDonald. He asked to send an iPhone, digital camera, 5 packs of Calvin Klein white, round necked tshirts for him and his troops, chocolate, toffees and cologne. He also uses the Ghana shipping address.






I am Ivan Nobile and am with the US Army as an Intelligence Officer (MST SGT)currently serving in Iraq-Baghdad(Camp Taji),although I just got back from Afghan a week ago.I have no kids,I am widowed,lost my wife and parents in an accident 5yrs back.
My late parents were originally from Russia,and since their families never agreed for them to marry they moved to Virginia(USA) to start a new living as no family member back home in Russia knew their whereabouts.I have never been to Russia before and never met any family member of mine as my parents never allowed me,But for sure,I will visit them this year as my dad gave me all info about them before he departed.So I was born and raised in Virginia and I was educated in Arizona(AZ).
I attended my High School Education in Pittsburgh (Oliver High School) and furthered on to Central Texas College in Texas to major in Criminal Justice(Associate Degree) and then to the Cochise College in Arizona(AZ) to major in Intelligence Operations(Associate’s Degree).
I am seeking a woman that I can leave my life and love with.Someone that I can make my partner forever and be with for the rest of my life.A woman with a sense of humor.A caring,loving,faithful and loyal partner who I can trust for the rest of my life,and I hope you have all this as I seek.
I have attached some pics of me too in this email and I will love it if you could attach yours too.hoping to hear from you soon.Take care.
Ivan xxxxx

Sounds like a great guy. Too bad he doesn’t exist!






This is supposedly Kenneth Steven England, who originated from Chicago and was supposedly living in London. As you can see, the photos are small and no nametapes are discernible. Depending on how old these photos are, I may be able to find him since he wears a local patch.




This one is funny. These are supposedly photos of SSG Scott Adams from Fort Irwin, CA. Anyone that knows anything about the military will laugh when I say that the person behind these photos claims to be an ARMY SSG. When the potential victim forced the issue about pictures he changed his tune and stated he is a CSM in Baghdad. These are obviously photos of a Marine Corps Colonel. The fake Scott Adams stalks Facebook and myyearbook.com for his scams.

Okay, this next one cracks me up. Check out these photos:


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I love the part on the back in the red little blotch that says “money back guarantee”! If we don’t kill the enemy, we’ll refund the cost of the war!! Here’s the photo that “Captain Cris Kepley” used to make his ID:

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Good thing he brought his dress uniform to Iraq so they could create this wonderful Camp Victory ID badge!!





The douche using the photos above are of a guy who says he is in the US Army in Afghanistan. Don’t they all? He uses Badoo and his name is “Steve Lopez” but the same photos are used on other profiles calling himself Johnson. Same story:

“This Steve contacted me last week and he is a very nice person in his mess. He is an Officer in Afghanistan (though he’s wearing the uniform of a Sergeant) and have been there for 22 years and he will now retire in October. Then he will come to Sweden and marry me. And we will love each other forever. He had pray to God he should meet a girl like me and when he saw me at Badoo he thought God had made his wishes come true. He has a son in Tampa or Miami Florida, Been divorced 5 years ago. He had send me message every each morning and night but hadn’t asking for any money yet. He was telling me he was not allowed to give me his service number or his home address or his military email address cos of security (this is a lie and a classic tactic of scammers).”

He uses the email address stevelopez_27@live.com and will try to guilt you into believing him if you call his bluff by saying he will “kill himself”. Don’t fall for this tactic. Even if it were true, maybe it’s best if he just did it!





This guy calls himself Staff Sergeant Christian Richardson from Miami, FL. Again, ladies, you need to Google military ranks and you’ll see that this guy is not who he says he is.






The scammer using these photos goes by the name Marcus Movic and claims – like all these scammers – to be “a widower with a lovely Son” who’s wife was killed in an ac

cident while he was toiling in Iraq. The problem is that there is no Marcus Movic in the Army.

(2,246) Readers Comments

  1. Cj
    HAHAHA I am in contact with the idiot faker mark ehresman right now. He is coming home as soon as I pay 4000 for his transfer !!! He has a long wait because it will be a cold day in hell before he gets any money out of me. Good job CJ

    • do you know of anyone going by the name sgt henry williams can you please check him out

      thanks

      • Nigirl,
        What does he look like? I was in contact with someone too but went by the name David Williams…..wondering if it’s the same….please reply…thank you
        Lisa

        • i was in contact with a sargent Tommy williams Barrera he also need money,didnt send any for his leave.or anything else i wonder if we are talking about the same one?

        • I’m Ashamed to say I have been scammed by Tommy Willaims Barrera. his picture is on Fb but he sent me another picture of him in his ‘dress uniform with the name Barrera on one side and US Marines on the other, which I recently found out those particular style of uniform was issued to the marines in 2002. He’s looks spanish decent, claims his grandparents were spanish. His wife died 2 years from Breast cancer he has two son’s Tom and Dan ages 18 & 15. All this information is on FB. Oh he sent me poems and told me how much he love me and all that other B.S. Even threatened to kill himself and General Odierno. Once I told him I would not send anymore money he quickly stopped talking to me.

      • henry williams is big nigerian scammer i have is video on u tube he tricked me and my friend sherry pretended to be two different men watch my video on u tube go to http://www.youtube.com type in shygirl4u2008 u will see black guy click that video

        • UPDATE ON TOMMY WILLAIM BARRERA, as soon as I refused to send anymore money he terminated his email address which was willaim_Tommy@yahoo.com.

      • I have been speaking with a Sgt. Henry Williams, but he told me that his real last name is Marshall….stated he took mother’s maiden name after she was killed in a car accident. I would be very interested if this is the same person….i have pictures that he sent me….i just don’t know if he is on the up and up with me.

        • well ladies i am currently chatting with this man named greg massingale and he asked me to send him 3thousand dollars so we could communicate through special radio communication.He also said that would cover the cost of his papers to leave the army and come and stay with me for 12 weeks. Well this was just after christmas and i told him no and now i never hear back from him. OH well thats life to bad for him he is the loser on this end.

        • I to have been talking to Tommy Willaims Barrera,he tells me he never asked no ladies for money,but i ended it cause i figured if a man wants to be with any woman the woman should not have to pay him nothing

      • i just to ask if any one of you know the name Lt. Frank B. Smith from Virginia USA, who is assign in Kabul, Afghanistan?

        • With regard to First Lieutenant Frank B. Smith – initial contact information identifies him as US Marine Corps National Police Development in Afghanistan.

          Then, during a chat, he says that he is the Regional Director of Emergency and Trauma Services for a large health system in Afghanistan.

          Date of my first contact was March 1, 2012.

    • Hi,
      I am trying to post again.
      I was scamed by a bill Pendleton guy from Iraq. I can recognized the pictures here.
      The same story, single father that wants to pleasure his son with a laptop throught a “diplomat” from UK…
      Didin’t buy it. after he gets shot and after he wants to send me expensive jewlery and lots of money to take care till his out of his service.
      I want to send you the picutre. I also found him on facekook with the same email bill_pendleton@yahoo.com
      CJ please let me send you all I have.
      contact me.

      • I have a friend that served in the military and she told me about a website that offers special discounts for military families. What I found surprising was that it not only offers discounts through national companies, they had local restaurants and merchants that offered great deals, some were owned by vets. They also had news, some hilarious jokes, information for people interested in joining the military and so much more! Has anyone else seen this sight and have you gone to some of the businesses listed. Please let me know. The website is: mymilitarypages.com

    • Does anyone know the solider in the above pics with the big green gloves on his hands??? The tagged account had his pic on the profile calling himself sgt.james harrison from rosebud tx. His wife and child was killed in a car accident about 4 yrs ago i was told… will be home from Afghanistan 6/2011 In the last week or so the profile has been deleted… but he uses james_b1950@yahoo.com for his email..His said he has a good friend in Ny goes by the name sgt. Mike Todd… does this story sound familiar to anyone… I didnt stick around long enough for him to ask me for money….. I will always wonder who is the U.S. Solider in the pic and it weighs heavy on my mind if that solider made it back home safely….I think of the family also..

      • Hi did someone know how to get CJ email I would like to send some pictures i was scam with $5000 just last week ,i have pictures and I still talk to this guy ,he does not know that I have found out ,he may want to ask for more money.
        my email silvesy@hotmail.com please help with this information

      • I was contacted by a guy claiming that he was Jeff Haggard telling me how much he loved me and all the other bull crap. I am on match.com and I’m not an idiot. I don’t believe anything anyone has to say unless I meet them and learn for myself what type of personality they have. I’ve been stringing this guy along for about a week now. I’ve been tryiing to find a way to educate women out there just incase someone can be duped by this supposed born and raised New Yorker stationed in Bagdad who doesn’t have a grasp on the english language. Hahahahaha I asked him who the custodial parent of his non existant 15 year old son was and he didn’t know what the heck I was talking about. He also ended up contacting a friend of mine telling her simular stories but with a different twist.

        Jeff Haggard sent me a picture of a man in uniform with the name of Lopez he then changed his story and said it was Jeff Haggard Lopez hmmmm…. I asked him his nationality and a week later repeated the question. He said Hispanic/Dutch the first time then told me Spanish the second time, I sent hin a hearty hahahahaha and told him the he needed to memorize his lies. I got him to send me several photos that he is using, told him it was a shame that he was ot the guy in the picture because the guy in the picture was hot hahahahahaha.

        I want to know how to post pictures here. I would like to share this most handsome guys pic that this scammer is using.

        • Hey I ve been Scamed..

          I too was on a datting site

          But lucky i realised before any money was given
          Gosh this man is good in his writting… But i know somw women may not know this or unfortunalty be a lil desparte….

          I want to warn Women…Come on we must be able to do something to stop this or at least warn others

        • The Lopez guy is atill at large – he is on Wayne website now with the name Lopez Jacques, claiming to be in french army but then sends photo with US uniform, Lopez on breast pocket. Son of 14 in US for schooling, wife died, caretaker looking after him. I also found another of his photo’s on Wayne with another variation of Lopez stating 34 yr old from USA. Then there is a 3rd photo, same guy name of Lopez Collins.
          Also cant seem to post any of the photos.

        • Ann – I think I have him now – darling and HOT photos – not smiling in any of them. Dressed in black with sunglasses with what looks like Greece in the background. Sigh…..

          I let him sweet talk me a bit – stare at the HOTTIE pics and then quiz the hell out of him. Not a smart dude!!

          t

      • His name is Mark Pendleton, has an email of mark76110@gmail.com. I too have now been scammed and am embarrassment to my family. For that I am deeply sorry.

    • I think that someone is trying to scam me. Sgt Noell Burton. He said he loved me the second day we talked, i was ready to tell him off then and there but decided instead to investigate. Tonight I asked him what his MOS was and he said it was on his uniform and i could see it there. I also asked him where the planes landed in the desert. For fear of scammers on the site I will not post the real answer as it IS a way to see if a solider, whose overseas,is real or a scam. If you need to know he answer Facebook me.
      I agree with some of the people on here, learn you’re military insignia,MOS,and learn just what questions to ask. NEVER send money. If you want to send a care package, get an APO, if they don’t have one, it’s a scam.

      • Hello
        I was reading your comments and I think that I may – well know that I am currently neing scammed .. Afghistan and all that and rescue missions and payment from a diplomat who had his daughter kidnapped.. got the girl back and then for being so grateful he was given jewels for a thank you . So it then goes that he cannot them back to the camp as it against secirty …ect ect… this guy is Bryan Anderson … so convincing . What do you ask to see if they know where they land ?? I have been asked for money as this diplomat is supposed to deliver the package in return for $8000-USD…,,,hahahah I dont think so . I said fine – you take care of it and then contact me …so far as expected .. lots of back peddling …

      • Does anyone know a really good looking guy named Barry Cox? 22 yrs in the Army, Captain, ready to get out of the service and come marry me immediately…

        • I just started talking to a “Barry Cox” describing everything you have mentioned. Something was wierd, so I decided to do some reseach on him and i was right. He’s a fake….

        • Look at the pictures of Haggard, I have been involved with a guy that is a Captain Mark Haggard, Iraq, that went to Accra, Ghana to get his son that was living with a friend. His wife was a bad woman ( she had slept around and from some of the things he said, it must have been with a friend of his) his son is now 12 years old. his name is James. His parents died in 2003 and 2008 if i remember correctly. Father was in medical field (supposedly in military) mother was a head master in a school. he was sent to boarding school, only saw family on special occasions, has sister in Canada named Vera. He claims someone has used his photos and used them in the scams. I have sent him money, the more he gets the more he wants. he owns a house in Orlando and Boston. A business in Orlando. Won’t give me an address. imagine that. He is stuck in Accra and can’t get home. He is in trouble with the military and needs to get home to get it straightened out and start his retirement. he is 57 years old.

    • I think that someone is trying to scam me. Sgt Noell Burton. He said he loved me the second day we talked, i was ready to tell him off then and there but decided instead to investigate. Tonight I asked him what his MOS was and he said it was on his uniform and i could see it there. I also asked him where the planes landed in the desert. For fear of scammers on the site I will not post the real answer as it IS a way to see if a solider, whose overseas,is real or a scam. If you need to know he answer Facebook me.
      I agree with some of the people on here, learn you’re military insignia,MOS,and learn just what questions to ask. NEVER send money. If you want to send a care package, get an APO, if they don’t have one, it’s a scam.

      • please tell me how to research sgt jordan phillips says wife died widow 2 kids us air force

        • Doesn’t exist, Chris.

    • I was just contacted on match.com by one of the guys pictured above, at least he used one of those pictures and calls himself Steve Robies. He sounded very real. His story had too many similarities to others these guys have told. Fortunately I did a google on him immediately and found this.
      Thanks so much for putting this up. I wouldn’t have sent him money, but I sure could have gotten my heart broken.
      I did the google because I KNOW there are scammers out there looking for victims.

      • when I met him he called himself Dave Robies. We started talking on June 8th He still contacts me. And he is just getting ready to ask for money. I have a surprise for him.

        • Hey Teresa i got shoked when i saw ur comment. I am talking to this guy also, since oct 6th
          He already asked me for gifts and I had sent to him…like T-shirt, underwear and cookies.
          But he didn’t ask me for money yet. but he asked me to receive a package for him with a
          valueble things…but of course i said no bcz i didn’t buy it… that was 2 days ago and we haven’t talked
          since. after that i started looking up online and i found this website, and i saw ur comment.
          what storie have him told you? plz if you want to talk more about it, email me to klaudinha_usa@yahoo.com.
          thank you

        • I have been contacted by KEVIN ROBIES who is supposedly from Kabul, Afghanistan. He says he is only child and his parents died in car crash when he was 9. He mentioned an uncle. States he lives in Tampa, FL in big house. He says he is divorced 4 years because his wife cheated on him. I did send a gift package of t-shirts, underwear and a valentine. I had been keeping track of every thing he says and asking him more and more questions, which he will ignore or change the subject. So far he has asked me for an expensive phone, camera and laptop. I found him on here and it confirmed my suspicions. I too have surprise for him so I’ve kept in touch. His email address is kevinrobies@ymail.com.

        • TERESA:

          I forgot to mention that he (HIS PICTURES ARE POSTED IN OUR DIFFERENT PLACES ON HERE!) I know what he is up to and I too have a surprise for him. Could you please email at pmweir10 @gmail.com

        • I been talking to a James Samuel Robies. interesting that his uniform has James on it rather than his last name. i asked him about it and he did not know what i was talking about. i asked him for his militiary email and he claims that he doesn’t use it because he can’t remember the password. i told him i did not want the password just his email address. i also asked for a photo with his CAC, nothing yet. his email is srobies@ymail.com.

          these scammers all have the same story, my wife died in childbirth with my only child who also died. no living family, parents died while they were children, raised by friends.

          James Robies alleges he is a SSGT, E-6, stationed in Afghanistan, 28 years of service, turning 50 this month and retiring in 5 months. wants to come home and open a jewelry store. the other person trying to scam me is Daniel Robles, allegedly serving in Tora Bora base, claims he found gold bars from Osama and jewelry, wanted to send to me to hold till he got back, but customs is holding it for 4,100 – then it dropped to 400. of course all this has to go through a diplomate cause of the high security. no phones or cams so can’t skype or talk, but he wanted me to send him a iphone and computer because his a destroyed in a terrorist attack. he proposed 2 weeks after communicating. plead undying love, yadayada yada….when i refused to send the money he rthreated to kill himself, well he still hasn’t. also claims because of high security they do not have .mil emails. his email is s_basecamp@yahoo.com.

      • ATTN to all people contacted by a man with last name ROBIES. I have been researching him and so far have found the following other names he is using: eddie_james54@yahoo, Johnsonsmith201117@yahoo, Kevinrobies@ymail.com, Dave Robies and John Palmas. I have found who has been contacted too and don’t know what to do ~ do I email these ladies? Some have phone numbers too. If you want to talk you may contact me pmweir10@gmail.com

        • Hi i was also in contact with Kevin robles. He asked for a laptop and then a blackberry..i told him i cant afford that for my kids why would i buy it for a stranger..he would send me songs and poems and told me he loved me. he then said he need to buy some candies and shirts and crap and i asked if he gets them on base..he said no i was hoping you could get them for me and send the. yeah right..told him to get lost and never heard from him again. wish i had kept his picture on him on the beach. Its really sad as we are on these dating sites hoping to find someone but damn I’m glad im a skeptic.

        • Well now he is going by Keon Robbies. Imagine that. Today he asked me if he could send me 16 gold bars his team recovered from and underground cellar in Afghanistan that they raided. He said I was the only one he trusted to keep them for him until he came home in May. WOW. I am SO glad I found this site thanks to searching tineye with his photo. This site popped right up. Now I just don’t know how long to string him along for…could be alot of fun!!! Beware ladies…he told me he loved me in just 4 days…was never online at the same time, didn’t have an APO because his mission was secret and had to use a diplomat for receiving packages or sending the gold….has an 8 bedroom condo in Fort Lauderdale…wants me to be at the airport when he gets back, but doesn’t know the exact date…parents died when he was 8 and left him lots of money, which his uncle didn’t spend. I could go on and on…what gets me is that he isn’t even smart enough to change the story….or search for the picture he is using himself!!

        • Patty,

          I have been chatting with a man who fits all the criteria for a scammer. He is going by the name of Chris Robles…large home in Miami (4 bedrooms)…born there but raised in Germany…married 14 years…after first mission in Kabul he came home to find his wife cheating on him. Now on 2nd mission to Kabul. The name Christopher Robles, when googled, pulls up a Hispanic Army officer. However, the pics this guy posted on Match.com were of a white male in a white golf shirt. However, his yahoo messenger account posts a picture of the same white male in what looks to be an army-issued green t-shirt. In less than 24 hours he asked me for my phone number so he could text pics and bluntly asked for my “full postal address.” When I told him no and explained why he said “forget about it”…and that he only wanted to surprise me. He was also very much disjointed in his conversation with me…asking lots of questions but not responding to my responses or questions…just MORE questions. BTW, he told me his birthday is April 30th but who knows. After this afternoon’s conversation, I could not longer access his account info on Match.com AND there is no longer a picture posted with his yahoo messenger account. I am worried because he knows my phone number…could anything come of that?

    • Scam in progress with Army Lt. Nathan Deren, stationed at Camp Victory, Iraq. he is the guy in the big green boxing gloves…this is terrible that they are using our soldiers for this scam. he asked for money for leave and the red flag came up!!! He will be surprised when he emails me again!!!! Please post this so other people will not be taken in. thank God for you and this site!

    • This mess makes me want to vomit!
      Sgt Fred Marculy is another scammer. Too much broken English and the way he spoke of deployment…LOL; was a military wife and from a family of all branches to know better. He will tell you his wife died in 911 but he is ‘over it now’…really? Over it?? WOW and has a son who is staying with his mother in law in the UK. Said we could get to know each other better talking through email….i sent him mine to see what other BS he could bring up…then reported him to yahoo and other sights as a scammer/span ass! Email he is now using is : fmarculy@live.com He is also on ‘Tagged”. Looks like Tagged already removed him than God. These are sick people. If you ask the idiots to give you an address to mail them a care package, they generally avoid answering that.

      • Fred Marculy just sent me a “meet” request on Plenty of Fish. Luckily he is dumb enough to put a name so I was able to google him and find this site.

      • Indeed Sgt Fred did the same to me…has never asked for money but wont answer questions and uses the my wife died in 9/11 story….says he is in Afghanastan. has a son who lives with mother in law in UK…I had a feeling he was not legit…as he would never add me as a friend….he found me on WAYN.com….I finally gave him my email….His letters are always brief, and overly romantic..pushing for a “real relationship” all was well till I asked a few questions, like when did you join the army? What did you do before that for work? What was his sons name? I have not heard back from him since the 21st of November I believe…I asked to add him on another email site I have…that is where the letters go from him…asked to add him on the messenger…no response..The picture is different from the one of WAYN..(I have that one also)….He deleted that WAYN account…..NOW ladies…BE ADVISED….HE is back at it on WAYN.com under walker Benson…doesnt say anything about being a soldier, etc…HOWEVER….His picture is the same picture used on Sgt Freds messenger..I have both….Also another one isPederson Watson (army of course)….so so so sad…I love our soldiers and pray and support them 100%…however…this stuff is GARBAGE!!!!!! BE CAREFUL….!:D

      • I too heard the same story from SGT Fred Marculy!! He is wanting me to help him get transit leave right now!!!

        • @ Regina this is a scam and he is a scammer NO ONE can apply for military leave but the military member and it does not have to be paid for tell this scammer to drop dead and leave you alone he is a fraud a BEGGAR a CON a Thief get the picture YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED Anonn

          for support go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com for support

    • Hi,
      It appears I have been scammed by someone who claims to be “Tim Lingo” and says he is a Seargant in the Marine Corps. He says he lives in Houston and has a 14 yo daughter. He said all the sweet things women like to hear. He promised marriage and happy ever after. He then proceded to ask 0me for money to help get this retirement papers processed. Stupid me, I gave in–I sent him $550.He told me he would be home by or beofre December 17th. Then all the sudden he disappeared from my friends list on Facebook and his profile disappeared too. A friend of mine suggested I look at this site–I did, and he is on here, but as “Steven Lingo”. So I looked him up on Facebook and there he was. The pictures were exactly the same. He listed his hometown to be somewhere in Mississippi and he is a widow. He says he is in the Army. When I confronted him about this he got upset and said he was hurt that I didn’t believe him. He said someone stole his pictures and that is why he took that profile down. The one his daughter had is gone too. I feel so stupid and ashamed. I had a feeling he was too good to be true, but I didn’t want to believe it. I believed he was who he said he was. It broke my heart knowing he was sweet talking other women and promising them the same things he promised me. Look out for him–he may use “Steven Lingo” and “Lingo Franky”…one of his email addressed is tim.lingo@yahoo.com

      • This Tim Lingo could he also be Captain Lingo Parke? He wanted me to send him a cell so that he could call me. Then he told me that the phone had to be bought from a military store and for me to send the money. Then he wanted me to apply for his leave but I had to pay a huge amount (which i did not send) i then got an email supposedly from his C.O or leave office telling me that if i did not pay the military would arrest me. Please tell me has anyone been scammed or is chatting to a Sgt Mateo Kelvin stationed in Kandahar Afghanistan? Please ;et me know

    • Does anyone know of a staff sgt. George Kein in Aphganistan? Says he will be home in a couple months and needs me to send money to a diplomat in Ghana, who flies packages to the military. He says he has sent me a package and it is tied up in customs. Customs needs 3400.00 to clear it and send to me. Help online with him now.

      • It’s a scam!!! Run quickly!!!

        • Hi,

          I am not sure if I’m being scammed or not. This guy has not asked for a thing, even when I offered to send a care package. But he claims to live in California, cannot tell me when his mission is done and says its different because he is in SAF. The name I have is Alexander Brown and he told me he is a captain. In the 2 pics in military uniform I cannot see names – the helmet has 2 badges both with 1 on them. I am in Cda and do not know anything about the military.

          Please send me where I can submit the pics/email address to verify if this seems to be a scam.

      • Mary,

        I would so love to talk to you and compare stories.
        He is good isn’t he.. But a scammer none the less.

        Michele

      • I met George Kein on Match.com last August 2011. We chatted on yahoo for about 10 days. He did not romance me or ask for anything but when I shared with him that I had recently had an on-line dating experience with a Nigerian cybercriminal, the conversation ended abruptly. I never heard from him again. The photos he sent me have shown up four other times on match.com under different user names. I have reported this to Match. I don’t know if they really do much. I came across a blog on yahoo from someone who met him last June and was scammed. If you google: Staff Sergeant George Kein, USMC, about 2 links down from this one, there is link: “calls from ——phone number. If you click on it , the blogger I mentioned will come up. I am going to try to get the photos he sent me, to CJ.

  2. Thats wonderful,
    GOOD JOB CJ,
    one of the first ones said something about him studying at A and A children’s academy, WELL IT WAS THE SAME place James Rellinger went to MY, MY what a SMALL, SMALL WORLD!!!!!!

    • please say me is james rellinger swindler? help me and please give me a answer thanks deniz

  3. I have pictures of a Capt Brown Mark of US army (FT Rucker Military Base Alabama) currently stationed in Iraq.
    I will send them to you asap. The scammer seems to every detail of Capt Brown Mark if he is real. Please tell me if ever he exists.

    • I wrote to him and many others from the products by the mails, but received no response, most mail vote and the names are not faking, because they can not be found in FB

  4. Thanks again CJ, for giving us a visual for these scammers. Hopefully more women will check out this site before loosing their money as well as their hearts…

  5. My best friend is a war widow and found out a couple days ago that someone was using her husband’s photo to scam women. It has been a heart wrenching experience for her as you can imagine.

  6. CJ you are wonderful! Being from the UK I had no idea that Stephen Barret’s uniform didn’t match up with his supposed rank. Eerily, he has just come on line on Yahoo Messenger! Keep up the good work.

  7. ya me too!! I also have a picture, not sure who it could be. If it is needed for anything I will save it for a while.

  8. Hi CJ

    I have been scammed and would like you to post his picture for me to warn others. I also have emails/chats of how he asked for money for his business.Sadly I did fall for this scam but now want revenge! I have checked IP address and guess what he is not in Afghanistan as he told me but in Sunnyvale CA. I feel so ashamed and stupid.

    Katy

    • Hi Katy.

      I have just found out that I have been scammed and I also want revenge, I tried the IP address and mine also said Sunnyvale CA. Can you let me have the name of the guy because if he is the same one then I am in contact with the Fraud squad.

      Thanks

      • Carol and Katy, I too have been scammed and he went by the name of SSgt George England. I have already filed all kinds of reports and sent emails as high as the Congressman and Senator from FL…I will get answers!!! His IP address was also Sunnyvale, CA. Sent them a very nasty email about going to the FBI, then a couple of days later (when I knew they had gotten the email) got 2 phone calls, one Thur and one Fri. trying to tell me that I had to come to London with my passport as proof of identity because I was listed as “next of kin” to George England! Told them I did not have the $ for a passport or plane ticket and told them to find England and have him pay for it along with sending me my $ back!!! I guess they thought I was really stupid and gonna fall for them claiming that he was all of a sudden “deceased” NOT!!!

        • please tell me how to cheeck up on his ip adress as i,m being scamed by a guy named james massingale he says he is sf specialist in the us army he asked me for 8,999usd so he could get leave for 12 weeks to spend with me in australia. please help me i have already lost 1900 $$$$$

        • I am also in contact with a man who claims to be Staff Sergeand George England in the US Army. I have pictures of him that he has sent. Email me at luzozzy.dawn@aol.com and I will send you my pictures. See if we have the same person? I just learned of this site today by chance. I have been emailing and yahoo messaging this guy since June. It would really suck to find out it is all a big joke on me! Much of what he told me is so similar to these other stories. He has been in the army all his life. He is a staff seargent. His MOS is engineering. He has been married once. She cheated on him while he was on his first tour. They have an 11 year old son named Charles which lives with his ex in Miami. He can’t video chat with me for security reasons. He can’t voice chat with me for security reasons. He is to retire next month. It goes on an on.

      • Katy please tell me how you checked up on the IP addres.

        K

        • YES PLEASE TELL ME TOO. IM NOT SURE IF IM BEING SCAMMED BUT I THINK I MIGHT BE.

        • Could someone help me with checking out an ip address

    • hi how do u check ip addressess ive just found out a sgt emmy teddy cole is a scammer

    • I have been scammed I believe from someone who is telling me he is in Libya but on my yahoo favorites it says that the guy I talk to most is from Sunnyvale, Ca also. Could you tell me the name of the man who scammed you or tried to scam you? My guys name is Philip Capt. Williams Nobile..
      thank you for any help you can give me.

  9. I’m a little unclear on this. Are the guys pictured doing the scamming or are the perpetrators using these photos without the knowledge and consent of those pictured? If it’s the latter then the guys in the photos are victims too.

    • Steve, the guys in the photos are victims. The scammers are using their images – images of real Soldiers – pretending to be someone they’re not. THe purpose is to get them out there because the same photos are used by multiple scammers but also to hopefully show the victims that their names are being used. I haven’t been able to find them all.

      • Shouldn’t you digitally watermark or put a censor bar over the eyes? I understand the photos are already out there but aren’t you further victimizing these unwitting soldiers?

      • können sie mir sagen ob james rellinger zu den betrügern gehört.habe viel mails und er braucht immer geld von mir. soll ich keines schicken möchte wissen ob da stimmt.habe seinen pass gescannt bei mir im net danke

      • Hi CJ,
        can you please find out if Robert Bill Haggard the real name in the picture?
        I deeply appreciate your assistance, because I think somebody is using his picture as scam
        Thank you very much,
        Myn

        • I have been sent the picture of Robert Haggard by someone that says he is Frank Robles…….he did not use his picture saying it was him he was showing me this picture because he was in a meeting with him. This Frank Robles has ask me for money ….wanting $5000…..and then if I could not send that could I send $2000 and then it went down to $1000 he needs to get a box out of the country and needs the money to stamp the box….it is ashamed that these people use innocent peoples pictures to get money…….so if any one has heard of Frank Robles let me know

        • the name robert haggard is on match.com as frank haggard email f_haggard2000@yahoo.com and i have found out the real name behind all of the scamming it is richard osei bonsu 30 yr old south african living in ghana,email beltblinks@yahoo.com also use the email name of milky mcgregor us.carrier78@hotmail.com. also use the name of allard haggard

        • hhmm what’s his name Robert Haggard or Andrew Haggard ? LOL, Anyways, this Haggard sent me an email of word for word under ? Haggard’s picture. Wanting 550 USD to be sent to his son’s care taker in Africa, by doing so he would have money to feed his son. But we all know we don’t know them, the red flag “SCAMMER’ pops up in the brain. So it seems this fellow Haggard is always changing his first name from what I have been reading.

        • I just finished chatting with a “Joseph Haggard” email address t.dpld@ymail.com pictures are shown above as Robert Haggard. He passing himself off as SSG Joseph Haggard from Bedford, Texas, stationed in Afghanistan he hasn’t asked for money, but he has asked me to send items by way of contacting retiredmajor@rocketmail.com that is a U.N diplomatic official. There are few extra pictures he is sending as well, but it is the same guy. Wow. glad I stumbled onto your web site while trying to information on this guy, the last conversation seemed disjointed and the request came out of no where (after 1 week of chatting). Thanks again.

    • The guys in the photos are innocent victims too. Their photos are being used by the scammers without their knowledge.

    • that’s what I’ve thought of that, but I introduced himself as Edward Webb, on his uniform and stood under the photo Jonny Haggard, Haggard, James Williams, his son is hot, so many things fit together and I can not also your article Webb name not found.

  10. cj the pictures of james miniard are the same person who scammed me, but with family and his children, i am really shocked to see his picture again. i even have one of his mum, this is all so hurtful as i fell deeply in love with his photo, stupid i now. i will send all the pictures i have of him to you soon, is that his real name and is he involved or is he the victim like me.

    • Messege for Jane B… take heart my dear, and dont beat yourself up over the scammer that tried it out on you, a lot have been affected this way and I know how you feel and I have Real friends also that have been trying for months on end to find closure, ( incl myself ) for some its harder to let go, and accept that you were conned and even if it wasnt money the scammer had, he took a piece of you, Dont worry what others think some of us understand that it is possible to get ” hooked” by a smooth talker saying the right things at the right time, just use this as an experience in life situation, and it will teach you to be more aware and to be “switched on” to the usual “patter”! they use, and there are, lots and lots out there waiting to spring a trap for you try not to fall in again, be astute use this site as a guide line ask the appropriate questions and watch see how quick they disappear as soon as ??? are fired at them. But also beware that not all of them are ” Brain dead ” i have found of late ( right up to the last week in fact ) that some have a very good command of the ENGLISH language. both in spelling and writing, so can fool the most educated persons… because as a nation we all write text too much, and put down poor grammar as an abbreviated form of english(texT)and of course will have typing errors also to exactly that ” a typo error”
      Anyway just wanted to say JANE, that you can write to me if you so wish and i will tell you my FEW stories so you see it was more than once for me !!! so, you see, YOu havent been that silly… and I speak from experience…. Good luck Trish ( UK )

      • I think that I have been scammed also. The name he used was Col. Randy Barrera. How can I find out if he really exsits? And how can I find out his IP address? I am hoping it is not true. He sent some really nice letters. I feel like such a fool. Please if you could help me I would be appreciative. Thanking you in advance and I will be waiting for an answer from you

        • Hi Gail
          I have been emailed by Col.Randy Barrera
          Since the last week of Oct. to date.Jan 02/11
          I have known this is a scam for the past 2 weeks and I have been playing him.Yes I lost some $$$$ and Yes I was so careful not to put my guard down, Very charismatic poetry and letters,all the right things to say,
          His IP address is northeast of Wichita Kansas
          and also Redmond Washington,I checked it out.
          while he was emailing you around Christmas
          he did not email saying he was shot in the hospital,and had lost 3 friends, now a transit group is telling me I have been signed as a beneficiary/benefit funds he transferred to me at this time,
          I have been playing him.I had to put my head/heart in balance ,I still feel sick over this.To good to be true guess what its not. Please email me .I thought I was in love,and all things were answered with exact answers , I was a fool also. Deb (Can.)

      • Hi Just started chatting with fellow Stuart James. British accent he says. Polish/American. Ready to retire in 2 and half months.
        Same sole mates and destiny. 14 year old son maxwell, lost his brother-twin towers. Wife cheated. Son lives with diplomatic assistant in UK. His birthday is coming up and he asked for laptop, and Ipad. He got me to e-mail a diplmatic by the name of “dip_cwilliams@yahoo.com” Have you heard of anything like this.. He uses Stuart_james @yahoo .com. Said his accounts are frozen because he is the war zone. Have not sent anything yet. he said all pkgs have to be sent to Perry Davis Box At 1849,Mkt Achimota Accra-Ghana Mistified.

        • I was also approached from some guy going by the name of Stuart James, or James Stuart. His email address is sergeantstuart@yahoo.com. He had a fake profile on BlackPeopleMeet.com. Had a nice looking black male photo on there. He asked for my personal email and against my better judgement I sent him a message. He claimed he wanted to talk to me and after I see who he really is, he hopes I will continue to talk to him. there he posts pictures of a 50 ish man in camo’s then a blue shirt and slacks. The name on the uniform said James.

          I was initially pissed that he had a fake profile, then when I pressed for confirmation like a military email, he balked, said we were just getting to know each other. I kept searching and could find nothing on this man. Then he slips up and said his name is James and his son is Mark who is staying with his sister while he is in Pakistan. This confirms that he is stating his first name is James which would conflict against the picture with James posted on the uniform as a last name.

          He’s of course offended that I caught him on his crap. I’ve worked fraud for a major phone company and a
          Fortune 500 corporation. All I can say is people NEVER SEND MONEY OR PERSONAL INFORMATION TO SOMEONE YOU DON’T KNOW. NEVER…NEVER…NEVER…

        • NO NO do not send. mine wanted laptop, ipad, his son for his 12th birthday. then dad wanted me to ship items to him. forget him. They are all scum of the earth.

    • what is CJ’s email address so I can send the ones of Tommy Barrera just incase any of you get the same picture.

      • hello! Was scammed by this Tommy Barrera but he was going by the name Mark James when I was scammed by him….looked him up on Facebook and found out what he was really all about!

        • Just a few months ago, an USAA Fraud Investigator informed me that I, along with 14 other women were scammed in a group ring out of Ghana, I believe. The scammers had many, many pictures of the SAME MAN in military khakis and civilian clothing and at various ages. His last name is definitely JAMES as this can be seen on his uniform shirt. If, this Army Master Sargent is not aware his pictures were stolen; then he needs to be told. The Fraud Investigator said many of we scammed women (and scattered all over the US) gave her similar stories regarding the same active duty Army Master Sargent. He contacted me in May, 2011. I have lost about $60,000.00; well that is not true because I did not have that money to lose in the first place! I am being forced into filing for bankruptcy. I would really like to talk to any of the other women that might have been scammed by this group. Their English was excellent; grammar and punctuation; Had very good knowledge of various issues; this was not a simple easy-to-figure-out scam; it was very involved and complex.. He was supposed to have been in Iraq and would be retiring after 27 years upon return to Ft. Benning, GA; he was also supposed to have been a widower. The complete set of pictures if have of the SAME MAN continue to haunt me and i would hope someone/somewhere would have been able to let this person know about is stolen pictures…thank you…I can be reached at ellen.papp@yahoo.com

      • Hi i just found your web site I have been writing to this guy who claims to be a seargent in the usa army I am in Ireland and i know nothing about the usa army but going down through your site the first email I got was the same as one you printed he says he is bagdad and he is an sg something first class his name is Raymond Ramos I think he is part of this scam

        • Hi Suasn, I was just scammed by someone going by Michael C Ramos, if he sent you pictures in uniform with Ramos on it , it’s probably the same scammer. Send me his picture, or I can send you mine to compare. kandrar@msn.com

        • I am talking to a guy who says his name is anthony ramos, sent me pics of him. Had ramos on military clothes out of baghdad said he was retiring where can I send you a pic of him

  11. Hello CJ. well had a quick look at the site again and thought this was great putting up these photos of the Real guys ( who are also being scammed of their identities) you had one up there( a set of 4 actually ) of RUDDOCK I have some others of him still on file do you want that i send them to you.And is there any chance you could put up the ones of the Guy I was looking for ( they are up on another archive site here ,but not under this latest heading, so have probably been lost in the system somewhere I Refer to the person Jakson Adams impersonated for approx 6months with me. soldier DAGNER do you wish for me to send those as well to you. I also have a few pics of the infamous PHILIP/JEFF/JAMES MILLER are but a few of the alias he uses for this poor soul but he can be found on U Tube under the name of Philip Miller thanks hope to hear from you Trish( this is worth one last shot, I do but try !!!)

    • Patricia, I am corresponding with a Jude Ruddock at the moment and I am suspecting that he is a scammer. Can you mail me the photos you have of Ruddock, please.

      • Hi Suzette, i have recently been scammed luckily for only £250 before i realised what was happening and managed to play the scammer at his own game. Typical story widow.. even spoke to him in Afghan lol and his supposed nanny for his son in London. The name used was Capt Patrick Osborne. Has anyone heard of this name? Have several photos of the men used. What does IP address mean. Would just love to know if the man/men used in photo are still alive. Thanks

      • Hi Suzette..this man you are in contact with also goes by the name Maurice Ruddock…I am sorry I delete his pics now.. The pic I had of him is the one of him standing with the army men behind him…He gave me a email.account…commander -maurice @hotmail.com..he wanted me to send him 3500 dollars for a package to Canada where i live..but I did not do that so he took me of his contact on Oct 16 …told me he loved me and going to marry me when he got here…he also said his wife left him for another man and he is raising his daughter by himself

      • I have been contacted by person whos picture is James Ruddock and says his name is Kenneth Cole. His user name on Be2 dating web site is Stars778. He says E6 sgt in Afghanistan with 9 weeks left to go..Email address is kenneth.cole99@live.com. Good luck

  12. Has anyone come across a William L. Spalding?

    • I have and he scammed me out of a lot of money.

    • Hi tammy
      I have been dealing with person I really would like to talk to you if you could please get hold of me. this man is a lier and he is a scam he has taken alot of money from me. please get hold of me as soon you can thank you

    • Hi Tammy, I would like to tell you that this man is a scam artiest he told me he was from the air forces and worked with Marines and it was all lies and he was in London take care of some investments that he had with this Robert stocks broker I found out that the money that was send to this man Robert was never a business address in London it was house were they were doing all of the scam from. And he asked me for money to be send to this person for him and that he would pay me ones he got home from being over sea. and still waiting to see any of it back. He also told me that had a son who just passed away and he didn’t have no family. His email address that he uses is willyspalding@yahoo.com and this email after the investigation that was done it was from Nigeria the hold time. So if anyone comes cross this man do not believe. He is working as well with people here in United States there all in this Scam. This is a big group of people working together. He uses the email of willyspalding@yahoo.com and willyspalding @aol.com So if anyone comes cross these email addresses or this name WILLIAM L. SPALDING OR JOHNSON O. SPALDING DO NOT SEND THEM ANY MONEY. THIS MAN PUTS ALLOT OF TIME IN DEALING WITH WOMEN UNTIL HE HAS GOT ALL OF YOUR INFORMATION AND HE REALLY MAKE YOU BELIEVE THAT HE IS REALLY COMING HOME AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT THERE WILL BE GIFTS COMING TO YOUR HOUSE AND HE WILL TELL YOU THERE FROM BUSINESS MAN HE HAS BEEN DEALING WITH AND THEN HE WILL TELL YOU TO HOLD ON TO THEM UNTIL HE GET HOME. HE WILL WAIT FOR ABOUT 2WEEKS AND HE WILL TELL YOU THAT HE REALLY DON’T CARE FOR THESE GIFT THAT WERE SEND SOME OF THESE GIFT ARE WATCHES AND OTHER VALUABLE THINGS, BUT MOST OF THE THINGS INSIDE ARE GOLD COINS THAT ARE BEING PAID FOR BY CREDIT CARDS WITH FRAUD ACCT’S. AND THEN HE WILL TELL YOU THAT HE DON’T WANT THESE GIFTS AND HE WANTS THE CASH THAT NEEDS TO BE PAID TO HIM SO IF YOU CAN PLEAS SEND THESE THINGS TO SOMEONE HE WILL GIVE YOU ADDRESS ON AND ITS BECAUSE THIS PERSON YOUR SENDING THIS BOXES IS PART OF THAT SCAM ONE HE GET IT HE THEN WILL SEND THIS BOX TO LONDON AND OTHER PART OF WORLD. AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT YOU WILL BE GETTING DIFFERENT PEOPLE NAMES AND THERE CREDIT CARD BILLS AT YOUR HOUSE AND ADDRESS CHANGES OF NOTES AS WELL. BEFORE YOU KNOW IT HE HAS SET YOU UP TO HAVE YOUR ADDRESS TO BE USED IN SENDING PACKAGES AND YOUR IN MIDDLE OF THIS GREAT BIG MESS. AND THAT HOW THEY ARE MOVING THERE MONEY FROM UNITED STATES TO LONDON TO OTHER COUNTRY’S. AND YOU IN MIDDLE OF BIG SCAM. AND IF YOU HAVE SEND MONEY AT ANY GIVEN TIME BY USING WESTERN UNION YOU NEED TO GET HOLD OF WESTERN UNION YOU NEED TO GET HOLD OF WESTERN UNION AND LET THEM KNOW RIGHT AWAY THAT THIS PERSON IS A SCAM AND THEY HAVE SCAM YOU. GO TO YOUR POLICE DEPT AND FILE A REPORT RIGHT AWAY AND GET HOLD ALL FBI FRAUD HOTLINE AND LET THEM KNOW RIGHT AWAY. I HOPE THAT MY INFORMATION HAS BEEN HELPFUL SOMEONE OUT THERE AND STOP THESE PEOPLE FROM STEALING FROM PLAYING WITH WOMEN EMOTION.

      • Hi Marina,
        I am sorry to hear these things but I have been dealing with this man as well and I also send him money. And he told me he was sick and he needed money to help him for medication for him and a family member. I have send so far a total of $2500.00. And yes I send it by western union as you did. And I am still waiting for him to come home and nothing. And he also told me his name was William L.Spalding and now I feel like a fool in believing in him. So yes I also had to file a report with my police dept out here in my state. And I also found out that he don’t live in CA. And I found this out because of people who I paid to do a investigation on him and they showed me the real William L. Spalding how he really looks like. I called Washington to the main offices of the Military and they told me that they have a William L.Spalding but it didn’t match with the picture I had of this man. So you see I have been played as you were. So anyone who reads this don’t be fool by this man.

      • Hi Marina,
        I’m sorry to hear what has happen to you with this man named William Spalding I have been dealing with this man as well and I also send him money. I send him $2500.00 and also did it by western union. He told me he need money for medical services. And he also didn’t have money to get back home. And he would pay me ones he got home here to U.S.A. I found out that the picture I have of him don’t match with the picture they have on file, and the only reason I know this because I had to pay for investigation to be done. So I feel like a fool. So all who read this I can tell anyone who comes cross this person don’t believe what he has to say.

        • This man who is called William L. Spalding who you been dealing with is a scammer and he also works in group of other man who doing this for a very long time and there very well know in London for scamming women out here in the U.S. I really sorry for being played the way they did with you the also used the email or yahoo.com and there under the email of willyspalding yahoo. com or willyspalding.aol and he also asked me for money, and telling me that he was now in London and his son had passed away and he need money to come home and its been now for over 2 years and he still has not come home. He had told me that he was in military and he was sick and he need money for his son at that time they were in Holland but he wanted the money to be send under other people names. and they would send it to him and then he would go to London and now he is in London and he still stay in touch with me and keeps

      • hello marina
        i have been scammed. he send me the same pictures i saw on this site and the picture of the same child
        can you please help me i mean direct me for what to do , i have been sending money by western union in Ghana for the son.plz help me Thanks
        Blanca

        • Blanca there is NO sick son the scammer lives in Ghana the money you sent was for him so now you cut off all communication and block and delete this lying beggar and check your security settings on your computer go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com for support sorry you lost money but he is a Liar if he were military he would have no need for your money and please NEVER send money to people you dont know or never seen before for any reason.Anonn

        • Blanca the first thing you need to do is to call your police department and make a report then notify the fraud department at your post office, also make a report to the place where you sent the money from they will have a fraud department. You also need to notify the site that you meet this person on and make a report.

          I’m a victim of someone claiming to be John Haggard.

  13. Thanks patrica for you kind words you sound like you really understand how i feel,its nice to now i am not alone. How do i ever trust people again,i now the dating sites are full of scammers i have meet many since my experience, and can tell them straight away. so i am a lot more streetwise now and will not be fooled again. i would love to write to you ,i think it would help me a lot, am not sure if i should leave my email or not on here.

    • Hi JaneB… write to me trishwills60@hotmail.co.uk dont worry about leaving your email I am not sure but check by all means that ” outsiders” cant see the email addresses but I might be wrong. ( do please check before you leave yours ) Me i dont give a damn who has mine! I have written it in bloggs here many times, you can check with cj to see if i am legit. he knows I am OK. and you can check the email adress as well he has 2 of mine, Bye for now Trish. (and yes we can compare stories!)

  14. Good news everyone, I have just talked to the real soldier that pictures where stolen. I knew him as Tom Curtis. His last name is not Curtis.

    • can you tell me how you managed to contact the real soldier as i would love to bring to the attention of the real Mark Ehresman (if that is him in the photo) that his photo is being used in this scam.

      • I searched facebook and myspace until I came across the real soldiers site. I am trying to find out who this Mark Ehresman is for you. So far all I have found is the facebook site the scammer setup.

        • Hi JJ, Could you try and find the real Ivan Nobile as well or tell me how to find him. I also have extra photos that is not on this website, maybe I should send that in for the website as well.

        • WOW, JJ can you do that for me too? I have been looking for “my soldier” for about a month now, and still no luck…I am sending pictures of him this evening to CJ for them to be posted out here. My scammer went by the name of SSgt George England. I have already checked with the military and “George England” is a retired Army officer, so his first name is not “George”. His email addresses that he used are georicklove1@yahoo.com and georicklove1@live.com. If you could find him I would be very grateful!!!

        • Forgot to tell you, his name “England” is on his uniform, also on his right shoulder is a patch of the “screaming eagles”, they are based out of Ft Campbell, KY

        • you know, if I could remember everything I want to put here in the comments,I would not have had to do this 3 times…lol. He contacted me through SingleParentMeet.com.

        • Hi JJ I am in Australia and have been truely scammed. His name is “Sgt Jeff Preston” but has call name of Jeff Hewitt. The lead email was exactly the same as Robert Haggard except a slight change in DOB to 9/11/60, all other email info the same. rank etc. Supposidly in Iraq and discharged 22nd June Had a package with large amount of money to be delivered to me via a diplomatic envoy by the name of NEWTON AMMED
          It would appear from the photos and DVD sent that this Jeff Preston does exist but it is not the man I have been chatting to for the past 10 weeks. I have been badly scammed and lost a lot of money
          I would like the real Jeff Preston to be aware of this somehow

      • Hi Jane
        I,too, have been talking to the notorious mark ehresman. I just kicked his butt to the curb tonight. I don’t know if the name is made up or not. If you want to compare notes you can get my email address from CJ. They are reading this site also. Good Luck

        • Hi Donna

          Have you had any luck tracing the real Steven Barrett yet? Email me.

        • Hi Donna, when the so called Mark realised you had sussed him out did he turn nasty towards you? I too confronted him when i found out and since then have had nasty and threatening messages from him. I have tried to delete him but every now and then i get these messages.

    • I would like to talk to that soldier by the name Tom Curtis,I’m in conversation with someone who is using that name. He started using the email tomcurtis69@yahoo.com,then he changed it to captomhiltoncurtis@yahoo.com now.He is in Kabul Afghanistan and about to come visit me here in USA but I need to fill the leave request and pay all the expenses for him,because in the military,soldiers don’t have access to their account until their deployment.I thought that was strange and I saw the video at CNN.I would like to talk to him.I also have the pictures with the snakes and everything.Thanks again

      • Wow, this is crazy! I have been married to a soldier who had deployed 4 times and he has NEVER needed money to come home, call home, or send anything home ever. I guarantee that if a soldier needs money for somethig like thate he is not a soldier. Most of the guys over there want care packages with chips, and candy. I hate that any woman is betrayed like this.

        • HI i read you mail and i have a queStion,i been talking to a sargente name T.W.B. i dont want to make his name public becuse i dont know if his one of then,he sin very sincier,but here we go he wants me to asked for him and i send a letter to his commander,and ater few minutes got a responde back telling me :that i need to pay a fee of 3,500,o00 dolares for his vacacional leave.i have not send no money cours i dont have it.what do you think and what shoot i look for.thank you and excuse my spelling.

      • hey leonie… ive got the same pics as u have but i knew him by james harrison from rosebud tx….. james_b1950@yahoo.com he had an account on tagged that was recently deleted…. ws in afghanistand and be coming home 06/2011 i would love to know who the true us solider is in the pics..

    • Hello there could you tell me how you found out the real soldier in the pictures that were stolen. I have been sent a picture so someone and an trying to figure out who it could be. I would appreciate any help you could give me, he went by the namd Gary Jonh, I would like this persion aware that his picture is also being used on msn messenger.

    • Hi JJ
      How did you go about finding him? Did he know his pics had been stolen?

    • I have also written to him, but got no response.

  15. I bet he ( general odierno) can spell a whole lot better also. Very funny CJ.

  16. i have just had contact from ooowa wait for it JEFF MILLER!!, funny tho bcuz i have VERY GOOD INTUITION :-) and have caught him out in a matter of 2days! not that i would give ANY MAN MONEY! so to all you women out there, WE WERE ALL BORN WITH INTUITION so USE IT, if something doesnt FEEL RIGHT it usually ISANT!

    • well he uses harston miller now so be aware of that

  17. This is getting more insane as time goes on, using soldiers identities that have passed away and tormenting the families, i am saddened to the point of having tears. and soooo angry.
    CJ and all the rest, you guys are AMAZING, PERIOD.

  18. I am an Aussie I was on oasis active when they contacted. thats a dating site. I was chatting to a man who called himself Thomas edwards, supposedly from a sgt in iraq with the E-6.. he said from New Jersey he had two boys, his wife died 5 years ago in a car accident with her drunken friends also. He said he now lived in Florida and the kids were minded by a care taker/sitter. 15 adn 12 years old. when I questioned him about scamming he reared up and got a bit angry. calmed him down. I have just ended up deleting and blocking him from any messages. he was on yahoo and messenger , sent photos too. he used the email. thomas_franknelly@hotmail.com or yahoo.com I hate these guys. I was not looking for true love, just a chat and a friend. they drive me insane. I have another one too. Hi name is meant to be john wilinton a major in iraq. but once I saw the photos I enlarged them and the cloth name tag on this guys shirt was shankovich or shakkovich. I queried him and he said he had swapped in the bar the shirt with his mate as a joke and then went out and posed for the photo. He did not know what an AKO was said ..do you mean my gun… (obviously aka he was talking about) I said no unless your gun can send emails. he then got angry. he told me only immediate family can have the ako. He was indignant with the questions I asked. his chat and spelling getting irregular by the moment. When he first contacted typing had no errors and he was really eloquent in speech. 2-3 days after it was basic. I asked why he had put his son in an NGO as he called it in god forsaken Ghana. did not go down to well. This Aussie girl can be a bit grrr when needs too. The photos of the man supplied are with his son and pals etc,his 4wd and so forth quite real like. I jut hope it not the real major… but I have serious doubt. because the insignia for a major is not only two stripes. his email is johnwilinton@yahoo.com or hotmail dot com. he is on oasis as john 8766 I think.

    just thought someone should know, even if its to help others.

    Regards Shona.

    • Shona I am from Australia too. If you would like a chat about all this feel free to email me : machook7@optusnet.com.au

    • Hi Shona, from aussie myself have just been in contact with john wilinton he has now added shandovich to his last name. thanks heaps for the heads up

      what a work of art.

      gail

    • l am aussie girl to contacted on oasis site by general commander no such thing had a son in ghana at school 11 years old wanted money son had run out he had none where he was , like yeh right we maybe from down under but we are dumb he was richard len sir_richard20@hotmail.com. harrassed with many emails declaring love and be together until the end of time ? now l sent no money spelling and grammar poor and doesnt have time to talk has field training , l am be dateless but not that desperate lol
      cheers glenys

      • is there anyway of reporting these scammers to the us miltitary they are using photos of real soldiers

    • he has scammed me for a lot of money and i think he is going to try to scam me again i am glad i read this he told me his son was in a boarding school in Ghana but what i dont understand i wanted to talk to his son and i did his son sounds like a real American did you ever speak to john on the phone i did

    • I to have been scammed by this same person but it was May this year
      I am in Australia and was caught big time. How does one deal with tihs

  19. hi cj that should of read johnwilinton45@yahoo.com and hotmail.com

    Have now deleted all trace of them from p.c. etc. I do have photos of the soldiers if you want me to submit them. dont know how to send them to you.

    regards shona

  20. Have found the email to send them to you CJ and have sent them today. I hope they get there.

    regards
    Shona

  21. Hi CJ,
    I am so happy that I came across with this website and I found through Google. Now to the point, I have been communicating with an individual that claims to be an Army soldier deployed in Afghanistan. I have all of his emails, chats and pictures please tell me how to send them to you so that I can find out if he is been a scamer or not. The reason I want to find out the thruth is becase he informed me that in order for him to call me I have to pay $500.00 USD which to me it sounds odd plus today in our chat he asked me for $100.00 USD for the reason that he have some bills to pay, which to me it does not make any sense at all. Please find out about him, his name is Sfc James Thompson Ramos. I will greatly appreciate it so thank you in advance for any help that you can give me.

    • Hi Laura i have also been asked to send 500usd to speak with a so called major on deployment in Afghanistan to speak with him using vsat telecommunications,of course i said no,so now he has tried to get 500usd from me for his leave to come and meet me here in Australia,again i said no as i have done some checking.Has anyone heard of a Ash Donavon in there travels,i cant find anything on him.

      • Hi Kaye, I am happy that you got wise on him is just a shame of the extrem these scammers go through just to reach into our pockets.

  22. PS: My offer to Shona also applies to anyone else who has been caught up in this scam.

  23. I have been a complete plonker, talking to Mark Ehresman or at least i thought i was, can’t believe i very nearly fell for this scam but must admit always had my suspicions as he did come on a bit strong, and especially when he asked me to order him a satalite phone for him from a military sight, thankfully i didn’t.
    Can you please tell me is the photo of a genuine soldier that isn’t aware what it is being used for as not quite sure.
    I was contacted by this so called person on the mate 1 dating site and not sure if he was on their as a genuine person and then the details used by others in this scam.
    thanks. Jane

    • Jane b
      The pic is not the major mark ehresman who has been trying to scam us. I am still in contact with him and I know of four other woman who he is in contact with at this moment. he is a liar a thief and a dumb ass. His daughter Rose ia also a fake. His ip tracks back to Nigeria. I also met him on mate1
      tell him to take a hike. he is only trying to scam you.

      • thanks Donna,
        I’m pretty sure this so called major ehresman wont be contacting me again after our last conversation!!!!
        How do i find out who the guy is in the photo , i think he should know his picture is being used in this scam.

        Do these scammers set the details up on the dating sits.

        • I am also wondering how to contact these soldiers in the pictures to inform them that someone is using their identities. Most of the pictures of the man I was chatting with do not have a name on his uniform that is visible, but his friend’s uniforms have visible names. Can they be found and told? to inform the soldier that is being used? I feel terrible, that this is happening to our brave men in uniform. I would be sick and outraged to find this out.

  24. Jane, The photos are of REAL soldiers but the scammers are using the photos and pretending to be them.

    • hi i cant believe all these stories i am hearing!!! Im a aussie girl and im talking to a soldier in kabul…so far he has not asked for money etc but i am suspicous…how can i find out if this guy is real??????

      • hi sharon, u know what ive meet sgt kennedy macmahon milliard from kabul afghanistan in facebook,and i dont know too if his a scammer,he always send mesge in my acnt.he told me to regster to the usmarine so that we can talk in telephone but i did not do it,i hope this man is what you mean,il show you the pic of him

        • That name sounds familiar. “Kennedy McMahon Milliard” asked my daughter many times for money. Once was when he wanted to come visit her at Christmas. He had been granted leave, he claimed. All she had to do was send him money to “pay my superior for the leave so I can come to meet you, my love”. Pure @#$%!!! Careful, ladies. Don’t let loneliness, heartbreak and frustration lead you to making foolish choices. Clearly there are alot of scammers out there ready and willing to take advantage and take your money at the same time.

      • hi sharron, i lost my real wondrful hubby over a year now, i meet a guy who said he was from affganistaine but he has scamed me out of money .he said he loved me & wanted to come & meet me in aussie but he wanted more money sent for his leave papers so he satd. he wanted 8,999 usd sent to him what a big scam he was that i had fallen for … GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN B4 U GET THE BIG LIES & SCAM DONE TO U OK GOOD LUCK

      • Hi Wow I’m glad I found this site I have had contact from Jeff Hewitt can’t see the photo here. Someone else has too. Something was a bit off so I researched. Apparently articulate man in the long letters sent the next day with some English anomolies not right for a soldier. At first I put it down to mis spelling, then details I had said were forgotton, then the name Beauty which is generic and then ‘Dear’ got me. Then firing questions from a list at me to build up what I was looking for, it is analysed by the next day and another letter sent. This has only gone on for three days thank God. Watch for spellos and serious grammatical errors, also tried to get me to talk dirty which really offended me. Simple formula ask questions and give the right answer to mirror what you say. I began to think this guy was a stalker psycho and so searched. Even had shots of his ‘kids’ Funny thing is the photo matched another profile on RSVP. How inconvenienced that they cannot contact us..that stirred up my ire straight away and why choose me when I am in a country town. The pat response bothered me too ‘because you caught my eyes.’ About three or four people do the responding. Go Girls.

        • Hi Edwina
          I too have been approached by this guy Jeff Hewitt on RSVP. I couldnt get over how he had his children posted up as well unbelievable what these guys will do.I also picked up on the language as being inconsistent with the Sargeant title he gave himself.I hope no one falls for his suave but very bad english grammar.Thanks for the post Edwina.

  25. My, my it seems like all of them ask for the same thing, mine had asked for $500.00 for him to be able to get a sattelite phone in order to be able to call me of course I said no. Then he got the nerve to ask me for $100.00 for him to be able to pay some bills once again I said no and besides what kind of bill is there to pay in the middle of the desert is not like there’s a Walmart close to them. I am so livid for it is not fair for the soldiers or for them to prey on women. Ladies we do need to be cautious and not allow for this jerks fill our beautiful heads with trash, I know that been alone or lonely is hard for I am single so I know what is like not to have some one to talk to but at the same time I much rather continue been alone before one of those jerks tries to take me for a free ride. Yes I am angry at this whole situation and please forgive me if I offended any one.

    • laura what was the name of the soldier who asked for money for a satellite phone?

    • i have been commuting with a guy who calls himself Col Milton Robert Clark, who also told me he wanted to hear my voice on the ph. so he asked me to put in a request through his army dept for approval, but i had to pay for subscriptopn. $380 USD. I didn’t havew the money so i said maybe i can borrow it i don’t know. and each day we chatted he kept asking me when i was going to send the money. Then i was not well for a few days and my nephew mailed him to tell hi, he didn’t beleive him. well the story is he wanted to come to australia to marry me. like that would ever happen i am 76 he is 54. how stupid do they think people are. He got very nast via chat. i completely got right out of imesh . he may be genuine i don’t know but i wont take the asbuse he threw at me. be careful ladies. He told me when he first chatted with me 3weeks afgo he had lost the love of his life and missed her badly that was his wife who supposedly died 7yrs ago.comments please

      • Edna this is a SCAMMER you do not have to email anyone to talk to REAL US Military members they can contact their loved ones for free he got upset because you didnt fall for his bullshit he is a lying beggar plain and simple thats why he kept asking when you would send the money he is an African the money was for him if he wanted to hear your voice Im sure he has a Mobile as they call it so NO he is not real

        REAL US Military Members will NOT need your money for ANY reason they have access to their own money at ALL times

        Only a scammer will find you on a social site claim to be military and then invent a reason to beg or to get money from you thats what scammers do they are a lazy pile of shit with no hope of doing anything better they blame everyone but themselves for their problems they claim that US Citizens owe them for enslaving them none of those assholes have ever been slaves and they sold their own people into slavery and they owned slaves themselves

        Long story short these West Africans will scam and beg eachother as well as anyone including their own Mother for the promise of money.

  26. I have been victim of JOHN PALMAS Scam, after signing at http://www.Jdate.com a couple of months ago, JOHN contact me and after a couple of days, he started sending me Poems, lovely emails, in may 2nd, he asked me to mail to his friend MARK RIDINGS in California a NOKIA 6700 Cell phone in order to be able to contact me directly. I mailed it on the 5/12 by Fedex, the package has never been delivered to the address provided, but yesterday at 8:30 PM the package has been picked up at the Fedex store. I am completely in shock seeing his photos today, and I just want to say to those low life creatures that I AM REALLY PROUD OF MYSELF FOR BEING MYSELF AND NOT LIVING IN THE HELL LIKE THEY ARE, THEIR SOUL ARE SO DARK AND WHAT IT HAS TO COME TO THEM WILL COME SOON OR LATER. I just want to ask those stupid people to stop using the GOD’S WORDS IN VAIN AND GET A LIFE. I will submit other photos I got, the address provided and the emails are jp_00@inorbit.com and mridings1965@yahoo.com

    • Hi Monica
      Yes he also contacted me.
      In one of our last chats when I was just going to send a email telling him that I could not go on with “that relationship” that I had to trust my six sense and that if we were meant to be when he was home we’ll meet and see in our eyes if everything was real (it was to fast and it was like very suspicious that he was like saying “I love you” just in one month)…I went again to the internet to check his name and finally found something about him, when Jana posted his name on this site and saw all this scams.
      He never asked me for nothing not even when I told him I wanted to hear his voice, He just told me he was going to buy it on the net and tell a college that was going were he was to take it to him.
      When I found out about this I send the pics to CJ. The day after he contacted me after two days of chat silence telling me he had hard time because one of the servers went down but was ok now I gave him my letter and just told me that please don’t tell him that not a good time he was thru a lot of problems, etc, etc. but then never contacted me again.
      I saw in his skype account that he has put a kids photo …. Hope no one else gets scammed by him.
      The problem is that the photos this scammer is using does not have a name tag so the real guy can be contacted so he can see that his photos are being used.
      Don’t worry Monica, they have to pay one way or another…all falls apart sooner or later.
      Ann

      • has anyone heard of mike gales? a us army seargent in iraq. i have been ask to buy books from amazon for him, and have them sent to an apo address, with someone elses name.he will send me the money with western un ion. but he says he will want 10-12 books. all about asn.1 complete, and some about how to make millions in the stock market.he is willing to send the money first. sounds like a scam, just not sure the angle.can anyone help me withthis??

        • well, if it is an APO adress then it most likely goes overseas to a military station, BUT, he has internet access… so why wont he buy them himself. Sounds too suspicious

        • That may actually be legit. Amazon.com won’t ship certain things to APOs (my husband would have me ship it to our house then to him). If you’re sending it to an APO, it probably is getting to a military member. However, I would take the money first, and if it’s western union, that should be fine. I wouldn’t accept a check.

        • I just met Mike Gales (US Sgt.Major in Kabul)and we’ve been emailing a few times. He favored me on match.com Before going any further, I wanted to check him out. Couldn’t find him anywhere on internet except here. So I am VERY suspicious that he may not be legit.Claimed to have been hit in the leg this week by grenade.

        • I do know of him , he is a friend of mine we met on dating site long ago.. his a nice army man .. he never had asked money from me , and told me most things about his life .. And told me his engaged .. And told me about his leg , he was hit ..

        • Well, “Janet Quensie”, it’s interesting that you don’t have the best capacity to write in English, etiher, just like “Mike Gales”. I couldn’t find you on Google either. I think everyone needs to be super cautious because the scammers could be here scamming to save their reputations. In any case, if he says “his” engaged, then why is he still actively looking for women on dating sites? That’s a loser in my books.

        • Well am not trying to in a way saving his reputation. cause when we met on dating site.. he was only looking for friends, that’s what he said to me .. just that about him..
          he is a good friend of mine .
          and i believe in him ..
          as he ever asked money from you in any way .
          be honest Mary G..?
          If not why you passing judgment to someone like that.
          you should have your research done before passing false judgment ok.

        • Check the first message about “Mike Gales”. He says to one he is i Iraq, to me he’s in Kabul. He’s asked someone already to buy and send things. I didn’t wait that long before looking into it. He did not ask to be just “friends” with me. Maybe you talked to the “real” Mike Gales, but I will find out if he exists and who is really is and not just from the internet. People who are predators are the lowest of the low. How come you suddenly on this sight supporting only one person? How did you find out his name was associated with this particular site?

        • Sgt Major, Mike Gales in Kabul Afganastan is a con artist ~ I have six pictures for this website and letters.

        • From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
          Date: Mon, 30 Aug 2010 10:32:40 -0400

          Good Day love,
          I am very sorry i am just having to write you .. i was so into trying to get my self out of here and also work on the document that was all around, so i did not have time to come online to talk to you course of this.. I am glad to say i have been able to get most of the documents filed out .. I also was able to talk to my superior about my leave and there seems to be a way which i can get to have my leave. I would like us to talk online via the messenger so i can explain things to you and we can work on seeing how i can be out of here and we can both be together.. as i really miss you and want you so much in my world..


          USA ARMY

          Sgt Major. Mike Gales

          From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
          Date: Thu, 26 Aug 2010 20:06:21 -0400

          Hello sweetie.
          I am sorry i am just getting the chance to mail you.The thing is based on resent happenings we’ve been a little short on hands out here and so many of us whom are due retiring are being told that we would have to spend the rest of our service out here. This i sure am going crazy about cos God knows i don’t intend on spending more than a month more out here. I am right now trying to check out alternatives on how i can get my ass out of here. cos things are getting much worse out here as it goes..
          General David Petraeus the new commander sent in by Obama is sure making this though and tight out here for us alittle.I really wish these crazy politicians would have a feel of what its like out here then they would not go around making silly statements about US military withdrawing from Afghanistan,Iraq by mid-next year.

          You are my world and i hope you know that i am so ready to spend the rest of my world with you .. You bring joy in my world every time i read a mail from you .. the thought of having you in my arms so binds me in joy that i am short of words in how i wish to express my feelings for you right now.
          I might not be able to come online for a day more but after that i promise to get online more often as i can.. and i sure want you to always keep me up to date on how things are going with you .cos your mail carries me through.. i print out your mails to me so i can carry them around with me some times just so i can read them again over and over again.. You one thing sustaining me out here and i don’t think i could have asked for a better love than you .. you my soul mate and my heart beat so please don’t you break my heart cos i would never in anyway think of hurting you..
          I LOVE YOU
          I LOVE YOU
          I LOVE YOU
          If I could have just one wish right now,I would wish to wake up everyday to the sound of your breath on my neck,the warmth of your lips on my cheek,the touch of your fingers on my skin,and the feel of your heart beating with mine…Knowing that I could never find that feeling with anyone other than you.The words in your mails comes to me in sweet honesty and truth.I think of you each morning,And dream of you each night,I think of you being rapped in my arms and gently kissed with whisper of sweet loving words from me to you.

          I can not but wait and pray that GOD grants us that day for us to meet so i can express this feeling i got inside me for and you can do same.

          I await hearing from you my dearest heart beat.


          USA ARMY

          Sgt Major. Mike Gales

        • ivy dont send anything to him he is scamming you just like my guy did to me please stop now

  27. please can any one help me and answer my question. i have been scammed already so am very wary and need help. i have met a doctor from the states in afghanistan on a dating site, he has never asked for anything of me. i wanted to send him a card for his birthday but he said i am not allowed to is this true, he mails me every day and phoned me a couple of times , have been talking for 5 months. i just need to know the answer to this question. thanks.

    • No, this is not true and is a classic tactic of scammers. Your best bet is
      to tell him if you can’t send him a card or letter, then you are ending the
      “relationship”. If he gives you an address, make sure it’s an APO or FPO
      address.

      • CJ

        I emailed u sum pics which was sent to be by this guy who claimed he is lt timothy bills based in afghan. have u by any chance receive it n if u do cud u put it up here pls so all d ladies will be aware of it as well as the real soldiers. another guy contacted me via imesh under d name of staff sergeant james pendleton, based in pakistan but d weird thing now dat he is in nigeria. dis guy use d same pic of dat soldier on d top dis articles. Also is there a real major dunn? he is ft, blue eyes, originally from roxburgh but refusing to give more details n it was thru imesh.
        I lost sum money cos i beleieve in dis lt timothy bill n never realise den dat he is one of d many scammer from nigeria.

        so pls CJ if u receive the pics, please put dem all ere.

        Thanx

        Jazz

        • Hi, I think I am being scammed by the same man puporting to be a Michael Cindrich. Do you have any photos I could compare?
          Best regards,
          Gill

      • CJ ~ can you please write to my email address so I can update you with the six photographs…. Thank you. DJ

        From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
        Date: Wed, 18 Aug 2010 03:33:38 -0400

        I try to put this feeling into words, but fail miserably. This feeling of being both scared and at peace, of having both butterflies and a sense of calm, is a feeling that I have only dreamed about. As the days continue to pass, my love for you continues to grow. I never thought I had the capacity to love anybody as much as I love you right now. Yet, my love for you continues to mature, growing beyond the realm of my heart. It seems that you have become the fiber of my soul, the very reason for my existence.
        Each day that passes makes our love for each other grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be apart, I know there is nothing that can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing will stop me from meeting you.
        You have the greatest soul, the noblest nature, the sweetest, most loving heart I have ever known, and my love and admiration for you have increased so much since we’ve known each other that it still amazes me.


        USA ARMY

        Sgt Major. Mike Gales

        From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
        Date: Tue, 17 Aug 2010 04:31:46 -0400

        After a blissful night spent dreaming
        I write this love poem for you
        You have given my life meaning
        And I swear undying devotion to you.
        You are the air I am breathing
        Every thought in my mind
        The reason my heart is beating
        The sweetest rose on the vine.
        My passion for you has no measure
        How can I value what is beyond worth
        I only know you are my heart’s treasure
        And I’m the luckiest guy on this earth.
        My life now is so full of beauty
        You have made my living worthwhile
        And I consider it my duty
        To wake you every day with a smile..
        We are destined to be together
        And what must be must be
        Make this the first day of our forever
        And share life’s happiness with me.


        USA ARMY

        Sgt Major. Mike Gales

        • I received the exact e-mail from a scammer named KennySchultz43@yahoo.com His picture is on here several time. I don’t know if it’s the same person using several names or the scammers use the same messages.

        • Hi Dorothy J

          I remember this email address…. this email address was used by Lt.James Daniel and I still have all his email copies of everything he wrote to me ….

          cheers w.rose

        • I wish to inform that one cold for “jonathan brown” ,
          and a Diplomat named “Steven Jackson” , these are scammers

      • From: lovingsoul009@aol.com

        From: galesca86@hotmail.com

        Date: Tue, 24 Aug 2010 01:13:22 -0400

        Good morning Love,
        I write you this mail with a bitter heart as i am so hurt right now.
        Just got words from my superior saying i can not leave as we are very short of hands out here in Kabul,and so due to this i would have to stay till maybe sometime in december .Which means the leave of mine has been canceled.
        I have been trying all through since i heard this to work on it but there sure has been nothing i can do.. all i but get is we would need time to find a way to work this out.
        Baby i know in some way you sure would be disappointed about this , But i do hope you willing to hang on with me and pray i work things out here so i can be with you and you with me.
        As i know i have entrusted you with my heart for safe keeping
        Even through the night whilst sleeping

        Thoughts of you constant in my head
        Which gives solace and chases away the dread

        At every possible moment I check my mail
        To see if you’ve sent a message so my emotions can once again set sail

        On this journey of completeness that I would have with you
        All I ask is please, please be true

        If at any time you are in doubt
        Promise me this, that you will speak out

        Don’t break this heart that was once so weak but now beats so strong
        Theses emotions I have feel so right that they can’t possibly be wrong

        For you this special person I barely know
        To let my soul conjoin with yours and grow

        So like minded we are as one
        The day we met online was the moment my life had begun

        You are the morning sun on a Spring day drying the dew that was once my tears
        I in return am the colour green that makes you happy and dispels your fears.

        I but only hope you stand by me sweetie


        USA ARMY

        Sgt Major. Mike Gales

        This man was very angry on messenger when I would NOT agree to fill out forms so he could be granted leave . . . to marry.

        • cj, I have received exact emails as Dorothy J. has. I also have many photos of him. I have printed every email, he has sent me since 7/21. I met him on matchmaker.com. He also had me to go on yahoo mesenger. His scam is for me to send $4,580.00 to purchase his leave via western union. The letter of leave paper came from a Col. Susan Croakley. Thank God for western union, the person I was to send the money to, Deborah Cook, Baycity, Tx. was on their fraud list. I did not of course, send the money. His email is lovingsoul009@aol.com. His name on matchmaker was armysoul009.(Mike Gales). His name on yahoo messenger is Mike Gales009. I can send all pictures and email if you want. I want to know the real identity of this man in my photos. Thank You

        • Dear Judith ~ Sgt Major. Mike Gales is a very convincing scam artist ~ what age did he give you? He gave me his age as 59 ~ he also said his was leg was hit in combat and that his leave was cancelled.

          Did you report him to the matchmaker site? He was using date.com when writing to me.

          Do you by any chance live in South Africa?

          You may ask CJ for my email or phone number if you need to talk this through ~ and please place his letters on this site which will help other ladies Mike Gales is trying to scam ~ but he is probably going under different names by now. Dorothy J

        • Sgt Major, Mike Gales lovingsoul009@aol.com

          Loving you and having you in my world is the best thing that ever happened to me. If I could runaway I’ll run with you far away,To a place where there’ll be angels,Who’ll describe to you the way I feel,Feel for you, feel about you,My heart and my soul’s desire.

          If I could pick a day to run away I’d surely pick a Sunday,Cos the angels would be totally there at the disposal of you and me.

          The reason I need the angels to talk to you for me is that you’re my angel,So maybe you will understand the angels when they tell you how I feel.

          Baby we often find love in places we least expect,If i was told i would find my true love from the net i would find it hard to believe ,but here i am saying it to you and not ashamed or shy or scared to say it ,I do love and care about you and i want my world around you.

          Even though we have not meet yet.I know You are the right woman for me.It may sound crazy to us both at times but the truth
          remains thus we do care about each other and that we can not deny that.


          USA ARMY

          Sgt Major. Mike Gales

          A fraud and con-artist ~ he may have many differnt names by now….

      • CJ,

        I desprately need your help, I’ve got emails and pictures of a man stating he is Staff Sargent Tommy Willaim Barrera. Could you please send me your email address so you can post this on this site so no one else can be scammed by this person.

        Many thanks,
        K

    • Jane B…I have been scammed and after doing alot of research and calls and emails, yes all of the soldiers can get mail!!! As a matter of fact “they love” getting actual mail from people…I have not come across anything yet that they cannot receive anything.

      • The ONLY time a guy cannot get mail is when they first get there and whne they are about to leave and that is because they either are not set up for mail yet or they are not set up anymore. You could send it, but they may not get it during these two times

  28. hi cj,
    thanks very much i have done what you have advised me to do, i will keep you posted when i get his reply. this site is fantastic and i log in everyday to keep my self up to date on these scum. i cant thank you enough. big kiss from me.

  29. It is not easy to find them. I found the one whose pictures were used to try to scam me and have been trying to find the other ones, no luck so far, but I will keep searching. Just keep submitting your photos to the site so I have something to go on and if there is a name on the uniform let me know.

  30. I was scammed by a guy who called himself Capt Rellinger brayn clin
    capt.relinclin@yahoo.com also used following addresses ,gen.hush_bryan@ymail.com,gen.leon_ballack@rocketmail.com, found me on myyearbook.com, there are also some on shtyle.fm

    • Sylvia, Donna and CJ,
      OOPS sounds like James Rellinger’s name is being brought up again i smell a rotting fish.

      • Susan
        These guys are like vampires. When they are outed by someone they lay low for awhile only to rise again. The only difference is these are money sucking vampires instead of blood sucking ones.

        • DOnna,
          they are truly sick, and STUPID to say the least.

        • bitte sagen sie mir ob james rellinger zu den betrüger gehört meine email ist leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com

      • Yes the famous James Rellinger is at it again……he has tried to scam me as well although he doesnt know that i know who he is…

        • bitte können sie mir sagen was er von ihnen wollte.das sind alles arschlöcher.schreibe mit ihn schon so lange.er will seinen koffer senden an mich mit 3,800 us dollar.haha das ich nicht lache.bitte um antwort lg helga deniz aus wien

        • auch capt.relinclin@yahoo.com ist rellinger
          nach den fotos der gleiche wie in sgt.rellinger43@live.com why militär nichts unternehmen oder polizei.kann das nicht verstehen.
          mail: leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com

      • yes you have right. have you send money to him. i have the passport from him in copie please say me this was her to you write thanks

      • der hat aber seinen namen an der uniform.ist er ein betrüger bitte helfen sie mir

      • das ist rellinger ich habe schion geschrieben mit ihm.ein arschloch

      • I have been taken for $6700.00 and I want to know if you can confirm his mailing address, does he live in Oakland, CA or in Florida.

        I am not working and will be forced to go bankrupt as i am unable to pay all this money back. I would appreciate hearing from you. Thank you.

        Can you please email any information that you might have?

        I am inquiring about JAMES RELLINGER who was recently stationed in Bagdad. any information you have would b e greatly appreciated. Thank you.

        • I WISH TO RETRACT MY PREVIOUS STATEMENT PERTAINING TO JAMES RELLINGER. I WAS UPSET WHEN I READ THE PREVIOUS COMMENTS MADE ON THIS FORUM BY OTHER WOMEN AND JUMPED TO CONCLUSIONS.

          I WISH TO FORMALLY APOLOGIZE TO JAMES RELLINGER WHO DID NOT ASK FOR ME TO TARNISH HIS GOOD NAME, AND I SINCERELY REGRET ALL THE PAIN AND EMBARRASSMENT THAT I HAVE CAUSED HIM BECAUSE OF MY COMMENTS MADE ON SEPTEMBER 13, 2010.

          I THOUGHT THIS FORUM WAS A PLACE WHERE ONE COULD CONFIDENTIAL ASK AROUND FOR INFORMATION IF YOU WERE UNSURE OF SOMEONE, I DID NOT REALISE THAT MY COMMENTS WERE BEEN REPORTED.
          AGAIN I APOLOGIZE TO JAMES RELLINGER AND HOPE THAT HE CAN FIND IN HIS HEART TO FORGIVE ME, AS I AM SO SORRY THAT I POSTED THESE INACCURATE STATEMENTS.

        • Dear Victims,

          We are the (IC3) organisation, we are Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) and we are in partnership between the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), the National White Collar Crime Center (NW3C), and the Bureau of Justice Assistance (BJA), you can get to know more about us on our website: http://www.ic3.gov.
          We got a report about some scam that happened to you akk online, am pleased to tell you that the scammers will be arrested. Please, do get back to our Agent Arold Mike James on msn: usagovernment_military@live.com skype : ic3_agent for more investigation, as HE WILL HELP YOU GET ALL YOU HAVE LOST, and help you get you life back, by arresting this criminals..

          website: http://www.ic3.gov
          IC3 Washington Headquarters :+1-206-317-3407
          skype : ic3_agent

        • I’m approving this comment for Google search purposes and to ensure you don’t fall for this scam. The US Government, no matter what section of the government, does NOT use generic sites like Gmail, Yahoo, and Live.com for email. All OFFICIAL government emails will have the appropriate .gov suffix to their email. This “FBI” comment is a fraud and the IP links back to Ghana.

    • i would like to know if any of u have heared the name Harston miller or leslie miller

  31. Cj,JJ and all the rest,
    this is my question,
    why hasn’t any one from the Military looked into this especially if they know whats going on? you would think it would protect those serving as well as the bases they are deployed in. and maybe have done something to help, or at least try,
    Is this one of those I’ll just sweep it under the rug scenarios?
    thanks,
    Susan.

    • Hi Susan I read your post and have to say that I totally agree with you and ask also the same question as you, and probably many others have asked on this site, WHY the heck dont the government do something about protecting their guys…. looking out for their interests, making sure they arent getting scammed by lo life in these African countries…. that just sit and use a bit of technology to give them a standard of living which they cant have as they have no skills of anything… surely by now the governements of these countries should get together and try and wipe out these SCAM internet places.. and prevent them being used ASAP….. I think the time has gone on long enough with no action…. would love to hear comments from any one… thanks Susan for yours. at least someone had the Nerve to stand up and say it,,,, I am from uk but the same happens with out lads I am sure but i am not aware of any site such as this to go to. But yes its more paramount with USA soldiers…..who ever does the scams. thinks that usa guys have more to offer any lady….well Most, do seem to have a lot going for them I have to admit that myself, that it is easy to fall for one of these brave handsome guys in uniform…. so why not protect the job they do and the role they play in protecting these countries i am sure they would rather be home than in some desolate hot arid country…. best wishes to all Trisha

      • If you feel you are being scammed, go to http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx and file a complaint and let the FBI figure it out, if it is a scam. That is their job and you have to think of the safety of your family as well as yourself. In my efforts to locate the soldier in my pictures, I have been firmly told to let the FBI handle it. They probably have more information and connections to find and prosecute these scum bags better than we can. I just hope that these soldiers are made aware of the use of their photos.

        • Hi Angel, thank you for the information. Nice to know this homepage..www,ic3.gov.

      • I signed onto the WOOME site and got bombarded with USA Military men and being an educated woman I made many inquiries re: Major Mills Cole (Im assuming Cole Mills) and SFC Darryl Lopez who both sent pictures, lovely stories (or scripts) and I also spoke to Darryl Lopez just last night lovely American Man (well at least he sounded like it) then I phoned the American Embassy in Australia and was advised this is a scam and then I reported the website to ACCC in Australia – I feel awful that these soldiers are being misrepresented and believe the American Government should be doing something about it. Good Luck and hope all works will for everyone out there – take care and don’t get sucked in – Fiona

        • Hi Fiona,this is so sad. But can you please tell me is this SFC Darryl Lopez who is currently stationed in Bagdad? He said his son’s name is Jimm Darryl is born 17 Aug 1960.

          He yet didn’t give me reason to believe he is a scammer, though I do have my doubt – he is to good to be true

          Please revert back to me

        • I would like to retract my statement made about Darryl Lopez in the above comment – it appears that this is a very real solider who was upset and offended when his name was listed in this publication identifying him as a scammer

          There was never any intent to harm Darryl Lopez and I would like to again apologise for any problems this may have caused Darryl and his family or his position as a solider with the USA Military in Afghanistan.

          Thanks
          Fiona

        • Hanlie and Fiona,

          I, too have been contacted by SFC Darryl Lopez, who is currently stationed in Iraq and whose son’s name is Jimmy. In his emails and chats he also sounds too good to be true and I’ve had my doubts. Now I see that he’s been contacting quite a few of us. If he’s not a scammer, he’s certainly a serial online dater.

        • Hanlie and Fiona,

          I checked the IP address of Darryl Lopez, and it originates in Ghana!! If Darryll Lopez is a real soldier, I suspect he’s not the one writing to any of us. Fiona, can you tell us how you found he’s a real soldier?

  32. I was also scammed out of money from Charles Ramsy, I met him on the very first dating site that i ever went on, did not know a ting about the military, he and I talked for about 3 months we had even talked about getting married, he said that his wife had died from breat cancer, and he had a 8 year old son who was in military school in south carolina, but he told me that he was from dallas texas and that he also owned his deceased parents home in London, but he never wanted to go back there, he scammed me for transit money, he wanted to come here to meet me, he even sent me emails with general odiernos name signed to them, it took me meeting a real soldier to learn the truth about their procedures, and if you will go to charles ramsys profile page on windows live you will see several others that he tried to scam as well. lieutenantcharlesswansonramsy@live.com.

  33. THAT PICTURE THAT WAS BEING USED BY TOM CUTRIS IS MY FIANCEE, HE IS A MASTER STAFF SARGENT STATIONED IN IRAQ, I TOLD HIM ABOUT THIS AND HE IS VERY UPSET THAT HIS REPUTATION IS BEING RUINED BY SOME FREAKING IDIOT THAT IS TOO SORRY TO GO OUT AND DO A DECENT DAYS WORK TO EARN MONEY THE HONEST WAY, THESE SCAMMERS ARE BORN LOSERS, YOU WOULD NEVER SEE THEM OVER THERE IN THOSE GOD FORSAKEN PLACES PUTTING THEIR LIVES ON THE LINE FOR THEIR COUNTRY, THEY NEED TO BE PERSECUTED TO THE FULLEST EXTENT OF THE LAW… I ALSO FEEL VICTIMIZED AS MY FIANCEE IS A VERY IMPORTANT PART OF MY LIFE AND WHEN HE SUFFERS I SUFFER RIGHT ALONG WITH HIM…

    • Sandy,
      I am sorry to tell you, but your fiancee is a scammer. The real soldier in those pictures is a very happily married man. I have personally talked to him on the phone and he is state side right now.
      Do not fall for any more of that scammers lies. I wish you the best. JJ

      • J.J, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHOWING ME THE TRUTH, CAN YOU GIVE ME THE REAL SOLDIERS NAME IF AT ALL POSSIBLE, JUST CURIOS I GUESS,I AM SO GLAD THAT YOU CARE ENOUGH TO HAVE A SITE LIKE THIS, AGAIN THANK YOU, FOR BRINGING ME TO REALITY.

        • Sandy, I am not going to give out his real name. I am going torespect his right to privacy. I only contacted him one time and it was to let him know what was going on. Once we find the real soldier and let them know I think it is only right that we leave them alone unless they want farther contact. I would be honored if any of them that has been the victims of these terrible scams would like to be friends.
          Sandy if you would like someone to talk to I can be reached on yahoo. cajanet43@yahoo.com

        • jj, i know that you have to to respect their privacy, and that is a great thing, all i wanted was a first name, i would never think of bothering him and his family, they have suffered enough already from this stipidity, i guess just for the sake of closure for myself i just wanted a first name, but i understand where you are coming from, thanks anyway

        • Sandy his first name is Tom. I hope that helps you.

      • i will like to see you can please help me, i was scammed by Smith Jordan and i will like to see he is real or not i have some pics i can send to you and see you can found something about this person because i think hi still scamming other girls too, here is the email he is using smith2kidsjordan@yahoo.com, i hope you can help me to found the real person to he know that they using his pic for scam girls like me, i did send him money over 2000 dls i believe him bad and i dont want to this guy do to other ones. Please help me to found the real one…this scammer is on Lagos Nigeria.
        I will appreciate a lot your help.
        let me know when i can send you his pics.

        thank you so much for helping and God bless you.

    • just wanted to add that there is no such thing as a “Master Staff Sergeant”…

    • I am in the United States Air Force and there is no such thing as a Master Staff Sergeant. It is either a Master or a Staff

  34. I wish I would have found this site sooner. It would have saved me a lot of money and heartache. I’m from Canada and am the victim of the scammer going by the name of Robert Haggard. I met him on the online dating website Match.com. This is the first time I used a online dating service and was a little wary about it but decided to give it a shot(Should have stuck with my first instinct). I would talk to “Robert” everyday for hours and things seemed to going along pretty good. While we were chatting he would send such sweet little messages and he would also send me such beautiful emails. He was a real sweet talker and I thought to myself “this guy is too good to be real” and I was right. I received an email supposedly from his son, Micheal, wishing me a Happy Mother’s Day( “Robert” had told me that he and his son have not seen or heard from Micheal’s mother in 5 years). After talking with “Robert” on MSN for quite some time, he wants to send me a package that contains documents, a female army uniform with my name on it(which he said he had made especially for me, he said in the military one can make a special uniform for his love or kids. I don’t know if that is true or not but find highly unlikely), a chain, a ring for me and funds that he had received from a King in Iraq after rescuing his daughter. Right away I did not feel right about the whole thing and told him I could not do what he asked of me. He got angry and did not talk to me for a couple of days. When he did start talking to me again, he made me feel guilty for not trusting him like he trusted me in sending me this package. So being the kind hearted person that I am(too kind for my own good) I decided to help him out even though I did not feel right about it. I had a many sleepless nights worrying about this damn package. It was to be delivered by a diplomat from Iraq, who would go through 2-3 countries with low security before he reaches me. So when the diplomat reaches Ghana, he has not enough funds to pay customs, he needs $2400.00. Again I tell “Robert” sorry I cannot help him and do not have that kind of money. Again he plays the guilt trip on me and sweet talks me till I agree again to help him. The next day I receive an email from the diplomat saying the customs office is closed and that he will have to wait till the next day to pick up the package. So that evening I did some searching on the internet and came across this website and was shocked when I came across the pictures of “Robert” Haggard and the same storyline(with a few minor changes) that he had emailed me when we first met on Match. I had googled Robert Haggard before but came up with nothing really helpful(it was before May 13 when this website was last updated). But this time I put in Staff Sergeant Robert Haggard and it lead me to this website. So I knew I had been scammed and was quite upset because I had really fallen for this guy. The next morning I received another email from the diplomat saying that it is an African Union Day and that they will not be working at customs but that he did talk to the manager and he said he would help him out the next day but he would need to pay him $700.00. The diplomat also told me that he would also need $226.00 to pay for his accommodations and food services. Well knowing that this is nothing but a total scam, you can guess what I told him and where to go. I can’t believe how stupid, gullible, naive, you name it, I was.
    So for everybody out there, go with your first instinct, if it doesn’t feel right than it probably isn’t.
    What upsets me the most is how these people are playing with other peoples lives and also getting away with it. These soldiers are out there putting their lives on the line everyday for these scum sucking scammers and this is the respect they receive. It just isn’t right and something needs to be done!

    • I had exactly the same scam pulled on me, the name was just different… Mst Sgt Ivan Nobile.

      • Gees this Ivan Nobile really got aroud. Its time Match.com was removed from the Internet. The only contacts I ever made were with scammers. Never from normal honest people. Its was easy to recognise them. All the stories the same!!

        • Aileen,

          I met my husband on match.com. don’t give up

      • Sgt Ivan Nobile is also using the name Sgt Kelvin Nobile. I posted it at Stop the US Army Dating Scam on Facebook. I believe his user name is there as well along with his email address.

        • Sgt. Ivan Nobile is also using Lieut. Corp. Kelvin Adam. he claims to have been in the army for 15 years, a widow for three years,and has a 9 year old son and he is 43 years old. He claims to have grown up in Italy and lives now in San Antonio, Texas, but currently stationed in Africa. He even sent me pictures of himself and a little boy that he says is his son.He is on Cupid.com as kelvdam. And his email is kelvdam@yahoo.com.When asked for his APO address he told me it was banned and not allowed and that it was not like that every where.Wanted to talk on the phone and it would cost me $200 that was refundable. I checked out the site for Ts2 because that is what was on the paper to set up the call profile and it says on there under fraud alert that it is a scam. So glad I listened to the voice that kept telling me something was not right. I also had a friend of mine contact a friend who is retired from the army and he found him on this site and sent it to her so she could give it to me. Glad this site is available thanks guys for starting it.

    • with a few minor changes here and there, I have gone through the same thing with someone by the name of _JAMES RELLINGER, and I have been scammed out of $6700.00, and i am not working. I may have to go bankrupt.

      Can you please email me as I need to get additional information? I don’t even have his complete mailing address. He said he lives in Oakland, CA yet when i googled him it shows him living in Florida.

      I intend to not let him get away with this, I intend to prosecute and any additional information, etc. would greatly be appreciated. Thank you.

    • I would like to join your club…I just got the same scam from TSg Mac Anthony Wood (Air Force) Have been talking for a couple of months. He went on a mission, came back and sent me copies of some “official” documents commending him for his work saving the son of a sheik. The next thing I know he wants to send me a package the he received as a reward for a job well done. Fortunately, I have not sent anything to him. Just waiting for him to come “home” in six weeks–not waiting anymore!

      I thought I was being careful, used a reputable site, talked with friends who have military backgrounds, asked questions, etc. Confirmed everything as much as I could. Everything checked out until I found out how to check the IP address….Ghana. That was the give away. I confronted him about it and he says he doesn’t know what I am talking about. I don’t expect to hear from him again.

      The thing that makes me so mad is that some poor soldier is having his identity used and may not even be aware of it. If they can use this stuff, what else do they have access to? And why doesn’t our government do something to protect our military from these creeps????

      • I believe I’m being scammed by someone who calls himself Sgt.Marco Anthony. Mac for short. He hasn’t asked me for money but he wants to send packages to my home and he gave my email address to a shipping company. The shipping company wants my mailing address and phone number! I’m not giving them anything. I’m very upset with this.

    • I just found out that Haggard was pulling the same thing on me. He asked if I would accept some jewels given to him by an old woman so that he would take her grandchildren and raise them. When I said no he stopped talking to me for a few days the appologized. Luckly for me I have a friend that told me about this site so I didn’t get too caught up in him.

    • when i met him on-line at benaughty.com he called himself Emmanaual Haggard and used the same military academy story. we talked for hours and days on end. father died and left him his business in precious gems. yea right! the guy supposedly went to Ghana to finalize everything and his briefcase with all the important documents were left in the cab and he needed $3,000.00 for expenses, etc. Needless to say, this guy almost had me hook, line and sinker. Good thing momma didn’t raise no dummy. The pain in the heart sure hurt like hell and the humiliation of it all was pretty bad but at least he didn’t get any money out of me.

    • I recently met this soldier on Cupid thru Facebook , he goes by the name Dawson Haggard Olmstead. He is in Afghansitan and has a son named Chrstiian. He is the man in the pictures in this article i have every picture and a few others. He has not asked for anything yet but like all the others he will. He is full of BS and really does a good job at getting you to trust him. I have not heard from him today , so i dont know what to say to him.
      How come Cupid and all the other sites dont have this article???? If the wall of shame was on each site it would stop these scammers…

    • I have been dating Sgt Chris Haggard AKA Sgt Robert Haggard for the past month. Your story is so funny because that is the same story line that he fed me about the diplomat sending me a package and he was stranded in Ghana until i send him $2300.00. There were a few diviations in his story. He has a 13 year old daughter that lives in London with her uncle. Her name is Mavis and she is bi racial. Mavis emailed me and needed 300 lbs to help with her schooling. Of course I did not send it. I know better. Chris was so sweet always professing his love for me and wanted to marry me when he arrives here in Nov or Dec. He even had me looking for a home for all of us to live in, but after I found the home, he could not get the money because his money was tied up in the US and he didn’t have access to it. He claimed to be in Kabul Afghanistan and after 32 years is retiring. Oh, he never called the real estate agent. That made me look like a fool, but at least he didn’t get any money. His last ploy was that he found gold and diamonds while on a mission and wanted to send it to me so that it would be safe. I played along waiting for him to ask me for money and finally this week the diplomat that was delivering the package to me emailed me and said that he was stranded in Ghana and needed the 2300.00 to pay custom and duty fees and then he would be on to me. Chris became very angry with me and tried to make me feel guilty about not sending the money, but he don’t know me well. You see I lived with a con artist and married him, so I know con when I see it. I allowed him to think that I was really trying to get the money all the while looking for information on him. I even had him checked out by one of my friends in the military and there was no such person. Finally i gave the diplomat my number and told him to call me. Unbelivebly he did call me several times so I traced the number to find out that it was from Ghana. Today I told him that i was going to sell my truck to get him the money, but I was only stalling for time. I knew that if i kept searching I would find out something on this person and low and behold, I googeled his name in and it led me to a cnn website, which led me to this website and there I say his picture with the same story line except for a few deviations like i said earlier. Tonight when I talked to him on Yahoo messegner I had already sent him an email letting him know that I knew that he was a scam artist and he read it and became very upset and asked me what the fuck. I told him I know that you are not who you say that you are and that you are a scam artist. He told me well i just need to let him go and I let him go, so i say bye and disconnected from him. My ex husband was the greatest con artist that I know and he is in prison now. He educated me very well on scams and cons because he scammed me into marrying him. Now that I know i really want to educate other lonely women not to be taken by these predators. Don’t ever give money to people that you meet on a website especially to someone that you have never met. It is just a scam.

    • Im sickend, and worried that the pictures that I have sent of myself to one of these evil Nigerians,or Africans that scammed me emotionally used THOMAS HAGGARD as Sgt E6 from Baghdad IRAQ.. Thankfully no money was exchanged, however I had confided in him about my personal details, ie, single-mum, on benefits, family life in general, and a few other things, but nothing giving my address other than London!.. Can they use this and hurt me, Im afraid as they are so evil and cunning, even dangerous!..I met this Cheat on Tagged as Honesty T, then he quickly removed himself and then we shared both my Yahoo, and MSN windows live account, Iv deleted him, but can he do any harm to financially through this?.. The email add he used thomaslove72@yahoo.com and thomas-4u@live.com… He says he is 54, D.O.B Nov 8th 1956,1 son named Peter 12yrs who is presently been cared for by caretaker friend in West Africa. His home town New York City?… I despise them all that do these things, and Im very angry and hurt,because I deserve only the best,but never recieve it, even when I try!..

      • Joanne, don’t be afraid. I am still alive and nothing happened to me. I was threatned by a supposely associate of Haggard, who threatned to kill me and my family, but I told him that I had turned him over to the FBI, and then he wrote emailed me back to say that he was working for the FBI which I knew was a bluff. When I told him that I knew that he was not with the FBI because they would not threaten my life and that of my family, and advised him that if he knew what was good for him then he would not contact me again and he stopped. So don’t be afraid.

  35. Debbie,
    Do not be so hard on yourself, I too was fooled for a little while until I started putting pieces together, I finally got the whole picture when I had googled and came across with this website. Thanks to CJ we are made aware of what is going on. Yes you are right they do know how to use very sweet words and right away they say “I LOVE YOU.” I have all of the emails from the pond scum that used to write to me I will not delete them just in case they can be used in the near future, it is very easy to fall for it. Take care and try not to beat yourself senseless, I know that it will not be easy to let go for I too was falling for the rat.

    • Thanks so much Laura
      I have also saved all the emails that I received, hoping someday that they will be helpful. I had couple of hard days but I realized that the person who had hurt me doesn’t even come close to being like the soldier in the pictures. He is nothing but a worthless piece of @#$% and isn’t worth a single teardrop. Someday he will get what he deserves.

      • Debbie you are very welcome :) just hang in there things will get easier just don’t pound yourself over it is not worth it, just be strong like a soldier and keep going forward. The %#@!& had the nerve to sent me an email today still demanding for me to send $100.00 USD. Of course I stood on my ground and I said “HECK NO you have your own account so deal with your own money”. It felt great, of course he kept harping about but I did not listen to a word he said for I just simply clicked him off from my yahoo messenger (LOL) he noticed that I was online at the time I was reading my emails. So keep smiling and keep strong.

  36. CJ,
    I received new pictures from Sfc James Thompson Ramos I will send them to you. Thank you for all that you are doing God bless you and take care.

  37. I was just curious but how do you find out what someone’s IP address is???

    • Hi Carolyn

      At the top of the email in the header bar there should be something that says open full header or some such. If you clikc on that it will give you a complete list of computer speak with loads of numbers in square brackets. Go to the end of all the blurb to the last “Received” entry and copy the numbers in the square brackets. You can then copy these into an IP tracker site (I found a great one called aruljohn.com) and it will show you where the email originated from. This site also gives you tips on how to track an IP address, it’s brilliant. You have to make sure you use the last set of figures marked “received” otherwise it will show somewhere like Sunnyvale, CA. Good luck!

      • Thanks I tried to figure that out before with the IP address & have just found out now from the snippit above and OMG the scammer is from Ghana – loving this website

        • Fiona, which scammer are you referring to? What’s his name?

        • Fiona,

          In a post above, you retracted your claim that a soldier named Darryl Lopez is a scammer. However, as he had been emailing me, I checked his IP address, and it shows as coming from Ghana!

          What made you retract Darryl Lopez’s name as a scammer? Can you give me more information? He has been writing me for a few weeks now, and I’ve had my suspicions, so I really need to know how you discovered that there was a real Darryl Lopez, and if he’s the one writing me.

          CJ, any way of finding it if this is the real soldier? I have several pictures.

        • Hi to all these wonderful women who have placed a comment on my section – I retracted this statement about Darryl Lopez under pressure from this person and after further investigation and insight into the matter this person who names himself as Darryl Lopez under sfc_darryl6060@yahoo.com and darryl1683@yahoo.com via the WOOME Site is certainly a scammer, if you confront him he will back down and the one thing you need to ask him is for his military email address which I assure you he will not have nor give (thank you CJ for the direction on that one). So I apologise for any confusion that I may have caused but guard your hearts my women friends as this person is not who he says he is

          Once again thank you so much to CJ & Janet for their help on this person.

          Take care and remember if it is to good to be TRUE then it IS…

      • Hi Caroline,

        I don’t see any such thing on the email I want to check. Which section are you referring to as the “Header bar”?

        • Never mind. Found it.

    • Use a e-mail tracking program there are many out there offering free trials
      http://www.didtheyreadit.com
      http://www.readnotify.com
      http://www.nesox.com/en/service.asp

      just type in free trial e-mail tracking so many ways to find out the truth

  38. Hi everyone. Just thought I would let you know, and especially anyone on here who lives in the UK, that these b******s are now using ordinary civilians in their evil schemes. In the last three days, I have been chatting to 3 guys who contacted me through DatingDirect.co.uk who all turned out to be scammers. One guy went by the name of Karl and said he lived in Bristol. He sent me a message with some photos saying exactly word for word a message I had had from an earlier conversation with someone called Perry who was pretending to be from Wembley, but currently working in New York and ran his own farm machinery company! How dumb can you get?? Perry claimed he was the CEO of his own company, and had been running it for three years. When I asked if the company had a website, he told me it was under construction (very convenient). Needless to say I kicked the other guy Karl right into touch, and reported him to the website, and told Perry in no uncertain terms where to get off! Currently, I am chatting to someone called Rico Murillo who unfortunately has removed his profile from the website as he says too many women think he is a model and only want one night stands with him. I must admit he is gorgeous (at least the photos I was sent show a real hunk, I know it’s not the real guy!). He looks to be Spanish or something but he has avoided answering simple questions like where does he originate from. He said on his profile he was a writer – what sort of writer? He also told me he has a 4 year old daughter who lives with her junkie mother (who is Scottish in origin) in Romania, who he gets to see once or twice a month. I have seen photos of him and his daughter and I have asked him how he can manage to see her that often but have not had a reply as yet. He now says he thinks it would be good if we could talk over the phone but is leaving it up to me as to when I feel ready for that – WHEN HELL FREEZES OVER!!!! I will enjoy stringing him along for a while longer yet. By the way, the other two guys were called Perry Larry (!) (email address careyunderwoodlove@hotmail.com) and Karl Khodes (email address khodes_525@hotmail.com).

    I know these guys aren’t using military personnel for their tricks CJ, but I don’t know of anywhere in the UK to post these things. Hope you don’t mind me trying to get the message to any other UK girls out there who read this blog. Keep up the good work. Some day these creeps will get their come uppance!

    • Hi Kay
      I too am chatting to Rico – got a little further than you on his past – says he lives in Gloucester and has done for last 8yrs, before that Wrotham Park, Herts. Says his mother is Nigerian (alarm bells started ringing…lol)and his dad was a Spaniard. Says he was born in Cadiz, went to college in South Africa and Uni at the Uni of Toulouse while living with his aunt in Paris. Apparently he writes on politics and have some indepth emails on this – i would fill this page……lol what started me getting suspious is that he is a writer and his command of the english langage is not quite right. I too couldnt find anywhere else apart from this site so sorry its not military related but was relevant for kay and vice versa for me

  39. Hi, and thank you for this website. I at least know I have sisters-in-pain. I just posted the following on the blog site (why are there two?), and wanted to post it here, too, since part of it refers to that gorgeous Robert/William/Bill/Mike HAGGARD. I have a little more information I could add, but I would be monopolizing space. Here goes:
    Greetings from a Comrade in Arms. I have been reading your posts and decided I should entertain you with some of my “war” stories. I am a 68 year old woman and won’t go into my reasons for being on dating sites. My first encounter was with a SSG Mike HAGGARD, who was in Afghanistan near Kabul. Had been in the army “all his life”. Somehow I knew from the beginning it was a scam, but got caught up in the sweet talk and his gorgeous smile. I fell for him. I have been married to a man who spent 26 yrs in military so I saw “Mike’s” errors right away, but denied it to myself. Cut to the chase… Finally decided to play. Told him I had a relative at the Pentagon who could help him…Uncle Joe…a Colonel with lots of pull. Everytime I mentioned Uncle Joe, SGT HAGGARD went ballistic. I did waste $200 just because I was curious. Even when I knew he wasn’t real, I felt a deep sense of loss and cried for days. Oh, he had a son, Cecil, who lived with relatives here and there. I did get the satisfaction of telling him he was a TERRIBLE father. The last straw was his asking me to send money so the son could have medicine. Someone forgot to do his homework and didn’t know military dependants get free medical. duh.
    Well, after that, there was MARK COLE, an electrical engineer, who went to Nigeria on business and was mugged and beaten…needed $1000 for surgery. Then (4-star) General George W Casey…yep, US Army Chief of Staff (such audacity), then Gen. Randy Brooks…funny thing, Generals Casey and Brooks had exactly the same dream about seeing me on a pier…blah, blah. They are all Christians (choke, choke) so I witness to them. At the end, when I turned the tables, Brooks was penitent and claimed he had just been “born again”. The latest, a Jack Jordan, who inspected orphanages in Ghana (uh huh) didn’t get to the “I love you” stage. I ran out of time to waste. After I told him, among other things, that he was lower than whale crap and that was at the bottom of the ocean, and that I hoped he had a lot of time when he stood in judgement because God was going to read the list of innocent people he had scammed, he responded, “I am a Scammer.”
    Now I’m on the hunt. I can spot them fairly quickly…now I AM THE ONE who can make up a really delightful life history, friends in high places, lots of money, totally IN LOVE, til I get bored and send them on a trip through shame and stupidity. I’m so busy being vindictive that I don’t have time to want a man. If we all gang up on them, maybe they will quit.
    I am just amazed at how widespread this is. I thought it was just a few, but…wow. They’re everywhere. So come on friends, let’s go get ‘em….it can be fun.

    • Carol,
      Too Funny, I laughed my head off – you made my day I could just hear my scammer going balistic.

      Your right who has time for a relationship when you have a scammer.

    • Hell yea, I’m game. What do we do, lets get this show on the road.

    • OMG I am lovin it…Can’t wait to try it out!!! Look out scum bags, us women are gonna take back our lives!!!!

      • funny, I was thinking of doing the same thing…then I read Carols story and have decided that, hell ya I’m going to do payback. My story is at the bottom, dated aug 7th. I am sitting online right now waiting for Joe so I can play along…..this will be much more fun that dating! hehehe

        • your joe wouldnt be joe gregory would it .. ta kimmy ..

    • hello Carol,
      could you please send me pictures if you do have some of Robert as now maybe changing is name by now as now chatting with SGT Haggard could send me at: valpolicella@ymail.com
      thank you for your reply
      julie

      • He is now going by Haggard William Moore. I just caught on today.

      • now going by chris haggard

        • I have met haggard he was peter on badoo and he was on badoo and he sent me lots of poems and told me he loved me and wanted to marry me there was a lot more happening but eventually we went on yahoo as baabana lilino and he was still serious but I said it was very risky as I did not know him enough he said I must hate him and he said I was the one he had chosen and he retired in two weeks and he wanted to send a package with his money ahead then come over to join me with his son of ten years I said what was his real name he said haggard peter logan but he said I was wasting his time but he said he wanted to see me on video cam but I could not see him as they weremt allowed to but then for the first time he came out with a rude sexual remark that he wanted me to do so I said I am disapointed in him and went a friend told me about this sight I was rather shocked I am worried because he had my telephone number and my yahoo email also someone has been trying to get onto my facebook so they asked me to change my password

        • Now going by Robert Haggard says he isin Miami Florida

        • now Emmanuel Haggard

        • Ya he has been going by Chris Haggard for a long time. I had talked to him probley over a year ago. He said he was a doctor.

    • can you send a photo of this guy mike haggard please,

      • He is now going by Haggard Miller. He says he has a son that left the bay area and went to South Africa in the last few days. He even had his son email me, which I now know was the same person acting as both he and his son. He said he needed $3000 for medical attention, his son had been hit by a car. My gut instinct told me to second guess this for more than 1 reason. He immediately asked me to sign off Match and only speak with him. His grammar and spelling lacked a real Sargent’s abilities. He was talking constantly of having to sign of to go to the “Battle Field” then telling me bombs had gone off and there were multiple casualties. The big thing was he wanted me to use my web cam and he said they could not have any pictures, or cameras etc. he had no access to funds for an emergency you name it, it smelled.

    • Carol your comment is hilarious. I was dating Sgt. Haggard and it ended tonight when i let him know that i was on to him and emailed him with this website and the picture that he sent to me. I have turned him over to the proper authorities and I hope that he is caught soon. He is now going by the name of Chris Haggard, but now he has a daughter named Mavis who is 13. She tried to get me to send her 300 lbs to the United Kingdom, but I didn’t do it. Here is his new email address: haggardchris26@yahoo.com
      mavishaggard@yahoo.com and the diplomate that he pretend to be is Williams Debrah at wwdmmdiplomat88@gmail.com. By the way I did get to talk to the diplomat a few times. He has a sexy nice voice, but this scammer will be caught and arrested. Good ridance!!!!!

  40. I am so happy to reoport that my scammer finaly gave up (HOORAYYY) it feels great to be able to go online and not seeing him trying to contact me, I just gained my freedom to be able to be in contact with the rest of the world without been harazed for money and the fake “I LOVE YOU”. Let’s continue exposing the scum sucking b%$#@@! ladies we got the power to either fight them or been victimized the choice is yours. So let’s pull together and beat them to the ground.

  41. i was contacted by a so called american army capt we spoke for months by email and messenger i had a few doubts as sometimes his english was not too good he said he was in kabul then after 5 months he asked if i could except some cheques for him i said no and then checked everything out my concern is he seemed to know far to much about the army serving in afghan and what their doing he even went “away” at appropriate times for things to appear on the news how much hacking are they doing ? not just to try and get money from people and scam them but what else are they up to i think the forces may need to take a look into it all it seems that if they can obtain serving forces id and personel detailit,s all a bit dangerous from a security point of view . and when i told the scammer i knew what he was up to he was very abusive !

    • I agree with you Julie. The “Major” I was talking too told me that their base had been attacked and some of his buddies were killed. This was right after a base really was attacked. At the very least these people are keeping up with the news. From what I have seen of these scammers they only do what will pay them. They don’t do anything that doesn’t bring in money. I feel the government should look closer at these scammers.I doubt if scamming women on dating sites is the only thing they are doing.

      • there must be some way of finding out if they are useing the id,s of the real soldiers and what they are up to lets face it if they can get all this info and care so little about how they use it whats to stop them selling it to anybody and that could be dangerous for the families and the serving forces who would be able to id the names and photos we have???

    • hi im talking to a capt in afghanistan in kubul .. just wondering if you heard anyone by the name of joe gregory ………. thanks kimmy pls help me xx

  42. jj thank you for giving me that soldiers first name, it heped alot, because the guy that i am in touch with that is using his photos calls himself, Steve Endelton, have you heard that name before? his email address is steve_endleton1@yahoo.com. will you see if you can find out anything at all with that name, thank you so much, you have been a help and a blessing, if you would like to contact me, my email address is sandys81@hotmail.com please do not publish my email address….

  43. Well ladies I have finally put to rest my negative experience with the scammer that I was tlaking to, I am finally able to move on for there is no reason for me to keep beating myself senseless. At least all I lost was my heart and nothing else, one thing for certain this was a hard but great lesson to learn for I am walking away wiser.
    From time to time I will stop by to say hello and to see how’s every one doing, please take very good care of yourselfs fo I know that Mr. Right is out there waiting so do not give up hope and do not allow for any one to try to trick you.
    CJ thank you for all of your help on our last email you helped me to bring closure and to be able to walk away wiser, CJ keep up the great work for it is fantastic.
    I say good bye for now, once in a while I will stop by to say hi. God bless you all.

  44. I had joined Match.com. Only to get a person stating that his name is Steve Endleton. email address steve_endleton1@yahoo.com.
    He is also on facebook. He is not whom he claims to be: When I spoke to him by web cam, his photo would not show and his english sounds like a foreigner. Here is a sample of his email:HELLO PEGGY,you sound sooo sweet but all the same i can tell you more bout my self as you do the same.I am master Sergeant steve Endleton, age 55. i am now station in Iraq, since March 28, 2007.
    I was assigned to the 782nd Brigade Support Battalion, 4th Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne Division. I played several sport in including tennis,i loved to cook, and acted in plays. Prior to joining the military i held several jobs to include,natural minerals(gold and diamond)in which i have share in my with my associates .I joined the Army in September 1990, completed my basic and advanced training at Fort Jackson, South Carolina, and the Basic Airborne Course at Fort Benning, Georgia.i was assigned to the 82nd Airborne Division in April 1993.I have been in the military for twenty years and had two tours of Iraq and Afghanistan.
    my awards and decorations include the Meritorious Service Medal, the Army Commendation Medal with two oak leaf clusters, the Army Good Conduct Medal, the National Defense Service Medal, the Afghanistan Campaign Medal, the Iraqi Campaign Medal, the Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, the Army Service Ribbon, the Overseas Ribbon, the NATO Medal, the Combat Action Badge, the Parachutist’s Badge, and the Driver’s/Mechanic Badge.
    peggy we can be great friends if only you want cos my heart is open for you as a perfect match,i will send you my pics if you like it very much.i wish you do the same ok but with the messenger you have to know how it works ok please so we can have a sweet lovely chat always ok. see you soon with love .

    • Peggy,

      Did you see the pictures above? I think you will recognize some of them.

  45. Does anyone know about Hannett

    • I have been scammed by Dicson Leonado Hannett. Let’s chat

      • Just got one from Robert_hannett1960 thru match.com. Funny thing he is no longer on site.

  46. i have been talking to someone who claims to be a sfc james thomas rammo in iraq and has been there 10 mths want me to send him 100 dollars i knew it wasnt right and he was from ney york is there such a person is he real and could this be him he said his wife died and he has a 10 year old son could you plz let me know

  47. Hi Dawn, yes I know Hannett. He goes by Dicson Leonado Hannett. His email is dicson_hannett@yahoo.com. He is a scammer, please be very very careful. He has been talking to me on messenger. Stating he loves me and wants to come to Canada and marry me. He states he lives in UK and his mom is from UK and dad is from USA. He hasn’t asked for money yet. Please be careful as I was scammed by a man stating to be in the military by the name of Perez Young. Both these men are lurking on match.com.

    • I have also been in touch with Dicson Leonado Hannett. I was scammed before I found this site. I will forward pics if needed.

  48. Dawn, if you have any photos please forward them to me if you don’t mind at paulinepmo@hotmail.com so i can compare and i will let you know. Thanks.

    • I have pics of him…and he can be found on Facebook as Robert Hannett, Michael Hannett and Captainn Hannett – not a typo on my part. He found me on Match.com.

      • Hello, im curious to know if this Captain Hannett first name is Henry Thierry. Can u please send me the pics of him as well so I can compare. Thanks

  49. Has anyone heard of a man saying he is CPO Graves stationed in Iraq?

    • Oh, ya what con artist…reported the piece of crap to everyone I can think of lol…..

    • I am curious what information you have on CPO Graves? I have been in contact with him for about a month now and I hate to say I think I have been scammed. Please give me any information you may have

  50. has anyone been contacted by s Lt Kirk Zeccini his email is kirkarmyheart@yahoo.com please need to know if he is a scammer no I have not sent any money nor do I intend to but after reading all these stories how do you know if this guy is legit, h say’s he is in Afghanistan
    and is wanting transit leave I know all the rules no money is required to be paid and an outside person cannot obtain or ask for leave for a duty officer do I have all the details correct please let me know thank you does anyone have a copy of papers that may be sent requesting leave etc

    • Laura
      One sure way to know for sure is to check his ip address. If you do not know how to do this ask CJ for my email address and I will take you through how to do it step by step. Be careful and good luck.

    • Hi Laura,
      Check out this on facebook:
      http://www.facebook.com/kirk.zecchini
      Is this the REAL guy?
      Carol

      • Carol, it probably is the real man, maybe you could get CJ to contact him to check.I feel sorry for the real soldiers and their families and friends who have become caught up in all this. Take care, Marlene.

      • Thank you Carol, to answer your question no that is not the same man. Thank you again for helping me. Take care.

        • Regarding a reply that was posted by a Laura regarding an officer in afghanistan requesting transit leave Kirk Zecchini I did not ask this question as I have no need to I have just found this site as someone pointed out that I had posted a requested also my photo was used As my msn hotmail account has been violated somehow I am now looking to change my msn password as this has happned before. Please CJ I would like that post of my photo deleted as soon as possible. Also I have had to change my security on facebook as my email address had been able to be viewed by all Thank you Laura P B

    • Nice try.

    • Hi Laura,

      I too have been contacted by Lt. Col Kirk Zecchini on the dating site match.com. He was very sweet and genuine until I started doing some research based on my gut feelings. Found his fb page and questioned him on what i found, family and kids. After his original statement was that he was never married and had no kids. He sent me flowers twice….(not my real address). However what got me really cautious was when he was just so anxious to come see and after what he said was 27 years in the army and never applied for leave was a total crap to me. He was very persistent in me sending a request to an email address he sent me. I am so happpy I found this site before i did. Thank you guys…all i have now is a broken heart and two bouquet of dried flowers. O I do have a few pics he sent me and yes it is the same person on the fb page Carol forwarded

  51. If he is hinting about needing money for leave, he is a scammer.If you get photos then send them in here to CJ. Be careful Laura.

    • Thank you Marlene, I do not chat any more online with the scammer, I sent all of the pictures to CJ Iwill be careful.

  52. Hi all

    Just to let u all know the pics rite near d top under name tom curtis, well, he is called james pendellton, he said he is serving in Pakistan and from texas, a widower with a son called harry. He asked me to send him money so he could apply for vacation but i didnt send him any not after what happened with this guy who called himself lt timothy bills n i e mail the pics to cj so hopefully the real guys knbows that they been used to scammed women.

    • He is now going by the name steve endlton, just to let others know, in case of contact.

      • Add Steve Marconi to the list of names being used with this set of photos.

      • He probably goes by many names. He sent me those pictures yesterday under the name Tom H. Curtis. Contacted me via Chemistry.com. I picked him out as a fake right away because his grammar was so poor. I tried to report him to Chemistry, but he’s already withdrawn his profile. On another site, it said his IP address was out of Nigeria.

    • Hey,
      Just wanted you all to know James Pendleton-Tom curtis is now going by Davis Pendleton his email is davispendleton@yahoo.com. I have pictures of him, some are the same as on the wall of shame. thanks CJ for having them up there before I got scammed.

  53. I have been scammed by a Sgt Mark Donnelly supposed to be serving in afghanistan, i sent nearly £2,000 for ts2 phone connection and a vacational visit, i have photo’s where do i send them too

    • Helen
      I also have been talking to sgt, mark donnelly He is a scammer. He told me he was in Iraq. Has he sent you a pic where he is in uniform staring into space with his hand under his chin. He loved to send me poetry and has a daughter named Laura. He ask me for the same things as you. Send your pix to Cj. I tracked his ip address to Nigeria. If would like to compare notes ask CJ for my email address. WE talked for 6 months. He is quite the charmer.

  54. OMG! Just today on lavalife another scammer. He goes by the name Jeff Lingo. Started off by telling me that he lost his wife and his son Sebastian is only 10. I just got rid of a scammer by the name of Michael England. His email is heath.11@live.com. His story was very similar so I could basically pick out this scammer from miles away!!!! I told him to get lost…be careful ladies!! Alot of these guys claiming to be military are actually Nigerians!!!

  55. what about a Craig Henry

  56. Hi,

    I think ive, been luck and stopped SGT John Mateo, frpm the US Army, based in Basra. Meet him through eharmony, chatted for 2 mths, when said he wanted to relocate to the UK, then he told me his daughter who lives with his ex mother in law, because hes a wife died, was in hospital. and he didnt have nayway to pay the hospital bill. When i informed him i didnt have and spare cash, he went quiet for a few days, then he told me the only way he could get leave was for me to send cash to his mother in law so she could pay the Army… he told me this would cost £1400. I told him i didnt have that kind of money, he got pushy. so i checked his ip address and it came back as Lagos. When i asked him, he told me to find another man.. i have photos which he is using..i hope this helps others…

  57. anyone heard of a captain robert wilson???from indiana

  58. donna
    yes same pics sent and has daughter Laura in Colorado, apparently he has been injured in afghanistan in the past week and needs me to send more money so he can come home to me

  59. CJ
    could you please e-mail me donna’s e-mail address we have lots to discuss about Sgt Mark Donnelly

  60. donna
    He got me good and proper 18months we have been chatting

  61. Lady’s the scammers have moved to using US marines pictures. Be careful and stay safe.

    • yes, regarding the scammers using marines pictures…i have been chatting with a sgt. John dooley usmc for about 3 months now. hes in kabul. has anyone heard of him as being a scammer? i pray hes is not , but like all the others, there are days his english is excellent, then there are days its not. like its more than one person depending on the time of day. when he comes online in the wee hours in us time like 2-3am est, he has good english, uses the hearts background on messanger, like it really might be him, then when he comes online around 4-6pm est, wee hours of the am in kabul, his english is way different, so is the font, no background. sometimes dosent remember something from on of my early hour messages on yahoo messanger.
      has anyone heard of him? if so please please let me know its so confusing having what seems to be a marine at one time of day and not the other time of day. am desperate to know the truth.

      • Hi debbie my story is the same as yours except his name SSG james dodson did he send you any pictures i would like to know if they are the same man please email me back

      • Do you have pics sounds like the guy I have been chatting with his name is Stewart James in Kabul

  62. Donna
    you can e-mail me at helen1367@live.co.uk

  63. Hi ladies, from time to time I still hear from the scammer that goes by name of Sfc James Thompson Ramos, his emails do not have the effect of all the lovely words like it used to, the charming and sweetness is gone for good. Any more I just delete his emails there is no sense to save them since I do not have any use for them. Keep strong every one and keep safe.

  64. Well everyone,

    Wow, I guess I have been living in a box if I haven’t heard about any of this. If any of you are wondering about things you can do to “check” on whether these might be scams or not.

    1. Look at the Rank in the picture. Google it see if it matches with what they are saying.
    2. If they talk about being in a certain unit, google that, find out if it even exists.
    3. There is NO reason that any soldier needs to ask for money.
    4. ALL soldiers are allowed to send and recieve mail. In some instances it may be hard to make a phone call or use the internet, but those are VERY rare.
    5. again there is NO reason that any soldier needs to ask you for money.
    6. Last but not least, if you are unsure after doing all of these, ask someone.

    I was a soldier for 9 years, I think it is disgraceful that these people are doing this. If any of you have any questions you can email me as well, I might be able to give you more info. johnschreck77@yahoo.com

    And so you know, I am not trying to scam anyone, I am happily married, with an awesome family…

    • hi john,
      nice to read from you.
      can you find out the real name of robert haggard?
      i would like to compare what i have. he said to me, he do not know any person named robert haggard.
      He is already in the usa, ge was in Afghan.

      Thank you for your assistance,
      myn

  65. just to let you all know Sgt Mark Donelly now on facebook and myspace looking for love

    • Helen Sorry I was gone for a hile but I have some news for you on mark donnelly. here is my email. donnasensen1@yahoo.com. I have lots of tales to tell you. Hop to hear from you soom.
      Donna

  66. VideoMySpace UK BlogMySpace LiveForumsMobile

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  67. Mark Donnelly is usually 41 but on myspace he has 2 profiles 1 says he 41 the other says 44, lmao he hates liars and wants an honest and trustworthy woman. good luck to him, he will need it

    • Since you have two of these sites with the same name and pictures one is probably fake and the other one real. If you look closely you should be able to spot the fake.

  68. Helen, Maybe the one on myspace is the real person, scammers don’t usually have a myspace or facebook account. However they do steal photos from there. That is where they steal the identities from in some cases.As for the age differences that is just because maybe the account has been updated.If you have photos and have not yet sent them to CJ please do so and then maybe they are able to be traced, the real person I mean. Marlene

    • What I dont understand is that there is a facebook page for Ivan Nobile and he sends me e-mails from that page often. That means he has either figured out what the original Ivan’s password is, or he opened this page just to try and look legit.

  69. Be sure to remember the sacrifices of the REAL heroes this Memorial Day. I was married to a career military man for years, so here are some clues to look for: check the rank on the uniform with what they tell you; military people do not have to pay for travel home at the end of their deployment; the usual word is deployment…not mission; military family members get FREE medical treatment; military members usually have a stateside bank where their money is direct deposited…if they don’t, they’re too stupid to waste your time on. Can’t think of anything else offhand, but double check every excuse they give for needing money. If you’re not sure it’s legit, it probably isn’t. I’ll be glad to answer your questions if I can. Bear in mind, if they really do need YOU to send THEM money, they’re probably losers anyway.

    • The guy that scammed me,”Sgt Ivan Nobile”, said that they dont have access to their accounts from Bagdad.

  70. went back on myspace and looked at the 2 Mark Donnellys they are both the scammer and he had 1 friend, I then searched the name he asked me to send money to in Nigeria. omg i have found the scammer with the same friend as Mark Donnelly. God I dont know what to do with this information, Help

  71. Sgt Mark Donnelly also using the names

    Col Troy Gilson

    Col Colin Millar

  72. Honestly there should be a site to post all the scammers pics on so that the military can decide who the pics really belong too…Also the military should inform there soldiers that this does happen & these soldiers should check & see if any of those photos belong to them & this should be done on a continuous basis so that the chain of scamming can cease & identity theft becomes less comin… Especially since these scammers are using other peoples photos without them even knowing it mostly they are all soldiers so the military should be involved…The sad thing about this is that the scammers either do or don’t get away with their scamming from certain people but there are those people that they actually scam & they continue to do it…Every email address from a scammer should be reported to yahoo or wherever the email address is through…And/Or have a facebook page & a myspace page with this info put up there so people can put a stop to this…Somewhere this has to stop & unless people are willing to go that extra mile to prevent things like this from happening it never will stop….Yeah scammers are going to continue to scam people one way or the other but we have the upper hand & can start by making it harder for them to do so…This is identity theft since they steal their names & their photos so this should be a military matter…These scammers not only take their names & photos but they also know where these soldiers live, who their children are, what they do for a living…Just my opinion anyways…

    • I completely agree Carolyn, but the problem is that no one knows what they look like! I would DEFINITELY post their photos if I could.

      On another note, I spoke today with Mark Ehresman on the phone and will be posting a story about who is REALLY is and his Army career. Stay tuned to the main page or subscribe to my email list by emailing: cj@soldiersperspective.us and putting “Subscribe” in the Subject line.

      • I am very glad to hear that you have found the real Mark Ehresman. Keep up the good work CJ and that you for giving us a place to send and receive information about these scammers.

        • I met someone on Mingle2.com by the name of Joseph Collins Erisman in early July. He claims to be a U.S. Marine on a 3yr tour in Iraq. He says he’s been in Iraq for 10mos already and needs money to get his honorable discharge papers so he can come “home” to me. WHATEVER!

          He uses the email sgtjoeerisman@yahoo.com

      • Hello Cj.

        You will be surprised what I have sent you.

        I have emailed you to: cj@soldiersperspective.us about a soldier called himself Ruddock, I really hope you have the will and time to check it out and to reply to me. Please.

        Sincerly Cilvia

    • Carolyn,

      I was scammed by someone pretending to be a SSgt in the Army and I have filed a police report, Attorney General report, IC3 report, Federal Trade Commission report, Western Union Fraud complaint report, sent emails to the Govenor, Congressman and Senator from FL and also spoke with the US Secret Service and guess what…NO ONE wants to do anything even though Western Union has video cameras in there locations and the authorities can have them!!! I also have filed reports to the Metropolitan police and Heathrow police in London…now hold on to your seat, you are not going to believe this…before I knew what was going on, I was sent an email from the scammers friend that he was ill and was admitted into “a hospital”. Well after not hearing anything I called the area hospital’s around Heathrow with no luck so I called one of the police stations in London and filed a missing persons report. Well they actually spoke to him on June 30, 2010 claiming that someone said he was a missing person and was calling around to the local hospitals…when the scammer and I chatted THAT SAME NIGHT, he told me about the police questioning him…I told him that was me because I had not heard from him and was worried. The very next day is when I discovered that it was a romance scam and called Metropolitan police in London and told them this. But because the scammer gave the police a different birthdate than I had given them, he was not the same person and they were not going to go any further with it. I said you have got to be kidding me!!! I told them about the chat that we had had that night and he still would not do anything!!! All they will do here is keep alerting people and what to be aware of…well I asked the agent from the Secret Service, what about the people that were scammed, what are you doing for us? He had no answer. So I guess my next step is the television stations…Sorry this is so long, but wanted to put as much info in here as I could! Also i have sent CJ the pictures of the soldier that was used in this scam. I have not seen them out here yet, I don’t know how long it takes but…just wanted you do know that no one is willing to help anyone and these scammers are gonna get bigger and bigger because they know no one will look for them!

      • Hello Debbie

        hmmm. about scammers. its too sad to read your letter, that no one is willing to help us, after I just sent some information about a soldier colled himself Major Ruddock to CJ. I will be very sad if I don´t get help. And then this web.site means nothing to us.
        Since I don´t know what else to do.

        Sincerely Cilvia

      • You can contact me on usagovernment_military@live.com and i will help you take care of this problems, we are the IC3 community,and we want to help you get what you have lost ..ok?

        • I’m only approving this comment so that it is Google searchable. This is another fake email address and NOT from IC3 in any way, shape or form.

  73. Hey everyone. I want you to meet one of the Soldiers being used in these scams, MSG Mark Ehresman. Click here to read his story.

  74. Great job CJ. Thanks

  75. my mum has been talking to a man called demiel agner who is climing to be an american soldier serving in iraq. i have only just found out that my mum has sent money to this man after he told her that he needed the money to request leave from the army so that he could come and see her in the uk. had i found out sooner i would of told her not to send any money but she has now lost all her savings – is there anything she can do as there doesnt seem to be any support in the uk or is her money lost forever?

    • Hi Becky, haha Demiel Agner has been resurrected. I am presently talking with SGT DEMIEL AGNER who is stationed at BASE 3 KABUL, AFGHANISTAN. Thanks for putting up this post as I was wary of him. I googled his name and because of your post, it was confirmed that he is definitely a scammer. They just thrive on lonely women and forget about the consequences. I am sorry for your mum and pray that she will be comforted one day by knowing that this person is caught.

      • Hi.

        LOL I have also been contacted by Demiel Agner today. Because of things he wrote I understood something was wrong and google his name. And see what i found. He wanted me to come back and talk later today. On facebook I found 3 profiles of Demiel Agner. The one that called him self Demiel says he comes from Baltimore, his wife died in cancer and he has a daughter 21 years old study medicine. Becky sorry about your mum.

        • Cici, I just had to write to you as I had been in contact with a man claiming to be Demiel Agner! He never got any money from me but did say if I wanted to talk to him by phone, I would have to buy one from his base for $300. Well I just stopped communicating with him. He was getting weird with his calling me “hunnie” & praying for me! He told me his father was from Germany & he (Demeil) came here when he was 10, but still had an accent! Well thankfully I found some friends on another websight about another scammer named Kennedy Bowden. He was not claiming to be in the service, but he was just as sleazy! Any way they told me about this sight. Thank you to all, I’m learning a lot! Mary

  76. hi becky,
    i am sorry to say she has lost her money forever, i lost a lot of money on one of this scams and kick myself every day over it, but like your mum i fell for it all. i am in the uk and found the police did not want to know, all i was offered was counselling from victim surport which i found really helpful, so give them a ring if you need to talk about it they were brilliant.i reported my crime because it is a crime to who ever would listen but it got me no where.i live with this every day and i am still having to pay a credit card bill for a sat phone i paid for, a loan for his leave, and phone bill for when i phone him. so you see no one wants to help. i have to work really hard for the rest of my life to pay for this. emotionally i dont trust any one , i am 45 now and i just dont believe any a man tells me any more, which has caused me big problems in relationships so what chance have i got, but i survive i have to, whats the alternative. just tell your mum shes not alone in this i now how she feels.

    • Jane, I know it’s easier said than done but don’t beat yourself up over this. That way they will have won all over again. I live in the UK too, and was very nearly taken in by one of these guys, but luckily for me the lady at Western Union refused to take my money and told me to check it out. That’s where I found this site and it has helped me enormously to think I am not alone in this. If you want to email me to chat feel free – kaywilson9@fsmail.net. I am currently stringing another one along who says he will phone me. That’s when I will pounce! Take care and chin up girl!

  77. thanks for replying jane b, my mum was very grateful for your response. this has only happened over the last few weeks is she is still very raw and would love to talk to someone as there is very little support for her and we have not told other members of our family my mums email address is gstorrie@hotmail.co.uk

    • Becky, what I said to Jane B goes for your mum too. If she wants to contact me, my details are as above. Take care. Kay

  78. I am another victim. I joined Fish Dating after it was recommended by a couple of ladies I met on a recent holiday. Within a week, I was contacted by a Stephen Massingale. Stated he was widowed, from Colorado and had a child now living in Canada. After, nearly one month and lots of beautiful emails and poetry. Marriage offer after 10days. A few days ago requested £750 for phone connection. I knew then that something was wrong. I stated that I had no money and if he was a gentleman, he would pay. I contacted Fish Dating yesterday to investigate because when I met him on the site, the next day he was not a member and he had requested that we make contact via his email address at yahoo. Fish Dating got back to me to confirm that they had cancelled his membership because they thought that he was not geniune. Obviously, they know that this scamming is going on. I started to fall for this man. I told him that I had been through breast cancer and had reconstruction, but it didn’t put him off. What evil people they are to prey on single, vunerable sick people.

    I am so glad I came across your site as I have been trying to track this man down. I have learnt my lesson the hard way and feel quite hurt by all the deceit. I thought at last I have someone to love. Silly me. Oh well life goes on. Won’t be joining a dating site again. As they say once bitten…. Would you like his photo?

    • Hi Susanne

      Is his photo not above? This was the Steven Massingale Barratt I was in contact with. He told me he was originally born in Somerset, UK, but moved to the US at the age of 2. He only told me he had a son in his early emails, then slipped up and said he had a daughter as well. His son was with his late wife’s parents in Canada, his daughter was with a nanny, but not where, and when I asked him he became very vague.

      I was contacted by him through DatingDirect.co.uk, and he removed his profile after a couple of days, so I didn’t get the chance to report him to the website. I did find his details on another one (Uniform Dating) and he has been blocked from there. It would be interesting to know if it is the same guy, as Donna from this site is trying to track him down for me. My email address is above if you want to contact me.

      Kay

    • please help me is james rellinger a swindler? i have sent 900 euro this is much for me please say me this sorry my english no good greet helga deniz from austria

      • he already knows his identity has been stolen, sorry but it’s true.

    • Ladies, thank you, I have finally found the evidence I need. I have just discovered I have been scammed by Captain Stephen Massingale. Same story as you Susanne. Lots of poetry, undying love, marry me all that and more. I began to fall for him, but bells started to ring when a friend of a friend was scammed by a soldier. I decided to do some googling and found out so much info. I am amazed how much of this goes on. I have beem scammed before, and thought it could’nt happen again. I have sent a photo to cj , so hopefully the soldier in the photo will be told his picture is being used. Thanks for this website, its been a great help. Be careful out there ladies!

    • Hi Suzanne. I think I have been scammed royaly by the same man. The photo I have of him is not the one above though. Definately Captain Stephen Massingale, daughter living in Canada, gushing poetry and many requests for money. I paid some but began to realise how ridiculous it was. I feel so idiotic and stupid.

    • Hi Suzanne

      Could you forward me a picture please as i belive i have lso been a victim of this scam

      Kind Regards

      Gaye XX

    • i was recently scammed by greg massingale same info but daughter in Italian school.
      he has the following e mail addresses hunblesmiles@hotmail.com &lovescent01@yahoo.com
      I was subjected week before on same site from bradcoyle55@yahoo.co.uk I have photos from both these people.
      I did tell greg i was scammed before but didnt give details. They did not recieve any money. if you want further info i will be glad to give it.
      Diane

    • I was scammed by a James Paul Massingale with a daughter Maria Massingale. e mail address was sgtjames.massingale@yahoo.com. If you could send me a picture of the massingale that scammed you so I can see if it is the same slim ball. Thank you and atleastI am alone.

  79. hi becky,
    i will send your mum my email address so she can get in touch and talk because it does help to now other people are in the same position and she is not alone in this.
    i have just reported another scammer from dating site called ken in us army, living in london , very strange. i asked him what he is planning to do when he leaves the army in june, he said he was going to set up a ophnage, what crap. as soon as i told him it would be hard with all the security around kids and i should now i work in a school he went off line on me and hasnt contacted me since. i sent him not a very nice message about how careless he had been, it made me feel damn good. they are so stupid sometimes.so watch out girls for ken, london,48, retiring, in afghanistan nice looking, wearing a checked cap ,with a goatee beard.

  80. RE: Lt. Col. George Patterson
    Ladies,
    Beware, Lt Col George Patterson is back on facebook, with a picture, he’s a Nigerian Scammer. Look him up at georgepa01@live.com

  81. I’ve been contacted through the match.com site by a man passing as GEN Stephen Ruddock whose pictures correspond to the ones you published here. His story line is similar to what you have said here. His email address is
    GEN Stephen W Ruddock (survival53@live.com.
    Sounded too good to be true.

    • reply for Sadie. Re Ruddock…. I have a long letter and several pics of the said RUDDOCK ( but going from the ones already on the site ( in his younger days) the pics are real that i have also but using the name BILLY Ruddock…. If you wish contact me on my email adress and we can exchange if you like, This one didnt get any of the cash out of me, I sussed him quite quickly! so he didnt get chance, but Gosh they never give up I have had so many, it just drives me ” up the wall” but I have got a few still on file, in case they were needed havent got all the mails. had to get rid at some point in time.. anyway if you want a chat you can find me easily I am in the UK . best wishes TRISH

      • Hi Sadie and Patricia,
        I have been in contact with a Staff Sergeant George Ruddock for a month now, i have some of the pictures on this side and some new ones too!!!! the e-mail addy he was using with me was lifechance2010@hotmail.co.uk. He is a widower, he has two girls, named Brigitte and Elizabeth! I got a little sus at one point and asked him to take a picture of himself holding a board with my name on it, what a laugh he sent a photo with a super imposed poster in the background, which was obviously typed it was hilarious, i still have him on line as we speak, i just love wasting his time and letting him think i am falling for his lies! He has gone by many names it appears! General! he must have been demoted since his uniform shows only Sergeant now! If anyone want to compare photos and string him a long a little i dont mind! I just feel for the poor soldier whose face he is using and that of his poor children! Some photos have a date of 28.06.10. Some people! Sad sacks! Get in touch if you wish i dont mind. Terri

        • My, my how shocked was i when i came across this site a little by accident but obviously meant to be! I have had Staff sergeant George Ruddock emailing me and chatting to me on msn for 2 weeks now. He has sent photos of himself, his girls, his wife (who was killed in a plane crash in June 2009) and of his home in New York. I have had a marriage promise and invite to relocate to NY. He asked me for money to hire a private jet to come visit me!!!!That he couldn’t access his own millions from Afghanistan.I told him to take army transport home to the States, access his own millions from there then come visit me in Britain. He became upset and said i no longer needed him as i was unprepared to help him…..haha too right!! I feel sorry for the real man and his family in these pictures. Joss

        • Hi
          My god I think I have been scammed,
          by a man called himself Major Robbert Ruddock, Whose pictures he sent me are the same to the ones you published here, and have some more new pictures too. And his story line is similar to al what you have said here. I have been contacted through net log .com website. His email address is: robbert_ruddock77@yahoo.com

          I feel sorry for the real soldier. Please tell me what to do next.

        • I have been in contact with a Staff sargeant Andrew Stephen Ruddock much the same story as is stated on this site. Like you I feel sorry that someone s pain has been exploited and wonder about the real man and his family are they well is he still alive?? it would be awful to think he was killed we must all remember the photos are real soldiers. Luckily for me I wasn’t scammed and never asked for anything but emotionally blackmailed with threats of taking his own life

        • Dear Terri,
          Loved reading your notes above. I am also in touch with him calling himself General Jimmy William Hayward.
          I have not yet been asked for money as we have only been talking for 10 days.
          Like you I think I may waste his time for a little longer. Keep him away from other women.
          Will keep you informed
          Kay

    • HI Sadie,
      General Jimmy William Hayward is using the same e-mail address survival53@live.com
      He has sent a picture of himself (or whoever) with two little girls.
      Can no-one find this real soldier and warn him not to put picture on sites where it may be stolen as it is a shame for the girls to be used like this.
      Have not sent any money and given him only a few details about myself. Talking to him now.
      He is out on night patrol – what a joke

      • this is a scam. stay away.

        • Hi Kimmy,
          I know for sure this is a scam. He has yet to ask me for money and I have blocked him from my hotmail account. I did not trust him from the offset and opened a new hotmail account with him being the only “friend” on it.
          There must be a way of catching these guys.
          Glad I found this site. It is brilliant and should have more publicity.
          Kay

  82. I was contacted by a man on Be2.com who claimed to be Sergeant Wesley Traceur 30 yrs old from Colorado Springs and in Kabul, Afghanistan. After chatting for 7 weeks and he sent me 5 military pics of himself, he said he needed me to send him $1,200 usd to get Leave to come see me in Canada. I told him that I don’t have that kind of money to be sending and that he should borrow it from his family or friends. I asked him to talk on phone with me but he said they weren’t Allowed to get calls on the Base and I said I have never heard of that as many of the men have wife and kids that they want to talk to I’m sure and he also said they weren’t allowed to have web cams there either. I found this site after that and told him that I thought he was a scam. He said this was upsetting to him and he went offline as we used to chat on yahoo. His i.d. there is sgt.wesleytrace@yahoo.com Of course he hasn’t come back online in 2 days and ignored my email. I have blocked him and just wanted to put my message on here so other women can watch out for him….It’s very sick how these guys are claiming to be military men and try to lure women for money!!

    • Tammy, Would you please email the pictures he sent you to CJ at cj@soldiersperspective.us

      That way we will have the pictures to see if we can try to find the real soldier and let him know. Thank you

  83. Hi ladies

    I have been in contact almost a month now with a military man by the name James Miller first sergeant airforce, he is serving in afghanistan a red flag went up a few days ago supposable shot and will be discharged from clinic next week, doesnt want to go back to work afraid i will lose him the next time and could i file an application for transist, for me to think about it and i will hear from him again when the nurse can help with computer, anyway i contacted cj it was a scam and i sent a email calling his bluff 2 days now no email, i meet him on mate1 mate1 has since removed him and there is an investigation, i just wish i could find the real person, another from mate 1 today calls him self sgt patterson, usarmy serving in iraq comes from elgin IL, requesting me to contact him beware he cant spell

    • Hello Re JAMES MILLER.. is the the same guy usuing the name of JEFF, Richard, and Philip. I have the pics as shown on U tube( I can send them to you if you wish ) but you can see ALl as shown by someone I know of who had been scammed before, of a HUGE amount of money and LOST HER HOME… made up the port folio of this guy ( well Guy is being shown as a US ARMY Officer ) but obviously behind the facade is a Low life ” GOD FEARING ” Thief and CHEAT. Just google his name under ” PHILIP MILLER” and he should come up for viewing
      Even the guys Kids are seen on this one and the dog! time the military did something….

      • Re James Miller…this scammer is still at it and still getting away with it. Now he is going by ANDREWS MILLER and he found my profile on Plentyoffish.com and has managed to trick me of 1400 and waited until after I had neck surgery and on medication to pull his scam….Ok, now it has become personal with me and I want this guy caught…I have been doing a lot of research of this scammer and it appears he has gone by Jeff/Jeffery Miller, David Miller, Richard Miller, Philip Miller and now Andrews Miller. The photo’s of the military man with the unique birth mark on the left side of his face that the scammer is using now has the military man’s pictures on Youtube, 4 profiles on facebook (Jeff/Jeffery Miller) and who know where else. This scammer needs to be stopped and enough is enough.

        • I still have contact with aka: Andrews Miller and I am trying to keep him hanging on by a string to keep him from scamming other ladies if at all possible. He filled my head with all his “I love you with all my heart, soul and body” crap and now I am trying to get into his head and trick him into giving me some useful information that will help to get him caught once and for all. Wish me luck as it is sucking up many hours of my time.

  84. Just wondering if anyone has been contacted by a Captain Ronald Allyn thru yahoo…his addy thru there is allynronald@yahoo.com….just need to know if he is legit or not…has asked me to set up for ts2 communications….i need info can anyone help me out…please

    • Jenny the TS2 communications thing he is asking for is one of the first scams they pull. Once they get money for this fake item they ask you for more money for medical expenses or so they can take leave to come see you. It would be in your best interest to stop farther communications with this person he is a scammer.

      • thank you so much cj i did stop talking to him what a scammer…it is sad to see that this is what the world has come too…how can you even find a descent guy…you cannot..i am a single mom of three kids who could not believe that someone could have talked soo sweet to me and here i was taking all the bullshit from him….wow…..just to warn other woman out there the guy i was talking to was on hot or not and he does have a pic on there …whose it actually is well i will never know…just very sad that there is people out there like that…thank god i never sent him money …not that stupid just too stupid to realize that he truly was a scammer…..understood it more when i got saw the ts2 communication email and the address where to wire the money thru western union…bingo…was an ass this guy is so just be warned ladies his name is Captain Ronald Allyn he is apparently 45 and it does have his name on his uniform as that too…Allyn….hope this helps anyone else out for getting victimized like i did….will keep u posted…they seem to always strike again if they do not receive an answer back….

        • Jenny,

          got contacted from him as well the last few days – we have been talking for online for only a week and yesterday he send me an email that he loves me – that sounded so curious to me so i checked on his name – and came along to this webpage. Thanks for address this here – it just keep making me so mad that there are people out there and think that all females are naive and stupid.
          I also note hot or not on him. He is also in Lonely Soul – (found him while i was searching his name)

  85. ladies received another email on mate1 as a sgt ryan lane states he is a us soldier in iraq lives in austin texas, cant spell and picture is not military, i did report as a possible fraud to mate1 I also went under the military site and sent an email to the air force public affairs office, for a James Miller if that is his real name told them i Have photos, I guess there is identity problems with soldiers credit card numbers etc, as public affairs states so i am making them aware of there identity on dating sites, waiting to see if i get an email response back.

    • WHY DO YOU ASK FOR MONEY THAN? THERE SHOULD BE NO MONEY INVOLVED AT ALL!!

  86. I HATE WHAT IS GOING ON HERE SO U BETTER TAKE IT OFF…THIS IS A MILITARY SITE AND NOT A PLACE FOR WOMEN TO GOSSIP…
    THERE ARE NO SUCH THINGS GOING ON…SO STOP THE LIES…

    • Hey, Gen. Roberts General Jackass, bite me. You’re a two-bit, loser, fraud who couldn’t make a buck selling pubic hair to a whorehouse. If you’re a general, do something about my “disrespect to a commissioned officer”. But, since you’re a fake trying to pretend authority on my site, how about you just fuck off and do something honorable with your life – like removing it from the earth! And please explain why you are writing from Mauritania where we don’t keep generals.

      • Way to go CJ!!

      • You tell em CJ!!!!

      • OMG…Way to go CJ!!!

      • cj please contact me my name is cindy email address is twighlight_unicorn@yahoo.com I to have been scammed by a Col. Peter Pentronzio Stenn,he is trolling in mate1..He had me hook line and sinker.I gave him 600 for bhis leave request.All the documents sent looked official.here is the first letter
        Well let me tell you a little about me.I am Single 5′ 9″ am looking for a friend to love and spend some time with. I would like to learn to.I am a quick learner and enjoy all types of music. I love to work hard but rather play harder.I lost my love and my 2 daughters 2years back.I have a lovely son who stays with his Granny,his 15yrs. I’m looking for a WOMAN that is honest, truthful and loyal who will not hurt me for any reason and will never be hurt by me too and she will be ready to take care of my son. I’m looking to date and see where things may go.graduated from Beverly High School and Norwich University and joined the Military force in 1984.I live at Texas corpus Christi but presently on a to Afghanistan.I was sent there by UN to lead an expeditionary force in Afghanistan, fighting the Taliban,And am ready to relocate after my mission in Afghan,But only if my love wants that,Am in the us military.
        I’m not looking for a one night stand or anyone with drama. I just want to spend a few hours with someone from time to time for some relaxing stress free times like dinner, movies, a walk around the park, sporting events, or maybe a weekend getaway.
        Even a nice relationship that includes a good morning email or text to show someone is thinking of you would be nice. If you want someone fun to chat with, maybe more in time.I love swimming,play golf,going to cinemas,camping.I also love Chinese food,pizza,roasted beef,I don’t smoke…don’t drug… a while back i had a zero tolerance for it… however I’ve been getting better about it. At least with smoking… just i prefer if you don’t do it around me.. i don’t like to watch people i care about slowly kill themselves..if you respond, respond with a picture please….. maybe we can start a friendship that grows into more…or perhaps it’ll be love at first sight.. and we fall hard… who knows…what have you got to lose? at worst you still get a good friend and at best you get the love of your life… sounds like Win/Win to me..OH! in the subject line write out Lovely..I feel like I have a pretty good personality, I can be goofy and serious, wild and conservative. I’m very calm, laid-back and drama free. My friends would tell you that I’m extremely dependable, loyal and keep them laughing. I would say I’m pretty fun too I tend to be a bit quiet around people I don’t know well, but I open up pretty quickly.I hope to read back from you too,

        Yours
        Col. Peter
        hope to read back from you.
        Take good care of yourself..
        Bye for now
        you can pls send me more of your resent pics

        He also has help because i also received some other emails with official looking documents I will attach them.Any input or help from you would be appreciated greatly…please send me a response.sincerley a broken heart cindy

      • you go girl, woohoo its a good job us women are an intelligent species, what a thick fucking prick,do us all a favour soldier boy and put a gun to your own head, LOSER

    • Hey General GOOFBALL, We love to GOSSIP,
      its what we do best

    • das gibt es schon habe schon 900 euro gesendet an einen militär man james rellinger aus irak.an einen mr.ken john der diplomat vom militär.das ich nicht lache was sie da für einen schwachsinn erzählen

    • SO WHY DO YOU ASK FOR MONEY THAN? THERE SHOULD BE NO MONEY INVOLVED AT ALL!!

    • I just wanted to let you know this is going on, I have been through 3 military soldier so far asking for money and getting ready to take the 4th out, They are curel and need to be stopped, there should be a law against this, then to send have access to a military ID with the name marked out, you need to address this issue. People using a military or government employee information should be stopped and put in jail and made to work for their up keep.
      I have email address, pictures to prove it.

  87. You tell them CJ. Good for you .Losers they are.

  88. Surprise, heres a new one

    Sgt. Jonathan Laureles. The real one knows about it but says there isn’t anything he could do.

    I talked with this person alot and used instruction from a previous post to check IP addresses and sure shit it was from nigeria.

    While like many others i feel like a dumbass, at least i know now. Hope 1 less person will fall for this from my post.

    thanks
    DiAnne

  89. OMG!!! CJ,
    I’m laughing myself SILLY
    Thank you for all your hard work,
    Susan :-)

  90. bitte senden sie an leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com wenn sie mehr wissen über james rellinger.er hat auch mich betrogen.er ist aus panama city florida.danke deniz helga.ich möchte wissen ob er zu den betrügern gehört

  91. Hi CJ,
    Greetings from Australia. What a great site…. No doubt I have given you all the info regarding the alledged Cpt Alexander Swain. I feel so sorry for your US Soldiers who’s identities are being used in such a way, is there anyway of letting the real ones know what’s happening ??
    Also, another idea… maybe you can do something with yahoo that the email address that these scumbags of scoiety use can be deleted via yoruself, and/or maybe we can do a deal with Western Union and Money gram that when these scammers ask for a NTC numebr or something, that we give them a number and it delivers a nasty virus that wi[pes everything off their computer/s ???? Just a thought.
    I’ve managed to find many ladies via facebook using the aliases that this scumbag has used to warn them and I have already managed to find 8 of them.
    Best of luck and keep this website going… it should be advertised on all dating sites.
    Love your work CJ
    Regards
    Trish

    • Hi Trish,
      My name is Tricia (Trish for short as well). I’m from South Africa and new on this site. Have been corresponding with a Captain Alexander Swain (says he’s from Pennsylvania USA) and in the military in Iraq)age given as 46 years and divorced and says he has a daughter aged 10years her name is Jodie. We have been corresponding since begining May 2010 up until now. On 25 May he emailed me saying he had been detained in Ghana. And also asking me to help him out financially to get out there. Well he has been there ever since. Dont know if this is a genuine senario or a scam. I dont know what to believe anymore. I need clarity on whether this person is the genuine one in the pics or not. Please refer to my messages further down this site page. One to Eileenn Flanagan her message dated 20 July 2010 and the second one to Jacqui (also of SA) her message dated 20 July 2010 as well.
      Thankyou. I will be grateful for some feedback from anyone of you. Rgds Tricia

      • Have also talked to a guy, Alex Swain, told me he was in Iraq, as a sergant in the E-6 forces.Was divorced with a daughter in 10 with name Christabell. He was from Boston US and his age should be 50. He is the same man as all the Mark pics above and Harry Swain. Met him at frist date and he also hve profiles at facebook as Harry Swain, Alexander Swain and Alex Swain. He used a hotmail. swain508@hotmail.com
        When I connected that adress on facebook with my msn a black guy from Ghana Accra shown with this e-mail. His Name was Nan Kofi kofi. Sent him a note during the time I chatted with “Alex”, cause I still have contact with this guy…and I told Alex about Nana…said I thought it was srange. I got a short answer from Nana that he didnt know me and suddenly the profile was gone. I am now playing with this Alex and tells him he will be found….he dont get it the stupid one.There are more names in this story. Patrick Otchere, Diplomate Luke Jarrel Dary, Gerrald, wich I now know are the same person as obowe, Darryl Lopez. I do have pics on everybody acxept for Mr Otchere. Have spoken to them all over the phone. It is atleast two guys. One african and one american.
        It really would have been nice to know who this Alex/Alexander/Harry Swain is.For real i mean.
        Cecilia from Sweden

  92. Hi there,

    I have also been a victim of online dating scam of someone impersonating a military guy.This disgusting lowlife goes by the name of joe harold. joe.harold45@yahoo.com, IM is joe.harold45. I don’t see his photos on this site yet. He says he is on third tour in Iraq, helicopter pilot, from Bedford Texas. Claims his late mother was head teacher. His late father retired army doctor and owned own gold jewelry business post retirmement. If you want to see the entire story go to the link online dating scams on this site and look for my post. If you would like to compare notes or photos please let me know.

    • Nieve please send CJ your photos so he can post them. cj@soldiersperspective.us

    • I too was scammed by the same person this time going by Joe Marvin (how generic) from Bedford, TX. Same thing happened to me, after meeting on match.com he wanted me to download and chat on yahoo messenger. I saw one of his photos on here and I have more to post if anybody is interested.
      How can get back at these people who are making fools of us??? Luckily I saw this website right before I was ready to mail “him” a package, whew, I dodged a bullet.

      • Hi Linda,
        Yes, I would like to chat with you about “Joe Marvin”…..

    • Hi. I would like to compare notes. Your “Joe Harold” maybe be my “Joe Marvin”. He hasn’t asked me for anything yet,… however, he did send me 2-dozen of red roses to my home to prove he was not scamming me. He’s supposively stationed in Camp Fallujui (?) in Iraq. He supposed to have a meeting today to find out his exact date he will be coming home. I’m anxious to see what he tells me.
      However, the other day he did ask me for my full name, full address, cellphone number, and closest airport near me because he was sending me a package. He told me since he was so close to coming home, he wanted to send me some of his stuff so he won’t have to carry it to the airport when he comes home. He said FEDEX wouldn’t get it to me in-time so he’s using the courier they use all the time to bring it to me. I was contacted by Isaac Anderson asking me to confirm my info because he was on his way. He said he will email me his flight information shortly…. and keep me updated of his location throughout his trip.
      Now I’m worried!~ Your “Joe Harold” (via pics on his site) is my “Sgt. Joe Marvin”.

      Why in the world would he go to such great lengths and send me roses to prove he is not a scam? So really?….. who got scammed? hahah I’m going to play this little game out to the end. Perhaps before its all said and done…. I will be the one receiving $$. LOL I will ask him today if he could send me $300 for Christmas. LMAO!! Jacka$$!!!!

      • @ Sugar lol great job but this you typed………However, the other day he did ask me for my full name, full address, cellphone number, and closest airport near me because he was sending me a package. He told me since he was so close to coming home, he wanted to send me some of his stuff so he won’t have to carry it to the airport when he comes home. He said FEDEX wouldn’t get it to me in-time so he’s using the courier they use all the time to bring it to me. I was contacted by Isaac Anderson asking me to confirm my info because he was on his way. He said he will email me his flight information shortly…. and keep me updated of his location throughout his trip.

        That is the scam next this so called courier will ask you for money when they return home they DO NOT have to pay to get their belongings home my Husbands has been delivered to our home by an Airline not some fake Courier.Keep us posted glad you know this is a scammer

  93. Hi JJ,

    Yeah, i emailed photos to cj yesterday. I keep checking back to see if they have been posted. I’m curious if anybody will recognize the photos.

    • Ok CJ well take care of it.

  94. Hello everyone, well I meet this scammer on online dating service called ZOOSK as june 2009, he used the profile dearestinlove his name Msgt Steven McCabe and in the “Air Force, serving in Baghdad Iraq” now, I have been scammed by him, big time I am a fool and ashamed, I should have known better cos I am a disabled army veteran, but I thought I fell in love with him, how do they do that make someone fall for them, I am ashamed for what I have done to hurt my fellow military families allowing myself to do this to myself. I AM TRULY SORRY!!!!!!!!!!
    Well anyway he told me that his in the Air Force and that he will be coming soon when I send him more money “like that is ever going to happen again” his emails are stevenmccabe1@hotmail.com stevenmccabe01@yahoo.com and stevenmccabe36@yahoo.com as I know them that way, if he had asked anyone to send money to nigeria he goes by the names ADESINA AJIBOLA, AKINLABI ANTHONY, TERRY WILLIAMS, and some other name I dont remember now, but I got all his faked love letters and need to send them to the military press,FBI,CIA and Afica news,

    I have already spoken to the real Msgt McCabe and he is in Texas

  95. He also is in facebook, I will try to get the others pictures he have sent me as soon as I rescanned them into my computer again

    they all should be ashamed of taking advantage of hard working soldiers in the military that helps keeps the world stay safe

  96. Marni, these morons feel nothing. Maybe they should round them all up and make them do military time then they may not be so anxious to pretend to be soldiers.At least they would have their own money as well then.
    The more I hear of their lies etc the more angry I become.Thank heavens for CJ and his help. Take care…Marlene

  97. CJ,
    hi, just noticed mr rellinger has surfaced 2 more times.

  98. Hi CJ,
    I just wanted to know if you got to find out about SFC. James Thompson Ramos, I had emailed you the pictures that I have if you need for me to resend them to you please let me know.

    • James Ramos is a scam. I had been talking to him for the past two weeks. I originally did a Google search and didn’t come up with anything, then I searched again and found out that he’s a scam. One of his pictures is with a cute black and white puppy, correct? I’m sorry to tell you this, but that’s a scam as well.

      • I too had been contacted by James Ramos about three or four months ago, for except the scammer was going by the name of James Thompson Ramos the picture that you are talking about I too have it. I still have all of his emails and pictures; one thing for certain the scammer knows how to use beautiful words. I am happy to say that he is not longer bothering me the sad part of this is that he just continues to prey on new territories. Good luck and keep safe.

    • Hey Laura, how are you? I think you and I are or were talking to the same guy. RAMOS…. Would like to chat with you about it. I am talking to him now and playing him. I know he is a scam. Thank god I never sent anything, but he also has never asked me for anything YET. But I’m playing. Would love to know if we have the same guy.

  99. hello cj
    please say me james rellinger a swindler?i have her passport in copie.please give me answer sorry my english no good i am frim austria
    greet helga

  100. Hi everybody out there after being scammed by a CHARLES LECAIN also know as CHARLES LEACAIN also SIMON ROBERTS or ROBERT SIMONS and LT HANK COLINS i have today taken the steps of setting up a FACEBOOK page where we can chat and post pictures its u under US ARMY DATING SCAM please feel free to join and leave a photo of ur scammer or name any new scammer
    we will all woru together to STOP this and protect the real soldiers out there
    Tracy

  101. I received a SKYPE message from General Raymond Odierno….AS IF! The SKYPE address he used to contact me is raymond.odierno64 & he has downloaded an actual photo of the General from the internet. General Odierno is the commander for the US forces in Iraq and he would be far to busy to be wanting to contact anyone on SKYPE! I told this guy he was not the person in the photograph and to get lost. I didn’t give him the opportunity to scam me for anything. So girls watch out if you are on SKYPE.

  102. Well ladies I just arrived home from work and decided to check on my emails, I felt bad for the scammer that goes by the name of Sfc. James Thompson Ramos have moved in to a new target, I hope that the person that is been targeted response to a message that I sent her. Hopefully she will and I’ll be able to warn her about this pond scum before she loses her head and turn lose of her money, right now I am praying to God for this woman to answer my message I do hope taht I get to her on time.

    • haben sie schon von james rellinger auch gehört? was sagen sie zu dieser sache danke

    • Yay! I was happy to see that you were able to nip it in the bud quickly!!

  103. Hello all, I caught it bacause of you… I have some more great information for you…it’s another name and photo and paperwork TOO.
    I do not know how to send this to you but, i am scanning it all in my computer if you will email me I will send it to you
    Thanks for all of your help it saved me $1850.00 plus the $130.00 for sending it

  104. bitte bitte brauche hilfe wer kann mir sagen ob james rellinger ein betrüger ist danke von wien deniz helga
    leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com

  105. Hi quick note to CJ and All….. the girls? I was wondering if any one was getting mail sent to their email adresses ( as Cj knows I have a couple ) well I am getting letters sent to me telling me they found me on ” Soldiers per….. us ” and they wanted to get to know me! I was wondering if others were getting this scum coming on to them from using the site… and are the email addresses clearly visable to all and sundry even the scammers…. Its Okay for me, just wondered thats all… if any others were getting mail wanting frienships etc etc… Thanks Trish from UK

  106. I was recently informed that pictures of my husband (from myspace) are being used in a scam just like these. The man claims to be a soldier in Iraq and tries to get money from women. One of his victims contacted me…

    My husband was killed in Iraq in April 2006 and I cannot begin to explain how much pain I felt when I looked up the name she gave me and there was my husband’s picture. I requested that facebook remove the page but not only is the page still there, but no one has ever contacted me. I have contacted the FBI, but again no one seems to care enough to even contact me, despite the fact that this man has gone so far as to use fake military documents and a fake military ID. I don’t know what to do to make this stop and feel as if I have failed to protect my husband’s memory.

    The name this man uses is Harlem Wilson and I am told he is from Africa, I believe Nigeria. If there is any step I can take to make this man stop, PLEASE let me know.

    LaNita Herlem
    Proud Widow of SFC Bryant A. Herlem

    • I am so sorry about this…I often wonder how many of these soldiers are deceased..my heart bleeds in pain…how can people be so cruel…so sorry…

    • La Nitta, I am so sorry that this low life scammer has put you throught this and please accept my sympathies. We all wish we could stop these nasty people who have no empathy for anyone. Once again I am so sorry this has happend to you and your family. All the best…….Marlene

    • Dear LaNita,

      This is really, truly awful, I am sooo sorry that you are going through even more pain because of these **** scammers.

  107. Hi all
    Has anyone had any contact from a guy name Major Tyron Mattews apparently in IRAQ about to retire?

  108. Ladies please be aware of Sgt. Scott Ludvik..I also sent photos here…so you all can be aware…honestly my heart is broken..the photos seem so authentic..i can’t believe i fell victim..to this

    • I would tell you not to feel bad but if I did you would say “yeah right” I felt bad about it too. I went so far as to pull off all the articles I could about the one I was speaking with and show them to my friends. But after checking out an email address that didn’t seem right, further steps led me to this site.

      Your heart will heal, you were in love with pretty words not a real person…I hope your feeling better soon.
      DiAnne

  109. yes LaNitta I am so sorry about your lost my sympathies to you and his famlies. may the all scumbags that are doing rot,
    Has anyone been scam by Msgt Steven McCabe suppose to be in the air force, well I have spoken to the real Msgt Steven McCabe in texas and he tells me that is not his picture

    • das sagen sie alle bei james rellinger nicht anders zeigt in jeden forum sein foto nur die adresse wo er wohnt ist veschieden.kann nicht verstehen warum man das menschen antut,die ehrlich sind, arbeiten gehen,und spass haben möchten,dass man die betrügt.naja man lernt aus fehler.bin enttäuscht aber froh das ich diese seite gefunden habe.danke

  110. Sgt Charles Lecain and Sgt Roberts both active on girls date for free 5 profiles between them all the same photo lol have reported them

  111. Hi, I am so shocked today, I just read the article and realised that Sgt Ivan Nobile who has been chatting to me for a month now and would supposedly have come to South Africa to be with me..is not really the guy on the picture.
    All the warning signs were there…how could I not have picked it up? Love is Blind now makes more sense.
    I even had a phone call from a guy named Suley who was supposed to bring a package with his valuables and docs to me. And an e-mail from a Thomas Brown who said that he is the Custom Officer in Accra Ghana and he scanned the package and that there is over a Million dollars in there, so he was supposedly bribing Ivan to give him 85000$ money. Ivan asked if I could help with at least half of this and I luckily did not have that much money.
    I have the details of the guy that I was supposed to pay the money to… a Jilbrid Mohammed and even the address.
    I am going to our media with this, to stop it from happening to other women in SA.

    • Hi Ester, am glad that I forwarded the info to CJ in time. Yes, you story is the same as mine and I also have the name and bank details.I would really like to help the real Ivan Nobile. These people using his photos are in Acca-Ghana.I sincerely feel sorry for the real soldiers who are having there identities stolen. Am glad that I found this site. Am determined not to give up till I find the real Ivan Noble. I know that CJ will trace him with the photo’s we have. I also forwarded more photos to him and waiting patiently. He e-mail address has been reported to many site by myself and also to face book.
      Regards,
      Magda

      • CJ has already found and let the real soldier know that he pictures have been stolen and are being used by these scammers.

        • Ask CJ to tell him that the scammer had him as a 51 year old man, and all my friends said : This guy can never be 51!! He looks like he is 38 about. So that is quite a compliment…I think for him. LOL!!! Gotta laugh. Plus the scammers use photos of the most gorgeous soldiers…man!!!!
          Ester

      • I believe that Ivan Nobile/Kelvin Nobile is now using the name Philip Williams Nobile Captain in the US Army. I have been talking to him for about 5 months and he is always trying to get me to send him money. Change for his pocket as he calls it.

    • Hi Ester,

      Just read the article in the YOU. (I am also from Durbanville). So sorry to hear what you went through…..sick sick!

      Sterkte
      x

      • Hi Ester & Tracy,
        Glad that I’m not the only South African with this problem. CJ did post my pic’s and hopefully that bas@%rd will be off line for a while with that soldiers photo’s. I must say, I would like to meet the real 1 if he is single!! Hahahaha
        Enjoy the day!!

  112. die betrüger gehören alle in die wurst

  113. Well ladies are you ready to laugh. The scammer that had stopped emailing me resurfed no other than on my birthday wich it was 21 June. Ladies there’s a new Army rank which it’s Junior Sgt LOL. You see the scammer told me that because of me his Junior Sgt. beat him up for scaming and that his superior put him in jail, the best part of this is that the scammers rank is Sfc. now who goes and figure about this new rank of Junior Sgt LOL. I was rolling on the floor with laughter but the best part is that he went through this because he loves me now he completed the cake not just with the icing but also including the candles.

    • I don’t suppose the cake was a fairy castle with cone turrets Was it?

      • No it wasn’t lol.

        • Thanks for letting me know its just a photograph of one I sent to one of them

        • Wanted to make sure they hadn’t used it

    • LMAO that is just beautiful I am about to seal the coffin on my scammer and I am having such a wonderful time knowing that he will not get one cent from my bank account.

      But I do feel sorry for the poor soldiers who are being used in this awful game and hope that they can also get their just deserts by way of being told that this is happening to them via the wonderful work that CJ is doing

      Cheers Fiona

  114. Since there is another Laura from now on I will sign myself Laura V.

  115. Hi Cj,

    I emailed you last night some pictures of a Sargeant Peter Williams who claims he is widowed with a son living with his dad in Atlanta, whilst he had not asked me for any money or anything he has declared his undying love for me and sent me some flowers which I checked out and were from a texas military base – my concern is that altho he deleted his profile when we started chatting when my friend looked on site there was another pic which looked like his with the profile name of quayreeves, I questioned him about this as he seemed shock and said his identity must have been stolen, I never heard from his for a few days then last night he popped up on my chat and said hi, I asked him if he had sorted anything about his id being stolen and he said his commander was looking into it but he seemed very distant not how he was before, I asked him if I had upset him and if he still felt the same about me and he replied that I had not upset him but he did not feel the same as he was sick of dating sites and was no longer having anything to do with them and that altho we could still chat we would not talk about a relationship but will decide when he gets home what he wants. I would be grateful if you could look into this for me and im hoping he is a genuine guy but unfortunately these days dont trust anyone. especially when you hear so much about these scammers.
    Thanks for your help.

    • Sorry my friend, Sgt Peter Williams is quite the charmer, but he’s also a scammer. Met him on Plenty of Fish dating site July 8. Insisted we close out our sites right away, because we were a perfect match, no need to look any more. Told me he was in Iraq and would be home soon. The first couple of emails and chats were like living in a fairytale. Then he just had to hear my voice, needed me to send him a $800 satellite phone thru some company. The money could only be sent by Western Union, no credit or debit card. I refused to do it, so he told me it was only a test and I was a dishonest woman, but he forgave me. Then he had me chat with his dad on a video chat,this just keeps getting better. Then he just couldn’t wait to get home to be with me, so I needed to send him $6875.00 so he could come home from Iraq. All of this money would be refunded to me as soon as he got home, it would come out of his bank account. I just got tired of his BS and I emailed him and told him he was a scammer and he should get a job and earn his own money, I said a few other things that I won’t mention. Now he says his dad told him not to talk to me any more, but I just keep agitating him when I see him on line, he told me to stop harrassing him. I have all the emails and chat logs to prove what I just said is true, saved them all! All of this and I didn’t even get flowers, damn!

      • I’m Sgt P Williams currently on Deployment to Ira… (7/30/2010 3:24:33 AM): You are so stupid,nobody get a damn money from you so why do you want to die….You are so urgly and stupid infact nobody can move closer to you to say they can marry a urgly stupid woman like you
        I’m Sgt P Williams currently on Deployment to Ira… (7/30/2010 3:24:53 AM): Get lost and die somewhere i know the government would get your corpse somewhere
        I’m Sgt P Williams currently on Deployment to Ira… (7/30/2010 3:27:34 AM): I never get a danm money from you so why do you want to die….You would stay single forever so look no more hahaha

        This is the response I got from the scammer (Sgt. Peter Williams) when I told him he had been busted by this web site.

  116. CJ and all you other ladies…since I last posted on here I hve made it a daily routine to check these people out.. i have found more names and would like for you to know them as they state themselves online. Here are the ones I have cleared with someone from the Army that are scammers… Alex Noble; Billy Kindt; Christopher Woods; David Roberts; Steven Roberts; Rlph Edwards; Daniel Collins; Engle Martin; and James Scott..all of which use these names on Yahoo Messenger. See I do work for the Anniston Army Depot in Anniston, Alabama… I ran these names on their computer and they do not exist as being single men…some of which have passed during the line of duty. The others are simply impersonating an officer and the information I submitted will be sent to these officers and their commanders. It is against the law for me to tell you which officers are dead and which are alive…rest assured I have spoken to 2 of the above named men.. they are married and very happy with thier spouses.
    Thanks

    • Messg for SUSIE,,, Can you drop me a quick line at trishwills60@hotmail.co.uk I would appreciate it, as you may be able to give me complete closure on my dilema, Thankyou

    • Susie,
      Please add a Sgt. David Edwards, US Army to the list. We have been in contact for 8 months, I’ve lost 17,661.00 and his IP address is Lagos, Nigeria & Madenhead, Nigeria.
      Thank You for All Your Help,
      Kathy C.

    • OMG. Not that I havent already gotten my heart crushed over the last year I just got scammed. Luckily only my heart. The moment he asked for money I knew something was not right. Ladies….Martin Engles is a scammer. he may go by Engles Martin. he uses Yahoo IM to sweet talk you. The scum bag had the nerve to ask me to marry him before asking for money. And now he knows so much about me. Do I feel like an idiot. I have been ill for th elast year and on medical leave and this man…no Dog.. has the nerve to ask me for money. I struggle every day to just pay my bills and feed my kid. Susie, Thank you for your persistance. I needed to see his name here somewhere so I could end this farce. Though a good freind of mine and I are already in the process of screwing with him. Can not wait till he IMs me after coming in from “NIGHT PATROL” i n Afganistan. I know I shouldnt feel like a total idiot but it is what it is and I will have to deal with it.

      • yupp… i have almost been scammed.. check out Major Carl Edwards… carl.edwards2000@yahoo i have almost the exact same email to me that was published of this scammer elsewhere… I was taken in by his warmth and affection 9in the email for a week,, he is good…. knows how to pull on the heartstrings..has sent me photos currently and i sent him photos.. when he started asking for a phone and $ i pulled back… another man calls himself lukwesley@yahoo.com also contacted me through match.com and he and i actually talked on the phone! He admitted that he is going to Nigeria with his 12 yr old daughter.. i commented on his Nigerian accent since i am very good with accents.. he actually wants to keep communicating… It was interesting to note that he called me while i was online with Carl edwards… and carl had asked to take a little break… veryyyy interesting.. i will be talking to a buddy of mine in the FBI who did alot of work over in Iraq.. this is so sad… I was almost hooked.. he is so good a scammer i am almost wondering if it was a female impersonating Carl.. google major carl edwards and military scamming. I am going to call match.com and let them know about this too

  117. CJ, I need some help with one that says he is the real deal. Please email me asap
    thanks
    Susie

  118. I don’t what to believe..Scott Ludvik claims he is a soldier…can someone please check him out…I will also send pics to you CJ…Thanks

    • Angela (and everyone else), I really want to help more but the truth is that I’m a very demanding and stressful military job and I don’t have the time to check on the dozens of guys being emailed to me. I wish I did, but I just don’t. Every now and then I try to add one or two to this post, but I”ve been working until 7pm or later the past few weeks. There is an easy way to tell if the person you are talking to is a real Soldier or not. Ask them to send you an email from the AKO email. If they refuse or ask you what that is, they are fake. If they give some bogus excuse about security or accessing the system, they’re fake. Bottom line: if they refuse to you an email from a .mil email address instead of a .com email address, they are fake! I can’t make it any easier than to verify these guys.

      • Amen Brother in Arms! And if they ask you to send something to someone else…FAKE. They have APO address over there. They get paid the same EVERY 2 WEEKS. They should not need ANYTHING from you, they have access to a store and most places now adays ship to APO no problem. If he wants a Camera or Ipod, the deusch can afford it!

  119. Understand CJ and thanks for all the help you have already given, You have been great and I am sure I speak on behalf of all the women here when I say a huge Thanks. You stay safe there and all the best…Marlene

  120. Thanks for the work done on this website – I was able to spot a scammer almost immediately. Surprise! No further contact once challenged! The only thing I feel sad about is I am sure that there are genuine soldiers who would appreciate friendship and don’t deserve to have their ID misused.

  121. schreiben sie an yawboat20@yahoo.com wenn sie betrogen worden sind.dort sind sie richtig.ich bin diesen weg gegangen wegen james rellinger und mr.ken john.man hilft mir dort die betrüger zu finden.danke für das forum denn da kann man viel einsehen was sich auf der welt alles abspielt.viele betrüger gibt es was für eine schreckliche zeit

  122. CJ..Thanks for all of your help. Everyday i check your site because i have a connection with women who knows how it feel to be lured in or taked by these guys. I can’t discuss this with my family. They would not believe that this even occurs let alone i was so nieve. I have met woman on this site who i am now friends with and is such a support. You have taken on something that has helped so many of us and I do understand about your demanding schedule but really appreciate your efforts…

  123. who is capt eddy james fouillouse

  124. has anybody came across sgt henry williams email address henrycole555@hotmail.com

  125. cj I understand your busy but I really need your help. My mom went on this dating sight and usually I’m OK with her dating but there just seems to be something off with this guy. he says his name is David Edward and hes 48yrs old. he has a 9 year old son and his wife died of cancer 5 years ago. i read the article and i don’t believe he is who he is but my mom wont believe me. So if possible I would really appreciate it if you could look this guy up for me he says hes in the air force and hes a SGT.

    • Kristy, if she doesn’t believe you, she won’t believe me. I can’t look up Air Force people. My only advice is that you tell your mom to be careful and NOT sent money when he asks for it. That will be the tip-off. But, his story matches almost all of them with the whole sob story of a dead wife and a young child.

    • Does he say where he is suppose to be from? But he is using the same mo as the scammers use.

    • Kristy, that story sounds like one that I was told to by one claiming to be a lietenuant in Iraq, does she have pictures of him?

    • Kristy, Pls. tell your Mom to stop. He has been emailing me for 8 mos. as Sgt. David Edwards from the Army DVDWARDS@YAHOO.COM.Total scammer. IP addresses from all over, Lagos, Nigeria & Maidenhead, Nigeria.
      Sorry,
      Kathy C.

  126. ware is the real lt2jefferyseanmiller that ive just sent 2,000 to says he is in afghan

    • Tracy, sorry you lost your 2,000.00 what was it that he wanted it for? And were you engaged to him? Did you talk to him on the phone or just internet?
      Thanks, wondering, if I am in love with the real Miller, or living out a story like yours.

      CIW

    • he is also jeff haggard davind ramos robert haggargand more

  127. there are 4 jefferymillers on face book . so ware is the real miller lt2 jefferyseanmiller

    • messg for Tracy… Sorry but i think your Miller is same guy as on face book ( but I havent actually seen that one but have been told by a friend from SA she put it there ( she made a port folio of the FAKE,, ( same one as on the U.tube on google under Philip Miller and Alias.. ( he is a crafty one this one and will convince any one with WEB cam as well to try and convince that he is the real Miller ( I and many more have been trying to trace the REAL MILLER for MONTHS… and MONTHS I can send you the pics I have if you want to see them or you can send them to me and i will tell you if its the same guy as I and my friends have come to ” KNOW ” Luckily i didnt lose any cash not with this one… But he is a CON MAN of the “HIGHEST CALIBRE” I had him thown off Badoo and afew other sites but what can we do.. nothing works he still manages to CON any lady that does not ” see him coming before hand ” he has the LOOKs too to attract any women….and uses a FACE insert on web cam of the REAL Miller on WEB cam. you can find me at trishwills60@hotmail.co.uk Bye and good luck

      • Aka: Miller….I have been scammed by Andrews Miller using the same photos. He found my profile on Plentyoffish.com on 6/29/2010. He sent me some of the same pictures posted on the youtube video and the facebook pages of Jeffery Miller. It appears this scammer has now gone by the name of Jeff/Jeffery Miller, James Miller, Richard Miller, Philip Miller, David Miller and now Andrews Miller and still using the military pictures of the real Miller. This scammer needs to be stopped asap.

    • hi think im being scamed by pedrito javier the says hes in love with me he has stared 2 ask me for money dont have any sent 40 pound he now asking 2500 for leave he has asked me 2 be his benifisher 4 his propertys his solisoter as asked me 4 bank details passport etc and he is asking for bank details what should i do

      • could you chek out michael templeton please

      • hi tracy, my mom is also being scammed by pedrito javier, he’s told her he loves her, needs money to get out the army, is a widower, has a sick daughter, says he’s from houston texas, but is infact in richmond, washington, (tracked his ip) ive seen forged driving licence he has sent to my mom, army id that is fake, he is using col.328@live.com, to email, cant find his army leaving papers (supposidly got out the army 6-7wks ago) took him 10mins to tell my mom what time it was in houston, plus other stuff, and then i find your post on here, feel free to email me anytime craig.gillam@hotmail.co.uk, hope he hasnt scammed you, get rid of this person asap, he only wants your money, dont fall for his charm, do some home work on him, if your still in contact with him, ask for his apo for when he was “on tour of duty” (apo = american post office (should b apo then numbers) or his mos, he will lie to you, if i can help you in any way dont hesitate to email, DONT SEND HIM ANY MONEY, NOT A PENNY i have pictures of this scammer, if you would like to see them let me know, take care x

  128. CAN SOME ONE TELL ME WARE THE REAL JEFFERY SEAN MILLER IS ITS THAT MILLER THATS ALL OVER FACE BOOK IVE JUST LOST 2,000 TO . AND HE KEEPS COMEING BACK KNOW WAY .lt2jefferymiller@yhaoo.co.uk and lt2jefferymiller@att.net .

    thanks if you can help and dose the real miller now he as 4 profies on face book alone

  129. thy also have a shares web site so look out for that one . rob stockshares ….web site

    • Tracy more then likely the real soldiers first name is not Jeffery. The scammers always change part of the name to so you don’t run across the real soldiers myspace or facebook page.

  130. can somebody please tell me if sgt henry williams is real or not he is in camp phoenix in afghan

    • Hi Nigirl,
      I don’t know about Sgt Henry Williams but I am communicating with a Captain Tawer Fredie from camp Phoenix in Kabul, not sure if he is real either, so sad how they prey and take advantage of us women, guess it’s the price we pay for being lonely. Thankful we have CJ on our side, I have not sent any money but my man sure had me feeling so good about myself, we are getting engaged in Dec…. so he says. Hate to admit it but my heart is breaking just thinking this is all a scam.

  131. Hi, I also was scammed, if you could email me I will send you photo’s of us soldiers I also would like to know the name of the real person in the photo’s as I am a cancer patient but I’m in remission now and I would like to have closure.

    • Fay, send them to me at cajanet43@yahoo.com
      I will do my best to help you. Sometimes it can be very hard to find out who the real soldier is, but I have been able to find a few of them.

      • HAI I HAVE PICS TO FROM A CAPTAIN
        HE WAS IN DAFOUR. PLEASE IF YOU CAN INDIFI FOR ME THANKS YOU CAN CONTACT ME
        brendadeneve@skynet.be

  132. One more to add to the list.
    He is using the name SergentVictor@Yahoo.com Nick name Snake! (I wonder why) I even told him he should learn how to spell Sergeant first clue. He can’t spell worth a %#%^ uses i for I am sentences broken and unfinished thoughts second clue. He started with Hey! when he came on line. Within a day it was Honey! third clue. Call be Baby tell me you love me within the week. fourth clue. With in two weeks it was Ts2 line was needed. BTA (Basic Travel Allowance)was needing to be paid.
    Wife died, son lives with Mother in Indiana. Missing them. Does not want to die in Afghanistan. Needs money to get home. IP address shows Sunnyvale Ca.
    He got very insulted when I told him I knew that he was doing. And you have to answer to your God just like I have to answer to mine. But said he loved me more than the money I would not send him. Again ask for money the next day. Just a text book case. Just what it says in all the web sites. Just read all you can and listen. Believe your head over your heart. These are are fighting men getting a bad wrap from these bums.

  133. JJ…Thank you for helping me find out the truth..

  134. Hi,

    CJ/JJ… Could you please tell me if armymail.com is a legite email address for a soldier serving in iraq.

    Thanks

    • No it is not.

  135. Thank goodness for this site. Was in contact with Mark Brown but nothing added up – his mails did not make sense. He sent me photos and one was of Ruddick sitting inside a lorry holding a gun. I have kept the mails and the photos- one showing his ‘daughters’. please get in touch via my e-mail and I’ll send them on. And thanks again.

    • Think he is the same guy as Alex/Alexander/Harry Swain and also as Mark Brown. Look at pics above.

  136. I was doing some background checking when I came across your web-site. This encouraged me to check further & I discoved the IP address being used was in London.The e-mail addresses used were
    sgtdavidmonfils@live.com
    and
    davidmonfils01@yahoo.co.uk
    Fortunately, no harm done to me or my bank balance!
    This site has been very useful as I have no knowledge of the US military, ranks or insignia & the web sites for these are somewhat lacking. I’m glad I stumbled across your site as I may not have found out the deception as quickly. It goes without saying that I have reported the IP address to an abuse site & the culprit to Friends Reunited as I was contacted via their site. Anyway, thanks again!!

  137. There is this guy who says he is Bill Haggard 2 on yahoo.messenger, I’ve been talking to who ever this is for a couple of weeks, We met on migenti.com, there his id is santaigo. Anyway, I put in that I was looking for friends only, but we started talking and he sounds like one of those ( to good to be true sayings), so anyway he mentions about sending a care package, so he said his commander gave him this e-mail to get intouch with them and they would tell him what needed to be done, I asked him if he needed to cantact them or would it be easier for me to contact them so I could get the information, inorder to send a care package. the e-mail he gave me is, ( morgins100@gmail.com ) so I sent a note to them asking what needed to be done, I haven’t heard from them yet. Anyway,I was curious about where he was located so I looked it up, Afghanistan, Kabul camp Eggers well I put info in and looked it up on google, I love this site, so anyway this guy I put his name in as well, and the sites come up, so I was looking at one checking it out and guess who’s picture shows up. u got it, the very same person I’ve been talking to. so I keep reading all sounds familiar, except the one I been talking to has a 17 year old son who lives with the sons Aunt, anyway mommy died, and Bill said that his mom and dad were killed in an accident. so supposedly he has no family(Bill) anyway he can’t call me, but he will try, I can’t call him because he’s guarding some wall and u know it could give their position away. I feel stupid cause I kinda believed the part about the son living with the aunt, and his wife being dead, and the part about mom and dad, but everyone I know in the military are allowed to speak with family, I don’t know how it works but I do know they communicate. Anyway like I said I started looking for info and this is what I found, so I am letting you know about this person, oh his birthday is supposedly on July 1st and he was born in 1965 or 66 I forget, but he’s 45, I’m assumming 46 six now. oh he’s Irish American and the profile says he is from Tampa,Fla and he said when he got married they moved to Georgia, but he has to sell his house in Georgia, Well this should be enough to do what u do, warn the people who fall for this and the families that r being used. to give these type of people their ID’s. It really is sad. Thank God I have a curious side and thank you for this site. Have a blessed day and again thank u.

    • hello Dorothy,

      Well seems the same guys I’ve been chatting with except his name is Alfred Haggard I don’t know if you do have pictures of him see it’s same person and would like to exchange as well my picture. YOu can reply to me at: valpolicella@ymail.com

      • Julie,

        I think that we have been talking to the same person. I have some photos if you want to exchange any? You can email me at:
        toniesmom@rocketmail.com

        • FYI ladies, the man in the picture (Robert Haggard) above is now going under the name of Haggard Millar, been chatting to him for about a week, a little different story than previous posts, has a daughter not a son. Just be careful ladies.

    • dorothy,
      i wish i had read this before i started talking to chris haggard 47 parents killed in car accident married 14 years wife cheated divorced last 4 years tampa fl his pictures are listed above as robert bill haggard i feel very foolish and my heart is broken i will never use a dating site again funny tho some of his emails have a little bit of the mike gales? emails this is either the same person with all of us or they have a handbook either way im sorry for the hurt i know all of you have had as im going thru it now myself.

  138. Hello to everybody!I am very gratful to have found this site and there are so many women with bad experience with the scammer,I never thought that such thing could happend to me!but I am not alone,this is good to know!but I can’t come to rest before I’ll find out who is the real soldierEdwards,I don’t know his first name and if he have a family or is he single?please look at this page:http://www.romancescam.com/forum/vietopic.php?t=24076!you will see a lot of photos from this soldier Edwards who the scammer has used!I need an answer please,I know it seems to be crazy but I wanna come to rest,to get this experience out of my head!Thank you for your help!!I need an answer!Thanks again!

    • Hi there… i have been scammed by a certain Sgt. Edwards Smith who said that he’s being deployed in Iraq, stationed in Camp Victory North. Contact me for photos if you want so i can share them with you… he even proposed to marry me…. i am still in distraught!

  139. Hey just to let yall know, Bill L Haggard is also Mike Bill Haggard and he has a new name on Migente.com, it is armylover63 also is 46 and his location is now American Somoa he is now white and other and his sign is Cancer. oh also has the same person in picture, first one he has a blue/white stripped shirt, new one hes has a white shirt, both shirts are collard. Just letting u know.

    • He also goes by by the last name of PEREZ. I asked for his full name to which he stated Wayne Hackert PEREZ. Email address he used is ferraributterfly@yahoo.com. I reported him on match.com

      I have submitted his fake pics to this site, hopefully they will be posted in due time. If anyone was talking to this guy and you need pics for proof contact me at islandgirl@hotmail.ca

  140. hey if u could e-mail me I have more info for u. also look out for a capt. coleman 12 and a frnkluamba this one says his name is frank and he has a son, I was frusrated with this shit that I kinda gave him a piece of my mind.

    • this i know that frank guy dorothy tried it with me said he was mexican in nigeria with his kid

  141. IF ANYONE WANTS TO CHECK OUT THE SO CALLED LIEUTENANT CHARLES RAMSY, HE IS NOW ON MY SPACE.COM.

  142. Do we know if anyone of these scammers have been caught yet? I suppose there are too many small fry its the big fry who needs to be caught.

  143. ja das wäre zeit diesen betrügern das handwerk zu legen.wer weiss mehr über james rellinger.bitte an meine email adresse schreiben

  144. Hello!I think it is really difficult to caught the scammer!!but I hope that many women can be warnd not become a victim of the scammer!Is there anybody who know the real Soldier Edwards?I have postet the page who you can see the pics who the scammer has used from this innocent Soldier!please,write to my email adress if anybody can help me to find him!thanks a lot!

    • Hi! I may have been contacted my the same Sgt. Edwards. What were you told his full name is? Where is he supposedly from? What branch of the armed services. Looking forward to hearing from you. Thanks.

  145. bitte helfen sie mir und schreiben sie mir damit ich weiss ob ih es mit einen betrüger zu tun habe.
    leohelgadeniz@hotmail.com

  146. Has anyone found the real soldier WADSWORTH yet?

    • A friend of mine were involved with a William Wadsworth last year. She was scammed out of a huge amount of money. Were you also one of his victims?

      • Dear Mary,

        I wrote a long email this morning 01h30 about Col William Frank Wadsworth. It must have been lost in translation I have been scammed by him USD100000.00 and nearly a Further USD50000.00

        I just hope that the real Col Wadsworth has more savvy than this imposter.

        Darryl Lopez, What a hunk and be interested in me a women of 60 yip have been in contact with me on of for the last month.

        Have a great day all. We are not stupid just very romantic and sentimetal. Shows how far we would go for a man that declares his love. I can only say Thanks for the memories.

        • is the person in ghana , am a police officer and i can help you get the person because this money is too much to loose and also he is tanishing the image of the country

        • asabere,

          they are all in Ghana…and Nigeria

  147. how to send the pictures? thanks

  148. Gees Ivan Nobile really got around!!

  149. In case ya’ll didn’t see the main page, it looks as if I have been used in these scams as well. I recently found my ugly mug on the dating site datanta.com:

    http://www.soldiersperspective.us/2010/07/09/the-hunter-becomes-the-hunted-a-nigerian-scam/

    • Wow CJ I did not know you were available.

    • C.J. I have a new name to add to the list of scammers. Master Sargent Steve Burton. I will send you his picture.I saw him in a Bar 3 miles from my homea month ago(OOP’s). Don’t think he was counting on that. Had the nerve to contact(IM) me the next day and wanted to know how it made me feel. I wanted to hurt him. He’s not in Iraq at all!!!steveburton38@yahoo.com. I was scammed out of a lot of money!!

      • Hello ladies, I have started to talk to this Steve Burton since last night. Funny thing, though it was not a US dating website or european. I am living in Mexico and the website is called Amor en Linea. I fell like an idiot for another scammer (did not lose any money though) who called himself Kelvin Sadat Ahmed Imoro who supposedly owned a construction company and was doing projects in Saudi Arabia. He had/has a secretary called Prisca Newton, an Italian lawyer called Renato Compri in Verona Italy and a half brother called Ibrahim Imoro. I still hurt, but when I started talking to this “Master Sargeant Steven Burton” I knew he was a fake. I am saving all the conversations we have on Messenger as I did with this Kelvin. If you want photos of the Kelvin guy let me know. I have his secretary too. I have his IP address AND phone numbers =)

        CJ THANK YOU FOR YOUR SITE!!! It has helped me a lot.

    • Hi there,
      I was scammed also by a Bill Pendleton from Miami, with the same story.
      Divorced with a son.
      The funny thing is that I contacted him by a romanian site ….sentimente.ro….
      there are pictures here that I received from him.
      Also in irak and no connection.
      I will be back soon with details.
      Pls let me know what to do.
      Adina

  150. I just sent you an email with a new photo and a link to his profile on http://www.okcupid.com. This guy was really good! His english was flawless! Once I realized it was a scam I chatted with him and he confessed that he was in Nigeria! Then he went back to pretending to be Col. Dennis Gray! I chatted with him for hours every day for a week! I didn’t have a clue until I saw “wire transfer” and then the red flags went up!

  151. Hi there I too have been in contact with Darryl Lopez his profile was on woome.com it is just full of scammers anyway has anyone been in contact with a Richard Fischer (fischer23@live.com) claimed that he was serving in Iraq and has a son Paul 18 years old .. would be interest if anyone had contact with him…

  152. Watch out for David Alejandro Walker – same person and pictures as Steven McCabe – thses guys are on British Dating websites

    See for pictures

    http://www.delphifaq.com/faq/male_scammers/f6748.shtml?p=0

  153. Regarding Darryl Lopez Baghdad with a son Jimmy – He is writing to me as well – oh well what can we say – I asked him to mail from his .mil email – no respond!!!

    • Darryl Lopez is one of the scammers. So you will not get a military email address from him.

      • Louet and JJ,
        Darryl Lopez had also been writing and IM’ing me. I was suspicios from the beginning, but played along to see if I could draw him out. My father and uncles were all military men, and I was angry that someone would use a soldier’s ID and pictures. When I finally told him I believed he was a scammer, he sent me a long email saying how frustrated he was with scammers who have stolen his identity and pictures, how his superior officers know about this and are taking care of it, how much he cared for me and hoped I wouldn’t stop writing him, etc….I, of course, wrote him back that I ran his IP address and it’s from Ghana. I also wrote him that if he wants me to believe he’s real, he needs to send me a picture of himself holding a sign with my name on it. Needless to say, I haven’t heard from hm since. LOL

        I have taken the steps to report his scam to both the Dept. of Treasury’s Secret Service division that is investigating internet scams using US soldiers id’s and pictures, and the Army’s own investigative office (address listed above in one of the posts).

        I also sent CJ Darryl Lopez’s pictures, so hopefully at some point they’ll be on this site as well. I just hope someone recognizes the real soldier and notifies him!

        • Think This Lopez is connected to Alex Swain in a way. When I talked to Alex he wnted me to pay for his friend Gerald on match.com. He got me the id and secret word, so I checked and saw the pic which I saved. Found it here and it´s the Lopez guy.

    • that is exactly what I did then called him out on it funny he has not responded since so glad that I could make you more aware – and I only retracted my post after immense pressure from the scammer -but now I say it loud & clear say away from this person he also goes under the WOOME website for Darryl1683 cheers & take care Fiona

  154. Hi there,

    I just finished reading a local magazine (I live in South African) which features an article about a lady who lives in my hometown that has been scammed (Ester I think it’s you) and deided to come and have a look at this site.
    So sad and sick that these “men” would do this…..
    What stands out the most for me is the terrible spelling and sentence construction……was that not a warning bell in itself.
    I am NOT judging….just wondering….

    • hahaha! so much for me asking about their spelling and stuff! I just re read my post! BLUSH!

  155. Hi CJ, thanks to your website, I have evaded a scammer from Ghana posing as Captain Steve Lopez. I have pictures if you would like to post them.

    Thank you very much for bringing attention to this.

  156. Louet or anyone else scammed by Darryl Lopez,
    If you want the name and fax number of the secert service investigator to whom I sent all the info (pictures, emails, chats) of Darryll Lopez, ask CJ for my email address and I will sent them to you so you can add your info to the investigator’s file.

    • Hey tali would love your email address keen to chat with other women about this person – will email CJ / Janet & request that she pass it on… cheers fiona

      • Hi CJ / Janet can u pls email me TALI contact email address cheers Fiona

    • I need CJ’s information, as that son of a bitch got me too. I feel so stupid. but who doesn’t want to hear all those loving things he said. Please help me, I know I won’t get my money back but I just want something done about him!!!

  157. CJ can you mail me the Info of Tali so I can send my pictures of this Darryl Lopez as well

  158. yes I need the numbers and email of an investigators as well because I have been scammed by the one calls himself Steven McCabe claims to be in the air force, we can put a stop on him as well.

    Thank CJ for this website I have been spreading the word around and on facebook, I am a disabled army veteran and I got caught5 in the moment thinking I have found someone but I have learned my mistake not to fall for this mess again
    Thank you again
    and tahnk you the real Msgt Steven McCabe

    • Has the real Steven McCabe been notified?

  159. I just found this website today. “Tom Curtis” is still around. We have been in contact for about a month. He said he was retiring in 5 months, “fell in love” almost immediately, and sent me some lovely flowers (from San Diego) last week. He has not asked for any money though. I now feel like a fool and idiot, but am glad I found this website before anything bad happened.

  160. Hi CJ,

    I, too, was scammed by a man who called himself Staff Sgt Marvin Pendleton, based in Basra, Iraq. Looking at the photos on your site I see he has also gone under the name of Steve Endleton and Tom Curtis. This Marvin Pendleton actually phoned me but I have caller ID on my phone so kept the number. The accent was all wrong and when I questioned him about it he suddenly came up with the fact that he was actually brought up in ST Louis so that accounted for the French accent??!!?? When I realized this was a scam I contacted the US Army at armycomrel@mailwc.custhelp.com and they advised they would respond within 24 hours. I gave them the telephone number (Ghana) and the email and messenger addresses. That was on the 23rd May and I am still waiting. Surely there must be some organisation within the US miliary that is looking into all of this. If so, who do we forward all the information to, as I assume having a telephone number may be helpful. Any response to this question would be aprpeciated – thanks.

    After much searching I located a man by the name of Tom Pendleton on both Facebook and Myspace with the same photos. Dont know if this is his real name or just another scam, but on Facebook he had about 63 friends, many apprearing to be miliary, so who knows. I see you state you have actually spoken to the real man and say he is married. On Facebook and Myspace it states he is single. I did send him an email stating what had happened and the next thing is he states on his page “I think I am a legend’ so am not too sure if I actually did manage to contact the real guy.

    Ester, thanks for having the courage to go to the local press here in South Africa. Your story sounds so similiar to mine that I have already had folks contact me asking if I had written the article.

    Ladies, we are worth so much more than these scumbags and should not judge ourselves too harshly. Many of us have been taken in thinking we are talking to born again solid christians who can quote the Bible backwards. We just have to keep our faith and know that there are really good guys out there – even ones that seem too good to be true.

    • Hi CJ,

      I live in South Africa and I have just been scammed by ‘Robert Hannett’. I have been corresponding with him for 6 weeks and he sent loads of e-mails, telling me how much he loved me. He also said that he was coming to South Africa to meet me. I found about the scam yesterday just in time. I received an e-mail from him yesterday telling me his luggage has been detained at customs in Ghana, where he was going to fetch his son. He asked me to send him
      $1 500 dollars to get his luggage and also said that he has important documents which gives him access to $650 000, which he cannot declare to customs.
      I have now played along and told him that I would transfer the money.
      He has just sent me an text message asking if I have done the transfer, the cell number is +233245091066.
      I have sent you the e-mails which contain the photos.

      • Hi Jacqui and CJ
        Would like to lift a bit of weight off of my shoulders as I have no one else to converse with. Just to let you know this is a similar senario that I have had from the so called Captain Alexander Swain (but no fetching a son). We have been e-mailing each other since begining of May 2010 up until now 24 July 2010. He then apparently got injured toward end of May and asked for special leave and was coming to SA to meet me. I received an e-mail on 25 May saying he had also been detained at customs in Ghana re luggage issue and also had to appear in court there. Also was requesting money to be sent via Western Bank Transfer or by Moneygram to a Mr Patrick Otchere, 228 Airport Avenue, Ghana, Zip Code 00233, City Accra. When transfer done to text him (Alex) on cell +233279938402 . Please also refer to my reply further down this page to Eileenn Flanagan’s message dated 20 July 2010 for further info on this Cpt. Swain.
        Regards Tricia

        • Check all what I wrote about Alex Swain. Have more to tell obout this guys. Alex and Patrick.

  161. CJ – is there something similar we can report to in the UK (other than the police) I know that the scammmers are working out of British dating sites as well – i.e.the notorious Steven McCabe aka David Walker.

    I will also happily send stuff to the Secret Service investigator if it can help.

    I understand that the Real Sgt McCabe and his wife are far from happy about what is happening – but the US military legal people have said that they can do little to stop this.

    • Hey Sam
      how long ago was you scammed by this BASTARD Msgt Steven McCabe, I have also been scammed by him as well I meet online ZOOSK dating line as of june 2009 but did not send him money until sept thru dec and I started to get email from others girl telling that his a scammer, so I have been trying to get info to the FBI so I can have backup when I get this scumbag if you like you can email at mvazquez4@msn.com…..that goes with anyone they also can email as well

  162. kindly email me contact details of where I can send pics of SFC Darryl Lopez who has been writing to me too. He also told me he has a son called Jimmy and that he has no parents and wants to relocate as soon as he is finished his assignment in Baghdad.

    • WOW how can one man relocate to so many places LOL – cheers fiona

      • Fiona, that’s too funny!
        btw, I joined the FB site and posted more pictures of Darryl Lopez on the scammer’s list, in additon to the one you sent.

  163. Has anyone been contacted by one Staff Sgt Robby Williams, currently in Afghanistan? He’s from the cupid site.

  164. Brenda, yep, that’s the same story by Darryl Lopez I’m sure we all got — parents deceased, wanting t0 relocate, and all about Jimmy.

    Since so many are here asking for the information of whom to report Darryl Lopez and others, I’ve decided to list the info for the Army and the Secret Service right away. Since the fax number is to the Secret Service, I doubt scammers will use it.

    Secret Service fax number in L.A., CA is 213-533-4729. The investigator I spoke with, and faxed the pictures and emails/IMs to, is Neal Jetton. Put “In regards to scammer posing as SFC Darryl Lopez” on the cover page. Send ALL you have received from this scammer, including pictures.

    The Army investigative division where you can email pictures and complaints is: I attached the pictures he sent me with my complaint/report email. Be very thorough in your information.

    My concern is that a soldeir is being victimized and that a small child’s pictures are being used by a scammer. I reiterated that in my reports to both investigative agencies.

    Good luck, all.

    • Thanks Tali will also send my info – did anybody have this person stage a picture of them in front of a calender then have a laptop open at the back with yr picture on it – very clever person

      Cheers
      Fiona

      • fiona, no, but he did promise me that picture, too. hahaha. But by then I told him I knew he was a scammer. damn! I should have held out for that pic. ;P I did see yours on the FB page. You can see it’s pasted on, so he’s not all that clever…

  165. Ladies,

    Since it seems that Darryl Lopez making his rounds, and other scammers are popping up with familiar names again, here’s the info I got for reporting them. I contacted both the Army investigative division for online scams and the Secret Service division for online scams. The investigator they directed me to is working on scammers using pictures of US soldiers. Here is the info:

    For the Army, email a report/complaint and attach the pictures you have. Be very specific and give all the information you can. Email to:

    For the Secret Service, I contacted the one in Los Angeles, CA. The fax number is 213-533-4729. The agent’s name is Neal Jetton. Fax EVERYTHING you have from the scammer – pictues, emails, chats, etc.

    Good luck, all.

  166. I wanted to bring the attention of a scammer who uses the identity of a COLONEL PEDERSEN,KELVIN. He currently has a profile on MATE1 under peddy4kelvin. This impersonator would communicate with me on Baghdad time, as he claimed to be there stationed at Camp Victory.Allegedly part of the 3rd infantry and states he is a bomb specialist. Widowed for 2 yrs with a 17 yr old daughter in CO.Before “deployment” he was based out of Fort Carson CO. Immediately proceeded with the sweet talk and sending daily poems- suggestions for a satellite phone then vacation/transit leave were brought into the conversations. Sent LOTS of pics of a handsome soldier with the last name PEDERSEN on his uniform. Went so far as to ask me to email General Odierno for a vacation request-the email I received in return had very poor grammar. The “general” needed an amount of $1750 to process the vacation leave. I was also sent what looked like a very legitimate flight intinerary from Kuwait to CA. UNBELIEVABLE that this insanity occurs online, and with our innocent hardworking soldiers!! I will be sending COL PEDERSEN’S photos to CJ as soon as possible.
    Has anyone been exposed to the jerk impersonating this soldier??
    I am out to redeem this soldier’s true identity- the REAL Pedersen deserves at least that!!!!!

  167. RE: COLONEL PEDERSEN,KELVIN
    I forgot to add that he can be found on facebook under PEDERSEN KELVIN ( I don’t know if this is the real soldier’s page or made up by the scammers)
    ALSO the scammer uses the YAHOO address of colpeddy@yahoo.com
    He did offer his APO address,did call me once with a very legitimate American accent,but refused to give me his military email address or show some proof of military ID. I even challenged him to have a current photo taken while holding up a sign saying “HI KAYLA” so that I knew that it was a photo in real time. Would not do this due to his position as a colonel.RIIIGGHHHT
    Thank God that I have friends that are there for me and are very good at investigating. I did confront and bust him online and his reply was “Original, Kayla” .What an ass!

  168. Has anyone heard of Ian Cypher, US Major in Kabul? I’m in msn conversation with him right now and for the last 6 weeks. I’ve told him of my concerns and he says he has heard about these things but he is genuine. (He would say that).

    Another one, I’m certain is a scammer, is Jake Burgess, who said he was a Colonel, in Iraq. He disappeared when I said you couldn’t trust people on the internet.

    Thanks.

  169. Ladies,

    I am posting a link for those who don’t know how to find an IP address. It gives instructions for all the major providers.

    http://aruljohn.com/info/howtofindipaddress/

    Additionally, please check out this link for offensive IPs. It will tell you if the IP address is clean or if there was a complaint about it and what the offenses are. I located the IP of my scammer and he is using a satellite provider. I also ran an IP check on an email from a third party provider – mltrytransit@usa.com – supposedly for telecommunication service that I’m to pay the registration and service fee for and sure enough it was the same IP address as the scammer’s. Thankfully, I spotted the flags. There was no way in hell I was going to sponsor someone’s communication.

    Good luck Ladies.

    • so if i do this and the location says it can’t be found but shows lagos, nigeria then he is not who he says he is? since he is supposed to be in iraq and was just shot in the back but had to talk to me on messenger. he also wanted me to send money to the orphanage that saved his life, even if it was just a $100.00.

      thanks for the link to find the ip and to track it.

      • Correct. Do not send any money. They are playing on your sympathy and they know it. No guy in his right mind is going to say I love you to a woman he’s never met. Any time someone spouts I love, I miss you, I need to be with you after a couple of communications should be a red flag.

  170. It would help if I provide the url for the offensive IP.

    http://www.bizimbal.com/odb/search.html

  171. If anynone has any doubts that sfc Darryll Lopez is a scammer, after I wrote him an email where I told him that I had discovered that he’s writing to other women and that I think he’s a scammer, he wrote me a loving email swearing that they other women mean nothing to him, that I’m the one he really connected with, not to stop writing him, etc…..
    Now, here’s the email I received from him after I emailed him back that I checked his IP address, which showed Ghana, that if he’s really a sodier, then send me a photo of himself holding a sign with my name on it, and that I had played along with his emails in order to expose him as a scammer. Notice that his English skills in ths last email have VASTLY deteriorated once his false identity had been stripped:

    >Hi There
    > WELL I DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT >WHAT YOU SAYING, SO YOU CAN MOVE ON AND LET >ME BE ALRIGHT. I never scammed you or >anyone so don’t bother writing me because >you’ve been awarded for your great work to >that site, LOL. Please stop writing me. You >call yourself a honest and loyal person, >now you confessing about false info’s you >gave me..LOL. Please go on with your life >alright, keep on checking IP. Go on IP >TRACKER and hey less I forgot, loyal >citizen, investigator / >teacher…LOL..Goodbye Tali or whatever >your name is……NEVER write me and go on >with your GOOD work…Chief Justice

    Notice, too, that he doesn’t bother with falsely signing his “name.”

    Since so many are being contacted by him lately, and others are asking as well, here’s the info about how and were to report him and others to the authorities. Make sure to be as specific as you possibly can and give all the information you can, including sending copies of pictures, emails, chats, etc. to the investigators:

    ARMY
    crimetips@conus.army.mil

    SECRET SERVICE (Treasury Dept.) in Los Angeles, CA
    Fax: 213-533-4729. Attn. Neal Jetton (he’s the one I sent the info about “Darryl Lopez)

    Good luck, all!

  172. I am from Namibia and have an aunt who lives in Wales, UK. We suspect she has fallen for one of these scammers, but she doesn’t believe us when we try to warn her. She is receiving emails from “Mike Kristin or Christin, with a boy named Ransford. He claims to retire from the air force soon, and asked her to look for a house for them to live in. He keeps on saying he is coming soon to see her, and each time something conveniently happens and he has to replace someone in Iraq or Afghanistan. We are very worried. Do you know the name?

  173. Has anyone heard of a sgt. Andrew Miles. He is stationed in Iraq. He was born on July 11,1979. Hometown is Shreveport, LA. Please let me know either way. Thanks

  174. Thanks, LL, for rescuing my post from the SPAM file. :)

  175. Has anyone heard of a Sgt. Andrew Miles. I meet him on Chemistry.com. Said he was from Shreveport, LA and born July 11, 1979. Any info would be helpful. Started talking about a month ago and he says he loves me and can’t imagine his life without me. I have red flags and trying to find out if they are valid. Thanks for the help.

    • Steph, if you have his email address, you can check if his IP address is from the same place he says he is.

      Go to your Inbox. Righ-click on the email address. In the options that will scroll down, you’ll have “See complete email address” or something worded to that effect. You will see a whole bunch of numbers and computer talk. Right after the last: “received” you will see some numbers in brackets,like [41.64.042] that’s the IP address. Copy it, then go to a site called select “IP LookUp”, paste the copied IP address from the guy in the space provided and click on “Look Up IP Adress”. This will show you the origin country and city of his email address.

      Also, you can ask him to email you from his .mil address. If he won’t, he’s a fake.

      Good luck.

      • Thanks for the help. I found the ip and traces it. The location said was Lagos, Nigeria. This confirmed my thoughts and suspicions.

        • Steph, Let Chemistry know. I met Tom Curtis around that same time. I think they came on for that free weekend in June. I got 2 that the same weekend, but one was just way too blatant about trying to scam me, and I got rid of him pretty fast. Tom Curtis was much smoother.

  176. Thank you Tali – I mailed the very first letter plus all the pictures I received from MR DARRYL LOPEZ to crimetips.
    I asked for your mail adress from CJ but did not receive anything yet.
    Thanks -

    • Please e-mail my ladybebe5@yahoo.com the crimetips contact information. This really needs something done about it. Thank you for your help.

  177. Hi everyone, I’m from South Africa, Gauteng, anyone be in contact with Staf Sergeant Christian Richardson from Iraq/Baghdad, lives in Miami Florida?
    CJ, I did send you pictures yesterday, just advise if you had received it as I lost about 200,000-00 ZAR the pass 4 months.

    • CJ, sorry, I just want to say I did send it from a different e-mail address as the 1 I used to reply here. Regards & many thanks for the good work.
      To “Erna van Zyl” thanks for allerting all our fools that there are people like these outsite!!!

      • Hi Elizabeth, just reading your messages here, yes I can also recall having had contact with someone going with the name of Christian Richardson, I think it was probably mid last year sometime. Dont know if the same person. He used the e-mail address christianrichardson37@yahoo.com. We only chatted for about a week and then I just didnt bother anymore.- Trish

        • Yip, it’s him, CJ did post his photo’s. Check them out!! Was it the same photo’s?

  178. Tom Hilton Curtis has a new email: captomhiltoncurtis@yahoo.com. When I confronted him and asked him for an email from his .mil account (the suggestion CJ makes above), this was the exchange:

    Tom Curtis: First i needed to change my email account remember that someone hacked into my files and computer……….
    Tom Curtis: Secondly am not Married!
    Tom Curtis: all those you saw on that site was just to runing the lifes of the Faithful soldiers here in the Middle east
    Tom Curtis: dont know how they do it but i have sent my email to the Head Quaters for proper investigation Kathie
    Tom Curtis: You have to believe me
    Kathie B: Fine. Send me a msg from your .mil account. My military friends say you should be able to do it.
    Kathie B: Which headquarters office is handling the investigation?
    Tom Curtis: Washington DC……….
    Tom Curtis: Well i do have a military email address but i cant cos here in the middle east is just a classified thing
    Kathie B: Mmm, I live in DC. I know the offices. Which one?
    Tom Curtis: 93th Ave,Abraham Lincoln Street,Washington DC,WA ,USA
    Kathie B: Street does not exist. Either one of them.
    Kathie B: I live here. I know my streets. Also for a numbered street, that is written incorrectly.
    Tom Curtis: Well Kathie seems you arent paying attention to me ……….
    Kathie B: Oh yes, I am. 100 percent.
    Tom Curtis: Kathie do you believe what you saw on that site? then if you do, then i am what they say i am!

    There you go… an admission from his own mouth.

    By the way, if there is ANY lingering doubt, he was unfamiliar with the Pentagon and its location (NOT in Washington, DC but across the river). And did you notice the city/state line (which I didn’t even mention) says Washington DC WA USA! What is that?!?!?!?

    Beware ladies. He’s a smooth talker, and very effective, and he is probably learning new lines and perfecting his moves on each one of us.

  179. CJ – I do have pics of a sgt. Andrew miles. I meet him on chemistry.com, however he did let it slip he also is on Cupid.com. I contacted chemistry and they removed his profile. I do not know about Cupid. I traced the ip from his email and the location is Lagos, Nigeria. He asked me to send money on his behalf to an orphanage that saved his life in Iraq. He did try to get me to contact his superior to ask about a leave so we could meet. I did not act on either one. Let me know if you would like the pics he sent me and any other info.

    Please ladies be aware of someone pretending to be Sgt. Andrew Miles from Shreveport la

  180. Can anybody tell me if they have been in contact with a Neil Brown who is supposedly working in Pakistan with the UN. (I think not). I am very interested in learning if anybody has been contacted by hime.

  181. I have been corresponding with Darryl Lopez for six weeks on yahoo IM. He was going to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me. Son Jimmy as well. Then he was going to send me his important documents by a diplomat named Dingane Mallor and wanted me to pay 15K on receiving these documents for him since he could not access his us funds. BIG RED FLAG. Of course I said no way. When confronted with the info on this site, he was still denying everything. SO MANY LIES. BE CAREFUL. I feel sorry for the guy who is really Darryl Lopez and the pictures that are being used. I WISH I COULD FIND OUT HOW TO GET IN TOUCH WITH THE MAN IN THE PICTURES AND THE REAL DARRYL LOPEZ. Anyone with that info, please send it to me. Thankyou

    • Wendy,

      Yes, same scam with all of us. I, also, feel a great need to warn the real man, especially since pictures of his son are also being used. I can’t imagine how the real man would feel about pictures of himself, but mostly his son, being used! But I don’t know how to find this guy. I checked FB and MySpace for all Lopez, without any luck. My hope that by reporting this to the Army and the SS (see post above, July 14, I think) for how) they might locate him and warn him.

      • Tali,

        I sent all the information and pictures I had on Darryl Lopez to the FBI, Secret Service and Crimetips. Hopefully if enough of us send the information, they will do something about it. I feel really bad for the real person. I would like to see one of his pictures posted on this web site, so we would all know if they are using the same pictures all the time for Darryl Lopez. Thanks to everyone putting their information out here, so others may not be scammed.

  182. It seems that these scammers are on every dating site. Darryl Lopez contacted me from 12Meetseniors.com, a site for people 40 or older. A warning: I’ve received about 10 emails from that site, in the 2 weeks I tried it out, and ALL, EVERY SINGLE ONE, of them were scammers. Some the site caught before I even had a chance to respond to their emails (the emails arrived the same day the site removed the profiles) and others, like Lopez, I notified the site about. So I’m thinking that the same scammer group is trolling that site, and when one gets caught, another one tries. Only one, Darry Lopez, as far as I know, was a “soldier” but two other ones were, supposedly, private contractors working in Iraq.

    So be careful out there, people!

    • Hey Tali
      I think we need to get a working group together for Darryl Lopez alone it is getting to the point of being just down right rude, I do not regret posting his name on this sight and so pleased that I had the small opportunity to raise other women’s awareness thank you for your tiring work Tali and providing valuable info re this person and where we can make a complaint – which I will certainly do – if you need me email address then catch up with Janet or CJ and happy for them to provide it – take care thanks again Fiona

      • Fiona, I’m all for it. How do you suggest we do that? I do want to stop this guy.

        Jeanette or Wendy, can I have Fiona’s email address sent to my email address?

        • Hi tali have just face booked my email address to you – catch up very soon cheers Fiona

      • Well ladies Mr. Lopez has been a busy man this month of July. I Have been talking with him since June 26. I was being called his wife and this Mr. Mallor is suppose to meet me to at the airport to deliver the important papers. Well, I did get suckered in and sen 1000. And it was going to be me, him and our Jimmy also. Red flags came up, but damn what a good looking guy who ever it is the pictures, who wouldn’t want to be with someone like that. I to would like to hunt the sucker down, and kick his ass!

      • What can be done to him. Actually, I kind of feel sorry for the guy, if this is the only way he can get women to talk to him

  183. I come from Indonesia.. I had been comunicating with some one who introducing me as Sgt CJ Grisham.. He use an Id For comunication with me in Yahoo messenger CGrisham22@yahoo.com.. He tell me that he work for US army. He aks me to send 220$ to make comunication with me.. than He got that money from me.. BRAVO for Him.. Cos he succes as a lier to get 220$ from me.. Than last time he aks me again for 600$ to leave request from US ARMI.. I just thinking that is to much for me.. than I open google search to colect information.. than i find this page.. He told me that he was already 2 years Devorce n had a kid 7 years old and the name of his kid is Chris.. in the act i show information from CJ Grisham blog n site that he have 3 kids n happy family..
    I m very glad to raed this page n all the comment..so i will never feel desapointed with my self cos i send my money to the LIER ..

    • The REAL CJ is the one writing the articles on this blog, and is not a scammer. If you look in the earlier posts, you can read the real CJ writing about his own pictures being used for scamming.

  184. I too was led on, my jerk said he was Kenny Schultz. His photos are on this site listed with 2 other names. I was not 100% sure about being scammed but had red flags all along. His Mom was a teacher and Dad worked in the medical field of the milirary, then went to the gold minds in Ghana. He had an agent that all mail had to go through, he wanted me to send him a $300.00 phone, clothes, necklace and cologne. I did not want to pay Fed-Ex only charges when I know you can send to APO-FPO via USPS. The final kicker yesterday was when he asked if I could hold 2.7 million dollars in securities that were his dad’s left to him after his death. The agent had to hand deliver and I could not tell anyone. I said ok, went to work and started the search on line. I found this web site and what do I see but his pics already on here 2 other times…..I was so mad that I sent him an accusing e-mail and he tried to make me think I was not trusting him….My one regret is deleating everything….I then went on Match.com to see what else was on there and there were 2 from a local town, not using the military pics, that had the exact same profile. I have learned they do not use a capital “I” all lower case. I reported this to Match.com and I will keep checking them out so no one ever has to go through what we have. I was very lucky and lost no money, but my trust is shot out the wazoo….Ladies/Men be careful….do not let this happen to you…

    • Connie, I also was scammed by Kenny Schultz, my story is almost the same as yours. I seen his photo on here too. I can’t believe I let him sucker me in. Boy I have learned a big lesson. My trust is also shot. Live and learn ladies and also listen to your gut feelings, I wish I had.

  185. For what its worth on this face book group we place all scammers photo’s….if go through it we would be surprise how many USA Army photo’s you will find http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/group.php?gid=123980887398&ref=ts

    • Helen, I wasn’t able to get to your FB group with this link. What’s the name of the group, so I can simply get to it through my FB?

  186. Dear CJ-
    Thank you for bringing these scams to our attention. An atempt of a scam was recently made on me by a Msgt Steve Jordan of the USAF who is serving in Afghanistan. I met him on Chemistry.com. The scam first started with sharing sad stories with me about his life and then he asked me to purchase a satelite phone so that we could speak. I told him I didn’t have the money. Fortunately I know people who are affiliated with the Air Force and they told me that this was not an appropriate request. Steve also asked me to help him get leave. Only military personnel get their own leave. I will be contacting Chemistry.com to let them know about him. I have pictures of this pilot and I truly wish that this individual can somehow be contacted to let him know that his personal photos are out there, being used to scam women. I don’t even know if this pilot is still alive, and would feel truly awful for his family if they were to be notified. I have pictures of him and his children. Would somebody please contact me to let me know where I can send the pictures and emails that I have received from this person. I feel that if this pilot is still alive, he must be made aware of what’s happening to him. Please reply.

    • Karen,

      A few posts above (July 14), I listed the contact information to the Secret Service and Army investigative departments to whom I sent the pictures of a scammer masquerading as an Army soldier. The Air Force should also have an investigative department, just like the Army.

    • Karen,

      Contact the USAF Office of Special Investigations here:

      http://www.osi.andrews.af.mil/main/contactus.asp

      Then select crimebuster tips and make your report. THE OSI is the Air Force’s equivalent to the Army’s CID and is kinda like the FBI for the USAF.

  187. Well ladies the Sargent Steve Lopez that I’m reading about has been promoted to Captain Lopez, stationed in Baghdad. He’s divorced and from New Jersey. Boy is he good at his job and extremely handsome. He didnt ask me for anything as of this morning so I’m lucky. I met him on Match.com. He fell in love fast and asked me to marry him. Got a little upset too when I said no. lol Well take care and thanks CJ for this site.

    • Im wondering if this is the same Lopez that is pursuing most women on different sites – mine was Darryl Lopez SFC stationed @ Baghdad in the 11B Infantry with a son named Jimmy – thank god u did not get sucked in cheers & take care

    • Kim. I am currently talking to a Cpt Steven Lopez that I met on Match.com…He has not asked for any money or anything…I have been trying to check him out to see if he is for real or not…He has been sending me pictures and yes he is a good talker..

      • Hi Angela, please be careful he is a scammer you can red the posts here. I was talking to Steve in June untill the end of July we talked for 2 days he told me he loved me and wanted me to sent 1500 to transit for his release to come visit me. He told me he was from New york had a sister in Flordia and had a 5 yr old son Kelvin.
        He sent me pics tatoos on arms nice looking guy pics of him and his mom and his blonde hair son.His grammar at times was ridiculous always told me he loved me called be baby and my love only after talking to him for 2 days. i did not sent him any money.
        Be careful

    • Hi Kim I was talking to this guy steve as well and we chatted for a month he told me he was from New york and after talking to him 2 days he ask me to sent a request to transit so he can come and visit me. He was telling me he loved me and considered me his wife after talking 5 days, he is a charmer and alot of woman have been scammed by him I never sent anything to him

  188. I chatted with the guy who said is name is Swain. He said he was serving in Iraq as an infantyman his mos number he said was 11b. He said he was in charge of adminstation work.I fell head over heals for him because he lived in my hometown he said. he said he was coming home for good in July. He than told me he got stuck in customs in Kabul and that he needed 6,000 dollars right there and then I knew this was a scam. He went by the name of Alesxander Swain age 46 and divorced. His profile was on match com. his email address his bravo brabo123@yahoo.com thanks Eileen

    • Hi Eileenn, I’m new to this site.I am from South Africa. I have been on 2 dating sites hoping to find a life companion but to no avail, had been let down big time once (the guy was genuine and we did meet and the families, but didnt turn out ok.)But now it seems like I may have been almost sucked in but a scam. A friend of mine at my work was browsing through scam sites and came across this one and told me to look into it as I have been corresponding, so it seems, with someone with the same name you mentioned in your message above named spelt as Alexander Swain same age and divorced and from Iraq, got injured in his shoulder, took leave end on May to come to SA to meet me and wanting to relocate to SA. Apparently took a flight from Dubai via Ghana to SA but didnt arrive here. He sent me message saying that he has been detained at customs in Ghana. Well he is still there, apparently, 2 months now down the line now. Also has requested money to help him out. Also expressed his undying love for me. Must also admit I fell for him, but also have my suspisions.Last short e-mail from him was early sunday morning 24 July 2010. I have since sent him 3 more e-mails but have had no response. The pictures he sent me match those above on this site. Check them out as: Mark1 Mark3 BMark3 and also those fitting the Capt Harry Swain of US Army, 2nd Battalion, 1st Infantry Regiment, MOS11B Infantry. Please compare notes with me as it would be interesting to see if they are the same person. I see Trish from Australia on 14 June 2010 has said she has given CJ some info regarding this alleged Cpt. Alexander Swain. I would be most grateful if anyone of you could give me clarity on this person, and what is his proper name fitting to those picture.
      Thanks -please get back to me asap.-Regards Tricia

      • Tricia,
        I’m also from SA, do as mentioned above and check the IP addresses.
        They all come from Ghana except the diplomat’s, they use USA IP addresses, don’t know how they get hold of it, maybe hacked!!!
        They all come via Dubai with special parcels that must not be open at any customs and then u must keep on paying for the diplomat to get the parcel back from the customs.
        ALL JUST LIES AND AFTER A FEW PAYMENTS, THEY JUST DISSAPEAR.
        Just be careful!!

        • Hi Elizabeth,
          Thanks for your input, please just enlighten me on how to check the IP address as I’ve never done this before. I did think that things somewhere along the line of his /my conversations seemed not right. So I’ve been trying to tag him along to see where I can perhaps try to catch him out, “the rat”. Sent him an e-mail requesting some info out of him. Nothing yet, will just wait and see if he responds.
          And thanks, I’ll be careful.

  189. Hi all,
    Thank you for this site. I was contacted on June 30, 2010 by “David Haggard” on match.com. His english was horrible, but when I saw his pictures my heart melted. We emailed and chatted but never asked me for money. I got suspicious when he said he could never call and when I asked him for his military address he couldn’t produce it. I was stupid enough for sending photos to him early on and hope that they won’t be used….I feel in love with the soldier in the picture, and have been depressed for several days, because you build up this illusion in your mind and now the bubble breaks. I feel bad for the “Haggard” whose pictures are being used. If he is out there I wish you the best. Idid confront the scammer and told him he would be hunted down…..I wish I could’ve done more….but found out too late. My heart is broken,….but I know it was just an illusion. Let me know if I can do more.

    • Dear CJ

      I was contacted by Paul Landis63@yahoo.com. His picture is listed on your website as lanois. I submitted my information to let everyone know that this person who is acting as the real soldier is still scamming people. I was lucky to find out quickly that this scam artist was from Mauritus. I fell in love with this soldier picture. I hope this man is caught. He asked me to purchase a phone for 650.00. I got suspicious and said no way. He hasn’t contacted me since. I have additional pictures.

      • Do you know if this soldier is aware his picture is being used. How can I submit the pictures that were sent to me to you.

      • hello my name is bill from virginia im writing try to find out what the nam,e of the coldier was that ask for the for the phone or maybe you have herd of this email address andre.powell@yahoo.com this guy has been talking with a friend of mine since nov 2010 my friend is a female she has scent this guy money for a phone her scammers name is staff sgt andre powel im not sure what needs to be done he has also told her that he needed her to send him 550 dollars to get for leave rquest she did not send it because i do security work in virginia and have been investigating the net and i found a scma site on google if you type in his name and his email in the search box you will see his email addres pop right out of the page any way pass this name around want to see how many victums he has thank you

    • Hi Beverly, my but our David Haggard has been a busy busy boy! He started contacting me about 6 weeks ago. I knew right away that something was off, but continued to play him for my own amusement. Story was full of holes, and he kept tripping himself up with inconsistencies. Finally got bored of his game and sent an email to him today, telling him what a worthless piece of shit he was and to fuck off and quit bothering.
      Hmm, he has not responded – wonder why? LOL.

    • hi Beverly,
      Dont feel bad at falling in love so quickly.. I also fell for the same thing.. the love u r feeling is really the Joy and love that you have for yourself.. we all have a touch of the divine spirit in us.. sometimes it only takes the “feeling” of being “in love” to access it… do not be too hard on yourself.. you are human and lucky to have that ability to feel joy.. that is what I really beleive.. maybe it wil lhelp u not feel so sad because you are obviuosly an open heart and ready for a “real relationship’ soon trust your instincts! sincerely,
      Jan

  190. I am talking to a Lt Raymond M Klose.
    He apparantly is in Baghdad for the UN.
    No money requests or phone requests have ever been made. He says he is Dutch/American and his accent on the phone confirms this.
    Has anyone else ever heard of him? Where can I go to check him out as I cannot find him on Facebook, My Space or google or anything.
    Could he be genuine????

    • check his ip address. Check at ip locator. Cj has information on how to check a person ip address. It will tell you where the emails are coming from. Yahoo account may say sunny vale california but make sure that you check all the ips.

  191. Hi Joyann,

    I have checked the IP address’s which say they are orignating from Kansas.
    I spoke to him again last night and told him of my uneasiness about everything that is going on concerning these scams so lets see whr he is gonna take it next….
    No money or account details info will ever be shared. His pager number is also strange as it seems to be a UK number as the texts are coming off my UK text allowance and not the International text allowance.

  192. wie kann ich die ip adresse prüfen

    • Hallo ich habe Dir geschrieben:
      Leider kam es zurück:
      Schreibe mir bitte unter Volk.E@web.de dann schicke ich Dir meine Mail nochmal

  193. I have now received leave paperwork to fill out for him which I am not gonna do cos it says I have to pay……..
    Do they really think I am that stupid….NO WAY!!!!
    The paperwork does look very genuine though….United Nations and all that.

  194. Hi Steph

    If you look on the wall of shame you would start running fast fast. This is a scam. It is entirely up to you. This may be originating here in the united states but it smell scam all over. Step stop corresponding with this person. You will hurt for a couple of days but you will get over it. These people are crooks and they are good at it. Try contacting 419eaters.com. You will not be sorry.

  195. I do realise that it is a scam hun but i am just amusing myself and he is so totally wasting his time.
    But what is 419eaters.com???

  196. They are professionals who target the nigerian scammers. If you google 419eaters.com you will get a belly full of laughter. Believe me, you won’t be sorry. Send his information over to the 419eaters.com. You will see what happen to him and his notorious scams.

  197. If you heard my story you would think I had met the man of my dreams. He was going to come home from Afganistan to marry me on the 23rd of November. His wife had died of lung cancer and his son was living in london with his sister ann. He originated from North Carolina. This scammer is so stupid he should rethink his strategy. He has not contact me since. I knew he was up to something bad. I smelt a rat from a far. He asked me for 650.00 to buy a ts communication. I told him I did not have any money. Do you know that desperate fool asked me to borrow it. I got rid of him so fast, I think he was so surprised. I have not heard from him

  198. If you look on the wall of shame, he sent me a picture on this website. He called himself Paul Landis.

  199. The picture he sent me was Colonel Lanois on the wall of shame website picture. I fell in love with his picture

  200. I havnt been returning his texts messages today and he is getting upset about it.
    Apparantly as I have refused to pay a fee to get his leave papers through the correct process he is gonna speak to his boss….and if you believe that you believe anything.

    • Tell him you have contacted the fbi and the army to verified his information. He will disappear fast

      • apparantly he can’t be verified as he is no longer in the 101st Airbourne Division but works for the United Nations as a War Physycologist for the Intelligence Department…..hey these stories get better don’t they…….

        This is better than anything I have ever heard before…..and they really think people fall for this……LOL

        • Hi Steph

          You have it good from this scammer. You are probably rolling up with laughter. Guess what you don’t need the soap operas. You have it with scammers. Isn’t it entertaining.

  201. Hi CJ
    how I can get the ip address on steven mccabe aka david walker, he has im a few days ago and when I have ask msn messanger to follow up on his ip address, they return a few days later that ip address goes under the name Christopher M. I dont know his last name but also told me that they can not give me the last name without a suponea, that I will need contact my law enforcement here in NY.
    I believe that this scammers find way to get someone to send them a laptop from the states and the ip address is regsitrated within the states, but I would like the ip address so I can find out his originate email

    • Read all of the articles being submitted here. You will find one which will tell you how to find his ip address. Right click on his email address and his ip information should come up. google ip locator and it will tell where the ip address is located. Check cj information on this site. It is more explanatory than mine. Good luck

      • thanks Joyann i have tried that but it seem didnt work for me I must doing it work but I ask msn messanger to follow up that and they told that his ip address was under the name Christopher M that is all they gave me, that I should contact my local law enforcement here in NY so that his ip can get supeona, but I check the website emailfinder.com and it showed up in sunnyvale calif and redmond portland orgeon, these are identify theft scammers that are using someone esle ip address

        • I must be doing it wrong

  202. CJ,
    Is this the only site that you post pictures on?

    • no go to delphifag.com and you can posted them there as well among other website

      I have more pic of steven mccabe aka david walker how I post them here on this website

      • thanks Mari! Is this also the site that CJ posts on?

        • mari,

          I have gone out to delphifag.com but do not see anything for the photos…sorry, I am kind of internet illiterate…lol. Thanks!

        • I sure do, Debbie! I just haven’t had a lot of time to do many updates. I’m 535 emails behind as I type this!!

        • Thanks CJ, I know you are real busy and will get to my photo’s as soon as you can. I was just asking what other sites you post the photo’s on so that I can check them and more stories out too.

          But I have noticed in reading all of these storie’s that I have not found one that was anything like mine, except for the money part.

  203. Hi
    I was contacted from a man on singleparentmeet.com
    his user is steeprope and his email is geo_england@live.com and his name is george england he says he is in afganastan. His profile fits the scammers but he has not asked for anything yet. There is an old history case about a soldier name George England that involved with child pornography years ago. Who is this person and how do they get away with this?
    K

    • Kathy, the story about the child porn thing I do not believe is him, the guy in the news is too old. The person that contacted you is the same person! I tried looking for him on that site and the username is not valid. I am almost 100% positive that this is the same person! Did he send you any pics? I have sent some in here to CJ but they are not posted yet. Can you please email me and I will send you pics that I have and I can tell you how much longer you have to wait before he starts “asking” for money. My emaial address is deborahlynn1024@yahoo.com. Thanks Kathy!!!

  204. hi katy,
    i am in touch with someone called george england, afghanistan, can you get in touch and compare , what we know please, janebennett2009@live.co.uk, he has never asked for anything so i am curious where this is going with him, i was contacted by another george england also so it would be interesting to see the photo of him, he phones me and i have been in touch with him for about 4 months now, but just confused about what he wants from me.

    • Hi Jane B, I will give you my email address also if you don’t mind. I have about 8 photos of him and some with his “son”. I was “involved” with George England since 2/11/10. My email address is deborahlynn1024@yahoo.com

  205. Hi All

    Same story here with a Ssgt Robert Jarvis Brown who needs money to be allowed to continue his journey to UK. I keep refusing to pay money but they still contact me begging and asking me to reconsider to help him. His ‘boss’ Colonel Edwin Halton has told me i dont care because i wont pay the money and if i report this to the authorities make sure i keep his name out of it. Looks like more scammers because a recent IP check showed Sunnyvale US. Have googled both names but nothing showed for either. I hope some poor innocent soldier isnt having his name dragged through the mud

    • Hi JB2011
      I also found steven mccabe aka david walker email in sunnyvale calif also in redmond portland oregon he could be the same scammer as the scammed me– do you have pic of him — these names and ip address are idenfity they are using others people ip address and saying are from the states this is my email mvazquez4@msn.com

      • idenfity theft

  206. Hi Joyann,

    I have a further update……………..

    Apparantly Lt Raymond M Klose is now ill and is being sent home to recover……he is planning on being home Aug 16th…….can this happen.
    I asked him who will be paying for his flights etc and he said it was all covered.
    So I have not had any money requests……is this for real?????

    • Hi

      My recommendation would be to ask him if you could meet him at the airport with your family so you can meet him with a friendly face which he should welcome if he is so sick. Tell him this would be a great opportunity to meet him. Do not offer any money at all. Keep me updated on what he says to you. We will find out the true now

      • Hi Joyann and CJ,

        You will laugh at this…..he now is saying his son is going on a summer camp trip to Spain with his aunty (who he lives with) and his bank is not working properly where he is in Baghdad (yeah rite…..lol) so he needs a loan. I said….NO WAY HOSEA. Now he isnt a happy man and that I am taking him for a fool.
        I told him to go away last nite and logged off……so lets see what happens next.
        I have received an email from CJ direct to my hotmail acc but i cannot reply to it as my filters wont allow me to. CJ can use my account on yahoo which is stephaniepearson48@yahoo.com.
        Can you please let him know…..
        You guys are great on here…..keep it up!!!

        • Have you seen the report on CNN. Please listen to it. This is an amazing article. I am glad that somebody is doing something about this. Keep up the good work CJ. I hope that this article reach more viewers and alert the public to what is happening. I do agree with what Mew said about the whole situation. We as women has to take a serious look when someone wants to immediately marry us to quickly, especially over the internet. Please take caution and read between the lines. It is heartbreaking that they are actually using soldiers who are no longer with us to scam women. I hope something can be done about this. I think that the dating sites needs to be police a little more to avoid scammers impersonating soldiers.

  207. Have you heard of a site called tineye.com? It’s a reverse image search site. So you either upload the image or put in the URL of the image and it finds the image in other places. It MIGHT help? Just thought it would be a good suggestion.

    Keep up the good work!

  208. Dear CJ,
    I watched today’s report in CNN. I have been in contact (email and msn) with the nicer man I ever met. However, his story is very close from the one in CNN today or the many above.
    Today, he came up with the idea that we can talk over the phone, but he needs one. I thought it was real wierd he asked me to mail him a cell phone. I asked him for the ATO but he told me there is another way to mail him the cell. He supouse to send me the direcction to follow to mail him stuff.
    Is there any website where I can verify his identity?
    I have his name, and some pictures, he is using a hotmail email address.
    Any help will be appreciated.

  209. A cell phone to use to blow up our Troops. Don’t send him anything! Wouldn’t that be ironic, AQ using American women to kill our own Soldiers. Which leads me to the question, has anyone considered this is a fundraising scam for such? After all AQ is everywhere. Makes sense to me, but then I don’t think like other people.

    Someone please help me….I understand the loneliness, I understand being charmed, someone making you feel special and giddy. I understand the kindness of wanting to help someone that is in need. I understand the addiction to an online relationship, I have been there.

    What I do not understand is how so many women have been duped/fallen for an engagement to be married from someone online, even if they call you to further make it feel real or send gifts.
    Do they speak w/perfect English, or American slang? It’s one thing to have typos, but some of the reading here is just so obvious, it isn’t American/English grammar or writing style, and yet they claim to be in the U.S military. I would think that would be a clue. Even the most elementary of Joe can write better than what I have just read.

    What I really don’t understand is how you could even CONSIDER marrying someone you have never met or spent time w/in person, and then be shocked and hurt it’s a scam. Much less to someone that has children, they could be the child from hell for all you know. Maybe from being burned I proceed w/caution, but I find it heartbreaking that so many good women fall for such crap. What is the average age range here? I wouldn’t be surprised if some of the replies here aren’t fabricated. The 68 year old woman comes to mind, if that is a true story then she has some real issues.

    What about a site for our young Soldiers and Marines that are so lonely that they fall for the man eating women that use them for marriage, some deliberately getting knocked up for the child support, take their cash and benefits, and then divorce them. To me that is every bit as evil. Of course some don’t learn their lesson, they turn right around and get married to the next man eater that comes their way. At least the ladies here seem to have learned their lesson.

    If this isn’t a case for Americans to learn more about our military then I don’t know what is. I am sorry to have but so much empathy.

  210. Thank you so much for the valuable information. C.J. I have sent you the pictures and contact information for my scammer, luckily before it cost me any money. Please post those pictures to let others in on the scam. If you had not told me how to trace the IP address, to Nigeria, I would still be in the dark.
    Thanks again!

  211. I’ll say it once again, if they can’t give you a .mil e-mail addy he’s a fake. His snail mail addy should be APO or FPO. Things NEVER get stuck in customs to where they need money to process it. If it get’s “stuck” it will simply be thrown away. They don’t hold items for ransom. Also, google his rank, call him out! You can google the military pay chart…you can see exactly how much he is being paid.

    They also have access to phones. They are allowed to call anyone they choose. If they are not in direct combat, when they get back to the “base” they have access. And if someone is supposedly hurt, he wouldn’t be sent home before he was sent through Landstuhl in Germany…and if he’s there, he will receive a phone card from the chaplain. Don’t fall for these jerks!

    The aunt in England taking care of a US soldier’s kid…FLAG

    I like the idea of taking a picture with your name on it…that’s really creative, and if he’s true, that would be a wonderful keep sake and conversation starter. :)

  212. Regarding my post about Robert Jarvis Brown and his boss Col Edwin Halton, i looked through the 200+ emails i had and 3 were from Nigeria, the rest from US and a couple from Netherlands and Germany. Since i refused to pay the £2200 to the Col i have not heard another thing, so i presume Robert is still being held in a secret location in Milan after being caught with over $600,000 of gold that he managed to bring from Afghanistan????? I said if these people want money to release him and his gold why dont they keep some of the gold, surprisingly they didnt comment about that. The history of this guy is that he is a pilot in Airbourne Regt serving in Afghan, he is 38 looking to retire in March 2011 when he is back from Afghan, he has a 10 year old son currently in Military Boarding School and he has been widowed for 3 years, wife died of cancer, yet another gorgeous soldier desperate to marry

  213. I am wondering if anyone has had any dealings with a Capt. Mike Handy? He contacted me a while ago on facebookand we have been chatting since. He’s now doing the needs money thing because he can’t access his. He wanted me to email militarydiplomacy@rescueteam.com in order to set up a “secure” network. I did with fake information and got this response…

    CALL SECURE REQUEST NOTIFICATION

    THIS IS TO INFORM MRS JONES,THAT FOR YOU TO HAVE YOUR NTCS MUST PAY THE SOME OF $315.OO USD TO ANY OF OUR AGENT OFFICE
    NEAR YOU.

    NOTE! THE TS2 VALIDITY PERIOD IS ALWAYS A MONTH

    FOR FURTHER INFORMATION,PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO CONTACT US.WE LOOK FORWARD TO WORK ON YOUR RESPONSE.

    THANKS

    MR.L .BRUT

    When I told this Mike I couldn’t afford anything like that, as he is well aware I am a single mom, he let it go. Then today when I asked where I could snail mail him something he said no, just email him. His email is capt.mikehandy@yahoo.com

    I tend to be very suspiscious of anyone, but having grown up with both parents in the Air Force, I am lucky enough to know a lot of basic facts that just haven’t rang true, even if it is because he is in the Army and my parents were AF.

    This Mike is on facebook, where he originally contacted me from.

    If anyone has any information, please let me know.

    Thank you in advance.

    • Michelle,

      Mike Handy goes by the name of Terry Van Flossy on cupid, where he contacted me. Using the email you posted, I checked out his profile on FB and it’s the same picture. Funny thing is his profile on cupid indicates he’s 5’6″ and 110 lbs and his build is petite. What a joke. Smells like a scammer to me.

      • Thank you Sally. I already suspected something, but after finding this site and reading all of the posts here. I’m glad I listened to that little voice saying no.

        CJ: Thank you for creating this portion of your blog!! I hope you can help other women from having this happen to them!

        • Michelle,

          I’m glad you followed your intuition. Spared you a lot of money and heartache. I too was suspicious when the scammer I was was communicating with said I would need to send an email to the command post to request communication. The email address he provided didn’t make sense to me so I googled it, but found no such site and then stumbled upon CJ’s blog.

          CJ,

          I want to send my thanks as well. You are providing a tremendous service to all of us. BTW, my favorite of all the photos here are of the German Bundeswehr Army. This truly has been an education in both spotting a scammer and learning about our military.

        • Here is my favorite part. For a guy who was emailing me and messaging me multiple times a day, since I made my original post here, I haven’t heard from him!!

          HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

        • The perpetrator(s) posing as Mike Handy also uses the alias James Thompson Ramos. I saw his pics on another site.

  214. Mr. Mallor was supposed to meet someone on 7/24/10……. Hhhmmmmm
    he told me he was being held in Customs….. and wouldn’t be released until “My Husband” or myself paid $5,500 to release the pkg being held !!!! LOL

    Desmond sure was delivering a LOT of pkgs wasn’t he ?????? LOL
    Too %%%%%%@@@@ bad he didn’t get any money !!! And Ghana is the most convenient customs for him to get pkgs through…….
    makes you think !!!!!! LOL

    Oh I will be sending CJ pics and Gvmt ID of a 4-star General…… that also was sending a diplomatic couriour (sp) with a pkg to me, that got held up in France………. poor Mohammed……….. He didn’t get any $$$$ either !!!!! and the General is still sending mail…….. and coming home to see me !!!!!! LOL although he was going to have his publicist write about me making him out to be a fool………. sound familiar anyone??????

    • i was contacted by colonel desmond indeed….after a captain lennon carl was hold on custums in berlin too…..i recognise all!!! desmond send photoshopped idcard

      grtz

      nonna

  215. I answered a friend request on Facebook and tought I had foun d my “knight in shinging aurmor” turned out to be a jerk in tin foil. He hadn’t asked for money yet but I think he was starting to work up to it. (email form 19 yr old son that had him “worried”. The name he uses is Juan Rivera. He claims to be a 52 year old staff sgt in Kabul from Odessa, TX. It appears that he has deleted his Facebook account where he first contacted me from. A friend teased me that I had scared him off Facebook. Darn, all I did was tell him every generation of my family has had miitary ties and that my cousin was going to teach how to clean my 9mm. ~~~evil grin~~~

    • opps, his email ip trace came back from Lagos, Nigeria and his email addy is riveraphine@yahoo.com. aND he said he was deployed from ‘forth griffith’!!!

    • Charolette:

      Loved your exit about your family and you cleaning the gun . . . but I recently called guy out on Yahoo Msgr his name was BILLIONIATYKUN and he got very rude and scary. I wonder how much info that have on us and worry they may try to get back for calling them out.

  216. This is absolutely sickening that someone would take advantage of someone else’s pain and tarnish an image of a soldier who has served their country. There is a website which may be able to help get the word and photos out. We are interested in creating a special area on our website to help get the word out about these fallen heroes being exploited. Anyone who is interested, please feel free to contact me at kim@cheateralert.com . Our site began as a help for men and women who have been violated, manipulated or financially ruined as a result of a cheating or abusive spouse/partner. It was created through the pain of two women who were unwittingly involved with the same man simultaneously and whose lives were changed forever by the abuses and manipulation. We are hoping to help and look forward to your feedback. We have thousands of persons visiting our site and our hope is to save people from unnecessary pain and suffering – the Cheateralert team

  217. cj please contact me at twighlight_unicorn@yahoo.com i have a marine scammer named Peter Petronzio Stenn any help would be appreciated

  218. beware of: James Rellinger AKA James Brisbane Blair AKA Brisbane Blair AKA Blair Brisbane

  219. omg, photos of kenneth england on the wall of shame, he tried to contact me on makefriends.co.uk, living in london, i reported him as a scammer when he told me he was was retiring to run a orphnage, i said that would be hard because i work at a school and now the rules and regulations regarding children are very tough. i did not here from him after that but sent him a message i knew he was a scammer , i had a reply and he was really nasty to me. he has also cropped up on my facebook, same name and photo used, he has never spoken to me on facebook so must reconize me. when will all this scamming end, when will any one do some thing about this crime.

  220. Thank you everyone for helping to spread the word and sharing these scams that you’ve personally witnessed. This is a wicked thing these guys are doing and information is the key to destruction. One of these days I’ll publish all the death threats I get from these guys for exposing them. Everything from hoping I’m killed in an IED to overnight voodoo death!

    • CJ,

      Just keep pluggin it, you are doing a fantastic job with all of your blogs!!!

      Wanted to let you know that I just got off the phone with the British Consulate here in FL and unfortunately they cannot help either!!! Why is it no one wants to help stop these #$%$@$$!!!! I have sent emails to every agency here in FL even up to the President and nothing!!! There’s my tax dollar at work!

      I have so much information and no one cares! Guess we are gonna have to take them all down ourselves!

      Glad you are in our corner!

      Debbie

      • C.J.,

        Most of this information would not be available to us without your help. We are all behind this and speading the news everywhere. I have forwarded the web page to all my facebook and yearbook friends. This information needs to get out there so we can stop this.

        Thanks again,
        Marsha

  221. Well I feel hurt and betrayed.I fell for a marine named Col. Peter Petronzio Stenn
    He had me hook line and sinker.I gave him 600 for bhis leave request.All the documents sent looked official.here is the first letter
    Well let me tell you a little about me.I am Single 5′ 9″ am looking for a friend to love and spend some time with. I would like to learn to.I am a quick learner and enjoy all types of music. I love to work hard but rather play harder.I lost my love and my 2 daughters 2years back.I have a lovely son who stays with his Granny,his 15yrs. I’m looking for a WOMAN that is honest, truthful and loyal who will not hurt me for any reason and will never be hurt by me too and she will be ready to take care of my son. I’m looking to date and see where things may go.graduated from Beverly High School and Norwich University and joined the Military force in 1984.I live at Texas corpus Christi but presently on a to Afghanistan.I was sent there by UN to lead an expeditionary force in Afghanistan, fighting the Taliban,And am ready to relocate after my mission in Afghan,But only if my love wants that,Am in the us military.
    I’m not looking for a one night stand or anyone with drama. I just want to spend a few hours with someone from time to time for some relaxing stress free times like dinner, movies, a walk around the park, sporting events, or maybe a weekend getaway.
    Even a nice relationship that includes a good morning email or text to show someone is thinking of you would be nice. If you want someone fun to chat with, maybe more in time.I love swimming,play golf,going to cinemas,camping.I also love Chinese food,pizza,roasted beef,I don’t smoke…don’t drug… a while back i had a zero tolerance for it… however I’ve been getting better about it. At least with smoking… just i prefer if you don’t do it around me.. i don’t like to watch people i care about slowly kill themselves..if you respond, respond with a picture please….. maybe we can start a friendship that grows into more…or perhaps it’ll be love at first sight.. and we fall hard… who knows…what have you got to lose? at worst you still get a good friend and at best you get the love of your life… sounds like Win/Win to me..OH! in the subject line write out Lovely..I feel like I have a pretty good personality, I can be goofy and serious, wild and conservative. I’m very calm, laid-back and drama free. My friends would tell you that I’m extremely dependable, loyal and keep them laughing. I would say I’m pretty fun too I tend to be a bit quiet around people I don’t know well, but I open up pretty quickly.I hope to read back from you too,

    Yours
    Col. Peter
    hope to read back from you.
    Take good care of yourself..
    Bye for now
    you can pls send me more of your resent pics

    He also has help because i also received some other emails with official looking documents I will attach them.Any input or help from you would be appreciated greatly…please send me a response.sincerley a broken heart cindy
    His email address is simpleguy4rill@yahoo.com
    cj,I try to email you directly and keep getting maler dameon notice unable to deliver.I have photos I would like to send you.

    • I had a similar situation to this but for the life of me cannot remember what name he used. It was not the same as he uses here.

    • Hi Cindy,
      I got hurt by Col. Peter (simpleguy4rill@yahoo.com). I have alot of photos, emails, official looking documents to. Please reply back so we can share information.
      Debbie

    • Well let me tell you a little about me.I am Single 5′ 9″ am looking for a friend to love and spend some time with. I would like to learn to.I am a quick learner and enjoy all types of music. I love to work hard but rather play harder.I lost my love and my 2 daughters 2years back.I have a lovely son who stays with his Granny,his 15yrs. I’m looking for a WOMAN that is honest, truthful and loyal who will not hurt me for any reason and will never be hurt by me too and she will be ready to take care of my son. I’m looking to date and see where things may go.graduated from Beverly High School and Norwich University and joined the Military force in 1984.I live at Texas san Antonio but presently on a to Afghanistan.I was sent there by UN to lead an expeditionary force in Afghanistan, fighting the Taliban,And am ready to relocate after my mission in Afghan,But only if my love wants that,Am in the us military.
      I’m not looking for a one night stand or anyone with drama. I just want to spend a few hours with someone from time to time for some relaxing stress free times like dinner, movies, a walk around the park, sporting events, or maybe a weekend getaway.
      Even a nice relationship that includes a good morning email or text to show someone is thinking of you would be nice. If you want someone fun to chat with, maybe more in time.I love swimming,play golf,going to cinemas,camping.I also love Chinese food,pizza,roasted beef,I don’t smoke…don’t drug… a while back i had a zero tolerance for it… however I’ve been getting better about it. At least with smoking… just i prefer if you don’t do it around me.. i don’t like to watch people i care about slowly kill themselves..if you respond, respond with a picture please….. maybe we can start a friendship that grows into more…or perhaps it’ll be love at first sight.. and we fall hard… who knows…what have you got to lose? at worst you still get a good friend and at best you get the love of your life… sounds like Win/Win to me..OH! in the subject line write out Lovely..I feel like I have a pretty good personality, I can be goofy and serious, wild and conservative. I’m very calm, laid-back and drama free. My friends would tell you that I’m extremely dependable, loyal and keep them laughing. I would say I’m pretty fun too I tend to be a bit quiet around people I don’t know well, but I open up pretty quickly.I hope to read back from you too,

      Yours
      Col. Peter
      hope to read back from you.
      Take good care of yourself..
      Bye for now
      you can pls send me more of your resent pics

      — On Thu, 11/11/10, nrg1951@aol.com wrote:

      From: nrg1951@aol.com
      Subject:
      To: meetdoublep@yahoo.com
      Date: Thursday, November 11, 2010, 10:21 PM

      hi peter…hope this finds u…
      Nancy

      5 Attached Images

      this was the first email he sent to me…need someones help here

  222. Can anyone tell me where I need to go to check someone out? Help, thank you.

  223. I believe I have located another SOB saying he is stationed in Iraq. Did an email reverse look up and surprise…no results!
    I’ve had my suspicions and red flags because he stated both parents were deceased and only had a daughter. His emails are very convincing with no language barriers or poor language in spellings. Has not asked for money at present, but I know what to look for. I just like leading these jerks on, letting them think they found a sucker…ha! Got him pegged. I want to see how long I can drag this out and make him feel like an ass…lol. It is extremely disheartening to know that these people can get away with this and have no conscious about any of their painful acts; especially for the families.

  224. Please, beware of this email address: lt.col_fsmith@yahoo.com. Going by the name of Fernando Smith. Says he’s from Texas originally, but lives in Pittsburg,CA. Sent me three pic that I would love to share and post. I so wish I could say I am so sorry to the family members; I am so disheartened by these acts of inhumane people. If anyone wants to see these pic, please let me know.

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  226. Does soldier by the name of “Gibbs Ricky” ring a bell to anyone? Nothing outright says scam but I’ve got that too good to be true vibe. I’m trying to listen to my intuition a bit more.

  227. I just wanted to tell you all if you don’t know it already. I have finally created my account on twitter to follow CJ :) and when I got all done, went to the page for these scams. I am so pissed at the responses on the first page alone! Did not go to another page. Came right here to this site to vent. I will go back and vent there too. These people, I know everyone has a right to their own opinion, but my GOD, they think we are all idiots and total losers!!1 Who the hell are they to judge us? They don’t walk on water and the only one that we have to answer to is ourselves not anyone else!!! They were talking about the CNN report that CJ did. Claiming that just because she was “overweight and had 3 kids” that no soldier would be interested in her anyway! I cannot tell you what that statement did to me. I am not bad looking and got a “few” extra pounds but that does not mean that a soldier would not find me attractive! And to think that we not only have to deal with being scammed, we have to deal with the insults that our own “fellow Americans” say about us. Talked about being “scammed” AGAIN, but this time in our own backyard!!!

    Sorry, I just had to get it out of my system. I will go back out later and post on twitter my “feelings” about them!

    CJ…keep up the good work that you are doing!!! And we will just keep spreading the word any way we can!

    • Hi

      I have been trying to find the comments on twitter. Could you tell us the link. Maybe I am a novice.

  228. I think i might be talking to a scammer but need help finding the truth.Claims to be TLC Ryan McGrath, 2nd batallion amry in iraq. has pics of himself in uniform and civilian life with his family and friends. This is the part im nervous about. he tells me not everyone has or uses a .mil addy or an apo/fpo. everytime i ask him to call me he says he cant. he has not yet asked for anything, cept hand in marriage. its been a few months now weve been talking. he seems to be able to talk through yahoo im for somtimes hours. i dont understand that. also told me hes retiring next month and getting 2million dollar settlement. he tends to get angry when i start asking too many questions, says im not trusting him. can anyone help me figure out if this is a scam or maybe the truth.

  229. Brenda

    He is a scammer! And I am sorry but all military uses .mil. If he says he does not have one…get rid of him! And they have to use APO/FPO for mail. The can also make phone calls when not on duty. In my opinion, he is a scammer!!! He is only getting upset because you are asking questions that he does not want to answer. He can only keep the scam up as long as you don’t rock the boat. Send CJ the pictures he sent you so that he can post them out here for future scams.

  230. My Twitter is @cjgrisham if that is what you are looking for.

  231. cj I found the real name of the marine my imposter is using, it’s Peter Petronzio.This imposter is currently talking to two of my freinds we want to know is there anyway we can bust him?

    • Cindy,

      Have you told Col Petronzio that his picture is being used for a scam?

      Ashley

      • No I don’t know how I am new to the computer world ,some friends found news articles about the real Peter Petronzio and had sent me the links.That’s why I posted the comment in hopes that Cj can.I tried to email to the address given for this site to post all the pics, but keep getting delivery failure.So if someone can send me an email with an address that will work I would appreciate it a lot. twighlight_unicorn@yahoo.com

  232. Hi

    i was just reading some of these comments and it really sounds like I might be talking to a scam artist as well. How can I find his ip adress or if he exists in the army? I have pictures that he has sent me … but that doesn’t tell me anything. He claims to have a son and that his wife is dead.
    this really is sad he also has a yahoo address is that normal?

    • Tanya if is email address is simpleguy4rill@yahoo.com he is a scammer,his story sounds just like “Peter’s”.

    • If he is Daniel Williamson at dan_sgt@yahoo.com and his son’s name is Romeo, he is scamming.

  233. Is anyone familiar with SGT Edgar of Camp Victory Iraq? Can anyone verify this is a real person?

    • Do you mean Daniel Edgar? i talk to him today and told him that i thought he is a scammer. I do not think he is for real. Has asked for money for satt.phone. He is not who he says he is. Beware

  234. African leaders are pledging thousands of new troops for Somalia to fight al-Qaida-linked militants responsible for the twin World Cup bombings that killed 76 people, and the U.S. says it will help bankroll the military campaign

    Does this bother anyone else?????
    I know we have to stop al-Qaida from having safe havens to hide in…… but we are going to send our guys to Africa the same place thse @%@ scammers are using their pictures and good names ?
    Why not “Impress” all of these scammers in the African Army so they can really see what it is like to put your life on the line 24/7 ?
    Sorry….. enough of my “Venting”………

    • OMG!!! Yes this definitely bothers me!!!
      I would say NO WAY, we are not gonna help them! I mean my GOD, can you just imagine the name calling us and the soldier’s would be called? He$$ no, that would be like a slap in the face to our military.

      CJ, I do have a question that I posted on another site and wondered if you would be able to answer it…

      I am aware of the cost and difficulty it would be to hunt these scammers down, but couldn’t we start by having the countries that they are operating from start closing down the internet cafes that they are operating from? I meand all of the countries that their people are getting scammed from, we could all “assist” them with doing that. They would be scrambling to find other means to get on the internet and cut into their “profits”. I mean the money and items that these “thugs” are getting are one way or another connected to terrorism right? Just a thought…

      Thanks!

  235. I just learned that Col. Peter Petronzio the scammer has a facebook page as well as mate1 acct….how do you do ip look up?Would be greatful for any help.

    • Cindy,

      I found his e-mail and notified CJ. So, the real guy will know soon enough his identity is being stolen.

      • thank you so much that helps a little.

    • he also has a plenty of fish profile also

  236. Scammer alert:
    Charles Relinger Tetteh aka Charles Soldier aka Emmanuel Tetteh, aka Agyapong Nyame. Woos and courts you , then ask for laptop and money for his “son”. (Emails: charlessoldier@hotmail.com charlessoldier@yahoo.com charles@hotmail.com…Cell for his ‘son’ is(011) 233 273 137828.
    Please be aware and careful.
    I will forward his picture for posting.
    Says he is a Staff Sergent. His description of the role is identical to one found on the Internet. I was tipped off by another lady, and I confronted him. Claims his laptop was hacked into by her.I met him on Match.com. I did send them an alert.Last time I checked his profile was no longer there. He woos you with very romantic emails, and is very ‘spiritual’. Very needy and full of himself. The 1st email he ever sent me contained the identical story above, about him coming home from Iraq and his wife had “gone in for another guy”. See details of story above. He also let’s you call and speak to his son “Emmanuel”. He has no remorse and is quite relentless. He is still trying to con me. Joke is now on him.Apparently, tomorrow Aug 2 is his birthday. Happy birthday scum bag!

  237. Is anyone interested to catch those scammers? May be there are some agencies dealing with? Right now i am in contact with a scammer. He (or they) played with my feelings and i was stupid to believe. Now i want a kind of a revenge. If you know a right email to address i would be grateful.

    • Hi Aspen

      Join 419eaters.com Also you can join lavalife.com. I found three on lavalife the couple nites ago. This scammer is so stupid he had General Petraeus picture up. I email him and he told me he was in the army. I said hold on. I google General Petraeus information and his picture came up. I contacted lavalife and they immediately remove him from the site but before this scammer disappeared he told me that I can kiss his …

      I am sure 419eaters would welcome you

      • Hi Joyann,

        I believe the site is 419eater.com, without the “s”. 419eaters.com is something completely different.

      • P.S. I love it!!!

        • Thank you for correcting me. Go take care of these fools.

        • Sally

          I hope you have read the stories on this website. The stories are so funny. I almost fell off my chair with laughter.

        • OMG. This site is so funny.

        • I hope you are laughing your head off. Who is winning. Certainly not the scammers. Believe me after I went on this site I felt a lot better. I knew that this was my theraphy from the scammer I was chatting with.

      • If it can help others from being scammed, then it’s worth it. We have to step up our game as well. If nothing else, to turn the tables on them.

  238. I believe I am a victim of this scam as well. Got an message from Sgt. Christopher Kirk on zoosk.com and he asked me to send the $555 to get the “satellite phone” from Ts2 Technologies so we could talk. They are real; the phone isn’t. Sent pictures too, which I would be happy to send to whomever would like to post this. I just went through a divorce and actually was thinking about stopping seeing a really great guy because of all the things “Chris” said to me to make me feel like he cared about me. I am really a smart person but I feel like such a fool! It is comforting to see that I am not the only smart women who was fooled.

    I feel like such an idiot.

    • OMG…wow I am an idiot….I found this site a little to late. I was a big sucker…my christopher Kirk even had an accident recently…but I cant get ahold of him to check if he is ok…hmmm I should have done this research some money back….lol..

  239. To Joyanne and Sally:
    Thank you ladies!

  240. Does anyone know if we can get access to the military pictures on militaryphotos.com?

    Also wanted to let everyone know…I got a letter from Senator Nelson of FL…stating

    “Dear Ms Lynn,
    Thank you for your recent correspondence to my office. I understand you spoke with my staff assistand, Usha Tewari. I trust your questions were answered to your satisfaction.

    Again, thank you for your correspondence. I want you to know it is a pleaseure to serve as your US Senator. If I can be of further assistance, please do not hesitate to contact my office at the address listed below. ”

    Ok first of all, the only reason why I heard from his staff assistant is because she was also scammed a couple of months ago and said that she only called me “out off courtesy because she too was scammed”. I asked her if I she wasn’t scammed would I have heard from his office and she said “I don’t know”.
    Also asked if Senator Nelson even read my correspondence and she said “NO”!!!!

    No, first of all, the answer that she gave me was “his office could not help me”. So I did not get any satisfaction from her answer.

    Second, he asked if I need further assistance, don’t hesitate to contact his office. Well, I have one question Senator Nelson…Why didn’t YOU read my correspondence?!?!?! I a paying your salary and I got CRAP from you, which shouldn’t surprise me!

    Anyway…talked to a report at the local paper and also a reporter from one of the tv stations here, they both were quite interested in the fact that I am not getting any assistance from anyone in the government concerning any one not doing anything! I will keep you all updated on my progress here in sunny FL!!!

  241. Sorry, also wanted to point out that I still have not heard from the Govenor or Congressman from FL, nor President Obama…hmmmmm. Wonder if I will after it hits the paper and the tv station?!?!? :)

    • Debbie,
      I also am from FL and have gotten scammed by someone saying there in the militiary. Have you heard anything from anyone ?

      Judy

  242. I have been in chatting with a scammer going by the name of Joseph Collins Erisman. His story is the same as all the stories I’ve read on this site. He’s originally from Los Angeles, CA, family moved to Australia when he was 7yrs. At age 17 he moved back to CA and joined the Marines when he was 23yrs old. He’s on a 3yr tour in Baghdad, and claims his unit is the Lake Los Angeles Young Marines. He had me fooled for almost a month, but I have since stopped chatting with him. His email is sgtjoeerisman@yahoo.com

    Let’s stop these losers!

  243. does anyone have info on a “US Captain” Marshall Ferris. My sister as asked me to lend her some mony for this guy working for the US Army in Dafur
    Please email me at: w.herbert@fsmail.net

  244. started talking to sgt kelvin bristol sd that he was at camp victory in iraq after talking to him for 2 days claimed that he loved and wanted to get married i was not born yesterday and found out he was a fraud

  245. Hi!
    Can anyone give me any information on a supposed captain in the US armyfrom Atlantic City using the email address, as I’m suspicious! Please contact me on annbrownlondon@gmail.com

    allynronald@yahoo.com

    Male | Divorced | Age: 45

    “I AM LOOKING FOR MY OTHER PART”

    I’m interested in

    Dating (Women)

    About me

    I am patient,generous, kind, and loving. I am always upbeat, have a positive attitude about most things and I like to have fun. I enjoy music, theater, movies and art. I love to travel, and to go sightseeing. I love museums, romantic dinners, seaside resorts and sunsets.. I’ve a naturally curious mind and love to learn about people’s, cultures, and so many other things. So meeting someone with different interests they can share with me is a bonus! I read everyday from both fiction and non-fiction for both relaxation and my love of learning.
    I believe life is a long process of learning if we only take the opportunities that come our way! I enjoy the outdoors and am so happy that the weather has improved so I can blade or hike and just enjoy the sunshine! I’m out in the garden, rollerblading or hiking on a beautiful day. I also enjoy the water and boating, canoeing and sailing. Been a Captain in the US Army currently serving in Kabul Afghanistan gave me lots of experiences to share with you. I’m a closet artist but decided long ago that art is an avocation for me, so I enjoy a gallery or museum when I can. One day, when I retire I’ll have the chance to hone those skills for pleasure in my own Computer Store. But for now I admire beauty and color in nature and in other peoples art. My work involves compassion, teaching, writing and helping others. When you get to know me you will soon see how empathetic I am and how generous I can be. Still, the woman in my life will have to reciprocate in the same way to earn a place in my heart. People are my passion but family and friends come first, that is after caring for myself! I have a gym membership for when the weather is bad and I love to see the latest movies.
    I’ve followed the Lord of the Rings series faithfully, but really get into thrillers, action, and science fiction too and the occasional chick-flick with a family! I travel alot

    Wishlist

    I am looking for:
    I am seeking for a long term relationship that could lead to marriage, someone that could bring out the best in me, someone that i can trust, a lady or a woman that will listen to me when I need her, a lady i can give my heart to, someone honest, someone that will not lie to me, someone that will there, for me when i need her, someone that we would both appreciate our high moral standards, respect ourselves the way we respect our self’s. Someone that would love me as if each day is our last day together and that would be by my sides as if each day is our last day together

    Personal Information

    Children: 2

    Height: 6’1″ – 6’2″

    Hair Color: Black

    Eye Color: Brown

    Cultural Background: White/Caucasian

    Languages: English

    Personal Information, Continued

    Smoking Habits: Never

    Drinking Habits: Occasionally

    Political Views: Liberal

    My main passions and interests: Dining out-I really like good food, Fishing, Travel/Sightseeing

    My Favorite Sports: Basketball, Golf

    Top 3 Movies: THE LORD OF THE RINGS
    THE GODFATHER
    THE GLADIATOR

    Top 3 Music: U2
    MICHEAL JACKSON
    KENNY ROGERS

    The way to my heart is: OPEN

    What I love about my best friend: HONESTY

    My thoughts about the situation in Tibet: INJUSTICE AND OPPRESSION

    Professional Information

    Professional Area: Military

    Education Level: Graduate Degree

    Areas of Expertise: Military

    Current Status: Employed, full-time

  246. Does anyone have any information on a “Captain” Daniel Williamson? Supposedly a military contractor in Bahgdad. I almost fell for him until seeing this article and a previos post for one Charles Tetteh. I met Capt. Williamson (dan_sgt@yahoo.com) through seniorpeoplemeet.com. He is very smooth and persistent, but his speech and mannerisms are just a little off. He asked for cell phone and camcorder, so I knew something was off. He asked me to contact his aide, Nicholas Tetteh at hholy18@yahoo.com. When I checked this guy out, he was another “contractor” running aid supplies to orphanages in the Ghana region. Even supplied me with FedEX and USPS mailing addresses in Ghana.

    How do we stop these guys?

    • Pls provide more details re your experience with Charles (Relinger Tetteh). I’m in communication with him now. Claims he is not a scammer. His laptop was hacked into and details he had shared with me taken by another woman…right!!. Any details on him pls?

  247. i was contacted by a reporter for the Houston Chronicle and he is running a story on all these scams…slowly but surely the word is getting out!

  248. Ladies, please see my latest post for a call to arms against these scammers: http://www.soldiersperspective.us/2010/08/05/a-call-to-arms-against-nigerian-scammers/

    • CJ,
      NY is not on your list of places that have been scammed. I have just found out, thanks to your site, that I have been scammed by one Dicson Leonado Hannett. I am into this for a few bucks for which I am ashamed. I am so much smarter than this. I have pictures of Hannett, and I also captured a picture of his so called son, Prince Amoako Hannett. I also have an address and a cell phone number in Accra Ghana for this young man. I would like very much to help as much as possible here.

      These men, and I use that term loosely, need to be stopped. There are too many good women out there being duped by these scam artists. I am not a stupid woman, but these people are very intune to women with good hearts. If you would like these pictures, I will be happy to share. I also found this Hannett person on Facebook under the names of Robert, and Michael, and Captainn Hannett.

  249. There is a spc Ethan Mcnigen who is a scammer claims to be spc ops in Iraq and lives in Florida. Caught his girlfriend cheating on him 2 weeks before their wedding.

    spc_ethan_mcnigen@yahoo.com

    phone company is

    http://www.uscmps.com

    setup@uscmps.com

  250. Hi CJ

    This is great, hopefully all your hard work is begining to pay off.Brining it all to the attention of those who really need to do something to stop this and bring them to justice, that will be a good day!!!

  251. Ladies,

    Please see this ASP post for a possible appearance on You Served Radio, hosted by CJ Grisham and Troy Steward!

    http://www.soldiersperspective.us/2010/08/06/been-scammed-appear-on-you-served-radio/

  252. Hi CJ and everyone else out there. I’m in UK and met THOMAS ZENDROSKY on MatchAffinity.com. He is supposed to be Comms expert in Gardez, Afghanistan with US Army. Claims to be born in UK with two kids, wife died in car accident six years ago. I spent four weeks being totally taken in by this man. He played on the fact that I am a widow and I had no reason to doubt anything he said. I don’t know anything about military life, so had no reason to question what he was saying. He bombarded me with poems and song lyrics, calling me “honey” at every opportunity. He asked me to get him a laptop and iphone which had to be delivered to a Texas address (where a US Airman was supposed to collect it and take it to Afghanistan). I became suspicious this week when he kept asking about when I would send the parcel out there. I had turned nothing up on searching his name but one search engine came up with his name and email address (thomaszend@hotmail.co.uk) linked with a nigerian scam. I confronted him about it, on IM, and he was furious. I’m ashamed to say he made me feel bad for doubting him and I spent an entire night and morning in floods of tears thinking I’d lost him. I arranged for the parcel to be collected from me by Fedex and once it had gone, he suddenly became distant. I couldn’t help the little niggling doubts ande someone suggested I post some of his text into google and found an instant hit on scamwarners.com. This is a great website – really should be visited. I found a lady on there who had been scammed by DAVE BRUNER – undoubtedly the same guy. In fact, there are photos on this website in the name of STEVE MCCABE. I don’t know who the genuine soldier is.

    I’ve actually managed to get the parcel turned around and is coming back to me. I will have lost about £500 but at least I didn’t lose the iphone and laptop which I can get a refund back on. I’m a smart intelligent woman but this guy took me for a fool. He is emailing and texting me today going frantic worrying about the parcel. I did track his IP address back to Richmond WA and his email back to Germany ….. but I know he is using these names:

    DAVE BRUNER
    RAY ODIERNO
    JACK MCCARTHY
    STEVE MCCABE
    EDWARD BUTIERREZ

    In fact, having read all of these posts, he’s easily recognisable under another two names !

    I’ve sent CJ the photos I have and also put them on scamwarners.com. I know I should just walk away, but this guy is a scumbag who is not fit to lick the boots of a genuine soldier. I’m very tempted to tell him what I’ve discovered,but this might actually help them to avoid future detection.

    There’s only one thing I’m worried about – I stupidly sent him a scan of my Driving Licence as he wanted something to carry in his wallet. Does anyone think I should perhaps report this to UK Police ? Not sure if it qualifies as a fraud as I spent all the money willingly.

    I have photos and hundreds of emails if anyone wants to compare notes. markandi@live.co.uk.

    Good luck ladies – don’t let the bastards get you down !! :-)

  253. Where do I start…..Robert Haggard aka Wayne Hackert PEREZ. Used the same bio as at the beginning of this page. Wanted me to send money to his daughters school teacher who lives in England. Story is that his daughter is being mistreated and he wants to make her happy by sending her some money. “Perez” cannot get to his bank without putting his life at risk, he will pay me back…blah, blah, blah. Got angy when I said I wouldn’t do it as my spidey senses were going off. Good thing. Never heard from him again once I said no. Reportd him to match.com. Of course, he has closed that profile and am sure he started another.

    Now along comes “Joe HAROLD”. Sent me the exact same pics from above. Asked me to send him an IPOD, Calvin Klein underwear (I guess he has enough t-shirts, a piece of jewellery to remember me by as he flies his helicopter. Asked for it to be sent FedEx to the Mango Tree address. I did ask why there and he states he has been using an old family friend (name is Randolf AMUZU) as a Diplomat for quite some time to deliver his mail to him. Thought it strange but nwhat the heck, I am a trusting person, but still had a voice saying check it out. Thought I would google “military scams in Irag and Afghanistan” just to see what comes up…..lo and behold, this wonderful website that I hope everyone thinks to go to. Here I find “Joe’s” pictures and kind of the same story. He was very interested in getting the tracking number for the parcel. I was able to intercept the package, Can’t wait until he contacts me to ask about it again! LEt the crap hit the fan!!! I am a bright person and would never have thought this would happen to me. Ladies, it happens to all of us. Thank God the interenet is that simple to use that you can search anything. Wish I had done it sooner.

    Now to go back on match,com and report this loser!

  254. p.s. “Joe Harold” is on math.com as 1lv_love 9933 and “Wayne Hackert PEREZ” is on match.com as ferraributterfly@yahoo.com

    Thanks!

    • perez was on match.com as “perezonu”. He has removed his profile but am sure he has resurfaced as a “Donald” as a first name. “Donald” contacted me fishing for info on “Perez” and was pissed when “I would not give him any info.

  255. I have a question for cj if you know the answer….if we women send pics to these morons, are they using them fraudulently to scam men in the same fashion? Interesting question….?

    • Deb, I can’t be certain, but my guess is that they ARE using them to further scams in some other way.

  256. I too have been “talking” to Sgt. James P. Rellinger. I can’t believe that I fell for this. But I did, actually I am still talking to him, he does not know that I know…yet. I just wondered if there is anything that I can do to stop this scam. He thinks that I just cashed my 401K to send him a satellite phone, so he can “hear my voice” lol, oh and $600.00 for his internet. Kind of a red flag when he didn’t know what a 401k is !!!! Is anyone else receiving all of the “poems” that he stayed up all night to compose? I wonder if the real Sgt. Rellinger knows that his name is being used like this?

    • This jerk sounds like the same “Charles Relinger Tetteh” who scammed me. He used the same request. Phone and money for internet set up. They never give up. He is a staff sergeant in Baghdad. Lives in San Francisco, Ca. Right. He’s still trying to talk to me. God help them!

  257. Where do I send the pictures?

  258. Reported 3 more losers on match.com today…man they are relentless, but getting sloppy. One guy says he’s is a woman looking for a man. I can imagine that CJ is right that these pics are being pulled from facebook and the like. At least this time the scammer didn’t state he is in the Military, as the hair was longer in the pic.

    Keep up the good work CJ and thanks for replying to my post.

    Mandi66, glad you were able to intercept the package. I did the same. The money lost in shipping is better than these losers getting the goods. I had a crappy two days because of this but after a row of cookies and a half tub of ice cream and coming out of my rut am feeling better. haha

    Take care and keep fighting!

  259. David Arico 08 August at 19:33 Report
    Is a military man, US Army is my regiment. I have been in the military for long. Am a man of good gesture very loving and caring… am new online it was my friend that introduce me to come over and meet responsible lady online, He met his new wife here and they are living happily together in the United State. I was frustrated by my ex wife and I almost lost my life.

    MY ex wife left me with her son and ran off then the tribulation starts I have been alone for 10years and I decided that am not going
    Here is another punk trying his luck

    http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1346791651#!/profile.php?id=100001049693150

    to marry again but I believe life still need to go on since am still alive and healthy….. I have lots to say when I meet the woman of my own Am man of good faith and I believe that is what has been helping me.

    It will be the best to let me have your email address for further discussion and my email id is captdarico@yahoo.com
    Capt. David Arico

  260. The pictures of Patrick McDonald are mine from my military.com site where I downloaded photos from my 2005-06 deployment. I never have – nor ever will – try to find women – or men, over the internet using such photos. It is a scam and I got pulled into it. No – I don’t need nor want a relationship and if I did – it sure wouldn’t be done over the internet – Patrick McDonald

    • You owe no explanation and you are not at fault. Hope you are well, safe, and happy.

      • These pictures were being used under the name of SFC Henry Patrick McDonald, in Iraq (a mechanical engineer)on OKCupid.com. I have reported this man to OK Cupid, and the FBI. He likes to chat you up, makes you think he’s a very lonely widown – “wife died of cancer 3 years ago, 2 beautiful girls…Mary and Nancy OR Connie (he seems to get confused by his own kids names) — then says he wants to hear your voice, so please send him a satellite phone. SERIOUSLY!!! Do women actually send a man they JUST met online a satellite phone? Crazy. I hope this man rots in hell for impersonating Patrick McDonald – a real US Hero.
        And my thoughts go out to the real McDonald…I’m sorry you have to deal with all this junk these scammers are doing in your name. It’s not fair!

  261. If anyone wants to get in touch with me please do, I would like to know where to send the pictures. Thank you.

    keemakebab@aol.com

  262. Now I am really worried that they will use my pictures for another scam. Is there any way to find out or stop this. These people are evil……

  263. jj&cj and all of u out there who been caught by these f****** scammer, i spend al afternoon til now almost 1am follow up my own came with these scammer, lead me to this page i am so glad.the scammer didnt know he gave me the lead to find the answer to find out who is he. ladies i read all your comments, everyone react in different ways. i am not upset.because at the end of my game he is the only one wil feel as a dum idot asasashohohoho,u know wat i mean.i wil be back 2 daes from here and share with you my ful story. don’t get me wrong, i feel for each everyone of you and what happen to you. i wont say more i think there are some of them among us now.until i’m done i’l wil tel you al about it, promise, promise, promise.cj n jj thanks for tis page, i know its help al of us. see you soon.

  264. sorry i read my writting some of my spelling not rite cant fix it now, and my gramma not tat gud.second language.
    hope you can stil understand.

  265. i am scammed and i read every day the messages.
    now i am getting e-mail from other woman. looking up ip or translating the e-mails by google.
    Since scammers dont use perfect english and my english as belgium is far from perfect.
    New scammers using the profiles from soldiers’perspective. as far as i know i dont have a profile

  266. If anyone here who was scammed is from Southern California, please contact me at rgk_28@yahoo.com A reporter from Fox news in Los Angeles is doing a story about scammers using photos of soldiers and wants to interview someone who lives is So. Cal. who has been scammed by such scammers. He’s legit. He contacted me through CJ.

  267. Hi Ladies, I went to Stop the Army Dating Scam at facebook. There was a photo there of Sgt. Ivan Nobile. He is looking down at the camera he is holding. Anyway this same picture is being used at Mate one with the user as Lampard50 and now he is using the name Sgt Kelvin Nobile. His email is sgt.kelvin_nobile@yahoo.com. I just wanted to let everyone know.

    • Hi i am Tracy founder of the facebook group just to let u all know that we update our wall photos each day and as of tonight we have 250 that the scammers are using , as you realise often the same photo with just a new name ….. please feel free to join the group and name and shame these men
      Tracy

      • Hi Tracy,
        Im Trish from South Africa, please could you checkout the pic of someone called “Alexander Swain” on facebook(if is his real name???). This same pic I found on datingpartners.co.za site begining of May this year. We started corresponding with each other on yahoo chat, well up until about a week ago. I then found out about these “delightful” scams on the go. I mention to him that I suspected something seemed amiss. I have now noticed that his pic/profile no longer exists on the datingsite but still is on facebook. His pics he sent me reflect on this site near top of page as: “Brown Mark” and also, “Harry Swain”. Do u perhaps know who the genuine guy is in the pics?
        Your help will be greatly appreciated, thanks.

        • Hi I have alsohad contact with so called Aex Swain for about two months and today I told him I suspected him as a scammer. He denyed and we talked a lot. Now I wonder if he will come online tonight as he said. I was stupid to send money to his gold business in Ghana and is so angry about this. To late I found out it was scam. I met him in a european dating site, cause I ´m from Sweden. He also tried with the diplomat story as many others heard of here. Now he is using Swain508@hotmail.com And and his name on the site was smile4mile. It is his pic on facebook also and some of the pics above was sent to me also.

      • Tracy,

        What is the name of your FB group and can you supply the link? I would love to join your group! Big thanks!!!

    • The man calling himself Kelvin Nobile is also calling himself Philip williams nobile. I have been talking to him for more than 6 months and realize he’s a scammer

  268. Hello,

    Am chatting with another loser by the name of “Edwards Herman”. Used the same intro in chat with me as what Bill Haggard did (at the start of this page). I will keep him busy so that he is not trying to scam anyone else. He removed his profile from math.com as he feels I am the one for him and thinks we can fall in love (puke, puke). His profile name on match.com is Days111Eds and his yahoo name is “Edwards_Herman2000″. I only have one pic of him so far that I sent to CJ. “Edward” said he would send more as I asked for one of his face (the pic he sent has sunglassess and a pilot helmet).

    Will keep you posted.

  269. oh….can anyone answer this for me…..I got an email from a “Sandra Deby” which she sent to email address of “colpeddy@yahoo.com”. This “colpeddy is not me so unsure how it got to me. This is her message….”Hello.
    My name is sandra i saw your profile today at (www.soldiersperspective.us) and i love it also became intrested in you,i will also like to know you more,and i want you to send an email to my email address so i can give you my picture for you to know whom i am.Here is my email address(sandra.deby@yahoo.co.uk) i believe we can move from here.my love distance or colour does not matter but love matters alot in life.i waiting to recive your lovely reply soon, Yours Love.
    Miss sandra”

    Anyone have any clue? My concern her is that she saw my profile on this site and I have no clue what that is about….can anyone shed some light on this for me. I did not reply to the email, just deleted it.

    Thanks!

    • Deb…I got one too!!1 I sent it to CJ, couldn’t figure out how it came to my email address either! Please let me know if you get and answer. Thanks Debbie

      • Sorry, forgot to say that my email said the same as yours did…word for word!

  270. i to recieved the above email, but was to a capt mike hardy@yahoo.com , i was confused as to why i had been sent it, i replied ,i think you have sent this to the wrong address, then deleted it. when i tried to forward it to mike hardy came back as unknown,it just worried as the sites name was mentioned and wondered why someone had sent it to me, so whats going on.

    • Jane, I was gonna tell you last night I got one but I forgot…the age thing…lol!!! Talk to ya later girl. Debbie

  271. Hey girls I got the exact same email. Mine was to a guy named McCabe. Mine mentioned my profile on this site !! What profile???? I let CJ know what’s going on. I think the scammers are having their fun with us. Don’t worry they can’t get near us. At least not until they build their raft and float here!! HAHAHA

  272. I just wanted to say the scammers do read this site. Keep that in mind. If you want to talk to some other girl on here don’t put your email on here. Go thru CJ and get the email address. MY scammer told me they read this site. We are starting to annoy them. haha And you all know what happens if you don’t do what they want or if you question them. They are probally throwing hissy fits right now !!! They really are dunb asses. BE AWARE.

    • hi donna that figures i wondered how sgt emmy teddy cole knew id written things about him lol xx

  273. Hi JaneB and DONNA trish from UK here, and yes I had the same mail as you have written about .. above messeges in face that will be the 4th mail from different ” women “! with African names apart from the latest one as mentioned above. Now why would I want to ” Fall for and exchange love letters with some AFRICAN woman. who as normal has the same ol story of losing their family etc etc. well big deal. I dont feel sorry for them in the slightest!as we know girls, dont we ,that behind all these names lies a SCAMMER ” a WOLF in sheeps fur”waiting to pounce on the vulnerable. but I think we have EYES open know dont we GIRLS….. YES course we do. and onwards we will go…! fight em and put em down…… let those real guys, those real soldiers be Proud of us ….

    • Amen!

    • AMEN to that too!!! Got another one today and sent it to CJ, from now on if I get anymore I am just deleting them. I “forgot” and put my email address up here awhile ago…we all make that mistake from time to time. Let’s keep up the good work on getting the word out about these scumdiggers…hey new name for them…lol!!!
      Tell everyone you know, whether they have been scammed or not to write your congressmen, senator or whoever it takes for them to start doing something about this instead of sitting on their asses…I did and will continue to do it until I AM HEARD!!! Here’s to a peaceful night sleep and bright future for all of us!

    • Hi Trish good to hear from you again. I am still tormenting the dumb asses and will continue to do so. My hatred for them leaves no room for pity. If they are dumb enough to contact me then as they say ” all is fair in love and war.” Take care of yourself Trish.

      • Hi girls trish here, wondered if any of you have any one on their notes of soldier calling hismself EUGENE in Iraq. dont know a lot about him. except says he is 49 ( ish ) and on badoo and was most put out when i called him as a liar ! ” Oh dear I wont sleep for that tonight will I ” and also another one ( much older accepting presentation with group ( but he is actually the only on in the photo !) anyway name on Uniform MURPHY ( not the name used on Badoo.. keep eyes peeled !!just in case ! Bye for now girls I will be back x Trish Uk )

  274. patricia, thanks for your reply, i couldn,t have put it better myself,i dont feel sorry for any of them, do they feel sorry for the women like me and many other who are nearly ruined finacially and emotionally by the time they have finished with us no, all because we fell in love. i always believe,what comes around goes around and there time will come when they have to pay for there crime, in heaven or earth.

  275. I just have to say Thank you so much for your website. My father didn’t raise a fool and the currant evens sent me searching and boy. I month ago on Myspace I got a very nice message from a Christian man from MO. The name he uses on there is Michael Brent, said he’s a Sargent in the US army. And would like to be my friend and we have talked he asked me to contact his Maj. Gen to see about getting his phone activate. So I did and he told me depending on what plan it could run anywhere from 500USD to like 800USD. I told him I could not afford that and I would contact the USO for help. He won’t tell me his addy for being afghaistan but just tells me he’s at Camp Victory. So now we are becoming more then just friends because hey he’s never personally asked me for money the Maj Gen told me it’s not an .mil email. Now he wants leave he’s been there over a year and has asked me to email the same Maj. Gen to request he might get leave. Now this email comes from the same email but with another Maj Gen responding. I’m told they need a copy of my drivers license I will have to fill out 2 forms and send 1550USD. So hey I’m playing along with this game. I asked do I send it to the pentigons address. Oh no that’s not affiliated with his Division. I would like his pics to be posted on here as well as his email address so he hits no other women.

  276. RE: Colpeddy@yahoo.com

    Hi- I saw prior messages in regards to this colpeddy@yahoo.com email address. On July 14th you can see my prior messages above how this was a scammer’s email address. He used the identity of Colonel Pedersen, Kelvin. (Btw, Kelvin seems to be a popular choice of name for these idiot scammers). Anyhow, I have learned that this soldier Pedersen is actually a Major (at the time the pics were taken) and he was at one time in the 1st infantry division. I have been making some effort to try and locate this man with no luck so far. Sad to say, I thought I would get over this soldier, but have really taken his photos to heart. I hate to admit, I can’t seem to stop thinking about this man in the pictures.He is likely happily married with kids-oh well….SIGH …
    Am I the only one that feels this way?

    • No Kayla, I feel the same way about my “soldier”. I have tried locating him but to no avail…Wish I could though to at least let him know about the scammer that used his identity, then of course if he is married, well at least I will have closure then. I think that is what we all need to really get past most (the love and attraction) everything, some kind of closure where our “soldier’s” are concerned.

      • i have been talk to a sgt kelvin bristol and then yesterday a sgt ward imd me out of no where

  277. C.J.
    Thanks again for all the attention you are giving to this problem. Apparently these aren’t just scammers. My actually turns out to ba a hacker also. I have several web addresses, email accounts and use both Yahoo and Windows Live IM. I only ever gave him the yahoo info, but he has turned up questioning my dissappearance on several of the others even though he has been blocked and reported. My response to all of these contact was “You must be have incorrect information. I do not know anyone from Nigeria.” Haven’t heard from him now in almost a week.

  278. just to let everyone know, these scammers are not always posing as military man. I have been getting many winks for non-military….architects, self-employed. You know they are not due to the same poor use of the english language. As soon as I email them and tell them they are a scammer, they remove their profile off the dating site….of course, only to come back as someone else.

    • deb,

      You are right! They must be “changing” their occupation because we are asking too many of the right questions about the military that they CANNOT ANSWER!! So they figure if they chose a profession that they don’t have to “think” of the answers, than they are a step ahead of us…they must really think that we are idiots! Don’t they realize that if whatever they tell us, if we don’t know it we will ask and find out the answer? I am having alot of fun with them! There are quite a few on cupid.com. Come join the fun!
      Just do not tell them you are going to report them, because all they will do then is change the profile and name and keep doing it…just delete them and report them to the admin on that site, then give CJ and Amit Mendelsohn (I believe that’s how you spell his last name)He has a site on Facebook for the scammers. I know he has posted a comment on here with his link…check it out. It’s great too!

      • Debbie,

        I think Cupid has nothing but scammers. I don’t even bother responding anymore.

  279. another scammer haddardlov123. when I outed him he threatened me with “I have your picture and will teach you a lesson” “I will show you black power”. The pic he used looks quite like Haggard’s picture

  280. I just wanted you all to know that the real James Rellinger is aware that his name is being used. He contacted me today.

    I am just amazed that the other idiot is still emailing me, and wants money for his internet.

    Thank you to the person who helped me with this, you know who you are, thanks, you really are an angel….

  281. Thank u!!!!! I have been talking to chris/joe harold. last 2 weeks thought something was fishy and had done searches but nothing showed up for him from texas. still didn’t sit right until this evening he asked me to send parcels to a diplomat.Lucky for me my father was an army man and there was no diplomat to seend parcels toand my son=inlaw recent discharged after 3 tours of duty. so I googled this evenigna nd found him here on this site. He was also on match.com I will be talking with them also. as a paying customer we have rights to expect a safe web site or my money back. Wish me luck and please girls foolow your gut! I did and it saved me

    • Good luck to you. I let them know how unhappy I was (I, too was talking to Joe Harold), but match.com never did reply to me. I am surprised Joe Harold stuck with that name considering I let him know (with some colorful words) that I knew he was a scammer. Just goes to show that it just doesn’t matter to them.

  282. I wanted to report another soldier imposter. A man going by a name of “Bill Allyn” and posting 3 photos of this soldier in Army fatigues. He said he was in Iraq and would be home next month. I met him on Singlesnet and we wrote emails/chatted for 1 month. He asked for a laptop, I sent him military links where he could apply for one. He dropped the subject. Then he asked for T- shirts, body wash, razors-I thought they were valid needs for a soldier and sent them to an address a “Diplomat” gave me. I found him on Singlesnet using a different location. I reported him to them and his profile has been removed. I also searched Match and found him there using yet a 3rd location. I am concerned about the “real” Bill Allyn who may be a true soldier.
    He did not ask for money(up until I cut off with him) but said he bought gold bars with all his earnings in Iraq. I had already been doing research on him and thought things were not adding up. He seemed educated and did not write in poor English as many do. He was romantic/a smooth talker no doubt. I will report him as often as I can–I found him on facebook the same day I found him out(the 15th). Has anyone else had contact with this name?

    • He contacted me on match.com but I cut contact right away. Sorry, that’s all I have as I was getting so pee’d off with these guys. Now I report them right away and onyl engage them when I am in the mood to waste their time. It is great fun…lol!

  283. Anyone hear of Dennis Draper supposedly in Iraq, children in Ghana with a friend? What a heartbreak to read all of these. I was fool enough to believe as well. Still not sunk in yet. When questioned, he got angry and got off line, made me feel bad that I didn’t trust him. I have a photo of him and his children…has his name on the uniform.

    • Sounds like another Alias for Charles Relinger Tetteh. Says he’s a staff sergeant in Iraq. His son Emmanuel is in Ghana with a friend. He’s from San Francisco…etc etc..I think this guy has quite a large scamming ring going…with multiple players under him.

  284. I was a recent victim of this scam but thank goodness I did not send any money to this person but my heart was broken i truly began liking the person I was talking to beware of Anthony Handy..

  285. I would like to know if sgt alexander logan is a real soilder in Iraq. He was stationed in montana first, then Iraq. I started takin to him, What are somethings to ask about him that are true. Also is mark Gonzales a real soilder he asked me for 38,000.00 for exchange for another solider to come and take his place. I said no and he stopped talkin to me right away. I don’t give money to anubody I don’t know. I met these guys on the singlesnet.com

  286. Disregard my rather unconvention way of getting to you.With my position as
    the Principal Assurance Manager for the ChinaTrust Commercial Bank in China, i
    discreetly inform you we have the sum of $28.272,000 USD
    that is in our Possession and we
    intend to move it out as documented.
    :mr11_jiang11jianmin1@nba2k.com.cn thats the email i got this morning ????

  287. I have been in contact with a Sgt. David Stewart for alittle over a week now. Have a not so good feeling about it. He fell in love with me and wants to marry me within a couple days of talking? Very strange. How can I find out for sure. Actually he contacted me from BikersOrNot web site. If he’s a scammer I would like to warn other people on the site.
    He sent me 2 pics of himself,they look like two different people. But he could’ve changed. Thank you for your help

  288. I was recently approached on myspace with an email from a guy claiming to be sgt_blake thomson. within a few days he was asking me to marry him etc.. I played along to see what this creepo was up to and sure enough he is a scammer. He wanted me to pay money to get him a phone so we could talk. I guess he thought I just fell of the turnip truck. what a loser. These people are scumbags!!

  289. I met Sgt Bill Johnson or Rancourt on Match.com has anyone herd of him three months ago and just found this site today i do have pictures

  290. i found eddy james picture with a new name frank dourglas take care

  291. I’ve been talking to warrant officer Frank Edwards. I dont know what a warrant officer is…manybe someone can help? He sent my a copy of his military ID and would like to send it with pictures to you CJ if possible. I didn’t know there was such a rank… please help.

    • Jodi, a warrant officer is a real rank, but in the English army, I am not sure if they have the same thing in the military.

      • Nikki, if i send you his military ID could you help me check to see if he is real? I dont know what a military ID should even look like. Thanks for the info on the warant officer rank….

        • Of course, send it to my email address. It is above a few conversations, just don’t want to put it on here again. I was married to someone in the English Army, so I certainly know what an ID looks like. Sorry my reply took so long, have been sick. Nikki

  292. How about Jeff Durama rom NJ?? ANybody know?
    He gave me email of mltrytransit@usa.com..does anyone know what that is?/

    • just posted today…e mailed okcupid web site
      Feb. been speaking with him via jeffdurama@yahoo.com asked for money for a phone (he said he was in Dubia) loved me a bunch…said he was from NJ same guy, wife deceased 6 years…hope he did not rip you off.
      I made it out without paying a dime only time wasted……and that tug on my heart strings.

  293. Nikki, how did you find the real James? I have been trying to locate my soldier to inform him but with no luck?????

    • Hi Kim,

      I didn’t find him, well, I had asked the scammer for a military email, after reading this page. So he gave me one. I had written to it, trying to check it out, and had not heard anything, which did not come as a big surprise to me. Then, a few days ago, the real soldier replied, and told me that my hunch was correct, and that I was being scammed , and that HE had never spoken to me before. He also directed to me to this site and wished me well.
      I think that it was so nice of him to write to me. He probably thinks that I am a complete idiot. I suppose I am to fall for all that. I think that I have always wanted to hear the things that were said to me, we probably all feel like that.

      I am just very glad that he found out that someone is using his name and pictures. I hope that this person has not caused him any trouble.

      Kim if you want to talk further you can email me, My address is on here back a few messages. Take Care Nikki

  294. Hi all… My heart goes out to everyone who has become a victim of these scammers. The person I was chatting with was very adept at his craft, but paying attention to the details and asking a lot of questions, saved me from losing out financially. However, the emotional mind messing is the worst,..and it can happen to anyone who has a good heart and not usually going around mistrusting people. Unfortunately, in this day and time the bar has been raised to new heights in “proceede with CAUTION!”

    The person emailing me (from Match.com) called himself Bruce Castaneda and the emails came from b.honest007@ymail.com. Posing as an Army Platoon Sargeant E-7 in Baghdad, who was retiring after 26yrs. My first “red flag” was when he needed the iPad and told me that he was getting his “retirement papers” in Iraq and would fly home as a civilian on a commercail airline. He wanted gifts i.e., clothing, perfume (cologne), phone/iPad etc.. …supposedly he had a recent b-day. Said he was from Florida and divorced with a 13 yr, old daughter living with his sister in NY. He also involved a “diplomat” friend in Ghana, West Africa to whom I was asked to send a package.

    I feel bad that the soldiers in these photos are victims as well and I’m sure many don’t even know. I hope that sites like this will help expose and put an end to this terrible thing. Unlike the brave men and women serving our country, those scammers are nothing, but cowards and liars!!

  295. Hay to all,in search for Ruddock did I get here and I found the above. Me wrote 3 days to about Jappy, but there is, the Billy247 and 53J. Since 39 J.bei the Army, has a daughter, his parents dead, as usual, and as a teacher would be in Iraq. About Yahoo, I got an e-mail and Elbow-4 photos, but other than the above. Questions will be answered as not so good. All e-mail the IP addresses in Ghana, (where else) are always on Ireland, U.S., U.S., and then Ghana. Until now I still have not told him that I know will notice, let's see how far the. His current e-mail Addy is genruddock12@hotmail.com Then I would have a U.S. Army Major General Lawhorn on offer. Age btw 48 and 53 depending on the dating site, now he has a son, sometimes a daughter, now a widower, Separated, Single or divorced, of course, are the parents dead, apparently from Florida. After about three weeks he got his daughter on a school and needed money would be needed, he comes off there, but not after it took over 1 week to make clear to whom the offers from me anything he had not gone more bzw.antwortete. Known names: Law Horn, Lawhorn, Kenneth Lawhorn, Scott Lawhorn Lersin or Smith. E-mail: lawhorn@ymail.com / alicehorn@ymail.com / smile440@live.com / fatado1@hotmail.com Mitlerweile he is already blocked some sites and also landed the part already on scammer

    • I have something new from Ruddock. He now wrote to me about Yahoo, he also has a Yahoo Addy .. : billy.casey99 @ yahoo.com. He has now sent me four pictures where he is still in battle dress .. Can you upload the pictures here of him?

  296. those scams dont stop. THis morning on my cellphone a text came in. I give you the context.
    > good day mrs. Brenda. We are sorry for the delay in allowing capt.James
    > eddy arrive in time its because due process has to be followed…. We will
    > appreciate if you can do anything in order for him to be able to leave the
    > shore of africa then he can arrive in belgium safe and sound we just got
    > the notice that he is still in africa because of the payment problem…
    > you can contact us on usadminmaildep@mail2armu.com for further
    > enquiries.you can contact capt james eddy for confirmation of this
    > messsage. thank. the Us army dept.
    > when i looked for the details in the gsm(cellphone) i got no tell number
    > just us army dep
    > receaved 21.40.42 25/08/2010
    > SMS CENTRALE +42379010578
    > PLEASE CAN YOU LOOK IN BECAUSE NOW I DONT KNOW IF THIS IS REAL OR JUST
    > ANOTHER WAY OF SCAMMING
    >
    > i know +234 IS NIGERIA and the sms centrale where eddy sent his text is
    > normally +23448030000481
    > AND THIS IS A WHOLE OTHER NUMBER

  297. does anybody been connected by him or them
    is there somebody who can help me out
    we dont have helpsgroups in belgium
    even when you use the word scammer or nigeria or ghana
    seems nobody knows anything what is going on
    and i know i am not the only victime
    i have a friend approached by a certain lancelot

  298. http://www.militaryphotos.net/ a dream for scammer so many pictures

  299. Beware of men in military uniform on Hot or Not. com. I had been emailing a Blake Carroll that I met on there. I asked if he was in the National Guard or regular Army. He asked me what Guard was. Then he said he was National Army. Of course, he was a widower with a small son. Who has your son, I asked. He is with me he said. I don’t think they let them take kids to Iraq do they?

  300. I was just IM’d by some jerk claiming to be one of our service men. I spoke with him for awhile and his speech/writing just didn’t sit right with me, but I kept it going to see if I was right. He evaded me on questions I would ask and instead kept pushing the fact that he was a “GOD fearing” man looking for a “GOD fearing” woman to spend his life with. He quoted bible passages and when I asked why he needed to quote verse he tried to claim the words as his own. Much of his story was word for word what has been written by so many others pictured above. They can be fun to lead on and then call them on their scam. He is not the first I have been contacted by and I’m sure not the last who will try. He couldn’t remember the answers to questions he had asked me a few min prior and after telling me he has a 13 year old son when asked about his willingness to relocate because returning to new york was too painful. You see he lost his parents on 9/11, he didn’t care if he wasn’t close to his son once he returned home after being in Iraq for 2 years. Please I want NOTHING to do with a man who doesn’t want to be close to his child especially after being gone for so long. Do they really think women are all this dumb? by the way this guys “name” was Captain Aron, I was to send a birthday pkg to a diploma by the name of Randolf Amuzu.

  301. I’ve got one also. Sgt. Laurence Michael (facebook) aka Sgt. Michael Laurence aka Sgt. Michael Barnett (yahoo) address miky_bar65@yahoo.com. 45, Ohio, widower of five years, two children (girls). Gave me an email address of usarmytelecom@consultant.com to try and set up radio phone call I would have to pay for. I have photos in uniform also… but difficult to make out name, etc. This just makes me sick…

  302. a guy by the last name santos
    told me he love me wanted to marry me
    sent me numerous pictures of him and his
    daughter I even made video and put it on u tube of him I fell in love with this guy but he wanted my address I didnt give it to him last I heard from him he told me he was stab in head I also posted that pic on video u can watch the video at this link just copy and paste to your address bar at top of page click enter http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjLfbNKhGYc also he mention places to me like the seabrook in texas and wichita kansas and JAPAN but his plane number was track down to california

  303. you can click link above to see who im talking about i fell in love with this guy we met on date hook up then went to yahoo messenger talking on mic heres some of the things he said to me i will paste from my yahoo messager archive
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:26:46 AM): i really want you
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:26:51 AM): pls honey
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:26:58 AM): my sweetheart
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:27:21 AM): i love you so much with my entire life
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:27:31 AM): how would i do such to you
    Harry Santos (7/31/2010 1:27:35 AM): pls my baby

  304. I wanted to locate the guy in pics
    talk to him so please watch the video I posted on u tube help me track down the real guy im not sure if its truly him or not after he sent me pic with blood on his head i dont know what to think anymore does anybody reconize the location hes from by his surroundings u can clearly see santos on his uniform but my question to u is where are they getting these pics from??

  305. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjLfbNKhGYc
    I made video of all pics he sent me if u reconize this man or know this man personally or have any idea where hes at please dont hesitate to contact me he never asked me for money but he told me he was in japan and he wanted my address to my house so when he left japan he could come be with me marry me ofcourse i didnt give him my address then next time he sent me pic with blood on his head said he was attack stab all this is in this video i made watch
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjLfbNKhGYc

  306. help me find the real guy please :(
    everybody idenify hes from airforce
    please check caliafornia kansas texas and japan I fell in love with the emails thinking maybe it was truly him I love his smile I would love to know the real guy if this isnt the real guy emailing me.

  307. I have been talking to a guy that says he is in the army in Majha Afghanistan and he is trying to get me to pay TS2 Communications $250 to be able to talk to him. I think it is a scam and would like to know for sure. I looked up Majha and the only one I could find close to Afghan is in Pakistan. Is there any questions I could ask him that he wouldn’t know the answers to?
    He goes by Sergeant Jeffery Wilganoski
    He has told me he has a 10 year old and his wife died. I see a lot of the same stories here.

  308. I was scammed by a man saying he was Sgt.Robert Nobile, met on a dating site. We have been chatting for almost 2 months. i have so many pics. of him. met him on date1.com, sad that someone can do this to another.

    • My friend has been chatting with a Staff Sgt James Nobile for a month now. Now his friend got on his Id asking for money because James supposedly shot a civilian in Iraq and now is held in court. He needs money to be bailed out. It sounds very fishy for me so I told her to hold back and see if we can check him and things out. Would love to see pics of him to see if it’s the same person. He is on Badoo and my Space. That is all we know. Can someone help.

  309. to shelia barker militaryphotos.net/ look overthere maybe you find what you are looking for

  310. I was scammed by a man on the dating site. My name is Rivera janys. I was born on the 2nd of August, 1963 at Baptist Hospital of miami I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience..
    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a noncommission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.
    My son lives with my ex in Miami. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time.I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words.

    I have pictures,phone numbers, and emails as we were immediately communicate thru MSN with Janys1@live.com. At the end, he asked $5000 money transfer to Airport Accra Custom office; so the million dollars worth of package will be safe and delivery to me by his Diplomat. Western Union has rejected the transaction and called to explain the situation as these groups of people are on their black list.

    Hope this help.

    • I received this exact email from a Thomas Draper. His “daughter” lived with his ex-wife. I blocked him when his IP address came from Nigeria.

    • I must tell you. I got exactly these email a months ago word by word from a Scammer call himself Tom Ross he is also wellknown by the name Jack Ingo. I guess they stolen it from another person on Internet and then use it to send their victums. So the mess you got is a real Scam. He even told me he has lost his whole family, mom, dad and his brother in World Trade Center. So watch out!!!

    • Sounds a bit like the guy I just started chatting to. Is he the same as Robert Haggard’s picture above? If so, now going under the name of Haggard Millar

      • do you have a picture of this guy, Sounds the same as a guy I am chatting to called Jeff Preston

  311. All, check out the new forum where you can discuss these guys in a more organized fashion and upload photos: http://www.soldiersperspective.us/2010/08/31/new-asp-forum-launched/

    • CJ, I went out to the site last night and registered, but it never sent me an email with a password…any suggestions? As always, thank you for what you do for us, on this site and in the military!

    • Hi C J tried to access this page and just keeps saying error !!!!!

    • CJ, I went out to the site right now and registered, but I don´t got any email with the password…??????

  312. How do I give you a picture of another scammer? Staff Sgt Jonny Rellinger in Afganistan… These guys doing this are evil!

  313. Too bad this guy has the same scam technique! The real guy in this picture is not bad looking! http://www.singleparentmeet.com/community/member/?Profile=094F772144537D97&back=readMessage&backparam=start=1|Folder=Sent|message=168455814|curmsgpos=6

  314. just to let u know the guy in video on u tube i found out was poseing as two different men to me and my friend sherry and today he got on cam prove he was black nigerian in this video so yeah we caught him finally he confess now he wants our money to tell where he stole the pics from of the real guys I said if anything u owe us liar for scamming us all this time well he really scam sherry somebody mail her over 2,000 to her house she sent it to nigeria cause he said he was doing contracting and construction work down there watch this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wd0AO-E9Mzs u will see scammer that tricked us. ok I just wanted to update u later! – shelia

  315. Hi,

    I have been contacted by a one Captain Luck Scott through Facebook. Of course he already wants to marry me, to live with me, he loves me and so on, however, I have kept all our online conversations as well as e-mails and photos because there are way too many gaps in what he says.
    -Awful spelling
    -The pictures he sent doesn’t look from the same guy from one photo to another
    -I have been telling lies to him as I do not want him to know about me, but the second I told him I was getting money from “selling a house I own in Mexico City” he was sooooo ready to “advise me on bonds and stock” WITH MY MONEY of course
    -Today he said he was going to travel to Qatar, Africa :[, hahahahahahahaha that one was really funny.

    Please tell me at which e-mail account should I send the pictures I got so you can upload them here and more people may know about him-them.

    Thank you very much for your site,

    Erika

  316. Hi

    does anyone have any dealings with a William Spalding calls himself Willy? says he is platoon sgt with Bravo Company 82nd Div STB in Afghanistan at present, but that he is in USAF attached to United Nations Special Forces Command in London.

    • further to my above post I managed to do an IP trace on an email & surprise surprise it is in Nigeria. I have photos he sent me, and the original email, I have tried to register at the new forum with no luck. Luckily I didnt lose anything except a few hours wasted but would like to make others aware.

  317. I forgot to add:
    Profile in Facebook is CaptLuck Scott
    And his e-mail account is luckscott78@yahoo.com

  318. I feel for all u women all these black men from nigeria to is lie make me fall in love with them fake to be somebody they arent just to try to scam us out of money leave us broken hearted so sorry me and my friend sherry fell in love with the two men we thought was real come to findout they was nigerian scammers they had been lieing to us the whole time so I know how u feel.God will punish those men that tricked us and lied to us they have no heart they only thinking of their selves!

  319. txharrymale@yahoo.com dont let him fool u he anit the guy in pics if u go to u tube http://www.youtube.com type in search bar shygirl4u2008 u will see all videos ok? please go check it out

  320. Well cj without your help or the help of the military I have found the real christopher Morris only his name is not chris it’s MG David A Morris, yes a general and a decorated one too and I am allmost sure I have found the culprit using the name and will get him too. And please don’t tell me not to go after him it will do no good. I am out for revenge and will not stop till I get it. If I have to do it on my own I will. I fell in love with this soldier now for allmost a year and I won’t let this SOB get away with ruining a good mans rep. Yes cj I am angry and will be till this is over and he is behind bar where he belongs. Mr Morris is a wonderfull husband and father and this is too much to let go. Please reply I think I want to be a PI what to you think cj.

  321. Oh yes cj I have allready contacted the US military in Washington about this and I am waiting on their reply. I just hope they care enough to help, but if not I guess i’m on my own.

  322. Hi everybody just to let u all know the FACEBOOK GROUP STOP THE US ARMY DATING SCAM had now reached 200 member and has over 350 photos that scammers are using please pop by and add to these …. U will also find new names and emails that scammers are using and the chance to chat and exchange ideas with women who have been or who are going through what u are
    Tracy

  323. I was contacted by a David j Massingale with much the same story I have seen in these messages. He is a Captain in Afghanistan, his wife died 5 years ago in a car crash and he is looking for his soul mate, and so on.. This was on the Plenty of Fish dating site. Upon my response to his initial email he requested we chat off of the site so I contacted him through Messenger. I noticed within hours of this contact his profile and emails had been removed from the Plenty of Fish site, so I don’t have any photos. However the profile photo was not a military one. It looked like a guy eating an ice cream cone in a restaurant with a white ball cap on.
    His email address is david.jmassingale@yahoo.com
    Be save ladies.

  324. has anyone been scammed by sgt emmy teddy cole these men are evil hr didnt get any money or any thing form me but theses men are very clever

  325. I just wanted to let everyone know there is also another facebook site called Get the Scammers. There are over a thousand pictures of various scammers on that one alone. Also on facebook is Stolen Valor and Stop being scammed by cons saying they are “”US Soldiers”. You are able to upload your own photos there as well with any information. The faster we get these on the more women we may protect.

    • thanks for your information – important to identify and preserve integrity

  326. Donald.Draper101@live.com – beware of this guy I met on Oasisactive.com – a staff sergant serving in Iraq, parents dead, 9 yo son needs money back “home” in bronx. I have photos if anyone interested in confirmation for themslef and closure. Emails beautiful eloquent love messages and photos are very handsome 50yo man Staff Sergent in training and ops.Even rang and spoke to me in Sydney AUstralia askign if i can pick him up at airport. Next day, declared his love and life committment and asked for 3000 to help out his son, holding (me) responsible if anuthing happened to his son if I didnt send. He also included pics of his son and fun pics of him in army uniform and on patrol, laptop etc. I was heartbroken for about an hour then over it. Beware ladies of letters declaring love – the message is universal and has widespread appeal to mid age single women/mothers.

  327. Interestingly enough, I was contacted on Facebook a few months ago by a woman saying that she was contacted by my husband asking for money. Supposedly he was a widow, and all that crap. Nigerian scammers used a photo from an Army website to start a new Facebook page and pose as my husband. It took a lot of work to get the page deleted. My husband had to prove again and again that he was himself! UGH! It has happened about three times this year. Unfortunately these dipshits don’t fall under our law, so there is not much we can do but protect our image the best we can.

    • Hi Vic im really sorry to hear abt your husband and what has happened to him u may like to look at the FACEBOOK GROUP STOP THE US ARMY DATING SCAM and there u will see all of the photos there using at the monent and the member are very good at altering me when there contacted by somebody they suspect as a scammer sadly facebook is getting bad for it i am in contact with several real soldiers who have had there ID used and all report how hard it is to get the profile removed then often there back then next day maybe a new christian name but the same surname
      Tracy

      • Hi Tracey: Can you let me know how to contact you to send photos to put on Facebook. I use my sisters account to log in so I don’t want to send them that way. I saw one that I was sent and I have a couple more of this man to add. Not sure what name is was using before but to me he is Kelvin Grant.

        • Well, well, well,,,,I am being teased by the same Kelvin Grant I suspect. Only now he’s working on women in Canada….hahaha,,,oh my goodness,,,how shall i get revenge…hmmmm

  328. My Friend is dating man online, his name is David Arico he said he is a Capt. in the Army and he is now in Darfur, Sudan for 11months now. I would like to know his real identity so that I can give an advise to my friend. Thanks a lot.

    • find out what unit he is with and ill let you know. Last i checked there are no army personel in sudan unless he works for the UN or a special envoy, either way he wouldnt be there for 11 months. Only peacekeeping troops from the African union are there as far as i know. The only US involvement is with logistics last time I checked. Ill let you know if i find out more

      • Thanks a lot J Kels for the information, it helps a lot and please let me know if there’s a certain guy in this Army and he said he’s going to retire soon and promising my friend to bring her to Little Rock, Arkansas. Oh yes, he told my friend that he is on special mission for peace. I am keeping in touch with her so that she’ll have some idea with this guy. He also told her that he had bad experiences about ladies who are just fooling him specially when it comes to money too. I’ll keep in touch with you if I have information from her. Thanks for the reply.

  329. No one that is in the army would ever ask you to send them money for leave. We don’t have to pay for leave it is free. Also, if someone sounds like english is their second language, then it probably is. All of these letters i have looked at seem like the person can barely write properly. That should be a hint. And finally, if someone says they cant call you for security reasons they are lying. I am currently in the middle of no where afghanistan, and almost all my guys have personal cell phones to call whomever they would like.

    • I found the IP address (41.138.175.112) of David Arico (captdarico@yahoo.com). He is from Nigeria. I saw the profile photo of David Arico at Facebook. I hope this can help find his real name and not hiding behind the Military Personnel.

  330. Hi Ladies, one more scammer to add to the list going by the name Mark William Wadsworth. Ips no, 41.218.194.45 – email ad markwilliamwadsworth1@live.com. he is on 4 different uk dating sites plus has 2 facebook pages!! he has also used the names, joe, william, johnson but always Wadsworth, traced back to Ghana. The photo’s he is using are of a retired colonel called Paul Kern. DONT SEND ANY MONEY

  331. You guys are really starting to scare me, I’m also dating a guy on the net. He’s never ask for money or to send him anything. How do I know that he is real. He’s in the canadian army serving in afghanistan, going by the name Michel Thellend. Please will anyone tell me he’s not a fake.

    Thanks

    • The first thing you need to do is get him to send you an email and check his IP address. If it comes back Ghana, Africa, etc. you’re pretty well assured he’s scamming you. The IP address can be checked at: http://aruljohn.com/info/howtofindipaddress/#ipdetect. Good luck!

      • I have been talking to a “soldier” online for about three weeks, sounds too good o be true, but I have read through these posts and don’t see his name. I did do an IP adress search and one came from New York , the rest all Ghana…where would a true military email ip be if he says he is stationed in Bagdhad. He does fit some of he other points discussed, single parent, parents dead, etc. He has not asked for anything but professes his love to me. I have looked through the pictures and none of those are the ones I have. i would to hate to put his name up here or pics in case he is legit…any advice?

  332. Hi ladys
    I think I have been scammed too, by a man called himself Major Robbert Ruddock,
    Whose pictures he sent me are the same to the ones you published here, and have some more new pictures too. And his story line is similar to al what you have said here. I have been contacted through net log .com website. His email address is: robbert_ruddock77@yahoo.com

    would like to exchange pic with you but don´t know how?

    I feel sorry for the real soldier. Please tell me what to do next.

    • RE RUDDOCK and PATRICIA. can you JUST please leaVE YOUR NAME HERE WHEN YOU REPLY TO THIS i WILL KNOW IF YOU ARE ONE AND THE SAME WHO WROTE TO ME ON MY EMAILAND i CAN THEN WRITE YOU….nOT LEAVING MY NEW EMAIL ADRESS ANY MORE ON THIS SITE AS IT SEEMS all THE SCAMMERS READ WHAT WE HAVE WRITTEN…!!!

  333. hi my name is gary , over the past few month i have been in contact wit a sgt michael rios , who surpose to be station in baghdad iraq .a week ago he asked me to get in contact with this communication compamy called ts2 . they wanted me to send$250 usd by western union . i was a little sus about it and found out that that site was a scam . he still emails me every day . yesterday he mailed me that he wanted me to get in conntact with his commander on this web address militarycommander@consultant.com
    i live in australia and this address comes up negative . ithe email of the solider that has been mailing me is sgtmrios@gmail.com
    i think this is a scam , please help me to find out . i have sent no money . i found your company on the net and have read all the messages that you have posted . many thanks gary scanlon .

    • I think I was approached by someone in common. I was friended by a guy on Gay Christians.com and when I googled him, your message popped up. His e-mail is mrios.powel@gmail.com. Did you ever find out if he was a scammer or not

  334. Ok, I work in law enforcement and I got scammed..I got a smile from a guy on a dating site. I looked at it not uniform pictures nothing Same as all the ladies are saying above.. He stated he was a Col. In AFG. Now I know REALLY dahhh. He said he was a widower, son in spain with his granny b/c his parents are deceased. Military school at 16 yrs old. Needs $1500.00 for upkeep for his family. Even got emails from nanny and the Doctor treating his granny who I was suppose to send the money to in Spain. For some reason I did send money, but for some reason I got home after sending it and felt like something was terribly wrong. Well it turned out I was right. I immediatly called western union and contacted the dating site. Western Union put a stop on the money. The dating site to him off right away. This guy was good good good.. So if any one knows what we can do I would love to do something. So all you ladies out there.. Remember we are beautiful, loving, caring and GIVING women.. we have to stick together…

  335. Right , I am now convinced. Got contacted on firstdate.com by Alex Swain. Have now found his pics here accept for two othesr he sent me. Have also lost money in my stupidity in believes that he should by gold in Accra Ghana and his bank wouldn´t send him the money from the States, He told me he is from Boston MA. He has been a lovely guy but I have had my suspicious.He had told me alot about his family and more, sadly I didnt listen to my feelings for that. The next step now last, was the same as others here. Should send a bag with money by a diplomate with name Luke JarrelDary Who is now stuck in Ghana custom. He also sent a pic of him. But now I was to suspicious so I found this site. And thank God for that. But this time I wouldnt have sent the money. I talked to one man in Ghana.Mr Otchere who supposed to be the manager of the gold business. I have saved all letters and chats with them all. I guess my money is gone , my heart is broken but will heal. Why do they do this…money of course, but is that all? Sorry for my spelling, but I am from Sweden,not Africa :-)

  336. I have told my story,I met sgt.major. MIke Gales on matchmaker.com on 7/21. Been emailing back and forth since. Also chatted on yahoo messenger. Getting to know each other- and the he tells me, he loves me. He was to get leave in Aug., but leave cancelled. The alternative was to pay for his leave, $4,580.00. Western union saved me, big time. He was then going to come home and retire. He says he has been in the army for 32 years, “he is due”. Of course, he and I then would grow old together.I have all emails, pictures of him, and govt paperwork? that I signed and sent to admin@ustransitmarine.us. Col. Susan Croakley. If you want me to send paperwork and pictures,I surely will. Thank you.

  337. Hello everyone,
    as I can see after reading you all, I’ve been myself scammed and feel very stupid to got my self in this situation. I’ve been on match.com and chatting with SGT MAJOR Alfred Haggard, for 2 months, he’s born september 10th 1965, good looking man, saw pictures on this site and do have several of them. Live San Fran and have a son, Max 14 years, living with Care Taker and also a teacher. He told me that both parent are passed away, as car exploded when trying to help somebody else in car accident and mom died of cancer. His wife, Maria, first was shot accidently and now was was i mean it was through an car accident when she had been cross with a trailler….he seemed hurting and it wasn’t jokes. It maybe same person as Micheal and Bill, but today I asked him to send me a picture of him with date & hour, he did but can’t say for sure as maybe another person looking a lot like him, as picture was taking on profil. As until today, he didn’t know this situation and was hangry about it and want of course to know what is going on I didn’t tell him where I found this information. I do have several pictures and would like to know if it’s a real soldiers that I’ve been chatting with or scammer you can reply to me at: valpolicella@ymail.com thank you to all of you making this site to the real ones heroes

  338. did someone met a capt.eddy F.james or capt eddy fouillousse? Where can i send my pictures?

  339. I would like to find out about a man who says he is Lt. Colonel Preston Max. Is he a scam artist or what? He has asked me to get in contact with his home base in Michigan to acquire early retirement for him but I have to pay a fee which he says is refundable because if they go on early pension they must pay a fine. I would like to know if the above is true.

  340. to JJ, CJ, Sandy,

    Here is an update on Sgt. Bellick Smith; sgt.bellick@yahoo.com. he is not very nice army officer and definetely not who he says he is. He broke the engagement off becuase I didnt do what he wanted, which was to take pictures of myself. and get the phone system setup.

    also, i found him under facebook but not listed as a sargent. just Bellick Smith.

    He also got upset when i first turned his hame in to this website but i told tough shit. i was protecting myself. He sounds that he and this tom curtis could be one of he same person.

    Sgt. Bellick also has another email address under a baer county terrorist unit gaming site thats what its called. and there is only one Sgt. Bellick that i know.

    Please ladies stay away from this dude. their all dumbass scammers and please definetely dont send pic’s of yourself. you dont know what they do with them

    Sincerely and good luck with all your endeavors.

    Becky B.

  341. I got a hit today from a guy on internationalcupid.com. Right away I noticed this guy is an American Marine(flag and uniform), but his profile says Canada. When do the Canadians have American Marines LOL. Anyway the email address he gave me was hildebrandtj77@yahoo.com.

    There are 3 photos attached to his profile. If anyone is interested let me know and I will send them.

  342. With all the pictures sent in, will any of the men be identified? I think all of us who have sent in photos should be notified of their identity. I was almost scammed! I would like to get in touch with this man and send all the emails and photos to him, to let him see how he was used as well. I know it would help me, give me peace.I believe he has a right to know as well! Thank You

    • Judith Dear ~ I am so sorry that Mike Gales hurt you and the other ladies ~ are you by any chance living in South Africa?

      Sgt Major. Mike Gales told me his age was 59. And that his ex-wife had moved to Australia with all his money & had taken their daughter who was now 18 years old ~ & once out of the Army he was going to hunt them down!

      The real Sgt Major. Mike Gales is not even in the Army ~ he is retired.

      The FBI has been informed ~ along with the CIA ~ Army Intelligence ~ Scotland Yard ~ and many other agencies.

      Place all his letters on this site and please send CJ all your photographs ~ I see that my six are on here twice!

      From: lovingsoul009@aol.com
      Date: Sun, 15 Aug 2010 03:40:21 -0400

      I know we’re far apart — you’re In usa, and I’m in Afghanistan right now– but hey, like I said, distance means so little when you love someone so much. I was just talking to a friend about you and explaining how you are on my mind 24/7,thank you for sharing your love and wanting to make me your man. No matter how slowly or at what distance our courtship develops, I know standing before God and our future family, vowing to be your partner for life, was the easiest decision I could have ever made.You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I miss you more every day. I am here with open arms where you will some day finally be,right where you belong.

      Although we’ve never met, I feel as if I know you well. I knew from the start that there was something special about you; you’ve touched my heart and wouldn’t let go. Our relationship has given me a lot of dreams, and now I feel hope. You entered my thoughts and magically erased all of my fears with your sweet and caring ways. Now I look forward to each day and feel so much at ease with you. I’m so grateful that we’re able to share our problems and aspirations with each other through our mails and chat. It truly seems as if you’re a part of me, as if our time together was a melding of souls. The thought of you fills me with smiles, and I can’t wait to hug you each day.

      I’d tell you you’re in my heart, but I don’t feel like that would be right, because my heart is not mine anymore- it belongs to you. Just by chatting with you and sending mails forth and back you already strike me as a sweet, loving, caring, beautiful, and you make me feel like one of the luckiest guys in the world.

      I promise you that I’ll never let you down, that i’ll never treat you bad, I would gladly share your joy and pain.this i deeply mean from the dept of my heart.I know how I feel towards you, and you know how you feel towards me.


      USA ARMY

      Sgt Major. Mike Gales

      • Hi, Dorothy. I live in the USA. I met “mike gales” on matchmaker.com. Matchmaker did verify,he had an account on their site–armysoul009 was his user name. I have notified the FBI, CIA, Pentagon. I still am having a difficult time, emotionally. Can you give me anymore info about “mike gales”.? Maybe it would help me heal. He was 57, daughter in Australia. I don’ know where the wife is. He told me when he came home(USA) he was going to fly over to me, so “we could start our new life together”. I bet I have every email and maybe more of the same emails you received. I have all the ones so far you have sent this web site.Thank you for the reply. Please send me more info about Mike Gales if you can. Here’s hoping to heal and feel better everyday. But it hurts! Email me if you want,thanks again, Judith

        • Dear Judith ~ the real Mike Gales retired moons ago from the forces ~ the con-man known to so many ladies as Sgt Major. Mike Gales is a Fraud and a Liar.

          Judith, it’s going to be difficult for you to trust anyone for a while because the one you trusted with your heart and future proved to be untrustworthy. Although there is nothing I can do to help your loss, maybe I can do something to help you restore your trust. I promise that I will be here whenever you need to talk or cry or just sit in silence.

          CJ has my email address and yours also if you sent him your photographs – so he can connect us at your request.

          Do not feel awkward about making your pain and emotional needs known ~ then I can call you regularly for the two of us to find out how each other are doing.

          Right now you feel like you’re alone, but your not!

          You can stay trapped in emotional pain by Mike Gales or you can stay angry over the injustice, dishonesty, over his mistreatment ~ or you can focus on the beauty of nature.

          Thanks to CJ ~ we can bear one another’s burdens. And I pray for our Lord, to motivate you and to keep His supportive arms so close that Judith, you have no room to fall!

          I’ll pray also that God will sustain you during these pain-filled days of your fresh grief and shower you with grace upon grace.

          Sincerely and respectfully ~ Dorothy J

  343. where do the photos get sent to for others to view ? I need to see if the photos I have are in the collection … I will list my infomation on my scammer when i’m finished investagating his info ,for all to know & view .

  344. HELLO EVERYBODY .. I JUST SAW THE PHOTOS AND YES , MY GUY WAS IN IT .. I HAVE A FEW QUESTIONS HERE AND IF ANYONE CAN HELP ME – I REALY WOULD APPRECIATE IT …
    MY SCAMMER’S NAME IS ” LINGO ” he so handsome and i fell in Love with his picture photograph … ( my poem )Have Fallen in Love with a Picture Photograph
    THE ANSWER IS YES, I HAVE …

    DOES ANY ONE HAVE MORE PHOTOS INFO.ON HIM …
    HIS REAL NAME …
    WHERE HE FROM ..
    IS HE MARRIED ..
    HAS HE TALKED TO ANY OF YOU ?

    WHEN I FIST CAUGHT WHIM OF THIS BEING A SCAM I STARTED DOING AN INVESTAGATION ON HIM ..LITTLE DID HE KNOW I HAVE BEEN A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR FOR 5 1/2 YRS .. I RIGHT AWAY STARTED SEARCHING ..AND I HAVE SO MUCH INFO. ON THIS POOR MILITARY MANS IDENTITY THAT WAS STOLEN ..FOR ALL TO SEE ,
    WOMEN HE GOES BY SO MANY NAMES THAT I WILL SOON LIST ALONG WITH PHOTOS HE SENT ME , SITES HES ON , NAMES E USES , AGES HE USES , ASTOR SIGNS HE USES , STATES HE USES ..

    I AM SO SICK TO MY STOMACH THAT LET MYSELF FALL IN LOVE WITH A PICTURE PHOTOGRAPH ..
    AND AN UNKNOWN PERSON …
    WHO HAS NO HEART.

    PLEASE IF ANY ONE HAS BEEN CONTACTED BY HIM CAN U LET ME KNOW ..
    IF YOU KNOW WHO HE REALLY IS ..
    WILL YOU LET ME KNOW .. ( SOMETHING )

    I KNOW YOU LADIES DONT KNOW ME ..BUT I’M JUST LIKE YOU A WOMAN USED AND LEAD TO FALSE PROMISES .

    IF SO CAN YOU E-MAIL ME LET ME KNOW HERE :

    WARMNCUDDLIE1@YAHOO.COM

    I HAVE ALOT OF INFORMATION TO UP LOAD ON HIM ..I WILL AS SOONASI CAN WRITE IT CPY N PASTE HERE ..AS I STATED HERE & SOMEHOW IT DELETED .SO I WILL DO IT A DIFFEERENT WAY THIS TIME AND MAKE SURE IT GETS ON HERE SOON .

    THANKS ALL …..

  345. Hello Ladies ,
    Well like I said i would be back with infomation for you on my Scam Artist’s Military Victum named :
    ” Lingo ”

    This information will only be some – not all as I have every IM he ever sent me , and too many to post so I will keep it short – so I can add the Best Parts to keep you aware of .

    I met my Scammer in the month of August 2010
    on a site called ” Migente ” ..I promote my bussiness there for promotions – this is one of my sites out of 98 ..
    Any how I will copy n paste some information that was given to me & add what I have Investagatied myself – And yes , for 5 1/2 yrs I did Priate Investagations – this is where he messed up .. Geee , he must of over looked my profile ..

    Any how : ” Lingo ”

    letter written to me :

    ABOUT MY FEELINGS..
    From: peterson James
    jamespeterson001@yahoo.com To: Warmncuddlie1
    Date: Sun, Aug 8, 2010 2:50 am

    How are you Doing…thanks so much for the wonderfull chat,You are such a nice woman to me…and looking forward to that day i would see you face to face… But, just so you know, I thought I would tell you what I was looking for, and see what you think… All I am looking for is “True Love,” no Games, no Playing arround, just want to find my soul mate in life…the one woman I connect with in every way… I do know very much about you, yet any man that does not treat you with respect, true love, genuine kindness and caring is absolutely a fool. True Love can be given without being shared, but a shared Love still allows for your special loved one to grow.

    To me, there is nothing more special than a shared Love. One that delights in our loved one’s achievements, and growth as a person. One that has no jealousy, anger or mistrust. I believe when I have met the right person, we will believe so completely in each other, and Love each other so completely, that we will trust without hesitation as well….
    I am a lovingly touchy person. I like to hold hands, hug and kiss … when appropriate… I like open affection, but in good taste, not for affection sake. I love to look into my loved one’s eyes, and often get accused of starring…. But I stare at flowers too, they never complain that I could look at them from when the blossom until they fade away… I like being touched too. I like simple things, not complications and overbearing…
    I want my soul mate to be my best friend, so I can always talk with her, and my other friends all accept and love her too, that she can accept and love them back. And I have a hypothetical question for you. Lets say we were married and we stayed up late laughing and enjoying each others company while getting to know each other better. We end up making love most of the night and fall asleep without putting the alarm on to wake us up in time for work. When we do wake up in the morning, we’re not late , but we need to hurry up and get ready. Would you take a shower with me to save time or would that be to embarassing for you ? Or Maybe you would want to shower alone, just thought I would ask as it was something that was on my mind and I was interested in how you feel about something like this. as I am awaiting your answer.Also I would say sweet dreams, As u will be dreaming of me,
    Take care its already late there and u will be on bed by now, would talk to you better tommorow…I can’t wait to meet you so we can share time in other arms together….
    Hope to hear from you soonest

    This is no #2 e-mail sent to Me :

    hello babe ….
    From: peterson James
    jamespeterson001@yahoo.com To: warmncuddlie1@aol.com
    Date: Sun, Aug 8, 2010 5:36 am

    Hello
    How are you doing today…..thanks for the wonderfull email it seems I’ve found the right woman here…..Anyway you are the woman that has been serious with me.
    Well I dont know what to say at the moment….And I dont know what else you will like to know about me. Just ask me and I;ll tell you…..I know the distance between us is very great but I really want to come home I’ve gone through alot of things in life and i don’t want to experience any bad feeling anymore…..Thats why I need the honest and Caring woman which i can stay with and be together in love and who is going to take Care of me and my kid through Think and thin…I really want you to be honest with me….We could talk and talk for many month but until we meet thats when we can know everything about each other….And i believe if we have faith in God we will definitely make it thats if you have Faith in Him, he know’s better than we do….Tomorrow’s hopes and dreams may never die for as long as you believe in yourself and follow your heart. Kindnesses in your heart will guide you to accomplish many things in life and overcome all challenges, all obstacles, and love. Never give up, always have faith in yourself and you will gain the greatest gift of all, the gift of hope and love you righteously deserve. Whatever you may do in future’s way, never let anyone stand in the way of pursuing your dreams and wishes you have always dreamt of in your life…

    Please let me know if you are serious or tell me you are playing games with me…Cos i dont want to be dissappoint. Well i guess you have been Honest and you seem to be the woman. I;m looking for lol.

    Maybe you would like to know anything else from me ….I;ll tell you. Take Good Care of yourself and be safe. out there…Please stay out of trouble…

    and a taste of his sence Munipulation for Love : no#3

    Visions Of You…
    From: peterson James
    jamespeterson001@yahoo.com To: Warmncuddlie1
    Date: Mon, Sep 6, 2010 11:05 pm

    I miss you, my darling, as I always do. I can almost feel you beside me as I write this letter, and I can smell the scent of wildflowers that always reminds me of you.

    Last night, in my dreams, I saw you on the pier. The wind was blowing through your hair, and your eyes held the fading sunlight. I was speechless as I watched you leaning against the rail. You are beautiful, I thought as I saw you, a vision that I could never find in anyone else. I slowly began to walk toward you, and when you finally turned to me, I noticed that others had been watching you as well. “Do you know her?” they asked me in jealous whispers, and as you smiled at me I simply answered with the truth, “Better than I know myself.”

    I stop when I reach you and I take you in my arms. I long for this moment more than any other. It is what I live for, and when you return my embrace, I give myself over to this moment, at peace once again. I raise my hand and gently touch your cheek and you tilt your head and close your eyes. My hands are hard and your skin is soft, and I wonder for a moment if you’ll pull back, but of course, you don’t. I know that this is the moment I have been waiting for, and I pray that the moment never ends.

    ok now We all know what he can write :

    Now some information that I found By researching him ….

    Name : ” Lingo ”

    * Jack
    * Adam
    * Darryl
    * Albert
    * Mark
    * Matthew
    * Peterson
    * James
    * Atama
    * Derek

    Sites he is on :

    * Mignete – Atama
    * Migente – James09
    * Black Planet – Ak_johnny1961

    Astro. signs :

    * Scorpio
    * Leo
    * Gemini

    ages he uses :

    * 44 yrs
    * 48 yrs
    * 47 yrs

    States he uses :

    * New York
    * Commerece City , Co
    * Ketchikan , Ak
    * Flordia – Green Cove Springs

    E-mails :

    * Dereklingo@yahoo.com
    * JamesPeterson@yahoo.com

    States his real name is :

    * James Lingo
    * Peterson Lingo
    * James Peterson

    I have photos to share but dont kow where to sent them .. if any one knows Please let me know …
    Thank you ..this is my partical update on My scammer useing ” Lingo “

    • I HAVE MUCH MORE UP DATES ON ” LINGO ” I SEEM TO KEEP FINDING MORE SITES OF HIS ..KINDA LIKE PLAYING SCRABBLE ..AND I HAVE LISTED INFORMATION ON MY MIGENTE PAGE IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO TAKE A LOOK PAGE .. JUST GO TO GOOGLE TYPE IN ” DIAMOND XPRESSIONS ” MY PAGES WILL PULL UP THERE LOOK FOR MIGENTE AND CLICK ON IT – FULL BLOWN PAGE ON THE SCAMMING , STOLEN PICS / IDENITY ETC .
      AFTER COMING TO THIS SITE I HAVE FOUND I HAVE BEEN CHATTING WITH X4 MORE SCAMMERS ON HERE WHICH I WILL UP LOAD ON MY PAGE LATER ON .
      I HAV HAD WOMEN HIT ME UP ON MY PAGE TELLING ME THE 2 WERE SCAMMED ..
      I KNOW MY SCAMMER KNOWS I FOUND HIM OUT ( HIS PAGES ) I LEFT GUEST COMMENTS FOR THE WOMEN TO BEWARE – SO TODAY I JUST HAPPEN TO GET A VISIT ON MY PAGE – Geeee, FROM A ” LINGO ” BUT DIFFERENT NAME AGAIN
      I HAVE MADE IT SO HARD FOR HIM GOING TO ALL HIS PAGES AND POSTING … AND MY MAIN PAGE FULL BLOWN ..THAT HE HAS NO CHOICE NOT TO PLACE PHOTO ON HIS NEW PAGES ..NOW HES SAYING IF YOU’D LIKE TO VEIW A PIC E-MAIL ME ….. LOL
      I GOT HIS LITTLE SCAMMIN BOOTIE

      LIKE HE SAID TO ME :
      I LOVE YOU TIL THE END OF TIME

      YES , MY SWEET -
      TIL THE END OF TIME

    • I had these same letters from a Sgt. Major Mike Gales ~ ladies. This man seems to be very busy….

    • Hi Laurie, i was reading your postings ie the emails.

      I have the same email on my file, word for word but from Colonel David Ben James Garber.

      ThinkWiser

  346. Can somebody please tell me where to find the rest of the pictures that CJ posts on here? I have looked all over and cannot seem to find them…Guess I am really computer illiterate…lol…thanks for your help!

    • Debbie,
      is your CJ, CJ Perez or Freddie CJ Perez?

      • marilu, CJ is Master Sgt CJ Grisham, he started this site. He is able to post pictures of soldiers that are used in these scams but I cannot seem to find it.

  347. I have been contacted by sgt. james_robert@yahoo.com

    Inconsistencies and bad grammar and just the gut feeling he is Nigerian made me suspicious. He is claiming the same things as above. Just said he can’t wait to hear my voice and has given me an email address to email right away so they can tell ME what do to….I have many ppl in the military that I know, and this is a definite SCAM!!! Shame on these bastards! He sent me 3 pix of this supposed man…I will let you know what he replies. I sent him an email telling him I know he is a scammer….. Thanks for this site!

  348. First of all; how can you women even fall for such things. Giving your money to a complete stranger is ridiculous; even if you have been talking for months or years!! I don’t know who is dumber…the assholes who have stolen my fellow soldiers identity…or the women who are so desperate for love that they lose all sense of common sense!

    Dont be pissed and feel sorry for the “poor innocent men”…everyone knows if you put your picture out there on the internet anyone can use it…to destroy lives!! Let it all go; and count it as LESSON LEARNED!

    By the way…a SGM wouldn’t sign a letter that said SGT Major…..*shaking head*

    • SFC E ~ I believe CJ needs to check you out ~ for the last line you have written sounds so much like the scammer & fraud artist ~ Sgt Major, Mike Gales! Or perhaps you are a person with another allas ~ a bum who believes they are socially superior.

      Emotional suffering is such a personal thing ~ so butt out of the space of those grieving ~ for these ladies feelings of loss over “relational & finacial pain” are legitimate.

      Most are overwhelmed because of these circumstances ~ a kind word can be a simple deed which quietly affirms that being “made a fool of” does not mean your worthless.

      The need for encouragement and hope is universal ~ especially after being discouraged due to an emotional crisis ~ for loving another demands the giving of one’s soul only known to the heart.

      Ladies never bend your head as you go through these exceedingly difficult times. Please ~ hold your heads high. Delete the scammer and go forward by looking the world in the eye.

      May God bless you all with restored emotional health and may He daily fill your hearts with the joy of His peace and presence.

      Blessings ~ DJ

      • WOW DJ…thank you ever so much for your kind words!!! I was scammed and I do hold my head up, as high as I possibly can, because I know that I am not worthless, I’m not dumb and I am not desperate for love. It just happened. I was a victim of the worst kind of heartbreak that there ever was. I am making it through just as the rest of the men and women are doing…one day at a time!!!

        • I wish, dear friends, that I could relieve your suffering, but I know that is impossible. All I can do is walk alongside with those in distress, as our Lord walked with His disciples on the road to Emmaus.

          Surely the most tragic of all finacial ~ or relational bereavements ~ is having to contend afterwards with the feelings of guilt and grief ~ for being unable to see through the scammers intent.

          My heart is filled with sympathy for the shock and tragedy you are suffering. It’s so costly a sacrifice to be laid upon the altar . . . to receive emotional freedom.

          Dear friends, one of the most selfless gifts we can give another person who has hurt us ~ is forgiveness! May God bless your efforts!

          Focus on the Beauty of Nature ~ not on the inner anger ~ for the latter “WILL” rob you of a joy-filled victory and mental freedom.

          Yours very sincerely and respectfully,

          Dorothy J

      • Thanks DJ for all your kind words. It does help. I emailed CJ to give you my email. I would like to communicate with you. I have gained a new friend. Thanks again, Judith

        • Dear Judith ~ change is traumatic for most people. But all changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter into another.

          Judith dear, we can all help newcomers on this site adjust to their pain in these unfamiliar surroundings ~ by quickly and easily ~ giving them a warm welcome ~ and to offer or listen to their tales of frustration and loneliness. To help ease their trauma and their struggles as they too adjust.

          What better way to honour a new friend than by showing all the tender mercies that have been shown to us.

          I believe the best things we can do is to listen, encourage, and be patient. Just look at the opportunity God has given us to get to know one another and Debbie, too . . . we shall be friends for life….

          Lord Jesus, in every lonely face on this site, let us all see the marks of Your humanity.

          Amem. And Amen for CJ also….

        • I’d been looking forward to cin-chatting with you about Mike Gales ~ still no word from you as yet?

          Blessings ~ Dorothy J

        • To Dorothy J, I’m getting better. I still get tears in my eyes for falling like I did. Time heals, time goes on. I thank my Lord for watching over me. I would like to talk about “Mike Gales”, too. I will look back at the site for your comments. Thanks again for all of your thoughtfullness and help. I needed to talk, and you came to my aid. Thank you, God bless, Judith

  349. HI TO EVERYONE,

    HERE ARE SOME HINTS AND TIPS WHEN LOOKING TO SEE IF YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHERIS A SCAMMER OR NOT:

    1. DONT DATE A SOLDIER THAT IS FROM SINLGESNET.COM OUT OF 95% OF THE TIME FROM THAT SITE. THE SOLDIER IS FAKE.

    2. GO TO ARMY MILE.COM AND DO A BROWSE THRU THEM.

    3. DO A GOOGLE SEARCH, WHITE PAGES SEARCH TO FIND YOUR PERSON OF INTEREST.

    4. ALL ARMY PERSONEL HAS AN APO ADDRESS OF WHERE THEY HAVE BEEN STATIONED. NOT A YAHOO ACCOUNT, THIS USUALLY WILL TELL U THEY ARE FAKE,CAUSE THEY DONT WANT TO BE FOUND.

    5.IF THEY STARTI ASKING FOR STUFF, MOST DEFINETLY BREAK IT OFF WITH THEM. ESP WHEN THEY ASK YOU TO PURCHASE A MILITARY PHONE SYSTEM THAT WE ARENT EVEN SUPPOSED TO HAVE AND PROBABLY WOULDNT WORK ANYWAY.

    6. ALSO CHECK OUT OTHER SITES FOR SCAMMERS LIKE EMAIL BUSTERS.COM GIVES GREAT INFO, AND GHANA DATING SITE FOR SCAMMERS THEY GIVE LIST OF NAMES AND OTHER PROBELMS PEOPLE BEEN HAVING.

    7. FOR FOREIGN SEARCHES, CONTACT THE CONSOLATE AND FIND OUT WHAT ARE THE CORRECT RANKS THEY HAVE. NOT EVERYONE HAS THE RANKS THAT WE DO IN OUR MILITARY.

    8. FOR THE ONES THAT HAVE LOST A LOT WHEN DEALING WITH THESE JERKS. I AM VERY SORRY. I GOT HIT HARD, BUT A LESSON WELL LEARNED.
    EDUCATION IS THE POWER AND KEY FOR INTERNET SURVIVAL. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND I HOPE THIS INFORMATION HELPS!!!!!

    MY NEW EMAIL ADDRESS IS

    OBIONE643685@YMAIL.COM

  350. Hello everyone!

    Thank you so much Deb for your reply, and I need to know as well where I could be sending new pictures of Alfred Haggard and some other details. At this moment I don’t have any news from scammer, think he’s got caught in my demand….lol!

    Here are some informations that might be helpul:

    Email:
    alf_hagg@yahoo.com
    hansalf212@homtail.com
    kindhearted.haggard1965@yahoo.com
    IK_davis65@live.com
    thomastin@live.com

    User names:
    John Haggard, Alfred Haggard, Bill Haggard, Micheal Haggard, Robert Haggard, Jack or Jake Brown, Issak Davies Haggard

    Diplomat: Larry Shane
    IP ID: 74.125.82.173 Mountain View CA
    Ghana: 41.190.88.249

    IP ID:
    alf_hagg@yahoo.com: 98.136.183.40 = Sunnyvale CA US
    Ghana: 41.190.90.50 = Zain Communications Ltd
    hansalf212@homtail.com: 65.54.188.94
    Redmond WA US
    Ghana: to come

    Website:
    Facebook: Haggard Millar – Thomas Tin

    Using sites:
    Match.com, Oasis Dating,
    Black planet **7 differents emails**
    Latinopeoplemeet.com

    Countries: UK-USA-CDN-Australia-Germany

    • Add Haggard Millar to your list

    • Haggard William Moore is another name he’s using. Just found out today.

  351. franksmith.01@hotmail.co.uk
    Have found this mans pic on fb get the scammers/assholes out…..

    And finally a letter I got:

    From Martin Mear martin_mear@hotmail.com

    Hello, how are you doing this Afternoon ? Am at home nice to have conversation with you on Meetic. I cant wait to know more better. Is everything OK with you and your relations…………?

    It was really nice talking to you yesterday and I did enjoyed our conversation, even though we didn’t spend much time. How are you doing this morning? I hope all is well and that you have your plans already for today. Just waked up and thought I will make it up to you as I promised yesterday. How do you a great day? It was very nice To Have your Messenger email address thank you very much as we have many things to talk about, Well I want to use this opportunity and telling you much more about me, since we didn’t had the full time to express all that.
    Well this is really what I can say or tell you about me, I was born in Russia, to a Russian-American father and a Danish mother. I was raised mostly by my widowed father, who retired from the United States Navy as a Chief Petty Officer. I live all my educational life in Moscow, but thought it will be a great expectation for me to learn and improve much better on my English, and as you can read from my lines am doing quite good. I got the chance to study in Manchester and now l live in Aberdeen that how I stayed here for so long and never returned to Moscow.

    I am self employed, working with a Car Auction Sale Company as a Dealership and also attends to any business on contract basis. Its takes me around the globe and have been to so many places of the world, USA, Japan, China and some parts of Europe. I am glad to have explore all this countries which indeed has been an educational trip on my life. I love and cherish nature so much, for it is all I have as a family and the reasons for living at this point in life.

    Yes life was never certain as you can imagine, people always describes me as very caring, honest, loving, enthusiastic, hardworking and very supportive being. What you see is what you derive from me…I’m ready to build a relationship with someone special who ever that happens to be with the qualities that talks about genuine woman in relationship, such as faithfulness, loyalty, trustworthy, honesty, respect and love. Having those qualities in a relationship can really help a lot. Because being through in my life, I have learn a lot from my past. I am not looking to fill a void in my life.

    I like order in my life, but not to the point of being obsessive about it. I enjoy exercising to stay healthy. Likes to laugh and have fun – I have a dry wit, but I do have a serious side, and I try to balance the two. Some of my hobbies include cooking, gardening, reading and fishing. Also, swimming and playing golf in the summertime. I enjoy watching football and golf, I enjoy attending sporting events, going to the theater and eating out. I love traveling, new and unknown in nature, life and people.

    I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered. I love to go for long walks during a beautiful summer sunset with my dog Danny along the wonderful walking trails by my home. I love to cook and a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine and great music with my partner. My life long passion is genealogy and have been discovering my family roots for the past 25 years. Love old movies, scrabble and nature.

    My philosophy of life is to always try and find the good in people and be open minded. I am passionate, intelligent, fun loving man with a touch of class and a young point of view. Have learned to take life as it comes, know who I am and where I am going. I love to have adventures, large or small, and am looking for someone to share them with.

    I had wanted to tell you more about me but I think its not going to be only a day that we can get to know more about each other. I prefer we take the steps slowly in getting to know more about each other which will in someday sound right.I know you are also not in a hurry to hear all about me as I am not too. I’m sorry but I will love to leave you now, I hope we can have the time to talk more later this evening after your days work. Take care, hope to hear you soon.

    Martin xx

    Are these guys for real?

    Thanks

  352. Also wonder…can Alex Swain be the same guy as Darryl Lopez and as Nana Kofi kofi

    This guys profile came up when I connected Alex swains e-mail on my msn with facebook. When he knew about it. The profile disappeared.

    facebook
    Nana har skickat ett meddelande till dig.

    Nana Kofi KofiSeptember 25, 2010 at 12:54am
    Svara: Hi there
    nice to see me sorry have we meet before ..i don;t know you .

    Klicka på länken nedan om du vill svara på meddelandet:
    http://www.facebook.com/n/?inbox%2Freadmessage.php&t=10150279215470158&mid=306b8baG215bc579G5cd4828G0&n_m=cecilnor%40hotmail.com

    Wonder also about Williams SAcott McKnney on match.com as hope_baby99_999
    Says he is a general in Baghdad and comes from New York. Age 51
    williams2221@live.com

    Is he for real.have his pic also

    Thanks

  353. hey ladies, they are changing their profession…i have been chatting with a Michael Smith…below is our chat from tonight…he just doesn’t give up…lol

    kind of long, but worth the read…such an asshole!

    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:21:20 PM): Hello My Dearest Debbie
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:21:25 PM): Welcome home
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:22:33 PM): are you there with me ?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:18:39 PM):
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:03 PM): Hello my Dearest Debbie
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:09 PM): Are you there with me ?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:12 PM): I’m here now
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:31 PM): I do really miss you soooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and I have been thinking about you while coming down here
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:31 PM):
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:43 PM): I’m here waiting for you and thinking about you
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:19:50 PM): Hope to talk with you soon
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:38:48 PM):
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 4:39:00 PM): We really need to talk
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:24:37 PM): am here
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:24:45 PM): computer problems it seems
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:24:53 PM): where have you been?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:25:36 PM): I try to get online yesterday after I return back from the Bank but unfortunately I could not get online
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:25:38 PM): Sorry
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:25:48 PM): ok, are you all right?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:25:53 PM): How are you doing and how is the weather like today there ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:26:06 PM): not too good, weather is great
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:26:10 PM): I’m all right but not happy here
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:26:17 PM): why
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:27:06 PM): I worked today…as usual
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:31:08 PM): I went to the Bank yesterday afternoon together with the driver so that I could cash out some money from my travelors check but unfortunately they could not help me out to do so because they said the bank that issue my travelors check does not have a coresponding Bank here in Ghana so they cannot do anything about it for me now but after two weeks before they will try their best and work on it for me and I also need some clothes and other logistics stuffs that I need here very urgent to use and I have not come down with any clothes because I was hoping to buy them here but because of what happen yesterday I could not do anything here and I have been thinking all day and night and I don’t know how I’m going to survive till that two weeks before the Bank can work on it for me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:32:11 PM): so what are you going to do?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:34:16 PM): Today I have been indoors here and I just don’t know what to do now because this has never happen to me before ever since I have been traveling and I just don’t know how I’m going to survive to wait for this two weeks before the Bank can help me out and rightnow I have been in the same suit I was in since I arrive here and I need to get myself some few clothes and other logistics stuffs that I need here very urgnet
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:34:23 PM): urgent
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:34:48 PM): I’m soo confused now and I don’t know what else to think anymore to be honest with you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:35:23 PM): i cant believe that you didnt take anything with you…not even 1 change of clothes…Michael!!!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:35:58 PM): And I don’t understand the bank…travelers checks are just like cash, all you have to do is show ID to cash them
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:36:01 PM): That was why the driver could not drive me to Obuasi in the Ashanti Region where I was to meet up with sellers and the kings men there for our meetings today
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:36:08 PM): I think the bank is giving you a load of crap’
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:36:31 PM): Yes I’m totally confused here to be honest with you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:36:43 PM): well i would go to another bank then
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:36:52 PM): they have to cash them…they are $
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:37:22 PM): They are in Euro
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:37:33 PM): it is still cash!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:37:43 PM): there is no excuse for them not to cash them
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:38:11 PM): we have people that come from Europe to vacation here and we cash their travelers checks
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:38:12 PM): Yes I know but what they are asking me now is to wait till two weeks after before they would try their best for me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:38:24 PM): why 2 weeks?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:38:34 PM): Yes I know that very well my love
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:38:39 PM): That is what they said
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:38:58 PM): can you borrow some clothes from your driver?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:39:18 PM): cant your driver help as far as cashing one or two of them?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:39:46 PM): Wish I had a return ticket so that I can fly into London tomorrow and get them cash there
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:39:51 PM): There’s nothing he can do
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:40:00 PM): why don’t you have a return ticket?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:40:14 PM): How can I ask a driver that I meet just only Sunday night here when I arrive to give me his used clothes huh ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:40:34 PM): well he does know the situation you are in doesn’t he?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:41:02 PM): I did not book for a return ticket because I want to get everything work well before leaving back home
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:41:30 PM): Yes he do but how do you think he will classify me as ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:41:34 PM): can you get a message to the sellers concerning what happened?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:41:50 PM): You want me to disgrace myself to a common driver here ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:42:12 PM): that’s not disgracing you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:42:23 PM): the bank supposedly won’t cash the checks
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:42:26 PM): Yes I did get a message over to them today and there’s nothing they can about this
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:42:55 PM): Dearest I want you to do me a favor ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:43:01 PM): what
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:45:42 PM): Just want you to do me a favor by getting me some four polos top,three jeans,box of boxers and cookies over to me here so that as soon as they get the check cash for me after two weeks they assure me of,I will send over back everything you sent me here………I feel so shy asking you this favor but I don’t have any other choice than to ask you because it’s good to disgrace myself here to these black people and I hope you do understand me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:46:17 PM): yes i do understand
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:46:21 PM): now understand me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:46:34 PM): i do not have the money to go buy these things and ship them to you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:46:55 PM): i live paycheck to paycheck and I do not have extra for myself much less anyone else
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:47:52 PM): i am not sending you shirts, pants, money…nothing! I told you that from the very beginning
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:09 PM): and i cannot even believe you are asking me!!!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:16 PM): that hurts me so much Michael
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:29 PM): we have not even met…video chat nothing!
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:48:38 PM): I do understand you but I want you to find a deep place in your heart and do your best for me by getting me these stuffs over here…………….Remember that I’m not asking you to do this for me free but borrow me try to understand me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:53 PM): the answer is no
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:48:55 PM): final!!!!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:08 PM): been there done that, not doing it again!!!!
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:49:11 PM): Hey you stay calm and listen to yourself very well
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:18 PM): I am listening
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:19 PM): to you!
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:35 PM): and you are doing everything that the scammer did to me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:40 PM): promise me the world
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:52 PM): asked to borrow $ and gonna pay me back when he gets home
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:49:58 PM): only he never comes home
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:50:03 PM): and neither will you!
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:50:04 PM): Hey you stop comparing me to that guy or whatever he is ok
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:50:27 PM): Listen to me and stop shouting
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:50:28 PM): only comparing because it seems to be happening again
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:50:33 PM): fine talk
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:51:28 PM): I know you can do this for me but you are just trying to find this difficults to understand here
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:51:44 PM): Relax and read above again very well
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:51:51 PM): brb
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:51:57 PM): what part do you want me to read again?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:54:48 PM): Back
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:54:53 PM): Dearest I
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:56:17 PM): brb
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:56:18 PM): Dearest I did not come into your life to hurt your feelings for me I want you to know that very well and listen very well to your heart and I want you to find a place in your kind heart and do your best about this and get me these stuffs………….everyone is turning their back on me not even you my love please stay calm and think about it
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 6:56:23 PM): ok
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 6:59:50 PM): fine, what sizes do you need and where am I shipping them to?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:00:00 PM): this is the only time I am going to do this
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:00:29 PM): Can you first get them so that I will ask the driver the address that You can ship them through
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:00:37 PM): Go to macys.com
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:01:02 PM): fine what sizes
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:03 PM): So that I will show you the clothes there
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:05 PM): macys.com
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:40 PM): Are you at the site too ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:01:50 PM): no
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:52 PM): Dearest please don’t be upset about me on this ok
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:01:55 PM): why ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:02:18 PM): cause i am doing 10 different things at oncre
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:02:20 PM): once
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:02:40 PM): what are the things ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:02:57 PM): i do not have the money for macys
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:03:16 PM): i was just gonna go down to the local store and get what you need and ship them
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:03:29 PM): Okay
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:03:37 PM): what sizes..
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:03:54 PM): I need four polos
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:04:21 PM): what size
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:04:29 PM): L
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:04:34 PM): k
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:07 PM): what else
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:21 PM): what kind of candy
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:26 PM): what size boxers
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:05:28 PM): The colors should be green,blue and lakeside blue
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:32 PM): and what size jeans
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:05:37 PM): ok
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:05:58 PM): The jeans size should be 32
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:06:02 PM): if i cant find those colors would any color do
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:06:13 PM): k
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:06:14 PM): Yes
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:06:33 PM): boxers?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:06:58 PM): Tommy hilfiger boxers
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:07:17 PM): fruit of the loom?
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:07:43 PM): Yes that one too would work but try and look for Tommy too please
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:07:50 PM): ok
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:07:53 PM): size????
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:08:18 PM): please hold on
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:09:06 PM): honey i need to go to bed, i do not feel well…leave me an off line of the rest
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:09:11 PM): nite
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:09:19 PM): wait
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:09:25 PM): k
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:09:59 PM): Do you want me to email the list to you so that you will not make any mistakes when buying them for me ok ?
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:10:16 PM): yes pls]
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:10:30 PM): Okay I will do that now for you
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:10:57 PM): Don’t be upset about me also I will need one timberland boot that I will use at the minning site
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:11:04 PM): o k
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:11:14 PM): just give me the sizes and details and i will get themn’
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:11:44 PM): When are you going to get them for me because I need them urgent here try to understand me
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:12:02 PM): tomorrrow i will pick them up
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:12:08 PM): Okay thanks
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:12:25 PM): ok
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:12:28 PM): bye for now
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:12:35 PM): Sorry for asking this favor
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:12:40 PM): Love you Debbie
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:13:00 PM): Good night with sweet dreams about us
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:13:04 PM): bye
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:13:06 PM): Hugs and Kisses
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:13:24 PM): tears flowing through my eyes now
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:13:36 PM): sorry…nite
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:13:41 PM): gotta get to bed
    Michael Smith (10/5/2010 7:14:17 PM): You are always in my heart and thoughts here and I can’t stop thinking about you and loving you
    deborahlynn1024 (10/5/2010 7:14:37 PM): nite now

    DAMN what an ass!!!! was gonna tell him that I was going to go down to the Salvation Army for his clothes..hahahaha Macy’s
    PULEASE!! I don’t even shop at Macy’s for me!!
    Now I just need to know what to do with the address when he gives it to me…CRAP any suggestions?

    • Debbie, I used to get letters from a neighbor’s brother who was in prison and they sounded word for word just like yours. It’s as if con men have a school they go to and learn this form letter. If you have any info on him like former city, dob,etc. it is worth it to do a background check on him and cheaper than all the stuff he wants you to buy. I spent less on a background check than the cost of Timberland boots!
      Personally I wouldn’t bother doing anything because I am so cynical now but I know how you feel when you care a lot for someone and something in the back of your mind tells you it is not right. This is woman’s intuition which we should all pay attention to. It takes a while to get over a trauma to our psyche like this but after a while you become calmer and know you did the right thing by running for the hills.
      REAL MEN don’t do things like this to women.
      As you might read below, I actually have two scammers contacting me this week at the same time. I am beginning to be amused but I would like to knock their heads together.

      • MaryLou, I need to let you know something…I was already scammed earlier this year…this bozo actually thinks he has me hooked…NOT!!!! I only said I was gonna tell him about the Salvation Army, when in reality that and the GoodWill are even too good for him!!! Would really get these things out of someone’s trash bin! So no, I did not and have no intentions of purchasing any of these items for him. I chatted with him last night and gave him a ficticious (sp)FedEx number and told him I sent it on the 3 day one, he is supposedly trying to track the numer..hehehe. I am staying off all the other sites until Monday night, when I will get back on and tell the BASTARD just what transpired. He is going to be so pissed off and I am going to love it!!! Will tell him just what I think of him before he even has a chance to comment, then I am going to delete him from everthing…leave him hanging like they did to us. To date that will be the 2nd scammer that I have $%^%$# up their scam…and I have 2 more “waiting in the wings”…I have no desire to “look” for this scumbag…not worth my time, but am having a simply wonderful time SCAMMING THEM!! The only information he has on me is an address and a phone number that belong to other people, and both of those are in 2 different states. So I will have the last laugh on this jerk Monday night!!!! Look out scammers, we are not as dumb as you think we are!!!!! I would do a military shout, but donb’t know how…lol Can you help me out CJ?!?!?!

    • Debbie wow what an jerk. Do they all have some of the same lines? Try your best and always wanting you to understand. Also the tears flowing through my eyes. Also the fact that he is picking out the clothes online and wants Tommy’s. Lakeside blue oh my. He almost sounds like a scammer who I lost money to the first time I had dealings with a scammer. He was then going by the name Richard Winston that was over a year and a half ago. He just recently contacted me again. Said he was sorry and wanted me to get a passport so then he would work on paying for my plane fare to visit him in Ghana. Hahaha yeah right.Made no sense to me if he could come up with plane fare for me then he could fly his butt back to the states. Must have a new scam going trying to steal identities. Do they ever give up?? Once burned I don’t think I will go that way again. Also find it interesting that they always have a driver who is somehow involved. If they have a driver how in the heck do they pay them if they have no money?? If you let it go on longer before blowing him off I’m sure that he will want the package mailed with the drivers name and not their own. Wonder why?? Probably because they have no ID with that name. Also if you send anything by mail it costs a lot of money and then they have to pay money to pick it up. I have a person who I work with that is from Ghana and he explained a lot of things to me. He said it is very expensive to get a package from the states. There is a site called Ghana Pedi that sometimes will try an investigate a scammer from Ghana. All so far are women scammers (that have turned out to be men) but anyways they recommend not to tell the scammer that you have posted them on a site. That way they will change name and phone number and it makes it harder to go after then. Still trying to find a way to go after these scum. Let’s not give them any advantages. If I ever do get connected with anyone that is interested in Ghana going after these people will post it.

      • Hey Patricia…I have been in contact with 2 “scammers” that said they would go after my original scammer and get my money back, but I would have to pay…one of them had a friend in the police dept, female…called me and said that they had found him, but he denied every getting anything from me. I told them that he was the one that I had tried to block and he did not get anything from me. Told them that he was telling the truth…said that I had to pay for them to do the extra work. Told them first of all, no way in hell i was going to pay the police to do their job and second, after being scammed I was not going to let go of any of my money to anyone. They said if that was the case then either I was lying and it did not happen or that I really didn’t want him found and my money back…Sheesh!!! oh well…Assholes all of them!!

        • Debbie I think your right about all being assholes. In Ghana the police officers only make $10 a day. I wouldn’t trust scammers on trying to help out for anything. Who knows if the police that contacted you was a real police officer or another scammer.It is really sad since the police do not make much money and being a third world country that there isn’t the manpower or techniques that we have for getting a scammer. Very few of scammers get arrested. I did read an article that they found a scammer and was going to arrest him but found out that he was gay and dropped the other charges and arrested him for being gay. It is illegal to be gay in Ghana and you can go to jail for that. Go figure that one out. I guess it isn’t a priority for them since the scammers are scamming people from other countries and using stolen credit cards and checks from other countries so it doesn’t really effect them except for getting a bad reputation. The majority of the people there are very kind and friendly people. As for money that I lost it would be nice to get back but what I would really like is for them to be stopped so that another person doesn’t get hurt. Please take good care and please delete the scammers.

  354. I met a guy on plenty of fish the other day that I am sure is a scammer because he is using the REAL Sgt. Carl Zendrosky’s pics and I asked him if he has any tatoos ?s/p and he said no but there is a pic in a NJ newspaper of the real Zendrosky (because he is a National Guard recruiter) and both of his arms are tatooed. Zendrosky’s pics are used a lot by these scammers. I saw several Facebook Profiles with his pic.
    However the guy that I am in contact with also sent me a pic that I haven’t seen on any of these scammer info sites. Where can I send it so you all can compare it with your photos? Also my scammer writes in perfect English and even uses American slang correctly. I hope he’s not a real soldier gone bad and using Sgt. Zendrosky’s pics. BTW his email is “coddystone@yahoo.com” and on plenty of fish he also used the ID “scnproski”.
    I haven’t told him yet that I’m on to him because he hasn’t asked for money yet, it’s only been 2 days and I have plenty of time to give him a lot of rope to hang himself.
    Also, “Robert Cook” on Facebook sent me a friend request and at first I had no idea why but today I accepted and found that in his pic the name on his uniform is “FROST”!!! LIAR,LIAR scammer’s pants on fire.
    Please let me know where I can send scnproski/Zendrosky/coddy stone ‘s pic for comparison. It is not on TinEye yet.

  355. I think I know of one of the scammers using Bill Haggard. For some unknown reason he connected with me as a friend of Bill’s on facebook and lives in Accra Ghana. He was supposely helping Bill when he was in Ghana. On his facebook page is alot of information about him what college he goes to etc. He is studying computer science of all things. Maybe to get better at scamming. Claims to be a christian and has links to Christian pastors. Sometimes posts Bible verses. I have saved alot of things. He (Bill) has tried counterfiet bank orders and checks for legitmet companies. Also sends gifts and has fraudlent credit cards. The bank kept one of the fradulent checks and said their security would take care of it. Didn’t want any other information. The checks were sent from Canada so I think this is a ring of scammers. He is trying to get a visa to the states next year which I would support an invitation so once if he ever made it to the states they could nail his ass. My question is why nobody in the states gives a rip about this?? Please if anybody knows who would be interested in going after this person let me know. Also I have a person who has a boyfried who lives in Ghana and is a friend of this person. I have sent her mail in New York and have talked to her on the phone. None of them know that I am on to them. Bill by the way was suppose to fly here but never made it. The friend from facebook paid his fare and he is supposely missing now for a month but the friend in Ghana still talks to me via facebook. Again please let me know if somebody would truly be interested in nailing this guy. Thanks!!

  356. OMG..this is just plain crazy!! I was on plenty of fish.com and I started the conversation with a guy telling me his name is Sgt. Michael Thompson..Does anyone know this name?? He sounds like the rest of these A-holes!! He has a son James, but lives with the mother in Mississippi. They are divorced, and he tells me he is in Kabul, Afghanistan which I believe is actually in Iraq! We started talking about this phone and it just seemed VERY FISHY to me that I needed to pay for it!! Hello Stg.’s make bank and their money is just making more money while they are over seas!! I called my dad, cause after I told him no..that he needed to get leave and come home to see me he then started in with how he could pay his way back to afghanistan but not sure about how to get back here to the states! I told him I wasn’t giving any money to anyone and then he told me true love doesn’t doubt..I almost fell out of my chair!! SO back to calling my dad..he even said thats BS that if they are granted leave they have the money to pay! Plus this whole stupid phone thing..I talk to my cousin once a month in Afghanistan and he even said to RUN not WALK in the other direction!! I just feel totally stupid for putting up on my FB page that I was in a relationship..so now LOL to save face its staying there for a while and then I’ll have a mysterious break up..UGH what a freaking mess!!

    • No Kabul Afganistan and Iraq are 2 different provices.

  357. I too was contacted by a scammer claiming to be Jeff Wilganoski. Said all of the right things, pictures, the works. I kept feeling like it was too good to be true, but for the most part everything I could “check” on was coming up as real…because it was. The suspects took over the identity of the real Jeff – even copied his pictures from his myspace page. I didn’t send money, nor goods. But was asked to send $49,000 to a diplomat.com along with a lot of personal information on myself and my family – which I did NOT do. The only thing this cost me was a lot of time, and a broken heart.

    • Omg I think Im talking to this man now …does he claim to have a 10yr old son and is widdowed?…(im feeling sick right now)..he told me he was coming to Australia to see me but needed $2500 that i told him i dont have as im a single mother so he said he was going to get the funds from friends..we were talking in MSN and he wanted me to do Yahoo so i changed ..he has pics of me and my family and my full name and address ..im so blonde when it comes to scamers it was just today by chance my friend was telling me about her been scamed and to look up sites and check if i am about to get scamed..im so upset when i saw his name in black and white on here even checked out his band warfare links and twitter…

    • I guess I got lucky with Jeff. Well in the fact that he only wanted me to pay $250 for being able to talk to him through satellite phone. We would chat on yahoo and every thing seemed fine until during one chat I mentioned something important from a previous conversation (we’d had a fight) and he didn’t know what I was talking about. I had called him a scammer since I was already onto his scheme and he didn’t remember that we were fighting. I kept chatting with him to see if he would slip up and he did. I already knew what to look for. A few days later another ‘Jeff Wilganoski’ asked me to yahoo chat with him. I told them BOTH to get lost, but not so nicely.

      As for Jeff’s MySpace page, the original with all of the pictures has been taken down. There is a new one there with only one picture. I was going to communicate with his sister and let her know that his identity has been stolen but none of the original friends are there now.

      I hope for their sake that they have been able to find out who has done this to him.

      Kimberly, I’m truly sorry that this happened to you. Jeff unfortunately for me wasn’t my first scammer so I knew not to get too invested in him emotionally.

  358. Ladies,
    There is a site called Ghana Pedi. It is all about Ghana. They have a space about scammers. They recommend not to tell the scammer that you have posted them on a site. Because they then will change name and phone number and it makes it more difficult if the police officals do try and go after them there. I know for myself that I was so angry and wanted to let the jerk know that he is exposed but also want to have him caught. So I’m not giving any info out to anyone that I think he is a scammer. I just collect info and save it for down the road just in case someone is interested in nailing this person or to help out another person with the info so they won’t get scammed.

  359. Anyone had something to do with a Stanley Wolf – warrant officer 1, about 50 years old in Iraq – Camp Victory? I think I’m getting set up -

    • Hello Elizabeth! I’m Portuguese and i just found this site and i think that the Stanley Wolf from Camp victory that you are talking about is the same that scammed me but he called himself stanley smith. I’m not sure, but if you want to know more about him, you can mail me. thank you

      • FROM WHERE WE CAN SEE MILITARY EMAILS ? THANKS

    • hi Elizabaeth,ive just come onto this site & seen who you were enquiring about..do you have a pic of him & are you still in contact with him,ive just been chatting to him i think look forward to hearing from you

  360. I have just had a big encounter with your James Rudduck, seen on this site. He was known to me as George Rudduck….(babybear180@live.com) This is his email…unbelievable.. had dealings with the diplomat too… Got all the photos. I went along with it for a while… had a laugh on them… got the whole conversation between us… so funny.

  361. One more name for you ladies, Kelvin Grant. After reading all these posts I checked out all the photos on Facebook and came across a picture I was sent from this guy, I have a couple more photos of him that I will contact Tracey with. He hasn’t asked me for anything yet and seems really nice and sincere (of course) a few things just don’t add up though. I was actually checking out someone else, a very serious and good looking Italian. I will forward those to Tracey as well. Thanks everyone for all your hard work here.

    • Hi Gena, he hasn’t asked me for anything yet either,,,I have photos as well…

  362. Hi Everyone. Does anyone know if the scammers are making fake Facebook pages as I think I may have come across one. The name concerned is Robert Jenkins – supposedly a US Colonel on deployment in Afghanistan. Home town – Dallas, Texas. Same e-mail address being used on MSN and Facebook. Would appreciate some feedback and thanks to all concerned.

    • Yes Kathy, they are on FB also using other people’s profiles…

  363. I have tried to put my comments on here but there not coming through. I talked to James Rellinger. It seems his name pops up alot. First talked 2 weeks on mingle2.com . I came on by accident looking for another site i lost my bf whom i met on a dateline almost 7 yrs ago from cancer he was the best the real deal he came from Kentucky to see me. I miss him alot. So i got on this date line he started to talk to me some stories seem part of these stories parts are missing. i started to research came across this site and others it was from my friend from another state told me about scams about soldiers on women mostly on eof her friends she got scammed for thousands 2 figures. So I confronted him he said someone took his picture and profile and some are using his name he reported it to his superior but havent come up with anything so i gave him some information to forward to help.Its ashame and a disgrace that these soldiers are out there dying and fighting for us and the only outside world to talk is internet and people have to do this and make the good ones look bad to others. So he tried to want to get to know me to send cologne, vitamin c,candies. I was suspicious anyway i met alot of liars on the interenet before i met my bf who is gone. He was moving too fast for me and that made me suspect. So I don’t know if he is the real soldier but I told i did some research he said what research about you ! I said I’m not marrying anyone sending anything to no one if you want to talk thats ok but thats it im done. So i didnt think he wanted to talk anymore but he got on this morning and said he passed all the information to his superior first he was upset when i told him but then said he was proud of me for helping him. I also told him I used to work for the State and I used to alot of things but I’m not saying what I did. The sad thing is I heard their taking names off the deceased soldiers that is low of the low it upsets they will pay one day. GOD BLESS THE TROOPS COME HOME SOON. Watch out Ladies hold on to your belongings. Being lonely and desperate will put you at risk think before you think with your heart think with your head, be careful.

  364. I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET MY COMMENT OUT THIS IS 4 TH TIME. I HAVE TALKED TO JAMES RELLINGER 2 WEEKS AGO ON THIS MINGLE2.COM I GOT ON BY ACCIDENT I LOST MY BF ALMOST 7YRS TO CANCER I MET HIM ON LOVE CHATLINE HE WAS GREAT NICE THE REAL DEAL. I STILL MISS HIM SO I DECIDED TO WRITE ON THIS DATELINE TRY TO GO ON. I MET JAMES RELLINGER ON HERE HE MOVED TOO FAST FOR ME I STOPPED DOING ALOT SINCE HE PASSED AWAY. HE WAS NICE CARING TELLING ABOUT HIS WIFE LEFT HIM AND HAS 2 KIDS. HE WAS REAL NICE TO TALK TO THEN HE STARTED SAYING SWEET THINGS IT WAS NICE TO HEAR. BUT WHEN HE STARTED ASKING ABOUT WANTING VITAMIN C , CANDIES, AND ARMANI COLOGNE I STARTED TO GET SUSPICIOUS. I DECIDED TO SEARCH FOR HIS NAME AND POPPED UP WITH ALOT OF LINKS ONE HAD HIS NAME ON IT PICS HE TOLD ME THAT SOMEONE GOT A HOLD OF HIS PIC ON MY SPACE OR FACEBOOK AND IS USING IT THEY MIGHT BE PASSING IT AROUND AND IF THERE IN AFRICA OR WHEREVER SOMEONE IS TRYING TO GET MONEY OR ITEMS FOR NOTHING AND USING SOLDIERS NAMES AND PICS BUT ON THIS SITE IT HAS SOME SOLDIERS USING THE SCAM ON PEOPLE, I HEARD THEY ARE USING DECEASED SOLDIERS NAMES. HOW LOW CAN YOU GO THIS IS SICKENING. SOMETHING HAS TO BE DONE, AFTER I GOT TO READING ALOT OF COMMENTS FROM DIFFERENT SITES HIS NAME POPPED UP ALOT I TOLD HIM AND GAVE THE LINKS HE WASNT NOT HAPPY WHEN I TOLD IM NOT GETTING MARRIED,NOT GOING TO CALIF, NOT SENDING NO PACKAGES IM DONE. HE WAS UPSET I SAID THAT BUT I NEED TO PROTECT MY SELF TOO. SO HE WAS HAPPY I GAVE SOME INFO TO HELP CATCH THE PEOPLE DOING THIS HE SAID IM PROD OF YOU. HE ASKED ARE WE STILL GOING TO CHAT I SIAD ITS UP TO YOU YOU DECIDE. HE GAVE INFORMATION TO HIS SUPERIOR LETS HOPE IT HELPED I TOLD HIM I USED TO WORK FOR THE STATE EXCEPT I DIDNT SAY WHAT I DID!I HELPED IN ALOT OF DEPTS. SO WISH HIM LUCK AND LADIES WATCH YOUR MONEY AND BELONGS. BE CAREFUL. MY EX HUSBAND USED TO BE POLICE OFFICER NOW MY SON IS. SO OUR FAMILY LIKES TO HELP PEOPLE IN TROUBLE. GOD BLESS ALL THE TROOPS HOPE FOR SPEEDY COMING HOME AND END TO THESE WARS THIS COUNTRY NEEDS TO GET BACK OF ITS FEET AND BE STRONG AGAIN.

  365. ok my mom is talking to some guy in kabul by the name of srgt kennedy macmahon milliard any one have any info on this guy please let me know it says there is a posting about him on here but i cant find it

  366. Has anyone heard of the soldier Capt. Thomas Swain Dockery? If anyone has any info on this guy, please let me know. I met him on facebook and he says he is serving in Iraq at Camp Victory.

    • My friend met a man that says his name is Michael Espinosa, but his uni says Dockery.

  367. I got a message through seniorpeoplemeet.com today. The guy claimed to be using his friend’s account and saw my picture and wanted to correspond. He goes by Randy D Collins out of Iraq planning to retire in November. Has a 7 yr old girl staying in Africa. Now come on! Gees…. Says he was adopted very young into the US from Brazil. Yet his english is very broken. Now what normal American soldier knows ANYONE in Africa to let their child stay there? Good Grief. PFC Randy D Collins died in the US after an attack in Mozul, Iraq in 2005. That’s heinous that they use dead soldiers’ ID’s. The account on SPM was “taxpreparer”. Beware…

  368. Update Ladies, you would not believe it! After waiting at an airport for 5 hours on 10/24/10 for a flight to come in with the soldier that I have been talking to Capt. Thomas Swain Dockery. I get an email from a supposedly friend SSGT James Monroy that Tom was killed on his way to his flight out of Pakistan. I have been scammed out of $4,000 total for a fake flight and a fake soldier that supposedly loved me and could not wait to get home to be with me…….

    • ha tamara i,m now going through the same crap as you did but this guy wants 8,999usd to get here to aussie land & he is not dead yet but if i find him he may well b as i might kill him theses guys should b hung up to a tree by there balls. how do we trust any guy now ok u take care email me if you want at phancock2@hotmail.com i,m a real person who wants revenge on guys like this scammers

      • correction Monroy1271@yahoo.com. Also on flickr, there are pictures of Monroy who was stationed in Guantanamo Bay between 2003-2007. Look up Cesar Monroy ……He told me he was in the Marine Corps But now he is in the Army. He is in Iraq right now. i asked him for an APO address or Fpo he didn’t reply.He changed the subject. He couldn’t even tell me what camp he was in. Little does he know that My son was in the Marine Corps everything is accessible to them.

      • If anyone knows who the solider is on these pictures please let me know. It is a shame that men and women serving our country are being put to shame by these a**holes.I have pics that Ssgt. Roland Monroy has sent to me. If anyone wants to email me please do so gracentx@yahoo.com .

    • Well James Monroy, Tom Monroy , Thomas Monroy, Roland Monroy,Michael Monroy,Scott Monroy ,sgt. Monroy Howard ,Carlos Monroy,Eddy Monroy,Tom David Monroy,Jack Monroy,Jimmy Monroy,Cole Monroy,Zecena Monroy,Cesar Monroy,Alex Monroy ,
      Monroy Michael. Carlomon10 ,Sgt.mooremonroy Cesar Alex Monroy,all these name are being used on Facebook, Netlog and Myspace the same pictures are being used but diffrent first names same last name. What a moron , he tried to scam me Thank god ui didn’t fall for it. I did my research and found all this. Also these email addresses are being used by him.SsgtCarlmon@yahoo.com ,Ssgt.monroy10@yahoo.com Monroy2171@yahoo.com ,Carlmon10@yahoo.com and Ssgt.rolandmonroy@yahoo.com. So ladies be careful.

  369. Hello all. I was given this site by a friend. I was scammed and can’t believe I was, I’m usually the cautious of men type. But this man was ‘good’. I met him on the Interpals website. It never occured to me to be a scam as I have a few really great ‘pals’ on the site. The man I met is Named DRAKE MORGAN. He said he is a Sergeant in the 3rd Infantry, and is in Khanaquin Iraq. There were three picture on the site. One was of ‘Drake’ holding a small child, one was taken by himself sitting in a vehicle (you can see a child behind him and a woman to his left in the back seat) and a third picture is supposed to be him with his right side to the camera and his son standing looking at the camera, and it is supposedly taken in his home.

    This is his intro from Interpals

    About me:
    i’m a medic in the army, which means i’m a soldier first, a medic second. think hard about the contradiction in that for a minute. i like a quiet night at home, and dancing all night at the club. i can make anyone laugh and im a social drinker. i’ll watch football all day on sunday, but sunday night i’ll watch project runway. on the drive to work i’ll listen to T.I. or 2pac, on the drive home i’m listening to Linkin Park or 80′s music. i’m defined by all my lifes events, but i dont use those events as an excuse. i stand up for what i believe in, and have put my life on the line for those beliefs. i’m a loyal friend, i’m the one you call when your car breaks down in seattle at 3AM. but my friendship has a price, 2 strikes and your out. i’m a proud father. i’ve been to the brink of life, and i live every day to the fullest that i can, but still with an eye on the future. i know who i am, and have no problem being me, so what u see is what u get. i know im not perfect, but i try my hardest.im a bit of an idealist, i truly think i can make a difference in the world, thats why i went back to iraq. like the butterfly effect(the theory not the movie) hopefully my actions here will have an effect somewhere down the road. i wanna start a revolution, but only against oil companies and gas stations. i hate MTV, except for ashton kutcher. i like to use the word incredulous, but not sure what it means. i like old school stuff, old school love jams; old school baseball uniforms, old school britney spears. i hate smelly people. i appreciate the simple things in life, family and friends will never be taken granted for again. i’m willing to try anything new, except when it comes to food. i’m a city boy from mn., but i’m happy in fl, as long as i go to mn. often. , being a military or dealing in fire arms doesnt make me agressive, harsh or abussive like most men. am cool, fun to be with and easy goin.i’m gonna live it up, so watch out for me, olympia, san fransisco, hollywood, chicago, L.A…nationwide first, then the world is mine!!

    This is his introduction on interpals. We said hello to me and we started chatting. And stupid me, fell for it. :( He told me that he is able to get online between patrols and when he does the paper work for his commander: commander Winand.

    He told me that he was 37, and his birthday is October 5th, 1972. He said his wife, Christine Morgan was killed approximately 8 months ago now, in a car accident. His son Jason(8yrs) was in the vehicle but not terribly injured. He said his son is staying with his monther Amelia, in Minnesota. That is where he is from. He told me he was born in both…lol Milan Italy and Duluth Minnesota. He said he currently lives in florida, and that is where the accident happened that took his wife. He said that he took alot of psychology in school and that is the field he wants to work in when he ‘gets out’ of the military. He says he wants to ‘retire’ as soon as he gets home. He applied for leave in June but it didnt ‘pan out’. He never asked for money for the leave, but he did ask for money for the phone. 350.00 And yes Im a complete moron, and sent it. It was sent to a DAVID VICTOR, and agent for western union in florida. He later talked about the leave and said that he needed 3500.00 to pay off the leave and all bills etc that he had outstanding in Iraq. He asked if I could help at all and I said no I couldnt. That was the end of it, he didnt ask again. He told me about a week later that his mother had gotten about 2900.00 together and was working on the rest, then suddenly, he was ‘gone’. Suddenly I was online and a friend of his MICHAEL using DRAKEs email was talking to me. He told me that he was sitting by Drakes ‘sick’ bed and that Drake had contracted Malaria. (hhmmmm….) and that Drake ‘loves me so damn much’. ( a favorite quote from them both. So, Drake pulled through…yeah…lol And he was doing great and his mum was still working on the money. Michael asked about my friend that I had mentioned to Drake. I guess ‘they’ had chatted and he started talking to her in emails. ( im so glad we are such good friends, she doesnt hate me…:( but i still feel stupid) and they got along great. I was off work one day and she had called with the most concerned voice ever. I called her back and she said I had to contact Michael right away. So I did, Drake had been in an accident!! He was in hospital right now with brain injuries!! The man with him died at the scene. They were on a ‘bike’ in Nigeria. (sorry I forgot to mention that Drake had gone with a group for security meetings and a tour in Africa.) Well, I decided to see what I could stir up, My friend and I had decided that we are either talking to the same man or two friends. So, i wrote Drake and said something like babe, I know you wont get this for awhile, but i miss you so much. I hope you are recovering well. i called your mother and she is worried sick about you. She said she is going to get the rest of the money and be there soon. She really wants you home. (heeheeheehee I had to, i am so pissed off at this ass**** that I just cant seem to keep it in anymore.) And Ladies, you will NOT believe it!!! Drake wrote back within a few hours of my email. :O He said he had brain surgery that morning and was with his Dr…get this Dr. ELVIS. I sent that letter to my friend and she openly laughed at work…lol I giggled the whole time he talked to me. WOW!! DR. ELVIS is that good?? He should be hired by the top hospital in the world and paid billions if he can have you in and out of major brain surgery in a few hours and chatting on msn…oi vey. Anyway, this man does have facebook. DRAKE MORGAN. I know nothing about ranks, or divisions and really I am someone who just goes through life helping and caring about anyone and everyone. If he needed the money that badly I would of sent if needed, but the fact is I am worried. Is this person Drake Morgan a real man, or is it just a name used. How on earth did the scammer get this info, he had times of patrols, he has commander names, he has elaborate info of family an friends and then the pictures. I worry that, like I did read above, that he has pictures of someone who is deceased. And the families may never know what is going on. If the man is alive, can he be charged with the crimes of this scammer? There are so many questions, and so much pain caused by someones ignorance. I dont think the FBI, the CIA or anyone has the time it is going to take to make these scammers pay. They are still in a war for crying out loud. But, I did what I can do with the info and ignorance of the scammer so I am leaving it here for those who come after me. Please, read all and take care. money is not everything, youcant take it with you, but the heart never forgets. :(

    Interpals: Drake Morgan (no longer under that name on the site)
    Facebook: Drake Morgan (uni says Walker DM)
    Rank: Sergeant 3rd Infantry, currently in Khanaquin, Iraq. Says he is a medic.
    Family: mother Amelia
    wife deceased Christine
    son Jason

    Friend: Michael Espinso, from Dubai, living in cali.
    Commander: Winand
    Before I forget, on his facebook account, he just opened because I asked him to, all his ‘new’ friends are all from Akure in Nigeria. The funniest, I sent out emails when I was told about the accident. no one actually knew him…lol and he went from having over 29 friends, to now only having 8. One of them, her name is Amelia Christine…(obviously not going to post her last name) I thought that was a little ironic.
    I think that is all for now ladies. Im going to go back to bed and pull the covers over my head. Im embarassed, ashamed and feeling like the biggest moron on the earth. Im usually the one that says NO he sounds like a freak, never send money…etc etc…

    Please be careful, and god I hope we can stop this.

    Therasa

  370. Oh Therasa….you are far from the biggest moron on the earth! You have nothing to be embarassed or ashamed about! You are human just like the rest of us. Reading his profile, he almost would have had me!!! You will get through this and so will the rest of us. We have learned their game and the more people we tell, the less they will be able to scam! Hang in there!!!

    • Debbie: I thank you, but I do feel like a total moron. I have been asked before and always said no. It is uncanny how they can read people. My friend and I, we are alike, but also complete opposites. This man was able to read us and know what to tell each of us. He had a completely different personality for each of us. It is amazing!! If they werent thieves, they could be million dollar screen writers.

      Anyway, my little darling Drake. I sent him a message and said that if he really loved me, he would send me a picture now, showing me he is alright. I said that my imagination is running away with me an that I was worried he was far worse off….lol Ironically, he sent a picture of him, a little bruised, and with a medical band on his left arm. However, the title of the picture: soldier. Now, why would a person name their own picture, soldier??? You know, you almost fall back, but now that you analyze everything, you see the errors.

      On my friends side with Michael: she asked him for his commanders name. I had already gotten the name of both commanders fromDrake, so we wanted to compare. Now, Michael and Drake are supposed to be special ops…so the names on their uni’s are different. Drakes uni says walker, and Michaels says Dockery. Are you with me still? Now, Michael messaged my friend and his answer to what his commanders name is: chris Dockery……. Now, that is a one in a million isnt it???? Your alias is your commanders name…

      Ill keep you posted. After I finish laughing that is… And again, thank you Debbie. Oh, how do I go about sending in pics of these men, well the soldiers. I want women to see them like all the other pics here. Thank you
      Therasa :-)

      • Therasa, just send an email to CJ with the photos attached and he will take care of the rest.

  371. I have and still been talking to Staff Sargent Andrew Stephen Ruddock for around 2 months I asked him about the scam because things did not add up his e-mail is atrifvor4@live.com he send me three addresses one for the camp one for the embassy and one in America. He said his wife has been dead for 3 years and then said she died after giving birth to their daughter which is supposed to be eight years ago is this Rudduck still serving in the army? I don’t think anyone should feel bad about being a good person all of these women have been sucked in by people who do this for a living the warning signs are there different answers to the same questions I think I have had at least three people writing to me it becomes almost a game and they ignore questions because they are not clever enough to look at the previous history. Like many I hope the real soldiers are alive and safe anyone want to chat about Ruddock I am only too happy can you tell me if the real Ruddock is still on active service in Bagdad.

    • Hi Alison,
      I posted my first message to cj yesterday. I have been in contact since late October with 54yrold SSG Peter Ruddock email ruddock_blay@hotmail.com. Found out by accident a week ago I’d been scammed after parting with hard earned cash. What an idiot I feel at 63yrs of age! He said he had a 13yrold son in Georgia – email dennis_cools2000@yahoo.com. I had even emailed him a couple of times as they were supposed to be coming to Australia in the new year. Boy do these scumbags tug at the heart strings. I’ve seen many different christian names on this site for Ruddock, but the MO is always the same. Sent him a nasty email when I found out and he had the gall to reply asking – what are you saying, what sites have you found, I still love you please don’t delete me from your life – please! Nothing more since last Thursday 2/12.
      Would love to hear from you or anyone else on this site with any more information. I have photos but not sure how to send them on.

  372. just had another e-mail he is persistent he said he is getting onto the dating site to ask how they have his photos as he posted them to me they are the same ones plus a few new ones he also threatened to kill himself if I didn’t believe him and said he is in danger for giving me the addresses because of security. it is quite frightening can these people find out where we are

    • Hi Alison,
      This guy is also going by the name General Jimmy William Hayward. When I asked him why he had Ruddock on his uniform he told me that was the name of his unit. He uses the e-mail address survival53@live.com
      I have only been in touch for about 10 days after meeting him on match.com
      He is very plausible so do not beat yourself up about a scam that was not of your making.
      We will have to stay alert to these types of scams and make sure that we warn others

  373. hello,
    i have been talking to a wonderful man, i thought then got suspicious… see i have a friend in the military so he checked to see if chris haggard was real and sure enough there is a chris haggard… unfortunately he is not the man i have been talking to. you have pictures posted above of the man i thought was chris haggard you have him as robert bill haggard.. i do not know the real name of the soldier (haggard) in the pictures above but, i think its awful that someone would use our soldiers pictures fortunately i have not lost any money. but he wanted me to accept a package for him he needed to send to the states from iraq. it was of jewelry from his deceased parents as it was all he had left of them they were killed in a car accident and he had no family as his wife of 14 yrs cheated on him at least he was consistant with that part of the story.. anyway he would send me wonderful poetry and tell me how he was going to come live with me and grow old together we would email and talk daily i fell completely in love with the face on the pictures above and would never have known i was being scammed as we have been talking for awhile and he never asked anything of me till this morning when he told me i needed to contact the diplomat_prince30@yahoo.com and that i should tell him i was sergeant chris haggards future wife! the problem with that was when my friend checked to see if chris haggard was real he told me chris haggard was a major and if you look at the pictures above he had captain stripes at the time the picture was taken. so had i not known that i would never have gotten suspicious this man is very good he knew what to say he insisted i was sent to him from above that he wanted to come spend rest of his life with me as he had only me now. i even did a people search when i first started talking to him because he seemed to good to be true but everything i found made him appear to be legitamate and i met him on match.com you have to pay for the site so again never occured to me he was a fake his email chris_haggard80@yahoo.com i do not remember the match.com id address but it was sweetheart ?864@talk.com i have 8 pics of this soldier and i have no idea who the man is behind the smile i fell in love with its very cruel.

    • I corresponded with the same man only he used the name Mike Haggard. There really is a man named Mike Haggard and looks the same as the man in the pictures only it is not the one who I was communicating with in “Iraq” as I was told. The real Mike Haggard is on Facebook. He gave me the same story only he told me he was coming home the end of November and wanted to ship all that he had there to me to hold for him. Then came the scam that the package was being sent by a diplomat named Bill Williamson. He emailed me from Accra Ghana and said that customs had stopped him and insurance and a lot of other fees had to be paid. What a crock! There were a number of wholes in his story. One, he said he was sending rewards that he got for doing a good job in Iraq. Soldiers do not get “rewards” for doing a good job. That is their job. Second, he said he couldn’t use a webcam because it wasn’t permitted. That is a lie. Everything out of his mouth was a lie. I have tried to confront him about all of this but the coward won’t respond. I don’t know if these scams make them feel good about themselves or what. I think that they are just too lazy or too dumb to get a real job so they rely on schemes. I hope any other women who is contacted by these people don’t fall for the romantic, flowery verses that I am sure they copied out of a book. Make sure to check the grammar. It is attrocious! I was stupid and lost some money on this guy but I woke up before it got to be too bad. If you are contacted by a “soldier”, ask for their military email address. If they say that they are not allowed to use it for personal use, they are lying.

      • debbie, i dont think the mike haggard on facebook is the real soldier either the picture on facebook is one of the pictures the scammer sent me i have several pictures of the soldier Haggard it drove me crazy for weeks wishing i could at least find out who he was just for closure obviously it still bothers me.. i do hope the real soldier haggard is aware i kept reporting them to match.com they would use his pictures with 7 different profiles now for the last couple of weeks there are no more pics on there but there are sooo many scammers on these dating sites everyone needs to be so very careful not just for financial reasons but the emotional heartbreak as well

        • Just contacted by a “robert haggard” – email haggard.robert@ymail.com He contacted me through seniorpeoplemeet.com

          Been chatting via Yahoo and I got immediately suspicious.

          How vile to use our American Soldiers pictures to lure us ladies.

        • Kimberly, Good news. I found out what my scammers real name is. I convinced him that I did not care that he tried to scam me and that I really wanted a relationship with him. He finally turned on his webcam so I could see his face. He later sent me his real email address in Accra Ghana. I contacted the government there and gave him his name. I also informed them that I would be getting in touch with several of the charitable organizations who do good samaritan work over there to let them know what kind of place they are helping. I found out that at the end of January he had been arrested. He is out now and has a fb account under the name ” why envy “. I sent him a message through facebook and told him that no one scams me and gets away with it and I was sure that when I told other women about him that his troubles were only starting. HERE IS THE CLINCHER — He accused me of “envying” him and trying to take HIS money and that GOD was on his side. Check out his facebook account.

        • UPDATE: I just wanted to add that my scammers true name is Richmond Johannes, 30 from Accra Ghana. I am sure that he is the same scum bag that is involved in a lot of these scams because the emails, poetry, everything is the same as what I received. I got tired of the bull and just contacted the Ghana government and was thrilled when I went to his facebook account and saw that he had been arrested.

  374. just had a conversation with Ruddock he said get Debbie to find you a man or why don’t you just marry her you have let me down. i am the real Andrew Ruddock

  375. IMPORTANT:

    Well ladies and gentlemen. I have an update from my last posting. When last we spoke, my dear Drake was in hospital in Nigeria. I was given the name of the hospital and the Dr.’s name, Dr’ Elvis. (stop giggling) So, I might be a total dork but these guys arent smart either. I contacted the hospital. One: they obviously wont tell me if a patient named Drake Morgan is there, but the woman was kind enough (Im sure after having to compose herself) to tell me there is no Dr. Elvis there. lol So…I sent a message to Drake asking him how he is and what is going on, when he will be released, etc. Then I said, I want a picture, I need to know you are alright…..Guess what I got? I picture of him in, I think a bar, with a beer in hand. But one detail that shocked me…..a hospital bracelet on his left wrist. :O So now Im confused….is he real???? Stop! Why on earth does he have a beer, and he is supposed to be there for brain surgery…So I asked that. The response from Drake, the nurses here let me have one. I had been begging them…give me a break! So I sent a message saying I didnt know what was going on. There is no way anyone will give him a beer etc. Then this is the response I got:

    11/6/2010 7:38:39 PM Drake Morgan hi baby
    11/6/2010 7:39:03 PM Drake Morgan that pic was taken inside the hospital here not in a bar
    11/6/2010 7:39:15 PM Drake Morgan i requested for a beer and it was given to me
    11/6/2010 8:52:15 PM Therasa you are in a regular shirt, and a ball hat and have a beer….
    11/6/2010 8:52:44 PM Therasa I dont think the hospital hands out beer to people who have had brain surgery. I want you to show me your room.

    So he got booted….lol Then he leaves me a message that he has a confession to make and wants to talk to me. Im wondering, does the pot fairy visit too…

    I am more than embarassed posting this part, but please read:

    11/8/2010 12:21:55 AM Drake Morgan Therasa You there?
    11/8/2010 12:22:27 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I have a strong feeling that you will stop loving me after i make my confessions to you
    11/8/2010 12:23:00 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I have fall in love wt you, thats why i wanna make these confessions…
    11/8/2010 12:23:21 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Will you still love me after i make my confession?
    11/8/2010 12:23:39 AM Therasa Drake Morgan try me
    11/8/2010 12:23:58 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Will u still want me as much as you do earlier? Will u still wanna have my kid? Sobbs….omg
    11/8/2010 12:24:21 AM Therasa Drake Morgan just say what you have to say
    11/8/2010 12:24:45 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Baby am really sorry
    11/8/2010 12:24:57 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am sorry i lied about few things..
    11/8/2010 12:25:33 AM Drake Morgan Therasa how will you feel about me?
    11/8/2010 12:25:36 AM Therasa Drake Morgan keep going
    11/8/2010 12:25:44 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I dnt know what you will feel now..
    11/8/2010 12:25:59 AM Therasa Drake Morgan well dont stop or how will i know
    11/8/2010 12:25:59 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Promise me you wont feel bad.
    11/8/2010 12:26:20 AM Drake Morgan Therasa promise me you wont stop loving me.
    11/8/2010 12:26:48 AM Drake Morgan Therasa What if i tell you am much younger than i claimed to be. How will you feel?
    11/8/2010 12:26:49 AM Therasa Drake Morgan i cant promise something i dont know
    11/8/2010 12:27:15 AM Drake Morgan Therasa If i tell you am black and not white. How will yoi feel?
    11/8/2010 12:27:29 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and bornin 1985
    11/8/2010 12:27:55 AM Drake Morgan Therasa How do you know that?
    11/8/2010 12:28:08 AM Therasa Drake Morgan keep going
    11/8/2010 12:28:25 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am just 25 yrs
    11/8/2010 12:28:51 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and
    11/8/2010 12:29:31 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am sorry baby, but i felt that i wont find a woman for myself. Thats why i lied
    11/8/2010 12:29:45 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and used me\
    11/8/2010 12:29:54 AM Drake Morgan Therasa no
    11/8/2010 12:30:05 AM Therasa Drake Morgan well of course. 600.00
    11/8/2010 12:30:51 AM Drake Morgan Therasa am a christian and my mind kept troubling me and disturbing me..
    11/8/2010 12:31:10 AM Drake Morgan Therasa i woke up this morning and started crying.
    11/8/2010 12:31:11 AM Therasa Drake Morgan it cant of troubled you too much to keep asking and never returning
    11/8/2010 12:31:19 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am still crying now
    11/8/2010 12:32:03 AM Therasa Drake Morgan honesty is all i have ever asked of anyone, friend lover anyone. and you took that, no matter age, color anything.
    11/8/2010 12:32:16 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and you spit in myface and toook from my wallet on a lie
    11/8/2010 12:32:33 AM Therasa Drake Morgan only god can decide what happens now
    11/8/2010 12:33:05 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am begging for your forgiveness….
    11/8/2010 12:33:24 AM Drake Morgan Therasa pls forgive me
    11/8/2010 12:33:33 AM Therasa Drake Morgan why should I forgive someone who used and lied to me, about everything.
    11/8/2010 12:33:43 AM Therasa Drake Morgan How do you know I wouldnt of at least even been your friend.
    11/8/2010 12:34:09 AM Therasa Drake Morgan you decieved me, and took from me.
    11/8/2010 12:34:35 AM Therasa Drake Morgan i did everything in good faith as any person with a heart would
    11/8/2010 12:34:44 AM Therasa Drake Morgan you used a child to make me feel bad.
    11/8/2010 12:34:44 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I posted my picture on interpals, but no woman wanna talk to me. . I tried hard but found no one to date
    11/8/2010 12:34:46 AM Therasa Drake Morgan how is that fare
    11/8/2010 12:35:00 AM Drake Morgan Therasa baby am sorry
    11/8/2010 12:35:05 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and then you stole someone elses picture, and lied
    11/8/2010 12:35:29 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I have asked God for forgiveness, and am begging you now
    11/8/2010 12:35:41 AM Therasa Drake Morgan the terrible thing is, you even had friend lie, or wass that you answering all the emails
    11/8/2010 12:36:22 AM Drake Morgan Therasa God forgives us as many times as we beg him, we human being are much like God
    11/8/2010 12:36:51 AM Therasa Drake Morgan but you cant use it as a get out of jail free card. You cannot do as you wish and then say, its okay, if i ask god he will forgive
    11/8/2010 12:37:04 AM Therasa Drake Morgan that is horrible way of using god as well as other people
    11/8/2010 12:38:06 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Baby, i dnt do much . I only lied about myself.. People do more than that . Your friend ,s ex make her run into debt of 45, 000 $
    11/8/2010 12:38:28 AM Therasa Drake Morgan thats not me, and you cant compare to anyone else.
    11/8/2010 12:38:47 AM Therasa Drake Morgan You lied about yourself, but you lied to me, my children and made me feel and look like an idiot.
    11/8/2010 12:38:52 AM Drake Morgan Therasa But i dnt do half of that…, secondly i know a guy here that got 100,000 dollars from a woman online
    11/8/2010 12:39:03 AM Therasa Drake Morgan that doesnt make it alright
    11/8/2010 12:39:14 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Thats why i deciede to tell you the truth…
    11/8/2010 12:39:30 AM Therasa Drake Morgan why would you lie to people to get money?
    11/8/2010 12:39:35 AM Therasa Drake Morgan I dont understand that.
    11/8/2010 12:39:49 AM Drake Morgan Therasa What if i had told you that drake morgan is dead and has been buried how will you feel?
    11/8/2010 12:39:51 AM Therasa Drake Morgan it hurts people and makes them feel terrible about themselves
    11/8/2010 12:40:02 AM Therasa Drake Morgan i would be terribly upset with you
    11/8/2010 12:40:20 AM Therasa Drake Morgan using a dead mans identification,how can anyone do that
    11/8/2010 12:40:42 AM Drake Morgan Therasa What if i told you drake is dead, that will be the end of it all.
    11/8/2010 12:40:45 AM Therasa Drake Morgan how do you get the pictures, how do you make up the story? i dont uynderstand
    11/8/2010 12:40:56 AM Therasa Drake Morgan how is it the end?
    11/8/2010 12:41:07 AM Therasa Drake Morgan it is the end of that face, that is all, it doesnt end all that has been taken
    11/8/2010 12:41:24 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Most guys use that as an excuse to discharge their victim
    11/8/2010 12:41:49 AM Therasa Drake Morgan I know, i found an online scam site with hundreds of women who have beenused
    11/8/2010 12:41:52 AM Drake Morgan Therasa But i cant do that.. I have a conscience, and it kept troubling me. that why am telling you the truth now
    11/8/2010 12:42:01 AM Drake Morgan Therasa good.
    11/8/2010 12:42:09 AM Therasa Drake Morgan but why do you do it
    11/8/2010 12:42:13 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Not hundreds, thousand of women
    11/8/2010 12:42:17 AM Drake Morgan Therasa Am sorry baby.
    11/8/2010 12:42:29 AM Therasa Drake Morgan yes, well there are several sites
    11/8/2010 12:42:29 AM Drake Morgan Therasa I hate myself right now for lieing to you…
    11/8/2010 12:42:49 AM Therasa Drake Morgan and what changed? why confess now
    11/8/2010 12:43:07 AM Drake Morgan Therasa It would have been a different story if you found out yourself.. But i felt like telling you the truth.
    11/8/2010 12:43:41 AM Therasa Drake Morgan I have known for a while. I was waiting to see if you did have a conscience.
    11/8/2010 12:44:18 AM Drake Morgan Therasa What do you now think of me? Yes. I have a conscience.
    11/8/2010 12:44:19 AM Therasa Drake Morgan how do you get their pictures?
    11/8/2010 12:44:43 AM Drake Morgan Therasa i got it from a website.myspace.com

    I still have questions for him, and no Im not holding my breath that he will in fact pay me back. But I figure I can get all the info I need out of him, he at least can give me that. He can at least give us ALL that. Is there anything any of you want me to ask? I dont know what at the moment, but maybe something will come to mind. Please feel free to ask me. Ill check here again this week. Im disgusted that Im still talking to him, but there is alot I want to know. I think the worst part of the conversation is the fact that he feels he can do wrong, and ask gods forgiveness, I was shocked. Its a get out of jail free card. We need to show them that there is no get out free card. And Im sorry, but I dont think any god is just going to say okay youre sorry, your good to go. oh, look, youre sorry again, no prob…etc etc…Someone has to pay.

    Therasa

  376. Hi Therasa,
    You might ask him if there is a school that teaches scammers their trade!! The lessons must include poetry, identity theft, social networking and b……t!!
    Hope that you did not get scammed for too much.
    Is there a open forum on this site so that we could talk and work out the best strategy for avoiding these creeps
    Kay

    • lol…..I actually have to wonder myself. It seems like they must take a course on scamming. I know for my friend and I , like I had said here,we are best friends but we are very different. And this one man, who was pretending to be two. He knew what to say to each of us. And for along time, it worked. Until he made the same comment to us both. ‘kisses and huggs’……that was his down fall. That is when I asked why he( as Michael) was saying things to her that (drake) said to me…lol Confusing or what… And he said that, Drake left his note book back at camp, and he was reading it. and trying to be a good man and learn from it…So I said I wanted a picture of it. :) Foolish child, he actually took a picture of it. Imagine my surprise when Michael, white man from cali, had black hands… :S He didnt edit the photos at all….

      Right now he is supposedly being himself. And I have found out that he is 25, in college and there are thousands that are scamming women every day. So far what I have gotten from this is: Like it says here, somewhere I cant remember.
      -they never say I am going on patrol, its only ‘am going on patrol’. They never use the ‘I’.
      -always ask for proof….I always asked for photos, but he always complained. In the end, if he doesnt take the pic, I dont believe it. And, analyze the hell out of that pic. The ones he sent of this book, one he has black hands, he is supposed to be white. The writing on the book, made me shake my head. It looked like a 5 year old wrote it. And of course if english isnt his first language, youll know. Drake supposedly took psychology classes in college, he should spell better.
      -I have found that almost all I have talked to spell their words Phonetically: fone.
      -he would talk about laying in bed thinking of me…only he said ‘laying on bed’
      -I noticed too that he says mum…I usually only see that from the uk.

      Oh, before I forget, Michael asked me to marry him yesterday. Ladies, what should I say….lmao

      • Hi Therasa,

        I also questioned the scumbag about the way he spelt mum. A long time ago I spent a year in the us and know that there it is spelt mom. I told the scumbag when he asked me to marry him that he should wait until we meet as I wanted to see him on his knees!!
        Hope your man is feeling better and got over his brain surgery. Was it a removal?

  377. Hi,
    Perhaps someone could tell me where this message originated please. As there seems to be an 8 hour difference from the UK where I am. It is obviously not from Afghanistan where General Jimmy William Hayward (photos same as Ruddock) says he is. Do I look suprised:) ?? He thinks there may be something wrong.

    -Message-Delivery: Vj0xLjE7dXM9MDtsPTE7YT0xO0Q9MDtTQ0w9MA==

    X-Message-Status: n

    X-SID-PRA: GEN Jimmy W Hayward

    X-SID-Result: Pass

    X-AUTH-Result: PASS

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    From: GEN Jimmy W Hayward

    Subject: IS SOMETHING THE PROBLEM !!

    Date: Wed, 10 Nov 2010 19:23:27 +0000

    • says accra ghana…..according to the x-originating IP of 41.218.229.76

  378. so 41.218.253.129 is ghana.
    re-Ruddock
    this guy is trying it on saying perhaps he is the man of my dreams and what would I do if he was, definitely more than one writing one is quite good and the other is not intelligent at all, they must be getting desperate as they are being found out trying to say sorry so we feel sorry for them I just keep seeing that poor soldiers face being used in this way is he still alive I keep asking myself.

  379. i am trying to find out if there is such a person by the name Lt Col Mike Hughes

    Thank you
    cindy

  380. Thank you Leilani and Alison,
    Well not sure what to do now. Some of my friends want me to keep this up and tease him others think I should just block him. I have read that the real Ruddock knows about his picture being used. I have no idea what rank he is nor whether he is still in the army.It must be awful for his family to have photographs of his children being used like this. I will have to give this some thought.
    This Ghanian has asked me to marry him. Told him to ask me when we met as I wanted to see him on his knees. lol They are trying it on. Had not realized that there was more than one writing. I shall have to take a closer look.

    • lol….my friends wanted me to do the same

  381. I cant stop laughing. This guy has cut me off. Must have been something I said.

  382. It feels quite funny now speaking to you guys perhaps it is because we don’t feel such idiots I say lets give them a run for their money.
    Ruddock wants to meet me now and is professing undying love his e-mail sounded like a horoscope reading lol
    Anyone know where this ip originates from
    80.87. 92.48.
    Seems like we are all on a mission thanks for being there everyone

    • 80.87.48 comes back as Ghana!

  383. Hello everyone. I am a new user to this site. It’s sad that it has come down to this. I met a guy online a couple weeks ago. Really nice guy. Claimed he was in the Marines and he got back a week ago. We met up a couple times and he was a perfect gentleman. My friends met him and they got some red flags so now here I am. His name is Michael Alexander. Can someone give me some information on how I can find out if he really was in the marines or atleast some type of information about him?

    • Hi Julia,

      I’m wondering if it is the same Marine that tried to scam me…Though you did meet him..
      Can you send me a pic and I will then forward you a pic of mine..Who knows they might be the same..LOL nyjap65@aol.com

    • where did you meet?

  384. Hi Alison,
    I am glad you are seeing the funny side of this now and want to give them a run for their money. Sounds like you and I have the same pictures. Have you spoken to “Ruddock” on the telphone yet?
    Where does he want to meet you?
    Do not go to Ghana or Nigeria.I have been looking at reports where people have actually gone to meet these people and have found themselves in real danger.
    While you are in the States you will be safe and can continue to lead these guys on if you wish. There are not many websites that are based in the uk and nothing like this
    site at all.I always watch the news and read newspapers every day but I was not aware of anything like this going on. If you want to exchange e-mails I am happy to do this. Good luck and take care.

  385. Alison, Have to ask did you get the same e-mail?

    Good Morning My Love,

    How are you doing today and how was your night ?? I hope you are fine and doing good, I’m very sorry we could not talk much last night, I was having problems with my connection and i got booted out, i’m sorry if i disappointed you in anyway, My connection was very bad and unstable, I missed you throughout the whole night, And was thinking about you, The thought of us meeting face to face someday, is very wonderful and lovely,

    I think of you every day! I love everything about you! Your smile, your eyes, your hair, your body, etc, I can’t get you off my mind, It just feels so lucky to finally be able to love you like I have been wanting to for so long. What have I done to deserve this? And that is another thing I was thinking – It is a little too strange, I think, that we are so right for each other. Some might want to argue about or feeling for each other, but I have a few examples for those poor misguided souls. Your smile is like a world-famous painting, We share a lot in common and our life, is like two lost puzzle pieces finally discovered after a 7 year search to make the puzzle complete. When we are with each other on msn, time seems to stand still. I see the love in your heart reflecting on my own.All of this tells me one thing … our love is real, Time will prove my love to you and cement my place in your heart forever. For time will give me the credibility and the believability that I need to convince you to want to spend the rest of your life with me. That I am worthy of such a commitment from you.

    Love Always
    Gen: Jimmy Xxx

    sorry girls hope it did not make you ill!!!
    Wasn’t Mona Lisa smirking is that waht he means? All this after he stopped talking to me last night.

    • ha! they are good here is the first letter i recieved vid Ramos”
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      I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. This relationship is my future; it’s what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I’m going to get to. I want us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just right for us. I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair down and catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer, if it’s possible, to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion all over your body because you lay out in the sun too long. I want to have a child with you and go through the experiences of parenthood with you.. I want to see you and me chasing our little kid around the house, all three of us laughing our heads off and having fun. I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you. I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your adorable face in the morning, because I always think you look so cute then. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other.
      I want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to be thirty years old and still make out with you like a little schoolboy. I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won’t talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me.. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we’ve never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we’re laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do. I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don’t share a love like we do. I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back in, stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, which ever one we feel like at the time.
      I want it to take your breath away every time I say, “I love you” because you know it’s coming from the heart. I want us to be sitting there and watching our child take their first steps from my arms into yours. I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, and a thing of ice cream; well, I’ll let your imagination finish that one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a little longer. I couldn’t really express in words what I’m feeling right now so I decided to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head.
      I just want you to know that I had never found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with until I met you. I really am crazy about you, everything about you.

      • I got exactly the same email not long ago..from someone named Sgt Michael Sickman, supposedly of the British Army based in Afghanistan. And just this morning he asked me for money to get out of there because his military filght had been cancelled.

        • may26/11

          I was scammed by this man aswell, Sgt Michael Sickman, met him on Match.com in January, I was also drawn in with the same love letters, very caring charming man, or so I thought this bastard took and took from me,I believed his lies about no flights, stranded in Cuba and oh yes that he had no one else to help him, i was the only one in the world he had to depend on. His last lie was I need more money for a flight I am in Arizona signing my final retirement papers I am coming to be with you in Canada I love you so much. What a conning SOB I am so ashamed and I feel so violated as I shared my whole life day after day for several months with who? I honesty could be sick, there are men in this world so sly and deceitful. I received an email from a lady in Florida who received the same sweet talk from him, this man needs to be caught and locked away , to portray onesself as a soldier and do this to woman, I feel so bad for the soldiers identity he has stolen, god help this SOB I pray he is caught and justice is served. Has anyone else been taken by Michael did he always ask for money, where did you send it to a Jonathon C smith In California please Any info would be great .

      • Hi,
        I was sent the exact text in an email in March by someone called Raymond Radenski. I was told that he used to be a pyschologist but now works as an analyst in the UN but also works for the US Army! One of the photos i have are in a uniform of a paratrooper but has the surname ‘RAYMOND’ He said he was a widower witha 9 year old son James. He said he had a house in Sherness Kent. Alarmbells rang when he asked for me to equest his leave and then when i said that was for him to do he managed to get it granted within a couple of days! A week before he was due to arrive he asked me to pay for his mum’s carers fees as he was 2 months behind – £650! I told him i wouldnt and that i was aware of scams. He told me to re think! I have since blocked him and had to change my mobile number. I traced his email address to Redmond Washington US. psych40@live.com There is also a fake facebook page using the same man in my photos but he is wearing a ‘smoothie king’ uniform! If any of this sounds familiar i would love to hear from you. I have tried looking on various internet sites to find the man in the photos i have as i would like to let him know that his personal photos are being used in scams. I think he must have had his computer hacked into.

  386. Hi Kay my e-mail is ali2see6@yahoo.co.uk as you can see I am in UK. Your message sounds very similar to the ones I received from the intelligent one. Even though I confronted him he still insists he is the real Ruddock and will die without me drop me a line we can have a chat about things look forward to hearing from you.

  387. Hi Alison,

    I would just tell him to go crawl up in a corner and die!!! They are good! Sweet, charming and poetic…

    I would tell him to PROVE IT!! Ask him for a phone #,home address,Military ID an email address..Birthdate…A full body shot of him naked…

    Watch what he says and does…He will avoid the questions and tell you he will prove it to you in person when he sees you..It’s bullshit…

    The scammer I was taking to Lt.Col. Jerry Livingstone sent me a Fraudelent Ck..he was suppose to come and meet me..All of a sudden he needed $400 for plane tickets..So when I said who’s going to book the reservations you or me..He handed me some bullshit about his colleague A/C Phillips who would handle it..To send a MONEY GRAM..yeah right..I told him I had no cash i would put it on my credit card..Well he didn’t like that…See If he was REAL…He would of made the reservations him self or let me handle it…

    I know you want to believe he is REAL…HE’S NOT…

    I would love to hear what happens next..Keep me posted..

    • Ellen
      I don’t think he is real I am just posting information so others can see what these scammers write. My concerns for the real soldier and his family is because of disbelief that someone can steal these men’s identities. I initially fell for him but soon sussed him out it isn’t even one man writing so don’t worry we are all in this together I want to waste their time and efforts because there is little else I can do unless you know of something? I will keep you updated.

  388. hi ladies,
    all your posts are so similar to the emails and chats with the person/persons i was talking to some are even word for for word… its hard to let this go mostly cause it drives you crazy trying to figure out who the real man in the pictures are but anyway you are all right there is more than one person writing to you i tried to excuse the differences in the emails and chats as in the morning his typing was much better and he was more talkative and at night when he supposedly was talking to me from iraq it was very very late i assumed it was cause he was tired and mispelled things etc…lol sucker i know.. but i also think there is a woman as well a few times made comments that one would make to a man. but again i passed it off as typo but now i have been contacted on match.com again by a new scammer he does not claim to have been in the military yet but in ohio and a business man with a little girl no relatives parents are gone has nobody (sound familiar) but his chats and emails are very familiar to me…lol so just be careful… there is alot of them out there oh and did i mention he asked me while talking what i was looking for in a woman?…lmao so this is not just guys trying to scam us there are woman doing it too and that is sad makes you realize why they know just what to say :( oh my new scammer steven john berkey funny part my old scammer pictures he stole one of his screen names berky1 my army captain haggard

  389. Hi ladies,
    Well my scammer has stopped playing LOL so I have gone and found a new one YIPEE let the game begin

    • go for it kay

      • Hi Kay,

        Too bad we can’t all play with your new scammer ….He will think he hit the Jackpot! LOL

    • i kind of think it is funny now…..let me know what happens

  390. New scammer name is James Bowen, goes by Sarge James Bowen. Here is his email text.
    Note the problems with context and grammar.

    Thanks for the response. Indeed i could say, you make me feel a spark down my spin.. I will love to get to know more and more about you. you sound great and wonderful.. It will be great to know more about you. And here is a little about me; A very good friend of mine got me started on the site as a way of finding my soul mate.. You’ll need to know that I’m serving t he US Army and currently on deployment here in Iraq.. I am also a former US Marine infantry man, having served 8 active years with different infantry units, from Camp Pendleton, CA. (1st battalion, 9th Marine Regiment, and 2nd battalion, 1st Marine Regiment) and Camp Lejeune, NC (3rd Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment) I have been to a bunch of places in the world, some of them hot spots, and continue to do so today. I am privileged to have served with highly professional individuals in the Marines, and the tradition continues now in the Army..I’m fortunate to command a small, very specialized unit and get to interact with many guys on the tip of the spear: US service members of all branches and ranks, Coalition forces, contractors and locals. I feel I’ve got a perspective not often seen in the media.mdd
    I am not in a hurry to find the love of my life,but i don’t want to wait for months and months.Life is too short to spend it alone and the passion,beauty and the excitement of being with the one you love is so wonderful.what i want is to find someone that is right for me and understand me,what bothers me most in this life and what is inside it and how you feel,i want to meet Someone that is romantic, serious and down to earth at the same time. a woman who likes to laugh and enjoy the outdoors, who truly wants to be an wife and believes in the sanctity of marriage, a woman who is honest, loyal, trustworthy and totally devoted to her man Someone who is spiritual and believes in God Someone who likes to be flirted with and will allow me to kiss, hug and hold her hand in public Someone who is willing to try new things. I will love to know more about and hoping to read from you soon..what do you do for a living?

    Regards.

    Sarge Bowen

    He blew it when I asked him if he could call me and he said he could not. US Army and Marine personnel are not restricted from phone calls. I told him, that’s odd, there are not normally restrictions, and he said I would need to pay for a phone for him to be able to call me. Also, his commander’s email was a gmail account, which is not official Army email.

    dont fall for it!

    • This is exactly the same email that I got from SGT DEMIEL AGNER who says he is at Base 3 Kabul Afghanistan. I am at this very moment chatting with him. I know he is a scam but he doesn’t know that I know. I was getting suspicious of him so I googled his name and came to this website. Thought you all had to know. In Australia, the date is Saturday 20 Nov 2010. He has also asked his MAJOR FRANKLIN MOORE to send me an email requesting that I buy him a satellite phone.
      When someone talks money to me online, my hairs go up in the back of my neck. This one is a definite scammer. He had his pic on website ARE YOU INTERESTED and he sent me photo. If you want this photo, please email me at coolwaters@iprimus.com. Ladies, please be wary of scammers.

    • This man is now operating as Colonel Karl Alejandro Thomson – an “intelligent analyst” on contract with Aussie army but at the moment deployed in Britain, however stating also he is in Iraq
      – soon to be retired – he uses practically the same words , thank you I have just reported this man he hit me up for money last night after four days – gotta be a record hey ladies!!!
      :O)

  391. got anoter one to check out.. complete scam using facbook he contacted me as Daniel william.. asked for a care package addressed to his son at Junior Williams
    Kanda street
    Accua Nima
    ghana 00233-267-203-832

    after telling me they couldn’t use the us post office.. only fedex , that his diplomat would forward it to him, in afghanistan .probly not his pic;s on facebook where he first contacted me.. I let all the women on his friends list and they all replied and said thank you , they had a funny feeling about him,, listen to your instincts ladies thats why god gave them to us..

    • Hi Daneille,

      Can you tell me how do I find trace their email IP address with example “see above”(number and country)from their email address when they are not using their real geniune email address??? please help me ….

      cheers W.Rose

  392. I wanted to know if anyone had any information about George England. I’ve received a bit, but am looking for more. I have photos to swap. This guy is pond scum – very sleazy. Don’t lose your money, gals!

    He uses genglandusa@yahoo.com and I found 11 ISPs for him. All legit, and all located in Sunnyvale, CA. Very interesting.

    He told the story about being from Miami, FL and being on his 3rd tour of Afghan. He was trolling on http://www.ChristianMingle.com. He was using the username “ritemindarm1″. He was smooth, I’ll give him that.

    Yep, I took the bait: hook, line and sinker. But, I still have my money! The only thing I lost was time, and some feelings. At first, I didn’t seem aware of anything fishy. Then, the red flag went up the pole! YES — He was a “Tech Master Sgt.” in the Army, serving 24 years. Okay, I’m not the sharpest crayon in the box, but I’ve been around enough military to know that sounded odd.

    Then, a couple of days later, came his “let’s chat on Yahoo IM instead of emails” email. Yep, fell for that one too. Hey, don’t be harsh! I didn’t see much yet, it was still early. So then, a few days after the chatting started, you guessed it (gag), then came the “I can’t sleep because you are walking on my brain” IM. I started laughing.

    My feelings were hurt, but I pulled on my big girl panties and decided to ride it out. To see how far it would go. So, me being from the South, I used my best coy language and asked what was wrong. You guessed it again (yack)… the undying profession of love.

    Now, Red Flag number #2 and a bell. I am hurt by this, because my feelings were attached. But, I had to ride it through the storm. I knew there was more coming. Next, came the photographs. Several of them. I saved them all. Him, his son Charlie. His ‘company’. His friends on patrol. GET THIS — One of him, Charlie and a woman!!!

    So, I am being faux supportive. I believe I have said the right things, but not given anything away. Nor have I committed myself. I week goes by, more proclamations of love. I feel like punching my computer. Then, comes the ‘proposal’ from hell (as I like to call it).

    Yes — the man proposes over the internet. That’s Red Flag #3, a bell and some whistles. The band is tuning up. I can just feel it. So, now, I have to say something. So, I say, if it is God’s will, it will happen. I tell him that I trust God to steer me in the right direction.

    So, he’s all “yeah yeah, God will guide you, blah blah”. Now, I want to injure his sanctimonious butt! Still, I resist the urge although he really deserves all the God has in store for him. That same week, he tells me all about retiring once he comes back to the States. He’ll be arriving in Ft. Rucker, AL on February 23rd.

    SO — The next days are uneventful. More undying love crap (more yacking on my part). I offer him more prayers in IM chat. This seems to disturb him and I’m pleased.

    Today, 11/16/2010 — the band begins to play. Red Flags are waving to beat the band. Bells, whistles and tubas are sounding. All the while, I have been trying to find out ANYTHING about this guy.

    Today, he has great news. His college friend (although he never mentions college) from Africa (aren’t they all) is selling his business, and has some machines that George needs. They will cost $7000 to ship to the States. He asks me for the money.

    So, in my best Southern coy self, I tell him that I have no job, and no income. He gets really mad, and signs out of chat. I laugh like crazy. About 10 minutes later, he signs back in. He is calm, writes lovely words again. Asks me to take out a loan for him — he promises to pay it back with interest when he gets to the States. I again tell him that I have no job, and no income. He becomes mad again, really mad and curses me.

    I tell him that he has hurt me, and that it was very unChristian of him to do that to someone he cared about. He signs out. This goes on for about 30 minutes or more — sign in, sign out. I’m dying laughing the whole time. Finally, he asks me to sell my car!! I tell him that I can’t sell my car — because there is still a loan on it. He gets furious and signs out.

    Then, about 30 minutes later — signs in. I am blamed for everything since Noah built the ark. So I tell him to pray about it, and that God will provide an answer. So, I’m plotting my revenge IM chat for tomorrow. Wish me luck, girls.

    I am going to ‘come into a large settlement check next month’. I’m going to be very excited about it and see what he says. This will be a hoot! I’ll keep you posted.

    In the meantime, let me know if anyone has had dealings with this whale snot, and has pictures to swap. I have emails if you want to trade those as well.

    If you are currently talking with him, PLEASE do not let my cat out of the bag. I’ve worked hard for this revenge session.

    Peace to you all. I hope some of us start getting revenge. God doesn’t like ugly!! You can reach me at jildaleigh@yahoo.com

    I’m outtie!

    • OMG Jilda, you didn’t tell me all that…he has no idea what’s in store for him!!!You go girl!!!

      • way to go girl! please can you tell me what happened next

    • I am going to have to remember “whale snot”. GOOD ONE. I’m a victim as well. I’m with you sister. You’ve got guts. All I did was close the “special” Yahoo email acct we shared. GAG. That was today. The scumbags have my regular email acct so I’m waiting to see if they continue to try to “work their magic”. Bastards. Chin up, Buttercup!!!

  393. OH — New Info!

    http://www.spokeo.com has him listed under his email address at genglandusa.com. Only now, he lists his location as being in Columbia,SC not Miami, FL.

    Peace!

    • Hi Jilda,

      Love the site..I put in his email address and it shows he’s real…WOW…Curious did you pay to get more in depth info like it says???
      Let me know..With all this scamming going on I’m afraid to do anything..LOL

      • **UPDATE** Hi Jilda, Curiousity got the best of me, so I paid $14.95 to check it out further…His email address was an EXACT MATCH….it’s a site called BLACKPLANET..His name is John O and he’s AFRICAN..He definitely didn’t look like the Hot Marine that tried to scam me..Well looks like I will never find the REAL MARINE in the pic, HOW SAD…All those scumbag scammers should be found and shot…

        • Ellen: I’d love to see what you found. Give me a shout out at jildaleigh@yahoo.com

          Anyone who has any information to share about George England, send me an email to that Yahoo address. I will answer all emails. I will share any information that I have with you.

          Peace to you!

      • I went to Google and goggled his name…lol
        and there is a David Ramos in the military,
        that is how i found this site

  394. rolandcampbell@yahoo.co.uk
    claim, in iraq with british army, wearing u.s uniformbon pic on bearshare. single. scammer based in nigeria.

    michaellbobby@yahoo.com
    u.s army, widower, wife died ‘stomach related illness called asthma lol.daughter jodie looked afyer by eldrrly friend who needs money for cancer treatment

    • About Michael Bobby…. I am so glad that I started catching on to little signs that something was wrong with this guy. At first I fell for his “story” of his wife dying 4 yrs ago and his daughter is being taken care of by his uncle. I met him on myspace with a different picture that he has posted now on yahoo IM. So I did some research and came up with nothing till I typed his email addy on google search. I can’t believe that I must be so desperate for love that I was willing to believe his crap. I have several pieces of information as well as pics that he is using. If you want anymore info please contact me at peachpie1994@yahoo.com with the subject title being Michael Bobby Scam. I will give you all I know. I will also post this on as many sites as I possibly can for scammers. THANK YOU for posting what you did. If it hadn’t been for this site, he might have taken me for so much more than my pride.

  395. To Dorothy J, I would like to talk with you about Mike Gales. I’m doing better. The Lord is wonderful. Thanks again, Judith

  396. I have looked through all the names given through this long list of emails and the only one I see that looks familiar to me is Larry Dan but I think the guy I have been emailing and IMing with may have been responsibe for his correspondence as well. The name of one I have been talking with since September is Charles Schulzes. He is a Captain in the Army, stationed in Iraq with a daughter back in the states. Her name is Panncy and she stays with his cousin George Avin. Looking that name up on Google was almost the end right there because there was some scam information on him. I decided to continue on with the love story long enough to figure the whole thing out. I did lose a little money by sending it to an Aleicia Woods in Norcross, Ga. She was supposed to be the Sunday school teacher of his daughter. He played upon my weakness of military children which he knew about because of a children’s book I have written after working at WPAFB in Ohio. The next piece of info was the test of mailing a birthday card to the same address where the money was wired. The card came back as no such address. I also have an address to a General where I was to request a release for Charles so that he might be home in time for the holidays. It was through that address that I began more research that brought me here to this website. I have two different sets of pictures and many saved pieces of correspondence. If I can be of any help please let me know. I knew from the beginning something was wrong but I never imagained it was this wide spread. What a disgrace to our men and women who serve in the military.

    Sincerely,
    Rhonda H. Bishop

  397. pls give ne the real name of sgt ivan nobile.is he a realus army ….

  398. Hi,
    I have had to change my e-mail address as I have confronted the scammer. He told me that he is a 16 year old boy from Ghana and sent me pictures of himself. This could be another pack of lies, he could be using yet another stolen picture. He told me that he worked alone so I asked him why I had received mail from both Ghana and Germany and he told me he had could change his IP address. According to an IT specialist that I had round this morning to remove a virus from my computer it is very hard to change an IP address and only someone with a great knowledge of computers would be able to do this. This suggests to me that this “boy” is not working alone. That is why I have deleted the old e-mail address as I do not want to be involved in an international scamming ring!
    Although I had confronted him and eventually got him to admit that he was a scammer he then tried to play the sympathy card. He told me of his life there and the hardships he faced on a daily basis. He looks after his mother and father as neither of them have jobs. Meals are hard to come by and life is hard for his family. He sleeps most of the day and gets up to play football in the afternoon and then starts work at around 7 p.m. There were 15 other men in the internet cafe with him yesterday evening, probably all doing the same thing. He asked me if I could help him to get a passport and a visa but I declined. He had every intention of scamming me and I could never believe a word he said. I would have loved to taken up more of his time but now I have had my computer “cleaned” I do not want him infecting my computer again.
    Stay safe ladies and do not fall for ANY of their tricks.

  399. youve got some more names to look out for they are on a U.K SITE BE NAUGHTY they may be genuine but dont think so here are the names Maj.Baleme Lee yes i know alarm bell going off.The other names are Sgt.Ryan West/Col.Robert Jenkins and now a Scott Montoya as been in touch haha they think im that gullable NO .They are using the site now askin g for phones:Ryan West the others have not asked for anything YET HOPE WOMEN IN UK READ THIS BE CAREFULL HELEN

  400. I hope no more women get hurt by this scam im one of the lucky ones its only been two weeks that it started .HELEN

  401. Demiel Agner contacted me. He has 3 profiles on facebook. I have contacted the women he has as friends to tell them to be careful. I was suspicious when he had real bad english and googled his name and find this place. Even if im not english my self I could see that.

  402. I met someone on match.com, he calls himself Kenny Schultz and there are several pictures of the real soldier on this web site. I hate to admit I was scammed. I would like to contact the real soldier that is on this website. Is there anyway to find the real person. I hope he knows that his picture is out there and I would like to e-mail him myself. Any help would be appreciated. I believe he also uses the name John Palmas

    • I know it’s been a while since your post, but this same guy is still going. He recently “married” my friend over the phone! My friend is still believing that he is legit. After this guy contacted me telling me to mind my own business, I tried to track his IP address. Told my friend that I would be doing so. Before I could, he deleted his facebook account. Was going by the name George Newton.

  403. I was contacted by a Sgt Bill Anderson and I see his pictures are posted on this forum. He was pretty good at sucking me in at first, although in retrospect I see many mistakes he made. poor spelling, poor grammar, he messed up on saying when his parents died… one note said when he was 25, but chatting he told me 20. the biggest tell was when he sent me a picture of some gold bars (obviously from a magazine) and said they were worth $3.2 million, which couldn’t be true in itself. He wanted to send them to me for safekeeping until his return to the states. I told him I thought it was a scam, he acted offended and never contacted me again. I have another soldier trying to chat with me: Miller Morison. This guy can’t spell either (not even his own name) and has very poor grammer. His IP address is in Nigeria. I replie to him asking if he was still in Iraq. We’ll see what he says. I may string him along just to keep him occupied so he doesn’t scam someone else, but ugh, so much timed wasted with these psychopaths. I don’t see his picture posted here. If I can figure out to send the pictures I have, I will.

  404. I wonder if you could please tell me how to upload photo’s I have of a soldier I fear may be being used by scammers. He goes by the name of Col. Robert Wood, although his rank appears to be that of a sgm or csm. Story is virtually the same as everyone elses, widowed, one child. The only difference seems to be that this guy went on webcam, although I couldn’t hear him and I now think it was a video tape.

  405. Here are two scammers names to add to your list. Richard Cason and Wiley Jackson. Met both on Match.com. I did not give any money to either of them. Cason wanted to ship me a package with $2million in it that he rec’d from a man in the oil business that he saved the man’s wife and he gave him $2million for doing it. They both claim to be in the army. I will forward pictures of them. It’s a shame that people are such low lifes and try to take women for money. Thanks for having this site!!!

  406. I would like to find out who you report these guys to for being scammers if some one could tell me who you report them to I know of a few more that should be published on here

  407. need to know if a sgtjeff william is real. he is in the army. special force. hometown is hollywood, florida.

  408. I have just found out thanks to this site,I was nearly got.Sent lovely poetry but when it came to grammer=I knew then.Said”she wanted to send money to me from Iraq”but had 2 give details of my address etc.Her name was Dannielle Londrigan had photos of her and emailed me more.She was sending me $450,000.So on,So on-Pity would need it 2 pay off a few bills.The site was connecting singles.Beware!

  409. Leonard Aguiar is another name to add to the list, he is on jdate. i.p. is Ghana, email is bleo94@yahoo.com

  410. coddy stone zendrosky http://www.ccfreedomfighters.com/army%20logo. logo used in some email saying it had come thru the security
    serving in iraq.. 58yrs old married for 10yrs
    father polish mother american
    his best friend in army jason swagger
    coddy is in iraq for 1 yr …has got 8mths left
    wants money to be able to talk on satalite ph anytime to me ..says they can’t access their accounts while on deployment..
    Is he a scammer I can’t find anything written on your site though his name appears at the top when i typed it in ..

  411. I too was scammed by someone who contacted me on friends reunited dating.
    He said he lived in Nottingham.His wife had died a few days after being operated on with lung cancer.
    He said he was a captain in the us army working with the RAF in Nottingham.Was deployed to Afghanistan to take another officers place.
    The name he used was Blair Malone he sent me pictures and when I asked why the name on his uniform was Blair and not Malone he said his surname was Blair??
    The patch on his uniform was 81st heavy combat brigade.
    He asked for money to set up a phone line because it wasnt private on the normal line they used said people were listening in.
    I was sent legal looking documentation so stupidly I paid the money it was picked up by a Maureen Johnson in Spain.via Western union
    Then he asked me for money for xmas leave and I had to contact colbryanwatson@usa.com
    I then began to look at scams and was mad at myself for not looking before .I told him he was a scammer and he stopped contacting me.
    I have pictures and can email them if you give me an email address
    I have now taken myself off the dating site cos you just dont know who you are contacting.

  412. I am talking to three solider who are station in different part of Afghn…..

    Their name is

    Capt. Thomas Collins …. I still haven’t find out lots from this fellow yet….

    Col. Thomas King …. who is marry to sharon from Utah … very nice guys …. spoken to him for hrs on end but …. needed to find out more about him ….

    and

    Lt. Valentino Wilson from Mimai … had already asking for $500.00 because his mum is sick in hospital and is needed treatment for medication …. lucky me …. i didn’t send any money …. he feeling disappointed and he also claiming wanting to come to Australia soon….

    could anyone tell me have you heard any of these fellow or known had spoken to these guys???

    How do I go about finding out information on these guys …. what to look for ….. what kind of ID I need to know if any??? ….. what kind of information do I need to find out what rank, division, ID number???, army address, post office address or anythings that are genuine information so I can ask as many questions to these guys……

    Please help me …. I’m only new to these dating site and had already been scam once, biten twice and smarter the third time around ….. I am now become very caution and very suspicous

    I love this site …. this has become a fantastic site for communication in between us all and watch out for each other and very much my favourite site for anything I need to know and update information …. it is also the most exciting site for all us women from all over the world who wish to be lots smarter than these scum bags scammer …..

    Let us throw them over to crocodiles to feeds these hungry crocodiles …. I’m sure they would love to eat these scum bags scammer …. we got plenty of these animals here in the Far North Queensland (top end of the Australia)

    LET US SHOW THESE SCUM BAGS ….

    cheers Ladies

    from W. Rose

  413. Cpt Brown Mark, also Cpt Harry Swain is also posing as CptMatswain95@yahoo.com.

    Please does anyone know of a Jeremiah Anderson95@yahoo.com, supposed to be in Afghanistan, is trying to get me to contact a Diplomat in Mumbai to track a parcel. I have not done so, but cannot find Jeremiah or Jerry Anderson listed anywhere.

  414. Hi..

    Page on FB to everyone, that want to share your scams.
    http://www.facebook.com/pages/Major-Wilson-Curtis-Kvinno-sida/125299304200005..

    This Major Wilson Curtis is a big Fraud..

    my name is Major Wilson Curtis …..i am army officer….currently in oversea for peace keeping.i am a man of a good heart and a man of prestige.a man searching for a soul mate,a wife to be.never mind i think i have a lot you ne…ed to know okay.i saw your picture and i was like WOW,what a natural beauty you’ve got he…re and i was captivated by your natural beauty,wow, i must tell you that you are looking stunning

    • He’s also Capt. Tom Hilton Curtis, and yes he is a scammer. I got that EXACT same note from him last summer.

  415. He’s going by the name of Ryan Juan Rivera, claims to be from Houston, 48 years old and is currently in a “peacekeeping” mission. He claims to be a Master Seargant, sent me 5 pictures of the real Rivera, a couple of pictures of when he was younger and more recent pictures. He’s a widower, his wife died while pregnant with his child…sad story….He’s good, I told him about his name coming up in the scam list and he got upset but didn’t stop trying to talk to me. My gut feeling told me it was too good to be true and it was…

  416. Same story different name! Instant messaged me on Christian mingle. Claimed to be Hayford England with a son named Kelvin. Most family dead, divorced from wife. Sent pics, fell I love with me at ONCE. Retiring in 3 months, gonna open orphans. Got shot and was at medic upon returning to duty found he was not gonna get out in dec cause he was being sent to frontline. Wanted money because his funds were tied up. I refused. He claimed it was gonna go on supply run in West Africa,hide out and get a flight to states. I called his bluff and reported him to Mingle. There I found out he had been removed by them. I told him I knew he was a liar and the whole thing was a scam. He talked about how much I hurt him and then turned right around and asked about money again. I told him to delte me and forget all of this. Tonight out of the blue I received an email in which he stated as soon as he is back in the staes he will “hit” me. His email is englandhayford@yahoo.com.

  417. Same story different name! Instant messaged me on Christian mingle. Claimed to be Hayford England with a son named Kelvin. Most family dead, divorced from wife. Sent pics, fell I love with me at ONCE. Retiring in 3 months, gonna open orphanage.got shot and was at medic upon returning to duty found he was not gonna get out in dec cause he was being sent to frontline. Wanted money because his funds were tied up. I refused. He claimed it was gonna go on supply run in West Africa,hide out and get a flight to states. I called his bluff and reported him to Mingle. There I found out he had been removed by them. I told him I knew he was a liar and the whole thing was a scam. He talked about how much I hurt him and then turned right around and asked about money again. I told him to delte me and forget all of this. Tonight out of the blue I received an email in which he stated as soon as he is back in the states he will “hit” me. His email is englandhayford@yahoo.com.

  418. this is for all people who come cross the name William L. Spalding BIRTHDATE July 2,1963 he said he has a son name John Spalding and is in London he is a lier and scam he has taken allot of money from me I have been dealing with him since October 5,2009 if anyone has come cross him please let me know my email is chontales5@yahoo.com thank you

  419. Hannettmoore1@gmail.com claims to be in Iraq, retiring soon, Happy to come and live with me in Tasmania, Australia( if he knows where it is) 16 year old son living with ex wife in Miami, Florida. No family, parents died when he was 21. Only child. Wanted to marry me after 1 week of chatting. Relationship (lol) lasted 6 weeks until I found him in this site. He found me through Active Oasis. Beware

  420. I live in Sydney,Australia and was contacted by a guy named Mark T Williams, e-mail markwilly96@yahoo.com,through metrodate.com. He said he is on mission in Sudan, and we had been talking for several times. We had started talking about sending a request for his leave to the usarmypeacekeeping@rescueteam.com
    He said I have to buy an airplane ticket for him, cause they don’t have access to their account, and all his leave benefits and entitlement will be transferred to my account after he leaves the army. I would really like to know if he is for real or a scammer. Could someone please check on this website and see if he is indeed the same person that has been going around scamming others. If he is, I would like to warn others that he is using another new identity. Thanks

  421. Linda, he is indeed a scammer, I don’t have to look at a photo to tell you he is one. Just by what you are saying about him not having access to his money and needing for you to pay for his ticket is a bold face lie. The military takes care of everything for the soldiers including getting them home. You can send the pictures to CJ and he will post them for you. Just give CJ all the information you have on him and he will take care of the rest.

    • Hi Debbie, thanks for reconfirming my suspicion. Btw, how can I contact CJ and where should I send the pic that this scammer is using. Thanks again for your help

  422. Just to let you know that guy haggard is now going by the name of simon haggard boy did i have fun with him new right away he was a scammer so i just had fun with him please be careful out there! same pics on here he sent me!

    • The Haggard is also going by the name of Garry Anaman and his son Alex Anaman is staying w/ a caretaker in Accra Ghana by the name of Prince Andoh. He has sent me the very same pictures. email address that he is using is Anaman_Garry@yahoo. Needed $8000 for a full body bulletproof vest before going into Afganistan. Garry Anaman is also posted on facebook w/ the long story of his life. Son needing a new backpack, laptop, iPod Touch, and a PSP.

  423. Hi everyone,

    I must have sucker written on my farhead, lol. a couple months ago I was contacted by a soldier, Evans Holder and before I sent any money I checked out the paperwork he sent me and found out that it was a scam. So I never sent any money, the only effect it did on me was the emotional pain that I found out the man I loved was a scammer. But the funny thing is today I got an email from another scammer called steve wilson, new he was a scammer right away because they all have the same story. Do I really seam so gullible? But at least I am not an idiot. Just here to warn people about these two scammers.

  424. Hi, I was scammed for over a year by someone claiming to be Sargeant Major Dan Williamson (he changed it to Major Rodney Dan Williamson when told there was no one with that name found in the army database).
    Thank you CJ for this site for everyone who needs to share their story and prevent others from getting scammed by the same person or persons.
    He wanted money for his son studying at university in Ghana and has no way to get money from his bank in New York (which i found out was untrue) and for a package with his passport, medals and money he sent for me to take care of for him till he retired in April.
    He was asked to stay till May and still he has not come home because he needs money to get his package delivered to me. I was such an idiot and kept thinking that i would only send money this one last time, in the hopes of getting something back.
    This person threatened to kill himself many times when I let him know his story didn’t make sense to me. I knew there was a problem with his story, but i was in such denial and wanted to believe him so much.
    I am a smart woman, how could I let this happen? well, these people are very good at this and they know how to get to us, especially when we are vulnerable.
    I finally refused to send him another penny and he wanted me to send digital camera, ipod, iphone, shirts, deodorant and a digital camcorder to his son.

    I will send the photos I have with this to CJ Grisham at the site mentioned above so that he can post some of these when he gets a chance. I’m sure he’s trolling for more women. He had a website that I found and questioned him on, but he was never able to give me enough information to make me think that he was not a scammer.

    He even tried to say he didn’t know what a scammer was and told me that he had a meeting with the other people in his Infantry to talk about how to avoid this happening to other soldiers.

    I am not an idiot, but I sure feel like one. I hope that “what goes around, comes around” and he feels what it is like to be used. Please share his photos to prevent this from happening to another soldier with their private photos.

    Thanks again. I have sworn off soldiers. I think it’s best for all of us.

    • No need to swear off Soldiers. Just do your due diligence before falling for ANYONE!

      • thanks CJ, that is good advice.

  425. HI
    I FEEL SO SICK BY ALL YOU POOR LADIES AS MYSELF FELL FOR THIS B4 CHRISTMAS AND GUESS WHAT I HAVE SAW HIM ON HERE THE 1 AND ONLY IVAN NOBILE
    I KNEW HIM AS NOBILE SIMMONDS MET ON PLENTY MORE FISH

  426. I am currently speaking with a Sgt. Micheal (Mikky) Lunsford which recently gave me a e-mail address about purchasing a satalite phone for him to call me. I also ask him if I could write him a letter and he stated that for security purposes they could not get mail. I would like to know if this is a scam. I currently have photos and could send them to you if necessary.

    Thank You,
    Melissa

    • Melissa,

      Yes he’s a scammer. They can get mail and he shouldn’t need you to send money, phones or anything else. If you want to be absolutely sure ask him for his military e-mail address. If he won’t give it to you or says he can’t because of security reasons he is lying. Please take it from me (I got scammed back in Oct.) don’t send him anything or give him any of your personal info. Janine

      • I didn’t send him any personal info but I did send him my pictures and i confronted him about what he was doing and he said he has my address (which i never gave him, I did tell him my city) and that he is going to kill me and come after me. What am I suposed to do?

        • He is just trying to scare you. He won’t travel to the US. It would be to expensive and their goal is to make money not spend it.

  427. I have been emailing this person capt richard steve of the us army or goes by steve richard. I have just realised he is a Nigerian scammer i didnt lose any money to him thank god but i did give him all my personal details like home address mobile number and name iv been to my local authorities but they cant help. If anybody can give me some advice on what to do next A.S.A.P i would be extremley grateful. Thanx.

    • Jennifer,
      Call equifax and they will put a fraud alert on your social security number for 90 days. (free) Unless you gave him you S.S.# or bank account you should be okay. What you said you gave him is pretty basic stuff that is public knowledge if you search for it. This happened to me too so along with the equifax alert you can buy other products so you can go on line and check your credit yourself. Good Luck

  428. I have been chatting with someone calling themselves Robert Anderson, robert001455 at yahoo dot com claiming to be a military surgeon stationed in Iraq. After two days he was declaring how much he loved me and how god had told him I was the one he was to spend the rest of his life with and become a mother to his orphaned son! There followed many different requests for me to send him large sums of money, varying from paying for him to come visit me, to paying his commanding officer to let him have leave, to buying him out of the army, to finally helping him with his ’secret’ a photo of a box full of 7million pounds worth money he wanted to send me!!! Are they all getting more stupid? or do they think we are?

    I now have emails from his ‘agent’ who wants thousands of pounds from me to deliver this box to my home address.

  429. Another one to watch out. Claim to be a major
    serving in peacekeepping force in Iraq.Had a
    son using jeansspy@aol.com, to call me mother
    but cannot give me his tel/address.

    the name he use is Paul Elvis Woodgate.
    email Paul_elvis@live.com
    can only email in the night mostly. I check
    his details, nothing comes up.
    but has been asking me money twice.

    Penny

    • it turns out he is using the chief of staff
      picture! people like me have not been follow military events, it shows how easily we can be misleaded.

      It taught me, to always put up your guard and find out more before plunging in.

  430. I have been talking to an Anthony Sanches. it was going very well and was falling for him until he asked me for money today for an operation for his mother. I am now confused. I dont know if its a scam or what. I told him no i have no money to send but still :( Makes me very sad if it is a scammer which it feels like..

  431. CJ, I sent a comment out to you on Monday and was wonder if you had any information on Raymond Draper. I’m stilling communicating with him and I just want to make sure this solider is ok and doing well. Thanks for the information.

  432. Hi ladies, here’s another one John Hogan
    hoganjjohn@yahoo.com
    met him on badoo on Thurs night and he proposed Fri night, I asked him if he thought I was desperate. His pic shows a sign with Area 51 in the back ground, when I asked him about Area 51 he told me he was protecting it from the taliban, lucky for us these guys are too stupid to research their lies. Also thanks Donna for tracing the IP address to Nigeria

  433. My friend got scammed by SSG SCOTT D ADAMS. His pics are on here. Also he has a friend helping him snipeshooter001@yahoo.com. Goes by the name of ROY.

    I have mailed CJ with the photo’s they are both using.

    Shame my friend did not find this site befroe she part with 1,000′s of pounds

  434. WELL EVERYONE HELLO , I HAVE BEEN WORKING ON
    FINDING INFORMATION ON OUR SCAMMER WHO GOES

    BY “LINGO’S”

    PICS & MORE , YOU MUST GO TO MY PAGE TO GET THE PIC’S & UPDATES LINK BELOW :

    http://www.migente.com/DIAMONDSnECSTASY/

    ALSO I HAVE MORE INFO. THAT HAS NOT BEEN DISCLOSED SUCH AS :

    PHONE #’S
    BANK ACCOUNT INFO.
    WESTERN UNION PICK UPS
    ACCOMPLISH’S / FRIENDS #’S

    ETC . THEY ARE DISCLOSED ON THAT SITE AND MORE – ONLY WHAT I DON’T CARE FOR THE SCAMMER TO VIEW , HE DOES VIST OFTEN TO SEE MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS .

    • laurie i may have some more info for you on your “lingo” he is going by the name of david james smith his email address is smith4real32@ymail.com i have been scammed for alot of money from him. he promised me the world. told me his wife passed away and he has just lost his mom. he said he has a son which is 25yrs old and he is from oklahoma city, oklahoma. i to feel in love with him he was so sweet with the things he would say and i needed to hear them as well i lost my husband not to long ago and he played on that in fact he is still trying to play me he said he was 51yrs old and wanted to get out of the army after putting in 25yrs. i know what you seen in him he is very good looking and he says all the right things to make one fall in love with him im sorry you went through this and im sorry i went through it as well my life would have been better off if i had of never got on the web site to find him i have learned a lesson a costly lesson at that and i have blocked him from ever having contact with me again.this scammer has hurt me to much. anyway thank you for everything

  435. I would like to know if anyone has had any dealings with Micheal Mahoney. He is suppose to be stationed in Iraq. So many stories after a while you do not know what or who to believe. Which is so sad.

  436. Has anyone had any dealings with a Micheal Mahoney he is suppose to be stationed in Iraq. I would appreciate any information that anyone could give to me. Thank you

  437. My mother in-law is a victim. However, i need proof that this “Captain Louis Morris Ramos” is a fake. I have photos of him and basic details such as email addresses, the f*c*er even took advantage of the fact that she’s a devout christian and posed as a 2nd person who knows Louis and says that he’s a priest and asked for some money – unfortunately, it was through western union…and i know that can’t be tracked. I need help, as she’s fallen into the trap, and i need a way of verifying if he’s fake. Can anyone help me? I’m really desperate for some help…my email address is venieon@yahoo.com.au

  438. ANY WOMEN OUT THERE THAT IS HAVING ANY CONTACT WITH A REAL CHARMER NAMED …. JAMES DAVID MASSINGALE CALLS HIMSELF A SARGENT IN THE US ARMY PLEASE STAY CLEAR FROM HIM HE, IS A SCAMMER, HE WILL SUCK YOU IN WITH HIS WORDS & BEAUTIFUL POMES THEN HE WILL TAKE YOUR MONEY. HE TELLS YOU THAT HE LOST HIS WIFE IN A CAR ACCIDANT, & HE HAS A 14 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WHO LIVES IN THE UK WITH HER NAN & POP. HE SENDS YOU PICS OF HIM IN UNIFORM..& IN A BLUE TSHIRT WITH A BIG SMILE ON HIS FACE. HE ALSO HAS OTHER PIC,S OF HIM EATING A ICE CONE WITH A WHITE CAP ON HIS HEAD PLEASE PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM HIM HE IS JUST A BIG CON & SCAMMER HE PRAYS ON YOUR LONELYNESS. IF U WANT MORE INFO PLEASE EMAIL ME AT PHANCOCK2@HOTMAIL.COM OK STAY SAFE LADYS

  439. HI AGAIN JAMES DAVID MASSINGALE ALSO GOS BY THESES NAMES TRACY VASSEUR CONTROLES OFFICER HA!
    DAVID MASSINGALE HA!
    JIMMY ALEX US ARMY LEAVES DEPARTMENT HA!
    EMAILS ARE 1: JAMESMASSINGALE@YAHOO.COM
    2:JAMESMASSINGALE@YAHOO.CA
    3:J.MASSINGALE@YAHOO.COM OR .CA
    4:DAVIDMASSINGALE@ YAHOO.COM OR CA
    5:LT.COL.JIMMY ALEX USARMYLEAVEAPROVAL@ATT.NET PLEASE DONT TRUST ANY OF THESE EMAILS HE ALSO GO,S ON DATING SIGHTS LIKE SOMEONE TO LOVE DONT TRUST HIM PLEASE

  440. Ive had dealings with Sgt Daniel Armstrong, Sgt McDonald Peterson, Sgt Franklin James and Sgt Micheal Weaver. All had Yahoo accounts and all asked for money at some point. You can see McDonalds pictures near the top under the name Patrick McDonald.

  441. date 28.01.1011…. Gen. Carter Ruddock – Kabul , Afganistan
    from New York
    …ask money for fuel for his private jet…ha ha ha

  442. 28.01.2011
    Gen.Carter Ruddock Smith in Kabul , Afghanistan…
    from New York
    was asking money fot fuel for his private jet….ha ha ha

  443. 28.01.2011
    Gen.Carter Ruddock Smith in Kabul , Afghanistan…
    from New York
    was asking money for fuel for his private jet….ha ha ha

  444. I THINK I ALSO HAVE A SCAMMER.HE GOES BY THE NAME KENNETHWELL25@YAHOO.COM.THERE ALOT OF WARNING BELLS.HE HAS NOT YET ASKED FOR MONEY.HE’S NOT GETTING IT ANYWAY,I PLAN ON PLAYING HIS AZZ LIKE A FINE TUNED FIDDLE.WONDER IF I ASK HIM TO SEND ME MONEY IF I WOULD EVER HEAR FROM HIM AGAIN.LOL KENNETH(REAL NAME IS SCOTT)IS SUPOSE TO BE STATIONED IN AFGHANISTAN.JUST WANTED TO DROP HIS NAME IN HERE TOO.BTW I LOVE THIS SITE.GOT ALOT OF USEFULL INFORMATION.THANKS

  445. i mayself was contacted by a scammer also by the name of david roland or rollingarmyboy@yahoo.com he claims he a first sergent in the army stationed in hawaii where he wrote me poerty and said sweet thing telling me he was going to be shipped where i am then out of nowhere he hits me with a offical letter so he says i have encloseda copy of the letter to warn everyone and this paper has an army logo on it but it wont let me post it…

    First name: David 14 – 12 – 2010 4:09 PM (PST)
    Middle name: Harold
    Last name: Roland
    MMN: Avocado
    DOB: 12 – 04 – 1973
    Y of E: 1998 (05)
    MOS: 21T5OP5OO
    Rank: First Sgt
    Ref: ROL3788212Z-HI-MIL-DEC10
    RE: CHANGES IN REDEPLOYMENT/POST-TRANSFER STATUS & APPEAL PROCEDURE
    In reference to your scheduled redeployment which is meant to take place on December 20th, 2010, I am sorry to inform you that the Army has overturned its decision to ship you within the States and are therefore shipping you overseas.
    As one of our best 21Ts (Technical Engineering Analysts) and owing to the fact you have a 100% disciplinary record and a high percentile work rate & attitude during your continuous twelve years career with the Army, we are enlisting you to join with our currently short-staffed technical members at USAG Camp Humphrey, South Korea. While this might come as a surprise to you, the Army apologizes for the inconveniences this might have caused you but trust in your adaptability and flexible prowess especially as displayed over your long-served career. Your official letter of assignment and deployment will be forwarded to you in the coming days.
    However, under the rules for reserve volunteers, you have the right to file an appeal within the shortest stipulated time as will be further advised by your attached military attorney. Should in case you decide to file for an appeal, listed below is a standard list of requirements to include with your appeal.
    (i) Copy of Drivers License and Army Identification Card
    (ii) 3 Recent passport photographs
    (iii) Recent completion letter of last assignment
    (iv) Attestation letter (reference) from Station Commander & Group Commander
    (v) Attestation letter from your Attorney and Station Legal Administrator
    (vi) Behavioral assessment result (2 year term assessment)
    (vii) 3 Army Guarantors of the rank of a WO1 or above
    (viii) 2 Civilian Guarantors who must post a surety bond of $1500 each (Must not be family members or relatives and bond will be remitted back to them upon completion of your appeal process)
    As stated earlier, you can contact your Army attorney for more details and procedures in filing your appeal. If you have any enquiries or questions, kindly refer to your district/stationed Sergeant Major or contact the Army help desk number at the back of your ID Card.
    On behalf of the United States Army and the 25TH Infantry Division, Hawaii. I hopefully wish you find your military service in South Korea beneficial towards your career goal in the US Army. I also do hope you find this information resourceful and hopefully wish it’s beneficial to you in whatever variety it might appear to you.
    Bernard Champoux 14 -12 – 2010
    Major General, Commanding Officer
    25th Infantry Division, US Army
    RRROOOLLL333777888888222111222ZZZ ––– UUUSSSAAARRRMMMYYYPPPAAACCCIIIFFFIIICCC ––– MMMIIILLL ––– DDDEEECCC111000 ––– SSSCCCHHH ––– HHHIII ––– 888000000222999333222888ZZZTTTTTT
    ——————————— CLASSIFIED DOCUMENT (DEPARTMENT OF THE ARMY) ———————————–

  446. Hi,
    Here are the links to two Facebook accounts same scammer. There are 3 of us that I know of. He got me off the “juan rivera” profile and he got the other two ladies off the “alvin rivera” profile.

    “Juan Rivera”
    http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/profile.php?id=100001269833418

    “Alvin Rivera”
    http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/profile.php?id=100001778007974

    Keep up the good work and thank you and your family’s sacrafice and service to this country.

  447. Hi mine is also about alvin and juan rivera. I have spoke to 3 other ladies who he is trying to scam as well as me.He is not an american soilder just feel so sorry for the soilder whos pictures he is using.

  448. Hi mine too is about alvin or juan rivera. He is not an american soldier.he is a scammer. I just feel so sorry for the soldior whos pictures he is using

  449. I feel so sorry for the soldiers whos piture he using

  450. There is a story in my local news paper about a woman sent a soldier 80,000 pound to buy himself out the army.His name was sgt mark ray smith. That was on Friends Reunited . This was in the uk

  451. Hi alvin rivera sent me a friend request about 9 weeks ago. I looked at pictures and added him on facebook.He started talking to me straight away. He told me he had been married for 20 years and his wife run off with his mate. He had a daughter age 17 name angie. he said he lived in new york all his life and was doing good for his self. After 6 weeks he asked me if he could send a package here for me to keep till he come here. To prove how much he trusted me. I said no he didnt like it said it was ok i still wouldnt. He wanted me to email a diplomat and arrange to met someone to delieve it here. i wouldnt so he fell out with me for 2 days. I started digging round and rememder old email address it had name juanrivera. So went down them all till i found him. Char1otte was on it as in a relationship with him so sent her friend request. She told me her story. So on night when he came on line i told him what i found.He said someone is setting him up. I told him the only way i would believe his was to talk to him on phone.He agreed. so next day he phoned me. He couldnt hardly speak english. No not american soldier at all

  452. morgan.james37@yahoo.com
    kevin.morris25@yahoo.com

    Who knows these ” staff sargent”S
    Contacted me as Kelvin Morris, says he´s in iraq until end of jan. 2011.
    2 private pictures and 2 military pictures.

  453. Dec. 10, 2010 – 7:53pm
    I work with the US Army as a E6 STAFF SARGENT and also a SQUADRON LEADER……….I lead 250 Army men and 250 Army women…Is a hard work though but great in doing ..I’ve served for 25 good years…I love this work and love helping the people of my country .All my life ..I’ve wished to help and save people who are been attacked by bad people and by the Grace of Almighty .I can do that i am and doing it now.so i am very proud of my self. and very happy.

    I’m really good at
    I am really good at advising people, Drawing , Painting , Writing poems ,I’m also good at cooking, writing, organizing, and creating.Teaching others to do right …figuring things out..Making people Happy and also Having fun with kids.

    The first things people usually notice about me
    That i am kind , Honest in everything , Making friends and people come close to me Happy any time , any where and every where. I care about every one ,I am always been what i am .( I’m Me) LOL..I am always having smiles on my face where ever i go. That i love talking about what life brings and etc.

    My favorite books, movies, music, and food
    My favorite foods: American, Barbecue, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese/Dim Sum, Continental, Fast Food/Pizza, French, German, Japanese/Sushi, Seafood, Soul Food, Spanish.

    My favorite music:
    Blues, Christian & Gospel, Classic Rock n’ Roll, Classical, Country, Folk, Jazz, Opera, Soul/R&B….

    I like to read: Back to top Relationships

  454. Hello,

    I have been in contact with lord knows how many of these men are scammers. I never give money to someone I do not know. However, I get tipped off really fast by the way they write and talk to you. Sloppy writing like a foreigner who does not know the english language very well. That is a first tip off for me. The next thing that tips me off is when they tell you that you need to fill out a form so that they can come home on leave. I also note that they use that woman’s deepest need……..love and marriage and children, if that is what she wants. Be aware! Thirdly, I am tipped off by huge red flags when these men tell you they have lost a wife in a car accident (no matter how many years ago) and have one son or one daughter, yet they have no family or their son or daughter is living with the nanny! Big mistake! No parent is going to let their only child live with a nanny instead of their parents.

    The many men I have been contacted by go by the following names:

    Edward Smith (capt.edward smith) (facebook)

    Larry Edwards (facebook)

    John Jensen Todd (facebook)

    Graham Mike (facebook)

    Richard Burton (facebook)

    All these men had many things in common……but one thing I could not do and that was not giving money or any facet of my personal information. They also say that they could not call you from where they are stationed…..load of crap in many cases. Many of these men are supposedly stationed in Kandahar, Kabul, Afghanistan, Iraq, and the like. Be careful and watch for many similiar signs!!!

    Take care.

    • I have been contacted by someone claiming to be Jim Edwards wonder if it is the same Larry Edwards. The name on his uniform said Edwards and he said he was a E-6 SSG email name edwardshulk@ymail.com

  455. Thanks Crystal. He never asked for money, but my trust and my heart. And said after a week we are mailing since months, and said I am in Iraq your in the states, but I am in europe.
    And could not call me. And why a staff sargent weares a hat with 4 stars, and is pictured in front of the presidents airplane ( faked picture or faked image?)Found him on tineye ( contact a hero, not so good pic as I´ve got)
    and why cs soldiers perspective don´t replyed my mail?
    Hope for your reply

  456. This is all very enlightening. Have just start chatting to a guy (from a dating site) called Thomas Gough stationed in Kabul, from Texas. Has anyone heard of him?

  457. Cj
    Please could you please send me your email as I have photos forms letters and names to send you thank you

    I await for a email address

    thankyou

    • Hy Pam
      But the e-mail will be seen here from everybody? Can´t you give me your e-mail?

  458. can some body tell me when i can contact real soldier i want one in my life

  459. Hy Pam, 2 e-mails to soldiers perspective were not replied, so I will try this, but if possible delete my e-mail here , okay.
    wildflower5@web.de.
    Waiting for your reply.

  460. hello
    i have also been contacted by someone this excat letter was sent to me Hospital of California. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.
    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.
    My son lives with a friend in Miami. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time. Will like you to also send me some pictures of you too.Take care.
    I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words
    Have a good day.
    Hugs,he is using the name Sgt David Ramos
    lol… i knew the letters were to good to be true,but he found me on lava life

    • I have had that same letter sent to me by 5 different men….It starts to get funny after a while…so run now

    • a captain or E6 Harry James uses the same letter… Anyway to let real guy in the pics know that he is being used in a scam? How do I send the pics to CJ?

      • No, please do NOT send me anything. As I’ve said, I’m currently deployed to AFghanistan and don’t have time to be updating these. Honestly, all I’m doing is deleting or archiving these types of emails while I’m deployed. All the information you need is here, just keep posting the information so it is searchable.

  461. i called him om it after seeing this site i kid of knew it wasn’t true so i went surfing the net and came across this site.
    i said you are a fraud you are not David Ramos,….I caught on 2nd day into it,but i will tell you the letter he sent about “our” life together huh! i am sorry you don’t fall in love 2 hours after first conversation,even after i called him on it he wrote me back..here is a copy of the letter after i called him on it I don’t think that I tell you enough how much you truly mean to me and how much I love you. I am proud of your achievements and impressed by your strong will. Although I don’t constantly say it, I am proud to see you develop into who you are becoming. I love you dearly and you constantly remain in my sweetest thoughts…. Never doubt how much you mean to me and nevertheless how much I love you. I will remain faithfully yours until the end of time.
    don’t think that I tell you enough how much you truly mean to me and how much I love you. I am proud of your achievements and impressed by your strong will. Although I don’t constantly say it, I am proud to see you develop into who you are becoming. I love you dearly and you constantly remain in my sweetest thoughts…. Never doubt how much you mean to me and nevertheless how much I love you. I will remain faithfully yours until the end of time.
    don’t think that I tell you enough how much you truly mean to me and how much I love you. I am proud of your achievements and impressed by your strong will. Although I don’t constantly say it, I am proud to see you develop into who you are becoming. I love you dearly and you constantly remain in my sweetest thoughts…. Never doubt how much you mean to me and nevertheless how much I love you. I will remain faithfully yours until the end of time don’t think that I tell you enough how much you truly mean to me and how much I love you. I am proud of your achievements and impressed by your strong will. Although I don’t constantly say it, I am proud to see you develop into who you are becoming. I love you dearly and you constantly remain in my sweetest thoughts…. Never doubt how much you mean to me and nevertheless how much I love you. I will remain faithfully yours until the end of time.

    Love always,lol i thought the nerve after i told him i know u r a fraud,be careful ladies because they can be charming

  462. oops did not realize i copied and pasred the letter 2 times.

  463. lol…another one brian keith from plainfield ont
    but this guy game me full address,i found the number and called him
    i asked him if he was on yahoo chat
    he was surprised and said no
    so i told him what was going on

  464. Hello Babe.
    How are you doing today?i hope all is well with your condition of health..Well my dear am Major John..I’m a soldier and i have been in the army for about 29 years..And i have been in Iraq for about 4 years so i have plan to resign in the army so that i can meet someone that i love,And i don’t care about the distance or the age because distance is a way and age is also a number.All is about who can make you happy and also trust you and treat you like a queen.Well am the only son of my late parents.I am a widowed with two children called Jeffery and Sylvia .They are very good children and i really do love them a lot.They have been the source of happiness since my ex passed away..And Sylvia is 18years and Jeffery is 15years old.All my dream was to get a sister and also brothers but is not all dreams that come true..

    And survive on my own financially. I love friends and family, I am a lot of fun and make friends easily. I love life, love my family and still have some love to share with a special lady. Life can be lonely without that someone…I am a person who is very real when it comes to life and its’ issues. Am honest,kind caring,affectionate,good sense of humor,easy going,free thinker,trustworthy and respect the lives of other people…..I’m a man that is living life as it comes to me.

    I don’t worry about tomorrow, for it will be here no matter what I do. The best days of my life are yet to come…am looking for someone who will love and care about me for a long time relationship that can lead to marriage. Although I would consider myself a romantic, I don’t believe that life is about the “grand passion.” In reality it is more about comfortable comrade. I am a really fun person who loves people, loves to laugh,…

    I’m excited to see new places, meet new people and do new things.I’m not a fighter and I don’t argue, life’s too short but I do value friendship and intimacy. Respect is one of the most important requisites in a relationship, as are honesty and commitment. I enjoy going out to dinner, movies, walks, and quiet times. I love nature, enjoy learning, and have a deep respect and love for children. I’m fascinated with the world and different cultures and would enjoy learning more about them….

    I love to laugh and like being around people with a good sense of humor. I also appreciate people who are different and even quirky. They’re usually interesting…I want to meet someone who is kind and enjoyable to be with.I know love takes time and am in no hurry. I have the rest of my life, that should be enough time ..She would have to be a woman of integrity, honest, confident, kind and with a sense of humor.

    Needless to say an intelligent woman who is able to converse on several subjects without getting into passionate arguments all the time. very affectionate,easy going,understands,trustworthy,family oriented and supportive. she should be fun-loving and love to laugh…

    Being through worst pain in relationship is not all that easy sharing it with people simply because it hurts. through that I have learn a lot from my past. There is no going to be turning back into old life style.I believe either of us had in mind of meeting someone special online but it has just come to pass with our personality description towards learning few thing about each other.

    I’m ready to falling in love with someone special who ever that happens to be.. there are few qualities which talks about genuine woman in relationship, such as faithfulness,loyalty, trustworthy, Honesty, respectful etc. guess having those qualities in relationship can really help a lot. I am not looking to fill a void in my life, I am looking for my soul mate.

    I am a young looking for my age to which I am very grateful for. I do not play mind games and i cant afford to be played as that will be really hard on me. What you see is what you get with me..I’m not sure exactly what they mean by personal habits, but I will take a shot here. Some personal habits include a fairly strutted, organized lifestyle. I like order in my life, but not to the point of being obsessive about it….I have a dry wit, but I do have a serious side, and I try to balance the two.

    I’m mostly serious at work or when the situation is warranted. Some of my hobbies include cooking, gardening, reading and fishing. Also, swimming and playing golf in the summertime. I enjoy watching football and golf, I enjoy attending sporting events, going to the theater and eating out, to name a few. I’m not sure if this answered the question. I love traveling, new and unknown in nature, life and people…I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered…Hope to hear from you soon then and have a nice day.xoxoxo.Stay Blessed.

    Yours friend,

    Major John Allan Packer.

  465. thank god when money was mentioned i woke up and smelt the bacon!!!you have lost a good friend 2/9/2011 9:07:26 PM John Allan Packer lilian I will never lose you and how i wish i can proof this to you that i am who i said i am.. 2/9/2011 9:07:42 PM John Allan Packer lilian but i will try and do all my best possible to proof to you that i am who i am ok. 2/9/2011 9:10:40 PM lilian John Allan Packer be a man and put your real photo on your profile! if it was really you you would not be talking to me you would be trying to sort out who is using your Identity 2/9/2011 9:11:36 PM John Allan Packer lilian Yes i understand and i know you are feeling at this moment but i need you to put in mind that i will never do anything to hurt you and that am going to be yours forever and ever through good or bad ok. 2/9/2011 2/9/2011 9:13:12 PM John Allan Packer lilian Please listen to the beat of my heart crying for your love and understanding honey,i will never do anything bad against you ok 2/9/2011 9:14:13 PM John Allan Packer lilian Am very honest with you honey and i do mean what ever that i say to you on here honey 2/9/2011 9:14:25 PM lilian John Allan Packer do not think so there is no trust in me 2/9/2011 9:15:06 PM lilian John Allan Packer i should get the police!! 2/9/2011 9:15:42 PM lilian sends C:\Documents and Settings\Administrator\Desktop\[UPDATE] The Face of Military Dating Scams – The Wall of Shame A Soldier’s Perspective.url 2/9/2011 9:15:42 PM John Allan Packer lilian Go ahead and do everything that you want to do that you will find out whether am for real or not ok 2/9/2011 9:16:17 PM lilian John Allan Packer ok i will 2/9/2011 9:16:34 PM John Allan Packer lilian go ahead 2/9/2011 9:18:13 PM lilian John Allan Packer are you staying till they arrive?(dont think so)
    his photo is on this page above

    • Let me proof to you … LOL

  466. You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time.

  467. this is major john allan packer (ken 41505_100001237207829_6881 -n)

  468. A few weeks ago I was contacted on Mate1 by someone going by name of Sgt Michael Sickman, from Glasgow Scotland in the British Army stationed in Afghanistan. Waiting for his retirement papers to come through and wanted to start a new life with me. He asked if I owned my own home, how much i made in my job, neither of which I answered. I started getting very intense “love letters” from him and googled them finding their origins on a Romance Letter site. He has an 8 yr old son back in Scotland living with a Nanny. No mention of the ex wife. The papers came through a few days ago and he asked me to forward him info on flights to Canada. My radar was up already, but i did this. The next day he tells me that three men were killed and all the flights out are cancelled but he wants out so bad. this morning I get an email asking for 1150. to help with this flight. I told him no, dont have that kind of money available and also told him I found his name on a scam site saying he was a US marine from last Fall. Not a word since. The email he was using is mikesickman@yahoo.com and I have numerous pictures from him.

  469. A little while back my friend got scammed… she got contacted by a guy on a site called nightcafe. So I put a profile on there…. there are loads of soldiers on there who’s pics are on here….In time I have added them to my yahoo lol…. Hope fully it slows them down from scamming more innocent women as while they are talking to me and telling me I am the woman of their dreams it stops them conning someone else ! Hear are a few names

    Allen Fellows
    Micheal Cray
    Jeremiah workman ( He is funny cos when you search him he has published a book and on his facebook profile he is married, but he swears he is for real)..
    Mark Patterson
    Lt col James Williams
    Capt Jeff Lawrence
    Lt Gerald Palous
    English George G
    Roy Donaldson

    Quite a list but god I am having fun

  470. Hy Ladies, tell these men how is the weather in afgahnistan, and their special ons are there, perfect date is a woman in a BURKA, because they tarnish themself like these men.

    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

  471. I just found out that a Africa was trying to scam me. He is in Iraq and he has a daughter name Lora. He goes by the name of Sgt Jim Wilgano. As soon as I started to ask question. He tryed to change things up. I made him tell me the truth and they came clean. I will be looking out for more of them.

  472. Well it seems that I have been scammed as well. I started talking to this supposed Captain James Gordon Hannett (reciprocalsoldier@yahoo.com) over in Iraq 4 or 5 wks ago. I was on match.com and on his first night of signing up he imed me and we talked all the time online and thru texts. He says he’s 49 yrs old, his bday is 2/2/62, he has two kids – 16 yr old Larry and 18 yr old Lawrencia who live in the Netherlands with his sister, Michele. He’s not widowed from his wife. They were divorced 3 yrs when she died of kidney failure. He’s been in the military (army) for 21 years and is retiring March 15, 2011. He’s been over in Iraq (Afghanistan) doing the peacekeeping mission. He told me everything I wanted to hear and I actually believed him. After two wks of chatting online, he requested that I send him a care package with an ipod touch 32gb, towel, expensive miyake lotion for men, cookies and crackers. Well, dummy me went shopping on a saturday with a great check that I won’t see that kind of money for a long time and preceded to send these items to him. He uses a supposedly retired major (rtdmajor@gmail.com) to receive his packages. Meaning I sent this retired major the package over in Africa and had to pay over $500 for shipping. Once the package got to Africa, this retired major called me and said that customs needed an additional $150.00 to release the package to him because the contents in the box were worth $500. I went ahead and western unioned the $150. Captain James Hannett did not thank me or let me know that he had rcvd the pkg. I had to continuely ask him. He then stopped contacting me and it did make me wonder if it was a scam and if all he wanted was the materials, nothing more. We made plans for him to come to where I live in Kentucky and we would get married and I would work with him in his jewelry store, etc. I told him he was too good to be true and yep I should have listened to my gut the first time. I so wanted to believe what he said to me was true. Last night I sent him an email stating that if he didn’t improve on his communication with me, he doesn’t need to come here to see me. He sent me a text at 1:43 am EST and I then got online and we started chatting. He again told me how much he loves me and wants me in his life and all that other crap. Everything was going well (I thought at the time) until he said he wanted to send his personal items to me before he left Iraq. I told him that would be okay, but that I would not pay for any of it. He sent me a list of what he needed to send to me – a suitcase full of his pistol, army badge, three car keys, documents of his two houses in NY and GA, his captain uniform, gold watch, and award medals. Plus a trunk full of 45 pieces of 22 carats of gold. Then advised me to contact retired major to get these items shipped to me. He told me that he wanted to open a safe deposit box for these items. As I’m getting ready to get off being online with him to go back to bed, he said he received a msg from his sister in the netherlands and for me to hang on a minute. He then came back to say that his son Larry had messed up a friend’s home theater system and if he didn’t get it fixed within 2 wks, his son was going to jail. “Captain James” said that he would order one from Sears and send it to me so I can send it to Retired Major and it can then go to his sister. I told him that I didn’t have the money to do that again. He said that for me to do it and he would pay me when he got here.
    I told my sister about him on the phone today and she felt and told me that it was a scam and preceded to look him up online, which I also had done in the beginning but didn’t see or want to see maybe, the stories of these men doing this to us lonely women. After hearing some of the stories she read off to me, I decided to send “Captain James Hannett” a text msg telling him that this wasn’t going to work and good luck. He replied with a msg saying that he’d given me his heart and I hurt him so much like this at the point where he can’t do without me (spelled my name wrong). Thanked me so much and God bless me. I told him I wasn’t going to be scammed any longer and he replied by saying that I’m calling him a liar and thanked me and said that he would not contact me anymore.

    I would put his pictures on here, but I don’t know how to.

    Ladies, we have to be more careful. But I’m about to give up. This is the second time I’ve been scammed. These men (scum of the earth) should be prosecuted. Please be careful out there and know in your heart and your gut that if he sounds too good to be true, he is!!!!

    • Michelle – Well said. I’ve just discovered TODAY that “Captain Clark Leno Brown” (who when he first IMd me on match.com was “Leno Brown Harrad” or Haggard) is a fraud. I OFFERED to send him a package of goodies for his supposed birthday, March 6, when he will turn 49. He is retiring after 27 years in the Army in May. Yadda yadda yadda. When his “agent”, William Thomson (mr_diploma200@yahoo.com) sent me the address in Accra Ghana with the phone number, I googled it and found this website.

      CJ – THANK YOU!! Those scammers had me on the line, reeling me in. I can’t believe how good they are at pushing the right buttons. And I can’t believe I fell for it. But I can see from this site that I am not alone. Thank you. I have an additional photo to add to the array. I also saved most of the IMs and, of course, the emails. Do you want them? I’d like to help in finding them. I may even keep the connection to them open for a while (without talking to them) if that will help.

  473. How do I check the IP address? He has NOT asked for any money, I just want to make sure. I just e-mailed him and asked some of the questions that everyone was talking about

  474. I have been taken for 855 dollars by a man call Staff Sargent Jeffery Durama.

  475. Im in contact with one now, who do I report him to? I have pictures also, new ones he is not any of the ones you already have. He calls himself Mateo Ramos. Supposedly on secret mission.

    • Hello Michelle
      My friend has recently been corresponding with a Mateo Ramos in Afghanistan – What was your experience ? Have you any pictures of him ?
      Thanks.

  476. Wow! I just joined match.com today. A very attractive man from Bedford, TX wanted to IM with me. He goes by Steve Lopez, steve_lopez56@yahoo.com He asked me to load yahoo messenger so we could video chat, but who the heck was I going to see? After we got off line I couldn’t access his match.com profile anymore, I thought that was odd. So I googled Steve Lopez, Beford TX to see if I could find a facebook or something else and I ended up here. Scary and shocking to see so many of his EXACT words in these letters. He gave me the A&A school, born at the Baptist Hospital, Calvary school, his mother was a head teacher and father in military medical field blah blah blah. I thought those were weird facts to be blurting out to get to know each other but I just thought he was shy or quirky. He also said ‘Mum’ instead of Mom. I sent him an email and we will see if he send one back with pictures and I will forward them to you. The picture on his profile was not military. His match.com id is MAJORSEARCH7019. He also verbatim said the stuff about E6 Staff Sergeant etc etc. Amazing. Other things that were odd were his over reactions to what I said. “Oh that’s wonderful! How nice!” and overuse of smileys. I am so glad I found your site. I don’t think I would have ever sent anyone any money (hell my good ol’ ex right here at home has scammed me for money) but now I know what to look for so I don’t even waste my time on these people. I have several legitimate friends and have started a relationship start online before so I could have gone for quite a ride. You are doing a great thing here. My heart goes out to everyone who has been conned and worse had their hearts broken by these low lifes.
    T~

  477. I believe that I was being scammed- thank God I realized it quickly! But I feel bad for whoever’s pic was/is being used.
    I got a lot of the same stuff that was mentioned on here… Set to retire soon, wants to build a family, poor grammar & spelling, wife died in a plane crash, has a daughter in boarding school in England, has no other family at all, doesn’t have access to the phone, etc. He never asked me for money- I caught on too quickly before he could. How do I upload pics to this site so that others can watch out for it?
    Thanks!

  478. My friend is a single mother and she contacted me yesterday. She was befriended by a military man from the singleparentmeet.com website. He said he was in the army, needed to get a package out of Afganistan and that a “diplomat” known only as “Mr. Coffie” (HA HA HA) would contact her, as he could not due to “security”.. She is vulnerable and wanted to help these idiots!

    They even sent her a picture. The Army guy’s name was “John Edwards”.. ha ha ha. anyway, I am glad I found this website. They even sent her flowers for Valentine’s Day! She even sent me their “supposed” email addresses: diplomatcoffie@myway.com and devotedheart50@yahoo.com

    Mr. Coffie (still can’t get over that fake name) sent her this message yesterday:

    Attn Miss,
    I finally made it to Ghana safely I got here 5 hours ago but I was very tired and needed some rest so checked in into a hotel,The problem right now is that I am short in cash all I have on me is $1000 but upon going through customs and security check the amount I need right Now to fly out of here is $3000. So now I will need $2000 to make sure that all is taken care of. I am waiting on you now so that I know what to do next.hope to hear from You soon.
    Best Regards
    Dip. Coffie

    Anyway, this site was very helpful!

    • Angela: Got almost same phone call only wanting $6000. The messenger was Mr. Bellman. Could hardly speak english. Also stuck in customs. Beware of a guy name Robert Badley. Very cute pictures of course. Never heard from him again when I said I did not have ANY money.

  479. this devotedheart50@yahoo.com “John Edwards” is chatting with my friend right now. He is angry because she will not send money.. Who do we report these people to?

  480. Here is a copy of the chat she just had with this scum:

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:02:53 PM): Hello slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:03:49 PM): hello John Edward (2/22/2011 4:04:12 PM): how are you ? slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:04:36 PM): ok…you? John Edward (2/22/2011 4:05:29 PM): I am fine slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:06:13 PM): long day? John Edward (2/22/2011 4:06:41 PM): It was Okay not bad John Edward (2/22/2011 4:06:45 PM): and you slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:07:04 PM): had to leave early John Edward (2/22/2011 4:07:24 PM): why ? slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:07:33 PM): avery wasnt feeling well John Edward (2/22/2011 4:08:01 PM): that is very bad slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:08:49 PM): have you talked to Mr Coffie? John Edward (2/22/2011 4:09:02 PM): yes slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:09:08 PM): and…. John Edward (2/22/2011 4:09:20 PM): nothing Good baby John Edward (2/
    Me:

    Awesome! Thank you Joshua!
    susan houp:

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:09:46 PM): I need some money to have him settle down and have the package safe slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:10:13 PM): well I dont know where you are going to get it John Edward (2/22/2011 4:11:04 PM): true slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:11:29 PM): you better think of something because its not coming from me John Edward (2/22/2011 4:12:29 PM): I dont even think about anything coming from you

    not done

    verrry long

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:12:44 PM): cos you are a dissapiontment slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:13:45 PM): you need to work on your english because you are not an American slja970 1 (2/22/2011 4:13:54 PM): and you cant spell John Edward (2/22/2011 4:14:42 PM): Hmmm that is what you think greedy bitch slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:15:22 PM): you are trying to scam me….im not stupid….but yesterday you claimed you loved me!!!! what a joke slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:15:51 PM): is the man who you are impersonating even alive John Edward (2/22/2011 4:16:14 PM): Yes But I reflected on everything and I realised all you want was the Money

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:16:25 PM): lol….omg John Edward (2/22/2011 4:16:38 PM): I think I Know why you are existing without a Husband slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:16:39 PM): you are crazy John Edward (2/22/2011 4:16:55 PM): Your Husband realised you are No Good Bitch slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:17:04 PM): im better off without one!! slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:17:22 PM): you are just mad because you cant scam me

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:17:23 PM): No man wants You trust me slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:17:35 PM): lol..thats what you think John Edward (2/22/2011 4:17:36 PM): You will die Lonely John Edward (2/22/2011 4:17:52 PM): WHAT DO YOU HAVE FOR ME TO SCAM YOU LOL slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:17:56 PM): so will you John Edward (2/22/2011 4:18:43 PM): I HAVE MY MONEY BITCH AND I AM GLAD U DID NOT GET……I WONDER WHAT WILL HAVE HAPPENED IF YOU SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN IT John Edward (2/22/2011 4:18:58 PM): YOU WILL GO AND BUY A 3000$ MATTRESS FOOL

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:19:12 PM): you cant smuggle 1.2 million dollars out of the country slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:19:37 PM): and the fact that you could never call….. John Edward (2/22/2011 4:19:40 PM): naive you will stay broke forever hahahaha slja970 1 (2/22/2011 4:20:15 PM): and the flowers ….you are trying but slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:20:23 PM): come on… John Edward (2/22/2011 4:20:27 PM): infact it was God that made all this Happen so I could truely Know the Kind of woman you are

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:20:59 PM): whatever!!!! God opened my eyes to the truth…..who is your God? ? ? John Edward (2/22/2011 4:21:15 PM): GREEDY WOMAN John Edward (2/22/2011 4:21:22 PM): ALL YOU WANT IS MONEY slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:21:51 PM): greedy man..we could go on forever……thi s is pointless …I know the truth John Edward (2/22/2011 4:22:11 PM): YOU WANT MY MONEY COME GET IT slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:22:22 PM): i knew 1.2 million dollars was never going to show up here slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:22:42 PM): you dont have anything I want you idiot John Edward (2/22/2011 4:23:12 PM): LOL U WANT THE MONEY GO FUCK YOURSELF COS NO MAN WANTS YOU..U WHORE

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:23:23 PM): and John Edwards is a US senator John Edward (2/22/2011 4:23:31 PM): LOL John Edward (2/22/2011 4:23:58 PM): GO TO SWITCH BOARD AND SEARCH HOW MANY AMERICANS GO BY THAT NAME FOOL slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:24:09 PM): you cant find anybody who will…thats your problem….you nigerian or whatever you are moron John Edward (2/22/2011 4:24:32 PM): LOL

    slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:24:55 PM): but you are the only John Edwards who cant speak or write proper english John Edward (2/22/2011 4:25:25 PM): GREEDY FOOL ,,,,,, I KNOW YOU ARE UPSET COS U DID NOT GET MY MONEY I WILL GIVE IT TO THE ORPHANAGE slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:25:53 PM): what a joke you are…. slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:26:16 PM): you need to stop it…really

    hahahaha

    funny
    Me:

    D A N G!
    susan houp:

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:26:17 PM): NEXT TIME YOU MEET A MAN DONT FALL IN LOVE SO FAST COS IT TELLS YOU ARE A FAKE John Edward (2/22/2011 4:26:34 PM): HAHAHAHAHA slja9 701 (2/22/2011 4:26:43 PM): i never loved you slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:26:57 PM): you are the epitomy of stupid John Edward (2/22/2011 4:27:01 PM): YOU LOVED THE MONEY FOOL

    susan houp:

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:27:17 PM): THAT WAS WHY YOU HUSBAND LEFT YOU FOR A BETTER MAN slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:27:30 PM): what money…you dont have any!!!!! John Edward (2/22/2011 4:27:59 PM): I will send you something for food you hungry fool slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:28:04 PM): you get funnier and funnier slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:28:55 PM): i have better things to do then keep doing this….rot in hell you SOB slja9701 (2/22/2011 4:29:10 PM): do not contact me again!!!!

    yup

    and his name is too generic

    John Edward (2/22/2011 4:29:14 PM): bye greedy bitchBookmark

    ha Bookmark

  481. Hi there.. I received also this famous letter

    “I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.
    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.
    My son lives with a friend in Miami. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time. Will like you to also send me some pictures of you too.Take care.
    I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words
    Have a good day”

    the mail adress is thomas_welltel@hotmail.com and the son’s Michael’address is lonely_mike122@hotmail.com living with the “big cousin” in Ghana
    the victim “soldier” that he stole the name is EDWARDS (can read the name on the pic)
    he is suppose to be Thomas Edwards Mensah (Mensah is ghana names, coming from his grandfather) ,ex spouse is a black women fron Ghana but sure the kid is perfectly white boy… so this man has also to learn a bit about genetic!!..the meeting site was
    badoo.com
    I’m keeping him occupied chatting and writting with me and sure I’ve got a lot of fun…and in the meantime he is not scamming another woman..
    if you want pic, ask me at madingwa@hotmail.ch

    Tee only way, I’m a bit disapointed is that the soldier the scam stole the pic has a very charming smile..and I will never know a bit about him..

    Regards from Switzerland
    Eve

    • I have been sent this same exact email by 3 different men….They go by Phillip Miller, David Miller, Joseph Rodney…They are all stationed in Iraq….I agree with you the pictures that they send to you is very charming that is why they choose those men’s pictures….I wish that I could find the soldiers in the pictures because that is the man that you really want to feel sorry for.

      • His new alias is Eric Ramos (wesramic@yahoo.com) but he’s adapted the letter slightly and now claims to be a medic stationed in the Sudan.

  482. I started chatting with a soldier using the name as Peter Genthre..He is a scammer hasn’t asked me for any money YET but I’ve already been thru this and know what to look for on the questions and language. Smartdate.com is a big scam on soldier dating. Please make sure this person is also Petier Barker both using yahoo.com BE AWARE LADIES

  483. Ok I got two who is the same Michael Lopez and Steve Lopez is the same person, but I do have a question if anyone please could help! This guy send me mail that I was suppost to forward to someone else yesterday buy looking into all this comments someone posted a name that sound it familiar so I check it and find out is the same guy! Anyways I still have this mail so now what shout I do with it? I meant I can destroy it but wouldnt be easier to send it to someone just to see if someone can do something about this guy? Please let me know

  484. I feel stupid but at the same time I feel really sorry for this soldier that this awful people are using! He even send me pictures of a little boy who he claim be his son! Anyways if anyone could please help me out to find out what to do with this letter and tell me how to post pictures that I was send because believe even though they’re stupid enough to use the same pictures to all of their victims…. Thank you for this post! I’ve would never open my eyes if it wasn’t because I stared reading all of you’ll comments….

  485. I was contacted by so called Robert Haggard on Match.com just three days ago, as soon as I saw the person was just copy pasting messages, I mean, I can’t even type that fast, I suspected right away, then, I started to ask specific things and of course the English was broken, not spelled or even writen correctly.
    I found three other profiles on Match.com, I reported them all, as of today there is still one profile of this scammer using this very cute’s guy picture and I reported it yet once again.
    When will there be technology so this doesn’t happen, so people can’t snag pictures, or copy music files, technology is great, but it is ruining many lives too… not to mentioning, wasting my time and money.

  486. I to have ran across these scams.match.com is loaded with them: claimimg to be military captain.English is broken up in sentences. Have you ever noticed how they call you Angel,Dear,or Pretty. OMG You have got to be kidding! Hereis who i ran into on match.com
    James Young Lake Land,FL jem y@yahoo.com
    Henry Hannett FL,henryhannett@yahoo.com
    run a search good laugh. Both have lost there wives and parents.Claim to have statred A & A children. What ever the Hell that is. Both are very smooth talkers. Tell you everything you want hear but can never give a straight answer to your Q’s. Also say they are on 2nd tour in Iraq getting out soon.Both say they have homes here in Florida with pools,and cars and SUV’, ta boot! Ran a search on Henry-this is what it said” The “Face” of Military Dating Scams-Claims his Mother was head teacher&died.Smooth talker.
    James-Said Mother is teacher& Father worked with UN on peace mission as a medical field personal. Wife of 11yrs died and had to come bk to states to bury her.Left with 14yr old son.Said he was from Lake Land.FL. on one chat then on another said he had a home on the East coast with pool,with new white Linken Cadiac SUV 2011. Did’nt know you could buy a suv on line when you are in Iraq. LOL LOL LOL. So ladies beware they are out there. They all have the same song and dance. Sincerly, Shawna L. Brown of SW Florida. PS: They all have good looking pics. Drop dead hansome at that!! They all are same age range of 48-52

    Take Care and watch thoses on Match.com

  487. FOOOOOOLS!!!!!

  488. Ladys check this out!!! Is the same i’ve read all over on everyone of you guys emails!!!

    Good morning honey and how was your night?. How are the children. I hope you guys are doing
    great and to say I missed you will leave most of my feelings
    un-expressed. If only I could have come up with the right words to
    describe the depth of this beautiful feeling that I have for you, I
    would have whispered them to you the first time we chart. The best
    thing that I can do is to show you now. I like you so much, It has not
    been long since we met but all has changed in my life. I experience
    more excitement, feel like the happiest man on the earth, and think of
    you all the time. It is not just at bedtime, or upon waking up but at
    my work, during driving, and at all times. sometimes I sit
    and without any reason call your name loudly, until realizing that you
    are far away, and then smiling about the sweet thoughts of you.
    Michael Lopez

  489. Good morning honey and how was your night?. How are the children I hope you guys are doing
    great and to say I missed you will leave most of my feelings
    un-expressed. If only I could have come up with the right words to
    describe the depth of this beautiful feeling that I have for you, I
    would have whispered them to you the first time we chart. The best
    thing that I can do is to show you now. I like you so much, It has not
    been long since we met but all has changed in my life. I experience
    more excitement, feel like the happiest man on the earth, and think of
    you all the time. It is not just at bedtime, or upon waking up but at
    my work, during driving, and at all times. sometimes I sit
    and without any reason call your name loudly, until realizing that you
    are far away, and then smiling about the sweet thoughts of you.
    Michael Lopez 

    Oh!! And because I call him a liar he said his name is Michael Steve Lopez!!! So watch out girls for either or!!! But I have heard different stories I would post them to you all so you guys know how this sick person works

  490. HAHAHAHAHAA, you must be one of the scammers

  491. hello

    I’ve got pictures from a guy who’s saying that he is a ssg based in bagdad at the moment ,but i dont believe a word of what he is saying after asking me some money.If you want me to send you few pistures of him just contact me and im gonna make a pleasure to send back the pictures ,coz what i read yet i’ve seen this from this supposly.He is using email ocansey1woods@hotmail.com,and is son (lol)its ocansey94@live.com.I wish you can trap them coz now im still talking with them but since i said no for the money he comes rarely compare every day !!loll.i will keep talking with him to have more pictures about him.Please answer me coz i really need to know hows the man on pictures that i have .thanks

    • Hi I have pics of guy in baghdad. Says he is Robert Badley. Not the same story but would like to compare photos. No longer corresponding with him after I refused to send money. That was March 2011
      Renee

    • please send me the picture so i can see if it is the same “solider” i have been talking to

      • can you please sedn me the picture as well

  492. I have been contacted by some dude claiming to be in Bahgdad in the Marines. 3 emails, but I am suspicious by nature and found your site. He is using the name Jeffrey Berrera. Contacted me on Facebook and there is a picture there of him with fatigues on. Looks of Spanish descent and if you enlarge the pic there is a woman with big boobs in the background thru a doorway. Looks like she doesn’t have any pants…lmao. He also has a yahoo email. Anyone being contacted by this dude also? His story is close to what I have read here, but hasn’t asked for money.

  493. I believe my soon to be ex-wife is being scammed by a blackwater/cia contractor named William (EUGENE)Gene Greg you probably can alter the spelling of that name in many ways. She is completly taken by his story, says he ownes 2 homes 1 in Chicago the other in St.Louis has 3 sisters. If anyone has heard of this person/scammer please reply.

  494. Secondly they use PALRINGO, SKYPE VOICE, OR HE SAYS A SAT PHONE.

  495. CJ: Just saw this story on my local news . . . likely The Denver Post will have something tomorrow. Figured you might want to follow up with it . .

    http://www.9news.com/news/article/184358/339/Scammers-use-dead-soldiers-IDs-to-lure-women

  496. TONITE I JUST FOUND OUT THAT I WAS SCAM! I MET A GUY HIS PICTURE IS ON HERE SEVERAL TIMES, VERY HANDSOME MAN AND IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SITE! WE MET ON MATCH.COM AND HE CLAIMED HIS NAME TO BE STEVE LAHM IN THE ARMY MET AND WILL RETIRE IN 2 MONTHS AS THESE TWO MONTHS HAS PASTED WE GOT CLOSE WE EMAILED ALL THE TIME SENT PICTURES THE ONES ON HERE ARE THE ONES HE SENT ME WHEN I SAW THEM ON HERE I WAS SHAKING BECAUSE I FELT SO USED HE PHOTO SHOPPED ONE PICTURE AND ADDED A COMPUTER BESIDE HIM AS HE WAS SITTING IN A CHAIR AND ON THE SCREEN WAS A PICTURE OF ME I SENT SO I KNEW HE WAS REAL THEN AT THE BEGINNING HE ASKED RIGHT AWAY FOR A PHONE FROM ME AND ANYTHING ELSE I WOULD SEND HIM SO I GOT THIS HUGE PACKAGE SENT TO HIM I WAS HOOKED HE SAID ALL THE RIGHT STUFF HE SAID HE WAS AN E-7 SERGENT AND WANTED TO MARRY ME BY THE THIRD WEEK HE WAS ALL ALONG TRYING TO KEEP ME INTERESTED IN HIM I FEEL SO USED! SENDING THE PACKAGE WAS COSTLY BUT DID IT FEELING SO HAPPY TO HAVE MET HIM AGAIN HE SAID ALL THE RIGHT STUFF HE SAID NOTHING COULD BE SENT TO HIM TO HIS BASE BECAUSE IT WAS TOP SECRET SO IT HAD TO GO THROUGH A CARRIER THAT LIVED IN GHUNA SO I SENT IT THERE AND THIS PERSON WAS TO TAKE IT THERE I BELIEVE IT AGAIN HE WAS SO CONVINCING HE DID SEND ME A RING BACK BUT SAID I HAD TO PAY SHIPPING SO I DID THAT TOO! AS TIME WENT AND CLOSER FOR HIS RETIREMENT CAME HE TOLD ME A STORY THAT HIS DAD LEFT HIM A RETIREMENT PACKAGE FROM A COMPANY THAT HIS DAD INVESTED MONEY INTO A MINING COMPANY AND STEVE WAS TO GET THE MONEY SINCE HE WAS THE ONLY CHILD LEFT IT WAS 650,000 THAT HE WAS TO RECIEVE AND A LAWYER WAS TO BRING IT TO ME IN THE STATES HE MADE THIS STORY SO BELIEVABLE I COULDNT BELIEVE HOW WONDERFUL THIS WOULD BE AND I MEAN HE KNEW EVERY DETAIL EVERY MOVE THAT WAS GONNA BE MADE THE LAWYER AND THE COMPANY MANAGER CALLED ME FROM GHANA AND WE TALKED ABOUT IT IT JUST SEEMED REAL BUT HE KEPT ASKING FOR MORE AND MORE MONEY FOR FEES FOR IT TO BE PROCESSED AND FEES THRU CUSTOMS AND IT NEVER STOPPED I WAS UP FOR NITES WORRIED AND SICK HE WASNT GONNA GET THIS PACKAGE SO I SENT MONEY I FELL SO HARD FOR HIM AND BELIEVE AND WHEN IT WAS THE DAY FOR RETIREMENT HE SAID IT GOT MOVED TO THE NEXT WEEK THERE IS SO MUCH MORE AT THE BEGINNING THAT WERE RED FLAGS BUT HE WAS SO CONVINCING THAT I JUST DIDNT LISTEN TO MYSELF THESE SCAMMERS ARE GOOD MY DAUGHTER FOUND THIS WEBSITE AND WE SAW STEVES PICTURES ON IT AND KNEW THEN HE WAS SCAMMING THE SAD THING IS THESE PICTURES OF THIS GUY I FEEL SO HARD FOR IS REALLY A ARMY GUY AND INNOCENT IN THE WHOLE THING AND THAT IS SO SAD FOR HIM AND HIS FAMILY THE SCAMMERS THAT IS DOING THIS TO ME LIVE IN GHANA I AM IN THE PROCESS OF GETTING AN FBI AND FINDING OUT MORE ON THIS THIS IS WRONG TO DO THIS ALOT OF HURT FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS AND MONEY GONE IM SO SORRY FOR ANYONE ELSE THAT HAS WENT THRU WHAT I HAVE THIS IS A TERRIBLE THING
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  497. can any say if this address is real usarmytransit_dept01@consultant.com
    this was the sight i was sent to.
    to request leave for the guy am chatting with
    they wrote me back, and send me a form to fill out saying i will have to pay a small cost which i will get back once the person rrival is confirmed at the
    military base in United States.

    is this a scam i need to.

    • email me the form and lets compare to see it is the same as I rec’d. I looked at web site with Army forms and I could not find it on that web site.

      Porshacat@aol.com

  498. Im still searching how to find the pictures that i have coz on pictures this man is real.where do they go in site to find those pictures of military,got some right next to chopper,got some inside office ,got some at is house ?????where do they get those one ,please answer me someone ..thanks he is still talking with me and supposed to retires in march 10 or 15 !!!Must have somewhere we can check and have site of pictures coz they need to take it from sowhere scammer.thaks to evryone …..CJ I WOULD LIKE TO SEND YOU THE PICTURES OF THIS SUPPOSLY GUY BUT I DONT KNOW HOW THANKS FOR ANSWERING

    • I’m sorry this guy has hooked you into believing him. I got scammed by a Girl with a Passport photo and everything, by time I had “her” send me a recent piture with a card saying my name I realised it was a retouched photo which clued me into looking at all the other “Proof Photos of ID. The retouched picture had the head of the Girl I had feelings for with this poorly done “I love you Chance” attached to it. When I confronted the person he confessed and said he was sorry and was a poor African Kid who needed money and the person I sent the money to was his real sister as well as her school ID etc that was all retouched with the Girl’s picture I was attracted to. He tried to turn it around and have me feel sorry for him by calling me daddy, real strange scene. I was out a $150.00 but glad for it because I quit trying to find love on the internet and concentrate on real people who you can get to know and meet. Good Luck and take care. Best regards Chance

      • Hello again
        Like i said earlier in march 28 ,i didnt send any money no where but the thing is the military man pictures that i have ,this guy exist and i was wondering where do scammer take pictures from them .How can i serch for the military man ,the real one ,im still searching and still dont get nothing .I wish i could just reach this guy.THANKS AGAIN
        Regards
        Chantal

  499. I was wondering if anyone knows anything about a guy claiming to be Sgt. Jeff Wilganoski?

    • Hi,
      Im at this moment talking to a Sgt Jeff Wilganoski, well claims to be, lost his with to canccer & has a 10 year old son John. that nasty filthy specimen is nothing more than a BUG, l so feel sorry for the “real” Jeff Wilganoski.
      This F@#ker posing to be Jeff needs a steel cap boot up his arse. He managed to gain $250, which l was prepared to lose, then with his fancy “department of defence” paperwork he says he needs $2750.00 for transit leave & liberty pass. wait til this Mudda Focker rings me or messages me. l 1st had my suspicions when he kept asking me what time it was here (Australia) many times l told him the time difference & when l asked him what time it was there (Afganistan) he wouldnt use the 24 hour clock, which l know to be out or ord, So if you smell something ooky, follow the stench, you’d be glad you did.

  500. Hi,
    I received email today from a guy calling himself ‘Greg Massingale’ and a photo in military uniform. Checked him out on Google and it seems that this scammer has even posted a Facebook profile using the same name. I realised this when I sent a message warning the poor guy & the message was sent from myself to me!
    The language used in the email was so poor and there is no way this guy was an English speaker.
    I checked out this site, but his photo is not posted on here as having been used in a scam.
    The email address used is lovescent01@yahoo.com
    I thought this was also suspicious.
    What really concerns me is how the hell these scammers got my personal email address in the first place.
    I have been on a dating web site recently, but dont remember receiving messages from this guy until today.
    Ladies beware.
    One thing I was always taught is that a real man will look after you and will NEVER ask for money.
    Also, if he was a genuine soldier then the US army would be looking after him and he wouldn’t need your money.
    So far I haven’t been asked for money. I wonder what tomorrow’s mail will bring….!

    • Wow i cant believe ive been sucked in with the same Greg Massingale. Like you i have been on a dating site and he contacted me via the site with the same email address lovescent01@yahoo.com sent me pictures of him in his military suit and pictures of him and his daughter and telling me his wife was killed in an automobile accident a few years back.
      He has emailed me daily with his eternal love
      for me.
      As yet he hasnt asked for any money but think il string him along for a few more days
      Thank goodness for this site and all women beware of the illusive GREG MASSINGALE

    • I have also been scammed by this guy using same e mail address. I told him i was un employed so he didnt persue asking for money.i was subjected to similar week before by some one going ny the name of brad coyle. so beware girls

  501. I’ve been scammed he found me on biker or not.com using The Name Tom Collins he has photo’s of him on a harley. I knew it, but sent the computer anyway. Even gave a little web Cam Action…Hey it was fun for a while, then a real man showed up at my door step….

  502. Sergeant Tom Collins Honolulu infantry team leader with company B 1st Battalion 27 Th infantry regiment Wolf Hounds 2ND Striker Brigade Combat Team Warrior 25Th infantry Division MND Kabul. This is what is going by..I also have photo’s I see here as well.

    • Using two emails with me Sgttomcollins.com sgttomcollins4000@yahoo.com
      Likes to web cam…Have all photo’s and emails…if you are interested in a good read…One hell of a good Scam…Did not fall for the money his dad left him..in the sum of 40,000

  503. anyone heard of Lt Gary Search? from Colorado Springs. He states that he is fire fighter in Iraq. He is good with words I must say. In his intro he stated that he was engaged once, but walked in on the woman he was to marry with another man. His CO is Col Troy Donelly.

    He has sent pics with a current date on them, but then who knows.

    and question.. the phone scam.. the number he call me from 3 times is 234-706-6643796, I know little or nothing about these phones and the nubmbers. any information is welcome

    • the number is Nigera.. that is the code if you look up country codes. Donnelly was the name of the person in the uk my mate was ask to send money too. Colorada Springs seems to be a popular place for where they come from… I am sopeaking to at least 3 of them from there…. Keeps them from scamming someone else or at least slows them down lol

      • thanks, for the information..

  504. Been Scammed by this Guy going by the name Sergeant Tom Collins Honolulu infantry team leader with company B 1st Battalion 27 Th infantry regiment Wolf Hounds 2ND Striker Brigade Combat Team Warrior 25Th infantry Division MND Kabul, he uses sgttomcollins@yahoo.com and sttomcollins4000@yahoo.com ….He has asked for money for a computer, Send to address name:oyelowo babatunde
    19 elmham crescent.,l10 7LH,liverpool
    country;United Kingdom. He has also used armyprotalcall@rocketmail.com..Has asked me to give him my SS# to deposit 40,000. This guy was so good had me believing for a minute. But you can’t break a biker chicks heart we don’t have one to give. Found me on Bikerornot.com

  505. Hi Lucy

    I was scammed by Sgt Mark Donnelly from Colorado but he asked me to request leave for him it was to Col Troy Gilson, his english was very good but its funny how all the names they use are the same just changed around. He called me but the number was always unavailable, he had nigerian accent and when I asked him about it he said his voice was disguised to protect him from the taliban. I think we have been chatting to the same guy.

  506. I recently joined girldateforfree.com and have lost count how many ‘american military’ men have contacted me within the last 24 hours!!! All of them have poor broken English. The one I had to laugh the hardest at was a guy called John who sent me a message…he has obviously copied and pasted the same message to multiple woman…however on this occassion he has really screwed up as within the messgae were TWO messages..the same story but different names..lmao..i have copied and pasted the entire message here just in case he is contacting other woman.

    born dallas texas, on march 23, 1971, i grew up in dallas tx . my parents Steven, a medical equipment technician, and Rosemary, a preschool teacher, live in tx.i have one younger siblings, i attended John F. Kennedy High School in Cedar Rapids

    Someone that is Honest,Caring,Trustworthy,Lovely,Romantic.. a Woman that as Goals, Dreams and also know what she want in life with a great sense of humor

    I am MATLOCK 39. born dallas texas, on march 23, 1971, i grew up in dallas tx . my parents Steven, a medical equipment technician, and Rosemary, a preschool teacher, live in tx.i have one younger siblings, i attended John F. Kennedy High School in Cedar Rapids i completed my basic training at Fort Benning Georgia. I am in the Infantry MOS 11B. I am now in the 2nd Calvary Division stationed at Ft. Hood Texas. My unit is A Co. 2nd plt. 2-8 CAV 1st Brigade, 1st Cav Division. I am currently deployed to Iraq i lost my mom when i was 10 un my dad just of last year march in a motor accident with my wife kids un brother zach who was also in the military before he was shot here in iraq un was send back to state.i dont like remembering the past cos it makes me feel bored un cry over un over again how can i be happy again after losing my family i couldnt hide my tears when i heard the accident.i have to be sent back to state to take alook at what happened i burst into tears.i spent a month before coming back to iraq again since then my life has been a disaster i really have to stand un be happy again lost evrything my kids, my wife and evrything i find it hard to forget this but cant cos i still got the feeling inside me.how can i live without someone in my life i really have to love again i wonna love un be loved in return i need someone to bring light into my heart i dont wonna be lonely im tired of thinking i wonna come back home un meet my half im looking for Someonethat is Honest,Caring,Trustworthy,Lovely,Romantic.. a Woman that as Goals, Dreams and also know what she want in life with a great sense of humor.tell me all i have to know about you okay hope you are not bored reading my life story

    I am jack 45. born dallas texas, on march 23, 1965, i grew up in dallas tx . my parents Steven, a medical equipment technician, and Rosemary, a preschool teacher, live in tx.i have one younger siblings, i attended John F. Kennedy High School in Cedar Rapids i completed my basic training at Fort Benning Georgia. I am in the Infantry MOS 11B. I am now in the 2nd Calvary Division stationed at Ft. Hood Texas. My unit is A Co. 2nd plt. 2-8 CAV 1st Brigade, 1st Cav Division. I am currently deployed to Iraq,am here looking for honest,caring and trustworthy woman,through this searching your profile caught my eyes and am interested in it,for fast and talk and good conversation you can send your email address or you add me on yahoo messenger as j t h o r t o [blocked details]

  507. Hi Helen..we talked about Sgt. Mark Donnelly on IM. Hope you are doing well. Let’s talk. email or IM me.I miss our chats.

  508. Getting scammed by Sgttomcollins@yahoo.com and sgttomcollins4000@ yahoo.com claiming to be in afghanistan in Kubal..at the end of the emails..he has this attached to it Sent from Tunnel Satellite Network Device.Kabul,Afghanistan He also is using the pictures from this site names are hinded by monster can. I have two address in which he has asked money be sent and a computer…Now he wants to deposit money into my bank account.

    • Hi All,

      Having read all these I do not feel as bad as I have been in the last couple of days. I too have been scammed.

      My Scammer went by the name of SGT. Steven Bobby, Combat engineering dept. Weapons Repair, stationed in Kabhul Afghanistan. Lives in Washington DC, Lost his wife 2 years ago to cancer. No Kids, an empty heart yearning to be filled with love.

      Using Yahoo Messenger stevbobby@yahoo.com
      Can also be seen on Facebook under stevbooby02@yahoo.com

      The below link will show you what identity he is using
      http://www.facebook.com/album.php?profile=1&id=100002072850790
      Unfortunately he really sucked me in and I did end up sending some money through Western union. Then he got greedy and asked for a considerably large amount. I became sus. and called the Military Dept of the US Embassy here in Australia. They told me it was a scam. I called Western union and had the payment stopped. Fortunately it was not too late.

      I am absolutely appalled that these scumbags are using actual photos and names of real US soldiers who a out there fighting for their country. These people (and forgive me) should be caught and taken to these war zones and used as human shields, because that’s all they are good for.

      To all you real soldiers out there keep up the great work and please stay safe.

      To everyone who has been a victim of these scammers, I am sure you and all intelligent, rational people who have had their emotions toyed with, stand tall and band together in the battle to bring these lowlifes to there knees.

      Cheers

      Too Trusting

  509. Has anyone been scammed by a man who claims he is stationed in Afghanistan in the Navy working in “Special Operations”? He goes by the name Richard McClaren and his email address is rmilclaren@yahoo.com
    He claims that he was born in Ireland, but came to the United States later on. I have saved all of his emails.

  510. I will be brief. Watch for scammer going by Michael Smith. Was on OK Cupid. When he emailed me there was another soldiers picture in the corner from a facebook page…also going by Michael Smith and trying to scam a very nice lady on facebook. Same jackass…different pictures of real U.S. Soldiers. I believe he stole the real guy profile from somewhere too…because it was written well and appeared real…but then when we started chat…WOW…lots of ignorance…misinformation about the U.S….plain flat lies…and bad English of course. Bummer…wish I could find the real soldier and let him know…I will be forwarding the pictures soon…because I did not see them on here yet…good luck to you all and God Bless our REAL soldiers!!!

  511. If anyone comes across lt Gary Search, firefighter. From Colorado Springs is a scam. His CO Col Troy Donnelly, and Col Jonny Fowler- scam.

    I was sucked in for an amount that may cause me loss my home. I feel really stupid.

    • dear Lucy

      please don’t beat yourself up. we have all in one way or another fell for these scammers. i have been outing scammers for months now and still every once in awhile one of them will still get to me emotionaly. and I am sure that if I could I would probably send him money, they are that good. CHIN UP GIRL…you are not alone.

      Lynda

  512. I read about this guy up here called Mike Jones and I know him as Mike Smith,47 years old from Warwick,Rhode Island.It’s the same photo he use,but I have 2 more photos of him and I have also seen him on web cam 3 times,he was the same person,he is white.I have recorded video of him and also snap photos of him when he shows on cam.We chat every day in almost 2 years now.
    I have given him money,yes,alot of money.After seeing this in here I know I have been scammed by him.Everytime he call me it shows private.
    His ip adress have been from Nigeria,UK and the USA and the ip adr have been change in a few days.I know he is not a fake person cause I have seen him on cam.
    I have found him on other dating sites and now he is on Tagged and he call him self Bently M.
    Hope to hear from others who have been contacted by him.

  513. Hi ladies
    Thanks so much for putting this information on the site. Like others, it has made me feel better. I was ABOUT to be scammed. A little cautious because of the intensity and grammar, I was only about 10 days into chatting. During our chat on YM last night, IRWIN CAMPBELL suggested we should start talking on the phone. To achieve this, I’d need to have something down to my phone “at my end” and pay AU$1690 (australian dollars). When I said I was in New Zealand he very conveniently converted it for me!! Instantly – I went cold. That’s when I found this site – thank you so much. He’s now “investigating” for me how I can get this phone thing sorted …. nice of him!

    I don’t see his face on this page, but he has sent photos – so if someone can tell me how to forward them – we can add him to the scum-bag-scammer list!

    I imagine he’ll contact me again on YM this evening to tell me of his investigations. I have no doubt he’ll need me to send him the money! A secure line in NZ obviously needs cash in Afganistan.

    Any ideas how I should handle? Just delete him – or keep him busy?

    Thanks again. Stay strong everyone

  514. I was scammed by a “Tony Morgan”. The ad was on Match.com and I was soooo excited to see who had contacted me. We emailed back and forth for about 2 1/2 weeks. We also Instant Messaged several times a day. I was trying to think of things that this scammer used that were “different”. There was mention of the Swallow from Capistrano. There was also an excessive use of “Baby”. The story was he was divorced with a 6 year old . The mother was into drugs. The big red flag was that “he” closed my Match.com account. How does that even happen. I got mad and said you NEVER do anything without my permission. I was promised a package, however I found out too quick and they cancelled my package. This I am sure was the “hook”. I let them know I know the S*** they were pulling and gave them a piece of my mind. I would really like to meet the guy in the picture! I also filed a report with my local police dept. and will try to reach the FBI and Attorney General. I really would like to do some advocacy work about this and give talks to women’s groups. As I said to the scammers, “their time is coming and they will be judged”. I will pass the word to EVERYONE I know, so this scam is exposed. Thanks for reading. Val

  515. I got scammed too. Very diappointing! Only into it a few days – the name they used is Kevin Mckenne. Like other stories, got contacted on Match, match profile no longer active – it was mermaid_desire1, claimed to be a widower, orphan, retiring in 2 months, funky grammar like that of a non-english as first language speaking person. Email and yahoo messenger they used was shoot_stars1. Evasive in answering questions and coming on sappy too early. Didn’t ask for money but did ask for my work email. Luckily didn’t give it to him. Said his birthday was soon so I asked if I could send him something – gave me a address for a Mr. Felix in UK that could expedite, said APO for him was closed. Asked for a teddy bear and little things. I didn’t send. Have pics of the soldier, will send to ths site.

    • This sounds almost exactly like the person that has contacted me for about a month. Widow, orphan, retiring in 2 mos. I also have pics can we compare?

  516. hi guys wow so now wondering if the guy im talking to is for real.met him on a dating site and been chatting on u got it yahoo..any one here had contact from a bruce pedersen of popular colorado springs .gonna try and get him to email me something so i can do a ip check,lol think its wishful thinking he is on the level.

  517. I too have just realised I was being set up to be scammed by SSG Max Ridings. I will do my best to send the photos I have, the so-called leave grant(stilted english) and also supposed $1.2million given by the Iraq govt that he needs to get out of the country. I felt right from the start this was a scam and was on guard all the time. The wording was changing and was hard to keep a track of. When I found the exact same letter by someone else I got the proof I knew was there. I need to find out how to check his IP address as I have several emails from him and all sweet as pie…. that he loves me etc. If it sounds too good to be true it usually is. Girls we are vulnerable and easy prey but we have to keep sites like these open and let people know asap. He joined dating site as Lovewithtrust10. Again his name is Max Ridings. FB has same photos and no details about him… That sent alarm bells to me to start with. I kept thinking it was a scam but I had no proof but now I do… awesome thanks everyone.

  518. seems the chap i was on about in the name of bruce pedersen is another scammer using a good soldiers name .searched the net found he also uses the names eddie pedersen,col kelvin pedersen,joe pedersen and Jude Gacia Pedersen…does anyone know some legit sites for writing and emailing soldiers in iraq and those sorts of places maria

  519. I to like all the above stories. The scammers name Gary Witt claims to be a US Army Sgt Commander.Also asked for money, promised gifts ans then when I had no money to give, which I would not of anyway. Just a warning to all potential victims.
    Name – Gary Witt
    Rank – Sgt Commander US Army
    Location _ Ghana Africa
    If anyone else has had contact with this low life, please submit a response.
    Thank You!

    • this scammer called Witt is the one who has made a pathetic comment on another page of cj’s recently…beware of him

  520. Has anyone ever received interest from Captain Philip C. Grishen, claiming to be an UN peacekeep in Africa?

    • Stacy, can you send me photos of Grishen? I have a feeling my photos are being used again.

  521. Drew Moore started emailing me this past weekend. drewmoore_1001@ymail.com
    I have been playing long with his scamming as he isn’t aware that I have friends in the military, friends & a fiance killed there & family member with Interpol. He said that he had been shot & that he is in the hospital & when I brought up contact information, he said they are not allowed to call & asked for photos of his injuries & he said he isn’t allowed to take photos. I know for a fact that this is all crap & I had mentioned about Nigerians scamming people & then he said he will contact me when back in the States, etc. I have now been copying & pasting the poems that they copy & paste in return. I have photos of the supposedly Drew Moore as he name has been removed from his uniform. He is supposedly 40 years old & he looks no older than someone that is 25. He & others are using Myspace. I received mail from another Major Krim the same day & have again received mail from someone new. I said as well that I don’t have any money as that is what they are after & have written in French as well as English. He hasn’t responded to a single question that I have asked. I am giving back what he’s giving me. Bastard. Some of these photos of are troops that have been killed & it is sick. Is there anyway that these indiviuals can be charged & have prison time?

  522. Search emails by this link:

    http://www.everify.com/results/email/?email=&Search=Search

    Search IP addresses by this link:

    http://www.ip2location.com/1.2.3.4

    these are all great links to look at:

    http://bustanut2006.xanga.com/730891603/con-artists-using-pics-of-dead-military-men-to-scam-lonely-women-out-of-money–break-their-hearts/

    http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=77&p=170943

    http://www.delphifaq.com/faq/male_scammers/f6250.shtml?p=68

    http://www.armytimes.com/news/2011/02/army-online-scammers-pretending-to-be-soldiers-021511w/

    News media need to make the public aware of this & maybe posting the photos that are being used on the television or the news websites. I feel sick for the photos that are being used of deceased troops. The poor families that have to live through this again and again.

    • My thoughts are with Brian’s family. We are many who have been ripped off by scam artists who claim to be military man and we have lost both money and our hearts. When I read about Brian and I hear his father speak, so will the tears. I hope the day will come when these impostors may suffer for what they’ve done. It appears more and more and I hope through all the writings that we can save someone from falling into the hands of an impostor. And Stacey Chapman, I would say, I think of you, greetings and hugs from Anki

  523. how do we add a picture and is there a way of the soldiers concerned being informed they are being used by scammers .

  524. I have been scammed & Iam still being scammed as I write this message ….BUT YOU SEE I KNOW HES A SCAM ARTIST ….NOW !
    I want to share this story as stupid as I may sound for falling for this guys line of crap !He contacted me at the first of the year 2011 on yahoo messanger he IM’d me out of nowhere I started responding to him once he told me about being in the military he clamed he was in afghanistan & had been there for 2 years ,he said he was a sergent training afghanistan military police …special forces guy …Email address
    marine_miller007@yahoo .com. The next thing i know hes e-mailing me several messages & telling me about himself ..sending me pitures of himself & his son rayon …Oh ya this guy told me his name is Michael William Miller : born October 12th 1961 & had been in the military his whole life & was ready to retire as soon as his mission in afghanistan was complete …hoping for july 2011 but home for christmas 2011 for sure ! He than after a couple of weeks started talkin about a phone so we could talk to each other & hear each others voices…but befour that I wanted to send him a package with goodies in it …I want him to have it for valentines day 2011 …so I go buy trail mix ,granola ,gum,candy kisses ,a pillow spray it with my purfume & 2 misical valentines card that had a heart blowin kisses & when you open it it played I FEEL GOOD..so good I’ve got you !!! it cost me $ 10.00 just for the card …after spending around $100.00 I sent the package ..but not to Mike miller he said to send it to his troop contact in charge of mail & packages for the troops in that area …He has me send it to the jerk named …ERIC Hornugah P.O BOX KN6240.Kaneshie city:accra country:Ghana. zipcode 00233. It cost me another $110.00 to send the package to him …but I think oh well I really want him to have it …Feel liove for valentines day ya know ….within 2 weeks he contacks me email telling me customes is holding the package and that they are demanding fees for him to recieve it ….what the hell I tell him this is stupid …but like a fool I send him the $ 150.00 for him to recieve it …he tells me after I sent the money that he got it & loved everything in the package. a week later he starts in with money for the phone …again like a fool I want to hear his voice now & put a voice to the man Iam chatting with on yahoo messanger…guess what I send $300.00 for the phone & all is good he starts to call me about 3 times a week …after a month well he needs money now for airtime on this roaming international phone he had to have so he could talk to me ….so the fool sens another$250.00 all is good & hes callin were learning more about each others children & familys …(ya right ) Iam so stupid…anyways one night he starts to tell me he has a seceret he wants to share with me …he starts to tell me of this GOLD he has stashed in a sercurity company in ghanna & needs to move it because of the change in goverement over there …want to guess where iam going with this ? next he sends me a certificate for the gold but he don’t send it his buddy Eric sends it …its a joke Iam including it along with pitures of the real man he saids he is …WISHES HE COULD BE !!!
    I say to him certificate is a joke the security company one the certificate is a scam company it don’t exsist in the real world ! he’s confused & now he is going to get on a chopper go to libya & than get a hum V & drive to ghanna to see eric & what the hells going on with the company that is holding the gold ….I tell him to please wait & think thing over driving over there seemed stupid ! …THIs really gets crazy now …2 days go by I do not hear from him …than at 5 pm at my work but on my cell phone I get a call from him …he is screamming HELP ME BABY …HELP ME !!! I’ve been captured by insergents they are holding me hostage !!! hes cryin & begging them for his life …as he sounded as if he was being torchered ….I still hear his screems that keep me up at night… be said please baby do what they say they will KILL ME !! its me life BABY PLEASE HWLP ME !!! then some mini hitler gets on the phone said lissen to me madum! I want $20.000.00 in 24 hours or we will kill him …we will cut a finger every hour & then we will start on his toes you have 24 hours ….I say PLease !!! I don’t have this kind of money & let me tell you I was sick could throw up …A real mess ..I told a friend at work who new about him from me sharing my stories about him ….she said mary please this sounds like a scam !!! They called me about 10 times that day it was crazy but i said I would see what I could do as I wanted to contact police & yahoo & military & who ever I could to help him ….you see I still believed he was in danger !!! after 10 hours go by it 4am in the morning I get a call from Mike miller again only now he sounds like he is in really bad shape as if he had been beatin badly…. I say why are you calling me …why not military …won’t they be looking for you staff sergent and all ? he said my phone was the only one in the phone & only I could save his life ….WELL BULL
    #*?*#* I said I will contact his friend he was going to see Eric in Ghanna .I still have not heard from Eric ….well hes really concerned about his friend WOW!!!! no responce ! I missed 15 calls yesterday from MIKE MILLER I left my phone at home …I work for a living and can’t believe this crap is happin to me …last phone call’s last night 2 missed I won’t ever pick it up again I can’t handle the fake sounds of someone I thought I cared about being torcherd …its only me getting torchered !!! I hope this story will help other woman !!! I hope no one else will have to lissen to someone being torchered even if its fake !!!! Please somone let me know how to get the pitures of the man who calls himself Mike MIller 007 & Eric Hornugah..email address esix_us@yahoo.com….posted on this site …PLEASE HELP ME TO HELP OTHERS !…
    oh ya last but not least …the help I requested from yahoo to help me because I was being scammed on there site …I asked them to monitor my chats & emails & for a fee of $38.00 they will help do that ….WHAT !!!! $38.00 do they get a piece of the pie from people getting ripped off I told them I will be closing out my account ..but for now I need to keep it open because Iam still being contacted by these ass holes !!! Please someone contact me ASAP. mraniolo61@ yahoo.com…Thank YOU !

  525. I was contacted a few days ago on facebook by a John Russell who is 33yo and his photos are clearly two different people (in my opinion anyway) the first inbox was he cherishes my profile and is looking for a life partner and I thought straight away is this guy having me on or what. I wrote him back and then last night started researching the net and have come across all this information and didn’t realise people do this all the time. I am disgusted and feel sick that woman and men have been scammed it’s terrible. So I wrote him last night and told him I wasn’t interested in a relationship and haven’t heard anything so hopefully he took the hint. If you want pictures let me know and I’ll try and work out how to do it.

  526. Has anyone out there heard of this MIKE MILLER …marine_miller007 @ yahoo.com or his scamming buddy that recieves the money Eric Hornugah…esix_us@yahoo.com …Mike miller just called again I guess they will keep him alive until I answer the phone and tell them when the money is comming …LOl
    NEVER ASS HOLES !!!!!!!!!!

  527. http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/profile.php?id=100002109781876 Oh look i found another rivera on facebook paul this time

  528. Hi Brenda,
    I think the Micheal Smith you mentioned is the same one that is trying to scam me. He is on FB under the name of Micheal Smith Roberts and is supposedly a colonel in Afghanistan. His e-mail is mikesmith1084@yahoo.com. He is coming over to see me end of this month or nxt…..I await with eager antisipacion (not)…lol

  529. HELLO

    HAS ANY ONE EVER HEART OF JAMES SCOTT PEDERSEN. SUPPOSE TO BE A CAPTAIN IN THE ARMY AND STATIONED IN IRAQ.

  530. HELLO AGAIN,
    JAMES SCOTT PEDERSEN, OR CAPTAIN. HAS A YOUNG DAUGHTER LIVING IN FLORIDA WITH A RELATIVE. WAS A MARINE AND THEN JOINED THE ARMY. SOUND FAMILAR TO ANYONE. SAYS HE IS 46 YEARS OLD.

    • Yes, I too have been scammed by James Scott Pedersen. DO NOT talk with this man. His daughter will soon be diagnosed with leukemia and will need to you do send money for a flight and a transplant. I was just asked for money yesterday. Have been receiving multiple phone calls from the “doctor” and also from a phone number in Nigeria. PLEASE LADIES – DO NOT TALK TO THESE MEN!!!! I feel for it too, but thankfully I am only out money for a Blackberry. I was ready to send money for the daughter and thankfully a friend happened to tell me about these scams. I owe her my sanity for catching this before it was too late.

  531. sara if you have a pic look up bruce pedersen or major robert pedersen or major robert carl pedersen on facebook and see if they are same people feeling says they will be maria

    • HI MARIA

      THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE INFO. YES, ITS THE SAME PERSON. THE REASON I WANTED INFO IS BECAUSE OF A DEAR FRIEND OF MINE. HER NAME IS TAMMY. SHE HAS BEEN TALKING WITH THIS PERSON FOR A FEW MONTHS. SHE WAS WONDERING IF I GAVE YOU HER EMAIL ADDRESS WOULD YOU BE WILLING TO EAMIL HER. LET ME KNOW AND I WILL SEND IT TO YOU.

      • hey sara yeah no probs ,hope she has not been taken too much in by him i kinda sussed it after a couple of days

  532. Add Jeff Durama to the list.
    Same scenario. Met on okcupid date site
    jeffdurama@yahoo.com instantly given, in love with me in less than a week
    Accounts frozen in states (he is in Dubai)we can talk via phone if I send $850.00 via Western Union to Karen Turner in Pa. Some lind of service or ? did not do found this site good job ladies….heartbreaking situation, but for some reason I am actually relieved to be rid of him….he/she was good tho, really drew me in.
    Oh well

  533. I guess there is nobody that gives a crap ….not even 1 responce on this site ! I’ve tried to report this & its easier to rob a bank ….I was hoping someone could tell me how to handle this…. but I guess people just like to read & tell there own storys.I have tried local police …JOKE….Yahoo…..another Joke ….
    fraud watchers …no responce….& now this site …no responce….Iam glad to see so much support …..Thanks for nothing !

    • You can report it to the CID (US Army Criminal Investigative Command at http://WWW.cid.army.mil and to the Federal Trade Commission at http://www.ftc.gov. However, because most of these scams are being done by nigerians it is hard for our government to stop it. We just need to educate as many people as possible about the scams

    • I just read your persistance in trying to do something about your situation. l do feel for you & from my experience I dont think much can be done, thats why they continue to scam women. child pornography & making bombs get traced, but scammers taking the identity of innocent men & using there information, which can be provided to prevent this dosnt get followed up on, leads me to believe there is a breakdown in the system. l have been a victim of a scammer who is still trying to convince me of his undying love for me. You have feelings of doubt, then listen to it. women intuition is always right, that lve learnt.
      good luck

  534. could someone inform me how to send pics of my scammer…

    Lt Gary Search
    Col Troy Donnelly

    thanks

    • I would also like to send pictures of my scammer. He goes by the name Captain Kenneth Ralph, Kenneth Foell and Tim Scott

  535. Just met this guy named Robert Haggard who claims to be from Bedford, TX. born on apr. 15, 1962. He send me 4 pictures of himself, all of which are posted at the beginning of this post. You can never trust anyone these days. You have to check them out completely. Nigerian’s are out to rob people blind. I do not trust a single one of them. This is the third one of me. All from Nigeria. Very sad indeed. But I know there are good men in this world so I will not loose faith in that.

    • …. he contacted me as “Duke” Haggard!

      • He has contacted me by Edward Webb, he is in FB as well as John H Haggard or Robert Bill Haggard

  536. I have two scammers I am speaking with, One is Nelson Peter74 he stated he was from Young America MN,,,,, but then he stated he was from the UK.. and then his emails, ISP, are Nigerian.. has not asked for money.. will not get any from me..

    The second scammer.. states he is from, Washington state,, but his email ISP is Nigierian.. once again…

    I have contacted the website with their pics and names..

    The funny thing is.. they are using the same the quotes.. like baby, take care of yourself for me. do you miss, baby.. I miss you so much… All this after talking with them for less than a week..

    be carefull ladies…

  537. I’ve been contacted by two of these guys “Duke Haggard” who is on here as Robert Haggard and “Chris Robies” who is on here as Ken. Luckily, I haven’t sent either of them anything!!

    I have some different pictures of Duke/Robert I can send you.

    Thanx!

    • A guy claiming to be Chris Robies and who is signed up on march.com recently is using the photos above identified as John Palmas and there is another set shown as well he is using. His match screen name is LOVESEC10223

      Unbelievable!!

    • A guy claiming to be Chris Robies and who is signed up on match.com recently is using the photos above identified as John Palmas and there is another set shown as well he is using. His match screen name is LOVESEC10223

      Unbelievable!!

  538. Anybody heard from Greg Howell??? Military contractor in Afganistan, from Denver Colorado, fiancee died being pregnant in a car accident…born 11 april 1968…working for DynCorp…address used greghowell_04.

    • Hi can you please help me with how you know greg howell as i’m ingagege to a captian greg Howell.. if it’s the same guy! the greg howell i know i met on line in Oct 2010 on a date site Oasis.com he said he was from wiscosin but the rest is the same. ex died in car crash same date of birth ect. he’s taken money from me to get out of his dyn corps contract. please email me. don’t let him know i’ve contacted you yet. Debra

      • Hi, I have stumbled upon this forum following suspicions I had and am I glad I did! I have been chatting to ‘Greg Howell’, a Captain no less, for the past couple of weeks and his story is consistant with all that I have read from both Debra and Michaela. He contacted me on Oasis.com going by the username of ‘Swoon’….he told me this was the name his dead girlfriend called him!

        I like poetry and last night I was surfing the net just reading and happened to find myself reading a love letter that seemed very familiar….I checked my emails and sure enough it was word for word. I checked all the other received emails and found many of them to have plagiarised poems and letters. I sent him an email expressing my annoyance at him sending me emails as though they were penned by him…I have heard nothing from him since!!

        He never asked me for money, but perhaps that was later to come. I will contact Oasis.com and report him. This person is such a low life to prey on women and violate their vulnerabilities. I consider myself to be well educated and worldlywise, yet I feel foolish that this conman sneaked his way past my radar….thankfully I clocked him in time.

        This is one of the letters he sent to me…

        Do you know what it is like to look up into the velvet night sky, and yet not see the stars? Do you know what it is like to see the song birds sing their sweet music, and yet not hear their sound? Do you know what it is like to feel your heart inside you, and yet not feel it beat? Do you know what it is like to be in a crowd of people smiling, laughing, sharing their love together, and yet be all alone with no one around? Do you know what it is like when the light of your life has been extinguished, and you are left in absolute and complete darkness, frightened and alone? Do you know what it is like when the one you love so deeply and dearly is so far away? Your heart cries out their name and yet there is no reply.

        All you want to do is hold them in your arms, and you cannot. All you desire to do is to kiss their sweet lips, and you cannot. You long to hear their soft sweet voice as they whisper words of love to you, and you cannot. You just want them near, and they are not.

        Their absence brings with it frustration and sadness. You almost curse that you cannot be with the one you love, and then you thank God completely for bringing that person into your life, all the while knowing that no amount of dreams and hopes and prayers, can, at once, change the situation

        So, what do you do in such times? How do you keep your wits about you? How do you maintain some semblance of normal life, when all you can do is think about is the person that you are so in love with and that you would do or give anything just to be with? You feel lost somewhere between the cruel reality of life, and the dream-like fairytale that you wish to live in, and the only salvation is to be found in the arms of your beloved and that cannot happen…YET !!!

        Friends cannot comfort your soul. Thoughts only make the pain in your heart worse. What do you do? You think about them – oh my God, how you think about them endlessly! You pray to God for the strength to see it through this situation, knowing that someday you will be with that person forever. But is that enough? No. Not always. Until you are in their arms, nothing really helps.

        The mind is a whirlwind as my thoughts are tossed around like matchsticks in the wind. But the one thought that is all constant and eats away at the core of my soul is a simple one: “When will I hear from her again? Will I ever hear from her again?” Such silly thoughts are these. But time can cause such thoughts to occur. It is only human. I am only human.

        And so, I wait. And as I wait it seems as though the hands of the clock move in reverse instead of forward. Each second that passes seems as an eternity away from you. Time takes you further away from me instead of bringing you closer, and time is something that is beyond our control.

        Oh to be an angel, and have wings that I may fly into your arms at this very second. To taste your sweet kiss and feel your warm embrace. To love you, to have the pain of needing you, vanish in your arms, as would snowflakes on a summer day. And to know that we would at last, be together for all our days. Days spent lost in sweet heavenly love, such as we have never known.

        Oh God, my darling, how is it that love can be so wonderful, and yet hurt so badly? Such pleasure in knowing and feeling your love for me, and such mortal pain in being apart from the one that I love so deeply, so dearly, so passionately.

        Darling there is an old saying that applies to being away from something. It goes, “Out of sight…out of mind.” But, my love, every “old saying” has an opposite meaning. In this old saying it is also said, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder,” and just when I think it is not possible to be more in love with you, a second ticks off the clock, and I discover that I am more in love with you then ever before.

        Any idea how to submit a photo of the offending article??

        Pauline

    • i know him with the email greghowell_04 if you put his name on google he’s got another address too…in .com and .co.uk..& in another name tomhcurtis69 Has he asked you for money i paid money into a elisabeth stewart account how he said was a dyncorps UK leasion officer. please contact me ASAP. Debra

      • GREG HOWELL IS A CONMAN/SCAMMER He’s taken a lot of money from me. And he is in the US not Afghanistan.
        He goes by greghowell_04, tomhcurtis69 and possibly kingfisher_04 in yahoo.com yahoo.co.uk hotmail.com hotmail.co.uk
        BE WARNED LADIES HE’S A CHARMER TO THE MAX
        will add photos as soon as i can work out how to put them on here.

    • Yes Ladies..I too have been scammed in a very emotional way by “Greg Howell”. He now goes by
      “Lesley Howell” with an email address of Les_Howell@yahoo.com. We met on okcupid..he was from Green Bay, Wisconsin; had a pregnant fiance who died in a car accident; a greek father who died when he was 5 yo.; mother lives in Greece; step-brother named Nick with the email address of kingfisher_04@yahoo.co.uk.; works for Dyncorp as a trainer/mentor for the Afghan armies.
      This man is VERY suave, writes perfect prose and will figuratively romance the pants off of you. I noticed an error he made signing off as Your Greg, yet had a wonderful excuse for that mistake. HIS mistake was asking for a new phone, an account to transfer money, then directly asked for money to take a flight home to me. He also sent numerous pictures of SOMEONE . When I caught on I gave him..and am still giving him… a piece of my mind.

      • In addition, Mr. “Howell” , on okcupid has a new profile with an ID of Pohaes, formerly Cheshire_Tomcat, and states he is from Camden , Australia. Same exact verbage in the new profile. Beware!!

  539. The “Duke/Robert” Haggard character has a Facebook account as “Martin” Haggard

  540. Hello people, I was contacted by a dirty little scumbag posing as a US Army contractor,called John England,(very nice photo)I would like to know who the man in the photo really is, he claimed to love me after just three days, I told him not to be so stupid, he kept asking if I had any feelings for him, I just said I liked the photo.he then asked for money to send me a box of valuables to look after for him. I lost my job three weeks before christmas and didn’t even have money for food and yet he wanted me to sell my things like my camera and zoom lens, I told three times him not to contact me again but he started again a couple of days later, then the next day was asking for money again, I asked him, what part of, “I don’t have any!”, do you not understand? and still the idiot thought I was just being awkward. He was using the name for his friend as Essien K Joshua,there’s a footballer who plays for Chelsie called that. and this Joshua had a pa called Oroboha Oke, who was going to collect the money for him.after he had told me this I e-mailed him to say I had changed my mind. so I played along with it for a while, serves him right, He deserves to be hung, drawn and quartered, not necessary in that order. I told him he was one and the same and he got nasty, he can’t even swear in style. I hope they catch him soon.

  541. Watch out for David Harold Roland, too. The pix r amazing. But since I’ve been in the military 4 a min, dumb face is the one played not I.
    Contacts females via MySpace, poses as a first sergeant & has the identical drag along about life just like the story described. Son & fiancee dead in car accident. How convenient

    • Yeah watch out for David Roland, he’ll ask you where you live and then he say he’s going to be station there and waiting for his assignment letter and the day that he’s suppose to leave. He will send you a “confidential” letter from the Army saying that he needs 2 Civilian Grantors for $1,500 surety bonds and will give back after the appeal process and can’t have relatives to help out.

  542. Hi there, I Can you tell me who the real John T England from mississippi is, He should be 56 now. I have seen his name and photo used so many times now. The scammer that was trying to scam me has all of a sudden put him on facebook, luring in other women. He is in Ghana I know, I checked his ip address. He must be stopped.

    I would really like to get this solved. Thanks.

  543. Hi does anybody know of a Raymond Radenski whom I think may be a scammer.He works for the United Nations and the US Army and before that he was a psychiatrist.He is widowed with a 9 year old son named James and own a home in Sheerness in Kent although at the moment he is peacekeeping with the UN.

    Please let me know if you have come accross him,thanks.

  544. I have actually recently been scammed by the person posing as Robert Haggard. He told me that his name is Andrew Barrera from Silver Spring, Maryland with a 10 year old son named Chris who is living in Ghana with his friend while he is stationed in Afghanistan on a “secret” mission. I actually sent an iPod to Ghana for his son, but stopped the package before it was sent. The only reason I caught him is because my daughter and son-in-law did a search of the photos he sent me after he asked me to loan him $2000!We also did an ip address search and found it to be originated in Sunnyvale, California. I appreciate that this site is bringing this to our attentions and I hope the authorities catch these people.

  545. By the way,I met my scammer on SeniorPeopleMeet.com

  546. I recently became aware of this problem. I was going about my happy little life, when this guy, Dave Cromwell, http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000582478311 (email charlesdegen60@yahoo.com)contacted me as a private message on Facebook. So, I looked at his picture, thought he was handsome, whatever, no big deal, I’ll friend request him. Unlike my other Facebook friends that I personally do not know, but play FB games with, this guy started IMing me immediately. He told me how beautiful I was, wrote horrible poetry to me. Too bad for him that I am from New Jersey, and have had my share of terrible relationships, so red flags started going up. But being a little bit twisted, I’ve decided I’m going to play this game with him for a while, have him believe that I will be sending whatever he asks for. Of course it will never happen, and I think when I become bored with him, I will drop the truth on him like a sledge hammer.

  547. Hi,
    I wonder whether any of you has ever heard of one of the folloning names. I suspect they are fake US Army pilots. Lt-Col. JaKe Sean Dowell (supposedly of US Army Air Base in Germany) and Major Brian Washington (on duty in Afghanistan.
    Thanks !

    • Hi Miranda,

      I guess I know the person named Col. Sean Dowell. What do you know about him? And why do you think he might be a fake pilot?

  548. you want check for a Thomas Timms or Thomas Kelly Timms

    same story of the A and A baptiste churh, mom head teacher, dad military doctor, both dead, sisters in korea no news

    but this guy unfortunately I got pictures of his kids and that saddens me.

    I have been scammed for a couple hundred dollars, but now I am having the time of my life with him. he just doesn’t know it yet.

    they are not the smartest either at times.

  549. I have three more cooking… I will get back to you on their official names.

    Oh yes,also the sad part about TIMMS, they have the rank and name tag on him right.

    I wish I could tell him myself that he is being used for scamming people. He seems like a decent person.

  550. hi,
    my name is audra and i have recently been scamed by a man claiming to be captain ben butterfield . i now know this is not him . i sent 230.00 for a phone so he could call me . we have been talking for about 5 weeks i really fell for him . he almost cost me my children and grandchildren. the saddest part is i told him i have a child with brain cancer and he played to acctually care . he asked about her daily. he even asked me to go to his house in columbia sc to meet his kids and brother.he said everything i wanted to hear i guess and i fell like an idiot. now im just pissed offfor the pain he put myself and my daughter thru. he started off talking and he said his wife died 2 years ago in a carcrash with his brother and that he was looking for the love of his life he contacted me thru fb after a week he ask me to send money for the phone so he could talk to me and prove hes real. i wish i had of listened to my insticts when they told me not to i didnt and got screwed . after i sent the 230.00 he sent a message saying he needed another 480.oo to get a mast code for it and when i said no he didnt want to talk to me any more but later in the week he texted me again and ask me to go get a loan i said no i wouldnt and he got mad at me . it wasnt until he kept pushing me that i realized this was not the real ben butterfield so i ask him for his ako # and he got really upset and said for me never to talk to him again . now i do it just to piss him off lol. i would really like to know if there is a way to find the real man and tell him whats up with his info . its not rite for someone to take his idenity especially after all he has done for this country. i will get over this in time im sure all i can think of now is taking him down. i have filed a complaint with white collar division of the fbi and they r looking to find out whats up . the ip address’ go back to sunnyvale california . he asked me to unfriend him on fb and talk to him on yahoo which happens to be in sunnyvale also . please help me stop this jerk from ruining more lives and breaking more hearts along with messing up a soldiers reputation. thanx

  551. Ladies becareful if a sgt perry jefferson chats to you. he will tell you his father is from texas his mother from yorkshire and that he lives in London.The scammer started chatting to me then started to ask for a mobile phone, because his was damaged whilst on patrol, then he tried same thing with a watch, then he asked for money to fly home because he was applying for leave. He was full of i love you,s and i,m going to marry you when i get back lol

  552. I have recently been scammed by a guy posing as a soldier in the us army calling himself trevio roland maccain also claims to have a daughter 21 named monica, what a smooth customer he was very convincing look out for this one. I have submitted photo’s to CJ hopefully they will go up so you can view them.

  553. I was recently scammed using the picture of the very handsome US Sgt. John Wells w/ a picture together w/ President Obama. I was really attrcted to his looks. He requested me to be his friend in facebook. so i accepted him coz i’m looking for a boyfriend.and I told 2 myself he is a good catch. He promised me to come here in our country. I was really trapped of many promises. Until he asked me to file for his leave so that he could come and meet me. As we are chatting, I asked him to open his cam so that i can see him. But he refused. When I received the email from that Robert Gonzalez,w/ leave form and policies, i found out that the person requesting will pay a certain amount. i told him too that, Why am i the one to file the leaved? So that time i made a resesrch and what i found out is a SCammmmmm. Is that Sgt. John Wells still on Military???? He is really handsome, no women won’t be attracted to him….

  554. Hey Julie i had the same thing i met my soldier in imesh and he too requested to be on my face book also he said his cam was broken, i fell for all the lovely emails the promises, i recieved papers for his leave also, but he didn’t get money from me for his leave he got money out of me to help his so called daughter who supposedly got robbed while in africa so we helped with hotel bills huh what a scammer he turned out to be it was only when he said she couldn’t leave the country because she didn’t have bta basic travelling allowance that i woke up and did some investigating it is not required when leaving a country for the states boy i was sucked in badly by this guy, i was so hurt but i have moved on and i am more educated on how the military run things, fancy saying he couldn’t help his daughter because he couldn’t access his money in Afghanistan and that the embassy wouldn’t help i found that very hard to believe that the american embassy would leave one of the own in the lurch i know the australian embassy wouldn’t do that so yeah this guy is posing as Trevio Roland Maccain so keep and eye out for that one or similar because they swap names around.

  555. I wonder how many other women have been scammed my sgtchrisskirk@yahoo. I kept thinking that this man was for real. When I kept asking things because they did not add up he would get mad. I am so sorry that I fell for this. I wonder if there is a phone number where victims like us could check on the so called military soldiers without causing any problems to the real soldiers…

    • I sent alot of information to the army cid and i sent photo’s to cj from this site, it upsets me because we don’t even know if these pictures being used are soldiers still serving or deceased its discusting, and they are so very convincing so don’t feel too bad nancy your not the only one.

      • Christopher Kirk had the nerve to contact me again and asked for money. And yes demanded that I do what he said so we can be together. Funny how they have the nerve to be demanding….Ha Ha Ha but when you ask questions and want details they get pissed off….Funny Funny….

  556. Anyone been in contact with Robert Burgess, Sr. Warrant Officer US Army, deployed in Iraq, 60 yrs old, divorced with one son.

    No money sent because I was always waiting for the signs when it came I was ready for it and told him to mortgage his house in Norfolk, Virginia.

    • Ruth, good for you. I like your answer!

      • Wish i had been as quick as you to catch on, anyway i love your answer to him.

  557. CJ! I have sent four photos to your email, so I would ask you to put them up on the page when you have time. Regards Anki

  558. I too have been conned by a scammer, I signed on to match.com and 5 minutes into paying my monthly fee, I got an email from a man stating that he was from (didn’t get name) in Afghanistan. We talked for about an hour and he said he loved what he say picture and what my heart said. He was born in US but his parents were both German. After about 1 1/2 days he stated that he wanted to hear from me but that he didn’t have a phone and if I could get him one, and wanted “a particular kind”. After much praying about this, I decided to, then he wanted candy and specific shampoo and body wash. This all had to be sent to a West Africa address of a friend of his in the military with him. Then after much “sweet talking” stated that one of his men was killed and that he was in much danger. By then he had my heart, he said he was hit and that his helmet and protective gear got burnt and that he needed me since I was his only “family” to send $800 for a replacement. When I questioned why the Army didn’t get him one, he said it would take too long to get it from them. He gave me a name and address to mail the money order to. One minute he was all depressed and scared and the next he was calling me baby, honey, sweatheart and darlin. I called my oldest daughter and she looked into his name, and within a few minutes called and said mom I sent you a website and its not pretty. I opened it up and there the first picture I saw was Mullin Hopper Krow (or is it really). The one was man who said he would handle my heart like a baby. Luckily I am only out a phone not before I cancelled the activation. Then he had the nerve to text me from yahoo.com and state that he is working with the government to find who is doing this…… LOL I maybe a fool once, but not twice!!!!

    • Oops the name I put was Mullin Hopper Krow should be Knox

  559. thank you so much for this site warning us about these scammers, i was lucky? to be contacted by 2 scammers in 2 days, gary search a fireman on deployment in iraq and
    darren shakman who is deployed in nigeria, of all places, lol both wanted phones, said no, so darren dumped me and Gary said well will u pay for my leave and plane ticket..not likely, but thank you for saving me from being scammed and to tell u the truth neither were that good looking

    • Linda,,, Gary Search from Colorado Springs, he scammed me. out of a lot of money… email me, lets compare pictures… porshaca@aol.com…. Gary is slick…

    • Hey now…that Nigerian bastard who stole my photos seems to be getting a lot of play as “Darren” on the singles sites using my photos. I’ve reported him everywhere I find him but it is virtually impossible to get his profiles deleted. Sorry he bothered you.

      • I too continue to report the fake Gary Search.. any where I can.
        I have been in contact with the real Gary Search.

  560. Ladies watch out for….

    col troy donnelly
    col johnny fowler
    lt.genlloyd@usa.com
    Gary Search…. fire fighter from Colorado Springs phone number 2347066643796 he called me twice…

  561. Hi Lucy
    I was scammed by a Sgt Mark Donnelly but once he sent a message and he used the name Troy do you have any photo’s helen1367@live.co.uk

  562. dont think that gave the facebook address right he is now using the name jones alvin r on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002177230343&ref=ts#!/profile.php?id=100002177230343

  563. Can anyone tell me if they have been contacted by the first picture on this page, with the last name of Knox? He gave me the name of Mullin Hopper Knox? Please let me know. Thanks

  564. well I got curious after talking to this guy calling himself Daniel James Pelzer. He didn’t even know my full name yet and was ready to move himself and his two kids in with me and mine. He said I needed to request his leave to join me in canada but that it would cost me money. He never said how much but just kept asking me if i could do it. well my flags went up and i started doing some research and asking him question about his rank and why he joined the army. i got very vague replies every time and he calls me babe all the time. He sent me some pics and I used the email to get his IP adress.. which is located in France.. funny, he told me he was A Master Sergeant with the US army and was stationed in afghanistan.

    • Hi Jade

      the name Pelzer caught my eye, and Iam wondering if it is the same person I have tlaked to using the name Kirwin Pelzer. I would really appreciate it if you could send me any pics you have of him and/or any messages that I could read so I can compare them with the ones I have.
      my address is lyppylynda@yahoo.com

      I would really appreciate any info you are willing to share

      thanks Lynda

  565. Another Name to watch out for on the Dating web and Social Net works Brad Johnon!!! Total Scam Ladies!

  566. Hi I was scamed by a guy called col Peter Anderson was in the army in Iraq his email address petercowboy1961@yahoo.com. I wasnt fortunate enough to pick up on it after I sent money to him through western union to Nigeria. I have letters and yahoo conversations he used myspace and he did have a facebook account as well.

    Not sure how to deal with this its hit me pretty bad and yes I would like to find the owner of the photos but no luck at all

    Just want these guys put in jail where they belong

  567. I have been here since early January and I think i still have some months to spend here. You sound like a wonderful woman and from the sound of your profile and our chat, I think we are looking for the same thing in life. Somebody to make us happy, to love and care for us. Lets get to know more and more about each other, Probably we could be right for each other, who knows.

    Here are something you need to know about me; I’ve been single for a while now, I never wanted to move on. I’m a kind of man that deals with my emotional feeling with everything i have. I love Jenny (My Ex) so much that i never had a clue that she could do what she did. I got her sleeping with another man just 6 months to our wedding, i got myself together , but with the help of the my friends. I was made to understand that in a world filled with darkness, we all need some kind of light, whether its a great flame that show us how to win what we’ve lost or a powerful beacon intended to scare away potential monsters or a few glowing bulbs that reveals to us the hidden truth of our past, We all need something to help us get through the night. Even if its just the thinnest glimmer of hope. Thats why i decided to move on and search for a wonderful woman who will make me happy for the rest of my life . Thats why we need to move on. We need to let the past go and concentrate on the future. I will love to know you and see if there is a chemistry. I will not hesitate to let you know my feelings the moment i have butterfly in my stomach, lol. I’m looking for somebody who wants me as much as i want them. I’m witty and sarcastic but in a loving way and i bake a mean cake lol. I know there is a picture but this is not vanity, it is honesty, I’m nothing special and anybody can look good in one pic, Facial appearances doesn’t say much of a person, its the person inside that matter most. I love going straight to the point because life is too short to joke with, i need to know what you have on your mind and what you really want. I am ready for serious relationship and i really hope that is what you want and i will not love us waste each other time.
    Love to cook and entertain but need somebody to share it with. I don’t do mind games, I treat everyone the way i want to be treated. I’m an outdoors guy who hikes, camps, climbs, walks the dog, caravans etc. I’m looking for a long term partner, I want the fairytale, the wife, maybe kids, who knows? But i believe in the sanctity of marriage and want somebody who’s ready to be the bride. To me money isn’t important. I don’t care if you live in a cardboard box and survive by begging outside McDonald. Relationships shouldn’t be centered around money, status or background. All i seek is love, care and happiness, a woman who will always make me feel like a man. Someone i could always have fun with, walk hand in hand across the beach and street, have a pillow fight together on a Sunday and also a TLC when doing dishes, laundries and house cleaning. I will love to chat with you as soon we can. To me you seems like a nice woman that i will love to get to know more and more..

    Hoping to chat with you soon.

    Have a nice day.

    This is a copy of a letter I rec’d from Gary Search, firefighter….

  568. Has anyone gotten this letter before.. sounds generic to me. and I fell for it..II know better now.. Since then, have been contact by scammers, both military and non-military…

    I have been here since early January and I think i still have some months to spend here. You sound like a wonderful woman and from the sound of your profile and our chat, I think we are looking for the same thing in life. Somebody to make us happy, to love and care for us. Lets get to know more and more about each other, Probably we could be right for each other, who knows.

    Here are something you need to know about me; I’ve been single for a while now, I never wanted to move on. I’m a kind of man that deals with my emotional feeling with everything i have. I love Jenny (My Ex) so much that i never had a clue that she could do what she did. I got her sleeping with another man just 6 months to our wedding, i got myself together , but with the help of the my friends. I was made to understand that in a world filled with darkness, we all need some kind of light, whether its a great flame that show us how to win what we’ve lost or a powerful beacon intended to scare away potential monsters or a few glowing bulbs that reveals to us the hidden truth of our past, We all need something to help us get through the night. Even if its just the thinnest glimmer of hope. Thats why i decided to move on and search for a wonderful woman who will make me happy for the rest of my life . Thats why we need to move on. We need to let the past go and concentrate on the future. I will love to know you and see if there is a chemistry. I will not hesitate to let you know my feelings the moment i have butterfly in my stomach, lol. I’m looking for somebody who wants me as much as i want them. I’m witty and sarcastic but in a loving way and i bake a mean cake lol. I know there is a picture but this is not vanity, it is honesty, I’m nothing special and anybody can look good in one pic, Facial appearances doesn’t say much of a person, its the person inside that matter most. I love going straight to the point because life is too short to joke with, i need to know what you have on your mind and what you really want. I am ready for serious relationship and i really hope that is what you want and i will not love us waste each other time.
    Love to cook and entertain but need somebody to share it with. I don’t do mind games, I treat everyone the way i want to be treated. I’m an outdoors guy who hikes, camps, climbs, walks the dog, caravans etc. I’m looking for a long term partner, I want the fairytale, the wife, maybe kids, who knows? But i believe in the sanctity of marriage and want somebody who’s ready to be the bride. To me money isn’t important. I don’t care if you live in a cardboard box and survive by begging outside McDonald. Relationships shouldn’t be centered around money, status or background. All i seek is love, care and happiness, a woman who will always make me feel like a man. Someone i could always have fun with, walk hand in hand across the beach and street, have a pillow fight together on a Sunday and also a TLC when doing dishes, laundries and house cleaning. I will love to chat with you as soon we can. To me you seems like a nice woman that i will love to get to know more and more..

    Hoping to chat with you soon.

    Have a nice day.

    • The letter sounds similar to mine, always pick the grammer out short cutting words my so called soldier always said am going or am getting never i am his emails were breath taking i think its all poetry they copy and just add the name of the person into the poem i wish there was something that could be done about these scammers, i have sent the information to everyone i can think of but i haven’t heard back from anyone except the american embassy they did reply.

  569. I have been chatting for a month with whom i thought to be Major General Joseph Banks, who signed as Marcus and is serving in Afghanistan. It is more or less the same story as i have read above. A widower, one son of 12, ex wife dead in a car crash 5 years ago. He sent me some pics of himself in military uniform and with his son. Everything was perfect on him. Since the beginning i thought it was strange the grammatical mistakes he made but i did not pay attention to it. And then, he told me an incredible story about the kidnapping of a petrol magnate’s daughter, her rescue and how her father had offered him a suitcase with US$60.000 and jeweleries. His intention was to send someone with that suitcase for me to keep it at home until he could come to collect it. He kept all the time telling me it was impossible for him sending it to the States because he trusted no one. I said no, but, since he insisted, i told him he could send the suitcase to the police station in order to a friend of mine to pick it up. His answer was, obviously, no. He, then, suggested me to buy a lap top and an iPod for his son who was or was going to Ghana on holidays. I expressed my surprise about his son going to such a dangerous country which is in war and asked him if he had not arranged things so, the person legally in charge of his son, had access to money and he said he had blocked his accounts. It was too much. I was astonished. I told him i did understand nothing of was he was telling me, that i had to think about it all and said good bye. Two days later i had already knowledge of this webpage and decided to prove my suspects. I told him that if he wanted to keep on chatting with me he must send me a picture of the daily afghan newspaper, a copy of his ID card and his army email. He answer to me that he accepted no commands and that it had to come to an end and I informed him i had written to the Defense Department to put this issue into their knowledge. His madly love for me ended in 5 seconds.

    • Ummm, Joseph Banks? Like the clothes makes? LOL

      • Hi CJ! I will send you the link to a photo that I have received andwith I found when i did a search on tineye. CJ goes there to find out who it is? I am sure that this is the man that I have six photos of, and purporting to be Jenn Smith. http://article.wn.com/view/2010/11/27/Rio_cops_troops_seem_ready_to_invade_gang_haven_i/ if you look at the photos as is the third photo from the top left. He has some kind of weapon in the hands, sunglasses and looking to the right of the photo

    • Oh yeah it ended as fast as mine, once i caught him out he did not love me anymore. I’m happy to say i have been able to move on, i have kissed my 905 aust dollars goodbye and picked up the pieces an i’m doing just fine, thanks to this site i am ready for them when they try to scam.

  570. This is crazy!! Disrespectful to our American Soldiers. Also to mention gives our men and woman a bad reputation. I have contacted by a Andre Powell. Asking for money as well. He claims to be a Staff Sergeant In the US Army. Ranked E-6 and been in the Army for 12 or 14 years and has a degree in philosophy.

    This is the e-mail he gave me to contact his commandment comd.fwilliams45@yahoo.com

    “Good day,
    Your request for the vocational leave of ssgt.Andre Powell has been received.
    You will apply with the Transit section in Ramadi here by obtaining the TPF. Transit processing form which usually cost the refundable sum of 550 us Dollars.After remiting form charges,a Form will be sent to Ssgt Andre immediately indicating his status and steps to take..
    He re enlisted in april 2009 to be in the army until 2014
    Under the provision of the Army,he could get some time off on the R&R vocational leave only if requested
    Get back to me as soon as possible for further processing.
    Regards
    LTC Williams Fish
    LTC Williams Fish
    3rd infantry division.
    US Army
    Ramadi”

    After research it seemed all legit. But to pay for a Soldier to come home… this made no sense to be. The US Army is taken very well care of their true Soldiers. I feel he is pretending to be the man in these photos from the site http://www.army.mil/-news/2009/08/14/26047-usasmdcarstrat-soldier-takes-unique-path-before-joining-the-officer-corps/

    This is where they wanted the money sent. The transit section will not deal directly with civilians,there are agents closer to whereever you are.
    As it is the available section agents are in Asia,Africa,and some parts of Europe where the Us military troops are deployed.
    Payments are made through the western union.
    As it is,you are to make payment to the following agents address.
    Name:Michelle Pevitt
    Address:victoria, Portland
    Country:Australia
    Zip:3305
    Get back to me immediately with the
    leave for maximum of 60 days excluding traveling time.
    Get back to me immediately.
    And it will take 30days or less after all requirements are met to process leave.
    Regards
    LTC
    LTC Williams Fish
    3rd infantry division.
    US Army
    Ramadi
    Iraq

  571. I also forgot to add his email is andre.powell22@yahoo.com

  572. Almost got scammed but not quite. This guy claiming to be Robert Badley staff sergeant in Baghdad corresponded with me for almost 3 months. About the time to come home found hidden money of Sadam Hussein! Sending money back to me via messenger. Messenger could not get thru customs needs $6000 can I help him out. Fortunately I was smart enough not to buy into it. I have several pictures that do not look like any other of these assholes. Would love to post them just don’t know how. I do have FBI working on this one. Was on match.com as robstrong63199 for only a few weeks then got off of there when we started corresponding. I must say I felt like a fool but I want every female out there to know about it. Good luck ladies and be careful…

  573. actually, the moment they start asking for money or items you know they are scum ooups… scammers.
    basically the moment I see death and children wether it be army or other, flags go up and I am cautious. I have had 9 out of 11 that are scammers… all the same story jsut a little different.. just got to keep ahead of them.

  574. Anybody been scammed by a Ted Rizz- Lt Col 23 yrs in and coming home 5/21/2011- from San Diego- in 7 days telling me he loved me etc….
    didn’t see the asking for cash- to buy equipment coming- but as soon as he did- realized i thought it was in back of my head- asked for 3500K and when i told him i didnt have it-it turned mean real quick- gone the loving man- instead- i am lying and liar-had a 6yr son watched by parents-

    • Yes – Ted Rizz came up on match.com in early June. 6 year old son who lives with the grandmother in Virginia Beach. His wife died of Hodgkins disease when “Jason” was 18 months old. Told me he loved me too, very romantic and wanted to plan for the future. Asked me for 3,850.00 to replenish training supplies that had been stolen. Was going to be in the security business when he got back to Illinois. Accused me of lying and being “tricky”. I did not give him any money. Also, sent me numerous pictures at the beginning, pictures of him with his “Medal of Honor” and then pictures of him at a week long training in the woods. Invited me to Washington D.C. to see him accept an award.
      SOB – he had me hook, line and sinker.
      He did tell me he was a Colonel and had been in the Army 23 years and was retiring. Coming home in early July, then late July, then first weekend in August.
      Don’t know how to figure out how to get him.
      Would love to see him eat his words.

  575. have the name of a scammer.. not military,, but scammer.. Nelson Peter or Peter Nelson,, first he his profile on evow.com stated he was from Young America, Minnesota.. later he informed he was from the UK. but his ISP addresses were from Nigeria.
    Second he wanted to come meet me.. I informed him the he would need to pay for all expenses, including hotel .. He had not problem paying for everything, “I have money” he stated. He then stated why a hotel, I informed him the we do not know each other that well yet.
    Third he kept calling me with “no number” “no name” stated his phone could not be unblocked and that he’d get it looked at.. He called me when I was working,,, when we did talk, he always asked why don’t you answer my calls over and over over over,, never an intellegiant (excuse the spelling) conversation.
    Forth,,recently he stated that he has not been paid for over 4 months from his job and that he needed money for food for him and his family.. didn’t he say he could pay airfare and hotel.. hmmm sounds like scammer..
    The other day,,, he called 15 times in 20 minutes.. I spoke to him twice,, stating I cannot affordt talk to him as I do not have international calling on my plan. but hhe kept calling..I just ended it..

    his yahoo name is Nelson Peter… has a son Noah.. states he lives in the UK as a Marine Engineer. no idea about the wife.

    be warned ladies…

    • There was a guy recently named Peter Anderson contact me. Said he lived in NY but was English. Talked about his “MUM” I asked him why he would want to correspond with me when I lived in Missouri. I also told him my computer was being monitored by FBI. He never wrote back. He was on match,com as useraccount2943. But guess what, he is gone now. You might try saying your computer is being monitored by FBI if you think yu are being scammed. Trust me they will never email yu again. I think we all ought to contact TV shows like Dateline etc or even “the talk” and let these people know what is going on. They always talk about bully’s. well what the hell is this? Face it ladies these pricks have all taken a little piece of our hearts.

  576. Jones alvin r came on chat to talk to me friday night. Within minutes he was asking me if i wanted to go to america for holiday. I asked him what infantry he was in he said 1th i asked him how come he was wearing 4th infantry uniform. Then he said he had daughter age 8 name lucia. I asked him where his wife was he told me she died in child birth 6 years ago with there daughter. So i asked him if he could explain how that worked as his daughter was 8. Then i told him he was what we call a scammer here.

  577. Has anyone been scammed by capt micheal johnson has’nt asked for anything after talking for a month but am suspicious

  578. Anyone get contacted by a Ralph Edwards??

    • look on us soldier dating scam and stop the us soldier scammers edward is on there alot

      • Sorry karla that last one is stop being scammed by cons saying they are us soldiers. Edwards been on there several times

        • I have been contacted by a Jim Edwards, say’s he is in Iraq and will be home in 3 months. Say’s he lives in Orlando Fl and his wife cheated on him so they divorced. He sent picturs of himself. Is there away I can see if he is on the wall of shame without having to go through all the pictures

    • I was contacted by a Jim Edwards email edwardshulk@ymail.com He said he is a E-6 SSG, 54 years old and has a 10 yr old son living in Ghana with a friend of his. This could be the game guy. There are a lot of Edwards in the military, tried to get one of my friends who is in the military to see if he is actually over in Iraq. She said I would need to find out what unit he is in first. I emailed him and asked and have not heard back

      • Warning!!!…he is a fake to 100 %

  579. My friend Agata met a guy through Badoo name James Nobile.

    This is what he wrote her at the beginning. I hope we are all here to make friends and start from there and I think we are all here to search for the second part of our hearts and start from there too. You have a nice profile and thanks for taking time to read this message, its a pity that I don’t visit the site regularly. I will love to know more about and hoping to read from you soon… I believe that partners are 100% equal in a relationship and both should be able to feel they can trust each other. I am affectionate and I have no trouble showing it for the right woman in public or private. I love to cuddle while watching a good movie, I love to hug and kiss my woman at anytime and anywhere, it could be a store, mall, or just on a sidewalk. If You are looking for long term relationship, I am looking for something permanent and I know it takes time and a lot of good effort to form a good relationship but we can give it our best shot if there is any chemistry between us. So if you wanna try, lets give it a go. Here is my email ID and chat. I don’t log on here often. Hope to hear from you soon.

    He sounded to good to be true. He sent her so many beautiful poems and expression of love to her. He told her he loved her right away and wanted to hear those words from her as well. She was his life. She offered to send him a care package and he told her that they can’t receive them due to safety reasons. Anyway, something wasn’t right with him for me so I checked the IP address from the e-mails she got from him with permission from her. Guess where they were coming from? NIGERIA!!!

    It’s been a month since they have been chatting when all of a sudden a friend of his named Alex came on his chat ID because James mistakingly shot a civilian on patrol. He was put on trial by the war court. The civilian died. James was being held responsible for the mistake and was charged attorney charges for the offense. He wanted to know if Agata could raise attorney charges for James to sort this case ASAP and $750 was needed so that he would be freed and sent back home once it’s all sorted out. She of course didn’t send anything because she has a special needs child and can’t afford even that. This happened on Sunday and now she got an offline message from James that his friends raised the money and it was really 1,750 dollars but all he needed was just that $750 dollars. Tomorrow morning he is supposed to go to court and doesn’t know really what will happen. My friend Agata is so torn right now because she fell for him. She truly thought that she has finally found someone who might actually care for her and her child for was so caring toward her child. I don’t know what else I could do. She wants to believe him and is torn that she fell for his lies but wants him to prove that he isn’t lying.

    I did write to him and his friend and told them they are scammers and that I hope that God will convict them and that they will change their ways.

    If anyone was contacted by this guy please reply here and let me know as well. It breaks my heart they emotionally hurt these women including my friend.

  580. Micheal johnson is definately a scammer he was good but not good enough, enjoyed playing the game. Come on ladies we can beat them we are worth more.

  581. Well ladies here is an update. Agata has chatted with him today but I was with her. She asked him to give her an email from his military email account or an address where she could send him a Birthday card since his birthday is coming up. He basically avoided the subject. I got so angry that I got on and simply told him off and he started with I am controlling my friend’s life and how dare I. I told him if he honestly loved her as he has stated he would have no problem giving either one of what she asked. His answer was it’s no security reason but protocol. He only told her that he’s supposedly stationed at Camp Victory, Baghdad, Iraq. I told him he was full of it cause all of his e-mails were coming from NIGERIA and I asked him why was that? He replied with you must live there that is why. LOL
    She got back on and he was so sweet to her and kept asking how her son was and that he is his son too. He told her that she hurt him for she doesn’t believe him or has faith in him. ( They have been chatting only for a month. LOL) He stated that he would help her if she needed help without thinking anything negative. Here is the loop: all of a sudden he said, ” Let me tell you something, I am financially secured. I just don’t have access to my money here, it’s been sent to my Fidelity account, which I made my son the next of kin. I will be in possession of my money when I get out of here.” She simply replied to him good for you, so what? He simply said, “I just wanted you to know I am not here for your money.” He then told her he’s tired and needs to get some sleep she told him “Good Bye and Good Luck!”

    I think she finally realizes that he is a fake but she started to have feeling for the man on the picture and that’s what hurts the most.

    • That is odd. When dealing with my scammer he also said he was at Camp Liberty in Baghdad. I have posted on here about a week ago. His name was Robert Badley. He told me also not to send anything because it would be a distraction for him. I do have pictures and would like to add to this website. Can someone please let us know how to do that. The more pictures we have the better off we are. Also I am contacting my local news station to see if they are interested in any of this. The more we expose these people the stronger we become.

      • Hi Renee, I was wondering about this Robert guy. I also was talking to a Robert but different last name. Just wanted to know if he had blonde hair and blue eyes. cute Please let me know and will see how we can exchange pics.

        Thanks, Melinda

        • what was the last name robert was using?

      • i have also been talking with a robert in baghdad but with a different last name. most of his pictures are in military uniform and he is usually wearing a long horn ball cap. he has dark hair and has even sent me pictures of his kids. i have even received emails from his aunt who lives in canada

  582. Hi agata i feel for you,i to was beginning to get feelings so turned the tables on him. He immediately closed all accounts on facebook (hope to god they stay closed) they certainly know how to talk the talk, but it will make use stronger women take care

  583. I managed to reel in two recently, both were using BBWCupid.com

    Eric Ramos – wesramic@yahoo.com – is using an adaptation of a letter a few of you have already posted:

    My name is Eric Ramos . I was born on the 10th of October, 1964 at Baptist Hospital of Miami. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.

    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam.

    I had a pretty bad experience.

    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.

    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Sudan ,I have to let you know that I am on my second mission here in Sudan and I have already spent 5 months here. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When i went back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man.

    She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down.. I was with her for 14 years.
    My son lives with my ex in Miami. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.

    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved and trust her with all my heart i never thought she could do such a thing . I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself.
    In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time.I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my word.

    And the second goes by MSgt. Samuel Jordan -jordansamuel45@yahoo.com – his picture is already here. This was his introductory e-mail:

    How are you doing today ,First i wanna say thanks so much for taking your time to write me .Its really great to meet you on the dating site and i am so sure you will be glad to meet me too.As i thought most people on the site are really weird,but you seems different and your pix are most beautiful I will tell you a lil about me but how do i get to describe myself, seems like a very hard thing to do with limited space and time. My name is Samuel Jordan.I lost my wife 3 years ago and ever since then all i have as a family in this whole world is my little kids Lola 7 years and King 5 years old.They are all i have got and i love and cherished them so much.Ever since i lost my wife i have been living a boring and lonely life.But i do believe its time to move on with life.So when my friend met his partner on this dating site,My Mother in law saw the site as an opportunity for me to get to meet people as i am not a bar or pub person and in my opinion is easier meeting on here.

    I’m currently serving the US Air Force, I have been in the service now for 17yrs. and i am on my deployment term in Afghanistan and i am a Master Sergeants (MSgt).It can be really hard here a times and the fact that i miss my kids so much makes things a lot more difficult.I am an Italian American.I am ready to move any where for the right woman
    I have learn to move forward with life and face everything that life thrown at me but still missing that special woman to share life with.I am passionate,loving,caring,trusting ,romantic,opened,honest and loyal.And all i am looking for is that special woman to move on with.A woman that i can love and will love me back.A woman that i can do that simple things of life with and share and enjoy life together.I hope to get to know more about you as you seems nice.I love all kinds of music but i have special interest in Blues,Hip Hop,Rap and a lover Basketball,Tennis,swimming and Soccer ,I also love the simple things of life like watching sunshine and walking the beach with the right with woman is my heaven.

    I am looking to meet the woman i can love,adore and spend the rest of my life with.I will also like to tell you that i am only interested in a serious and long term relationship as i want a more stable life now.I am so sorry if i sound too direct,its just that i wouldn’t want to waste time cause i have come to realized that life is too short to pretend.I have attach some of my recent pix and my kids with this email and i hope you will like it.I will add you now and we can chat when we are both online.

    I’m thankful for this site, as I caught both these guys before they could ask for money, although Jordan appeared to be grooming me as he offhandedly mentioned he had to “pay” to go on leave. That didn’t sit right.

    • Hi Kerri,
      Your email from jordan has exactly the same content as the one I received from Michael Cindrich (aug0865@aol.com). Can you email some pics so I can compare? I feel so sorry that the man who has had his identity stolen in this way.
      Gill

  584. Has anyone been contacted by a Capt Guy Maness Capt Guy E Maness (match.com)
    “He” is from TN, parents met in Europe, “no kid” “parents gave birth in US” -wow, really? My mother gave birth to me, not “my parents.”
    I have 3 photos of “him.” One from match, the other 2 he forwarded in email.
    (I have family in law enforcement-questioned them, they said write, but watch up for the “Please send me….”
    All was a whirlwind 3 week “connection” with shared love letters. He was very suave and very charming and caring. I questioned him further about past, how long in army, etc….He gave me main FT Devens address, and what I believe to be a bogus Ramrod address. I wrote back in the same, loving manner, with suspicion that Capt Maness would soon be asking me for something…sure enough… his “Blackberry crashed” oh poor thing. “Can you send one to me please, I’ll refund you as soon as I’m home.” I again explained how poor I am, mortgage, children, so many expenses…then asked about warranty on device? Why not contact provider? Doesn’t army supply computer and other devices, etc. Gee, After 3 weeks of sharing generic I LOVE You type letters….he hasn’t written back in a couple of days…I use to receive a letter a day from him???
    I did a search on name and found 3 Guy Maness; 1 is an Army Capt, there are videos of him sending wife and children greetings and parents & church family greetings. (not same photos) The other Guy Maness is “retired military?” =written in French, he is an older man – the other is just a man named Guy Maness.
    I believe “the real” Capt Maness (a Chaplin) had his ID stolen. This is outrageous that the people who should be appreciated and respected are having names and photos stolen!
    Nora
    I would like to forward photos and learn if this is a familiar name.
    Thank you for this site, I hope it helps many!

  585. Has anyone had any contact with SSGT George Moose in Baghdad Iraq? He claims to be 56 and ready to retire. Supposedly has a home in Miami….that after research, does not belong to him. He is divorced 6 years with a 12 yr. old son. After a 5 month relationship, his charming ways turned to extreme possessiveness, followed by needing money sent to his “agent” because his luggage was being held by customs in London. Of course he needed funds to pay customs for the tax on the items. He was very attentive morning and night to me. When I couldn’t come up with the funds he needed, the picture quickly changed. So, anyone talking with George_Moose@yahoo or George_ms2121@yahoo?

    • I was scamed by SSGT George Moose too. How can I post his pictures on this site?

      • Sophie,
        I just sent photos of “George Moose” to CJ to post as soon as possible. Summer sent them to me. So I forwarded them on to CJ. Please don’t let it get you down; he’s a leech on society and he and the others will suffer for their evil ways one way or another. Meantime, you, Summer and I must go on with our lives. Even if you sent him money, at least you found him out before things got dangerous.
        We have lots to live for and enjoy in life. We’re still healthy, have children to love and many future opportunities to look forward to. So just ask God to help you forget and be at peace. My email address is sharon.777@att.net
        Sharon

        • Hi Sharon,
          Thank you for encouragement me. May be this is a big mistake in my life.I feel better now because I have you and Summer to share about that.Thank you again

    • I also have been communicating with this slimeball for 6 months; he’s been so agreeable and lovable until last Friday when he gave me the same little story about his agent taking his “luggage” (ith a valuable artifact given to him by the “Iraqi Minister of Energy” or rescuing his son) to his home in Miami.

      • I was also chatting to him. I suspected him very quickly. Got shot of him. His english is good – but not prefect.

      • Looking to see if anyone has pics of this Moose guy. I have been contacted by a guy using a similar name. I think he is also fake. my email is vjackson1284@yahoo.com

        Thank you

  586. Does anyone know of a Capt Stanley Cliff supposed to be a Triage nurse in Afganistan reading above he has just started asking me to subscribe to this telecomm. scam and i think he also made a mistake one time by coming on as bob jernkings love to hear fromanyone

  587. I have known for almost a month that the guy who calls himself Bryan Dale Jordan to me, was trying to pull a scam when he asked for money to help get a package thru customs. I have used every way possible to drag this out hoping to get him to slip up and give me some way to track him. I may be a lot of things but stupid is not one of them. He has not gotten one cent from me, nor will he ever get anything.
    I would love to add all of the pictures he sent me so that they can be added to the wall of shame. My heart goes out to the guys in the military who are being used in this way. I saw five other women that were being used by the same guy during the same time as myself.
    Please let me know what I need to do to get those pictures to you.
    Thank you for all you are doing here! More people need to know about this! I will let people know that it is here!
    God Bless You!
    Debbie

    • Hi Debbie,

      Looks like we are in contact with the same guy. I have been IM’ing him for two months. please email me on pixie-princess@hotmail.com perhaps we can share experiences!!!!
      Dianne

    • hi Debbie, my name is Gail, i have been in touch with a guy called, ricky jason jordan,do you think they could be the same bloke,the pics of him are one with his daughter, he said he had 2 daughter’s,
      he said he wanted to get some leave, and said i was is wife, and would need to write a letter for him,i wish i could get to see your pics, just to comfirm, good luck Debbie, and to all the ladies that are getting riped off by these moron’s, it disgusting what they are getting away with.

  588. I agree Debbie. We need to get thie pictures posted. It is a shame to the real military guys and their families that their images are being used like this.
    We can’t tell the scammers about this site tho. My scammer “Bryan Jordan” was dying to know where I saw the pic.
    the more pictures we post and the more info we know the less people this will happen to.
    Also, I’m kind of concerned about pictures I sent to him. I’m wondering if they are not going to use those in future scams somehow? I guess there is nothing to be done about that now.

    • hi i have this guy who goes by the name of jude ruddock .i met him on http://www.wayn.com a few days ago i knew some thing wasn’t right when he told me that he wanted to be with me and to share his dreams with he must think i’m some kind of idiot i did some research on him and found that he is a scammer our guys are out there fighting these nonsense wars & these ass holes are stealing their identites that’s ashame i hope they all get caught

      • Debbie, beware of wayn.com. I started chatting with 2 guys I met on there. Both were scammers. They wasted about 2 months of my life. I am glad they are out of my life now. These guys are pathetic. All they do is prey on woman.

  589. well i think capt stanley cliff is bob jennings,bobby jernkings, or robert hes made a few mistakes now I have questioned him on the phone scam and I asked him to put my fears at rest by e mailing me from his .mil account but oh deear he didnt like that How could I be questioning his love for me!! He doesnt have to prove anything!! Oh well his love couldnt be that great if he wouldnt do that one thing. Well we had been talking since December and it was nice but I am not niaeve how could someone fall in love with someone they had never met within 1 months chatting. Final straw was I’ve just been shot how can you do this to me. Talk about pulling out the big cannons. Didnt fall for it!!

  590. met my scammed on badoo, said his name was frank audrey, got a bit sus when he started talking spending the rest of his life with me, so did a bit of digginf . found his face book account and got in contact with a woman who had commented on his pics, she told me keep well away from him, so continued to did , all phone codes were nigeria , i had to laugh in the end, bec he was so good, knew all the right things to say .
    so now i have all these photos of a so called frank audrey who wss meant to be out in afghanistan im wanting to know now who the guy in the pics really is and would love to get in contact with him, yes know hes prob married etc but im curious to meet him, how do i send you pics of the guy for future reference,

    look forward to hearing from some one, im not good at laeving things unfinished, this is my email if any one can help at all.
    claremou@yahoo.co.uk

  591. followup on capt.stanleycliff I have checked his IP and guess what LAGOS NIGERIA I am just waiting to see what excuse he comes up with now as he can talk the talk
    Everyone be aware Capt.stanleycliff@yahoo.com or bobjernkings@yahoo.com are one man and he is a scammer.

  592. I have come across a name, I met him on Social central and application on facebook. I’m on it because it’s entertaining, anyway, this person’s name is Sgt. Brent Stewart, US Military, I started talking to him on MSN, said he lost his wife and is raising a daughter who is currently living with his mom in the US. Like all the postings I’ve seen here, he is looking for a woman to settle down with and a mommy for his little girl, has sent me a poem and pics. He is supposedly posted in Kandahar, Afghanistan and was recently sent to Libya awhile ago on an urgent mission for two weeks. He had asked me to sent him $350.00 for a T2S phone so we can talk all the time…I have a general distrust for requests and when I said I wasn’t going to send anything and got upset. I told him about the scam and never mentioned even after I found, copied and pasted and sent it to him. Needless to say, I’ve never heard from him again. I looked up the IP address and its from Nigeria.

  593. Hi! Sends a link from scamwarners. Here are the photos of both Jenn Smith and his son Henry Smith. I have sent photos to the CJ, but they are not posted yet. Hugs to you all Anki
    http://scamwarners.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=14441&start=15

  594. Met Sigmund “Bill” Witt about a week ago. Claims to be a captain in the Army serving at Camp Eggers in Kabul, Afghanistan. His wife died and his 2 children, ages 16 and 13 are living with relatives in “Netherland”. He said he has been in the Army for 20 years and the only base he has served on is Fort Benning, GA. He told me is birthday is coming up (May 22nd). I told him if he provided me with his address I would be happy to send a card. He told me he had never received mail there and would have to check with his commander. He got back to me today and gave me the email address and name “Teddy Morgan” who was his commander’s personal assistant he would provide me with an address. “Bill” also told me that he would for me to send him a white teddy bear so he could hug it as he was missing me terribly. He also requested cookies, candy, shower gel and body spray. I emailed Mr. Morgan while Sigmund waited. Mr. Morgan was quick to reply that he was retired from the US Army and was living in London and would personally see to it that my package would be delivered to Capt. Witt. I just need to let him know exactly when I would be sending a package and provide him with a tracking number and to mail the package to PO Box 1166 AT ACH-MKT, Accra, Ghana 00233. I googled a few things and found all kinds of information about these scams. I said something to him about it and he adamently denied it, of course. He even offered to send me an email from his military email address which is sigmwitt00@militarymail.us. I also found about 6 people with this name on Facebook. Each account contained a picture of a different person, some in military fatigues. I have a picture of him, but couldn’t figure out how to post it on here. I scrolled through all the pictures above and didn’t see him so I would really like to get it posted. His email address is sigmwitt1962@yahoo.com

  595. hi ev1 , i also belive i have tied my self to a scammer???? he frist wrote me on facebook.com. we went back and forth message after maessage for about a month. than we started speaking thru yahoo messanger..we have been chatting for almost a year.he has said he is in the army and was deployed and needed a friend? so i thought ok..i could be his pen pal. well we have been chatting for over a year.said he love to hear my voice to contact. “ts2private_personels@consultant.com told me i have too say im his fiance, so i did we wanted to hear each others voices.. the cost was $450.00 i told him no i cant afford that. he said he under stood but try and make payments..lol. that should have been my frist red flag..so i ask him about skype. he said due to security purposes they werent allowed to use it..but i could get on web cam and he could hear me and see me..lol. 2nd red flag. still didnt get me…he always says that i need to under stand the nature of his job, and how much he loves me..and when his mission was over he wants me to be his wife.around christmas i sent him a package was really a lot in it . candy, crackers, snacks.ect… cost around 60-65 to send..but i had to send to lagos, nigeria. i asked him why there he said that is where his majior was and they get mail and pakages at a army base there and air craft delivered to him…? ok i thought could be ..so in march i sent another package containing more than candy. a digital camrea cause i want more recent photos and to know if he was fake or not, cds, and dvds. well he still hasnt gotten it. he said air craft is not flying due to death of bin????this set me to edge. than he had me ask for a leave request. agian he had me say i was his fiance,asking for early release. well the next day i got a response saying they have to verify he is in afganastan..the 3rd day i recived more documents.this time requesting my signature.so i went to the veterans building in my area.the next document was for more info.on me..name address so, on..than the response was that they verfied him..and had 120 hours to grant request??? 5 days later i got a letter saying grant was appoved for 12 weeks of vacation. which it was for marriage is what we said leave was for..???
    but i had to pay 1,250 US dollors before he could be sent home.after i sent the money he would be released within 72hr….thats when i got really suspicious..ask him about it he said its volunteering leave he had to pay to be taken back to states..said he couldnt pay due to his acct. in state was froze and he had no way to get money…(bull shit) so i will pray that this is just a thought in my head because i have gave him my heart just to break it.. but i will give his name. and he is on facebook, myspace, and quepasa all the same pic for all .myspace has a diffrent pic. and i have like 4 others of him..came from his said son?? and how do you do the iep address check???? can someone help me out here..thank you.. and if someone is or has chatted with him please reply. thank you heart broke..:( email: carlin michael69@yahoo.com
    facebook: mike carzoo myspace: michael carlin same for quepasa…plz help me here.

  596. Hi! It’s opened a separate thread for Jenn Smith at scamwarners. Photos and Messages are moved here.
    http://scamwarners.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=18776 Regards Anki

  597. CAN SOMEONE GIVE ME ANY INFO ABOUT THE U.S. SOLIDER…. WAS GOING BY THE NAME TOM CURTIS.. I KNEW HIM BY JAMES HARRISON….IN THE ABOVE PICS HE IS THE SOLIDER WITH THE SNAKES….ANY IDEA HOW I COULD LOCATE THE SOLIDER IN THE PICS? PLZ EMAIL ME mscookie302000@yahoo.com THANKS!

  598. I was talking with a man named Jeff Cartier. He sent me pictures, flowers, stuffed animals and chocolate. He also sent me what was supposed to be his daughters email. I never gave him my address yet he somehow found it. He wanted me to email a company ts2militarycallprovider@consultant.com they would send him a phone provided that i pay 420.00 dollars. I did not pay it thankfully. But he was very believable. We even talked on skype though he could not use a camera for “security purposes”. He even spoke on skype with my children. He said he was born in Germany and moved here in his early 20′s. He is divorced and has 2 children. He gave me a fake address in florida and called me on the phone. Needless to say his german accent that he said he had sounded more like a slight indian accent. I have pictures that i am hoping to download to site as his picture is not here. Be careful ladies.

  599. There is also a scammer that goes by the name Ssg. Ralph Edwards. This is his real name. I knowthis because foxnews did an article on the real guys from Gaines Mill, kirkuk. It was called the Baghdad Bureau. Google it. I talked to the imposter for 4 weeks. I have pictures. I don’t see him here, but I believe I see pictures of another
    soldier from that article. His name is Doc Watson(?) and his picture is posted above.It is shameless what these profilers are doing to the guys that protect us when we sleep, work and play. Contact me at the above e-mail address if you want these pics.

  600. Has anyone had any contact with the first picture on this website: Mullin Hopper Knox?

  601. Dave_Ramos29@yahoo.com is the same scammer using the name of John Palmas. I had only been talking to him for a couple of days, but it seemed quite odd about the bad grammer. He waived it off as having grown up in Germany. I’m glad I found this site as several pics he was using are on this site. He wasn’t very happy when I busted him. Please be aware ladies!!! I found my last husband on match.com, but things have changed so much for the worse on that site. Alot of scammers out there!!

  602. I am getting tired of scammer contacting me.. both military and non-military. they seem so nice the beginning, but then I have been asked for money, to open up a bank account, open up a credit card for them. Of course I said NO, but it feels they cannot hear, as they keep asking me. The answer is always the same, NO… thanks to this website I am able to figure quickly who the scammers are.. thanks!

  603. Beware of someone claiming to be SSG David Morgan, stationed in camp Victoria in Iraq. He was using “dvdmorgan1944@gmail.com” and his yahoo instant messaging address was “dvdmorgan1944@yahoo.com”.

    I notice on Match.com that his profile has changed to “Brilliantmarv” and he changed his location to Los Angeles.

    Following are his details given to me by him in his first email to me. Duh…the bad grammer should have been my first red flag…but when I questioned him he claimed that English is his second language…I bought it. Then he started asking me to send him a lap top and/or money to secure a lap top. After a couple of unsuccessful attempts to get money out of me he stopped emailing and instant messaging.

    I Really want to make it kinow that I do not blame SSG David Morgan, whomever he is, he is as much a victim as I am in this.

    David’s first email:

    Hello Diana,

    I hope your day went well.. just thinking of what to tell you and I hope this will tell you a little more about me’…I hope you’ll tell me some more in your next mail. But I prefer to chat on IM.
    I really like everything I read in your profile and my gut instincts tells me you are a good woman. But here we are with you in MA and me, far away in the middle east on Peace keeping with the army(defense intelligence)…Too bad isn’t it? Well as long as we have life, we can still have time for ourselves in the near future, what matters is life, right? I do understand the distance thing; I just truly believe that there are no boundaries as you seek your life companion…How do I set the ball rolling?

    My name is David Morgan and with one kid adopted …was married before but lost my wife…5’7 feet tall and average. I was born on 28th August, 1963 at Baptist Hospital of Miami………I started A &A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools, I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home.

    My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field of the army and later worked with the UN. I am now an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG) and now working with the UN. I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a noncommissioned officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    Talking about who I am; am that easy going type, adventurous, romantic, ambitious and have a very good sense of humor. My hobbies are too many but to mentioned a few; sports, watching movies, going for walks, listening to music (almost all types of music), love on the beach, dancing in the dark etc..

    My favorite movies are romantic movies, adventure films, war films and comedy movies eating habits: just about anything. Am always smiling and don’t easily get irritated, I don’t even remember the last time I frowned, am that type of person who always try to make people laugh. I always make sure to share the little that I have with someone and also satisfied with whatever I have….
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad (Victoria Camp), the capital of Iraq . I have to let you know that I am on my second mission in Iraq and I have already spent 4 yrs and am left with 1 month to retire and be home. My first mission to Iraq was in 2004. My mission ended in 2006. When back to the States, some few months after, my wife died of cancer. I was with her for 14 years. I am now looking for the one whisk to my heart….in which I will then say a woman that can put her past behind move on with me to the next level, talking about my family, i have none. All i have now is my adopted son. I adopted him when he was 10 years .I lost my family during the world trade Centre tourist attack…. so i want to start a new beginning with a woman i will one day find….. I believe either of us had in mind of meeting someone special online but it has just come to pass with our personality description towards learning few things about each other. I’m ready to falling in love with someone special whoever that happens to be.. there are few qualities which talks about genuine woman in relationship, such as faithfulness, loyalty, trustworthy, Honesty, respectful etc.

    I guess having those qualities in relationship can really help allot. I am not looking to fill a void in my life, I am looking for my soul mate. I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered.

    I love to cook and a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine and great music. I enjoy many type of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country western especially Ian Tyson. I love to have adventures, large or small, and am looking for someone to share them with.
    I look into the future with hope and would like to create a relationship based on respect, understanding, trust and love. Seeking a relationship with longevity and not just something will end in just a blink of an eye. I have a great sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day enjoyable.

    My cologne I wear is Armani,Prada,Gucci and CK. I like those smells. As far as clothes, I wear casual clothing like nice shirts, pants with a nice polo, nautical or Tommy shirt and also i like wearing suits. I do like wearing jeans as well and I love to dress up for occasions. Okay that brings me to my next subject. I am very honest,caring,open,romantic,dependable,soft touched and respectful to my partner. As far as what I am looking for here is well, in any relationship I feel becoming a best friend is best start of a good relationship. To become a husband and lover to a woman should be second. This getting married should come when both people are comfortable with each other and know them pretty well and have accepted them for who they are. But to be a lover and husband there also has to be a spark between them. The spark is sharing that part in a relationship for intimacy. It’s special and both husband and wife need to have that between them.

    There should be a want and desire to make each other happy. I want to be able to treat her like a queen and share and laugh do all the home duties together. I want her to take on her own identity. If she wants to work then I would support her in what ever she want to do if only she need my help or whatever she decides she wanted to do then I would support that. I do not want someone who thinks they have this chain and ball around their ankle.

    Honestly I’ve all that it takes to be a man, I don’t really need anything from my partner. maybe in terms of circumstances there might some kind of help from each other, helping to make things right. It’s not all that easy meeting that rightful woman with all those qualities which I’m dreaming off. I am a very sincere person who laughs easily, loves to tease and be teased and who communicates openly and honestly. I pride myself in being independent both emotionally and financially. I have reached the point where I am looking for someone who is open to a new friendship and maybe even a committed relationship. I love life and would like to live it to the fullest, but its not all that easy without someone to share those life experiences with. I think two heads are better than one.

    I will be home on retirement in 8 weeks and that is one main reason why i joined the dating website even though it’s not safe out here to be using the internet and everything i still had a thought about dating since for a long time now i never went on a date and am about to go on retirement and want to have that special woman in my life so that when i come back on retirement i can be with till the end of the world.

    I never knew how to do this online chat and it was my son who thought me how to chat online and to send emails but unfortunately i can’t always be sending emails because most of my time i talk to my son online.

    I speak the truth and believe in brutal honesty! Perfect relationship it’s hard to find. But yet I realized there is no perfect relationship. I am looking for a serious relationship in the near future. I would like to know the person I want to be with. Good relationship starts with good friendship. Building a friendship with someone is the good start to know the person. I’m hoping for someone who really cares about me. And will love me the way I am. I am not “Perfect” but I do know how to respect other people. And someday I will be happy with someone who cares, someone who will always be there for me. i will like to know you…Hope you are fine and doing okay. I will be much glad if you reply me back and also can i have some pictures of you…?

    …Talk soon…attached a photo

    would love to hear your voice but it’s rather unfortunate we have a communication break down and hope you can bear with me for some time…Looking forward to hearing from you soon..

    Yours Friend

    Have a nice evening!

    David

  604. Does anyone know how to post pictures on this site? I forgot to include them in my post about SSG David Morgan.

    • Diana, you used to be able to send me the pictures and I would get them uploaded. However, I’m getting ready for a real deployment to Afghanistan and I don’t have time to post all the photos I get any longer. I recommend joining the Facebook Group “Get the scammers/assholes online” and post your photos there until I get back from my deployment.

      • Thanks C.J. I thought they weren’t accepting new members but I just received a response to my request to join.

      • Good luck to you CJ while you are deployed. Stay safe. You have such wonderful work with this website. Will say a prayer for you.

        • just wanted to let you know that our prayers are with you as you are deployed. stay safe.

  605. Has anyone heard from a man with an email address of: ferraributterfly@yahoo.com and
    ferraributterfly@hotmail.com? I think I am being scammed as he said he is in the Military and in Afghanistan? He first contacted me on Oasis dating site then emailed me along with pics. Any info would be appreciated.
    Thank you
    Gabrielle

  606. this man said he was captain guy maness from the 26th Brigade, 29th Infantry Division, stationed in Fort Devens. his email address is
    guymaness_army@rocketmail.com,

    • Have you got a pic of this man as I have one that he sent me.

  607. This man above is going by the name of Perez hackert wayne. Wayne being first name. email addresses as above: ferraributterfly@yahoo.com and ferraributterfly@hotmail.com.His
    rank is E-6 Staff Sergeant in Kabul Afghanistan.
    He has not asked me for money as yet but I offered and he declined. I think its a scam as I have read the same stuff he is saying on here to others. He was married 14 years and his wife went with another man. Has a 14 year old son living in UK called Kelvin. I tracked IP address to Ghana. Can you please help. Thank you.
    I have pics that I have sent you

  608. I have been contacted by a man named Sgt. Jack Raymond O’Brian. I have talked to two people before him that were Nigerian scams and he sounds like another. Does anyone have any information on him? He says he is military intelligence in Afghanistan.

    • Hey Diana,
      Someone going by the same name contacted me on about the 16 May…. He is definately a scammer… Tried to tell me he wanted to come to Oz to visit, but did not have the money to pay for the airfare from Kabul. Fed me a line that he was infantry and then changed it to Engineers. Definately on Military Intelligence, does not even use correct grammar or spelling. I really do feel sorry for whoeve was in the photos he is using.

  609. Now this is funny… a sign of a scammer… ‘
    I told scammer I am chatting with, that I have tomorrow off with pay, as it is holiday… he did not know it was a holiday, and did not know what Memorial day was about.. hmmmmmm not very smart

  610. Has anyone been contacted by Perry Terry Knox, he is the first picture on this website?

    • Kathy,
      I was just wander if Terry Knox had a son or not. Im just wondering if the person I’m talking to is the some person that you talked too. So if could tell me what he told you. Thanks

  611. Sharon and Sophia: Regarding George Moose, if you would like to reply with your email address, I will send you the pix I have of this idiot. I am sure we have been talking to the same person.

    • Summer,
      My email is above;sharon.777@att.net. It seems that “George Moose” decided to cash in on his love victims in May and rake in some dough. I noticed he asked all of us in May for the customs duties and fees; after building up months of trust. I’d like to send you my photos but have tried and had trouble getting it to cooperate.
      **I sent him a message when I first realized he was a scammer that I thought he was a scumbag and now I have a reply from him, which I’m afraid to open but couldn’t really care less (although I’m a little curious).

      • Sharon:

        I sent pix to your email address. Please reply to me and send what you may have as well. Yes, he took advantage of us and who knows how many more?? Open the message and please share with us. The more we know,the more we have to share and protect other women.

  612. Hi Summer,
    I was scammed by this man SSGT George R Moose.I lost a lot of money for him, I am so ashame and I feel so violated as I shared my whole life day after day for several months with him. This man needs to be caught and locked away, I pray he is caught and justice is served. Could you send his picture to me to make sure it ‘s him or not. Thank you very much

  613. Sophia: Please give me your email address and I will send you the pix. I have a lot to share with you. I was with him for 6 months too through April of this year. I never sent money, but did share my life with him too. Morning and night, like clockwork he was there for me.

  614. Sophia:

    This is online in the white pages and this is not him. He placed this as part of his scam. He said this was his address.
    George R Moose
    6371 SW 16th Ter
    Miami, FL 33155-1905
    (305) 831-1901

    • Summer,
      This is my email address:rossisophia48@yahoo.com
      Please send to me his picture. I have his address the same like that

      • Sopia,
        I guess he wised up a little with me and never gave me as much info as you and Summer, but again was there morning and night and I shared details of my life like an idiot. I never sent money although I came close. Did you send money more than once?
        Sharon

  615. Hi, im thinking that i am chatting with a female scammer.

    She told me, she is a marine. But there are some things they dont match. No military address to send letters, no unit specs., bad English and more such things. Every time when i try to get this information she changes the subject. Also here information about here, so called hometown, are more than fragmentary. Until now she did not ask for money. But last time we talked, she asked for legal information in the real estate sector or company-ups.

    Is there a list of names that female scammer use? I have logs of most of the chats and all mails. When you have something, write to reberstephan@gmail.com

  616. Hi, I’m so glad I found this site. I read through all the posts and do not see this name, but I’m pretty sure I’m being scammed

  617. my message just sent before I was done. I was contacted by a SGT John Chris using the email jchris3738@yahoo.com. I was seriously falling for this man!! he seemed perfect. He said he wanted to be able to talk to me and could I register with usarmy_communication@hotmail.com. when I received an email back wanting me to send 220$. via western union for a TS2 set up, I became very suspicious. I did non do it nor will I. I sent him a message telling him I was sorry, but I did not have any money. I have not heard from him since. I googled his yahoo I’D jchris3738 and there are several pages of dating sites all over the world that he is on, with 3 different pictures, all of which he sent me. Hiscprofiles seem to be new. I would love for him to be real, but I am almost certain he is not. the man in the pictures seems like such a wonderful, brave man, and it saddens me to know that his name and pictures are being used this way. I found his profile on Facebook by searching the email and I am pretty sure it’s a fake facebook page as well. Wondering if anyone has had contact with this person, and if you could try to find the real man and let him know this is happening. I will send photos as soon as I figure out how, the information I have given so far will direct anyone to look at pictures if they want to by searching jchris3738 in google. ci have also contacted scamwarners. I don’t want anyone to be hurt by the images of this handsome man like I have been.,,thank you for having this site

  618. Hi,
    I am Syahida would like to inform you that someone out there contacting me with using name of MG Kevin A Leonard, please kindly help me with the right information about the MG KAL specially with his current base of his duty, is he in Fort Base Va or Kandahar Afghanistan.

    Thank you for your help and kind attention.

    Syahida

  619. i was contacted last october by a ray handson. rayhandson@hotmail.com. he said he was in the middle east, in the marines. he sent pictures. he started the love talk, and told me he needed me to cash checks for him. i did not but he keeps email.in me and saying we will be together. how do i know for sure

  620. Hi the one i was talking to is doing the same thing, after talking for 2wks he changed saying he really wanted a relationship we could build on it when he came over that he really loves me with all his heart its a scam they will tell you anything to get you to do what they want, dont fall for it i just have fun with mine play them at their own game.

  621. i wrote an article on here ,but it was never published. i am talking to a marine named ray handson. he says he is a commander,also a cia operative. i have never sent money even though he asked me to cash checks. could you please help me find out anything

    • Hi tammy the picture is probably a real soldier who is having his id used by nigerian scammers. You can trace their ip address to see where it is coming from, the one i speaking to is in california. Have you asked him for his army mil address he should be able to give you that, if he says he cant for security reasons you know he is def a scammer. I managed to trace mine after weeks of searching but they dont like you to contact them. Be careful and remember the soldier in the pic is not the person you are talking to.

      • he said he could not give me his address, thanks alot

      • i have been contatct with one guy mentioned his an Army currently is in afghanistan

        he claimed his name Jack Bright Smith his emali address jacklovelly40@yahoo.com

        kindly let me know if this guy also one the scammer

        thank you

        tabitha

        • I’ve investigated and found out that all military personnel have emails that end in .gov. If he has a yahoo address, he may be a scammer!!

        • Actually, all military people have emails ending in .mil OR .gov.

  622. Has anyone heard of Captian James John Clowd? Age 46.. birthday February12,I met him on OKcupid and i have been talking with him since january 25th of this year.i have sent money for his leave.

    • Be carefull, once they get money from you once, they will ask again, each time more and more. Leave is free, it does not cost anything. I lost several thousand dollars from all the costs for “leave” ..

    • please send me his picture

  623. Im worried about my friend. Im sure she is being scammed but dont want to name him on here incase he is real and I would feel soo bad. All the signs are there tho. Based in Bein(africa) as a US soldier. Wife and child died and one child still alive in America. Wanted money for a airfare to come and see her,asked for copies of her passoprt,birth cert and photos so he can get her a US passport(within a week!)got her to sign the leave form so he can go to NZ and visit her and take her to America with him to get married. There is soo many other things that are the same as what people have said. She is at the point of truely believing him and wont listen to her friends who are concerned.She is in love with him. I just dont know what to do as it seems we cant name and shame the scammers until they get caught out incase we name someone who is a real person. Im feeling like I cant do much. Im worried as to how she is going to be when she finaly realises he isnt real. If anyone wants my email address let me know

    • Leave does not cost money. He also might ask for BTA (basic travlers allowance).. this is a SCAM!

  624. So, the pretend ‘Bryan Dale Jordan’ sfc_bj00010@yahoo.com; smsgt_bj6019@yahoo.com is very much alive and kicking…or should we say breathing and lying. I don’t really care for being scammed, and I’m big enough to take the knocks that life throws at me, so I will get up and over this – its only been a few weeks – but I admit I did fall. But what I do really mind and god I’m not sure how anyone rectifies this – is that the poor (but yes very good looking) chap whose photos are being used – along with his kids? has perhaps no idea that this is happening…somebody, somewhere needs to address this issue and at least let the chaps/ladies know – I’m sure the forces must have a way of doing this.

  625. Hi

    I believe I have a scammer purporting to be an army medic in Iraq. I have sent no funds, nor would I to anyone I have never met. I have copied his signout signature for you below. There is no further communication between us apparently until he comes home to Glasgow to prove me wrong! When I suggested to him moving me from my yahoo contacts, he practically begged me not to. I just wish to know if there seems any likelihood of this being a real person. He is still about and on line so if he is not genuine then I would like for the real soldier to be aware he is being used, photograhically.The Ip addresses seeming to be originating from USA, London and Africa. Odd for a soldier based in Iraq for the last eight months. I look forward to your response. Having now read so many different articles it is a great shame for any genuine soldiers out there looking for romance and love. Oh and of course, if he is real then it would be over anyway, as I did recently say I would check him out when I received some odd toned emails from him! Cannot quite get to grips with this one, but instinct says run like hell. Regards Louise

    SSG.Deimel James
    Units: 332ECES EOD(F317E0)
    332 Expeditionary Army medic(F317E0)
    Division : 32nd Army Air and Missile Defense Command
    Regiment : 2nd Brigade, 4th Infantry Division

    ——————————————————————————–

  626. I have been scammed too,and have put it on the scamwarners site.
    Name of Ricky Jason Jordan. Email rickyjorr@hotmail.com.
    Asking for money for his leave,to sort his future out,after 10 days of meeting.
    How do i add the picture of the person he is faking,i wish i could find out who the real guy in the pics is.

    • hi venessa, my name is Gail,from the u.k and i too have had that arsehole,after me, just after 3 weeks he was wanting me to write a letter for him to get leave, very sweet talker, good looking, full on, for my liking, just after 1wk i knew, he is on girls date for free.com ricky1662,so look out girls,
      and thank you very much venessa you have just confirmed what i was speculating,
      thank god for sites like this, i wish you good luck.

  627. Baby out of my own decision i have decided to put some words down for you so i
    thought i will be 100% open and honest with you ….I want to tell you a little
    about me..my dad is from Harrogate ,my mom is from Italy.I lived my earlier life in
    Italy with my parents and my lil sisters but when i was 12 years old i lost the
    entire member of my family left alone with me and my sister to an Auto crash. It
    was a very big shock for me as a kid but my moms parent really helped me to grow
    so and they took care of me like i am their kids.My grand father was a really
    great man and he thought me to be the man i am today.To some extent i can say i
    am a good man and i don’t think anyone will ever complain about me. Like my
    Grand father used to say then, “experiences don’t kill you,it makes you
    stronger” Life for me has been so hard and i have been through a lot in
    life.Having lost my family as such a young age it was just so difficult for me
    but i did move and i have God and my grand parents to thank for that,I have
    always believed that when there is life there is hope.

    A couple of years after moving in with my grand parents,they moved to Cape Town
    in South Africa where they own a personal construction company,It was during the
    years of Apartheid and South Africa wasn’t the best place to live at that time
    but i did live there and i had a good growing years. After my Secondary /High
    school we moved back to the united states. I entered the Air Force through
    Officer Training School in 1991, after receiving a degree in electrical
    engineering from the University of Tennessee and having a certificate in
    piloting,also attended the United States Military Academy at West Point.I have
    commanded a fighter squadron,a specialized undergraduate pilot training group, a
    fighter wing and an air expeditionary wing.I have also held leadership positions
    on an operations crew,flight,training,standardization and evaluations, and
    current operations.I have maintained combat mission ready status as an
    instructor/evaluator in the battle
    management,surveillance,identification,emergency actions,and data link
    operations areas,supported the joint and coalition mission in Iraq with
    expeditionary assignments to Baghdad International Airport,Balad Air Base and Al
    Asad AB.I was the command Master sergeant for the 460th Space Wing at beale Air
    Force Base,CA,before being deployed to Iraq and now redeployed to Afghanistan.

    I met Kim alice my late wife in AZ in 95,I went to AZ for Vacation and we got
    to meet,we became friends and soon we became lover.We were so in love,she made
    me feel so happy and special.I am the kind of man that trust his Intuition so i
    decided that i need no other woman but her and we got married in 96.She was
    from London in UK and after getting married to her we moved over to
    Nashville,Tennessee.We had a really good life together and she was my life and
    everything that matters.I loved her and she loved me.We had what you will call a
    perfect relationship and we were so happy together.

    Late 1998 my grand mother died and just about a 7 month later Jun 1999 i lost
    my grand father too living me with with my sister on the surface of the
    earth.His death was more of boredom and loneliness he simply didn’t want to live
    anymore since he lost my grand mother.They were happy together for 50 years.And
    i really think i can understand that it was so hard for him to move with
    life.After his death i lost something very important as he was my Role
    Model,closest friend and i always went to him for advise.1999 Kim gave me the
    best gift of my life,She gave me sue i was the happiest man walking the earth on
    that day 5 years later she gave me sam my boy.But this joy wasn’t met to last as forever as Kim was diagnosed of
    Terminal cancer in 2003.A battle that we fought for months,watching her die was
    the worst thing that ever happened to me,Watching the one that you love go by
    the day wasn’t the easiest thing to do.

    After 11 months she died leaving behind sue and sam and I.It was a very terrible thing
    to go through in life,I felt it was the end of life and the world.I thought that
    i had no reason to live for but when i look at the kids i certainly think i
    have thousand reason to want to see the next day.I had to take care of sue and sam all
    by myself.I had a miserable life and lonely life.Bringing up the kids alone
    wasnt easy especially with the kind of my job.so when my sister said she want to
    asisst me in taking care of the kids..i aggred sue and sam is staying with her in my house in UK
    now

    After my term in here i have plans to move permanent to a good and standard
    location so that i can bring my kids nearer to where i am.I have got plans to
    retire after and hopefully i will set up an Engineering Company of my own. My
    friend met his partner on the dating site and he was the one that encouraged me
    to join this dating site.They have got a really happy life together now.Though
    he is back in Afghanistan now, she is in the US and they have got a good life
    together.You make me feel complete again even before meeting you in person and
    when i chat to you i feel the peace and happiness that was dead in my life.You
    resurrect a part of me that needs miracle worker like you and now all i really
    want is to be with you.

    My life hasn’t been the best of life’s but i can look back and say that all that
    have happened to me in the past has helped me to be a better person.I will be
    looking forward to get to know more about you.I just want you to know the man
    that i am,I am not that kind of man that has all his interest on the outside
    beauty.I feel its so important for the woman i will be with to have a good
    heart,good family value,true love and honest too.That is what i call the inner
    beauty which matter so much to me.

    I love the simple things of life like watching the sunset and walking and
    holding hands with my special one by the beach.I love to swim and i try to keep
    fit.All i want is to be with that woman that we will share some much together.I
    am not asking for too much.Just to be happy with the right woman.Hope this will
    not change your mind against me and i will be looking forward to read from you
    soon..I feel completely ready to move forward with life now and i am glad i did
    join the dating site as that’s where i have met the woman that has touch my
    heart.

    Cheers

    • i have the same man barry ricky jordan the exact story word for word i am still talkin to him send me your pics of him please on susan7441@live .co.uk

  628. Can anyone help to find out who the real person is.I havent been able to put the pictures on here but he was using cpt ricky jason jordan,and on the clothing it says jordan us air force

    • Hi Vanessa,
      I haven’t been able to put the pictures on here either, but it appears that at least the surname (Jordan) is common in our experience – Mine went by the initials B D J (Bryan Dale Jordan). It is a shame that these innocent men have had their identities stolen in this way, and yes I was rather taken with the chap in question but I do also know that they don’t know of our existence at all…so its all rather one sided and effectively pointless…we don’t know if they are alive, injured or worse – and this could seriously jeopardise any real relationship they have going on at the moment. You have to understand that from that perspective they have no idea who we are…
      I have contacted the Air Force Office of Special Investigations and given them all the photos I have, all the details they need to hopefully match their records and warn this soldier that his identity has in fact been seriously compromised.

      Their website is : http://www.osi.andrews.af.mil/main/contactus.asp

      I used the following email: hqafosi.watch@ogn.af.mil

      i hope this helps, and if I get a response I shall post it to this forum.

      As a separate issue – there is a facebook page that highlights this issue – but its a closed forum and there are only 7 members – ladies – this is a call to action – how do we get this the level of exposure it fully deserves?????? mail me at hornbucklekay@googlemail.com
      together I’m sure we can make a difference….

    • Vanessa,

      Find below the link of Msgt Jordan who is (gladly) apparently safe and well at Goodfellow AFB in San Angelo, TX. I do hope wel all share this sentiment????

      Although not great for us – for me its just nice to know that the chap whose identity was stolen appears to be safe and well. And for those having difficulty with the concept – the guy called Jordan in the photo is NOT the person doing the scamming – please to try and understand that…

      http://www.goodfellow.af.mil/shared/media/photodb/photos/110408-F-7491K-001.JPG

      Anyway – photo link above… I for one, can now leave this issue knowing that SMgt Jordan is safe and well – the scammer unfortunately lives on to cheat another day.

      thanks

      Kay

      • Oh yes he does Kay – using the name Smsgt Bryan Jordan – found me on seniorpeoplemeet dating site (which is not free). Almost died when I saw the pix – has the nerve to use the real Smsgt. Jordan’s last name, but told me he was based out of Moody AFB! Almost had me with a package that needed to be sent home from kabul via private courier to the tune of $20,000 – $5,000 upfront. Good thing I’m always broke!

  629. two more to add to the list

    rob.kessler@hotmail.com is Cpt Patrick Burke Smith
    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002399754608
    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001393326953

    If you want photo’s i have them these are all the same person

  630. hello all,
    I posted on this site back in march on the 26th I believe …since then I have tried to stop this piece of crap ! I have spoke with and shared pic’s of this looser with other woman who have read my post on this site …Thank you CJ.. GOD bless you & keep you safe ! I want to share other names & email address this scammer is using …same pic’s just different names … he is so STUPID ! Everytime I see any of the pic’s now I send IM to him …telling him he can run but not hide. FBI is involved & he will be caught …I tell him he’s a fraud & lier and that karma is a bitch …and so is he …lol.. telling him he wishes he could hold the jock strap of the real man who’s idinity he has stolen …I have found him 4 times since he scammed me on match…as for match.com there no help.
    I believe yahoo & match are both part of the scam…yahoo wanted money to monitor my chats with this lier/fraud.he is now going by
    Jeffytusker on match.com Marine_miller007@yahoo.com
    Ks_708090 on match.com
    Eric Hornugah…esix_us@yahoo.com
    born2rule02@aol.com
    He contacted me as marine_miller007 all other names and email addresses are now some of his new scammin names…so watch out ladies …hes really good looking …only 1 giant problem …its not him !
    Iam over him ! after being scammed I learned a hard lesson… now I try to help others by sharing my story…warning all the single women I know to stay off the dating sites…its the cancer of these scams.

  631. I wish I would have found this site about 2 weeks ago. I have been on other sites. Met some shady guys who have been in Nigeria & Dubai. Been good at picking up on the scammer. I have been very strict about not giving in to requests for money. I have been very proud of myself.

    On March 23, 2001, I put a profile on match.com. In less than 24 hr., I received a “wink” from onelove4456. His profile stated he lived in Arlington, TX, near my home. I was very clear in my profile that I was looking for a face-to-face friendship that might become a romance.

    I quickly found out that the guy, Dave Robies,(pictured as John Palmas) was a soldier in Iraq. He was to be coming back to the states in 2 months, so I decided to continue the communication. I thought that since he was in the military and I found him on match.com, he would not be a scammer. Boy, was I wrong!!

    To my surprise, after a few days of communication he asked me to take my profile off match.com. I deactivated my profile, not cancelling it. Soon he was telling me he loved me and wanted to be with me forever. I was smitten by all the attention. He seemed genuine. He didnt ask me for money, but he did ask me to send him t-shirts, briefs, candy, cookies, and personal hygenine items for him and his boys. The unusual thing about the whole shipment was that he wanted me to send it to an address in Ghana. It was to a diplomat that delivered packages to the commander and his family. I questioned the strange request, but he quickly reassured me that because he was on a restricted base, in a war zone, with the UN that that was the only way packages could come in and out to the camp. I even looked up the address online & it looked good. How stupid I was?

    Well, now I have sent him 2 packages to Ghana. I am out about $900. total for merchandise, a cell phone, and shipping costs.

    As of yesterday, the packages have not either been picked up and/or reached their destination. I wonder if there is a way to contact the US post office to contact Ghana to send the packages back to me without allowing pickup?

    I guess match.com is not aa safe as I thought. After reading many of these postings none of the websites are very reliable.

    • The same guy was on match 2 weeks ago. He represented himself to me as Harold Duke Dash. He said he was from Ft. Lauderdale and would be retiring soon after 24 years in the military. He gave me a sob story about his parents being dead since he was a boy and no one has sent him a care package. I was going to send him some stuff until he told me that it must be sent through a diplomat to 60 Mango Tree in Accra Ghana. He professed his “love” and talked about how he couldn’t wait to see me. Then he changed his story and said he didn’t know when he’d be coming back.

      Listen to your gut ladies….if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is!

  632. Oh I forgot to give you his email address: daverobies@yahoo.com.

    He is a charmer and a very good looking man. Dont get caught in his trap. He may not ask for money, but you will be out money in the long run.

  633. Ladies, I have found out some good news that might help to soften the blow of loosing money to these scammers. I shipped my packages to Ghana. When the delivery was not confirmed, I contacted the USPS tracking dept to put a research report on status. When I called back the office, the Ghana postal service needed to have the addressee contact them. I called the number in Ghana & was able to verify that both my packages were not delivered to the recipient. The rep name in Eunice. She informed me that the packages would be sent back to the US today, but that a convenience fee would be charged by Ghana when the packages were picked up by me at my post office. She was unable to inform me of the amount of the charge. All she could state is that she believes that it is based on the weight of the package. The phone numbers that were given are 233-30-2668619 or 233-30-2668138. Unfortunately, the US post office is unable to recall a package once it has left the US. Eunice told me to call her back in a couple of days to verify that the packages are being returned to me. The USPS told me to verify any amounts for the convenience fee with Ghana. I will do that when I verify the return of the packages through Eunice.

    I know I am out the initial amounts I paid for the items as well as the shipping costs, but it gives me great satisfaction to know that none of the items will get to the scammer.

    • Recent update on my soldier who says he is Dave Robies, a soldier stationed in Bosra, Iraq. I sent ecards to him for future delivery over a week ago. He has been receiving one everyday since June 19th and will continue getting until June 24. The idiot has been opening them. I already sent him an email to please disregard them after he requested that I delete him from my contact list. Now he is hurt because he says they are making him sick. He is telling me I at fault for him being deceptive. Go figure, he is trying to the victim. Now he is telling me hates me and threatening to find me when he gets back to the states. I will not let him play on my emotions any longer. He is despicable.

      • Wow…he was using the name John W. Giffins on eHarmony and I had been talking to him until 2 nights ago…when I found the fraud info on another website which led me to this website. SICKENING!! He told me the same things except had not gotten to asking for money or anything. Yeah, he said his birthday was today. Ha! He can go F*** himself! I was TOTALLY hurt when I realized it was a farse! Felt like a total idiot too! Very upsetting. I had NO idea that this stuff went on. And apparently “our guy” has been doing this for over a year. Well, I feel for the real soldier…I can’t believe this poor good looking guy has his pics all over and these scammers are using him over and over. I would be LIVID! Be careful and cautious out there. I’m gonna try too!

        A.E.

      • I have been talking to Dave Robies since June 8. He is just now getting around to asking for money. Won’t he be surprised.

  634. I think I am in contact with a fake Sgt. Jason Williams. He has a yahoo email address of jwi1968@yahoo.com…HOWEVER HE SEND ME AN EMAIL USING jason.williams@us.army.mil…Can someone tell me pls if this is a REAL Army email??? And can a scammer hack into it and use it??
    thanks for any info.

    Stephanie

  635. LADIES PLEASE BE AWARE OF A PERSON WHO USES THE SAME FACE BUT DIFFERENT AGES, STATES, FIRST NAMES ON BADOO.COM. PLEASE GO TO YOUTUBE.COM AND CHECK OUT PHILIP MILLER INTERNET LOVE SCAM. I WAS JUST SCAMMED OUT OF $4000.00 FROM THIS IDIOT PRETENDING TO BE A E-6 STAFF SERGEANT IN THE ARMY STATIONED OVER IN AFGANISTAN. ON BADOO HE GOES BY ROLAND, JEFF, DAVID, KEVIN, WILLMEETMYLOVE, LAUD. WHEN WE WERE CHATING HIS NAME WAS JOHN MILLER.

  636. Dear All

    Two people have attempted to scam me from a Nigerian IP addresses. Have just joined Military Cupid.com. They have a warning posted on their date site. I did not send any money, naturally I have not heard anymore from these people. Shah Martins (Sparkie001) and Demiel James (other aliases Marc Demiel, John Demiel, Johnson Demiel(My Space) oh and Bill Demiel.
    Please read the warning below, it is everything that this site is confirming.

    Sending Money
    Cautionary Advice: Every country in the world has a small minority of people who are dishonest. The internet offers new opportunities for criminals and dishonest individuals to extort money from unsuspecting individuals. In order to avoid any problems it is better to be overly cautious. Here are some tips and suggestions:-
    •NEVER send cash to anyone who you met online, but have not yet met in person.
    •Common examples of scams include requests for money for payments for large items such as plane tickets, legal fees, visa fees, medical expenses, marriage annulment fees etc.
    •If you ever consider assisting someone in another country who you met online to visit you then first check their visa eligibility with your Immigration department.
    •NEVER send cash for someone from another country to purchase a plane ticket, pay for visa or legal costs or anything else associated with a visit to you. If you feel you must assist this person then always buy the ticket yourself directly on the behalf of the visitor and check the ticket can be refunded in case you need to cancel it. Similarly, if you must pay for visa fees, annulment fees or other large expenses always pay the expense directly after you have verified the invoice and organization issuing the invoice is genuine.
    •Some people in developing countries may ask for small amounts of money to pay for internet access or phone costs for communicating with you. We recommend never sending money to anyone who you have not yet met in person.
    •Be suspicious of people who appear to be overly persistent or aggressive in their requests for money.
    •Be particularly suspicious of people who request more money as soon as you send something.
    •Click here for examples of scams.
    •Report all suspect behavior to our customer service team immediately.

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  637. I have created a new Yahoo page and attached photos of Demiel and the link to Shah Martins in my ‘interests’. Shah was on facebook with this link, but I have reported him to facebook. Please remember though, that whilst the pictures may be of real people, my emails came from Nigeria with an IP origination address from Nigeria. My yahoo page is janedoidge@yahoo.com, it is available for all to see. Regards

  638. has anyone been in contact with james_miller0020 and says to send package and to email wisdom kut.

  639. Hi Denise

    May be a different guy to the James as noted by Francine below: but watch yourself. If you have not actually met him do not send ANYTHING, unless you have a military AKO address. Painful as it is if he is a good guy, he will wait to meet you in person.
    Good luck
    Francine says:
    12 June 2010 at 7:43 pm
    Hi ladies

    I have been in contact almost a month now with a military man by the name James Miller first sergeant airforce, he is serving in afghanistan a red flag went up a few days ago supposable shot and will be discharged from clinic next week, doesnt want to go back to work afraid i will lose him the next time and could i file an application for transist, for me to think about it and i will hear from him again when the nurse can help with computer, anyway i contacted cj it was a scam and i sent a email calling his bluff 2 days now no email, i meet him on mate1 mate1 has since removed him and there is an investigation, i just wish i could find the real person, another from mate 1 today calls him self sgt patterson, usarmy serving in iraq comes from elgin IL, requesting me to contact him beware he cant spell

  640. Sgt.Bill Pelver Monroy contacted me for the last two weeks on a dating sight called SpeedDate. We chatted for a long time,he asked me to join MSN so we could chat more. We chatted morning,noon,nighttime. The second time we chatted he told that he loved me and we were destine to be together. I almost fell for his scam. I got suspicious when he asked me about a private server because he wanted to hear my voice, with me paying for it. He was supose to send me an email of all the information as to how hes going to get his server code. Its sad that these guys are out there scamming.I wish someone would catch them red-handed,i knew he was a little sketchy because no guy says “i love you” the second time you’ve talked nor do they say “i wanna be with you forever and ever.” So if you talk to this guy, dont fall for his scam.

  641. Hi all…I’ve fallen for the messages of a scammer. The same pics of John Palmas were used except his name was John William Giffins. Another site revealed that the name used is a person currently deployed. I found information on this just by mere accident on http://www.armyparatrooper.org. Met him through eHarmony (which really shocked me) and exchanged many emails and some of the pics posted here of him. Was totally heartbroken when I discovered the info. He had not asked for money or anything, in fact claimed he had lots of money. My heart will heal but my main concern is where is this guy…the person in the pics? Is he deceased? Is he home now? It’s so frustrating. I had also found him on LinkedIn using the same name (John W. Giffins). He said he was a widower with a 9 year old boy, Alex. I will email pics that are not already posted. He was supposed to get home from Afghanistan in late July. The email address he used is johngif57@gmail.com. We also IM’d on IMO.IM (same email address). I just feel so bad for the real soldier and his young son being exploited and would love to know his REAL story! Thanks and good luck to everyone going through this!

    • A.E.

      You were not the only person “John Giffins” tried to pull a fast one on. I too had communications with this creep through eharmony, email and chat. Interesting how he could keep all his stories straight while he was trying to scam many women at one time. This makes me sick.
      His story to me was his wife left him for another woman and was she was caring for his very sick son while he was doing foot patrols in Afghanistan for the Army. Email address used jhunt.g23@gmail.com.
      I too wonder who the man is behind the pictures. I suppose I will never know his name but I am sure he is an honorable man. One of good morals & values. I hope that he is living a wonderful life and receiving the respect and gratitude for serving our country and defending our freedoms.

  642. Can’t find this creep’s name on your website:

    Sgt Sean Martel
    sgt.seanmartel@hotmail.com
    3rd infantry division, 75th aviation battalion

    His story is that he is widowed, has a son at University in the UK, is near retirement, has a home in the UK and is currently in Iraq, about to be redeployed to Afghanistan and needs me to pay for his leave airfare home to UK before redeployment. CRAP!!!! I know no self-respecting soldier would want me to pay this and that the army always pays for all its soldiers’ travel permits anyway.

    Watch out for this slimeball girls. I ran a check on his email/IP address and it is one in Redmond near Seattle – a long way from IRAQ….

    Am sending some photos to CJ.

  643. PLEASE REPORT FRUAD CASES TO : service.ghanapolice0@gmail.com FOR IMMEDIATE AID. THANK YOU

    • All, do NOT, I repeat, DO NOT send emails to this address. This “Gen. Agymang S. Elijah” is another scammer and he’ll just sucker you in. I’m only approving this comment so that the word gets out there to be on the lookout for this scammer as well.

  644. found another potential scammer, goes by the name sleaford jones, usherforce1@yahoo.com
    tried the phone scam and now trying the leave scam. he states captain in army 2nd falcon brigade combat team 82nd sf base division kabul afghanistan

  645. Question, does the Army have contract fire fighters in Iraq. Gary Search states he is contracted, not an actual soldier, but has the training of a soldier, and is under the same rules as the Army. He stated he is from Colorado Springs and based at Fr Carson.

    thanks for the help….

    Lucy

  646. Hello everyone ,
    Hope ya all were watching ABC’S 20/20 last night.Friday June 24th . The man that was scamming me and several others has been exposed. ABC did a full blown report on matchmaker.com Match.com and all the scams on the site it was awsome !!!!! You can also check it out at facebook.com/abc2020.com if you missed the report.
    It also confronts the CEO of match…ABC’s 20/20 with Chris Coumo you must see this ladys & gentalmen….guys get scammed too !
    What a eye opener! I will never go on to a date site again…bring back the good old day’s where you meet at a friend home having dinner or a party …point is …in person …look into the persons eyes and know whom Iam falling in love with …Good luck to all .

  647. Robert Pedersen. Watch out for the name. He is a scammer. Real sweet talker that one. Has a daughter 11 and is a widower.

  648. I am happy to report that I found the real Gary Search. He has a Myspace account with a lot of pictures. My scammer was using these pictures and his name.

    I have emailed the real Gary Search to warn him.

  649. Just got an email from the Real Gary Search and he is aware of this guy in nigeria using his photo’s to scam women.

    Felt good to communicate withthe real person.
    thanks for this website, it has helped a lot.

    Lucy

  650. I was contacted on 5/12/11 by a partner search from a man who called himself Edward Webb, oddly enough, he gave me the name of his famous son. This is called James William Haggard.
    The mails were all wonderful, as I had never heard in my life. Supposedly he was 57 years old, a widower, his wife live ger in a car accident and now he was in Kabul.
    In October he would retire, he wanted me to come to Spain to live here with me. I thought we’d fallen in love with each other. His son is supposed to go to school in England, wrote to me this may have about Skype. if it exists at all (I would love to put a photo of the boy on the Internet to know who that is). It is alleged that the boy was currently in Accra at a Christian school exchanges.Excuse my English, I am German and I do not speak the language,
    Eventually, Mr. Webb wanted money from me that I could give him but not because I myself have none. His son asked me for money, but again I said no. Then there was a terrible fight in which you swore at me as irresponsible mother. After a few days but again this was a wonderful mail over. We wrote a lot and he asked me whatsoever, if I believe in his love what I do, of course. So I’m sitting here for weeks, dissolved in tears, taking sedatives and opiates in order to be reasonably quiet, because I just can not understand it. Because at 11.6. I got a message that he was terrible and also injured his son was suffering from malaria in Accra. I should like to address Matt Swain, but this has never answered me.I’ve always chatted with Mr. Webb on MSN, because he said he was not in Facebook. There I searched for Matt Swain and found him and suddenly saw a photo of my friend, but he was called there, John H William. Unfortunately, he has still not taken me in the friends list.
    I told the story to my son, who has researched and found an article about fraud on the Internet at women – all soldiers go to the same scheme with the same history.
    On Saturday I went to my PC and suddenly, as if by God’s hand without looking at it from one side of me, namely, a Soldiers Perspective. I scrolled and found both my and Matt Swain alias Harry Edward Webb aka Robert Bill Haggard. This has pulled the rug under my feet.In FB is also one Marilou Villegas, strangely enough there vows of love to someone writes it, I’m not on my friends list and I suspect that she writes to him.
    I’ve tried to trick them get close and she claims she knew him. Also, I would need me not to worry, he was not injured, but in Germany.
    Yesterday, I wrote to her that these are probably all fraudsters, according to the article, but she said I needed to talk to him personally or write, because the things are faked. Her uncle and aunt would know this man and this was a good one.
    First I wrote the nastiest emails to him and said I hoped they would shoot at him, but that’s how he slowly croak.I write every day, I do not know how many times, but I get no message from him or from Mr. Swain.
    Why are there so bad people who play with death or personal injury case, and then talk about God. In your article he is talking of the fact that he cheated on his wife and he must raise his son alone.
    Today I got an email tomorrow from the U.S. Embassy, the FBI, the Federal Criminal Police Office and the usembassy. I’m still waiting, if I make the display, or whether something else is behind it, that it no longer logs.
    Or I was too clever for him, no idea.I’ve even prepared the apartment so that his son has also space and am just looking for a new house that I would naturally look for the common needs, but now. actually, I pray every day for him, but I find it very difficult or you just have to pray for such people? Angela

  651. Hello to all, so my Edward Webb, is also John H Haggard, Bill Haggard and Robert Martin Haggard, one of you mentioned the other names I can not find in Facebook. Auch Chris Haggard ist der Selbe.

  652. Hi Vanessa , I was chatting few months with the same guy, who called himself Robert Jordan winter, as using the same pic. As Brian Jordan. He is also on Facebook Jason Jordan differend pic but the same guy. I feel sorry for that guy, who’s pic scamer is using, he is a victim also.
    Rita

  653. I had a message from a captin Morris Deimel Brown on a singles web site and then we went onto email then he asked me to set up a Yahoo instant messanger account – which I did, we exchanged photo’s and chatted, however was suspcious when some of his emails and some of the chats didn’t seem to be in perfect english – words missing or sentances that didn’t make sense- then came the undying love bit! and the secure phone line – which I had to set up and pay for?!
    Then I did a search on him and came up with various scam web pages – I have photo’s of him but where do I send them?

  654. Ok so here is a new one –

    Christopher Henry Mann

    here is the first email he sent me..can someone from this website please email me – I have pictures and a copy of a fake letter of end of deployment that I was sent that I will forward to you

    As I told you earlier…. I am in the US ARMY…active duty..I’m Staff Sergeant Chris Henry Mann….not just a Sergeant..I’m a Staff Sergeant…A Staff Sergeant is a more experienced leader of soldiers. The staff sergeant has considerably more time in the Army than the Sergeant..A Staff Sergeant has more influence on other Soldiers than a Sergeant…just explaining things a bit here for you..
    I do have nine( 9 ) soldiers..who i have control over..they are my “Team”..You can call them my “Squad” as well..
    I have 3 Sergeants who work under my direct leadership…and I’m responsible for their continued successful development as well as that of other soldiers in my TEAM…Thats just a bit about my duty..you will know more as time goes on..
    I have been in the Army for 24 years now, joined right away after the Military Academy. Its been a tough time for me in the ARMY , I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience…that’s just by the way… Its been 10 months I have been deployed here in Iraq, Baghdad, and looking forward to be home soon. Miss my boys back on base and miss all the “Home sweet home stuff you know”….

    A bit about my childhood, I was born and raised in Duarte..CA…have lived in Miami..FL as well .. I owned a house back there but sold it off when I was been deployed here to Iraq…I have lived in Fort Drum..NY too!
    I do love to be around beach areas, thats why I stayed in Miami….. I’m looking forward to relocating to any part of the States but not sure where..still planning on that…
    My Parents have both passed away..its been years now… no siblings, just an only child. Have some few cousins around but dont stay in contact always…My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the Medical field of the Army and later worked with the UN.

    I dont work on weekends, thats my Off-Duty time. In my off-duty time..i just meet up with some of my men and have a chat or we go around town just to have fun..i like to be in my room as well when am not working…sometimes listening to music or watching a movie..I have my own room here, don’t share with anyone.
    I’m passionate about everything life has to offer…to be with my dear one also excites me as well..that is..someone i love most…
    I don’t have a favorite color..i just love any color..i do love to eat every food but i do like chocolate ice cream..i don’t have a favorite food though…
    Miami Dolphins….that’s my favorite NFL team…i do love to watch them play anytime..
    I do love watching romantic movies..adventure and action movies too…the movie i always love to watch is Titanic..i can watch that over and over again..I love the Yankees as well..!
    The last book i read was a novel by Shake spears…i have forgotten about the name …may be i will tell you later on….The new Stephen King collection of short stories – After the Sunset is also my favorite…
    I do love to listen to love and romantic songs..country music..R and B and Christian songs as well…

    I hope you now know a bit about me…you will get to know me more as we keep sending each other mails..I will love it if we can stay in touch through emails and chats on Gmail as I dont get to be online on Match.com and today was my last day…I signed on for just a 3 day trial..
    Anything you will also want to tell me more about yourself…just do so as I will love to know more about you….try and send me some pictures as well if u have any…I did love the ones on Match.com….Just take good care of yourself as I will here….I will let you know if I find anything about your brother over here…Hope to hear from you soon…!!!

    Staff Sergeant Chris Henry Mann..You can just call me Chris…

    • Hi There….I just met a guy …FAKE SOLDIER on the SenioPeople.com website…I also got the SAME …EXACT letter….as you did “word for word” except…he went by the name Wesley Barden …..These men…if you can call them that, more like Cowards,they should be ashamed to call themselves men, for preying on women like this. If there is anything else you would like to know if I can help I will. So please feel free to ask ok?..take Care….

  655. I have met a man who claims he is a Sgt in the Army and is stationed in Baghdad. He claims he is a widow and has 2 children who live here in the U.S. with his sister. My friend sent me a link today on the military scams and I was shocked. I chatted with him online and he tried to reassure me that he is who he says he is. He is dark headed and has Texas Longhorn hats on most of the time. Stated that he has been in the service for 23 years and needs money to retire???? Please help ease my mind because I have really fallen for this man and hope that he is real.

    • Hi – I think that this is a scam if a man joined the military at age 18 and has been in for 23 years that would make his children just around the same age (give or take) and that wouldn’t make sense that they would need to live with his sister at that age

    • If they ask for money,they are not real. The Army takes care of their soldiers. Have you tracked where his emails come from?

    • hi girls i m sadia ..i donno how a scammers sound like ..i met this very nice down to earth a very cute chubby n humble guy capt.Randall holmes ..we met 2 years ago ..and we r very good frndz and we will stay as good frndz … he never showed himself wnen he was in iraq ..but when he went to Germany he arranged a cam for me …how sweet of him …we both really like each other but our religion difference is a big hurdle …he is really sweet i think he deserve a nice humble and sweet girl ..my best wishes for him plz dont shy to contact him i have hiven his id already .. love u all girls ..by the way i m not american i m a foreign woman here …best of luck

    • hi girls i m sadia ..i donno how a scammers sound like ..i met this very nice down to earth a very cute chubby n humble guy capt.Randall holmes ..we met 2 years ago ..and we r very good frndz and we will stay as good frndz … he never showed himself wnen he was in iraq ..but when he went to Germany he arranged a cam for me …how sweet of him …we both really like each other but our religion difference is a big hurdle …he is really sweet i think he deserve a nice humble and sweet girl ..my best wishes for him plz dont shy to contact him i have given his id already .. love u all girls ..by the way i m not american i m a foreign woman here …best of luck

  656. Does anyone know about a Gerald Brian? I met him online at Badoo and he claims to be an army general.

  657. ok— one thing — NO ONE in the military is wealthy— sorry to burst your bubble…

    Second, read closer— he NEVER said he was 18 when he joined… but, you do your crazy math—whatever… You are on a chat site… embellishing happens… that photo you posted???? Do you REALLY look that good anymore???? If You want real results try posting truthful photos— that would be a start!!!!

    But, hey, who am I to say, Sister?

    • Teresa, think you missed the point of this blog, It is not about women posting old photos etc. it is about African men preying on lonely vulnerable women all over the world using Dating sites. They use fake profiles, use photo’s of USA Army soldiers. It is a warning to all to be very careful of who you talk with and never give out personel info. or send money etc.

      • Tina, have you heard of Sgt Jeff Preston, I have been badly scammed by him. Great photos and DVD and no doubt there is a real Jeff Preston out there somewhere who has his identiy stolen. This scammers email is jeff.sgt144@yahoo.com. He came in through an Australian dating services RSVP. Very same story as Robert Haggard apart from a change in DOD. Scammed with a Newton AMMED supposidly an Iraq diplomat, who was carrying a package with mega bucks in it

        • I would love to see a pic if you have one .. I was scammed throught this site – they suspended the profile but this person had a really good explanantion … Now Im ona mission to track down the real person – I want him to know that he was so badly used and has not idea .. Im so glad this site exists….. Mine was Bryan Anderson…- they are good …. sadly some will fall for it and part with money — bells rang when he answer basic questions ..
          My email is CorinaR1@live.com if you have pics we could trade….these guys are just scum bags …..worse..

  658. DOES ANYBODY KNOW OF A CAPT FRED BRIDGE?????

  659. Hi I think I also got a scammer actually i met a lot of them in skype chat program. But this 3 star general Morris G. Miller showed his webcam and he is a white guy, he is stationed in kabul Afghanistan.His msgs and informations sounded like a scammer that he is widow for 2 yrs with a son 14 yrs old studying in ACS Intl School in UK. Can a general afford to pay such expensive tuition? Just 2nd day of chat he was already getting sweet and now we have known for only 12 days he is proposing marriage. Oh and he plans to retire the end of this year to spend his time with his son and his new wife which is hinting me. His son emailed me mentioning that his school will have a tour to Africa this coming July 14. When I read this word I feel they are making their moves. I’m just surprised that this scammer is a white guy and he actually showed his webcam to me? His email is gen.georgemiller@rocketmail.com I would like to show his pictures but where can I post it? I was not paying attention when he showed his webcam to me and I think he is more goodlooking in pictures. I am still chatting with him but I’ll asks for the last time to see his webcam to be sure.

  660. hey girls if ur really looking for a real gentleman soldier u can try this man ….200% real ..he is very sweet proud to be a soldier … hrandall26@yahoo.com….. very nice guy …i cant marry him coz i m not christian …sad

  661. HAS ANYBODY EVER HEARD OF SGT ARMSTRONG CRUZ US ARMY..PLEASE POST SOMETHING ON HERE IF YOU EVER DID…THANKS AND ALSO OF A CAPT FRED BRIDGE US ARMY…APPRECIATE ALL YOUR HELP ……

  662. i have been on this dating site,girls date for free, and i was contacted by a ricky jason jorgen,supposedly was serving in afganistan,he is 48/49yrs ?? is a widow, with 2 chidren,girls,he say,s he was born in the u.s but lives in the u.k where is child live, {harrogate} he is still on the dating site, calling himself ricky1662, i can foreward you some piture,s of whom he says he is,you can contact me by my email,

  663. i know a guys from Nigerian in Ghana who used to scamm woman’s online for more information contact me at honest.donna@yahoo.com i will get back to you as soon as possible

  664. Hello everyone, hello ex army guys,
    I am German and I was on 12.5. through a partnership forum an email.
    hello special one,
    i deem it a great honor to have had the opportunity
    to communicate with you…i hope you are well by the
    grace of GOD..
    Anyway, your profile caught my attention but your
    profile was simply terrific and there was nothing i could
    do than write to let you know how much you have captured
    my imagination
    My name is Edward Webb an Army Commanding Officer with the
    United states Army . I am 57years old, 6feet tall and single
    with one son. I have not been married for the past 9years cos
    i lost my lovely wife in a fatal road accident on her way to
    work one rainy day.
    I am on peacekeeping in Iraq currently, but after 26years of service
    am due to retire in October 2011,,i seek the woman of my dreams
    to be with …A woman who is caring , faithful sincere and above all
    love and respect me for what i am.
    I am that kind of man who loves to listen to his spouse, i am the
    kind that will laugh and cry with you…standing by you through thick
    and thin…all i need is to get the chance to know you better and i
    hope that does bother you?
    you have know that you have arisen certain feeling in me and am ready
    to exploit them to know what comes out of it
    i will end here and hope that you write back to me on
    ewebb1953@yahoo.com….i will be waiting for your response
    goodbye and keep hope alive
    Edward
    As a result, I received many more magical mails, even photos of his alleged son, who wrote to me on Skype. He told me he was not in FB and so we met on ICQ.
    Eventually he asked me for money I can give him but not because my husband was killed about 2 years ago and I with a minimal amount of 580 – € to live.
    This made him angry, but then he wrote again, even sweeter than before. Then I heard the news he had been seriously injured and his son, who was staying in Accra, suffering from malaria. Since then I listen to his email account and nothing more.
    ewebb1953@yahoo.com ewebb1953live.co.uk or. I was so worried and wrote the alleged commander of the Welfare called himself Matt Swain, but got no response. Then I thought of Facebook, and there I found these Swain and … a picture of my Edward, but there was called John William H.
    Then, as suddenly I found your site from the hand of God and I see my Edward, but there was and is Robert Haggard, Bill Matt of Harry. I was totally shocked. In FB I found a Marilou Villegas, I believe, working together.
    She said to me, I’ve tricked them to accept me – John was not hurt, but in Germany. I should not worry and I do pray and hope and believe it would be all good.
    Then I saw FB Chris Haggard Haggard Haggard and Martin Millar and Martin writes this to me now, he even calls me, but he wants to have a plane ticket from me.
    First he said he knew no Webb, asked me things, but know that Webb needed and where I lived, his son was called suddenly Keven and not James, but he wrote that he always lies in bed reading my mail. Since he had not but I could not even be one evening and he signed with Webb, he says his name is Martin really gives me all my questions but no answers. However, it must be Webb, otherwise he would know not with the many emails.
    Today he wrote me from an internet cafe. He says that he had fled from Kabul, one would want to kill him and now live in Accra / Ghana – which is also the office of the Wall of Shame yes?
    There he tried to sell cars from China in Ghana – but this also depends Marilou Villegas in with them.
    By a soldier in New York, I have heard that the pictures are faked and all the uniforms, too. How can we develop such pictures?
    How can I find out who is this man? And it is the one who writes with me, which is in the photo? In this man I fell in love. I’ve lost nothing – in contrast to other women – only my heart. So much the worse that my husband was killed and I have a difficult time behind me.
    But you make jokes because of injury, death and God?
    Maybe someone can help me yes, I have all the television stations, the American Embassy, the BKA, the FBI and asked to help German soldiers in Kabul me. Also at the white house I’ve already written and have a short answer.

    I thank you and waiting for an email.

    Kind regards Angela

  665. Hi

    Im Glad I found you websit cause I was almost ready to send a package to Captial William over in Afghainstan to Camp Eggers , But this guy didnt tell me hes Apo -AE but I was to send it to a Teddy Morgan in West Africa and then Teddy Morgan would hand deliver it to Captial William Haggard I should of wen with my first insecned that it was a Scammer ,But sence I was Scammed about a week or tow before William Haggard and caught him , I thought with all the sweet thing this so called Man William Haggard knew that that he was on the up and up and he told me that he wanted to Marry me and bring hes 2 boys back from Holland and he wanted me to send him this package and then he would send me this box of money and Jewllery to me after he got the care package from me he told me that he lost his Ex wife to Cancer and he had no other Family and that hes Tent mat shared his stuff with him no this man told me he was a GOD FEARING MAN and that he wanted me to Buy a House and A car and any thing for my kids and heis boys but he wanted me to send 2 baseballs a football and a Soccor ball and a Ipod so he could list to music while he worked out in the gym and that he want a candle and some body wash he almost had me but my sister told me to check him out even further then what I had and Im glad I did and the post office said I couldnt send the package with out a APO-AEand sents he did give me one they wouldnt take it and told me to check him out before hand cause there were Man Scamming woman like that and Haggard almost had me ,but thanks to my Postal MAN and my sister I was saved from doing some thing that I knew was fishy ,but I almost fell for hes scam , I wish that all this dating sits would scan Poeple more so they could weed out this scammers
    Thanks for this site

  666. Hi everyone, Have an update for you posting of 11th June 2011.

    Re Sgt Deimel

    Perseverence has paid off and very pleased to report that I have found the real Deimel.

    On dating sites and Facebook, those persons called: James, Johnson, Fred, Marc, Bill are all scammers sites. These sites show living in Liverpool, Glasgow, Ivybridge and Worcester

    The tragedy is that the real Deimel did not protect his photos and information (a naivety we perhaps we have all had at sometime) and the consequence being that scammers had a field day with it.

    Anyway, Sgt Deimel very happily married with children and parents, living in US.

    Have now closed all Dating sites except one, keen to keep an eye on one person who is a very stupid scammer, so watch this one ladies : Sparkie 001 on MatureDating, as Shah Martins on Facebook. US National Guard.

    Regards to you all

    Louise Stanger says:
    11 June 2011 at 8:43 am
    Hi

    I believe I have a scammer purporting to be an army medic in Iraq. I have sent no funds, nor would I to anyone I have never met. I have copied his signout signature for you below. There is no further communication between us apparently until he comes home to Glasgow to prove me wrong! When I suggested to him moving me from my yahoo contacts, he practically begged me not to. I just wish to know if there seems any likelihood of this being a real person. He is still about and on line so if he is not genuine then I would like for the real soldier to be aware he is being used, photograhically.The Ip addresses seeming to be originating from USA, London and Africa. Odd for a soldier based in Iraq for the last eight months. I look forward to your response. Having now read so many different articles it is a great shame for any genuine soldiers out there looking for romance and love. Oh and of course, if he is real then it would be over anyway, as I did recently say I would check him out when I received some odd toned emails from him! Cannot quite get to grips with this one, but instinct says run like hell. Regards Louise

    SSG.Deimel James
    Units: 332ECES EOD(F317E0)
    332 Expeditionary Army medic(F317E0)
    Division : 32nd Army Air and Missile Defense Command
    Regiment : 2nd Brigade, 4th Infantry Division

    • Hi Louise,

      I’m glad to hear that you found the REAL Deimel. I have my days when I’m strong, and other days like today is very difficult. I believe that I will have some type of closure if I can find the soldier in my pics. I think my situation is a lot harder, due to the fact that this person isn’t using the soldier’s real name (at least I’ve tried to see how many legitimate people by the name of Gabriel Lindell is actually out there in the US). Is there any advice that you can give me? Anything will help me at this point. Thanks!

  667. I was talking to a guy named George Kump US Army Staff Sargent in Iraq.. Same story as some of the above his picture is also above he is the dark haired man I think also known as John Palmas His story is something like this..Hello how are you going today ? well thanks a lot for your replyed …
    well i have been devorced for 4 years now ..i have been in iraq 2 years 4 month now ..I;m in iraq baghdad now …i have been in the army 21 years …I’m army side …I am an E-7 Staff Sergeant (SSG) and now working with the un. I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a noncommission officer and I work in the junior management of the military…well i have only one sister living in germany .. i have no kids …My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field of the army and later worked with the .Gold mining company in ghana but as i m talking to you now i lost both of them..i will get back 25th june for retirement , that why i m serious here looking for woman who is can be with me for the rest my life …,I’m pride of myself in being honest and most trustworthy, I seek that in a mate, someone who is compassionate yet understanding who has a calm behaviour and a great personality…I b’lieve there is no ideal relationships, Be honest a relationship is hard work and compromise, It is as good as you make it, What makes a relationship ideal to someone is how much time and effort one puts into it and how committed two people are to it.. What was fascinating is that I sent him pictures by email and when I didnt believe it was him he somehow took a picture and on the bedside table was a laptop with my picture on the background display.. I know this picture is editied and the picture up above is the original one and they edited by splicing another picture of the desk with computer with my face on it… Pretty damn Clever.. I sure hope he likes the Brick I sent to him..

  668. I have received the same scam from someone going by Kellam Bradt, even has a facebook page setup. He sent me a message on tagged.com. I knew from the first message it had to be something weird. His English was terrible and said he was 41 and the pic the guy looks maybe 21. Then sent me this crazy email how much he loved me and wanted to be with me (insert eye roll here), that was from only seeing pics and saying Hi. Also, talked about all this crazy stuff with God showing him I am for him and crazy talk about God willing this is the right thing to do. Needless to say he was getting a little irritated I wouldn’t talk to him and kept making sarcastic comments about how does he know any of that without meeting me. I also told him there is no point in talking to me if you are not living anywhere near me and have no idea when you are going to be home. Then he finally said I need to request a leave for him and to email us.armycommunications@hotmail.com to request that no forms just say to release Kellam Bradt then they will contact me or him. He also said their would be a refundable fee something like $500. I have pics I can post or you can see them if you search on facebook for Kellam Bradt. I tracked the IP address on his email he sent and it looks like a letter that is forwarded between many emails all from Sunnyvale, CA then finally one from Nigeria.

  669. I am currently being scammed by a guy going by the name of Andrew Barrera but wants to be called “Lucky”. I thought it odd that his picture sometimes had a different name such as Haggard. It was also strange that he responds in broken english phrases and sometimes uses the french translation spellings for some of his words. He is using the email luckymanforever2011@yahoo.com. He has given an address for me to mail a gift for his son to Ghana who is there for the summer with a caregiver because his wife died 3 years ago from cancer. He says his son will be coming home in 2 months so I asked what school he attended. I searched the school name he gave me and the start date for school is a month before he is scheduled to return. His son would love a Blackberry Torch and iPod for his birthday but he can’t get it to him because he is in Afganistan but is coming home in two months. Looking for the love of his life to share the rest of his life with. Tells you everything you want to hear!!! So charming and complimentary. Sent pictures of his son also. The address he wants the phone and iPod sent to are in care of the caretaker of his son: Emmanuel Adu, Dot-Net Business Center, Opposite Tesano Baptist Church, Nsawan Road-Accra Ghana. Thank you so much for this website. I have learned a tremendous lesson… Everyone listen to your instincts!!!!!

  670. just discovered that both my name and face are being used in these scams. I am SFC Jeff Adamec and if you are contacted by me be advised. it is a scam I am a happily married man with 2 kids and I am not in need of money. please contact here if you have been contacted by this imposter.

    • All, I have confirmed that this comment is from the real Jeff Adamec. However, the person you have been speaking to is, indeed, a scam.

  671. Talking to a Tommy Williams, also known as John Smith on face book, claims that he can help get my money back from bring scammed.. I have no hope of getting my money back, but he keeps asking me the names of the people who scammed me..

    the Fake Gary Seach is using a picture that is over 7 years old.. he scammed me, and at about same time, Tommy Williams was trying to get me to send money… Tommy Williams, denies knowing Gary Search.

  672. Recieved an email in my facebook has anyone heard of this guy it says he lives in barre ma which is my hometown i grew up in but i did not have that listed on my facebook. weired too bc i vagly remember someone with this guys name but his picture is not someone i recognize here is the copy of the email he sent and the link to his facebook
    ————————————

    Patrick Mcdonald
    Hey prettyI noticed your profile and i decided to mail you…I don’t really know how I can express my feelings to you because I wasn’t myself the first time I set my eyes on you. I have seen and met great beauties, I have also learnt how I gaze at them but for once, and with you only, I lost control of it.
    I believe through this epistle you will understand me. I want to take you as a flower in my hand with which I’m charged with for responsibility to look ever after and to keep fresh. Next to you is like being next to paradise. I will so much appreciate it if you are mine and mine only.
    I will appreciate if you get back to me at my yahoo address because i wont be here to read your precious reply from this profile but i will be grateful if you can send me mail to sgtpmcdonald
    _______________
    By the time i finished cutting and pasting this his facebook page went down… must be another on of these scammers… i didnt get a chance to get a copy of his pic but it was a guy in a army uniform that is sitting by a window in an airplane

  673. has anyone got a message from a man that calls himself SnakeDoc and says his name is sgt.waledunn and tells u that he loves u and that he is a widow and is over in nigera that he lost 4 men cas they got 2 the food supply and when u cant help out he than calls u names and says some hatefull things just beware ladies he has the charm and he strick like a snake

  674. I was talking to a friend on FB tonight and she told me to go to this website to see if I can get into this group against Scammers. I was asked for $17,000 approx. a month ago. And now I have some woman on FB “like” a photo of mine and she isn’t even on my friends list. I did a search on her, and she goes by 4 aliases. How can I become a member of this Wall of Shame Group. I need to know who these losers are, and wondering why I have been hit twice in a month. Please advise. Thank you. Michelle

  675. i have been trawling through this site and it has really opened my eyes to a lot of women being scammed by so called military men, and yes i think i was caught up too i think,got sucked in hook line and sinker, got chatting to a man of the name of greg bowen, from arlington texas,he mailed from badoo, all the charm and loads of lovely heartfelt mails for abiut 6 weeks, until he said he worked away protecting a wife of an oil barron that had died and was paid 900 thousand dollars and had to send the money out of camp as they were not allowed that money with them, thought this was a bit suspisious, he wanted to send it to me as he had no family as his wife died 3 years previous of heart failure and his 3 daughters were in africa being looked after by a mr elvis(i know i laughed at the name too) i told him i had no money to pay for something like this and was told a diplomat by the name of terry gill would deliver it and i would have to pay him when he got here, i did not like the idea of this but he kept saying that it would be fine, so i gave him my address and phone number, then a few days later i recieved a call from the so called diplomat saying he needed 1500 dollars to get the relevent documents to be able to leave accra in africa with the package as had to fly to low security airports, when told i never had any money he got a bit aggressive so i told him to never call me again, then greg mailed me saying he wanted my bank details to transfer money into my account so that i could forward it on to the diplomat, as i would not give them to him he became distant not mailing making excuses to talk via messenger,by then i checked on badoo and his place where he came from changed to accra africa, thought this was suspisious and said to him to be told he was being hacked into, so i knew something was wrong so i sent him a mail accusing him of being a scammer and 2 days later he deleted my email address and took himself off of badoo, that confirmed my suspisions, so came on here to see if i could find others that had got taken in by him and found similar stories so wanted to let you know his email address he uses in case anyone else gets taken in by him the addresses are ranassg@live.com and ranassg71@yahoo.com, i was lucky and lost nothing but i know there a lot of people out there that has lost thousands and if i can stop him doing this to anyone it will be worth it, i do have pictures i can mail you of whta he is supposed to look like if you want them?

  676. Anyone know of a colonel Robert Jenkins … claims to be in Camp Wright, Kabul.

  677. hi ladies ..any lady know some US army major david lawson he is 36 and from Atlanta GA right now deployed in Afghanistan..any one know about him or chatted before please let me know i been chatting with him for 2 years almost does a soldier stays in combat area so long..please answer me i need help.

  678. I got hook by “Sargent Jame Ruddock” going by Robert Ruddock. I am so hurt that these bastards are using our men. What can I do to help this poor soldier? I am so angry that our boys are fighting for us and they get this????? I want to make the rat bastard pay!!!!

  679. when I enter an IP address on 3 “soldiers” they all show sunnyvale California. Is this where they are actually located?

    • I believe that is where Yahoo is located. What other places did it list?

  680. also, I have a soldier asking for a phone so we can talk, money for food because the food there is bad etc and money to come home. He wants me to fill out a leave slip. Ive seen his picture on the wall on shame.. james Jordan but his uniforn says Oniel. email is jonesoniel @yahoo.com. Why caant these guys use their military email if they are legit

  681. this man scammed me for 30,000 USD, Can someone tel me where this address is from?From Jackson Hutchinson Sun Jul 24 00:37:31 2011
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  682. The top picture. Is being used by some one going by the name of David Fisher. Met him on match.com. Yes I got scammed. He played it good and even made friends with my son. He now claims to be a captain and his son is 9. So glad I found this site before I lost more. Will walk away with a broken heart. And less money. But a lot smarter.

    • i just know the guy name david lawson may be its the same guy.

      • Probably the same guy. He is the one in the first photo on this page. You can see the bump or whatever it is in the middle of his forehead.July 30th was the last day I talked with him an messenger. He is wanted by the FBI. Also wanted in Canada and Korea and 1 or 2 more countries. Real good talker. Wanted me and my son to meet him in Wash DC at a ceremony. Where he is “getting an award” Lol. So he found someone right away it looks like. Sure would like to meet the real soldier of this picture. He is a cutie!

  683. has anyone heard of captian david james smith he claims to be stationed in darfur sudan? i was scammed out of alot of money from him. he talked me into selling my truck and sending the money through western union so he can come back home to oklahoma and have a relationship with me and be a father to my daughter. after the money was sent he told me he needed airfare or he would be stuck outside of camp because he put in a leave and they told him he couldnt stay in the camp while he was on leave! please i need some answeres i feel like the biggest fool in the world. i just lost my husband do to his passing and i dont think my heart can take anymore pain the money that i had sent him was enough to get by until i went back to work. now not only im i suffering but my daughter is to, how come they can get by doing this to people and be able to sleep at night

    • I too lost a lot of money , almost lost my home. I too feel like a fool. One thing that helped me deal with it, is I found the real soldier and let him know someone was using his name and pictures. After finding the real soldier, I felt a sense of closure. Alta, it will get better, be kind to yourself.

      • thank you so much lucy, i would like to find this soldier as well, but i dont know where to start looking. i feel someone is using this persons pic. and the soldier may not even know about it. he has sent me alot of his pic.

  684. well im writing because ive been on some sites to check a few guys out had a few guys from the military who seem to always come up with the lamest bullshit mind my language until i found this site interesting. ive been talking to SGT carney barber@yahoo and hotmail also a guy named SGT matt miller or sometimes uses the name raymond banderas also from yahoo the first guy wanted money for food then a phone but i thought that military provide all this but my whole point to this is why are these soldiers wanting money or phones well my thought was scammers but now i have major problems because one of these guys has got into my email on hotmail and reads almost everything ive changed passwords some many times but still keeps hacking into to it my ip address always says your logged into another computer but how when i only use one please help me THANK YOU

  685. The soldier on here called Sigmund Witt, is now using the name Terry Witt, I have been in contact with him, The email address he is using is
    Colnelwitt@yahoo.com.

  686. hi all….i am being scammed by 2 different people, both met on cougarlife.com & neither on here. Lt Col James Pelzer, USMC & Sgt E-7 Jack Wilson Abramo, US Army.
    Both have lost their wives to cancer within last 4 – 8 yrs, both each have 1 child (Pelzer – 15 yr old daughter “Matilda” & Abramo 12 yr old son, no name specified)and want me to call them via TS2 commuications, both supposedly from Baltimore/Annapolis MD area…

    Lt col James Pelzer, USMC in special ops in iraq had me fooled, 1st contact was june 17 2011 (Cougarlife name Grantash) and profile was “under review” by CL after 3 days chatting with him. original email for him was jamespelzer@yahoo.com, then a week later told me his email was compromised & now pelzerjim@yahoo.com. had told me DOB 10/06/70 but “new” FB says 5/7/73? After a few days of chatting he asked if i could send his daughter $460 for some school project, he would pay me back as soon as one of his “mates” headed stateside in July; daughter (Matilda) in TX with her aunt (guardian while hes deployed) as aunt (Traci davis) lost her job. after thinking for a few days like a schmuck i wired it WU. about a week later he told me wanted to add me to his next-of-kin as his fiance but $350 admin & processing fees, seemed to get mad when i told him no…latest was 2 weeks ago when he asked me to request leave for him as he is denied leave right now & needs $3K for “replacement soldier” fees (as his rank is so high in demand & sought after) for 1 week leave as DOD no longer allows soldiers in many countries (of course 1 is Iraq) to take leave indefinatley. he even im’ed me part of what looked like official DOD documentation…told him i would work on it and am still trying to get all info on him but all i know is he doesnt exist…i filed a complaint with the IC3 (run by FBI and Dept of Justice) per DOD when i emailed them last week regarding him. he does, however have 2 FB pages he just created. he added me as a friend so i may keep an eye on him for awhile, altho know it will be down within days…
    the 7/24/11 (yesterday, his profile now “under review as well)) SGT Jack Wilson Abramo sent me email. also in baghdad, iraq in US Army as sniper & knows i’m the one for him, i’m the most beautiful woman hes seen, wanted ALOT of personal info and got very irate when i told him i wouldnt reply to his email, asked how much $ he wanted & was very offended. his english was VERY bad, in emails & im’s and spoke like some1 whos second language is english…
    i found it amusing that anytime i told eitehr of these men “no” or questioned something they “had to go, something came up” or “BRB”. then would log right off.
    the men in the photos are unbelievably adorable but dont know who they really are & if they are aware of these people using their photos…
    please let me know where i can send these photos (I have emails & multiple photos on both of these bozos)to get them up on this website & prevent them for scamming any more women! Jim P had me totally smitten & have been crushed altho deep down i knew he wasnt real…
    BEWARE LADIES!

    • This Jim Pelzer, James Pelzer also goes under David Pelzer…I was reading your post because the last name “Pelzer” so, I checked with FB, and it is the same man…well the same pics anyways! I wish I would have found this site b4 I was scammed :(

  687. i have 2 individuals posing as Military men that have been scamming me/attempting to scam me…
    Lt Col James Pelzer (USMC, DOB 10/6/70 and 5/7/73) contacted me 6/17/11, asked me to send $ to his 15 yr old daughter in TX for school project as her aunt lost her job & he had no way of getting $ to her. after debating for a few days i sent her $500. thank god thats all i lost! his email had changed form jimpelzer@yahoo.com to pelzerjim@yahoo.com as his “email was compromised”. a week later he told me wanted to add me to his next-of-kin list as his “fiance” but admin fess were $350 and could i sent to DOD? when i told him no i started to hear from him less & less, he would say “do you think im chanced to come online out here in Special Ops?” so would let it go…then 2 weeks ago he told me he needed me to file leave paperwork for him to DOD with $3K and could i sell my house to pay for it? when i asked where my daughter & i should live he “had to go now” and didnt hear from him for 8 days, then he im’ed me just to see if i had $ so told him i was working on it & email me info so i can take care of…in meantime i filed formal complaint with IC# (Internet computer Crimes Center, run by FBI & Dept of Justice) will all info….jim kept telling me ‘life would be blissful, cant wait til november for leave & we can start our fanily, etc. boy did i fall for that!
    then 7/24/11 Sgt jack Wilson Abramo, US Army sniper emailed me, same M.O. luckily red flags went up immediately & he didnt sucker me in!
    I met both men on Cougarlife.com, within adys of receiveing emails rom them their profiles were “under review” by CL (Jim user name Grantash, Jack user name man4love25) told me they entered military out of high school, both had 1 child each (Jim – 15 yr old daughter, Matilda” and Abramo 12 yr odl son, no name specified), both had lost their wives to cancer within past 4-8 years (seemed to change everytime i brought up), both in baghdad Iraq & both to be home on leave bewteen Sept – Dec, also changed whenever it was mentioned)
    i fell for these guys who’s pictures are being used, im assuming they are unaware!
    i have multiple emails & photos for both, CJ i will email to you as soon as i post this.

  688. Trying to find out if I am being scammed, met a guy online, Army Sargeant Jason Mateo, I have a few pics, he says he is in Kabul and just found out he is being sent to Libya on Monday. Where can I email the photos I was sent????? I do not want this to go further but I need proof, and yes, he brought up becoming next of Kin so he can put in for leave… I said no.. This guy was on Zoosk the dating site.

    • Good for you for stopping with out proof. Most likely he is using someone else’s photo… Check the IP address .. These boys ( I do mean boy in immature way) are good at what they do…

  689. hey C.J keep up the good work your doing i wanna post my story in here just letting people or the silly ladies like myself get involved with these scammers and wanna bes what a bunch of losers they are really these kind of people should go to jail big time for doing what they do some people heartless bastards … anyways my story is about four guys if anyone knows of them first one SGT George .R Colvin 2nd Sgt David Win 3rd Sgt Matt Miller 4th Sgt Raymond Banderas are all on yahoo or hotmail these guys all claim to be in the US military force asking for all kids of things phones food anything and that the army dont get this n that to them what a load bullshit i thought that army provided them with these personal items not ask us i just wanna know who else has been scammed by these guys

  690. My scammers name is “Devon Grahek” Here are a few excerpts from some Ims that I received from him – i didn’t correct the spelling or grammar so…..

    I am E_ 6 Staff Sergeant of us army and have been in the service for 18 years now and I have a 13 year old son. divorced for 4 yrs
    My son is my only family as I talk to you know. I was born in Miami and move to UT when I was 14 years cose I lost my Mom and Dad in a car accident .I move to ut to be with my uncle who was in the Airforce .He had 3 girls but took me as him son and did all a father thet a man will for a his male child.
    I have 3months get back home
    i found my ex with a friend in a hotel and she then she never came back home again
    Well am a trainer and i teach how to shoot
    I we lost 4 guys past 3 months ago all cose of the post .They had letters from their wife’s asking them for divorce and we lost them in the mission thet they were .
    “I was part of the US forces kill Osama bin Laden in Pakistan”

    I have been talking to him for about a week but caught on in two days that he was fake. His spelling and grammar are terrible and he avoids answering any questions when I ask him for details on his unit,etc. He
    isn’t even smart enough to send a pic of him in uniform. I guess that is because his “unit is being protected because he was part of the team that killed Obama” I laughed out loud at that line.

    Right now I am having fun just messing with him – let him think I am interested. lol

  691. Hi I came across this guy named Marvin Greenwood who is using a photo from here(James Ruddoch) sent to me July 26/11
    and claims he is a widower with one daughter named Jackie and has a german Sheppard the dumb ass didn’t realize how quickly i caught on and called the police right away, he wanted me to give my personal info to him and his diplomat so that i can receive a package that he worked on 9 months on the oil rig with a minister who suddenly had to leave the country so he has 1.5 million usd and couldn’t leave it there in iraq otherwise he would be severly punished and he’s coming home in a months time, but you will catch on really quick because he makes alot of mistakes when sending you an email. GOOD LUCK ASSHOLE YOU DIDN’T GET ME!!!!!!!!!!

  692. CJ, I was scammed by a person that goes by the screen name davidpelzer95@yahoo.com, and pelzerdavid96@yahoo.com. He claims to be a Sargent in the US ARMY. He asked for 250.00usd to have my number registered with the communication center in Kabul, Afghanistan, so that he would be able to contact me. I did send the 250.00 and he did contact me about 3 times. He then asked for some money to help him bribe another Army official so he could leave before his time was up. I refused to send him any more money. He then stated he was going to have a check sent to me from his financial adviser, and then in turn wanted me to cash the check and send him the money. I agreed to do this, so a check was sent to me from a person in El, Paso TX. I deposited the check into my bank account, and the funds became available the next day. I withdrew the money from my account, and then sent it via money gram to a person in FL who was supposed to be a “contact agent” for the military who helps the money get overseas to the soldiers. He contacted me and said that the contact agent received the money and it was on it’s way to him. Within 5 days after I withdrew the money the check was sent back to my bank due to irregular signature, so now I am in the hole for $2850.00. I contacted him after this had happened, and he said he didn’t know why the check was sent back. He said he would find out what happened. He then contacted me 2 days later and said the fault was with the person who sent the check, and that he would send me the money as soon as he gets home which was to be in a week. This was 3 days ago. He has a facebook account, and if you search it by email…pelzerdavid96@yahoo.com there is a picture of a gentleman that appears to be in the army. You can add his picture to your wall. If you come across this screen name or receive any info it would be great if you could let me know, for I would be grateful!

  693. Anyone knows Gareth Mills,he said hes from New York,USA and was deployed to Libya..hes 47 years old , a Senior Doctor and same time a US military.and i meet him thru dating sites called ZORPIA..we chatted for almost 6 months and he already get my money around $5000 usd.at first,hes a snob person then suddenly he become sweet person…at first i thought hes a scammer but when i asked about his work as a doctor and asked everything about being an opthalmologist,he can answer me back immediately,so i feel relax since i knew whats all about since im working also in a medical field..at first,he asked me to have a connection which paid $187usd for us to connect together and can together which there is no hassled in connecting via yahoo messenger..its fine with me..then later on,he said,he wants to come here in Saudi Arabia and really want to joined with me here..and he specified to work to some prestigious hospital.so, since no idea about in military thing.he send me those forms to fill up..so,i was so trusty coz he has this form…so I told him ok…since im the one asking his vacation im the one to pay all his transit.so i paid and he gave me the details including the airfare details..but when he asked again about this BTA…basic transportation allowance..i was already in doubt….thankfully my real friend who work in US military happened to get online and we chatted..i was so devastated and the same time feel sorry to myself that i was scammed.his email add garethmills87@yahoo.com

  694. I think I may be falling victim to a scammer too. He goes by Staff Sergeant Alex Smith in the U.S Army and claims to have an adopted son by the name of Micheal Rancourt that attends St. Paul’s International School in Accra Ghana, funny thing is, I can’t find that school online and when I call the number he gives me both Miss Agnes and Micheal sound the same. I don’t see his picture above but how do I find out if he’s a scammer and expose him.

    • Stella, Alex Smith is a scam. I got the exact same story and he wanted me to deal with a diplomat to have $1.7M shipped to my address in Canada. There was also a story about a birthyday party for his son in Accra Ghana where he didn’t have any money to cover it. Send money to Ms Agnes. Run, don’t walk from this.

  695. anyone had any exaperience with David King using Yahoo david. king3290@yahoo.com? I met him om cupid but cant tell so far if jes a scammer or not… Arent there any honets military guys out there? :)

  696. I’m having trouble uploading photo’s for Sgt Alex Smith and his son. He is indeed a scammer who was stupid enough to give me his phone number and address. Any idea’s how I can report him to the U.S. Embassy in Accra??? He claims to be in Afghanistan, but his adopted son apparently stays at the children’t home (St. Paul’s Intl School) while he’s at war, the same home he apparently adopted him from. I’ll try to upload photo’s but not sure if it’ll will work. DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW TO UPLOAD PHOTO’S TO THIS SITE!!!!!!!!!

    • Dear Victims,

      We are the (IC3) organisation, we are Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) and we are in partnership between the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), the National White Collar Crime Center (NW3C), and the Bureau of Justice Assistance (BJA), you can get to know more about us on our website: http://www.ic3.gov.
      We got a report about some scam that happened to all of you online, am pleased to tell you that the scammers will be arrested please, do get back to our agent Arold Mike James on msn: usagovernment_military@live.com skype : ic3_agent for more investigation, as HE WILL HELP YOU GET ALL YOU HAVE LOST, and help you get you life back, by arresting this criminals..

      website: http://www.ic3.gov
      IC3 Washington Headquarters :+1-206-317-3407
      skype : ic3_agent

      • I’m approving this comment for Google search purposes and to ensure you don’t fall for this scam. The US Government, no matter what section of the government, does NOT use generic sites like Gmail, Yahoo, and Live.com for email. All OFFICIAL government emails will have the appropriate .gov suffix to their email. This “FBI” comment is a fraud and the IP links back to Ghana. They also don’t use Skype!! Do NOT call this number.

  697. MarrI was on Cupid.com and was contacted by Colonel Deimel Keith Conelly…who said he had fallen head over heels in love with me and wanted to hear my beautiful voice, but that he needed 250.00 for me to be able to talk to him on the secure line, he got unlucky because I am always broke…then he said the army had come up with a way for him to come home early so he could retire and then move his son Keith from Dallas Texas to where i was so he could marry me and we could go on vacations….I just needed to give him my bank account info and 500.00 because it will cost him 2500.00 to get out early…how does a soldier get out early anyway? So I googled stuff and found this…sent him a message telling him not to contact me anymore and that I had uploaded the pics and info so that maybe he couldn’t scam another woman with the name he is using for money. If you can find the Deimel Conelly and tell him he is being used in a scam I’m sure he would appreciate it thanks. This guy is on cupid.com as dconelly1 and his yahoo email is dconelly1@yahoo.com. how can I upload the picks he sent to me?

  698. Hi

    I feel like an absolute idiot after reading all these comments. I met a Sergeant Aaron Ramos on Are You Interested. Stated that he was stationed in Kabul. We have been chatting for 5 weeks now on Yahoo! Messenger with very romantic e-mails to my yahoo e-mail address. He has indicated that he lost his wife 5 years ago and has a 13 year old daughter Lucy. I am not American so I did not question many of the things. He has declared his undying love for me, proposed marriage and a wonderful life in Houston, Texas.

    He did ask me to request his leave and that I need to pay an amount for it. Once I implied that he was a scammer which he denied. After much deliberations and arguments I conceded to pay the $480 to a Western Union account. The next e-mail I received from the armyserviceprotocol1@usa.com e-mail now indicates that I need to transfer $800 in order for them to transfer $ 800 000 to my account.

    I decided to do a little digging and in truth I should have done this from the start- I found this site. He is currently using Aaron Daniel Ramos. He has also given me his service number; battallion name, etc. So to a non-military person this sounded ligitimate.

    I am just sorry I did not do the research before paying the amount. This guy/s is really good in getting a person to trust them. I have traced the IP address to Sunnyvale, California.

    I feel sorry for the guy whose photo’s are being used in these scams.

  699. Has anyone heard of a Micheal Templeton. I have been talking to him for about 5mo. now. And he is trying to tell me that he has to pay for his own leave if he wants a visit home.He wanted me to send money for it.Cause he has no access to his money here in the states. He said a friend is paying the diff. Til he gets here and has to pay it back with interest. But i have not sent it. And will not. But i have talked to someone else and they said if they want to take a leave for 2 weeks or so they have to pay not sure just wondering.

  700. I do have photos of this Micheal Templeton. I just need to know whats going on.I do not trust anyone with my money and i need to know where it needs to go.

  701. Just found out my best friend has recently started a correspondence with a man she met on metrodate.com. She’s hopes he’s for real, but I’m sure he’s a con. She’s sent me the pics he’s sent her of himself and his son, and he looks very similar to Tom Curtis above – in fact, I am SURE the pictures being used are of that man. Goes by the name of Daniel Morgan, claims to be preparing to leave Iraq soon. Here’s the first paragraph:
    Hi my Dear,How are you doing? Thank you very much for your message, Your reply has lighting up my heart again. I feel so happy just being with you always. You will always be the love of my life. i will like to get to know you better, love you with what I have, I can’t wait to be with you, see your smile, look in your eyes, feel your sweet touch, hear your perfect words and kiss your perfect lips. i like you and willing to know you more, spend the rest of my life with you, and making you happy. My duty in Iraq will be over very soon and that is my happiness as I about to leave this war zone area Iraq and return to US to proceed for my retirement benefit, then I can be able to visit you ok.
    Has declared undying love (in a very long email!) after just a few meetings, and SADLY my friend seems smitten! Shall suggest she reads what’s on this site hoping she ‘sees the light’. In the meantime, I’d like to download the pictures. how do I do that?

  702. I chat for a week with staff sargeant George Ramos and is a widower with a 21 years old daugther ,his wife and 2 more girls died in a car accident. I want to send his pic. because i think the real officer is a victim, if you can please send me what i has to do to send those pictures. i will send it. his email is george ramos 2011 at g mail dot com

  703. I just started getting messages on my facebook from someone claiming to be Chris Zecchini. Has anyone else had someone using this name contact them?

  704. I knew something wasnt right with this guy. I just caught him in a lie. So beware of anyone using the name Chris Zecchini.

  705. I have been scammed by someone alleging to be Colonel Randy Henry Brooks (Yeah! I know!!). He turned out to be a scammer using photos of General John Abizaid. Luckily, having a cautious and careful disposition I was not taken in for very long and spent a profitable afternoon yesterday Googling Col Brooks!!! No requests for cash or gifts as yet, but it was obvious I had rumbled them very early on in the scam. Apologies to General Abizaid … whom I have been drooling over for the past week or so!!! Co. Randy Brooks said he was a widower of six years, with an 18 year old son, Luke studying law at California University. In the army in charge of logistics/supplies somewhere in Afghanistan. Poor Eglish spelling/grammar for a purported graduate of Economics … using .com & said didn’t have .mil and said couldn’t ring me from base. Didn’t add up so had a bit of fun with him last night before ditching by messenger and email. Only just now discovered General Abizaid’s photos had been used and not familiar enough to distinguish military discrepancies. Thank you for this site … which saved me much embarrassment and probably financial loss too!!! Good luck girls. Col Randy Brooks is now on the wall of shame …. Syd

  706. How about Bruce Pedersen anyone?

  707. Just to add to my earlier comment about the pseudo Col Randy Henry Brooks, his email address yesterday was randybrooks67@hotmail.com and his IP address came back as Ghana. He has also used photographs of General John Abizaid as his on screen “face”. I used the information given by someone else on this site to identify the images using tinyeye.com. Apologies to General Abizaid whom I am sure has no knowledge of this scam. Good luck girls …. Syd

  708. Also look out for someone named Daniel Robin or Robin Daniel. He instantly ‘fell in love’ with me and although I was suspicious, I played along, all the while doing some searching. First of all, he claimed his LAST name was Daniel, but from the picture I saw, it was something ‘el’. He asked for $3000 for his ‘leave form’, a new computer and phone so he could ‘take more pictures to send to me’. When I confronted him on all the discrepencies, like the military NEVER putting a soldiers first name on their uniform, the military never ‘charges’ for leave, no one else can ‘ask for leave’ for a soldier, it has to be done by the soldier themself, he couldn’t provide me with an APO or FPO address and that he ‘didn’t have access to his money when in combat’ (because I told him he makes far more money than me) he got real nasty and said he ‘now knows my character type and I can’t be trusted’. What a shame. Luckily I had the foresight to save and print all IM’s, emails, photos and also emailed all of his ‘friends’ on facebook letting them know he was a scammer (if they didn’t know) before he deleted himself off my friends list. I have contacted the DOD and am more than willing to turn over all information and they are more than welcome to look through my computer for anything that might be helpful. What this idiot didn’t know was, both my parents were military so, although I’m no expert, I did know a little bit. I thank God for giving me guidance before I sent a single thing. I have no idea who the people in the photos are and don’t even know if the DOD can do anything about it, but I would like someone to let this real soldier know his picture is being used for a scam. Isn’t there a LEGITIMATE way to contact REAL soldiers? Our church sends care packages, we fly our flags ALL THE TIME, not just on 4th of July or Memorial Day, we meet the soldiers coming home at the airport to support them and pray for them every day. Writing to a real soldier, we are thinking, would let them know we support them and are praying for them. Any words of wisdom? Any further steps I need to take with the emails/IM’s that I have besides contacting the DOD? The guy said he used to be in the Marines but is now in the Army. Thank you for this site.

  709. I just received an email on a dating website called evow.com from a soldier that claims to be Alfred Haggard. His story is very similar to Robert Haggard. He is using the user name SOMTYN. Below is the email he sent me.

    My name is Alfred Haggard. I was born on the 26th of July 1961 at Baptist Hospital of Bedford. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home,later studied law at the university of miami,i am a also a criminal lawyer.. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field of the army and later worked with the Gold mining company…
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.
    Well,I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG) and now working with the un. I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a noncommission officer and I work in the junior management of the military And in Basra iraq at the moment for 12months now and will be retiring in two months time and will be returning home in two months time…So what do you do for a living?and what could have brought you here to match?
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Basra, a province of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my last mission to Iraq and I have already spent 1year 6 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2008. My mission ended in 2010. Well back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lot. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 3 years.
    I am now looking for the one which to my heart….in which I will then say a woman that can put her past behind move on with me to the next level.
    As matter of fact am now that am in Iraq and commucating with you,hope things with then change from one stage to another.I will be home in September to Bedford (texas). where i live all alone.i lost my family . Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself as am retirring from the army to settle down.. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.

    Incase you want to know something about my past relationship then am here to say; Hmmm, there is a smile of love, and there is a smile of Deceit, and there is a smile of smiles, in which these two smile meet, a smile is ever the most bright and beautiful with a tear upon it. What is the dawn without the dew? the tear is rendered by the smile precious above the smile itself……… I love my former wife with the lost saint I seems to lose, she was the deepest happiness in a life time and think she will be the one Ican come home and lay my heard on.The one I always thought or think by sharing all point of view with. I didn’t have any idea of her leaven me to someone else, while thinking of her and thought she is the bighter side of my life.
    I did all I could insuport to her needs and given a helping hand to grub a job, and support the family as well. In times like holiday and spending time with eachother is something else and she her self all ways testify how romantic I am to her.. spending much time with her as much as I could. Just remixing the time we normally go for strows and to the beach as well as movies and a lot of interesting places, as well as something you just cant emargine…..but all the same it over now, all though am hurt but all the it cool for now…… I know she is regretting it by now. Between man and God I have for given her from the last end of my heart……….
    My-dear, I have come to end of who I am and what happens in my life, …..thanks for hearing me up and do have a lovly day and keep on keeping on being sweet to yourself…..hope to chat with you soon honey…. .sergenthaggard@yahoo.com please send me an email and i will be waiting for ur mail

    I have reported this man to the website as a known scammer and to remove him from their site. I am new to evow.com. I hope they will remove his profile before he has an opportunity to break some unsuspecting woman’s heart or worse.

    • I was talking to a guy name andrew haggard, first e-mail he sent me is like 90% what he wrote to you, he told me he had a son who went to ghana w/ his church and while there he had kidney failure, so I sent a lap-top, clothes and a phone to joseph adjei in accra (for his kid)

  710. I got scammed by a ‘US soldier’ using the name Davinson Jackson – he used the rang of Colonel but his insignia seemed to be Captain. He also had a ‘mate’ using the name Capt. David Cochran. After realising I had been scammed – I did some tracking and there were varying forms of the name “Davinson” on facebook – Julian Davinson; Davinson Halley; Davinson King; Michael Davinson. I have reported them all to facebook but every week I check and these people have opened new accounts – especially Davinson Jackson.
    I found the real person and it just guts me to know that these people are using actual photos of real servicemen while they are running this scam.
    My heart is mending and my bank account is going to get better – but it is the shame of knowing that I was conned by these people that really gets me down. But that will get better too….

    • @April send your email to us , and we will inform you on thee procedures to make , so, you can get your money back, and put this scammers behind bars..

      NOTE FROM CJ: This comment is from a scammer. I’m only approving it for search purposes.

      • “International Police” is a scam. Do NOT ever contact anyone claiming to be police, FBI, or any other law enforcement or government agency through this blog. If they want to contact you, they can do so through me.

  711. Has anyone heard of a Nicholas Dalton Facebook he is writing to me at the moment i found this site sent him an email awaiting his response tonight

    • Isabel i am still talking to him as i send you this, if you like to see if it is the same guy you can email me at anytime.

    • you can reach me at awesome_mom12@yahoo.com

  712. Just wanted to put a warning out on “Captain Frank Edwards”. He contacted me on the dating site plenty of fish, but wanted me to email him on his yahoo account: kanda_highway@yahoo.com
    Fortunately I found this website, and I followed CJ’s advice to ask him to email me from the AKO email. CJ said that if he didn’t know what that was, or said he couldn’t because of security reasons then he is a scammer. “Captain Frank” had no idea was AKO was…

  713. Hello C.J. Grisham

    I would like to tell you that I was very happy to find this blog .
    I’ve being looking for some information about an “american soldier” called Ruddock Morgan, who I’ve being talking since February (5 months now), but there is nothing about him or about scammers, here in Brazil.
    My history is similar of many others, so I’m sharing the information I have:

    • Name: Ruddock Morgan (54 birth on 25th august 1955)
    • E-6 Staff General (SG) – in Kabul
    • Son: Samuel Morgan (20 years old) see the pictures
    • Address – 13534 Colgate Way, Silver Spring, MD
    • Emails: ruddockme@hotmail.com and rud_trustme@live.com
    • Phone number: +233541414735 (Ghana)
    • Diplomat’s name: Vincent Ansah – dip.ansah@yahoo.com
    • Phone number: +233242242459 (Ghana)

    Money: U$40000,00 – for shipping boxes of gold he found in a Taliban’s house. The diplomat took them of Pakistan to Ghana. And now they need money to ship them to Brazil….(kkkkkk) — Oh! It’s a big secret, ok?

    Others names he had cited:
    • Frank Paul, he is 37yrs and his birthday is 3rd February, 1974
    • Kevin McKay, who is also 43. His birthday is 8th September, 1968
    • Frimpong M Tenkonrang
    • Solomon Awuni
    • Chistian Larbi
    • Jamina Nana Nyarko

    Well, now he is threatening me like:
    “Honey, you are not answering my calls, do you think it`s safe I give your contact to them? This people are so desperate and I am under so. You need to respond to me my love.”

    I found the same man with 6 different/profiles/ names – on WAYN.com
    Ruddock Morgan is the same of Jose, Larry, William, Richard, Eugene, Jude Ruddock..

    Thank you very much
    Bel (From Brazil)

  714. I started getting emails from Tony Anderson, he gave me this phone number 2347061152594, he sends poems and plans to have a life with me.. Can you pls tell if this name is under scam? I am attaching his pictures. Do pls inform me if he is a scammer. Thanking you in advance.

    Hello Love x

    Here are a few things I wish to do with you at some point in this lifetime:
    Be your best friend.
    Get caught with you in the rain.
    Dance with you in the rain.
    Stargaze on a clear night.
    Watch the sunset together.
    Spend all day with you doing nothing.
    Moonlit walks on the beach.
    Be more proud of you than I already am at this very moment.
    Go on a carriage ride through the park.
    Do a crossword together.
    Go to brunch.
    Have a disagreement (it could/will only make us stronger).
    Go for a twilight horseback ride.
    Watch a bad movie together.
    Spend the rest of my life with you.
    Have our picture taken together.
    Eat ice cream with you.
    Make love to you passionately.
    Go to a museum together.
    Talk to each other using only body language.
    Give you space when you need it.
    Accept you totally and completely – flaws and all (I already do).
    Discuss current events in a heated debate.
    Have you see the error of your ways from aforementioned heated debate and make mad, torrid love to you, in the midst of all that passion.
    Carve our names into a tree/table.
    Go for a walk at dusk together.
    Be one with you.
    Send you a singing telegram.
    Spend all night thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you.
    Hold you and gaze into your eyes and realize how much I love you…and tell you.
    Gently run my hand across your cheek and look into your eyes.
    Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic.
    Spend my life making you happy.
    Spend my life making our family happy.
    Feel your heartbeat.
    Go roller/ice skating together.
    Give you a backrub just because.
    ALWAYS being honest with each other.
    Go hiking/camping together.
    Have our first fight, make up and feel a stronger bond because we very successfully weathered the storm – together.
    Marry you.
    Laugh at someone together.
    Share a plate of spaghetti.
    Give you a stuffed animal just because.
    Go on a fun family vacation and bring back the kind of memories movies are made of.
    Treat you like my Lancelot.
    Go on a road trip across America.
    Count thunder together during a thunderstorm.
    Envelop you in my soul.
    Cook your favorite meal/meals.
    Know you better than you know yourself.
    Go to a Renaissance Fair.
    Plant a tree in our yard together.
    Look over at you during an office/military/family party and have you know without me saying a word – that I love you.
    Be able to say “I love you” in 89 different ways – in 89 different countries.
    Hold you when you’re at your saddest and comfort you when you need it the most.
    Be the one you come to for that comfort and holding.
    Wipe away the days’ stresses and issues, with just one hug/kiss.
    Grow old with you.

    Love Always,

    Tony xxx

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    • Maria Del Carmen Zuleta,

      The most highly is a scam..the phone he gave is NIGERIA…… 234… They (scammers) will say anything to us …they are good at what they do.. do not be fooled…

  715. I have been a victim. I just found out today and it was devestating. The guy going by Timothy Coffey in the US army in Afganistan. I googled the visit request he asked for and found the scam alerts. He said he needed money to pay the gov. for insurance. Then I decided to google the name and Timothy coffey does exsist however he is in the Air Force and all of the pics sent to me was from his myspace page. I tried to message him so he would know that someone was posing as him…maybe this will help.

  716. How are you doing this Morning, i hope and believe you are doing great, thank you so much for the chat we had , it was so great talking to you and i felt like i have known you for a very log time as well and i believe you are my half that i have been looking for because i have been thinking about you so much after we finish talking and you are everything i have been looking for all this while my dear…… I want to tell you a bit about my self and i think this will tell you a little more about my self and what i do for living.I hope you’ll tell me some more in your mail. I really like everything I read in your profile and my gut instincts tells me you are a good woman..But here we are with you in McAllen and me, far away in the middle east(Afghanistan) on Peace keeping with the army…Too bad isn’t it? well as long as we have life,we can still have time for our selves in the near future,what matters is life, right?I do understand the distance thing, I just truly believe that there are no boundaries as you seek your life companion… How do I set the ball rolling? I am Collins Smith Edwards,I was born and bread in the town of McAllen, Texas some 50 years ago by a mother called Birgit and an American father called John Smith Edwards ..my parents met at the university..that was what i was told… Talking about my family background am the only son of my late parents.That reminds me of a good and lovely family we were together in McAllen. I have lived in McAllen, ever since i was brought up here by my late uncle to stay with him and help in his Military interruption after finishing High School in northwood and study mechanical engineering in a local community college in Dallas …I later enrolled into the Royal Military Academy, when i was 21years and graduated in 1977 as a Sergeant..and trust me i have seen and experienced being in the US army and i never regret joining the army. I love life,love my family and still have some love to share with a special woman. Life can be lonely without someone…I am a person who is very real when it comes to life and its’ issues.I wouldn’t like to commence much but rather every one has an objective of join dating site. I don’t request for anything rather than loving and happy committed relationship with someone special.Always thank God for my life. I’m not a fighter and I don’t argue, life’s too short but I do value friendship and intimacy.Respect is one of the most important requisites in a relationship, as honesty and commitment. I believe either of us had in mind of meeting someone special online but it has just come to pass with our personality description towards learning few thing about each other.I’m ready to fall in love with someone special who ever that happens to be, there are few qualities which talks about genuine woman in relationship, such as faithfulness,loyalty, trustworthy, Honesty,respectful etc. I guess having those qualities in relationship can really help alot. I am not looking to fill a void in my life, I am looking for my soul mate. I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered.I love to cook and a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine and great music. I enjoy many type of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country western especially Ian Tyson and Alan Jackson…I love to have adventures, large or small, and am looking for someone to share them with.I look into the future with hope and would like to create a relationship based on respect, understanding, trust and love. Seeking a relationship with longevity and not just something will end in just a blink of an eye. I have a great sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day enjoyable.Honestly I’ve all that it takes to be a man, I don’t really need anything from my partner. maybe in terms of circumstances there might some kind of help from each other, helping to make things right.It’s not all that easy meeting that rightful woman with all those qualities which I’m dreaming off. I am a very sincere person who laughs easily, loves to tease and be teased and who communicates openly and honestly.I pride myself in being independent both emotionally and financially. I have reached the point where I am looking for someone who is open to a new friendship and maybe even a committed relationship. I have been lonely for a long time. I love life and would like to live it to the fullest,but its not all that easy without someone to share those life experiences with. I think two heads are better than one.I was married for 15 years but unfortunately,My partner died in labor rendering me a widower now..Well I believe God has his own purpose for that…I am currently on PEACE KEEPING MISSION in Afghanistan and will be home on retirement in few weeks and that is one main reason why i joined the dating website even though its not safe out here to be using the internet and everything, i still had a thought about dating since for a long time.I’m about to go on retirement and want to have that special woman in my life so that when i come back on retirement i can be with till the end of the world. I never knew how to do this online chat and it was my friend in the army who introduced me how to chat online and to send emails and would love to hear your voice but it’s rather unfortunate we have a communication break down and hope you can bear with me for security reasons.I will like to end here and hope to hear from you soon.

    Hugs and Kisses
    Smiles,
    Collins

    this guy is going by Staff Sgt Collins Smith Edwards (edwards collins) wow.. I knew i was a scam for the start.. will not give his adrress becasure he is retire soon claims to be from McAllen Texas. ladies just be careful he was on match.com

  717. anyone heard of robert johnson or yahoo messenger man_in_war_military? he sent me 3 pics but have not seen him on webcam? hes still contacting me thru YM! Red flags i noted were: he asked me to send him 300 to 400 dollars to buy a cellphone so we could always talk whenever he wants. He said package that will be sent to him thru military post office will not b received as the usual case, instead he gave me a pakistani name and address to send the money to. He said he is currently in Durand line. Last time he asked me to send him 100 dollars for him to buy gifts for the poor pakistani children. Have you guys encountered same story or romance scammers from pakistan? he tried to call m 2x and area code was confirmed he is in pakistan…tried to call back d number but cant get through…he said its the phone they use at their camp..

  718. Just to let you know the latest with aaron ramos: scammer now goes by lesley ramos, email is leastaramy@yahoo.com. Had me fooled for a few days but got suspicious over the lack of cam and other details that did not add up. Supposedly 50 but only in the army for 18 years. Worked with Mumy & Dady (his spelling not mine) buying and selling jewels before that. Has lost his passion for the army. Wants to find soulmate yadayada! You know the usual garbage. Good Luck to prosecuting these criminals and my regrets to the real Aaron Ramos who has had his reall identity stolen. How true that once on the net, ALWAYS on the net. Ladies beware!

    P.S. Contacted me on match.com but then profile mysteriously disappeared. THAT is a BIG clue!! Oh and still uses the pics he has used before. Now wants to open up an NGO for street kids when he retires next Jan. Has puppy called junior (the one with the dog). Stationed in Bagdad, Iraq as a staff sergeant commanding men. Supposedly 7 hour time difference between two zones. Learned my lesson!!

    • Well Loren, don’t feel bad. I got the same story, almost. anyway he is running under ramos_a33@yahoo.com also. took my sister the time to find the sob. I feel sorry for the real Aaron. But at least I RAN THEM OFF last night. he never asked for anything but chocolate and said his laptop kept going in and out. Yeah, all of us dumb women can’t be talked to at once, do concuur with the dog named Jr and he told me he would be out in Dec and go into a venture with a friend, He was taken to spain as a child so his english wasn’t that good. I was dupped before by an goxley61@yahoo.com coming out of Lagos Nigeria. Lesson learned girlfriend. so sad, but we have to learn them the hard way. Hang in there. the real Aaron should try to see how he got hacked into his my space account, cuz that is where i first found him. AND THEN FIX THE DAMN THING! I’D HATE TO HAVE SCAMMER WRITTEN ALL OVER MY FACE.

    • Be careful…he may still be on facebook..I looked up his name on FB & found a pic of a soldier named Aaron Ramos, only has 18 friends (a tip-off), and is stationed in Kabul, Afghanistan. I would hate to report him if he is legit, but in case he is not, could you report his picture? Thanks much!

  719. Sorry! Email was typed in wrong: it is lestaramy@yahoo.com

  720. Ladies:

    Beware of Aaron leslie shaun Ramos….ramos_a33@yahoo.com. He claims to have lived in NJ and is going home in December. His mother died when he was 6 and dad took him to Spain; therefore his English is not that good. He never asked for anything other than saying his laptop was in need of work. Sadly, there is an Aaron Ramos deployed. I found it on My Space; the same pictures he sent me. BEWARE…sometimes the engish was quite good, then poor…there must be a bunch of them around a table. i even sent him a note in spanish and he replied quickly; then i wanted him to talk to my sister as she is fluent, he was no where to be found. My sister found out all the information for me and sent it to me and i promptly told him, he denied it and denied it, i told him to report it then. He said it happened in 2006. Really, posts were coming in 2010 on him. And he always uses dear one….i first saw him on a blog after we started talking looking for a Heike from Germany, calling her dear one also. Too bad for the real Aaron. He is a nice looking man and he has all this on him. Good luck and stay far away or play them for what they are worth…zero. I told him last night what I FELT and he has bothered me no more, but I was treating him like a criminal ande he was tearing up. . Boo hoo!

  721. I read all the stories and mine is the same but name is different Capt. James Staurt in bagdad. To all that say mean things to us who just want to move on, you have no clue how hard it is to say to youself move on. So please lets watch what we say. To all I told James about the scam well he swears up and down it’s not that way but I get him so mad he tells me go ahead tell, nothing is going to happen to me do you know thay did nothing to those soldiers that first took money from sadam palace. But he would not stop the more he typed the madder he became he said he went and talked to his commander and nothing was going to happen to him. I told him, your true color is coming out now keep going, his comment was, yes i will be happy my true color will come out. As well as his grammer changed. jamesstuart@yahoo.com As I am righting this he called 1st time not an American. I also called him a liar and a predator and that I had just began. His Diplomat Williams Amoako claimed to be working with Former UN Secretary General in Ghana. I e-mail him to to let him know he was his name being used in a scam. And I will see now if anything happens. But thank all of you who posted the email address to start cause I was lost till I found you all on this site.

    • I forgot to tell you I ask what his dogtag says and his comment well it is so small letters he wasn’t sure. Then came back with it has my name on it, He was in for 25 yrs. and didn’t know what it said this after I knew this was scam. I did know about dog tags, they should say or used to say name, ss#, blood type and religion so I knew with no doubt this was a scam. Hope this helps someone.
      Marci

    • Hi Marci
      I too was contacted by James Staurt. He is still up to no good. I did report him on yahoo for misrepresentation of a military officer. He never asked for money, but like you I could tell by the grammar he was NOT from Texas. He finally got desperate and called with that Indian/African accent…I could only laugh at him and say “since when did they talk like that in Texas” he had the stupidity to say he had a cold….once again I could only laugh at his stupidity. Must say the poor guy he used for the pictures was a real cutie. Yes, he did get mad and hung up…I am still laughing, being a born and raised southern bell….that was sure not a Texas accent :-) I did suggest he not hit on educated/intelligent women and especially women from the south. I am still laughing at the stupidity.
      You go girl :-)

  722. any one dealt with robert trexall please post

  723. Hi…That Mac Donald guy is now going by the name williams Macdonald….I’ve seen some of the pics he is using from the above…!!

    Another One is Sgt Nathon Muller Wagnon…He will even send you a copy of his supposed ID…I caught him out in a couple of days and he blocked me…So watch out for him…!!!

    Got a few more on the line as soon as I know more will post…

  724. I will let you know the Haggard name is out there again, now as Mike Haggard, except born on December 3, 1960 and chatting on messenger as Mike%20Haggard, and using email Mike_Haggard196060@yahoo.com,
    wanted me to go buy him a lap top and cell phone but couldn’t ship it to his apo address,, had to use friend Issac Boateng in Ghana because the package had to have a Army Security Shade stamp in order to be mailed to him,,, He was so smooth, so good, actually popped up while I was on SeniorMeetPeople site. He has added more pictures and I can download a few now so you can see Mike Haggard. if I can get some help on how to get them here… states he has 13 year old daughter staying with best friend in Ghana….glad I found out on this site before real harm has been done.

  725. Hi I have been talking to a man who calls himself Lt. Col. Mitchel Chris Brown for a little over a week now. I met him on zoosk and now his profile is gone from the dating website. He claimed of all things that his wife was one of the people who died on 9/11″ in the blast.” When I asked his to tell me her name he got mad at me and said “are you tracing me.” His picture was fuzzy where his name should have been but his rank was correct. He fell in love with me on the second day of us emailing each other, yeah right!!! Red flags went up and I kept him on the line just to see where he was going. Well, his English was sometimes broken sometimes perfect. I tried to get him to tell me about his life growing up, where he went to school, favorite places to eat, but he would change the subject to promptly call me sweetie or hun. He said he was from Marietta GA and that he had a 16-year-old son that lives in the UK.

    So ladies beware his yahoo was Brown_Mitchel56@yahoo.com

  726. Has anyone heard from Gary Search? who will state he is a fire fighter either from Colorodo or Ohio…

  727. I have been contacted by Haggard. he is using Harg2189 on OK Cupid. Same Photos. Also using Dodson2125@yahoo….

    • I am being scammed by a Sargent Kelvin Dodson `- email address dodson196254@yahoo.com
      He wanted me to send him a care package – through his diplomat – address to mail
      Fawzan Munkaila
      Post Office Box TL 50
      Choggu Hill Top
      Tamale
      00233
      Ghana
      00233242710638.

  728. I have recently joined a dating website and within about a week was contacted by a soldier in the US army. Conveniently he could not add his photo as the pictures were too big but he asked for an e-mail address so he could send some.

    I could tell from the first e-mail that it was a scam – far too over the top about having feelings for me & wanting to start a relationship that would last forever.

    I recognise one of the photos on here but am not sure who to send all the information to so that this poor soldier who is being used can be identified.

    I am just waiting for my scammer to ask for money but I notice that he has been deleted from the dating site and I did not receive an e-mail from him yesterday when he always writes so maybe he has already been caught out!!

    • Hi Jane, I’m very curious of this person’s name that you were talking with? I also met my scammer on a dating site and he is no longer on there any more either!

  729. I have been in contacted by James Haggard, Same photo and 2 more one with 2 kids in it. He used almost the same General Information about himself but changed a few things. He is really good at this i could not tell it was a scam until my daughter in law found this web site. Thank you for posting it. Although he had not asked for any money yet. I have the other pictures still on my computer. Do you want me to keep going until I tell him off maybe some one can tap into my computer and find him. Please reply to my E-Mail

    Thank you My Sincere thanks for this web site.

  730. Robert Haggard is now using the name Fred Lopez exact same story as under his picture. When I copied part of it and told him I had read it in an article somewhere he wrote:

    Thanks for your email…This make me sad bcoz you don,t believe or trust me i wish i have my own phone here which i can be using to call you so that we talk and here each other voice…….But Teresa if you don,t mind make me this favor so that you know am real soldier having relationship with you……..I will really like you to try your best and get me some PHONE with SIM which i can use to call you so that you know am not these summer men or get me some small laptop which cam on it so that when am free we can be having cam to cam chat, Also i can keep some information on it….Sorry am ending here, Hope to here from you with some of your pics. Bye for now

    Fred

    • to all the real military people i feel bad for you because you guys are real and now people won’t even trust you that’s not right .we have to ask you to prove who you aree.

  731. hi,i have two people who r pretending to be army personal who’s names are micheal norcy merino and aaron ramos.micheal ask u for money so he can have his leave so he claims to get married to you.and aaron ramos wants you to use u to take his leave. the worse of it micheal says he lost his wife and has daughter to raise if he did or didn’t lose his wife that’s really cold.just wanted to let everyone about them i have pictures.put who knows who they are

  732. I am in Australia and have been contacted by a person claiming to be US Army Lt Col Carl James Bailey of 5th Battalion, 19th Special Forces Group, stationed in Kabul, Afganistan for last 2 mths with 5mths to go. He advise me yesterday of the deployment charge fee, but I had already been a bit suspicious and had attempted to confirm his identity through unit or US Army websites, without success, but I did manage to read about US Military Leave process’s and had come across notice of a deployment scam, so when asked yesterday, I advised the person that i had read about the scam. He backed off then, apologising, why, I dont know. Anyway they are still in contact, but now I am too nervous to log back into the yahoo messenger system. I have also been issued photos, but they are not listed above. I havent paid anything, nor will I, but still feel a fool.

    • Hey Roysboy

      I too am an Australian, as for yahoo messenger, you can delete his profile then block his email address, so he cannot harass you on yahoo.

      To date I have two men claiming to be in the US Military, which for me, automatically sends off alarm bells, more so when the pictures they have with there profiles are of drop dead gorgeous men, and as I am no Mona Lisa. makes those bells ring LOUDER!

      The first scammer used the name Richard Nugent , as I was already suspecting he wasn’t what or who he was claiming to be, I pumped for information, i.e. I played the game

      He was after less than a week of chatting saying how much he loved me and couldn’t wait to be with me, and started the process of his scam :-

      richardnugent0724 (18/09/2011 3:46:16 PM): brb wants to get the email for u
      richardnugent0724 (18/09/2011 3:49:45 PM): genstanleymcchrystal@militarymailbox.us (Gen. Stanley McChrystal)
      richardnugent0724 (18/09/2011 3:52:01 PM): you will send him an email telling him u would like to have you want to have me with you, that we met online and we need to get to know each other better, and he will tell u what to do to get my leave
      Me (18/09/2011 5:46:51 PM): so ok ur name is richard nugent?
      richardnugent0724 (18/09/2011 5:47:08 PM): yes.
      Me (18/09/2011 5:47:56 PM): and what rank etc are u so when i email ya boss i can b specific
      richardnugent0724 (18/09/2011 5:48:51 PM): okay, FCS, first class sergent (E7)
      Me 18/09/2011 6:27:51 PM): so all going well u need to book ur flight to land in melbourne victoria australia
      richardnugent0724 (18/09/2011 6:28:06 PM): i am not booking my flight myself..
      richardnugent0724 (18/09/2011 6:28:21 PM): the us military will do that as soon as you get the leave granted

      Still playing along I sent an email to this fictitious General

      Dear Sir I am writing to ask your permission for Richard Nugent FCS, First Class Sergeant (E7), to take leave to meet me. We have met online and have developed a friendship, we are wanting to see if there is more than just a friendship happening between the two of us. So I respectfully ask that you please give Sergeant Richard Nugent leave, and if at all at possible very quickly, as I am retired from the workforce and currently touring around Australia. Thanking you kindly for your time Susan

      Then this is where he stuffed up big time

      richardnugent0724 (19/09/2011 9:49:00 PM): can you see where you will be able to sign the agreement.
      Me (19/09/2011 9:49:47 PM): yes i also see I have to pay and then once your back I will b reimbursed
      richardnugent0724 (19/09/2011 9:54:24 PM): sign it first and see how it goes, i hope it will be bearable and plus it will be refunded and i will be giving my leave bonuses.

      This is where I play smart and he gets dumb
      richardnugent0724 (19/09/2011 10:06:33 PM): you should know how much the Gen demands first and see if you can get a loan
      richardnugent0724 (19/09/2011 10:32:21 PM): thats okay, and you cant get a loan from your friends?
      richardnugent0724 (19/09/2011 10:39:54 PM): i understand that , but i think you can try hard and figure out what could be done
      Me (19/09/2011 10:40:13 PM): Why don’t you just send me the cash to get you here, and then after I am reimbursed I will pay you back.

      He then had to head off to “work”. And that was the last I heard from him

      Now as a mother who has a young son in the Australian Armed Forces, the use of Military Personnel gets right on my pip.

      Which leads me onto scammer number two :-

      Give him some credit he played it cool, (never asked me for money right up until I posted on another website to do with scammers. except it was obvious he wasn’t really who he was claiming to be.

      It started with the mass email sends, the sort that say Hello babes, I miss you, I love you, yada yada yada ,crap, crap topped off with more crap.

      This peanut who used the name Mark Van Cartier, I had to admit I had fun playing with, he thought I was buying all the crap he was spewing forth, and it wasn’t until he found my post on this website, that he showed his true colours.

      As I stated I have a son in the Australian Armed Forces. And this is what the peanut said to me :-

      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 4:45:19 PM): Go and study your sons body and language, i show hope your son will receive his first bomb soon.
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 4:45:29 PM): Just pray i don’t meet him at war
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 4:45:34 PM): lol
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:06:46 PM): I think you have more information to write on today for your webpage
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:06:47 PM): lol
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:11:16 PM): jajajajajajaajajajajajaj
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:16:49 PM): Maybe soon you will hear from my wife to be as well.
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:17:02 PM): Then you will see that you mess with the wrong Comrade
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:17:03 PM): lol
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:25:38 PM): Well you will hear from my wife to be soon
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:25:45 PM): am sure she is already on the site looking for you.
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:25:51 PM): Just becareful
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:26:01 PM): because she is not that easy woman to mess around with
      Me(10/18/2011 5:26:07 PM): of wot an e-threat rofl
      Me(10/18/2011 5:26:40 PM): oh ima shaking in my e-booties
      Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 5:26:55 PM): got to go dick sucker…lol

      Cheers Mark or whatever your real name is, I had fun playing you :)

      • Oh footnote, not only did I report both of these scammers to the admin of the website, but the latter one Mark Cartier, albeit an e-threat, did say :-

        Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 4:45:19 PM): Go and study your sons body and language, i show hope your son will receive his first bomb soon.
        Mark Cartier(10/18/2011 4:45:29 PM): Just pray i don’t meet him at war

        Threatened my sons life, so not only was he reported to the dating site admin, I also reported him to yahoo.

        I know this wont stop these guys, but if it slows one down,or at least opens one woman’s eyes on signs to look for, so she doesn’t end up sending money, or giving her heart to some undeserving a**, then I for one will rest easier.

  733. I’m sorry for what has happen to you with this man William L. Spalding and he said that he was from Military
    and he need money to come home and he also need money for his son who was in Holland and he was sick and need the help for medication. And he had asked me to send this money under other people names and they would give him the money ones they get it. The truth is he never was in Holland and he didn’t have a son
    he work in group of people who do this for a living in scamming women out here in U.S. and its all under lies and excess so for anyone who comes cross this name in any date web site do not fall for it he is a scammer,
    this a group of man who live in doing this for a living I had them follow to London and they don’t only scam for money there into also doing other scamming in London its all matter of time before they go to jail. I had send him over 5,000.00 by using the western union this is the way the get the money because they have friends in there little city in London who don’t check ID’s and gives them the money. So for all women who could be talking to any man who say there in the Military and if he’s name is William L. Spalding and he also has a cell phone with the London number be careful and don’t believe him.

  734. I am being scammed by a Sargent Kelvin Dodson `of Bell, Ca- email address dodson196254@yahoo.com stationed in Iraq.
    He wanted me to send him a care package which contained digital camera watches, – send package through his diplomat – address to mail
    Fawzan Munkaila
    Post Office Box TL 50
    Choggu Hill Top
    Tamale
    00233
    Ghana
    00233242710638.

    I am also being scammed by Kennedy Wayne of Austin, Texas – email kennedy _wayne@ymail.com
    He has tried three times to get money from me then insults me because he gets no money from me.
    Right now is stuck in London cannot cash a check and needs to pay hotel bill to get back passport
    phone number starts with 234 – he says it is a calling card

    please let me know if anyone has been contacted by these scums.

  735. Any word on a Captain Weiss Hannett??

  736. One other thing…I sent him pictures of myself. What do you recommend I do???

  737. Hi!
    I have been scammed by Nigerian one too many time they claim them self an American citizen but this new one claim himself as American Chinese Sgt, Huynh Lucas I have a pictures of him it, who i should contact? where i can send the picture? the email address he used is; sgt.huynh@gmail.com

  738. please be aware of sgt_paul_snith202@yahoo;.com,a total scammer.pretends to b a

  739. sgt in iraq,also ronaldpeter1000@yahoo.co,.he is supposed to be the colonel,in charge
    please be careful,okay would like to hear from anyone whos had dealings with these men.they use upforit.com website

  740. Just to let everyone know I was contacted on match .com by a man claiming to be Jeffrey Repetto and sent me these attached pictures. I caught on to him pretty fast and blocked his contactes to me. The pictures you show of Marcus Movic are some of the same ones I received. I feel horrible for the man in these pictures. I hope there is a way to let him know that his pictures are being used to scam women. I hope that this will help to put a stop to these scam artist. He said he was in Iraq and about to retire after 25 years in the Army. And pledged his undying love for me after 2 days of emails. repettojeffrey11@yahoo.com was the address he used.

  741. Hello, .

    anyone heard of know of a john miller who is a leiutenant in the military based in afganistan widowed with a son in the uk london board school. have been in contact with him for 3 days now, says he is retiring from the army in two months time and will be retiring here in the uk for good. i came across an article/ video by susan hogan reporter for wpri about a woman in contact with this guy same name and photo. would be glad to hear of anyone with any information.

    thanks Mx

    • Don’t believe it. They all say they are returning soon. And their kid is with someone other then family. The soldier’s parents are both dead, they were an only child. One good advice that was give here is ask for his military email address. I f he gives you a hotmail, yahoo or any of the normaol ones, thats not it. If he says he’s not allowed he’s lying. Don’t fall for anything envolving sending him or his “son” ANYTHING.

    • Marika – do you have an email address for John Miller? I have been in contact with a man also called John Miller. Lt Colonel US Army, widower with a son age 11 in boarding school, first in new york then a day later he was in an LA school! Ring any bells? Do u have any other info?

  742. Unfort I have been in contact w/ a soldier by the name of Michael Huh. We met on a okcupid, his screen name was “sleck”. He claims to be a Master Sgt in the Air Force deployed in Korea on Osan in charge of combat readiness training. Same ole story, he’s a widower, wife died in car accident six years ago, from Duluth, GA originally from the UK. Michael is in search of someone to settle down and “retire with.” Michael has a twenty seven year old son that he uses to try to get money. The story is that his son went to Africa on business and things didnt work out, so now he’s stuck in Africa w/ no money. Beware this is a scam! He actually has his son, Derek write to you preying on your sympathies. Michael is very handsome, loving and charming, and he tells you all the things you want to hear and then some. It has taken me awhile to write this due to the fact that I was embarrassed and ashamed that I fell for a stunt like this. The thing that made this totally believable for me was that when we first started communicating in August of 2009, I did some checking and there actually was a Master Sgt Michael Huh in Korea, on Osan at the time. The story seemed to match up, so I thought I was conversing w/ him. Once he started asking for money for his son and also to stay connected to me, I became suspicious and found this site. I was in total denial at first until I did an IP address check and emails originated from Nigeria. I felt like such a fool! Michael’s email address is michaelhuh@ymail.com and his son Derek uses branded_gy @yahoo.com. I do have pics of Sgt Huh that I would like to post. Where and how can I post them? All I want to do is move on and put all this behind me. I think the saddest part of all is that the real Michael Huh (if that is really who this is) probably has no clue that he’s part of an online dating scam. I wish there was some way to contact the real man in the pics to let him know. I was foolish to fall in love w/ a man online that I had never met but I wanted to warn other woman so this wouldnt happen to them. Thanks CJ for what u all do here! It really helps women like me face the true reality of what is really going on. I appreciate u:)

  743. Ok heres one for you…this guy is on Tagged and has contacted me AGAIN…he tried his little scam a couple of weeks ago and when I started questioning him about rank, location, unit etc…he stopped all contact…idiot…anyway his email address he is sending me is bryan_smith43@yahoo.com.

  744. I have Staff Sgt. Chris Haggard on the hook right now. I had a strange feeling about his behavior and started googling his name. Lead me to here. Guess who’s pictures are on here. Vague answers to questions, no parents, no kids, wife cheated on him. The biggest problem for these guys is if you say you are from Texas, yet you don’t know the slang, then your a liar.
    CJ…some of these women have asked what can happen with the pics we’ve sent them of us. Is it possible they will use them on dating men? Also, since I have him on the hook, is there a way to catch him?

    • Dino, most likely the photos will be used for one of two purposes: 1) pretending to be women (you) to lure unsuspecting men into sending money and 2) to serve as the “wife” that died to perpetuate the widower story. They are always looking for new photos because eventually the old ones get exposed on sites like this! Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can do unless you personally travel to Nigeria or Ghana to put a bullet their heads yourself! Oh, how I wish that were a reality!

  745. Someone onced asked on here if there are any “real honest soldiers” out there. Yes there are! I have met one and I am so happy. And he’s NOT on deployment! Hang in there everyone. Just know a scammer will tell you everything your heart wants to hear over & over. They don’t have real conversations like a real friend or a date would. And even though most say they have a kid they never talk about them. They try to brainwash you.

  746. My mother has been in contact with a Andrew Tom in he Sudan same scam as all the rest. So sad she got caught up in this mess. She won’t listen to me even after showing her these pictures and comments. His email is armykeeppeace@yahoo and andrewtom4919@yahoo.com.

  747. I have pics of a scammer that I would like to post, can anyone tell me where and how I can post them. I’d really like to delete all this crap from my computer but want to post these before I do.

  748. I have pics of a wellknown scammer SGT Fred Marculy i would like to post them but don’t know how?

  749. has anybody had any contact off someone called pedrito javier? i think a friend of mine is being scammed by this person, usual stuff: he’s in the us army, (a colonel) widower, got a daughter, who is sick, needs money to get out of the army, loves my friend with all his heart, will wine her and dine her when he gets to the uk, very charming says all the right things to her, ant feed back would be greatly appreciated

    • yes i have cant give my name 2 you ,,but you need 2 warn your friend ,,he is a clever scammer nows what 2 do said he colenal fighting in war got son and daughter only talks bout daughter who was very sick with leg infection needed money ,,

      • also had me send top uo on messenger he 2 was comming 2 uk 2 see me next thing your friend will have letter saying he appointed her as benifisherer 2 all his property //please dont give bank detail or other infomation yesterday he inboxed me saying i had ruined his life and that josh was his new gf son …did your mum give him money hope not hope i can stop her b4 its to late..when we firrst got talking he had 8 months leave but wanted 2 leave after 2 wks but had 2 pay 4 leave ..would i pay then he would refund it 2 me ..he tod me he had money but sister had bank card why cant she post money ..he will be inboxing me wen he sees this he did last time ..did he send your mum i love you poem she should have 2 of him declarig his love for her she should have 4 photos 2 2 in amy uniform hope i help you and hope your mum hvnt lost any money ..i was lucky just fory pound wish i could speak 2 proply it would be better could tell u more why did you come on here he told me u commented hope u read this he is a good scammer i give him him that i fell in love with him ..its all just a con read other peoples comment his are the same army leave sick daughter etc etc get your mum away from him she be hurt by him and out of money ..take care tracy

        • hi tracy, is there any chance you could email me the pictures you have? my email address is on an earlier post, also was he talking to you on msn? asking for top ups? unfortunatly my mom got took for quiet alot of money by him, i hope he does see this post, im not scared of him, infact i’d like to see/meet him, take care J x if you do want my email address, im not afraid of putting it on here, or just ask pedrito, he’s got it lmao

    • Scammer big time no amount of money can get this fake us military member out of the Military tell your friend to drop this Scammer asap and check her security settings on her computer asap if he needs money he has access to his account at all times he has an atm card if he were real but he is a fake lazy crazy ass scamming BUM tell your friend to leave her scammer with NOTHING

  750. Be warned mlitary cupid every us army soldier that has messaged me turned out to be a scammer i have informed them i am uo too 10 profiles deleted so far

  751. Beware of a jamesstaurt@yahoo.com he is a scammer… says he is in Iraq….uses some of the same lines as others about the mother as a headmaster etc. and will ask you to send his commander (hahaha) an email to tell him you need him home as soon as possible…my guess is he will then try to get money for you to get home…I stopped it immediately as I made sure to question him about things he had told me earlier in the communication and sure enough he got his lies messed up….it is amazing how one can forget the year your wife died of cancer. i can send pictures if you email me….ladies question, question, question.

  752. Draper (alias, of course) is still out there trying to get women to send money to his children in Ghana where they are traveling and learning about Africa. His children’s names are Timmy and Nancy. He’s suppose to have been born in Denmark. He goes by Ramond Draper with raymiks6@gmail.com as one of his email adresses and raymiks6@yahoo.com as another. Actually, he wanted a MacBook & PS3 sent for Timmy’s Birthday (which just happened to be the same as my birthday which was on my post), and money sent through Western Union because they have to pay to get the package. He quoted “That’s how it works in Africa, rules must be agreed and be respected.. ” Here is the catch… I got him to give me the address to send the items to. He actually told me it was a hotel. He gave me a name of a female that is on facebook and one of the dating connections that is in Ghana. The address was: 1414 Kotobabi Street, Accra, Ghana, 00233. He told me that was the name of the manager and the address of the hotel. He also kept telling me to make sure the items were sent Express Delivery over and over and over. Of course Fedex won’t ship anything without a phone number where the package is to be delivered… that’s right…it is 233540387594. Gees the package is being mailed to a hotel and it is a rule they have to pay for the package before they can get it? I am so sick of these guys and there scams, I decided to have a little fun of my own. I actually went and purchased the items, had Fedex make up the box and paperwork as if I was going to ship it. Of course, I canceled…. but I got an actual Fedex tracking number to give this guy. Yes, it cost me some money out of my own pocket. It was worth it just to upset this guy and I believe it really caught him off balance. I can tell you he was more than just a little upset when he found out the package had been canceled. He actually thought he could keep playing the game thinking he could convince me otherwise to maybe just send money to his children to enjoy themselves. I even got out of him how he took care of things from over there… a credit card. Ok… #1 the guy has a credit card…. #2 he is obviously on a computer…… Why isn’t he taking care of this himself???? Just remember to watch what these guys say…. you can always catch them being off their game. This guy was evasive as to what camp he was at in Afghanastan until he thought he was getting a huge present. Our military personnel can tell you some things, but not everything when they are out of the USA. I also kept asking him what time it was where he was…. I had already looked up the time difference from where I was and what time it should be in Afghanistan. He never did get it right… One other thing, how often do the families and friends get to talk to these guys over there. I happened to be on vacation during this time (it was great entertainment and kept me laughing), and this guy was available almost 24 hours around the clock to chat with…. I did contact the “real” Raymond Draper, and he assured me that he was not in Afghanistan. Thank you to all of our military personell out there fighting to keep our freedom. Ladies and guys…. listen carefully to these chats, or better yet copy and past them to a word doc and go back and read them. You will be amazed at what is said from the far end.
    PL in Boise, ID

    • My mother in law is dealing with this same man right now, same exact story, however, we cannot convinve her he is a scammer. He has been having packages sent to her and I am really concerned about what to do with these packages and how to get her to understand that this man is not real!! How did you find the REAL Raymond Draper?

    • I heard the mention of Draper so i thought i would post my dealings with Charles Draper…
      Charles Draper E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG) Based in Kabul, Afghanistan, Lives in NJ, USA and York, England Aged 55
      Both parents dead, son of 12, divorced, leaving army after current tour of duty, plans to live in UK and run a jewellery business! uses email charleslingo2011@hotmail.com

      I had been writing to him after he contacted me on be2.com dating website…I am posting the first email he sent me because it is almost word for word the same as others i have read on here! Yesterday he asked me to help him asking for £1500 to release his papers and diplomat from customs in Accra…he had told me he was sending the discharge papers to me along with $2 million that he had been paid by someone in Saudi for work he had done for them…if he got caught with it he would be discharged and imprisoned! Needless to say this rang alarm bells as I had been previously scammed by a different person!

      The first email goes like this!
      .well there is a little about myself and as you already know my name is Charles and I was born a half British and half American. I am the only child of my parents but its unfortunate both my parents are no more. I joined the Military the age of 18.my mother is a British and father an American,yes we still have a family house in york and i spent most of my childhood in york with my mother until i was 22 and then i left for the states to my father.I have a home in New Jersey.My son is living with his mother also in New Jersey but in her own house!I
      I am a very Honest, Loving and caring person and love kids and animals allot, I love to eat out but also love to cook and eat in nice bottle of wine and cuddle up on the sofa together n watch a good movie and I love the outdoors come rain or shine love walking in the rain and doing silly things lol I like to go fishing, riding. walking by the sea and driving, love to travel, love the sun also love photography, I have a wonderful child who I adore so much I am strictly a 1woman man ,.
      I don’t play games as I would hate it to be done to me ( which it has been and it hurts deeply) id be the happiest if I had a woman I could care for n love totally if she’s happy then I am that’s my main concern it’s also nice to have your own space to do things on our own whether is just curling up with a good book or just chilling out for a while listening to some music, I like all kinds of music but not into rap.lol..
      I like to look good at all times but I am not into the mirror 24/7 if you look good you feel good n it shows you take pride in yourself, I can adapt to most situations and I can bring myself to nearly all levels of communication, love meeting people n talking and no matter what age or raciest respect my elders and I expect to have it returned, I treat all people the same I have no distinctions.
      About my marital status was once married some years ago and I have a son 12 years of age, I love him very much and he is all I have now, my relationship with my ex-wife was very comfortable and things were moving on for us until she finally decided to have an affair behind my back. I was really hurt by the way my ex attitude was and never thought she could do anything like that.
      I did loosed total affection for women until recently when I sat down and realized that I was wrong about my decision and that I had to move on with my Life. I am willing to have a happy life again and I am looking for a nice and caring woman, who is responsible, loving, honest and is willing to be my soul mate as well as someone i can call my own, I need someone who is ready to commit..I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
      , I am currently stationed in Kabul , the capital of Afghanistan.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Afghanistan and I have already spent 10 months here in Afghanistan.My son lives with my ex in New Jersey. I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 2 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored but we can talk at msn and send email if only you will be fine with that .Hope this finds you well can’t wait to hear from you back
      Take care and have a nice day
      Charles

      I’m sure many reading this will recognise the chat!
      I have a lot more information of emails and names that have been mentioned over the past week and will happily forward them along with images he is using too
      Susie

  753. Here it is……after 1 week he needs a computer…..LOL

    Hello my love,
    How are you doing?I everything is well wid ya.Well i wanted to chat wid ya on Skype but you were not online so i decided to E mail you wid the information that you can help ya to send the laptop.
    This is the diplomat address.He is in Ghana now to bring some packages to the Ghanaian soldiers so you can send it to him so that he can bring it along when he is coming back to the camp.

    Name:Rexford Addo Yeboah.
    Country:Ghana.
    City:Accra.
    Zipcode:00233
    Street address:independence avenue,street11.Osu

    I hope you get me now Love ya always and never forget that.

    Staff Sergeant Thomas S Morrison (Carson)

  754. New names for you : christopher.logan45@yahoo.com, sgt in Iraq, usual story wife and parents dead, 10 yr old son Micheal tammylogan54@yahoo.com in military school Paris, best friend jeffreysnipper@yahoo.com consoling a grieving girlfriend after Christopher’s plane fell out of the sky on it’s way to an airport to drop Christopher off to meet his Internet girlfriend after she transferred £1000 through Western Union to pay for his flight. Christopher luckily survived but needs major leg surgery according to his doctor godownslife56@yahoo.com who informed girlfriend that it would cost £6000. Funnily enough the cell phone number is still active!!

    Meanwhile, same lady is chatting to hernandezjoel1@hotmail.com,hernandezjoel2010@googlemail.com who sent all the “official forms” for her to fill in requesting leave, signed at the bottom by Robert Gonzalez, consequently this has not been done. Money needs to be transferred to
    Name: Mrs Sylvia Joan Hennessy
    Bank Name: NATIONWIDE
    SORT CODE: 07 02 46
    ACCOUNT No: 11570766

    Obviously once bitten twice shy!!

  755. Wow I found this site by investigating on Sgt Patrick McDonald I am so glad it didn’t get as far as sending money to him and to be honest not that I would. I would think for all the work and good he has been doing for his country he wouldn’t be asking me for no money. This douche bag dum he said he is 43yrs old when I saw in other places he is 50 if your gonna pretend to be someone at lease get there age right. I decided to do my web investigation after he email me a letter that rose up red flags to me but I went along till I found out for sure. That he loves me already we only been talking 2 days now wtf ladies I now we looking for these amazing Military men and like me single mom looking for him too but we really have 2 be very careful I asked him to web cam with me lets see what he said or the excuse he will give me will keep u posted.

  756. quick note to people, if someone by the name of pedrito javier, cotacts u, drop him like a ton of bricks, he’s a scammer after your money, he is using col.328@live.com ive got all the proof i need to be able to say he is a SCAMMER

  757. POSSIBLE NEW SCAMMER ALERT – I was contacted on tagged.com by a MARK LEWIN, currently stationed in Balad, IRAQ, soon going on a peace keeping mission to Egypt and should be “home” in Elgin, IL by December. He mentioned having an 8 yr old daughter and a wife that died from cancer 6 yrs ago. Of course I was immediately skeptical and started asking questions. He referred me to his facebook account to see more pictures – http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001857383400&sk=wall

    Of course this just happened 2 hours ago so no money has been asked for. He did mention he is looking for a serious relationship once he gets home. He speaks very good english and is very current with the current lingo with today’s chats so it might make you question if he is a scammer or not, but he definitely fits the bill. I will continue talking to him and try to get more info so I can warn the women on his tagged and facebook pages.

    If anyone else comes across a Mark Lewin – email face2u@ymail.com (IP from Sunnyvale, CA), please let me know so I can add it to my list.

    • UPDATE: After a few conversations with “Mark Lewin”, he never asked for money but he was very insistant about us being in a “relationship” – when I expressed my concerns and told him I read about a site about scammers (playing to be completely innocent), I asked him questions and he got very defensive. He told me he could not be in a relationship with a woman who did not trust him and he was “tired of these talks” – lol I told him I knew what he was up to and I had already reported to to the women on his facebook page. He told me he does not have prove himself to me and was insulted that I thought he was a scammer. Right away he said he needed to “go offline” – he immediately deleted his facebook page and blocked me from his tagged page. I guess he realized I was not naive enough to believe his scam!! lol

    • @ Kimmie this is a Scammer Sunnyvale California is where yahoo is located thats why the ISP is showing up as Sunnyvale Ca go click on full headers and Im sure it will tell you where this scammer really is which is Nigeria just listen carefully and watch for his lies and they have gotten smart they kno we are on to them so they know not to beg for money right away a REAL US service member will not need any money nor assistance from you for anything the US Military takes care of its own.

      • How do you find the full headers? the IP address I am trying is also coming up as in sunnydale.

        • it is coming up as Sunnyvale california because that is where yahoo is located go to yahoo and ask this question it gives u clear instructions on how to find full headers in the emails also if it still shows Sunnyvale california you know the scammer is using a proxy to block his real email address remember US Military does not use free email accounts also US military members will never need to ask you for money for any reason because the US Military takes care of its own so do NOT fall for a sob story check out romancescam.com

  758. I am so glad I found this site. The scammer communicating with me is going by the name Ben Haggard, using the email address of benharggard@yahoo.com. Too many things were not right. I should have checked out the rank on the picture of his uniform sooner, that was what had me convinced I was not communicating with the soldier in the pictures. It was not the same rank as he claimed. And sure enough that picture is on this site. He sent me a few other pictures that are not shown here also. Thank you so much for this site. It would be great if you could some how get the dating sites to add a link to here as it would greatly save alot of women from falling for these scams. Thanks again for this site.

  759. jamesward3471@yahoo.com is another scammer. Found him on plenty of fish. Sent me pictures – he is supposed to be a senior staff sargent in the marines. Been in marines for 28 yrs. Is a widow – wife died in car accident – has a 11 yr old son who lives with his grandfather. James Ward was born in Italy – his parents are his heros. Mom passed away – only the dad is left and is taking care of the 11 yr old. Supposed to be coming home soon (which is brookpark, OH). I talked with this guy for over 2 months – didn’t realize he was not real. Said all the right things, his language in e-mails didn’t give me any red flags. Then he told me that the communication satellite at his marine base in Iraq got blown up by the enemy – and that he wanted me to set up a telephone connection for $200 (refundable to me of course). When i told him that i was going to call the Marine base here to check it out – e-mails tapered a bit. Then read a Readers Digest article about dating someone online and the searches you should do. Thus i came upon this site.

    I’m grateful that this site exists. I wish there was some way to contact the real James Ward – it is unfair that he is being exploited.

    • Hi Linda I was chatting with James Ward, also. Some of the info he gave you was the same as he gave me about his wife dying in a car accident and his son living with his grandfather. He told me his father lived in Virginia and he had lived in Elyria, Ohio. But he told me he was born in Hawaii..what a liar. I know he is Nigerian…he goes under several different names.
      When I first chatted with him he said he was in Iraq, then went to Nigeria, then Italy. I feel for the “real person” James Ward who has been taken advantage of, as well. And how can a man take so advantage of so many innocent women?
      I believe so much in the beginning, then things just weren’t making sense and all he wanted from me was money and all I got was broken promises. I’m thankful for this site, also. It’s still very hard to deal with what he has done to me.

  760. How do I post photos of “Mark Lewin” for others to be aware of?

  761. Hi , I was contacted by Bob Jenkins who claims to be a sgt in Afghanistan.. He ask me for money so he could come and visit me….Like this….
    “Sergeant Bob Jenkins leave anytime you wish to. You are advised to send your full names and contact address for verification. You should also be aware that, during this transit process, you are going to remit some amount of money to our finance department, which depends on the period of transit you wish you apply for, below is the price listing:

    $ 1000 For a Month
    $1,500 For four Months, and one week
    $2,000 For life Marriage

    For order a release from duty (this is an order to be out of service) , especially for officers who wants to get married, or wants to go home finally to their family, then you have to pay some fund. This will be return to you as soon as your fiancee safe arrivals have been confirmed. You are advise to send us your full details of information which will be in our file for references and your fiancee will come to sign for the fund claim back on an interview Once you provide us with this information you are no longer anonymous to us (We) protect your privacy. We do not insist you to provide extra personal information than necessary. All information collected will not be used for any illegal activity. The information is what we are going to use in registration of your name with the Military Transit Department.

    Regards,

    Lt Col Robert Friedman.
    Multi-National Corps – Afghanistan
    Public Affairs Office, Camp Tillman.
    APO AE 09342

    I don not tend not to be blue-eyed and naive, but this surpasses everything .I really do not like this kind of dating scams is awful.. I do hate it and i wanted to share my experience.. So be careful everyone..

  762. I have been scammed by a supposed U.S. Army Sergeant named Lionel Miller. Someone else is using his identity and photos to pretend to be him. He is supposedly stationed in Kabul or Kandahar, Afghanistan and claims to leaving his tour of duty at the end of October. Does any one have any information about his man?

  763. Just starting talking with him. Even gave me the phone number of his “son” to talk with since he told him all about me. 217-650-7136. Seemed kind of strange that it’s an Illinois phone but his son supposedly lives in Florida. Felt uncomfortable with questions asked, so I came across this website. To me he was sgt. chris knight in Baghdad. His screen name is sgt romeo knight @yahoo.com. He used several of the pictures I have seen above. Met him on a free weekend of Christian Mingle. BEWARE. Hopefully others are smart enough to find this website. It did take us a while to come across it. This is what he sent me.

    My name is Chris knight.I was born on the 16th of August, 1961 at Baptist Hospital of California. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.
    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.
    My children lives in Miami. I have full custody of them. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting them to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 3 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time. Will like you to also send me some pictures of you too.Take care.
    I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words
    Have a good day.
    Hugs,
    chris knight

    • Hi! I think that your Chris Knight may be my Hadi Moro who was due to return from Iraq Oct. 16th to come to me. Some of the story is exact what I was told. Up until yesterday night, I was planning to send $2500 to help him and I really thought he love me…I am beside myself right now. Please email photos to: terrigraham4u@yahoo.com. I will send back my photos. Thanks!

  764. Hello All, this site is a great service to everyone and thank you for having it available. I was contacted by “Chris Haggard, Staff Sargeant, US Army”, who appears on this blog as Robert Haggard. Claims he is in Iraq for another month and is from Bedford, TX. Most of his writings are well articulated, but I had the feeling that he was copying and pasting into Yahoo! Messenger. And, imagine my surprise when I see above some of the same words and pictures he wrote to me. I have to be grateful he used the same photos and names and that our first communication was just yesterday. I will be forwarding the emails and pics on to the host of this site.

  765. I just found out 2 days ago that the soldier I have fallen completely in love with doesn’t know I’m alive. Yes..they got me good. I fell for the scam even though I noticed strange things..I guess I so wanted it to be true my mind blocked them out. The pictures of the soldier they used is on thie site under the name Robert Bill Haggard. Only when they talked to me his name was John Haggard. They even created a facebook page for this poor guy. Not only did they scam me out of over $2000.00 I am heart broken…I honestly feel like I lost a true love. I know this is so stupid..and now I feel like such a fool…but I look at his pictures and I cry cause I really fell for this guy. I traced the emails and they come from a guy named Johnathan Johnson from Ghana. There is also someone else where I sent money. The address is ACH-MKT PO Box 1166 Ghana Accra West Africa
    If this helps anyone I’ll feel a little better. I know what they say…if I learned something then it wasn’t completely in vain. I will never fall for another romance scam that’s for sure. :)

  766. I have two scammers aswell the one cmdtjones@yahoo.com spoke with him a few times and then wanted money for a phone sent me pmt details from a Gen Peatreaus Communication Department Kabul money to be sent to Katrina Renee Guthrie FL Jacksonville 32206 USA through Western Union, but he became so insistent that i decided i will not talk to him again, i also talked with perez_cabrera200@yahoo.com this went on for a bit longer as i really like him, divorced a boy 13 year old called him Junior living with his maid in US then he wanted me to email his general for leave sothat he could come and visit me to let me know how much i mean to him and how serious he was, he sent me a millitary looking letter aswell but it turned out he wante me to pay for his flight as he had no access to his bank account, told him i will have to think about it, so i contacted the US Army recruitment Ask A Soldier wanting to know why he would not have access to his banking details, the let me know it was a scam, and if i wanted to make sure 100% to ask him for his MOS, so i asked this and got told do you want me killed, i cannot give you this info over the net, then all of a sudden he got an email from his son saying they are running out of money so now the need was urgent for him to get home and go and sort out his son as he only provided for them for 5 months, I think he was getting desperate as he told me he was undercover and that is why the people i contacted would not tell me anything, but then he said please not for me for my son then, so i asked for his address and phone number of his son, and he gave it to me but please do not show anyway cause he can be killed or worse end up in jail as he is not allowed to share this with me and if it ever came out he will hunt me down!!! So i used the wonderful tool of google map and found his address and googled walked on his street and guess what if you lood under white pages and click the find a neighbour type in the address the actual names of the residents comes up it has nothing to do with perez, so i have contacted this site in the US again asking what are they going to do about it as i have their real names and home address, so am still waiting for a reply. I also think it is disgusting that they can get away with it. They both found me through netlog my first instincts were to cancel my account but now i will stay on there and get these b**tards! I intend to visit the facebook page tonight and see if i can upload their photos.

  767. Hi i have been contacted by a Troy turner and a David edwards both claim to be stationed in Kabul Afghanistan i am just wondering if anyone knows if they are scammers. and how do i check to see if they are for real?
    thanks Brenda

    • so i was able to check the IP address and both are coming from Nigeria. It angers me that our soldiers names are being used by these people who do not value people or their lifes. it was the use of broken English that made me curious. any way 2 more names to add to the list. oh ya it was on zoosk that they found me.

    • google IPTracker.com this site will help you find out if your “friend” is where they say they are, more than likely they are n Lagos Nigeria. Watch out for Tom Wedel aka Wedel Thomas

  768. I was contacted by Sgt Rede Thomas – sgt.redethms@yahoo. His IPs are coming up Sunnyvale. He is supposedly in Jalalabad – i knew pretty quickly i was being scammed as he wouldn;t give me an address for me to send him something and then he started saying his son is extremely ill with RSV, which is not that serious, and he has to pay out $8000 every 3 months for his treatments. After 2 weeks of communicating he finally asked for the money. He’s short on the payment, has a problem with his credit card and cannot work something out with the hospital and wanted me to send the additional funds so his son could receive treatment. Does anyone know how we can find out who the pictures actually belong to? I feel these service men should know how they are being used.

  769. In addition, he started out saying he wants to come home but needs a fiance or wife to write a letter to the discharge officer to get him discharged! And that he was going to have to pay the discharge officer a fee!

  770. A man named Gary Pires has contacted me through my face book. I was skeptical because at the time I had my face book set to only friends of friends and he and I had no friends in common.

    I am sure this is a scam, but what bothers me even more is the face of the soldier he is using. I have tons of photos of him form the FOB Camp Falcon. My fear is either this is a real man who does not know his photos are being used, or a fallen soldier, this later disgusts me the worst! So far I am still trying to milk him for more information. I want the real soldier, whoever it may be to know that someone out there is using his photo to “fall in love” with women all over the world. I am embarrassed to have fallen for this and thankful not to have given anything financially or materially to him, but I will never get back the hours I spent talking to him and being wooed. I cannot for the life of me believe there is nothing more we can do. This man wanted to marry me and be a step a father to my kids who subsequently wrote to him and drew pictures for him……..after all in my mind a lonely soldier in Iraq doing his duty would enjoy the innocence of a child as a pick me up. Fool me, but mess with my kids and now I am mother bear and will stop at nothing to expose you and keep you from hurting others.

    I am sending a link to a sight with 6 pages of fooled women from this man, and it has been going on for over 2 years. Does he military really want photos of their bases being passed around? Do they want a dedicated soldiers photo being used in such a shameless act? I cannot believe with the photos I have and the hometown information he is using ( photos of him at home in his fire station) that this man cannot be found and told unless he is indeed a fallen soldier.
    http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=21341

    This is preposterous with all the technology we have, someone should be able to help get this squared away. I won’t stop until I have it stopped it.
    Please do what you can to help me to help others I have posted at the site I gave you a link to, but there are dozens of photos of this man in Iraq, is that really safe for him, or the men he works with? Here is what he has posted on his face book that he messaged me from:

    About Pires:My name is Gary and I call home in Alliance, Ohio. I am a Combat Firefighter currently contracted in Ba’Qubah, Iraq, 30 miles north of Baghdad. I am proud to protect those protecting our Country! It is my contribution to 9/11. The job these men and women are doing is simply incredible! They believe in the USA and their mission. I have left my good friends behind and I appreciate all of them for their support. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! I belong to two Fire Departments back home. One volunteer (LFD)and one paid (NFJFD). I hope to be called back to a third that is currently stuggling with finances (BFD). I am a Police Officer for a very understanding Village nearby. They are also in support of me and what I am doing. And for my fellow Firefighters and the Chief at LFD, thank you! Keep things rolling there for all of you are in my thoughts daily! I keep busy and love it! I love the risk involved. I am good under pressure. I am a very passionate about the Fire Service and find it pleasantly challenging. I am told I am funny, quick witted and sarcastic with a dirty joke once in a while. I don’t believe in playing games with people. I tell people how it is and how I feel. I won’t waste your time as long as you don’t waste mine. I am not needy but would like to be needed again someday. If that sounds good to you, drop me a line!

    https://www.facebook.com/piresg1?sk=wall

    Seriously do you want to let someone use the most tragic event in our history to woo women and make a mockery of the event.
    Please get back to me anyone so I can know how to go about making sure no one else falls for this.

    You know you never want to believe too good to be true is just that. I don’t want to be a jaded person, I like to believe that there are good people in the world…….it is just the evil ones like this one that make it harder and harder. And he came to me out of now where on FB, I was not even looking……and had it private…….anyone else Run into this man, please look at the link where they have been trying to expose him now for 2 long years!!! He has at lest another 25 names, emails and identities.

    • Here are a few of the names and e-mail addresses used by Gary Pires pires_gary@yahoo.com, I am sick to think I fell for this, grrrrrrrr
      Max Johnson ..maxjohnson1935@hotmail.com
      Steven Young Stephen_Young_123@yahoo.com
      Gary Lusio garylusio@yahoo.com
      Gary.search46@yahoo.com
      Kelvin4046@yahoo.com
      Trueone90@yahoo.com
      Captain Howard Alksninis captHowardAlksninis@yahoo.com
      Kenneth Woodson
      Jefferey Blair
      Alaric Michaelis
      James smith
      Gary Howard
      David Arnold
      Garygo4glinker@hushmail.com
      Son Michael 12 in Mayalsia with your mom
      Daughter Yvonne 22 in textiles
      Son Randy 18 studying medicine in West Africa
      Son, Dennis and Daughter Ellah in England with his mom
      He lost his wife about 6 years ago to a drunk driver.
      Yep, I would say this fits the bill
      I do not see any of his photo here I am happy to send them in hopes of finding the real owner of them, katiejh68@gmail.com

      • lt.garys@yahoo.com can be added to your list.. I have emailed the real Gary Search.. nice guy , too bad that someone is using his name…

      • Gary Pires has to facebook pages… using pictures from the real Gary Search. I did report them to face book..

    • Kate, he also goes my Gary Search. I have been in contact with the real Gary Search, he is fully aware that this scum is using his pictures and information. he got it from a myspace web page, and the pictures he is using are over 6 yrs old..

  771. I am chatting online with 2 soldiers. Their names are Anthony Logan and Lail W. Donovan or Donavon. Can you tell me if they’re real US Army soldiers like they say they are.

  772. “Hi,
    I wonder whether any of you has ever heard of one of the folloning names. I suspect they are fake US Army pilots. Lt-Col. JaKe Sean Dowell (supposedly of US Army Air Base in Germany) and Major Brian Washington (on duty in Afghanistan.
    Thanks !

    by Miranda Hessley-Cooper on Apr 13, 2011 at 10:31 am”

    Hi Miranda,

    I guess I know a person named Col. Sean Dowell. What do you know about him? Why do you think he is fake US Army pilot?

    • Hello !

      I think I also know these two persons Sean Dowell and Brian Washington . Can you tell me what do you know about them please ?

      Thank you

  773. Has anyone heard from a Mark Smith, marine stationed in Islamabad? May also be known as Brogan Smith. Child called Harry?

  774. Hi

    I would like to know whether a Derrick Mills a US military Sergeant deployed in Afhan exists and also an ex military man I dont know what rank but he is currently claiming he is in Accra-Ghana Africa his name is Marvin Newkricks.I have been scammed by these two jokers for $2000 and I want to have concrete evedence if these guys identitites have commited identity frued.

  775. I had a man by the name of John Gruver (John Craig Gruver he says) wink at me on Match.com four months ago. He sent me pics of himself in his uniform and his squad (Ramos squad) and says he is stationed in Camp Anaconda, Iraq. He said they are all men but I see five women in the pic. At first he did not ask for money but did tell me he was falling for me within a few weeks. At the time I was a widow of 9 months and now feel that is why he hit on my profile. You know naive and vulnerable. His story has led to the sound the same as a lot on here. Unfortunately he got me for 4300. I feel so stupid now. I am still talking with him and he does not know that I am on to him. I was starting to really fall for this guy until my gut instinct told me something was wrong. Too bad I didn’t realize this before I sent money. He said his b-day was 6-7 and that he would like something for his b-day. When I sent him a small pkg with just a few cheap items he got upset that I didn’t send him a digital camera that was 900. I sent a few cheap items for the “orphans” that he says he visits. He also says he is an E7 SSG and I know that E7 is SFC in the Army. The address and pkg I sent went to Jonathon Kayikah, PO Box 1844 Achimota-MKT, Accra Ghana. When I questioned him about this he said the guy delivered mail to the base and it would arrive faster. Then he said that he sent his pkg with his uniform, papers, and a few other things to me but it ended up in Ghana customs where it cost the supposed 4300. total. He says he has spoken to the former UN secretary and has now asked me to email him, the UN secretary, at johnrenteria12@yahoo.com to talk to him personally about getting the pkg here as the new man who was supposed to bring it, Major Brent or Mr Frederick Toppar, one and the same, who emails me from retiremajor@yahoo.com was supposed to bring it here. When I asked why these are yahoo emails and not gov or military emails he is very vague. I am still talking to him and expecting him to ask for more money because he was supposed to come home on 8-28 and now says that his C/O had to take a mission somewhere and will be back next week to let them leave. I did not hear from him for the last two weeks when I told him I would not send anymore money and then the day before yesterday he emailed me again and says he was on a security mission but is now back. I know he thinks he will get me again but my sister told me about this site and I couldn’t believe the similarities of the stories here. I have tried to find his IP address in all of the emails and cannot get them. No numbers are ever listed under the header or anywhere else on the emails. His email is john.gruver005@yahoo.com. He says he doesn’t use his military email because he doesn’t want them to be able to see into our letters to each other. He sends poems that he says he writes but I have found them all online. Now I am playing along with him like nothing is amiss to see what is coming next. He almost made me lose everything I have because my husband did not have insurance. I am sure that he thinks I have money but swears that he loves me and will help me when he gets home. I don’t know how to upload these photos to this site but if anyone else has heard of this one please let me know. I’m pissed, hurt and ashamed that I was taken like this and don’t want it to happen to anyone else. I wish I knew who the real Gruver is in the photos because he does have his name on his uniform. He is sooo smooth and sometimes makes me doubt myself but there is too much here that is not right. My friends are even confused about it all because he is very good at how he talks to me. Anything would be helpful if anyone knows of this guy. He also talks with a slight accent and is from BEDFORD, TX. His parents were supposedly killed in a car wreck coming back from a wedding in Germany where they were stationed. He says he will tell me everything when he gets here and is vague about answering my questions. When I do question him he has to go offline. He starts his emails with HELLO and ends with bye for now. Always the same with the Major Brent fellow.

    • Ok John Gruver is a scammer but the soldier in the pic has to be the real Gruver. I traced the address to Ghana and I have confronted him and have not heard from him since. I also found him on Match.com the very next day with almost the same exact profile and different pics. When I winked at him he winked back but now his profile is unavailable. Same repeat pattern so if he has found another target his profile name on Match is show_luv_care and this is the profile. God its almost exactly word for word as the first scammer.

      48 year old man
      Bedford, Texas, United States
      seeking women 42-53
      within 100 miles of Bedford, Texas, United States
      Relationship:
      Divorced
      Have kids:
      No
      Want kids:
      No, but it’s OK if my partner has kids
      Ethnicity:
      White / Caucasian
      Body type:
      About average
      Height:
      5’11″ (180cms)
      Faith:
      Christian / Other
      Smoke:
      No Way
      Drink:
      Social Drinker
      • You winked at each other.
      • He added new photo(s).
      • Gardening is something you both enjoy.

      SEND NOW
      ABOUT HIM & WHO HE’S LOOKING FOR
      I am elegant, sensitive, gentle, optimistic, romantic, charming, independent man. For me the main thing in a life is: love, family, the house and harmony. I would describe myself as a person with a cheerful and jolly nature, optimistic and positive outlook on life, a person who faces all the hardships with a smile on his face. I am accurate, home person, a good hostess. It is easy for me to communicate and fast to make a friend to.
      I am very interesting and many -sided man . I am fond of music ,reading, theater, dancing and traveling. I like pets and have a cat. I have a tender heart.
      Need partner: 42-53 years old
      I hope to meet a realized, self-confident, intelligent woman with a sense of humor, successful, a person who leads an active way of life.
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      Interests:
      Alumni connections, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Volunteering
      Sports and exercise:
      Auto racing / Motorcross, Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Dancing, Inline skating, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
      Exercise habits:
      Exercise 5 or more times per week
      Pets:
      I like Dogs
      Political views:
      Middle of the Road
      Sign:
      Don’t display my sign
      College:
      I’ll tell you later
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      ABOUT… HIM HIS DATE
      APPEARANCE:
      Height: 5’11″ (180cms) 3’0″ (91cms) to 8’11″ (272cms)
      Body type: About average No preference
      Eyes: Hazel No preference
      Hair: Black No preference
      LIFESTYLE:
      Smoke: No Way No preference
      Drink: Social Drinker No preference
      Occupation: Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military No preference
      Income: $100,001 to $150,000 No preference
      Relationship: Divorced No preference
      Have kids: No No Answer
      Want kids: No, but it’s OK if my partner has kids No preference
      BACKGROUND/VALUES:
      Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
      Faith: Christian / Other No preference
      Languages: English English
      Education: High school No preference

      Notice the occupation is the same. This profile is almost exactly what the other one for John Gruver was but a few words have been changed. I wish I could upload the pics and if anyone knows how I would love to let you all see them so you will know these two. Notice how he describes himself and his likes and also only a high school education with a high income in the gov’t field which he said was military. I am so glad I have found this site now its my turn to play and I am looking them up as I go. This time it was very easy to spot and almost immediately after I told him off he was back online.

  776. Haggard, is now going by the name of Joe Haggard. His current email address is trp.dpld@ymail.com. i just started communicating with him yesterday and something just didn’t feel right. I met him on Match.com and within 2 hours of talking he was asking me to remove my profile from view…. so I went on an internet search today.

    In addition to the photos that are currently on this site, he’s using a couple of new ones. Is there someone I can send them to or a way to post them here?

    • Dena,
      He is now going by Joseph Robles (Joe Robles) lives in Bedford, Texas. Fortunately he did not get anything from me.
      Sorry

  777. I have had more then I can count of guys claiming the are military email me asking me for something. The first one told me it was his birthday and asked if I can send him a Blue Berry. Two others asked me to send money so he can come home early. Others asked me to send them money so they can call me. Some of the names are: Christopher Witt , Cptronald Smith , , robert_troxarmy@yahoo.com. They have all asked me to send them money for something. They fed me also that they love me, and they can not be with out me, they want to be with me for ever. I am not stupid enough to fall for that. But after reading this web sight I am going to be extra careful.

  778. I have met this person in 2007, he said that his name was Will, never asked for any money but kept appearing and disappearing, then one day disappeared for 7 months. 7 months later his “brother” Jake appeared, said that Will was killed by KGB in DC, car accident, that “Will ” was a CIA. Never saw Will’s pic, used to call me from an Unknown number. That Jake disappeared 6 months later, supposedly he’s a Special Forces Marine/CIA. Saw a pic but not sure if it was his. His “brother” Bob appeared 3 months later, also CIA/Marine (???), disappeared a month later, appeared 3 months later. They used to say that they had to leave for their Marine “Mission” and could not tell anyone. Saw a pic, not sure if it was his, had a prepaid phone number. then he disappeared for 2 years and appeared in July of this year, fed me with the “CIA Mission” story. “Jake” also appeared. Then they both left for a “Mission” and I talked to their “sister” for a month. I asked “her” for a phone number, did not give it to me. They say that they live at Marine Base in NC, that her husband is a Navy Seal (???). She pretended that she had an appendix surgery in Washington DC 3 weeks ago and I have not heard from them since then. They never asked me for money but that Jake person asked me to “marry” him (???)

  779. These guys think they are so smooth. I have one on the string right now who claims that he was born and raised in the U.S. living his life in New York. His englsih skills are poor and he doesn’t understand American terms. He claims that he is CPT Jeff Haggard Lopez. A friend of mine was also contacted by this guy he claimed that he was Cpt Haggard and that Lopez was a private. I have several pictures if you’d like me to send them off to you.

  780. I AM VERY SCARED TO POST AS NEVER KNOW SCAMMERS CHECK ON THIS WEBSITE AS I NEED YOUR BIG HELP AS I AM VICTIM FOR THREE MONTHS ALREADY I CHANGED EMAIL ADDRESS IS VERY MORE PRIVATE WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU SAID MY EMAIL ADDRESS WILL NOT BE PUBLISHED AND I CANT PUT MY REAL NAME I WANT TO SAY THANK TO GABY BUT I STILL WAIT FOR HER REPLY NO LUCK AND GET HELP AND SHARE WITH ME ….. I RESEARCH FOR US ARMY CRIMINAL INVESTIGATE DIVISON WHERE I CAN FIND ASAP….

  781. does anyone ever chat with steve england i dont know if he is fake or not
    his email is lovelysteve2011@hotmail.com or lovelysteve2012@hotmail.com

    • i believe steve england is also the jordan person goes by many different first names surname jordan his picyure is at athe start of this site (steve england )if u want to send me pics i can confirm for u i had loads of him just to let u no incase it is him the real man is in usa in army he is pictured receiving awards 2 months ago and sj on here confirmed it there is a mess about it on here hope it helps

  782. I am from Australia, and joined the site…Tagged! To cut a long story short, was scammed by a so called US soldier Johnny Reeves email j_reeves72@rocketmail.com, luckily for me i would never hand over money to a total stranger no matter the connection, tho i can understand how people can get sucked into doing just that. BEWARE OF TAGGED it is full of Nigerian Romance Scammers, fake US army soldiers, i now have my eyes wide open!

  783. Hi, I have just been scammed by someone using the name of ” CAPTAIN MARK DENIS JORDAN” of the US Airforce. I am so embarrassed to say i fell head over heals in love with these “pictures” i was sent along with loads of lovely letters and poems. He was supposidly in Afghanistan since November 2010, and had 2 children Susan aged 12 and Samuel aged 8,who both lived with his sister Kate in Italy due to his job, i received pictures of him with his kids, he lost his wife to cancer in 2005 and had a relationship with a woman who cheated on him while he was on duty and finished with her in 2008. I had been getting messages left on “Badoo” website for me to please contact him on his Yahoo address which is mark.denis86@yahoo.com and also mark.denis86@hotmail.com. He asked me to download yahoo so i did and that is where he made contact with me night and day for over 2 weeks being an absolute gentleman and i fell madly in love with him. I was asked by him to write to his commander asking for leave for him and i was to tell him that i was Mark’s Fiancee and that i wanted him with me ASAP and i had to send email to col.commanderjoecruz@armymail.com. Commander Joe Cruz sent me emails confirming that he had sent my request to the appropriate department and it was being dealt with. I was getting my lover home!! We were going to marry and live in Paris where he was looking to retire and start his own business by buying a hotel. He was from LA California, although when i saw his profile it said he lived in London then it was changed to California. He still had a house there and an even bigger house in Italy but wanted to start a new life in Paris after 21 years in the army he was retiring. He asked me to come and live with him and wanted us to be together and in Paris for Christmas. I was in love. Until i received “documents” HA! HA! from department of defence, which had spelling mistakes galore and crap english on it which was the first time i was suspicious then i got the price list for getting my “husband” home and it was thousands of pounds but the icing on the cake was the instructions not to involve any third party. I was gutted !!!! i started searching for scams with the US Airforce and thank god for this site! You had a very small picture of “My Captain” i was devastated, my heart had been broken again. My whole life blown away by me looking for clues to see if Mark was for real. You might find it hard to believe but i had fallen in love with the guy in this picture who’s surname was “JORDAN” and he was in the US Airforce. I now feel so sorry for the poor guy in the pictures i have because he is being used as much as i was. If you ever hear from the real mr “Jordan” tell him i said hi. Please email me if you want all the pictures i have of CAPTAIN MARK DENIS JORDAN of the US AIRFORCE. I think you have to show as many pictures as possible as people do not have the time to read all the stories. Thanks for all your help CJ xx

    • we have the same person i still talking to him right now his name is capt barry ricky jordan lovely pics same story moving to live and retire in scotland start own business how sad !

    • please send me some of your photos to susan7441@live .co.uk i need to no if we have the same person i would be very grate ful

    • has anyone came across this scam yet he is on cupid as paulprme vet nurse in nigeria wanting to relocate has add is paul-robert35@live .com his start up message at http://www.vetrobert.com all false was going well till asked today for money to help when i said had no money he dissappeared just to let u all no this was a new one to me

  784. Hi, I am from Germany (sorry for my terrible English). Someone using the name of ” MAYOR GENERAL JON J. MILLER “ (gen.jonmiller@yahoo.com) is scamming me right now. I have my eyes wide open, too because he wants to deliver me by a diplomat 2.500.000 $ in a brief case. The diplomat wants to contact me today by email. His first mail reached me 20. September 2011. The ending of the mail was: Yours Sincerely Army Major General Jon J. Miller.
    He could find my profile at allpenpals.com. He sent me a picture you can easily copy from the internet. I put his name on google and there I found a lot of pictures and one video and first I thought he is real. All the things he wrote to me were very nice and I thought he has a good character. Till yesterday he actually sent all about 10 Mails to me. He told me in his second mail, that his wife had died 5 years ago by plane crash and he has 4 children in Scottsdale Arizone. He wants to come to Germany soon (before October ending) and he wanted me to buy a good house for me and him and marry me. He wants to send a diplomat courier to deliver a brief case to me with a “fund” a “treasure” about 2.500.000.- $. He wanted me to buy a good house with this money and put the rest on the bank. I should do everything the diplomat ask me to do and I have to tell the diplomat that I am his wife to be!!! I am not allowed to talk to anybody about this!!!
    “I have just some few time for my resignation and I just came on to find if I will find a good sense of humor partner and so luckily I found you. i will meet you in Germany soon.” This is a short part of one email…..
    I am so happy that I found this side and also some special details of scamming in the internet by faked generals or soldiers from the US Army at the right time before I hurt myself very bad!!! And I am very sad about this I cannot understand how people are able to do this to other people. I hope they will get their penalty by God! Lots of women believe this kind of rubbish and I will break lots of lonely hearts like mine. Thank you very very much for this internet side!

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  785. I just met Major Albert Kline on Lavalife. Anyone can help me to check he is a scammer or not…He said that he is an assistant commander of 2671st Special Reconnaissance Battalion Eagger’s Camp Kabul Afganistan.

    Thanks for all your help…

  786. Hello. I am heartbroken…I met a man on Seniorpeoplemeet.com. On that site his handle is MYYTIME234. His email address is godiva234@yahoo.com. He goes by the name of Hadi Moro to me anyway. On this site I have seen his pictures he sent to me. (My heart sunk when I saw them on this site) Above these messages are photos posted, his are posted quite a few times. This site says he goes by or has gone by the name of John Palmas. He told me that he was in IRAQ for last 10 months, due to come home Oct 16th, 2011. He told me he was I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military. He told me that he had been in the military for 15 years and was going to retire. Just this week, Monday, he told me that a diplomat took his belongings to ship to me in advance. He was planning to fly here next month to McChord Airforce base to stay with me. I truley believed he was real. I fell hard for him and he sent me such beautiful emails and we IM’d daily 2 to 4 hours a day. I was preparing for him to come home to me. A couple of days ago when I did not hear a word from him I started to worry since he told me he is on the battle field and just a few days before had missed 2 bullets. I contacted the Red Cross to see if they could get a message to him, I did not know where else to go for help. I was told that this kind of thing is going on and told me not to send any money. I told the Red Cross he had not asked for money. Low and behold yesterday when I finally heard from him, he asked me for $2500 because his trunk of belongings had been help up in Africa. I was preparing to send that money off today. Last night I googled “Men pretending to be military officers and this site came up…as I scrolled down the pictures I could not believe my eyes when I came to the exact same photos he had sent me. Thank God I googled last night otherwise I would be on my way to send the money. But now I am completely devestated. I gave my heart and soul to him. I had so much anticipation for his arrival and began to make arrangements here for his homecoming. I really thought that God brought to me my true match. I guess God was working in my life to make me even google last night. My heart is broken but I am $2500 richer today…I did a IP search this morning and it looks like this person is in New York area. How can this happen? Did not see it coming…wow! How stupid am I?

  787. If anyone knows if this is a real soldier pictured and has his contact info I feel I need to let him know someone is doing this…he must be a victim too!

  788. Ok this can’t be happening again. Just received a message from this man called Jacky Tindall. This is what he just wrote back and it story and wife and childs death 4 years ago sound very familiar to the posts on this site. Here is the message:

    Thanks so much for responding to the Interest notice I sent to you , I really appreciate reading from you and you being so much open, Well I Was born and raise Tn in Jackson city ..I was the only child of my parents born and raise in a Christian home, my parents are originally from India though both are late now. I am not from a large family as i do not get to see many people visit my parents often back then.
    I am a widower i lost my wife and daughter in auto crash 4 years ago, my daughter died on the spot while my wife died in the process of medical treatment 3 days after the incident. It was a great lost but i give God the glory that He gave me the strength to deal with the pain back then.
    I’m 55yrs by age
    6’1 and half in height
    Average build
    dark brown hair, no chemical all natural color
    Hazel eyes,
    Non smoker but i drink socially
    I am willing to let you know more about me as to persist, and we become more relevant to one another. If you insist on the relevant justice or my personal domain I’m willing to allow you to ponder my wants and needs over the basis of our developing knowledge of our friendship.
    I’m certainly glad to know this room works for good purposes, as a person that like good chatting subjects, establish long and respectful friendships and eager to learn from multicultural oriented people. If something good all this new communication means should offer us, that’s might be (on my opinion) the learning scope that all humans require to grow on themselves.
    We turned to be an isolated personality society, where our most demanded traits are, to show up a successful personality, either with good cars, impressing bodies, astonishing jewelry or clothes, but we faint in our most basic needs, human care and supportive companionship. I can tell you, that I don’t go on the frenetic side of most people in America do, or at least behave to pursue, instead, I do a great effort to make a decent, reliable and joyful living, but also intend every single day, to fulfill my life with good reading, nice music, camping, movies, walking, cooking, going to the beach and some other outdoor contact (gardening and sporting) and once in a while hanging around to see some social life. Well I consider myself to be a man with a great sense of humor, who tries to show compassion and consideration at all times as well and who loves to try new things and adventure at sudden drop of a pin though I’m not the perfect type but I’m very open to book. haven’t born and raise in a Christian home i put God first in whatever i do in life, I attain regular service at a non-denomination church with strong faith in the Lord here in T n
    Well I’m just a simple and self minded Guy, a kind of intelligent and fun loving I try to enjoy many benefits that life has to offer. I also enjoy a simple evening of spending time together engaging in stimulating conversation to entice the mood for a night of passion.
    These are things I enjoy doing , well let just say my favorite pass-time. I enjoy camping, movies, sports, reading, walking, traveling, cooking, going to the beach and lots more.
    About my job, haven’t been into Exportation of IT Products and Site Development, I feel so lucky to travel to many countries and engage to marvelous people of many cultural backgrounds, learn from each company I deal with and from their own business executives, in one word, I really enjoy what i do for a living and I positively engage to share all the best of myself, to whoever cares about life self improvement attitudes..and im presently out of the states on a business project right moment in a country Nigeria which will be taken 5 months though.
    About my personality I love to smile, lovable, cheerful, generosity. There is something about me when I start something new, I expect it to work out. I tend to get going right away and trust that I can correct problems along the way rather than having to do long periods of research before I begin. Just because something has failed before, doesn’t mean it will fail again. I don’t let past disappointments weigh too heavily in my expectations of future likelihood of success am smart, with a good sense of humor.
    My idea of a great date is where conversation and laughter flows easily. It really doesn’t matter where we are or what we are doing as long as we enjoy each other’s company.
    I’m looking for a serious and, hopefully, permanent relationship with an intelligent, loving, and generous woman. A relationship that would be base on true Love and goes with
    respect, care, understanding, sincerity, honesty, faithfulness, submissiveness and more. I want to start a relationship with a woman that will value and treasure what I am to her and will become to her. I’m not afraid of intelligence in a woman and it’s also important for her to place a high priority on God and family. A woman that is warm, secure, sexy and outgoing. An active intelligent, independent person. A positive person who understands that although life is not perfect, most things in life can be rewarding, challenging and fun. A person A person who is willing to try new things. Someone with strong morals and values. One that communicates their feelings but also listens to others. One that elevates rather than brings down. A true companion in every sense of the word based on mutual respect for one another. A lady who will treat me in the same way she want to be treated by me.
    Why not try and contact me on yahoo IM sometimes
    Take care and remain blessed
    jacky.

    I just checked the IP address and it comes back to Sunnyvale which also sounds to be a place mentioned in other posts here…What are the chances that out of the blue today I would receive a message from this man….I smell a scam and will not be sending a return reply, in fact I will now be blocking him…Thank God for this site!

  789. Hi there, My friend was recently added by a so called military soldier, first his name was Simon Draper and now they using this name Draper Lauburg dressed in US Army clothes…He said he is working in Malaysia for the army at the moment, told my friend that i was scammed by the same guy, same photos etc, just another name…How can i get this photo to you and can u please let us know who is this guy..I told her it is a scam but she does not believe me and i want to try and help her before she gets hurt and too involved…He was also from Pennsylvania Harrismith, same everything, just different names…Can u please get back to me as soon as possible…thank you, got pics and everything…thank you

  790. Ok ladies, this guy is also on militarycupid.com : Here is his profile with the same photos…now he is calling himself George not Hadi Moro as he protrayed to me……He has no idea the HELL I will bring into his life. He woke a Giant and now I am angry…

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    Tampa, Florida, United States
    Seeking: Female 40 – 57 living in United States
    For: Marriage
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    LADIES, THIS IS COMPETELY CRIMINAL AND WE NEED TO BAND TOGETHER AND BRING THIS GUY AND ALL OF THE OTHERS DOWN! Time to pull up our bootstraps!

    • Terri you are not stupid he is the stupid one for lying and begging a stranger for money he needs to get off his lazy behind and get a job I am so glad you found this site before you sent money and Africa out of all places what a crock of bull US Military takes care of its own and they would not be in a shit hole like Nigeria or Ghana or Africa period so I am so Happy for you that you caught on to this scammers Lies good for you make sure all your friends know US service members that are REAL will never ask a total stranger for money for any reason they have access to their own accounts at all times and yes they can use webcams and computers they will not EVER beg you for money for any reason if they do they are scammers just go to romancescam.com and see the real faces behind these military scammers

      • Annon,

        Thanks for the message to me. I am still in a fog…2 days ago I had a prince missing bullets on the battle field that I prayed for every second to a doa when I found this website. Quite an amount of emotions I have gone through the last couple of days. I have never cried so hard…but now I am angry…I have found him on 2 other sides and got him shut down immediately…different US location, age and name…I can only thank God for giving me the thought to google and check and in a million years I NEVER EXPECTED HIS PICTURE POSTED! I am surprised I didn’t faint and die on the spot. What I would like to do is have every woman out there who had contact with this man to contact me and we will put a plan together to document and file complaints were ever necessary to bring this man down! I have given this much thought today and I know how we can bring this criminal to justice…Not to hard to track an IP number down. Ladies please contact me so we can move forward and bring this P.O.S. down!

  791. Hi Here is another SCAMMER to look out for he goes by the name of SARGENT WESLEY BARDEN stationed in Iraq…Camp Victory, he claims he was born in Duarte California, divorced with a 9 year old son.
    PLEASE READ PART OF THE LETTER BELOW THAT HE SENT ME…..

    As I told you earlier…. I am in the US ARMY…active duty..I’m Staff Sergeant WESLEY BARDEN….not just a Sergeant..I’m a Staff Sergeant…A Staff Sergeant is a more experienced leader of soldiers. The staff sergeant has considerably more time in the Army than the Sergeant..A Staff Sergeant has more influence on other Soldiers than a Sergeant…just explaining things a bit here for you..
    I do have nine( 9 ) soldiers..who i have control over..they are my “Team”..You can call them my “Squad” as well..
    I have 3 Sergeants who work under my direct leadership…and I’m responsible for their continued successful development as well as that of other soldiers in my TEAM…Thats just a bit about my duty..you will know more as time goes on..
    I have been in the Army for 24 years now, joined right away after the Military Academy. Its been a tough time for me in the ARMY , I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience…that’s just by the way… Its been 10 months I have been deployed here in Iraq, Baghdad, and looking forward to be home soon. Miss my boys back on base and miss all the “Home sweet home stuff you know”….

    A bit about my childhood, I was born and raised in Duarte..CA…have lived in Miami..FL as well .. I owned a house back there but sold it off when I was been deployed here to Iraq…I have lived in Fort Drum..NY too!
    I do love to be around beach areas, thats why I stayed in Miami….. I’m looking forward to relocating to any part of the States but not sure where..still planning on that…

    He was kind and sweet and even wrote me ***POETRY***..pretty slick…..This goof asked me to send him a Blackberry Torch…I became Suspicious and started questioning why he would need money from me if he is a STAFF SARGENT??? he became agitated at my questioning….So I started searching the internet for info and I came across this site……THANK GOD!…i found this site before I became too emotionally attached, However “WESLEY” did send me pictures of him in uniform with other army soldiers, it sickens me to think that this jerk maye be impersonating a Legitimate soldier and that soldier has no idea he is also being victimized someone is using his pictures,an even worse thought is that this soldier may have passed on. There are some EVIL, nasty people out there!!!…by the way He was on the dating site….SeniorPeople.com.
    Ladies be careful!!!!

  792. Just to add to my posting about Army Staff Sargent WESLEY BARDEN, stationed at Camp Victory in Iraq. I have pictures of Wesley in uniform they look legitimate all the pictures have the name patch with last name BARDEN….
    I believe there is a real soldier out there with the last name BARDEN…this soldier has TATTOO’S….FLAMES going up his arm…also a tatoo of a “CELTIC CROSS” on one arm……and.a GREEN STAR, on his upper back arm….
    I have pictures that include him posing with other Army Service men…the soldiers name patches are visible showing thier last names, there is a tall African American soldier with last name BRYANT…and another Soldier dressed in green fatigues with the last name..it looks like “FOSEY”…I cannot make that name out very clear.

    Also WESLEY BARDEN has a very distinct “dimple” in the middle of his Chin……just like Kirk Douglas had….
    If anyone wants to see the pictures or think you may know these men…please feel free to contact me and I will send them to you….thanks Lucy

    • Dear Lucy, i think i am being scammed also. have been reading the posts that the ladies have written and the circumstances that they said are hitting to close to home. He friended me on facebook in sept. Have been chatting with him since. He has been very secret about alot of the questions i ask. Claims that his parents got killed in a plane crash when he was 22, joined the army when he was 25, his wife died 3 years ago, and his daughter Nikki lives with his mother in law. The red flags started going up when he asked me for money, said that his daughter needed it .. i asked him “why didn’t you get a heartship discharge when your wife died, no reply to that, then all of a sudden he “falls madly in love” with me and cant be away from me. Asked me to write a tranist request to militarytransitgov@usa.com .. another flag. then the last reply to an email from then said about a payment of $2500 to be sent to finance dept in the states with the info of Mindy Rene Powel Fairhope Al and the payment to be made thru western union money transfer..another flag.
      When i told him i was searching the internet and military sites he started promising everything.I know i am not sending and money to him and told him not to contact me again. Then i found your site and was reading it and read your discription of him . would you please send me the pics that you talked about so i can confirm this person. It was stated in the 10-2-2011 post. thank you very much for your site.. ginny riggs

  793. Ladies, I found two more scammers from this site yesterday on dating sites and shut them down. I also received winks from new members with no pics but same kind of story. They are coming out of the wood work these criminals…Time for us to bring them down. I have an idea for us to band together. Please send your email to me so I can write you with my plan. TOGETHER we can shut these animals down and hopefully they won’t be able to do this so easily anymore…

    • Terri …I was contacted by another of the scammers whose picture was featured on this site, in addition to Staf eargent Wesley Barden…also on the same dating site… SeniorPeople.com. this guy went by the name of James Seward…he is the army guy in the pic featured on this website wearing that “tall Black Army Ranger Hat”….says he is widowed with 2 sons….Please let me know what your idea is…u can e-mail me at ross23@shaw.ca……thanks L…

    • Its amazing how quickly and easily you can spot them after you get hit the first time and realize what is going on. The guy that was scamming me was very smooth and made very few grammatical errors but you could tell he had an “accent” by the way he talked. I still have him on yahoo chat and everytime he signs in to talk to whoever it is hes talking too, I am there online and signed in and he immediately signs off. I will keep him from chatting on there as long as I can anyway until he gets tired of it. All of the stories are so similar and now that I know, I can spot it immediately within a few minutes of chatting with them. I would love to wring his friggin neck but if this is the best I can do is to keep him from chatting then I will do it.

  794. Ladies, here is another scammer….can’t attach the photo but this is his username on seniorpeople meet.com. I You will find his photo on romancescam.com also.

    view profile RWANTTOTRY001 SEND FLIRT SEND MESSAGE
    Age: 49 Sign: Scorpio Brandon, FL USA ONLINE NOW!

    A little about me…
    Thanks for stopping by my profile. I’m Honest, Loving, Caring, and a very loyal man. I have old fashioned values, open doors, send flowers and have good moral fiber. I work hard, and enjoy my time off. I am an animal lover, and…. View my complete profile!

  795. could anyone with scammers name of jordan please mail thier pictures to me at susan7441@live.co.uk i would be very grateful

  796. Hi, girls! I am from Bulgaria and I want to report another scammer! He is using the name Sergent (not SergeAnt) Alwan Smith in facebook and uploaded photos of a handsome guy there. He is also known as Roland Potter Alwan (Roland Potter) on myspace.com Same old story – a 46-year-old US soldier from Jefferson city, Missouri, who is in Kabul now, single, never been married, lost his parents when he was 12, raised by his Grandma. Fell in love from the second day and bla, bla, bla… You know all that! The yahoo mail is ssgt.alwansmith@yahoo.com
    When I traced his IP I found that all mails came from Nigeria. I told him and he blocked me, of course. Be careful about him. The pictures which he sent me were of a handsome guy in uniform on which is written the name “Alwan”. I want to find the real Alwan to tell him what is going on with his identity. If someone knows more about these men, please, contact me!

  797. hi .. scammer is still around..lately this sept 2011 i was contacted by the name of jason travis a seargent in webdate.com and he is currently in an afganistan mission and using jasontravis18@yahoo.com.. at first i thought he was telling all truth . with words that are nice and pictures that he put in the facebook and now the facebook is inactive now. but i have doubted once he asked me to purchase him a phone access because of the security reason and its the only way for them to communicate outside. and while his captain is in a mission in UK i will make a money transfer for his captain then thats the time he can activate the phone . and i doubted right away why, so i google and found out this site that in same way our stories are the same.. …. and as our conversation goes on . i feel that he his pushing me to purchase for him a phone access because i said no at the first time… but he his going to get through you by his good words… so beware… and i am smart enough to ffeel and know that he is a fake ….

    “”"”"”
    How are you doing so far?….Thanks for the replied
    mail, I’m so sorry for writing a little late now …lol

    Its being 3 months now that we have deployed to
    Afghanistan on a pace keeping mission due to the Obamas
    Administration…Life here has really being hectic and
    lots of dangerous things are happening here every day.

    Its take the grace of God to stay alive each day…..I
    am an E8 master sergeant and i usually have a lot on my
    routine each day

    I am separated now and i don’t have any children yet of
    my own..But hoping sooner or later everything will be
    fine and i will be happy again

    I have a lot for hobbies and i love basically the out
    doors ….I would like to chat with you soon and get to
    know so many things about you. I hope you know we are
    both on a different time zone and let me know when are
    your spare times ….

    Bye for now and have a lovely day.

    Jason.

  798. LADIES PLEASE BE AWARE THE EVEN IF U GET AN IP ADDRESS SOMETIMES IT IS NOT A VALID A TRUE IP ADDRESS. SOME OF THESE SCAMMERS ARE CUNNING AND KNOWS HOW TO GET AROUND US IDENTIFYING THEM. SO PLEASE DON’T THINK YOU HAVE THEM BY THE BALLS YET. BUT I WOULD ADVISE ANYONE OF U WHO HAVE BEEN CONNED BY THESE CREEPS. PLEASE DON’T TELL THEM YOU HAVE DISCOVERED WHO THEY ARE BUT DIG DEEP WITHIN YOUR SELF AND TURN THE TABLES ON THEM HOW EVER YOU DECIDE. BUT ALWAYS BE SAFE AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. REMEMBER JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE DECENT AND GOOD DOES NOT MEAN THAT OTHERS ARE. WHAT I AM SAYING DON’T JUDGE PEOPLE BY YOUR STANDARDS. I TOO WAS SCAMMED AND I AM A COP SO DON’T FEEL BAD. JUST IMAGINE HOW I FEEL. BUT THAT DID NOT LAST LONG. NOW I HUNT ONLINE SCAMMBAITING THOSE USELESS HUMAN BEING AND WASTE THEIR TIME. AND F..WITH THEM. CAUSE WASTING THEIR TIME MEANS THEY ARE NOT RIPPING SOMEONE OFF.

  799. ON THIS SITE THERE IS INFORMATION ON HOW TO EXTRACT IP ADDRESS FROM GMAIL, YAHOO, AND OTHER EMAIL… AND OTHER INFO BEYOND MY UNDERSTANDING, i am only just learning about this stuff.
    I THINK IT IS ONE OF THE BEST BECAUSE ALL U HAVE TO DO IS COPY THE HEADER AND PAST IN THE SPACE AND IT DOES IT’S THING….BUT THERE ARE OTHER SITES LIKE THIS ONE THAT ALSO GIVES GEOGRAPHICAL LOCATION OF THE IP USER THAT ONE IS NEAT. TONS OF THEM OUT THERE…HAVE FUN HUNTING….
    http://aruljohn.com/info/howtofindipaddress/#ipdetect
    LADIES AND GENTLEMEN YOU WERE, WERE A VICTIM OF A SCAM, NOT ANYMORE. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. WE HAVE HERE ON THIS SITE ANY QUESTION WE WANT CAN BE ANSWERED ON THE MILITARY HERE!!!

  800. Ann – Do you have photos of this Jason Travis and also what is his handle on webdate?

  801. To whom it may concern,

    My name is melinda and I’ve been talking to a guy who claims to be Tim Lemoh with his son Alex Lemoh in nigeria. According to this person that I am talking to lost his wife in a car acc. and lost his parents in a plane crash before his wife died in the car acc. Tim Lemoh’s son is there with him and they have been there for a long time. He has asked me to marry him and that all I have to do is send him some money in order for him (Tim Lemoh) to come home retired. Please give me an email address so I can send you the pics that I have that is suppose to be Tim Lemoh and his son Alex Lemoh.

    • They are in Nigeria because that is where they live it is their home no need to send any pics you know this is a scammer cut him off now and block him no Us service member will be in Nigeria there is No US Military base in Nigeria

  802. Please email me at: smith.melinda50@yahoo.com, so I can send you the pics that are suppose to be Tim and Alex Lemoh

  803. Hi,

    I’ve been reading a lot of the posting and all the scammers out there. I’ve gotten a few mysel and now there’s resent one that has contacted me, he claims to be a Sgt. Major Dennis Mateo Ramos. My question is has anyone gotten any email from this person? providing that is his real name….. His eamil is very much similar to most posted here i will paste the email on so you can have a read and laugh…..enjoy

    I am so happy you took the stress to get to me again. I say a big thank you because it is so nice of you…Due to the nature of my job,i don’t have much time to chat on sites.I will be so happy if you can understand and let us continue our communication via email to email.

    I guess you should truly know who i am, I don’t really know how this is to work, but hey! here is an exclusive. If at my age i do not know what and when to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL,.

    A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own. Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner in crime,lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound. To make you know more about me,.I will break this down to segments and it would be like a case study.

    MY BACKGROUND
    I am Dennis Mateo Ramos, most friends prefer to call me Mat…lol. I was born to a loving couple, a home, by an American man from Texas(USA) and a British woman. My father was an international business man who met this British orphan whose only family were close friends. She says there was something about the man that no woman could ever resist. sometimes she says she sees same in me,lol. During my father’s global movement,

    while i was twelve i left to study in lethridge Alberta in Canada where i decided to join and work for my Country…So i decided to join the US ARMY. My father died and she was left alone. I met my wife and best friend in Paris. she was a fashion model. Very good at heart. Actually i could say i met her in a funny way, would explain that later.(My her soul rest in peace)

    I was born in N.Dallas TX(USA) on the 23rd of December 1965..that makes me 45yrs old.. Am presently on an assignment here in Afghan for the good and love of my country.. Am Sure you know more about us here.. probably you’ve seen and hard it in the news.

    I don’t want you to be scared that maybe i will die and loss my life…No not like that my dear..If it happens its for the good and love of my country..But it will never happen..I have a daughter,Victoria,she is 16 and she studies abroad,Canada precisely.

    This mission here is my last on the field and i will be through latest November or December this year 2011..i shall quit field works and continue my works from my home office while my men do the field ops. I think i really have gotten to this height cos i embraced work for so long trying to get over my wife, that i worked this hard, but i think i now realize i can move on.

    Don’t be bordered about the distance between us.. as i am ready to spend the rest of my life with you after my final mission here i am ready to join hands together with you,Build a new house and most importantly build a home in
    your country….Only if it we finally love each other and it works well..

    MY DREAM
    I have told you how my typical dream day would be like, i just want to spend the rest of my life enjoying the fruit of my labor. I just want a woman who would be my best friend and everything. You know someone whom we would still love each other more as the days pass by, even when we cant make love anymore and all we could do is play bingo,LOL.

    I am a total package , I only need someone who understands the value of a good smile.

    I cant wait to hear back from you. please write me soon my dear.

    Your turn!

    Mat

    • Pat this Ramos is a known scammer go to romancescam.com and scamwarners you will see his many pics also my group has found a pic of the real scammer behind Ramos stop all contact with this Mugu leave this scammer with nothing and do not let him know u know hes a scammer or he will delete the profile and create a new one with a stolen pic.

    • Pat, please go to facebook and type in the name Dennis Mateo…is that the man who is trying to scam you? If so, could you please report him to shut his down? I was going to but would hate to do so if he is legit..thanks!

  804. I just emailed in some pics of scammer Staff Sargent WESLEY BARDEN, after some digging found out he also goes by MICHAEL BARDEN and DENNIES BARDEN….all at yahoo email addresses..

  805. I am so grateful i found this site… I am speaking to a man with all the warning signs… he say he cant ring or web cam, he say he a widow….he want money in western bank… i first noticed something wrong in way he spoke then his spelling mistakes make me believe he on fone not pc….my friend is speaking to a friend of his and is about to pay the money…i dont think she believe me…

  806. I’ve been corresponding with a very nice man on match.com his profile name wine4us, Jimmy Hale, 55 from Atlanta, Ga. He supposedly was a “Sergeant Major (SM) and with C 135 USAA. I am career officer in the U.S. Army. I’m currently the Director of CJIATF-Shafafiyat (Transparency) at ISAF (International Security Assistance Forces) Headquarters in Baghdad, Iraq. I’m known for my role in the Gulf War, the Iraq War, and my reputation for questioning U.S. policy and military leaders regarding the Vietnam War. I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Commander. I am the leader of my camp. I am a non-commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military. In 1991, I was a captain commanding Eagle Troop of the 2nd Armored Cavalry Regiment at the Battle of 73 Easting in the Gulf War. During that battle, though significantly outnumbered and encountering the enemy by surprise, the nine tanks of Eagle Troop engaged and destroyed over eighty Iraqi Republican Guard tanks and other vehicles without loss. I was awarded the Silver Star for my leadership in that battle. The battle features in several books about Desert Storm and I am widely referred to in the US army’s training exercies. I also receives coverage in Tom Clancy’s 1994 popular non-fiction book Armored Cav. I served as a military history professor at West Point from 1994–1996, teaching, among other things, the battles in which I actually fought.”
    After talking to him for almost 6 weeks he asked for a cell phone and other items, t-shirts, cookies, chocolate, socks, and other items be sent to him as a care package, I was happy to oblige and happy to do my share. But due to security reasons I had to go through a diplomatic courier his email is diplomatic_courier1@live.com. And he was in Ghana when the package got there I had to pay $265 for duty taxes. It wasn’t but a few days when his phone wouldn’t work and his pc got burned up in a fire could I send him another box. This one was $325 in duty taxes. Then he was going to send me all his personal belongings because he was going to retire in a month oh and by the way he had 4.5 million dollars in the box that we were going to use to see the world. That one was going to be $1800 for a ‘anti-terrorism certificate- and ‘anti-drug certificate’. Needless to say that was when I said enough. The problem is that doesn’t help toward the broken-heart. Hope this helps someone else from being taken.

  807. hi, just ran into Denny Haggard… denny_haggard @hotmail.com and surprise surprise heree he is, havent seen his pictures posted very handsome dark ahired man, Staff sargeant statoned in iraqq, retiring in 1 mont, has 12 year old son bobby, I dentical letter as above. rather sad what some people will do

  808. hi i have been scam by tom willson and a johnny w from tagg maybe u should put there picture up there too..but i was smart never once have they asked for money as i told them from start dont ask for money or u will be deleted.i got a warning from scambuster on tagg who warn me of these too guys…but i too can play the game too..never will i give them any money..no one will get a penny of me….im a smart women but u should check them out on tagged thanks lisa

  809. hi again jst to leave another name army medic dr adams paul or paulo found me yesterday on military cupid due home 2 weeks 2 hours later being sent from pakistan to afganistan !! so convienent very pretty male pic being used once u ask for pic now needs money to stop from being sent any one else had any contact also he removed his profile immediately after i e mailed him @yahoo.com hope useful to others

  810. I HAVE ALSO BEEN SCAMMED, BY SOME ONE SAYING THAT THE ARE IN THE AMERICAN MILITARY, BY THE NAME OF MAJOR LARRY SCOTT……. STATIONED IN KABUL IN AFGAHISTAN……
    THESE PEOPLE NEED TO BE STOPPED…. UNFORTUNATLEY I HAVE SENT MONEY TO THESE SO CALLED SOLIDERS…….. I AM MORE ANGRY @ MYSELF FOR BEING SUCKED IN BY THESE SCAMMERS………
    HE TOLD ME THAT HE NEARLY DIED IN A BOMB BLAST, IN KABUL…….. PITTY HE DIDN’T………..
    I THOUGHT THIS COULD NEVER HAPPEN TO ME, BUT WHEN YOUR ARE LOOKING FOR A PARTNER FOR LIFE, YOU DO LET YOUR GUARD DOWN………..
    SERIOUSLY THIS PEOPLE NEED TO BE STOPPED, BUT UNFORTUNATLEY THIS IS THE SOCIETY THAT WE LIVE IN, AND I D PRAY FOR THE DAY THE SCAMMERS GET WAS IS COMMING TO THEM.
    NAME WITH HELD

  811. I was contacted twice by Sgt. Fred Marculy through WAYN.com, the first time he gave me: fmarculy@live.com email, the second one: fmarculy@yahoo.com, after him I was contacted by others military men I ignored whose names I found on this site. I always control if the email address I receive are on scammers lists, but if I wasn’t so busy to read and answer, he was going to succeed in scamming me.
    Prudence is never enough.

  812. About a month ago I was on a dating website blackpeoplemeet.com when a man calling himself Chris Haggard wanted to talk to me. This is the email that he sent to me and while surfing the website to find out a bout military scam artist i ran across this picture that he sent to me of him being in the military. He had begun to ask me for money claiming that he had found something valuable in Kabul where he claimed to be stationed, and wanted to send it to me. My ex was a con artist so i was lury of him and knew that he would be asking for money next. As I suspected he first asked for almost $500.00 to send to his daughter Mavis in London, age 13 who was staying with his brother. Of course i did not send it. Last week he claimed that he was sending a diplomat to bring me the valuables. As I was waiting on the valuables to arrive the supposed diplomat contacted me to tell me that he needed $2300.00 for custom and duty tax and that he was stranded in Ghana Africa at the air port. I played along with the game to see how far it would go. This is the email that i first recieved from Sgt Chris Haggard AKA Sgt. Robert Bill Haggard
    .
    I was then currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq .I have to let you know that I am on my second mission and I already spent 9 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Afghanistan was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When i came back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 12 years.

    mmm what more can i say I’m Chris Haggard. I was born on the 04th August,1969 at Baptist Hospital. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 19
    Sep 17 7:17 PM
    haggardchris26: I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.. I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in life. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind
    haggardchris26:I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time.I am concluding, tell me more about you self too…lol and try to send me some of your picture is very important to me pls

    Ladies beware of this predator. I was savvy enough to know better, but these guys prey on lonely women. Do not give your money to men over the web. Don’t give them personal financial account information. I am writing a book about my experience of living with a con artist, that is why i was able to detect the signs.

    • Hi Donna,

      I’m sorry to hear he got to you too, but happy you caught him in time! I’m sure you saw the letter posted on this site by this scum bag which mirrors yours. He scammed me too under the name of Alex Tock on seniorpeoplemeet.com. Let’ shut this bastard down!

      Monica

    • @ Donna good girl DUMB ass African scammer alright they kill me giving their imaginary life story and sob story in the same damn long drawn out paragraphs as if you give a damn about their sob story and turn right around and beg you for money in a perfect world everytime these assholes are caught scamming they would have three of their fingers cut off until they had to use their tongue to use the computer or internet access would be cut off to all AFRICANS known to be scammers or be so expensive that they would have to get REAL jobs to afford it.

      Afghanistan was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When i came back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off.

      Name one American that talks like this Ill wait but I know Africans do lol he was never in the states he lives in Africa where his lying scamming ass belongs

  813. Hi everyone, go get them all. anyone heard of Kennedy Craig Ruddock (Colonel Ken Ruddock email jon_st11@live.com) has son 15 at military boarding school Dothan Alabama

    contacted me from Erbil Iraq and wanted to come and meet me, left very quick and I sent him money, how foolish am I that was in March and still not here have asked for proof in many different ways to get the full picture but always had an excuse or other however i did see him on webcam , been in London for over 6 months now , now he is shot and injured and robbed in London where he cant leave because i wont send him money to pay is bills and leave.

    I even got into trouble with selling my mothers car to raise money for this man

    at first was long talks and emails, same emails that several others have received A and A SHIT the usual letter going around, and i fell for him like a hot potato in the hand just could not get enough of his words and time.

    now i am broke and living in a desperate state.

    These scammers or what ever you want to call them are just killing us ladies that just want to be normal and live a pleasant life with no problems and they have created some terrible times for us but then again we fell for it.

    God knows the truth and we must put our faith and hope in Gods hands to recover from this.

    NO MORE FOR ME

  814. I almost was scammed….didnt work, because things didnt match up. When I asked questions to this soldier stationed in Nigeria,LOL…..he was slow to respond.Hmmmmm…..why take long to get an answer. He even had a facebook profile. I EXAMINED THE PICS, AND STUDIED THE LAST NAME ” SHAKMAN” AND MY PICS MATCHED THE MAN WITH SAME LAST NAME….AND THERE HE WAS, AND I GOT IN TOUCH WITH MR. SHAKMAN AND TOLD HIM..HE WAS BEING USED IN A SCAM. Man, did i feel so good to reach the REAL person.

    *****Ever sad this happens…and terrible for its victims.

  815. God..I hate grammar errors. Anyway…..Mr. Benjamin P Shakman was very aware of this.
    It was a miracle to even reached him to notify him on this topic.
    I was not hurt by this man, claiming to be MOSES SHAKMAN.
    This is absolute craziness…..words can’t describe how I felt. (Nodding)

    • @ Stefanie are you sure you spoke with the REAL US service member or did you speak with the scammer on facebook using this us service members real picture because those pics are stolen every day and facebook is the main place besides dating sites so do not pat yourself on the back to quickly you may very well have been chatting with yet another scammer or the very same scammer that tried to scam you go to romanscam.com you may very well see the pics that the same scammer that tried to scam you used also we have a group on facebook called get the scammers and assholes on fb go check it out you will find some scary stuff but I honestly doubt that you spoke to the Real service member I think you spoke to the scammer using his pics to scam women.

  816. I am ashamed to say I was scammed by the above mentioned Tommy Barrera only he was using the name Mark James. He was supposedly divorced with a 10 year old son. I looked the name Tommy Barrera up on facebook and found that it was the same guy that has been saying he was going to marry me for several months. The story I have been getting recently is that he is stranded in London and needs money sent to Africa so Africa can then send him money for a job he did years ago…supposedly it is around 4 million dollars. Thank God I found this site before sending him a whole lot of money….Thanks alot guys!!!!!

  817. I am wondering if anyone can get back to me on a few of names of military men I have been communicating with the first one is David Pinsky who is supposedly over in Cambodia doing some peace work. Another one is Robert Sallee who is supposed to be over in Iraq and also a Matthew Bryan McCraw who is supposed to be over in Afghanistan. I met all 3 on Tagged and am just waiting for them to start asking for money or a leave. if someone would get back to me and let me know if these are names of scammers I would really appreciate it. After going through this once I dont trust anyone online anymore.

  818. Dear all,
    I am a victim too. I met him 2010 / December. His name is Reynold Clark. He´s got a daughter (Sarah), his girlfriend cheated him….Apparently he was in Taji / Iraq….
    ´How can I post the pics?
    I really want to share my lovestory, but first I have to check out if it works
    Was so overwhelmed by reading all these posts….Should have known this site BEFORE I´ve lost my heart.
    So, let´s see if it works.
    Lexi

  819. Hi, I have been scamed by the guy that you have in the pictures with the name of William Haggard. Same story but with the difference that he was born in Miami and he is going to come back to Miami in 3 months…
    I cant believe what this people is doing. There is not anything to prevent this?
    He contact me In the site Badoo.. Oh well.
    Thanks

  820. I was also contacted by a “so-called” Marine on OKCupid that was stationed in Afgan. and after a week was sent to Nigeria. ha ha Even tho I am a military moron, even I know nothing is going on over there. I was even told from friends that the ‘broken English’ is actually the military scanning what they say in case something may slip out. **rolleyes** That’s just stupid. Any how, he goes by the name Joe Eric and I have seen two email accounts. One is joeric212@yahoo.com and the other joeric414@yahoo.com. I asked this “Joe” guy if he had a facebook account, he said no, but I found him by his joeric212@yahoo.com address. When I asked him what he did, he said he was Special Op and couldn’t tell me. Oh please! If you are Special Op how can you even be on Yahoo Messenger?! I have been stringing this one along now for almost a month only because I would love to find the guy he’s using in his pictures and contact him so he knows he’s being used in a scam. :-(

  821. I was reading through some of the comments and thought i would share my own experience, i am currently being scammed by 4 US Military Men, 2 want money from me and 2 want me to send emails so they can leave to get married to me( yeah ok) there names are Sgt,Robin Shred, he wants $2400.00 because his camp was destroyed and he is starving, Sgt. Leo Smith who was injured and needs to get out now, his amount was $8400.00, Sgt. Calvert Brayden, I googled him and found out that he was a scammer, his pic has a different name on his uniform, and Sgt, Patrick McDonald whose pic I found on here. I found all 4 on the who thinks of you dating site. I get suspicious when someone tells me they love me after 2 days of chatting, I’m wondering if anyone else has come across these names. It bothers me tremendously that some of these soldiers may have been killed while serving and these jackoffs are benefiting from it. The only pics I have seen of these 4 individuals are on facebook.

  822. hello-
    I think I I may be being scammed by this guy- samuel Cindrich he says He is in special forces in afghanistan
    and he cant access his money- and he wants to send money to me…….to send on to Him?
    He was on the dating site Plenty of fish.com

    I have some pics I can send? thanks Ms.Ventures

    samuelcindrich@aol.com

    • Please be careful….he may ask for your bank account information…I have had a scammer do this to me already and claimed he needed my bank account information to have the money deposited….thank God I didnt give it to him….I could have had a real disaster happen!

  823. I have many pictures of a scammer that is using them to swindle women on match.com and other dating sites. I was wondering if I could post them here…the name he has been using is Srgt. Steve Lopez, John Manuel and Parker Lopez.

  824. Can someone email me please if they have ever been contacted by a man named Henry Mills, apparently posted in Sudan…I have a very vulnerable friend and I am worried about her as she has apparently accepted an online marriage proposal. Please advise as soon as possible.

  825. Hello Everyone
    I decide to post about my experience that I have been victim by two scammers together. Since I had two surgeries last June 14 and July 12 2011 I got home from hospital as I have not checked my email, facebook and others for eight days. I saw the pictures of too many soldiers into my facebook inbox and I picked top lists because I was not interested too many to read of the soldiers comments but I did picked one then email as he asked me for go to yahoo if we can chatted so I told him that I just got out of hospital and look at pictures of him I cant believe that he is handsome and young for my age but he said he is 47 as I accepted him as He was so so wonderful to give me comfortable, beautiful passionately romance, chat I have all evidences I keep and printed every time we had emails and conversations and everything until his 18 years old daughter as very big big good dramatic on chat line and emails etc as I believed and see in my own eyes and made me cry and heartbroken that I found her for him etc etc everything were so so good dramatics on our conversation how much I can’t explain you and also I did not believe others as I believe in him and his daughter and I spent only 425 dollars and she got new passport 240 dollars plus her birthday 100 dollars and 75 dollars for Canadian Immigration for come to Canada to stay with me, and wait for my darling come from Afghanistan war, as I believed everything until I found out through Google to show his email address have been scammed but I did not believe as it was very very hard for me as I fall in everything what my scammer dating said and etc until his daughter asked me for other money as I told her to go to her grandma and also my mistakes for help her to apply Canadian Immigration and she lied to me as same thing two scammers lied to me as he said to me that he have beautiful daughter while her mother passed away when she was birth until she applied with me thorugh email I told her no mistake and everything went smooth uuntil few days she emailed that her grandmother said that her mom passed away when she was about 3 yrs old and also everything her family and her all sisters and brothers name on family history as I started to investigated all as I got pissed off as I said I could believe the germany lady first place but I moved on and started to be cold shoulders to Fabio Guffanti as he is Captain Fabio Guffanti and I decided to call US Army Criminal Investigation Division and also he want to see photos so I emailed to him few hours later he emailed back and say not US Army because there were best to catch and lots ranks and planes and different kinds of Army Clothes and Suits Photo was say he is French Army..

    I got pissed off and very angry , heartbroken and cry because we had been beautiful conversation each other with seriously love, future, key of communication and we talked about our faith and bible as he speaking very well English and Italian Language and very crystal intelligent.. I am going to write my book about scammers as It is very interesting for me to write book

    I changed my email address and others and everything as because I gave my passport and my bank account and others because Canadian Immigration required so I am so smart one things about my bank account that I put black on my account number to email to Fabio and he asked me why I do that as I told him that we are not married yet until everything you come and get married as we will know everything as he said nothing and agreed with me ebcause of my security whew I am lucky but others problems that I believe he use lots pictures of me to scam to men maybe as I am concerned but I let them go for it

    his email address is guffanti.fabio@yahoo.com and tmw1102@yahoo.com and he or she use lots lots different email address with yahoo.com Watch out I wish I post pictures of French Army that the scammers stole his photo and profile

    I am honest with all you I want to meet real French Army and share with him what happened to him that someone manipluate him and stole his photo and profile as I am still searching for him and meet him no matter he is married or in relationship with his love I want to give him my blessing and my forgiveness to him and his life… I pray for him if he is still in war or return home or whatever safe…

    SHAME SHAME two Scammers for what they did hurt me and Hope they get arrested in someday…

  826. Staff Sergeant E-6 Hadi Moro from Nederlands his name means Peace. He was stationed in Iraq uses the email address of Hadi Moro godiva234@yahoo.com. First his computer was acting up so he wanted an Apple computer Then a diplomat was going to deliver his trunk to me but then the diplomat had to stop off in Africa. Yep and he can get it back for just $1,500.00 and this is very important because there are 13 gold bars and $50,000.00 because he saved the Prime Minsters daughter when she was kidnapped. He always promise that I would get the money back once he got here and we got married. He was engaged to one girl who cheated on him with his best friend. and he is heart broken he never thought he would meet anyone like me and he Thanks God everyday. I saw his picture all over here above I believe one name is “ MAJ Joseph Morris” Girls stay away!

  827. any one heard of richard hector or saidina manu richard is doc from london in afgan now other one from france need some replys asap susan7441@live.co.uk

  828. WOW! This “Chris Haggard” gets around!
    I was contacted, supposedly, from Lavalife this past summer. He falls for me way too fast but is dreamy and tells me he is rich, a widower with a son, and he “wants to take care of me”. We shared pictures, I was falling for him: he tells me he is Lt. Col. Haggard. He says he is leaving Kandahar soon and wants to marry me! OMG!
    He hasn’t asked for anything (wouldn’t give it anyway) but just told me he FOUND a bunch of money and his “diplomat” is sending it to me for safe-keeping! I guess this is where the sting will start. Unfortunately, he has my address and cell number. Is there anything I can do? Is this guy the scammer … or has his identity being stolen from (Nigerians) or whoever? Does anyone know?

    • Hi Jona,

      This guy is the ultimate scammer. He is not real and goes by many names. Please read through these posts and you will find reference to him many times! He also goes by the names Alex Tock.

      Stay strong, we are here for you. Do not let him take your power.

      Monica

      • Thanks Monica! I felt like a real fool BUT only for a minute!

        This whole experience got me to take better care of my appearance, saw my return to the gym (3X/wk.), I got a new do and glasses and I’m continuing my search for a partner (but locally only, thanks!). Sorry, but if you are a soldier (or claim to be) I won’t go near ya!

        Ladies, anyone named Haggard is NOT TO BE BELIEVED!
        If it sounds too good to be true : IT IS!
        Reminded me that we have to love ourselves first and forermost!

        Be careful … and good luck!

        • HI i too was involved with haggard;going under the name of haggard armstrong[david] and have the same photos as on file here.we communicated for 2 months before he said he was finishing in iraqand home on the 15/11/2011.He wanted me to accept a parcel containg money via diplomat;who in turn wanted $4;000 for its release from customs;i told him were to go; my last contact with him was on mon21/11/2011 and he was still saying he couldnt come home till he collects parcel from customs in ghana; but now needed assistance with money for flight.He wasnt interested in anything i said ;got really nasty when i refused;saying i had no respect for HIM.there is also another posing as james john haggard who claims hes a military dr with son in africa cause his wife died.Also on facebook is another haggard with email sweethaggard but same photos.Another is Scott Miller in iraq only lasted 2 weeks before he was asking the same saying he had sent his luggage and package of money via diplomat[ they even phone you to try and make it more convincing]. Scott even shows himself on web to convince you hes real; but its a video/// phillip handle only lasted two days wanted to see me on web; mistake as he forgot to switch his off; black nigerian sitting there.captain donald muelo was using military org only spoke for two days and hes saying he needs to get out of there [iraq] as he nearly got killed that day ; wanted me to apply for his leave but i would have to pay///i had already been in this situation back in april with a michael .p. raymond who cost me £8;000 pound; so was ready ;when i told him he was scamming he went mad .reported him to site who said hed reported me as a suspicious person;i told him to get of yahoo otherwise id report him on there;finally they listened to me and removed him of the site.Brian Greenfield posing as a german broker for gold;spoke for over 3 monthsuntil he kept asking for money for different situations and finally confessed to telling me he was 18 yrs old african. sick people/// i could write a book on the amount of different soldiers i have encounted since being on line and all of this only since feb this yr;these are only some i have mentioned.My first encounter was a cpl willson who wanted money for a mobile phone lol.hes been back onto me again since; 2 months ago; he is trawling badoo dating site; the worst site ive come across with fakes on is oasis;so be careful ladies. kathy

  829. Re: Chris Haggard
    I have the same photos as posted and more and “he” even sent me one with a copy of one of pics in a frame on his desk: how sick can people be!?

    • hi jona; i have had encounters of haggard armstrong david/// james john haggard/// and on facebook is another with email sweethaggard; yet they all have the same photos; david even sent me pics of doing his washing and sitting at his pc. Shame wished i knew the real one as i really fell for his smile. kathy

  830. Anyone aware of any scams under the name of LT Donna Lopez??

    • Yes she is a fraud it is a Man posing as a woman and yes it is a SCAM Military member will NOT need your money for any reason as they have access to their own accounts at all times so if this fake Donna Lopez has asked for money block and delete him and move on

  831. Im Chatting with a E6 or captian Harry James, 3rd infantry division, station at camp dwyer. I dont think this man knows his rank….. I ask for his military address and couldnt give me one and also his address to his house in tampa fl. He said that he was at camp blanding when he left. I do know he is not full time army… There is no Harry James on cative duty…. I asked him he said national guards.
    He told me I couldnt go to floride because of the wild dogs? a very bad speller… He had the same story as Robert Bill Haggard did. with a few changes. I busted him and told him He was a scammer he keeps talking to me. Anything that is to be sent to him must go to a diplomat: marlordelivery@yahoo.com whose name is Daniel Adu address 64 mango st in accra ghana…. I think they think we are stupid? I told this man i would copy these pictures that he stole and mail the to all the harry james in tampa fl to let them know they are being used in a scam…. it does not bother them…..if you want to see pictures of captain or e6 harry james just email me at wtpchem46@aol.com.

  832. I have three men that was trying to scam me. One went by John Haggard, one went by Alvin Schiller, and one went by James Harry. All have claimed to be in the Army in either Iraq, or Afganistan. I have pictures of all of them if anyone is interested. I did see Haggard’s picture on here.

    • Lee Ann can you send me a picture of the James Harry, Im curious is it is Harry James.
      “MY” scammer is still on match…. made contact with a friend of mine. He is so busted. LOL

  833. Early october 2011, on the dating site LAVALIFE, within 24hrs time frame around 10 military tried to contact me. I did exchange with a couple of them:

    AKA LESLIE RAMOS (LOUIS RAMOS) (rusberry_love@hotmail.com)
    SGT BRIAN LAUSENG (brlauseng@hotmail.com)
    GENERAL CHARLES CLARK (charles_clark@hotmail.com)
    JEFFREY TINDALL (jeff.tindall76@hotmail.com)
    KELVIN KEATING (kelvin-keating@hotmail.com)
    GEORGE HUGHES (g.hughes@live.com)
    SAM NAJIM (sam.najim@gmail.com)

    Also talk over the phone with a M. DOUADA TOURE
    supposedly a UN Director/official whom wanted to calim from me 500.00$, a copy of my driver’s licence
    and a copy of my passport…

    These are the info given by Tindall to me (copy/paste) :
    The Directors details Mr. Daouda Toure, United Nation Diplomat, Mobile :+233545582887 Email:unitednations.accra@gmail.com

    But most of all,”MY SOLDIER” was EDWARD DRAPER…

    I am copy pasting the first email, he sent me… Unfortunatly I can’t post the pictures….

    Hello
    I was so nice to have you on my chating list, I’m just out of words because a friend radioed me, telling me about the website after i told him about how single I was going to be when we go back to the States after this peace keeping mission . I was a bit intrigued at first sight but I gave it a deep thought after that night of patrol and concluded it was worth trying so I gave it a shot. This was what ended me up here on lavalife dating.lol

    A bit about me and my work if you don’t mind.I was born in United state. New Jersey. I’m a platoon leader of 24 soldiers here and i am a part of the military police squad too. My work is to take care of the paper works and radioing other units about any new development concerning our mission here in Afghanistan. I’m the first person to set leg at the war field whenever we’re flown to another war-field to control whatever activities going on there. I’m also the last to take off when mission is carried out without any ill-contingencies.

    My platoon also takes care of the C6 machine-guns which I’m to account for whenever amour distributions is made to the soldiers in my platoon. I’m also a staff of C6 staff. I’ve been in Afghanistan for the past 18months now and when i come back home i will be retiring. i will be home in 2 months time.I just dont wont to die lonely after retiring that is why i am looking for some to involve my self with. I have a daughter who is schooling in the united kingdom.Her mother and i were married but we divorce when i find out she was cheating on me. she made me know that she’s in love with another man so I had to pull back. But am ever ready to involve my self with someone who is ready to be in a long term relationship, she should be honest, open and caring

    She also made me understand that she didn’t want to date someone who might die during a war at the cost of a peace-keeping mission. I do have one Sister in the States right now but she married with someone and i dont know where she is now since i have been a way for long . My ex-fiance used to be part but after we parted during my first recruitment into the US army. I guess this tells you a bit about my life but don’t hesitate to ask any questions if you wish to know more about me.

    My reason for getting on the dating site is to find that special woman that I could spend the rest of my life with after this peace-keeping mission is over. I would like to know more about you. I would be glad if you make suggestions as to how, we should take this whole thing. I want you to tell me about you and your reasons for getting on the dating site. I have to take care of a paper work now so that it could be faxed back to another military base. I will wrap it up for now. Bye and please enjoy the rest of your day…will check you up online if possible then we chat ok.
    Your new friend,
    Edward

  834. has any one heard of sgt. jorden alvin of bedford,ny plz let me know if u have.

  835. I have been talking to someone claiming to be Sargeant Major Charles G. Edwards for the last week. Today he asked me to email his commanding officer with my name and address to ask for permission for him to call me. He doesn’t have a clue that I’m a pauper and couldn’t send him any money if he asks for it.
    I still have all emails saved on my computer. I also have pictures. How do I send pictures to you?

  836. Thank God I found this site. One of the case studies posted has ended up being the Love of My Life also. In one email he used the exact paragraph below, word for word (watch out for cut and paste activity in emails). He said his name was LTG Alex Tock stationed in Afghanistan 2 month away from retirement, widower from Missouri with a 15 year old son named Kevin living with his best friend Ben (even have his address, yup I send 2 iPads to Ebenezer Anorbaah, 202 Airport St. Accra Ghana 00233) in Ghana. This guy is very very good. I got flowers, a teddy, chocolates and a lot of very sweet and loving words – not even over the top and very cautious – he’s very savvy at this clearly – lots of experience. Here’s the storyline on this guy, who uses the name Robert Bill Haggard and now Alex Tock.

    My name is Robert Haggard.I was born on the 2nd of August, 1961 at Baptist Hospital of California. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.

    Ladies, please do your due diligence and read through everything these sites including all of the posts If he’s a scammer, you’ll know – I’m so grateful I spend the hours reading everything, I paid off for me – not him!

    There is a kind of comfort in knowing for sure ladies, I know the wondering can be as great a torture as the violation itself.

    Clearly none of us are alone, however sad that may be.

    All the best Lades, I sincerely hope this post helps nail this bastard once and for all.

  837. I have been in contact with Brian Witt (You’ll need to know that I’m serving the US Army and currently on deployment here in Afghanistan. I am from San Deigo, California. I am also a former US Marine infantry man, having served 19 active years with different infantry units, from Camp Pendleton, CA. (1st battalion, 9th Marine Regiment, and 2nd battalion, 1st Marine Regiment) and Camp Lejeune, NC (3rd Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment). Of course he is going on leave soon.

    I don’t know if it is real or not. God knows I would like for it to be. He does not talk about rank and has not asked for anything. When I googled the name I found a facebook page created by Brian Witt’s mother to honor her dead son.

    I am hoping someone will be able to tell me the truth.

    T~

    • @ Tonya you know this is a scammer so please cut it off NOW what American you know would say such Rubbish like this “You’ll need to know that I’m serving the US Army” Only a complete IDIOT would type it that way all you have to do is pay attention to their stupid grammer and you googled and saw that the REAL SOLDIERS Mother has a facebook page dedicated to her Fallen Son so what More do you need this scammer is so dumb

      But if you need help ask him these questions
      Ask him for his unit address and then google it
      Ask to see his military Id
      Ask him to see a copy of his 2 most recent LES
      Ask Him Can YOU apply for his leave if yes guess what SCAMMER which he is anyway
      Ask him can he enroll you in deers to get a military id even if you are not his legal wife is yes SCAMMER
      Ask him to take a picture of himself holding up a sign that says I Love You Tonya wont happen
      Ask him what he knows about the US Military period they know NOTHING except a war is going on in AFGHAN and IRAQ
      Guess what he will get tired of the questions because he will have NO CLUE how to answer any of them
      and then he will insult you once he knows he will not get any money from you

      They know not to ask for money right away so dont assume he is real why would a us servicemember in the war zone reach out to a total stranger many of them have families and a Woman back in the US waiting for them so this is a scammer you have been warned.

    • (You’ll need to know that I’m serving the US Army and currently on deployment here in Afghanistan. I am from San Deigo, California. I am also a former US Marine infantry man, having served 19 active years with different infantry units, from Camp Pendleton, CA. (1st battalion, 9th Marine Regiment, and 2nd battalion, 1st Marine Regiment) and Camp Lejeune, NC (3rd Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment).

      What a Crock of BULL the only thing this scammer has done is got a degree from Scam University in Nigeria I think they all live by the wish Factor I bet this clown has about a third grade education and copied this from a REAL Service Members List of Accomplishments they are really quite IGNORANT.

    • @ Tonya read this I just found it on this blog also see how quickly this Moron has changed up his name read below from another poster……

      Alex Witt, lexiwit50@yahoo.com. Under the pics shows him at Sigmund Witt. I figured it was too much to be that smooth. I know he’s about ready to ask for money as his internet is going down weds and its his birthday the 15th and he really wants to talk to me. I hope everyone is careful.\

      THIS IS A SCAMMER delete and block him and check your secrity settings on your pc Leave this scammer with NOTHING

      • He is now on OkCupid. Thank you for putting his name out there before it was too late.

  838. I looked at his picture and his uniform says WITT. Please check him out for me. I have to admit that I am hesitant. If he is real I would hate to embarrass him in any way.

    Augh!

    T~

    • He is not for real so PLEASE don’t send him any money or let him fool you. A real soldier would be able to get hold of you via video or phone at least. After reading all of these other posts, they almost sound identical, so PLEASE protect yourself & look for a good man that you can actually see. Good luck!!

  839. Me again. I neglected to mention that Alex Tock/Robert Haggard found me on SeniorsPeopleMeet.com, which is a website posted on Facebook. He also had webcam capabilities with a caucasian male who passed as the person in the photos, which leads me to believe that he may have an accomplice in North America. When I tried to trace the flower delivery it indicated that the order originated in North America.

    Bastards.

  840. Calvin Miller / Miller Evans, skype: calvim.miller60, email address: miller.evans60@yahoo.com
    He wrote to me using skype. He told me that he is general Calvin Miller, from the american military base in Kabul, Afganistan. Widower, he has the son, living in Ghana, 14 years old, Alex. After few days he asked me for the help to his son, who need money. I asked “why your friends from USA can’t help you?” He answered “i can’t call to them, becasue we are not allowed to make calls from the base”. He gave me son’s phone no. and asked to call to him, to know if everything is ok. The son told me, that he can’t contact with the father, becasue he had no money for the internet. Scammer asked me to help his son and send the money to him, as the loan, which he gives me back after his return from the base in December. I started then to look for any informartion about swindlers from Ghana, because he gave me the addres for money transfer:
    recievers name : Nnadi Rotachukwu Wisdom
    location : Accra, Ghana
    ph no. +233247448617
    his fabebook page: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001556193948#!/profile.php?id=100002555963366
    how and where can i sent the photos, which he sent to me?

    • Thank you for posting his facebook link. I just went in and reported it to fb, so hopefully they will shut him down.

      • when i asked him “who is Nnadi” he told me, that he was son’s techer. i googled this name and this FB profille opened: http://www.facebook.com/linki.activiated
        i sent him the link and i told, that Nnadi doesn’t look like teacher… he is rather child… after i showed him Nnadi’s profile, thisp rofille was partially blocked and changed. Earlier i saw there many photos. Now the name is changed and info as well as photos blocked. This guy cooperates with scammers, probably i heard his voice on the phone (African accent), but on the video i saw white guy, resemble to the photos, which he sent. at the end, when i told him, that i recorded his face ect he told me:
        [2011-10-24 16:49:38] Calvin Miller: i will deal with you when i’m free to live the camp
        [2011-10-24 16:49:47] Calvin Miller: i have got your details already

        • He doesnt cooperate with scammers he is the SCAMMER and you busted him so not he will cteate many many more fake profiles on fb with the same pic and a silly ass name like Alex Robert or Mary John thats what scammers do when they find out they have been found out delete and block and add 5 more new profiles using the same stolen pic I do not understand why fb would not block ISPs from places like Nigeria and other pllaces for known scammers to inhabit these idiots are like roaches they never die the multiply

  841. i would also add, that in my case he also contacted with use of online cam. what convinced me, that i speak with the same person, with the person from the photos. the person was very resemble to the soldier from the photos. he didn’t speak anything, explaining, that with his microphone is something wrong. probably he can’t speak English good enough or it could be, that he has the same voice like his son… The person writing to me made many mistakes, but i am not native speaker, so i could think, that the mistekes comes just from too quick writing or slang. His 14 years old “son” Alex, with who i spoke by phone, has older voice with strange accent.

    • MKMK74 – This is the same guy who scammed me calling himself Alex Tock aka Robert/Bill Haggard. Same story, son in Ghana needing money!!

      LET’S SHUT THIS BASTARD DOWN!!

      Stop all contact, I know it’s hard but he is not real.

      Monica

      • I just found 2 profiles posted on seniorpeoplemeet.com for HAGGARDMAN and HAGGARD – this is the same guy his pictures and profiles are posted on this site which I have now reported!!!

        Let’s shut this guy down – Robert Bill Haggard/Alex Tock/Calvin Miller!

        I will keep you posted as I search out to shut down Calvin Miller too!

  842. I was contacted by a Troy David Turner who was a Master Sargeant locted in Afghanistan via Craigslist. His wife and youngest son had died in an auto accident. He sent me pics of his house and his birth certificate and his military credentials. Said he grew up in California,, he even gave me his address in California, so i googled it,, not the picture of the house. Then this morning i get an email that his account has been shorted by $30,000.00 … go figure huh? well then he emails me and says that he talked to his bank and that he would send me a statement from his bank which was Bank of America showing a balance of 260,000 dollars, and that he was worried about. That he also had a son in UK studying computer engineering. He also sent me pictures of himself, his dead wife and his kids… I noticed there was no name on the uniform. He wanted to marry me and that he was retiring in a few months. What the hell?????? I knew it was not real. Some one needs to protect these poor guys whose identity is being stolen.. He also sent me a picture of a journal his father left him and asked me to read it.. He spoke in broken english.. he went on to tell me that his father owned property in Malaysia and how he was to recieve xxxxxxxx amount of dollars from that in the next week.. Some one has to protect those that are fighting for our freedom.. Dirty rotten bastard….
    I can send pictures to whoever needs them to get this guy or protect the real Troy David Turner…

  843. I have been talking to Kelvin Witt that you have listed as Sigmund Witt
    He now goes by Kelvin Witt and claims to be a Major Sergent. I have had my suspicions all along that this was a scam. He did ask for money early on with the claim that he needed to to process his LEAVE I did not believe this as I work in am environemt that has a lot of friends and family of co-worker that have been in or are in the service. I saw all the red flags but refused to believe them.

    so please update your information on KELVIN WITT who calims to be in Iraq, has a 7 year old daughter named Sandra and has no family at all . He claims to live in Riverside CA. I was.

    Signs are all there. Contacting me at certian times of the day, long breakes in our converstaions, sending me messages meant for other women and the list goes on and on and on

    I was suspicicos right away when he refused to give me any information that I could prove.

    And who in the military for 15 years does not speak or spell the english language properly.

    I am glad that I am just a poor single mother with nothing to give but time. He is very good at his game.

    thank you for this web site—–it was forwarded to me by a true friend. And tough I feel very foolish I am very glad she did it.

    I only pray that one day someone somewhere will figure out a way to stop these men who pray on women like me.

  844. They are still up to their same old tricks, now going via Facebook. The one who tried to rope me in was Bobby Glen Georgel; he had posted US Army stationed in Afganistan on FB but on yahoo when I questioned him about his air force uniform picture with a different name on it, he said I had read it wrong & he was in the UN Army. He said he had a 2200 sq ft home in San Diego, CA & drove some kind of hummer..of course! He said his wife, Debie, was deceased from a car crash, his father had passed & his mother soon after from loneliness, and his sister had passed from “cancer of the breast”…now THAT was a tip off that he wasn’t from America, NOR from UK as he claimed he was born in. Worst was that he was using children’s photos as well…said his daughter was named Rosemary Shannon who was going to be turning 17 this week & his “agent” was too busy to get $$ to her for her bday…ironically enough, he wouldn’t have been too busy for me to send travel expenses to him! I could not pin him down on the amount, though, which made me know that I was reeling him in trying to get his story to unravel. He said he was also caring for his dead sister’s 9 yr old son & that both of the kids were in boarding school in Spain. The ironic part was when I pressed him to call or video chat, he said he could not for security purposes, but he talked to his “commander” to find out how to go about making a call to me; don’t you think that a Captain in the military with 20+ yrs experience & children would have a clue about how to make a phone call?? His yahoo account was bobbyglengeorge@yahoo, and he even went so far as to have his “daughter’s” account RosemaryShannon@yahoo sign up to be my friend as well. It was just amazing how neither of them happened to be typing at the same time!! lol He was pretty good at making up stories on the fly because I was suspicious as soon as he said he loved me on his third email even though I told him I wasn’t on a dating site & wasn’t interested in a relationship…he also played the Christian role to a T. As soon as he knew I was on to him he closed his FB account & I am not sure about his yahoo acct.The last tidbit of info that he gave me was that he was being shipped over to another location, I believe either in Africa or Libya..oh, and he was such a crappy speller that he actually referred to the Libyans as Liberarians. He really didn’t have a clue about how much his language showed that he was not only not from America but from the UK either. Sounded more Russian or Middle Eastern with some of the terms that he used. The pics he used were of a really nice, extremely sweet looking soldier with reddish hair, a dark haired teenage girl & a blonde haired, bright blue eyed young boy. Bad enough that he used the soldier’s image but REALLY pathetic that he was willing to use children in the scam! Beware ladies…remember, if he sounds too good to be true then he surely is!!!!!!

  845. I am corresponding with a sgtjamesthomas@yahoo.com , could you please tell me if he is a scammer, he said hes from Alabama Usa and he is in afganistan.

    • @ Julie if he asks you for money for any reason hes definitely a scammer the REAL Military member will not need your money for any reason and if he told you what you typed that hes from Alabama USA guess what he is a scammer real Americans do not talk like that but dumb ass African scammer type like this all the time.

      Ask him for a copy of his last two Les he wont have a clue what you are talking about
      Ask him to send you a copy of his military id hint they are NOT green and will not say military id card (they cannot duplicate them Thank God)
      Ask him to take a picture of himself in uniform showing his last name matches the last name he gave you with a sign in his hand that says I Love You Julie.
      Ask him to get on web cam and show himself if he has excuses hes a scammer
      Ask him what Branch of the military he is is and what base did he deploy from how long he’s been in
      Ask him to call you so you can hear his voice guess what he wont he will say you have to pay for a phone line which is a lie All Africans have an accent they never lose it
      Ask him whats his MOS Ask Him who his Commanding General Or admiral is
      Ash him who is the secretary of defense is

      By the time you get to the second question his true colors will come out he will type something like I dontey dont like you asking this questions because they dont seem to know when to use the words this and these.

      DO NOT send money for any reason

    • Hi Julie,

      He told me that he is from Houston and deployed to Afghanistan. He did not ask for money yet, despite we were in contact for several months and I am happy to know now that his emails were scams.
      If you go to myspace and search for his email address you will find a 42 years old man from Lagos, Nigeria. Here http://www.myspace.com/search/people?q=sgtjamesthomas%40yahoo.com&ac=t

  846. LADIES,

    BE VERY WARY OF THE FOLLOWING INFORMATION I AM HAPPY TO SHARE WITH YOU-

    COLONEL DAVID BEN JAMES GARBER,(CALLS HIMSELF LINGO) DOB 28/11/1960, 51, HAS RECENTLY BEEN RETIRED AND GIVEN HIS MILITARY PASS FROM HIS DEPLOYMENT IN KABUL AFGHANISTAN (VICTORY CAMP). THE US ARMY CONFIRMS THAT HE IS FAKE AND THE MILITARY SERIAL DETAILS THAT HE HAS PASSED ON TO ME WERE MADE UP NUMBERS. HE WAS DUE TO ARRIVE IN THE UK 12/10/2011 BUT HAS NOW DISAPPEARED. EMAILS – eng.garber@yahoo.co.uk (IP 77.238.184.241)& eng.garber@googlemail.com. HE CLAIMS THAT HE HAS A HOME AT CARMEL-BY-THE-SEA, CALIFORNIA. FOTOS ARE ON MY FILE ALTHO ONE OF THEM IS ALREADY POSTED ON THIS SITE.

    HE HAS ACCOMPLICES WHO COLLECTS MONEY FOR HIM.
    (1) DEBORAH JUNE GOODSON, 53, EMAIL: deborah.g@myself.com IP 74.208.5.90 ISP 1&1 INTERNET INC. ADDRESS- GARLAND, TEXAS, USA 75041 (2) JACLYN ROMERO-AUDITOR ADDRESS – 161 s. Occidental ave. Apth 9, Los Angeles, California USA 90057 (3) STEPHANIE WRIGHT, WACO, USA (4) DWANA ROBINSON ADDRESS -1760 DALLAS CIRCLE APT. A WACO TEXAS 76704 (5) COMMANDER BRENDA PRESENTLY AT CAMP VICTORY, US ARMY BASE, KABUL AFGHANISTAN (6) HIS GENERAL WITH AN UNKNOWN NAME.

    THIS SHREWED COLONEL DAVID BEN JAMES GARBER USES DIFFERENT NAMES ON THE WEBSITES AND THE PHOTOS THAT HE HAS PASSED ON TO ME BELONGS TO STAFF SERGEANT LINGO ADAMS.

    ThinkWiser

  847. Has anyone heard of a navy man called stereire aka steve ireland says hes in libya but is from the uk in the clean up campagne. all lovey dovey bigtime , hes halfcast african pics , and has a box of cash to send me ,gonna keep this tosser hanging for a bit just to get more info ,hes 41 brown man very good english and articulate but no cam as always and cant call me cos its tight security ,all crap i know , anyone know him?

    • @Tina as usual he is a LIAR they can use the computer and they do have webcams there so this is false as you said you already know you could do a few things here hand his email to a baiter or you could ask him a long list of questions to which he will have no answers

      example
      Ask him whats his MOS
      Ask him for a copy of his LES for the last 6-12 Months
      Ask him for a copy of his military id and drivers lic.or id card to make sure they match (military id is not green and will not say military id card
      Ask him to send you an email from his official military email account it will not be Usarmy.com and it will NOT be a free email provider
      Ask him what base he deployed from and how long hes been in
      Ask him who the Sec of state is while chatting if he hesitates to answer this right away SCAMMER
      Ask him to take a pic of himself in uniform holding a note with your name on it NEVER HAPPEN

      Before you get to question number 4 I guarantee you he will get pissed and start to insult you but he has no power and you will just let him know the gig is up LOL above all have fun with him and then pass him on to a professional Baiter he wont know what hit him.

      • Anonn, I just left a post about a “possible” (probable) military romance/dating scammer named James Morris and I apologize that I called you Aaron….I was just so excited to find your posts that my fingers ran faster than my brain. Go figure. #1: I would love to send this guy’s info to a professional “baiter” but I don’t know any…I’m sure you can help me with that, right? However, I want to be a “fly on the wall” and watch..lol.

        Says he’s Staff Sgt James Morris Stuart, stationed in Afghanistan but coming home November 15th and he wants me to be the first person he sees at the airport….oh boy, I can’t wait. lol, but his name on his uniform in the pictures says “James.” He says he’s from Tampa, FL and calls me his “Queen.”

        Maybe you could help me out here to find out who the heck he really is….email address as follows:

        James Morris

        Anything you could do to verify/discredit this guy would be appreciated. Keep up the GREAT work you’re doing here.

        Forever grateful to you, Anonn….Linda, the “Queen”

  848. anyone heard of a man calling himself anderson j johnson? he’s been talknig to someone i know saying how much he loves her etc, says he’sfrom florida and is in us army in afghanistan and said something about a subscription for phone calls… hmmm anyway a did a search of his email address a_johnson747@yahoo.com and came across the pic he’s using on 2 other websites and one of them says he’s from long island city… trying to work out wether he can be trusted or not. anyone heard anything about him? if he’s legit or scammer? thanks in advance ppl

    • I haven’t heard of him directly but since he is asking for $$ I can guarantee he is trying to scam you!!! Be careful & don’t give him any money. If they can get access to email they should be able to access a call now & then, right? Don’t let him get you.

  849. Pls can any one tell me who Sgt Gary Donnelly is?Based in Kabul….a US Army.

    • Hi
      I was scammed by Mark Donnelly, I have pictures he sent me, he said he was a widow with a daughter named Laura, the name Donnelly was on his uniform in the pics, he has probably just changed his Christian name to continue scamming

  850. Need assistance please? I need the email address to send photos of my scammer.

    I tried the one mentioned at the top. It does not work.

    Many thanks

    ThinkWiser

    • Linda: I am having the same issue. My guy has about 5 pics on here already, but I got a couple more of him I would like to post. Could you please let me know if you find a place to post the pics. Thanks

  851. I wes scammed by someone named Alex Marcus, he said he was retiring and coming back to the UK he sent me photos of himself but I found they are of General Peter Schoomaker, when I asked was he Alex or Peter,well I wont repeat what he said but it wesnt pleasent

  852. I am a victim of scam please just look at this e-mail and picture it me
    this is his first e-mail
    How are you doing today?thanks so much for the mail you sent me,I really appreciate that so much and will liked everything you shared with me.I’m a God fearing man and my instincts tells me you are a good woman. But here am I far away in the Middle East (Afghanistan) on Peace keeping with the army…Too bad isn’t it? Well as long as we have life, we can still have time for ourselves in the near future, what matters is life, right? I do understand the distance thing, I just truly believe that there are no boundaries as you seek your life companion… How do I set the ball rolling? Well, with a dual citizenship (British and Norwegian) I am Curtis, I was born and bred in the town of Aberdeen, Scotland some 50 years ago by a Norwegian mother called Birgit and a British father called John…my parents met at the university..That was what i was told… Talking about my family background am the only son of my late parents. that reminds me of a good and lovely family we were together in Aberdeen. I have lived in Springfield, ever since before i was brought up here by my late uncle to stay with him and help in his Military interruption after finishing High School in Springfield and study mechanical engineering in a local community college in Springfield…I later enrolled into the Royal Military Academy Sandhurst, when i was 21years and graduated in 1977 as a Sergeant. Shortly after commissioning, I then obtained a study leave to furthered my education in Defense Intelligence, sponsored by the Military at the Aberdeen University..I have also been in and out Ramstien Camp in Germany that’s where i was given the post as a Colonel and that’s where most Generals in every army are trained. I was first stationed at the Royal Artillery Barracks, Aberdeen, to stay there close to my mum…she died 6 years later and it really affected me..I still miss her.. I have been in the army for 25 years and i have been too many bases in the states to work there as well as Germany,Afghanistan,Saudi Arabia and Iraq,..And trust me I have seen and experienced being in the army and i never regret joining the army. I love life, love my family and still have some love to share with a special woman. Life can be lonely without someone…I am a person who is very real when it comes to life and its’ issues. I wouldn’t like to commence much but rather everyone has an objective of joining a dating site. I don’t request for anything rather than loving and happy committed relationship with someone special. Always thank God for my life. I’m not a fighter and I don’t argue, life’s too short but I do value friendship and intimacy. Respect is one of the most important requisites in a relationship, as honesty and commitment. I believe either of us had in mind of meeting someone special online but it has just come to pass with our personality description towards learning few things about each other. I’m ready to fall in love with someone special whoever that happens to be, there are few qualities which talks about genuine woman in relationship, such as faithfulness, loyalty, trustworthy, Honesty, respectful etc. I guess having those qualities in relationship can really help alot. I am not looking to fill a void in my life, I am looking for my soul mate. I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered. I love to cook and a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine and great music. I enjoy many type of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country western especially Ian Tyson. I love to have adventures, large or small, and am looking for someone to share them with…I look into the future with hope and would like to create a relationship based on respect, understanding, trust and love, seeking a relationship with longevity and not just something will end in just a blink of an eye. I have a great sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day enjoyable. Honestly I’ve all that it takes to be a man, I don’t really need anything from my partner. May be in terms of circumstances there might some kind of help from each other, helping to make things right. It’s not all that easy meeting that rightful woman with all those qualities which I’m dreaming off. I am a very sincere person who laughs easily, loves to tease and be teased and who communicates openly and honestly. I pride myself in being independent both emotionally and financially. I have reached the point where I am looking for someone who is open to a new friendship and maybe even a committed relationship. I have been lonely for a long time. I love life and would like to live it to the fullest, but it’s not all that easy without someone to share those life experiences with. I think two heads are better than one. I was married for 22 years but unfortunately, My partner died in labor rendering me a widower now.Well I believe God has his own purpose for that…I am currently on PEACE KEEPING MISSION in Afghanistan and will be home on retirement in five weeks and that is one main reason why I joined the dating website even though its not safe out here to be using the internet and everything, I still had a thought about dating since for a long time. I’m about to go on retirement and want to have that special woman in my life so that when i come back on retirement i can be with till the end of time. I never knew how to do this online chat and it was my friend in the army who introduced me how to chat online and to send emails and would love to hear your voice but it’s rather unfortunate we have a communication break down and hope you can bear with me for security reasons. I will like to end here and hope to hear from you soon.

    Greetings

    Curtis

    • @Medhin: I just got intouch with “curtis Lopez” life last week couple day ago, and I wish I read your posting before I told him things about me, send him couple of snapshots photos of myself,(not compromising), I even told him my first name…he havent ask for money YET. I truely believe he was for real
      I have found him or the photos he send me listed under different alias, I received word for word the same text email from him..Today I check the IP and it says: GHANA.

      I just feel foolish right now..:((

    • This man whose wife died in labor is on match.com and under lordanswers19. He calls him Lord Wells from Afganhastan. He wants care packages sent to a diplomat in Ghana.

      • His yahoo address is ssg_lord@yahoo.com. He says he is an E-6 Staff Sergeant with the Army. I have pictures if anyone needs them.

        • His diplomats address is:

          Rtd. Major Marvin Phillips
          PO Box at 29
          Accur, Ghana 00233

      • There is also a Jeff Kump on Match.com….unfortunately – I did send him a package to Ghana…I believed he was legit!! Please learn from my mistake!!! I feel foolish also…

  853. He uses the name CURITS LOPEZ(S) and e-mai “lifecurtis@live.com
    please ladies be aware of this person. i will try to post the picture

    “How are you doing today?thanks so much for the mail you sent me,I really appreciate that so much and i will also pray so that things work out well for us because it seems we have alot of things in common.I will read your verse and also pray on that.you can also read Psalm 64.I’m constantly told that I’m good looking and both look and act far younger than my years (while still being responsible for the most part).. Am considered intelligent, honest, capable of carrying on conversations on a variety of topics, kind, caring, giving, passionate, compassionate, a leader with a commanding presence, successful, possessing a quirky sense of humor and so much more! You will find me a contradiction in terms. I can be intense yet laid back, intelligent yet do some of the most stupid things, outgoing yet shy, a leader yet not afraid to take directions and be a role player, funny yet serious, etc..The reality is that I truly do seek a lasting relationship.. For this to happen we should be come Sociable, emotionally, intellectually, socially, spiritually, physically (call me shallow but looks do matter) and, yes, sexually.. Even with all this, love must exist and there must be that ever-elusive spark.. In essence, I seek the proverbial “Total Package.” Rather than “settling” for someone I could be happy with, I seek someone I cannot imagine living without (a subtle yet important distinction) for a lifetime together filled with passion (both in and outside the bedroom), intensity and bliss..I guess I’m looking for a woman who can love me as I am (good, bad and ugly).. Someone who can relate about life and it’s ups and downs and will want to share them.. I want my match to be able to work together to obtain goals that we’ve both set. I’d like us to be able to grow as individuals as well as a couple.. I’d want our relationship to be secure so that we could feel comfortable and trust each other completely without question.I would want to be her everything and she will also be mine. I want the WHOLE package.. A friendship that grows into the ultimate loving/caring/passionate relationship that one only dreams of.. I don’t want to just live with someone, I want someone I can’t imagine living without.. I hope that makes sense.. I guess I’m searching for my missing piece to my puzzle.. I’d want my woman to match on all levels..

    I am at a great place in my life now and want to share it with a partner on all levels.. I agree there must be a physical attraction as well.. I always say that it’s what on the inside that counts and that always makes a person attractive on the outside as well.. I want to be with someone that I miss when we are not together and I can feel the electricity running through body when we touch.. Someone who likes to cuddle (I know this probably sounds corny), hold hands, hug, kiss for no reason, I want to be the couple when were 80 walking down the street and holding hands.. I just love that when I see it.. Like you I just won’t settle..I do not have a particular physical “type” that appeals to me. Rather, I tend to look at the entire package, especially personality.. I am not the jealous type by any means. I believe that in a relationship you have to be a family regardless if the children are not biologically yours a family is a family no matter what! I would never try to be a replacement father it just can’t be done, but to be there for that child and support them and be a part of them; life is a important thing.I am willing to relocate provided that the relationship is moving in a long term/serious direction. I am not interested in bopping around “trying women out”. LOL… on a more serious side, I am not about having sex with just anyone.. I must have feelings for the person and she should also have feelings for me. There must be that deep seeded trust before it would move to the sexual phase. There are just too many diseases out here and to be honest, I’ve seen what they can do to a life if you’re careless sexually. I wouldn’t want that for anyone I know or care about.. Don’t get me wrong though, if the relationship were to get to that phase, I am completely into pleasing my woman…. COMPLETELY!

    Hopefully I have intrigued you to some extent.. And I do hope to hear from you soon! Take care.. Please feel free to ask me anything you like I will be more than happy to answer your questions. Have a wonderful day … and I hope none of this scared you off…LOL

    Greetings

    Curtis

  854. received this e-mail from CURITS LOPEZ(S) and e-mail lifecurtis@live.com

    How are you doing today?thanks so much for the mail you sent me,I really appreciate that so much and i will also pray so that things work out well for us because it seems we have alot of things in common.I will read your verse and also pray on that.you can also read Psalm 64.I’m constantly told that I’m good looking and both look and act far younger than my years (while still being responsible for the most part).. Am considered intelligent, honest, capable of carrying on conversations on a variety of topics, kind, caring, giving, passionate, compassionate, a leader with a commanding presence, successful, possessing a quirky sense of humor and so much more! You will find me a contradiction in terms. I can be intense yet laid back, intelligent yet do some of the most stupid things, outgoing yet shy, a leader yet not afraid to take directions and be a role player, funny yet serious, etc..The reality is that I truly do seek a lasting relationship.. For this to happen we should be come Sociable, emotionally, intellectually, socially, spiritually, physically (call me shallow but looks do matter) and, yes, sexually.. Even with all this, love must exist and there must be that ever-elusive spark.. In essence, I seek the proverbial “Total Package.” Rather than “settling” for someone I could be happy with, I seek someone I cannot imagine living without (a subtle yet important distinction) for a lifetime together filled with passion (both in and outside the bedroom), intensity and bliss..I guess I’m looking for a woman who can love me as I am (good, bad and ugly).. Someone who can relate about life and it’s ups and downs and will want to share them.. I want my match to be able to work together to obtain goals that we’ve both set. I’d like us to be able to grow as individuals as well as a couple.. I’d want our relationship to be secure so that we could feel comfortable and trust each other completely without question.I would want to be her everything and she will also be mine. I want the WHOLE package.. A friendship that grows into the ultimate loving/caring/passionate relationship that one only dreams of.. I don’t want to just live with someone, I want someone I can’t imagine living without.. I hope that makes sense.. I guess I’m searching for my missing piece to my puzzle.. I’d want my woman to match on all levels..

    I am at a great place in my life now and want to share it with a partner on all levels.. I agree there must be a physical attraction as well.. I always say that it’s what on the inside that counts and that always makes a person attractive on the outside as well.. I want to be with someone that I miss when we are not together and I can feel the electricity running through body when we touch.. Someone who likes to cuddle (I know this probably sounds corny), hold hands, hug, kiss for no reason, I want to be the couple when were 80 walking down the street and holding hands.. I just love that when I see it.. Like you I just won’t settle..I do not have a particular physical “type” that appeals to me. Rather, I tend to look at the entire package, especially personality.. I am not the jealous type by any means. I believe that in a relationship you have to be a family regardless if the children are not biologically yours a family is a family no matter what! I would never try to be a replacement father it just can’t be done, but to be there for that child and support them and be a part of them; life is a important thing.I am willing to relocate provided that the relationship is moving in a long term/serious direction. I am not interested in bopping around “trying women out”. LOL… on a more serious side, I am not about having sex with just anyone.. I must have feelings for the person and she should also have feelings for me. There must be that deep seeded trust before it would move to the sexual phase. There are just too many diseases out here and to be honest, I’ve seen what they can do to a life if you’re careless sexually. I wouldn’t want that for anyone I know or care about.. Don’t get me wrong though, if the relationship were to get to that phase, I am completely into pleasing my woman…. COMPLETELY!

    Hopefully I have intrigued you to some extent.. And I do hope to hear from you soon! Take care.. Please feel free to ask me anything you like I will be more than happy to answer your questions. Have a wonderful day … and I hope none of this scared you off…LOL

    Greetings

    Curtis

  855. jonathan brown hectat.jb5@live.com til meg
    vis detaljer 23. okt. (For 6 dager siden)
    Good morning my sweetheart, how are you doing today and how is weather with you my sweetheart? I am very happy to read from you this morning because you are the only one who gives me hope to live here in prison yard, thank you once again my sweetheart , I’m missing you so much that you’ve been on my mind all day and night. I awoke hurriedly this morning when the alarm went off, rolled over quickly to hold you back, and you weren’t there – oh! My heart fell to pieces here! Another day, only to anticipate your next visit (I mean the night in my dreams). It seems it’s what I live for today, yesterday and tomorrow, what have you done to me? Not a night has passed that I don’t have you in my dreams. And not a moment has passed that you are not in my thoughts. What magic you’ve done, Darling, but I guess my feelings have made their way to you in the form of dreams. my sweetheart you are my happiness, no matter what I am passing through I will let you down, I love you so much. My darling I really understand that you don’t know what I am passing through here, the driver who drove me to the UN agent off here in Kabul told my Commander that I brought money back from my last mission, and they charged me a part of a conspiracy charge, a false official statement charge, the two frauds against the government charges,and I am now Trail by Court Martha, darling please try your best to bring me out from here because I am suffering so much here in prison yard, please always try to communicate with me.I wish you a wonderful Sunday looking forward to read from you.
    Million Kisses,
    JonathanI wish to inform that one cold for Jonathan Brown and a Diplomat “Steven Jackson” , these are scams they say they are in Afghanistan / buma

  856. I want to thank everyone for all their stories. I have been talking to a Sgt. Jeffery White. I was so falling for everything he said. Then he said he wanted to come home to me early, but could not do it unless I helped. He wanted me to pay $1,899.00. I had said I would have no problem setting up the payment for air fare so long as it was done through a military agency. “Oh no they are in control of all that”. He said he was telling his CO that I needed him home early to marry me. I would need to western union the money first then scan in and e-mail the receipt. He would then scan in the forums for me to sign and send back. This was on a Saturday I told him I did not have the money. He wanted me to try. I said alright send me the information where to send the money. He only would give me women named Mary Murry Buffalo, New York 14207. I sent back an e-mail. Telling him there was no way I would send money without a phone number, address and the agencies name. “Oh baby that is all the information the admin dept would give me” Trust me I have to come home before my name goes up on the list for the next mission.

    I then started checking things out. I have an uncle that is retired Army so he was able to easily locate a soldier by the same name, DOB: where he is deployed form and that yes he is currently deployed in Afghan. I have this sick feeling that I’m being scammed by someone using a real soldiers ID and pictures.

    I find it odd same story as many of you. He is widowed with a son living with his father. He claims to want to marry me really? I do know that Military men and women have military e-mail account. Because of my uncle I know that I can send an e-mail to the real Jeff white I will do that today. I feel so stupid. I’m an educated woman in health care and am not desperate for a man by any means. I have son in the USMC and that fact that people are using our military men and women to run scams just pisses me off. I wonder if Anderson Cooper on CNN would want to cover what how scammers our using our troops to scam women. Maybe he has and I missed it.

    Thank you again to all of you for being so open and honest and sharing. It gives me comfort to know I’m not alone.
    Has anyone heard of this Sgt.Jeffery white@ yahoo.com From Alaska currently in Afghan? He even sent pictures in uniform with his name clearly displayed.

    Please if any one has any advice email me at betteggardens@comcast.net Thank you and I will hold on to my $1,899.00

    Bette

  857. Okay, do I look like I have “stupid woman” tattoo’d on my forehead? Apparently so. I was contacted by Staff Sgt James Morris stationed in Kabul, Afghanistan. James Morris Guess what? He loves me after 2 days of “chatting.” Of course, his pictures are HOT but his name on his Army uniform says “JAMES.” Isn’t that supposed to be their last name? He says he’s James Morris Stuart, Staff Sgt E-6. If he’s real, I’m in heaven but I wouldn’t put my money on it. He said his birthday is October 31st and he wants to share it with all of the locals, poor kids, the market woman, etc but his “diplomat” can’t get everything he wanted and he doesn’t have access to his account and asked if I would help him by sending his “diplomat” $200…pretty cheap, huh? I would like to upload his pictures here but I can’t see how to do that. If anyone can help me, I would most certainly appreciate it and hope it helps prevent other women having their hearts crushed by these scum-suckers.

    If anyone has seen or heard about this guy, please let me know.

    Aaron….great job! Maybe you could mess with this guy if he really IS a dating scammer….it would be my pleasure to serve him up on a plate and pass him over to you, however, I want to play too! I’m going to email him in the morning and ask him all of the questions you have posted in previous posts and ask him to take a picture holding a sign saying “I love you my Queen.” LOL Think he’s gonna play??? LOL

    • @ Linda no hes going to be so hurt and angry that you dont trust him and then hes going to ask you if you think he is a thief which he IS but play along with him to find a good baiter go to scambaiters.com also go to romancescam.com for support also for future issues with these beggars go to scamwarners.com there you can share pics with others and prevent someone else from being scammed…Also imagine that today just happens to be his birthday Ill bet the real scammer looks like he was born on Holloween stir fried shit most of them are VERY hard to look at

    • @ Linda this is how the scammer will react when you ask him these questions I have suggested this is a Thanks I received on this blog after I spoiled another scammer and exposed him to a potential victim on this blog this is the email he sent to Ennis after I told Ennis the real truth and remember scammer search this blog often which is why i dont give out to much info it only makes them a little smarter the find out what their mistake was and fix it…anyways enjoy and see below the email …..

      for anon, thanks for your reply,i didnt want to believe he was a scammer, i feel an idiot,i really do,i cant understand why they use an address in america for sending the money to, through western union,its never africa or nigeria but america,hes left me a message this morning saying he didnt like me asking questions,and for me to go to hell,he said hes fed up of me asking questions,and why dont i believe and trust him,perhaps i need to go to hell for being such a fool.he never wanted to come on cam, said it was security, ive looked at his pics,some of him on his own, some with other men,his name sgt_paul_smith202hotmail.com, also got a yahoo account, his supposed colonel was a colonel ronald peter,who was the one confirming how much i had to send,the agent was an ana hernandez circuns , who was a supposed active agent, who should receive the money through western union,just like to thank you,many thanks

    • Hi Linda,
      Oh yes, that sounds like my Perry James, Lived Florida, but was stationed in Afganistan. It was his upcoming birthday with me too. He wanted me to send T-shirts for him and his buddy Michael and a digital camera. I too, was hoping he was real…..he was HOT! I am not an idiot and sent him nothing and called him out on his scam. He wanted me to send his “package” a Mr. Dikenu…doesn’t that sound like Dicking YOU??? I think not. I have pictures. I’m sure it’s the same guy. Reply back and maybe we can exchange email addresses.

      • I have been contacted by two men who claim they are in iraq and Afgan… one goes by the name of Weston Taylor, he is looking to get a plane ticket home and is looking to settledown and finish his college as I was talking to him I was also talking to a man by the name of Mark Derrick… Mark wanted money sent to after two weeks of talking to him for christmas, just last week this guy has asked me to send a ipad2, t-shirt, body spray and cookies… both people have sent me pics… I knew right away that Weston was a scammer and I told this Mark person about him and he told me to deleted him off my yahoo account. Both people have contacted me off my yearbook and they both have a facebook account. I asked Mark today to send me his military email account and that I found this website… sorry to say but he did not have one… here are their yahoo ids weston_taylor10@yahoo.com and markderrick41@yahoo.com. I really hope other girls dont get hurt Iike i did. If there is somewhere I can post the pics I have please let me know… dont want anyone else to go through what I did. Anyone want to share photos, please contact me at jolenes30@aol.com

  858. want to thank everyone for all their stories. I have been talking to a Sgt. Jeffery White. I was so falling for everything he said. Then he said he wanted to come home to me early, but could not do it unless I helped. He wanted me to pay $1,899.00. I had said I would have no problem setting up the payment for air fare so long as it was done through a military agency. “Oh no they are in control of all that”. He said he was telling his CO that I needed him home early to marry me. I would need to western union the money first then scan in and e-mail the receipt. He would then scan in the forums for me to sign and send back. This was on a Saturday I told him I did not have the money. He wanted me to try. I said alright send me the information where to send the money. He only would give me women named Mary Murry Buffalo, New York 14207. I sent back an e-mail. Telling him there was no way I would send money without a phone number, address and the agencies name. “Oh baby that is all the information the admin dept would give me” Trust me I have to come home before my name goes up on the list for the next mission.

    I then started checking things out. I have an uncle that is retired Army so he was able to easily locate a soldier by the same name, DOB: where he is deployed form and that yes he is currently deployed in Afghan. I have this sick feeling that I’m being scammed by someone using a real soldiers ID and pictures.

    Same story as many of you. He is widowed with a son living with his father. He claims to want to marry me. really? I hope to reanch out to the Army and let the real Jeff white know that his name and photos if that is him in the photos are being used to scam women. I’m an educated woman in health care and am not desperate for a man by any means. I have son in the USMC and that fact that people are using our military men and women to run scams just pisses me off. I wonder if Anderson Cooper on CNN has cover before how scammers our using our troops to scam women. Maybe he has and I missed it.

    Thank you again to all of you for being so open and honest and sharing. It gives me comfort to know I’m not alone.

    Thank you and I will hold on to my $1,899.00

    I have about 5 pictures please contact me at betteggardens@comcast.net if you would like to post them. I can’t belive this is still goes on.

  859. next scammer contacted with me with use of skype:
    [21:36:36] Lt gen andrew: my names are Lt General Andrew Leslie from Canada.
    [21:37:17] Lt gen andrew: but now with the united nation in Afghanistan for peace promotion.
    [21:38:28] Lt gen andrew: my wife is late I need to move on with my like ok.
    [21:38:33] Lt gen andrew: any kids.
    [21:38:52] Lt gen andrew: my life
    [21:39:43] Lt gen andrew: I mean is dead since five yrs.
    [21:39:58] Lt gen andrew: so am all alone ok.

  860. 21:39:58] Lt gen andrew: so am all alone ok. yes you are definitely right he is a scammer let me guess on skype and has no cam or has he said cant use wencam because of security purposes yet if not he will because he knows his Ugly Lizard face looks nothing like the handsome military member hes pretending to be I fully think these scammers live in an imaginary world called “I Wish” They all seem to wish they were the handsome Military member they are impersonating maybe because when they look in the mirror they dont like who is looking back at them

  861. Okay Ladies,

    I’ve been doing some more research and I have an updated list of names my scammer uses over many web sites. They say it doesn’t help but I’m going to post the list anyway in case someone recognizes one of the names. Under these names, the scammer uses the real picture of a poor soul named Sgt. Aaron Ramos and his name in a few variations as well. I don’t know how to post a picture, however if you go to RomanceScam.com and look up that name under “people using the picture of Sgt. Aaron Ramos” and under White Males (who are actually black africans) Scammers, 20 pages of posts will come up reporting this guy with various pictures of poor Aaron and also posting his various stories and lines.

    Aaron Ramos Edwards
    Aaron Ramos
    Aaron Shawn Ramos
    Aaron Jay Ramos
    James Morris
    Calvin Miller
    Patrick Burke Smith
    Robert Bill Haggard (and variations thereof – although he uses a different picture for this guy as posted on this site).
    Alex Tock – his latest persona with me including a 15 year old son named Kevin
    Mark Raymond
    Anthony Ramos
    James Smith
    Jeff Michael
    Desmond Thompson
    Preston Alexander
    Shawn Robert Wood
    Kevin Ramos
    Kevin Riley

    These men are not real and they do not love us.

    Their goal is to violate our emotions so they can proceed to rape us of our money – that is all.

    Although you may have been victimized or were just about to be, this is not your fault. You are a good caring person who has faith that true love exists, do not let them take that away from you. They are soulless criminals devoid of any morality and who are therefore, not worth your heartache.

    Post your details and help the cause of others, it does help.

    • robert bill haggard is on match.com as frank haggard email f_haggard2000@yahoo.com using the same pictures. i have gotten his real name out of him it is richard osei bonsu 30 yr old south african living in ghana, email beltblinks@yahoo.com also uses the email name milky mcgregor us.carrier78@hotmail.com. i think that he has also use the name allard haggard

  862. Anonn, he uses photo and datas from Wikipedia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_Leslie
    On his skype profile he has this photo added.
    He is stil active on skype. His login is: lt.gen.andrew

  863. I am Brazilian and he tried to convince me that it was a U.S. Army military. But I’m not stupid! I conducted extensive research on the Internet only to find a site to report a virtual coup. He wanted me to send $ 3000 for a supposed diplomat named Mohammed Rashid.
    We need to find the real owners of these photos and tell them about what is happening. I suggest you to lock all their photo albums not to steal and use for scams.
    He introduced himself as Alex Arthur Miller and email used by him is this: alexathur1958@live.com He said he was on a mission in Afghanistan and would arrive in Brazil on November 17.
    I found the same photos he sent me this site and found that it was all a scam.

    http://aus-scambaiters.com/forum/photoplog/index.php?n=9119

    • Good job glad you did your research and found out he was a fake a liar and a beggar

    • The same photos sent me “Calvin Miller”… Calvin Miller is still online on skype.

  864. Does anyone know of Sgt Kevin Jordan in Teji Iraq……I believe I have been scammed by him. I see one photo of him on this sight. Truly sickens me. I met him on eharmony. Very smooth talker…..supposedly coming home to Ft Hood Texas 11/11/11. Wanted me to meet him at the airport there. All of the sudden he has fallen off the face of the earth. Have been talking to him since 8/11. He wanted to send some sort of “package” to me with money he was given by some oil minister in Iraq…..sending it through a friend of his from Ghana. Told me that he can not receive or mail anything from Teji base……unable to use web cam for security reasons. Has 2 children, currently staying with his ex wife in CA. He has custody of kids usually. Friend in Ghana asking for $$$ to get package here……..He says he is madly in love with me and I am his “queen” forever. We are soulmates……, we are a match made in heaven, I am his angel….etc….. Anyone with any info on him? His email jordank770@yahoo.com. I feel like a complete fool. Thanks for this site…..a real eye opener!!!!!

    • @ Sharon your gut feeling is correct this is a scammer he has told you s pack of lies tell him and his partner which is really him he lives in Ghana he wants the money it is for him I can tell you he is a LIAR Military can receive mail whereever they are and he could use the web cam if he were REAL but he is as fake as a 3 dollar bill go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com for support but Id be willing to bet you if you told him you knew he was a scammer but you love him anyway and promise to send the money anyways he will get his real UGLY face on cam and show you the real him which is a MUCH uglier person inside and out with about a thired grade education but do not promise him anything delete and block this piece of crap and leave him with NOTHING.

      Ft Hood Texas bet this Moron doesnt even know where Ft Hood is located all this piece of shit knows is its in Texas
      Told me that he can not receive or mail anything from Teji base……unable to use web cam for security reasons. WHAT A CROCK OF BULLSHIT!
      Glad you did your homework

      from now on anyone soliciting you on any social network saying they are Military and asking for money for ANY reason it is a Scam and he or she is a SCAMMER

      • I feel like a complete fool for falling for this idiot. He has scammed me out of alot of money. I hope and pray someday he gets caught and gets what he deserves. I feel sorry for the military man in the pictures that I have been sent. They are pictures of him with his children. He needs to be warned that someone is using his face like this. Thanks for your help and support. I will never trust anyone again. I have learned that. Now to pay the bills…….. :(

        • @ Sharon don’t feel like a fool he is the fool ever heard the term “A Fool And His Money Are Soon Seperated” well it is true he is the fool for pretending to something only he wishes he could be abd begging and stealing from a complete stranger and don’t worry God is going to get his LAZY ass in more ways than one.

  865. I wonder if any REAL servicemen actually do these types of stuff though… If one of us says our parents are dead, have no kids, and are poor and need a new iphone, will there really be women who will send us iphones?

    • I’m military and I’ve been deployed numerous times… I can honestly tell you ladies that no real man deployed, would ever ask for an Iphone or any money of that nature. It’s hard living over there, but we do get a paycheck (a little more than we normally make in the states) and honestly the only things we want while we are over there are better food, shampoos, soaps, chap stick, and maybe a warm blanket (because it does get cold). I don’t think I’ve ever asked anyone for any of the other stuff requested and I hate to see people use our military as a scam. Most of the guys are just happy enough to have someone to write. I’m sorry you ladies have gone this. I wish nothing but the best to all of you. Hope my e-mail could help!

      Jamie

  866. would like to inform whomever, that a guy claiming to be in afghan and a captain was using the name Captain Lingo has posted photo’s i would upload photo’s i have received but not sure how to, he has claimed that if i send him money he would be able to leave afghan and he would come to australia and start a new life with me…..lucky i am not completely silly to fall for the trap, i met him through a music download called Bearshare….. he is also on facebook under the name of frank lingo with photo of himself in his uniform has also sent me other photo’s whilst in afghan….

  867. My very first hour on match.com was approached by VimVimsomething claiming to be Staff Sergeant Joe Robles stationed in Kabul, Afghanistan. He is using the email address Dpld Trp claims to have been deployed from Ft. Hood, Texas nearly 18 months ago and about to be sent back home and going into retirement. Says he’s from Bedford, Texas. He is supposedly career military, born in Germany to American parents, career army dad, military nurse mom, both deceased. Says he is divorced, and has been for 5 years. No kids.

    The first tip off was that he could never quite figure out what time it was in Kabul. We are about 11.5 hours different from Kabul but when I’d ask “what time is it there” he would be 12 hours, 14 hours off.

    He did send five pictures of a very handsome, approximately mid to late 40s caucasian male. Have saved his emails and photos. Can gladly pass them along to help clear the gentleman who is being portrayed.

    The next tip off was that he didn’t use Americanized English. No conjunctions, no slang. See below:

    Hello Dear
    Sharing and caring is what friendship is all about.No matter how big or how small,a friend’s act of kindness always leaves a lasting touch of gold in the heart.And no matter how different friends are,or how far apart, the sunshine and happiness they lend always mends the gaps between them And I’m sending this greeting, because I want you to know how thankful I am to have a friend like you…Have a great day.I really enjoyed talking to you last night and looking forward to talk with you again and know more about each other..Have a great day and know at this point of time am thinking about you.
    Take Care
    Hugs
    Joe

  868. Dating scams using military men – very recently

    On Oct 17, 2011, Brig. Gen. Alessandro Veltri (email – veltri101@ovi.com) befriended me via Bearshare, a site where I download my free music. He claims to be currently commanding the Italian Sassari Mechanized Brigade based in Kabul, divorced 8 years ago and looking for a wife. I found his approach very direct and personally impressive.

    To make the story short, I discovered later (Oct 25) that he is a fake and a scammer, when he asked me if I could travel to help retrieve his money kept in Ghana. I immediately cut him out afterwards. I know there are lots of scams coming from that part of Africa. I suspected right there and then, that this is a case of identify theft, with the real person whose ID he used unknowing about it.

    I should have not ignored the red flags flying:

    1) Early on, he asked me if I can travel abroad.
    2) When asked about the wife, he said that is his problem now because he needs a wife to take care of something.
    3) He also asked how much I earn in my work, what exactly am I doing, do I live alone.

    I strongly suspect the real Gen. Veltri is a victim of identity theft. His identity is being used by someone in a scam to victimize vulnerable women lured to quickly become his wife, and perhaps used as a front to handle financial transactions on his behalf. Luckily for me I was able to detect it before I fell into the trap. (I may be easily seduced but I’m not stupid yet.)

    I surfed the net and discovered from the ISAF website that Gen. Veltri has turned over the command in April 2010. I also discovered that he (the fake one) is in many dating sites on the web. The picture used in Bearshare is the same picture that appears in the ISAF website on its Leadership. I found another dating website (looking for love) with personal details similar to the ISAF leadership with a civilian picture accompanied by pictures in Kabul (must be a download from ISAF site). I surfed veltri101 and I found this person in many dating sites, with slight variations in the personal details, some using the ISAF picture.

    There is a Brig. Gen. Alessandro Veltri in FB, but I have a strong feeling this is the fake one. The pictures used here are all in the flickr album of ISAF.

    I am very angry for being lied to with all my honesty as a friend and a woman who very much appreciates truthfulness to self, esp. in men. I’m not blaming myself for being naïve about scams like this one because I am a trusting person, but extreme caution should be taken to avoid victimization.

    Most of all I am very angry to think that more vulnerable women would fall victim to scammers’ crime using the IT space. The fake Veltri is very sophisticated in his seduction techniques. He appeals to maternal impulses (he said his two children are dying to have a mother soon), tends to be keenly interested in my personal likes (colors, what I like in men), yielding in conversations and would occasionally accede, is emotionally expressive, and very straight talking (an attraction for mature women like me). He even wanted to see me soon, as according to him camp will be off by end of Oct, and the children also wants to meet me soon (lovely children!), Nov 10 to be exact, and if possible have a skype with them before the meeting.

    I became suspicious at one time, and I tried ‘catching’ him. My!, he’s so good to have posed as having integrity and getting angry for me wasting his time to chat. He said generals also have time to do the internet and chat, as I raised the issue of a brigade commander still having the time to chit chat and find a wife via internet.

    Gen. Veltri claimed to be a lonely divorced man looking for a wife and a mother for his children, and God must have led him to me to have seen my profile that really captivated him.

    Why would a military man be in a hurry to get a wife? My hunch is that he tried luring me to access his money in Ghana by posing as his wife, and then problems will crop up, and then he will ask me to send him money. (Or maybe he has dirty money in Ghana and wants a front to handle it.)

    My lessons:

    If it sounds too good to be true, it must be too good to be true.

    Be keen and alert in using the internet for background investigation.
    In my case, I was not so keen about knowing how updated the ISAF data is. So I became impressed with the man because I found an internet proof that he is a real one.

    My suggestion is that the real persons whose pictures and identities are used for scams should stand up and denounce this despicable crime to warn both potential victims and victimizers. Their words and disclaimer would be powerful tools to prevent this type of scam. Of course, I am sharing my story to help prevent further victimization.

    liza

    How do I submit a picture for inclusion in the ‘face’ of military scams?

    • @ Liz try scamwarners.com or romancescam.com there you will be able to share your pics and your story and see the same pics this lying scammer used to try to scam you

  869. Hi, i was approach by sgt Dan Williamson . He said he is on the deployment of the Libyan … someone could tell me how to know if I get ripped off by him …. sorry for my englih am a canadian french person, and i want to be sure of who i chat with…

    • @ Julie yes Military will NOT need to ask you for money for any reason the military takes care of its own so it this
      sgt Dan Williamson asks you for any money for ANY reason he is a scammer and it will be a scam ask to have a chat with him on webcam for at least 30 minutes to an hour he wont he will make up excuses as to why he cant cam with you he is a scammer and since you are Canadian please go to scamwarners and romancescam.com for support and also share your story with others and check his pics in the database I am sure you will find the pics there

      Asks you for MONEY FOR ANY REASON OR ASKS TO SEND ANYTHING TO YOU FOR ANY REASON OR A DIPLOMAT WHICH IS REALLY HIM HE IS A SCAMMER

      DO NOT GIVE OUT any personal information block and delete this beggar

  870. My dear Mark,

    I have read your mail and I really thank you for accepting to carry out this transaction for me and my men. I want you to be rest assured that everything will be done perfectly as i have carefully worked out the legal logistics for the smooth delivery of the funds to you in your country as all you have to do is to follow my guidelines and instructions. I am a trained military expert and i know the laws very well so there is nothing to worry.

    So now,let me make you understand my power in affecting the transfer of this funds to you as i have already informed you all about the money and i know i have equally informed you where the box is deposited. I am in charge of my unit here, I give orders and instructions and you know the respect and honour i control here, so i am going to obtain all the required documents of approval on your behalf as the receiving owner of the box in his country. Now let me make you understand how this business is going to be done successfully, Every week, a RED CROSS RELIEF JET flies from Yemen here to Europe, America, and Asian continent to go and collect reliefs from donors. So after obtaining every approved document on your behalf as the owner of the box, i will then seal up the box which is with the RED CROSS to the beneficiary in his country.

    Then I want you to know that diplomats run a courier service with the RED CROSS which is called the RED CROSS DIPLOMATIC COURIER SERVICE, this service is meant for transferring hard documents, Trunk boxes and precious stones, they call it consignment. This consignment will be registered under their service and will be carried with their diplomatic immunity to any country where they have diplomatic grounds and then deliver it to the owner of the consignment on the grounds where they maintain diplomatic immunity. So in this case,the delivery will go like this, Once i register the consignment in your name at the Red cross, Then i will seal it and then register it as a diplomatic consignment Trunk Box to be delivered to the owner in his country. The Airplane that will airlift the consignment is the RED CROSS JET which equally has the diplomatic immunity to lift such consignments and other hard copies because of the nature of its work. So When it lands in your country, then the diplomat will immediately contact you and you will proceed and go and receive the consignment from him. It is very simple and straight forward transaction as long as you follow my guidelines and instructions.

    You should understand that diplomats are very busy people so they will not be able to tolerate delays, so you must have to be alert and ready so that as soon as they land in your country and contact you, then you will be able to meet with the diplomat immediately and claim your consignment. I hope you have understood all about this business and how it is going to be done. So for us to start up immediately, i will need the below information from you immediately:

    1, YOUR FULL NAME
    2, YOUR CURRENT CONTACT ADDRESS
    3, YOUR OCCUPATION AND POSITION
    4, YOUR AGE
    5, MARITAL STATUS
    6, YOUR MOBILE TELEPHONE NUMBERS

    These information will enable me obtain the required documents on your behalf here from the court which will legalize you as the beneficiary of the consignment as required by law which will be used to register the consignment on your name. Once i am through with that, i will let you know and i will also send you all the documents which i used in registering you as the owner of the box. I will also inform you all the contact information of the diplomat to enable you be able to contact him once he arrives in your country so you can see that it is a straight forward transaction as all you need is to follow my instruction.
    .
    Finally, you should make sure to keep this transaction very secret and confidential to avoid any uncertainties. Once you receive the box,then you take your own share and keep the rest for me and my men until i come over to your country to meet with you when we are out of the base here. I will be updating you as we progress, Please treat this with the secrecy and urgency it deserves, i am counting on your trust and understanding .

    Waiting for your urgent message to enable me proceed.

    Greetings from Yemen

    Mac
    plz help me

  871. body

    My dear Mark,

    It has been a terrible situation for us in Aden city and we have just arrived back from Aden city with my men and i read your message to me. Thank you so much for your concern and prayers my love. There is good news Mark and i have to let you know about it immediately because there can be no friendship without confidence and i believe that friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a good friend having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words. Please my dear, i will like you to keep it to yourself, I mean let it be a secret between both of us. Now listen, We raided the terrorist forces of Aden and it was a deadly hit as we had collided head on with the terrorist forces and killed 36 of them during confrontation while some escaped through the underground tunnel. I lost 7 of my men during the confrontation and as we commenced for further inspection in their hideout with my men, we proceeded to a marked site underground and as i commenced further search under close guard by 2 soldiers, I discovered an unusual bulge in a cellar, which I presumed to be storage room and as we forced it open to have a closer look at it, I kicked a metal covering and found 3 big metal boxes locked with padlocks.

    On forcing the boxes open, we discovered a lot of ornaments and old documents at the first layer of the boxes and to my greatest amazement, the second layers were filled with money in us dollar bills though this is not the first time this kind of occasion is taking place here in Yemen because the terrorist here in Yemen keep most of their money at home for evil activities which they normally get from illegal deals on crude oil in Yemen and use it in purchasing of arms which they use in destroying peoples lives and properties. We quickly covered the boxes and at about 0500hrs when we came out from the underground, then we went straight to Government house of Yemen and tender the boxes of money to the prime minister, who immediately assembled his officers and thanked us for such a great work in recovering the country’s money stolen by the terrorist. The money was counted by his officers in bundles which amounted to USD20.5 Million. The prime minister in his appreciation for our good work gave us USD1.2million and asked us to share among ourselves so as to use to establish ourselves when we are out of Yemen back to our country. I enclose for you also the picture at the state’s house when i brought the money with my men to the prime minister and it was been counted by the officers.

    So now due to the military rules and regulations guiding us, we cannot take the money given to us back to the base because it will be taken from us by the commander and paid to the Army treasury for their own personal interest. So considering the suffering we undergo here, instead of taking the money to the base and allowing the commander to take the money from us for their own self interest, then we decided to move it outside Yemen immediately to a trusted safe hand to keep for us so that we can come over when we are out of Yemen and share the money. So after several discussion with my men for a trusted person, I told them about you and my relationship with you so we agreed to inform you about it and also to plead your consent to move the money USD1.2million (One million two hundred thousand dollars) to you in your country so that you keep it safe for us until we are out of Yemen and then i will come over to meet with you in your country for the sharing of the money. We have agreed to give you 30% of the money for your help and assistance for us in keeping the money while you keep 70% for me and my men until i come over to meet with you when we are out of the military base soon. The Money is well packaged in the box and we are going to move the money to you through the Red Cross Courier Diplomatic means to your country immediately so you can keep it for us. I have 100% authentic means of moving the funds to you through diplomatic courier means to your country successfully. This is the greatest opportunity that i have now to come over to your country and meet with you and start a new and peaceful life with you in your country with your assistance so that we can share in our love and joy of partnership. I will explain to you in details on the modalities for the delivery of the funds to you in my next mail when i receive your message. Trust and honesty is the investment i put in you Mark. I count on your understanding.

    I wait for your message.

    Greetings and lots of love from Yemen

    Mac

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  872. plz help me guys i dont know what to do….

  873. RED ALERT

    My scammer is at it again using Sgrt. Aaron Ramos’s picture under his newest alias Kelvin Ramos. Be sure to go to romancescammers.com also, they have a lot of pictures posted and alias’ that these dirt bags use.

    Eventually, we will get these guys Ladies – together.

    • I am from Germany, and i talked to a Aaron Ramos for a long time.But in the meantime, i know who this scammer is.One day i told him ,that i will not talk to him anymore,because he is a scammer,but if he tells me the truth, i will help him anyway.
      And one day,he really gave me his real name and even address.He is a young guy from nigeria 24 years old.He was using Aaron Ramos pictures.He told me,he stopped scamming,maybe it is still him.If you want more information on this guy,let me know.I even got pictures and a copy of his birthcertificat.I am still talking to him,sometimes,because he wants me to get him over here to Germany.
      If you want more information,let me know.

  874. Hello Everyone, Please help!

    Just couple of day now I have been writing with a military man I just meet on a dating site, the below is a part of his long email, he sound just like the man in my dream and a bit too good to be true, I google him and saw the same photos he send me are on a “romancescam site” and after continuing the search I come across this site which I should have done before I told him a bit about myself or send him couple of photos of myself and I am feeling really dumb right now and at the same time still hoping that he is for real ..:-(
    This is what he wrote, I have only remove the names just in case…:
    “…..my instincts tells me you are a good woman. But here am I with you, far away in the Middle East (Afghanistan) on Peace keeping with the Army…Too bad isn’t it? Well as long as we have life, we can still have time for ourselves in the near future, what matters is life, right? I do understand the distance thing, I just truly believe that there are no boundaries as you seek your life companion… How do I set the ball rolling? Well, with a dual citizenship (American and Norwegian) I am …., I was born and bred in the town of Baltimore, Maryland some 50 years ago by a Norwegian mother called ….and an American father called…….my parents met at the university..That was what i was told… Talking about my family background am the only son of my late parents. That reminds me of a good and lovely family we were together in Baltimore.I have lived in Towson ever since, before i was brought up here by my late uncle to stay with him and help in his Military interruption after finishing High School in Towson and study mechanical engineering in a local community college in Baltimore…I later enrolled into Camden Military Academy (Camden, South Carolina) when i was 21years and graduated in 1977 as a Sergeant. Shortly after commissioning, I then obtained a study leave to furthered my education in Defense Intelligence, sponsored by the Military at the Camden Military Academy..I have also been in and out Ramstien Camp in Germany that’s where i was given the post as a Colonel and that’s where most Generals in every army are trained. I was first stationed at the Fort Meade Barracks, ……. I have been in the army for 25 years and i have been too many bases in the states to work there as well as Germany,Afghanistan,Saudi Arabia and Iraq,..And trust me I have seen and experienced being in the US army and i never regret joining the army……..I am currently on PEACE KEEPING MISSION in Afghanistan and will be home on retirement in five weeks and that is one main reason why I joined the dating website even though its not safe out here to be using the internet and everything, I still had a thought about dating since for a long time. I’m about to go on retirement and want to have that special woman in my life so that when i come back on retirement i can be with till the end of the world. This online dating is all new to me and i would love to hear your voice but its unfortunate that we have a communication break down and hope you can bear with me for security reasons….”

    • Scammer for sure. One big tip off is they say “am” instead of “I am” or “I’m”. End it before it’s to late. Trust the scamming sites. I belong to one on face book and the amount of people posing as military personnal is outrageous and disgusting.

  875. scammer mateo kelvin or mateo ramos or john mateo is still using all possible mails to scam women for money with pic of unknown soldier. latest email is Matel_Kelvin40@yahoo.com…..I saw more than 5 different fb profiles today and also profile on datanta……!!!!!!!

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    • Hey FAKE Mr Thomas get the fuck out of here trying to scam people this blog has NOTHING to do with a Loan so keep your lying begging scamming ass off of this blog you have No MONEY what you need is an Education so your lazy scamming ass will stop Scamming LOSER in a perfect world you and all of your scamming friends would be nuked LOSER! CJ get on top of this and please block these MORONS I HATE SCAMMERS

    • Mr Thomas AKA Scammer Thats what BANKS are for you know the ligit ones which is something you know nothing about How dare you bring your ass to this blog trying to scam you are one sick and sadistic fuck GET A REAL JOB no one has time for your FAKE Loans or FAKE loan company or your fake promise for a Loan only to have you try to scam people by asking for some money in advance to secure a Loan from your FAKE Company we are on to you scammers LOSER

  877. tpl.dpld@ymail.com is now on Match.com as GAAQA, What a pig! He went by the name Joe Robles and even we so far as to give me a physical address in Bedford. And and xwife name. Ladies, please beware. He is a smooth talker.

  878. Good day,

    Hi i am Jamie from Philippines i am 19 year old and i am looking for these person he is captain Robert
    his full name is Robert Eugene he is assign in Iraq (Kurdistan) because yesterday i am trying to call his phone and its say (out of coverage) today i am worried to him kindly please help me if he is still there in Iraq
    or kindly please e-mail him and ask to e-mail and contact me in so i am not worried about him
    or you can also send me e-mail in jamiesanchez_maldita@yahoo.com
    i hope you can send me e-mail if you contact him ,ill wait your e-mails

    thank you and god bless,

    jamie

  879. What about a “Dennis Graves”? It is the same scenario, but stationed in Libya…..retired military, but sent to Libya to TRAIN soldiers…..before Gadahfi was killed. He is after a relative of mine. Same story, Sweetheart, I love you darling….etc. If you know of him can you contact me? I know it won’t help my relative…because she won’t believe it. This is the second time for her. Diffferent name, probably the same person. Objective is getting money to buy Gold. to send to her.
    Like the FBI agent told us before, once the money is over the water, it is gone. Please help if you can, at least anyone else.
    Thank you,

  880. I met someone who called himself : Colonal Michael Thompson, he said he was at Camp Rhino, Kabul, Afghanistan. Met on Yahoo IM, asked if I had a phone and wanted to talk to me, but that I needed to email a request to speak to him at the following email address: mttinquiriesinafghan@usa.com. He said that I had to fill in a request to get to have contact via phone with him. When I advised him that I had several friends in the military and that I never had to do that, he claimed that “it is done this way now!” So, I did send the request in like he asked, I addressed it to the attention of Communication Unit, as he asked.. I do believe this is a scam as they wanted money to contact this person by phone…needless to say.. I advised him I was not paying to speak to him and that I will have no further contact with him…. This is what I received below.. you be the judge.. I would send you a pic of him.. but I can’t seem to paste it to this space.. email me and I will be glad to send it to you..
    First of all.. you don’t need to send a money order to a woman in New Jersey as it is asking… see for yourself below… again here is the email site that they gave me and answered with.. mttinquiriesinafghan@usa.com

    CALLING PERMIT PROCESSING UNIT.
    CAMP RHINO,
    KABUL.
    AFGHANISTAN.

    This office will like to notify you that we have received your call
    request… and we are happy to treat your message immediately.

    We will like to give you a brief introduction on our radio transmitted
    connectivity that can get to any military camp that give civilians
    the chance to make free unlimited calls from any part of the country
    to any fort will be interested in calling .This solutions have been
    implemented for United States Marine Corps (USMC), U.S. Army Corps ,
    Australian Defense Force (ADF), Command of Polish Navy, Special
    Military Formation GROM, 1st Special Commando Regiment, Polish
    National Police, Polish National Headquarters of the State Fire
    Services, Border Guard (Poland), World Bank Group, Lockheed Martin
    Information Technology, Halliburton Energy Services, KBR, General
    Dynamics Information Technology, General Atomics Aeronautical Systems
    Inc., L-3 Communications Vertex Aerospace, US Naval Research
    Laboratory, ITT Corporation Aerospace / Communications Division,
    TechNet Holdings / EOIR Technologies, North Eastern Aeronautical
    Company (Neany), Echo Storm Worldwide, Jorge Scientific Corporation,
    Erin’s International, Aegis Iraq, Warsaw Stock Exchange, Polish State
    Railways PKP S.A., University of Warsaw, Reuters, TVP – Polish TV,
    TVN, Agora, PAP – Polish Press Agency, EuroZet, Nokia Siemens
    Networks, PTC – Polska Telefonia Cyfrowa, Centertel, Polkomtel,
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  881. Hmmmm so you want someone to contact your scammer and have him to email or call you??? WOW if he is a REAL Military member which Im sure he is not his next of Kin will be notified if something has happened to him but I am sure your scammer is alive and well and will contact you when he is out of the money you sent him or when he needs more money good luck I am not even touching this one this is a first someone seeking to have someone on this blog to email their scammer because they miss them.

  882. I got a response from a soldier named Davis Pendleton, we chatted alittle but something seemed strange. Well I did some digging and found this site and there he was (very hansome). So when another email came to me this guy started saying he loved me I really knew it was fake then. Well a couple days later he said he needed money to get his discharge papers I was not going to answer him after he told me he loved me. But I told him that I knew it was a scam and I was going to report it and have the transcript of what he said to me. He got angry and I just clicked him off. I then went to facebook to try to find this Davis and I posted something on his post. Someone needs to do something about this I mean these are soldiers and they are getting scammed themselves. Sad that anyone would fall for these scams…

  883. I would just like to say that i wish I knew about these scams a few months ago, Sgt. Paul Anderson came into my life via. dating website. he wowed me in many ways and being that he was in the military I thought he was legit. He need money for what he called a Switching Over Protocol which would have him leave his tour in Africa and bring him back to the states. I gave into his every whim thinking that he would be home soon. I am borrowed all kinds of money,let my bills add up, and sent him money for BTA (fake) fees and everything else.
    I am in so much debt now that I don’t how I will recover from it. I’m tell you all this in hopes that you will see this before they get you. Also, I feel that using military men as a scam is the worst possible scam there is. These men and women are fighting for our Country and this is how we repay them.

    • Hello it got me good… I know how you feel. I am still recovering from my debt, it is going to take time. My a__h___ seemed so kind, caring, and got me good.. I fell for him, the debt will get easier to deal with, I almost lost my home..

      take care of yourself during this time.. it is the best way handlef(from my experience) the stress..

      L-

  884. Has anybody come across Staff Sargent Brian Stewart? He is claiming he is in the National Guard in Kabul. Widowed, one male child called Johnny who lives with Brian’s mother. Brians father is dead, owned a construction company. Brian claims his mother is from The Pas, Manitoba, Canada. Heis’ been in the service since he was 35 and now he is 49. Looking forward to replies.

    • @ June I took this from your post ………..one male child called Johnny who lives with Brian’s mother. THAT IS A SCAMMER all day NOT One single American I know would refer to their child the way this scammer has they seem to be very IGNORANT and UNEDUCATED but to make it easy for you ask him to get on cam and have an interactive chat with you for 30 minutes to an hour if he refuses for ANY reason to put your mind at ease and clear the doubt you have HE IS A SCAMMER which I know this already real Military members have NO time to troll social sites but SCAMMERS do all they have is time on their hands

  885. Just wanted to add a name to the list. John Kepley. email kepleyjohn@yahoo.com

    Ladies please be more inquisitive and aware. The more you can educate yourself the more you will be able to pick out these decietful low lifes from the real, honest, imperfect, sweet, wonderful guys that are out there. If you think ‘he’ may be too good to be true, ‘he’ very well may be. Protect yourself!!

  886. I just was chatting with Raymond Drapper for few weeks. I was in a dating site called seniorpeoplemeet.com and somebody wanted to chat. But the picture on the profile looked like the one in facebook if you search that name. Then he said he wanted my email because he was using the account of a friend. I gave him my email and he sent a photo of him with a child both in football T-shirts. Then in the Yahoo messenger right top corner there were a photo of him with military uniform
    and the same child, In the chatting he mentioned his son was about to turn 10. He said he was widowed. In the photo he looks younger that 53 but he sustained we was 53. He always chatted like in code. He appeared being in Irak or something like that.. He has not asked me for nothing and anyhow I suspected was a scam since the beginning. I am writing this because doing some research today I found some complains in the internet about him from others women. In those comments somebody said Raymond drapper was killed some time ago. This is the email appears he is using. raymonddrapper52@yahoo.com.
    That name in facebook profile has another physical appearance.

    Maybe if you can publish the photo in facebook and the photo I could send you.

  887. Well beware of a scammer name Samuel Campell His army ID number is us/army/2354646sc. and his buddy John Oseni. They say there are in the militay and need money to get home. They want you to send the money to nigeria…I have some picture i will put them up later just beware of these to men..

  888. I have some photo’s of the Scammer I was talking to if you would like them to add here to your gallery I feel really sorry for the real guys in the photo’s could you immagine one of them out shopping & some woman who has been scammed spots the real unsuspecting guy .Because the Guys really have served or are still serving their country But Really DO NOT know some scumbag from Ghana has stolen his photo’s & Using them to scam unsuspecting women out of thousands ..The guy I chatted to for 8 months claimed he was in American Special forces . Thank god I smelt a Rat but I know he has fooled some women using the same pictures I have but he used a different name each time You are welcome to the photo’s if it helps warn someone not to fall for his lies . Last time I heard off him was Last Fri but now he knows I will not give him money he has cut contact. & No doubt he is back on Uniform Dating under no doubt another ID he has apparrently already had countless Names on Uniform Dating & Lots of other sites I put just One of his email addresses in Spokeo & it said he was listed on 74 sites just on that email alone.

  889. I started reading your site a few days ago when i was suspisious of a guy i was talking to on yahoo inst. messenger and before that Match .com. Interesting that I acually met 3 men on match I had spoke to lately ahd I will get back to that as I see one of the pictures of one on them above. yesterday I asking the solder I was talking to for his address in Afganastan and he thold me he did not have it becuase he was retireing. I was thinking about it last night and he messaged me in the middle of the night to talk we did and he asked what would i thnk if he was not the person in the pictures he sent. I played along and said i did not know. He wanted me to get on web cam and it did not work. Then he sent me a web cam to view and he claimed to be from another country where they were very poor and he wanted to keep talking to me. Howeer the pcture was dark and I could only see a tile floor and he was a large black many with no shirt. I turned it off and kept talking to him he said ne was going ot try and get money from me but he could not do it after speaking ot me. He wanted me to keep concersing with him then gave me his number. I am hear this morning ready to delete everything but thught the number may be alble to be reported. My mistake was giving way to much ino to someone as I passed a picture from my work email lately and he ahs then number and my cell. not sure where to start with cleaning up this mess I created.
    The 2nd and 3rd person on Match.com are also scammers I can tell I see one picture above, and the other from the emails I received. Email for solder was Elvin_wayne@yahoo.com said retireing in Jan and had a 15 year old daughter sent me pictures of home in NY,said wife died 2 years ago, and picture of daugther and of him in military uniform and in field.

    • @ DLP you can start by deleting and blocking these scammers and also you can call your phone company and have his number blocked as for your work number I dont think you have much to worry about they have to pay for those calls not here like in the US where you either have a prepaid phone or a contract phone they have to buy cards for their cell phones many scammers will not call or if they are pretending to be Military thats why they beg for money for the fake phone line because they want the money to buy the newest cellphones and a card to put minutes on the phone and that is costly there.

      Also I have heard this more often now that scammers are now coming clean and getting on cam showing who they really are but I believe this to be another scam where they still want to be your friend and you should appreciate them for their honesty and believing they have made friends with you they will remind you that they are from a 3rd world Country and very poor and need your help since you are their Friend hmmm scary thought but TRUE good for you I am happy you did your homework and found them to be scammers go to romancescam.com or scamwarners.com to share your story. Anonn

  890. A man who call himself called Curtis Lopez, Lopez Donovan, Sergeant Raymond Lopez,
    Sergeant Steve Lopez,
    Please look this site http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=27989

    This man is using different names with the same persons different pictures which seems he tagged from somewhere in the internet or using dead solders pictures. We did a research and found out more than 15 pictures used my Nigerian Scammers all over the world. They claim they fall in love in few days and tell what you want to hear. They use our brave solider for their personal gain.

  891. Women beware of benson90800@yahoo.com! He says he is stationed in Afghanistan and it did not take him to ask me for a phone to the tune of 450 dollars. He is also on POF.com (dating website plenty of fish). Here is the first e-mail he sent me
    ,I HAD BEEN SO BUSY OUT ON PATROL VERY TIRED NOW BUT JUST NEEDED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I HATE PLAYING GAMES BUT DON’T KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU NOW ALL I WANT YOU TO KNOW IS THAT IF YOU REALLY WANT A HONEST MAN THEN HERE I AM.LITTLE ABOUT MY BACKGROUND,I’M LAST OF THREE CHILDREN,THEY ARE MY HALF BROTHER AND SISTER THAT CAME FORWARD IN THE LAST 15 YEARS ONE AT A TIME, MY DAD WAS A MUSICIAN AND THE ONLY THING HE WAS PLAYING WASN’T THE DRUMS. MY MOTHER IS A VERY LOVELY WOMAN WITH A GRAND HEART AND I AM A MIXTURE OF BOTH PARENTS, GENETICALLY AND THEORETICALLY. I GREW UP IN COLORADO SPRINGS AND WHAT I REMEMBER MOST ABOUT GROWING UP WAS THE SIMPLE LIFE OF THE COUNTRY, WE HAD A PINTO THAT WOULD SIT ON THE GROUND WHEN WE WOULD GET ON HIM, HE WAS SO LAZY, SOON HE WAS PUT OUT TO PASTURE AND GOT WILD, SO I GUESS HE WAS HAPPY. I HATED GOING TO GET THE EGGS FROM THE CHICKENS CAUSE I WAS SO AFRAID THEY WOULD PICK ME….LOL. AND MY GRANDMOTHER DID IT WITH SUCH EASE. I ALWAYS LOVED TO READ AS A CHILD AND MOM ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW WHY I ALWAYS HAD THIS FAR AWAY LOOK AND SHE ALWAYS SAID TO ME, I’D GIVE A PENNY FOR YOUR THOUGHT CHILD. I LOVED WORKING IN THE GARDEN WITH MY GRANDMOTHER AND FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON I HAVE A BLACK THUMB WHEN IT COMES TO PLANTS, I COULD PICK OR PRESERVE ANYTHING. DAD WOULD COME HOME WITH A TRUCK LOAD OF CORN AND I WAS HAPPY TO SIT AND SHUCK CORN ALL DAY FIGHTING WITH THE LONG HAIRS ON THE COBBS, GRANDMOTHER HAD THIS NEAT MACHINE THAT WE PUT THE HARD CORN IN TO GET THE KERNELS FOR THE CHICKENS AND I CAN REMEMBER HER RINGING THE NECKS OF THOSE CHICKEN AND PLUCKING THE FEATHERS FOR PILLOWS, NOTHING TASTED BETTER THAN A GOOD CHICKEN STEW FROM A YARD CHICKEN. THAT SEEM LIKE SUCH A LONG TIME AGO, AND LIFE HAS CHANGED SO MUCH. THE DAYS GO BY SO FAST AND PEOPLE JUST DON’T HAVE THE VALUES THEY HAD BACK THEN, DON’T GET ME WRONG, THEY DID THERE LITTLE DO THEN AND KEPT SECRETS THAT WOULD MAKE YOUR HEAD SPIN WHEN THEY FINALLY CAME OUT. I SPENT A LOT OF TIME ON MY UNCLES FARM, THE GEESE RAN OUR BUTTS AND WE PLAYED IN THE HAY AND LIFE WAS GRAND, AND I DON’T KNOW WHAT OPEN UP THIS MORNING TO MAKE ME GO SO FAR BACK, BUT I FIGURED YOU WOULD WANNA KNOW SOMETHING ABOUT ME, JUST STARTED A FLOW OF THOUGHTS IN MY HEAD.

    AROUND THE TIME I WAS 12 MY PARENTS BUILT A NIGHT CLUB AND BY THE TIME I WAS A TEENAGER I WAS GETTING OFF SCHOOL TO CLEAN THE CLUB AND HELP OUT WITH THE CHORES, AND I LEARN HOW TO SEW WHEN I WAS TEN AND TO THIS VERY DAY I LOVE NOTHING MORE THAN SITTING DOWN TO MAKE A DRESS, OF COURSE I DON’T HAVE TIME FOR THAT ANYMORE, BUT NOW I DO IT WITH SKILL AND PRIDE, IT CAME FROM PRACTICING AND LEARNING TO BE PATIENT.

    MY PARENTS MARRIAGE WASN’T EASY AND THERE WERE DAYS THAT I WISH I COULD FORGET, BUT IT SHAPES WHO WE ARE AS ADULTS AND EVERY SINGLE THING WE GO THROUGH WE LEARN, MY MOM SHE IS A HELL OF A WOMAN AND SHE TAUGHT ME WHAT IT MEANT TO BE STRONG AND TO ENDURE FOR THE FAMILY, TO RAISE YOUR CHILDREN AND TO JUST BE A MAN AND MY RESPECT FOR HER IS ENDLESS. THOUGH THEY WERE MARRIED FOR 50 YEARS BUT WAITING FOR ME AT THE BOSOM OF GOD.

    AROUND THE TIME I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL, I STILL WAS PRETTY MUCH A READER AND DREAMER, I DID GOOD IN SCHOOL, BUT AS ADULTS WHEN WE LOOK BACK WE WISH WE WERE MORE FOCUS AND APPLIED OUR SELF MORE, I ENJOYED MY LIFE, I WENT OUT WITH MY FRIENDS, TO ALL THE DANCES, GOT MY DRIVING LICENSE AT 15 AND WAS A FULL FLEDGED BARTENDER ON THE WEEKENDS AT MY DADS CLUB. I KNOW THAT SOUNDS WEIRD, BUT I WAS ALWAYS SO MATURE AND MORE ON THE SERIOUS SIDE AND I HAD TO HELP MY PARENTS MUCH AS I COULD AND YOUNG MEN WERE SO MUCH MORE MATURE THAN THE YOUNG MEN TODAY.

    I LOVE TO COOK AND I DID A LOT MORE OF THAT WHEN I WAS LIVING WITH MY PARENTS AND WHEN I FIRST MOVED, BUT AFTER HAVING MORE LEFT OVERS THEN I CARE TO EAT, I STARTED EATING MORE AT MY GIRLFRIENDS STORE, SHE COOK GREAT HOME COOKED MEALS AND MY GREAT GIRLFRIENDS SEE ABOUT ME. SOMETIMES WOMEN CAN BE SO CATTY, BUT I HAVE BEEN BLESSED TO HAVE GREAT GIRLFRIENDS.

    AFTER I GRADUATED FROM HIGH SCHOOL, I WENT TO BUSINESS SCHOOL FOR 2 SEMESTERS AND THEN DROP OUT BORED TO DEATH TO GET A JOB WITH A ROAD CONSTRUCTION COMPANY AND I WAS BLESSED TO ALWAYS FIND GOOD JOBS, OF COURSE I SPENT MOST OF MY YEARS IN CONVINCE FOOD STORE BUSINESS IN ACCOUNTING, INVENTORY CONTROL, MANAGEMENT, AND I DID THE WHOLE NINE YARDS. NOW I PROUD TO SERVE MY COUNTRY CAUSE I LOVE HER.

    WISH YOU KNOW MORE ABOUT MY BACKGROUND NOW…..VERY HARD TRYING TO REMEMBER ALL THIS…

    I WANT YOU IN MY LIFE CAUSE YOU SEEMS LIKE A REAL NICE WOMAN TO BE WITH….

    ANYTHING MORE PLS FEEL FREE TO ASK ME.

    MICHAEL

  892. I WANT YOU TO KNOW IS THAT IF YOU REALLY WANT A HONEST MAN THEN HERE I AM…..LOL what a CROCK of BS ………NOW I PROUD TO SERVE MY COUNTRY CAUSE I LOVE HER……Oh yes I am sure he makes Africa very proud of him with his begging ass why do they always feel they have to tell their LONG drawn out fake life and sob story NOT one scammer that has tried me has left out some fake long drawn out life story I have had to tell many I DONT CARE about you nor your life story go away and they are just apalled when you call them what they are Lying Beggars lol.

  893. In late Feb 2011, I was approached by a person on an on-line dating website located at: http://www.arabmatchmaking.com. I agreed to exchange private, off-site, e-mail addresses with a man who identified himself as Matthew Watson-Gunn. His first “off-site” contact was through my private Yahoo e-mail account in early Mar 2011.

    Using http://www.arabmatchmaking.com as his victim “scouting” tool, my perpetrator committed identity fraud by using another existing man’s name and another man’s photos to impersonate and start an on-line romantic relationship with me. He pushed the relationship very fast and pretended to be attracted and attached to me. My perpetrator used the alias “Matthew Watson-Gunn”, Major General, British Army and serving active duty in Afghanistan.

    He and a minimum of three other “actors” or impersonators worked in tandem to defraud me and believe their totally fabricated story-line of Matthew and other UK officers finding and splitting up some Taliban money j(in the form of US dollars) and using the UN Courier Services to deliver the money out of the country to “target” family members.

    My perpetrator stated he had no other living family members other than a young son, so he asked me if he could send his portion of the money to me for safe keeping. Stupidly, I agreed and sent a copy of my US passport to a person, impersonating a UN Courier Services Agent by the name of Anthony Amanyo. A red flag is raised at the Customs Office in Accra, Ghana, where the package must have proper clearance documentation in order to be approved to proceed to the US. My perpetrators insinuated the dangers of having the cash discovered! Now, they talk of “money laundry” and prison! I am more than frightened. I cry and I can’t sleep. I can’t talk to anyone. I’m so scared. This goes on for many months until my savings are depleted and I borrow a $25,000 loan to keep my debt manageable.

    There were a minimum of 4 individuals that worked in tandem to scam me out of $46,040 by impersonating officials representing the:
    1. British Military–Matthew Watson-Gunn, Major General, British Army; Address: 16 Emperor Way, Ashford, EN TN261NQ GBR; Cell: 447591965273; Cell: 233549683606; Cell: 447756069840; Cell: 7073447563; E-mail: matthew_gunn57@yahoo.co.uk; E-mail: matthew_gunn57@hotmail.com; E-mail: matthew_gunn57@hotmail.co.uk

    2. United Nations–Anthony Amanyo, UN Courier Agent; Address: P.O. Box 2415, Achimoto Market, Accra, Ghana; Cell: 233549757858; E-mail: info@undp-unamaf.org

    3. US Customs and Border Patrol—Author of fake e-mails unknown
    4. FBI—Author of fake e-mails unknown
    5. Accra Customs Official—Chinonso Joshua
    6. Accra Customs Official—Valentine Ikechukwu
    7. Accra Customs Official—Apugo Uzochi
    8. Accra Customs Official— Ngerem Chidubem
    9. Accra Airport Lodge Manager

    I have various bank accounts that are connected to this group located in:
    1. New York
    2. Ghana
    3. United Kingdom
    4. China
    5. Singapore

    I also have telephone numbers for numbers called by alias “Matthew Watson-Gunn” on a cell phone he fraudulently obtained from me by having me ship it to him (through his fake UN Agent, Anthony Amanyo) by using the US Postal Services. In addition, this group, used International FedEx Services to mail me a fraudulent or stolen US Treasury check under the guise it was a loan to Matthew from one of his business acquaintances. Unwittingly, I was used as their “mule” to cash this bad check with instructions to mail $60,000 to, first, an account in China; but, later changed to Singapore.

    Other names and contact info involved in this tandem scam include:
    1. john.s_courty@yahoo.co.uk
    2. OIT508CONTACT@cbp.dhs.gov
    3. washington.field@ic.fbi.gov
    4. Jerry Henderson, 64 Dalston Road, Carlisle, Cumbria, CAZ 5NW UK
    5. Felicia Amartey—Accra, Ghana
    6. Deutshe Bank Trust Co., Americas, 60 Wall Street, New York, 10005, USA. Swift Code: BKTRUS33, Beneficiary Bank: UBA Ghana Ltd. Heritage Tower-Accra Ghana, A/C Name: Gangaria Enterprise, A/C No. 02400217406230, Swift Code STBGGHAC
    7. Citibank NA, New York, 10005, USA, Swift CITIUS33, Routine: 021000089, Account: USD 36915149
    8. Fidelity Bank Limited Bank, Swift: FBLIGHAC, Account Name: Eti Wafri, Account No. 2030015654891, Account Type: Reserve, Branch: Action
    9. Ophel Ella Grant, Account No. 0383014437396201, Swift Code: ECOCGHAC, Bank Name: Ecobank Ghana, Branch: Westland Branch
    10. HSBC Singapore, Address 21 Collyer Quay HSBC Building 0101, Singapore, Swift: HSBCSGSC, BENF INDUSTRIAL ALLIANCE UNITED LTD, Account No. 260-7710-19178
    11. Bank of China (Hong Kong) Limited, Acct: 01267692121273, Swift Code: BKCHHKHH, ADD: 1 Garden Road, Hong Kong, Beneficiary: Golden Express Electronics Limited

    • OMG hun Have you been to the Police? You must tell them ..I dont really know what else to suggest other than speaking to the Police .Do you have any Photo’s of these People? If so take them to the police also.. Its wrong these people are doing this & seemingly are getting away with it Surely something can be done to stop this gang… I know the guy I spoke to Has already to my knowledge created two other Identities Using the same photo’s I have of him . You would think the Dating sites would be suspicious Of the Same photo’s being uploaded Time after time each with different names The photo’s have to be approved by site modorators surely they must think hang on Ive seen these Photo’s before but under a different name. I know the guy I chatted to has been doing this as far back as 2009 & possibly further back Each time he uses the same Photo’s but has so many Alias names Id be surprised if he can Remember who he really is

  894. I have fallen in love….. love the guy s photo to bits…. he writes me emails daily….. and uses messaging service we talk, the monies thing I was asked to connect and follow email instructions for said phone conntact, leaving all my details with them…..I haven’t heard back ….. my girls said you are being scammed Mama, my friend introduced me to this site of compliments, once on I did not know how to delete it the numbers built up at the side of my page so thought that I should respond, if people had taken the time to write it would be rude not to reply….my baby caught my eye, and my heart skipped a beat….. he asked for my email and after a few days we started corresponding….I looked into the telephone connection site and it doesn’t excist…..so I looked up army personel and can’t find him….looked up his name on google …yep he is there…..writing to others on a diff site younger and diff age from what I know him to be ……these people that are doing this are horrid to use these men and their situation to exploit love is attrocious….I hope you all find the love you deserve…..me I have been on my own for so long I will remain this way there are only so many times the heart can take a beating….good luck and thank you for bringing this to my notice

  895. I was just involved with a scammer from match.com. He went under LoevelySoul_4996. Then he gave me his yahoo address: steve.james7060@yahoo.com. He was from Tampa, Florida. His wife and son died in a car accident 6 yrs. ago. His parents (both) died 4 yrs ago; his mother died first. His mother was a head teacher and his father was in the medical field for the army for the UN. He was in the army and was retiring after 28 years of service. His birthday was coming up. When I asked if I could send him something; it had to go to a retired ex-army guy: Williams.A@diplomats.com. Then he wanted an IPhone (surprised he asked for this since I told him I was unemployed), boxers, and polo (spray). Oh and his boys would love it if they would get boxers. When I asked him if he wanted any special food items. He couldn’t answer. The Williams.A responded to my e-mail and said the care package had to be sent by USPS (United States Postal Service) EXPRESS and to give him all the tracking info. Here’s address:
    Williams Amoako
    P.O Box 1849 AT ACH-MKT
    ACCRA-GHANA, 00233
    WEST -AFRICA
    I told Steve James he would have to prove who he said he was. Take a picture with hig blue beret in his right hand extended surrounded by military guys in uniform. Then I said I lived by a base and have someone meet me in uniform with proof of who he said he was.
    He sent me pictures and the guy had his last name JAMES on his uniform so in the beginning I thought it was legit. Then he asked for pictures of me. Mistake. i sent quite a few pictures. Darn. He also webcamed me. He couldn’t because of security but he could try and get one. So the scammer was watching me yahoo messenger with him! Did I say he was in special forces for the army? Very loving. Spend a lot of time conversing back and for. He also text message. Here’s his number: 1-110-440-601 Of course, texting only. security. can’t call it. can’t hear his voice. BEWARE. I reported him to BBB; match.com, and yahoo. I do have pictures of this poor military guy who probably had his identity stolen. Now that this scammer has pictures of me he’ll probably be scamming with my pictures. He also has my address, phone number, and had to quickly change password because he wanted me to close all my singles website accounts and he wanted to close out match.com himself. SCARY.

  896. I have run across one that said he was in the navy, went by the name of Bismark Baker Wilson. Only wanted me to send him enough money to buy a laptop with a webcam. I told him no, and then he of course got ugly and threatend to start talking to some other woman who would be more than happy to help him. I told him to have at it. I also really enjoy the ones who have told me they are engineers and have just accepted 4 to 6 month contracts in Africa. Of course once they get to Africa something bad happens and they need money wired to them immediately. Good thing my momma didn’t raise a fool. Newest guy says he is military, of course I immediately think scam and told him up front don’t bother trying, it doesn’t matter how many “i love you” I hear. I will never send money to someone I have never met face to face. We will see what happens. I refuse to give up on love though. I know it is out there.

  897. I think im in a scam right now, he goes by the name Sgt Owen Kuehn, he has been talking to me for months, at first i thought he was real and couldnt believe it because he showed photos of himself too, he asked for money the first time in to send to London under the alias name Owen Kuehn to help pay his ticket to bring him back to the US, then a few months ago he started asking for money because he said he needed help selling a dimond he found in Afghanistan, i have been sending some money but under the dealers name Johnson Bamidele, and i have been helping him like an idiot, now hes asking me for $400, can some1 help me in identifying weather this is a scam which i have the feeling it is ever since he first asked for money, i have photos to of him as well as all the emails and documentation on sending him money.

    • @ Henry you are right this is a scam and he is a scammer you need to remember REAL Military members will NOT need your money for any reason at all and he would NOT need any money to return to the US if he were a real servicemember DO NOT send any more money under ANY circumstances go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com for both support and to share your story and pics this African is using if you need proof tell him to get on webcam and show you who he is if he has ANY excuse or tries to BS you with some prerecorded crap he is a SCAMMER which I know he is because REAL Military members have no time to search and beg for Money but guess what African Scammers do.thats all the proof you need to see him and have an interactive chat with him for at least 30 minutes to an Hour any excuse as to why he cant cam LIAR SCAMMER get the picture.

      • @ Anonn, There is one thing I forot to mention was that i did send him money a while back but i sent it through Western Union and sent it to the reciever name Owen Kuehn when he was in London, England which he did recieve it as well, does that help in any matter on my situation or do you think this scammer has 2 identities, thats the main issue i have about this particular person.

        • @ Henry this is only ONE scammer they do this often I mean they take on two or more identities they reinvent themselves to beg for even more money One more thing the Military does NOT use Western Union Or Moneygram under ANY circumstances Nor will the Military members need your money for ANY reason they have access to their own accounts at all times no matter where they are Military members have NO time to sit on the computer and search social sites to beg total strangers for money they would NEVER do that but lazy begging scammers do and they have all the time they need to beg from strangers thats all they have is time on their hands they actually take begging seriously they think it is a job how sick is that.DO NOT send anymore of your money to this Lying begging African and NEVER send money to anyone you do NOT KNOW and NEVER seen.

        • @ Henry also in Africa its been said that Western Union does not care whose Name the money comes in because they receive a cut of the money so they do NOT care if it comes in deceased persons Name or not just thought you might like to know that.

  898. I had experience with some scammers. One I believed and one I did not but just wanted his information. Both of them sent photos and said they were in the military and one in Kubal City and one in Iraq. Wilsonscottbrown@yahoo.com asked for you to contact armed.forces@hotmail.com to get a request for him to take his leave and come home for the holidays and requested that you pay for half of the ticket. The one I believed was capt.lighthouse@yahoo.com..he sent many photos of different shots and with other people in the photos. He was very believable and as of today I have not heard mention of how to get him to come and visit. He says his home is in San Antonio and he is a staff sgt. tactical analyst currently in Baghdad. I have tried searching his name and email to see if he is not a scam and nothing comes up. I feel bad for the soldiers whose photos are being used in this way and all the photos do have the names on the uniforms with his so called name on them. I can forward the photos to you if you want them cutetigerladydebi@yahoo.com is my email

    • If it’s a “REAL” government e-mail address that the person is giving you, it will NOT end with yahoo. com, hotmail.com etc… It will end in .gov, .mil centaf.af.mil was one of the endings to a government e-mail.

  899. please contact me want to send photo that was use by scammer named Sgt Bobby George

    • i have several pictures of sgt bobby george . i had 3 of them at once . got all his profiles on tagged and facebook shut down except the real one . i contacted him to let him know what was going on . he didnt know . so far no more on facebook for now . always him and his son . his wife is very much alive . please contact me if you need anymore info .

  900. A Scammers last ditch effort to scam since Troops are leaving Iraq at the end of December what a piece of Shit…………Proof that scammers NEVER repent and once a scammer ALWAYS a scammer

    col BRIAN colbrian2222@rediffmail.com

    12:56 PM (19 minutes ago)

    to ratikakukreja3
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    Good Day From Iraq

    I am col.Brian, an American Combat Soldier group of 50,000, 00 combatant, left behind in Iraq for advisory and assistance to Iraq Forces after the Handing over to Iraq Peace Keeping Force, During my services, I was able to secure Twenty Million Dollar($20 million U.S Dollars) which already Deposited with a Diplomatic Company for security and Safety Purpose,

    I want to hand over this funds to a Trust Worth Person that we help me keep it till I am back from the Camp in Baghdad Iraq in Dec 2011, Since Our Final Troops is leaving Iraq 2011.

    You will find the story of this money on the web address below. After we have sum-mated the remaining part http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/2967029.stm
    Please kindly keep this transaction Confidential because I am still serving in the Military camp in Baghdad Iraq.

    Col.Brian
    Email:colbrian22@hotmail.com

  901. The one that contacted me was Army Capt. Rodriguez Smith, rodriguezsmith52@yahoo.com. He is on Facebook as well and his FB account has him listed from Honduras, United States… lol Thank goodness I already knew about this type of thing. His english and grammar were very poor, wanted someone who would love him for him and not his money…

    I have pictures to send but not exactly sure where to send these. Please contact me and I will be happy to get those to you so you can post.

    • @ Ellen go to romancescam.com and scamwarners.com you can post the pics this lying beggar is using great job glad you knew this was a scammer

  902. The Facebook page has now been changed to remove the Honduras, United States…

  903. Hello My name is Diana and I am from Upstate New York the Capital District. I would also like to share my story with everyone here. A few months ago I had opened up a profile in search of looking to make new friends on a dating site called POF. I did meet a very nice gentleman, who I have met in person, and is in the Army as well. He is from Watertown, and not once has he ever asked me for anything. On our first date he picked me up in a Hummer, and we went out to dinner which he paid for. So ladies there are some real guys out there, you just have to be careful. He and I speak to one another everyday.

    I still continue looking to make new friends on that site. December 17, 2011 of this year, a guy by the name of MICHEAL BLAKE HUDSON contacted me on pof. His username is HandsomeHudson, and his subject line is…Looking for a good hearted woman. He stated he lives in Cherry Valley, NY, that he is 40 years old, 5-7 with a athletic body. He has never been married, and have no kids. He only has 1 picture posted on that site. He stated that both of his parents are dead and that he is an only child. He also told me that he has an aunt who lives in Liverpool, NY. He told me he has been on deployment since January, and that he works for IT Dept. in Afgahanistan. Late last night on 12/18/11 he asked me if I could do him a favor and send him $200.00 so he can get a Ts2 so we can talk. While he was chatting away with me on Yahoo messenger. I was looking up the site in reagrds to that, and I even opened up a few other sites pretaining to the Army as well. I wanted to see what other facilities are in Iraq like camps, airbases, and airports. Whe I asked him what base he gave me one that was not on the list. So I started thinking to myself this guy is trying to scam me out of money…and that will never happen. Needless to say I played along with his bullshit. He told me that his Commander’s name was Charles Adkins, so I looked that name up, and guess what ladies….he was killed in active duty on 04/16/11. So I continued chatting trying to get any other info I can from the bastard. He gave me his commander’s email which is c.adkins36@yahoo.com, so I can apply for his Ts2 for him. This morning he sent me 3 pictures, 2 in civilian clothes and 1 in uniform. But get this it he sent it from his email but when I went to save them, it said sent from nel.attach.mai.ymail.com. I asked him to send me the info on where to send the money and he did. Name of person is Felelaron Samuel, City: Ikere State: Ekiti Country: Niageria. I was sitting here thinking to myself what a scumbag! I am so sorry that there has been so many women taken advantage of, my heart goes out to all of you. Remember love does not cost a thing, it is given. If anyone has been in contact with this person to not respond to this scumbag. If you would like to contact me my email is dtamexy2005@gmail.com

  904. LORD HAVE MERCY!!!

    Going though the latest pictures in your Forum, i just made an astonishing discovery,………………
    Pictures 33,34,and 35 ARE THE SAME PICTURES BEING USED BY A GUY WHO SAYS HIS NAME IS “JAMES MINIARD”!!!! So i have been proven right!!! WATCHOUT LADIES!!! This Guy currently is to be seen on NIJAPALS.COM ( a forum fo watching African Movies or Nollywood films)!!!

  905. Hi, I have been talking to Soldier stationed in Afghanistan going by the name of Capt. Gail Britt, 51 yes old. He says he’s been in the Military all his life and has no family. We have spoken on the phone almost every day since 26th October and he keeps promising me he will be ‘home’ soon. He is Cuban American and living in Canada when not on deployment. He sends emails and poems, all written in perfectly good English but sometimes when he talks to me on messenger, his spelling is a bit off..I fell into the trap of sending him £500 for a GPS sat Phone but I have spoken to him every day. he is very obviously a Soldier as when I talk to him I can hear all kinds of things in the background, such as vehicles, noise, men, gun shots when they’ve been on parade, and even chicken noises! But I am very suspicious after reading all of these ‘scams’ as he has now asked me money for his flight home, saying that he has named me as his beneficiary and his leave bonuses will be transferred to me once I send £850…I have already sent more money and he keeps promising that his friend Mike who is a retired US Army Major and still has links with the military, is trying to quicken up his leave process…The forms I were sent to fill in also, were signed by a Col Susan Croakley, who couldn’t even capitilize her own Surname, there were very obvious other spelling mistakes on the forms too. I have even sent my Soldier articles about scamming, he claims he doesn’t even know what a ‘scam’ is and he appeared to be very very hurt when he thought I was doubting his love for me…I really don’t know what to do, I feel so physically sick. He has even spoken to my daughter several times on the phone, promising her so much, a great family life and future and so on…I have several pics of him, in one pic, his name tape has his first initial and his surname on, which is rather odd as all the pics I’ve ever seen of US Soldiers, only have the last name and no initial. The IP addresses for his mails come from all over the world, not one from Afghanistan though…I have even spoken to one of his team of Soldiers who he is in charge of, he has a valid postal address and unit info, although the unit he says he is in and the unit patches on his uniform are not the same! Everything about him seems so very genuine and I have fallen hook line and sinker in love with him, so if he turns out to be a scammer, which looks increasingly more likely after reading all theses posts, I am going to devastated. I met him on match.com and within a week he told me he loved me and wanted to come ‘home’ to me and marry me…I am afraid to say that everything about him seems to perfect to be true, maybe he is genuine but I am beginning to feel quite sick now…I will feel like I have lost the love of my life if he is not, not too mention the money (which yes I cannot afford but it’s not that it bothers me) I just want so much for him to be real as I’ve grown to fall in love with the man behind the images, mails and voice, who ever he is…Has anyone ever heard of this man? I have done lots of searches and found nothing…

    • @Kara this is a scammer US Military will not need your money for ANY reason the phone thing is a scam what you did way buy him the newest cellphone and he added credits to it to talk to you every day as well as others he is trying to scam YOU CANNOT APPLY FOR HIS LEAVE AND HE DOES NOT NEED MONEY FOR ANY FLIGHT HOME he is a scammer I am sorry you have fallen in love with the pics but the fact is he is not the man in the pics have you seen him on cam no need to answer that I know the answer the noise you hear in the background is an internet cafe or he works in a group of other scammers and there will always be noise so the answer to your question is NO he is NOT real do not send him anymore money for any reason tell him to email you from his AKO trust me he has NO CLUE what it is if he loves you so much ask to see his LES for the last 3 to 6 Months and before you fall for more of his lies tell him to get on cam in uniform and have an interactive chat with you for 30 minutes to an hour NO EXCUSES ANY excuse he uses as to why he cant get on cam SCAM and scammer go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com for support Im sorry you were scammed but you need to delete and block him tell him if he wants almost 900 of your money to fuck off and get a JOB he is a beggar a con a liar and thief get the picture dont mean to be harsh but it is the truth.Anonn

      • This is what I thought…God I feel so sick and stupid…I even spoke to him again tonight and he reassured me that he’s telling me the truth even when I asked him outright if he was lying to me about his identity…But the thing I don’t understand is that why would he keep coming back and talking to me, even though he knows I am on to him? It doesn’t make any sense! I have asked him about web cams and he said he can’t have one as he doesn’t use his own personal computer, and because they are in a combat zone…
        Please can you tell me what yo mean by AKO and LES?
        Thanks.

        • @ Kara even if you dont know what it means ALL real us Military members know exactly what that is if you brought it up to him and he had no idea what it was you know he is a SCAMMER which he is anyway because hes begging you for money Do NOT feel stupid but break off all contact with him NOW he is a SCAMMER plain and simple this ugly African does NOT love you he is after your MONEY only like I said he is a beggar a con man a Lair so why are you still talking to a known scammer and I know it might be hard but you have got to let it go and let this African go.Protect yourself and educate yourself he has no AKO and he has NO LES he is a beggar only wants money through moneygram or western union its that simple.

  906. @ Kara this is what you typed…………But the thing I don’t understand is that why would he keep coming back and talking to me, even though he knows I am on to him? It doesn’t make any sense! I have asked him about web cams and he said he can’t have one as he doesn’t use his own personal computer, and because they are in a combat zone…

    Excuse me for being blunt but since you asked these two he DOS NOT give a flying fuck about you being on to him he is keeping you in the picture because to him you mean FAST and EASY Money for Christmas he will keep begging until you are BROKE he doesnt give a damn if you lose your home or EVERYTHING you OWN they can use the computers there or their own either way it goes they CAN use the webcam no matter if they are in a combat zone or NOT that is a CROCK of bullshit YES Anonn just gave it to ya straight NO chaser sorry I had to break it down like this but its the truth no please go to scamwarners.com or romancescam.com before you lose everything and you wind up hurting even more than you already are and be aware that when you cut this scammer off he will try to scam you again under a different FAKE Name and Pic because you have given him money already its that simple SO PLEASE STOP MAKING EXCUSES for this SCAMMER

    hes still talking to you because he wants your money NOT you he is swearing up and down he is the guy in the pics yet cant prove it

    Ok tell him to send you a new picture of himself holding a sign that reads Kara I am the real Deal and I Love you he wont he will find some photo shopped crap Anonn

  907. @ Kara you typed this………I even spoke to him again tonight and he reassured me that he’s telling me the truth

    Scammers never admit and they NEVER repent some are even so pathetic that they will ask you to pay him for the truth YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED this scammer is after one thing only MONEY and he will beg for it by any means and from anyone they have no dignity they are LOSERs and LIARS and besides how many People have admitted they are lying to you they hide behind pics of handsome military members but since you still sound unconvinced ask him to scan his state and military id card and send it to you HE wont and military id cards cannot be duplicated and they are NOT GREEN and guess what his State Id card cannot be chopped you will know right away if it is a fraud. Ask him to send you money turn the tables on him tell him to send you the money to secure his flight home guess what that excuse will be I know keep us posted Anonn

  908. @Kara I suggest you stop letting people you do NOT KNOW speak to your child especially this lying piece of shit he will promise you alot of shit but he has NOTHING to offer you if he did he wouldnt have found you on a social site and begged you for money for ANY reason the Military takes care of its own they do NOT need you money for any reason but lazy ass African scammers do Anonn

    • Hi
      I would just like to update you on my scammer. I have today actually reported him to the Military CID. Things calmed down over Christmas and he didn’t ask for money but the other day he started asking again. When I started asking HIM questions he got angry and accused me of not loving him. He has since contacted me again apologizing and trying to win me back. I have got wise not and finally realized how stupid I have been. It’s sites like this that really help to bring awareness to these romance scams. If we all do just one small thing and report them, even if you just think someone is suspicious and add their name to a scamming site, then we’re all doing a little bit to try and stop these thieves. I wish the Military could do more to stop them, but they don’t seem to do anything. Well, he is reported now and I am a lot wiser, so I will be on my guard from now on.
      Thanks again for all of the help. Together we will stop them.

      • @ Kara no you are not stupid you did NOT know but now you have learned from this and you do know I hope you blocked and deleted this lying beggar and checked your security settings on your computer if not I suggest you do it ASAP!!!

        you typed this….When I started asking HIM questions he got angry and accused me of not loving him.

        Awwww the poor begging lying piece of crap was so hurt that you didnt trust and love him LOL o well tough break and Cj’s Blog has knocked off yet another scammer lol way to go Kara do not stand for the BS

        Be aware that he will try it again under a new name and new pic and profile just be on guard and NEVER send money to anyone you do NOT know and from one Mother to another NEVER let anyone you dont know near you child for any reason.Take care Anonn

  909. Hi

    I have come across a scammer on a UK Christian site : Jeff(rey) Connell email: jeffrey.connell@sbcglobal.net

    Has anyone heard of him please?

    After 2 months chatting on Yahoo Messenger – wanted me to send him an expensive IPhone so we could talk to each other!

    I declined and he turned nasty!

    He is now blocked from the site – but is still on Yahoo – so BEWARE ladies!

    Thank You – this site is great!

    • @ Ali lol the old Iphone 4 scam these scammers are so pathetic they kill me begging for things they think will help them gain status with the Women in the scam capital Nigeria Ghana and Malaysia in their tiny little minds they will be able to get the ladies attention there if they have such expensive phones because the Women are about MONEY there great job being able to see through his BS I believe the email address is not his but someone either he has scammed or tried to scam as far as I know SBC is NOT in Africa or Malaysia.

      • Thank you Anonn.

        Please can you advise me where else I can report him? Or where I can find out if he has stolen a real US soldier’s ID?

        This site is so helpful.

        Thanks again

        Ali

        • @ALI first of all you need to break off all contact with this scammer and try romancescam.com and scamwarners.com also he hasnt stolen a military members ID card the id card he has shown u is a fake they cannot be duplicated and hint they are not green and will not have photo chopped pics nor will it have assinine words these dumb ass scammers have on them you can spot a fake trust me Anonn

  910. have been talking to a man that is in the army stationed in afghanistan and was wandering if anyone has heard or knows anything about him he goes by the name of ssgt Max Roland/ ssgtmaxharryroland. any information is appreciated.we have been talking for about 7months now.

  911. I have been scamed by a Sgt.dwightcarman@att.net ….. I met him on plenty of fish…. he sent me a picture but in the picture his name tag on the uniform read Carnahan When I questioned him he said he had changed his name to the priest who raised him. He told me he was about to come home from Iraq and needed to send me a couple trunks of his possesion. I agreed. Next thing I knew I am being contacted by a courrier co from UK telling me they needed $650.oo for more paperwork. against my better judgement I sent the money. .. Next thing I knew I recieved an e mail from Department of Homeland Security telling me I needed to produce them a yellow clearance tag along with letter of guarantee or the unlocking codes within 48 hrs or i will be prosecuted as a terroist. I contacted the courrier to tell them to release the yellow tags then low and behold. ….. Its going to cost me $5000.00 to get them. ……… I fell for this man after losing my husband this year and i admit i was deparate for love again and he had all the right words…… but thank GOD for my mom and best friend who found this site woke my butt up to see what a bastard this guy really is. I hope by posting this someone will recongnize his name. The really sad part is I have lost all respect for some of our military.

  912. Ladies……

    Just a little bit of info you might need to determine if the person is really military.
    1. Yes, we do have personal computers over here but make him send you an e-mail from his military address such as afcent.af.mil or @us.army.mil. Security is not an issue with these because I e-mail my son from here all the time. Remember, it will end with .mil
    2. Leave. Ha, they really get you on this one! The US army is going to a 9 month rotation starting this year, which means we don’t get to normally come home until our tour is done. If we have an emergency at home the military will send us for FREE. If we do extend and qualify for leave it’s FREE. We set it up through our company or unit commander. There is no paper work or document a civilian can fill out to get us leave. As a matter of fact, there is no way you should be involved in any part of his getting a leave. Also, there is no account that has to have money in it when we go on leave. If he says he’s $1000 bucks short on his LEAVE account, he’s full of shit. I’ve been flat broke more than once and still went on leave! Also you cannot “BUY” your way out of a deployment.
    3. Phone service. Come on, a satellite phone…? Really?? We have DSN lines over here which are a free call back to the states. All we do is call a base near you and they transfer the call. I try to call home at least once every couple of days and it’s FREE. We also have MWR’s which help us contact family. Certain parts of the AOR we even can have personal cell phones which are CHEAP to get over here. We load the minutes ourselves and they usually run about $30 for about 100 minutes.
    4. English. Come on….! If they’re American they know how to talk and especially use spell check. No offense but some of the writing from these guys is terrible!! They look like they are using a translator program the way the words don’t seem to fit the statement sometimes, like AM instead of I AM.
    5. Their physical address. We love to get care packages from home! But, if they request more than homemade cookies and toiletries be VERY,VERY careful!! I’ve done 2 tours in Iraq and am now back in the AOR and EVERY time my address ended with an APO zip code. APO stands for Army Post Office and is used by all branches of the service here. If he wants you to send it to an “agent” who will send it to him it’s a SCAM!!
    6. NEVER SEND MONEY!!!!!
    I hope this helps. Last year my wife found a picture of me from Iraq floating around with some other guys name on it so I know it happens a lot on those dating sites. You just have to remember the old saying, if they seem too good to be true, they’re usually a scammer!!

    Jerry
    604th Comm Squad.

    • Hi Jerry

      This is definitely useful info for me thank you.

      I ventured onto a UK Christian dating site for the 1st time and a “US military” man based in UK starting chatting – I have absolutely no experience of the military – so guess I was a easy target initially – but warning signs appeared very quickly – and were also pointed out by good friends. And surprise, surprise – after 2 months requested a “Smart phone” – which of course he would pay me back for as soon as he got home!?

      I declined the offer and he turned nasty.

      Relieved to have come across this site – as felt such a fool – even though only 2 months and didn’t fall for it.

      Shaken my confidence though and reluctant to go back to dating sites.

      Thanks for taking the time to explain the above.

      Any advice on where I can report him or find out if he has stolen genuine soldier’s ID please?

      Many thanks

      Ali :)

    • Jerry, thanks for the reminders of what to watch look for if we meet a military person via internet.

    • Jerry , I wish that I would have thoought before I did what I did because I have lost over 2000.00 now because someone saying he is in the militiary and he is not.

      Judy

  913. Just thought I’d add another name to this list. David Jason Jordan. Also goes by Curtis Jordan. Says he’s widowed and has 2 kids. I’ve been talking to him for 3 days and he’s SO in love with me. He has a facebook page, under Curtis Jordan. He signs his emails with “Jason cares”.

    • @Sharon SCAMMER you are right on the money hes a scammer.Beggar con man a loser

    • I think we got the same guy!! Our dating started on web sites GirlsDateForFree.com he claimed his name was Flores Jordan from Los Angeles. He also claimed to be a widow with 2 kids. He sent me a lot of pictures and one picture was very provocative of a man in the shower. It was obvious right then it wasnt him, it was a perfect pose as from a model shoot, says he used delay photo camera! But his kids were in California with his sis and they would be traveling to the UK and needed $1500 for xmas to send to kids. Told him thats kind of over the top for a 7 & 11 yr old! I never sent the money!! I found a great web page from here called DidTheyReadIt.com, its FREE and you can reverse look up their email when they open yours. it showed me he was NOT a soldier in Afganistan but actually in Nigeria!! So I sent him back a picture of Uncle Sam fliping him off! I had told him I am a Military Mom!!! He claims to be in the US Army Force working for the Air Force on a peace mission. Well your either one or the other I asked him. He then was corrected with my assistance to be in the Army!! lmao he sent me pictures of a REAL SOLDIER wearing JORDAN as his name but shows clearly AIR FORCE!!!! Well after my son looked him up in their data base found no such man so I researched a little more online and found this site which helped a lot. While scrolling down the photos I also found another photo of soldier Jordan which I never forwarded to the impostor for fear he would use it too. So obviously he is using JORDAN’s identity under different first names! Mine was Flores Jason Jordan at florjordan48@yahoo.com. beware ladies he is going to marry you in just under 4 days and make you MRS JORDAN!!! This wasnt my first run in with a Nigerian scammer so I was savy to his tricks. And one other way to notice if he is not real is how they talk! even in typing they have an accent!! like his MOM was a MUM?? really mr your from los angeles?? I would like to add the photos he sent me to this site but not sure yet how to. thanks for listening and ladies beware dont send anyone a dime unless you have physically met them!!

  914. I have been scammed by the person here using the name “Chris Kepley”. For me he called himself
    “Captain Kevin Smith” We met on WhoIsNear.
    He said he is 52 yrs old, wife died of cancer 8 yrs ago, and is serving in Afghanistan.
    He conned me out of $5000! I can’t believe how stupid I was to believe his nonsense, but it seemed so genuine!!
    He asked for money for communications, airfare home for leave and protection from Taliban who were after him since he was an Army “detective” and was in great danger….
    The only one in danger was ME! I have additional photos that i would like to upload here but don’t see how to do it.
    I feel so ashamed….

  915. Sorry, there’s stuff I forgot:
    He said he sold his house in california and would pay me back as soon as he came here on leave. Also he said he would name me sole beneficiary as he has no family.
    He had me send money ($3000) by Western Union through a “government agent” in the States named:
    Karen Vasseur
    3703 Weld County Road 37
    Commerce City, Colorado 80022

    She must be an accomplice!

  916. Hi There was a guy on Badoo yesterday calling himself Buck Wilson living in Chesapeake with his11 year old son. He states he is originally British but is now based at a US Military Camp but currently in Afghanistan. He moved to the USA after the death of both of his parents and then his wife 8 years ago due to cancer of the blood. He signs his emails General Wilson and has apparently fallen for me as I remind him of his dead wife!!!

  917. Hi I was almost scammed by a SGT Jame Moore who was stationed at Camp Liberty Iraq. He was retiring on Dec 4th, 2011. He told me he was paid by a Minimster that he was gaurding and wanted to send me the money. He said a diplomat was going to be contacting me to let me know when the package would be delivered. Diplomat contacted me and said he needed $4700.00 for certificates and tags to go through low customs. I almost fell for it but didn’t. Then he said he would go to Ghana to get the package because the diplomat would not deliver it without the money. It has been almost a month and supposedly he is still in Ghana trying to get the package.
    I had him send me pictures of himself and when I was going through the pictures above he was there. It is the picture of SGT England. The picture I was sent of course did not have his name on it.
    Ladies be careful of a SGT Jame Moore using jamemoore@yahoo.com.
    Sounds very sweet and nice in emails but he is a scammer.

  918. best FREE site to use to trace where their email is coming from http://www.DidTheyReadIt.com I was able to track the email being received by a scammer posing as a soldier in Afganistan! When he opened the mail I sent it shows exact gps location of where he opened my mail and found him to be in Nigeria. So I highly recommend the site, it help me realize I was being fooled. My sons both serve, 1 in Air Force and the other in Marines! So when I received his military photos I knew something wasnt right. He claimed to be a 48yr old widowed Captain in the US Army Force? We have no such brance!! Your either US Army or Air Force!! So watch for clues that pop out and dont sound like a REAL AMERICAN talking!!

  919. Urgently needed

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    FROM: Abotsi Eric
    TO: Carol Jones

    Message flagged

    Friday, December 30, 2011 3:51 AM

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    Hello Madam,
    Good morning to you and hope you are enjoying your weekend good out there.Well Madam the package has arrived yesterday in Ghana,i went to check on it and there will be a custom clearance fee of $100 and also part fee of my Flight Ticket to Afghanistan to deliver the package to your man which i used to pay my hotel bill when i was waiting for your box to get to me here Madam,i will pay for the rest of the flight fee because is part of my work.The part Flight Ticket fee is $200 so everything sums up to $300 which i need urgently to clear the package and take the available flight to Afghanistan to deliver the package.I have lots of packages to deliver to others so let me know if you want to do this so that i can give you details to send the funds out to me ASAP.Hope to hear from you as soon Madam..Thank You

    • This is the address I got from my guy to send money to and a copy of the letter I did NOT send the money.But I did send a package.For Christmas. Everything that has been said on this site is what has been said to me also.
      My guy Is sgt_bill86@ so beware of him. I have beauiful pictures of him state side of course.I ask for one in uniform. HAHA I got one with a mask over his face.Told me he didn’t have any,but would get me one.yea fat chance.on that.And he talks funny to but of course his profile says Conyers Ga. Says his name is Bill Lopez but I dout it. I did a IP search on his e-mail address it said Sunnyvale Ca.So ladies beware Im going to play along awhile to see how for he will go.But of course he’s geting out this month after 21 years.And his 12yeard old son is Ryan and he’s in the Netherlands with his Aunt because he’s a widower He sure says all the right things ladies. Beware ohh yea he’s also special forces. Says he cant give me .mil.address its secert

      • @ Carol good for you because he is a scammer a FRAUD and you sent a package to Ghana because thats where this scammer lives please tell me you didnt send any electronics PLEASE Anon

        • No I did not send any of that just cookies,bible,football,basketball.. I have tried to post these pictures on both of these sites but I guess I’m not smart enough just cant do it.I would like to send them to someone so they can help me do that if anyone would help that would be great.I feel like these that I have are of some nice guy that has been hacked. Just wondering if anyone else has the same pictures.Came from Match.com goes by Mazda00000 on there. Bill Lopez Sgt_bill86@yahoo.com is my contact with him. He is still writing me even after I called him out..One other concern I have I sent Pictures from my phone Can they hack my phone now ?I am really worried about this too. I will check back later for reply. Thanks so much

  920. I have been contacted by a Jeff Bowen who is supposedly in Afghanistan, waiting for his retirement date later this month. Says he is an E6 staff sergeant. Writes lots of things about his philosophy on love and marriage. Says he is divorced with no kids. Mother was German, father in the army, both killed in a car accident. He has no siblings. His online profile said he was from Bedford, TX but he claims to own a house near downtown Dallas that is being taken care of by military security while he is deployed. I’ve never heard of military security doing that. Also, nobody from Dallas says they are from “near downtown”. It’s mostly commercial property down there and the areas of Dallas have names that a true local would know and use. He keeps asking me if I am home alone and saying that he wishes he had a framed photo of me for his room. I finally offered to send one and asked if there was anything else he would like from home. He immediately supplied me with a list of toiletry items (deodorant, t-shirt, “underwears”, shower gel, white towels) and in the next message asked for an iPod touch…that was when I figured him out. The things are $200 and really asking too much of someone you’ve only been chatting with for a couple of weeks. Also, the Dallas Central Appraisal District website only has one house listed near downtown Dallas to a Jeffrey Bowen…and it’s also listed under a wife’s name. He says he is about to turn 47 in January but that does not match what his dating profile said (it was immediately removed after he contacted me) nor does the soldier in the pics he has sent me look like heis any older than 30, at most.

    • @ Caroline when I looked up Jeff Bowen all I found was one famous one and a fallen firefighter NOT one in the military so this is a scammer for sure best way to find out for sure tell him to get on cam and have an interactive 1hour chat with you not some prerecorded crap and if he refuses there is your answer SCAMMER DO NOT send anything or share ANY information with him or he will steal your identity and scam men pretending to be you

  921. I would like to retract my statement. Its clear with all the sites there are to post about scammers that the fact remains noone forced me to send money. I could said no and didnt. All any of these sites do from reading all this is make them smarter and change their stories. Fact is anyone asking for money on the internet is a loser when it comes to love of the heart. We only empower them more by being entertainment for them to read so they can tweek their story for the next victim. I was a moron for sending money end of story and lesson learn. A national data base would be nice for people to go check without going thru thousands resources after the fact. Common sense should kick in and money dont buy love anyhow. I think the emotional damage is far greater. It clearly shows how smart they are. So retract my story i choose to make wiser choices not look stupid for sending a stranger i never met money .

    • It clearly shows how smart they are. Clearly it does NOT God sees and knows ALL and I believe one of his commandments is Thou Shall NOT STEAL so they are getting away with NOTHING God shall prevail I have Not been scammed but my heart aches for the Many that have but May God have Mercy on these lying beggars souls is all that I can say they are pathetic.Anonn

  922. Can anyone tell me how to get the pictures of the guy I’ve been talking to on this wall of shame. I have tried sending them to cj@soldiers perspective.us but they keep coming back. need some help please

    • @ Carol CJ is depolyed right now you can post your pics and share them at scamwarners.com and romancescam.com

  923. ok…I’m wondering now…have any of you been approached by someone calling themselves General Charles Stephen? Says wife died 6 yrs ago and has a 12 yr old son? He says his home is in Dallas TX but something simply does not feel right. Let me know please.

  924. I just had thought we are lucky that after these guys know we have caught onto them they don’t send a virus to our computers.So we need to becareful there too

    • @ Carol thats why you delete and block them and then you need to scan your computer and check your security settings

  925. has any one been chatting with officer george alvarez or a srg jake langston on yahoo messenger or on facebook if so could you please get back to me i have infro for you thank-you tammy

    • Tammy, I was talking to a “Jake Grant”…it is a scam. they use first names as both the first name and last name and it always very American sounding! I met “jake” on match.com…..if he said sweetheart once, he said it a thousand times!! DO NOT FALL FOR THIS. STOP COMMUNICATING WITH HIM!! yes it is humilating but as least he didnt get any money from me.

  926. The photos of the man claiming to be Robert Haggard are being used on facebook under the name of Geary Early.

    • The photo of Robert Haggard is used by burkott.mark on Yahoo messenger!!

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  928. Be on the look out for a Capt Mark Fox of the 11Z Infantry located in Baghdad. Spent many many hours talking to the man and listening to his beautiful words. He told me that his birthday was coming up and would like a framed picture of me and then he asked for the IPhone 4 so that we could talk while he was on patrol. Didnt sit well with me. Told him I couldn’t afford it. Things began to change. Asked him for his military address so I could send him a birthday package he said no that he gave it to the young one he was training since he was due to retire. Told him I had friends in the military and had never heard of that. His reply was Hmmmm ok, delete me please and then he was gone.
    I am also talking to a Sgt Thomas Moore who is from New Hampshire and stationed over seas. He wanted minutes added to his Top up card. He gave me a gmail address on how to do it. It is 450 dollars for 200 units or 250 dollars for 50 units. I have told him that I would get back to him. I will ask him for his military address and see what happens but I know he is also a scam. It makes me sick that our military men are being used like this more then my own heart being hurt. I have military pictures of Mark and one small picture of Thomas I will try and post them on the romancescam pages.
    Hope this helps someone not be taken in romantically like I was. Met both on Match.com

  929. How can I check if someone (a soldier) I am chatting to is legit? I havent had any slip ups from this guy, but just to be on the safe side? I was scammed by a guy who calls himself Capt Wayne Michael Anderson of US Army Afghanistan. Its sad how these criminals drag the US Military and other services’s names through the mud. People and institutions one should be looking up to and respecting. I spoke to my soldier friend and raised my concerns and he said that yes, these people are giving the real honest soldiers out there a bad name, causing distrust. And I agree with him fully. We need to get all the ladies to bring all information together on the Wall of Shame. This should actually also be broadcast as well. So that future victims can see the pictures of the soldiers whose pics are being abused by the scammers. Not on a scamming website, but on the online dating agencies. These people (dating agencies and public and everyone else) should work together to publish the pics of the reports they have received so that potential victims can be made aware. If they recognise a pic and someone then approaches them on an online dating service they will immediately block them.

    Anyhow, I need to verify three guys and if someone out there can give me contact details of someone who can check the legitimacy of these three guys, I will be very grateful. My mail address is elisebotes@rocketmail.com

    Together we must fight these guys and expose them for who they really are.

    Lesson one I learnt, take in every word they say and analyze with a fine tooth comb and magnifying glass. Also, check how most of the guys out there are such wonderful poets. The one who scammed me called me Sally by mistake, so obviously someone called Sally out there was also being scammed. Be on alert and the first sign of one discrepancy tell them to chuck and that you are not desperate. None of us are and we as ladies are NOT to be messed with. We may make clouded judgments sometimes, but dont take us for fools. If you get that uneasy feeling about something, listen to your instincts.

    Okay, we cannot judge everyone out there the same way, maybe there are the genuine ones out there, but the scum that are pulling these fast moves on the ladies out there are giving the honest ones a bad name.

    Ladies, all I can say is EYES WIDE OPEN, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS and FIGHT THE BADDIES OUT THERE. NO FEAR!!!

  930. I have had my first encounter with a real life scammer ! He goes by Jack Krumenacker and portrays himself to be a captain in the marines. I was approached by him through Tagged a singles online dating site . he never accepted my friendship but started to message me through yahoo. Within weeks he was telling me he loved me and speaking of marriage. Claims he is in Afghanistan and is an explosives expert but never gives any details . I knew right away that this was to weird so i started to research this captain well i found the real Mr Krumenacker through face book and he had all the same pictures and information that the fake one had. the real Mr Krumenacker is a true hero and has served our country to the fullest . I contacted the real Marine and let him know what this con artist was doing with his identity soon the fake captain began to ask for money for a SAT phone …2500 dollars wanted me to send it western union to a Melanie Roberts in Wisconsin. I finally let the con artist scammer know that i was on to him and have reported him to tagged and to yahoo and anyone else who will listen . i tried to report it to the police but they were useless …because i sent No money and there was no loss there is no crime ….RIDICULOUS!!!

  931. I beleive my sister is being scammed, he is using the name Mike Wolberton. Does anyone know if this name has been used? I hope for her that he is legit but he has asked for money please let me know thanks.

    • Dale you are 100% correct if he has asked her for money for ANY reason and she has NOT had an interactive chat with him for an hour or more or he has not emailed her from his military email account which should end with.mil anything beyond .mil is a scammer The Military takes care of its own they will NOT need her Money for ANY reason they have access to their money at all times tell your sister to tell him to send her a copy of his most recent Les trust me he wont have a clue what she means

      tell her to ask him to scan and send her a copy of his State Id and Military card ask her while shes chatting with him via interactive web cam chat to ask him what base he deployed from and what state its in hint the US Military ID card will not be green nor does it say military id card he will run like hell or pretend hes so hurt she doesnt trust him tell her to tell this lying beggar to get a JOB! Anonn

  932. Thanks Anonn you answered questions that I had and left out on purpose! Also you bring new questions to light. What do you mean by an interactive chat? Is there a place that we can find actual soldiers in need (emotional need not the ever hated dollar) I would like send the gift of love to everyone! we need it! Thank you again for taking time to answer my qustions.

    • @ Dale an interactive chat means face to face on the computer meaning you can see their every move not some delayed prerecorded crap meaning if the person you are chatting with is sneezing or blowing their nose you can see it when it happens not some 5 minute prerecorded crap there are many websites you can find to support military members try the Va website. And no Thanks needed glad I could help Anonn

  933. Look out ladies for a so called Capt Steven Barrero the picture may be real but he isn’t

  934. I was scammed by someone using the name David Micheal Hunt I have 3 jpg pictures but sure how to get to use their email address was michealdh0@yahoo.com, cell 404-913-1464 stationed at Kabul

    This is from an email he found me via metrodate.com website

    My name is David M Hunt,i am 46 years Old widowed man,i have one son living with my mother since my Deployment here,Kabul Afghanistan, i was graduated from Bridge water-Ramayana Regional High School, 1984, and my military infantry 3rd Squadron, 71st Cavalry (Reconnaissance, Surveillance, Target Acquisition), 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 10th Mountain Division (Light Infantry). Before coming to Fort Gillem, I served assignments at Fort Riley, Kansas; Camp Stanley, Korea (1st Battalion, 506th Infantry); Fort Bragg, N.C.; and Camp Casey, Korea.Deployments: Kosovo and a previous tour in Iraq, February 2006,Afghanistan from 2010 till date.

    I have most of the emails still saved and IM’s

  935. Hi everyone… Found this amasing site… :-) I have been contacted by cpt.michealtravis@gmail.com again – this time on the datingsite TWOO… His memory isnt very good, because he contacted me about april 2011 and I told him of because I realised that he was a scammer… This time he tried the same aproach as last time and now he has gone from sgt. to cpt… He says that he is 47 years old but he deffenatly dont look that age… This time I altso looked him up on facebook and found out that he has 3 freinds?? All women?? One of hem from the same country as I – Denmark – I contacted her and told her about him, yesterday… She has not answert me yet, but I hope she havent told him about me contacting her… I would like to keep in contact with this scammer, because I would very much like to see where he is going…
    I cant kopi fotos here, but I have some if you want them..
    I can see on the datingsite that I cant get into his profile because it is blocked, but his foto still comes up in search.. Dont know if he has blocked me – that wouldnt be a great loss, but it would have been funny to see what tricks he were going to play..
    All of you take care out there..
    Pia

  936. HI for any one that has any contact with a Darrell Wade Miller be careful because he his trying to scam as well he screen name is darrellwade43@yahoo.com So any who see this please do not talk to him

  937. I have, armed with the information I got off this site and a couple of other military scam sites, ratted out two guys whom I was chatting to. I started questioning certain things which I could spot was not too 100% and guess what: sudden silence. Asked him why I should pay for his release for vacation when that is the duty of the soldier to apply for leave and why should I complete the form when it is also the soldier’s duty. Asked also why the form is so different. I pretended to be naive. He said that he would go and find out, because this is news to him. Also bombarded him with the questions of the postal service. Never to hear from him again. Shame. This girl is armed with info, so dont take chances with me. Plus I noticed that his nametag on the uniform ended in a “EZ” and his surname was RAMOS? I still wanted to ask about that, but never got the chance. LOL. Thanks CJ and to the other military websites for the information. Pity these poor innocent faces that are being used as a front to the scam are ending up the ones being hated, when it is not even them. I think these dating agencies should be contacted and it should be forced upon them to place warnings out as well as have the wall of shame address for people to visit. Not just potential dangers of ending up meeting other members in person (like they always do – if you are going to meet someone in person, meet in a public place, etc). Place warnings out about these scams as well on the website. I think new controlling measures should be brought out to safeguard the other naive persons out there. I used to be naive, but now, not any more. This girl is armed with knowledge. No more taking chances.

  938. Hi..has anyone heard of a Captain Richard J West..I have been talking to him for two weeks now..says he is from Illionois USA…and is divorced and has a daughter 11 years old..I met him on social central on a facebook app…I am thinking he is a huge scammer..can anyone tell me if they have heard of this man?..and I saw his pics he sent me on this wall..

  939. Any one been contacted by “Col George Scott” serving in Kabul, Afghanistan……..to retired and return to the states 1/31/2012……..his son, who is 17 and a freshman at the University of Michigan was rushed to the hospital yesterday after discovering he has a hole in his heart…will have surgery this morning…………….He wants an Elizabeth Teddy to bring his silver briefcase with a six digit lock combination on it, for me to keep for him until he gets to the state. He has no living family (of course not) and he has not one but me to send his valuables to keep for him. He wants me to keep this because he is being sent on a very dangerous mission Sunday to Bazari-Anguri……..he if nervous because he lost a good friend 8 months ago there. he uses the email address of:scgeet@live.com (which is another give away to me). My son in law wants me to contact the local FBI………I have chatted with “George” for over a month, and yesterday his emails and chat sessions are much much longer since this briefcase thing came up. WHen it did…..it rose all kind of red flags to me. But I had already given him my address and cell phone number……….he needed it to give to the UN diplomat that was bringing his brief case to me to keep. She sent me a copy of her passport WHICH HAS THREE Different names on it………….

    • @ Linda typical scammer BS now he will ask you for money to secure his retirement fund as they call it which is a crock of bull……………..He wants an Elizabeth Teddy to bring his silver briefcase with a six digit lock combination on it, for me to keep for him until he gets to the state. He has no living family (of course not) and he has not one but me to send his valuables to keep for him. He wants me to keep this because he is being sent on a very dangerous mission Sunday to Bazari-Anguri…

      Next he will claim that he needs money to get the fake briefcase through customs or that they are having problems or are stranded
      To end all of this tell him to send you a copy of his most recent LES tell him to scan and send you a copy of his State ID and Military Id card hint it will not be green nor will it say military id card

      Finally insist you see him on webcam for an interactive chat for an hour or more tell him to show you who he is he wont he will have excuses he is a SCAMMER Anonn

  940. Results for “humphries.demiller@yahoo.com”

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  941. “humphries.demiller@yahoo.com” looked up on reverse email and found out he is in california stated he was in the Army. he is a scammer beware of him. can be found on FB…… anyone else been scammed by him, likes to be called Miller. says has a son Named Andy.

  942. hello thanks for this site…i was almost a target kipcalitri@yahoo.com. met this guy on bear share. profile said was from gatineau quebec. first clue he was a scammer was he didn’t speak french, as i am from canada this sent up a red flag!!!! he said he was from salt lake city ut. now after some research this guy also has a face book profile (no friends and can view without being a friend) says he’s from ill on that one. also on wayn also same location. now does the movie gone in 60 sound familier.

  943. hi and good evening, when i read all this story it makes me very sad. Well i got in contact through the internet platform Badoo by a man who called himself: Bob Johnson by name a Military Staff Platoon Sergeant and head of the military night patrol team, my rank is WO4. He wrote that he was a widower who lost his wife in a fatal car accident, he had one son with 13 years old. After about 6 mail i got suspicous because there was something in his writing that made me be careful, so luckily i found out that he was a guy form Ghana with the real name Desmond, i have photos of Bob Johnson and would like to post them so that more victims can be helped.
    I do wait for an answer. Maybe I can get in contact with the real Bob Johnson anyway first i want to help!

    • ive been chatting with this guy for 2 months now,Johnson bob found me on Badoo he calls himself sgt officer US Army he wants to come and live with me blah blah he told me his wife died after breast surgery and his son born prem who died 6yrs ago…….he said he wants to open jewelry shop here in the uk but i’m ready to let him know that i’m onto him, just waiting now for him to ask me for cash wheyyyyyyyyyy cant wait!!!

  944. Any one heard of a guy name Greg Fisher hes in Afghanistan. his story sounds alot like a few i read
    let me know

  945. this site is full of scammers.. if u wanna check out.. http://en.netlog.com/

    here’s few ones by they profilename. http://en.netlog.com/alexandra_lingo
    http://en.netlog.com/alex_joe4850
    http://en.netlog.com/cluiocluio ( this one is from Turkey and pretends to be a policeman in the U:K with so shitty english skills rizabett@hotmail.co.uk cirses1@skype.com)
    http://en.netlog.com/eric_james7 (eric_james147@yahoo.com)

    Well anyway.. i believe that everyone else who pretends to be a soldier is a total scammer.. there’s lots of them in netlog, if u want to take a look and view all those soldier profiles…

    One i met in facebook and almost got caught in his scam.. is lesley forrester miller ( lesley miller) with another name walter forrester flair (netlog)

    .

    also this woman in netlog http://en.netlog.com/dennis_betty19
    She tried to make me donate some many for her in Iraq and heres her mail what she wrote to me
    Attention: ,
    I am Betty Dennis from USA,I work for Red Cross Services organization [United Nations] in Iraq and i am in active service, there were several bomb shells in Eastern Part of Baghdad, and our services were needed, as there were wounded Civilians and Soldiers. I and my two
    colleagues, while looking for wounded Civilians, salvaged into a room and found some high valued loaded hard currencies in an open trunk box, all in United State Dollars.

    I and my partners ran into deliberation for some minutes whether to or not to take the possession of this found money but later we decided to take hold of it. the properties and the house belongs to one of Late Saddam Husein’s Loyal Ministers who was one of the identified casualties, but later found dead after discovery of his body I shared the money with my partners and they have secured there own shares of the money oversea. That is why I am contacting you to assist me in securing this my part share in package to deliver over-sea, because right now i am in active service and i cannot leave Baghdad, IRAQ immediately.

    I am willing to offer a good share to your reliable source for your earnest support in securing this my part share for keep till i return from my service.

    Thank you, and acknowledge my mail.
    Yours faithfully
    Miss Betty Dennis
    CONTACT my E-mail Address direct for more details : Dennis.betty53@gmail.com

  946. I have a friend who has been sending monies to a soldier whose nickname is Dusty. He claims to be in the Army Special Forces with the rank of Master Sgt. He is working in Bosnia and has asked repeated and received repeatedly funds to by for his replacement and transportation back to Spain and then to the US. He claims to have a residence in Ohio.

    He was born in England and speaks several languages. Their emails, texting and talking via a sattelite phone for the past 7 months. His requests for monies started about 2 months ago. He has repeatedly told her that he loves her and wants to marry her if he turns out to be her Mr. Right face to face.

    I have told her repeatedly that this is a scam but see will not listen. She is also the ex-wife of a now retired Army Special Forces Master Sargent as well.

    I need all the help I can get, to convince her that this is a scam and she is just being bilked out of her life savings. I have been in touch with the FBI who says that there is nothing they can do as she is of sound mind. My next stop will be a call to the CID.

    I will watch this site for any posts to this blog.

    Thank you for your help and any suggestions.

    Rickie

    • Rickie, please email me with her email address and/or phone number. I will talk to her personally.

    • Rickie ask your friend why she would send money to someone shes NEVER met nor seen tell her to tell him to get on webcam for a chat with her for at least an hour and if for any reason he declines scammer which I know he is anyways cause hes begging her for money tell her to tell him to scan and email her a copy of his State ID and Military Id he wont because he doesnt have either he is an AFRICAN and then ask her why she would send money to someone shes NEVER even seen she knows shes being scammed is she really that desperate.

  947. Ladies, watch out for scammer using the name Sgt. Calvin Clerance (Clarence). All his info and pictures can be viewed at scamwarners.com.

  948. Hi to all I have just finished looking at all the pictures that these low life scammers use of soldiers and read the post yes they are low lifes with no morals at all I was very lucky that my alarm bells went off and the scammer did not get the chance to get me sucked in he calls himself Derrick Wilson and that he was in Baghdad he has gone under several names but the idiot sends that same picture of a American soldier that he claims is him on you page a Richard Haggard information is excatly the same as Derrick Wilson use the one thing is he changed the DOB.My heart goes out to the families of the ones that gave there lifes for all and the dirt bag scammers are using there pictures.

  949. Thanks so much for this site and all the good information.

    I have requested assistance from my niece an NCIS agent to check on Steve Miller, SSgt (E-8. Army), allegedly stationed in Kabul, Afghanistan, and his friend Andrew (Andy) Haggard (E-7) allegedly stationed in Cote d’Ivoire.

    Much of the information from this site is similar to the information we have been given by these two people, if they really are even two different scammers. My contact came from Seniorpeoplemeet.com, as well.

    I will have to check at the top of this site for how to upload pictures, because I have four pictures to send.

    Thank you and take,
    RandyLynn

  950. HELP! I have been conversing with a gentleman for a few weeks who calls himself Danny Ramos. He says he is 51-years of age and has been deployed to Afganistan for the past 8 years. He says he has been widowed for 8 years, losing his wife and two of his three daughters in a car accident in Denmark while they were on a holiday. He was in California with his third daughter, Skyla. He immediately fell in love with me. He has professed to be a Christian man reading the bible daily as do I. He says he was an only child of a spanish father and a mother from Denmark. His parents made their fortune in the jewelry business and that he is wealthy and needs someone to share his life with he and his now 21-year old daughter who lives in London with her teacher. I have asked for her e-mail address which he gave to me. We have corresponded and “she” sent me pictures and has written me twice. The letters sound like him. She calls me mom. He asked me to send him a cell phone because he had no access to his money as it goes straight into an account. I got suspicious and of course had been suspicious since day one. I told him I could not afford to send one and he seemed okay with that, wants to continue our relationship, planning to come home next month, buy a house and wants to get married and send for Skyla in London. Has anyone else heard this same story???? Please write me back if you have so I can put this to rest once and for all. I have confronted him about these stories and he says he can’t believe that this kind of stuff is going on. He said he turned it over to his commanding officer. What should I do? Debbie

  951. Oh – I might add, he says he is a staff seargeant in charge of 150 men. Do these soldiers do eight straight years in Afganistan? Especially a widower with a child? Debbie

  952. Hello, Just wanted you to know Anthony Ramos email address t.ramos247@yahoo.com is a scammer. If you check on Romance scams you will see many pics of a real military man named Sgt. Aaron Ramos. There are a bunch of Nigerian men who are using this real man’s pics all over the internet on different dating sites. He found me on match.com. Also there is another scam with a real soldier last name Haggard, nice looking tall he a real person who these scammers are using his pic of he found me on match.com also. Also had a yahoo address. don’t have pics of him but do have pics of ramos. Hope this helps someone else.

  953. I ran across a man who was a scammer went by the name of t.ramos247@yahoo.com I have pics of him. He is using a real military man’s pic’s Sgt. Aaron Ramos. If you go to romance scams you will see this Aaron Ramos attached to many different peoples names and email addresses. Also ran across a James Haggard. There is a pic of him on this web site. Ladies please beware of these Nigieran scammers, they are really good and will try to take money from you. Hope this helps others.

  954. I have pictures of Danny Ramos as well as of his daughter. He found me on myyearbook.com. I confronted him with these stories and he insists that he is real and is coming home next month and we are sending for his daughter and getting married. I am sending nothing. Will keep everyone posted.

  955. I have indeed confirmed that Danny Ramos is INDEED Sgt Aaron Ramos of the US ARMY whose identify has been stolen. I have cut off all communications with Danny Ramos. He used the e-mail ramosdanny2011@gmail.com and he gave me his daughter’s e-mail address and pictures as skylaramos111@gmail.com. His history was no brothers or sisters, only child, 2 dead parents, dead wife and 2 daughters in car wreck in Denmark 8 years ago. Retiring next month after 25 years in Army. Daughter Skyla 21-years of age living in London. Billionaire inherited family fortune.

  956. The Common Scammer Red Flags

    Profile picture looks professionally done
    Height/weight is not proportional -e.g. 6’ and 95 lbs
    Claim to be Native American or some other ethnicity when the photo is Caucasian
    Claim to be older/younger than the photo looks
    Grammar is not consistent with how Americans speak, French speak etc.
    Profile seems cut and pasted
    Spelling is atrocious, they are notorious for using “i” instead of “I”
    Their full name is two first names – John Michele, Florence Francis, Shawn David
    They typically claim to be from the US (or your local region) but they are overseas, or going overseas mainly to Nigeria, sometimes the UK for business or family matters
    A majority of them claim to have lost a spouse/child/parent in a horrific traffic accident or airplane accident or any of the above are sick or in the hospital
    The details they give you in email/IM are often different that what was stated in the profile
    Their profile seems to disappear off the website immediately after conversation begin

    Scammers can be clever with their words, usually the text of the message is cut and pasted or they can be sloppy in their text as the email below shows. The email is an example of “scammer grammar” the misspelled words, and the short abbreviations of words

  957. Hi

    can you check out a Michael Massingale please . Ive googled him as part of Bravo company 82nd company in Kabul but he isny listed anywhere all other soldiers and after reading some of the above storeis I ma very very sceptical. I have 3 phots he has sent me some things just dont add up.

    regards

  958. Does any know a Colonel Chris Kenneth or Kenneth Chris Bullard. He says he is stationed in Iraq. When I asked him where in Iraq n what base he was stationed at he told he could not tell me that. We met on line through a dating site in November of 2011. We have e-mail a few times n I have saved them all. He has even sent pictures with the first email he sent me. He has told me he is from Dallas, Texas, divorced with 3 boys, one sister n his parents, n they all live in Dallas. I asked him if there was a way we could on the phone n he told me the only way we could that was I would have to set it up here in the states. After a few e-mails n talking on yahoo mess he has asked me if I could send $1200 for his flight fee home n said he would pay me back when got here. I told him I did not have that kind money on hand but that I would do what I could to get him home some how. Every once in awhile he would ask me if I had sent the money yet? I kept n keep coming up with excuses why I havent or why I cant send it. These are the 2 address he gave me send it through. The first is Agent Abe Adewale, city, Ikere, state, Ekiti and the counrty is Nigeria. When I told him I tried to send it would not go through he gave me a 2nd address, Kathy Gayheart, city, Avilla, state, Indiana 46710 USA. I have never sent him any money. Even though he says he loves and wants to spend his life with me. He never has asked me to marry him yet. When I Google his name it does give me facebook, twitter and myspace but when I go to those sites its blocked.When I Google Colonel Chris Kenneth Bullard it give me that he is from Dallas, Texas, he 47 yrs in the US Marines and that he is in Iraq. I asked him what did over there and he said he could tell me was that he deals with terrorists. Tell let me know any n all information you can find on Colonel Chris Kenneth Bullard, US Marine. I do have pictures that he has sent me also.

  959. Does anyone know or have any information on a Colonel Chris Kenneth Bullard US Marine who is stationed in Iraq? We met on line through a dating site in October 2011. He’s email is chriskenneth54@yahoo.com. We have sent a few emails but we mostly talk through yahoo mess. I asked him what does over there and all he told me was that he told me he deals with terrorist. I asked him about writting letters and the name of his base n said he could not tell me that. After a few weeks talking through mess he asked me if I was working n i f I could send him $1200.00 for his flight fee home. I told him I did not have that kind of money, but I would do what I could do about getting him home. I asked him if we could talk on the phone n he told me that I would have to set up here n it would cost me alot of money. 2 days ago when on yahoo he said he needed $50.00. I have never sent him any money.He gave 2 address to send it through. The 1st is through western union, the agents name is Abe Adewale, city, Ikere,state, Ekiti, counrty, Nigeria. and the other is Kathy Gayheart, city, Avilla, state, Indiana 46710 USA. western union. He also told me that he is divorced with 3 sons,a sister and his parents and that he from Dallas Texas and that he is 47. I have Googled his name and gives me Colonel Chris Kenneth Bullard, 47, US Marine, Iraq, Although he never asked to me to marry him he does tell me he loves and wants to spend he life with me. Like all the other women I just want to know if he is the real thing or if this is a scam. Also when I Google his name it does come up hes on facebook, twitter n myspace with a question why are you looking for colonel chris kenneth bullard. Please send n let me know anything you find out.

    • @ Marcy you are correct he is a scammer CJ has said it here MANY times any Man that finds you on any social site and tell you he is Military and asks you for MONEY IS A SCAMMER he does NOT need any money for his flight home he cannot give you any information because he IS Not in the Military he is An African he lives in AFRICA have you seen him on Cam for more than 30 minutes to an hour online for an interactive chat NO you have not so he could be anyone and hes begging you for money demand that he get on cam and show you who he is for an interactive chat for an hour or more and he can do it if he is not a scammer only a scammer will make up an excuse CUT him off now Marcy you have been warned Anonn

      • Thanks for all your help on finding information on colonel chris kenneth bullard. we just so happened talked again on mess tonight. n before we stopped for the night he asked if I had sent the money, meaning the $50.00. I told him I tired but I was told the addresses he gave me were some how wrong, n western union would not send it through unless I had the name of his base , unit number and address. He said they were not allowed to give out that information. So I asked if there was some way I could call him that way when I went to send money I could call him from a west union office n he could help with the form. Guess what he said. No honey, sorry theres no way for you to call. Please send me an email address and I will send you the pics he has sent me so every women out there can see who he is. My email address is marcyingram1963@att.net. I will more than happy to send every single one of them. Again I thank you so much for all your help. Marcy.

        • @ Marcy GREAT JOB you busted this lying beggars bubble but be aware that hes going to try you again hes going to try the oh I am so hurt that you dont trust me routine cut him off and block him and delete him and then check your security settings on your computer ASAP…..you can go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com and post your story and expose this lying piece of shit.Anonn

        • I was talking to the so called Colonel Chris Kenneth Bullard earlier today. When he got on yahoo chat I told him I had been waiting for him n that I was Marcy’s brother n from now he would be dealing with me,because all her inter net accounts have been directed to me. I also told him I had my father in-law who is an ex marine check him out. That didnt go over well with him. He wanted to know who the hell was to have him checked out. n that he didnt have anything to say to me n he wanted to talk to Marcy. When I told him that wasnt going to happen that he was dealing with me now , meaning my brother, that only made him more pissed. I told him what I found out about him. That we know he is really from Africa n that he is living there n that he is African OMG!!! , he called me just about every name the book. some of which he didnt even spell right.. When I told him that h e n his called Command Daniel Bolger had been busted thats he told me f**k wue ase I deal with wue when I get state. Thats when I really turned it on. I told him everything he has sent my sister, meaning me, had been turned over to the Untied States FBI N CIA n that ALL dating sites now know who n what he is. I also told him we know about the fake addresses too n that the Kathy Gayheart n her address were also given to the FBI n CIA here the UNITED STATES. He told me to leave him alone that he was turning me in to the fbi. thats how he wrote it small letters. I asked him if he needed the address n he told never mind. Than again around 1am he tried to get ahold of me, but Im still pretending to my brother. All I said was, Hey What’s up? This is Marcy”s brother. He wouldnt even talk. he signed out as of 1:40 am. Look I know I shouldnt be in contact with him. but it’s kinda of fun to give him some of his own meds. I think its actually funny myself. Ive never given him my address or phone number so I really dont have any worries there. I just want to make sure this ASSHOLE cant do this to any more women. So ladies be on the look out for a Colonel Chris Kenneth Bullard. His email is chriskenneth 54@yahoo. He’s nothing but trash. Im still looking for away to get his, at least the pics he is using up for all the women every where to see who to look out for. Any info how to do that please. Thanks for all your help. Marcy.

  960. Hi all,
    I was contacted by a “Captain Paul Davis” on facebook. We chatted and Skyped but after a while it became very obvious that he isn’t what he claims to be. He also proposed marriage after a few days of chatting….
    His Yahoo address is paul19936 and he’s very charming so be aware and be careful girls.

    I am not sure who he actually is but claims to be deployed in Tripoli, Libya. He said that he grew up in a US miitary orphanage and had no siblings. His father supposedly died on a mission. He claims to be 47 and been in the army for 27 years. He also dropped out of high school. He says that he’s ready to leave the army and have a family of his own. He spoke of coming to South Africa to meet me and then take my son and I to live with him in the States.
    His fb profile says that he’s from Indiana…

    Also, he said not to tell anyone we were in contact as he wasn’t allowed access to the Internet. He was in charge of radio messages to the troops which is why he had limited Internet access.

    Thanks to CJ and his Wall of Shame, I could identify this scammer’s fake photos. Very sad that these scammers take advantage of vulnerable women and steal identities of US Soldiers…

    Take care!!!

    • @ Julia this is a CROCK OF BULLSH*T LOL…………He said that he grew up in a US miitary orphanage and had no siblings. This scammer has really lost his tiny little mind there is NO such thing great job glad you notice BS when you read it Anonn

  961. Please tell me how send the pics I have of Colonel Chris Bullard. I will be more than happy to send them to you. We are on yahoo mess now n he asked me when I was going to send the $50.00 he asked me for 3 days. All I told him was I would do what I could. When I asked if he could barrow from one his buddies he said no he couldnt. He also told me that his commanding officer is Command Daniel Bolger. His email is commanddanielbolg@yahoo.com.

    • Marcy tell this scammer you will send him your hard earned money when hell freezes over be prepared because they will say anything to get your money thats what he wants NOT you but if he wants the 50 dollars that bad tell him to get on cam and bring a bucket with you because you will throw up when you see who he really is.

      Ask him to scan and send you a copy of his State ID card and his Military Id Card (military id card will NOT be green and will NOT say military id card)
      Ask him what base he deployed from and what State it is in ask him for his Unit number
      So His Job is to deal with terrorist what a crock of BS he is a LIAR a beggar a con an ugly african scammer

    • I googled Chris Bullard and he is a pro baseball player it says NOTHING about him being military.Anonn

    • @ Marcy you can go to romancescam.com and scamwarners.com and the second one will give you info on a professional B8iter what you are doing could be dangerous there are way they can track you through IM the best thing to do is to cut this scammer off delete and block him before he sends a virus to your computer and scan your computer for viruses.Great Job of recognizing that he was a lying begging leech also google the site scammerssuck.com there you will find alot of information and even see the real faces of scammers.Anonn

  962. This is Courtesy of a REAL US Military Member…….Thanks Jerry.

    Ladies, ladies, ladies………..

    It does not cost us ANYTHING to go on leave and with the Army cutting back to 9 months on a deployment, we don’t get leaves anymore during our time over here. If he is on a perm base over here his leave is FREE!! We fly military air wherever we go for FREE! There is no paper work that a civilian can fill out ot get us a leave. When we have emergencies we go on emergency leave which is FREE. We have DSN phone lines so all our calls to the states are FREE!! We also have MWR’s which also see to it we can keep in contact with our people back home for FREE. If you see the point I’m trying to make, there is NO reason whatsover that a service person should need you to send them money. I know some of you think you have found the love of your life but it breaks our hearts over here knowing they are using our pics to do it. I’m sorry if you have fallen for one of these AS$&*oles.
    I know this for a fact as my wife found a picture of me in Iraq on one of these sites and the guy wasn’t even using my name.

  963. I have another one for you, with photos, if you want. He claimed to be Edy, (Eddie) Drapper, WO5, US Army, in Kabul Afghanistan, orphaned at the age of ten when his military parents’ jeep drove over a land mine. Raised by his uncle, he joined the Army to honor his parents. I have photos, if you want them. He wove quite a tale. Had a son who was 11 years old, in a boarding school in Chicago, his only remaining family. sob sob. Getting out of his tour, was sending me a package to hold for him, but needed me to send $ to clear customs in Accra. Long story. I didn’t, and he called me every name in the book. Let me know if you want photos. Really looks like a nice guy. Name on uniform says “Draper”, only one “p”. His e-mail was drapper1960@yahoo.com

  964. Hi all
    I have been online chatting for several months to a person claiming to be Master Sergeant Skelton Robbort Smith. He has sent me pics of himself, ranks match the uniform. He was n Kabul until around November, and has now been deployed to Nigeria to train E5 Sergeants. So he says. I have been talking on the phone occasionally and yes he has an accent consistent with some one form New York as he claims to be.
    Yes I had to send small amount of money to the US Army Transit Department in Chicago to a Eva Romero, and give them details of myself to them. This email was signed by a Colonel Pamela Jones.
    Ok does anyone know if this is genuine ? Does Sgt Skelton Robbort Smith really exist and is he really the person I am talking too,

    • @ Laura Mckay you typed this……….he does have an accent guess what it isnt NEW York it is African also you typed this……….and has now been deployed to Nigeria to train E5 Sergeants.

      Please google Nigeria for a Military base and tell me the name of the base you find there OH wait I have THERE IS NO BASE IN NIGERIA he lives in Nigeria he is NOT in the military he is an ugly African but since he claims to be in the military tell him to get on web cam demand it for at least an hour he wont
      tell him to send you a copy of his most recent LES he wont
      ask him what base he deployed from and what State is it in while chatting with him via the webcam
      tell him to email you from his AKO address he wont
      ask him for his address in afgnan and google it
      ask him to send you a copy of both his drivers license and military id his military id will not be green nor will it say military id card you will spot a fake a mile away scammers are very ignorant and many have no education at all
      If he insists someones using his pics and he is the handsome man in the pics tell him to ease your mind Take a new pic of himself holding a sign with the days date and time with your Name on it and say I am Real it wont happen. go to romance scam.com and scamwarners.com and educate yourself and share your story

      REAL MILITARY MEMBERS WILL NOT NEED YOUR HELP OR YOUR MONEY FOR ANY REASON IT DOES NOT COST MONEY TO BUY SOME PHONE OR SOME PHONE LINE TO TALK TO THEM THEIR LEAVE HAS TO BE APPLIED FOR BY THEM AND IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE PAID FOR THEY ALSO WILL NOT FIND YOU ON ANY SOCIAL SITE AND ASK YOU FOR MONEY FOR ANY REASON

      Any man who meets you online and asks you for money for any reason is not only NOT a Man but is a scammer

  965. I was just contacted through my Match.com account by a profile marked ROBLESLOVEFORYOU. He said his name was Daniel and that he was in Afghanistan, originally from Dallas and was tranferring to my area in February. When he got wordy about his miliary position I took the text and did a google search on it and came upon this site. The military jargon was almost perfectly word for word. Thanks for posting this information online and preventing me from getting taken. I quickly blocked his profile and reported it to Match. Hopefully it will get shut off before anyone has the chance to be scammed.

  966. How do I find out if Captain David Palmer is scamming me I have already sent him lots of money

    • Kathy: It is a scam! A real soldier will not ask you for money. They do not need it. My Fiance is in the Army and was stationed in Afghanistan. Never needed anything sent. Cut your losses girl and get rid of him.

  967. Can anyone please tell me if they have come across the name of Sgt Michael Pedersen serving in Afghan…I think I may also be a victim here of one of these scams…I have been asked to send 2,500 for solicitors fee for the replacement of Michael so he can be granted leave….the fee is ment to be because Michael would need to be replaced by another Sgt???

  968. im trying to find out if im getting scammed has any body heard of a sargent ryan james wells

  969. Thank you annon, I did google this as well
    The thing that puzzles me the most is I have seen “Skelton” on web cam and he is a white, blonde blue eyed guy that looks exactly like the pics he has sent me, in full US Army uniform. He has not asked for money as yet , so I really dont know what his motive could be. I will wait and see.

    • @ Laura Mckay you typed this ……………I have seen “Skelton” on web cam and he is a white, blonde blue eyed guy that looks exactly like the pics he has sent me, in full US Army uniform

      Ok if this is true then did you have an interactive chat with him for an hour or more if NOT it was prerecorded and you are being SCAMMED please let us know because if it was NOT an interactive chat for an hour or more then like I said you are being scammed reread what you typed and then reread what I typed its your choice not mine I am done with this GOOD LUCK Anonn

    • @ Laura Mckay you have contradicted yourself either you sent money or you did not you typed this first…….Yes I had to send small amount of money to the US Army Transit Department in Chicago to a Eva Romero, and give them details of myself to them. This email was signed by a Colonel Pamela Jones.YOU then typed this……….He has not asked for money as yet ,

      So which is it did you send money or not????? get your story straight but either way it goes this is a scammer I dont give a damn if hes asked you for a dime and you sent it

      BOTTOM LINE THERE IS NO US MILITARY BASE IN NIGERIA AND YOU HAVE BEEN SCAMMED OUT OF MONEY THEY FEEL YOU ARE GULLIBLE SO THEY WILL KEEP YOU AROUND AND EVEN THOUGH YOU CLAIM HE HASNT ASKED FOR MONEY YET SO YOU SAY YET YOU SAY YOU SENT A SMALL AMOUNT OF MONEY YES IT IS A SCAM AND YOU ARE BEING SCAMMED! TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

      when this scammer is done with you due to your desperation and denial go to romancsscam.com for support this literally chaps my ass when someone sits here and tries to justify that their scammer is real by saying HE HASNT ASKED FOR MONEY YET!!! Anonn has left the blog for a few hours to cool off!!!!!

  970. Since 10 days i met a very nice soldier on a site, http://www.relatie.com
    We have mail contact, send me 2 pictures, wow, very nice guy, he is devorced 5 years ago, stationed in Afghanistan, for 10 years special agent, his words, i really thought i could be fall in love.
    I told this story to my neith, she gave me this site, because she didn.t trust it and now i am glad that i read the replies here!!

  971. Laura Mckay not that it will help you but I googled the Name Skelton Robbort Smith and this is what I found…….LOL basically your Nigerian scammer has found this Name and made it up hes NOT US Military he is an Nigerian scammer so GOOD LUCK!!!!!!! the Name Skelton is the Last Name of someone else there IS NO SKELTON ROBBORT SMITH!

    Peter Charles, Ben Maher, Nick Skelton, Robert Smith and Michael Whitaker have been selected to travel to Rome for next week’s FEI Nations Cup.

    Three of the selected combinations also competed at the first FEI Nations Cup competition in La Baule, France (13-15 May) – Peter Charles, Nick Skelton and Robert Smith.

    Hampshire based Peter Charles will partner Olga White and Team Murka’s ten year old chestnut stallion Murka’s Nevada VI.

    Ben Maher and Tripple X III have recently returned from Linz where they won the 80,000€ Grand Prix. Tripple X III is a nine year old black stallion whom Ben jointly owns with Quainton Stud – he will be making his debut in this series.

    Warwickshire’s Nick Skelton will partner Beverly Widdowson’s ten year old grey stallion, Carlo.

    Another Warwickshire rider Robert Smith with the scopey eleven year old bay stallion Talan, a horse he jointly owns with Di and Pennie Cornish.

    Michael Whitaker, currently based in Nottingham, will join his Wold Cup Qualifying horse GIG Amai II. The even year old bay gelding, owned by Beatrice Mertens.

    The Nations Cup is due to take place on Friday 27th May at 16:00 CEST with the Grand Prix commencing on Sunday 29th May at 16:15 CEST.

    Live footage will be available to view on FEI TV (www.feitv.org). For more information on the show and up to date results visit http://www.piazzadisiena.org

    The British Showjumping Teams are strongly supported by the UK Sport Lottery funded BEF World Class Programme.

  972. Can anyone tell me anymore information on thsi Raymond Draper guy??? My mother in law has been suckered into some sort of “relationship” with this man for almost a year now. His story is that he was in Afghanistan and his children are in Africa. He just left Afghanistan to go to Africa to get his kids, however now he is running into some problems. As far as I know he hasn’t asked her for money yet (she doesn’t have any anyways) but I feel he is on the verge of that now. He’s telling her his son what hit by a drunk driver and he is having a hard time affording hte costs that have been incurred with this and it may be awhile before he gets back to the states. I’m also worried because he is sending packages to her address and they are being billed to another name and an address in New York. The last thing she needs (as well as me and my husband need) is her getting into any trouble with the law or her sending any money to these scammers. Can someone please guide me in how to tell her he is not real!!! We have tried to tell her before, however, she is really naive and not willing to listen. Thanks!!

    • @ Chrissy the kids in Africa thing is a dead giveaway he IS A SCAMMER but if shes still unsure tell him to send her an email from his military email account it should end with .Mil if it has anything beyond .Mil it is a fake tell her to tell him to get on cam and have an interactive chat for an hour or more show himself any excuses and he is a scammer Any Man or woman who finds anyone on a social site and asks them for money for any reason is a scammer plain and simple.

      US Military will not need your money for any reason NOT even to fly back to the US and anyone who contacts you and mentions Africa is just that an African it is his home there it is a dead giveaway Anonn

    • @ Chrissy ………………He’s telling her his son what hit by a drunk driver and he is having a hard time affording hte costs that have been incurred with this and it may be awhile before he gets back to the states= send money is basically what hes already doing hes begging without asking and hes also using a stolen credit card to send things to her home call the police and stop it NOW all the scammer will do is use the address as his own to scam others why would she give someone shes never met her personal information??????

      This scammer has no power he cannot get out of Africa unless he has an invite and a Visa

  973. Hello ladies, like you all I also have been scammed but he didn’t get any money. I have notice most of the emails have two first names or numbers. Not only that if you google them the names come up dead people or some old famous people but never them. I have names that are not on here..jsong68@yahoo..kelvinlord@yahoo..edwincollas2yahoo..edwindunn@yahoo..brucewilliam@yahoo. These scammers got me off of the dating sites. I think I’m going back to the old fashion way of finding men, in bars, and stores. At least I’ll know their for real and worth giving my heart to. Good luck ladies, we’re worth more then this..so less GET THIS PARTY STARTED.

  974. I have all kinds of scams falling into my email box ..can i do anything about it..most recent is from a col.allanhayford@yahoo.com

    • @ Carolyn yes you can IGNORE and delete them Anonn

  975. I was recently scammed of $4000 by a guy claiming to be a sargent in the US Military stationed in Kabul. Said he was a 25 year military guy and had a son he adopted when he was stationed in the Congo. Said his son was in boarding school in Ghana. Sent me pics of him and his son. I even talked to the ‘son’ on MSN quite a few times. Sent money to the woman looking after the son after Herbert (the Sargent) told me that the son Michael needed surgery and there wasn’t enough money in his ‘school account’ to pay for the surgery. After the surgery it was money needed for medication etc. When I asked why the US military wasn’t paying for all this he said it was because his son wasn’t in the US. He told me he saved the wife of some oil tycoon in Afganistan and that the oil guy got him involved in an oil deal. A few weeks later he asked if he could send 1.2 million to me via a diplomat so the military wouldn’t take the money from him. Said he got it from the oil deal. In the course of getting it here the diplomat paid many ‘officials’ but had run out of money and needed $3000 more to get the money out of Ghana. I told him I had no more money to send. He tried many different ways after that to get money and I kept trlling him I had none left. One night I read about these scams on the internet. I started asking him questions about where he was stationed etc but he always gave vague answers. When I pushed the issue about his answers, he ‘lost connection’ a few times then went off line and I have not heard from him since. That’s when I concluded I was scammed. He uses the name Herbert Smith from Dallas Texas with an adopted son in Accra Ghana named Michael.

  976. I fell in dating scam
    send $ 10,000 to license a
    name cusmas, nicholas
    inname for sgte. Karen Vasseur – Colorado -
    when the last shipment sent to
    suspected africa ….
    It was late but the money had already gone
    cusmas nicholas – said to be an engineer working in
    base ismalabad pakistan
    was transferred
    and sent documents to refill in one UN
    but I do not pass data from banks and other information
    yet I was injured in the $ 10,000

  977. MICHA NELSON GRAND MARSHAL SERVED FOR 27 YEARS HE IS AT KABUL VICTORY CAMP EMAIL IS umst101@yahoo.com pls dose anyone know him

    • Jacqui the name sounds suspect do not become a Victim DEMAND that he gets on cam and shows you his whole body not just his face for an interactive chat for an hour or more if he asks you for anything he is a SCAMMER which I know he is anyway if he found you on any social site and now wants a relationship with you he is a scammer and all scammers are using camp victory which I have heard does NOT exist

      Military does not use western union or moneygram and will not need your money or any help from you for any reason but scammers do leave has to be requested by the military member there is no early retirement and there is NO penalty and neither has to be paid for google the Name this scammer is using you will find it is a combination of a few Names Im sure

      Tell him to take a pic of himself holding a sign with the days date on it and on the sign it should say I am real holding both his Military ID and his State Id card HE WONT

      he will be so angry and sad because you dont trust him because he loves your money so much NOT you Anonn

      • he has sent me his number told me to check it 19-OB4{PL93-UN-579 AND GAVE ME MILITARY website told me to check and get back to him he has never asked me for money dont know wot to do

        • @ Jacqui I have told you the real and now you sit and type this………he has never asked me for money dont know wot to do sounds to me you are so gone and so in denial over a man you have never met nor seen for an interactive chat for more than an hour is this the best you can do so am I to believe that just because he has yet to ask you for money hes real how convenient he gave you a website to check out those numbers GOOD LUCK let us Know how much he takes you for and find your own support you know this is a scam and you know he is a scammer or you would NEVER have came here GOOD Luck hope hes real which we know hes NOT.Anonn

    • Jacqui I googled the names thats right I said Names because the Name your scammer is using belongs to two different Men and not ONLY THAT THE EMAIL ADDRESS IS A CROCK OF BULLSHIT it should end with .Mil nothing more than .Mil so Ivee given you all the signs he is a scammer and in return all you can say is what alot brainwashed desperate people say which is he hasnt asked me for any money yet but HE WILL good luck Anonn

  978. HI ALL WELL I HAVE ALSO HAVE BEEN SCAMMED BY SGT WILIIAMS Macdonald I SENT HIM MONEY HE TOLD ME HE WAS A WIDOW AND HIS WIFE DIED OF CANCER AND HE HAS A DAUGHTER NAMED SHELLY WHO LIVES WITH HIS SICK MOM WHILE HE IS KABUL AFG .. HE NEED MONEY TO COME HOME .. TO MARRY ME LOL.. WELL NOW HE TOLD ME HE IS FROM CLEVELAND OHIO AND HE TEXT ME AND HIS EMAIL WAS SGTWILLIAMS501@YAHOO.COM AND HE SENT ME ALL THOSE PICS TO ME THAT ARE HERE IN THE WEBSITE HERE. OMG I HOPE YOU ALL ARE ABLE TO CONTACT THE MILITARY PERSONAL IN THE PICS HERE TO LET THEM KNOW THEY PICS ARE BEING USE FOR SCAMS…. WELL I WAS SO HEART BROKEN WHEN I FOUND OUT SGT WILLIAMS MACDONALD WASNT WHO HE SAID WAS … I HOPE U FIND OUT WHO THE REAL US IN MILTARY PERSON IN THAT PIC IS SGT WILLIAMS MACDONALD SCAMED ME OUT OF 700.00 DOLLARS HE SAID HE WAS IN STUCK IN KABUL. WELL IF ANYONE KNOWS THE REAL MILITARY Soldier AKA SGTWILLIAMS MACDONALD WELL STUPID ME FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM

  979. I think I’m being hit on for a scam… This is the convo I had earlier today: (he sent 3 pics but I don’t know how to post them here)

    sgt.robersonsmith: that is me with my assitant troop leader
    sgt.robersonsmith: i am in the left hand side
    sgt.robersonsmith: while he is in the right hand side
    eves_mailbox: Nice pic… I assumed you were the main guy in it.
    sgt.robersonsmith: yes i am
    sgt.robersonsmith: lol
    sgt.robersonsmith: i am the troop leader for my troop
    sgt.robersonsmith: i am in 2nd regiment
    sgt.robersonsmith: victory camp
    sgt.robersonsmith: battalion 1000
    Other pictures he shared:

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    sgt.robersonsmith: here ios no easy at all
    sgt.robersonsmith: if i can get a serious relationship
    sgt.robersonsmith: i will just tell the person to do my discharge out of the military camp so that i can be with her to take good care of her for the rest of my life
    sgt.robersonsmith: where did you work?
    sgt.robersonsmith: are you there?
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    sgt.robersonsmith: plsss i have becoming having interest so much in you
    sgt.robersonsmith: pls i will care for you for the rest of my life
    sgt.robersonsmith: just accept me into your life
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    sgt.robersonsmith: sorry i will have to go now and i will be back in the nest 30minutes
    sgt.robersonsmith: my commander general sent me an urgent signa now
    eves_mailbox: Ok take care of yourself. ttyl
    sgt.robersonsmith: be back 30 mins
    sgt.robersonsmith: will you still be online
    BUZZ!!!
    sgt.robersonsmith: i am back here from my commander general
    eves_mailbox: hope everythin’g ok there
    sgt.robersonsmith: we lost two men again
    eves_mailbox: on no! that’s horrible! I’m so sorry!
    BUZZ!!!
    sgt.robersonsmith: are you there
    eves_mailbox: yes
    sgt.robersonsmith: you are not talking to ,me anymore here
    sgt.robersonsmith: why did you stop talking to me here
    eves_mailbox: I didn’t I said I was I was really sorry about your two guys there and you didn’t say anything after that so I just assumed you were busy with something but I’m here
    sgt.robersonsmith: i am not busy
    sgt.robersonsmith: i was just now happy with everything
    sgt.robersonsmith: and since they said they are after my life now
    eves_mailbox: you really need to get away from there! In fact I wish the US would get out of all parts over there! I hate so much to keep hearing news about our guys that give up their lives over there… some of them are so young too! I know how hard it must be for their families!
    sgt.robersonsmith: but i have no one to go to
    sgt.robersonsmith: i have no one to do my discharge out of here because i have never complete my tour
    sgt.robersonsmith: until if i see someone to discharge me out of here
    eves_mailbox: what does that mean? how long is your tour and who can get you discharged and how?
    sgt.robersonsmith: there is some military forms that will be fill
    sgt.robersonsmith: they will all be send to you
    sgt.robersonsmith: you will fill them out and you will send all this forms back to the military headquater washington dc
    sgt.robersonsmith: they will processed the forms and they will grand my discharge and they will send me to you over there
    they will send me to the nearest airport to you
    sgt.robersonsmith: and you will come there to pick me up
    sgt.robersonsmith: but you will be ask to pay some charges like the forms charges and the processing charges to process the papers
    eves_mailbox: Hey I don’t have any money for that? I live on a very limited disability income here.
    sgt.robersonsmith: oh ok
    sgt.robersonsmith: i have no option than to stay here for the next 3 years to complete my tour then
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    eves_mailbox: Actually I said I can’t think of anyone who could. I will check around tho. What kind of costs are we talking about here and what kind of forms?
    sgt.robersonsmith: the forms just to know where they will send me to
    sgt.robersonsmith: the name of the poerson that want to do my discharge and the information about the person
    sgt.robersonsmith: the name of the airport close to the person
    sgt.robersonsmith: normal question
    sgt.robersonsmith: and they will send me home to you
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    sgt.robersonsmith: will you chat with my commander general of all military army forces in iraq here
    sgt.robersonsmith: and he will be able to tell you everything about it
    sgt.robersonsmith: he will be in place to tell you everything because he will be the one to help in the process
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    sgt.robersonsmith: ok
    sgt.robersonsmith: i will send him your id too now
    sgt.robersonsmith: i sent your yahoo messenger id to him now
    sgt.robersonsmith: i hope he will add you to chat with you
    sgt.robersonsmith: plss i want you to respect him so much
    sgt.robersonsmith: he is the commander general of all military army so far in iraq
    sgt.robersonsmith: did you get him now
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    eves_mailbox: yes I have him
    sgt.robersonsmith: good
    sgt.robersonsmith: let me give you time to chat with him now
    sgt.robersonsmith: hope your conversation is going on well
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    The conversation with the ‘commanding general’:
    Commd.ray Ordiano:
    Commd.ray Ordiano: HELLO MADAM?
    eves_mailbox: Yes Sir
    Commd.ray Ordiano: I AM COMMANDER GENERAL RAY
    Commd.ray Ordiano: COMMANDER GENERAL OF ALL MILITARY ARMY IN IRAQ
    Commd.ray Ordiano: WHAT IS YOUR FULL NAME?
    eves_mailbox: Eve Shelby
    Commd.ray Ordiano: WHERE ARE YOU FROM?
    eves_mailbox: near Toronto in Canada
    Commd.ray Ordiano: OH I SEE
    Commd.ray Ordiano: MY SERGEANT TOLD ME YOU WANT TO DO HIS DISCHARGE HOME TO YOU IN CANADA
    Commd.ray Ordiano: IS THAT RIGHT?
    eves_mailbox: Actually I don’t know what I could do for him. I’ve never come across this kind of situation before.
    eves_mailbox: He’s an American… I seriously I could have him discharged here to Canada. I don’t have my own home and have very limited income. I live with my elderly father but can’t just invite strangers into his home.
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    Back to RobersonSmith:
    eves_mailbox: alright I have to tell you I’m getting quite concerned about the way the conversation is going and the things he is saying. How he’s saying things is beginning to sound very much like some of the scam messages I keep getting in my email.
    there is military forms
    sgt.robersonsmith: you will see this by yourself
    eves_mailbox: I asked him if there is a link or website I can look at to see what this process is and he’s not answering that question.
    sgt.robersonsmith: babe he is incharge of the process here in iraq
    sgt.robersonsmith: he is the ciommander general here
    sgt.robersonsmith: he is the most senior officer
    eves_mailbox: he doesn’t sound American at all.
    sgt.robersonsmith: and there is no link for that
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    sgt.robersonsmith: unless you can get to headquater
    eves_mailbox: Wash DC is probably close to 1,000 miles from here.
    sgt.robersonsmith: babe if you can get there
    sgt.robersonsmith: they will tell you that this is real
    sgt.robersonsmith: not a scam no cause for any fair(sic)
    eves_mailbox: Alright I’ll see what I can find out. but I have to go right now and cook dinner for my dad.
    sgt.robersonsmith: ok
    sgt.robersonsmith: when are you going to be back to chat with me
    sgt.robersonsmith: i will have to go soon to patrol
    eves_mailbox: not sure but I should be back on by the computer in a couple of hours.
    sgt.robersonsmith: ok
    eves_mailbox: I’ll ttyl
    sgt.robersonsmith: send me offline message when you come on here and immidiately when i come i will be able to know
    Last message received on 1/25 at 4:05 PM

    • @ Eve Shelby yes he is a scammer and this is a scam REAL Military Members will NOT beg you for money for ANY reason and this right here…….sgt.robersonsmith: i will just tell the person to do my discharge out of the military camp so that i can be with her to take good care of her for the rest of my life

      100% BULLSHIT no civilian can pay the Military to discharge ANY Military member and Discharge does NOT have to be paid for so when and if this lying piece of shit contacts you again tell him he will just have to stay in Africa for the next 3 years until he can find a woman thats slow enough to discharge him as he puts it CUT him off NOW he is a Liar a Beggar and a Thief get the picture Anonn

    • @ Eve he typed this lie to you………sgt.robersonsmith: babe he is incharge of the process here in iraq…………ALL US Military are NO Longer in IRAQ so this is a lying African NOT an American at all they are such MORONS they lie and pretend to be Military but they know NOTHING about the US Military THANK GOD.

      sgt.robersonsmith: i was just now happy with everything
      sgt.robersonsmith: and since they said they are after my life now

      I am American and I NEVER talk like this but I do know who does AFRICANS especially uneducated scammers.

  980. If everyone could use TinEye or Google Image Search you could save yourselves a lot of trouble, also pick out names and copy and past into Google and do a Search or you could try and Google some other part of the Story and you will be surprised as to the information you can find, its not always 100% because some times you can just come up Blank every time so then you need to ask questions like where they live now and what town or City is close by and if you can learn to use Google Earth you can be one step ahead of them. I have caught out so many on Netlog and so many other Sites its now a game for me. My biggest worry is that so many people send money to someone they have never met face to face, never ever send money to someone you have never met, its just stupid and another thing never believe your watching someone on webcam, I have seen some really good scams where the Video is on a loop really hard to pick unless you watch carfully.

  981. My want a be scammer goes by the name Sgt Andrew Smith, stated to be married twice no children, both parents dead, no siblings Is currently in West Africa part of United Nations. they are not allowed to internet access due to spy and Taliban . But he friended me on face book, we chatted for about a month. All of a sudden he was no longer there, claimed that the admin cut him off deleting his face book account. Showed up on Yahoo sgtSmith_73@yahoo.com. Pressuring me into getting a device .Radio phone, claimed that I needed to e-mail general eddymartins@rocketmail.com to get information. Low and behold ,general Martins e-mails me back. With information that I had to send fees to this other guy named Adam Philip, and this guy is the US Army Picker in Charge, He is the one need to send fee(s) $600.00. Once he receives the fund then it would take another 5-7 days to get equipment and number in 48 hours. Wow, so I set a date that I would send money with Andrew Smith guy that i had been chatting with. He would chat with me none stop, day night. So , I asked that i was worried for him, and he didn’t need to get caught chatting with me on yahoo. he needed to back off till the device was in place. The day before I had stated that I would pay the fee for radio phone, I in boxed that I had tried to sent money that day Friday and they Western Union kept telling me that it was rejected, so I had tried another, and it was also rejected, so I had tried a third time Money Gram rejected. He was so upset asking why I had gone a day earlier , why ,why why, I had told him Saturday. I saved all chats and a pic of this poor solider that they used. What a scam!

    • Did he send you any pics as i have just started talking to a Sgt. Smith wondering if its the same guy…

      • He did sent pic 3 i think, but if you are on facebook he wont be there long, he’ll say that Administrative had found him out a deleted his account, he’ll pull you to a yahoo account. White blonde hair with black color eyes. yeah right. I’ve been trying to down load pics to this site, cant seem to do it. as soon as i do will all be better of. just be sraight up and tell him you cant send money, he will move on that same day. Thats how quick he works. Not gonna waste time.

  982. There is a scammer on facebook named Christopher Mirror, it’s here on the fotos named Tom Curtis. He tells he is in Kabul Afghabistan now. He needs help to take his 15year old adoptet daughter from ghana.

    • @ Sheila you are right he does need help finding a Job because he is a lying piece of shit he lives in Ghana he is an African not a Military member tell him to get a JOB and get his own imaginary daughter out of Ghana.Anonn

      He is a FRAUD SCAMMER A CON tell him to get on webcam NOW and show his UGLY face because he isnt the Man in the pics.

  983. how about major general james johnson is he also fake i ve known him in dating site email me if u think he is fake. he uses majorjames24@yahoo.com as his id. any one who knows/

    • @ GLY if he found you on any social site he is 100% A Scammer real Military members have no time for that type of mess they have real lives and families back home waiting for him……if he insists hes real tell him to prove it

      Tell him to get on cam for a 2 hour chat and not some prerecorded crap tell him no excuses about its not allowed prove to you he is real
      Tell him to take a pic of himself holding a sign with your name on it saying I am real with proof of the days Date on it

      IF he asks for you help for ANY REASON he is a FAKE plain and simple The Military takes care of its own and will not need any civilians help for any reason

      They have access to their money at all times they can call home free of charge and leave does not have to be paid for and the Military does NOT use Moneygram or westernunion but scammers do.Anonn

  984. is major general james johnson also fake ive known him in a site .. if you think he is fake contact me he uses majorjames24@yahoo.com as his id.

  985. Ladies as well as Gents Please PAY ATTENTION

    Real Us Service members will NOT need your Money for any reason they have access to their own accounts at all times yes even in the war zone there will be no freeze on their accounts for ANY reason
    Real Service members will NOT Beg a stranger for money for ANY reason
    Yes they can use a webcam even if they are special ops
    Real Us Service members will understand things like Mos AAfes or Les and SGLI Scammers will NOT
    Real Service Members will NOT be on any site soliciting you for any dates many have families and have no time for Facebook or any other sites NONE Many do NOT and will NOT Post Pics anywhere due to them being stolen by scammers and used to scam Men and Women out of Money
    Many Us Service members are No Longer in Iraq
    All Service members ARE allowed to receive mail and care packages scammers will say different
    All US Military members have a military email account and they may use it when they want scammers will say different because they are frauds
    US Military does NOT and will not use free email accounts of any kind they also do NOT Use Western Union or Moneygram for any reason
    Any Us Service member that asks you for Money for any reason is A FRAUD A SCAMMER plain and simple
    The US Military takes care of its own
    Scammers hate being asked questions they cannot answer

    Always insist after the first email to see their military id as well as their state id card or drivers license and no photoshopped crap and not the same pic the scammer sent you to begin with because the scammer will NOT be able to produce a id card pic as State Id cards cannot be photoshopped if they are its not hard to tell
    for instance if the scammer sends you a pic of the soldier or sialor they are impersonating the pic thats on the state Id should not be the same pic of the soldier or sailor in uniform PAY attention always

    pay attention to their grammer they always have spelling errors they NEVER type nor speak like Americans also insist that you hear their voice they cannot hide their accents

    US Military will not be in a place like Nigeria nor Ghana Watch the news There Is no base in Nigeria not even tents NONE

    Diplomats or anyone in the US supposedly collecting money for the service member SCAM

    Bottom Line REAL US Service Members Or Military members Period will NOT need your Money for any reason

    ALL Real Military Members have a Military email account ending in .Mil anything beyond .Mil is a FRAUD

    US Military does NOT use free email accounts nor do they Use Western Union or Moneygram BUT Scammers do.

    Leave these Scammers and their sorry asses and their life and sob stories with absolutely NOTHING…

    And stay on your toes because after troops withdraw from Afghan these scammers will come up with other lies and sob stories but stay vigilant NEVER send money to anyone you do not know even charities as many of them are scams as well.
    Reply
    Anonn

    Example of an email I received from a scammer impersonating a Marine until I called him on his BS this is just an example of the silly type of crap they will type…

    Thanks you so much for the mail you sent me on tagged,well I am a down to earth person even if the marines thought us to be tough and strong,I have had a really straight life until now that I realise that I don’t have anybody to call my own family,I have never been married and I lost my dad two years ago,I also have a 63 years old mother who is my only source of joy.I just realised I wasted my life and I should have looked for you earlier in life..I will love to know more about you and I hope I will hear from you soon..Love Thomas

    • so if you are in Afghanistan they still the acct to their account no matter what … how do i know if the email has mil on it like you say i am not good at this stuff … thank

      • @ Terry ANYTHING beyond .Mil is a FRAUD even in Afghan plain and simple if you are NOT sure simply tell the lying beggar to get on cam and prove who he is also if he asks for your help in ANY way asks for you to receive something for him or brings up a diplomat to send ANYTHING to even care packages and ANYTHING IN AFRICA is a scam and scammer Anonn

  986. same story from a General David George Miller…..

  987. There is a man using the name Riche Mceneary now he is not in any of the pictures up here and he did send pics of a man in uniform with the last name on it but he has been trying for months to get me to send him money and i got all the i love yous and all the love poems in the world….but please watch for him.

  988. I was contacted through Senior People Meet site and communicated for several months with “Mark Haggard”. He once sent a computer to me that had to be repackaged and sent to him in Ghana, where he was visiting his “sick son.” He is already on your site. His email was sparrow sparrow@yahoo.com. I was also contacted by a military sergeant named “Paul Graves” who was supposedly stationed in Iraq and needed money to support his son in private school, also in Ghana.
    Finally, I was contacted by a man who said he was military, working with the CIA in Pakistan, and had a daughter to support in Malaysia. He went by the name Sam Miller, with email samsmiler@yahoo.com. I am wiser now, and so much more wary….

  989. US Military are NO Longer in Iraq ANY scammer that tells you they are in Iraq is LYING Anonn

    • if there are NO military personnel still in Iraq, what about those members that were left behind to train Iraqis soldiers more and ones to guard the US Embassy there. Are you still saying that there are NO military personnel in Iraq and if the above is true, where are they based and where do they sleep at night???

  990. has anyone heard of a colonel scott victor, i’m not quite what his whole story is but i have sent himan pictures of me and my family not a good feeling…he has told me that he cant receive mail but can receive care packages and says he can’t get on cam because of security reasons…some of the things that he says just doesn’t add up and make sense

    • @Annonymous he is a scammer…………..he has told me that he cant receive mail but can receive care packages and says he can’t get on cam because of security reasons

      He cant receive mail but can receive care packages That is a crock of BULLSHIT
      They can get on cam when hes not doing his job so hes again LYING

      Everything he says does not add up only SCAMMERS will find you on a social site and tell you lies like this and will bed you for money REAL MILITARY has no time for this type of bullshit there are webcams all over Afghan I have friends there I Video chat with because they are real they have no sob stories to tell

      Cut this scammer off or turn the tables on him tell him you need money before he begs you for money trust me you will get excuses and never hear from the lying beggar again.Anonn

  991. Lt Colonel Richard Stewart…rogerstewart0@yahoo.com….was suspicious when it started. Met on Plenty of Fish, pof.com. He asked to chat and then asked me to delete my profile and when I went back noticed he had deleted his. He did share pics when chatting which I copied and have. I saved all IM’s. Everytime I would ask a question he would get defensive and tell me to forget it. I stupidly went on with it for a week but always had a nagging feeling something wasn’t right and he was moving way too fast. He even had his so called daughter send me chat request and chatted with me and called me mom…really! He wanted me to apply to the Red Cross for his leave and that I would have to pay the leave fees…$350. When I told him I didn’t have the money he said let’s forget it. I told him to send me info which he never did. After finding this website I told him that I was going to call the Red Cross and that I had talked to a friend of mine that was a retired Marine and that he told me that a Lt Colonel should have no problem getting leave and that I couldn’t apply for him. Well this made him mad…he told me that the Marines were different and that he was Army and they were combat. OKAY! He claimed to be 51yrs old, from Charlottsville, VA, widowed with two children (19 and 21), daughter was in NY taking care of his grandmother and son was in military college. He said he had been in AFG for five years and waiting for Mr President to wave the flag. Well if anyone else gets involved be warned….

  992. sgt williams macdonald is trying to get money from me .. his pic is on this website

    • @ Lorie you typed this……..sgt williams macdonald is trying to get money from me .. his pic is on this website……He is a SCAMMER thats what they do beg lie and steal.Anonn

  993. Can you tell me anything about E-8 Sgt Mark Pendleton, stationed in Kabul Afghanistan? Is he legitimate? As soon as possible please.

    • do you have his mail adress? most of them use yahoo.com. and if you have a foto of him, look at the pics on this site, maybe you will find him there…… Be careful!

  994. Can you tell me anything about Sgt Mark Pendleton, mark: mccoy76110, stationed in kabul kunar afghanistan, as soon as possible please. Says he is from Canton GA, USA

    • @ Sharon you sound as if you are being scammed we need more information but from the sound of things you need help ASAP so before you trust this lying beggar Tell him you need more proof of who he is and NOT just his word tell him to get on cam for 2 hours or more and show himself tell him to take an updated pic of himself showing the days date in and out of uniform holding a sign that says Sharon Monahan I am real WONT happen and neither will the webcam chat do you know why because he is a FRAUD

      If he asks you for ANY type of assistance he is a SCAMMER the Military takes care of its own they can talk to their families for free no phone line is needed ask him to email you from his military email account it should end in .Mil anything beyond .Mil is a Scammer DO NOT send money nor care packages to anyone you do NOT know
      Care packages do NOT need to contain ANY electronics they do NOT need you money nor assistance for ANYTHING hope this helps Anonn

    • http://www.facebook.com/?ref=tn_tnmn#!/nustugah.juliet

      please look for this pics….. his real name ist pendleton….

  995. Another one to watch for: SST Bill James – a total scammer. He uses the emails: matchforBill16@yahoo.com (from match.com) or JamesLouk50@yahoo.com
    He claims to be an E6. What a moron. The uniform (to those of us who know or asked. . . .) clearly indicates he is a SFC, Pathfinder, Drill Instructor, Jumpmaster, etc. READ the uniform ladies!! If you don’t know what the bars/stripes mean, contact your local recruiting office and they will translate them for you!!
    He claimes to be retiring in “3 months time” and returning to Denver, CO. Said he was “junior management for the military, a non commissioned officer on a peace keeping mission for the UN – in IRAQ. Uh, Iraq?? Really??? Does anyone recall casing the American flag in December? (The presence in Iraq is minimal, at best , from my understanding) He asked for a phone. . . did not get it.
    My heart goes out to our brave soldiers and military personnel whom are being used in this scam!! And as a military mom . . . I’ve alerted my son(s) NOT to post ANY of their photographs (in uniform) on Facebook, myspace or ANY social site!!! Those photos will be pirated and used in scams!!! I’ve also sent CJ photos of this alleged Sgt. James . . . .I haven’t seen his photos or heard this name before, so please be aware of what may be a new comer. I’m hoping to see them posted soon.

  996. i have just found your website as i was searching about us army in libya and peacekeepers.. i have been chatting with a brian noah eckert. met him on datehookup.com. he asked me to help him leave libya before his contract is up by helping him pay a agent. He has a yahoo email his user name on datehookup.com is noahroy77 which is also his email noahroy77@yahoo.com. Can anyone tell me or can you research if he really is in the military and it is in fact him or something else.

    • @ Tara you dont have to ask if hes real because he is a SCAMMER he has asked you for money=SCAMMER not one Military Member has an agent but guess what African Scammers do either an agent or diplomat

      he asked me to help him leave libya before his contract is up by helping him pay a agent. …….This is a CROCK of BULLSHIT you cannot pay him out of his Contract if he were a REAL Military member he has to be there until his time is up tell this lying beggar to get a JOB and then cut off all contact

      BEWARE of any man who finds you on ANY social site and says hes military MOST ARE SCAMMERS

      US Military Members will not find you on any social site and beg you for any money for ANY reason they do NOT need your help for any reason the Military takes care of its own so if Military pops up any time any place on the internet and feeds you some bogus story about needing your help it is a SCAMMER

      Demand he get on cam and proves who he is for an hour or more trust me you will either get an excuse or he will try some prerecorded crap.Anonn

  997. I recently came across two different men, one I did a search on and he came up as a known scammer and I have pics he sent me. He is stgalexlawson and he contacted me on speed date.com He makes you feel really special. I thought he had to be too good to be true.

    The second one I have not come across any info on but he did tell me that if I wanted to see him sooner than when he was due to come home I would have to contact his commander and request it and that they charge for it and it costs $3500 but you get reimbursed when he gets there I think he said. His yahoo ID is w.wayne199. I have not found his name anywhere so I am just wondering if anyone else has had contact with him. I don’t have any pics of him but I can send in pics of stgalexlawson, I have like 3 pics he sent me.

    Any help, advice or suggestions on the second guy would be much appreciated.

  998. @ SB…. you typed this………he did tell me that if I wanted to see him sooner than when he was due to come home I would have to contact his commander and request it and that they charge for it and it costs $3500 but you get reimbursed when he gets there I think he said.

    Yes I have great advice for you delete and block this lying scamming piece of shit there is NO WAY to buy a real Military member out of their contract they have to stay until they are done this is an UGLY African trying to get you to send him money in his mind this is a JOB scamming is a job to them leave is like earned vacation time and does NOT have to be paid for and if you send a dime he will keep begging and coming up with new reasons for you to send more money thats what they do they are liars and beggars he cannot get out of Africa without a Visa and Money to a flight and an invite from you there is no reimbursement just a lying African begging you for money delete and block him you have been warned Anonn

    • Anon,

      Thanks, I believe he is a scammer and confronted him today and he is insisting he is not but I am not buying it. I asked him to explain the things he said to me that I know are lies and he has not been able to do so. I reported the other guy on speed date, don’t know if it will do much good or not, but I did it anyway.

      • yes, report them, report them everywhere you can! It is easy to get sucked in by these guys,
        but calling them out is the best revenge we can get to protect ourselves and our heroes!

  999. Hi to all well they are still at it claiming to be American Servicemen and yes I had one again that calls himself Sgt John Ferris email address sgtjohnsmith@yahoo.com he claimed to be in Afganistain on peace keeping mision and when I asked Would you like me to phone you? his reply we can not have any calls and no mail and his story caught wife with other man has custody of son military is paying for boarding school well I did not fall for his crap but it makes me wonder how many are there that do get hooked in by these duirt bags.This one has been reported on Oasis but he still pops up.

  1000. add Captain Samuel Anderson US Army stationed in Kabul. Parents and brother died when he was younger. Wants to retire from army end of the year and start a business. Took two months of romancing me until he brought up money. Wanted me to attach my bank account to an internet accout called gopayment.com. I called the company and they said he was an internet scammer trying to access bank accounts to use for stolen credit cards. He is drop dead gorgeous in the photos.

  1001. LOL OMG, that letter from Gen Ordiero (spelling)? He was NEVER at Camp Taji, NOR is the zip code for Taji correct! LMAO… All they had to do was reply back to that letter, it would have been returned for bad address. LOL. (Not to mention, I could BARELY follow what they were trying to say in that letter to begin with. lol)

  1002. Ladies, be aware of Capt. Scott Nelson, he has 2 pics on usmilitary singles and I am sure in many other places.
    First of all, we don’t have a base any longer in Baghdad….second he immediately has you email him at eng.nelsonscott31968@london.com. His pic is on this sight.
    Sadly, he decided to scam me, I am a US Marine…cute but not stupid.
    Please, please do not send money to any US MILITARY personnel that contact you on here. Do your research and ask questions then check them out. It does not make you a sneak, makes you a smart American woman who loves the US Military but refuses to be scammed by these monsters using our heroes faces in their scams!
    He has 2 pics he is using..both are on this sight. One is a close up, looking at the camera over his shoulder, his cover (hat) has 2 vertical lines on it (capt bars) the second pic is him walking next to a building…sadly they are not even the same person in the pics…check out the hair.
    Good luck ladies
    God Bless our troops

  1003. czy ktos zostal oszukany przez cpt.Ramosa Weitefield moze to nowa postac oraz druga osoba cpt Jack Chandler za pierwszym razem udalo mi sie uniknac wpadki ale znow zaufalam niewlasciwej osobie i wyslalam pieniadze strate finansowa przezyje ale nie moge pogodzic sie z tym ze oni tak beszczelnie igraja z ludzkimi uczuciami teraz na horyzoncie pojawil sie nastepny zolnierz amerykanski major general Patrik Murpfy czy ktos go zna czy armia amerykanska toi zbior oszustow i naciagaczy czy nik t ich nie szuka gdzie honor i duma narodu amerykanskiego

  1004. i am so sickened by the parasites who use fake pics to scam people. How they can look at themselves as a human is amazing. I truly hope at the end of their days they will get far worse than what i could wish on them. My heart goes out to the people who had good intent but sadly the parasites who prey on good people seems to get ahead. For the 15,000 i lost i would settle just to punch the piece crap in the mouth it would be worth it. Beware of darlin.dave@yahoo.com or anyone using the name mr diploma. Happy to supply pics to anyone who asks. I hope they rot in hell.

  1005. Ladies, watch out for a Steve Johnston – steve.jston@yahoo.com passing himself of as SFC in Afghanistan. didn’t do too badly (language is a bit off) until trying to convince me he was special forces in a military police uniform… Will try to convince you he needs you to claim his benefits so he can leave the army.
    Ask him for his military email and watch him run…!

  1006. One of these guys is on match.com that matches your picture of a Lt. Christopher M Morris but going by the name of Newton Morris from Newtown Square, PA. His user name on match.com is newly_single 342. Some things were just not fitting together so I did a bit of research today and came upon your website. I am reporting him to match.com. Thank you for the time and effort you have done in gathering this information. What a horrible, horrible thing these people are doing…thank goodness I am a cautious person…

  1007. I have been scammed by JOHN PALMAS, who claimed to be KEVIN ROBIES, SSG in Kabul, Afghanistan. I began researching him today after he was hesitant to give me his home address. I eventually I found him here – he had sent me all BUT ONE of the pictures posted. I have been talking on line with him since about Jan 3rd, 2012. He has not asked me for money, but has been laying on the mush – babe, princess, queen, constant I love yous. I did send him a gift package with t-shirts, boxers, and homemade valentine and candle I made. This is who I was instructed to mail it through:

    Diplomat Richard Sat, Jan 28, 2012 at 4:43 PM
    Reply-To: Diplomat Richard

    HELLO MADAM,

    HOW ARE YOU DOING, I HOPE YOU ARE DOING GOOD ? I AM HAPPY TO HAVE AN EMAIL FROM YOU . I HAVE BEEN BUSY THIS DAYS DELIVERING PACKAGES TO SOME OF MY COMMANDERS FAMILY . AS I AM WRITING TO YOU NOW I AM ON MY WAY TO DELIVER SOME PACKAGES. I AM GOING TO PASS THROUGH CHINA FIRST AND DELIVER ONE PACKAGE THERE , AND FROM THERE I WILL GO THROUGH GHANA ALSO AND DELIVER SOME PACKAGES AND PICK UP SOME PACKAGES AS WELL. MADAM BEFORE LEAVING FOR AFGHANISTAN, YOU CAN SEND IS THROUGH THIS ADDRESS AND I WILL PICK IT UP FROM GHANA AND DELIVER TO SSG. KEVIN ROBIES IN PERSON IN AFGHANISTAN..THIS IS THE ADDRESS BELOW .

    MR. RICHARD ANTEH..
    C/O SSG.KEVIN ROBIES
    (233)ACCRA- NORTH
    GHANA..

    MADAM SEND IT THROUGH USPS (UNITED STATES POSTAL SERVICE) SO THAT I WILL PICK IT UP FASTER AND DELIVER TO SSG. KEVIN ROBIES SAY HI TO HIM FOR ME ..
    MADAM WHEN YOU ARE DONE WITH SENDING THE PACKAGE PLEASE GET BACK TO ME WITH THE TRACKING NUMBER , SO THAT I CAN TRACK AND KNOW WHEN THE PACKAGE WILL ARRIVE THERE AND PICK IT UP AND DELIVER TO HIM..MADAM SEND IT EXPRESS MAIL.THANKS AND I HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOON .

    DIPLOMAT RICHARD….

    I would never be fool enough to send money to anyone, but he did a number on my heart and mind. Karma’s a BITCH!

  1008. Why would you ever point out what they are doing wrong, it is like training them to be better crooks. You are actually proofreading for the bad guys and helping them make edits. I get a million pieces of spam and I don’t respond with, hey you messed up by stating this, maybe next time you should try it this way.

    In the future just point out that they were off on the site but not exactly what they did wrong. Stop helping the criminals, just post the photos and fake names. Be smarter.

  1009. Hi all,
    I was contacted mid-Dec 2011 via facebook by a man claiming to be Paul Davis, a captain in the US Army. He says that he is based in Libya. He claims that he works with the radio messages which is why he has internet access.

    His facebook pictures are fake and I found them on this address, thank goodness!!!! His yahoo address is Paul19936. He claims to be an orphan whose father was in the US military.

    I asked him for his .mil address and he didn’t even know what I was talking about!!! Although we did Skype, it was for a few seconds and he said that he couldn’t speak! Also, he has three different birth dates…between Skype, facebook and Yahoo.

    Once he realised his game was up, he also became abusive…

    Ladies…be warned

    Julia Mullen
    South Africa

  1010. Just scammed by a guy claiming to be Allan Rivera rivera112011@hotmail.com on lavalife. Almost as soon as I signed up with no picture, he started talking to me. Made the mistake of telling me he was retiring in two months and wanted to move here buy a house and have me move in with him. That scared the heck out of me. He backed off a little but I still just googled and I saw his exact job description pope up in your article. Uses the same words the “Chris Haggard” used. This is one email he sent.

    hello, how are you doing i hope you are doing good as iam , iam very happy and very much excited to meet you , since last night we talk i have been here thinking of you , i just wake up from bed and am here in my bed room thinking alot about you , and i dont know why , you have been in my mind since am at we finished talking last night and i cant even stop thinking of you , i hope you are there taking good care of your self , i want to talk to you everyday so that i can get to know you more better,and if possible meet you in person onday and be together forever, i am very much interest in you , let me tell you a little bit about me
    I am loyal, responsible, active, responsible, loving, caring, sharing, kindhearted,warm, accommodating,compassionate,tolerant,laid back type,outgoing,welcoming to people generally,I like to sing,write poems,listening to music,swimming,playing Basketball,watching TV,Movies going to GYM and comedies,I love public intimacy and want a good woman with a good heart,one with good knowledge about love and who knows how a man is been treated,age or colour difference do not matter to me at all,as long as she loves me,I want a relationship that will last forever and won’t fade no matter what

    am here looking for some one who is honest loving and caring to share my life with.some one who cares about people and always like talking to friends.will like to meet some one who is humble and respectful too.because am respectful and i also want to be treated as such.will like to meet some one who will like to know more about me and ready for a serious relationship
    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    my son live with my ex . I have full custody of him. I do not want to pay my ex any amount of money again.I will be getting him to stay with me when i come home soon. I was married only once. I am now looking for another woman to involve myself with. I will be home in 2 months. Actually, we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. I will not be able to call you because we are not allowed to communicate with outsiders on phone. Everything is monitored.
    My relationship with my ex was like this. I loved her with all my heart. In fact it is true. I wasn’t thinking she can do such a thing. I helped her in her work, support her family, spending much time with her as much as I could. Going with her to the beaches, the movies and a lot of interesting places just trying to make her the happiest woman in the world. I know she is regretting it by now. Her parents once called me and were apologizing for her but I already made my mind. I don’t know why she drew away from me. Maybe, she can’t control her sexual desire. I do not get angry. It happens once in a while but I know how to control myself. In the army, if you can’t control your anger, you gonna end up fighting all the time.I am concluding this letter here but remember this am serious about my words
    Have a good day, thanks for your pictures you are very nice looking woman , very beautiful ,very pretty , i mean you are very gorgeous, talk to you at 9pm your time please take good care of your self well
    see you later hope to hear from you

    • This story line that they all are using comes up quiet a lot born at the Baptist Hospital of Miami and all the other the only thing is that they change the date of birth and the age of the child.

  1011. POZ Personals
    Message From: martin01

    Subject: Good Evening
    Sent: Feb 9, 2012 4:56 PM (FLID:)
    Hello Dear Tanya…..How are you and thanks for your respond and you sound a quiet a good person and how is the weather and your sisters and brothers and family’s and the weather and hope that your work is going on softly as well.. Well dear Tanya,I’m Martin Devonshire . I was born on the 214th of April, 1962 at Baptist Hospital of Miami. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 24yrs. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.I move to Ashland City,TN about 14 years now and i like there so much.Take care for now and tell me a little about yourself.Martin.

    (Here is his profile wording and he also has 4 pictures in profile)

    martin01

    49, Ashland City,TN, Tennessee

    If true love still exist in the world
    Last logged in: Feb 9, 2012 4:36 PM

    Hello, A little about me. I am sweet very warm, sensitive and caring, romantic and extremely affectionate. I am a giver. I will go out of my way to help someone and the smile on their face is the best thank you I could ever receive.. I love the outdoors, taking walks,camping, going out to dinner the movies, all the usual things. I love to laugh and make people laugh. I’m easy going and down to earth. I love to cuddle and snuggle and can be very playfull. I like walking hand in hand or arm in arm.

    THE BASICS
    I am a: male
    seeking a: female
    for: dating, friendship, relationship
    I identify as: straight
    I have been positive since: 1998
    APPEARANCE
    My build: average
    My height: 5′ 9”
    My eyes: brown
    My hair: light brown
    My ethnicity: white
    My body art: none
    WORK
    My education: some college
    My area of work or study: politics/government/military
    My annual income I will tell you later
    LIFESTYLE
    Smoke? No, and I would not date a smoker
    Drink? socially
    Drugs? no
    My scene: professional
    In a social setting, I’m: shy
    My favorite music: Blues
    My favorite movies: Comedy
    My favorite books: Bible
    My favorite TV: CNN
    My favorite foods: Greek, Europe
    PERSONAL DETAILS
    My relationship status: single
    My kid status: I have kids
    My health status: excellent
    Any other sexual history, including STD’s, that you want to share?
    My religion: other
    I speak: English
    My politics: middle of the road
    My astrological sign: Taurus
    I’m interested in: community service, cooking, dining, working out, family, movies, music, photography, sports, theater, travel
    More about you: Hello, A little about me. I am sweet very warm, sensitive and caring, romantic and extremely affectionate. I am a giver. I will go out of my way to help someone and the smile on their face is the best thank you I could ever receive.. I love the outdoors, taking walks,camping, going out to dinner the movies, all the usual things. I love to laugh and make people laugh. I’m easy going and down to earth. I love to cuddle and snuggle and can be very playfull. I like walking hand in hand or arm in arm. . I like sitting under the stars near a nice campfire or in the back yard on a hammock with a drink.(sorry ladys, I never acquire a taste for beer but I will have a wine) I love romantic walks and talks most of all I love kissing, a meaningful, gentle,tender kiss, the kind of kiss that make your insides go squirrley. I Love to make that unexpected call just to say, “I miss you or am thinking of you” and I know the little unexpected signs of affection keep the relationship alive. I am not materialistic. (So your income is not a factor) I don’t need to be wined and dined, the little things in life make me happy. plus building a relationship is in the heart not in the pocket.
    More about who you’re looking for: I am looking to meet a sincere, caring and very affectionate woman. Someone who can communicate and express their feelings or whatever is on their mind, someone she has a kind loving heart and is a true

    • I was contacted by http://facebook.com/sgtmichaelbutterfield

      He shared many of my same friends who are connected to HIV, as in Regan Hoffman, editor of Poz magazine and has been working on me. I was excited and thrilled to visualize this man and thinking he shared my HIV status. I feel like he is targeting easier, more vulnerable women this way.

  1012. Is there any way that these guys whose pictures are being used able to be contacted and warned?

  1013. Well Ican’t begin to say how completely foolish I feel right now. After going through the phone I found my nnight in shining armor. My chest is so completely staight right now. Becuase my son tried to for warn me. But because I was so overly thrilled that someone was willing to look past the fact that I have brittle bones & has had 10 back surgeries. I was so thriled and excited. I’m not drop dead a knock out 10 but Iwant to believe Iam at less 8,but have found not many men wanted a woman that has a label of being disabled. So when I met my Sgt Keith Henderson. Well he made me feel so completely special,, I had already had my first Sgt that was getting angrier at me because I would not send him money to come home. He was getting ready to go off on what he said was a mission he would return in a body bag.We he wouldn’t stop with his anger towards me. That when I met Sgt.Henderson we were talking only three days. When the other Sgt Smith was online wearing me down with his anger towards me for not being human and wanting to save his life. When out of no place Sgt. Henderson came on line. For what ever reason I went to for comfort and told him about what this Sgt was doing to me. My next move isn’t my smartest move ever,but because he made me feel safe he said what is your password and I will delet him. I gave it to without a second thought. Seconds later Inotice the Sgt Smith was delet along with other friends. He return on line and made me promise I wouldn’t met up with anyone else. Oonce we finished talking I went back and changed my password. I felt so completely comfortable with him. A few days later hegets back online and saidwhat was your password again. Ikept asking why. Of course I notice the way he was expressing myself suddly changed. He saidu trust me don’t u ,my reply was yes so what I did was give him a bogus account I set up for just his email only. After that I didn’t hear from him like I was hearing before. No more good morning baby no more I am missing u so badly.,thats is until aweek ago. But thats when the need for money came into play. He need to hear my voice but he didn’t want me to think bad so it could wait. The next day he was acting strange,when Iasked what was wrong he said he didn’t want me to think badly of him so it wasn’t important. I am the damn fool that pushed the subject by saying when I need help with that other Sgt you helped me so tell me and maybe there is something I could do on my end.. He said he owed a friend some money and if he didn’t pay her ,his mother would be kid out of his house. Did you catch the lie,he would say he owed her money of his mother would get kicked out. So I said how much do your owe her, his first amount was I owe him $500. I said well good luck because you know I get a monthly check I can’t afford that,$400 will do. I said no I can’t or else me and my son won’t have a place to stay. He came down as low as $200. I haven’t heard from him at all today. and this is the first time he hasn’t contact me at less 7 or 8 times in one day.When I stubled across this site and my heart sank when his picture along with several other Sgt thats wanted to b my friend is on here as well. And like it states on her everyone one of them their wife is dead and they have a child at home or in a boarding school. How unbelieveble stupid I feel . I am so ashame of myself for wanting to be loved so bad that I was foolish to trust so many out right lies. Well I hope no one else has to be hurt like this ,cause it just isn’t right that they can do this and nothing happens to them. Thank God I love my son so much that I wouldn’t give one penny that could be used for him. thank you for this sight,cynthia

    • DO NOT FEEL ASSAMED!!!! They prey on good people. Just take this as a learning experience and never let it happen again. Be strong!
      L

  1014. I FOUND ONE!!! I was on http://www.datehookup.com, and came across a pretty good looking guy. I emailed him thru the site, and chatted off the site. His story was that he was a single father in the Army, deployed to Tora Bora Afgan. That he was Army MI. Missed having care packages sent to him because his wife had passed away 4 years ago. Thanks to “Spidy Senses”, and having some military knowledge, I asked for email addresses that were .mil addresses, which I never got. THEN he gave me another yahoo email address as the contact person stateside for the care packages to be sent. I emailed that person….GAVE NO PERSONAL INFORMATION…..got an email with a list of items allowed to be purchased. When I asked for a DSN office number from this 3rd party, I was not given the information.

    The profile is still up on datehookup.com with a user name of pearlywhite01. He called himself Sgt. Major Bob Clausen. Yahoo address and chat is bobclausen76.

    Good luck and don’t let this cheat/scammer get you!
    L

  1015. Well i believe i am smack dab in the middle of a scam. I have always been ashamed to post his name for fear that maybe he was not really scamming me. Because he was so adamant when i mentioned it but would still not provide me with any verifiying information. I have only sent $500 dollars and that was to cancel a package that i was to deliver via diplomatic courrier.. Yeah.. no apo fpo.. “i am in a war zone” LOL yeah seems funny now.. Any way. he has supposedly sent me a package that was picked up by the same diplomatic courrier in herat yesterday. And is now in Ghana where the diplomat has other packages to deliver. but know it is tuck in customs and they need me to send $6328.00 to pay an attorney for “TO GET US INSURANCE DOCUMENT TO COVER THE PACKAGE LEGALLY.” Everyone wants me to shoot money out of my butt and solve this issue. If that were only possible LOL
    Is there a way to really find out if there is indeed a package in Ghana customs with my name on it.
    I was told by the courrier via email to be careful i am messing with others lives and business.
    I have turned my cell off so not to get any crazy calls.. but they do have my physical location and that was stupid of me.

    I am kinda worried about this. And not sure how to report what is going on just in case i am in a pickle here.

    any help would be greatly appreciated.
    Michele

    • MICHELE: I am sorry to tell you, but you are being scammed! I have guy trying to get me to send him expensive I have learned that if they refer to an “agent’ or “diplomat” that are lying. He should have an APO/FPO address where can mail from and received mail and packages. I would file a claim with Western Union and see if you can do anything. It’s probably too late.

      • MICHELE:

        Sorry, but there are no packages in customs, my guy tried that one on me and I said to just send the package back then. Soon after I received email from his “diplomat” demanding to know what was in it and when I told him he said they would take care of it. So they are getting stuff we are sending. I don’t know who/how you sent him money but whoever you went through here in the states, that’s who I would file a complaint/military crime with.

        • Ok.. The calls and emails have stopped.. Well because i changed my cell number. :)
          Here is the info from my scammer / or scammers.. I always hated to post name etc due to hoping beyond hope it was not true but low and behold.. i was wrong.
          The fake soldiers name was..
          Sgt. George Kayee Kein stationed in Kabul, Afghanistan
          WO4
          DOB: January 20th – 55 years old. but looks way younger.
          Been in the military for 29 years is set to retire in July..
          Divorced .. Son Junior 13 lives in Tampa.. ex wife is dead.
          Uses Diplomat service for packages.
          Diplomat Information:
          Mr. Sammuel Bissi
          +233 548566478
          samuel.diplomat@hotmail.com
          Wanted me to fedex any care packages to George at this address;
          32nd St Peters Street
          Ghana, Accra
          This is the address he wanted me to send money to:
          Sammuel Bissi
          31st St peters Stree
          Ghana, Accra

          Met him hon match.com in January 2012
          He was using username: Marlo6869 which never got completely set up.
          He is one of those fake soldiers that was greatly offended when i was telling him he needed to prove to me that he was a real soldier and stated that he was in a war zone.. blah blah.. but he could chat with me with out webcam on his end for atleast an hour or so almost every day..
          I am only out a bit over $500 and that was to cancel a package that i was going to send to george for his birthday. I only paid because i was getting yelled at by the diplomat.. they are very good at that..
          George was in Kabul but then about three weeks ago he went to Herat on a mission.. Apparently a contract from the Afghan government to secure a mining yard. Which he was to be paid.. wait for it.. wait for it.. ;) 1.2 million dollars and 9 bars of gold.. wow.. anyway.. him and 8 others were chosen for the mission and off they went.. still having internet connection along the way.. ;) everyone died w/ in one week.. he was the last one. but got shot in the leg.. Long story short. he survived his contract and got paid.. he supposedly snuck out of camp almost got shot and bought me a necklace eh wanted to send to me. awe how sweet..
          And was going to send it to me. So we set up pick up by the diplomat he used. time goes on blah blah blah.. diplomat picks up package.. and is now in Ghana customs.. and they want to open the package to inspect.. George said no.. Saumuel said no.. I say hey who cares.. then informed that the pkg contains 1.2 million and 10 bars of gold…. me i am thinking.. hmm heavy box.. naww i was told not toheavy.. the money is all in 100 dollar notes.. LOL anyway that is when i start getting about 25 calls a day from the diplomat to send him immediately $6328.00 to secure the us insurance papers from an attorny so that he may legally bring the pkg to me and since the pkg is in my name it is my responcibility.. Hmm did i pack that box.. no.. So i say leave the box.. let them have the box.. because ur not getting any money from me.. a slew of threatening emails later.. and i am supposedly warned of my future to rot in jail.. etc.. blah blah.. ok i will admit i was a bit worried at the beginning.. but then i recieved an email from george.. when we last left him he was in Herat needing to find his way back to Kabul to his troops.. And apparently the army did not acknowledge him so he was to walk back.. I will say he made it in about 15 hours.. speedy walker since i did a bit of research and it is almost 380 miles away.. I got a nice.. Happy Valentine’s day email.. like nothing was wrong.. LOL and how he missed me..
          So needless to say i have not heard from anyone since then which has been nice.
          I felt the need to post his information here what little bit i did have.
          I did get a room location number from where he was in Herat.. don’t even know if that is a true thing or not.. but it was supposedly how the diplomat would know how to find george in all of herat.. no base name nothing..
          oh yeah the room location number of afg/he/187 herat and follow the path and stay out of the caves.. LOL amazing..

          I hope this helps someone else..
          I did google and search everywhere for George or Sammuel information and found nothing so maybe this is a new name.. I have lots of pictures too that i can post or send if needed.
          All emails were routed out of Ghana too.. even Georges.. which george did think odd because he had no clue were Ghana even was.. LOL..

          Have a good day everyone..

          And don’t feel bad if you got scammed it happens to the best of us..
          I read a quote some where that said.

          You may be deceived if you trust to much,
          But you will live in torment if you don’t trust enough.
          -Frank Crane

          Thanks for listening,
          Michele

        • Sorry i forgot to include George’s Email Address:
          georgekein68@yahoo.com

          Thanks a bunch.
          Michele

        • could you send me pictures to my email of your George Kein? Would greatly appriciate it and see if the same I have.
          thank you

    • Michele:

      File a report asap with IC3 and local police dept. if he has your address info

      • I am now realizing I am being scammed by this George Kein. I am glad to have looked on this sight. They have gotten 3900.00 from me. It goes to diplomat, ya now I see with the other stories. They have my address and phone.Who am I to report this to? Please send to my email so I can take care of this right away. Thank you so much.I will be blocking his email and the diplomats.There is supposedly a box waiting in customs for me to pay another 3200.00. Not getting done.Thanks for this sight so much. I guess I should change phone number too right? I haven’t gotten any calls but I suppose when I block I will hey?
        Thank You

        • Mary,

          I can’t figure out how to get to your email..
          Here is a disposable email of mine that you can shoot me an email too.
          Would love to see if your talking to the same guy..
          penelope_thedog@yahoo.com

          Michele

  1016. in oct i started chatting to a captain Smith Wood G4/SVA/25807, and Rank E6 Captain.and within months i have sent £850 to …. Name…: ADELAKUN ADEWOLE
    > City ….: OSOGBO
    > State….: OSUN
    > Zipcode….: 23435
    > Country…….NIGERIA …… through western union
    have been emailing admin…info@us-armyafricom.com
    i googled a photo he sent me and it can up here on your photo list but he is Steve Lopez in these pics
    i asked him but he is telling me people steal these pictures of them and i will be refunded all monies please can you tell me if i have been scamed thank you elaine x

    • Elaine NO your money will not be refunded US Military will NOT need your money nor your help for ANY reason this is a scammer after your money and now that you have sent money he will try it again dont you het it he stole the pics he is the scammer tell him to get on webcam and prove who he is for a 3 hour chat he wont because he is a scammer NEVER send money to anyone you do not know for ANY reason sorry you lost money but anyone who tells you to send them money through western union or moneygram is a SCAMMER an ugly begging African no US Military member needs your help for any reason Anonn

      go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com and educate yourself about these lying beggars

  1017. I was scammed by one that called him self Kenneth thomas Diane, he said he was in west aferca in the army that he was a staff srg he wanted to take a leave to come see me but he need money to get a ticket that his us bank account was frooze the only thing I had was 375.oo and with me being stuped I sent it to him and then he said he didn’t have his BTA fees witch was 800.00 but I did not send that his commanders name was Sammual J Anderson , Kenneth’s email was kennethtom51@yahoo.com as for as I know this adderese is still open this just happen the last part of jan 2012 he was going to prove to me that he loved me even if it took years , he stoped sending me emails after he found out that I was not going to let it down about his unit number and he stoped sending me emails

    • @ Rose there is NO SUCH Thing as BTA fees that is an old Scam block and delete this lying begging African……he said he didn’t have his BTA fees =Crock of BS Anonn

  1018. Any one out there been scamed by a “Chris Jackson” from Afghanistan? Seems he is adopting, or has adopted a little girl, probably Afghanian. Scamming for needs for the little girl. Might also involve the names, Emmanuel Fletcher, Francis Kings and/or David Sarpong.

  1019. i have sent £850 to …. Name…: ADELAKUN ADEWOLE
    > City ….: OSOGBO
    > State….: OSUN
    > Zipcode….: 23435
    > Country…….NIGERIA …… through western union
    have been emailing admin…info@us-armyafricom.com

    THERE IS NO US MILITARY BASE IN NIGERIA US MILITARY WILL NOT BE IN A SHIT HOLE LIKE NIGERIA

    ANY ONE THAT TELLS U THEY ARE MILITARY AND IN GHANA OR NIGERIA IS A SCAMMER UGLY AFRICANS FROM GHANA OR NIGERIA Anonn

    • i lost my husband in june 2011 and was at a low and he touched on that now i know that i have been scammed and i know i will never see the money again but my eyes are now open to all this .He said what i wanted to hear at the time al lies i know now i wont fall into that trap again x i would advice everyone to google the pics of the person they talk to .When you go into google click images then there will be a wee camera comes up click on that then click and drag their photo thats when i seen all the scamming sites like this one ,which im pleased that they are xx

  1020. US Military does not EVER use Moneygram.Western union or a new one Scammers use which is Liberty Reserve Please be aware of this.

  1021. John Palmas listed above is trying to scam me. Met him on Match.com. He is going by David Robbles….both parents deceased, from Germany, but been in the US since he was 18. In the US Army for 21 yrs. Has a 22 yr old adopted son who lives in Gahna. I have know all along that he is a scammer. I’m just playing his game. I have tried to locate the “real” David, but have been unable to do so. I have not sent any money and I will not. He did ask me for a cell phone and I replied “don’t the Army provide you with a phone so that you can call your family?” his reply was that it is not good to borrow someones phone. He is a very smooth talker. Be aware. If you are on Match, and someone starts talking to you and their profile is no longer available….use common sense! His email address is robblesdavid@yahoo.com.

  1022. Just scamed by John Ramos found his pic on your web site, broke my heart and pissed me off,

    • Hi there,

      I just wondered if Mr. Ramos also was the same as Keon Robbies? His pic is also on this site. I’m suspicious by nature. A week into talking to him I checked him our. He hadn’t ask me for anything at that time. But, I busted him. I got 2 more texts from him and that was it.

      I tried to attach a pic but I can’t. If you want to compair photo’s, send me your email address to dbucknum@hotmail.com and I’d be happy to share.

      Debbie

  1023. i have 3 of these scammer.
    Sgt Jackson Rolan
    Sgt Patrick Hughes
    Sgt Raymond Draper

    Has anyone heard of these 3

    Please let me know and i will send photos and letters

    thanking you

  1024. hello my name is Alex i am frm Washington have a story similar to your friend Clara. my wife of almost 3 years said the exact same thing, that she wasn’t sure if she wanted to be with me, and after 10 days, moved out. We have a son together and that complicates things further. Luckily, I haven’t been hysterical and freaking out like I normally would. I know that will only push her further away. my days of not seeing her it feels like absolute hell. she came back to get her stuff and to talk to me and she said she would still be there for me. I don’t know if it was out of being truly genuine or because of our son. I truly love this woman, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with her. and the biological factor is so true. we’ve had our ups and downs but when it came down to it, we always kissed and made up. I honestly don’t know what happened, as far i was concerned i would do everything to bring her back to me.along the line i was happy for brigs which introduce me to a spell caster wintchcraftspell@gmail.com men this temple is magical,good and sweet truly she is back to me she inside right now i was just ask to follow up some steps by the temple and 6 days later Gina come begin that she dint know what came over her,i accept her quickly for she is my hearth viewers in this blog should help me thank the grate temple.

    • @ Alex ARE YOU BRAIN DEAD or just a desperate troll or SCAMMER seeking attention ok so you guys Practice Voodoo in Africa can you find some other site to post this bullshit either you cant read or brain dead or both this site is about Scammers pretending to be US Military you know kind of like you are lying pretending to be some guy named Alex and I noticed you left your email address you are here trying to catch a fish but can you do us all a Favor and stay the fuck off of this Blog with bullshit stick to sending this shit in a massive spam email Thanks LOSER! Yes Anonn said it GET OVER IT! Anonn

  1025. A scammer going by the name Dave Robles at DaveRobles91@gmail.com. Met him on Match. Claimed he was an E-6 Staff Sergeant stationed in afghanistan and divorced 5 years ago no kids. Helps his friends run an orphanage. I asked for an APO address and seemed to get paranoid. Being aware, I mentioned sending a “care package” and the APO address suddenly hadn’t been working for the last 2 mths but he would get back with me with an address that his commander could provide that he got from a friend , etc etc.

    Thankfully I was able to end the scam within a week before anything happened. If the Real Dave is out there, I hope you’re a lot more interesting than this idiot.

  1026. hello i think i have one of he fake souldgers too,its so sed but we single woman we just want to by loved,i have 2kids and no chans to go out,thats way my best frend is my pc ,oll the best ladys,im lithuanian but live in ireland.

  1027. eny bory nou BOGGS DAVID?

  1028. I have recently been contacted by ‘Smith Massingale’ from Birmingham. Stationed in Kabul. A widow of an 8 year old girl. Mother died in child birth. Photos are of a 40 someting good looking US army soldier. Has hasnt asked for money, yet, but an email came through today that got me thinking that this man was too good to be true. He did say that he would be able to get emergency leave but i said no. i think that is where the money side of things would have come in. Having copied and pasted a section of the email into Google I came across a site with examples of love letters on and there it was…. together with previous emails he had sent me. I feel sorry for the soldiers who are having their identities used. It is a disgrace. For information i met him on Match.com and have now blocked him and reported him to them.

  1029. I’m absolutely amazed at the scale of this problem. So many people have been the victims of these jerks! I’m currently serving in the US Army – have been for 27 years. In 2005 and 2006, I was on a deployment in Iraq and posted pictures of myself and fellow team members on the Webshots website. Since then, my photos have been used over and over again by scammers. Sometimes the crooks use my complete name but they pretty much always use my last name – Hannett. Apparently, they’ve not familiar with American names in Africa. Some of them seem to think Hannett is a first name. In any case, I’ve heard from over 100 women on Facebook over the last two years. I reported the situation to the Roanoke, Virginia office of the FBI. I’ve also reported fake accounts (using my photos) to Facebook and Twitter. I can only imagine how frequently my pictures show up on dating websites – not that I’m even remotely good looking – it’s just that my pictures are apparently easy to find now. In any case, I’m sorry for the difficulties my photos have caused. I was just trying to share my experience in Iraq with my family in the States when I posted them.

    • so do you want me to send you $$? lol.

    • Thanks for the pics you posted on face book and other places.you have help someone to continue his education and now happy to move on in life.if you chose to help them all this will not show up.and even if they tell you they need your help you will not help them, that is why they use that way to get their needs.who ever has send money to Africa should know that she has really help solve a deep poverty.(how can a man like Mr.Hannett ask for $200.)you should know the person need your help.

      • @ New Man/Scammer /Troll you sound very ignorant and Mr Hannett did NOT ask for the money because he doesnt need it you and your other lying scamming begging thieving friends did ask for money using his Name and fake pics and poverty if there is so much poverty in Africa then why do you clowns continue to reproduce it hasnt stopped you from fucking now has it seems thats all you scammers do is fuck and beg STAY in school and get a decent Education and then you wont have to beg nor will you sound as ignorant as you do so dont come to this site trying to justify why you damn Nigerians scam and beg for money using fake pics and Names get da fuck outta here with that.Anonn

    • hey Gordon, never be sorry these scum are doing an injustice and you was just telling you side of the story on what is happening up there. it will be ok eventually us women will understand. just stay focused and positive and smile because if we was not here we would not care always stay safe so you can come home. a good friend patricia chavira

    • @ Gordon, you shouldn’t be apologising at all!! If anything I’m sorry that your identity has been stolen by these lowlife scum, Why shouldn’t you be able to take photos and post them you should be proud of what you are doing for your Country and the rest of the world!!!

      I was scammed by someone claiming to be SFC Mark Adams, turns out it was SFC John Adams – a decorated/hero US Soldier!!!! It’s unbelievable how these b**tards are allowed to get away with it!. I was one of the lucky ones I was suspect from the beginning but when I was asked for money I googled and found this website – thank God for this website.

      I live in Sydney, Australia – I’ve informed the US Embassy here and the dating site where I met the fake US Soldier – and they have now closed down that account!

      Be safe, God Bless and thank you for what you are doing for us!
      Cheers Ant.

  1030. My mum is currently talking to someone on uniform dating he has called himself sgt Jordan randy pearson, he is meant to be coming this week but has not asked her for any money or bank details, she just had to send a leave request form back to him to sat where he would be when he comes out the army for 3 month. I’m actually quite worried about it. My aunty can tell it’s a scam and has said to my mum to be careful but she’s convinced it’s no scam at all

    • Katherine are you SERIOUS yes it is a SCAM no one can request leave but the military member I hope your Mom has NOT given any personal information because scammers will now use it to scam others havent you read anything about the military tell your Mom to do her homework she cant apply for anyones leave unless she is a Military member oh she will get a response back telling her how much she will have to pay and then reality will set in SCAM! Anonn

  1031. New Scam to be aware of……….I am 2LT. Anderson Darrell Clinton , an officer of the U.S Army. I just moved to Afghanistan from Iraq as one of the last batch that just left and have some items I will need to ship to you.Can you be trusted? we thank you guys for your prayers . I will only highlight you more on this transaction as soon as i hear from you.please signify your interest by replying to my private email.with your name and mobile number to (andersondclinton55@gmail.com)
    you can view this link to understand more,
    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-16192105

    The Above is an email from a SCAMMER Anonn

  1032. Any scam information on a Captain, Weiss Hannett out of Kabul, Afghanistan, 21 Combat?

    • Lee Ann YES read this please and yes your guy is a SCAMMER……I’m absolutely amazed at the scale of this problem. So many people have been the victims of these jerks! I’m currently serving in the US Army – have been for 27 years. In 2005 and 2006, I was on a deployment in Iraq and posted pictures of myself and fellow team members on the Webshots website. Since then, my photos have been used over and over again by scammers. Sometimes the crooks use my complete name but they pretty much always use my last name – Hannett. Apparently, they’ve not familiar with American names in Africa. Some of them seem to think Hannett is a first name. In any case, I’ve heard from over 100 women on Facebook over the last two years. I reported the situation to the Roanoke, Virginia office of the FBI. I’ve also reported fake accounts (using my photos) to Facebook and Twitter. I can only imagine how frequently my pictures show up on dating websites – not that I’m even remotely good looking – it’s just that my pictures are apparently easy to find now. In any case, I’m sorry for the difficulties my photos have caused. I was just trying to share my experience in Iraq with my family in the States when I posted them.

  1033. I have been contacted by two different men on two different dating sites. Alexander Lamb whose deployed in Turkey and John Lynch whose in Afghanistan. They sweet talk you for a few months and then ask for money. I didn’t see their pictures on this site, I just want to put their names out there so know one else get scammed, as they are sweet sweet talkers.

  1034. Anyone else heard of Sgt. Pearson Randy Jordan? based in Kabul, Kiwi camp, supposed to be coming home to “visit” in a couple of days, but excuses keep popping up, been well and truly scammed, i fell deeply “in love” with this guy

  1035. I was on dating web site Be2. Kenneth cole username stars778. Apparently is E6 Sgt in Afghanistan with 9 weeks left to go His picture is on here James Ruddock. He uses this picture on messanger. His email address is kenneth.cole99@live.com. BE WARNED.

    • @ Chaz Kenneth Cole is a famous designer in the US…….Not a US Military member Anonn

  1036. i am urgently asking for your help!!
    i am from germany and i have since four week contact with a general from iraq, bazrad. his name is general dennis ben morrison and he come from burke, varginia, u.s.a., he got his retirement about three week ago and he is now in uk to pick up his package, which his deplomat has stationed there.
    sorry, i am totally confused! i sent 5000 euro to him to uk. i am a idiot! now, he claims to have 2000 euro for the flight from london to germany. he wants once again to 2000 euro from me. i am totally disturbed and my heart breaks. please help me quickly. his e-mail-adress is ben_walterson@hotmail.com. his previous email-adresse was dennis_morrison123@hotmail.com. what can i do???????

    • @Dagmar ….DO NOT send this lying African scammer anymore of your money he is a FRAUD and hes not coming to visit you he is in Africa with no invite out hes lying and you have been warned go to scamwarners.com to educate yourself so you will not let this happen again.Anonn

  1037. PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY……..Because there will be a flood of Scammers trying to steal your money for sure now but notice it says SPECIAL Ops Basically Elite Forces REMEMBER if a REAL US Military Member is Special Ops or Elite Forces he will NEVER advertise it nor tell you NOR will they beg you for money…..

    U.S Commados to Storm Nigeria in June to Help with the Boko Haram Issue0 Comments
    By admin
    Posted on 23 Feb 2012 at 7:59am

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    Baring any last minutes change, top United States elite forces made up of members of the Marines, Navy Seals and Special Forces, will be in Nigeria in June as part of effort to help the country deal with the Boko Haram insurgence.

    Nigeria and the United States Military have existing agreements in counter-terrorism, Maritime Security, military transformation and other areas.

    A U.S. Army officer, speaking on condition of anonymity because he was not authorized to speak on the mission said U.S. troop members on the mission have already been informed.

    Monica Matoush, spokeswoman for the U.S Defense Department did not return calls when Pointblanknews.com sort for clarifications on the planned June mission.

    Nicole M. Dalrymple Media Action Officer, West and Central Africa AFRICOM Public Affairs Office told us that she cannot immediately confirm the June mission but disclosed that counter terrorism, Maritime Security and others are areas the U.S is rendering assistance to Nigeria.

    “If I’m able to find anything out about specific training in June I will let you know,” she told us in an email exchange.

    In public comments, Nigerian and U.S. officials acknowledge “strategic cooperation” and confirm high-level meetings. However, they play down the meetings as routine, apparently for fear the Northern Muslim leaders will be outraged.

    The military source said the mission is purely training but did not rule out a possible change of plans based on a new request for assistance from Nigeria.

    “The mission is purely for a training purpose but we understand there is a new request and I don’t know details of it yet. But if we have directive to do otherwise, then we won’t have any choice than to do just that. I am aware that some senior officials are in talks with some Nigerian officials for more help but I cannot say what other help it is.”

    We could not confirm details of the latest request from the Nigerian Government to the U.S Military. Spokesperson for the Ministry of Defense,Colonel Mohammed and Army Spokesman, Colonel Usman Abdul did not pick up their calls.

    The source confirmed that the soldiers on the mission would be drawn from AFRICOM and from those who just returned from Iraq and Afghanistan because of their understanding of the Arab world.

    Dalrymple however disclosed, “our partnership with Nigeria is focused in four areas requested by the Nigerians. Those areas are maritime security, crisis response (i.e. peacekeeping operations, pandemic response, airlift), counter terrorism, and military transformation (i.e.joint doctrine development, integration of women into the military, civil-military capability).

    She said while there are no U.S. troops on the ground in an operational capacity assisting the Nigerian military in their response to Boko Haram attacks, “Nigeria is a member of the U.S. State Department’s Trans Sahara Counter Terrorism
    Partnership.”

    According to her, “In recent years, at Nigeria’s request, the U.S. has been working with the Nigerian military on their nascent counter-force through recurring training events.

    “This training has included basic soldiering skills, basic small unit infantry tactics and leadership training,” she told us.

    Boko Haram employs the tactics of Al-Qaeda, using suicide bombers and waging guerilla warfare in their quest to Islamize Nigeria. Their insurgency has led to several deaths and destruction of properties including the United Nations building in the Nigeria capital of Abuja in 2011.

    Ambassador J. Anthony Holmes, U.S. Africa Command’s civilian Deputy had in October 2011 said “Given the realities on the continent, however, our focus tends to be on Somalia and the surrounding countries to deal with al-Shabaab, and in West Africa, al-Qaida in the Islamic Maghreb, which is based in northern Mali but increasingly has ties with Boko Haram in northern Nigeria. So we try to assist the governments and militaries of the countries in that region to develop the capacity to come to grips with and solve its own terrorism problem.

  1038. VERY URGENT AND IMPORTANT!
    Mister General Wesley Kanne Clark (born in 1944 in Chicago, Illinois, his pic´s have been published in wikipedia) is been scammed. a Love Scammer sent me his pic´s. the Love Scammer mail-adress is wededono@hotmail.com
    please go to as soon as possible this thing.
    greetings from Dagmar

  1039. Wow!!! I should have known. Good old Match.com. Started chatting with a Jeff Kump E-6 Army. And just by accident came accross this site and looky there are his pictures listed mutiple times. my question is how do these scammer get there personal pictures to send you. he never aksed for money and we have been chatting for approx. one month. Im so stupid.

    • What is this waiting for moderation? Waiting for answers. Someone has to stop this.

    • OMG…My guys name is George Kump, we IM’d for over a month..He winked at me on Match.com that’s how we became “friends” .then he started to get needy…said his birthday was 3/15 and would I send him an I-Pod. Told him I’d send a CD player and he was good with that. He asked for underwear, grooming products and so on. I didn’t think too much about it because one of my best friends was in Afganistan and I did send him stuff like that. The FLAG went up when he didn’t provide a military address because he was in a place he couldn’t disclose. He provided me with a name of a man and I do have the guys e-mail and his mailing address: here it is….Hamell Wisdom 60 Mango Tree Ave Accra Ghana 00233. being suspicious I googled the name and your site popped up.I scrolled through the photos and there he was several times. My suspicions were right and my heart sank. “George is a handsome guy and there were 3 photos. 1st was him an a baseball cap 2nd him sitting in a chair with a tropical print on the chair 3rd was him in camoflage in an office. Does this poor guy know about this? Do you know who he is? I’d love to contact him. I reported “George” to Match.Com….Federal Trade Commision and contacted the FBI. I hope I helped. Oh by the way I let that ass…. know I was on to him and I do have documentation of all conversations. Sheila

  1040. Anyone heard of a tomgyotte, think i might have a scammer, swearing undying love and i’m the best thing that ever happened to him, if anyone has heard of him let me know and we can compare notes

  1041. Why did my questions get not get answered? Jeff Kump?

    • Sorry the moderation is taking so long. I’m in AFghanistan and internet access isn’t exactly easy to come by.

  1042. Damn this moderation. Not one single question answered. my earlier questiond wernt answered.
    dont even see my questions

  1043. I have been scammed by a guy who said he was working for Dyncorp International which is a private security company who work alongside the military. Called himself Eric Scott, email xxskillscottxx@yahoo.com.

    Seemed really genuine.. he’d even spoken to my ex husband on the phone after I had an operation. Then found out he was on a list to go to Syria (he was allegedly out in Southern Sudan at the time). Wanted me to write to Dyncorp to get him released on compassionate grounds. Then the red flags went up… they wanted a fee to release him! What kind of multi national firm does that?? The website he directed me to was very good, but you could see from the web address that it wasn’t Dyncorp’s proper website.

    I don’t know how much they wanted to have him released from duty. I sent him a bye bye email and deleted every trace of him. Shame really… he was gorgeous!!!

  1044. hello ! my name is joanna i ‘m polish i would send mesagge for joanna! czesc ja tez mam na imie joanna i spotkalo mnie to samo co ciebie,ale ja nie wyslalam zadnych pieniedzy facet gral ze mna 2,5 miesica ale niestety nic mu z tego nie wyszlo ,poniewaz ja nie jestem glupia i naiwna ja tez gralam tak jak on ze mna ,awiesz co miobiecal?25 milionow dolarow ,chcial mi wyslac jakis tam consigment box ,ale pieniadze utkwily w tej slawetnej ganie i chcial o demnie 400 ponds prosil ,grozil ,blagal przez 3 tygodnie,ale ja powiedzialam mu zeby wsadzil to sobie w dude i w koncu opierdolil sie odemnie,podawal sie za amerykanskiego oficera ,ale ja od samego poczatku wiedzialam ze to jest po prostu gra irobilam to samo.bardzo sie pomylil poniewaz podal sie za taka osobe o ktorej w ineterncie mozna przeczytac duzo,zaczelam go szpiegowac wslalam zaproszenie do tego (prawawdziwego oficera) siostry na facebook i juz mialam podglad smiac mi sie chce z tego wszystkiego,bo facet zadal sobie 2,5 misiaca trudu zeby wyludzic jakies smieszne 400 ponds czego nie osagna a ty jestes taka naiwna i wiezysz w takie bajki?????obudz sie dziewczyno.jezeli chcesz mozemy pogadac na facebooku JOANNA KRYSKIEWICZ 20 11 1968 powinnas mnie znalesc ,a moj oficer to sgt.maj.frank.m leota tzn ten za ktorego podawal sie ten oszust i jeszcze jedno jak chcesz pisac na tym forum to pisz po angielsku bo po polsku to raczej trudno im zrozumiec nie martw sie glowa do gory !nie wysylaj juz zadnych pieniedzy, jezeli masz takie zyczenie to nz charity to bedzie z korzyscia czesc

  1045. Ladies BEWARE….a Nigerian scammer is using the name Adams Michael or Michael Adams to scam women on Scout, My Yearbook, and netlog.com. He is using a picture that is hard to distinguish exactly what the man looks like. It’s obviously a very fit man with a nice jaw line but it’s hard to completely make out the face. Then he posts a second picture, a close up. It doesn’t quite look like the first picture but since the first one is so blurry it’s easy to believe that maybe it is the same guy. Again, the picture is of a very handsome man.

    I heard of the scam so I did some searching on my own after hearing from him. He will ask you to use Yahoo Messenger with the username of amicheal75@yahoo.com (notice Michael is spelled wrong in his email address). He will tell you his name is Adams Michael (but his Yahoo Messenger lists him as Michael Adams), that he is a Marine stationed in Syria, and that he is from San Francisco, CA. He lists himself as 40 on My Yearbook, 41 on netlog.com, and 45 on Scout.

    I egged him on for two days while I researched him. He starts off with just wanting to get to know you. If you ask questions he will not always answer them but when he does, it’s the one’s where he tries to get you to feel bad for him. Just keep in mind the way he and many of the other one’s speak. It’s very mush, very heartfelt, and just not what you would get from a typical man.

    Once I was satisfied with my research I started asking him for his MOS, his four digit designation (which he told me was top secret), and his infantry address (again top secret). He wouldn’t answer any of the questions. I also traced his IP address to Lagos, Nigeria. I told him I was an investigator and he was being tracked. I told him I knew he was in Lagos, Nigeria and he corrected me and told me he was actually in Ikeja, Nigeria. He then proceeded to tell me he has made $200,000.00 off of women and now he does it for fun. He was basically trying to taunt me and he was a little hostile with me at this point. His basic premise was, “so what”, “what are you going to do about it”.

    So, beware ladies. If you think you might have encountered this guy post on this site with your email address and I will send you the pictures of who he supposedly is.

  1046. Hi,

    Well I have obviously joined the many other unsuspecting females. I have been scammed by someone calling himself Wilson James who is in the United Nations military currently stationed in Kabul. He has I’m sorry to say scammed nearly £2k from me, what I am more upset about is the fact that I gave into him. He told me that his birthday was coming up and said that in the 3 years that he has been stationed in Afghanistan that he had not had any packages sent to him, that was the first thing that I fell for, he said that he was not allowed packages to be sent to him after I asked for his address but he said that he had a way around it as he had a very good friend who delivers packages for the US Army and gave me his email address, this guy was called Richy Ofori and I was asked to send his package to Ghana, why alarm bells didn’t ring at that point I really don’t know. At that time I only sent him some chocolates and a birthday card because that is the kind person that I am. Right from the off Wilson told me that he was retiring at the end of March and would be coming to the UK to live because he had lived there previously and loved it. I asked him where he lived and he couldn’t remember, he said that it was a long time ago, he told me that his wife cheated on him and that he has been single for 11 years and was looking to start again. He said all the right things. Another thing he mentioned was that he lost his parents in 9/11 so was all alone, I asked if would be going back to Atlanta once he had retired and he said he had nothing to go back for. As the weeks past I thought things were going really well, then he said that when he received his parcel from me he would be sending his uniforms back with Richy to send to me as he was moving to the desert and would not need them there so asked if I would look after them until he got here. I said I would not have an issue with that but only store them, he then informed me that he had, had an official army t-shirt made with my name on it, I wasn’t too fussed about that couldn’t care whether i got a t-shirt or not, after he had given me the impression that his package was on it’s way to me, he told me that he had put a surprise in the package I asked him what it was and he said gold & jewels, My heart jumped into my mouth I said I didn’t want them, he gave the line of I wanted to send you something so you know I much I am missing you and it was his way of showing how much he loved me, what a bag of crock!!! He asked me if he could send me some money in the package to the amount of £100k I point blank refused, he asked a few times and each and every time I refused. A day later I got an email from Richy, he had sent it to Wilson but copied me in to say that customs & taxes had found the jewels and have stated that they are worth £37k and would need £6,200 to clear customs and taxes, he asked me to send the money, I told him where to go. then another email came in saying that a friend of his in California has wired £3k to Richy and could I send the rest, again I said no, then another email came saying that Richy had paid £2k and he needed just £1200 now I am not sure when I lost all insanity but I wired £700 as he had told me that Richys wife had sent £500, then another email came saying that his wife couldn’t get the funds so again stupid, foolish me fell for it and sent another £400 as Richy had managed to find £100. I breathed a sigh of relief but it was short lived, another email came from Richy to say that he had been let down with the £100 and was now stuck with a hotel bill as he had to stay in Ghana until the money had been found before the package could be released, I sent another £380. to my amazement Richy emailed that he needed a further £450 for the certificate for the jewels as they would not get through UK customs without it. I was asked if I could send the money actually no I was told on more that 20 occasions to just wire the money. I stood my ground and said that I would not send anymore money as this was a complete scam, I then started to research IP addresses and search engines to find out where the emails were coming from, it turns out that they are being sent from the US, I feel completely sick to my stomach. the email addresses that they are using is jameslkisses@yahoo.com and diprichy_ofori@yahoo.com. I have looked at the photos you have listed and cannot see anyone relating to Wilson James. How do I submit his photo to warn other people against being scammed. I am an intelligent woman but I have been well and truly scammed. I feel better for sharing this with you all as I have been keeping it to myself for the past 2 weeks, he said I would get my money back when Richy could get my package as he asked him to sell his dog tags which would fetch £5k and that I could keep the money, I said all I wanted was the money that was owed to me. When I called him a con artist he went mental and started using profanities so I returned the favour, I know it’s not ladylike but I feel completely abused and my emotions are all over the place because the man in the picture has a beautiful kind face and I can’t believe I fell for it hook line and sinker. Please tell me how I can post pictures of him for one and all to see.

    • @ Tracy save all of your emails and go to romancescam.com and scamwarners.com Im sure they will help you find this scammers correct location you see this lying beggar used a proxy and I am sure hes in Africa sorry you lost money NEVER send your hard earned money to anyone and ANY Man that finds you on a social site then claims to be US Military IS A SCAMMER because REAL US Military Members have no time to and would NOT dare do such a thing but Nigerian and other African scammers will they proudly say it is their job what a bunch of sick losers.Anonn

  1047. Who has information on Jeff Kump?
    I called his bluff boy did he get pissed. The person even went so far to make all this seem like my fault. Then still has the nerve to message me back still claiming to be the real deal.

  1048. Can anybody tell me if they have come across a Major James Pedersen, he says he’s an Engineer. I feel like a complete fool, I found him via a dating website, I’m from the UK, he’s form the UK but based currently in Kabul!!!

    We have only ever communicated via Instant Messenger. He was offering me everything I ever wanted. A family, a brand new life, everything sounded great.

    Then a couple of days ago, he advised me that his Commander had called him in to ask him if he had been providing his details to anybody, as apparently they had intelligence he was being tracked.

    He always told me that he was safe, to then find out he was being tracked, frightened the life off of me. He had already told me, he had 7 months of his deployment left and when he came back he was going to process his retirement but after hearing this, I asked if he could get back early.

    Before I know it, I’m sending an e-mail to a Sgt James O’Connor at the UN Transit Grant Department requesting leave as his spouse, as apparently I needed to request this and then bingo, tonight, I receive 3 forms, 1 of them stating that “Spouse of families of employee who is requesting for a leave must pay all necessary charges accordingly”.

    I questioned this with James, why have i got to pay this, he says it’s transit costs. So I said, why can’t you pay it, he doesn’t have access to his account.

    I can’t see James Pedersen mentioned anywhere on this website, so I’m still holding out faith that he’s not a scammer but I think I know in my heart he is. Why do I have to pay monies?

    Please, anybody can you please advise.

    Thanks
    Elaine

  1049. I noticed that this Jeff Kumps picture is listed here only it shows he was going by John Palmas.
    I wonder how many of the names on here are of the same person. ( Scammer). Maybe a Ken also beacause if you hold the mouse over the picture it says Ken?
    I cannot believe even after calling his bluff he still IM’s. Professing his love. Oh and he (am going to retire in April) his words. Ya right. No sob story yet but funny both his parents are dead. Dad was soposibly in the Army. He states no children, and that he had been divorced for 14 years. Im kind of enjoying toying with him but it is getting old. I want to continue to play him so that in April he will either ask for money to come home. Or get into a terrible accident and need money to pay the hospital bill. So glad I found this site, I was raised in the military ( Navy). And spent 10 years with my ex husband in the Navy.

    • Had almost same exact story from Kevin Robies a/k/a James Hene Smith, James Richard, Dave Robies, Palmas. States he is in Afghanistan on peace mission. He is only child of parents who died in car accident when he was 9, but later when I questioned him again he said he was 12 – LOL. He said his father was a military doctor. I asked him what he was going to do when he got home to Tampa, FL and he said he was going to open a jewelry store! When asked why wouldn’t he get in the medical field he avoided the questions; as a matter of fact they all AVOID all relevant questions. He could not spell and always ended every sentence with “babe”. Drove me nuts. I really called him out and told him to go to hell, he got upset but still declared his love for me and his last words were we will see if I go to heaven or hell. GOOGLE THE NAMES, THE PICTURES, USE TINEYE AND SPOKEO. Once they have gotten you to send you ANYTHING they will repeatedly recreated profiles and approach you again and sell your email address to others to scam you. Change your profile or suspend it, delete you email and make a new one. So sorry to hear about your loss.

  1050. I want to upload his photos he sent me to CJ. How do I do this?
    I asked Jeff to send me a new picture yesterday and to use his .mil mail. Funny I havent heard from him today
    He must have gone far off in Afganistan where there is no internet connection. TOO FUNNY.

  1051. Never mind I figured it out

  1052. I am on facebook and was approached by a Captain Collins Lingo Frances but I new it was a scam and the pictures of a black man from Syria was added and then removed as quick as that. A few women contacted me that the were scammed close to 50,000$ dollars. I tried to contact facebook as this man is using Military pictures with what appeared to be a Captain and from his name tag is Lingo. I myself because of Security that I do was more than aware of the issue but it disturbed me that they are using USA Military mens pictures and names. The face book page remains the same. Maybe someone can get the info i gave and remove it . I also contacted the FBI. The women who got scammed also reported it and cannot get recovered for their losses but I remain friends with them at this time. Thank you

  1053. I have had several military scammers contact me…..Woome is the site they seemed to flock to but it is gone, now zoosk seems popular. There are 2 names that are awful…. Robbert Hikking aka Robbert Gray Hikking aka Gray Hikking at robberthikking@yahoo.com. The second I never got the name straight… Ranger Christopher or Christopher Ranger or Noel Christopher Ranger at rangerchristopher87@yahoo.com (I believe it was 87, not sure, deleted it), he was on mate1 and if you go there, the profile name still says Ranger Christoper or Christopher Ranger, but the name in the body of the profile is Bobby George……? Same story word for word, only the name changed. Please notify me if anyone else knows these names. Its bad enough to stupidly fall into the trap, but its worse feeling that I’m the only one

  1054. anyone hear of a Michael Sinclair goes by email troopyland4us@yahoo.com my friend at work is being taken by this creep same story as the rest she won’t listen to anyone

  1055. Bueno, Yo gracias a Dios, descubrí a tiempo lo de el que se hace pasar por el sargento norteamericano Troy Turner. El año antepasado me recomendaron una página de internet para buscar pareja Zoosk. Yo entré a la página, Conocí a varias personas a través de élla. Luego me llegó una foto de un sr llamado Troy Turner. Según sargento del ejército, yo al principio creí, decía cosas maravillosas, además me envió unas fotos, una vestido de militar. Yo muy preocupada por lo que sucede en Afghanistan por mi amado Turner. Empecé a buscar información de Afghanistan y me imaginaba a ese sargento que había perdido a su esposa y su hijo, además a sus padres. Según tenía un hermoso hijo llamado Williams al que cuidaba una niñera. Claro, no hay que negarlo es muy atractivo el sargento, no hay ninguna duda. Yo emocionada y preocupada y estaba haciendo planes para esperar al pequeño de 10 años a vivir conmigo. Luego, el lunes en la mañana, me conecto a la red. y estaba el supuesto Turner conectado. empezamos a chatear, pero no tengo camara web instalada. Y me preguntó si había visto lo de Afghanistan y yo le respondí que si, que para mi era terrible esa situación, y el me dijo que había habido un tiroteo. Claro por la noticia, vi que habían asesinado a dos oficiales norteamericanos a quemarropa. Yo sufriendo por mi Turner y por su pequeño, Luego me dice que si yo puedo enviar a los Estados Unidos 300 euros porque su niñera y su hijo se han quedado sin alimentos, Yo le dije que si esto estaba pasando por qué el no me lo había dicho antes. Me dijo que porque el mensaje le terminaba de llegar y que el no podía movilizarse por lo que pasaba en la base de OTAN allá.
    Le dije que me enviará el numero de teléfono para llamar a la niñera o su hijo y me dijo que el teléfono estaba desconectado. Le dije que no podía creer que el ejercito mas poderoso del planeta dejara a los hijos de sus combatientes a la deriva. Yo le sugerí y pedí permiso para llamar a la embajada norteamericana en mi país y avisar por lo que pasaba su pequeño hijo, y me dijo que para que iba a llamar a la embajada, porque el pequeño Williams no podía viajara solo. Dijo que le enviara por wester union el dinero, yo le dije que durante el día iba a estar ocupada, yo le había enviado allá mi horario de trabajo. Le dije también que yo podía llamar a un familiar que vive en USA para que le tendiera una mano al pequeño y a su niñera y me respondió que se gastaría más dinero, porque mi familiar y el niño estaban en estados distantes. Se molestó cuando le dije que por qué me estaba probando por tan poco dinero, entre otras cosas. Ahí logré ver que todo fue una mentira. Eso fue esta semana 26-02-2012. Ya dejó de comunicarse. Revisé en Badoo y aparecen unas fotos iguales a las que yo tengo en el correo de esa persona. Es decir que quien suplanta al querido Troy está en boga, su email es srgtroy001@yahoo.com. Quizás sea el mismo que está en badoo y hay otro en mylife.com, el cual dice que nació en Nueva Jersey y que actualmente vive en Lincoln Nebrasca, allí en badoo dice que tiene un hijo, en este momento no recuerdo el nombre. Gracias a Dios a mi no logró quitarme cosas materiales, pero si se llevó algunas de mis fotos, seguro las utilizará como usó las de Troy Turner. Por esa situación me puse a huzmear en la red hasta que conseguí este sitio, que no se si es otra de las guaridas del farsante. No les niego me divertí mucho, sufrí por la escena del pequeño que ese hombre me pintó y uno trata de ayudar . Claro cuando tenga mayor cobertura me gustaría enviar nuestras conversaciones por este medio. El que se hace pasar por Troy Turner me conectó la primera semana del pasado mes de febrero. Creí que yo era la única víctima, veo que hay muchas aquí y a las que no solo le quisieron robar el corazón sino que las estafaron. Dios les bendiga. Saludos al verdadero Troy Turner, un abrazo.
    María.
    P.D: Pueda que con esto me esté exponiendo a algo peor. Gracias a Dios uno actúa de buena fe.

  1056. Patty did he ever send you any pictures. I wanna know if it is the same scammer. I dont really know why just curious.

    • could you please remove my last post i didnt realise my email address would come up and although i have terminated this account i still dont want it on here im really sorry

  1057. Can somebody please tell me how to upload some pictures. I really want to get pictures of Mr James Pedersen on this site. I want everybody to know about this scumbag and hopefully even if it stops 1 person nearly making the same mistake as me, I will be happy, thanks.

  1058. Also, why is my post from 1 March still waiting moderation. I want to tell everybody about this man asap

    • Because I’m deployed to Afghanistan and I can’t stop killing the enemy long enough to approve comments. please be patient.

  1059. I want to report another scammer. I met him through meetingland. His name (he said) Col. Andrew Wilfred, posted in Iraq in his last deployment. Widower, wife died at 911 and have a 15yrs. old daughter Jessica, adopted by her grandmother and lives in London. 42 years old, born in Jan. 1. in Philadelphia and home in Dallas, TX. Asked me to contact his lawyer, Lawrence Barrister, which is a scam too to give his lawyer my information to add me as his fiancee. I read another story last night; he has another fiancee! His email address is ajpwifred@yahoo.com. Thanks got I am smart and did not gave me any personal information and I only opened a yahoo address to contact him.

  1060. I want to report another scammer. I met him through meetingland. His name (he said) Col. Andrew Wilfred, posted in Iraq in his last deployment. Widower, wife died at 911 and have a 15yrs. old daughter Jessica, adopted by her grandmother and lives in London. 42 years old, born in Jan. 1. in Philadelphia and home in Dallas, TX. Father a military, both parents dead and a sister dead too. So he is alone in earth! Asked me to contact his lawyer, Lawrence Barrister, which is a scam too to give his lawyer my information to add me as his fiancee. I read another story last night; he has another fiancee! His email address is ajpwifred@yahoo.com. Thanks got I am smart and did not gave me any personal information and I only opened a yahoo address to contact him.

  1061. Does anybody know a Williams Terreel?
    he goes by the name Mark Williams?

    He saies he is working in africa, but his mail is registreted in U.s.

  1062. Be very carefful to man Sean.M. Cruise; seancruise85@yahoo.com or capt.seancruise@yahoo.co, and departmentus@rocket. mail ( Sgt, Jones.Smith); cald.jakson@yahoo.com; smithbrown21184@yahoo.com, all this man is scammers!!!!!!

  1063. I am hoping for a reply back from you regarding a Sgt. Bobby George. I have been in constant contact with him. He says he’s 40yrs old (Birthday is March 20th) a son named Cole & his wife died giving birth to him. He resides in Seattle Washington but is currently serving in Afg. He says how much he loves me & wants to come here & start a new life with me. He also asked me to request a leave for him & drafted me a letter. He wants me to contact transitaffairsoffice@mail2army.com.
    Is this guy for real or not???This is very hurtful & want to know if he is for real or a scammer??? I have several pics of him too.

    • M Sophia Trypus……..NO he is NOT real you nor any other civilian can request leave for ANY REAL US Military Member this is a fraud he is a scammer and the email address is also NOT a US Military email address email that email address and you will then be sent a long email by an iliterate clown telling you alot of nonsense and telling you how much money the leave will cost That is THE SCAM Leave does NOT have to be paid for it is like earned vacation time.Anonn

  1064. seems like many of these scammers use a Yahoo account???!!

  1065. I hate these scammers sooo much!! They stab you in the heart by saying they love you & they would never lie or scam you yet here we are, women from all over , scammed like me. For all the women who have been taken in like me….Find all those scumbags and drop them in the middle of Iraq & let them squirm!!!!!!

  1066. I googled sgt.bobbygeorge@yahoo.com and the address was traced back to Nigeria….Should have google this person from the start. For all you women out there–any man that gives you their email address…do yourself a big favor and less heartache…google the address so that your heart doesn’t break!! Good Luck to all of You!!!

  1067. Hi, i met a guy from Zoosk.com claiming to be a military officer stationed in peace keeping mission in DR Congo. His name is Steve Romney. He fits all the profile that was being discussed in this website. He mentioned that his wife died of cancer and he has 2 sons living with his mother in Jacksonville, Florida. he never asked for money, maybe not yet. I am not into him. I just laugh all the lovey-dovey things that he said and toying him how far he will go on this. I am an educated woman. He probably thinks, I am so desperate. I just want others to warned with this guy.

    • I have been talking with an Sgt. Antonie J Yorty. He said,” he was a father of a 5 yr of boy and that his wife had died of cancer. ” He told me that he was in afg. and that he had 6 months left on his leave. He is a real charmer. Sent me several pictures. I was falling for him. He sent me a request letter to ask for his leave which I thought was strange but I did it anyway, than I got the his been approved for his leave send $950 to a Western Union or Money gram to Texas. When I spokeo his name he doesn’t exist, when I did a verification of status in the military his name isn’t there. When I told him that I knew I didn’t have to pay his way home and that he was the one who had to request his leave and not me than he told me I was wrong. I told him to give me proof. He said he would, haven’t heard from him yet. Whoever’s picture that fraud used is very sad that they have been put out there like that.

    • good for you…..i am dealing with one like that right now….not sure yet what is going on……might even see about offering up a plan to help catch him….he wants things that are so crazy…..playing a long to see how far he really plans to take this before he realizes i know what’s going on…..

  1068. Richmond Clark Graham E6 BEWARE this guy approached me on Match.com and I have been chatting with him for 2 days. I had a few red flags come up so I started researching and found this site and OMG you guys are describing him to a “T” Says he’s a Staff Sergeant in Afghanistan, From Miami, retiring in 2 months and wants to open a jewelry store when he gets out. First red Flag I got was when he immediately started talking about a long term relationship with me, his dream woman. The next day I went back on Match and his profile was unavailable. When I asked what happened to his profile he said that he took it off because he didn’t want to be bothered by other women because we are toghether now ( started feeling creepy on that one ) so that was Flag #2. Flag #3 came on the second day. Next week is his birthday and he wants me to send him a care package with a web cam so I can see him and a phone so he can hear my sexy voice (yuck). I work on a military base and when I went in to work this morning I asked out IT security guy search for him in the data base, amazingly enough, couldn’t find him. He sent a text around noon telling me that to send the package I will need to E-Mail his diplomat with a list of everything that I will be sending, the address he gave was DIPLOMAT_150@YAHOO.COM sorry dude but the diplomatic core does not use yahoo addresses. So I go back to my IT security guy with this new development. He laughed so hard he almost peed himself. Our IT guy is a vet with over 20 years military service, including viet nam, and over 30 years civil service on bases as security so he knew right away the guy was full of shit.Like someone else said His spelling and grammar were terrible (another flag) over use of the words ok and Babe. Thank The Good Lord above I have become Jaded enough to do my research on a guy. I can’t wait to tell hiim that all our conversations and his info was turned into the CID today. STAFF SERGEANT RICHMOND C. GRAHAM REMEMBER THIS FAKE ASS NAME

    • forgot to mention his email address is rich.mond1000@yahoo.com and the phone number he uses for texting is 111044061 Please post if you have been contacted by him

  1069. my guy is George Kump

  1070. Hi,
    I have been contcated by a so called soldier on a dating site…he goes by the name Henry Rivera..or hurry
    He told me that he loved me on day two, asked me to delete my dating profile, kept telling me that he was looking someone like me for ever…after weeks of chatting every night and e-mail everyday, if i did not he would get upset..this is how we will get to know eachother…we will get makrried whe I come home..

    I am a smart girl but I kinda fell for the charm. Very sweet and caring until week 3 he asked me for a laptop with build in cam so I could see him..He would pay me back when he got home..I should sent it to the UK he has a buddy there who will bring it to him since I can not send anything to the base.
    I said no and he got upset…no contcat for days then said he was sorry that I was for me not him..all is well but 2 weeks after that he has good news. He is comming home in 3 weeks..has his retirement papers and one more thing. He did some side work for this minister and now they paid him cask,,100 G’s in US dollars and jewels for his wife,,,that would be me. He can not keep it on base ansd can not take home with him. He worked so hard for it…i must help…If i really love him I will do it.

    All I need to do is give him my address, phone number and the name of the closest airport. A diplomat will meet me there and give me a package but I can not tell anyone about it. Of course tehre is not danger to me because it’s nothing illegal…so he says..
    I said no and now ne sign of lie from him.

    I noticed taht he has friended 2 new women in the last few days on MSN…

    cAUTION…i can supply pictures, not sure I should

    NCO Sergent e6 who makes 30G US a month and will sweep you off your feet, will taek care of you….

    He will take you straight to the poor house or jail…choose

  1071. I found a new scammer…His name is Jake Renteria or Jake Kemper Renteria…Unfortunately I got scammed out of 2500.00. Im so not impresssed …We met on Match .com February 02/ 2012… after we met he took his name off right away and explained to me that he was in the US Army and based in Kabul Afghanistan…He was from Bedford Texas and the Army didnt approve of him on the web site. Of course I got the promises of Marriage and early I Love you thing and in the end it went as far as a trunk of gold and money…I never sent the money they wanted for the trunk to get through customs…I knew by then someone was scamming me…They prey on women and they took it way too far…I also let it go to far, as I just ended a bad relationship and was vulnerable…Please Ladies let your gut set you straight and keep your heart locked up and never fully give in till u see and hear them in person…I was very skepitical but I wanted also to see what was gong to happen..I received roses and love songs and and I have Pictures..If you want the pictures send a email address, and Ill send them.

  1072. CJ, Could you please check in to this man for me, His Surpose name is Sgt. James Samuel Robies, I am also attaching some photos of him to.

    Judy

  1073. Has anyone heard of Patrick Lewis Thomas? First Sgt Officer at Camp Phoenix in Afg. I’ve been trying to look up his name on the internet & can’t find anything. Can someone please tell me if he is for real??? Thank You

  1074. have you guys hear a guy name capt William Anderson who from Georgia and he in Afghanistan at the militray base kabul and his email address is colanderson01@yahoo.com

    if so pls let me know pls email me thanks

    • so does any one this person colanderson01@yahoo.com
      name capt William Anderson from Afghanistan Kabul
      i want him to be real not as a scram er

      his has son and he lost is wife this year from Georgia and he say that he is waiting for nato to sgin a paper some thing like that

      • @ Terry if he found you on any social site and claims to be US Military chances are he is a SCAMMER plain and simple especially if you have not had any webcam chats with him if not demand he get on webcam and chat with you for 2-3 hours

        Remember the US Military takes care of its own they will NOT need your help for ANY problem or issue they may have only scammers will ask you for money or help to leave Afghan or money for a return ticket home or ask you to help them get some fake money or gold into the US or ask you to accept a fake package for them that suddenly gets stuck in customs and you have to pay for it,Or ask you to apply for some fake phone line to speak to them on the phone get the picture basically any lie that can be made up scammers will do it so if this guy were real he would have proved it by now

        be prepared because this scammer will give you a sob story about trust but you need to delete and block him because by now I am sure he has started his scam DO NOT trust him and trust or send money or your personal information to ANYONE you do not know Anonn

        • thank you anoon its to late i have done some money thing s now i wish i knew about this site .. it hurt now that i know and i do not know what to do now … someone did send me a unformation about how things work out and once i question him he stop chatting with me after a year of chatting … wow i am stupit and hurt and i wish i was more hard shell not this kind soul i am … thank what can i do not how do i add him into this scrarmer site and can i get a charge put on him i did look up his ip adders that some one here say how to do it … so he was from 701 first ave sunny vale ca 94089 us that what i have on him

          he go by the name of William Anderson i have pictures put i do not know how to up them on here

      • @Terry just delete and block him and go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com there you can share your story and post as many pics this lying piece of shit has stolen also the Sunnyvale Ca is where Yahoo is located NOT where this beggar is he is in WEST AFRICA. probably a Nigerian most of them seem to be scammers I am sorry you lost money please educate yourself on these thieves and tell your friends and family warn them. Anonn

        • thank you boy i have learn lots now and i will not do any more online dating thank we are luck to have some one here to help us out went we made stupid mistake again i thank you so much i will do what you want to me to for sure right after i finish with this typing …

          if i can help in any way let me know
          terry

  1075. Hi I have been talking to a guy by the name sgt Fred Napier.Has anyone else been talking to him.He has never asked me for money or to help with passport.He said his wife died.Also lost his parents at 12.He has a 10 year old son that stays with a nanny.Can you help is this guy a scammer as he wants to meet and come be with me.He said I needed to register my name with US Army under his name to gain access.
    He tells me he loves me and wants to spent his life with me.I am confused as he says he doesn’t want money just wants to find love,Has anyone heard of him that can help me to find out if he is real.He is also on facebook.

    • 10 year old son that stays with a nanny.Can you help is this guy a scammer as he wants to meet and come be with me.He said I needed to register my name with US Army under his name to gain access.

      Without a doubt this is a scammer why does he want to come be with you? does he not have a home of his own where is he stationed what State did he deploy from have you gotten an email from his military email address? it should end in .mil anything beyond .mils is a SCAM have u seen him on webcam have you talked on the phone oh you can bet a scam is coming up hes going to start begging VERY Soon but remember US Military takes care of its own and will NOT need your help for any reason Anonn

  1076. I have fortunately not been taken for any $$ yet but have been communicating with a couple of “soldiers” and just wondered if the 2 names i am giving you have been flagged??? One told me that he had his photos taken and used as actual pictures from someone pulling a scam and had gotten in trouble with his “CO” about it. Please check out the names Capt Jack Nulik…says he resides in Dallas TX and stationed in Afghanistan as one of the designated peace-keeping troops ( possible i suppose) has asked me to help him “receive money for him” HUH UH..NO WAY AIN’T GONNA DO IT is what i start thinking…..wants me to pay for a month’s subscription to get phones????? yeah right????…..

    and a “jamesc.p_wallace” ( This is his yahoo ID) as a medic in Afghanistan as well. He claims to be from Grand Haven MI….wife died in car accident and is due out in June 2012…no harm yet except some emails but want to find out Jack Nulik was found on facebook i located him but doesn’t mean it legitimate i know…….look forward to hearing about your findings…these 2 men FOUND ME on datehookup.com…..thanks!

  1077. I have been talking for quite some time with a Sgt. Kelvin Frost who said his commanding officer was Col. Edwin Halton. Sgt. Frost. He is a total scam. He also sent me pictures I would happily give to this site so they would have them, I just need to know where to send them so they get posted. I don’t want anyone to be taken by him.

    • Email address: sgt.kelvinfrost@yahoo.com

      He has sent me a couple requests, he said things were different with him because he was Special Ops:
      1) He said he wanted to do a phone request so we could talk on the phone and wanted me to email this address: (mil_apply@consultant.com) which was a scam and I didn’t do, I confronted him but didn’t trust him.
      2) He then said here is the “new” email address: (militaryapplications@usa.com).

      If I would have been a more trusting person I would have fell for this. If you know of a better place for me to post all this, please feel free to give me the information, and I will post it there with the pictures.

      Thanks for doing this!

      • @ Li I have only one word SCAMMER…..

        He has told you a pack of LIES special ops my ass if he were real he would NEVER give you that information cut this lying beggar off they can talk on the phone for FREE.Anonn

  1078. On match.com a man by the name of Joey Robles was trying to convince me he was stationed in Kabul, Afganistan and owned a home in Bedford, Texas. Fortunately I was on to him before he was on to me. He claimed his parents were from Italy and both died. He stated “I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad.” He also said he would be stationed for a month and a half and wanted a longterm relationship.

  1079. ” Joey Robles” used this webaddress: trp.dpld55@yahoo.com

  1080. Hi I think I have been scammed. He goes by Will Ken Smart or Ken Will Smart. Says he is in the Army stationed out of Texas but is in Afghanistan on a private contract with other soldiers on a peace mission. Just wondering if anyone else has had any contact from him. Would appreciate any feed back. Thank You.

  1081. my scammers name is
    Steve Thomas Herny Timms , h.tsteve@yahoo.com

    i got the same letters as posted befor……..and he wanted me to send the money to :

    Emmanuel Kwame, Accra , Ghana

    the game they are playing is disgraceful !! i hope they get them ! they just dirt ¨

    greetings from switzerland and everybody take care

  1082. Not sure about Paul Smallings stationed in peace keeping mission in Sudan? Maybe somebody hurd about him?

  1083. Hi everyone please be aware of sgtfredNapier he is a scammer.I have been talking to him for a month now and he is wanting to marry you and asks for you to apply for access so you can request his leave.I have looked him up on romancescam.com and yes he was there.So please lady’s check this site out as it helped me big time.I was always vary but never ever sene any money.

  1084. Not sure about Paul Smallings stationed in peace keeping mission in Sudan? Maybe someone, anyone heard
    about him?

  1085. Mr Ramos has now popped up on connecting singles he user name is ramos300 and I have reported him as a scammer along with a few others that are now on connecting singles these scammers have more email addresses and names than a dog has fleas and I am absolutely dissgusted that they are still using photos of servicemen and women to scam victims.

  1086. I had two of them at it at the same time edwinnobile@yahoo.com and jamesharris@yahoo.com
    Turns out James is a real soldier in the US Army so I have contacted the US Army to let them know that one of their soldiers is being used in this way.
    The scammers will get their cumuppance.
    It was so easy to almost fall into the trap.
    I managed to get an Agents address off one of them that I passed to the police.
    Cheers to all the women on here who survived!
    Spare a thought for those who got hooked in.

  1087. I believe that I have found the real man who all the Lingo photos belong to and he told that all these photos were of him 20 years ago. I am trying to find all the pictures of him that have been used so I can give them to him. He is working with law enforcement to find the scammers who use his pictures so if you have anymore please email them to me at regeniacompton@yahoo.com so I can get them to him. He does wish for his name to be kept out of this to protect his family. I was scammed by a Lingo for love but no money and I want to help this man get his life back.

  1088. From the UK:
    Been speaking to an E-SSG Ward Enock on http://www.oasis.com – user name “seriouslady45″. Requests to chat via Yahoo Messenger but webcam and voice do not work as he is in Libya with the peacekeeping forces. His email address: strongsoul11@yahoo.com.
    Approaching retirement at the age of 51, been in the Army 34 years, has a son aged 17 in boarding school (!), lost his wife in a car crash after 5 years of marriage, and lost his parents in a plane crash in the US. He is an only child. Sold his house in Miami Beach and will return to Al Paso (not El Paso) on 21 May 2012 and will then come to the UK to see me. Professes his undying love after a few hours on IM! His English is very strange and even though there are distinct differences between British and American English they are not that different! Is apparently in Benghazi with the 1st Cavalry Division. Caught him out with his names. On one photo he sent it says Brown and one of him in his combat uniform had “Ward” on the jacket. When I queried it he said this is my name which didn’t ring true – since when do guys in combat have their first names on their chest? He also sent a picture of him in dress uniform. I could make out the stripes of a sergeant though. Although I am not sure what force the uniform was from. I’ll upload the photos if you send me the link. Pity this has turned out to be a scam as the photos were rather good!! BEWARE.

  1089. Hi,

    I met “Mike Butterfield” on b2 website………………have also found he was “Pete Butterfield” and “Mike Brown” on a web search.
    Said he was sgt in Afghanistan…leaving in 2-3 months and wants to retire in England.
    Was separated from younger wife who had an affair when he was last on tour. Has 2 sons…James aged 5 and Terry aged 3.
    Message sent was to send IM address………….His is mike-butter@hotmail.com and his mobile number is 07432177697.
    He says to text him when you are going online…He then complains that he can’t text you back cause he has no top up on there.
    This is said every now again over the next few conversations til he edges around getting you to do a top up for him and letting him know the voucher number.
    We didn’t get much further than this because I was always very suspicious and decided to do an online search.

    Shame….what a handsome man

    He is also on facebook, but doesn’t encourage this .

    Will try and upload the pics I have

    Hope this has been some help.

    Thanks

    ps…….if you know him …tell him to contact me :)

  1090. I also forgot to give his mobile phone number 940-238-6880 all I want him to do is get mad because I have done this to put him out there for all to see GOOD BYE SGT JAMES MASSINGALE get out of my life forever and in every way!

  1091. How can I upload the pics?????

  1092. Hi everybody… Its so good to hear I’m not alone… I’m pretty sure I’m in the same boat, but just wondering if the name Sean P Tucker ID/02718/OD rings any bells with anyone? He’s supposedly stationed in good old Afghan, but isn’t claiming to be a soldier as such, but an Explosives and Ordnance “consultant”. Supposedly turned 49 last Monday 12th March… Have been chatting to him for about a month, after he initially contacted me on datingdirect.com. Right from the start, he has always said his tour was up 28th March, then on Friday he said he’d been called to a meeting with his Colonel (Patrick Alonso), and told that his tour was being extended for a period of 6 months. He says he declined to agree to the tour extension, so he was CM’d and told a fine will be imposed on him. He has asked me if I will make an “End of Tour Request”, as they will only accept this from a spouse or partner, and I’m the nearest he’s got to one… Has anyone come across this name before? I’m assuming he’s not who he says he is, but curious to know if he’s a seasoned one or not!

    Ok, here’s the next installment…having agreed to, and having submitted the ‘End of Tour Request’ on his behalf, I received an email from said Colonel Patrick Alonso:

    Colonel Patrick Alonso,
    Base Vulcan,
    United States Army,
    Kabul, Afghanistan.

    To: Michelle Basson

    End of Tour Request Application Feedback

    Your request for an End of Tour leave on behalf of the deployed military staff; Mr. Sean P. Tucker ID/02718/OD as has been faxed to the pentagon for proper documentation and all necessary signatories to review the request for possible approval.

    As per your concern regarding your legal obligation on this matter, I am not supposed to disclose any piece of information to you until I receive an order from the pentagon. But, due to considerable explanations made to me by the deployed staff Mr. Sean Tucker regarding this matter, I would brief you in a summary on what your legal obligations are.

    Your legal obligations consist of being able to settle any basic charges/fines levied on the deployed staff following the tour extension refusal. You must have fully agreed with the deployed staff (Mr. Sean Tucker) to embark on this process. You MUST be aware that the deployed staff would not be allowed to leave his base of tour without a sealed pass following his tour extension denial.

    I shall get back to you with necessary information as soon as I get a go ahead order from the Pentagon

    Sincerely,

    Col. Patrick O. Alonso
    For: U.S Army & The Pentagon

    Observed By: Sgt. David C. Heckler

    The next email I got was this:

    The Colonels Office
    United States Army,
    10th Infantry DIV,
    Kabul, Afghanistan.

    To: Michelle Basson

    A feedback has been faxed in from the pentagon in reference to your end of tour application request for the deployed military staff Mr. Sean Tucker ID/02718/OD and your application has been approved by necessary signatories.

    I have also been given a go ahead order to handle the process and clarify all steps involved with you as due.

    The pentagon and the U.S army fine & drill committee has fined the deployed military staff Mr. Sean Tucker a sum of $2,520.00USD = £1,591.00GPB referencing all protocol as due. Payment must be made in your local currency totalling the above mentioned amount in dollars.

    You will be provided with a U.S army scribe payment information to have the above mentioned amount paid to as soon as you acknowledge this email.

    The deployed military staff would be handed a pass to leave the base without any further delay as soon as payment has been received and confirmed.

    Sincerely,

    Col. Patrick O. Alonso

    Observed By: Sgt. Marion F. Smith (SSGT)

    Needless to say, alarm bells were ringing by this point…but I “acknowledged the email” as instructed, and about 24 hours later, I received this:

    The Colonels Office
    United States Army,
    10th Infantry DIV,
    Kabul, Afghanistan.

    To: Michelle Basson

    I have received the U.S army fine scribe payment information which the $2,520.00USD = £1,591.00GPB fine for tour extension refusal should be paid to. You have been asked to make payment through Money Gram Money transfer which is the most suitable for your region.

    Payment Information:

    Name: Tashona Hayes
    City: Houston
    State: Texas
    Zip Code: 77036
    Country: United States

    Test Question: uacm
    Answer: texas

    You should send a scan copy of the full payment receipt to me through email so I could forward it to SSgt.Tashona Hayes who is in charge of fines and drills to confirm your payment. As soon as your payment is confirmed. The pentagon would give me a go ahead order to issue a pass to the deployed officer to leave the base immediately.

    Sincerely,
    Col. Patrick O. Alonso

    Observed By: Sgt. Marion F. Smith (SSGT)

    Although I’ve hoped that this was somehow all above board, I know in my heart of hearts that it isn’t. But oh my god, whoever is behind this is really good! And I mean really really good!!! The grammar of these communications is impeccable… My opinion is that there’s no way these have been written by anyone that isn’t English or American, they’re just too good! And why ask me to send a scanned copy of the payment receipt? Once the money got there, they don’t need anything else that it might contain, in order to collect…? I guess they’ll go to some serious lengths to make it look good!

    And the other bit that’s really really worrying is that this one is asking that the money be paid to somewhere in the U.S. as opposed to good old Africa… I guess they’ve figured out we’re getting wiser on that front! Either that, or scams impersonating the U. S. Military are getting a whole lot closer to their own home soil!!

    Does anyone know if there’s any way of checking if ANY of these supposed names are real? Because if there’s a real Col. Patrick O. Alonso, Sgt. David C. Heckler, Sgt. Marion F. Smith (SSGT), or indeed a real Sean P Tucker, then there are a hell of a lot of other victims in this besides me…

    Ladies…I’ve only given my heart to this guy…but that’s enough to have left me feeling like a foolish child. I’m just so thankful for my cynical nature at this point! Please please please be careful, and tell anyone and everyone you know that might be on any sites where these guys are registered. I was contacted on datingdirect.com and he had actually paid for a membership on there…I guess he saw it as a good investment!

    If this scenario is anything to go by, our scammer friends have certainly raised the benchmark by a considerable amount!

    I just hope my mistakes might stop someone else falling for their lies…

    I’ve got the pictures of the (incredibly gorgeous) “Sean P Tucker” if anyone thinks they might be relevant…

    Michelle :-(

    • @Michelle yes you are correct he is a SCAMMER you typed this…….He’s supposedly stationed in good old Afghan, but isn’t claiming to be a soldier as such, but an Explosives and Ordnance “consultant”. …..if he isnt claming to be US Military then what is all the talk about and end of tour buy out it is a CROCK of BULLSHIT he is NOT in Afghan he is in Africa he is NOT the Man in the pics he lives in Africa he is an ugly uneducated African Beggar a lying begging leech who needs to get a JOB tell him to get on cam and prove who he is do not buy his bullshit do not assist him with anything if and when he begs tell him that hes the one in the Military and it is HIS responsibility to take care of his needs NOT yours so if he wants 2500 tell him to GET A JOB! Anonn

  1093. I was contacted by a man calling himself Jeffrey Roach… telling me he is in the service. Has a daughter living in Ghana? Embasy… and she has a diplomat w/her…
    He’s suppose to call back at 7 PM tonight 3/21/2012/

    Do I need to contact anyone about this… He said he found me at Match.com… I briefly reviewed it…saw some military pic’s… got on line to ck jroach@yahoo.com… from Tampa, Fl..

    If I need to do something about this…

    I am now deleting him from IM chat ….

    Thanks for having this posted… If i had not found this site…. because a widower w/daughter same name, spelt the exact way as mine…. was too much cooinsidence….

    • @ Marcia what you can do is delete and block this scammer but be aware he will create a NEW profile and he will try to contact you again delete and block him and check your computer for spyware and for any type of malware or spyware hope this helps glad you know a scammer when you talk to one Anonn

  1094. Anyone been contacted by a guy by the last name robles? His email is trp.dpld55@yahoo.com.
    Told me he was Joey.
    Same old song and dance as above.
    I just really want to stop these people. Our service members don’t deserve this. We women don’t deserve this!!!!

  1095. I think my Mom has been scammed by a man posing as Roy Gad roygad33@yahoo.com. He claims he has jewlery stores in the US and he has gold in Ghana thta my mom has paid 4,000 in taxes for and sent 5,000 to a friend third party Mr. Austi. Of course now he needs 19,000 to insure this gold. Now he is supposed to be coming home next week and now the military wats to not pay for his flight and his bank accounts are blocked. I know this man is running a big line ofshit on my mom. Beware of him I am sure he has four other names and women he is running the scam on but this is the one he is using on my mom. She has lost 000 to this crap nd I hope she will stop because she still believes this is legitimate even after all the research I have shown her. Oh he has not spoke to her on the phone but video chatted. He has asked she mail him a package. He has had 3 flat screen tvs shipped to her house. It is really weird.

  1096. I think my Mom has been scammed by a man posing as Roy Gad roygad33@yahoo.com. He claims he has jewlery stores in the US and he has gold in Ghana thta my mom has paid 4,000 in taxes for and sent 5,000 to a friend third party Mr. Austi. Of course now he needs 19,000 to insure this gold. Now he is supposed to be coming home next week and now the military wats to not pay for his flight and his bank accounts are blocked. I know this man is running a big line ofshit on my mom. Beware of him I am sure he has four other names and women he is running the scam on but this is the one he is using on my mom. She has lost 000 to this crap nd I hope she will stop because she still believes this is legitimate even after all the research I have shown her. Oh he has not spoke to her on the phone but video chatted. He has asked she mail him a package. He has had 3 flat screen tvs shipped to her house. It is really weird.

    • @ Alana tell your Mom to call the police those flat screens were purchased with a stolen credit card and she sent money twice so this scammer will keep behhing she will NEVER meet him ask her is she that desperate also ask her has she ever seen him on webcam for 2 hours or more ask her why would she want to send money to someone she does not know she will now be instructed to send the flat screens to an address in Africa which is where this lying beggar lives he is laughing at her…………….

      Now he is supposed to be coming home next week and now the military wats to not pay for his flight and his bank accounts are blocked.

      This is a CROCK OF BULLSHIT the US Military takes care of its own he has no bank account and he is a Scammer he is an UGLY AFRICAN ask your mom what does she not understand about that tell her to DEMAND he get on cam right now! Anonn

  1097. I HAVE almost been caught out by a scammer using the name NOBILE HOOK, sgtnobilehook@yahoo.co.uk
    been chatting since early feb. says he’s in Kabul, a Corrections Officer…. he asked for £1500 sterling to visit me!

    He has pictures of an officer with Nobile on his uniform….

  1098. WARNING! NEW SCAMMERS ON FACEBOOK!

    I’m an active-duty U.S. Army Soldier. Photos of me have been used by scammers since 2006 when they were downloaded from the Webshots website. I didn’t realize the pics could be accessed by anyone in the world with an internet connection. In any case, I frequently search Facebook for people using my last name. The scammers are kind of stuck with that name since it’s on the name tags of my uniforms in the pictures. Today, I found these imposters on Facebook:

    HANNETT COLE
    HANNETTE COLE
    LUCIEN MCOYRAWLINGS HANNETT

    Each of them used a photo of me as his profile photo. I reported the imposters to Facebook and sent warning e-mails to each of their friends. Fortunately, they didn’t have many. Hopefully, FB will delete their accounts soon.

    Also on FB were CARL HANNETT and JAMES HANNETT. Neither of them had a profile picture, but each claimed to be in the US Army. I can tell you that neither of them is in the Army. There are VERY few Hannetts in the Army. The criminals read these posts, so I won’t say anything else about that. I wish I had time to prowl the dating websites for imposters, but I don’t. Be careful and DON’T SEND MONEY TO PEOPLE YOU DON’T KNOW!!!

  1099. I nearly was scammed by a Sgt. First Class Derek Handle, but he didn’t get that far because I started to get
    suspicious. The email address is derekhandle@yahoo.com He wanted to use Yahoo Messenger using
    that email address. I met him on OKCupid, a dating site, around March 11. As someone else said above, as soon as we started communicating, his profile disappeared.

    I checked the various originating ISP’s of various emails. Two were out of Ghana, one out of Sweden with a company that prevents the location from being seen. So I knew this smelled trouble.

    The picture of the man they are using for their scam is wearing a U.S. Army uniform and “Handle” is the name
    on it in two pictures. The rank is E6 or E7 – it’s not real clear. I have googled myself silly trying to find the real person to warn him but with no luck.

    Anyone else been contacted by him? And can anyone tell me who to contact to try to find the real person to warn him that his identify has been stolen? Thanks.

    Barbara

    • Hello Barbara,

      I checked the Army e-mail system (AKO). There is no DEREK HANDLE currently serving in the U.S. military (Active-duty, Reserve, Guard, civilian, or contractor). There were a few individuals listed with that last name, but none had DEREK as a first or middle name. Sounds like your scammer is using photos of a soldier that left the military. I have no way of finding contact info for someone who’s not in one of the American military services. Sorry. – Gordon

      • Hi Gordon: Thanks so much! I really appreciate it. Almost simultaneously, I found out the real identify of
        the soldier and have notified him. SInce he is a high ranking official and at the Pentagon, I’m not comfortable revealing his identity. I will wait until I hear back. Had to go through his FB public page since I can’t look up the name on AOK as I don’t have access anymore. If I don’t hear back, I would like to send him all the details of my research through AOK and may ask you to look him up there and for his email address as long as we can do it through the back channels of my private email address. Will that be possible if it gets to that point?
        Barbara

  1100. Well,,, I have been chatting to a man I met on a dating site called Be2. He goes by the name of SGT LAWRENCE K WALKER. I have gotten totally smitten with this man. He says all the right things at the right time. I have told him so much about my life,, my kids, my job and now I realise,, it was all a scam.
    I see his picture above.
    The alarm bell went off when started talking about getting leave and that I could make the request. At first I thought it was a scam for me to help him quit the forces. But then the reply came to my email,, stating that I could help with the request but I would need to send $2000 with the request to pay for the transfer fee’s.
    Thats when I googled, military dating scams and found his picture on this site.
    So ladies,,, if you get contacted by Larry Walker, beware.
    His email is night_owl_walker@yahoo.com
    The request for the $2000 came from secreataryofdefenses@asia-mail.com
    I have not sent any money,,
    I feel foolish that I was roped in by this guy,,, but glad that I followed my insticts.
    Michelle

    • helle this lying piece of shit wouldnt know how to spell nor would he or she know who the US sec of State was even if his lying behhing life depended on it………secreataryofdefenses@asia-mail.com WHAT A CROCK! Anonn

  1101. Anyone who got mail from a Henry Williams Jenkins. 44 year old. He claims to be a leader of the Army Patrol Team in Ba’Qubah, Iraq.
    He says he is retiring from the army to settle down. He says he has to girls.

    Duuda

    • @ Duuda according to what I have read there are NO US Troops in Iraq since December 2011 so this is a SCAMMER and that Name looks made up tell this scammer to get on cam for a 3 hour interactive chat or tell him to email you from his AKO and NEVER trust anyone you do not know and remember the US Military takes care of its own they will not need your help for anything.Anonn

    • @Duuda this is for you………Just to update this a little, all U.S. combat troops were removed from Iraq in December 2011. If you got some email from an “American in Iraq” then you got an email from an idiotic internet criminal who doesn’t keep up with the news.

      Also, In my post above, anywhere it says Iraq you can replace it with Afghanistan. Scammers (the ones who actually read the news) know that there are still American troops in Afghanistan. Some of them are updating their scam formats.

      If you get an email from “an American in Libya” it’s absolutely a scam. American military personnel are NOT in Libya.

  1102. Anyone who got mail from a Henry Williams Jenkins. 44 year old. He claims to be a leader of the Army Patrol Team in Ba’Qubah, Iraq.
    He says he is retiring from the army to settle down. He says he has to girls.

    Duuda

    P.S. I put a wrong emailadress the first time. I just made my profile yesterday.

  1103. Just to update this a little, all U.S. combat troops were removed from Iraq in December 2011. If you got some email from an “American in Iraq” then you got an email from an idiotic internet criminal who doesn’t keep up with the news.

    Also, In my post above, anywhere it says Iraq you can replace it with Afghanistan. Scammers (the ones who actually read the news) know that there are still American troops in Afghanistan. Some of them are updating their scam formats.

    If you get an email from “an American in Libya” it’s absolutely a scam. American military personnel are NOT in Libya.

  1104. Michael Miyagi is a scammer who I met on SinglesAroundMe.com who claims to be a 44 year old widower with an 8 year old son from Salt Lake City, UT depolyed to Kabul. I got out before he asked for any money. He sent me pictures and emails that said all the right things. I started to think it was a scam when I asked him about the weather there and he said it was a hot summer. I checked the weather online and it is 45 degrees. I then checked his IP address and he is in Nigera. I deleted him from Yahoo messenger contacts and deleted the email address I was using only for his emails. I have pictures but I don”t know how to post them on this site.

  1105. I live in the suburbs of Vienna, Austria. I got compliments for weeks and love letters from an impostor. He contacted me via Skype and abused the name of a highly decorated soldier. CSM Tyrone Johnson. He made a big mistake. I have read the real Bioraphie CSM on the Internet and because some did not fit. He has also been claimed to be stationed in Iraq. I promised him on his head that the U.S. Army is no longer in Iraq. He then told of a special operation in Iraq. After just eight weeks he talked about his alleged Atoptivsohn in Ghana. I was also called on the phone. I should be sending more than 1,600 €. Since I have not done, of course. Snake, stupid old woman, that was the least he has insulted me then.
    I have a mail address of the alleged adopted son
    akingsley13@yahoo.com and a mobile number: +233 243 908 286

    and 2 mail addresses from the wrong men:
    csmtyronej@yahoo.com
    cmajortyronejohnson@yahoo.com

    I hope I can other women against financial loss

  1106. Is Major Harrison Richard Peet a scam? He has been in contact with me. Thanks

    Tonya

    • @ Tonya that Name alone sounds like only one thing A SCAMMER anywho tell him to get on cam and chat with you for 2-4 hours or more also tell him to send you an email from his AKO it should end in .mil only and if it has anything beyond.mil or is a free email provider it is a scammer ALSO do NOT fall for this new one scammers are using which was a fake name and then behind his fake Name was gousarmy.mil that was NOT a valid email address that is a Scammer because the US Army does have a website using those same words DO NOT fall for this scammer and his fuckery I went to a site where I am a paid member and guess what that Name does NOT EXIST.Sounds like some Bullshit Name one of those Morons made up Anonn

    • @ Tonya I found NOT one Harrison Richard Peete ask this lying piece of shit where his home is and once AGAIN I will check it on the site where I am a paid member but then again no just block and delete him or demand he gets on cam and proves to you who he is any excuses he is a scammer and be aware that they will try to use prerecorded crap so make sure the chat is interactive no excuses and do NOT trust him when and if he shows himself only for a minute or two then says his cam is acting up these damn scammers are on some serious bullshit thats why it is best to beat them at their own game leave them with NOTHING just delete and block! when you do that they lose money and they have NO idea where they messed up at so DO NOT help them to become better beggars.Anonn

  1107. The false CSM Tyrone Johnson has used photos on Skype of the real CSM Tyrone Johnson, who he has apparently found on the Internet (Google).

  1108. Hi, does anyone knows James Burgess Stuart?
    He says he lives in Norfolk, Virginia.This is how he presented himself : “I’m a 1st Sargeant in the U.S Army,now i’m a retired man.My Mos(Military Occupation Speciality) is Engineering in which am a high flagged battalion and also in the Combat Unit.” He told me he was a widow and has a son of 13.So far he has not asked for money… he wanted to give me money and he did!!! Yesterday I received 10 American Express Travellers Cheques for the amount of 500 € each and guess what… they are all fake! I talked with him last night on Messenger, I confronted him with the problem of the checks and this was his answer : “Don’t worry, my banker has made misstake, just burn them. But don’t worry, I am coming to Brussels next week and I will give you the money in cash”. Ladies, look out, think seriously this man is a scam so watch out.

    • @ Daisy great job now block and delete this lying beggar and check your security settings on your computer but be aware he will now use your address as his own to try to scam others and if he knows your lehal Name he will use it with fake pics to try to scam Men and this line was a dead give away……am a high flagged battalion and also in the Combat Unit.Anonn

      • Hi,

        I continued my little inquiery about James Burgess Stuart.

        He is not living on the adress he gave me in Norfolk, Virginia. The owners never had heared of him, so I warned them that this man is using their address.

        With his email address, I could find his IP-address and that is located in the city of Wayne, Pennsylvania.

        These are the mails and other details my Mr Stuart uses :

        sgtsjames@hotmail.com
        sgtsjames@usa.com
        name of his “banker” : James Thomas Walker
        email address of the “banker” : fifconsultant@financier.com

        Because at first I believed he lived in Norfolk, I did notified the Norfolk police about this fraud. I also notified the Virginia State Police and last but not least… I filed a complaint at the IC3 Department of the F.B.I.

        Hope all this is enough to stop this fraud.

  1109. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceK0fPMJ2Ec steve jordan gets called out and claims to have served in vietnam

  1110. I am finally accepting that I was scammed. I have read all of these stories as well as everything on Romancescam.org’s site. and while mine has similarities, it has a lot of differences and I guess I just wanted to hold out hope that he was who he said he was…I actually have two names to report on. Once he had me hooked he started telling me about his buddy there with him, he wanted him to find his forever person, would I help set him up on zoosk, every time they get set up, because they are overseas, they get deleted. (Ha, I wish I knew then, what I know now. They get deleted because they get caught) I googled both of them and didn’t really find much out though.

    His name – James Bonenfant – email james.bonenfant@yahoo.com – he says he is a Sgt is the US Army. The pics show a man in an Army uniform with that name. His friend supposedly serving there with him is James McKay (funny they have the same first name and are the same age (wanna bet they are the same person???) His emails are james.mckay14@yahoo.com or james.mckay56@yahoo.com
    I found 4 profiles for James Bonenfant on Facebook (he never did friend me on there) two had pictures that I had. One was under the name SgtJames Bonenfant, and one is under Bill Bonenfant. All have been reported. And I have BLOCKED HIM. Changing my email address and cell phone number even though I never talked to him, he has the number.

    James McKay currently has a profile under zoosk, that I need to get reported under the screenname MCKAY. James Bonenfant has one under BBpeoplemeet under socalguy899 with pictures he never sent me. UGH…..

    Scroll to the bottom paragraph for all of the names & info and what I’ve done if you don’t want to hear all of the details. :)

    Well I have to accept that he is not who he said he was. It started back in November. We met on Zoosk. He told me he was a soldier in the US Army on deployment in Gaza. He had a son who was a freshman at San Diego State University where he lived. He was divorced. Talked about wanted to retire and have his own life and have someone to share it with. One of his favorite lines was I have so much love to give and share with you. Had invested in a jewelry business which is why he had no money…

    Very good about talking about movies, soccer favorites, languages he spoke… really felt like talking to a normal person. UGH

    I have pictures of both of these scammers, just need to know where to send them!

  1111. “I’m a 1st Sargeant in the U.S Army,now i’m a retired man.My Mos(Military Occupation Speciality) is Engineering

    This Scammer couldnt get his mind made up first he says he is Military and then says he is retired LOL thats really funny his Banker lol these lying beggars dont hold on to the money they steal long enough to bank it they try to buy the latest electronics and they buy the Women there Anonn

  1112. If You get an email like this DO NOT RESPOND NOT only is it a SCAMMER but they will know your email address is active and will sell it to other scammers and send you garbage like this day in and out…..Anonn

    Hello,

    Permit me with the manner with which I am seeking your assistance. I want to trust you with this classified and confidential information.

    Before I continue, let me introduce myself to you, I am Capt.Nicholas Hamilton, the commander of the Special N.A.T.O coalition force with the United Nation troops in Afghanistan, on war against terrorism. I have now in my possession the sum of Fifteen million US Dollars($15million) which I recovered from one of our raids on terrorists’ camp here in Afghanistan.

    This box of money have been deposited with the red cross society here in Kabul as a diplomatic luggage for safe keep and to make contacts for its proper use. As the team leader, it is under my power to approve whoever comes forth for this money.

    So I need someone I can deal with on trust and that is why I contacted you. so If you accept, I will put you forward as the beneficiary/owner of the funds and then move the money to you. As a military personnel, I cannot parade such an amount or carry it to my country so I need to present someone as the beneficiary. I just need your acceptance and all is done. I have a 100% authentic means of transferring the money through a diplomatic courier service to you where arrangements will be made to proceed to your country.

    Once I confirm your interest to my proposal, and your positive reply, I will proceed to register your name as the beneficiary. This money is my life and I am willing to give you 40% of the total sum when the money is delivered to you. I wait your response so we can proceed immediately. In less than 5days the money should be in your safe custody.

    The only telephone access we have is radio message which is for our general use and is being monitored. Therefore all communication will be via email until we finish our assignment here and fly straight to your country to meet you. Thank God for President Barrack Obama whose keen interest is to call us back home soon.

    Regards,

    Capt.Nicholas Hamilton

  1113. I was just almost scammed by Jake Grant who claimed to be a sergeant in the Army. met him on Match.com….the second I paid for a 3 month membership, I got an instant message from him. of course an adorable picture of a soldier. Instand Messaging on Match.com did not seem to work very well so he asked me to talk to him on yahoo. I didnt have an account so I set up one so we could “chat”…..well right off the bat he smothered me with sweetness that my teeth ached!! I knew right away as American guys do not talk like he did. We talked hours for the next 3 days. finally on the 3rd day I got the usual scam….”this weekend is my birthday, could you send me some things” and it was list exactly like every other scammers uses…..white tank tops (wifebeaters, this made him chuckle), cookies and candy, a white towel, facial wash and Nivea body cream. Oh he wanted to learn romantic (he used this word sooo many times) songs so he could sing to me when he got home so could I sent him an ipod with my favorite songs on it!! His story was also that his wife had died, he had twin boys who lived with their Aunt in Holland, He grew up in Germany and was half American and Half Latino (yet his pics were not latino at all!!) and that he came home to America and then joined the Army. he said he was stationed in Syria but I sent the package to Ghans…ummm those two places are not even on the same continent!!! I also had to email his “friend” who would be delivering his package, a Mr. Leonard, which I didn at that is when I got the Ghana address!!! he did a good job of blowing up my ego….PLEASE LADIES BEWARE!! Thank God i never even gave him my regular email address. he tried to get my house address. Also I could tell something was up as the typing and grammar were awful!! And I feel so sad for the guy whose photos he stole!! this poor young man (who of course was gorgeous!) was being used!! At least he was consistent and used the photos that had the same guy in them. Oh also, he wanted to open up a jewelry store when he got home to me!! that is another lie!! I knew the money request would be coming shortly!! I feel for all of you that actually sent money. But I too, an a lonely divorcee so he sucked me in good time!!

    • Hi Jill, You know that guy sounds alot like the one I met on match.com. As soon as I registered he IM’d me saying I was perfect and how much he loved everything about me. Then said the connection was bad and to IM him at a yahoo address. Well I set up a second account like you. His pictures where of a very hot guy never quite in uniform. Said he was Sgt. in the army deployed in Afghanistan. We IM’d for almost two weeks and he always tell me he loved me but never really answering my questions about him. He got mad and I haven’t heard from him since I told him I would not send him a new laptop. That was about the same time you met your guy. Just two days ago another guy, who was good looking too, contacted me under a different profile but I think it was the same person. I really would love to compare pictures with you. If your still on match.com look up OCPILOT he is one of them. You can email me from that site to I am OCRVT maybe we can swap pictures from there. Leave a message here as to what you want to do or maybe we can ask Anonn how we can share these pictures.

  1114. Add Frank Dawson to this list. He sure fits the profile. His pics are not here, but I am sure he is a scammer. He supposedly sent me some “Box” with his future in it. Said it was money given to him by this Afghanistan governor. If I do get a box, I will refuse it. I was smitten with this guy, and he seemed so real. He even gave me his cell number, and we would talk on the phone. All of a sudden he disappeared when I got suspiciuous after giving me the “You don’t trust me” song and dance. Well I am upset, but relieved it was’nt worse.

  1115. Lol, I just looked up the shipping company, they don’t exist!!!

  1116. Military scams Scammers pretending to be military

    If you have read about how to identify a scam email (which is here) then in addition to things like bad grammar, poor spelling, even poorer punctuation, the use of free email servers, etc. these are some other things that make a “military” scam format completely bogus.

    What’s the scam?
    The military scam format is a form of the so-called “Advanced fee fraud”. You would keep paying money for a bunch of fake documents and so on that will cost you money but you will never get that money. The soldier will say the money has been transfered, fees are needed for transportation, safekeeping in a warehouse, customs releases etc.

    1. I am am American solider.
    No they are not. They are never American soldiers. Real American soldiers do not behave this way.

    2. I am in Iraq.
    No they aren’t. You’re dealing with a scammer criminal and Iraq is probably the last place he is located. He is more likely to be close to if not exactly in Nigeria. They almost always are.

    3. I found some money in Iraq.
    Cool. Even if they did, you can’t keep this kind of thing secret in the military. Everyone will know and everyone will talk. You cannot hide money.

    4. This is completely legal.
    So is being arrested and imprisoned at Ft. Leavenworth, Kansas, which is the main U.S. military prison. Every single member of the military knows that if they tried something like moving stolen money around like this they would end up here, for many, many years. This is explained to them on day 1 in the military.

    5. “…I am in the Engineering Unit of US Military here in [name of place]….
    No they aren’t. The unit they mention may or may not be currently deployed in Iraq. In any case you got an email from a scammer.

    6. “I am an American soldier in Iraq/Afghanistan”…but my email was sent to you from Nigeria.
    Yeah, so what’s the deal with that? Scam mail? Yes, delete it and forget it.

    7. “I have in my possession the sum of USD 11.5 million, which I got from crude oil deals in Iraq”.
    American military personnel are NOT allowed to trade in any commodities while they are in uniform and in service in another country. It’s illegal. Likewise, probably every other military service in the world, at least the better run operations, are not permitted to trade in commodities while in uniform. You have an email from a scammer/criminal so just delete it.
    __________________

  1117. I am afraid I am being scammed. Has any one heard of a Sgt. Thomas Brown? I met him on match.com. 2 weeks ago. He sent pictures and sayes he is army reserve technical mechanic – home base March Air Base California. Currently deployed in Kandahar Afganistan. Wants me to send him a care package and a new laptop since he dropped his last week and now borrowing a friends to communicate with me. Told me to contact an email address to get info on how to send that email address is: us.carrier78 @ hotmail.com. Didnt trust it so I googled and got this site. I dont know how to verify if he is real or not. He said his commander gave him this address. Can anyone help me?

    • @ Laura did you read the above post BEFORE yours BEFORE you asked that question the answer to your question is YES he is a FRAUD have you seen him on cam and had a chat with him for 3 or more hours REAL US Military Members have access to their accounts (money at all times so why does he need you to send him ANY expensive electronics (laptop) you know why because he is a SCAMMER an AFRICAN trying to steal your money if he were real he could just buy his own laptop REAL US MILITARY members will not find a total stranger on ANY social site tell them they are Military tell them they love them and beg for their help but A SCAMMER will in fact African Scammers beg like this DAY and NIGHT they consider it a JOB.

      This email address…..lead you here also REAL US Military email addresses end in .Mil ANYTHING beyond .Mil is a SCAM and a Scammer tell this lying piece of shit to get a REAL JOB and stop lying about being what he wish he could be which is a REAL US Military Member Anonn

      • Anonn thank you for your reply. I did read all the post on this site and that is what made me stop and ask. I did confront him later. He asked for the site I got my info from and said he could not find it. He told me he would prove that he was not a scammer by telling me to forget about sending him anything. I told him to prove it by sending me another picture of him in his uniform with a sign saying my name and date. Also I asked for his rank, full name and his military email address. He hung up and has not been online since. I do have a few pictures of who ever this poor solider is and I really wish there was some way I could contact him to let him know his photo is being used in this way. The fake man is using the email thomas_b2259@yahoo.com. I was every careful not to give any personal info and feel very pissed off that these scammers are out there. Something really needs to be done to protect our soliders from being used this way.

        • @ Laura GREAT Job but be prepared he will try you again under a different Name or he will come back to you with the whole But I Love You and why dont you trust him Oh and trust me he knows about this blog they troll it Very Often and he got pissed off and hung up because he knew that meant no new laptop or money for him when they ask for anything such as a phone and laptop or any electronics =Scammer.Anonn

  1118. Nigerian scammers are now attacking Facebook. I wrote to the U.S. Marine Richard Breen (presumably, Brian). I am not well know English, I talked to him through an interpreter. Of course from the beginning was told tearjerker about an unfaithful wife and thrown her daughter five years. And that he was a military man, and dwells with the mission in Iraq. Then for some reason he was in Nigeria. Tales of 1001 Nights. My son is a military officer. I myself worked in the past by the police.
    Many nuances told them aroused my suspicions. After he told me that he decided to leave the camp without permission, that would be faster to meet with me. And that he was caught, and now I have to buy a military telephone Visicom that would talk to his commander, for what would have let him go, I’m completely convinced and decided to track it.
    I checked his messages, which I received on my email to ip. Here’s the result, of course, they were from Nigeria, from some of Fred Young, living in Lagos, on the street Saka Tinubu 33. Having e-mail address: fred.young @ cybaaspace.net. Telephone: +2347025551211, fax: 23412624287.
    inetnum: 41.138.172.0 – 41.138.172.255
    netname: VISAFONE-LAGOS-PDSN3-2
    descr: Visafone Communications Limited,
    descr: 12, Ologun Agbaje Street,
    descr: Victoria Island,
    descr: Lagos
    country: NG
    admin-c: FY2-AFRINIC
    tech-c: FY2-AFRINIC
    status: ASSIGNED PA
    mnt-by: VISAFONE-MNT
    remarks: Managed by Network Solutions Provider [VISAFONE]
    source: AFRINIC # Filtered
    parent: 41.138.160.0 – 41.138.191.255

    person: Fred Young
    nic-hdl: FY2-AFRINIC
    address: 33 Saka Tinubu Street
    address: Victoria Island
    address: Lagos Nigeria
    address: Lagos
    address: Nigeria
    e-mail: fred.young@cybaaspace.net
    e-mail: spamalert@visafone.com.ng
    phone: +2347025551211
    fax-no: +23412624287
    source: AFRINIC # Filtered

    I think the soldiers, photos of which use these freaks even do not know it. I have much to you, please, could you help me find the real Richard Breen (Brian).
    Here is a link to Facebook, there are the photos: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100003610999222

    In advance thank you

    Natalia Wilhelm

  1119. Any ladies interested, I’m looking for someone in their 20s or low 30s willing to talk about their experiences being scammed by one of these guys for a major magazine article. The demographic is ladies between 20-35. If you’re willing to share your story, please send me an email or reply to this comment using your email address and I’ll contact you.

    • Hi CJ, I know I dont meet your critiria for your articile, since I am 45 but I would love to send you pictures of the men whos photos are currently being used on match.com to prey on women like myself. They are stating that they are currently soliders in afghanistan. They are using more than one profile but the one who tried to scam me, made a mistake by sending me multiple pictures he is using to create these profiles. I have reported him to match.com but I dont think they really care. Let me know if you want the pictures.

  1120. I recieved a request from a Joey Edward I added him and his profile is one that he used under Derrick Wilson he sent to me two photos and yes scammer he is currently on facebook under Joey Edward and he claims that he is Sgt in Afric on peace keping

  1121. I’m currently chatting with a “soldier”, Staff Sergeant Richmond Graham, stationed in a remote camp in Afhganistan and he wanted me to send him a package for his “birthday” to a “diplomat” in Ghana lol. I asked him how stupid he thought I was? I would like to send you his photos that he has sent to me and forward the email from the “diplomat” if you will send me your email address.

    Thank you so much for this site. I wish more women were proactive in being cautious.

  1122. Thanks to this site I am being alittle more careful. i am still on match.com but this page made me curious, so I have been searching alot of profiles. No suprise I found the same guy who went under the name “Thomas Brown” on the site with a different profile, but he used a picture he had sent me. The idiot sent me a few pictures of the person he is impersonating and he is useing them on this dating site. I wish I knew how I could post these pictures of him. I really want him to stop using them. I really want to help women like myself avoid predators like him, so can someone please tell me how to get these pictures he is using on this site?

  1123. HI, I reccently joined a dating site and got hit by quite a few of theses scammers. I do feel for the poor military guys whose pictures are being used here. I would like to put up a couple of names being used. They are SSG E5 John McKinney of Dallas, Texas and pfc. demwa demagrpetto. This is the information that these guys gave me. I have no idea if it is correct.

  1124. I received a message from one guy who was very specific in his details. Only problem was that I googled it and the scum had used the details of a US soldier killed in 2010. The name he was using was Michael Flores.
    The website is a list of soldiers’ names who have been killed, captured or missing in action. The hyperlink is http://www.pownetwork.org/kia_kia_bnr_2010_jan_june.htm.

  1125. Hey everyone FYI. I used Google Images to upload a picture that (aka: thomas_b2259@yahoo.com, Army SSgt. Thomas Brown, match.com profile names “Friendlyarmyman6 & Lovinggod4928″) used and GUESS WHAT!!! The pictures are for a former US Marine SSgt. Eric Kocher. The pictures are from the HBO miniseries “Generation Kill”. So if you want to know what pictures are being used google this Marines name that way you will be able to remember this scammer when he uses these picture in the future. Ladies you can upload profile pictures to your computers and check them on Google image search, at least I could from Match.com. Did it also for the last scammer (match.com profile AKA OCPILOT64, monckebergcares, Army Green Beret SSgt. Patrick Monckeberg) he had multiple profiles on facebook and overseas dating sites. SEE THIS SCAMMER JERKS!!!! U.S. women are very SMART and we catch on quick!!! STOP using us and OUR SOLIDERS!!!!!!!!!!!

  1126. If anyone reads a profile as per the one I have copied below, it’s a scammer. If you google even part of the profile, you will find it on multiple websites – sometimes multiple profiles on the 1 website (hehe, I sent two a message saying they should check out each other’s profiles!) – and it’s used for male and females profiles with different names and photos!! I have copied the profile as in my google search, one of the websites has a photo of what appears to be a high ranking officer by the name of George Goodrich.

    The profile is:
    I’m one kind with simple and honest life. I really appreciate warmth and genuine caring, love and peace. I enjoy rhapsodic melodies that flow with harmony and send waves of pleasure through my mind. I adore infectious laughter, it brightens my world and invigorates my soul. I passionately appreciate uninhibited writing that explores emotions and stimulates my thoughts. I have the heart to express true love and trust. My wish is to have a good and pleasant long term relationship. The most important thing is faithfulness and respect. Nice time with friends as well as time alone for balance and reflection, finding new experiences, and still searching for the one to share with. I am a very kind and loving person who is looking for someone who is willing to let me be myself and loves me for who I am. I have much to offer someone who is willing to take a leap of faith. I consider myself loyal and honest and am looking for someone who shares those values. I enjoy seeing new things and experiencing life. I also enjoy just relaxing with someone special.

  1127. Add collin.witt11@yahoo.com to the list. I have been chatting with him for 5 days. He wants me to send him a laptop with a webcam so we can video chat. He says that he has been divorced for 7 years and his son and mother were killed in an accident. He says that he owns a 5 br house in NJ and is wanting to sell it to relocate to VA when he gets out after 29 years in the Army. He says that His birthday is in 9 days and that he can’t get packages at his normal APO address because his ex-wife was sending him nasty packages. He gave me the name of a person who travels to Afghan and delivers packages to soldiers. He also sent me pictures of a soldier. He is already talking love and ready to move in with me. He almost had me, Until I got an e-mail from the person that delivers packages to the soldiers and it had an address of Guanna.

    He approached me on Match.com After he started messaging me on yahoo IM, I went to check his profile again and it was gone. When I asked him about it, He said that he spoke to one other female and liked me so much that he deleted his profile and that I am the only one he wants to talk to.

    If I could find Him I would definitely put a hurting on him. It really gives a disservice to those in the military.

    BEWARE!

  1128. I just realized today it was a scam, been online for a few weeks with David Woodgate Miller you can see the picture he is using by going to google put in the name and click on the my space account. I went on video chat to veiw him and he did not look like David Woodgate Miller at all…I let this idiot know that it is posted evrywhere about their scam…..I never got asked to give money but I’m sure it would have lead to that. He claimed to have a daughter in Ghana with his friend Steve. And mentioned that he needed to get her back to the
    states ….Claimed to be in the Army same thing that is written on top of this page word for word. So, I did email this person and let them know.I wrote US Soliders and US women are to smart for your scams.

  1129. i got scammed too ladies it did not cost me anythingjust my pride
    keith engle sgt 1st class sniper stationed out of fort irwin, california
    at herat, afghanistan
    42 born 24 dec single never married no kids
    keith.engle@yahoo.com

  1130. Hey everyone- I joined scamwarners.com and under “romance scams” you are able to post email address, IP address, pictures etc…. these post then are searchable on the web and will help anyone else looking to see if they are being scammed. Also it is a very active forum with photos and known emails of scammers. I have already had someone post who was contacted by the same scammer who tried to get stuff from me (email: thomas_b2259@yahoo.com). The moderator was even able to find and post his yahoo avitar picture which I was not able to copy and post. So check it out, they may be able to help you and it is free to join.

  1131. Be careful of someone posing as either Rick Burke (on facebook) or Michael Villa (also on fb)…both of these men I assume are real US soldiers or at least the last names are real. A Nigerian man is posing as them to gain the confidence of women. He claims that he has lost his wife to cancer, both parents are dead and has a daughter Marilyn (which he may change the name of). “Rick” also has a hotmail account…rickysworld2love@hotmail.com. He is a smooth talker claiming to be in Kabul…and very convincing. Be cautious as he uses a good looking soldier’s pics and passes them off as himself. he has a whole album of photos too…from the academy, in uniform, the field, etc…I wish I could tell this guy Burke about it, but can’t find out who he really is…if you know a US soldier with that last name, let him know. I blocked and reported the FB Rick Burke, so I believe it has been removed but he may go to another social network site.

  1132. I am just starting to talk to a person named sgt david richardson, he says he is in afghanista, had a son and daughter in california. Was there any person by that name in the US military?

  1133. I need to know some information on a Jeffery Salmo..I know he is a scam …He called me angle lol and asked me could I get him a transit and wants to marry me..lol I need to know if anyone has heard of him. Thank you so much

  1134. Hiya I am currently in contact with someone who is trying to scam me he is calling himself Sgt Mark Seymour David. Thought I would let you know because I have read all of the posts on here and so far his name has not came up.
    sgtseymour@yahoo.com This is the address which he gave me to email him from. Would like to thank the genuine soldiers who have posted on here and made it really sink in that I was being scammed
    At least now I am aware of everything so will not fall for it again.

  1135. Oh boy these guys never give up do they I am now getting messages on my facebook from someone who was listed on these posts calling himself Kevin Witt. He is trying to back up the person that I listed above and telling me that it is not a scam and that if i think it is a scam not to send the 2000USD that he asked me to send by Western Union for his leave. Why is it that even though Ive told him that I know its a scam he still keeps on harrassing me? Wish I could chop their damn balls off !

  1136. hi guys guess what this person name william anderson email colandreson01@yahoo.com now trying to use this email brown.col01@yahoo.cole so watch out everyone

  1137. Sent from the Military PC,32nd Infantry 4th Division,Camp Phoenix Afghanistan

    ——————————————————————————–

    Aaron Guevara:
    i really want to be with you real soon babe..]

    babe you will have to request for my leave or transfer babe,…as my fiance babe…and you will make them know you are ready to make the payment for the request since its refundable babe..

    Me:
    what payment? I have no money…I work in ministry…good grief

    Aaron Guevara:
    its just a token babe and it will be refunded back to you babe..

    Me:
    how much would this token be…

    and why would one have to pay to get out of the army

    Aaron Guevara:
    i am not really sure babe…since yu are requesting for me as planned babe..you have to but will be refunded babe….thats the only means that can get me out of here babe..

    its just like 950 to 1000 $ babe,….but i am not sure babe..

    and thats the only means that can get me out of here .

    Me:
    you gotta be kidding!!

    Aaron Guevara:
    one of my friends just left and has gone to his online soulmate too in norway babe..

    what do you mean by i got to be kidding..

    Me:
    well good for him…she’s probably rich…well this soulmate is not rich and this is really getting to be complicated….y ou gotta be kidding that I would have that kind of money…maybe you should find someone rich like you’re because this is getting to be too much for me….I don’t know about you babes…but I’m not too happy about this…why would you have to pay to get out

    Aaron Guevara:
    its ok so you believe i will leave you and go for a rich woman.?

    that means you dont believe i love you and i am quiet sure you dont love me for you to say that./

    Me:
    that’s not so…I would help you but you are beginning to sound like a scam…and I am not a romantic idiot like some women…I do care but it’s you I’m worried about…maybe we should forget about this whole thing..because i can’t put up with anymore of this

    Aaron Guevara:
    oh so you believe i am a scam?

    Me:
    I do care for you and I would have liked to have known you but I…well how would you feel when someone you hardly know starts talking about putting money down…i said I would write and help you but no money…that’s crazy…I never asked you to marry…that was you

    Aaron Guevara:
    oh ok….

    Me:
    how should I know it’s a scam…I hardly know you…that’s where getting to know each other in person comes in

    Aaron Guevara:
    i never knew you were not fready to marry and i made you know all my feelings for you..

    you really make me feel bad babe..

    i never believe you could have this kinda thought to me..

    its so hurting.

    Me:
    oh pete’s sakes…you hardly know me babes…even though I do care…yeah, well, how do you think I feel

    Aaron Guevara:
    its ok then …

    i am the saddest person on heart today because the only person i love and i think could show love to me never loved me the way i love her and believed i a,

    i am a scam.

    thats so sad and so hurting.

    Me:
    well, it makes me sad too…but i think this has gone far enough…keep safe love and bye

    Aaron Guevara:
    so you want to leave my now..>?

    do you think i can ever forget you or leave ypou..

    ?

    i am more in love with you with my whole heart and cant do witout you babe..

    Me:
    no, I don’t want to leave…I care for but I don’t put up with shit…I love you a lot and it hurts to say goodbye

    Aaron Guevara:
    oh so you think its shit coming to you..

    ok ..

    i dont want to come anymore..

    i wil be here under the war and if i am dead i will know i have someone that loves me and cared about me.

    Me:
    oh…Aaron…I love you very much and I will miss you so much. But I can’t keep going like this anymore. So I have to let you go.

    Aaron Guevara:
    its ok ..

    thanks..

    but very soon you will believe i love you so much babe..

    Me:
    yes..Love you lots though and I will miss you a lot…take care my love…I will always remember you…but this is goodbye

  1138. Sent from the Military PC,32nd Infantry 4th Division,Camp Phoenix Afghanistan

    ——————————————————————————–

    Aaron Guevara:
    i really want to be with you real soon babe..]

    babe you will have to request for my leave or transfer babe,…as my fiance babe…and you will make them know you are ready to make the payment for the request since its refundable babe..

    Me:
    what payment? I have no money…I work in ministry…good grief

    Aaron Guevara:
    its just a token babe and it will be refunded back to you babe..

    Me:
    how much would this token be…

    and why would one have to pay to get out of the army

    Aaron Guevara:
    i am not really sure babe…since yu are requesting for me as planned babe..you have to but will be refunded babe….thats the only means that can get me out of here babe..

    its just like 950 to 1000 $ babe,….but i am not sure babe..

    and thats the only means that can get me out of here .

    Me:
    you gotta be kidding!!

    Aaron Guevara:
    one of my friends just left and has gone to his online soulmate too in norway babe..

    what do you mean by i got to be kidding..

    Me:
    well good for him…she’s probably rich…well this soulmate is not rich and this is really getting to be complicated….y ou gotta be kidding that I would have that kind of money…maybe you should find someone rich like you’re because this is getting to be too much for me….I don’t know about you babes…but I’m not too happy about this…why would you have to pay to get out

    Aaron Guevara:
    its ok so you believe i will leave you and go for a rich woman.?

    that means you dont believe i love you and i am quiet sure you dont love me for you to say that./

    Me:
    that’s not so…I would help you but you are beginning to sound like a scam…and I am not a romantic idiot like some women…I do care but it’s you I’m worried about…maybe we should forget about this whole thing..because i can’t put up with anymore of this

    Aaron Guevara:
    oh so you believe i am a scam?

    Me:
    I do care for you and I would have liked to have known you but I…well how would you feel when someone you hardly know starts talking about putting money down…i said I would write and help you but no money…that’s crazy…I never asked you to marry…that was you

    Aaron Guevara:
    oh ok….

    Me:
    how should I know it’s a scam…I hardly know you…that’s where getting to know each other in person comes in

    Aaron Guevara:
    i never knew you were not fready to marry and i made you know all my feelings for you..

    you really make me feel bad babe..

    i never believe you could have this kinda thought to me..

    its so hurting.

    Me:
    oh pete’s sakes…you hardly know me babes…even though I do care…yeah, well, how do you think I feel

    Aaron Guevara:
    its ok then …

    i am the saddest person on heart today because the only person i love and i think could show love to me never loved me the way i love her and believed i a,

    i am a scam.

    thats so sad and so hurting.

    Me:
    well, it makes me sad too…but i think this has gone far enough…keep safe love and bye

    Aaron Guevara:
    so you want to leave my now..>?

    do you think i can ever forget you or leave ypou..

    ?

    i am more in love with you with my whole heart and cant do witout you babe..

    Me:
    no, I don’t want to leave…I care for but I don’t put up with shit…I love you a lot and it hurts to say goodbye

    Aaron Guevara:
    oh so you think its shit coming to you..

    ok ..

    i dont want to come anymore..

    i wil be here under the war and if i am dead i will know i have someone that loves me and cared about me.

    Me:
    oh…Aaron…I love you very much and I will miss you so much. But I can’t keep going like this anymore. So I have to let you go.

    Aaron Guevara:
    its ok ..

    thanks..

    but very soon you will believe i love you so much babe..

    Me:
    yes..Love you lots though and I will miss you a lot…take care my love…I will always remember you…but this is goodbye

    • @ Diana GREAT JOB…..This was to damn funny I couldnt resist

      i am the saddest person on heart today because the only person i love and i think could show love to me never loved me the way i love her and believed i a,

      i am a scam.

      This lying begging piece of shit really meant to say hes really pissed that hes wasted so much time on you and yet he still couldnt get you to fall for his bullshit the only place he wants to get out of is that shithole where he lives LOL Anonn

  1139. I don’t believe that I was the only female he was communicating with. Boy talk about bull. He’s on “Are You Interested” dating site. I hope someone who is really vulnerable will not fall for this. I can’t believe I even talked to this guy. God Aaron, you’re such a jerk.

  1140. “Aaron Guevara”

  1141. I have lost count of the amount of hours that I have spent on this website trying to accept the fact that although I did not send any money I still feel scammed. I can understand why people fall for these lousy creeps, they send you pictures of someone (who is always good looking), then they start with all the romantic lies which suck you in. They spend months talking to you and hours each day sending messages, and all these messages make so many promises, are funny and romantic and make you feel like you found someone who really cares. Once they have hooked you in they then start asking for money. I dont think you actually fall in love with these lousy w…..s, its more being in love with a picture and being in love with love. This is the only website that I can find where you can see for yourself the destruction these people cause. Has soon as I found this website I knew that I was being scammed. Would really like to thank all of the people on here for all of the information so that if I ever (which I dont think I ever will) go on a dating site again I now know what to look out for. Thankyou for all of your hard work and for making me realise that I was being scammed.

    • @Carrianne, I totally understand what you mean, even though I didn’t get conned out of money, for a split second though I thought this might actually be real and this guy might actually really like me and that’s where I feel conned and feel stupid, I not a stupid person but these losers have made me feel that way but what upset me the most is their blatant disregard for this poor soldiers who are out there fighting for their country and whose identity they have stolen and they simply don’t care.

      I was suspect from the beginning but like you I thought that maybe the fantasy might actually come true but my gut feeling was always telling me something wasn’t right and it was spot on, and as soon as I was asked for money I googled and found this wonderful website, thank God!!

      Unfortunately Carrianne there are some nasty people out there and like you I will never go on a dating site again! Luckily you figured it out, I feel sorry for those women who actually did fall in love and where conned out of thousands of dollars.

      Cheers Ant from Sydney, Australia

  1142. I know what you mean about the way the talk and all of the bullshit here is part of a message from someone calling himself sgt mark seymour david:-
    YOU ARE NOTHING BUT ANOTHER LOUSY SCAMMER
    sgtseymour: what do you mean by all this babe
    sgtseymour: if thats what you want it mean you dont love me we have already sort all this things out
    sgtseymour: so why this again jst because you are the one that wanna apply for my leave
    sgtseymour:
    sgtseymour: hello my love
    sgtseymour: how was your night babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: lousy but what did i expect when i fell for a scammer
    sgtseymour:
    sgtseymour: hello my babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: y r u still speaking 2 me
    sgtseymour: babe i love you i am not a scammer babe believe me for once babe
    sgtseymour: to GOD WHO MADE ME
    sgtseymour: if i am a scammer i will have stop talking to you babe but cant just do without loving you
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: no u r a scammer only a scammer asks for money
    sgtseymour: oh babe i am not asking you for money babe it is just for my leave so i can get out of here babe
    sgtseymour: pls believe me
    sgtseymour: life is a risk babe lets risk this and i promise you i will never hurt you abbe
    sgtseymour: babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: go away u r a scammer a civilian cannot apply for leave from someone in the us army and the soldiers in the us army DO NOT have to pay for their leave
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: also the us army does not use western union and if you really are in the military send me your military email address
    sgtseymour: if you wanna join the military they will ask you if you wanna use it or not babe
    sgtseymour: i want you to believe me babe pls lets risk this and you will see that i am not a scammer babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: so what is your military email address and your AKO number
    sgtseymour: babe what do you wanna use all this for thats my life babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: yeah but if your not a scammer you would tell me to prove it
    sgtseymour: babe what if you dont believe me and you give it out to people
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i would not give it out to anyone i just want you to prove to me that you are not a scammer
    sgtseymour: ok babe so what do you wanna use it for
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i want your military email address so that i can write to it and prove that you are real
    sgtseymour: what about the number
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i can check the number out on a military website and check that it is real
    sgtseymour: babe am sorry i cant give them out cause when i gave you my id i saw you write it on your wall that you are going to give them police
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: surprise surprise they told me that this is what you would say goodbye BABE
    sgtseymour: oh why wont i say that babe
    sgtseymour: well if thats what you want no problem
    sgtseymour: bye
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: by the way if you were not a scammer you would not be concerned about me giving them to the police because you would have nothing to hide
    sgtseymour: nope thats not what i mean but i hate all those things all your friends on facebook calling me a scammer dont worry ok forget about all this but you will never have someone that will love you like i did
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: are you sure that you even know the true meaning of love ? what country do you actually come from because you are not american
    sgtseymour: babe i am from america
    sgtseymour: dont worry ok give me your address when i fish here i will come there and gonna show my self to ya
    sgtseymour: but there is nothing between us again then you will know when i was saying
    sgtseymour: thanks
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: why are you saying thanks to me it wasnt me asking you for money and it wasnt me who gave out a fictious email address to get your leave forms from the address on those forms do not even exist
    sgtseymour: dont you know this is afghan babe dont worry when i finish here i will come there and you will see me them i will go my way ok
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i am talking about the address in america on the top of the leave forms which i was supposed to have done it does not exist WA stands for washington state so you cannot have washington state with washington dc also the street address does not exist
    sgtseymour: you mean the address they said you should send the fees to babe i am not the commanders babe try and understand me babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i am trying to understand you and trying to understand whether you actually are capable of having any feelings whatsover were you born with a heart so cold that you could willing sit there and breaks somebodies heart that unwittingly fell in love with you do you care how much devestation you cause do you stop and think about anybodies feelings
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: do you know you have ripped my heart out but you dont care really do you
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: do you know what it actually feels like my heart hurts so bad have you ever felt like that
    sgtseymour: babe i did not hurt you
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: whats wrong cant think of anything to say to that
    sgtseymour: you are the one thinking like that and all this wont help us babe let try to work things out babe and i promise you that you will be happy at last babe
    sgtseymour: just try and understand babe lets rick it babe
    sgtseymour:
    sgtseymour:
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i know that i am the one thinking like this but that is because i dont believe you even care for me i think you are just a scammer after my money and i feel so hurt it is actually a physical pain i have not been able to eat or sleep for days now
    sgtseymour: babe dont think thats way babe
    sgtseymour: GOD see me that i am not here to scam you but to make you happy babe
    sgtseymour: i am really honest with you babe
    sgtseymour: pls trust me and believe me for once babe
    sgtseymour: life is a risk let risk it and you will see that i am not all you think i am babe
    sgtseymour: if i was i will have stop talking to you
    sgtseymour: babe i do care for you babe
    sgtseymour: pls believe me babe
    sgtseymour: i know when i get there you will even be sad that you did not believe me babe i do love you and care for you babe
    sgtseymour: i am real pls believe me
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: FOR GODS SAKE I FUCKING FELL IN LOVE WITH YOU and now im hurting so bad it is unreal i cant believe you are still bothering with me or do you get enjoyment out of ripping people apart breaking their hearts do you care
    sgtseymour: babe stop this babe
    sgtseymour: i am not hurting you babe
    sgtseymour: you are the one not believeing me babe
    sgtseymour: pls believe me and lets work this out babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: please dont do this to me hurting me so bad
    sgtseymour: pls babe dont get hurt babe
    sgtseymour: i did not hurt you
    sgtseymour: you are the one thinking that way babe
    sgtseymour: if you cant believe me dont worry ok
    sgtseymour: forget about all this ok but i will say it once again that you are the one that did not believe me
    sgtseymour: i do love you babe
    sgtseymour: pls dont think i hurt you babe i did not hurt you
    sgtseymour: even if you dont want me anymore pls dont think i hurt you ok
    sgtseymour: i did not
    carriannebeard@ymail.com i know you dont i dont mean anything to you apart from more money coming in do i are you sat there in your internet cafe working in groups are you sat there having a laugh i hurt so bad its unreal i wish that you actually cared whoever you are but whoever you are is the way you will stay because i know that you have got no intention of ever meeting me please i am leave me alone
    sgtseymour: babe stop all this shit i did not want to scam you i hate the way you are talking babe how much it 2000usd that is making you talk to me like this i do care for you and love you but all you think is i am after your money well no problem ok but you will never get someone that will love you like i did cause you are my joy and GOD sees me that i really wanna come there babe lets risk it babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i am not sending any money to anywhere
    sgtseymour: babe do you know what all this will not help us you are saying you love me and care for me babe so lets risk it and make it real babe so we can show people that i am real babe think about this babe i love you and i mean it babe pls believe me
    sgtseymour: babe dont worry i know you really love me and i love you also babe lets make this happen for us and i promise you we will be happy forever babe
    sgtseymour: life is a risk i understand how you feel now babe but pls believe me
    sgtseymour: yeah babe i really love you babe lets make this happen babe
    sgtseymour: forget about all you have read on the site ok all i want you is to believe me ok once you have believe me them we can work things out babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: how can i believe you i know now that the us military do not have to pay for their leave
    sgtseymour: babe i do love you babe if i was in USA i dont need to pay anymore babe but the money i am to pay now is for my flight cause i am coming to anothier country babe try and believe me and lets work things out and be happy forever
    sgtseymour: i really wanna be with you babe and make you happy but you dont want me to
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: oh that is the very problem here i do want you but i know all about all of the different scams which are going on
    sgtseymour: yeah babe i know there is scams arround babe but dont look on that side babe lets make this happen babe i do love you and i am real babe i really wanna show you i am real babe you are the best ever babe lets try and work this out babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i thought that i had fell in for with a genuine, caring, sincere and honest person which is what i am but you just dont care
    sgtseymour: babe believe me babe i mean all i told you and care for you babe but if you cant believe me anymore i understand ok kisses babe
    sgtseymour: i am also really hurt here babe it is better not to love again in my life cause i have lose my joy babe
    sgtseymour: thanks for not believeing me
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: why dont you just go away and leave me alone
    sgtseymour: babe stop all this babe and lets work things out
    sgtseymour: i hate it when you talk like this ok
    sgtseymour:
    sgtseymour: are you back
    sgtseymour: babe do you know all what is killing you
    sgtseymour: all the things you do put on your facebook wall
    sgtseymour: cant you keep things to your self and lets work things out
    sgtseymour: you will put it in your facebook and people will be giveing you stupid advises all that will not help ok
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: you dont even know the meaning of love you lousy scammer
    sgtseymour: yeah babe i do love you babe pls believe me i wish i can hold you also babe you are the one stoping all this from working out babe
    sgtseymour: yeah babe i really wanna be with you also my babe pls lets work this out babe i really wanna make you happy but you dont want me to
    sgtseymour: babe i do love you and i want to care for you more when i get there my babe
    sgtseymour: you are my jot and my life babe without you i will never been happy my babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i wish that you could feel how i am feeling now
    sgtseymour: babe i do love you and care for you ok pls babe try and pay the fees so i can get my ass there and make you happy babe i dont wanna see you sad but i know you are sad there now babe get me home and let me make you happy again babe
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: why the hell am i still talking to you
    sgtseymour: babe thats the problem you dont trust me anymore and all that cant help babe you wanna be with me and i wanna be with you also so how can we work this out of we dont pay the fees
    carriannebeard@ymail.com: i know that you do not have to pay for fees for anything in the army whoever you are and wherever you are you made me care again and i swore id never care for a man again and now that i have looked whats happened really cant take this its killing me ive got to go i cant stop caring or crying and my teenager wants to know why im crying so badly when he sees me but cant write anymore too many tears bye
    sgtseymour:
    sgtseymour: hello my joy
    sgtseymour: how was your night
    sgtseymour: and the kids
    sgtseymour:
    sgtseymour:
    sgtseymour: hello my babe
    sgtseymour: how was your night
    sgtseymour:
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    • @Carrianne! OMG they must have a script set up that they use, a lot of what was said in your conversation is almost the same as mine when I confronted him and called him a scammer!!

      • So very thankful that I found this site before I sent any money, because without a site like this I would never of had a clue and would have sent him the money. Got to admit I did speak to him once after I realised he was nothing but a lowlife animal but I wanted to confront him and watch him worm. Thanks to this site I was aware of what type of things to ask him for. I have not only stopped all contact with this person I have deleted, reported him and removed him from every site I can find. I feel so very stupid even though I am not, I passed a Forensic Science course and one of the modules was internet crime and as part of this we had to learn all about hacking, viruses and yes you guessed it scams! God my tutor would be so ashamed of me. It absolutely p.ss.s the f..k out of me what these lousy scumbags are doing to honest soldiers, my nephew is in the army and is due to be sent to Afghanistan soon. These soldiers deserve the highest respect for what they do. I only wish that there was some way these innocent soldiers could be made aware of this.

        • @Carrianne, don’t worry I’ve got a couple of degrees (Medical), I don’t want to say too much, I like to think I’m a smart woman but hey love is blind ….

          They’re just a bunch of filthy pigs!! But God will punish them for what they are doing and they will burn in hell for using the identity of innocent soldiers and for breaking womens hearts and bank accounts!

          Hope they all rot in hell, that’s what they deserve!

    • @ Carrianne good ob this pile of shit is NOT American and definitely NOT Military he is a beggar just like you told him…GOD see me that i am not here to scam you but to make you happy babe….God sees that he will burn in hell for all of the lies and scamming and stealing hes doing GREAT JOB Anonn

  1143. Miller and Haggard (or whomever he is) is now going by Scott Haggard Miller. He is claiming to be a staff sergeant in the army. Said he has a son who is having a birthday and wanted a laptop sent. Gave an address in Miami, FL this time, but wanted the computer sent to Ghana. Says he is a widower and is in Afghanistan. Says he is 51. Claims to be out of the service in July and will relocate to where my mother lives. He is actually in Ghana. Complete scammer using Military and other photos. Wish that something could be done about this. He has been at it for YEARS. Claims to be God-fearing. Starts saying I love you after about a week. Claiming to be a widower of 5 years and had a girlfriend that broke his heart since then. Has profiles on Match, SeniorCouplesMeet, and many other websites. SICK!

    Link to YouTube of him…. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hPOvrspWl5Y

    Always the same room… look for the airplane hanging and the jars in the background.

  1144. Also got to admit that I live in England so until I went on this site I had no clue what WA stood for after washinton DC. I think this site is brilliant.

    • @ Carrianne, I’m from Australia, so your not the only one fooled and not familiar with American States.

  1145. I found out from reading the articles here that the army doesn’t have a 32nd infantry division. I hope that Arron Guevara is able to get this information. He deserves to know that this guy is scamming him too. I’m glad that I was checking up on him. He can’t spell. I work in administration and I can spell. If he does office work then he should be able to spell. This Aaron Guevara sure is one nice looking guy. Too bad, so sad. But I’m glad that I’m not a gullible romantic. The Lord has protected me. I work in Ministry. One of my friends said I should try it out. First shot, I get this guy. I’ve never been on a dating site. So this is new to me. I pray that another lady didn’t get hurt; and have this idiot rip her heart out. I got a cold chill to find out that the army doesn’t have 32nd infantry division. I was talking with a scammer. Oh Lord. I can’t believe that someone can be so heartless. He sent me pictures of Aaron Guevara; and he has a little girl. I would like to report him. I want the real Aaron Guevara is be cleared of what this guy is doing to women with his scams.

    From: This sender is DomainKeys verified”aaronguevara723@yahoo.com” Add sender to ContactsTo: “Diana Yes honey I mean it and not that I want to be out of here all I want is to make you happy for the rest of my life and once I get home there into your arms I can buy us a new apt or House to stay in that will be enough for us please I am not taking for granted I want to love and beloved by you
    Sent from the Military PC,32nd Infantry 4th Division,Camp Phoenix Afghanistan

    Flag this messageFw: More pictures of me!!!!Thursday, April 5, 2012 9:27 PMFrom: This sender is DomainKeys verified”Diana Wescoupe” View contact detailsTo: “Diana Wescoupe” Message contains attachments5 Files (131KB) | Download AllGruvera49.jpgGruvera8.jpgGruvera31.jpgGruvera53.jpgguevara24.jpg

    — On Mon, 4/2/12, Aaron Guevara wrote:

    From: Aaron Guevara
    Subject: More pictures of me!!!!
    To: “aaronguevara723@yahoo.com”
    Received: Monday, April 2, 2012, 10:02 PM

    Good Day wish i could read more of you….Hope you like it ..send me more pictures of you…hope to read from you real soon

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  1146. My name is Diana Wescoupe and I live in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. My email address is djwescoup@yahoo.ca. I emailed him back and told him that he was a scammer. I told him that he was a heartless bastard that was hurting people. You scammed me and you scammed Aaron Guevara. I pray the Lord will pay you back for hurting people with your scams. I pray for all the people that was hurt by this jerk. I also went back to that dating site and reported him. Email me if you have any questions.

  1147. I can’t believe this guy contacted me again. What a witless moron.

    Aaron Guevara is Available
    Aaron Guevara: Hello I am here now care to chat ..how are you feeling now

    Me: who are you talking to?
    Aaron Guevara: hey

    wha do you mean ..you are not talking me i am here

    ok

    Me: so who am I?
    Aaron Guevara: Diana

    Me: didn’t you get my email.

    Aaron Guevara: today ??
    hey you called me a scammer or was that in the email ?
    Are you sick

    Me: yes…..I said there is no32nd Infantry division in the army. I was in the army here in Canada at Camp Shilo

    Aaron Guevara: how dare you

    hey in your life if you ever try that i am going to deal with you

    Ok

    Me: How dare you hurt people with your scams you heartless bastard…you’re not Aaron…get lost

    Aaron Guevara: just let me be you fool …fuck off you calling me a Scammer

    hey if you ever call me that again i will look for you

    You fool

    Me: go ahead…just try it…I was in the army and I’m a good shot too

    Aaron Guevara: Hmmmmm ….Really ???i promise when i get my boys there i might tell them to just get you off there

    Me: get lost…you don’t scare me you asshole…you’re nothing but a hopeless case that scams people…get a job

    Aaron Guevara: see if you do not want to be hurt …do not try to talk any how to me cos i am here talking to you ..you saying shit all about me please in your life to come don’t ever try that ever

    God purnish you for all that

    Me: go to school too and learn how to spell…you moron

    Aaron Guevara: You saying what i do not know

    You fool

    Me: God will punish you …. you scammer…I will pray to Him to punish you….he protected me from you…you moron

    Aaron Guevara is typing…
    Block Senderdelicious_taryn8 is Availabledelicious_taryn8 : Que passo baby
    delicious_taryn8 is typing…
    Talking to delicious_taryn8
    149 characters left

    • @Diana, just reading that has made my blood boil!!!! What a f**king wanker!!! What’s he going to do get in his little rusted tin boat and row all the way from Nigeria to Canada to hurt you …… what a f***king muppet!!!

      Don’t worry mate, we’ve all got your back!
      Cheers Ant.

  1148. I did not lose any money but my heart got broken by “James D. Watkins” who supposedly was stationed in Bagram Airfield in Afghanistan. He hacked Christian Mingle & he was VERY good at what he did. He knew all about Christianity, how to talk Christian, he knew the worship songs, said he was in a BIble study, said he was a Staff Sargeant. He e-mailed me a picture and was very good looking and smart & he knew what to say to Christian women. please keep an eye out for him…

  1149. I was contacted by a guy name Robert Inabnit who says he is in the military (Army). He says that he is a 1LT but in one of the pictures I saw the rank of a SPC. He says that he is 41 yrs old but he looks much younger. He states that he is from Omaha, NE and he is currently in Germany for training. He says that he has been in Germany training for 3 three months and has some months to go. I just met this person 4/21/12 on AYI. The email address that he uses is robertinabit@ymail.com. Things seem a little wierd to me. I haven’t had any contact with him since, maybe because I was asking too many militay questions being that I am ex-military.

  1150. Hai CJ,

    May you help me, have you guys hear a guy names Patrcik Logan Moore who from California, he in Syria the peacekeeping mission his email address is patrick_moorelogan@yahoo.com. He is an Sargeant Commander in US Air Force Command, Miami, Florida. He responsible for Departement of Defense Security in the 16 nations and territories of Central and South America and the Caribbean Sea.

    And the same strory, he tell me that he lost his wife and his boy, Sammy over three years ago in a car accident. Please let me know as soon as possible and please email me. Thanks a lot.

    Kaka

  1151. Hi! girls
    Well, these guys are like a plague. I just got an email from green boxing gloves. I didn’t answer him. I know he’s a scammer. These guys have no brains. I sent it into cj@soldiersperspective.us right away. Thank God for this site.
    Diana

  1152. Earl Dayka is his name email is earl.dayka@yahoo.com…I just met him yesterday, very fast talker he left me pictures and this email:

    Good Morning, I have to tell you all about me , I have never told anybody on the dating site details about me , I am telling you everything about me because i feel we have same thing in common and we share the same view about relationship , Both of us are on the dating site to find our soul mate .

    I am the only son of my parents and i have a sister . My mother was a full house wife during her years . My dad was a professional contractor, i took after him when he died . According to my sister ,he was exceptionally talented when it comes to construction works . She said he could put anything into an construction as exactly as that original image look without any discrepance in the appearance . He won a lot of people’s heart so he was priveleged to move from one continent to another so as to gain more customers . It was one of their adventures for more research , they got involved in one of the most fatal auto crash at Willesden .I was 12 years when the death of my lovely dad & mum occurred .

    I have been without parent’s for since then . After the death of my parents , I stayed with my grandparents in mexico and i ha dmy college and which made me have a mexican american accent .

    I Have been married just once to my late wife (rebecca) i lost her to cancer 8years backa and have been single and lonely since then and i think i fully faced been there for my kids and didnt date at all, but my daugther got me on the site to look for mrs right and to my suprise you came along, i have 2 wonderful kids they live with my sister in england because she came over for them when i lost my wife and she has been taking good and perfect care of them and i do see them often. they are my jewel … Stephanie is coming back to the state to start schooling down here because she knows am retiring and wont be travelling no more other then been in the state, have been working hard all my life

    So this soldier is on this site and I beleive his name is Curt will double check

  1153. Had to go through all of my privacy settings on the social networking site I was on. Went on there yesterday and could not believe he was sending me messages. Blocked and reported him again and this time its worked all of his profile has gone. Didnt realise my settings were so anyone could text me. I have changed it now so only friends can message me. He was so unbeliveable that he started asking me to accept his friends request insisting he wasnt scamming me but only loved me but it wasnt long before the money came into it again, asking me to send 2000usd. I asked him if he was in the army why he couldnt pay for it himself and look at this for a bullshit lying scumbag reason “o babe i dont have access to my bank account from here babe so once you pay it and it is approve i will be given my leave bonus then when i get there i will give them back to you ok dont worry i promise never to hurt you GOD sees me “. Oh yeah GOD sees you alright ! God sees that you are nothing but a lousy lowlife animal who one day will burn in hell for what he is doing. Hope that day comes soon.

  1154. PS did an IP check and it came from Nigeria. F…ING LOUSY SCUMBAG SCAMMER

    • @ Carrianne forgive my ignorance but how do you do an IP Check?? I would like to check the IP of the guy who tried to scam me.

      I keep getting friendship requests from various soldiers on FB. I don’t friend anyone I don’t know.
      Cheers Ant.

      • Go onto romancescam.com and they will tell you how to do an email check, thats how I found out mine came from Nigeria.

  1155. i am in contact with a soldier who says he is in the MFO in Egypt. He asked me once to set up a phone line so we could talk $250 after i told him i didnt have any money he didnt ask again and said maybe he would sell his watch so we could talk. we have been chatting for over a month and he tells me he is trying to get leave, he doesnt know how he will get the money to come back, so i told him he would have to figure that out. He then tells me he has a friend that will loan him the money, that a check will be sent to me and i can cash it and use the money to pay for his flight. It all seems a little unreal to me. Am i being scammed? What can i do to find out if he is real?

    • @ Melissa YES you are being scammed he has already asked you for 250 to talk to him when REAL Military can talk to their loved ones for free and now he wants to send you fake checks to cash and then if you cash the fake checks it will fall on you cut this Fake lying African off now you have been warned’

      he tells me he is trying to get leave, he doesnt know how he will get the money to come back…..Leave does NOT have to be paid for if her were a REAL US Military Member he would know this and if her were real and coming home on leave for R&R he does NOT have to pay for it so yes this is a lying African hiding behind the computer trying to steal your money tell this lazy bum to get a JOB Anonn

    • Melissa go to scamwarners.com and romancescam.com for support need more proof scamwarners can help you out they will tell you where this scammers emails are coming from its not hard to guess West Africa Im sure

    • The two sites Annon listed are great I am with them both and romancescam.com will show you how to do an email check to see where they came from. I did this and found mine came from Nigeria.

  1156. Got a live one, I think….goes my Jeff Lopez. MechEng and Captain in the Army. Lost ex-wife and son in car accident four years ago, parents deceased and has yet to tell me where he’s from. BUT I have a date with him to fix dinner and learn to shoot a gun….YEAH! LOL I’m a flippin’ Texas girl….no need to teach me EITHER of those things!

    I figure, if you’re a Mechanical Engineer in the army, you SHOULD be able to construct a sentence in English – LOL. I mean, a few misspellings, I get it. It’s funny – too – he always blames it on “being tired”…..the pics he sent are totally HOT – and he’s very romantic to some degree. Then he starts spouting cut and paste romance from other websites. Oh well. It’s pretty entertaining when you’re confident enough to know what’s going on. PLEASE PLEASE don’t let any of these losers out there break your hearts lady – there are nice guys out there…..

    t

  1157. Gentlemen, I have been deceived by his love letters by Colonel James Williams, who is on a mission in Darfur Africa to come and marry you asked me for permission and money for the tickets and sent $ 2.000.00 and every day I write to send the remaining $ 2,100.00, I after reading this page that is a scam. Help me please to find out about it, his email is jameswilli54@yahoo.com

    Please I hope you understand the letter I did it because translations are not very good English Thanks

    Diana

  1158. @ Diana I hope you can read this he is a SCAMMER if he asks you for anything tell him to get a JOB and do not send him anymore money he is a fraud he is an African Anonn

  1159. There are a lot of published military photos on http://www.crouchie.net

    Have submitted a few scams there of womens army pics

  1160. Hi–

    My mom is talking to a major sgt. He tells her he has two children, one in Hawaii, one in Paris. His name is Andrew. He says he is from IL. He is stationed in Iraq. Says he jumps out of parachutes. Says his wife died of cancer.

    He asked her to fill out a notification of death form so that the military could inform her if he died. The form asked for her SSN.

    Thoughts?

    • Hello SARA –

      This person is a SCAMMER. First of all, there is no rank in the U.S. military called “Major Sergeant.” Second, there is no notification of death form. If an American soldier dies on active-duty, the military will notify his next-of-kin (wife,parent, or other close relative). A woman he met on the internet does not qualify as his next-of-kin. Third, and most importantly, the U.S. military is no longer operating in Iraq. Your mother’s scammer should follow the news more closely. Tell him to get a job and buy a newspaper.

  1161. Here is another name for you ladies…Sgt. Harry Ray Baker( from the U.S.) waiting to leave the army in egypt
    To bad that he didn´t realize, that i know a few people from the army .

  1162. MY NAME IS ELLA , A MAN FOUND ME ON FACE BOOK, SAYING HE IS Lt.Gen. PHILIPS COLLINS / STATIONED IN KABUL, AFGHANISTAN . HOW CAN I FIND OUT IF HE IS NOT A SCAM, HE WAS SUPPOSE TO LEAVE HIS STATION IN KABUL IN SEPT AS A RETIRED OFFICER BUT NOW SAYS HE IS IN A JAIL FOR A 5,000 FINE FOR TRYING TO SMUGGLE A DIAMOND HE FOUND DURING NIGHT PATROL, IN AFGHANISTAN AND ARMY WONT HELP BECAUSE HE LEFT HIS BASE RETIRED, HE HAS GIVEN ME AN ADDRESS OF GENERAL DAVID PATEROUS ( NOT SURE IF I SPELLED IT RIGHT ) SAYING I CAN WRITE TO HIM AND HE WILL TELL ME HOW I CAN PAY 1,500 TO LEAVE EARLY FROM HIS BASE BEFORE HE TOLD ME HE WAS RETIRED AND LEAVING HIS BASE IS WHEN HE SAYS AT THIS GOLF ZONE UAE IS WHERE HE WAS TO CATCH HIS PLANE TO THE UNITED STATES AND BEING ACCUSED OF THE SMUGGLING THIS DIAMOND HE WAS IN THE JAIL . AND CANT LEAVE TILL THE FINE IS PAID AND IT HAS TO GO THROUGH HIS TRUSTED FRIEND DADA OLAKUNLE FRANCIS 66 OLUYOMI OSHIKOYA CLOSE IN MAGODO 10905 NIGERIA 234 THROUGH A MONEY GRAM OR WESTERN UNION OR ANOTHER FRIEND AFLOABI FELIX OLAOLUWA IN LAGOS NIGERIA , IM HEARING AND READING ALL THE STORIES OF PEOPLE BEING SCAMMED IM STARTING TO GET SCARED HE ALSO SAYS HE HAS MONEY IN THE BANK BUT CANT GET TO IT ITS I GUESS FROZE TILL HE IS ABLE TO GET BACK THERE TO NEW YORK TO SHOW HIS ID SHOWING WHO HE IS I DONT WANT THIS TO BE TRUE , CAN SOME ONE HELP ME.

    • @ Ella, RUN RUN, this guy is a total scammer, DON’T SEND ANY MONEY, it is all a big scam. Delete him and block from your facebook profile!!! The US Military look after their soldiers and the fact that you have to send the money to Nigeria is a total give away and a total scam. Please take my advice and complete delete and block this person and do not send any money.

      Cheers Ant.

    • @ Ella please heed Ants Warning the scammer is telling you he is an African A Nigerian the US Military takes care of its own if he is in jail he is an African thats committed a crime and EVERYONE knows Mr Patraeus is NO LONGER Military except these lying begging thieves the Man has accepted a new position. REAL Military members DO NOT need one dime of your money nor your help he is a FRAUD A SCAMMER get the picture YOU again have been WARNED Anonn

      • i did take your warning , he will not get a red cent from me he still tries to contact me but wont get away with it , thank you for your help

        • @ Ella, I know how you feel, I was scammed on a very reputable dating site and whilst I was suspect from the beginning, I continued for about a month, luckily I didn’t give the low life a cent, as soon as he asked for money I knew it was a scam. Thank God I found this website thanks to CJ and Annon is very helpful too, they know what they are talking about and great with advice. This website confirmed all my suspicions. I like you was mad as hell and angry that they could use innocent soldier’s identities that are risking their lives for our freedom. I reported to the US Embassy here and the dating site which closed the account.

  1163. I’ve been reading through the posts here and see many people suggesting that if you’re suspicious of someone claiming to be a U.S. service member, you should ask for a photocopy or scan of his ID CARD.

    Believe it or not, it would be a crime for him to do so. Even though it’s a common practice for landlords and businesses located near military posts to ask for a copy of a soldier’s ID CARD, this is still prohibited by law under TITLE 18 U.S.C. § 701: U.S. Code – Section 701: Official badges, identification cards, other insignia.

    “Whoever manufactures, sells or possesses any badge, identification card or other insignia of the design prescribed by the head of any department or agency of the United States for use by any officer or employee thereof, or any colorable imitation thereof, or photographs, prints, or in any other manner makes or executes any engraving, photograph, print, or impression in the likeness of any such badge, identification card, or other insignia, or any colorable imitation thereof, except as authorized under regulations made pursuant to law, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than six months, or both.”

    This law is part of the U.S. Code is and reflects the bill passed by Congress in January 2008. The Web site for this can be found at http://uscode.house.gov/download/pls/18C33.txt

    Of course, most of these African scammers will be happy to send you a copy of a forged ID card.

    • Thanks Gordon for that information, it is much appreciated. I’m just sorry that these scumbags are stealing unsuspecting Soldiers indentities including yours. Thank you Gordon for all your hardworking in protecting the freedom of not only the USA but also Australia and the rest of the world. Be safe!
      Cheers Ant.

  1164. Been in contact with a soldier who states that he is in Boston for training – can this be for real or a lie?

    • Lynne –

      I’ve been in the Army for 27 years. During that time, I’ve attended courses, classes, and seminars in a variety of locations. Last year, the Army sent me to Boise, Idaho to attend a two-day seminar on Composite Risk Management. So, the short answer is that the military sometimes schedules training events in places far removed from military bases.

      I’d need to know more about your “soldier” and the type of training he’s attending in Boston to be sure that he’s a scammer. If he tells you that he’s at an Army base in Boston, he’s lying. There is no Army base in Boston. There are Army Reserve Centers and National Guard Armories, but no bases, forts, or camps. If you read through just a few of the comments on this blog, you’ll find ways to spot the fake soldiers. Good luck!

      • Thanks but he is not a scammer as far as I can tell – I would appreciate any information to be sure because I need to know – thanks for all your help!

        • Lynne, what is he training on in Boston? What does he do in the Army? There are no military bases in Boston, so I’m a little suspicious about this one.

  1165. Recently joined Match.com after two years. Actually had met a great guy there, (he passed suddenly from a heart attack) and thought lightening could strike twice. Well, I had decided that it wasn’t really working for me when “Joseph Muller” dropped in for a visit instant messaged me – urged me to go to yahoo. I was chatting online already, so I added him. He told a rather twisted tale (that rings familiar in some of these) – 50 yo man, 11 year old “kid” – then changed it to daughter.. living in ireland with an elderly aunt….he was urging me to meet him and commit a block of time to him (6 am)… I let him know that I had made the decision to not participate in match/dating – it was too overwhelming for me. He seemed thrilled, and now I understand why. It would have been a golden opportunity to prey upon me… I’d even mentioned I’d suffered a loss.

    After digging about the misgivings I had a bit…. the internet showed me important things like soldiers in some countries cannot access yahoo or other messengers due to security concerns… and that all soldiers are issued a military email. So… tonight my good friend Joe arrived while I was chatting… and was anxious to talk hearts and flowers to me. Until I asked for that address. He (a proclaimed soldier of 20 years) did not know that address.. wanted to know why I needed it… had a friend helping him to find it…. Then it was my dear you must trust me… blah, blah, blah… I told him that i’d given his name to Match (contacted them via email), and yahoo… (joseph_muller4ever@yahoo.com), and that I was well aware that people prey on trusting, sincere, and sometimes lonely individuals – and that I was not one to be taken advantage of. I may still have pictures that were sent to me, if it would be helpful…

    I feel for those who are victimized… i can empathize with wanting something to be true, sincere, and real. I had it, and lost it. Sometimes, we can’t replace it. Ladies, follow your instincts…

  1166. I was scammed, I am so hurt right now, he is using the name
    Sergeant Troy David Turner, Please beware of him and also
    Sergeant Frank Marcos,

  1167. I read a lot of these comments and it is shocking. I’ve recently met a Lt-Gen Brad Law on a South African dating site. He is based in Kabul, stuck with gold bars that was given to him by some sheik as a reward for bringing the sheik’s son home safely after the son has been kidnapped. He sent me two pictures via email using brdalw@yahoo.com but also sent me e-cards useing email lifebr@live.com He’s retiring in 3 months time, coming to South Africa to make my life a pleasant one and spoil me rotton with all the money he has.
    Is there anyone out there how can be trusted. This is my second round with these slimy con artists.The other one was a diamond dealer that needed $10500.00 USD for insurance on his shipment. when he phoned me I realised he could not even speak English. A syndicate from Ghana operating from Johannesburg on dating sites all over.

  1168. i have been chatting with gentleman who says he is in Kabul, in the army. Is a Captain.after month of chatting i am hearing I love you my wife, do not speak to others about us, can you get me phone so we can talk and then you can get me my leave if they think we are to be married. says he is 50 yrs of age with daughter, wife passed. from Brooklyn NY, i am to only buy blackberry torch or 9900, and ship to US military agent in Akure, Nigeria, they will get to him in Kabul
    how is that for scam, i almost fell for it and deid purchase phone, but have not shipped as my sister found this site and had me read

  1169. how do i know for sure if this a scam or he is for real lennon_carl147@yahoo.com, i would really like to know as i have feelings for him or for who i think he isplease help me

    • @ Lynn are you SERIOUS? this is absolutely a SCAMMER 1 hes already begged you for money via the most recent updated cellphone and also NO ONE but the real Military Member can request Leave had you agreed to request his leave you would have gotten some bogus form and then you will be instructed to send money to some other Name which would still be this scammer there should be no question in your mind that this Man is a FRAUD! in the future any man that finds you on ANY social site and tells you he is Military is a SCAMMER plain and simple because real Military members have no time to sit on social sites and beg total strangers for money or to send them expensive electronics because they have a REAL JOB to do but west african scammers have NOTHING but time on their hands Educate yourself so this doesnt happen again……Remember REAL US Military members will NOT need your help nor money for any reason the US Military takes very good care of its own drop this scammer block and delete him you fell for the Man in the pics trust me if you see the REAL face of this scammer you will probably throw up he is black not the white man in the pics he is an AFRICAN that will tell you to go to western union or moneygram to send him money and as far as the phone he will tell you to send it to someone in Africa which is really him and where he lives …YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED Anonn.

      • @ Lynn, you really need to listen to Annon, all the information given to you Annon is correct and accurate. Annon know what they are talking about!!!

        If you choose not to listen then so be it, but you will have to bear the consequences and will have to take full responsibility when this scammer totally scams you out of money and home. You have been warned!!

  1170. i have sent photos to cj of this supposedly soldier, i hope they get posted before anyone is scammed by him. the
    man has just contacted me again telling me i am fool.i have asked him rather told him to leave me alone. i hope now he does. ladies becareful the photo he is using is quite a handsome man, but beware

    • @ Lynn good job and they always become angry and confrontational and call people ugly Names when they realize the gig is up because it means no MONEY for their sorry asses they know the gig is up and they have wasted time and he is the FOOL and the jokes on his dumb ass because in the end he got NOTHING and thats what you always need to do leave their lying scamming asses with nothing check your security settings on your computer and go to romancescam.com there you can share your story and send the pics this Lying beggar is using as well as his email address also you can go to scamwarners.com for support.

      REMEMBER the US military takes care of its own
      They have access to their bank accounts at ALL TIMES
      Any Man that finds you on any social site and claims to be US Military and he has not been on cam with you for an hour or more showing you his face is a SCAMMER.

      Anonn

    • I THANK BOTH ANONN AND ANT FOR THE WWORDS AND THE SUPPORT.IT TRULY MEANS ALOT. WE ARE NOT IN CONTACT ANY LONGER AND NEVER WILL BE AGAIN
      THANK YOU AGAINN SO MUCH.

      • Lynn, I understand how you feel, I was one of the lucky ones and didn’t give a cent, my gut feeling was telling me everything was wrong but I still had that seed of doubt, but thank God I found this site it just confirmed all my suspicions. It horrible to believe that there are scumbags out there trying to take advantage of people, as well as, stealing the identities of these poor unsuspecting soldiers who are risking their lives for us.

        Thanks to CJ and Annon, for looking out for me, now I just want to help others!! Take care Ant.

  1171. I have been a dating site,and there is a profile that is using soldiers names,it just so happens to be one of the ones in the pics above,I have 4 pics that were sent to me,how do I put them up?
    but here is the link that I met him on,http://www.girlsdateforfree.com/review/profile/288213901.html he said his name is Knox Young,then there is a different one that I am talking to off of the same account,his name is Matt I didn’t see any of his pics,but if there is a way to get them to you let me know please.
    How do I post pics?

  1172. I was on ayi and met Major Danny Smith he is a scammer big time I lost money he still trys to send emails and text messages

  1173. Hi
    I am presently talking to someone on line and I KNOW its a scam. He very nearly caught me however he doesnt realise I have been checking his information he is giving me. He is using the name Captain Davanport Entreklin Hatfield and John Maxwell based in Tripoli Libya. From the photos he has sent me of his daughter (who looks more like the wife) I am thinking that the name on the officers shirt is Entreklin and he is a priest for the US Army.
    They so far havent asked me for money but it has been inferred that to get him over here to marry me … yes marry me we are engaged after 3 weeks lol …. i need to apply for the leave and it cost his friennd John Maxwells wife he met on line US$3200. So I know whats coming. At the moment I am just playing with his head which is quite fun but I having less fun realising this is at the expense of a man of the cloth.
    I will say that having lived with a con man for 25 years I am lucky in the fact he has taught me to trust no one. Ladies please be careful … this guy is really really smooth

  1174. HI I live in Australia and had been in contact with a gentleman by the name of James Murphy, he says he is 51 and based in Kabul. His mission was supposed to end a couple of weeks ago and then he was going to retire from the Army. I chatted to him for awhile but he made a few slip ups like what country he was born in and I became suspicious. He then told me about some Oil magnate who paid him and some of 3 of his men 3 million dollars to protect him and his family, his cut was 1.8 million and he wanted to send it to me in Australia until he got out of the army, I said no so then he started saying he wanted to fly direct from Kabul to Australia when his mission ended but because they are apparently not allowed to carry money over there he needed me to wire money to a friend of his in the UK who would get it to him for his plane ticket. He called me a couple of times but it was hard to hear and he wasn’t on the line for very long at all and he did email me some pictures which I have since emailed to you. Since asking me for the money for his plane ticket I told him I would just book the ticket on his behalf and shock horror I have not heard from him since. I hope that your website helps others not get caught and I am so glad that I had my wits about me and asked the right questions when I started to get suspicious. But do have to say was a bit sad as the guy in the pictures is a very good looking man.

  1175. was contacted on a dating site by a man by the name of Damian Padmore also spelled it Padmoore. He tells me he is stationed in Kabul Afghanistan at Camp Eggers for the past ten months and is coming home and retiring in one and a half months and is looking for a woman he can share life with and a woman I can trust and love. He says he is originally from Norfolk Va..divorced..with one teenage daughter who is in boarding school and stays with a caretaker when she is not in school because his exwife is too involved with drugs. By this time we are talking on yahoo…at his request. On the dating site he lists his profession as legal. Its not till we get to yahoo that he says he is in the army. This is one statement he made to me….”My name is Damian Padmore. I was born on the 19th of April 1959 at Baptist Hospital in Norfolk Virginia in US. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools.” Then later ” I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. My mom was a head teacher and I never knew my dad.” Later yet ” I fought in the Gulf war in 1990to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience. I am an E-7 Staff Sergeant (SFG). i also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad’. Yet later “As you already know I am currently stationed in Kabul, the capital of Afghanistan. I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Afghanistan and I have already spent 10 months here in Afghanistan. My first mission to Afghanistan was inn 2003. Then out of context he throws in “I happen to be a very interesting funny but intelligent man with a very good sense of humor that most people always want to be around me even though I am looking forward to have a new family” Later I am asking him about Kabul. What the city is like…the surrounding region and he sends this out “You can never find love through the eye or ear so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die…your heart. Love is like trust when you find your special someone it is as if you ‘re trusting them with your heart.” Now when he sends out those random missives…words are not misspelled. The rest of the time he misspells and corrects and avoids most of my questions.and when I tell him something about me and my life he simply responds with ohh okay. After one of these totally disjointed conversations I googled his name and that is how I found these scammer sites. Wow…who would have thought. I asked if he had a facebook profile and at the same time was looking for myself and he said no…and I didn’t find him….THEN But the next day always the doubtful person I tried again and what do you know….he now has a facebook profile. I don’t tell him I found it but when he is asking me for pictures I tell him its a shame he doesnt have facebook then he could see my pictures there. He AGAIN says he doesn’t have one….hmmm Same name…same pic and same profile info that was on the dating site. By now I have found the scammer site and threw his name out there…I think I am still in waiting mode there. I went back to the dating site and interesting development. He is no longer there. I can find nothing on him in the site. Makes me really wonder if the scammers are checking out THESE sites to see if they have been found out. He hasn’t responded this evening to one msg I have sent him on yahoo and we were supposed to talk all night. So ladies…beware

  1176. Hi all… been reading about these scammers until i came across an email add that looks familiar. sgtjordanalvin53@yahoo.com. Like everyone here the story repeats itself but he wasn’t able to go further since I always block his interest, expressing love and care is common to them but I guess he know that I smell something fishy though he still tried to convince me other way, but he could never get a single penny from me. Just a piece of advice, when given their email add search for them and you will be surprise they don’t exist. Just be careful everyone.

  1177. I had the same experience, but “his name” now is Michael Vargas, or Michael Jane Vargas, email michaelvargas000, take care!

  1178. Ok ladies..
    I am currently talking to a scammer, I met him on Tagged. He says his name is Sgt. Philip McDonald Burke. I did see Burke on his uniform in the picture..However, I cam across this site and decided to tell all of you about him. He says he is 41..(his profile said 38). He has a daughter living with his aunt. who raised him because his mother couldn’t afford to keep him. His father was an engineer and mother was a business woman..He is stationed in Iraq and wants to marry me via his lawyer..who apparently can notarize a marriage certificate without anyone being present..ha ha..BUT he wants $250. for the certificate..from me..His lawyer is soo nice to have dropped his price from $800..WELL since he is on rations..lol he cant afford to send the money to him..OH he’s a catholic and is the most trustworthy man…(of course he is).. since I told him I have no money to send ..Today he has told me he is very sick..typhoid..?? ok…….He’s in the infirmary now…But wait, he has to go see the doctor..he’ll be back.. He needs some money for good food…
    I’m so angry that he thinks im such a fool…so..I think im going to lead him around a bit..oh I also tried to run his IP address…it said no information, satellite company..Alrighty then..I also checked his number..guess what it’s from Nigeria..Holy crap who would have guessed!!
    Actually I’m entertained by it..now it’s my turn to play.. B******s…this should be fun..
    CJ I’d like to send you some pics..could i get your email address ?
    To all the women out there..lets have some fun!!
    Randie

    • @ Randie please have safe fun if you would like help go to scamwarners.com where they can direct you to a professional B88iter because this poser could send your pc a virus and destroy it scan your pc and go to romancescam.com also they troll these sites but you can also tell its working because they get pissed off and try to join or they show their ignorance by trying to prove they are real one Moron actually said you must stop this remove my friend before I report you to Napster and Ive read here they also threaten to report you to the police or FBI they have no power they live in a third world country and cannot get out without an invite and proper papers.Anonn

  1179. Why don’t we post their photos so we can compare notes

  1180. They could be using different email address

  1181. i been dating someone thought Badoo i got a feeling his a scammer
    his a french army officer he said his a Captain serving in Afghanistan
    CJ can you please help ,i really need help please
    .

    • It’s a scam.

      • CJ i got some pic of him how i can send it to you

  1182. Recently joined Match.com and was contacted by a Sgt. Lincoln Anderson, supposedly in Kabul, going to retire in August, widowed 9 years ago, lost parents in car crash when 7 years old. Came on very strong. Sent pics. Figured out this was a scammer when I received a badly worded e-mail full of spelling errors etc. and did a bit of online research. Also asked the opinion of a former Marine friend who pointed out several glaring errors regarding military terminology etc. He took his profile down immediately after he contacted me and had me contact him on yahoo address lyn.anderson65@yahoolcom. I confronted him, he was upset and said for me to send him a teddy bear or something and to contact his “commander’s deliverer” who would bring it to him because mail to his AFO address would take 3 months and he had shut it down because he was retiring. Of course this “deliverer” is based in Ghana. He seemed really nice , just glad I didn’t fall for it. Would like to post pics, please let me know how to do so.

  1183. Thank agbalaxy@gmail.com for saving my life and relationship! Had I not use agbalaxy@gmail.com spell, I’d have been seriously lost. —-Geno

  1184. I have been talking to a Sgt Peter Williams for about six month, I want to believe that he is genuine but in the back of my head I know something isn’t right…. He tells me he is in Afghanistan near the Pakistan border, he has adopted a child from Ghana and he is going to be transferred to the Ivory Coast on UN peace keeping duty,

  1185. Sgt Peter Williams also tells me that before he leaves Afghanistan he must repay a debt of £4000 to some soldiers both American and Afghan… I just feel that a soldier in a battlefield souldn’t have the opportunity to borough money from anyone, I don’t want to give him any money, but what is breaking my heart is that there is a little boy in Ghana, that I speak to every two days,
    I am stupid or just right to speak to the child… I am confused

  1186. anybody had dealings with sgt.James Anderson…suppose to be stationed in Africa…..name on field jacket is “NEE”……sgt.jamesanderson37@yahoo.com…widowed..teenage daughter…

  1187. How to add a picture?

  1188. My sister is ‘involved’ with one of these scammers. I knew there was something wrong with him but couldn’t work out what he was wanting, until yesterday. He’s obviously after money. Thanks to these posts I have finally convinced my sister that he isn’t real. I’ve checked the IP addresses and they are from America and Nigeria. I will happily give photos ect once I’ve finished having a bit of fun with him *cackle*

  1189. Re: Robert Smith – robcuddlesx@yahoo.com / Jordan Alvin / follow link to see photo
    http://s7.postimage.org/5nelica7b/Im37g_UXqa_FAgm_Mh_DR2n9_Yix_GBKN5_S0a_M1.jpg

    This is his bio in one of the dating site and using same photos
    How are u doing? I’m sergeant Jordan Alvin, from Bedford NY and i work as US Air Force but presently i’m in Afghanistan for peace keeping mission, i was on here looking for a friend and a soul mate, i really like the picture of u that i see now .. age is not what that matter to me here but someone i can love and called my wife .. i have kids and i have been single for the past 4 years now .. well i don’t wanna talk much here .. i guess we can be good friends and see what God has for us, u can give me ur yahoo email address so that i can chat with ya or write ya from there later .. becoz i don’t get on here all time becoz of my Job i will be so happy to hear from ya …
    Jordan

    My perfect date:
    Till i meet the right woman before i can say much .. lol

    Occupation:
    Military

    Interests:
    Looking for my missing ribs

    Languages Spoken:
    English

    User: Sgtjordanb
    I am a Male seeking a Female
    43 years old
    NY, United States
    Sexual Preference: Straight
    Marital Status: Widow
    Looking for: Relationship
    Children: Live with me
    Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
    Education: Graduate Degree
    Religion: Christian
    Religious Observance: True Believer
    Smoker: Non-smoker
    Drinker: Social Drinker
    Recreational Drugs: Never Used
    Body Type: Average
    Pets: Dog lover
    Zodiac Sign: Virgo
    Height: 5′ 9″

  1190. Hi all,

    Here are a few email adds of scammers who tried to contact me a few days back williamsramos01@yahoo.com

    am a US Military officer currently in Afghanistan on a peace keeping mission, i am from texas, my name is Rubin. I think we are Looking for the same things but mine in a woman, Just that i am Looking for a nice, Honest, Kind and Caring woman, a woman that will Love and be with me for the Rest of my Life

    • @ anonn still not sure why you are using my username but anywho great job………..am a US Military officer currently in Afghanistan on a peace keeping mission……….Ever think a REAL American and no less a US Military Officer would type like hes got a 4th grade Education? NOT at all But Africans speak this way often and they type the way they speak at least the uneducated ones do.good job The REAL Anonn

  1191. Here is another one

    hey pretty, how are you doing?? I will like in getting to know you, I don’t come on here often….if you don’t mind talking on yahoo instant messenger you can add me on there sgt.walton@yahoo.com (dunnwalton)
    Deploy in Nigeria

    • @ anonn this one was easy to figure out this liar basically tell where he is and who he is…..Deploy in Nigeria…..lmao he is a Nigerian and he lives in Nigeria…Signed The REAL Anonn

  1192. i was scammed by James Ruddock he calls him self Mark Brown he took 12,000 dollars from me using a guy name Collins Waife as a diplomat to call his victoms be ware of this guy he told me he was retiring from the army he is coming home three times got shot twice and had a cardiact arrest the last time i met him on badoo the dating web site i just want him caught .
    PS
    IS THERE A GUY NAME MICHAEL SMITH DOING THE SAME you can contact me at
    sweetlorraine241@yahoo,com

  1193. Scary how familiar all of these stories sound. I too was on match.com for less than 2 days when I met this man who said all the right things. Claimed to be in Kuwait and would be retiring in 3 months. He said the internet connection was so bad there it would be easier to talk on yahoo messenger which we did daily for almost 3 months. Not once did he ask for anything or did it ever occur to me that this was a scam. As his return date got closer he asked to send a package to me full of the jewelry he had purchased in Dubai to keep safe for him. It sounded fishy to me but I agreed. When his “diplomat” contacted me and said he needed $10,000 because the package was stuck in customs I knew then it was a scam. When I confronted ‘Greg’ he too became very defensive and i didn’t trust him and on and on. I never sent any money thank goodness but wasted 3 months becoming emotionally invested in someone who doesn’t even exist. He used the name Gregory Butterfield, birthdate 4/30/1964. Thank God i found this website.

  1194. Please, put a fraud on the list. He abused the name of Vice Admiral Charles J. Leidig. My ladies, please be cautious and retain your money!

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